Sex With Emily - How To Make Her Moan with Joanna Angel

Episode Date: August 16, 2014

On this podcast we have the tattoo’d darling of the adult industry, Miss Joanna Angel, back in the studio to educate us on all things SEX. Joanna shares tips learned on the job, from tricks to taking the sexiest selfies to how to make a woman REALLY moan!Joanna and Emily talk firsts: First sexual encounters, first orgasms, first girl crushes and more! They swap stories of one-night-stands gone wrong, and sex so bad, it makes you wish you had stayed home and ordered a pizza!What’s this sexy lady’s favorite porn to shoot? Well, she really can’t resist a nice, thick.. PLOT!They also answer listeners emails: How do you tell your guy he’s bad in  bed? They also help one listener take control of her own sexual destiny, and cultivate confidence in the bedroom. Not getting the sex you want? Joanna’s advice: “Sit on his face!”This show addresses the hard-hitting questions: What’s so sexy about a girl with tattoos? What’s the recipe for a really GOOD threesome? And what makes Joanna a “bad bisexual”? All this and more in the most recent installment of Sex With Emily! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey everyone, welcome to tonight's show. I've got Joanne Angel, your favorite punk rock porn star in the creator of Burning Angel.com. But first, thanks everyone for supporting my sponsors. I am obsessed, truly, with my No No Pro. I've spent so much time and money on razors and waxing. How about you, Joanna? It's like a full-time job, right? It's a full-time job. Got to move the hair. You know, all that stuff. So No No Pro, do you know about this? It's the best way to remove unwanted hair. No pain. And it's for men too. You know guys got the back and the neck here. They're like, how do I get rid of it? They don't want to go into the slime and get wax. What is it? It's a hair remover that you can use at home. It's portable. You just charge it and you have no hair. Like you can use it a few times. The hair becomes less and less and less.

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Wherever and however I can I'm here with Anderson. What's up, Anne? What up, Anne? What up, Pam? How are you? I'm great. How are you? Good to see you? I just woke up. I know you were napping. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I rarely do that, but I wanted to make sure that I had the energy, and I was ready to enjoy a little sex with them, because I only get you once a week. So I wanted to sometimes twice a week. We should have sex more than a week.

We should have average for. I should do sex with that only more than once a week, I think, twice a week. Well, we've been talking about that. I think we should, but sex every day would be a little exhausting. Yeah, that's too much. Sex twice a week is about right for us. I think two times a week would be a good rhythm for you, and I think we should do that. I think we should. But sex every day would be a little exhausting. Yeah, that's too much. Sex twice a week is about right for us. I think two times a week would be a good rhythm

for you and I. Okay. I think we should do that. And so also I did another great show this week and Anderson wasn't there, but it was Dennis. I'm so sorry. I'm so the boy scout of porn. Yeah, from the bunny ranch. From the bunny ranch. We did it at podcast one the few days ago, and it's been a wildly successful episode. He gave some killer sex tips and he brought one of his bunnies with them. Joanna Angel is here tonight as well. Hello Joanna, which is Good to be back here. I'm so glad you're here. Do you know Dennis Hough from the bunny race? I've met him a couple times Okay, I wouldn't say I don't know But Joanna Angel is on tonight and she was on the show a few months ago and it was such

a happy show. I saw October and I was like, oh you're right. I didn't even know what month it was today. It was four months ago. I'm glad you're back. Awesome. Joanna Angel, she's from Burning Angel, the creator, founder, writer, director of everything at Burning Angel.com. And it's what a hardcore punk rock emo porn.

Oh, yeah, I don't know. That's a tagline. But it's really just all about you. So how did you, I mean, really, like I know you've been in the show before, it just seems like you're blowing up everywhere I go. Joanna Angel, Joanna Angel, and your Instagram is adorable. Everyone's file you is a burning. It's just that. Oh, burning angel has an Instagram as well. It's burning underscore angel.

And you know, burning angels more like we show the updates. So all there's hundreds of really hot tattooed girls on burningangels.com. And you know, there's photos of all of them on the burning angel Instagram minus more about me. Of course, I post pictures of other girls too from every now and again. Right. For me in my life. So you can follow me as to at Joanne Angel. I try to get creative and not be totally bored. No, you're not

boring that I love her Instagram and every day I'm like how does she look at every day? Because I mean I post on my Instagram sex with Emily, but it's they're just adorable shots and like every day like she's crawled out of bed. I have a good, I have a good, uh, um, stand up mirror. I have a very good selfie mirror in my apartment. And I'm touching the selfies for real. And I don't know. It's like it, because it's near a window, so the light is always shining on it.

Really well. So maybe that's what I need. Yeah, I think it's something. I think you need to get you. Maybe you need a new mirror. It kind of sucks. Like I felt like I was like not a very good selfie taker for a little while. And I would see the girls on set.

Like I was taking selfies and I'm like, how are you doing that? And I remember asking one of the girls, I was like, I was like, what, what did you just do? Show me how to do it. And I actually like had this like younger girl. She was like 22 years old or something.? Show me how to do it. And I actually had this younger girl. She was like 22 years old or something. And this was a couple of years ago. So I was like in the womb. Exactly, because they just know.

I'm like asking tips. Like I felt like a Graham mob. Like how do you do that? And I'm like, I need to do that. Because I was actually, I remember when the shift happened, when everyone was just on Twitter. And now then you just, I stayed off Instagram for as long as I could. I was like, I'm done.

I have enough social media. Exactly. How do you keep up with, right? And then eventually you're like, okay, I have to get on Instagram. It's like, you can't have read it anymore. So I was like, oh, this sucks. Cause I liked Twitter when you could just tweet. Cause all you do is, I'm good at, you know, talking.

I'm just saying quirky quirky stupid little things. That was my thing and I'm like, fuck, I need like an image to go along with my quirky little personality. So it's it gets it gets hard, especially. Um, I think people really think that my life is like more exciting than it is sometimes. And if I'm not doing an event or traveling or whatever, like a lot of times, I'm just home and sometimes I'm home for like two weeks at a time and I'm like, how many more pictures do these, can these people buzz at least,

they have my dog or the food I'm eating? Or are you taking the same place? Or the same place? Yeah, the dogs, so what were the selfie tricks that you learned? Well, I think you gotta like put it to the side a little bit. Okay, you know, you need to, you need to put it to the side a little bit.

I think, you gotta put it, you to put it to the side a little bit. I think you're gonna put it um, you want to put it like up, you know, up, right up to the side. I'm just curious. For people listening, if you want to get a self-camera, there's a timer camera, like a self-timer camera, so then you could just like put your phone down. Oh right. I'll do whatever you want. Okay. And that's how you get a good butt shot. I always like, I'll always like kind of put the timer on and I put my phone down sort of

like on my toilet. It just seems to be like, you know, with the lichet. It's just the right height for me. I'm sure. I'm sure. So maybe a taller girl would need to put it on a table or something. Right. So I just kind of put it on the like, you know, where the toilet is and then I just like

shut the lid and then I wear like a good pair of booty shorts and I turn around and then I push, you know, I push. That's awesome. Anyway, so your butt, your butt, your breast, everything. I'm like, you're so hot really. Do you want to do it? I do. I mean, I, I didn't have to for a long time.

I'm like almost 34 years old. Really? You are? Yeah. You can give me a second. Thank you. You've been doing this. So let's go back to the beginning.

The beginning was 12 years ago now. So. OK. And you started, that's when you started. That's when you started, right? Was it? Well, I started Burning Angel in 2002. Right.

Like at the end of when I was finishing up college. Okay. And then yeah, I was dancing shortly after that because you know, I needed to do something because the website wasn't making any money. But for a while, it was amazing in 2002 you started it. Yeah, I started it. You know, it was really good. We started when we did because we developed a very loyal fan base like early on

I don't know if we really could have done it if we started now Right. Yeah, it's tougher market now, so we're able to kind of like get in there Well, what is it do you do you think I mean? I know it's like tattoos emo What is it punk rock? I mean, that's really who you that's the aesthetic, you know But there's definitely like you know at the time we you know, but there's definitely like, you know, at the time We were the only people making porn with you know tattoo girls now every girl in porn has a tattoo It's much different now everyone has a tattoo like yeah everyone in the world like my grandparents are gonna get tattoos Yeah, my mom doesn't have a tattoo

She's like even again, I'm like I have no idea I'm like 74, I'm like I'm not a goddamn tattoo And Jews aren't as I was gonna say something like, we're both like, what is it? Like everyone in this industry, I swear to God, like a sex expert's porn, so I'm a lot of them Jewish. I ain't actually real crazy. But we weren't crazy, yes.

But we also weren't born with the guilt and the shame around sex, were you raised that way? Or you're, no, I mean, we definitely didn't talk about it. Right. We didn't either, but we didn't have it. Yeah, we definitely didn't talk about it. I definitely did not have like people who were like, oh yeah, like my dad gave me a condom or like my mom sat me down and told me this, this isn't this, like I never had that.

I think my parents, we just like avoided the topic, like, you know, it just pretended that, you know, it didn't exist. And that's not good. No, it's not good. Well, I think that parents today still have a hard time talking. I mean, I've always been today still have a hard time talking. I mean, I've always been getting close to my brother. And how do we do this?

How do we talk about it? And I feel like I want to create something for parents to educate their children. Right. Because it's like a liberal, I can't really, really liberal home. My mom's like, if you ever want to talk about sex, you should talk to me, but they never directly said anything about it.

Right. I wish they'd tell you about masturbation because it never even occurred to me to masturbate. Yeah, well, I think I'm a pretty, I was a late bloomer. So I think that's same with me. So when did you first bloom? When did you first feel sexual? Oh, God, not until I was like 20 or 19.

When you first masturbated? I didn't even masturbate till way later on. Like I didn't, the first time I had sex, I lost my virginity at like 19. I lost it late. Okay. And I mean, I really like wasn't ready till then, you know? Like I remember I had these like boyfriends in high school and like thinking in my like,

like I wanted to be ready, you know, but when it came down to it, I would like be making out with them and it would get kind of heavy and I would just like tense up and I would freeze and like I just just I really wasn't ready And that's good that you didn't because so many I think young girls are pressured into it Yeah, I was I think I had a very awkward, you know group of friends and I don't you know like I These are different now. Things are ways are different now I don't know if anyone can stay in virgin till the 19 I know if they did exactly if anyone can stay in virgin till the 19. I know if they did exactly what I think it's good.

I was 17, but I did. Yeah, I did. I did it for 11 months. I was like, okay, I know I'm wasting the game. Wow, can you even imagine like what would you do for 11 months with someone? I don't even remember what we did. What would you do?

No friggin idea. I dated someone when I was in college and I finally just felt comfortable enough. That was when I felt ready and I was like, all right. Now did you have orgasms? enough, that was when I felt ready. I was like, all right. Now did you have orgasms? Not the first time that I had sex.

It actually took me a really long time to have an orgasm from actual sex. I had orgasms from like, clitoral stimulation. But I remember being scared. I remember he was rubbing you know Like rubbing my clits stuff like my and like I was just like I start I got like scared and I was like I think I'm gonna pee. I don't know what to do when he was like just let it out and that was like I was like oh This is an orgasm like I I never had one before

That's amazing though. I didn't even know I just I just didn't get it. I really I knew nothing about sex I didn't even like. I just didn't get it. I really, I knew nothing about sex. I didn't even know the point of sex was to get off. I didn't understand it. It's weird. So then you had an orgasm and then you got into sex? Yeah, then I was like, be kale, I'm done. I'm porky.

I'm in the mood. I think I was able to figure out what to do with that anxious feeling I would get sometimes. I think I would do things that was close to masturbating when I was really young. I would like get horny and touch myself a little bit or maybe do weird things. I don't know. Rub up against my pillow or something. I don't know.

But then I was so weird. I just didn't know what to do. I didn't think there. I just didn't know what to do. And then I was like, oh, okay. And then I started to become more open. Yeah, more open. But I didn't masturbate to way later on.

I don't think I masturbate until I was like 24 years old or something. And then you just were like, okay. Yeah, I remember just like being alone and like being really horny and being like really frustrated and I was like single and then I was like, oh, I can like do this myself. Like it was like something dawned on me.

Right, exactly. I don't have to like go out and like find some, I like didn't associate that like. That's exactly someone else. Wow, it was because of too crazy Jews. Right, if I was like, I did it. It's. Wow, it's because we're too crazy Jews Right, yeah, I was like I didn't see it so it's which yeah, I didn't really like comprehend that like when you're feeling you know this You like really yeah, but you can do this and then I was like a dick to do it I was like oh, I felt like I was like a 12 year old boy or something. And then you kept asking me.

And I was like, why did I do this before? Like, what's wrong with me? This could have gotten me through so many hard times. You know, or times you feel anxious or even like lonely or something where you just feel like insecure because you feel like you need a boyfriend or a girlfriend or whatever, like, I should just masturbate and I could have been

so much more focused in college. I don't know what's wrong with me. I wonder if that's maybe me too. I mean, honestly, I think it was just, maybe it's that neurotic. My friend always calls it the jujee. But I don't know if it's like the neurotic, I was like, I was so busy all the time.

I was like, I was busy. I passed out of be tired. I was studying or working. I also like, I always lived in, you know, like these apartments with like 17 roommates, you know roommates you know yeah like so where the fuck was I gonna figure that out I didn't really have much like a loan time now do you still with having I mean so what is your status of burning angel is you and a lot of other ways yes it is managing and directing and people can go on there

check it out burning angel.com.com. We've got hundreds of beautiful, beautiful girls. Like I, I sometimes get like, like, Tyrion, I love the girls so much. They're all so pretty. And we have a great, like, you know, so many different types of girls. Yeah, I mean, so many different ones, big ones and small ones and everything and anything in between.

That's awesome for everyone. That's why it's so popular. I mean, what do you attribute the success to, to your site? Because there's so many sites other people. It's, you know, people have to subscribe, pay for it. I mean, you do you attribute the success to Tavere site? Because there's so many sites other people, it's people who have to subscribe, pay for it. I mean, you know, it's a lot of hard work and just persistence and, you know, I think some of,

just making something people want, you know, like I really, I don't, you know, you don't, but I put my heart and soul into the pornos that we make. When I'm writing them, I have the same writer's block that any other writer would have. I look around, every girl that we're shooting, I try to think of like what is gonna bring out the sexiness in them, you know, like I just every little thing, you know, from the outfit to the location to the crew, to, you know, to that. You know, just I put everything together and I really do want everything we shoot to be, to be awesome, you know, and, and you're not in, you're in a lot of them,

I'm in a lot of them, yeah, but you're not in all of them. I mean, I definitely, we put out how many? We put out, oh god, I don't even know. I mean, the website gets updated a couple of times a week, but I mean, all in all, we put out about 20 movies a year, and I'm in like six or seven of them. So, you know, okay, so you're not like shooting every now having sex every day. You know, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I was when we first started.

So now you're like the business moment. Yeah, but I still, a lot of people think I retired, which is frustrating, because I definitely I was when we first started. So now you're like the business moment. Yeah, but I still, a lot of people think I retired, which is frustrating because I definitely have an iron. I'm on Instagram or Twitter. Yeah, I'm on Twitter. It's still stuff coming out, you know, but, um, but also it's like I only work for myself, so it would be kind of silly to be like, here's another update with me and here's another update with me.

You know, like other girls who are performing for different people every day. It's like you have something coming out with different companies all the time. So it's different. Like so there's really no need for me to shoot every single day because then people are just going to get bombarded like on the website. They're going to be like, all right, we've seen those. All right. So I try to, you know, how do you find the girls for burning angel?

There's a model application on burning angel and girls apply. Do interview women obviously do? Obviously you do. We look through the application and we talk to them. I mean, it's a model application in on burning angel and girls apply. What do they have to have? Do interview them and obviously you do. We look through the application and we talk to them. I mean, it's a combination of things. You know, like a lot of girls we shoot are from out of town and when the girls come into town it's like they're staying at my house and you know they're really getting led into my life. So like there's definitely been girls who applied who are beautiful but like I just didn't feel like you know like they were just right. Like, so what's that feeling?

Like, you know, and like I just, I don't know, like we don't shoot that often. And so if there's definitely looks are obviously a part of it, you know, like, obviously, they are. We want someone who's sexy, you know, we do like more tattooed girls. That's what people like when they come to Burning Angel. Everyone's like, well, get a girl with tattoos. Can we just talk about that for a minute? What do you think it is?

Haven't you heard that? I mean, you've always had, when did you start getting tattoos? Yeah, when I was 18. Okay. I got tattoos before I had sex. That makes me angry. You want to something to do. And you've always, and you've beautiful tattoos.

And do you feel like that's's I've always thought tattoos were sexy I always have I have always like committed to anything like you know I remember like having like a huge crush on a girl in college and she was you know covered in tattoos Like I remember even in high school like I used to Where are you from the East Coast? I'm from Michigan. Oh my mom's from I remember yeah, when I was from New Jersey But I used to always like on the weekends go to like shopping and go to see bands playing stuff in New York City.

And I remember like, there was this girl that worked at this like store that sold, you know, all like bondage pants and all that shit that I, you know, bought when I was in high school. And like I remember she had like a moha, I can see a bunch of tattoos. And I was like, oh, that girl is so pretty. I wish I could look like her. Like ever since I was little, I always was, you know see a bunch of tattoos. And I was like, oh, that girl is so pretty. I wish I could look like her. Like ever since I was little, I always was attracted

to that look. So you bisexual? Will you attract a tattoo? I did not. Like I said, I was so not in touch with my sexuality in my school. I don't think I knew what I was. Like I would see girls that I thought were really pretty and get fantasies and feelings.

But I didn't have my first lesbian experience, so I was in college. Like most girls. Exactly. What is it, loves, loves, means, okay. But then did you, you're still bisexual, I mean, you've boyfriends. Yeah, I do.

Sometimes I feel bad saying I'm bisexual. I wasn't like a, I like dated a girl for a few months once, but even still then we were fucking guys together all the time. So I don't even know if we were what we're probably really bad lesbians, but I did love her, you know, very much. I've never really just dated a girl for a long period of time and not had any guy, like, you know, but you like having sex with girls. I really do. I'm attracted to

girls. I like having sex with girls. I love checking out girls. I don't know. I don't know. Like can you still call yourself a girl with a label? You know, like, you're with, yeah. You know, when I'm single, I'm usually looking for a relationship with a man, you know, right? Obviously, if the right girl came along, I wouldn't be opposed to it. So I'm whatever that means. But I love having sex with women. I really do. What's your favorite part? What do you love about it? I just love everything about it. You know, like women are so beautiful. I love boobs. I love pussy. You know, like I love, like there is really like such an amazing feeling when you get a girl off. You know, like you like it's a better feeling than getting a guy off.

It's totally different. You know, right? It can be challenging. Or do you have like a quick, like do you know, do you feel like you know stuff that we could share? I mean, we probably might have it this last time, but I'm sure you have a million tips. Like your best thing, something that kind of, we're not only every woman is different, but is there anything you go to move

when you're performing like that? I think, you know, I think, oh think I always try to figure out by like feeling around like this is girl like more clitorial stimulation or does this girl like more like insertion figure that out? I mean you start you start touching things and then they start like moving and then squirming when they're doing the right thing so I I always think like with girls, like when they start liking something, like you can tell, like just stay there. Be attention people, just keep doing it. Whatever it is that you're doing,

once they start making those good noises, just don't stop and keep doing that thing, whatever it is. And you know, with every girl it's different. Sometimes it's like a weird spot on the side. And like you just keep going around there. Like it's like a weird spot on the side. And like you just keep going around there. Like it's like some weird place on the inside. That's not. You all get the worst.

It's like this little like, there's like it has all different like a rod. Yeah. Yeah. In the 8,000 nerve endings. Yeah. You gotta find the one nerve ending. Just find whatever it is and just stay there

until she just can't move anymore. That's okay. But it's fine. But I do love having sex with girls, and I do. I love, you know, I'm fortunate enough where I have a great partner, and we've had some great three sums, and I think it's not good to have a three sum with someone if you're in a shitty relationship. Exactly.

It's new that it's just going to lead to a really shitty three sum. Exactly. And it's going to make someone else feel really awkward. And I know that because I've been I've been there too. But now I've had bad dreams. So it's a good threesome, would you say? You got to, like you, I think two people need to be on the same team. So if that means you and your girlfriend, like both wanna like get a guy off, you know, like you two are, it's like two, not against one, but two on one, you know, I think,

I mean, it could be wrong, but that's what I found. So if it's you and a girl that's like, yeah, let's like fuck with this guy. Then once, then that's you two and a guy. And then you know, if you're a couple, like you two need to be like on the same team. So you can't start getting down to like, you can't fuck her more than me or you can kiss her, but you can't kiss me or you could do that.

Or what do you know, like, everybody has to want everyone to get off. Exactly. You know, and you talk about beforehand too, if you're in a couple, if you're in a relationship, and only if you're on very, very sturdy ground, do I tell people to like get to try a threesome? Yeah, I know. Totally. And you're not sexually help because I always think communication is

is the key is the key to everything. But I think I feel like couples that talk about threesome's like all the time. It's almost like they talk about it too much. And then I mean, the best threesome's I've ever had have been spur of the moment. That's what I always say. If you can, you know, and that sucks because that's really hard to give someone that kind of advice. But the best through sums I've had with my partner.

We've just been out, and we just feel right. Right. But you got to act quick. The second you're like, you go home, you start talking about it. Should this girl do it? Should this girl do it? Like, I've had couples come to me and they're like, we think this girl will be right, or we think this girl.

And it's like, you probably lost the chance, you know? Right. Like, a girl that wants to Enter the bedroom with a couple like it's kind of like it's it's it's a spur of the moment. Yeah, just I'm moving right don't pop yeah, like just just go If you feel right, you know, you got to just kind of go for it and your boyfriend you guys have been together for a Little while. Oh two and a half years. Okay, that's right. Okay.

And he's awesome. He did my business card. He did it randomly. What a small world. I don't even remember how I, we talked about how I thought about it, but that is so awesome. And so, do you guys often have three sons? It's not that often. People think it's more often than it is.

Right. But yeah, it's just just when the right girl comes along. Right. The right girl. I love it. And he's cool with what you do. Yeah, I can't say it's challenging. We're both human. Like, being in a relationship and being in porn, it's not easy.

Whether you're dating someone in porn or out of porn, there's always, it's hard when sex is your job. You know, and I think the way I am at work, you know, like, like, kind of changed a little, like having someone that I love so much at home, you know, like, I'm like, okay, I got it. Like, you got to find whatever that place in your brain that you need to go to when you do porn. And then that place sort of changed a little when you get a boyfriend, you get a boyfriend But you know, it's okay. You just you got to find a way you know to balance everything You guys probably have a really good communication. We do we have a good communication and I know I know the days that I'm working He is gonna be a little insecure. I know I know before you go like who you sleeping with today

No, I try I don't tell him I there's you know I ask him like do you want to know or do not want I try, I don't tell them. There's, you know, I ask them like, do you want to know or do you not want to know? Like he doesn't need to know. Right. You know, like, um, he's gonna find out anyway. He's gonna see it, you know? So he, he, like, but he doesn't need to like,

think about the person that is. I always ask him like, if you want to know, I'll tell you if you don't want to know, I want to tell you. Right, okay. I, it's hard too, because porn is like my whole life, you know, and all the lines, you know, get kind of blurred. They do get blurred. I is like my whole life, you know, and all the lines, you know, get kind of blurred.

They do get. I, I prefer these days, you know, because there are some porn performers who are really close friends of mine now, you know, and, and when it's Labor Day or Fourth of July or whatever, you know, and like, we all kind of party together and they're friends with my boyfriend too. And I, I kind of try these days. I book myself mostly with people who are sort of like outside of my like friendship circle, you know, because-

Because why it's more natural. I think it's easier for me and I think it's a little easier for my boyfriend. Right, because like, oh, you slept with him last night. Yeah, yeah, and you know, obviously it happens when we go to like porn conventions and stuff like that. Right, I saw you with AVN. Yeah, and obviously that's going to happen, but I think it's a little and stuff like that. Right, that's how you would AVN. Yeah, and obviously that's gonna happen, but I think it's a little easier, like it's like, you know,

to sleep with people who are outside of our immediate circle. And I think it's easier for me too. It's like, all right. Right, no, I totally agree. And that's like the good thing. Good to work with you, yeah. It used to be different. I used to really like working with my close friends.

A change, you know, everything. Yeah, I've been doing it for a long time. So changes and that doesn't mean, you know, I think so, I like having just this all right, like this hot intense, you know, kind of physical relationship with the, you know, with a handful of people and then I don't, I don't know them outside for that. Exactly. And I don't have to like.

It's kind of nice sometimes when you don't, because I feel like that too with my life is my work, my life is my work my work Is my life is nice separation boundaries? Yeah exactly either cuz I love it is hard it's hard because yeah I also you know I'm I'm a director So I'm always directing people so I'm spending a lot of time with people on set So of course I'm gonna become friends with them, but you know it's there's different levels of friendship There's a directing porn like and you write it so you actually like how long were the scripts? I mean how long it really all? I mean, how long?

It really all depends. I mean, I make movies with no scripts at all. And then I make movies with very, very long ones. I mean, even in a lot of scripts. So is it more like like a like about one of my more recent movies? I came out latex latex xxxxxxxxxxxx with three x's. It's a movie. I mean, yeah, burning is a calm. They can buy it. You can find it there. You can get it in most adult video stores too. And it's a latex fetish movie.

So I got all these. I got beautiful latex dresses from Simon latex. They make latex. They make such amazing stuff. Awesome. Okay. I'm real like fashion, fashion-y, like kutcher. Kutur.

Latex. So anyway, I mean, it's a latex fetish movie. So all the girls are wearing these gorgeous latex outfits and you know myself included and then the beginnings just like a strip tease. I know a lot of latex fetishes that they like to hear you like like the sound that outfit makes when you're rubbing up and down you know like kind of like masturbating with the latex like on top of your pussy. That feels really good. Yeah, anything that's so beautiful. I did a lot in that movie, like when there's not a plot,

I try to do a lot with the lighting and stuff like that. So the lighting was very dramatic and intense, everything. It was almost like kind of artsy the way I did it, you know? Do you think I got all the lighting and stuff too? I mean, I have a lighting guy, but I always talk to him, you know, about what I want. Right, exactly. And you know, and we all work together. So in that movie, there's just, you know,

like a three to five minute kind of like tees. There's two girl girl scenes in the movie and there's two solos in the movie and then there's two boy girl scenes in the movie. And so yeah, I just masturbated and did some cool like strip teesy, like things with late sex on and then someone comes in the room and they have sex and that's that's there we go there we go exactly so there's that and then and then I've done ones with really long scripts I mean some of the more popular ones some of

our parodies are really popular we have a walking dead parodies one of most popular movies we ever did I just made there's another movie that's out that I loved one of my favorite movies we put out this year is called Vampire Cheerleaders. It's a whole long movie about me and my friends being cheerleaders, but we're vampires. And we've been trying to make it to the, the reason why we like became vampires, we were trying to make it to the finals. We're really bad cheerleaders. So we've been trying to make it to the finals for 700 years.

And like, I don't know. I love it because the whole vampire phrase that must trend right now Yeah And then there's like a werewolf that's trying to like be our friend and we pick on him because there's like the vampires versus werewolf things They're like he like is trying to fit in with us and we And you grow that script to yeah, I wrote the whole script and there's like special effects and we kill people like oh my god I know I gotta check it. I love it, but people get burning into that time.

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call from Eddie. Hey, Eddie, you're on sex with Emily with Emily and Joanne Angel. Hey, how you doing? Great. How are you? I'm so glad you called about Chrissy Mac because I was actually going to start with that. But we joined and I just got off on a tangent here. But so sad what's happened to porn star Chrissy Mac, her savage beating by her MMA boyfriend. And so that was your question.

Have you, have you, have you fenced a third on? I mean, I, we're not, we're not friends. I've, I've actually never met her. We obviously have, you know, we have similar circles of friends. We have a mutual respect for one another. But I don't know her, so I'm not just because something bad happened. I can't pretend that I'm her best friend. But I obviously, you know, I tweeted out a link to her medical fund and I, you know, put

on our Instagram to, you Instagram to the reward money to fund War Machine and I put it out there that I support her. Obviously, it's a terrible thing that happened. Terrible. Pictures everything. I don't know her personally, so I don't know anything else other than what's out in the news. I know just as much as you.

Right. Do you have another question? I do know that War Machine is a psychopath. Yeah. He's been around the porn industry before. Really? Yeah, he came to an industry party. It was like six or seven years ago. You could find it if you searched through like archives of the news. And he beat up like six people. And there was a performer that I was supposed to work

with. And the scene had to get canceled the next day because the person that I was supposed to work on is in the hospital. Yeah, and this was like six, seven years ago. So I actually after that, I haven't even heard his name until him and Christy got together. Then I started hearing his name again. I was like, where do you know the words? I was like, this guy's back. Do you have to back on your own?

I thought he was done. Why, who let him back into this world? Totally. And he's a psychopath. Yeah, I don't know anything that happened. I tried another question for you too. Eddie, did you have a psychopath. Yeah, I don't know anything that happened. I had another question for you too. Eddie, did you have another question? Yeah, yeah.

Well, I thank you for answering that. Uh, you know, and we all feel for it. No, I guess my second question was it kind of came, um, at any aftermath of that, uh, like, maybe, I mean, particularly war between, you know, he tweeted about it afterwards, like he was glorifying it to find it and he's proud that he like crushed faith and and he didn't do that i mean i don't think he did that he hasn't like it he he hasn't admitted it he tried to lie he tried to lie afterwards right okay well whatever it's like you know i mean his actual like his actual you know right writing or like what he said is very, it's convoluted. I mean, you took it down pretty quick, right? Because I think he was a like, but they've had a very,

their relationship has always been very public and very, they've always insulted each other on Twitter. Like, I never thought it was very funny, but I, you know, for a while, it was kind of passed off as like, oh, like, like, this is just just this is just what they do question though is like even if i mean even if like you know he's joking about the past this time obviously you you know he wasn't and the responsible that response in the world there are a lot of people you know was a positive to that like i mean made pros in the world were like

yeah whatever the hell i mean how prevalent is the violent uh... part of your industry is it being in that prevalent war machines not in my industry right so i just want to make that clear he's not a porn guy he's an mma fighter that did a couple porn movies right because people in porn do love celebrities so the second you know right i will say that but he's not part of my industry

at all well that i know i mean i I mean, I didn't mean him particularly. What I meant was, like, how prevalent is, like, do people blur those lines sometimes? Like, is that, like, when... Important, right? I'm not sure what you're asking. Yeah. Well, no, I'm sorry.

It's hard to put in the words. Like, basically, like, there's a lot it's hard to put in the words like basically uh... how i like there's a lot of there's a lot of the gillot of like a little bit more rougher point out there and then you see guys uh... like war machine bulldoze lines a lot and because it happens in every everywhere there's just abusive people in the

make-up choices they don't know what had a time guys are you know i mean the point is the controlled environment uh..., you know, the the the things that you know are yeah quote violence and porn, I mean that that's rough sex and that's much different, you know, when two people are having sex with each other and then they start getting rough and they start playing around I personally, I mean I can't speak for all of porn like we don't film anything that rough right because I'm not I don't like what it right, you know, I can't speak for Olive Point. Like, we don't film anything that rough, because I'm not, I don't like what it, you know, I don't like the super rough point,

but it is out there and the rough point that is out there. It is consensual and it's a controlled environment. That's a thing, it is controlled and more safe than this guy's. And also, people are having sex while it's happening. So that's, I think that's where the line is drawn. I mean, what War Machine did to Chrissy Mackey went into her house, they were not, they were not playing a sex game that went too far exactly

You know they he was beating her up. There was no there was no intention there actually things for your call Eddie Yeah, it's true. It's just it's just really sad. I mean it happens in any it should be none of you to the show women make You know whatever you just don't know. It's very sad what happened. So yeah, we've been tweeting out as well So um before all this this break I was you were saying something about okay the movies. Oh, the movies you were making and So what is your favorite kind of porn? It's like what are the days you're like oh good today. I get to do blank My I mean, I love all the movies that we do You know, like I said, I did love the late text movie

But I have to say my favorite movies are the are the big features with the plots and that you know Just at the end of the day. I like the plot the porn the plot. I yeah the end of the day I just I feel a little so proud and it's fun because those are the movies where I can actually like show it to my friends and take the sex out and they love it and and What do you mean take the sex out for your friends? Because I don't want it like you're no, yeah, like my good friends like like and also the sex scenes there are long right? I remember I I I I've done screenings of some of my movies before there's a small

Sex shop in New York and they let me screen some of my movies So I've picked movies that I really like and I'll just make the sex scenes like a minute or two minutes long And they show the plot and then you know and then like a minute or two of sex which sounds like it's not a lot but it's long. So watch like two minutes if people fucking like in a whole room full of people you know like I've tried it I've done it before where I leave it at 10 minutes I'm like oh maybe they because everybody says like more sex and I'm like at 10 minutes it's so awkward. Right. So yeah I'm like okay I'm gonna put it at two minutes maybe three minutes but I'm being able to sit in a room and people laugh at the funny parts and they clap when like, the bad guys winning and the good guy, you know, like when, like,

to see people react to my porn movies, like their real movies, like, I really, that was one of the moments in my career where I like, I like sat in the room and I almost cried, you know? Like, I don't get to see people watch my movies. It's always a personal thing. Yes, so I'm sure when I got to take some of my movies and I love comedy and I really do love making people laugh. And it's hard to make people laugh. It is hard to make people laugh. Especially, you know, you're dealing with so many

uncontrollable variables. You've got all these porn actresses and none of us are amazing actors and actresses. So I always try to get the most out of everyone, like I try to highlight their person. I don't really put people in features unless I kind of know them. So I'll always sort of write a character based around their personality as it is. So they're just so much stress. Okay, Brian's been at hold for a while. He's got a question for you.

Oh, sure. Hey, Brian, thanks for calling Sex with Emily. You're on with Joanne Angel. Yes, I'm here to ask her. How did you come up with the name, Brian, Angie? Oh my God. It was so long ago. I don't know.

I don't know. You're just me and my business partner. We were just sitting around throwing a bunch of different names out. And I don't know. It's just kind of. It's a good one. It just kind of came out. I don't know if you just kind of it's a good one. It just kind of came out and you stuck with it.

Yeah. Are you fan Brian? Yeah. Yeah. Who isn't right? What do you love about? Tell me why. Okay.

There's lots of porn out there. Why do you love burning angel? What sets it apart? It kind of sounds funny like an angel in hell of a phone sheet. That's what? It sounds like an angel in hell of a phone sheet. Oh, you like the name, but what about the porn? I'm sorry. I love women in tattoos. Yeah, they're hot and they're hot women in tattoos. Yeah, that's awesome. Okay, thanks, Brian.

Hope you answered your question. Thanks for calling Sex Thumbnail. Bren Angel, it's a good, it's a good, it's a good brand. And you saw a lot of stuff on your site, right? You got like, oh yeah, it's a lot. Perfect Nellian. Yeah, I'm going to go buy two shirts. Okay, so I have a few emails from my listeners that I'd love you to help me answer.

Yeah, I'm going I can buy two shirts. Okay so I have a few emails from my listeners that I'd love you to help me answer. You go with that? Sure. Sex tips. Okay it's called Bad and Bad. Dear Emily, I recently read the article you wrote 10 signs you're Bad and Bad. Oh I think this is for men's fitness and it left me with a big question from my own sex life. How can I get my partner to read this without directly asking him to? How do you bring up the fact that your partner is bad and bad?

Thanks, Jennifer. So I wrote this thing for men's fitness. I believe you can just, yeah, go to men's fitness and search my name, but it had like five good Brazilian chairs on it. It was like 10 reasons you're bad and bad for men. And obviously a lot of people shared it. They liked the tips, but Jennifer wants to know,

how do you tell them? How do you approach your partner? What do you think? I don't mean to contradict your... Oracle. I don't get, I don't say how you tell your partner. I just said 10 reasons you know that you're bad and bad. But I didn't say here that I need to tell you.

I have a theory that I don't think anyone is bad and bad. I think it's all about the chemistry you have with someone else because there's definitely people I've slept with that I've heard other girls feel like that guy's awesome and bad and I didn't have a good experience but that has to do with what your chemistry is. Exactly, they might be bad for you. So that's-

They might be bad for you. Right, just not like a universal. But yeah, I would also say you gotta pick the right time. You gotta be careful how you approach it. Also, you don't want to Yeah, it's such a tricky thing, you know because I feel like once you start over talking about sex It's hard to have good sex anymore. Yeah, you know, and I think I think if you

It sounds like you know She's probably stuck in a routine with her partner and some of that might be her fault too exactly all the blame 50 50 jack up really So I might just go out or something I don't know instead of telling him I would say what he's doing wrong You can just kind of say I really tell what you want more of you know I love that time when you were kissing my breasts Out in the sun we were sitting on the beach and why you just buy some sexy laundry and breasts out in the sun, we were sitting on the beach in Hawaii, or whatever.

Buy some sexy lingerie and come out of the bathroom and be like, hey, and just give him the world's greatest blow job and just see how he reacts. He might be a little bit submissive. He might just need you to like- But she needs more from me. Yeah, but she might have to just kind of. So if you take, sometimes if you put that energy out there, then you might get it back.

Right now, like she might just have to like find that slut in her. Exactly. Find her in her slut. Find her in her slut. I would say like as far as the art of goes, I mean, you could seriously also just somehow say this is really funny. Like, I would, this isn't art of like game across made me think I think you're I love having sex with you, but I thought you know, I actually would like more oral sex.

I think I love when you do it, but I feel like lately we've been so busy and God that really is so hot the way you do it or something. I mean, you gotta give me just when he's in the middle of a sentence be like shut up and eat my pussy and like to see what happens But you want to pick the right time. You don't want to talk about when you're bad You don't want to vote ever because I'll like loses a reaction and the whole thing I mean there has to be a right time in place to address it and I mean again, it is chemistry and it is communicating you know, I guess you know over communities And it's couples who never talk about it though. They're really forever I mean, you're such a different world and And so I know where I can't meet.

No, but I am too. Now, I mean, I've had bad sex. I dated people for way too long. I mean, bad sex. Which is one of these thoughts. I want to date someone. I mean, I want to date someone. Yeah, I mean, but I used to.

Like, when I started the show, I mean, that's one of the reasons I started the show. I was like, how the better time I had the best sex ever, the bad, I haven't had the best sex in my life. I want to have the best friggin' sex in my life. And I'm going to learn how, and I started the show. I wasn't eight years ago. Nine years ago. I wasn't like the expert in sex. It was more like I started interviewing people. I don't know how to do it. How

to do it. How to do it. And then I got my doctor and all the stuff. But yeah, you know, you got to learn and you got to communicate with him what you want because men are not my readers. So many women believe that he's just gonna figure it out. He's magically getting to know and no, they don't know anything. They don't. And if he do know something, his last partner could be very different from you, Jennifer. So another question here is, I am. I'm worried. My boyfriend fantasizes over other girls, whether it be during sex or when he's by himself. It's starting to really ruin my sex life with him, as well as my thoughts on

myself. I ask him, am I good enough? Am I sexy? All to which she continually says I'm everything he wants, but it's still so frustrating. Do you have any advice or opinions that can turn you down? Everybody thinks Emily. Everybody fantasizes about other people. There's, you know, as long as he's not actually fucking those people.

Yeah, exactly. And wondering, Emily, why you, first of all, why you're so worried about why you're thinking this is brain. Yeah, exactly. It's a dream. That's like the times when I like woken up and I'm like I'm like you did something mean in my dream and then we get in me and my boyfriend I'm getting a fake fight already. He's like I didn't do that. That was in your dream. You can't get angry at somebody for what's in their head and maybe he's thinking of something that turns him on and then he is having sex with you. Like that's I don't know exactly exactly I mean the thing is that you say you're worried over fantasies but I want to know like why are you thinking this she's like competing with something that doesn't exist and I'm telling you

confidence is the number one sexy part. Yeah once you're starting like am I good enough like it's like like nobody knocks that's not. Imagine if he was saying that to her she would she would not when I've said no if I could have I'd pee, it's big enough, the whole thing, Jennifer, you got to, you got to cultivate your confidence. It's got to, this is Emily, not Jennifer, she's last, Emily, you have got to cultivate, I'm talking about that. You got to cultivate your confidence. If that's the one thing that you work on right now,

is, is, is, is loving your body, appreciate it. Maybe you just spend some more time alone masturbating. So you can like tell them what you want in the bedroom. Um, and if you're worried about your and your sex life, you can ask your wife if you need anything. He wants to try. But if you keep asking him, he's not going to tell you, yeah, babe, actually, I was just thinking about Joanna Angel, which you probably was.

Sorry. But no, really, I mean, I don't know why you're so focused on this, to be honest, I know that guys do this sometimes. I've never had that thought. I just assume I'm the best lover and he's looking at me. And if he's not, okay, but I don't even think my mind doesn't go there. And you got to train your mind not to go there and to be in the moment with him and get

in. It's just a thought. Right. Thoughts are not, thoughts are not real. It is not real. We're here to tell you that. It's not real. So I would, you know, maybe it's not, there's probably something else going on underneath

here and it's, I'm not sure why I'm maybe cheating with past Emily, but this could destroy your sex life single-handedly. You could destroy it, so you need to figure out what it is and stop worrying about it, it's going to be a self-filling prophecy and just work on yourself and talk to them about it and get over your insecurities. Easier said than done, you might need some therapy. Okay, another one here, dear Emily, we all need a little therapy, right? Talking about shoes. I want a therapy for a very low. Yeah, me too. Dear Emily, I'm a huge fan of your show and listen to your podcast every week. I love all your advice, special guests, and sex tips. My boyfriend and I have been together for over

five months and I still have not had an orgasm. We have had multiple honest conversations about what we want in the bedroom, but I feel like he still does that listen. For instance, I have told him, I need a lot more for a play before we have sex. Yet every time we do it, it's never enough. We tried mutual masturbation so we can learn what I like, as well as new positions. And nothing seems to work. I don't.

I'm stressful. I'm stressful. I don't wanna nag. I'm speaking about it. All the time, but honestly, how could I make him listen to me when I say I need more for a play? Any advice or tips you have for me would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you, Liz. Sweet, how does, you need it? I mean, she's talking, I'm talking, I'm talking, I mean, I want to know, first of all, for everyone out there, for play really isn't a suggestion. It's a requirement. For most women, you got to have it. So I'm not sure Liz is the problem that he isn't trying during

foreplay or that he isn't succeeding? So is it that he, is he trying it and you're not pleased? Are you communicating to him what you want? And you're keep saying that you need more football, you need more foreplay and you've never had an orgasm. I really don't like it when women, not having orgasm, they blame it on, on their partner because it's really your responsibility. So do you know how to have an orgasm? Can she just lay him down and then I love him. I just like to take over. Okay.

Yeah. Do what you want. Bring out. We're about your vibrator. I mean, women do require take his head when he's going down and you just move his head to the right spot. Just sit on his face. How can you know I have an orgasm?

Yeah. He can't get on his face. Exactly. Just move your pussy into the right position. And make him do it. Yeah, exactly. I mean, women do require, on average, you get warmed up. Many require like 20, 30 minutes of foreplay. And so if he's what he's doing isn't enough, you should consider like taking intercourse off the menu. Tom, you're not going to sex them for a few weeks

and you're just going to focus on foreplay. Because sometimes I tell that to couples who, you know, sex becomes sex them for a few weeks and you're just going to focus on four play. Because sometimes I tell that to couples who you know, sex becomes an issue for them. They're like, oh, sex is a thing. We haven't had in a while. They're like, okay, let's rebuild your sex life. Just start with touching. Start with massage. Start with something else. So tell them that you just don't want to sex and you want to focus on exploring other rodent zones. Anderson, are you going to say something there? No, you're just looking intently. Okay.

I'm listening. There's just a lot of action going on in here. So, but I'm listening. I'm sitting here. Yeah. I love it. Okay, so this could help if the problem of he's rushing and skipping on the foreplay because he wants his turn.

Another option could be introducing him to sex toy in the bedroom. Do you use a sex toy? Liz, if you do, bring that on because that's gonna help you. You have your orgasm. I mean, if you find it. But then that may, it sounds like they need to learn and I have one with that one Because then if the sex toy gives an organism then what are they gonna use it every single time? And it could also be mental that you're focusing you sound a bit of a control for yeah exactly. It's have to let go

But I'd say just sit on his face. I think you should start with that game over Move your clip Into the right position and he actually won't and he's trying but it's like he she says like he's failing So I really just think that you it's something about you like move him around Show him you got to show him and you got to tell him that you love him and that like you need it more guys I don't understand like but I mean do you feel like so what do you think you've learned mostly by being important for 12 years? Like if you look at Joanna, when you started and where you're at now, how do you think that you evolved? I got a lot of.

I'm sure you have. So when you started out, you were like late bloomer and now 12 years later, you're like the porn queen, Joanna Angel that we're talking to you. Or what, what is it that you have learned about sex that's made your sex life better and that you could impart wisdom to my loyal, lovely, listening? Yeah, I mean, you know, you got to like really be in the moment, you know, you got to like put everything else aside and, and folks, it's a, it's a two-way street, you know, like even if you're just having a one night stand with someone or even I'm just at work with someone. It's like I need to make the guy that I'm working with feel good because he needs to have a Direction in order for the scene to keep going and in order for the scene to end, you know, like I need to make him feel good and he needs to make me feel good so we can Continue in this thing we both agreed to do together and that's kind of just

That's what it is. It's a partnership. It is a partnership. It's a mutual partnership. It's a partnership in selfish. Yeah, you need to, and I mean, I think, you know, that's how it works at work. And that's how it works in real life. What's your bad sex?

Have you had bad sex? I mean, that's difficult. I have had some bad sex. I definitely have. Okay, so how can you describe your bad sex? I can't count any sex at work because sometimes the bad sex I would have at work is like oh for fucking on like an uncomfortable Right, I've had some very bad dates

Actually it was I don't know like because like when I was single I was you know before I was with my boyfriend, I went on a series of dates with people and I was already like a porn star and I think that made like some people nervous and then when he came down to sex, like I dealt with people in your generation, they probably know. No, they couldn't even get their dick hard. Wow. Yeah, I'm sure.

I remember going on a date with someone like the end of the date. He was like Jerking off my bed like crying. Oh my god. You made him keep our own tears I didn't even I was like it's cool. We can just watch TV like it's whatever I know and you know, I think that if he was just building it. Like I have to compete with what I saw her do on camera. Right. And you know what I get it? I feel that and that's totally not, you know, how you are.

What I wanted or how I. I feel like that's my day job. And all, you know, yeah. Like if I wanted to have that kind of sex at home, then I would just go on a date with someone I work with. I mean, I have great sex at home, but like it's just it's just different I don't even know how to like right you know, I got it because I always used to when I first started my show I was like what is good sex to you? What is bad sex? I always wanted to know what people met when they were like

What's the best I think what I ask you like what's the best sex your life? Could you say like for the best time you would think you're do a moment or a thing? It's hot. Yeah, I I mean it's hard to pinpoint it, you know when you've had like lots of things. How do you like foreigners do that? Oh, oh no, I have not had that many partners like that sexual cameras, but yeah, I have you know, I'm I really more like I think I don't people say it's because I'm a Capricorn or something. I've never really been that good at being like a total slut and it's ironic being like a pornricorn or something. I've never really been that good at being like a total slut and it's ironic being like a porn star. I've always been like a I had tried it like I remember

like I lived in New York and it's going out all the time. I was like yeah I want to like fuck different guys that I meet all the time and I would like try and like I you it winds up with so much bad sex. Right. Like going home with dudes know like having like random, you know one night flings and I was just like, you know the best sex you had is someone you know, you know, like that. Someone you connect, like after you've had sex a couple times and you know, I've had, I've had good sex and I've had bad sex. I've had some horrible, horrible like one night stands. Well I was just so bad.

Can you remember telling me the worst one I'd stand and then we're gonna, uh, wrap it up. Yeah, just you know, we have the guy that's like really really really drunk Oh, yeah, I hate that too. You know the guy's hard and then he's soft and then like Some time I know you know like these guys like they get to a place So they're just like trying to like overcompensate because they're like so drunk and then they're trying to like get it together So they're kind of being rough, but it's like not coming across right? It's just like drunk. You know, right?

You're trying to get a train calizer and call it a day. No, it's totally gonna. I don't know. Yeah, watch your alcohol intake. Especially, you know, on your first second day and for your entire life, actually, the drunk guys are not a truck. I've had good drunk sex too, but you know,

right? And there's just been that bad bad one night stand Drunk, so you're like what am I doing? I should have stayed home and just ate pizza. I know I've got to make nice freaking sleep with them. This is a waste of time. I finished some work of clean on my underwear. A waste of a condom.

Okay, Joanne, we got to wrap up. Everyone can find you at burningangel. Burningangel.com, Joanneangel.com, find me on Twitter. It's at Joanne Angel angel dot com joining the dot com. Find me on Twitter at join angel. Instagram's at joining. I actually have my own radio show. Oh, yeah, on vivid radio. Tell me. Tell me every every Tuesday from 1 to 2 p.m.

It's on vivid radio. You can find out on vivid radio dot com. It's also it's on serious, but it's like not on the console. It's kind of confusing. So you have to download the serious app. Okay. I had on that. You can you to it on that but you can just click my click a vivid radio and you can find my name. And buy it on every Tuesday from 1 to PM. Tuesday 1 to PM. On Pacific time. Yes, buy my flashlight. You can buy it at tinyorl.com slash

J.A. flashlight. It will take you right to me. Exactly. There you go. Or also stretch the mwe.com slash slash flashlight.. I love having you in the show. You're awesome. Thank you. It's time to go by so fast. I know. See? Because we just talk like two little chatty Jews.

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Perhaps play a little game called just a tip. Just for a second, just a see how it feels. Hey, this is Jordan Harbinger, host of the Art of Charm Podcast, the number one dating and relationship advice podcast in iTunes. I'm Emily Morris, host of the Sex with Emily Podcast, the number one sex and relationship podcast on iTunes and it's sexwithemily.com. And this is just the tip. So what are some common mistakes that guys make during sex? I mean, we hear all the time

like guys make this, guys do that, I think one of the most common things is guys have no idea what women want. Exactly. That was a great mistake. That many men make. Great mistake. It's a great mistake. No, you're right on point. The guys assume that my last goal from one of this is to must want this, and I mean as you mature sexually, you should never assume this. You should never make assumptions that everyone men is the same. So what you got to do is learn how to communicate

with your partner and find out what she wants. You do not know what this woman wants. I'm telling you, first time you're sex third, you have no idea. You have no idea, like. No, there's not like a universal thing that every woman likes, except for maybe, diamonds or something

That's what we're talking about sex Okay, and what else? The thing is, number two is that you have all she needs Okay, some women, I'm telling you Jordan, they cannot have an orgasm with us in 3,000 RPMs No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration But men think something is wrong with them if they need a vibrator, and I tell all got women, and guys like don't be intimidated by the vibrator. That's what you need to get off.

Bring the vibrator into the room. Have your own little threesome there with her on a vibrator. You know what, it's a lot less work for the guy and a lot more pleasure for her. That makes sense. All right. Yeah, and you know, people can always go to goodvibes.com

and use coupon code Emily and get discount on a vibrator. Good to know, a little vibrator discount never hurts. hurts and you know a lot of guys think that women think just like we do so they're like kind of we think that sex feels the same for us as it does for you exactly and that's a huge disconnect because when a man has sexual the woman his penis goes into her body so yeah I just four. Exactly, but think about that. It's like off the charts and you just think, guys, you're like, I can't imagine what that feels like. But they can't imagine that that feeling isn't the same way for her.

But the inside of the vagina is less sensitive than the outer parts for most women. So deep thrusting into the vagina isn't necessarily great for women. It's the outer two-thirds of the vagina that are most sensitive. So you don't want to bang on that cervix? No, I mean, some, it feels good a little So you don't want to bang on that cervix? No. I mean, some, it feels good to look for a little bit, but you want to mix it up all the time. It does not feel the same way for women. And the clitoris.

Just because you're having sex, you've got to pay attention to the clitoris, whether she uses her hands, use your heryons, or a vibrator. But the clitoris, most women need to clitoral orgasm before they even have any other kinds of orgasms. Good to know. We'll continue some of these sex mistakes next week. If you guys want to learn more from the art of charm about dating, relationships, and even networking for business, visit us at theartofcharmpodcast.com or check us out in iTunes and follow

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