Sex With Emily - Jealousy In Retrograde

Episode Date: February 3, 2016

If you’re looking to get ahead in your career, enhance your love life or improve things between the sheets, communication is the key! This show is all about improving your communication skills in the dating world, in your long term relationship, and of course, in the bedroom. Emily tackles your questions about how to appropriately and effectively address your concerns with your partner, whether you’re dealing with jealousy, orgasm dishonesty, or opening your partner’s eyes to something new in bed. Emily and Anderson also reveal a few sex statistics that might surprise you. Find out how common it is for singles to hook up at the gym and which machines to hang around if you’re looking to get laid. Also, learn how using contraception increases your likelihood of having more and better sex — I guess safe sex IS great sex afterall. If you’re tired of faking your O’s, or are looking for tips on how to communicate your coital concerns, then this show is not one to miss! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey everyone, thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. Today's show is all about stepping up your communication, both in the bedroom and in the dating world. And I'll also be answering your emails about jealousy, masturbation, and so much more. Thanks for listening, but first a word from our sponsor, who helps keep the show free. And you can listen to the show whenever you want. Here's the deal, womanizer, okay? If you've listened to the show in the last couple of months, you probably heard we talk about it. It's a very unique product. And while back the owners of the company, they said, Hey, can I send you one to test? Which of course I agree to, because you know me. I own an interview. I know, Anderson, when you say no, I only review

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Let's get all that out of the way. I went Facebook. We're good time everywhere. I just wanted to get all this stuff out of the way so I could chat with you. How you doing? To do it. Tonight, after we do this, I'm teaching a workshop

at Hustler Hollywood in West Covenia. Do you remember when Tonight, after we do this, I'm teaching a workshop at Hustler, Hollywood in West Covenia. Okay. Do you remember when we were explaining to everybody where it was? Not that far. No. So I still don't know where it is. I'm putting it into my mind. But I'm going to get there.

And I hope you get there too because you've got just 12 more days of Valentine's day and you can Valentine's day. It's a Michigan thing. It's tonight, seven o'clock shopping with Emily. How easy is that? Champagne and shopping. I'm going to walk you through their brand new store, pick out sexy gifts for your self, your lover, 15% of all your shopping.

You can steal our soup at sexathamily.com. First comes first comes shopping, then comes sex. Right. Right? It's like shopping for the ladies is a little like a little bit like a cropline. Oh my guys. I bet you a prostate massager. Negal you what I did I wrapped it up for bail and thought I don't want to I don't want to spoil this price.

You got you got that for me last year or this year. This year. Dude it's 12 days away you got to relax. Okay your bail and 10 day presence. It's pubbing. 12 days a day. So don't don't pressure me about that but but we will have more Valentine's Day shows coming up and stuff. But this is I'm excited about because of what's Kavina. And that's what I

got to tell you. What's going on with you? What do you think about a guy getting? I know the answer to this. What do you think about a guy getting his lady friend a sex toy for Valentine's Day? This is the point. It's the perfect lazy man's gift because you can do it real quick online. Be done or go see him at the hustler store, get the get the toy and then guess what? It's the gift that keeps on giving because it means less work for you in the bedroom. Exactly. Get all the womanizer. It's beautiful. Actually, it's a very cool toy. That's actually great. And in the corner, you can be watching the SPM and she can be over in the corner sucking herself off. And she's not saying, oh, he get watched football and I had two orgasms and I can't attribute this or she's like,

I know orgasm, he's in the room. I'm sorry. I'm happy. You gave it to her, man. The one onizer is a beautiful gift actually. To be honest, the one I talked about, you can get it at good vibes.com, use code Emily and think you get something.

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for you too. Yeah, but why not? It's about. You boys get something that works for you. You know what I mean? And the woman is who's going to work for you too. Yeah, but get one night. It's about love. Get something that works for you. You know what I mean? And the womanizer's going to work for you and every time she has an orgasm, you get the credit for that orgasm. You get the credit? You get the credit? Technically you gave her all the orgasms

that the womanizer's gonna hook her up with. Right. And you can put your feet up. The womanizer's not cuddling with her, not going with her or the movie's right. So there's that. And yeah, it's a great thing for just, yeah, couples, whatever shop online, I always think add something sexy to your Valentine's Day

thing. So listen to your repertoire, well, repertoire. So listen to how my day started. Let's do it. Okay, I woke up and I had a irrational fear that I had bedbugs in my apartment. Are you doing math? No. Maths are a math thing to do. To think you've bed bugs? Yeah, math fox always think that they have like bugs on their body. No, I've never in my life thought.

That's why it's so now that I have 12 hours of retrospective, it was really irrational. I'm embarrassed that I called my landlord, I was labor. Okay, so a friend of mine just recently had bed bugs. And I actually had 20, when I was backpacking through Thailand, I've experienced bedbugs. I was sleeping in the jungle in Malaysia. Those are jungle buds.

No, no, no, they were bedbugs. I was on a mattress, I had bedbugs. The jungle. Yeah, because it was like a hut where you, like one of those salt lips where you go. It's all so fast. They were bedbugs. And they were all of my body and like they,

they still have scars. And it was painful. And then I also had this scab on my, like a scar on my back, like a bug bite from like a spider bite from a few nights ago or something. But I didn't know. This is recent. Yeah, let's dig. So I woke up, the jungle 20 years ago.

So I always think about bedbugs. Then my friend just got bedbugs, which is like the most horrific experience. That's not your friend anymore. Well, you have to get rid of everything. You can't have think about bedbugs. My friend just got bedbugs, which is like the most horrific experience. Not your friend anymore. We have to like get rid of everything. You can't have friends with bedbugs. You have to put stuff in like surround wrap and set it to the drug. Okay. Then there was little spits into sound, but there's little spots spits of blood on my like where I was sleeping. Uh huh. And that's what the bedbugs look like they leave these little. They do. And it was like three of them. And I was like, well, is it that scratch I had the other night from this bug bite, but I didn't notice.

Like it was a spider bite, a separate bite, which really was. Like, you can get little bites. Do you get those ever? No, I'm pretty bite free. Really? Okay, so this is what I was saying. All the drugs and alcohol in my blood,

I didn't know if it was a spider bite or a, I had no things of that. So then I got really scared. And then I had, like, so I looked at the bite again I didn't know if it was a spider bite or a... You thought you were a black. So then I got really scared. And then I had, like, so I looked at the bite again, and I had like two little, and they say, you've three dots. So the point, I googled it, which is such a mistake. And my bed looked like, and they said, you've three in a row. They call it breakfast, not your dinner.

So I call it by landlord. I'm like, do you have extra Mary? Like, we've never had that problem. I'm like, shit. So I go and yell, put on the best one. You're a horror. Skavies. So they come in like 20 minutes, they show up. And I'm like, I'm really nervous. They're turning over my couch. Yeah, no, like somebody the extermator, two guys, they're like, hello, ma'am. They got great reviews.

This is like they come in and they're like, go in my bedroom. They got the got the mask on and thing. And they're like turning in the sheets over like, do mine if we open some drawers. Oh, no, I'm like, oh, no, you're vibrating already. Why not? Because here's the thing. I have a storage bed, right, which means I have a mattress with like eight drawers underneath it because I have a very small place. So I'm like, um, yeah. And then I there's he speaks Spanish primarily. And I said, yes, but if I have sex toys when you open you go, oh, no, don't worry. it's okay, we've seen everything, you know. So I'm going, oh my god, and they're like, flipping, and I'm just going,

do you see anything? Is it like, I'm really nervous? Irrashly, and no, I'm not doing meth or drugs. No, it's like a real. It's a meth move. And dude, I wish, that sounds fun, but. So they're searching, and then he's like, oh, it's okay, man, I've seen it all.

And then I'm like, well, how frequent is it? Comment, he's like, well, there's been an outbreak lately, and I'm like so panicked. He's like, mm, I've seen it all. And then I'm like, well, how, how frequent is it common? He's like, well, there has been an outbreak lately and I'm like so panicked. He's like, mm, and then it stopped, and they think, what about this? They're like conferring and I'm watching them and then they come out to living room and they flip over the couch.

And he's like, oh, and he points to something and goes, there's one. No. And I'm like, oh my God. And I'm like, freaking out. He's like, wait a minute, let me take it outside. And he goes, don't know, man, that's that's that one. I'm sorry, that's not a bedbun.

What was it? It was a, like a, it was a, what's good. And I felt a little crazy that I, because I have these three little bites and then the little blood from the, and I'm busy, it could have been there for three days, I didn't notice it and I freaked out. So then I said he goes, well you just gotta be careful, you know where you sleep

and who you sleep with and who you sleep with. So then he thinks I'm a prostitute. I'm like, no, no, I'm a sex, like, I'm a doctor of sex. I don't sleep around. Good news, no bedbugs, but bad news, you probably have HPV. He's just be careful who you sleep with and who you bring around like he's giving me. Wait, the term in ex-guy's saying he goes,

well, you got to know who's sleeping over. You're a Mexican accent, it's got awful. We can just tell you that, okay? You sound like an Indian person or something. But yeah, that's bad times, Emma. It's like the exterminator. It's not my day to start it. The exterminator. He's lecturing me, like any bed bugs's bad times. I'm like the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the,

the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, So I found a new 7-11. But didn't you quit? Yeah, there's a few months ago. Oh, right, of course. But if the term next guy is giving you a sex advice, that's bad time. It's because I'm so nervous. The 7-11 guy is giving me a sex toys.

And he gets a pay, and then he's like, well, you gotta be, no, he's got no bucks. He's so, no, but the, the, the, the, the toys. Well, I would love when he said I'm opening drawers. Did you, did you pay him in, in Dildos? I paid him like $50. I got, it was fine. But that was a weird way that my day started. Yeah, the weird way. And it seems, it seems sort of out of character for me,

because I'm not a hyper-conductor. I've never, and I don't like time. You do over things. You do over things. No, but I'd not about like things that, I worry about things that most people don't worry about. Like I don't worry about the normal things. So that's my day started, which was a good time.

And yeah, but I'm good, no bed bugs. And I'd also, so. If I hugged you, so I'm glad you have no bed bugs. I know, if it's not one of that, that'd be terrible. You brought me food too. I know, that was a lot for that. You're welcome. But I'm glad there's no bed bugs in the whole food.

I just discovered this California chicken cafe, which I'm always starving. I have a hard time, people are like, DO8, yes I eat. I love food. I'm working on getting the food into the mouth. I'm trying to work in finding places to have food. Come to find out two and a half years I've lived in my place,

a block away. The California. I knew it. I thought it was just chicken. California kitchen, California chicken cafe. It's fresh, it's delicious. So here's the deal. I was doing an after disaster on one of my other shows, right?

I was doing a podcast over at the world famous improv, Hollywood improv, where you did your 10 year anniversary show, right? About an hour ago, I was doing it with my my co-host, my coronal and as well as Tyler White in there and you were sending me texts and it was interrupting the show, right? Then I'm like, sorry guys, hold on, I got to check it in. I'm like Emily's texting me and and then Karano go and I said she's getting me some kind of chicken salad and then Karano my co-host goes, is it California chicken capping? I'm like, yeah, how do you know? He's like, I'm places the best in these days and then Karan, my Karan, on my coast. It's a California chicken capping. And I'm like, yeah, how do you know?

He's like, how place is the best? And then the show became about this guy damn place for about five minutes before I finally got him off of it. I just discovered it. He's like, you gotta get the cold spots the best. The Chinese cold spots. Why do you get so many?

Okay, because it was in a rough, the show. Well, here's the point, is that you know. Now it's continuing in a rough, the show. Okay, but here's the point is that I was so mad at myself because now I'm happy that this all comes out to me. My mom always says to me, open your eyes, pay attention that this has been right there. It has all the food I like and it's been there for two years. So now I'm very excited about it.

I'm happy to share that. I love that. I love when you find out about something new and being it right around the corner. I can spit them out. I can spit them out. Don't do that. Okay. So enough about my day.

You're bed bugs. I'm changing a lot though. I'm getting food in the stomach, taking care of my health. You weren't doing that for a while. You know what? Methads don't put food in their stomach. You know, no No, no, it's it I don't it's less minute but now I'm realizing the point of my chicken cafe story was that my mother Has always had to be open your eyes. You don't pay attention because I am very focused on I told the story. It's been a while and but I told the story I went to visit you your role She has a very concerned look on her face right now. Okay. what's that? Don't be so concerned. It's a good story. It's actually not a great story But you had a beautiful little office on Hollywood Boulevard. Yeah, right?

Almost like right on Hollywood in Ireland, which is one of the most famous intersections in the world There's a cool location. I went to visit you there. You're still there, but not as way up by And I went up and I said a lot of the girls was saying hi to you and you know they're dildos everywhere and vibrating toys And it was a fun time people were walking by kind of like looking in it was a scene and I look at your window And you have this beautiful view of like the back of a hotel and the pool and you could see people like like tourists Lounging by the pool like you know living their dreams out and I'm like oh my god That's so cool. You can look at that right there and you're like what what pool what are you talking about? I'm like the giant my god, that's so cool. You can look at that right there. And you're like, what, what pool? What are you talking about? I'm like the giant thing right outside your window.

You're like, I've never seen that before. I've never looked out the window. I've never looked out this window before. No, but not like that. And it was a giant window. I know. It was like the whole thing was the window. That was the big thing was the view.

And not only that, a friend had been there when I first looked at it and said, did you see that you can see the Hollywood sign? And the Hollywood sign, right there. There's a whole scene right at your window. I'm sure that's, but. It's like the view. 50% of what you're paying was for that window.

Never luck. And you never even look. Because there was a computer in front of you instead. So I'm seeing as I open my eyes and I know more things. My whole life I was open your eyes up there. So now Kalev, it kind of pissed me off but now I wanted to share it with you tonight.

I can't wait to have it. So my eyes are more open. I'm gonna be polite though and wait till the show's over to eat it. Yeah, me too. I'm starving. Okay, that is funny. Yeah, I forgot you pointed out the pool. I got to open my eyes.'s over to eat it. Yeah, me too. I'm starving. Okay, that is funny. Yeah, I forgot you pointed out the pool.

I got to open my eyes. I got to pay attention. So which I'm doing, but let's talk about. You got any sex in the news? Yeah, thanks for asking. That's really good. Anderson. Did you know that one in four people admit to having sex at the gym?

Wait, at the gym? At the gym. Which is admit to having sex. Walter at the gym. Okay. Yeah. Of is, We're just gonna admit to having sex while they're at the gym. Yeah, of course you hear about people having in the sauna, like in the gay and men's bathroom and women, but this is the thing.

They apparently that 2000 adult surveyed, 25% have been successful on their mission of having sex in the gym, 10% carry condoms with sex specifically in mind, and of those victorious in their efforts, 47% were women. And also, near the cross-trainers, 45% of women said this was the best machine for putting the moves on men due to how it makes their butts look.

What? Guys prefer the lat pull down. Like women, women are showing their lats. The dudes don't like lats. They do. I get compliments on my lats all the time, but maybe because they don't want to know what else to compliment. When is the last time someone came up to you and said, hey, nice to have you.

You know, they usually say like nice, they say nice triceps. Those are very different from lats. But my back lats are here, I get it, but people are like, you have nice back. I have muscles. I gotta do pushups and stuff. Is this while they're? No one says lats specifically, but they mean that area.

Okay. So what I don't understand specifically, but they mean that area. Okay. So what I don't understand is, where are they having sex? So over 80% of people who have had gym sex use an app to do so. So maybe they were like, I'm with a gym, you're with a gym like on Tinder. Wait, there's an app? There must be a gym app, but who knows?

49% of them were straight, 31% gay, the rest bisexual. But like, I don't know where they're, I mean, it says the sauna not necessarily in the sauna or the steam room, but where are they having sex? Yeah, I get it because I go to the gym all the time. I've been going to the gym. I've never seen now, granted, I don't notice things, but I've been to like 12 different gyms in my life. At least, I've been members at 12 different gym. I've been a member to gyms. And I, I can't imagine any of them where I like squash ball court know, but there's giant glass. I mean, they don't know. Where do you

do it? Well, the gym people work in there. I know he's the sheriff's people like they probably wouldn't really care if you like went into like the empty like exercise room to have sex. But you know what they're having sex because you want to never go to the gym again because it's already has so many germs. Yeah. And now there's good. I have to worry about like semen on my stairmaster, on the cross-strainer, stairmasters. What's the cross-strainers out of the Nordic? Oh, it's called the elliptical.

Elliptical, the one where it spins around, like that. But, um, I don't know. And I'm always weirded out by people hitting on me at the gym too when that used to happen, but I don't like to gym now. Hey, baby. But, first thing, if you're a gym person and you see someone, you have a lot of comments

on me every time. And also, it did. What if they can't see anything nice, say that I have nice laughs. Nice laughs. But I find that strange too because I feel like I've logged my hours of the gym, never seen anyone. But it's okay. So you're complaining for not getting hit on?

I'm curious. No, I get hit on the gym, but no one said like, and I've got condoms in my gym bag. Oh, no one's ever had to pay me. No one's ever had to pay me. No one's ever had to pay me. No one's been like, let's have sex. No one's like, let's go take a spin if you know what I mean.

Yeah, no. Okay. Okay, silly, but here's another one that's more important. Ready? Well, it could be more important than banging on this? You know what I mean? This might be inspirational for people. Does do with your health.

Couples who use contraception, contraception, are three times more likely to have sex, any kind of contraception. And it's probably because John Hopkins did the search research and they said, You're smart, dude. You've got it smart. And it's open to one of the top schools in the county.

He said it separates sexual pleasure from the responsibility to pregnancy. So, researchers conducted the study, analyzed data, filled up by 210,000 active, sexually active women, and they said that women between the ages of 20 and 29, those who are more educated, those who want to have children in the next two years were more likely to have sex in the previous four weeks.

So women want to have better, healthier, safer sex by separating sex from pregnancy and child bearing. Contrassoption has that, knowing how often women have sex and what role contraception plays can give us a better understanding of how our meeting or family planning goals of improving access. The point is, if you know that you're, okay, right.

If you use contraception, you're more likely to be more confident that you're not worrying about getting pregnant like you're on it, like you're a person who's responsible, you're concerned about your sexual health, and then you're more likely to have sex as well. Because- You're responsible.

If you're using a condom, chances are you don't know the person that well. And new sex is always the best sex, and you have more sex when it's new. She's the easier man to a little easier something. Well, I'm just saying that the chances are the people that are wearing the condoms are having sex with people that don't know that well

or new partners and you do have sex with new partners more often than you do with somebody been with her a lot of that that's a factor you know i mean it says couples though we use contraception which i probably didn't really get to that part because it's just to study to find truck it in you know i mean anyone who bangs might be a couple and she explained that women of many reasons for not using the method above women also reported because they were having in many reasons for not using the method above. Women also reported because they were having infrequent women reported not using contraceptive because they're having infrequent sex.

I don't know. The point is, I don't fucking know. The point is, take, this is a annoying article and I wish that I read that. The annoying thing is that it led with couples. The best part is that it is true that if you're responsible, it's like people use sunscreen or less likely to probably have sun get skin cancer. No, it's like people who wear sunscreen are more apt to be

at the beach. They go to the beach, but they also probably just help for your responsible people. I may just think you don't care like this woman. Okay. You see that bucket next to you? No. The condoms?

Yeah, that's been there forever. They're probably expired. No, no, do you see like it was full. I mean, it's a big, it's probably, it probably holds about a gallon, maybe two gallons of condoms. And it was full? I mean, it's a big, it's probably, it probably holds about a gallon, maybe two gallons of condoms, and it was full to the brim when I got set down there about six months ago.

You can see it's about one eight to the way. I love that. Full. I'm glad that people are taking a lot of things. Should be more kind of. Who more is it though? This is our studio. Oh, let's do a poll.

Let's figure it out. And no one in this room who works in here is taking those numbers. No, I'm not saying it. Somebody's, some little sex theme is coming in here when we're in, when love line, or you and I are in here, and they're taking it. No, not today. Somebody's, some little sex scene is coming in here when, when, when love line or you and I are in here and they're taking care of it. I think we should start an experiment or something.

I kind of want to put like a shrimp camera. Let's do it. A little camera, a shrimp. You would do that. Set a camera up. I love it. Okay. I'm going to tell you this about condoms.

I love skin condoms as you know, they're my favorite. That's okay. Why not? Do I always say that? Well, you got to. Well, because it's way I am. Do I always say that? We got to. Well, because it's hard to understand, you went out and had to spell it. Okay, I want to take quick break here,

shout out to our sponsors before I move on or no. Are we good? Let's do that. No, maybe not. No, let's do it. Skin, right? Is that where you're going? No, not at all, but I didn't know what time I did.

Why don't you throw skin at me? Oh, because I was looking at those kind of, oh, I see, I got you. Okay, I love that people are taking condoms, but I know I'm just saying to you They're like the orange ones and like the probably expired like I just I worry about people taking rando condoms Rando And I'd rather have people just like come to my office and take condoms because I just don't I don't know There's some times that aren't great and that's why condoms get a really bad rap because people have bad experiences with condoms and they, or in their mind, they think it,

you know, they can't get hard, they can't stay hard, it's sexism is good. It's like themselves out. But I agree that there are condoms that don't for you. And they don't work for you. And you don't like, but there are condoms that will, so keep searching, it shouldn't be a reason not to use. Right.

What are you doing? You're eating? I mean, what are we doing? We're not eating on the program. Ha, ha, ha. Wait, what is that you're eating? It's orange. It's an orange squash puree.

This is chicken gavic. Okay, so here's the other story. The chicken gavic. My mom always says, she's always trying to guess. She was trying to get me to like, just pick up our art history chicken. Get some squash. You can steam squash. You know, easy to guess. She was trying to get me to like, just pick up a rotisserie chicken. Get some squash. You can steam squash.

You know, easy to do. You put in the microwave. They're really good for you, which I've never done. They have squash and chicken rotisserie, which is stuff I like and fresh salad. And it's, I'm just like, and right there, I was hungry. Yeah.

I like your mom. I love my mom too. And I'm just like, mom, guess what? They're squash. Next door. I can't imagine too, and I'm just like mom. Guess what? They're squash next door I can't imagine this ever I me ever having an opportunity to bring this up on any of your other shows Have you Adam Sandler? I grew up with I love an Adam Sandler on on Saturday Night Live, and I loved I mean Billy Madison Which has become a cult favorite of a lot of people? You know, I'm a movie guy and he used to come out with these comedy albums like every year Where they had like sketches on them and whatnot and he did voices and he had songs. That's where the Hanukkah song came from love the Hanukkah song and

The lunch lady song I don't know if you remember that one But one of his sketches and I think it might have been recurring him might have he might have done it on a few different albums And I'm sure a lot of your listeners have probably heard it But he did this like old Jewish grandmother who was very sexual and she would be like she'd be like talking to our kids like hey Johnny yeah what's your big girlfriend come over and take out your cocking balls and play with them oh mom come on that's gross stop it and it will go on like it sounds like way mother and it sounds like I could see yeah like so funny someone in the Emily Emily uh that's my mom family tree yeah she like maybe I can't haven't orgasm different

kind of smoking pot or anything. I wish I could all stone that was her only sex advice. She's not even a starter. She was like, you just tell you to smoke drugs. One time she was like in college when I not had an orgasm yet. I was a late bloomer like many of you. How many of your listeners do you think I have actually gone to their mom say, Hey mom, I can't do it. Well, I mom, we hadn't even talked about it. I just knew that I could talk to her about it. This is why I worry about so many people with sex education because my mom always said, talk to me if you have questions, but I was never like, hey mama, and I didn't know what

the question's words that I had. And it didn't occur to me ever to touch my vagina. And masturbate. And so when I started having intercourse, once I was in college and my friends were all talking about these crazy orgasms, I'm like, the Orga what? Like, you know how to do it? You know masturbate. I'm like, damn.

And then my mom was like, really? You're so stressed out, Emily. Just maybe you should like smoke a joint and chill out. I have one. But she doesn't even, that was her random advice. Sorry, I was looking for cock-a-go. My mom said, can't you make some squash? That was her random advice. Sorry, I was looking for cock and bull. Can't you make some squash?

Climb. Do you have any emails? I do, but first. But first cock and bull. Did you find it? You can eat a little food and then maybe play with your cock and bulls for a while. I'm just gonna eat, Mom. Alright, and then maybe a little lady, play with your cock and bulls for Mama. Alright, and then maybe a little later, play with your cock and boss, my mama. I don't- I don't- I can see something like that somewhere in the Emily family tree. I find it. That's really-

This is thing called Google, it's an app. Dude, I love Google. Okay, but before I get into the amazing killer emails from my listeners, can you- I want the Hanukkah song as my favorite, but it's like- We're not gonna get it anymore. End of January, early February now. Geez. Okay, but listen. Yeah, she pointed at me.

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What are you doing over there with your privates and those machines? Now it's like part of the culture. Oh exactly. Okay, one more thing is a flashlight That I talked about Yep, because you got to mix up your masturbation routine. You got to mix it up. It's the number one sex toy for men. And I was getting a frozen yogurt with Lori in my office other day. We were actually out shooting a flashlight video, which is friggin hilarious.

If you go to my Instagram at sex family, I'm telling you it is, and then we just post it on YouTube today. What's it? It's a love story. It's an iPhone love of the flashlight. Why would you fall in love with the flashlight? Just you got to watch the video. It's the funniest. Fuck it. It's really good.

So we're carrying around a flashlight open, right? It looks like a vagina with a thing, but a flashlight. And then we go into the, actually, after frozen now, we go into the mailing store to mail a letter. The frozen yogurt. Okay. So we're shooting a video with Laurie in my office. And the guy says, is that a flashlight? The guy we had in FedEx. I'm like, yes.

How do you know? He goes, I know, when I was a flashlight. I'm like, awesome. So we shoot this video. It's very funny, everyone, to check it out on my YouTube channel. But the flashlight, it is a male masturbation sleeve, can help you last longer in bed. It can just enhance your masturbation, buy it for your lover, buy it for yourself. They have the quick shot now. Your blow jobs and hand jobs will never be the same.

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What were they invented? They invented it for lonely astronauts. No, they didn't say this material would be great for male masturbation sleep for a penis. They've invented it for something else. And someone said, oh, that could be great to hold for a pillow in space, but it could also be great for your penis. Don't you think that an astronaut probably discovered that while out lonely in space? Yeah, we probably using like, oh, this is a great trait for my food. I could use great for your penis. Don't you think that an astronaut probably discovered that while out lonely and space? Yeah, we probably using like,

oh, this is a great trait for my food. I could also own this. Or I could use it as a big penis. People are brilliant. Especially when they're horny. Now I've got emails. Okay, everyone, thank you for emailing me feedback at sexwithm.le.com.

And you know I love hearing from you. And I love getting your emails. And I love that you're supporters. But here's the thing. I love answering them all. But if you're a lot of my answers before, I'm just going to break it down for you. If you Google on my website, you check out, you can search on my website, you know, lasting longer in bed, heart over threesome.

I've probably talked about it several times, maybe, you know, on a podcast or blog, so just check that out. And I'm also telling this because I want to incentivize you as well. If you, we're gonna be giving away some products in the next few months. We're giving away some magic wand, stuff like that. If you send me a really great, something sex question that's like, nothing to be so crazy over the top, but really get into something that may we haven't discussed, you might just win one of these toys, so try that out.

But I also just love hearing from you. Anyway, I'm not judging you. I'm just saying, like, let's think if I've maybe answered it. That'd be helpful. Also, great to include your name, how old do our way to live. You're sex. And you're sex. You're male, if you're... Because it's tough to tell sometimes, every week I say that. Yeah, it's like Sam. Yeah. Hi, Emily. I've been listening to your podcast for over a year now via iTunes, and it's helped me immensely. I'm 24, and my boyfriend is is 42 and he is self-diagnosis self with retroactive jealousy.

What? He's jealous because though I am much younger, I've had many more lovers than he has and as a result, he's constantly comparing himself to my past experience. That's classic, Raj. Classic. Classic, Raj. R-A-G. R-A-J. Retracted Raj. Classic. Classic, Raj. R-A-G. R-A-J.

Retracted. Jettelsey. Yeah. He constantly goes, bombard you with questions. Has me recall stuff I would rather not think about? How can I help assure him that I love him and I don't compare him to my past? Thanks, Jenis.

Okay, sounds like your boyfriend is soup first. Oh, let's get this interesting. The age difference. She's 24. He's 42. Yikes. Boyfriend sounds really insecure. The age difference, she's 24, he's 42. Yeah, he's. Boyfriend sounds really insecure. And he's actually kind of being a masochist here, I'd say. He's torturing himself with your past experiences

as a way to keep his self worth lower and to keep you feeling guilty. The term retroactive jealousy, which he like pulled out of his ass, he's actually referring to retrospective jealousy. Oh, look at that. He doesn't even know shit. Or retrograde jealousy. I mean, he's not that off. I'm kidding. Oh, look at that. He doesn't even know shit. Or retrograde jealousy.

I mean, he's not that often kidding. I'm not slamming your guy here and we're trying to help. I actually am not usually that negative. So as we talked about a few weeks ago, then I'm nice. You're very positive. You see the positive of an evil. Yes, but you're referring to his constant, often obsessive, painful thoughts and the curiosity regarding a partner's past relationships and or sexual history is this retro retrospective jealousy.

That makes my question. And they're notorious for asking the part of too many questions and then they replay it in their head. The same Jell's thoughts. It's like a mental movie in their mind over and over and over again. Overthinking the condition rather than taking necessary steps. What are the necessary steps? They cannot put the jealousy behind him. So this isn't looking for me. It's not looking good for me because he's probably had these issues for a while.

This is how he does relationships. So no amount of reassurance of how loyal you are and how great you are is going to put this to rest for him. I deserve a feeling he's not sitting and talking to me and face to face that this has been going on. He needs some intensive therapy. And even then his issues might not be solved right away because I'm sure that this is, think about it. Like tell me again, tell me again,

oh, and then I can't make her feel bad. Right, it's like a bad tooth that he keeps good muscle. I can't tell you. I was cuckolding too in a way when men want it. There's something to it. And I have a lot of experience with this. I was a cuckled in two and away with men and what there's something to and and I have a lot of experience with this. I hate to use this. Yeah. And it's it's from my own personal experience. I'm like, you have jealousy. Not the guy. It's not the guy.

It's the relationship for the most part because I've had this with some girls. Absolutely. And other girls, not at all. And it depends on the relationship. And now that I'm older and I can look back on those relationships where I did rear its ugly head, because it is awful. I mean, I would obsess. And a lot of the time it had to do with drugs, I was on St. Mule and Sonal and not,

which made it much worse. Math? Math and cocaine made it much, much worse. I would like really, really focus in on things. You'd hear one thing. Like, let's say I was jealous. Give me an example. Okay, like a girl, a slump of the guy named Mark, and I was okay like a girl a slap of the guy named Mark

And I was obsessing about Mark and I hated the idea I would just imagine him like getting the toucher and seeing her in a certain way And it was always like she was a victim and like it would get to the point where like I would see And you don't realize it but Mark is everywhere like Mark for yeah, and I would see the name and I would be and then it would just Propel me on to that thought where I couldn't get out of that thought and I would see the name and then it would just propel me onto that thought where I couldn't get out of that thought and I would be thinking about it and I would beg for details. I would need to know more, torture myself,

torture this poor girl. And it was really looking back on it, all those relationships that happened in probably about three or four, I hate to admit it. Three or four relationships, I got that bad with these girls. I was also rescuing them from something because they were victims and I was almost like

the dad or the big brother and they were my girlfriend as well, which wasn't a good match. Well, were you resenting them because you were rescuing them? I got so bad at some point, Sam, that I was actually jealous of myself. I would go back, this one girl I was with her for two years and maybe longer. And I remember going back thinking that when she first met me,

she slept with me too soon and what was she doing? Why would she do that? She's better than that and I may be longer. And I remember going back thinking that when she first met me, like she slept with me too soon, and what was she doing? Why would she do that? She's better than that. And I was like jealous of myself. It was insanity. But then I was so hard on you. I was in a hard relationship too.

And other good relationships where like they did have, I don't wanna say that they had a dad, but they came from, they had therapy or they're more secure with themselves. They didn't victimize themselves or put themselves out there to be victimized. I didn't feel like I had to have to have therapy. Or they're more secure with themselves. They didn't victimize themselves or put themselves out. They're to be victimized. I didn't feel like I had to protect them. And I was healthy, healthy in those relationships.

So, okay, let me understand this. So it was like the wounded bird thing. Yeah. And then you felt there was more of a protective thing than a jealous thing, or were they kind of the kind of women who wanted you to be jealous? They're like, oh, this is one time bar. I wasn't a couple of those, but those were the worst.

Okay, so really this was about you think. It was all me. It was all me. It wasn't like there. In high school, I was with the girls that wanted me to be jealous. And they'd like to see me get in fights for their honor. It made them feel special. No, I'm not talking about that.

I'm talking about like, I was trying, looking back, it's quite clear that I was trying to protect these girls. And they had a lot of them more like, they had been sexually victimized before. I came to the rescue that I was trying to protect these girls and they had a lot of them more like they had been sexually victimized before I came to the rescue Now like your wife can just be like hey Mark or you know this guy Can't make me tell you I'm so scared with her. I also think it's maturity And picking the right people you're right certain people do trigger jealousy, but this guy's my age Yeah, so he needs to anything and he's with a really young girl and I'm wondering if maybe they're right. We some parallels here.

I think there's also. When I was doing it looking back on it, it's clear as day now that the relationship wasn't right. And I was trying to sabotage it from within as well. So perhaps he realizes that he's got some kind of guilt because the age difference he knows that it's not going to last long term. And he's trying to implode it. Yeah, might be, might be.

And he just has some kind of condition where he just can't want to torture himself in some way. But yeah, there's a lot of reasons why we, we choose our thoughts. Yeah. We choose our lives because our thoughts become a reality. They can't.

They can't. They can't. They can't. They can't. They can't. They can't. They can't. They can't.

They can't. They can't learn too. Yeah. Well, it's a lifelong process to learn van in traffic, I couldn't control my thoughts. I was just thinking about Mark. What if you just sat like Park here? Would you be like, that's good. No, if it didn't have to ride. So anyway, Jill, I think you're, Jenell, I think that you're young. Jeness, you're young.

You can have a lot of experiences. You don't need this kind of negativity early in your dating life, okay? How to get a wife to self love? Dear Emily, Dr. Emily, well thank you very much. I love getting some respect around here. Whatever. I mean seriously, he respects him more than like the terminator

who came over. The terminator, oh you're talking about the extermination. You started giving me sex, he started telling me like I should change my ways. You just said, go ahead and say, get out, I'm a sex doctor. I said, I'm like I'm a doctor. I'm like, I'm a doctor. Dearly, how do I approach the subject of self pleasure,

AKA masturbating to my wife? She's never in her life gone solo to which I believe her. She's come out of her shy shell being with me and has eased into trying new things in the bedroom, except taking matters into her own hand, LOL. I really believe that it would make our sex lay even better with her discovering new heights within her body. Thank you in advance for your time. taking matters into her own hand. LOL. I really believe that would make our sex light even better with her discovering new heights within her body.

Thank you in advance for your advice, Tim. He wants a wife to self pleasure, as we a lot of men do. I mean, women, we hear this a lot from men that like I don't understand why my partner doesn't masturbate because we also know that that would give her pleasure and it might help her have more orgasms when she's with him.

But there could be a lot of things going on here Tim that could be blocking her desire to touch herself. She could have shame associated with masturbation, religious beliefs, like overall disinterest like a know-how. And you've mentioned that she's been coming out of her shell so it could just be a slow process she needs to work up to. But pressuring her, believe me, is not the way that it's going to happen. And I'm curious why you want it so badly.

Is she not orgasming during sex? Does she not know what she likes? So a great thing, if you discussed beforehand, my favorite, mutual masturbation. You show her how you like to touch yourself. She can observe and help her get more familiar. She must know, you know to touch yourself, she can observe, and how we're getting more familiar. She must know, you know, you could even just play a game like does this. Feel good. Does that feel good? Get some Lou, get some candles, you know, and help her get into her body. You know, just whip it out and like force the, the mutual

masturbation. But let her come around her own time, her own time, but no woman wants to be pressured because masturbation is a very, also a very personal thing. So I'm wondering what, why she tells you she doesn't want to. So who knows, it could be something happened in childhood. My only thing is also that this reminds me of a message announcement I have people. We're gonna start Anderson.

We're gonna start having an announcement on our website in a few days. We're gonna have start having an ebony announcement on our website. In a few days, we're going to have a phone number or it's going to be an app. I'm not sure that you can call in and leave your questions on the voice mail. And then we're going to play them on the show. Not only that, we're also going to have an option where you can write your question to feedback at sex with Emily. And you can let us know if you'd like to be considered as someone to call so we can just get more details from people.

I'd like to take an email to a new lab. Yeah, let us know if you'd like it because we can call you in the lab because I want to know, like, because people always say she never has. Well, like I have questions, you know, but typically, I like it. And we can target the calls so we're not gonna get any

does. Like exactly. Like quality calls. I know quality. Quality. But yeah, I mean a lot, but don't you feel like even on love line, we hear from people who are like, I've never asked right? I didn't until I knew.

Tell your mom told you smoke some weed. Which I never did until later. Go to town, like yourself. She was right though, kind of, so it's fun. Take out your quacking balls. Take out your quacking balls. There it is. I know, I got the Michigan accent going.

I need to go see my mom and my mister. She's, Emily, you know, I'm not going to be around forever. You better call me more. I know, but that's so not like her is a thing. She's not the typical Jewish mother, sister, which she's like, you know, you should call so guilty. But then yesterday she called as the middle of the meeting. I'm like, mom, you missed the window

because I called her 10 minutes earlier. I was like, I only had 10 minutes, but I'll call her later. Hi, Emily, another email. New email. You want to talk about masturbation more? Smooth transition. I enjoy talking about your mom and masturbation, but let's move on to the next thing email.

I think super linear. I like it. It's not like you. Let's do it. Okay. Forward. Hi, Emily. I've been with my current partner for eight months and I've still never orgasmed through intercourse

That's a chick. I've before yep only by myself. I've never ever with other guys either even being in long-term relationships I've tried everything even doing it alone and it seems that it cannot be done vaginally even when stimulating on top Do you think she's tried double penetration? She said everything. She's a liar. You don't start with the double. She said she tried everything. I feel like I want to be honest with them, but I feel like it will break him

if I tell him I've been faking it. I just don't want to disappoint him, but it's only fair for me and him. How do I approach this easily? I'm nervous. Love your show. Alex and Melbourne, Australia. Alex Melbourne, Australia, if I'm Melbourne, I would have show. Alex in Melbourne, Australia. Alex Melbourne, Australia, if I'm not right,

says Alex Melbourne, hyphen, Australia, Perenz, Australia, on iTunes. Okay. All right. Here's the point, Alex. This is sticky. Fake fake. No, I always say don't ever fake orgasms because you're certainly not,

you've done service yourself or the part that you're with. And you want to have a feeling of fulfilling sex life and you like this guy. So you want to be honest. However, I don't think that you need to come out right away and say guess what honey. I've been faking it the whole time. What if she just stops faking it? Sometimes little omissions are, you know, okay, in a relationship. But and then just never has one again. Yeah, she's like, I used to and now I'm not. Let's work on this. Well, what would you, how would you want it to be handled with you? Because

I have some ideas here. But what let's say you've been with the woman for how long they've been together. Eight months. And she's like, ah, ah, Anderson, ah, and then I'm giving you a point. You say, ah, please talk it, oh, my God, my toes. And then like eight months, I just think, my toes. Guess what? Yeah. I've never actually faked everyone.

I feel betrayed. I feel like I don't, I'd look at her and I'd be like, it's like, I don't even know you, man. Would you break up with her? No. It depends on how hot she was, you know. But every guy friggin' ends every sentence with a depends on how she was when you're talking about it. Hey months, that's still new, that's still strange.

Right. I would watch the sign fall episode with him. And then be like, so what do you think? Which one? The one where Elaine admits that every orgasm she had with Jerry was fake. That's a great one. Yeah.

I'd be like, see? Could he bring his celebrity? Because he was saying, right, because every guy says, no, every woman's orgasm with me. And you're like see, can you bring us the levity? Because they were saying, right, because every guy says, no, every woman's orgasm with me. And you're like, guess what dude, that's not true. And Jerry's like, what about the panting and the breathing and the moaning, and she's like, fake, fake, fake, fake. Yeah, can you find that?

Can you find that? Okay, so here's the thing. This is what I recommend to you, Alex, is that you can tell him, like, first of all, you want to start the conversation in a neutral area. His pride's available, his pride is involved, little emissions are fine, but don't have this in the bedroom. You can tell him, hey, listen, babe, I want to be honest with you.

It's really hard for me to reach orgasm from sex alone. And sometimes I feel like I almost get there, but I can't quite get over the edge. And everything feels amazing. You're so great at, you know, oral kissing, you know, give them some, let them know what you really love about them. And it's not that I have an enjoyed sex with you. I just think we could try something different, you know, that there's some moves I think that we could try that might really get me there. And so that's where you need to start.

And also, mutual masturbation again, great. You say that you, luckily you've had orgasms on your... And she knows how to do it to herself too. Yeah, here's the thing, so why not use your fingers? For sure. Just be like, because maybe a thing, some women don't wanna rub themselves. And sometimes opinions can be distracting that bit.

Well here, yeah. The penis is distracting, and most women don't orgasm in our course alone. 30% do. So honey, you're fine. It's just a matter of like, you know, just saying, you know what, sometimes if I got almost got there,

but this would give me killer orgasms. Let's try this. And like, bringing your vibrator, bringing your hands, bringing your lube, whatever it is that get you there. But a great thing too is mutual masturbation. It's kind of like a sexy show and tell. Like candles, you watch each other. And once he learns and he's watching and he knows that they get you there yourself, he can learn how to please you manually, because most women require more collateral stimulation. Let's just be honest.

If he's a good learner, yes. Yeah. I mean, some guys are not the reason. The painting, the mo no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I stood in line a couple months ago. Oh my God, you went to that. For five hours to go see the pop up Jerry's apartment. They rebuild the house. Yes, it was a Hulu ad essentially on Melrose here in Hollywood. And it was worth the five hours. Start a pouring rain. It was right in my house. And we stood in the house.

How are those people in line in the rain? It was me. It was amazing. They recreated the same exact house. Yeah, it was the exact apartment. It was like standing in his apartment. We literally were standing in his apartment. It was weird.

It was fantastic. There's like Versace, but it was like sign felt house. I was like standing in his apartment. We literally were standing in his apartment. It was weird, it was fantastic. I mean, there's like Versace, but it was like sign felt house. I'm all right. That's cool. Okay, well thank you Anderson. What's going on with Cinematics, your new podcast of space?

Cinematics this week. Last week, I know we did, we haven't recorded this week yet. Last week we did the new Disney movie, The Finest Hours with Christopher Pine, which actually know what wasn't that bad considering this time of year. Basel and True Story was actually packed and it was about an oil tanker that gets sliced

in half by a big storm. We also covered all of the Oscar shorts, pretty much all of the Oscar shorts, some of which were great. One of the Oscar shorts, Emily, made me cry. One of them made me immediately watch with my wife again the next day. That's animated and it's available on Netflix and I'll let you know where you can find that and how you should watch it on Netflix the Oscar shorts I don't get much love but they're actually don't but they're amazing. They're playing in a few theaters around the country I've always loved the shorts. It's good service during there. Okay, so yeah

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