Sex With Emily - Let's Talk About SEXTS, Baby

Episode Date: February 17, 2016

On this show, Emily and Anderson are doling out tips to increase your chances of finding success in sex and love post-Valentine’s day, starting with your digital flirting skills! It’s no mystery that texting has become an integral part of today’s communication landscape, so when it comes to winning someone’s affections, a well-worded sext can be seen as the modern day love letter. To make sure you’re saying all the right things, Emily gives her 5 top tips to guide your sextual encounters, including timing, context and the golden rule of selfies. She also answers an email about how to boost your partner’s confidence in the bedroom! This show has everything you need to set your sexting game straight and learn some interesting dating stats along the way. Don’t miss it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey everyone, thanks for listening to Sex with Emily Valentine's Day. It's coming on, which has got a lot of us thinking, now what? Well, in today's show, I'm giving you tips to help you step up your sex and dating game, including tips for setting the perfect sex, helping a partner open up in the bedroom and so much more. Thanks for listening. Okay, people, the genius design team at Wevibe has done it again. The brand new Nova by Wevibe is quite simply a dual stimulation superstar and that it

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Our cool things are I think we are actually launching our new website this weekend. Anderson, hi Anderson. What up, him. I've been talking about this new website thing for a few months now, but you know websites, they take a while. But we've been having some issues with the old one finally. It's just dead and our new one is going to be so awesome

because I've got 10 years of material on there and sometimes it's hard to find. So now it's going to be all souped up. You can still sign up for the mailing list, check out all of our blogs. We update it every day, videos, all that good stuff. And also, um, check out our YouTube channel. And now I'm on Snapchat, because you just, the kids got to do Snapchat. I'm into it. I just started it. I'm so, that's the one that's definitely on everything. It disappears, right? It disappears. I know we are,

like, right? Everyone, you just been around for years When I first heard about it, I'm like, oh great. So it's for like kids to like send pictures of the vaginas and then they just go away Right, but now it's the thing like I've heard everyone's migrated from like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram Everything is snapchat, but it goes away It does go away But you have these stories so you have a like a daily story that you can tell So it's like you just start snapping through all the day. Like here's my lunch. Here's like yesterday we were shooting videos.

Most of the stuff should be thrown away. Exactly. And it shouldn't be put out there to be good. I don't understand. I guess I just feel like I'm trying it out like Periscope and all that stuff, which I'm all at sex. That may be your digging any of these things. Twitter and so on.

Whatever. Who's not digging. But the thing is we're digging. But the thing about Sanford is, yeah, it does go away. It's still a little bit confusing to me. I'm trying to figure it out because I guess people, it feels much more intimate, you know, because it's like people can really see, like,

I'm in my house, I'm in, we were shooting videos. You can do that on Instagram. You can do that on Twitter. Yeah, but Instagram's so much more, I'll show you after. But I don't, it's like, you know what I'm thinking? Like during love, like right now, I'm glad you asked.

You can do this with Instagram. No, no, no, no, no. This is, I'm Snapchatting you right now, okay? Okay. Alright. So, I'm going to Snapchat. Hi, I, uh, well, fuck, I feel like I'm about to sell. No way.

Okay. I'm going to take a video. You cast first. Okay, sorry. Well done. Okay. This, uh, this is me recording my shot with Anderson, Snapchat, it. I understand. It's that chat of teaching a bit. I just flash. Okay, fun. Hi. Uh-huh. Okay. So that's done. And then I post that seven minute thing on set seven minutes. Seven seconds. That was a quick seven.

And then you could do pictures, you could do whatever, and then people look at your story that last 24 hours. So like this morning I did me sitting with Madison, which I really didn't, but I could have. She was at my house. And then I'll do walking standing. Why is this different than I don't know. I'm still figuring it out. But it's fine. It's Instagram. It's it's easier.

Twitter, if you add a picture to your comment, it's the same. It's just kids for whatever reason. Like this is the hit place to be right now. Right. And I don't know. And it was invented obviously for sex, too. I would think. Well, it was. it was invented for sex

Maybe 24 hours for the new kid to figure out how to capture those those vaginas and nipples that were being snatched at it And then they keep them and they can put those wherever they want because there's always a way to capture it Even if it does go away after I'm just including this my story hold on I'm just doing it posting now. I'm less totally good Good I'm supposed to be my story. Hold on. I'm just doing it posting now. I'm less totally good. Do I look good? Do I look good? Yeah, totally. I posted it. Yeah. I mean, what happens? So it's kind of like it's, you don't have to think about it as much. It's really easy just to be like, you know, here like last night I did like six of them because we were shooting videos all day at the house.

It was like behind the scenes shooting our videos and then I was out my friend Nikki at at Canter's Deli. And like, here's my multiple soup. And it was like throughout the day and it's your story. And you can, you can, You could have done that on Instagram. Well, but that's no one wants you to post eight times a day on Instagram. Hey, if I'm following a Snapchat same thing, I don't want you to post nine times.

No, but then people looked at like 5,000 people looked at my stuff yesterday. You know what it's doing? It's just gearing us more towards a throwaway society that we already are in a day. I know, it's a threat. I think we should give away our phones and throw them away. For movies and like all the television,

like TV back in the olden days, they want to record it. Like it would air, it would go out on the television and it wouldn't have been getting backed up anywhere. That was the original Snapchat. Yeah, it's true. You're right, everyone back to the old time, you're right. But I think it was initially I thought about like,

oh, now you can sex your partner or like something they can photos. Yeah, and then it goes away. But you can still do screenshots. But then I guess it people... You can do beyond that. The nerds figured it out of way. I mean, they're certainly...

They get hacked Snapchat. Yeah, there's websites to vote it. They get hacked by fun. To Snapchets. Really that are supposed to be so secret? Yeah, it's entire... Dude, I'm just having fun. Forks.

This is another way to be attached to my phone forever. You done it? You done what? Have your nips slipped up on the old No, I hope not. I just posted that I barely double chucked it. That's the thing. I just sent it there. You watch Anderson I would be gone by time they get this so who knows But it's just like over sitting at love line. You're like oh what happens in those you only get 10 seconds or you can do a photo And you can't upload anything from your phone. Yeah, that's totally different from Instagram. Oh

Wait, no, it's not at all. Okay, I'll show you after. Whatever, you don't care. But listen, it's a good time. And I'm sitting here, I just want to tell one that I have a new man in my life. She does, it's true. And it's, I don't know, I just feel like a different woman right now.

Like I can't believe how he makes me feel. She's got my dog. Bogdog in the lap. Hi Stanley, and I have him. You're gonna see a lot of, okay, if you do follow me Instagram and Snapchat, you'll be able to see a lot of pictures of us. I can put some on Instagram so they don't go away. So I Hi Stanley, and I have him. You're gonna see a lot, okay, if you do follow me on Instagram and Snapchat, you'll be able to see a lot of pictures of us. Yeah, put some on Instagram so they don't go away.

So I can see them when I get back. No, really, you're not gonna go on Snapchat, I get it. I also get, you know what, Snapchat will kind of force you to be in the know and be on top of things. You can't just let it go for a few days because you'll miss out on stuff because it'll be gone. Right. So it's like, it's like life before Tivo.

Right. Like if you want to see something, you better watch your first run. Right. Kind of, but it's also behind the scenes, So it's kind of like a lot of stuff is like. But that's Instagram. That could be. No, it's not. It's like seven seconds of like like people probably wonder what happens just now. How do we record the show? You could do that on vine. Yeah, but it's much more producing tags and you got it like think if that's the thing on Instagram, you got a tag and you got a color corrected. Here I just did it and I posted it

and that's being loved like because I said all right. That's being doing sex with families with this show's color yeah. So like here's Anderson. I don't even know what it said. I just posted it because with you close out of it it goes away. It's just much more like if I close out I'm like it's here now instant gratification. So like here's what I'm doing. Here's me driving. I mean I don't know. I'm gonna get it. That's bad. It won't be my lunches. Although I did post a mott's ball last night. No one was like, canters. No, I was sitting having a matzabal soup. I was having a matzabal soup. It was fun with my friend.

I think it's so, I'm a Jewel. It was fun either because we were with my non Jewish friend. And she's like, I love matzabal soup. What's in it? We both look at each other. We're like, I don't know. I mean, it's matzab. It was good.

Canter's really so, um, okay. World famous canters. It is world famous. Do they say that? Very plan food considering how world famous that place is It took like 16 hours. They were really upset about the credit cards, but I just like 16 hours to pay her I still live across the street from kids. You did? Yeah, that's your me. It was my it was actually my right my go-to restaurant for about a year I wish you still live there. Yeah, we'd be best friends

So weird as neighborhood over there because it's nothing but his civic Jews and like hardcore thugs and a bunch of one of the actors What and tourists? That's okay. It's like a it's like a mile from my house. You mean that fair facts area, fair facts. Yeah, it's where I live right there. Right across the street from CBS. Ah, 70 years ago. Okay, I think so. But it was funny, because you'd see like hardcore crack addicts, like walking by like, a acidic juice, and they'd kind of make brief eye contact

and think we have nothing in common and then just keep showing them separate ways. Exactly. But do you think it's been cleaned up a little bit? Changed. Yeah, I remember the juice. They're all the juice. They're all the juice.

They're all the juice. They're all the juice. Except for the deli. Yeah, I know I was just like, and then he's just going to separate ways. Exactly. What do you think it's been cleaned up a little bit? Changed. That's a juice. They got rid of all the juices. They got rid of all the juice except for the deli. Yeah, I know I always feel bad, but the acidic juice sometimes try to convert me. Do they really? I didn't think they were big on that.

No, there's like, hey, well no. I think this one might've been hitting on me. I'm not sure what it was, but he was like last year he invited me to his satire at his house. It was like passive, I was like, what are you doing? It's a terrible pickup line. Come to my satire.

Wanna come to my breasts that I'm going to be performing? I love to come to a breasts. It's breasts, right? That breast, breast, breast, yeah. Well, they cut the penis. You know the real hardcore aesthetics actually suck the blood out? I'm not making jokes. They suck it?

It's dark subject matter and I'm kind of, we regret bringing it up now. But yeah. I regret it too. I'm sorry. But yeah, that's a true thing. Actually, except certain sex, uh, would they go way back that are heavily steep in tradition? Actually, the oil is, uh, to suck the blood. Are you sucking it out with the device? We put it. It's mouth. Then the reason why this came to light is because like a couple of years ago in New York, there was like newborn babies with herpes and they tracked it back to this

one. I remember this story. I blocked it. Thank you for bringing back. Sex in the news. The intersynced news. Ready? Well, do you want some real sex in the news? Yes.

Okay. If a woman texts LOL or HAHA, you're 39% more likely to have sex with her. Tee hee. So since 2016, the, since the 2016 edition of the Singles in America survey has been published, we've learned quite a bit. We've discovered some interesting information on how emojis can help your game as well as the dating habits of Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump supporters. Today, we find out the words that seem to be tell-tale signs that a girl is definitely

interested in you. Kind of say for a moment how weird it is that girl came back, like it used to be just like woman, woman, woman, you can't say girl. Like when I was in college, like it was so not easy. I think that might have been kind of isolated to Michigan things. That everybody came out here.

I call them ladies, I call them brads, I call them girls. But girls, I just, I don't know, I've started to go back to it, but people have to, if the women, the girls aren't pissed, then I'll call your girls. Okay, the survey of 5,500 singles on the, for the online dating site match, revealed that when someone used the words, LOL or ha ha and a message to a potential partner, it increases the chances of a second date by 255%.

Jesus. If the individual uses two words and increase the probability, they would have sex by 39%. Now, I wonder if a second date just means you're more likely to have sex. Yeah, I mean, it starts getting in our woven here. It's not a perfect science, but I have to. There is no perfect science to any of the studies, okay? So, or there's this too, maybe most people do that and most people have sex and most people do second dates because pretty much everyone does the LOL and I don't know how to.

I do ha ha. I hate you hate a ha. I hate LOL. Oh, I hate LOL. I hate it so much. I do hate it. I just like, I don't think guys do it. It's just bullshit. It's a lie. You did not just laugh aloud. No. Sometimes I do laugh out loud. But I'll just go, haha.

Like I do. Some people make me laugh out loud. What about the ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha Sometimes I'll go I seriously did just LOL to let them know that was real, right? But I won't just LOL rolling on the ground laughing my ass off. No, you're not. Right. You're not rolfing. No, you're not. Stop lying to me. Um, but here's something. Okay. On the opposite side, if a person uses the phrase on fleek, it decreases your chance of a second date by 26%. What is that? Right. Exactly. I had this discussion with Madison today. Just tell her that her eyebrows look nice please for your own sake.

So apparently, right, it's a thing. It's a term I never heard it on fleek. It means like on point, but it started by saying like your eyebrows are on fleek. But if you say it, I guess, you won't get late. But I've never heard it before. So I'm not gonna say it. These are valuable little nuggets. You're sending out to your single- I know, don't say on fleek. I've never heard it either. I just but I never heard of it before. So I'm not gonna say it. These are valuable little nuggatures

sending out to your single- I know, don't say, and fleek, I've never heard of either. I just thought I was out of it because I don't know a lot of things are cool. And it stands for what I'm sorry. Like you're on point. Like your brows are on fleek. I guess it started talking about eyebrows.

Yeah. Is this like the same like turn up, turn down? Are we talking about this stuff now? I am so old, I have no idea what's going on. Google it on fleek. I don't have time to Google now. Hey, I gotta stat to, if she writes, let's fuck 100%. 100% yeah.

100% means that you're right. That's even better. The study also discovered if a person did not whiner dye in their potential mate on the first date, they're chance to scoring a second date decreases by 107%. I would think so. Of course. Yeah.

It's like going to a baseball game and the players never come out. Exactly. You're sitting there. You just pick them up and you're like sitting in the car and looking at each other like, what do you do if you don't Yeah, yeah And the players never come out exactly You just pick them up and you're like sitting in the car and look at each other like what do you do if you don't want Park what are you drive through and be like you can get a soda? I don't understand you know What though if I let's say you and I were dating and I brought Stanley and I said hey our dates could be walking Stanley you be down But I love Stanley you're right, but that wouldn't be wine and dying that would just be a plan I mean, I don't know you're right, baby dog walking does account. It sucks if you're a young guy and you have no money What do you do you just spend all your money? It's be awesome. That's what you have to do

You have to really step your game up and and you are the entertainment no, but I did a lot of artists went to money I always had good jobs right I was much more like type A and focus my 20 you are now. Yeah, holy shit. I know and I don't feel it anymore. I feel so not Like that. I was like super I wore suits feel it anymore. I feel so not like that. I was like super, I wore suits. Unbearable. Did you have any friends or people around you? Yes, I did have friends.

Did they have all heat you? No, they liked me, but I was very like, it's funny. You know, we asked Dr. Drew before, like what's the most healthy addiction you can have? And he said exercise. If you had to, and I was like an exercise, I'd run marathons every day, I'd run 10 miles for work.

And it's funny because that I didn't drink, I didn't do anything, I just went, I was like, oh, lean, bony, and sweaty, and it's like, I gotta go. Yeah, we're sitting hall wearing suits, like I had a parking spot, so I was like, I was like, but you know what else though?

And I was dating artists who did, of course, and they would, but. But you're never a bitch. No. You know what, that type of person, you just describe bitch. You know what I mean? Because they expect everyone else to be up to their level,

but you don't have that vibe. No, I'm not bitching. My mom's that's made it to. She goes, you know what you're never, like, we've been trying to figure it out. Because like, you have all the attributes of people that we hate, but you don't have the bitch attribute. That usually, like, is the exclamation mark

on that personality. You're right. You don't have that. No, not at all. That's why we like you. So, yeah. I could do others, but I so am not judgmental. I'm not too nice. You're like a hippie type A person. You're an anomaly. I could do others, but I so I'm not judgmental. I'm not too nice.

You're like a hippie type A person. You're an anomaly. I am a hippie too. That's the thing is I'm a hippie. A little bit of a chill. I like incense and I go home. But you're not singtomonious. You don't tell people how to live the lives.

You give them advice. Yeah, I'm not gonna tell them how. Yeah, I'm done with one. I should, I you're right. I am not sweet. You're sweet, thank you. Here's another thing that's not really surprising, but drinking cocktails on a first day increases odds for a second date by a whopping 130% percent set the bill.

Cosby step. Booz makes everything better. And the most expensive dates were not in New York City or San Francisco, but in Austin, Texas, the average cost is $81 and 42 cents. I think they have the river walk down there, right? In Austin, no, that's um, Alabama. My aunt lives. No, it is Texas. It's the other city in Texas. Austin's the most expensive. No, but it's um, what's the one with the river walk? It's um, my aunt live, my brain. Is it somewhere in Dallas?

No, it's on Del. San Antonio. San Antonio. Thank you. Let's go see a spurs game and do the river walk. Totally. The least expensive place in the country is Portland, Oregon. $45 a day, but that still seems like a lot maybe I don't have guys taking me out Portland's cuz they're just like smoking weed transporting dead bodies yeah that's what they're doing there I want to go I'm gonna see Seattle see I've never been there no love see I've never been to Portland either I really I've been living Stanley dog care everywhere you ever see Portland India no great television program.

Okay. Got to see it before we go to Portland. I'm going to watch a lot of TV shows this week. I don't believe you. I was a little sad this week. I told you. We weren't going to bring it up. M's having bad times.

Actually, you said something quite insightful. I can't remember what it was. Oh, yeah, as we were preparing for the show and I went to go get myself a coffee, which I very rudely didn't ask you if you wanted to. I'm out of caffeine. I caught caffeine. You caught caffeine. Yes. You were saying you were. I'm out of caffeine. I caught caffeine. You caught caffeine. I put everything.

You were saying you were longing for the days of neuroses? Well, I was saying that I don't typically get sad, not like a depressive person. She's sad right now. I'm mostly am anxious. Am anxious. That's what I, and that's not even emotion. And mostly I identify with anxiety, not sadness,

but I've been feeling a little sad, and I was thinking, God, I just wish I could be anxious again. You've been to days. You said, whatever, how were you phrased, it was quite poetic and I liked it. You said you're longing for the anxiety, right? The days of anxious, yes. I wonder, I don't know.

Which, some's enough. I know exactly where, how you're feeling right now. But I wanted to, I gave a caffeine. I ended a relationship, which is cool, because it was like, on and off, but it's fine. But I just, I don't know, but. It doesn't like to admit to her feelings, but she's a little sad right now.

But I gotta tell you that it feels really good. And it's like, wow, it's like a whole new, not that I don't feel, I do feel. Like I was talking to my mom earlier, and I, I snapped it, or I called her back. I'm like, I was cried because I felt so bad. Like it's weird. You know what you should do, one day,

if you really can't, if you're miserable and you can't get off, write yourself an email, and then give yourself advice on the show. You're so right. That'd be sweet. I know, that's so true. But now I feel better because I have my little, Stanley here.

Stanley. The optimum amount of time for a first date is two and a half hours and gives the highest potential for a second date. If you're there for two and a half hours, you're lucky enough a second date. Over 70% of those in a date with a man prefer that he be clean shavin.

Blast for me. Why is that Blast? Okay. Now I must question legitimate legitimate. Whoever wrote this article obviously has a thick beard. Yeah. I don't care about that. Clean shavin.

No. No, you're not. You mean, well, I mean, I'm not a lady, but I can imagine that, you know, women would have preferences with the scratchiness, and especially if you're going to like the kind of lingus town and, you town and the scratching of the beard there. I think that some women just think it's kind of like clean, like it looks, but I don't know. I don't think it's about the kind of like this thing.

I think it's just like women are sort of in the thing cut. Like you have a really coarse beard, and there's like food in it. No, I'm gonna want that. But I'm a straight dude. So like the idea of kissing someone with a beard is a huge turn off.

But you don't have a beard, you do this scruffy. I don't know. That's just whatever. That's what match I, I actually do this survey every year and it's if you go to match or whatever they've pretty good stats. That was interesting. It's just, for sure. But now we're gonna, um, we're gonna talk about sexting.

Okay. Because sexting. I missed this boat, but I'm familiar with it. I know you did because you're married. But. Are you choking? No, Stanley, this is what happens when I get Stanley. Oh, I should have brought you the, I have the toms and a brush.

I know, I brought him a brush next time. Oh, you've no shed stuff, they make that. It doesn't really work though, it makes them smell funny, he smells like a hippie. I washed him last time in the sink. Oh, are you saying my dog carry? No, I just like, I like to wash him. But then I did buy him a brush, I have one at my house. Okay, good, because he shed like a mother.

I don't even care. Okay. Okay. So, but it's getting my nose. Yeah, I feel like you care right now. I feel like I cared because it's getting my nose. Right. So, sexing is a whole thing now, right? I mean, it used to be people used to email me like, how do I, and they still say how do I talk dirty, but it's more like it used to be how do I have phone sex.

Right. But no one's really having phone sex. I never understood that. No. No. Didn't do it for me. Didn't do it for you. But just like hearing your partner's voice, but the great thing about phone sex in it. I never understood that. No. No, I didn't do it for me. Didn't do it for you. But just like hearing your partner's voice, but the great thing about phone sex and the same thing about sexing is there are a few really good things about it,

but there are some roles and I just have five right now that I'd like to go through. All right. Because the truth is it can be a fun way to turn up the heat in your relationship as well as start up something new with a partner like someone knew that you're dating, like before you even get into the bedroom. It's kind of like a modern day love letter. Sexing, you're not with a partner, like someone knew that you're dating, like before you even get into the bedroom,

it's kind of like a modern day love letter. It's a sex thing. You're not setting a letter, but you're saying like it could be personalized in many form. Yeah, how far we've fallen, honey. I don't know. But really, it should leave you both aroused and primed

and ready to go. And the other great thing about it, like just like dirty, like phone sex, what people do is that, oftentimes it gives you the permission to talk about things that you want, but you can't really save, like, when you're face-to-face with your partner, but if you're sexing it, you could be like,

hey, I can't wait for you to come over and time you up, and then you know you want to be tied up. That's good, that's good point. It is a good point. You learn what your partner is doing to you. You can say it in the safety of your own, right? House with your phone or wherever you are texting,

you know, at work. But the first things, there's a few things that you need to know about it. If you want it, because I get questions all the time for friends or like sending me screenshots, like, I should start a service, actually, where I answer people's sex for them, because I do it for my friends. I'm like, oh, say this stuff. Like, you'd be like, uh, screenshots. What's the, what's it called? I call it Roxanne, but it's a Bergerac.

Right. See, uh, Serrano, the Bergerak. I'm gonna just go with you there. Right. Right, he wrote the love letter, he would do the tell. Yeah, he would tell the person how to do. I kind of do that. Like, I help my friends, I'm like, no, say this, don't say that. So consider timing.

There should be an app for that. There should be. Maybe I should do my next app. You're killing me with your rubbing in every nose. When I do. It's all over my, it's hard. Because it's just happened that first two. Invelloped by Staley's, shedding hair.

Is it because I'm hugging him so tight? Yes, and you keep rubbing him, stop. I love him, he's like, he's like a human pro-zac. Okay, so the first thing is consider timing. You need to choose the right time in two ways, okay? First of all, if your partners at work, like timing matters, like there's always, you know, open up the sexting session,

like, hey, what are you up to right now? Because like if they're at work or they're in the middle of a meeting, you're gonna feel rejected. Don't just come hard, yeah. Yeah, don't come hard with that. I'm coming hard right now. I don't really know that.

I don't know. But if they're meeting or the other didn't or their parents, for example, you might wanna hold back on the sexting session and also make sure they're on board with it, okay? But the other thing is their parents. For example, you might want to hold back on the sexting session and also make sure they're on board with it. Okay, but the other thing is if you're in a relationship, you don't want to start sexting too soon.

Like, and by relationship, I mean, like, probably a few dates even. Like, you got to feel the waters there. But you just said that it's a courtship. It is a courtship when you're already dating, but when you've already met someone. Like, the one thing that you can't do is if you've never, okay, do you know any people start sexting

with people like they meet on Tinder? Like you can't do it to me. And then you have this whole. You get dick pics. You get dick pics, you get naked pics. I get so many guy friends who are like, hey look at this, pick this girl on Tinder set me. I'm like she's already sent you naked,

like what is there to look forward to? And now maybe this is something that I'm not understanding. Like girls feel like they have to do that to get to close the deal. But like you're getting the whole shabang. Like it used to be fun. No, it's too dimensional. And it's cold. But do you even want it?

Yeah, you would if you're a guy. You'd want to see it. If I'm like, yeah, absolutely. It's still lighting and editing and like like face tune. Like, I mean, what I started to say earlier. Get rid of the dimples. What? We've fallen so far.

Imagine back to the Victorian days when like the man would court the woman with poetry. My lovely, and he would seal it with wax, and send it off to her. I'm saying it's a modern day love letter, but it's just like, here are my tips. I know, here are my tips. Check out my dick. Prematurely tits. This is going inside you.

Yeah. Let's fuck. My friend, I was out there last night, the same one I had in soup with, and it can't turn the nice Jewish place. We were talking about this, and she had a whole. I'm like, let me see the dick pics She had an entire folder folder

folder of dick pics her giving blow jobs What? tips She's a friend of mine. I was just like so impressed. I kept scrolling and scrolling and scrolling Well, just sort of press and am using sort of like you don't care Do you remember Steven Soderbergh's break? growing and scrolling and scrolling. Well, just sort of press and amusing sort of like, you don't care? Do you remember Steven Soderberg's break-to-peek? Not press, like, not in press,

because I don't want dick pics. I mean, just like, hmm, just found it curious. Sex lies and videotape. Yes, I do. It was like such a huge thing because it was about this guy, James Spader, would actually record his videotape, his sexual encounters,

and now that's like par for the course. Right, I do. They made an entire movie about this insane person who actually cataloged and filmed his sexual encounters and now that's just what you do. That's what you do. She's she's a picture of her at canter's deli. She's like, and look at this and she's like, there's me getting him a blow job. I'm like, does he have this?

She was, no, we took it on my phone. I'm like, okay, but. Does she like color cattle? Logged them like, no, like a full rainbow like color cattle? Log them like? No. No, like the full rainbow of Benetton in there. No, that wasn't that. They were just like, they were all, but they were all in the folder.

I gotta give her that. But you also, like I said, you want to save the sex for down the road. It could be a fun way to lead someone into sexing like when before you actually have sex, but not before you actually meet. So a suggestive sex at the beginning, it's like a tiny suggestion of like what might to come,

like I can't wait to see you, like it was so hot making out with you last time. You know, you can send something like that at the beginning. So again, timing, you don't want to sex before you meet someone and maybe if you make out or you've gone out twice, you can start mildly sexting and then also just check out where make sure they're in a good place. Number two, you want to build up to sexting.

When you're sexy with someone, you don't wanna start off like, I just came on your face or something. Jesus. Well, I'm just saying, I'm trying to get a certain sort of me, you've got a bit, it's like four plays, like digital four play.

So you don't go straight for the generals, which I often said on the show, is that the biggest buzzkill is when you're hooking up with the guy. I feel like this is a male thing, but you're making out, and then they go right for your pants. And I always thought, just like when you get into relationships with someone for a long time, but you're making out, and then they go right for your pants. And I always thought, just like when you get into relationships for a long time,

but like forget your boobs, I just want to get busy. So there's this protocol, you got to start. Yeah, you got to like, you know, don't go over the generally. So it's like teasing, start small, don't get dirty too fast. Use your words to get things started, and naked pictures and the highly sexual language right off the bat. You know what it reminds me of? finger and the butt like right before you like doing that too quickly when you don't even know It's coming like oh my god a finger my butt without Loube what the hell does happen? We were making out and you stuck a finger right but I have a friend a very good friend who I was making out with a girl in a bar

Like actually at the bar and he tells the story so like casually He's like yeah, I was just making out with her I put my hands down her pants right at the bar and he tells the story so like casually. He's like, yeah, I was just making out of there. I put my hands down her pants right at the bar. I just write up her butt. I'm like, what? No, you're in public at a bar and like, that's... Was he testing if she was like, oh, kind of into that kind of thing? I don't know, but like, he could ignore the boobs or in the bar. I guess when you're in a bar, you're gonna take what you get. Yeah, but why not put it up over a vagina? Because like, I guess his hand wasn't in the appropriate place. This is the same man who actually broke his arm while fisting a woman. Oh my God air guess his hand wasn't in the appropriate place. This is the same man who actually broke his arm

while fisting a woman. Oh my God. Well, that makes sense then. And that's he broke his arm while fisting a woman. Yeah. You have to have a cast. How do you know she liked it so much? He was a giver. He liked she liked it so much that he felt the pain but he just kept doing. He's serious. Did he marry this one? No, he's not married. No kids. This guy's a player. And some people listen to the show right now. No, who is they know exactly who I'm talking about because they listen to him. I'm not gonna out it, but I'm not gonna out. I'll tell you after the show.

Okay, I know him. I don't want to know him anymore. No, you should. He's one of your guys. She enjoyed it so much that he kept he puts through the pain. I know who to. I'm not gonna say it, dude. Okay, so you this is the thing. You want to open up the conversation ambiguously as a way of drawing your partner in, getting them interested. So like, in the H.U.S.

kind of like, I've been thinking about you all day. I miss you. Can't stop thinking about the last time I saw you. You laughing? I'm laughing because I'm picturing like three minutes from now what the texts are going to be. Okay, you can't wait for you to suck the con. Exactly, we're going gonna get there, people.

You can also have the question, you know what I was thinking about this morning? And then like, she'll say, or he'll say, what? Or want to know what I plan for us tonight? And that peaks their curiosity, gets their mind racing, invites their participation. I like texts like that one and guys like, hey, I've been thinking, guess what I'm thinking about?

That's hot, right? Keeps your deepest, like, inner thoughts been thinking guess what I'm thinking about. That's hot, right? Keeps your deepest like inner thoughts and kinky desires to yourself at first. So be flirting playful and then don't jump like I said, right into the sex. You want to play with the romance, elude to candles and rose petals, that kind of thing.

Central massage is just like four play. So much of sexting, the mood takes place before the sex act themselves. So again, when you're starting out early, it's just kind of like the flirty four play I guess what I'm thinking about. Because like dirty talk, when you like go right into it, like I fucked me like whatever you think,

whoa, this is making sense to you. Complimentary, peak, no. But I just hate the idea of a guy wanting to get to the sex team, which I could understand, and having to talk about Rose fucking finals. No, I'm just saying it's analogy. Like it's an analogy to Rumble in your room.

It smells real nice. So it has to, but I'm not saying that I was saying it's analogous to like setting up the mood in the room. Like you can't just jump right to it. So you want to set the atmosphere. And then the third thing is be complimentary. You know how I feel about compliments. So warm up, Tom, they tell, okay, this, this is one of my favorite points in all of this is that you want to make them feel hot

Zyra wanted I can't stop thinking about your soft Follips that thing you did last night in bed. I get so hot thinking about it every time I take a shower I cannot wishing you were there with me like these are pretty fairly benign ways Just make them the center of your universe. Yeah, make them feel good make it make them feel like you can't think of anything other than them. Which might be the case. It is the case. You're thinking about them, other things probably, but you want to make them feel good. So talk more the things that you, okay, this is my main point here though. This is the one that it was funny because when Madison, I were talking about this during the show, I thought this is one thing that has pissed me off. And if guy sex me this stuff, I'm done.

Because it says a lot about him. So you guys pay attention to this. This is what you want to do. You want to talk about the things. This goes for men and women. But talk about things you want to do to please them. So rather than saying, I want to see you riding my dick, or tonight, I want you to go down to me for 20 minutes.

Is that tempting? No, I'm serious. Make it all about them. You want to run your hands over every part of their body. You want to go down in them until they're shaking. You can't wait to taste every inch of them. Because there was a guy that I was dating for actually, this was a sign, and I dated him for too long,

but he'd be like, I can't wait to think. Yeah, that kind of thing. All about his penis and his pleasure. I want you to suck me right now. I'm like, yeah, I'll bet you do. Or like, look what you made me do now I'm like, yeah, I'll bet you do or like look what you made look what had like you made me do It's a picture of it's like what do you send a picture of it like his heart? Well, this was mad as hard his heart his penis in his pants like you gave me a bulge. That's bad

I don't think that'd be okay because like it's about you. It's kind of a compliment But it's like you just really want to show me your penis. What do you what this would have been better if you sent you like a Bronny ad with like a wet paper towel. This is what I want to show me your penis. What do you, what do you, what, this would have been better if you sent you like a broniad with like a wet paper towel. This is what I want to do to you. Now, that want to be a broniad, a broniad. Like, wipe up the, the paper towels. Yeah, the paper towels, no. Like, I want to make you wet, no, no good.

All right, all right, you're getting there. He went from his hard dick to you. But what I'm saying is some guys are, that's me showed that this guy was really selfish because we just like, what do you want me to him? I'm like, what about me? And there's also the same guy who wasn't into pleasing me. It's all turned out the same thing. It turns out in the bedroom as well.

So the next thing is you want to be descriptive, like with anything that goes for, you know, phone sex, sexting, all of it. We're all really busy people, but you want to save the abbreviation. So like, you don't have to be like, I'm so horny. What are you doing? Like, W-T-R-U-D-O-I-N. Like, no emojis. It's sex thing. You shouldn't use emojis. Well, you can, but you want to be like, you don't have to be like, I'm so horny, what are you doing? Like WT, are you DOIN? Like no emojis.

It's- You should use emojis. Well, you can, but you want to be like winky face thinking about like what you're doing, thinking about your dick at the end of the clip, you know? So it's your chance to pay the picture of what you like to do to your partner and more importantly, how you want to do it. So this is where you're descriptive, just like they already talk in the bedroom. Vivid and specific in what you want and what turned you on. It's almost feels like

a pitch. What this does. Like you want to make your moving. You're pitching the studios, your ideas. I am right now the way I'm doing this. No, like that's what you're doing. You're building up to it. You're being descriptive. Here's what I have in mind for us. But think about it, though, that's what's green light. Sex. Green light this sex. Yeah. You will green light this. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. Because it also like you just want to be specific details like I'm thinking about walking into your room and you're wearing that what I love when guys tell me what they found sex is like you're wearing those not those thigh boots again and that skirt and I'm going to lift up that skirt.

Like it's great. It's not that hard like think about something that we've done in the past and then describe that like if you don't feel like you're that creative sexually and this goes both ways by the way men and women setting tags like this and then it also provides like I said opportunity to communicate desires that are hard to talk about face to face. So if there's been something that even one in your partner to do or you'd like to try with them, you can say for example like if you're telling a story, I'm with them and I'm gonna reach to the nightstand and plot us at a handcuffs and lay back where you cuff me to the bedpost.

So you can let your partner know, I've got cuffs in my nightstand, cuff my ass up, cuff my arms up. Or like I'm gonna open the front door like the pizza delivery man come in and rail you while I watch in the corner and beat off. Exactly. And then you know that they're into that kind of thing.

Right, so in the doorbell rings, you're repaired. then you know that they're into that kind of thing. Right. So in the draw ball rings, you're prepared. But it is a good way to communicate. You're like, oh, he doesn't quite know that I mean to bond into our want to be spanked. You spank me hard. I think that's a good way to do it. Then next time he spanks you, if he does,

it means he can't read. OK. One more point. But first, let's take a quick break and say, give a shout out to the people that we love that support the show. Make the show free. Make the show free.

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and then we're gonna get your emails. Think before you selfie, before you send a naked photo. News flash, according to Adam and Eve's sexting survey, 60% of respondents said they save news and sex to their phone. And I'm telling you it's true because all my friends Show me it men and women that means that every naked picture you send there's a 60% chance It was kept for later use whatever that used maybe 60% what's wrong with that 40% I know why are they saving it? So here's a thing once you send a sex or naked picture. It's gone forever

You've you've no idea what the other forever. That's the thing It's there for you. You're brain. You think it's gone forever. You have no idea what the other person will do. Not gone forever, that's the thing. It's there forever. You and your brain, you think it's gone forever. So the majority of people know that a sex could be shared, but they don't think it will happen. There was a study at Indiana University, Indiana University, and it revealed that 95% said that, you know, hey, we believe the sex could be shared, but only 12% reported it happened

to them. So they think, well, it would never happen to me. And you may think that it won't happen to you, but it does. And Madison was also telling a story that in 2008, she was dating a guy, sent him all sorts of naked pictures through the relationship. This wasn't her, it was a friend of hers. And when they broke up, he sent them

in a massive group text to all their mutual friends to make it so she couldn't be friends with them anymore. This girl. Like, he kept, people are malicious with your sex. So, I'm taking a back with guy friends that I've had who they're just like, hey, check it out. Like your friend did a canter, something like that. Oh, the time.

And they're like showing me like girls that I know that I'm like friends with because we all go out together and I'm like, dude, I don't wanna see, why are you doing this? And they don't get their autofee's almost. Right. And I'm sick and annoyed by a guy's candor in doing that. And there's more, I would say, sorry, fellas, who are listening, but I would say that

more guys actually share their sexting pictures and their naked pictures of their girlfriends that then don't. Oh yeah, they all, I mean, I think it's hugely inappropriate. I do too. And I'm setting. I mean, if you guys think about who you're sexting What kind of person they are are they type to share intimate details? But the truth is you don't know anyone you might break up with them You think that they're not gonna sex it. So that's just I think that's an important message for you people pay attention

And don't send make it for I just I don't I'm not a fan We can do some emails. Yeah, well one okay Okay, everyone thanks for emailing me feedback at sexwithmwe.com. I love hearing from you always include your name where you live. How old you are? Okay, hey Emily happy New Year. Is it too late to be saying that? Anyways, the one question I've always had is how can I build on my partner's self-esteem confidence so they won't be willing, so they will be willing to try new things in bed. Oftentimes I found the initial reaction to a crest is no or I'll feel silly or I won't

look sexy. Is there something more besides communication and compliments to foster a more open mind and convince your partner that you find them sexy in any way? Love the show and all your tweets, Daniel. Okay, Daniel. It could be the way that you're presenting these new ideas to your partner. So when sex things get brought up, like seemingly out of the blue, that could be a problem. You might have to take a different approach because if you're just like, hey, let's try

this, let's try that. She might not necessarily know where you're coming from with it. So your mind is probably insects a lot. Your partner, she might not have been thinking about a lot, but she's not even thinking about ways to take it to the next level. For her, would I'm thinking, if I'm in her position, these requests might feel like they're coming out of the blue.

She hasn't thought about it, she hasn't know what she wants. And when you suggest it, she's thinking maybe she's not enough for you. So positive reinforcement of all, and I know you said, you're all right doing compliments, but I'm talking about positively reinforcing the things that she's already doing to help her feel more confident and sexy. Like, I really love when you client on top of me

during sex last night, that was really hot. You can say it as sex if you want. That was so hot, you seem like you're really enjoying it. And you put the focus on like these specific things that she's doing or trying, and that will help build her confidence surrounding sex versus just telling her like you're sexy.

So this really is different than compliments more of like a very specific like I liked what you did sexually. And then also have you ever Daniel asked her what she'd be interested in trying versus asking her to fulfill your fantasies. Because right away she might not know off the bat what she wants to try but we'll get her thinking about it. Because you say that her initial actions are no a facility I won't look sexy. So it sounds like she just needs a little more encouragement and maybe some time to think

about what she'd want to try as well, rather than you just saying left to this, let's do that. And I'm going to be honest that a lot of women don't many women, not a lot, but some women, the majority women, not majority women are missing women ladies girls don't always have these fantasies some women just don't fantasize they're not like I'm trying to try this I'm trying to try that so you might need to help her come up with those things you might even say to her like what are you thinking should I think nothing but maybe you can suggest some things watch some porn together ghosts online shopping for sex toys and be like oh this might be cool to try so maybe you can suggest some things, watch some porn together, ghost online shopping for sex toys,

and be like, oh, this might be cool to try. So maybe you can together have a discussion rather than one way thing of telling her what you want to try. I feel like I know the ladies pretty well, and I've been around the block and I've been around for a while, right? So, and then I'm happily married.

And I know my wife inside and out, but every now and again, you guys, you always hear girls and guys are so different and they'll never understand each other. And I don't know if that's absolutely true, but I also grew up with a system. My point is, my point is, every now and again, I get thrown for a loop.

And just a couple nights ago on Loveline, a girl called up and she said that she'd never touched herself before and never tried to masturbate. I mean, to the thought of you because you kind of went through the same thing. And her reason was, I mean, I'm telling this for your emailer because just to let him know

how out there are some girls can be. Her reason why she's never touched herself was because she's not attracted to herself and she doesn't think of herself as sexy. She doesn't turn herself on. So why would she even bother to bang herself essentially? Right. Imagine that, guys.

Imagine like the only way you could do yourself is if you like were sexually attracted to yourself. That's where her mind was at. That's what she thought she had to be. And actually, I did it a girl in high school. I remember she went on, like, I tried to get her to do stuff. And she'd be like, I don't want to dive out with myself. Like, what?

That's exactly. Exactly. That's a great example. There's so many women who just don't think about it. And we're so busy. We're on our phones. Our brains don't go towards master. Mine didn't go to master restaurant so that could be another thing

Maybe she does it so mutual masturbation is great. You might get figuring out how she touches herself So I just think yeah, you got to bring into it. That's a very good point. We get a lot of those calls Okay, that people don't think about it. So women are not like men in that way Okay, Mars being a chino Merit Okay, thanks Anderson. Great to see you. Thanks for showing your dog What's going on with all your podcasters your podcasters? you know, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah coming out that week. And this week, you know, that's great.

I don't think anyone should see a movie without watching this entire podcast. Yeah, and we don't give things away and we actually will bring up stuff that you might not notice. I had you not seen it, we get the press notes and we get the studio stuff and we see behind the scenes stuff.

So we have more information that enhances your movie going experience. We also hit Race this week, which is the Jesse Owens true life story, but the 1936 Olympics were the Gold medal and he went into Nazi Germany. He's the first ever black track field and Jason Sedacus actually his first dramatic role and you know what this movie's good and they're not making it look good on TV This is a good little movie. That's a minute. I know it's no. It's Jason Sedacus

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