Sex With Emily - Magic of Masturbation

Episode Date: May 13, 2015

It’s Masturbation Month, and today’s podcast is all about that magical act! Emily breaks down why masturbation is so important, and how it will blast your sex life into a whole new level! Get special Masturbation Month tips for men and for women, as well as expert sex toy advice, and learn what’s new in pleasuring yourself. So how did Masturbation Month come to be? Emily explains the origins of this month-long celebration and lets us in on ways that playing with yourself is good for your mental, sexual and even physical health! She also answers a few listener emails on sex toys and cervix insecurities. Want to know how to become the master of masturbation, learn your arousal cycle, and discover all your hot spots? Don’t miss out on this episode’s Sex with Emily. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Oh my God, I get on the daily. Really? Like where? Oh, because I do. The morning show. Morning show, morning talk radio. And all, it comes from everything. It comes from Twitter, it comes from text messages, it comes from emails, just people just love to dissect you

And it's funny because like one thing that one person dislikes another person absolutely love Absolutely. Yeah, and that's why you can't I mean, I love hearing your feedback It's true, but some people yeah, you hear different things all the time and it's hard when you're in this business Because your public so people are gonna be like oh, I love this and you got it then like take all the Criticism all the advice and then you check it with yourself, you're like, what feels right to me? Yeah. Maybe they're right about this,

but they're wrong about that, but really, you know, but I listen to you all, I do read you. But if a lot of people say the same thing, then maybe you listen to that. Yeah, I don't know. No, you're like, I don't get it, I don't get it. I don't get it. I just do what I do.

I know, well, you're very good at doing what you do. Thank you so much. Check out his show, The Woody Show. The Woody Show, yeah, I don't get it. I don't get it. I just do what I do. I know. Well, you're very good at doing what you do. Thank you so much. Check out his show, The Woody Show. The Woody Show, yeah, it's in Los Angeles, Monday through Friday, 6th at NAM. It's a bummer because I wake up at 10. Yeah, on Alt 987, but they do podcast The Woody Show. It's not about sex, so you're not gonna find it.

You always say that, but my listeners have other ex-Iars and interests. I mean, barely, right? Guys. You're all nymphomene Oh, what a great another sex podcast now. It's not it's about pop culture and topics and pop what just pop culture No, yesterday. I know pop culture. I've heard of it But yesterday I was on Ross Matthews podcast. Oh, yeah, he's fun Ross He's been he started out in intern Ross on Lino and then he had his own show and and now he has podcasts here in our studio. He's on Chelsea, much better.

Yeah, Chelsea Leili, he's awesome. It was so funny, but I'm like, oh my God, he's so pop culture. And I'm getting better, because I live in LA, and it's like I don't speak the language, it's like I'm in China, and I'm trying to ask him over directions,

and they're like, oh, yeah. Like really here, like at the dinner, I get so funny, because my friends had me other day, she's like, you're the only friend I don't talk about television with. I'm like, yeah, cause I don't watch it,

but I'm working on it. So, but it was really fun, I like, you're the only friend I don't talk about television with. I'm like, yeah, cause I don't watch it, but I'm working on it. So, but it was really fun. I was telling you that for years. I know, you told me that and say, I would just go, and you guys do really want me to sit here and break down the Kardashians. I mean, yes, like Bruce Jenner, that's relatable. I mean, that's relevant, because of the transgender,

you know, I get that, but really, but also, I'm just saying, you say that for the show, but now just being a person living in LA. Yeah. I gotta watch house the cards. I don't know. Or whatever it is. Well then there's people in the building are walking by the building or walking outside constantly. You know, like who's that?

I'm like, I know. It's freaking blah blah blah. I know the biggest celebrity in the world is facing next to me. I'm like, who are you? Pass us off. Just right before the studio, Rob, not Rob. A D Schneider was here and Sebastian Bach were here like half hour before you got it.

Really? That's amazing. Now name where they're from. I don't know. But that was fun. So his podcast is really fun and it's coming out I think like this week. So check out straight talk with Ross Matthews. It was a fun show.

And then tonight I'm actually doing a live show with Lynette Corolla. You guys don't admit this when you're hearing it, but it's March 12. Lynette Corolla, she's awesome. She has a podcast. Super cool. Yeah, called for crying out loud

and we're doing a live show in Hollywood at Tin Horn Flats. You can check that. March. But the March, oh, I'm sorry, dude, May 12th. Where am I, March? So we'll make sure I need a. Dude, it's tonight, May 12th, so I'm so excited.

And then my other exciting thing is, oh, have I mentioned it was a masturbation month? Yes, I did. I am teaching a workshop at Hustler stores in Hollywood. I'm May 15th, which is this Friday night from 7 to 9. And don't worry, my friend, I was telling her last night, she's like, do I have to masturbate, like get on the floor? I'm like, no, we're not actually doing

unless you want to, we're not doing live masturbation. But it's really just gonna be fun, champagne, giveaways, just little tips and cheats and how to like, get yourself there if you don't normally get there. And then I'm gonna give you like, show you all the stuff that I talk about, like cool products, the best loobs, and the champagne, I mentioned champagne and giveaways.

Good times. So come join us, RSVP at hhrsvp at lfp.com that's Larry Frank Peter.com or Larry Flint Productions.com. Oh nice. Limited seating so check it and be there. I don't want to meet you all. It was so fun last time I taught a workshop how to blow his mind and it was like so many listeners came in because we're in here. We don't get to meet them so dude can I just ask you this on the air for reals? Yeah, when are we gonna do our live show? I have to speak to it. Yeah, would you guys come email me if we do the live show? Would you come if we built it? Would you come? Yeah feedback at sacsadamely.com

How have you been? I've been great. I'm leaving for Vegas. I'm gonna go to Rock and Rio. And we're gonna be there at the same time. I'm leaving it, okay. So. What's your plans? What are you doing? I'm hanging out at the Hard Rock. There's some event.

I'm going with Lynette and Adam. The Corolla, there's like a man-grea thing. Oh, nice. What do you say? You're welcome to bring people Saturday. Saturday. Okay, I'm gonna have to bring it up. We'll talk about this after.

Cause I have to work. You're busy, what else? I'm working too. Rock and Rio. I'm working drinking really, really hard. It talk about this after. Cause I have to have to work. We're busy, what else? I'm working too. I'm working drinking really, really hard at the rehab party. Whatever it's called, you know that rehab. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, it's fun. That's awesome.

I know, I was so psyched. I mean, I can't wait. I've been traveling a lot and it's, you know, I really, that's after all this time I can actually take time off and things are good and I'm actually better for it. Don't you feel that? Yeah, yeah, you have a great support team. Oh my God.

Awesome. Madison, she rocks, she's here. Hi, Madison. Hello. Yeah, so you can that? Yeah, yeah, you have a great support team. Oh my God, awesome. Madison, she rocks, she's here. Hi, Madison. Hello. Yeah, so you can, you know, I know it's weird though, but you've seen me for 10 years. We've been doing, okay, here's another thing, Madison. Yes.

I was gonna say Madison. It was gonna be a good, Madison, you call me Madison. Madison. So, okay, so, Madison, I've been doing the show for 10 years. And it started as a podcast in my living room. It's a little background if you didn't know this.

I just, you know, I had not had the best sex in my life yet and I thought, I wanna find out from other people how you have amazing sex because people are like, I have the best sex and also relationships. So I invited people over, had a podcast in my living room. Six months later, I get a call which is like a dream for anyone that doesn't, nothing like this

that I haven't since. I've had some good stuff, but they were CBS radio in San Francisco free FM. And they said, hey, we love your podcast, come and do a live show. So I was like, holy moly, that was six months in. I do a live radio show. Menace is assigned to my show as the board engineer.

Yeah. So we didn't really talk. No, I mean, it's a little bit. It was 2005, yeah. And we just met, but first we didn't really weren't really friends as much. I was like talking and trying to figure out radio God man

Just take a look at me Just trying on the radio But I learned a lot and menace is always stuck by me like seriously and then the show was off the air because they got anything And radio is a tough business, but I always stuck with the podcast. I've got 2000 Menace has been on many of them and I just I appreciate you. I think you it's 10 years I think we have to have a blowout live show that'd be fun I just, I appreciate you. I thank you. It's 10 years.

I think we have to have a blowout live show. That'd be fun. It'd be great. That was just breaking down for a little while. Why is it so important? And why you need to have a cross country? And I love you, and I appreciate you. I appreciate you.

If I tell you that enough. So, okay, we have a lot to cover because here's the thing. You might be thinking like, masturbation won't like every guy tell. Like today I was just on a radio show. My cathart would, who host love line has a morning, daytime show, filled in for Drew. And he was like, well, every day's masterpiece,

this or every guy says to me, every day's masterpiece and day. Okay, I get that, but I'm gonna break down for you today, like why it is so important, especially for women too, if you're with someone and you're like, why isn't she orgasm here? Why isn't she telling me what she likes? This is for her too.

So we're gonna get into the nitty gritty of how it will blow your sex life through the roof if you just take some time Dittling your body That'd be great. And I've got some sex in the news Uh-huh, and I know did you have something that you were excited about to share first? Yeah sex in the news There was this story when you're excited the story out of Florida This is a lot of Florida. Yeah,. Well, one of them, the male might get 15 years because they had sex on the beach. They had sex on the beach. I guess it was out in the public. The guy had some

some prior record or something like that. So he might get 15 years and then also the chick that's involved might get some time too. For having sex, was it daylight? It was daylight on the beach, and I guess I'll be the saw. Like naked or like, indesyn exposure type stuff. And yeah.

Sexes on the beach is so overrated, BTW, because you get sand in places you don't want it at all. And it's fun at night, maybe, okay, don't do it because Abby's illegal, but like if no one's around and you're on a beach chair and you've got plenty of towels, oh my God, were they drunk or were they? I, it didn't say, if they're drunk.

So the cops come up and they're like, hey, she's like, she's like, I'm almost there, one minute officer. Calm down. Oh my God, 15 years. 15 years. It's a beach, it's Florida, that's stupid. Yeah, but I thought it, that was.

But it is illegal. Yeah, I thought that was crazy. That is crazy, but always the crazy sex stories come out of Florida or Texas. Yeah, but it was so funny because we're reading all these stories at the same time. So this guy is like almost facing 15 years. And then we read stories about like horrific things

and people get like six months. Yeah, it's terrible. It's terrible. So we had sex out of doors, you buy a little buzz going. Yeah. I mean, I don't recommend it. There's kids around. It's not so great, but 15 years.

You're gonna waste taxpayer dollars on holding him because he was like, got a little randy outside. Yeah, it's ridiculous. But okay, exclude all your, you know, wild sex orgy parties and, you know, situations that you might have been in. Have you ever just like walked up on somebody having sex randomly out in public?

Um, you know what? I don't think I have. It's so funny. I, I don't, I definitely run into people like mashing, hooking up, craziness, but not like actually going at it. Have you? I, yeah, I have. I remember. Beside your parents just kidding. No, I was in, uh, like actually going at it. Have you? Yeah, I have. I remember. Beside your parents just kidding. No, I was in middle school.

I was probably fifth or sixth grade, and I was going to summer school. And it was like recess or something like that. I would go out there and these teenagers are out in the middle of the field during the day, having sex in the middle of the field during the day having sex in the middle of the field and then like hundreds and hundreds of kids come out onto the ground and they're still going at it.

And then so like they call them yard duties. Right. The, you know, the people in charge had to go over there and break them up. Oh my God, was it the first live public sex act that you ever saw? I think so, yeah. That's what it's all about.

I mean, I saw when I was six years old, I saw a porno by accident. Right, oops. And yeah, live like sexual sex, that's what I saw. I did. I think the high school is a popular place for people that have sex because when I graduated from, or when I moved to San Francisco after college,

I had a boyfriend and I brought him back to Michigan to meet my family and we were out at night and I was like, oh, you gotta see where I went to high school. So I drove him to my high school, we parked, it was like a sorry night and I'm like, let me walk around and then we went into the football field and then we started fooling around. We weren't having sex but then the cops pulled up

and we got, like they were like, you have to leave now, but I didn't get arrested. So I think we might have had sex, because it seemed kind of fun, you know, was it high school? Oh, man, I remember one time this girl and I were dating, and we went out somewhere, I forgot. And they're like, oh, you know, you want to,

there was just like, man-made lake where I lived. It was in Newark, California, and they called it the lake. So who we pulled up to the lake, and it's like 2am, and she was driving, and for some reason, we were at like a dress up thing. So she had like a lot of makeup on. And so we're making out, and suddenly this car pulls up, the light shines onto the car, and it's a police officer officer, he comes and taps on the window and I'm like,

oh, crap! And like he's checking our IDs and all this stuff. And then I'm like talking to the officer, you know, and he was cool, he let us go. So I get home and I immediately I go into the restroom, I look in the mirror and like she had so much eye makeup on. Oh no. It looked like I had a black eye.

Oh my God. So I was talking to the police officer with a black eye. Right, the black eye. The entire time. Full of makeup. Oh my God, that's hilarious. That is so funny.

Oh no. We're not doing anything else. We're not doing anything else. We're not doing anything else. I was like, oh my God, I was like, oh my God, I was like, oh my God, that's hilarious.

That is so funny. Oh no. She didn't care. We're not doing anything else. I was like, oh my that millennials are more open about sex and have more sexual partners than any generation before them. But according to a new study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, only one of these theories is actually true. So via time.com included 33,000 people and found that premarital sex is more accepted than ever with a whopping 58% of respondents in 2012 saying they thought

there was nothing wrong with sex before compared to 44% in 2004. So whatever, we're all into marital sex. I don't know if some people aren't into premarital sex because we'll get to that in a moment. But anyway, you're saying so the young generation right now is having less sex? No, we're going to get to the moment. That was the headline, but now that's the thing that's article is a headline. That's the thing that's a headline. Okay, we don't meet you, but we're going to talk about that.

But first of all, they're just saying that Americans are more open to premarital sex, which thank God, because you don't want to think like, I really love this person. So that means our sex life is going to be awesome. Let's get married, walk down the aisle and find out that it sucks. So, no, premarital sex, that's great. And you know, a lot has to do with religion and all that. And that is compared to 44% only in 2004 and then 28%. So anyway, we're all feeling good about that. So also, it seems logical by this data to assume that millennials are also lase a fair with their number.

Or is this a sex partners? It doesn't even talk about sex partners. Whatever. Okay, so this data, it says millennials are lase they fare with their number of sexual partners, people assume. But according to the study, the baby boomer, Burmard boomers, I can't say they're a biobobomers, and early gen Xers born in the 50s and 60s have had the most sexual partners, an average of 11, followed by those born in the 40s or 70s, who averaged about 10 partners. Millennials born in the 80s and 1990s

have an average of eight partners. Okay, so although millennials are more tolerant of these behaviors, they're not taking that license to sleep around. She noted the decline as more to do with increasing information about HIV, STDs. That's what I was gonna say. Yeah, millennials have never known a world

where a premarital sex was a taboo, first of all, so that makes sense. But, okay, let me tell you why the study makes no sense to me. Millennials, there's in their 20s, their numbers are still climbing. So yeah, maybe they've at eight now, but I think since people are delaying marriage, no one's committing or getting into relations with not nobody, but it's less typical if people are in their 20s to be striving for relationship or marriage before that. So would this study even make sense if their numbers are 80 to 25? What's gonna be 35? So this study is kind of like I love it 35,000 participants

It's legit and then can you imagine like I said that I'm pretty weird. I'll say I mean I understand what what you're saying but I also Here like there's so much more information like The older generation, oh, free love. It's all good. Let's just hook up. It wasn't as a big of a deal. Scared me out. Yeah, I got scary right around the time.

I started having sex with like AIDS and all that use protection. And so I hope that that's the case. I hope that people are being scared. And you should all use protection. Because I feel like it's just, everyone knows it. And you hear me saying this, you're like, I always do. And then people get drunk, little buzz, they're gonna have a condom,

women are ashamed about carrying on condoms, which they should not be. Like you should throw that friggin lipstick, that lip gloss, your ID, and a condom when you go out tonight. Yeah, it's funny, I know this couple from New York, and they were telling me that they have friend,

guy friends who say that the women never bring up protection ever. Really? They're like, oh, it's cool. And let's do it. Right, and I don't understand what, because you know what it is. And I've been there, okay?

I'm not always a saint, haven't been in my past. But you're in the moment, and we all know, it does feel good to get that penis, you know, feel that penis in your vagina. And then you've this moment, you're like, oh, it's okay, you know what? And then I even hear people rushing out, well, I know him. So we can't have anything wrong. It's like, dude, I don't care who you know, feel that penis in your vagina. And then you've this moment, you're like, oh, it's okay, you know what? And then I even hear people rushing out, well, I know him.

So we can't have anything wrong. It's like dude, I don't care who you know. People can have something, you can't see it on their penis. And so don't trust them and don't let that moment slide. Like don't because you're like, it's new and it's gonna be exciting. And it could also mean the apart ways. So I'm just saying, carry condoms.

Yeah, hold on, you know what's funny? Well, it's not funny at all. But I hear all my friends were like, oops, I didn't have a correction, I'm like really? saying, carry columns. Yeah, hold you know it's funny, well it's not funny at all. But I hear all my friends were like, oops, I didn't have a correction, I'm like really? Okay, go ahead. Oh, so we were talking, I just brought up like, oh, 15 years, you know, having sex on the beach. And then somebody getting six months.

Now I remember what we were comparing it to when we were talking about the new story. The six month thing was a story out of San Diego where a guy no only had HIV since 2007 and he was dating a guy in 2012 and he didn't disclose. And the guy was like, oh, you know, he was asking him like, oh, do you have anything blah, blah? And the guy was saying, no, no, no, I don't have it. But there's a law in California, if you know only give, you know, something to someone.

Any kind of estimate. Yeah, it's only a Mr. Meener, though. So the guy got six months, that was it. That's it, right. And he basically- You're not gonna do six months, but- So this guy gives somebody else HIV and gets six months. Well, a guy is having sex on a

beach. Consensual sex. Free love. Yeah, it's up to 15 years. Yeah, exactly. I don't understand. I mean, that's crazy. So people just, and then people don't want to admit it because they think someone, and

it's the same thing with herpes. So now it's like so common, what is like one out of every like three or four students or people have it and they don't want to talk or let them don't know. But if you do know, and we've talked about this a lot of love line, maybe not as much here and people just want to know, like, how do you bring it up to your partner? And when you do, you don't, I don't know,

I'm going to sign in about the show, but you don't, you sound like you're gonna have a death sentence. You're not gonna die. You are hopefully taking meds that will suppress it. And, you know, you can still have how this actually should be using protection, a condom anyway, which is very, you know, you can still have healthy sex. You should be using protection economy anyway, which is very, you know, which is a great way to protect someone from transming the disease. And you just say, Hey, listen, so I have our piece that just wants

you to know that. And I was diagnosed and I'd taken precautions and don't make it like the whole we got to talk about it. And hopefully you'll be with someone who's cool with it. Don't trip. Hey, happens everyone. Here's another sex menu. What we can say about that. No, no, no. Okay, women fight back against revenge porn sites by copyrighting her breasts. Revenge porn sites popping up left and right, victims are forced to take extreme measures to protect themselves from potential online harassment. For woman named Hillary, not a real name, whose ex decided to post topless pictures of her online without consent,

took an unconventional approach to protect the unconventional approach to protecting herself. She decided to copyright her breasts and force the images down based on infringement. Wasn't easy process though. Hillary made three different registrations for over 100 R-rated images,

while her pictures weren't put up in the Library of Congress, her real name and the titles of the images do appear in its public catalog. On the upside, Hillary has way more rights than other victims might, because she took the photos over herself. So thanks to this copyright process, she was able to get her pictures taken down

from some websites, sadly some keep popping up. So what do you guys think? Would your copyright your body parts, if they showed up on a revenge porn site? Like what do you think about this? I just think, well I'll tell you what I think first, before I want to know what you guys think too. But people, and I know that men,

it is very impopular and you're gonna be really upset with me for this, but this is the women. Listen, I know you're dating a guy and it's socially acceptable right now and he's probably saying, hey, I wanna see a picture of you're dating a guy and it's socially acceptable right now and he's probably saying, hey, I want to see a picture of you that's so hot last night and you want him to like you

and you want to be like your friends and you send him a photo. Just know that once you press send, that that photo has a really good chance and I would even say upwards of 97 to 98% chance that do, no matter how great a guy is, someone else is gonna see it. Might just be the friend he's sitting guy is, someone else is going to see it. Might just be the friendy sitting next to, or it might be your revenge porn site, okay?

Take your pick. Either one of those things are not good. So if you're trying to get a job one day, whatever, your breasts are now for public consumption. So I know guys, you love getting these photos, at least chop your head off, but still, that's like a better move, but just don't do it. Like, I don't know how else to speak it, because it's the norm now, and you almost guys might be, like, you know, you would say guys, that's the best way to make this all good.

Guys, pressure women for pictures too. They do. Pressure, I mean, yeah, they, of course, they're gonna ask for one of their guys, what do you expect? And every single guy that I know, that I'm sitting with at dinner, whatever good guy friends,

tons of them, they're like, hey, look at this. Look at this. Look at this one from last week. Well, you hang out with sle... No, dude, you have a brilliant library of sexes. Have I ever showed you anything? No, see? Dude, I'm just saying.

I think it is closed. No, we're not. We're not going to hang out with our dogs. No, but what do you think about her? Like, do you think it's a good, do you mean it's far? I think it is. It's what's great is the guy who had like one of the biggest revenge porn sites out there I don't know, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.

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I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. was crazy is the guy who had like one of the biggest revenge porn sites out there is doing so much time is because he also had another site pretending to be like oh I can get your photo off of the orange revenge porn sites if you pay this fee so he's basically like just blackmailing a bunch of people to a terrible person he should go jail he should's gonna jail for 15 years. I think he is actually.

So the bottom line is just to like, just yeah, don't take it. I know in the moment yet caught up, he's like, let's make a porn baby. You should then delete it after, make watch him delete it. Because I'm not for like, you know, can be fun for, you know, tape yourself having sex, but then just crush it, delete it. Now you don't have to like, tape, you just delete, delete. Delete. That's a joke. Okay, Men it. Now you don't want it to take, you just delete. Delete. Delete.

That's a joke. Okay, Menace. Yes. I think that we should get a little bit into some masturbation month, right? All right, let's talk masturbation. Okay. So there's so many tools now for masturbation. Oh my God, they're endless.

They're endless. They're endless. Wait till you see, oh, did I bring the, I meant to put it in my car for menace, the flesh light. I think it's in my car. I think it's in my car today, carry it out of the office today I think it's in my car. I think it's in my car today, carry it out of the office yesterday. Yeah, you did it.

It's in my car. So the launch, yeah, but anyway, there's amazing tools, like amazing, and which I've talked about, and we're gonna be doing another show about like the specific products and all that, but let me just say how it started, because people think I made it up,

which I did not. But our good friends in San Francisco, the good vibration, sex shop were the ones who started masturbation month in 1995, 1995. But tell me if you remember this. It was a response to the firing of then surgeon general, Dr. Joycelyn Elders, because she suggested

under the Clinton administration, I remember that while I was working in politics at the time, so I remember this whole thing. She suggested that masturbation being included in youth education programs completely agree with her. But everybody went crazy. And they were like, oh my God, that's terrible. Like don't talk about masturbation in public to kids,

which by the way is what I think sex education should be teaching. So you have to turn your body. Not only were people so pissed, and it was at the UN conference, it lost her the support of the White House, and she was fired by Bill Clinton. That is weak.

Right, who was I randomly getting a blowjob in the Oval Office, when I was like, okay. So they started in- I think you have that, it happened now, that people wouldn't go that crazy. No. Well, they would know five minutes earlier,

and you wouldn't need like 12 months of testimony. Yeah, I think that's the only way. And masturbation and all the kids that they said that they're going to teach these to they're like, I- Oh, you're saying a bad habit. I think you might Clinton getting in peach. You mean Joyce and elders, yeah. Yeah, like if she brought this up today, I don't think it would be a big deal at all.

And probably the young kids would be like, I have a snapshot. I already know all this. Exactly, exactly. Or they think they know. Right, exactly. So, you know, and I love that it was, it was thing they know but right exactly so you know and I love that it was it was good vibrations you started it which and if I

mention any toys there anything just go to my our code is Emily or GV Emily 20 for 20% off anything I answer talk about GV Emily 20 is the code but if you go to my website and you click on the good vibes banner you can see like I've a toy store that I've got all my favorite toys there so anyway

but first I'm gonna take a quick, before I get into the tip of some masturbation month, that was just some history for you. I'm gonna tell you a little bit about, oh. Yeah, go ahead. The flashlight. Oh, yeah. Yeah, what?

Yeah, the flashlight. So the flashlight, okay you guys, it's big, the masturbation, number one sex toy for Ben. Probably the only one you want. And we were talking earlier about the launch pad, which is actually a device speak of masturbation, number one sex toy for them, probably the only one you want. And we were talking earlier about the launch pad, which is actually a device, that you can put in your, so you stick the flashlight, which looks like a flashlight, and you can

take it, it's a masturbation, so you put it in there and you can attach your iPad to it. So let's say you're having phone, sex, phone sex, you're watching your, you know, partner, you're doing some Skype sex, or you're watching porn, you can actually be using the machine up and down in your penis to make it to mass-made. But anyway, Slushlight also makes amazing toys with kind of-

Are you gonna make a launch pad video? I should. Well, I bring it to you to give to you one of that for your show, right? Yeah, they will talk about it. Yeah, I I got one. But they also have all these really cool things. And these flush lights are, I mean, they,

for men and for masturbation, if you want to last longer in bed this month, maybe that's your goal. Maybe sometimes you just don't last long. Stamina training unit. It's awesome. It helps you practice lasting longer, becoming a better lover, and your experience. Some of the most mind-blowing organisms of your life,

so I've heard. And the material, because I don't have penis, but the material is made by NASA, patent and material. It feels like the real deal. Looks and feels like the real deal. I was actually invited to the flesh I had quarters to watch. Yes. Because a lot of porn stars, there's a lot of porn stars too,

if you like porn stars, which you might, she might have ever vagina molded and it might be an exact replica. They're not all like this. And they wanted me to come see you next week, but I couldn't go, but I'm going to go another one. So go to sexwithme.com, click on the Fleshite banner, use code Emily and you get a free bottle of their award-winning fleshloom.

So check that out, do it now. That's awesome. I was listening to Howard Stern and he had like these porn stars that were leaving his show and going to get that done where they were going to have their- Yeah, by flashlight. Yeah molded. Yeah, it's awesome. So you're gonna do it, right? That's why you're going- You know what? I don't think that I want my vagina for public consumption. Oh what?

Yeah, that's not my gym. I think I would have done it by now or never done it or I think it's not me. Just like naked photos. Yeah, I'm not gonna do a naked- I've never sent a naked photo in my life and I'm not gonna start molding my vagina either. Nothing wrong with it. Well, you're no fun. I actually found a statistic today guys. I have this fact on luck.

It costs, I think, five, I'm pulling up the factor and it costs $5,000 per vagina mold. Wow. Yeah, like it costs a lot of money to get your vagina molded. Yeah, $5,000 for one mold. That's either lady parts or behind parts. Wow. That's a lot. Yeah. I mean when I was at the AVN show a few years ago They had them just standing there with like with the stuff in the vagina molding. I mean some people it's interesting. They have like this

These creeps. I think they're from like Sweden or something and they do like edible They have a website called edible anus. Oh, yeah, and they like mold your your butt hole area. And then they make chocolates out of them. No thanks, that sounds not good. But we do have chocolate penises in the office, which I've been snacking on lately, but chocolate but whole still sound good. Okay, so why do we need a month dedicated to masturbation? I know.

Right, because you're thinking I've been doing this in third grade. I know it feels good. What the hell? Whatever. Because masturbation is more than just an instant release. It's also about your sexual health and wellness because actually the more you masturbate and you release your semen, for example,

it's good for you, it's good for your prostate. And in any relationship that you're in, if it's sexual or otherwise, you need to know and love yourself before you can have someone else do the same. So a lot of us have self-doubt or body images used, and it's just a great way to learn your body, and especially for women who get into relationships,

and I hope this is changing with millennials, I don't know for sure, right? Is there robots yet that can get you there? Almost, seriously, we're very close. But figure out where you like, and figure out what feels good to you because like I've said, I was raised at least that it was about the man's pleasure and that the second I have sex love and orgasm because he knows what to do and it just penis goes into vagina. It's like he goes into the addition and the car starts.

Yeah. Pines goes into the vagina even orgasm. Like that's what I thought. And so then I thought something was wrong with me. Well, there was nothing wrong with me. It's that I had to take time to really, I wasn't one of those women who just had it. Some women do right away. Yeah. And I had to like master. I had to like work on it. I had to walk into good vibrations when I moved San Francisco, like from Michigan off the boat. And I was like, hi. And they're the friendliest store if you go there. And I was like, Hey, because

they're also online, but a store. I was like, hi. and they're the friendliest store if you go there. And I was like, hey, because they're also online, but a store. I was like, hi, I have an orgasm and they're like so set up for me. Like, hi, okay. So here's your clitoris. Like they're showing me that here's the toys and like, I for sure enough bought a toy, bought a book and you know, I was on my way. And so it didn't, but I went after it because I wanted to experience it. And not only that, if you already have great sex and great orgasms, you can learn more ways

because our bodies have so much capacity for pleasure. And speaking of like I was saying, there's benefits, reduces stress. One of the biggest killers people sex drive is stress, anxiety, all that stuff because you have an endorphin release when you have an orgasm. Like you actually have adrenaline, excitement, endorphins, reduction of prostate gland infection for men. So you got a master rate, resistant to yeast or pelvic infections for women. So if you're prone to those, it helps with that.

And it's an excellent cardiovascular workout. I've like sweat sometimes during masturbation. Like I've been like, oh my God, it's so hot. I pulled a muscle for sure. Did you? Yeah, happens, right? So women who masturbate, here's nothing though. So another, I said the big killer of sex drive or libido or why you don't want to have sex

is stress and anxiety. Another one, body image issues. Not feeling great, Ross Matthews was talking about this podcast. He's like, I think I waited too long to have sex because I'm ashamed about my weight. And so, women who masturbate regularly are more likely to feel positive about their body because they feel in control and they know their own body. And it's shown to actually cause higher self-esteem and sexual confidence in women. Because when you know what makes you feel good and you realize that your body is

amazing capacity for pleasure, you'll be more confident. Yeah, definitely. Yeah, so. I wanted to ask if this thing was invented yet. Okay, go. If you're going to talk to the fleshlight people, you know I've been ask if this thing was invented yet. If you're gonna talk to the flashlight people, you know I've been talking about this for about 10 years now. Have something with a flashlight that a male has sex with on one end,

and then it's like USB to internet, and then on the other end, somewhere, and then the brother. She's thinking it never dies. It just came out. Oh my god. Finally, I swear to God. It's called the't get an overdrive. Yes. It just came out. Oh my God. Finally. It just came to our opposite end. I swear to God.

It's called the key. Kiru. Yeah, it arrived today. It literally arrived today. And it is the coolest friggin thing you've ever seen. It might be one thing that I talked about 10 years ago. You did. You've been talking about forever.

Maybe you said that I was insane. No. Yeah, I didn't get it, but I get it now. Dude, okay, so this is, I think, I don't know if it's for sale yet. It is for sale. It's like five. I think the price went on. It's like $500. Okay, it's called the key. I want to say it right. Okay, it's K- yet. It is for sale. It's like five. I think the price point on it is like $500.

Okay, it's called the key. I want to say it right. Okay, it's K-I-I-R-O-O. Okay, right. So check this. So, like men said, it's a flashlight and you put your penis in it. But while you're doing that, you're partner on the other end, at our house, across the country, doesn't matter, has a dildo.

The vibrator that she's sticking inside of her and you guys are connected, so when it goes inside, let's say I'm doing men's, we're doing it together for a moment, don't get grossed out. So you're putting it in my vagina, and how I'm feeling it, like if I'm tightening or whatever, you're gonna feel that same thing, because your penis is in a flesh like that's connected to everything, and I'm gonna feel your thrusting,

and it's like rubbing sex, and did you see it? The picture? I'm looking at it right now. It's truly just came today rubbing sex. And did you see it? The picture? No, I'm looking up right now. It's truly just came today. What? I know. I've seen it at the trade shows. I think it's K-I-R-O-O.

Oh, yeah. Cute. On the floor. And there's a video and stuff. I mean, it's brand literally. I think I got a sample model. It's just. Whoa.

Yeah. Dude, is that what you were talking about? See, that's what I've been talking about for 10 years. Why didn't we make it? I don't know, honey, because we've got a lot of ideas that, like, your dump truck idea for the vibrator, but it's a terrible name, but we could have done it. No, but I do think that, yeah, it's amazing, amazing. And I've heard, like, virtual sex stuff is going to be, you know, rock and people's world

people seeing it. I know, right, there's the... No one's going to leave their house. That's the point. There's the Oculus headset which is basically It's 360 3D type of type of stuff and they're starting to make porn with that so oh my god no Please we already have enough issues

No, but it would be cool is like if they had this and then you had a Oculus thing where you actually can see the person That'd be awesome Dude, that's like worse than people's addictions of you But you know what that's just gonna get people they will never leave the house will never normal sex They won't talk to the public People are never gonna want to have normal sex ever again I know like why would you need to like I don't need to get sweaty. I don't need to have this. Oh what okay So then there's there's a gay virgin where there's two guys that can use this thing

Mm-hmm And that's actually more money than the one with the female male Oh, what? Okay, so then there's a gay virgin where there's two guys that can use this thing. And that's actually more money than the one with the female male. We should give one away if they're open to it. I'm not gonna say it right now, but we'll talk to them about it. Okay. That's pretty cool.

Well, I have a menace, you could have been called the menace. See? But now it's called the kind of. You know everybody, and I give you the ideas where you don't run away. Do it on busy.

Okay, listen, am I paying it to you guys at best? You've got a private jet right now. My private jet is coming menace. I will have a, no well you don't run or open. Do it on busy. Okay listen, am I paying you guys a mess? You got a private jet right now. My private jet is coming, menace. I will have a part, no, I don't know. You guys just keep listening to the show and like supporting it and send me money. No, you know, if you like our sponsors, you could buy some of the products

and then I'll have a private jet and I'll drive you all around the world. Sweet. Okay, so listen, here's the thing I'm masturbating. You don't need a partner to do it. You don't ever grets in the morning because you're feeling kind of like Bad about yourself because you didn't text with somebody you don't know their name Take as long as short as you like and it doesn't matter if your partner's messy or someone's coming over

You can you know your home alone doesn't matter. You can just do it anywhere anytime Okay, so here's the recipe. So you all have a perfect masturbation month You need to practice so I am not gonna tell the story again about my friend who masturbated So here's the recipe. So you all have a perfect masturbation month. You need to practice. So I am not gonna tell the story again about my friend who masturbated every day for 30 days until she had an orgasm and it was until day 28 because I've told that story a lot. But all I'm saying is how many people have committed

to your sexual expansion, to learning your body and to knowing it makes you feel good. Cause you probably already think, I know, like I get on top of your woman, I have an orgasm this way, guys are like, whoosh, I use my hand. So what if I told you that your body could, that's great. I'm glad you get off and you know your thing, but there is so much more. Like it's like, are we use 10% of our brain? I think we only know maybe 10% of what makes us feel good.

You know, people can have orgasms and pleasure in so many ways. So for men, this month, you've got to practice. That's my first tip. So I just think that for men, again, if you maybe want to last longer in bed or just feel something different, try the flashlight stand-up training unit.

Because this is the best sex toy for men, and it turns out it's also multitasking. So even if you're not saying that you have a problem, but if you just like one or last longer, and it's really important for guys to learn their arousal cycle, and to know when you're about to ejaculate, when you're about to go over,

if you want to have more control, and it helps you, and you freaking feels good. And you know, 20 minutes, that's it. That's for men. Yes. Do you want? I don't want to give you one years ago. You came to my office and said,

I was like, dude, do you want one? No, no. No. But you know what? It wasn't a flashlight, it was a cheap knockoff. Yeah, yeah. It wasn't as cool as a flashlight. No.

Okay, I'll give you one more. It was like some weird thing. No, it was a weird thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it was totally a bad one. Sorry about that. Okay, for women, you guys, great, you got to practice, and you got to learn about what you like and how you like it, because whether you're with someone or you're single and you

are going to get in a relationship, this is such a great time for you to like, okay, I'm not a relationship, but I'm going to get my sex on anyway and figure out your own body. So you might already know, and you might say, well, I just, you know, reach for this vibrator and this is what I do. Try not to this month. Like for at least the one of the days, say, you know what? I'm going to start giving myself a little erotic touch. So what does that mean? You know, you might want to set the mood, you might want to light some candles, you might want to turn on some music and just start touching your

body all over with your hands, use some massage oils light one of my Emily and Tony massage candles do something like that and explore different parts of your body and see what specific touches and pressures and movements feel best. And once you figure that out, then you can bring in your toy again. But like I've discovered like there's certain toys for example, like the magic one that you use certain ways. I'm like, okay, it's easy, it's quick, it gets me off, whatever.

But then I was like, you know what? I have so many toys as you know, and it's part of my job. I've discovered so many people personally, over the last even though now that I'm actually spending time and using them a lot over the last five, 10 year, five, six years, that I'm not just saying like you should. I've learned that there's parts of myself Lebia inner part of walls. I didn't think could have as many orgasms and my

clitoris so 8,000 nerve endings 8,000 okay. So nothing else has 8,000 penis has 4,000. And the only reason exists is for your own pleasure. So the clitoris you might know like oh I touch it this way every time in round circles. But maybe touching the side of your clitoris and not going directly for it could give you a completely different sensation, but you don't know. What you try that one night and then go to go to take 10 minutes exploring that. And you know, it's and just figured out. And then when you figure it out, you'll be like, oh, I can do this during sex with this move and this will feel good. And of course, my partner or just keep getting it off that way.

Cause do you feel menace like in a relationship with someone that you kinda know what gets or that you do the same thing every time? Just do the same thing. Cause you know that will get them to where they need to be. Right, exactly. So. You don't really explore anymore.

No, you start exploring is like in the beginning of the relationship and then you kinda just. Yeah, you're like, this is it, relationship and then you kind of it is. Yeah. You're like, this is it. We have no time, but a lot. And that's why I do the show. That's why I do the show. I do get tired of it.

I never do because I know that sex is one of the most pleasurable experiences we can have on the planet. And it's free, most time. That should pay for someone. It's so enjoyable. And our bodies have this amazing expansive capacity or pleasure that we never tap into. So I'm like, I want people to do this.

I want you to see that you can have multiple orgasms who you never had, that you can't orgasm from anal sex. For example, if you're a woman and you like that kind of thing, I'm just saying, don't settle for what you know now. It reminds you of like, you dropped out of school in the fifth grade or something, and then you're like, oh, I only know this and this is the, this is how I read this level. But there's so much more out there. It's almost like you stopped having sex when you met your partner or you know, in high school, people learn certain things. So that's why it's important.

It's my soapbox. I feel really strongly about it. You do. OK, so no matter how great sex is though between your partner, I'm saying you need some me time this month. And it's funny because don't you sometimes wish that when you had a new partner, it came with an instruction manual. I like this. I like to the left. I like to the right.

Because as a guy, you're having sex with something that you like, and you're like, man, I wish I knew I knew everything because A guy you're always worried that You're gonna suck and then she's not gonna come back, you know Are you in your head? Are you thinking it the first two times? Yeah, I gotta be really good or she's gonna like never come back You know, and I want to continue having sex with this person. So it'd be kind of nice to have, you know, I Know I was thinking you know, as I shouldn't say this out loud But I kind of think like it could be my my next iPhone app

Because you feel that your sexual preferences like maybe you do it there together and then you exchange it and then you already know With the version likes and it's like your sexual roadmap gets weird the awkward conversation. I don't know Yeah, or maybe it's a funny six-questioner. My six map or something. My six map. There you go. Okay, so because everyone likes something different below the belt and no one knows your body better than you. So when you're with someone new, you can start to tell them and you can even do mutual masturbation. That's a big one. Watch how each other touches all that stuff. And have some fun this month. Okay, so next you want to discover your hotspot. So this one is for the ladies. So here's the deal.

Clitoral orgasms way more popular than G-spot. But everyone says G-spots like in the month. Okay, so next you want to discover your hot spots. So this one is for the ladies. So here's the deal. Literal orgasms way more popular than G-spot. But everyone says G-spots like the Holy Grail. Do you know the difference? After up 10 years? Yes. You do. So, but there's a lot of women who just say, you know what? I can't have a G-spot orgasm. I've never had one during sex. I've been with my partner for 10, 15 years or I've had a lot of sex. I have little orgasms. Game over. Guess what?

Not necessarily true. You can learn to have a G-Spot organ that most women are capable of it, but they don't get it during with just a penis. Maybe your G-Spots in a different place. So, you know, if you want to find it, this is the month to get in there and figure it out. So if you don't know where your G-Spot is, it you want to find it, this is the month to get in there and figure it out. So if you don't know where your G spot is,

it's located to, and you can do this with a partner. In fact, fingers are the best way to find it. So if you're in a relationship, I have no problem with you at all, saying, hey, buddy, that's coming tonight. Give me your hands. Two inches inside the vagina on the top side of the wall, and it's actually easy to locate when you're already aroused.

So it helps if you're making out, kissing, maybe even goes down on you or maybe you've already have a clitoral orgasm because a lot of women need a clitoral orgasm before the orgasm so anyway it sounds it's like a rough being it feels like a rough spot inside. Yeah, like the bottom of your tongue. Yeah exactly. Right, like an apricot pit they say whenever small or though. The size and location varies but you'll know a bumpy walnut like texture too, they say. So next time you're treating yourself to some self loving,

try inserting something new, like try inserting the Fifi by Jésus, there's so many great G-spot toys there. G-spot toys that you could actually have a little orgasm the way you do and then stick that in there and start poking around and feeling it. If the figures don't work or if you just want to have your alone. I'm telling you, I'm going to be honest.

I said this few ago and that's how I had my first one. I really thought that I couldn't and it didn't happen the first second there but I was like, oh, and you clench your muscle and you figured out and then you could have one and then you translate that into section of your partner. And the fefie is great because it was designed to help you achieve this G-spot orgasm. It's perfectly contoured and certain shaft has flexible ears and it also has a clitorates

like a little rabbit. It takes something familiar, clitoral stimulation, makes it, it was something less familiar, G-spot and then you can have the blended orgasm. The blended orgasm the blended orgasm Yeah, have you found that women your width have more G spotter. Clitoral. Do you know? She's just run me. Hey, yeah, no mostly Clitoral

Then G spot G spot is elusive and scary. It's work man Well, it doesn't have to be yeah, it's just less accessible I think it's like people want to go right for the button that's right on the outside. So they're like, all right, let's just focus on that. As a guy, it's hard for them to hold it in. You know, they go for the quicker, easier option. Exactly.

And there's a lot of women that know, like, oh, I just moved this way and it hits the spot. Like honestly, your G spots are in a, you're lucky. They're in a certain place or however you move, but you can get into those positions that would allow you to have one. And I was going to say that, oh, and when I went to give vibrations when I first moved there, I did buy a book about the G-Spot, but like I never read it.

I just used the little vibrator and it's a year later. So I'm saying there is a book called like, there's a million of them, fine, a G-Spot. Okay. So also, here's a thing about masturbation month that you can do. Take your old favorites to a new level So if you have your favorite masturbation device, but you want to upgrade it You can do that because we get into a sex right people ask me all the time or like I only use this vibrator I only do something else like and if you've had your vibrator for like five ten years and that a lot of my good close friends

You like have money money to spend, like now I've got this old, I'm like you cannot be friends with me and have that plastic janky thing from China with fallates in it that are gonna blow up your vagina. Like there's so many beautiful sex toys on the market that are like waterproof and like rechargeable and good for you. So like go shopping, go to your local sex toy store,

ask some questions, upgrade it, buy yourself something. You know, and also I have to announce that my favorite toy, the Magic Wom, which plugs into the wall, is coming out as the recharging Magic Wom, cordless this month. What? Unplugged. Big deal. Big deal for masturbation. It's the mascot of masturbation month this year.

Lubricant is my final point, because Lubricant is amazing for sexual pleasure. So if you're masturbating and during sex, you might not be wet right away. So add a little water-based lube which is great to use with toys and start to like touch it. Women research studies show over and over again that women who use lube regularly during masturbation and sex have more orgasms and more sexual satisfaction. Even if you're already wet and the stigma with lube

which I've talked about, is that like it's dry, just comfort the guys feel bad, I did something wrong, I didn't turn her on, do you still believe anymore? No, no, no. You're so mature for that. So get some lube, I recommend, I love System Joe, they have water-based lube for women, it's amazing, or pure, PJUR has a silicone- some lube. I recommend I love system Joe. They have water-based lube for women. It's amazing or pure PJ you are has a silicone-based lube for extra slippery sex with your partner

So do that Those are my masturbation on tips, but don't worry that is not all. They'll be more coming But I hope I drove it home and I think in the past years I've just been like get this toy do this But I really wanted to get home like, that if you really think this month, you could do some different stuff and take your sex life to the next level. Do it. There's no downside to this, right?

No negative. Okay. What are you gonna do this month? I, community set, try and have a nipple orgasm. Oh, a nipple orgasm. Oh, I'm gonna do some of you that can do that. Yeah, did you? Yeah, did you?

How was that, hot? Hot, yeah. Or she has told you about it or you were the procure Procure, but I she's had a Boob jobs and so I Wonder if it still happens Well, I decrease if I had if I friggin had

Nipporgas and potential I would not get a good job that be so risky. Yeah, yeah, but no, it's popular So that's I'm gonna do. What do you gonna do? I should find out. You should buy it. Do you want a toy for your girlfriend? Uh, you should look at it. Can we talk after them? Come come come.

Do you know two, uh, your friends at Hustler, like, sent like five bags full of sex toys to my office? They did. How's their Hollywood? Yeah. Why are you making it for you to take any? Just to say I... No, it's sitting in my office I had to cover up stuff.

So when people walk in the office, they didn't see a bunch of sex toys all over the place. That's hilarious. Well, you know, have a good time. There you go. Tell your buddies that it worked that it's Master Basement, dammit. Oh yeah.

Okay, so we're gonna get in some emails. All right, cool. Thank you, everyone, for emailing me feedback at sexwithamely.com. Love hearing from you. Okay, dear Emily, what is the protocol with bringing sex toys from a past relationship into a new one?

Obviously, case by case, but generally speaking, is it an acceptable practice? I know what you're gonna say, but I know what I'm gonna say. Sorry, you got to throw out the old rabbit to the house or the packer bucket. No way. You do not, a woman just thinking, oh my God, like there's a puber Rocket. No way, dude. Bernie. You do not. A woman just thinking, oh my God,

like there's a pubic here on it, like who's was that? Like do not, you have to get rid of them or give them back to your ex. You still cost a ton of money. No, they don't. You can't replace them. Yeah, her first reaction is like,

where's that bin and where's the front door? Yeah. That'll be your second reaction. Don't do it. And now, if you're in a relationship, you can buy toys together. So take her, if you're into toys, go sex toy shopping. Go to your local store, order some buy toys together. So take her, if you're into toys, go sex toyshopping.

Go to your local store, order some stuff. Yeah. Well, what were you going to say? No, I was looking over to see if you were wearing your necklace. I was wearing my vibrator necklace earlier. Yeah, now I was wearing it yesterday, I mean. And it turned on in the middle of the Ross Matthews show. He's like, what is that?

I was literally leaned off. It was before I even talked to him, like, I'm wearing a vibrator. He's like, how did you get so comfortable with sex that you wear a vibrator around your neck? He's like, I don't know our Sandvied blood you. I've been seeing those things pop up everywhere. Where are people? It's called the, um, the Vesper by Crave, if you want. Tell Emily San Chiu. Like, oh, uh, pair, like one of Paris Hilton's like best friends. It was like, uh, really well known for talking for. I follow her on Instagram. She was like posting, having one.

Yeah. Yeah. it's amazing. I mean, I get, first of all, the best part is that we are all time at compliments, just because it's a cool necklace, but it's like a super powerful vibrator. So Chris, throw him away, throw him away and get some new ones. That's all I gotta tell you about that.

If you wanna get, you know, do the classy, the classy one, the necklace vibrator, do it. Yeah, exactly, if you want to, in my room, which anyone has been, or you could even get a bullet, you could have like, oh, like men, I got this at a party. They make these little bullets,

and they're like 10 bucks at stores, like screaming, oh, make some, and they're really powerful, because bullets are great for literal stimulation, and you'd be like, oh, I got this at a party, if you don't want to be like, oh, I have a toy full of sex toys,

a door full of sex toys, but they come like wrapped, like, and celebrate their 10 bucks. So get that, if you're really down with it, Chris, and you want them. Toilet full of sex toys, a drawer full of sex toys, but they come like wrapped like in celifade. Their ten bucks would get that if you're really down with it, Chris, and you want them. So. Wow. Yes. Okay.

Next email. All right. I'll get into this one. Dear Emily, I had a hysterectomy in August of 2014. I still have one ovary, so I don't have any major hormone issues, but I have a scar on the inside of a vagina and no cervix. I'm very self-conscious about how sex now. Can a guy really tell that I'm different from a woman with a cervix?

Sign Andy. Okay, Andy, this is a really popular question, because women do get concerned about this, and they want to know if guys, you know, their partners can tell if they have to interact to me, and most guys will not be able to. And many women report they even have stronger orgasms and men feel like they can go in deeper. This would also be a great time. You can practice your keglexer sizes. I have an iPhone app called kegle camp.

That can increase tightness and you can practice tightening your muscles. But it's really common. And I found this really interesting because she has those cervix. So people would say, oh, this empty hole and guys are like, I can this really interesting, because she has no cervix, so people would say, oh, this empty hole and guys are like, I can't feel anything, which isn't true. So if you had a bowl of spaghetti, and I think there was like a large meatball in the middle,

and then someone ate the large meatball. Yeah. The space where the meatball formerly occupied, it would be replaced by the spaghetti. So no one would know the meatball was ever there. So a woman's pelvis is like a bowl filled with bowled the spaghetti. And if the uterus, the meatball is removed,

the bowled falls into the space, formally occupied with the uterus, and there is no empty space. Wow. Yeah, how about that? That makes sense, everyone? You, I'm like really hungry now. I know, I wanna be hungry.

I know, but look at that. So also people think their vagina is going to be different in their husband and studies show and they've talked a lot of guys. Every single man who returned the questionnaire said their wife's vagina felt exactly the same as before the hysterectomy. And the majority felt that their relationship did not suffer.

So there's a lot of myths and questions and concerns. And so I totally understand your feeling this way, but don't let this Andy get in wave your sex life and insecurities. There's already enough stuff to worry about and you're totally fine. Yeah. And since we're talking about meatballs,

there's a good meatballs spot in front of the Britney Spears theater inside Planet Hollywood in Las Vegas. It's just FYI, I hate hearing meatballs. Really? Yeah, so. Have you been in your show? A little note. Yeah, I've been to her show.

I was just there just recently. We talked about it on the podcast. Dude, you know I don't remember what happens in this world. Why do you hate me so much? I live for you. OK, so hey, Emily, I heard you on the Love Line podcast, and you told the caller that there is a remote control vibrator for women that the guy can control with his phone.

Is there anything like that for gay couples? I'm sure there is. Well, Bert, funny you should ask. I would think I was probably talking about the duo by J.J. But now there's the new one. And it's an anal toy for him or for her. I would recommend that one. It can be controlled with a discrete pen, it's like a pen shape remote and it has an app. So on your Bluetooth, like on your phone, but Bluetooth, Bluetooth, you can have sensual long distance play and intensifying for play, enhancing pleasure

during sex. So you can basically say, okay, babe, or you can even use the duo. You can use any of these because I don't know where you get turned on. I know that you're saying gay, so I'm assuming this is an anal toy. So I'm making that assumption that this one you'd like, the NUO and-O, by J.J.U. but there's a lot of them out there. Now there's one by O.M.I.B.A.D., but that's like more literal. But so let's just stick with this,

but here's how they all work. Is that you download the app from J.J.U. on your phone. So let's say your partner is somewhere, and you're like, hey babe, let's have a sex day at eight o'clock, you could even take it on Skype, FaceTime, and he could control it for you. So he could be like, okay, right now the vibration,

you're like, I got it on, and then you're clinging in. It's like, how cool is that? Super cool. So if you're in London's relationship, or you just wanna, like, you know what else is fun, I think, because there's actually a physical remote control, too, that you could go out dinner and have him wear it. Are you trying to out once?

I did, I did, I did. I was trying. I remember I went to a party with a guy, this was in San Francisco years ago. I had the remote control panties. And I was wearing them at this party. And it was, it was, he had the little remote control in his pocket and it was super fun.

It was like total four play all night. Because I would be not, I'd be, you know, me at parties, whatever, I don't talk to the person I'm with typically. I move around and I'd be talking to someone else and be like, you can't hear it though. And I'm like, wow, that's so hot. And he was like, you know, all of this stuff is fun. You guys just, what I'm saying, like sex is fun. If you were having sex the same way, like go buy some friggin' vibrating panties.

Call it a day. Yeah, what have? What have I do? Um, so that's when I've got time for a mess. It was great. This was so great seeing you too. No, thank you to all listeners. They tweet. They tweet me at the time. I know, I love my listeners. And I just thank you. Yeah, cool. No, I really, guys, I would not be able to do this without you and I love hearing from you

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