Sex With Emily - Meet Your Sex Toy Match

Episode Date: May 23, 2015

Three women, one epic sex toy review: Can you handle it? In this show, we're keeping Masturbation Month going with the best sex toy review day yet! Emily, her producer Madison, and new intern Laurie all open up about some of their favorite new sex toys, share their experiences with the hot new programmable Flex vibrator, as well as some of the buzzworthy classics.Want to know what pleasure-packed product will help you find your G-spot? Or what toys are best for play for two? These ladies have your answers. From first times with multiple O’s to sex toys with techy boys to Emily’s impeccable impression of a vibrator, this is one review day you don’t want to miss!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Happy shopping. Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex. Eyes that mark our secret institutions. Betruise they call them in a fight on date. Hey, Emily, you got a boyfriend because my man here He just got his heart broken he thinks you're kind of cute The girls got a hair stand. Oh my the women know about shrinkage isn't it common?

No, what do you mean like laundry? It's drinks and we not talk about sex so much. Are you kidding me? Oh my god, I'm off here. I feel so proud. Being bad feels pretty good. You know Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between. For more information, go to sexwithemily.com where you can check out our podcast, our video center, for our goddamn mailing list, if you haven't done it yet,

because that's a good time getting the emails, I promise, and review us. Check out our show, however you listen, you can go to iTunes, and review us, tell us what you like about the show, and email me what you like about the show, feedback at sexwithemily.com, but give us stars, give us five stars,

if you don't like the show, then just stop listening, and don't review us. But I'm assuming you'll have the show. So thanks everyone for being here today. Oh, we have special guests here today. It is Madison. Hi. Hi. Hi. Hi, Madison. Oh, hello. Hello, Laurie. Hello. Laurie is my latest and greatest intern and we've got some exciting stuff going on today because we used to call intern sex tour of you day, which started a long time ago on the show. But now we've got all of us on, so we're all actually with this is our first time.

It's like three girls, what would it say? Three girls, one vibe? Oh, yeah, it's three ladies, three vaginas, one vibrator. Right, exactly. Because we actually all tried pretty much, we're going to go through a few of our favorite things today, our favorite new toys. They're all a little bit different, but we each had different experiences with them. So I'm pretty excited about that. And we're going to like break it down for you and stuff you give you with couples, men, women,

so that's pretty exciting. And thanks you guys for being here with me. But first we're going to get into some sex in the news. I love this one here. Okay, so an Illinois woman beats her bow I'm sexy on the news. I love this one here. Okay, so an Illinois woman beats her bow after her refuses to have sex in El Burrito local bathroom. Okay, in Chicago. And Illinois woman remains locked up

on $79,000 bail, following her arrest for drug possession and battering her boyfriend. When he refused to have sex in the men's bathroom at an El Burrito local restaurant in suburban Chicago. So she's been had Stephanie's being held 26 in the Cook County jail and according to the police report, Miller's boyfriend Matthew told cops that he and Miller left Sullivan's Irish pub after Stephanie began throwing sandwiches in the bar. The

couple then walked across to El Burrito local for dinner because I guess she didn't want the sandwiches. As detailed by the police department, Slattery 26 said that he was in the Mexican eatery's bathroom when Miller entered and began taking off her clothes. While stripping, she asked Matthew to have sex with her cops noted. When he declined, her boyfriend declined, to engage in 8 p.m. bathroom sex at a burrito joint,

she allegedly became upset. Struck Matthews head off the wall while he was head off the wall while he was utilizing the restroom. When officers subsequently arrived at the restaurant, Miller, who appeared heavily intoxicated, shocked, was sitting on the bathroom floor when she opened a large black purse. There was prescription painkillers,

name of another woman. OK, this one was all messed up. And she's in jail scheduled for a circuit court hearing. This is this is this is pretty interesting story right? I mean what really like okay I mean I guess it's a state-of-case of being drunk but I mean I most guys you think are gonna give it up in a bathroom. I thought like maybe he was like I wish we were Burger King instead. I don't know why didn't he like well. Is she asked you know? She asked. She didn't demand for it. So she stripped though. As I say, but then she also banged his head against the wall.

He banged his head against the wall when he says, when he says, no, he's peeing. I'm like, wait, she's ahead off the wall. I don't know. I just think when she was throwing sandwiches, that should have been the sign to go home. Yeah, I just want to know how he said no. Because you know, it's always about like how,

like how the person rejects you or like how they respond. So I'd like to know like Matthew, how did you turn her down? Were you gentle about her? Were you kind of a dick? Right. Exactly. Maybe you kind of deserve to be hit. And I'm sure they were. Oh, sorry.

Because women feel no. We don't do that. We don't be done by it. Right. We don't say that. That's a good thing. But we're really, she was probably just wasted. I mean, they're both wasted.

She's throwing sandwiches. And if your girlfriend starts throwing sandwiches or you get kicked out of one place, that's usually the time to call Uber or happen to cap and just go home. Forgo. You don't go to the burrito place. Exactly.

Probably not a great idea. OK, next, sex and news. I love this one because it's close to my heart. Nearly half of Tinder users aren't even single. This just in, not all Tinder users are being honest. What? According to recent International Survey of more than 47,000 internet users from global web index, approximately 42%

of Tinder users aren't even single. 12% admit they're in a relationship and 30% are married. It gets fascinating once the research is broken down by gender. Well, a third of male users identify as in a relationship and 23% is married, that's nothing compared to the ladies, more than half of whom appear to already be dating and 40% married, 40% of the women on Tinder are married. That's actually gonna be pretty good odds for me

and lower your on Tinder as well, right? I was for a short time, but I'm on several apps that are similar to tender. Okay, me too. We're going to talk about that in a minute. So the just of it, four out of ten tender users aren't single, and women are almost twice as likely to be using the app on a relationship. Before we start referring to tender as the app for cheaters, consider the framing Jason Mann or the research group ahead of trends used when he described the gender results. It suggests that women are keener than men to go window shopping, he said. That's it.

Window shopping, not cheating, just perusing. As though people in relationships or with rings on their fingers are fully allowed to go on Tinder when they're bored, treating it not as a hook-up app, but as an innocent place for social discovery. So, you know, I wonder you guys, you know, is it just more of a game? Do you think people are like, you know, these women are like, I'm a little bored. I want to see what all my friends are doing, because I know I've been on and off Tinder for a while. I mean, I started, you know, remember I had my first Tinder date was actually on the section that Emily show, which you can find. It was maybe a year ago now. Yeah, I think so. It was a little over a year ago.

It was pretty fun. It was actually a really good date on the air. But, you know, anyway, the point is, that was my first dinner date, and now I've been back on it now, and I think it's interesting that, oh, I was gonna say, is that all my married friends and my friends' relationships are obsessed,

they're like, you're on dinner, let me see, because they're also curious about it, and they just like take over, and they start liking people, not liking people, and they just can't believe this exists, because they're also curious about it. And they just take over and they start liking people, not liking people and they just can't believe this exists because they're married or whatever. But that's one thing. But to be actually in a relationship and to put your picture up,

I mean, because first of all, the thing about Tinder is you have so many, you can see where you mutual friends are. I mean, how do you do that? Yeah, it's not very anonymous on Tinder. No, not at all. It's heartbreaking to me. I'm extremely honest with my online dating apps.

I'm like, I'm looking for a relationship. I just got out of one and like this this study makes me really sad. I know, right? I mean, I wonder if it's just Tinder. Like, there's other sites now like Hinge is another one that's similar. And so I don't know because how Tinder works is it connects to your Facebook profile. So unless you're setting up a, like that's a lot of work. You just set up a Facebook profile. Yeah, I'd be like a catfish. Right, exactly.

I mean, so, okay, so I recently have started going back on, I just wanna tell you guys on dating sites. And just for good times. And I don't know, it's weird because I lately, and I'm also, I mean, can hinge, I mean, is that bad, whatever, it doesn't matter. That's kind of like Tinder, but it's different because if you haven't used it, yeah. I've not used that one.

Okay, so it's more like you have to have friends in common, but the weird thing about that is, so I was just on, I haven't gone out with anyone yet, and it's kind of a full-time job when you're circling like a lake, and it's a different, you gotta get in, and I can barely text friends back, then I gotta like, remember that someone like, we liked, and we matched. But then they can see your full on name. It has your first, it can have your first last name or your picture, but like,

so one guy was like, we matched, and then he's like, I'm a fan of your show. I'm like, uh-oh, and then he actually seemed really nice and normal and cute. So I'm like, well, I've never gone out with like a fan of the show or anyone who even knew the show, and I don't even,'t even... I was like, is he... whatever. So I messaged him back, I'm like, really? He's like, I bet that happens all the time. I'm like, not yet. But I don't know if that's... He listens to the show.

I don't have. That's a little weird. Right. Because then you don't remember a lot of what you say on the show sometimes. So then like, you don't really know what he knows about you and what he does it. No, I mean, I know the gist of what I say. And I guess I know the gist of... I mean, maybe not the specifics, but I guess people, no, you're right. I have said on the show that I don't actually remember what happens when it's done, but overall, if he's been a fan, I know that he knows that I'm single woman, live in LA, you know, so that could be interesting.

But have you had good luck dating on? I've had good luck like finding relationships, but I would say the type of person that I find them with is not stellar. Online. Online only. Do you think it's better in person? I think it's so much easier online. I like going into a place, having a pool of people and just like picking one out.

I think that's so easy. I don't like to go on dates really. I like to hang out in houses and play video games and stuff. Right, totally. No, this guy said to me exactly. He was like, do you, I've just tried to do two. I just want to like to hang out in houses. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know.

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I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. like you should and you should check out one of these sites and like Lori said um if you people think that Tinder is just a hook up app and now apparently it's a cheater app but if you are looking for a relationship you should say it and there are a lot of guys I see.

There's gems out there you can almost tell immediately to from their profile if it's riff-raff or if they're like seriously. Let me tell you this one. Can I just read you this one that that was a screen grab because I actually sent it to my friend. She's like, are you sending screen grabs of all the guys? Cause there's some friggin funny pictures. This is one that happened, I saw last night, this is what his said, wanna come over to my place to watch porn on my flat screen mirror?

Oh, that's actually interesting. So he means like you too, right? Like, by porn, he means like us having sex? Like yeah that was like by porn he means like us having sex. Yeah but it was like apparently you want to I don't know but I just thought I was like I know delete like I don't want to I don't know people are I mean there's crazy things and that but but then some people you can tell like I'm not looking for serious or they say they are and if you say you're so the point is if you're afraid of to know you're afraid of these

app if you say what you're looking for then you know nothing you know then you're pointing it out there as you should. Okay. Also everyone, I'm going to talk to you about your penis for a minute. If I haven't already talked to you about your penis today, which I don't think we did a lot of penis talk. We talked a little bit about balls today, but let's talk about penises in the bedroom. Penises are all different, you know. Some are sure, some are circumcised, some are uncircumcised, but did you also know that some of them don't last quite as long as they want to? So guys, go a little bit quicker.

And so, nothing wrong with that. I guess if you please refer us and do all that other stuff, but sometimes you just want to last longer. So you should try promising, because it's the only approved treatment for pre-mentor ejaculation, or if you just want to last longer in bed. And it closes at a rousal gap, because you guys know, like sometimes it just takes women long at orgasm. Yes, absolutely. I mean, it does.

Men like 20 minutes, yeah. Yeah, 20 to 40 minutes, guys, take like, do like, six and eight. So this will just close that a rousal gap, and it's a good time. You apply it to your penis, you just don't even know you're using it. And you wait like 10 minutes,

and then you will last twice as long, and she'll feel great, you'll feel great. Everyone has a good time. Yeah, telepathy's over. Okay, so check it out at promesson.com, PROMESCETNT. But now, let's get into the reason why we are here today, which is important, okay?

We're talking about sex toys. It still is masturbation month, and we take it very, very seriously at sex with Emily. Christmas, ward-abs, Valentine's Day, yeah, it's a big deal, but masturbation month, very busy in the office. Very busy, we've got vibrators coming in, we've got a test done, we've got a suit we like,

we're like masturbation elves running around the office, and May is coming to a close, and so we wanted to share with you how busy we've been and what we've learned this year during masturbation month. Because remember, it's not just, you know, you're like, oh yeah, you made that up. No, it's really about, you know,

expanding your sexuality, expanding what your pleasure points, what makes you feel good and learning your own body a little more and spending some time with, you know, somebody loves masturbation, it's sex with somebody love. So we had a lot of self love this month, right, girls? Yes. Okay, so why don't we start with the crave duet flex?

So the crave, crave makes that the necklace, my vest for necklace that we all have, that we talked about for a long time. But they also make the duet, which has been around, but now they have the new programmable crave duet flex. So, Madison, can you talk about that for a moment? Yes, okay, so crave, we all know they're innovative, they always want to do new things and are constantly changing the sex toy game. And with this

new vibrator, they were like, okay, so we have crowd sourcing, which has worked really well for them in the past. They decided they wanted to take a sex toy and actually give people the power to choose their own vibrations. Because everyone knows you've ever been using a sex toy and you're like, God, I just wish to sing when vibrate a little bit harder or it would go a little bit faster. I wish these waves were a little bit more intense. Well, creative people were like, Oh, wait, maybe we could do

that for them. So for a limited time, they have this crowdsourcing campaign. And when you buy one of their Flex programable vibrators, you can actually program your own vibrations. So you can customize it yourself. You buy it online, bring it home, plug it into your computer. It's actually really easy. We all did it together. We did it like in the office. We talked about it. We sat there. Like it's it is easy. You can kind of yeah, it's like got like an awesome like user interface So you can just like sit there and it's got four different settings and you sit there and you program each setting like how Strong you want it the pattern that you want it so you can learn your own body and learn what turns you on the most

Which is kind of what masturbation month is all about it's that right down to it The toy itself is rechargeable get right down to it. The toy itself is rechargeable, conveniently plugs it to any USB, it's waterproof, super quiet, but powerful. I think that's something we all noted was that it was super powerful. And it's made of high quality body safe silicone. What else would you expect from Crave? Right, exactly. It's amazing. So where do they go? They go to they go to crave.tilt.com slash flex.

Okay, and they can still do that. Yeah, and you can find it on our website also. We have a blog about it. So you can click on the blog. It's called Build Your Own Orgasm. And click on the blog and it tells you all about it, how to get your own. And you have until June 6th to jump on the flex train. So you probably should do that.

Yeah, we have a lot of fun with that. Like, you know, we had a good time in the office because we realized that we all like, like different things and you could program once and then you could like program it again and try different things too, which is fun. do that. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to. You're gonna want to.

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But I was like, well, I need to use the sex toy. So it broke the ice right away, got us into the sex thing. And it was perfect. I didn't have to do any work. I didn't have to flirt. Right. I know that's something I'd like to do. I'm like, this is my work. I didn't have to flirt. I didn't have to do that stuff. I like to do them. This is my job, which is very interesting to him, of course.

And so we started with just, like, him, like with manual stimulation on me, which I've always been not into. Like, fingers, they just, it's not really my thing. OK. So I got as far as I could get with fingers, and then I used the crave, the thing right after and it like was a seamless Transition so wait so he was using his fingers on you and then you're like oh

We're on me and then I'm gonna minute. I've got this thing to try exactly and then did he use it on you or you use it on you? I used it on me and he watched and he will he was just kind of on top of me kissing me and stuff and I He was just kind of on top of me kissing me and stuff and I used it and he said that he didn't, he's not into vibrators or anything so he didn't like feel it. He didn't like lean into it or anything but it kinda- He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't know that he's not into it.

He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't know that he's not into it. He doesn't. So that's great. So how was your, like, so you like, obviously it worked? It worked.

Yeah, usually I feel like after getting manually stimulated with fingers, I feel like I fall off and then I just never reach orgasm. Like, it doesn't happen, but it happened. And I feel like my orgasm with this X toy happened to last a little bit longer. Oh, interesting. Usually.

What do you think that is? I think it was the prongs. The prongs. Let's talk about the, do we explain that they has two prongs? Yeah, let's just say, yeah, Madison, and we can just go, let's not talk about our experience. So Madison, what about you? So because it is, it has these little prongs that you can maneuver, which are great. Yeah, it's like a flexible tuning fork. Actually, if you have seen a tuning fork, that's kind of what it looks like, but,

obviously, way more like sexy and less less metal and And so yeah, it kind of like hugs your clitoris, which is cool like you they're like movable and it's dual motor Which is really awesome if you've ever been using a sex toy and felt like your hand was like absorbing a lot of the vibrations Huge bummer. I hate that. Well, this is dual motor So you make sure that all of the vibration power is going straight to your clitoris or wherever you're putting it, as opposed

to going in your hands. So you're holding it in your hand by like the actual stem part, and then you've got full vibrations, like going straight to your junk, it's awesome. I really liked it because more for the program factor, I used it with my boyfriend who's a huge techie. And he really got off on the idea that he could like, he's like, wait, what? I could make the vibrations myself. I could do that. And I was like, yeah, you can. And he was like, oh my god, we're gonna do it.

We're gonna try it out. So excited. Because he really wants to be a part of it. He's got a little bit of the sex toy envy, I think. He thinks that girls get most of the fun stuff. And so he enjoys like playing around with it. He's got a lot of flesh lights. He's got flesh lights.

But he should get some other stuff. Yeah, I mean, I think we should move into a prostate toy for him next, but we don't need to. Maybe. Yeah, that was a joke. When the last time he helped us out with a marketing thing, he was like, all right, anal beads. And I was like, I'll get him for you.

And then he recanted. So I'm just going to shove him in your bag, take him off. Bring him home the black pearl. So you guys plugged in and then you played with it, because you can move the diet, whatever. Like the black pearl. So you guys plug it in and then you played with it because you can like move the like you move the the diet Whatever like the good for visual learners because you can see visually the patterns It really looks like a way like what is like the the they have like a well They have like the street across setting which I know is Emily's favorite. It's just like you know

Just go straight like it Yeah, exactly and then they have like an interval one that's kind of like a puzzle, buzz, buzz, buzz, buzz. And then you can control how fast that buzzing happens. So if you like like kind of like longer ones, if you like short pulsations, you can do that. Then there's the wave one, which I really like. And that's the one that helps me have the extended orgasms. Because it builds a lot of arousal and then it like takes it away. It almost like teases your vagina for you.

So if you're ever using a sex toy and you like feel like you need to move it around. And then you can do that. So if you're ever using a sex to and you like feel like you need to move it around to kind of get that like rhythm of like stimulation then not simulation. This one you just put it on and the waves do it for you. Because you like let's explain that so it goes like like the wave is kind of like it'll go mm mm mm mm mm mm. Upmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm because it's like teasing yourself. Like you said, it goes up and down, up and down, and it builds. And so much of great sex is about the building and the anticipation and like if you want to train your body of multiple orgasms or prolonged orgasms,

you know, it's good to sense a rush right to that. But you're not gonna rush. So now like I'm trying to play with different vibrations and stuff. So I liked it because I like that, that that that do knows that the tips, that there's different vibrations from the front and the back tips, like there's different sensations

on the tip and the inner side and then the outer side. I had no idea. Yeah, exactly, because I was using it actually, I might, you know, my, my nipple orgasm goal. And so you can use it like clamps, like, you know, I can run your nipples and then, so if you turn it on its side, it has different vibrations than the inside,

like in the front of the tips. So, I mean, I don't know, I'll just explain that, but that's what I'm saying. That there are different sensations in different places. Exactly. And I love the look of it too, that it's just like sleek, like you could like put it in your pocket,

no one would know what it is, like a little tiny, and it comes as a leather case. It's just so, it's such a cool, like if could like put it in your pocket. No one would know what it is. It's like a little tiny, and it comes with a little leather case. It's just so, it's such a cool, like if you just left it out, you wouldn't even know like what it was. And it is very powerful. You can also use it. What I like is that you can use it like through your clothes. Like I think that's really hot, like if you're with somebody

and or yourself, that I like the way fabric feels to, again, I think a lot of women do. And it's that powerful if you choose to go up to that level feels amazing. Yeah the clothing like absorbs a little bit of those direct vibrations making it like more spread out I think and it I'm like super sensitive so I always mastery over my clothes which is very good. We didn't talk about setting four. Oh I'm for my favorite one. Oh okay tell me., we'll create. The first one's the continuous. In turn, Lori.

The second one is the pulsing. The third one is the waves that Madison likes. And then the fourth one is kind of like a free for all. The random. Random. Like you can put pulses, waves, continuous on there and you can pick like however you want it to be. So when I was programming it,

I just made the picture look kind of interesting and crazy because I didn't know how it would translate I just wanted it to look weird and then when I tried it when you when you're on the fourth setting and you press the plus button It would just randomly change the different things and I didn't know it was gonna happen So like both me and the guy were like, oh like what's going on now? Like this is a whole different thing. Oh, okay, and so that was your favorite part. And then it means that your favorite part is that I'm setting for with the flex. Oh my god. I love it. But that was what you said. So other people setting for could be random as well, but they can make their own. Right. You can customize your your random setting. Right. I love that. Okay. Let's move on. Okay. We vibe. The touch by We vibe. You can

get it at Adam andeeve.com. It's a great, literal vibe. It's made of high quality medical grade silicone, soft to the touch. It's kind of shaped like a tongue. And it's perfectly contoured, it hits all the right spots, rechargeable. What I love is it lasts up to two hours on full charge.

Which, you know what else I love about these toys that you could charge and go back to a month later, it's still charged. So you don't have to keep recharging it. Also it lets you know when you're low on charge 100% waterproof body-safe 8 different vibration modes and there's only one button to control mom which is really cool so you don't get all confused and stuff and you can also get it at AdamNive.com use coupon code Emily so check that out. Laurie I would love you to start with your idea,

feelings about the touch. I'll be back touch. Oh, and T, this is my 100% favorite sex to I've ever used before. OK. Because last night, I used it. I've been masturbating since I was seven, like with shower heads and back massagers,

so a lot of really high intensity vibrations and pressure. And I've never had a multiple orgasm. I've never had them. I've never, it's just never happened. I just kind of give up after, or I just stop. I'm like over it. Last night I was using the touch. And first time in my whole life, I had five, five,

right on top of each other. You would five or wait. Well, I, okay, so like I came up. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait or eight. Well, I, okay, so like I came one. I'm so happy. Literally in the office yesterday before I went home like seven o'clock. We were talking on multiples and you said you never had one. No, no, and I was like, oh, I just wrote about this blog for glamour back on. Yeah. Okay. I mean, not my shirt. I mean, not my shirt. Yeah. I'm going to get crazy in here. Okay, I want to tell me everything. I think because

you and me, because I've used it before. Yeah, and I really liked it. I want to tell me everything. The talk talk. Is you think because I've used it before? Yeah, and I really liked it. I like the shape of it because it hugs around your vulva. So it's like you're holding yourself, almost like the toy is not there. And we were talking about the multiple orgasms. And I guess it was in my mind, and I was by myself, and I was relaxed, and I was like, oh, I could maybe, hey,

I'm not going to expect anything anything but maybe it'll happen and I think what it what did it for me was I rode the factory settings instead of just staying on one thing and just like waiting to come I I pressed each button each interval and like there's like a cha cha setting on it that's like buzz buzz buzz buzz buzz buzz buzz buzz and that that one was the one that like, wow. Yeah, and I just like, I came. This is way missing me. I was in the office, let's see what I saw in you. I know, I know.

I know, so. She texted me last night, and I was like, oh my god, Laura, you have to tell the world. Right, yeah. I was a gift to share. I was so happy. I came once, then maybe a 15 seconds later, I came again, and then I came two more times

on top of that, and then like a minute later I came again. I like timed it. I was like how many times is it going to happen? I was like, I've used the magic wand before. Yes, I've used, yeah, I've used the magic wand. I've used multiple like collittoral vibrators. That is, I feel like I should, I'm so happy. I'm so happy.

I'm like, some of the flowers or something. I feel like we should do something. Oh, it's a life changer. I can't wait to master it again now. I know, right? After this, we're almost done, you know? But what I love about the touch is that it's like, you can hold it in your hand.

So I always talk about literal vibes. There's some that are very like the tango by Wee-Veibai. I like too, but it's very targeted for your clitoris. It's like a pointer. But this, you can hold it like, it's, I remember like a computer mouse that you cut your hand around it, but you could also use it during intercourse because you get really easily fit in between two people. But I like that it, you just can like, yeah,

like rested on your like pubic mound or your vulva, your whole, that whole area, which has so many sensations, like it's not just about the clitoris. It's like the entire area, like it, it hugs about the clitoris. It's like the entire area, like it hugs your whole bulwav. And then there's also a tip on it that has a little cup, so it's like a little cup on a big cup. Right. It's, it's, it's perfect. And then you can point it if you want, right, direct, that your clitoris, so you can just let it sit there,

and then you can point it. It's a, it's just, it's an Oscar toy. And it's purple, dark purple, great color. Exactly. And it has those, also has those deep, rumbly sensations, which I like, And it's kind of elegant. I mean, it is elegant. All these tweezers were talking about are actually pretty, pretty elegant today, elegant toys. But they really are. They're not like, scary weird, you leave them out. We were going to get freaked out. And, um,

yeah, great, great, uh, I've had great time with it too. I have to say, um, and I have used it during sacks to intercourse with someone. It was like, you slip right in, but I also like the vibrations. Okay, let's go to the magic wand. Yes. All right, magic wand unplugged. So for years, you've been hearing me talk about the magic wand,

which is like the Cadillac of all vibrators. If you've been listening to the show, I don't know, plugs into the wall, that's the whole thing. But the most exciting news about masturbation month, well, the second most exciting news besides Lori's five orgasms last night, is the magic one on plug, which means that there is no plug in this one. They finally made a rechargeable one.

And so I think I got one of the first ones, and I'm honored. I know you guys haven't tried it yet. I'm sure they will send them to you shortly. But it has all the power. I mean really there was no, like I didn't feel like I was losing anything in it, but gaining because the reason why this one is an upgrade is because it has a smoother silicone head.

So it's not as bumpy as the regular attache and it's quieter. And it also has different, so yeah, it's kind of loud. I have friends who are like, I can't use, I can't mask very now, because my room made home and the magic wand, like they will know exactly what it is. And I feel the exact same way, like one time late at night, I like snuck out of my bed to use it,

because my boyfriend was asleep, sorry, Wes. Boyfriend was asleep and I like snuck out into the living room and I'd like muffled under pillows and blankets, because I was like it's so loud. It's just like it's like it's structured. Exactly and you got to find out. Now it's the whole thing and this one you don't and it's quieter plus the original magic wand has just an on or has two levels. It's like on off and then it goes like on turbo and super turbo. Yeah, turbo, turbo. But this one has four intensity levels and four new patterns so you can just build the like mmm but then it also has like mmm it has like the waving patterns too which is really different runs three hours on full charge it does shut off after 20 minutes of continuous play

but who needs it that long really yeah um never right but if you, yeah, so it's great you guys. If you want to upgrade it, if you've had it for a while, you know, I would just say, freaking go get this bad boy. And it's a great gift for everyone you love. Get a good vibes.com and use code Emily. Yeah, right? 50% off. Good vibes.com, you just go to my website,

section Emily, click on the banner. Yeah, the good vibes banner. Yeah, you can see my store all that stuff Okay, so Next is Should we just go to the wee by four plus because we've all used that? Yeah, sure, but you can do that. Yeah, okay We'll talk with Amorino another time. Well, I just thought yeah, let's do that because we yeah I mean, well, I could talk about the Amorino quickly. I'm going back to Amorino. Got it. Okay. Well, I want to talk about a juice spot toy

I love the Amorino by fun factory AMORINO. And this is great. Okay, so I never was able to find my G-Spot through with a penis. I'm just gonna say that. I'm putting it out there. And I think a lot of women have had a similar experience. I don't know about you guys.

I've only really been able to find my G-Spot with a penis. Laurie has been. I've never had a G-spot orgasm, but this is a month of first for me. I hope you use that. Have we given you a G-spot toy yet? No, I mean, I opted out of it

because I'm one of the people that thought, like, I just can't do it. Okay, that's, it just won't ever happen. Even though it's almost over this month, we can still bring you back in June to here. If you do, we will give you a G-spot. If it happens. We'll get you an mRNA.

Okay, if, I think it might, because I really thought the same thing, and I had, because I'm literally like, I can have like 10 organics fine, but G-spot just never, and I now I've learned through using G-spot toys, and I love the Amorino by Fun Factory. Fun Factory makes really cool toys. I just let first of all, I just like the way all their toys are designed, and like their chargers, like they're fun, like they really are the way the buttons look, the way they move, they're just like the user interfaces cool. But the really cool thing about this is it's a smaller G-spot toy, meaning that it's like, you know, it can still hit your G-spot, but it's not like a big clunky toy. It's rechargeable and I, oh that's what I love. Their chargers are

like magnetic, like you can charge it anywhere on it. It's just really cool. It's curved to stimulate the G-sport or the prostate guys so you're not left out. It has an external lube called the Venus mound and it pleasures the clitoris at the same time which is kinda like the rabid vibe so it can hit your G-sport and your clitoris. But what is so cool, and it has this yellow band that wraps around it.

And so you can switch, so let's say, so if you've seen the rabbit vibes, it wraps around like the clitorial part to the tip of it. And so what happens is is the band sends the vibrations all around like it takes the vibrations from the vibrator and it will reach all of your different erogenous zones like areas that the vibrator couldn't reach on its own. The band like transfers those vibrations to your internal, like your clitoris, like the legs of the clitoris, like your hole inside. It's just the cool, it's a really cool innovation

that, and you can take the band off, you don't have to use it with the band, literally looks like a rubber band. But you can twist it in different ways, so it makes it more of a streamlined vibration. It's waterproof, silicone, I've never seen anything like that. I know, it is. It's really innovative.

The band, basically the band trests miss a more vibration on a bigger area. It goes from your clotaris to inside of your vagina, and it's just a different vibration. But again, when you take it off, it still feels great too. Play with it. Love it. They emery know, fun factory, six vibration intensities, six different patterns, and it has a lock function. So it doesn't go off when you expect it, which happens to me all the time, because there's vibrators all over my house, literally every drawer open, all of a sudden, I'll shut up like, mm-hmm, because there's vibrators, because my landlords come nowhere, I'm throwing shit everywhere, so this one can lock.

It is at goodvibes.com, it's $100, and use coupon code, I'm like, I got it, and check it out. I like the bands, good G-Spot Toy, you'll love it. Now we can move on to the Wevi 4 Plus. The Wevi 5, yes. Okay, so Wevi 5, number one couples vibrator. Right, exactly.

They always say, and this is actually the 4 Plus, I've used all four. I have to say, they actually started, I four plus I've used all four. I have to say they actually started I believe I started a my show 10 years ago And I think they launched a year ago because I remember getting the first I think it was the first people that ever sent me a toy and I was just so happy imagine like oh my god free toy that's so cool and

And the reason why it is a couples vibrator is because the the reason why I was originally created is because you can wear it during intercourse because it's shaped like a sea and it goes inside you so it's like hitting your g spot and a pain is going inside plus it's still, they just keep improving the materials. It's silicone, silky smooth, body hugging, all that stuff. But, and this one has 10 vibration mode, but you can also use it via a little remote control, but also using your smartphone. You compare it with your smartphone. So, your partner can use it on you from another room, from another country, it doesn't matter because it's bluetooth. So that's how you control it. So that's really freaking cool. And waterproof, all that stuff. And you can get it at adamaniv.com, use code Emily, and it has its own charging

deck. It's just simple and it's cool. Yeah, it's like fancy. One of the other cool things about the app that I didn't even realize until recently is that you can save, like, you save playlists on your iPhone. You're like, oh, I you save playlists on your iPhone. You're like, oh, I made a good playlist on the gum. I'm gonna change it.

You can save vibration playlists and name them. So you could have one that's like, if you have a crazy night where you and your partner messing around with it and you have a really good vibration pattern, save it, be like Valentine's night, you know, call whatever you want, call the moneymaker, but whatever you want to call it Like you can save those and come back to them later and I thought that was like an awesome feature once again with

Living with a techie like anything like that. He's like, well, he's like what I can use it on my phone too I never have to do my phone down the whole time. We're having sex Yeah, I had a carol already That was the one problem because you need to use a lot of loopube. Like when you use the Wevi Bory, you should definitely like lube up, for sure, use water-based so it doesn't break with material, just in case, just to be safe. I know a lot of people are saying silicone's okay now, but I don't like to take any chances. Right, use water-based with an expensive toy. So yeah, you just like hook it like hooks into you kind of. It hooks is like a weird word, but it like fits snugly, it's like you shape,

so it curves around your clitoris, then also your G spot, and then it makes like a tighter fit inside of you, so if you're like having sex, it feels more snug for him also. Right, and it's really cool. And it doesn't sit around, and one of the earlier versions, like the, I think the first one, the one, the We-by-one, but it did, it would move around,

you'd be like, oh, lies it moving, but now they've like perfected it that it doesn't actually move around. And so it's stimulating you all over. And like I was saying, men like the vibrations as well. I mean, I hope that like you guys, maybe hearing me say this, like I again, like they just do, like they feel good on their shaft,

their balls, they're everywhere. I mean, vibrations, I mean, if you think about it, like who doesn't like a back massage with those chairs of vibrate, like why wouldn't it, who doesn't go back massage with everybody? You know those chairs? The vibrate, why wouldn't it feel good on your genitals? Like your balls? It's just a stigma. I know, I'm trying to break that stigma, right?

I think we've broken it. So that's cool. You can also, which we actually learned that the hustle or Hollywood store, you could also give your partner a hand job with it. You can put your wrap your hand around in different ways. There's a lot of different uses for it. So it's a great hand job tool as well.

And it's a fun, if you are just starting out and haven't used sex to her with your partner like this would be a great great place to start. Yeah I thought it was a it was a winner. It was really good and it did not. I would like to say again like I thought it was gonna slip around. It did not at all. I kept looking down to make sure that it was still good and I was like wait are you sure you're still down there and it was. Right and you're totally secure. Yeah I felt good for him. He liked it. He had a tighter fit also, which he enjoyed.

Good. Good times. OK, so do we have time skin to some emails now, right? Maybe one email. OK, oh, I love the subject of this email. OK, this is how to have multiple o's. Maybe we'll have Lori answer it. First of all, thanks everyone for emailing me.

Feedback at sexwithm.le.com. And it would be great if you could include your name. You could change your name. Where you're from and your age. And how you listen. Anything else. Let's get the more details, the better. Penicize circumcision.

Penicize, and you circumcise. Or not. How many partners do you have? No. OK. Dear Emily, I'm not with a partner at the moment, but I masturbate regularly. I know how to make myself have an orgasm. and after I do, I feel satisfied, but I want

to go again. Trouble is, I've taken a break for about 10 minutes because otherwise, it will take me a very long time to come and I usually give up before then. I've always wanted to be able to have multiple orgasms within a minute or two of each other, but I've never been able to. My question is, is there a way to train yourself to have multiple orgasms? Love, Anna. Well, we've spent some time on that today, haven't we? Yeah, but Anna, there is. So again, it's getting rid of that. You're saying that you, um, was she saying that she

wants it with her partner? No, with my self. So yeah, 10 minutes. And then you can, I, I'd say that that's just as long as you keep your arousal level up, but it's not like you have your orgasm, get a cup of coffee, come back. that that's just, as long as you keep your arousal level up, but it's not like you have your orgasm, get a cup of coffee, come back. I mean, just to stick there and like move, a lot of women after they have their first orgasm, it's still really sensitive. And so you're just like, oh, I'm done.

But if you just take the pressure off that, like whether you're using your hands or a vibrator and you get to start, you know, misaging your breasts, other parts of your body, and then go back to it. Sometimes it just takes like a minute or two and just start to stimulate again. And sometimes it might, you still might not be able to have direct literal stimulation, but maybe indirect.

So all around the clitoris, you know, you labia, the pubic mound, like put the vibrator there, your fingers there, and then you can move back into it. I think that you'll find, and if you breathe, and if you just keep focusing on the sensations of that you're feeling in your body, and being aroused, you'll be able to get there. And I think that in your mind, you said trouble is, I break, and it takes you while I think that we got to get rid of all these things that we believe to be true about our sexual capabilities, because Lori told me less than 24 hours ago that she just can't have a multiple orgasm. And just walked in and said she had five. So yeah, that's what it

was. I just had to let go of what I thought was true about my orgasms. And then it just it happened as soon as I was like, oh maybe it'll happen. It just did. See open yourself up to the possibility of multiple. It's true. I mean, and a lot of women, a vibrator does help. I have to say like a lot of women can have them on their own, but Again, I just don't yeah, and I don't think you have to wait the 10 minutes And just go back breathe. Yeah, you mentioned before like if you you know if you're taking a little break You can use your vibrator other places like bring your nibbles in do a little bit of like labia teasing You know like give yourself other areas that you're stimulating

while you give your poor clitoris a break and then come back to it when it's like finally got down till where it's not like throwing anymore because I've definitely had that happen where it's like, it almost sounds like it's like got DJ in there and it's like boom, boom, boom, boom. And I'm like whoa, let's calm down, close. Right.

Also Anna says that it'll take her a very long time to come the second time, which is why she gives up. But I think that's a good thing. Like the second time around, like take your time. Do it for a long time. It'll take a long time, but it'll be better. Right.

Exactly. So, it takes her a very long time. And what is a long time for you? And I think that maybe one time, it's, yeah, and you can train your body. That's a thing, is that it's a lot of it is practice. And maybe it'll take you, you you can train your body. That's a thing, it's a lot of practice, and maybe it'll take you a few times. So, everything takes when you're learning anything new, it takes longer. But I think that your body will start to become accustomed to this, and I think that you might happen for you a little bit sooner.

But I have a good feeling, this will happen for you, so just get rid of what you believe your body can do, and just listen to these tips we gave you. You can do it Anna. Anna, let us know. I think you can. And then we know that Lori's goal is gonna have a G-spot orgasm in June. We'll cut, we'll breathe in that.

It's my birthday month, we'll be my gift to myself. All of our birthday month. Oh yeah, that's right. Are we all done? Yes. Our birthdays are very soon. It is. They're party.

Okay. So all this stuff, what else do we say? We said all that, okay? It's already thinking I'll speak. Probably should wrap this up. I think we're good to go. I think we've had all the hot spots to speak. Yeah.

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You guys are awesome. Thanks for having me. Thanks for having me. And thanks everyone for listening. Was it good for you? Email me. Feedback at sexwithamlee.com. Okay, everyone.

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I made these candles. Right. Okay, so I've always been obsessed with massage candles. When I first tried them, people made them not very well, but I'm like, what a cool idea. You can have a candle that looks beautiful, sits on your, you know, wherever,

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