Sex With Emily - Nice Guys, Sluts & Fetishes

Episode Date: April 9, 2014

Emily answers emails from listeners with topics including: sexy vs. slutty, friend zoning, Kegel exercises and fetishes. Menace grills Emily for slacking on pop culture. Emily breaks down what Gwyneth Paltrow meant when she described her split as "conscious uncoupling". Menace questions the audience on dealing with dating celebrities and their famous Ex's. Emily recaps her live, in-studio date from the popular dating app Tinder. Emily confesses how she avoids talking about sex on the first date and the question, "What do you do for a living?".In sex in the news, a mother in Japan dresses as Mickey Mouse to find son a wife. In fashion, Menace questions Emily how far she would go for a loved one. The strapping gentlemen from Thunder From Down Under thwart an armed criminal in their dressing room.In listener emails, a young girl questions what a slut is and how Emily Nicedefines the beauty in sex and opens the floor for the duo to discuss what they find sexy, slutty and enduring in partners.Another newly divorced listener is troubled by his dates who don't want to have sex with him because he's "the nicest guy in the room". Menace and Emily give their advice on how to get him out of the "friend zone" and get busy with his dates.A listener has completed Emily's Kegel Camp app with great results and has questions on how to extend the workout to further his crazy orgasms!Emily gets a question from a man who has a foot fetish that is important in relationships to him and wonders how he can get his new girlfriend to join in some tickling fun. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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it's just, um, it's a bummer. And listening to the show, the emails I've been getting lately from all you people, I feel like I, you know, people's lives have changed menace. I'm here with menace because of the show. I'm getting some very nice emails that either like, for the, I emailed you three years ago and but then this has happened. Now We're so happy since I am people We have people. Oh, yeah, I love getting I love those Twitter and Instagram. Yes, we read all of them. I I forget like how many people from the show like follow us Yeah, a lot and they mentioned something crazy from like a podcast maybe couple months ago

Yeah, exactly. I know I'm doing the show what eight years now Eight years medicine. I've been doing this a long time. And Mendez is in Los Angeles. He moved here. He won't admit it. He got some other job, what I have. But really he's here so he can do more shows with me. So we'll be doing at least one a week.

Yeah. And it's crazy how the star is aligned. I know. He moved here and then you're like, I never thought you'd leave the Bay Area. I didn't beg. I just prefer to do lived here. And then he's like, I'm moving.

Yeah, I got a wonderful job. I'm going to be on every morning on Alt 987 in Los Angeles. It's going to be called the Woody Show. There's a group of other group of people that I cheat on. I just feel like the Woody show you to sit on boners, but now other people you cheat on me with, yeah, I'm not as interesting, but. Yeah, every week.

So if you live in Los Angeles, please listen or if you want to stream it, it's on the I Heart Radio Act. Exactly. West Coast time. Do it. Just do it. Listen to men. And it's not until a few weeks, right? Yeah. April, just the warning we don't talk about sex, you know, we don't we don't delve into Emily's realm. So this never that maybe I should come on once a week and get you guys talking about boners, because no, I mean, we talk about sex

once a while, but that's not like the sounds born topic. Like pop culture. Pop culture. Oh, no, no, no, no, we just happened. Okay, so we're recording in the podcast one studios. Yeah. Podcast one is another place where you can, um, it's an app and they host a lot of podcasts and you can check them out. But, um, podcast one dot com. But okay, so before the show, tell me how can I need to remember this right? Of course, I'm here, uh, on time or even before on time. You were way too early. Anyway, what are you talking about?

I was like five minutes early. Anyways, Fred Armason was here using this very studio before we got in here. And he is from, he's from Portlandia. And what was crazy, I was on my way here listening to how her stern And he was doing an interview with how her stern the replay okay, and He just left the office and of course you relate so you missed him and then other people in the office like oh, you know Fred Armason was here and all this stuff and Emily's like Who I know menace goes she would don't know who that is. I go, she will not know who from our point of view.

I don't know, I don't know, I don't know. Is that the who is it? And he's the leader of the band for Seth Meyers, like that show. Awesome. Well, my goal, my goal, I actually saw a quote on the way here. It was, I can't remember it, it was goals are dreams with deadlines.

Have you heard that before? Or like, if you have a goal, you can have goals, but you need a deadline. And my message up, but the point is, one of my goals, and I should set a deadline to this, is to really watch more television and to relax more and not be working all the time. And I've told you this for years.

And I've told you this for years. For anybody that's just, you know, if there's people in the audience that, you know, if you're in a workplace and, you know, some people are obsessed with pop culture, I'm not obsessed with pop culture. I just have to keep up for that. For work. But it is so easy to keep up on it. It'll probably take maybe three, five minutes of your day to keep up on pop culture.

Okay. Super simple. When you wake up in the morning and you're on your Facebook or your Instagram or your Twitter or your email, anyway, you say you don't have time, but you do. So when you're on the line, just go on over to like, TMZ.com. I know, I just put it on my face. Or radar on the line.

But that's my point. Just give the top. No, no, no, my point is I don't want to know pop culture so I can talk to people listening to sex. I only have pop culture because there's a gazillion of the place they go. It's that I want to, there's some good television on. I've never seen a lot of the great shows.

I've never seen what's that one that everyone saw. I'm a billionaire, I don't know what's going on. A billionaire, anything, the drug, the, you know. What, rehab, so you rehab? No, no, no, no, not true. I mean, all of them, I was just showing. All the real housewives this season are amazing. Really, yeah, I'm gonna be a Brandy Glendale.

It's gonna be on the show. Do you wanna be Owens? She's on and then I'm gonna be on her show. She also has a show on podcast one. And she's in the real housewives of Beverly Hills. Yeah, that'd be good because I would know what to talk about. I've seen that.

I mean, there's like really good madmen, for example. I saw the first two seasons and I loved it and I haven't seen it, whatever. So my goal with a deadline is I should just start trying to watch like an hour or night because what happens is when you're running your own business and you're entrepreneur, I tend to to work at night or I go out

or I just come on read. I don't really turn a TV on. So everyone that watches television is losers and you just... No, I wish, what I'm saying is my goal is to get into the habit of watching more television. Even when I did the Bravo show, you know, menace and I want a Bravo show called Miss Advise. You can download an iTunes if you missed it two years ago, a year and a half ago. And it's called Miss Advise.

And you know that before I even did the Bravo reality show, I'd never seen a Bravo reality show. Yeah, it's crazy. And they were like, I know. And you had all your stupid hippie, Sefersisco friends around you telling you how to act. It's not that I think television's evil. I just think that I just don't make time for it

because I've been obsessed with trying to make a living doing my passion, which is sex-only. I didn't do this to get rich clearly. I did it, so because because I loved doing podcasts, and then the whole story is that I started doing it in my living room, and then soon after, I was lucky seven months later, I got a call from CBS Radio in San Francisco,

and they said, do you wanna do your show live? We love your podcast. That's when little menace came in, and he was sleeping in the radio station, was that your first job at the radio station? What? When I met you? First something known. Second, you just were sleeping in the radio station. I was. You'll make any money in radio at the radio station, was that your first job at the radio station? What? When I met you? First of no.

Second, you just were sleeping at the radio station. Because you'll make any money in radio at the point. Yeah, I didn't make money. But that's why I met men. And I've still trying to figure out how to monetize the stuff. So I appreciate when you always support our sponsors of the show, because that means that we can keep doing the show for free.

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And then you can last long as you want. So it's promescent, it's a P-R-O-M-E-S-E-N-T. Right. So anyway, that's the story. That's why we have to do these things anyway. And I would like to, but we can, I do have a little bit. Today's show, we're going to be reading your emails that you send to feedback at sex.moe.com.

Because I think that a lot of people appreciate the male female perspective, even though I'm usually right, they sometimes like to hear from Ben as too. So we're going to be reading your emails that you send. We've got a lot of them. So please always email me at feedback at sex.moe.com. Someone wants to know about what is sexy and wants to know why, another guy wants to know why he falls into the father figure role

and someone else wants to know about a foot fetish and we've got some other sex penis side, we've got a bunch of things. But first, I do have something that is a little bit poppultory. Okay. We can talk about Gwen of Peltro's conscious uncopling from her husband, Chris Marta. Everyone knew that they were good.

They haven't even together for like two years, right? They haven't had a photo together forever. I know. Everyone says that, you know, this is through the great vine of pop culture on television and stuff like that. And they've been talking about this for years that Kwenna Paltrow is super high maintenance

and pretentious and you know. Right, but I don't know that. I don't know. We're personally, I never met her so I can't say that that's true or not. She's quite difficult. She seems like she's type A, very, very driven, perfectionist, like you know, all that. But the point is, is that on her website, Goop, which she probably did this to get more traffic to her website, that's where she announced it.

Oh, dude. There was an essay alongside of it from Integrating Eastern and Western Medicine by two doctors, a total hippy stuff. But I kind of believe this, and it's funny because Lauren Myes is, and she's like, yeah, it's kind of crazy, what they're saying. And I'm like, I kind of agree with it,

that expectations for a lifelong marriage need to evolve along with humans, expanded life, expectancy, and that a successful marriage could be redefined not by how long it lasts, by how meaningful and fulfilling the relationship was for both partners. And I've always said that if someone's been married for a while, like, you should look at divorce as a failure, because I do think that if you're married someone and you guys made it work and you did your best and it didn't work.

So you move on. We are living twice as long to expect to be with one person forever. When people do it, it is amazing. And I'm not saying anyone should get divorced, but I can kind of see the perspective when people wrote all these marriage laws who were like dying at 50. I know. Now we're living till 90. What guy are you going to find that's going to be able to deal with the female species for like exactly 40 years or just

Right, it was a long friggin time. So I can't find that guy because he killed himself right exactly I mean you and menace for the first time on last week show It was very interesting that you kind of Kind of kind of sound like me and I kind of freaked out that you See you pick I loved it. No, no right now that you get married. No, we can't let them on and see. You picked. I loved it.

You picked. No, no, no. This is what you do too, though. You picked it out to hear what you only want to hear. I said that I, to get married, not that I don't want to get married one day, is that it's a total financial burden and I just don't want to do it. I got it. But the thing is.

And having kids is a financial burden also and all that stuff. And I rather have a partner that I can go travel with all this stuff. You just don't want a partner in general. No, I do eventually. You want something you can call once in a while. No, no, I call people. I got, oh my God.

So last week I did my Tinder date. Oh my God. I was talking about in the show last week. It's actually, we just released the show. So if you want to check it out, I had a live Tinder date in the studio. And we lit like my, okay, so I made it a real date. And it was actually, I mean, it was a real date. He came in, I'd never seen him. I met him on Tinder. If everyone knows a very popular

dating app right now, they call it like the hook up app, which I think that's a choice. What is going on? I mean, I'm not hooking up on it like per se, but like I think people do often because you're just swiping left or right if you think someone's cute or not. So this one guy suggested to me, he's like, well, I guess I should have to come up, I could say I'm saying I'm doing a show and he's like, all this coming in your show.

So he comes in, I don't see him until he walks in. I'm already starting the show and talking and I have candles lit, I have wine, I have my Emily and Tony's seductive massage candles, which were a total hit. They smell amazing. They are kind of seductive. When you smell, when you, I'll talk about that a minute, but because I have a funny story about that, but he was nice.

We had a full on date. And it's funny because I haven't listened to the show because sometimes you know, you know when you're in a zone of doing radio, like you for, like I was just playing, but it was like a real date. I can't remember Lauren though, my assistant. Can she come on the mic here for a second? Well, it works. I don't have the mic set up, but she can be sure.

Lauren, come here. Lauren, okay, so Lauren had a very, she was there the the mic here for a second? Well, what? I don't have the mic set up, but she can be sure. Because she come next to Lauren. Come here. Because Lauren had a very, she was there the whole time. And she thought she's like, I didn't like him. I did the duh. And I was like, oh my god, I thought he was nice. So Lauren, what did you think? You think everyone's nice.

I know, that's the problem. I'm too nice. Lauren, what did you, because I was like full on like into it. I thought I was a focus. I thought he was way too cocky. Honestly, he was giving you way too much sass. It was your show. And I don't know.

Too much sass about what though. Give me an example. He was giving you a little more. He was just trying to be confident. Every time one of our amazing advertisers got mentioned, he was like, oh, god. Well, but besides that, because he didn't realize the importance of reading our sponsors.

Besides that, he wasn't mean to me. He just said, hey, bitch, if you want to pay my bills, then go ahead. Yes, excuse me, dude. I thought you had to, but I didn't think he had a total attitude the whole time. But anyway, it was kind of funny, because I wasn't very conscious of that I was doing radio,

but he was asking my questions and turned that he was married. And at the end, divorce, he's a kid, and then he lost a kid. So it kind of got heavy at the end. And then I'm like, gotta go, time for sex. And then we had a drink after the show. You hate children, though. I love children.

No, I don't want my own children, but I'm fully aware of the fact that if I do end, I don't want to say end up. If I do date someone long-term, they just probably gonna have a child or be divorced at some point soon. Doesn't be someone with a child, right? No?

Yeah. I mean, I just don't think that I'd be great with my own child, but I'm great with other people's children. I'd be a great stepmom half time. OK, so that's a conscious and compiling of one of Paltrow that got us off on that. Oh, and this was, I can tell you what, the candles is that. So I had these massage candles.

Oh, I was going to say it's one thing about Gwyneth Paltrow thing about when I go ahead everyone the another thing that they say about her that she's had all the golden dicks in Hollywood she's like oh she has been stiller and she dated everyone she did Brad Pitt she dated who else I even know everybody oh oh I know this famous she has slept with so much like okay, I remember when she did a Brad pet, and then whoever else we decide. You said Ben Stiller, I don't think that's right. It is, no, she did date Ben Stiller. She did?

Look it up Lauren, totally. Wait, she's gonna look it up, and she's date, everyone, she's hot, do you think she's hot? She's going on the computer so we can see it. Do you think she's hot? Oh yeah, she's extremely good looking. But remember, with me, it's all about attitude. If you're paying the ass, I don't care how the thing is going on. Yeah's it's all about attitude if you're paying the ass

I don't care. Yeah, but you think every woman is a pain in the ass. I'm surprised you've never girlfriend so romance is said wait wait right there right here Chris Martin Okay, duh right Brad Pitt Ben Affleck open aflack that didn't mean Ben still I'm a fan of flex see I suck Luke Wilson's hot See okay, I meant Ben Affleck. Did I say Benck, that didn't mean Ben Stiller, I meant Ben Affleck, see I suck. Luke Wilson's hot, see, okay, I meant Ben Affleck. Did I say Ben Stiller? That was a mistake. Yes, I was like, I don't think Ben Stiller. No, no, who else?

Okay, wait, what was Luke Wilson? I love, I would totally bang him, Andy's in LA, but I think he got married. No, he's not married. Robert Leonard, I don't even know who that is. I'm John Leonard. Who else? I don't know, more people.

This is what Google this pops up right away. But anyways. Yeah, so that's a deal. She's suffering a a lot of people and I'm sure she'll has many in the future a lot of famous people a lot of famous people You wouldn't care about that. I wouldn't know they were famous. Yeah, you're like oh, you're famous I wonder all the like people that are listening would you care if you dated a chick a famous chick who dated a bunch of other famous people, so no matter where you go, a television, walk by a new stand, go on the internet, anything, you would see your girlfriend's ex-boyfriend. Would you care about that? Email us.

Feedbackers. Yeah. So Emily.com, because I'm not even going to bother asking Emily because she's be like, I don't care People that you know I want to hear your feet. I think that a lot of guys I think that men do not like to ever picture their girlfriends X's right no But you want to go on vacation with them and shit like that. Oh, no my ex-boyfriends. I do yeah Shit like that. Oh, no my ex-boyfriends. I do yeah You're like no no you convince your friend boyfriends to go on vacation with your ex-boyfriends That was a fun trip to like no, it's in Mexico

I know because he had a new girlfriend, but the point is Okay, besides myself most men cannot they don't want to picture their girlfriend with any other penis And that's why a you should never have the conversation with your partner of how many people you slept with okay Never ever ask and don't ask don't tell this should be one of those questions that you just take off the conversation with your partner of how many people you slept with, okay? Never ever ask and don't ask, don't tell. This should be one of those questions that you just take off the radar because it never suits you and never benefits your relationship. So I think that men in particular have a hard time

because like she was with someone else, was his dick bigger. So I think, yeah, if you know that she's dated a bunch of celebrities, that that would be very challenging for men who are not confident. No man wants a constant reminder. Peace, I mentioned it.

Here's the thing. I mentioned to this guy that I've been seeing. Someone, and I guess, I don't want to mention it, but it was someone who's sort of famous. And he went home and all this research. He's like, so he did this, this, this, and then he's really good looking and he did all this research on him. And so that was the day after I told him. But he wasn't annoyed.

I think he was just interested in who this guy was. Okay. But I think that a lot of guys do think that women are comparing their penises to the last penis. And they always worry their penis isn't big enough for like, no, they just don't want to hear about it. Right. Well, yeah. Some guys do want to hear about their exes though.

Some guys want to hear about past sexual, some guys get turned on when they hear about their partner's last like a sexual experience yet. Well they're free. That's why. Well, yeah, some people feel that way. It's okay. So your girlfriend now you don't know anything about her past? I don't ask. You know, do you know what she's done? I don't give a crap. I don't want to. Do you have a Googler? Do you think everyone Googles people that they date? Uh, maybe, I don't know. Maybe that's like your 20, 30 something thing right now. Right, but my love people don't show up on Google either unless they've done something. Yeah, and I think probably if you're in your 40s, I don't think people are really Googling.

I think people Google everyone. And I, it's kind of a bummer for me because if people are trying to fix me up, they're like, just Google or and that. Oh, great. Oh, she did that Netflix movie. What is it? I'm a sex addict. I'm a sex addict.

It's a good movie. That's probably why you get asked how to lie. Oh, right, exactly. You probably open the door. It opens something. And maybe my other doors are going to open as well for them. I know, like, how do you find a legit person that's hard? It's hard.

I have to say, I did have one date this year. And I told you this Tinder thing is stupid too, because every guy on there is just liking every single photo. You think that's all numbers, and then whatever girl likes to photo back. They don't like ugly photos. They like even people they don't want to interact with. Okay, but they liked, yeah, but just don't think like,

oh, I'm gonna go on Tinder, and I'm gonna like one photo. Like, oh, I'm gonna go on Tinder and I'm gonna like one photo. Like, guarantee 15, they've liked 15 or 20 other photos. I'm sure I like photos too, but I just get matched with everyone. But I don't have time to, I have not made prioritized responding to other dates because I don't have a lot of time right now.

I'm going to Las Vegas on Sunday. Check out back, we're gonna be doing some live reporting from the International Laundry Show in Las Vegas, which is mostly sex toys actually. And I go every year and you see the latest and greatest toys and all that cool stuff. So we're doing videos and Instagram. And I've been researching the past couple of days. I just got to go to the guitar center and figure out, oh, the best way to do the mic. So record, yeah, for your laptop. I've been trying to find out online, but I can't. How about that mic that I got Lauren? I gave to find out online, but I can't how about that mic that I got Lauren

I gave to you like your own like bubble set up. We're gonna that I want that can you make that happen? Yeah, I just gotta go with us. We're gonna drive To Vegas Yeah, it's like four hours. It's so easy from here. I know from Los Angeles April is next week and that's when I'm gonna get going on my new job. I know and I'll never see you again. Okay so we've got a little bit of sex in the news as well. Okay what else you got? This is what it got. I like when it's pouch or by the way. I do too. Whatever she's putting they never seem to

happy. I agree. I can't even make a I never even seen them together so I couldn't make pictures together. But there, there's been rumors. Me who don't know about, I remember hearing like, they're not happy, whatever. OK, a desperate 75-year-old mother dressed up like Mickey Mouse to find her 40-year-old son, a wife. Yang, let's say Yang, was so desperate because I can't read the last name, was so desperate to help her son find

a girlfriend that she donned and Mickey Mouse costume and took to the streets to beg for change. Yang, who is 40, thought his 75-year-old mother was just joking when she mentioned the endeavor. A far cry from a gag, Zhang was actually posing with tourists in a local park in Central China. Her one mission was to help her son get his life on track. The money she raised by dressing as a beloved Disney character might one day help her son support his presently, non-existent family. The desert mother is quoted thusly. I felt really sorry for my son because he's 40 and still isn't managed to get a girlfriend. He's a very good man and hardworking but he struggles to get a good job to earn enough money to be able to support his wife so he is difficult getting

a partner. I wanted to help him but at my age it's hard to find a jar worker in money. That's sweet. That's totally awesome. She went on just like Mickey Mouse. She's financial. But the reason why he's not married is he's not because he doesn't have money. That's confidence. Do me dead beach I've dated, they have no money, is nothing to do with money.

It has to do with confidence how you present. I mean some women are all gold diggers, but I don't know, I've dated guys with money without money. I think that men use that as an excuse personally. It goes back to dressing up, like going, going how far you would go for somebody and you would dress up for them.

This has always been something that we talked about. Right. But for the past couple of years, I said, for new listeners, since you've been on Love Line, you're on Love Line all the time. Right, Thursday night. There's a bunch of other people listening to the show now.

I've asked Emily this one question, and she's always said, no. I said, Emily, you found the perfect man, the love of your life. He is absolutely perfect in every single way, but he has one thing that he wants you to do. And he wants you, well, you guys have sex, just like maybe a couple of times,

not every single time. Right, of course not, that'd be aggressive. He wants you to dress up as the hamburger glor from McDonald's. And you, again, once again, not to say that you're self-absorbed, but you said, I wouldn't do it because it wouldn't make me feel sexy. No, but that, but you don't.

I don't have the audio listeners can pull it up. I think I said, I would do it, but maybe I would make it a sexier version. Like, it's a black and white striped thing. I would make it, I would make it sexier. I would be the hamburger mask, but I'd make a sexy little like leotard with stripes to make like a tight little thing that's hot too.

But I wear the hamburger mass. Well first it's just like this big fuzzy outfit. I be hot sweaty. I get it. What about you? Would you dress up as little bo peep if that's what your girlfriend wanted? If it was the love of my life and it would you take pictures of it? No, but the hamburger?

No, just initially but not like I would make it sexy. I'd have to make it sexy becausego boots, thigh highs, all black and white stripes still like the hamburger. Is the hamburger still around? I mean, he's around. I mean, that is probably the best thing to do. I mean, I'm going to wear white go-go boots, thigh highs, all black and white stripes still, like the hamburger. Is the hamburger still around? I mean, he's around.

I mean, it's not as far as not as common. Google the hamburger, you'll know what we're talking about. All those characters went away. But I did. So downtown Los Angeles, I found a new character, by the way. I know this is not very sexy. And we're talking about sexy. That's fine.

We were, I was in downtown Los Angeles in the fashion district, which is, you would think what it's very fashionable that. That's fine, what abs. We were, I was in downtown Los Angeles in the fashion district, which is, you would think what it's very fashionable, but it's actually like the absolutely, like the hood of Los Angeles almost. And they had promptly on the front of their McDonald's was the hash brown guy. Never seen the hash brown guy.

I never seen the hash brown guy. Why did they have that? They highlighted the hash brown guy. And he was like, his own, he's part of the hashtag. I've never seen the hashtag. Why did they highlight it? They highlighted the hashtag round guy. Wow. And he has like his own, he's part of the sign. It was crazy. The hashtag round guy, they're just introducing him. I've never heard of it.

No, I guess he's old school. No, you love your fast food. Love it. He's a Taco Bell. By the way. They did treat you that, right? Oh, talk about, tweet me all the time. I hear, here's something that I'm going to have to confess.

I actually moved to Los Angeles, so it could be closer to the Taco Bell H. H.Q. A really do you like camp out there? Yeah, I mean, I was really, really close to getting invited for a visit once, but didn't. I could get you in there.

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So one of the three members knocked the gun out of his hand after the bullet hit a wall, the group then held the man until security rise. What's the guy doing at the Theta Down under show anyways? I don't know. He claimed to have purchased the show director approached the subject who claimed to have purchased the items for his girlfriend who was taken for the former dressing room. The six cast members approached the subsick backstage, tried to take their money, blah, blah, blah.

Anyway, can you imagine like these hot like, funky downers? It's basically magic, Mike. If you go, if you ever go to Las Vegas, they have billboards all over the place. And it's just like these ridiculously buffed tan dudes. We should go to that. I've never been to like a male show. Thunder, thunder, what Lauren's excited. We've never done it from down under. We should go down under. I think it's to like a male show. We're going to what Lauren's excited. We've never done it. I mean, give him down under comfort.

I take those like crazy yoke out guys. We should go. She does dude. Her tinder. I wish I could just like get her back. We got to talk to her real quick. What? She's like obsessed with those guys. You should have her like idiots know I know I know I know I know I know I know I He keeps me on my toes. They all have to do my toes. Because they're hot. Because they're so pretty, you have to keep up with them. But you are so pretty. Lauren's so pretty. But there's nothing inside. Yeah. Maybe they're peeing in their pants.

We are looking for more. I want to teach her. Yeah, that's why Tinder. It's hook up app. I think so. Yeah. I'm glad you didn't go with that one guy who was grinding at her.

She wasn't asking. Because here's a thing about tender You have to leave a message that's interesting like someone just high Emily we matched. I'm like no shit Or if he says great pictures and like obviously you like my pictures and Lauren and the guy she's like well He was a high all he had pictured was but so okay This is a lot of all not if I see a picture of a guy on tender and his profile has him with a shirt off I automatically say no Lauren the the intern she was like well, she's you just moved LA and his profile has him with a shirt off, I automatically say no. Lauren.

And the Lauren, the intern, she was like, well, she just moved L.A. Yeah, I just moved L.A. She wants free training sessions. She wants L.A. is awesome, I realize. And what am I, yeah, free training sessions. I learned how to work out because of my life. Her last boyfriend, so that's a bonus, yeah.

You learn something from each guy. She's taught something smart. That's good. What am I last boyfriend teach me about doing shots better, I guess, because he was kind of an alcoholic, but that's it. But no, it's good to learn about bodybuilding. That's really good. Like, what do my last wife and teach me about doing shots better, I guess, because he was kind of an alcoholic, but that's it. But no, it's good to learn about bodybuilding. That's really good. Yeah, and not all of them are dumb.

No, I'm kidding. That's not all dumb. Like, what would we do? He's ridiculous, so weird. Oh my God, he works out for like three hours a day. He's one of the co-hosts on Lovevine that you do the show. Yes, that's true. And Dr. Drew.

And he's not an idiot. Yeah, he's not an idiot. No, I'm just kidding. Not everyone, but I'm just kidding. I'm not the everyone. But I'm just saying the only reason I always say that to Lauren is because because she said it is so hot and He's not really asking me any questions. I'm just asking him questions in their first dialogue Which is if you want to date on law and do anything you got to like put it out there You got to make it interesting. At least have like a chick friend right the stuff for you. Yeah Have your best chick friends look at it be like what should I say?

There's a lot of material, listen to my show, I've done a ton of shows online dating. Just don't write it by yourself. Right, don't try to write it by yourself, don't post pictures by yourself, talk to your sister, good friends, all that stuff. So that's what I got for you. Okay, thank you, Lauren.

Okay, we're gonna go into some emails now. Okay, good. So go ahead and read the email, I'll listen. I just wanna double check something on the other. Yeah, can you turn down the air because I'm freezing, everything blowing. Okay, sorry. Like seriously want to double check something on the other. Can you turn it on the air? Because I'm freezing. I have something blowing.

Okay. Like seriously, I'm shivering. Do you know how to do that? Yes, princess. Oh, baby. Okay. Can you hear me? Okay.

So, dear. Okay. These are, thank you everyone for emailing me. Feedbackatsextralthelmie.com. I also, you can send me questions on Twitter, which is sex with Emily, and Facebook is our sex with Emily Page, which you should like. And Instagram. I guess people don't ask questions

that Instagram, oh, and YouTube, we're putting out more videos on YouTube too, so all that is sectioned on me across the board. Dear Emily, I was listening to your show, which I love. Okay, here's my question, I'm blushing now. You've taught me so much, but I've been thinking about asking you about beauty and what a slut is. I mean, you tell them so much about how to date,

but the one thing I don't understand is the beauty of sex. I guess the media has brainwashed me a little on what a sexy image is. What a sexy person is for the media versus what we actually find sexy. Thank you. I'll send you more questions and keep watching. Love you, Sydney.

Okay, that's a really good question. Sydney, because first of all, you're asking two questions here. What is the idea about beauty and what a slut is? So I just think that like slut shaming is horrible because a guy, you know, there's a total double-standard, like a guy can go around and sleep with a lot of women and it actually makes women more interested in women. They get this reputation as a slut. I don't even know, I guess it's from like, see if you have other people or rumors, but I think that people, women should just, you know, own

their bodies and make right choices about sex. Now, if you're someone who has a lot of one-night stands and then you regret it in the morning and you're like, I don't feel good about myself, then maybe you shouldn't say brown and, you know, maybe that could be, you could be labeled a slut. However, if you are fully owning your sex life and you're making good decisions, you're making decisions that make you feel good about yourself sexually, then you're fine.

And if anyone calls you anything, who the hell cares anyway, but still, slut is a ridiculous word, I think. Like women who are called sluts. This, so I just think that the thing is about, don't ever care about anyone else's things, it's not what you think about yourself. So again, if you think that you're making the right choices when it comes to sex and

you're, I don't care if you're sleeping with diverse every night, you're using protection and you're happy and satisfied, fine. But if you have low self esteem and things don't feel great, that's when you should question it. You don't think there's actually two like sluts out there? I mean male and female. For sure. No, I mean, yes, of there. I mean, male and female. For sure. No, I mean, yes, of course.

I mean, how would you define slut? Probably, the only time I think somebody is a slut is when they probably sleep with people that know that might have repercussions with friends and family and stuff like that. You mean like if repercussions with, you know, friends and Family and stuff like that. You mean like if they sleep with their brother or something or there's brother alone then how do I probably like their brother in law? They're just like sleeping with people right randoms. Maybe one of their like best friends Friends, acts or something all that kinds of stuff. What doesn't think about, you know, how that would affect people right? Probably that's who I think was.

But sure, people with a maybe some of the... Like, like, shake their just like banging guys because they're single, then... Right. And again, that's fine. That's been... You're 20s, 30s, whatever. It doesn't matter. You're going through divorce.

And you go through divorce. They sleep with everyone. As long as you're using protection, and it's kind of fun, but everything gets old after a while, and you kind of need to mix up. But her other question for Cindy is, you've taught me some off she wants to know about beauty. She thinks that the media has sort of brainwashed her into knowing what beauty is and what is sexy. What is sexy person from the media

and what we actually find sexy? So I think that's interesting. I think it's like that I heard that a lot of women now, like maybe we were just starting out having sex, are having sex like AKA porn stars, because that's all they see and they think that's what sexy or what's on Victoria's secret of sexy. So that's what women are learning is sexy and I think that sexy to me is something that when you have confidence in who you are and you are, carry yourself in a way that you

feel good about yourself and you wear things that make you feel pretty and sexy. I mean, I think it's a case by case thing, but I think the media, don't pay time, never pay attention to the media. I'm no idea what sexy is. I don't look at clothing magazine, whatever you're saying. You just gotta own it and know yourself. I think that the media does a disservice a lot to women. I mean, like the media of magazines and all that,

that you're supposed to look a certain way or act a certain way. And think you've got to find your own style, your own groove. And a lot of what is sexy is women who know their bodies and are comfortable in their bodies, and they sexually know how their body works. So a lot of women don't take the time to figure out what makes them feel good sexually, and that they're worried when they're having

sex with a man or woman who are having sex with the whole time. A, they're wondering like, how do I look? Like, he's a noticing that I gained a pound or am I performing, but they're not thinking like, does this position feel good? Am I getting the most satisfaction I can? And I think that women who are confident in the bedroom

and they know themselves, it comes across a sexy all across the board What do you think is sexy menace? I think it's sexy women with jobs Yeah, hot right. Yeah, it's so funny. Yeah, you're right. Like no, no Just like women that are like in powerful positions probably yeah Not even powerful, but just like Cool. Yeah, Unemployed like have stuff going on, right? Be busy. Have a life. Don't just give everything like no ton of

Hot women that have absolutely nothing going on. They just want a party like all how do they support themselves? Rich boyfriends. I There's a lot of that in LA too. Have you heard about that? Oh, I'm sure there's like all these buildings, like my friend point is like, yeah, that's where all the, you know, the kept women's day, like men of like, mistresses and they like stay there and they give them, like, I'm sure you said like, but like all over too.

All over the world, of course, but LA is more prominent. I mean, also if you're probably attractive, you're probably gonna disagree with me, but I'm gonna say a lot of stuff also is like kind of handed to you too, you know, you don't really I know Guys carry heavy boxes for you at least when I would be in like the The club seemed because I worked out like a top 40 radio station We'd always have to be in the clubs that women that would go to the club with

Maybe four dollars in their purse To get get free stuff on my lawn Yeah, I mean, you just do Yeah, that's true Yeah, you just do But you know, I mean, that's how you get by That's how you entertain yourself No, I never expect to get free

And then when you do me the guy, the guy's paying for the movie And the dinner and all that kind of stuff So it's actually not really hard to get by And most likely you probably live with your parents. I don't know. I mean, I do think if you're a little bit older than you probably have like some some kind of crappy job that that pays the rent and all the other stuff. The entertainment factor in your life is probably mostly free. Maybe, maybe, maybe, I don't know, I

don't know. I mean, I, I guess I you're hot, I don't know. I'm gonna go so far. If you're hot, check, I don't know. I mean, I guess I always just work, I don't know. Yeah, I think there are a lot. And I think you see that it's funny because this guy friend of mine said, he moved to New York, he moved to LA from New York, and you're saying like the light and granted, this is his choice of women,

but like two women he dated, like in the last six months, asked him to pay the rent. Like they were like models after season, like could you help me out of my rent? So I think, like I've never heard of them. I don't know, I don't know anyone who would do that. I'm like, maybe that's when we're dating, but you like the models.

The day actually asks. Well, you was like, man, I think I have a hard time. Maybe you can help me out. Yeah. So I think that that does happen. I think that women you should have worked. Wait for me to offer to pay. Exactly, or whatever.

He was like totally turned off by that. But I do think that, yeah, a woman with a job Sexy totally women should always I think you got to take care of yourself before you can rely on anyone else take care of you That's how I feel. Yeah, but you take it to the extreme. I know I do I'm sorry. I relationships go ahead. Okay. I know doesn't destroy them. I just don't get into them But maybe it does destroy them. Okay dear Emily. I'm 62 years old You know me from three years ago when I found my wife of 30 years in bed with my best friend. You and men escaped me advice.

What? I divorced her and now she pays me alimony. Hell yeah, that's what's up. But my dating life has been, let's just say I can't get past a second date. I'm a very successful person, but it's been difficult to remember how to attract and behave on a date. Many of my dates look at me as if I was their father. Let's just say the most common thing I hear is, you're really sweet. You're the nicest guy in the room,

but I don't want to have sex with the nicest guy in the room. Advice, signed, nicest guy. Be a dick, but not like an extreme dick, like the one that you had on the show apparently, a couple of shows ago off Tinder. Yeah, okay, here's the problem. This is kind of like the friend zone show, which we're going to do this show soon, but it's kind of like guys who fall into the friend zone.

So a, my question for you, nice guy is you're 62 years old. You didn't mention how old the women you are dating. You might be dating 30 year olds who actually they might look at you like a father figure because you could be their father. But if you're dating women who are age-appropriate, who are established and already have a life, that might not be the case. However, let's assume you are dating women who are age-appropriate, and that they're still thinking that you are the nice guy. This is because you're allowing yourself, you're not putting forth a, a track, like sort of a mysterious, interesting side of yourself, you're putting a side,

you're putting it the nice guy, you're being sweet, you're being caring, maybe they're complaining to you about their ex-boyfriends or whatever and you're listening and you're helping them, but you gotta be aggressive and confident and let them know that this is a date. You're not out to make friends, tell them they're attractive. You just have to like, be, make it known

that you're not going into the friend zone, that you're not, you know, it's like, he sounds like he's a really nice guy. And he doesn't have experience dating because he was with his wife for so long. And if you're afraid what they might say and then they might walk off, then fine, because that's not what you wanted anyways

And that actually took me forever To to get over because I was the you know super nice guy always got in the friend zone and then eventually you know I said eff it, you know, I I don't want to be their friend I want to be more than their friend and if they're not feel? If they're not interested, then they're not interested. But you just got to make the move. But didn't know what I think you also, you got to just make the move. Here's the thing. At least the tip.

I think that, at least just the tip, just the tip. No, but I think that what you're also doing is, you have to just assume that be that confident man, like kiss her then, and if you want to kiss her, like let her know that you're interested in her like that way. And don't just be like the nice, And don't just be the nice guy. You gotta lay it down. And don't, for example, I think the difference, like I said, is the woman's complaining,

you're trying to help her out. But let's not talk about that. Let's have fun. Or just try to turn the conversation away from you giving advice or you being the support and doubt that you shouldn't be that eventually. But if you're starting out with someone, you want to establish on the first date that there's an attractiveness, that you're the man, and I would just look back at your behavior on the former dates. Let me know who you are, how well these women are, email me back and give me some

more information and then we can go from there. Right, Menace? But don't you think that you also got older and more confident and more? Yeah, probably, but He's confident. He's got a practice. And he's older. You know, the only problem is he was married for a long time. I think that's a thing that that nicest guy is that you're just a little bit out of practice. And now that you know this is happening and you've recognized a pattern, you just need to go into it differently. Like, don't be too nice. I mean, you should definitely pay for the dinner.

You should definitely make plans. You should definitely be aggressive. But don't do the things that you would do with your girlfriends. Like, you know, look them in the eye and let them know. Touch them. Lean over and touch them and start building that chemistry. Start building the attraction. We've done a lot of shows on that, too.

Are you to say, are you DTF? You think you know what that means? You you to say, are you DTF? You think he knows what that means? He can Google it. Are you DTF? I'm just wondering about the guys that fall on the front zone. Like there's so many guys, and then see what? They just might not be attracted to either, and then you keep moving. That's true too.

They're trying to think guys that fall on the front zone, and I'm just not attracted, no matter what they do. And then if they're super cold, they don't totally run away. And then yeah, you can be friends with them. And then I'm super versus for women too. Like I know that I've had people in the friend zone and then eventually, but that doesn't happen very often. So women are more fit, like men decide in three seconds

that they're gonna see with someone. Women. I like two seconds. Yeah, women are like, oh yeah, maybe I don't know about a few times. Okay, dear Emily, I've gone through the whole Caggle Camp app and I'm on level 12 again. How often and how long do I need to rest? Can I do them every six hours and then with more Caggles?

I also noticed sitting on a roll towel, I can better feel the tensing. Is this good or bad? I want to feel the muscles getting stronger and feel like I can use them in new applications. Does it do any good to do them individually like holding the muscle tense between traffic lights, which is six blocks, thanks for your help? I don't know if this is from a man or a woman. I don't see it signed, but because men and women, okay, so I have an iPhone app called Kaggle Camp.

You can download it in the iTunes store. We're soon going to be having it on the drawer. I know everybody's been emailing me about that for like two years. And we actually are on that. But the thing about the kegletri sizes is that they're so important to do. And doctors for men and for women, you have stronger orgasms. You can last longer in bed, women, if you had just had a baby and you've like urinary continents, like it's like any other muscle in your body that

you have to work out. So yeah, my F1S app is called keglet camp. And the difference is it reminds you every continents, like it's like any other muscle in your body that you have to work out. So yeah, my F1S app is called Kegelcamp and the difference is it reminds you every day, like every day at 11.30, it says time for Kegelcamp on my phone and then for five minutes, it's my voice walking you through it. Tell you do it. It's five minutes a day and I've had people, like my friend Jordan did it, any email me, he kept sending me the screen grabs at each level because there's 20 levels and he was like, oh my god, I'm shooting sperm across the room. Like, I'm like 18 years old again because he's like 30 or whatever. So it does make your orgasm stronger because today I'm going to get back in some minute,

but I did an interview with Cosmo when they were talking about how women can have more g-spot orgasms. And it is true by strengthening your kegel muscles. If you do them straight for just a few weeks, you will feel stronger and have stronger orgasms. Okay. so back to this question. You know, you could do catalog exercises. I'd say up to twice a day. You can do them every six hours.

Actually, I think our next version of the app is gonna have a two times a day reminder so you can do them twice a day. And sitting on a rolled towel, I mean, if that feels better for you, I think that's probably really good. If you're trying to think of your sitting and told you're really back, I mean, if that feels better for you, I think that's probably really good. If you're trying to think, if you're sitting on a toe, you're really in back. I mean, that's totally fine.

I have no problem with that. And if you want to feel the muscles getting stronger, I mean, you probably should feel them getting stronger at this point. You want to know if it doesn't, you could do them individually, like holding the muscles tense between traffic lights, six bucks. Yeah, you can play around with it. I mean, the thing about it is it's those peace-stopping muscles. So every time you stop and start the flow of urine, so the thing about the app is like

Y has 20 levels is because like they get harder and harder. So you hold it longer and then you relax it tense relax. So if you play games with yourself like you do it at the traffic light and the next traffic like I think that's fine as long as you don't hurt yourself. So you just got to be careful. Now another amazing thing if this is a woman, there are so many great, and I've been using these. There are great exercises.

These kegoballs, they sell like every single friggin toy design toy company makes kegoballs that you put like, like J.J. who you know I love. If you go to sexwithwithm.com slash good vibes And you Google Kagle exercises are like these weights for your vagina and you do exercises With the and they make you strong you can walk around with them for like a few hours And you actually don't even have to do the Kagle exercises They just work out your vagina for you just crazy. I And I'm telling you, I think I was washing the Kardashian

and one of the balls got stuck in the vagina. Really? Well, these have strings that you pull out like that. And they like fell out eventually or something like that. That would hurt. Well, you know why they're so popular now? Well, because every sex toy company now makes them is because of 50 shades of gray.

Because in 50 shades of gray, he puts like the column of the Ben Wabballs. He puts them inside of already like spank star and shades of orgasm from them. Which I have not tried yet. I've just used them for chaglocrosizes, but you could try that too. Would you like a pair of fear of golf? Of course.

Really? Not. No. Oh, dude. Okay, foot fetish. This is our favorite topic. Right? Is it one of them now?

Because we can never crack the foot fetish. The foot fetish code, I know. You've asked and asked and asked. It doesn't matter because... What about it turns you on? That's all I want to know. It doesn't, it doesn't have to make sense to you. It's like he saw a sexy foot.

When he was in second grade at the beach, some woman had a foot and maybe his mother would beat him with his foot. It doesn't matter. People fetishize. A lot of fetishes come from early childhood. Things happen. It matters to me and I just want them just to say,

oh, I just, oh, he would probably tell us Luke. This is from Luke. Let's email him back. Okay, dear Emily, I've been dating a woman for a few months now and we're starting to get sexual. I have a foot and tickling fetish. I watch her to tickle me and I want to play with her feet. I want to share my love of feet and tickling with her. How can I incorporate erotic footplay and tickling into our relationship? Thank you, Luke.

So we don't have to get into the win and win how he developed this fetish. People have fetishes about a lot of things, but the thing about a fetish is it's not like you have a fantasy, it's like a fetish. Like he, Luke requires this to have the most fulfilling sex and you can't let it out of his mind. Here's the issue. You've been dating her for a few months and you're just starting to get sexual. I wouldn't necessarily bring this up right away

like say you label yourself as a foot fetishes. Maybe you could say do like foot massages. I'm hard pressed to find a woman who wouldn't like a foot massage, and you could start massaging her feet and see how she likes it. You don't have to get into the whole thing, and then maybe later, you know, you could bring up the tickling thing. I'm wondering if you need them congruent.

If you can just deal with the feet for now and just kind of see ease into it, and that's going to turn you on, you big wow, it really turns me on. Because for me, aside from the hamburger suit, if I do, and I think a lot of people like this, that if I do something that a guy thinks is super sexy, it turns them on, I'm going to do it again and again, because if he's turned on, I'm turned on. So if she sees you turned on by her feet, you know, and whatever, I think that that's a fine way to go about it.

I've never seen a really busted pair of feet because I would just have a flashback of when I was probably in my early 20s and I saw a girl that I liked at the pool and her feet were like. Was she like a runner or something? I don't know, was wrong, but it was pretty- You were instantly turned off by her? My tillion almost.

Really? And then getting even like a wrap-ter. Yeah, women are so, I've a man with like really bad feet out care When men are so particular No, they just like rough feet like men should get pedicures too, I think why don't I get pedicures because they're gonna touch you in bed and stuff I make sure my feet I I'm really Crazy about feet. I don't like them do a foot fetish Oh, no, I don't have a foot fetish

You don't want to say I wish they you wish you could I don't Nothing for me. I mean I'd like I Like I I appreciate women that have style when it comes to their shoes and stuff like that I like my kicking boots look. Yeah, those are cool. They're awesome. What do you mean? They're all right Some fancy designer that I got half off. It's cool, who makes them? Some fancy designer that I got half off, I don't know who it is though.

Anyway, it doesn't matter. You don't care. No, no, no, I wish, that'd be nice. So anyway, I would say that's how you corporate a rot of propel. But again, this is something that you need. So I would try with foot massage, you can use a, so this is what I was saying earlier,

that is that my candles, my Emily and Tony massage candles, which look like, have you used the candles? They're beautiful, they turn into pearls. I haven't used them, I haven't used them sexually, but they're... But you just like that, right? Because they smell amazing. So they smell amazing, and it's funny,

because I've been lighting them in the office every day, and I got in the, because one of them is vanilla, and I got in the elevator, and this guy's like, wow, it smells like chocolate, because someone's baking cookies. I was like, it's actually my vanilla candle, because it smells amazing, but you can also... I poured on your penis right now. I said, I have actually an important, but no, because someone's baking cookies, I was like, it's actually my vanilla candle, because it smells amazing, but you can also... I poured it on your penis right now.

I said, I have actually an important, but no, because the scent just gets, it's like a Roman therapy, but you could light a candle and you could also like start, it's warm. It turns into like the most luxurious massage oil, and so you could light some candles for atmosphere and then you could pour them on her feet and start massaging with warm oil.

And I'm sorry, I don't know anyone who wouldn't want that. And then start there. And then if she's open sexually, you could start talking to her. Because I believe that you do have to start pretty early on talking to your partner about what you want sexually. I mean, don't wait too long. Because if you're not satisfied, people go years

and they realize you're not satisfied. Because you can be satisfied with someone for like six to eight months. You're going to have good sex the first six to eight months. It's almost like with a freaking tree, right? Yeah. It's hormones. Everything feels great at the beginning.

But when it starts, you know, to start talking early on. And again, if you want one of my candles for your foot fetish to give someone a massage, it's emilyantone.com and use coupon code emilyantget20% off because they're rock. OK, that's what we got. The other one more thing I have to talk about is Mr. Skin. Do you know Mr. Skin? Of course he's famous. He's so, so famous. And we, if you go to sexelmedic.com slash Mr. Skin, you can check out his site and it's been crazy because he was on

the show a few weeks ago. And he's basically even fat. His old tagline is like fast forwarding to the best parts since 1990. And he's on the hard side all the time. So like if there's any naked celebrity that you've ever, you're like, oh, as Angelina Jolie, you've ever had a nipple slip or whatever. You can see them all, like literally

from like the beginning of time every actress. And I have a log in now and I was like, I was not like an hour, you know me. I don't spell on timeline. It is so well done this site. I'm like, people I didn't even care about, I was like, I was not like an hour, you know me. I don't spell on timeline. It is so well done this site. I'm like, people I didn't even care about are like checking out their breasts. Like, I don't know. Have you gone on it?

It's very cool. I haven't, but it was even, it was hilarious. It was part of a movie. Yeah. Oh, yeah. It was knocked up. Knocked up, yeah. They used his job that he literally made up.

So anyway, check out Mr. Skin. And if you sign up for it, you support our show too, so we can keep up doing this show for free. Yeah, sexelimin.com slash Mr. Skin and Menace, I love you. I'm so glad you're here back and anything else that you'd like to say to the people's Well follow both of us on Instagram Emily has been Instagramming lately. It's sex with Emily And I'm menace ME and AC yeah, you were like on the street or something, this recently.

Oh, I had a pair of jeans on. My new blank and blank NYC. I had a party with the designer the other night and he makes the coolest jeans and he gave me these ripped up cool jeans. I saw that photo. Yeah, that was cool. If you wanna see it, go to sex and Emily

and I'm just menace. I usually use post photos of food or some wacky event that I'm at. Exactly. Good times. Anything else? No, I don't know. I love you all.

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