Sex With Emily - Penis Mischief & Pretend Orgasms

Episode Date: April 17, 2015

In this classic throwback episode of Sex With Emily from 2012, Emily and Menace address birth control and penis mischief in the news, and answer emails from a few girls with orgasm problems. Also, is your man overstaying his welcome in your home? Have you fallen into a “reverse cowgirl” pattern? Emily and Menace explore the wonders of “handjobs performed on women,” Dunkin’ Donuts, and an unsettling, but comprehensive set of statistics and facts about the ever-present issue of CHEATING. Fresh out of the vault from 2012, check out this old school Sex With Emily episode! It’s jam-packed with crazy sex in the news, serious sex in relationship issues, and some surprising revelations.  Want a few great “finger-banging” techniques? Need some signs that your partner is cheating on you?  Get these and more on this episode of Sex With Emily! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Wow. Are you homeless? Why no? What's going on? It was a long weekend, dude. Really? Yeah. I mean, you know,

Manus was like, over time. Like, yeah, I shouldn't manness was like over time like I shouldn't even complain about me being tired so what happened this weekend there was a big music festival yes music festival it's called outside lands some of the headliners were arcade fire muse deadmouse I can't there was there was so many bands right shins the shins and It's about maybe for football football fields long. Yes, and maybe it could be even more I don't even know with hills with hills and dirt and dust and hiking nature yes, and constantly walking back and forth and back and forth and

i'm here and over here and trying to meet friends and the cell phones are working and blah blah blah and we want to go to the show we want to go to that show oh and i'm hungry and i got a p in the dimension of the drink like literally it was like around of just like drinks pying concert music walking walking drink and he is fine it's kind of exhausting that's why i've been dead because it's the same thing

At all the blues in Chicago, which I just did the week before I know dude. How did you do both of them? I'm so I'm done after this. I'm going to bed. Do you see anything weird crazy sexy at the concert crazy sexy? Any hot backstage action hot backstage action. No, I was kind of dead this year But I did enjoy Like the first day there was already this girl like puking at like one p.m. And the thing started at 12 Yeah, oh my gosh, she's probably doing some day party. He had a little Mimosas with their breakfast or something. Yeah, but there was definitely I Kind of knock this area saying all where all the beautiful women at but then they show up at the

Concerts at the concert. I thought there was a hot. I thought it was a good looking crowd. Yeah, there's really good looking for sure Yeah, but I didn't mean anyone. You didn't mean anybody. No, what were you doing? The waste of time walking in circles looking for people seriously. That's it. Yeah, it's fun No, I was listening to music, hanging out with friends. I had VAP, which was awesome for three days, which was great, because you can kind of get away from the people. The masses, the commoners.

The commoners, exactly. And it was fun, good music. I was a little tired. Like, you got to get out there, and then you got to get back and tell the miles to get there. But I went, it was fun. My friend had the food's amazing. Did you get to get out there and then you got to get back and tell the miles to get there but I went it was fun my friend had the foods amazing you get to get in food oh I had oh yeah I didn't have anything classy but I had like you're like a tater tots I had tater tots I did have something

kind of I had I was it I had sliders but it was flaming yon oh flaming yon sliders and uh... uh... yet but we do we get free beer backstage uh... that's good oh say you love beers beers and uh... ice cream there's a sky called the ice cream and and he travels to all these music festivals and he's sponsored by like ben and jerry's and all

all he does is hand out free ice cream oh i missed them i would have been so happy if I saw him. I see him all over the country. Wow, I didn't know. And then I lost my phone. No. I lost my phone, but I got it back.

Was that because you were wasted? Yeah. One of those girls that were wasted. I've never lost my phone because I was not in the best state of mind I have to say. And I got there starting night late, because I was just to get there earlier and this whole Chain of events happened that prevented me from getting there

Those chain events chain of events sound interesting. They were so um, you want to share? Yeah, I know I was making out this guy in Dolores Park Okay, this guy that I'm dating whatever it was fun So I was late meeting my friends and I was in the sun in Dolores Park, which was actually sunny and really, really nice because the rest of the friggin city and where this park is is cold, where the outside lands. So then I was drinking, hanging out the park, Dolores Park is this really fun park and then we again, since I was going I was like, oh, god, I gave the concert meet on my friends.

So I got to the concert and I couldn't find my friend, like I just couldn't and they were like, we're at Lanzin and I just was messed up and couldn't find in as walking in circles and I was like, I think I'll have some pizza though and then you know some calamari and then I was eating food, trying to find them, I know I'm super fun. And then I finally found my friend at the very end who had a limo, which was the perfect time to find her. Because getting out of there was a cluster F. And so she took me home and it was really fun. So getting home, no problem. But my phone, so I don't know what I did.

Like, you know me, I'm phone obsessed. Like phone is right here. Like it's never too far away from me. And then all of a sudden I was like buying food and it was gone. And I had one of those purses with like 100 zippers in it. So I sat down on the floor, methodically, went through the floor. I sat down on the floor, methodically, went through the floor. I sat down on the dirt, and I methodically went through

every single zipper and just to find it was gone. So when I ran into my friend Lindsay at the end of the night, she was, oh my God, you lost your phone. He called me, the guy who had your phone, because she was the last person that I'd talk to, blah, blah, blah. He got it back the next day. But losing your phone just sucks. Yeah, I did.

And I had plans to meet up with people later in the night, and I never got my phone back to the next morning. But losing your phone just sucks. Yeah, I did. And I planned to meet up with people later in the night and never got my phone back to the next morning. So whatever. That's terrible. It was terrible. It was terrible. But we missed you on Friday. In terms of going wild again when you're not here.

You miss it. Oh, real quick though. But if anybody want to see a bunch of photos, I took a good talent. Oh, go tell them. Two thousand of them. And it's up on my blog. You took two thousand photos over the weekend.

It's so. What's your blog? White menace dot com white menace dot com just go there and you'll see all the stuff. Are there any pictures of you? No, it's just pictures of you. Pictures of the band and stuff like that. The EF the band. I don't know our pictures of men. Oh no. Oh, can I can I can I pinch something out? It's not they're not a sponsor I don't get paid by them or anything like this But they're in a few major cities around the country and it's amazing. It's how I got home. Okay, because right now I'm sponsored by Sion where I get a car through Sion, but since the Japan earthquake happened the new car That I'm supposed to get I don't have it yet, right? So I'm like a month without a car right now

I got it and I had to get home and't have it yet. Right. So I'm like a month without a car right now. Got it and I had to get home and my house is so far away from And there's thousands of people and you like you can't get a cab unless you want to get in a bus That's this jam packed with people. It's terrible So what there is there's a service called uber you go to uber.com And it's an app that you can download for your phone and it uses GPS for where you're at. And you go, okay, pick me up and you just click a button and a private town card comes by.

No way. Pulse up right in front of you just take the town card home. How about all the people? What's everyone like? Oh, that's my town card. That's my name. They know you. They know your name.

They know your phone. I heard a lot of people talking about that. Yeah. And you just pay through your phone and everything. Wow. Is it they charge you more though? They charge you a little bit more. It's worth it. It's worth it. Because you cannot, if you've never been San Francisco, there's a few things you need to know. In the winter, I mean, in the summer, it's freezing. So like we're all at the park and we're freezing. I had a cashmere sweater hat and gloves in my nose is running because I was so cold. And the other thing you need

to know is you can never ever get a cab and if there's a concert with 40, 50,000 people, 90,000 people, not gonna be the day you're gonna get a cab. Yeah Hours so thank god my friend she came like a beacon of light and said we have a limo right over here Emily and it was perfect and they drove me home nice I know and the first night my friend was a vendor because his restaurant was there so he got so he headed parking spot Yeah, so it wasn't too much of a it wasn't too bad So yeah, um any other good stories? Not really okay, just to people This is I've been dealing this dealing with this my entire like ever since I started doing like media coverage at like concert events.

What do you mean we can't hang out? You don't have, I'm like no, I can't hang out. You worked the whole time. I know I texted you. I was like where are you but I didn't think I'd really see you. Yeah, but remember when we were the day before it happened I showed you my schedule. Yeah. My schedule was down to the minute. Yeah, yeah. The entire time. Some of the bitches hang out with you another time. I know, but I just like, oh man, it is so rough, like no one, they don't understand, like even the, oh yeah, okay, cool, yeah, whatever.

And they go, I mean, they still get upset, like people, this like a lot of people get upset. That's not the front. I would never get upset with you. I understand that you're busy, but I still did text you to see where you're at. Okay, some, okay, we're gonna be reading, some, we've got some good topics today.

Okay, emails, topics include, overstaying your welcome at someone's house. Sexy voices, reverse cowgirl and female hand jobs. And the teaser for today's show is the topic is why do we cheat and can relationship survive in a fair? And we just posted on Facebook and someone wrote, we cheat because we are all horny bastards. Some guy just commented that. Menace doesn't cheat, but that's what they say. So we're gonna talk about cheating, how to deal with it, what to do, what are the signs of someone's cheating,

which comes up a lot because people are cheating all over the place. Can I ask you something real quick before we get into that? I just wanted to tease people so they know what's going on. You mentioned that it was an intern Friday thing and I wasn't here, so what the hell happened on Friday? What the hell happened on Friday?

What's our free Friday show? And my interns went speed dating and they talked about their speed dating event, their speed dating adventures. And speed dating is really cool. They went to a hurry date event because here's the thing about speed dating. Is everyone's dating on my now? But if you go speed dating, you got an hour and you meet 20 people and then you go home. Like, otherwise you got to date with one person and that's about one hour, at least that you guys don't have the person. Unless you're me and I get it in 45 minutes. But if you're with them for an hour,

you might as well meet that many people and you five minutes. So the girls, so the woman sits in one place and the guys rotate around you and then you have five minutes, they ring a bell and you talk. So they do that. They went speed dating and they had some matches, they had fun. They didn't they didn't meet like the guy of their dreams, but they had good times. I'm trying to think what would have us happen. What else? Anything else crazy? It wasn't too crazy. No, no, It was like just said something that was terrible. Does anyone say anything? I think, well, I think, well, here's a problem. The guy in the bar, oh, they were talking about how there was no cute guys or something and then the guy

in the bar was saying, right next to them, that was bad. Oh, man, he did. Girls are so hard. But the problem is I also got them a little drunk before they went because it was one of the interns last days Under a birthday. Yeah, so I got some shots and the bartender was buying them shots So they were a little wasted so but you know, I had to go speed eating a few years ago for work and I took them research and I liked it I actually did I think I had a boyfriend at the time, but I was doing it for work I really was doing it for work But I have a meeting a few at the time, but I was doing it for work. I really was doing it for work. But I remember meeting a few guys

that I thought were really cute. So I was gonna go, I am gonna go at some point. Just do it for fun. But that's what we talked about. And you know, various other things. You'll have to listen to this. It's a lot more tame than last time, it seems. Yeah, like no one got naked and crazy.

Not that they got naked last time. They just talked about all their sex life. It's amazing, my interns, really. It changed my life. They have. That's good. They got all those great stories They learning stuff. You know you see it's like having children It's like you see like when you know and then they come in and then they learning all the other stuff on their own

And it's like exploring and growing and changing and all that stuff There's sexuality is expanding this sexual. It's amazing to see it's amazing to watch. Okay Sex in the news What's in the news here. What's in the news? Here's what we got in the news. New birth control rules may shake up behavior. You heard about the new birth control rules. The Obama has said that we are now going to be paying

for contraception. Health plans will have to cover contraception in seven other women's preventive care items. Okay, so half of our U.S. pregnancies are unintended, a rate that's unchanged in 30 years. And about one and three women will have an abortion, but the time she's 45. So teen pregnancy has gone down considerably. The unplanned pregnancy rate among their older siblings has remained high. About seven and ten pregnancies among married women

in their 20s are unplanned. So next year, it'll be interesting to see what happens when they have like the methods approved by the US food Like they're gonna pay for this. This is huge. They're gonna pay for birth control pills patches injections implants vaginal rings condoms Sterilization IUDs and emergency and morning after pills and all that shit. We had a pay for it before. Yeah, that's a lot of stuff that women have to say I fully endorse it. I just don't know where the money's coming from If you are people are gonna be complaining about that. I don't know men get everything else for free They can only get men get like biographer free or whatever. I don't know. I know I definitely know Anyway, this is a big deal that this is finally happening because it just makes sense. Okay

Okay, but I yeah, I fully supported it. Okay. I don't mind my tax dollars going to that because if you really if it's Preventing a lot of stuff people don't want to bring into the world Right, exactly. I'm gonna have to pay for that anyways Yeah, and a lot of women have cited that it's just expensive and that's why they don't get birth control So now it's all gonna be available. This is just major major move forward Okay, scientists develop straw that detects date rate drugs So is really scientists have dropped a new device that looks like a swizzle stick

but can actually detect date rate drugs that might have been put into your drink? The device which goes on sale this month is able to pick up on traces of GHB and ketamine to the most common place date rate drugs. Using a chemical reaction in the straw, a red light comes on alerting the user that their drink has been spiked.

Wow, can you imagine if you're like about to like dive into like your martini and it was being spiked, that would talk? Have you ever been date raped? I was once. What? I was in Indonesia. I was traveling alone and I got, I was out in a little island in Indonesia, this tiny island and my friends and I got not date date rate, but I didn't get raped,

but it was a date rape job. Like we were totally knocked off our ass. I, not having a date rate, but I've definitely, I've never been date raped. Let me let me have you just say that. I've definitely blacked out where it seemed like it was. I was wake up the next morning with so much business cards. I'm like, I don't even remember talking to you.

Exactly, that's when you throw them away, because they won't remember you either. No, but I was like in the, in Indonesia, we were like business cards. I'm like, I don't even remember talking to you. Exactly, that's when you throw them away because they won't remember you either. No, but I was like in the Indonesia, we were like thought we were gonna like take some psychedelic mushrooms or something but it ended up just knocking us out. That's bad. It was really bad.

I didn't, I cite was gone for like two days. Uh-huh. I was traveling alone 25 years old in the middle of friggin' nowhere. Did your mom let you do that? That's crazy. Yeah, this was before, before like it was easy to make phone calls from other places. Like you didn't have your own cell phones and stuff like that.

It was very sad. My mom didn't care. She doesn't care. Can you tell? I'm the way I am the way I am. She's like, what have have fun? Write me a letter. Uh, what we just can say?

Nothing. I'm just like, I don't know. That's amazing. My mom was worried. She should have been. Okay. Follow-up story. This is a follow-up story from last week. Sex scandalized airline cancels ill-time to ad campaign.

So I don't know if you were here, but there was, I think this is the same story as the two people, the pilot who was getting oral sex from a flight attendant. And so, okay. Why was flying? Unclear. It was not clear first. I know. I know. I was not clear first. I know. I never asked.

Hong Kong. Yeah, Roadhead can happen in the air. OK. Hong Kong based airline says two of its employees who were shown in compromising positions are no longer employees of the company. The advertising campaign with the slogan claiming the airline is the team who goes the extra mile to make it feel special was canceled yesterday. Oh, we imagine that. This pilot was like, yeah, getting rural sex in the cockpit.

Now, maybe it was his lunch break, but you still shouldn't be doing that shit and take a picture of it. If he was doing it in the air, I would give that guy high five. No, I would if you were exactly, but he's like flying this plane full of all these people. Okay. He hasn't crashed any planes, has he? So we'll never know because he was fired. Oh, weak.

Week. Okay. Could put it. Could porn help prevent rape? A new report suggests that pornography could deter sexual violence. The study says that porn could actually lower the amount of sexual violence. Some experts of the report believe the consumption of pornography may actually reduce the desire to rape by offering a safe, private outlet for deviant sexual desires. The report also says to Professor of Psychology

and Criminal Justice who says that the low porn is more available now than it's ever been. Rates of rape is in sexual assault in the US or the lowest level since 60s. But how are they tying that into porn? Why is it because I don't know if it's because a porn that the rates have gone down. But I guess there was a study.

Maybe some people are getting in there. They're like, oh, I was going to go rape and kill this woman, but instead I just watched porn about it. I was born to sound team banger's nine. Exactly. I think I'll just watch some pervy stuff on my internet here. Yeah, that's good. I guess if the rates have gone down, but I don't know if that's why.

But porn-preventing rape. I think if you're somebody's gonna rape someone, you're probably gonna rape someone, but let's hope they're right. Okay, Taco Bell worker. Taco Bell worker Jason Dean, allegedly handcuffed himself to women who refuse dates. Oh yeah, I heard about this.

Desperate, can you say desperate? A Taco Bell employee came out a bit too strongly when he allegedly handcuffed himself to a coworker who rejected his romantic advances for weeks. Jason Deane's overtures were meant to be, were met with repeated rejection from his would-be sweetheart, identified only as Rebecca. Atene or Rebecca even scheduled her work hours

deliberately avoid overlapping shifts. She told police she was leaving for work when Dean shut up wanted to talk. When she refused, he cuffed his wrists to her. A trio of Taco Bell employees saw the commotion and demanded he release her. He was arrested as home to his later. That sounds crazy.

She's working with some crazy people. I have to say, if men who wanted to date me, I've never had a guy like Hancock himself to me. Well, what I heard from the story is that he kept on asking her out and then instead of her like saying something, she just asked to be changed shifts. So when she changed shifts, that's when he got upset and then he just showed up until when she was going to have work and then he threw the handcuffs on. Is he thinking that the handcuffs is going to be somehow like a great, this great fact that she's going to have her? She's going to be like, oh my God, like, you know, handcuffs, that was a good move. Let's go out. Let's go out.

Let's enter. Great move with the handcuffs. I feel so fly, little dog. I feel so connected with you right now. I know. God, wouldn't it yet? OK, we've got some more penis mischief. We've had a few penis stories in the last few weeks. So some guy last week, were you here when the guy shot his penis with a pink pistol? No. Yeah.

Some do shot his penis with a pink pistol this week. And this week, penis mischief, there were some genital synopsis fire. When a 20-year-old man exposed his penis to a woman at a bar, she set it on fire as all good women should do. The woman says he's not, he not only exposed himself, but groped her. There are reports that she splashed the man's penis

for San Bucca, then used a lighter to set it on fire. Wow. The man is recovering from second degree burns on his chest and anemone. Okay, dude, stop showing your dicks. Like, I don't understand, I don't understand how guys get off on that where they just like the whole flashing thing I know they're like she's gonna because because you know what it's a numbers game. They're like

Some women's gonna find that huh way Don't encourage it no woman I'm not encouraging it gonna find that hot like oh my god. I want this guy now. I'm not I'm not I hear about stories on public transit all the time of guys With an author weeners and for own chicks Don't I don't get I don't get either. I told you it happened to me in a bunch in New York that one time So thinking like the thinking behind that I don't have nothing to do with a person as to with their own like fetishes Yeah, like their own like outdoor like their own obsessions with with flashing people. Do you not try that with me because I will murder you violently?

You will pour Senbuka on their penis and light it up flame. Okay, NASA must study SpaceX scientists. The Journal of Cosmology has published a special issue detailing the mission to Mars. In a chapter titled titled Sex on Mars, the author discusses everything from the social conditions that would push astronauts to sex to the possibility of the first child being born on another planet.

The chapter details the possible effects of anti-gravity, administration, and fertility as well as significance of a child born on Mars. On Mars, the lights can be different. The gravity of the different is a completely different atmosphere. So if you put an infant on Mars, they would adapt to that varying degrees of the new environment. So they're talking about having sex and space and kids and Mars. We're not even going to space anymore though.

Why? Because all this mess ups up, it's so much. This is costs so much. I know, I know, but they're studying it. Maybe they should be studying other stuff. I don't know, but that's what's happening with that. Okay, so I've got some emails. All right, what do you got?

Well, this is what I've got. Did they say they're where they're from? I like when they say where they're from. Yeah, if you buy this an email, say that where you're from. Just say where you're from, and you can change your name. We don't care if you want to change your name, call yourself anything you want, but we just want to know where you're from. Here's our new poll on sexwithemily.com.

It's very simple. Have you ever had sex with a coworker? Yes? Or no? That's it? That's it. We already know a minuses answer. He's set this way half way around the building.

So yes. I am to please. I go the extra mile. I know. You do. Or you don't because you just date the women who are right there. You're like, hey you and just sitting next to me in the cubicle. Let's bang What's wrong with that nothing wrong with that dude. I've done it

So I did talk about that on Friday was that Friday talked about the sex in the office I talked about having sex with this guy at this job. I had like the long time ago But we closed the store and had sex in the office. No one knew we were dating. It was fairly scandalous You miss that story on Friday. So go vote at sexwildy.com and do that right now and send us your questions. Any sex questions you have, we will answer them right here,

sex and relationships, questions we've got them. Hi, Emily and Menace, I have a relationship question. My boyfriend of a year and a half seems to be, seems to overstay his welcome a lot. He knows I don't wanna live together because I'm not ready for that big step, My boyfriend every year and a half seems to be, seems to overstay his welcome a lot. He knows I don't wanna live together because I'm not ready for that big step,

but he has stayed in my house for about a month straight, slowly moving little things in and it's driving me nuts. I recently told him not to come over one night and he had a tantrum, asking me if everything's okay, are we breaking up, et cetera. What a vagina. I'm feeling smothered and it's making me question the relationship.

What should I do? FYI, I've had the talk with him numerous times about needing space thanks Michelle from Nottingham, Maryland. Okay, dude, Michelle, what do you like about this guy? I'm not clear. He sounds sort of like a drip. He sounds sort of like a vagina like menace. Not that I label people, but no, really.

You ask him not to stay. You've had the talk with them and he's still staying. Does he not have money? Does he just being a deadbeat? Does he not have a job? Is he, is he, is he, if he's staying with you, if he stayed with you for months straight as he's offering to pay things and do things around the house, that's one thing. You should at least be very grateful, but you also told him that you're not ready for

that step yet. So I'm surprised that he's not moving out. So it sounds like there's probably other, he's not hearing you, because he's like, is he in a desperate situation, which also is not attractive. Or is he in love? No, he's not in love. He's being a deadbeat. She told him to move out, basically.

Oh. What should she do? She's at the top with the numerous times about needing space. I think you need to spell it out. I think a lot of times, let me just say this, Michelle, is that a lot of times people think they're having the talk and they're not having the talk.

So the fact that you've said you've had it several times and you seem like an articulate smart woman to me, you haven't really had the talk. You haven't had the talk that you've had with me saying, I don't want him here, he's smothering me and it's making me question the relationship. That's the kind of talk you have to have with him. This kind of stuff that you think that you can probably like, well, you know, it's been a month and I'm just wondering, when do you think you might be moving out? No, no, that's probably the kind of tech you're having. You're not saying, not cool. We live together. I mean, I'm not ready to move in to each other and what's your plan for moving out? So that's what you got to say to him or just end the relationship. He's just being, if he's sucking the life out of you. Say, do says, man. What do you think? I think, uh,

He's disrespectful. You gotta give him a, if you're, if you're already told him to move out, you gotta put a time limit. You gotta put a time limit. On this day, I need you out. And I think that's great. I think it's like, what month is it now?

August, you could be like, okay, by September 1st, I hope you have a place. Because I really don't think that he's not listening to you. And that's the first time, like, where else is, I, I, I, I know what else I want to know Michelle? Where else in the relationship is he not hearing you? I think you should look at that too. Because usually it's not just an isolated incident.

Hi, Emily. I was listening to an episode recently where Menace was gone and one of your interns was kind of sitting in for him and co-hosting the show with you. I kept thinking, wow, she has a really cute and sexy voice. And then it suddenly hit me that she sounds amazingly like the sexy voice in her in a podcast that I used to listen to a few years ago, where the woman would read sexy oratic stories. So I'm just curious, is this the same girl

from that podcast, maybe? Keep the great work, D from Cincinnati. It is not. As far as I'm concerned, it was either Aaron or Kelsey, I think. And they're both have super sexy voices, Kelsey's a little, when you say Kelsey's a little like, has a raspy voice, an errands like really sweet and sexy. So I'm not sure who was, but no. As far as I know, they've not been on other podcasts

when we're in themselves out, just here. Yeah. Okay. Yeah, Emily, dear Emily, you missed it. Just a thought on reverse cowgirl. My wife gets very frustrated when we were having sex and she is on top because with a woman on top, I rarely achieve a finish and she thinks

it is something wrong with her. One night a few years ago, we tried that reverse cowgirl position and the finish hem came quicker than expected. I think she may have gone to the bathroom and high five herself in the mirror afterwards. Peace, Scott. Okay, this is interesting. So reverse cowgirl is when the woman is like she's on tap but she's reverse

and she's facing your knees. That's great. Put it right. So she's not looking at you. She's looking at your feet, your knees and you are able to look at it. And the reason why you probably were able to go so quickly, peace, Scott is because when a woman, this position is very popular, I think for men because they love watching their penis go in and out and you can see the woman's ass going up and down and it can be kind of hot for a lot of men. Maybe that's why. And so she high-fiveed herself because she's like, wow, I was finally on top and she was finally able to have an orgasm.

That's awesome. You found, first call girl. But that thing that I have to say is that your wife is getting frustrated that she's on top and you can't finish. That is something not to get frustrated about because we all have our ways that we can finish and a lot of guys can't finish with a woman on top. Many men can, many men can, maybe you can learn it, but if that's on how you finish and you got to roll over and get on top or do whatever you have to do, I don't think she should get frustrated that she's not turning you on. A lot of guys can't.

Yeah, just let her do her thing and get to her point and then go into a different position. Yeah, bro. I don't understand. I'm not sure why my thumbs are out, but I guess I'm not the chick that gets bummed out about that stuff. And I get that women do because they feel like one of the biggest issues women have during sex is that they're insecure. They over the board and they overanalyze it and they're insecure. Well same thing is being insecure. They're overanalyzing they're insecure. She thinks, oh my god, I probably looked fat when I was on top and it wasn't turning

them on. Like that's probably what they're going to their mind. And so you just have to reassure that it's like nothing to do with her. She totally floats your boat, turns you on, but you just need to be on top or wherever you need to be behind her. That's how I feel. Hey, I'm William Menace. I like how you two talk about what really happens in real sex life

and the tips you share with us. What do you think about the hand job performed on women? Jose from Mexico. The hand job performed on women. Yeah, what about performing, what about like fingering a woman? What about performing, what about using your hand on a woman?

What do we think about it? What do women think about it? Yeah, what do we think? I got a woman so I can't I can't like what do you think about doing that to a woman? I think it's they're awesome I think it's perfectly fine. I think it's great a lot of women get off that way a lot of women need finger simulation Or you can stick a vibrator in front of an charger some some No areas like locations that you have been or you could stick a vibrator in front of an ink argument. Or some, some tips. No, areas, like locations that you have been finger-banged. Personally. I try to kill them up with the difference.

But you couldn't. We're real tired today. No, finger-banging. It passed your way to say it. But you just couldn't get there. So yeah, finger-banging is what they call being on. It's like, what was. What was the question how locations where when oh well? It's interesting so lots of it's different for every woman

I know I know I have a friend who loves being fingered like she just takes guys fingers and just shoves it up there And she's like I want all of your fingers not fist, but like she's like I want three fingers I want two fingers some women like one finger You could put it in and out you could do with the g-spot thing where you're your your fingering her and you're also trying to reach her G-spot, which is if you stick your finger inside of her and you use this come Heather motion towards her with your fingers towards her belly button, that's where you can find G-spot. So women just want it really, really deep. So they want your fingers just really deep. Some women like it shallow. The outer two-thirds of the vagina

are really sensitive. So maybe you could just kind of spend some time in there. I think there's all different ways you can do it. You could just rub her clitoris, for example. You still have an answer for my question. What are some incidents that you could remember? When I was, when a man's fingers were inside me, that was good.

Yeah, but like this random location is not at your house. Location, oh, wait. Where have I been? Oh, and you're saying you're saying where did the act happen? Not like where was this figure? Because because that that can happen. It's awesome. Oh, my God. It happens because guys love doing it and they'll do it anywhere. Do they love doing it? Yeah. I love when guys do it. That's so good to know. I think guys do it in the car, in movies, in concerts, at a restaurant. I mean, yeah, in my lifetime, at a wedding, in the background.

In the bathroom. At a dinner table. It's awesome. It's so hot, guys should do that more. If people like exhibitions exhibitionism or having sex outside that's a sex in Random risky places a fingering is something that you could get you could do that not a lot of people could see airplanes What do you mean? He called it a hand job performed on a woman which i like yeah i never heard that before yeah i have kind of really

and as a hand job and i don't think that that a lot of guys think that women like it as much i think you have to ask for that woman has asked me out like i think a lot of guys some guys and i think i think i tried other than touching your boobs after making out he goes boobsy goes to finger you, but sometimes he doesn't do it right. It's different every woman. So you just got to show him.

If you're a woman, show him what you like. Take his fingers. I'm telling you, like show him, like I want this finger, I want that finger, I want three fingers, I want your pinky, like show him what you want, because guys don't know. A lot of times, because every woman's different. So his last girlfriend liked his thumb, and you want his three middle fingers. He doesn't know.

How the hell is he supposed to know? Show him. Don't you have a guy, or something like that, you can share? Oh, do you want me to make another app? Yes. How many fingers do you stick inside of me? The hand job? You should just make an app where you can just build out

or profile the things that you like. This is me, and then you can send it to somebody. So you give me more ideas. Here's a questionnaire of things that I like sexually. And then you're able to email it to the person that you're dating. And then the conversation you never have again. I know, but they do that on a lot of those like adult friend finder sites and stuff where you like are into fetishes or you're into different, you have different types of properties. I'm not taking all the attention. I'm just talking about basically. Well, basically. I like it when you go down on me after we did such and such.

I know. I wish that people would have these conversations. Why don't we create a form, put it on the website that you can just send to someone. Say. They've all these forms now. Like, here's my SD test. You might as well be like, here's my SD test and here's what I like. It's actually, this is my bad idea. Write that down. Hey, Emily, I love the show and

I listen to it as a podcast on my Zoom before I go to bed at most nights. I go to college in downtown Chicago and I'm 19. Chicago. Oh, love it. Try to. Downtown. This is from a woman. I've done it in Donuts and I thought about you everything about you. You did. I love Duncan Donuts. I tried to take a picture but there was so much glare because I wanted to glass. That's so sweet that you thought of me. How's going to send it to you? Okay.

So she's 19. Let's see. She listens to it in Chicago. Sex is becoming a more common thing among young people that it used to be. And I only have a couple of friends who are virgins, which actually surprises me. I expect pretty much everyone in my age is at sex by now. I think it's also common that many girls at this age are not having orgasms when they have sex for various reasons.

I definitely have this problem. I think female masturbation should be discussed, because I'm not sure people in my age always think it's an okay thing, and they should be encouraged to try it. I just need some advice in these areas, and I bet other people wouldn't mind some either. Thanks Amanda. Amanda, you are preaching to the choir, you are 100% right. This is what we talk about and show all the time. That a woman is not going to have likely not going to have an orgasm at 19, 20 at an early

young age if she has not masturbated. If she has not masturbated and figured out her own body and what makes her feel good. And I mean, not just one night you're gonna try, I mean spending several nights, several, for months at home exploring your body, like take a bath, when you get in bed at night, experiment with a vibrator. There's like a tutorial vibrator or a bigger vibrator

that you can insert inside you and you can look for your G spot. You are not probably likely going to orgasm with a man until you do this. Women have got to do the masturbation work. I really think that I agree that there's not enough information out there on the female orgasm. I've often said this on the show that I never even occurred to me to masturbate.

Like, didn't even, and that's kind of messed up. We could analyze that for an hour, but we're not going to. Like, why would I ever think to touch my vagina? Like, there it is. And I'm not prudent about sex. And my family talked about it all the time, but I think I was busy. I just, I was just tired, I get in bed and tired, I wasn't like touching my vagina. Anyway, there's so many objects you guys can use, it's not fair.

I know pervertibles is what they call them, home things, like a carrot, don't do that. Get a vibrator, like go onto Adam and Eve.com and you can get 50% off most items and three adult free DVDs and a free gift, it doesn't say Adam and Eve so your parents won't know whatever it is that you're when you're getting it. But I think you should just get like a basic vibrator, get like a pocket rocket or. You should go all or nothing, just the biggest thing they have on your life.

No, no, no, no, no. But I'm not sure how you orgasm. So Amanda, I think that you need to tell your friends, they need to masturbate. I think that it has to be discussed and the common girl, I mean, she's so right, the girls that are age are not having orgasms. But I didn't know that.

I thought something, remember, I think I said this on Friday, but I thought something was wrong with me. I said this recently, but this guy that I dated, I actually want to call him apologize, because I remember dating him for three years from 19 to 22 and I never had an orgasm. And I was one of those women who blamed him. Like in my mind, I was like, it's his fault. It's his fault. He's bad and bad.

But it was totally my fault because I didn't know what his fault. It's his fault. He's bad and bad. But it was totally my fault because I didn't know what the hell. So I'm sorry. Blank. She's like, yeah. Okay, once she's 21, throw in some daquila in the mix and you'll be good. Great, man. Thanks for that. Okay. Just love your little alcohol suggestions with everything. Okay, hi, Emily. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now, and everything is going well, except for the sex part. Uh-oh. He isn't very, um, well large. He doesn't burn.

He doesn't mind, and neither do I, but when we have sex, it's hard for me to have an orgasm with him. So I found myself going home and doing it myself. Oh, biggest nightmare for me on right now. I get really horny and he turns me on just fine, but my body just won't orgasm with them. He doesn't know about any of this and I don't plan to tell him. So I just pretend to orgasm, but I don't know what to do. Please help tips or anything. We'll help Taylor.

You know I don't suggest this. God, what, menace. We're gonna throw it out there. Sex toy. Sex toy. Where are you really? It hurts my heart menace. I'm gonna throw it out there. Sex toy. Sex toy. Were you really? It hurts my heart to say.

Oh my God, I love it. That's exactly what I was gonna say. If he's not well, I'm glad. Oh my God, were you one mind now menace? No, I'm not on here endorsing this dough and sex toys in the mix. But if it's gonna help the situation then yes. It will help. So most women tailor need clitoral stimulation during sex.

So he could use his fingers, you could use your fingers. You could also use, I'm not sure how you orgasm, but a lot of women even can't have a clitoral, a g-spot orgasm without having clitoral orgasm. So there's great vibrators that you can use that are great for sex. There's the little clitoral bullets. And that might just get you there. Like you can hold it on your clitoris while he's going in and out of you

and that might make you have an orgasm. And just because he's a small penis doesn't mean he can't hit the g-spot either if you know where that is. Sometimes size doesn't have to matter. So I'm just wondering how well you know your body and but it sounds like you go home and you finish yourself off.

And I bet he would find it so hot if however you masturbate, like, why don't you just masturbate while you're having sex with him? Why don't you just touch yourself the whole time and bring yourself to cut? I kind of think a guy would mind that. I think guys find that really hot. Don't you think when a girl masturbates?

No, I'm happy that she's helping us. But even if she didn't use a vibrator, she could use her hands. Yeah, no, I totally support that. Hey, good. You wouldn't be like if she was like, I'm like, go, she could use her hands. Yeah. No, I totally support that. Hey, good. You wouldn't be like, if she was like, I'm like, oh, dude, make it happen. Dude, whatever you can do.

Yeah, I've got to go to bed. Then she'd also suggest, you know, the whole thing that I say, you know, throw maybe a Chanel bag at her, a couple hundred dollar bills, and then, that doesn't work. She would get super horny and taken care of. It doesn't work. I don't think so, although, I mean, I'm open to anything.

Okay. I get 3% off coach now. You do? Yeah. Why? If you know somebody that needs a gift. I don't know. I might. That's good to know. I know. You never throw bags at your girls, do you? No, no. I think I'm being... I'm not... But you're just hypothetically speaking. A bag for a girl that I've dated for a long time. Right, that was nice of you. I've had that too. Okay, we are going to move into cheating. Because cheating is a huge topic that comes up all the time. We see the news, we see with politicians, we see with celebrities, we see marriages,

last, not at last, we see. We know where you're going with this. What do you mean? I know exactly what your responses are going to be to this. I know you so well. You're already cutting me. I don't even know where I'm going with this. I know exactly what you're gonna your responses are gonna be to this. I know you so well You're already cutting me. I don't even know where I'm going with this. I know And so without the time. Are you gonna say yeah, I'm gonna say that no one is supposed to be with one person for the rest of the I'm not saying that

Bob blah. We're not built like that. We're supposed to Day other people and experience other things and blah blah blah. I'd say that's what biology says. I'm not. My name is Emily Morris. Do you know that I've never ever said F marriage? I've never said in fact when we were researching this, you'll imply it. You'll imply it. I imply it. I agree that I imply it. But some say monogamy does not come naturally for humans. And biology predisposes us to seek multiple sex partners. Some say I'm not saying that everyone says that there are happily married monogamous couples

who don't do this. I'm just saying that for a lot of people, the theory is in biology that it is not natural. OK? I wish I could do this with lottery numbers. I'll introduce you to the audience. Okay, so we're gonna be talking about, why do we cheat? Cheating stats, reason-wise men cheat,

reason-wise women cheat, signs that your partner's cheating, confunding your possible cheating partner, is cheating at a bachelor party, okay? The healing process of cheating and nine steps take after the fair if we can get all to this today, but I don't know if we're gonna get too out of it.

We don't get to all of it. We'll do the rest of it tomorrow. Okay. So, good stuff. Okay. So, yeah, it's true. Why do we cheat? Some say monogamy is not natural.

I'm not saying I'm saying that. Some say it's not natural. Animals are far from being 100% monogamous, 100% of the time. The only completely monogamous animal scientists have been able to identify as a tape born found in the intestines of fish The male and female worms fused together at the abdomen and never separate ass were afterwards I thought there were birds that made for life too though Penguins

Penguins But apparently they know because that was, did you hear about the penguins? It's what? They cheat. Penguins cheat. Those bastards. Okay, people who enter into long-term reactious relationships and really keep their promises tend to be very healthy mentally. Yeah.

Indoor spent. Tea. So you can be in a healthy managmas relationship if you're very honest. With your wide eyes and yelling into the microphone, I don't know if you're mentally stable to have. I'm going to knock in a solution. Me?

And there's nothing to do with my mental stability. My mental stability might prevent me from other things, but it won't be that. able to have a lot of the me and I don't think you're my mental stability might prevent me from other things but it won't be that people who cheat are called pursuers also known as womanizers when they are men

what see I know I is it breaks we're going to get into the stats we're going to stats I'm just given the

names pursuers tend to require great numbers of conquests and they perceive them as conquests pursuers often have a narcissistic, power, personality disorder, we're not saying all of them to some. They crave and demand affection, attention, but not able to return it in kind. It is true there is a genre of cheaters who just constantly need more and more affirmation

because they feel bad about themselves and the more women or men they conquest, they feel better and their ego is boosted. And it can be kind of a narcissistic thing. So the cheating statistics, some say that it's money is 50% of women cheat on their husbands and 70% of men cheat on their wives. These studies have been coming out for years, but all I can tell you is that you never know exactly

what it is, maybe women are more likely to tell the truth or men inflate their numbers, but all I know is that I've been reading these stats for 10 years and that the numbers are getting closer and closer. Men and women are getting to be the same. East, we like 25% of women and 50% men. According to a survey, the longer men live, the more likely they are to cheat. Thirty-seven percent of men ages 50 to 59 have had an affair while only seven percent of

men 18 to 29 percent have cheated. You've never cheated, right? No. My philosophy is you're going to cheat. You just break up the, you're obviously not happy with the person that you're with. I agree. And then you should just break up. Right.

Here's some reasons why men cheat. Okay. People always want to know if you're going through this to like, why? Why? Why? Why did it cheat? Because your high maintenance pitch does why? Because they have the option.

Men don't get offered sex as, sex, which is what you always say. Men don't get offered sex as often as women do, so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down. And if you're someone like Tiger Woods or whoever, who's like 100 literally, you could sleep with any woman that walks past you, what are you gonna do?

They have the options. You're married and you have a kid, that's what you should do. Whatever. It's boost their ego. I mean. That's what you should do. Whatever. It's boost their ego. I mean, I get what you're saying, but that's he's yes. He should have had the morals say no.

But women are literally like bang, bang, bang, bang. Like a mad, I imagine like a video game with women just like throwing themselves a tiger woods. Like I imagine with the bottom and there's women dropping from the sky. Like hot blondes and brunettes and things. Here, see, that's the problem with guys. Guys are so effing stupid.

Like they've been over backwards for any hot chick. That's the problem with this world. They shouldn't bend over backwards for hot chicks. No, they shouldn't. Okay. So here's another reason. It boosts their ego. Sometimes men don't feel like they're attractive

to the opposite sex anymore. And when a woman shows some interest, not only does a man react, he may also allow to stroke his ego more. That's true for men and women, I think. A lot of times, we just want the attention and a booster ego. Okay, another reason, men cheat, you grow apart.

Maybe the two of you didn't have as much a common as you thought. He's met a woman who has more common with him. He may check out if he's compatible with her under the sheets as well. I think that if it happens a lot, you're together with someone. And you know, we don't ever marry someone

who has, who you can check all the boxes of your desires off. Like, I want someone to, this, this, this, and this. So let's say you're with someone, you're like don't ever marry someone who has who you can check all the boxes of your desires off like I want someone to this this this and this so let's say you're with someone you're like I love funny guys but the man I'm very isn't funny and then like 10 years later you're out and you meet this hilarious guy this is I've heard friends cheat this way and they're like but he's so funny and my husband's not funny and you're trying to make up for all the things that are lacking in a relationship with someone else it's not the right way this is not the right way to do it but that's why people do it. You grow apart.

You argue a lot. Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical or argumentative partner. Number five, he's fallen out of love. This is why men cheat. Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship they don't know how to get out. They say that women leave more than men.

And that men are just kind of like, ah, I'm in it. I'm going to say. Or they just take off. They cheap, but they don't leave. Okay, number six, your sex life sucks. If a man is a disinterested partner or isn't getting enough sex to fulfill him, there's a good chance he'll have an affair. True? Yeah. To get revenge, a man also knows Cheetah B finds out his partner was cheating on him. Number eight, it's new, different and exciting. Men don't necessarily always cheat with women who are more attractive than their partners. They just want something different.

I think that is like number one. I think that is so key to why men cheat, which is different. We're going to get into why women cheat in a minute. But I think that men, they're able to come, to compartmentalize being with different women. They want the variety. So like, they could be with the hot, you know, like find me a hot chick in the bar and I'll show you guys how to fucking her. You've heard that saying before. I think it's because men, and I don't even know what's more than women,

but I think it's a little more than women, that they can find, like it's not that this woman's hotter than they'd see in you with it, which is variety. It's variety, variety, variety, that men's minds typically just want more women. They just want the variety and women don't as much. So to me, I think that's huge. Okay, number nine, just see if they can get away with it.

If a man has the attitude of what she doesn't know won't hurt her, he may cheat to see if he is sneaky and smart enough to get away with it. And number 10, because you've allowed it in the past, if you've forgotten, if you've forgiven a cheating man a couple of times, the more likely he's gonna cheat again. And you're an idiot for staying in the relationship. Hell yeah, you are.

Hell yes. Why are you saying this now? What do you mean? Because all the times you said that I found out if somebody was a cheat on me, I said I would dump them instantly, it doesn't. Yeah, but a couple of times. I'm saying one time you shouldn't dump our right away.

I'm done. I understand. We knew you were gonna say that. Want me to say what you're gonna say? She'd send me one, some out of there. It doesn't even matter. She shouldn't be with me with the facetip, she overs, she'd cheat, so once we're done. Yeah, done. I'm not going to say that. Want me to say what you're going to say? She'd send me wine to them out of there. It doesn't even matter. She shouldn't be with me with the very stupid shit over. She teets the ones we're done.

Yeah, done. I'm not going to deal with that. I already knew you would say that. Okay. Reasons why women cheat. Familiarity has bred in difference. The most common justification for women's infidelity is that they feel taken for granted. So they feel like their husbands just not appreciating them and therefore them.

You're leading parallel lives. Number two, why women cheat. You use a travel the same path side by side, but lately you're interested in diverged. Number three, the passion has fizzled. A casual affair may put some zing back in her days. Your ego needs a boost. Sleeping with someone else is an easy way to remind yourself that you're desirable. I think that's huge for women.

Especially as women get older and they have kids and they're like, am I still desirable? And then they find a guy who finds them attractive. Like women want to feel attractive all the time. And if there are husbands not compelenting them 10 times a day. Oh God, 10 times a day. Yeah.

Five times a day. Once a day, hey baby, look beautiful today. That's all you need. But if he never says it, like I can't tell you how many women are with guys who have never told them they were attractive, and they found them attractive, and it is a problem with every single one of them. I joke that you should do it 10 times a day, but it's not really a joke.

But once I said it, it's not ridiculous. 10 times ridiculous. 10 times a lot, but it's awesome. Okay, number six, it's payback time. Same thing, if she finds out her significant others been cheating, she may have sexual another man. Okay. And I think actually that's fine.

What? Revenge cheating? If the person you're with is cheating and you're dumbass and you're not dumping them, then I think- Have you ever had a woman cheat on you? Not that I know of. Not that you know of. I know where I was getting out of a relationship, they started talking to somebody else.

Right, right. But it was already. Right. Yeah. And I've said this before that I have cheated in my past. Yeah. And I'm a reformed cheater. I did cheat in my past and I was never an ongoing thing. I never had like great affairs, but I used to travel a lot for work.

I was an international political consultant and I would travel to a lot of different countries. And this is usually what happened. I'd like meet some businessman and Singapore in a hotel Not proud had a boyfriend so never caught but like would stop doing that because I felt like I'm not gonna commit and have Sex other people, but I'm just telling you that I am I've cheated and I'm not proud I don't do it anymore though. I never would do it again because I don't think it's And I'll commit as much. Right.

Okay. Before you make a move on someone else, ask yourself this. Picture your partner doing the same thing and ask yourself, would it upset you if she was flirting with another guy at a bar? Would I be upset? If he was dirty dancing in a nightclub with another girl, would I think he was cheating? 74% if guys think cheating starts with the kids that most women believe cheating can start before a kiss.

Oh, the emotional cheating. There's the emotional cheating, the emotional affairs. Okay, here's some signs that your partner is cheating. Okay. Okay, what? No, I want to hear them. What are the signs? He or she says something to the effect of. I love you, but I'm not in love

with you. This is one of the most consistent things that cheating partner will say. Your partner may have a deep loving bond with you, but intense feelings of passion can override the bond with you and cause your partner to lose sight of his or her two feelings. You say that when you're, you're people are trying to get in with, try to get a relationship with you or something. It's not really midway in the relationship. I guess so, but if someone said that's me, I love you and I love you.

I'd be like, we're done. If I wanted to be too loved by them. Okay, now signs your partner's sheeting number two, we are just friends. If your partner is spending more and more time with this new friend, then there's probably more to it than the mere friendship Oh, if he has a new friend of the opposite sex and they're together all the time That could be a sign that he's thinking of cheating or having an emotional fair guys go crazy over that

The problem is I'm friends with more women than guys. I know I'm friends with why I got both But you're right. I could see women. Yeah, you have dated women who go crazy Yes, I have right and you've like random Women sending you like lingerie and birthday cakes and that that's not when it's not your woman as we are today So what are you doing when you get off the radio? Oh, I'm going to bed right I'd rather go to bed Okay, sign your partners cheating number three a sudden need for privacy if If things the two of you used to share openly suddenly become private,

he puts a lock on his phone, for example, pay attention, because something is probably up. If you ask why or attempt to find an information that used to become a knowledge between the two of you, you will be accused of snooping or trying to control your partner. So if all of a sudden he's like locked down, like has a lock on his briefcase, has a lock on his phone, like changes his passwords.

Can't be some cheating. Or she, I don't mean he. I know it seems weird, but even like in relationships, like I'll get messages from people, and I'll just delete them because they can be twisted around. Wait, what do you mean if you're in a... Like I'll get a message like, oh hey,

what's up? Love you, miss you, right? Yeah, miss you and stuff like that, I'm like, delete, because I don't, because why? Because the person I'm with, like, I have one, I don't want and stuff like that. I'm like the lead because I don't. Because why? Because the person I'm with, like, I have one. I don't want them to see that. Exactly. Exactly.

I'm never gonna cheat on someone. I mean, anyone looked at my phone, like, if I was dating them, they'd be like, what the fuck? So I don't know. So I just need to like hide my phone from everyone. Just keep it with me all the time now. Okay. My phone needs to be buried in the desert somewhere. For sure. Oh my God. Okay. Signed

your partner's cheating number four. I need some space to figure out my feelings. Oh God. You're done. The relationship is done. Many women, men and women who are involved with someone else will request more space time alone away from the family. This can be a sign that there is someone else in the partner trying to figure out ways to have more freedom. Yeah. I need space because I need a little bit of space. I've been a menace figure out ways to have more freedom. Yeah. I need space because I need to go have. I just need a little bit of space. I need to go have. I need to go have.

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The worst person in life for a woman is their best friend. Because their best friend will is doom and gloom. We'll like over analyze everything. Oh yeah, he's cheating on you. Oh, where is he at blah blah blah blah. Like in her ear, like destroying a relationship is the woman's best friend. Right. And the woman's best friend will also give you a blowjob. What? The woman's, she might. She would. I'm not a devil. Didn't you know this? No, honey. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. They're not. You're not like that. You're not like that. You're not like that. You're not like that. You're not like that. You're not like that.

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Oh, that's right. You don't have one because I don't want to be in one I could be in I would love to be actually be in a relationship. I would love to be in love I would love to do that. That'd be cool. I'll be happy. I know you were happy when be in a relationship. I would love to be in love. I would love to do that. That'd be cool. I'll be happy. I know. You were happy when you were in love. Yeah, but just like right now,

I got to find somebody that can just deal with it. I came with you, right. I got it. Me too, dude. It's hard to, what'd you say? And what? I go and shut the fuck up when I want the picture. And shut the fuck up and have a friend give me

that all of the time. Okay. Spending a large amount of time on the computer, in today's world of the bottom technology, a person looking for an affair doesn't have to leave their home. If your partner's online more than usual, hanging out in chat rooms and visiting porn or graphic websites, you can be alarmed.

I don't know about that. Everyone's on porn. How the Facebook, the Facebook is. Secretive phone calls and more time spent on the phone. Obviously if you see them sneaking away in their other phones, it's a problem. Behavior that just doesn't add up. Not being where he's supposed to be, missing times that can't explain, being caught

in little lies or the details of the day, they could be cheating. Okay, here's how you confront. Oh, we don't really have time, I don't think we're okay. Two minutes. We got a few minutes. We got a few minutes. Two minutes. Okay, confronting your possible cheating partner.

This is how you confront them. They're never going to cop to it. We've got so much hair. Okay, I love all them. They're never gonna cop to it. I'm like, I we've got so much hair. Okay, I love all this. We have to continue this another day. I'll say 80% of them won't cop to it, but go. Right. I agree.

They always say no at first. Yeah. If you do decide to confront your spouse, you need to do it in a place that will provide you the most safety and comfort. Don't surround your friends that would definitely change the power dynamic. Your partner could be exceptionally angry at the accusation, especially if the act is

actually true. Have proof. If you decide to confront your spouse about his or her infidelity, have proof and accusation without proof is only actually based on a feeling. So like lipstick on the collar. Text messages that you can probably erase. I don't know. How do you have proof? Whatever, whatever your proof is. It's pretty easy to prove. I know. I've had some good proof. Okay. I caught a guy once and it was so easy because he wrote it down.

He wrote a story about it. Okay. Idiot. Have support. When and if you decide to confront your partner, realize that it may be the end of your relationship. It's possible that your spouse will beg for forgiveness. They always do.

It is possible that your partner will look you in the eyes. It meant that he or she has had an affair and initiate the break breakup. Whatever the case, you should have emotional support at hand. That's what you should do. Forms of cheating according to women. Let me just read a few of these, okay? Okay. Confiding in other women. 36% of women think it's cheating. So if you've got a BFF and you're like, oh yeah, today, Marcy and I, she's going to think it's cheatingipped joints. 79% of women think it's cheating. What? Yep.

Crazy. Master baiting people think engaging in cyber sex, 80% of women think it's cheating. Engaging any sort of sexual contact. If you kiss, cress, if you kiss, cress, or go down 100% of women think that's cheating. Okay. One more thing is, oh god, I think we got to do this later. Because I want to talk about it's cheating okay to bachelor party. Tomorrow. Tomorrow.

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