Sex With Emily - Porn Facts & Foreplay Hacks

Episode Date: March 16, 2016

On this show, Emily, Anderson and the newest edition to the Sex With Emily team, Ken, are dishing out advice to help solve some of your most salient sexual setbacks. The trio tackles a range of email topics from erectile dysfunction to position problems to long distance lovin’ and beyond. Plus, Emily gives a list of sex toy recommendations for newbies and tips on how to keep your masturbation routine off your roommates’ radar. She and her co-hosts also unveil some suspect statistics about pornography and what watching it may or may not reveal about you and your relationship.Whether you’re looking for new moves to keep your partner hard or you’re dedicated to perfecting the art of doggy-style, this show has the advice to set you on the right track. Don’t miss it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Yeah. Thanks, that's really kind. Are you okay? You're right. Yeah, I'm good,. I just I don't okay So now we're recording later at night sometimes So I don't feel like I right now look my best. No, you do you look fantastic. That's so sweet It's true. It's true. You just being nice. No, I feel good though

So I'm here with you and here Ken. Hi, hi Ken Her otherwise Ken is is is the vice president of my company. VP. That's true. VP. Chick-Lake productions. I'll say. It is pretty cool. Kind of good business in the industry in Jersey.

Oh, it's working great. Yeah, and we're not married. I'm a VP and then she goes, oh really? What? Chick-flick productions? Flick. I'm sorry. You finally want to take my first sort of visitor VPV is a change the name for L.A. It's our ever-eared file for it. Did you? Yeah, you probably you would do that

I'm kidding you wouldn't but no, mainly men productions. That's right. Manly man But I can't wait it when I was a filmmaker anderson. You'll appreciate this Check flick. Oh, it's because it's a flick. I get it 16 years ago when I made my film Which is a really long time ago and I thought that was a really great name And here you are. It's a pretty good name. It is a good name And I fought for it, but now you don't hear him it works him. It works. I didn't know I'd be doing sex with Emily. Yeah. Here we are. So, um, yes.

Yes. Well, by the way, it continues to be an issue as far as the name of this program when the wife is like, so what time to come home? I'm like, I gotta do sex with Emily after. I mean, every single time. At least do sex with Emily. Yeah, do sex with Emily. So it's like doing the sex as a chore. Right. Right. I don't want to do sex with them. Yeah, do sex with them. Yeah, I like like doing the sex is a chore I don't want to do sex with them. I have to do sex then. I

She's a good wife both of you have good wives who let you work with me. That's very true They're very cool about that. Yeah, I love it But I am um They allow it and I'm actually doing this. I'm shooting this pilot for in San Francisco called drinking with benefits and And I'm actually doing this, I'm shooting this pilot for in San Francisco called Drinking with Benefits and The whole premise is they're gonna have people you know come in like every week. They have like a celebrity bartender and They're gonna teach me how to make a drink which I'm actually not a big bartender so that should be entertainment itself But you get to request which drink?

No, I don't suppose me. I just say can I do a jamming suit on the rocks because I got that one down How can I pour some wine? Yeah, some great wine pour.. I suppose me. Can I do a jamming suit on the rocks? Because I got that one down. How can I pour some wine? Yeah. Some shallot. It's a great wine pour. I'd be so great. So great.

But they, and then I get to support a charity. And whatever charity I support, I choose to support. Good then all the money I raise at night, give you the charity. Well, my best friend, Cheryl, as you know, who helped you with your rash, that you wanted to keep as a pet. Anderson, not what the rat to die.

She's a vet. My cat, a drag, than a half dead rat. It was an actual sewer. All right, I got treetop rat. I've heard the story. And I reminded her that's an interesting person. Yes, he is. He's a pet.

He's like, you know, Shirley. Emily being the helper that she is. She's like, oh my god, my best friend. She's a vet. We'll follow her right now. Brilliant. Put her on speaker. And her friends are like, well, it's a rat.

We're not going to fix the rat. And she's like a bleeding heart. Like it works with a shelter. So we're going to support pets in need, which is her organization. Give them money gonna fix the rat. And she's like a bleeding heart, like works in a shelter. So we're gonna support pets in need, which is her organization, give them money. That's gonna be a good time. And it gets you back to my old hometown, and see some buddies.

So it's gonna be a good time. Yeah, okay. What's going on tonight? What do you got on deck? I've got a lot on deck tonight, which is why I'm just gonna jump into it. I've got some sex in the news about pornography. About what?

Pornography. I would like to talk to you guys about that, because you guys are men. I'm got some sex in the news about pornography. About what? pornography. Sweet. I would like to talk to you guys about that because you guys are man. I'm assuming you watch porn. I'm familiar with porn. We don't talk about it though. Do you watch porn? You know what I don't like is when dudes call it porno. Porno? Watching porn?

I'm watching some porno. You guys, I don't know. I don't talk about with other than my former job. I don't get to talk about it with my friends in that capacity. You don't know what I mean to refer to it as porno or pornography or porn. Anyone born in the 60s or before they call it porno. Yeah. And anyone, you know, like me, young and hip porn. You know, it's like us. Yeah. Yeah. Porn, right? I mean, anyways, can you used to work? You just mentioned you work. Can work. I met Ken because he was actually

a client mine and worked at a distributor of adult products. The largest sex toy distributor, one of them, right? Yes. And so he worked around a lot of dildos, so it's very comfortable for him to kind of scare his. One of them, let's not use the word comfortable in dildos in the same sentence please. I'm comfortable in the real life. So but we'll get into that. So anyway, for people who love watching porn, but so wonder about the effect porn has,

especially towards women, there is some good news, there was some stats saying that people who watch porn, number one, men who watch porn are less likely to cheat. Now granted this study was in illicitcounters.com, found that 72% of men watch porn before they were having an affair, and only 34% of men were watching it after. So if your boyfriend or husband is still watching,

it may actually be a good sign for your relationship. Right. This is the stupidest thing ever, really. No, why? Okay, listen to counters.com did this then, right? It's the cheaters, they're going straight to the source. Right. And then the cheaters are saying, right,

they're saying like, we're no longer, we're watching porn less because- You know what's a problem is if you're if you're Signifying another walks in and they catch you watching at porn you made with the person you're cheating that would be bad Time but if he's watching porn he's right about a cheat at the port. It's like I don't is it like To listen to you think I think it's bad sign. I think you watch porn anyway. They're cheating and not cheating They're so watching porn. I just think it's it. I just think it's a time issue. I think you watch porn anyway. They're cheating and not cheating. They're so watching porn. I just think it's a time issue.

If you're cheating, you don't have time for it anymore. For porn? Yeah. You got one relationship at home, right? Then you're sneaking out and you're trying to cover your tracks. And 34% are still making time for it, so that's pretty good. Yeah. Okay.

I'm doing like men just like make time for it's like brushing teeth like you guys got to do it You know I do as a guy can't can attest I think like anyone who might be thinking about cheating Then they you know turn on the old porn there and by the time the porn they don't really have any motivation to go cheat at that Moment for a while makes sure it's for a few hours at least for yeah the refractory pair. Thank God. That's why the refractory pairs long are men It's for a few hours. At least for, yeah. The refractory pair. Thank God. That's why the refractory pair is longer men.

So you won't cheat after you jack. Also, because you guys would all drown in semen if there was no refractory. That's true. We would be dead. The whole world would just be a big barrier in semen. It would be the green and white world. That's a good point.

Never thought about that. Okay, 10% of women watched porn daily. Now, I was surprised by this. Every damn day, some women, like 10% and someone watch for every damn day, according to a survey of Marie Claire, let's say every damn day in the study. In the study, in the study, in the study, in the study, every damn day, twice, I question the study is a number jumps to almost one third.

We talk about when he watched porn weekly. I mean, that first, I'm actually really happy about that because I think that women should be watching more porn, because I think that porn serves a really great purpose for women. Because I think the more porn you watch, the more likely you are to be in the mood for sex, and the more exploitional to your own body, which I think a lot of women don't spend a lot of time figuring out what makes them feel good. I like that set.

It's educational for the ladies. Which is thought that it would be 10%. No, I would have thought like 30. I would really say higher. I think the ladies It's educational for ladies. Which you thought that would be 10%? No, I would have thought like 30. I would say higher. I think the ladies lie though too. I think you guys lie. Yeah, I don't know why I guess I hope it was higher. Yeah. Huh. Look at that. I actually look at porn of women watching porn. That's my thing. You do? Do you? Do they have I don't know how to do it? I don't watch porn like I you know they have a whole category. I'm actually a whole website where it's just a tight shot of a girl's face as she climaxes on her own. Beautiful agony. Hey, you're familiar.

It's been around, but that's been around for like 10 years. Well, I stumbled upon it and I tried it out. I'm like, this doesn't do much for me. No, it's funny. That was one of the first sites when I first started my show. I came out and I was like, you should check out beautiful Agni, but I think it's hard for jokes. Some of the faces it makes are scary. Yeah, look, that's the part I don't want to see. Yeah. Can we go back down to the boobs?

Right. 51% of women who watch porn felt it taught them about sex. They use this learning tool. 29% said that it made them feel sexy, sometimes good, sometimes bad. I don't think this is so great for it to be a learning tool, unless I like the part that turns you on. But I think that what? I know the porn you're thinking of, and if it's a learning tool, they're like, yes,

please jackhammer me. Right. Because the most porn is terrible. Please come over my face. That's what I'm into, because I learned on porn. Well, this is the problem. So a lot of guys that I know who are dating younger women, and I don't mean to say that any age one,

but typically it is older guys who are dating like 20 years old. It's like 28 or 25. And they're like, I don't know why everyone went on a date. Like, it sounds like she came right out of a porn. And everything she's doing, her noise is the way she's acting. It's like, it's like, they're not connecting. It's like, she's not really enjoying it, but she's doing this thing that she looks like she's sought out of a porn. I I think that's sex now though. That's like what sex is, but that's what they

When we were growing up though like we kind of had to like you know make it up as well You know what I mean? Oh, geez. Yeah, I'm not like, oh baby Set mask check me I'm a expert probably like eight nine ten years old. They know what sex is they see it on the computer It's really that young. I'm just sad. Do you think it but do you think it's from what they saw or do you think it's because the guys there, the first guy they're with or the first couple guys there with are requesting it because that's what they know. And they don't have to go, oh, baby, did it the way they're, the guys that to me, it's the way that they're like moaning and talking in the exact

verbatid they're using. Yeah, that's no good. That's like Pamela Anderson in that Tommy Lee video. Oh, baby, everything's baby. Yeah. Yeah, they're like, that's no good. That's like Pamela Anderson in that Tommy Lee video. Ooh, baby. Everything's baby. Yeah. Yeah, they're like, it's just in January. It's like it doesn't connect. Her body's doing something, but that's not really what you think.

It's like she's saying something or moving away. It doesn't seem like she's playing a part. Yes, she's playing a role. And they know she's playing a role. But again, there are some things you could learn from, perhaps. Let's be important for sure. Yeah, let's be important. I'm not saying all important, Lesbian porn for sure. Yeah, Lesbian porn.

I'm not saying all porn is a bit, but a lot of porn again, yes, it's like Jack M. Orts, it's for men, visually pleasing for a man, but not necessarily for what. Okay, but, real quick, the most fucked up porn I've ever seen in my life is Lizzy Borden's stuff. She's a female director. Oh yeah. She makes the most fucked up stuff. Fucked up how? Like, one scene that I saw, there is actual pig heads that have been

severed from the bodies of the pigs and they're like hanging from fishing lure all around the set and the people were having like an orgy style and they're covered in pigs blood and banging with these pig heads essentially. It was a floating in in mid air suspended in animation. Sorry I missed that. Hold on, I'm kidding. Lizzie board. What are you doing?

You're in a hurry. No, did you drill air? Yeah. I think you're sitting on it. So the more hard of your pull, there you go. I hit high. No, I was connected around the scene the wrong way. This didn't make any noise.

That's a good part. Right. Yeah, you're getting you struggling for your jacket. It made no sounds. How do you make porn noises? Okay. Oh, baby jack. Porn can make you more porn can make you more likely to want to get it out with your

partner. Now, this I think is good. Research out of UCLA in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found a link between visual, sexual stimuli, a warning of sexual partner. There's other research in more extreme cases of watching like porn addiction where it's shown to turn, turn, turn you off of your partner, but I think if you have a demotoration, it can make you wanna have sex more.

You're like, oh, that was really good, like what's the appetite for more? Right, it keeps it on your brain, right? Yeah, sex and then brain. Yeah. I believe at that part, you know, it's anything else you'd like to add up. It should be like maybe a sex screen saver

that pops up like one's every three hours. That would remind you to. Or computer you to yeah keep it on the brain You know not give you enough time to actually finish but keeps you kind of like you know wetting the advocate for women For both I guess and then by the time you're golf work You're already pretty don't you think that for a lot of men? Not to be to draw stereotypes here makes their draws. I'm so tired. I'm so tired create started not to That's the one I don't know if you're going to get a job. I'm going to get a job. I'm going to get a job. I'm going to get a job. I'm going to get a job. I'm going to get a job.

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I'm going to get a job. I'm going to get a job. I'm going to get a job. I'm going to get a job. I'm going to get a job. I'm going to get a job. That was, it's still around, but that was when it came out and it would, do you remember that? It was, it was, you would call it an app now, but it was, it was software and you would download it and it would be every 10 minutes and you can set the timer. Every 10 minutes a girl would come up on the bottom of your screen, no matter what was on, you didn't have to be on any website and it would come up and she would do a little strip tease and then she would walk off the little edge of the screen. Why would you do that? Why would you do that?

Well, I mean, it's apparently popular because it's still for sale today online. And I forgot what it was. I think it's called desktop strippers. I think that it's been around for a very long time. It's just a dig. But it was like, that was always too much. I'm like, well, that would come up at the worst time.

You know, like that you'd, you just, she just walks on. Honey, I think I found a vacation home for this weekend. It's bad enough that your text messages pop up when someone walks over your computer. That's what reminded of when you talked about the, you know, the little reminder,

we probably get the little strip of the car. You could say, you know what, if I need it for every 30 minutes, she's just gonna come on there. I mean, I've reminded of pop up and say, like, try, the womanizer today, like, different vibrators that we try, like, it's true. I'm like, literally, like, I'll go for the weekend, like, that's weekend, I gotta try that new adapter

on the Sibian, like, it it happens very different than Dr. Drew scheduler Dr. Drew scheduler. Yeah, what's that? Oh, he because I still am tied into Dr. Drew's calendar You are yes, I'm always getting alerts. I'm like I don't care the true has to be a 10 and 10 minutes I don't care. You tell me this is already Google things were because you have the desk talk stripper because that'd be interesting that would be interesting But if he did it would be his wife She would be that would be interesting to yeah Yeah, you know what can we just create an app that we can secretly install on ladies computers that

Subliminally make someone have more sex. Yeah, there's like a flash of people what would it? No, no, I don't What would it be? What would it be? You guys going would be something romantic? Something romantic something some guy like saying like God you're so hot and Let me give you like a back massage and go down here for 20 minutes. I'm that's hard to slip into like That's a simple and yeah, I Be tough. I don't know God. That's really that's really good question. Um

Candles flowers chocolates. Yeah, like is it just say you know what? I just talked to me Emily time. I'm just like a image of a pregnant woman. I'm a man. I'm going now. I might get some going in your head your fruit. Yeah, in your primitive mind. I don't have a permanent of mine. I'm not talking just to you. I'm talking about all the ladies. Okay. Yeah. I think I was like Emily tell me how you feel. to you. Okay. I was like, Emily, tell me how you feel. How was your day? What do you have for lunch? Never mind. I don't want to make this app. There's so many apps to make so it's getting easier to make though. But you know, I think people, you know, I don't talk about enough is my app, Kegel Camp. You don't? I know. And I have an app called, why

are you rolling around? No, I'm looking at the time up through my glasses. But you know why though? Because my friend, Emily, just just had a baby and a lot of my friends said babies Which is weird, but they're like now? They know me forever, but they're like what's up? I heard a kettle that do you know about them? I'm like I forgot to am app. Yeah, don't now They're all listening to my app and they do my app. It's 20 levels and because I have a baby right Tighten that shut up. You can you and you can shoot the baby out across the room if you actually hit level 20, right? And you can get the app at iTunes.

Absolutely. On iTunes. So you go into the app store on your phone there. Uh-huh. Or you go, these days with the iPhones, you just got to pull the thing to the search bar, kick the camp. Is it K with a camp or is it C?

No, it's interesting. It's K. K, K, go with a K, camp with a C. Good. We were gonna go K, K. Too close to K, K, K. Don't want to do that. Yeah, cagle with a K camp with a C. Good. We were going to go K, K. Too close to K, K, K. I don't want to do that. Yeah, it's great.

Nothing more of a turn off than the white hoods. I agree. Especially when you're in two. But first, I'd like to take a picture. Before I go to emails, people know that I'm kind of addicted to working out. Do you know this about me, Anderson? You like to work out your vagina. We just talked about the cagol camp there. Some spin class and a yoga and if you're like me it's probably part of your routine routine as well.

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I sneeze in pee. I cough in pee. It happens sometimes. Not anymore. Uh, which is what the intensity was originally designed to cure because women after childbirth are just as you get older, whatever you sneeze in pee, you laugh in pee, you cough in pee, you jump in a traveling pee, it sucks, you're a target, you pee. Oh, and the intensity just happens to have a vibrate option because why not have an awesome orgasm when you're working out. So this product truly has changed my sex life. I have increased my strength control and seriously, I have the best orgasms I ever had, which

I thought they already were pretty pretty good. Plus now I have to worry about axley peeing Well, I'm in the other class. We're so awesome to order your own intensity go to sex the Elmie dot com click on the intensity banner and Get your get yours today. This is the equivalent of like if the flashlight made your dick bigger and made you come right It's kind of like the same thing because it's strengthening the vagina muscle. Yes Yes, and you get to come along with it. And you know what, it's a great gift for guys to give their wives right after they have a kid.

It's kind of like if the fleshlight, you just had a lie there and you could watch Sports Center. And I want to want to watch that. And it allows you to athletes with getting off. You just sat there eating a pizza. And all of a sudden, you could have multiple orgasms. And you were like, I didn't even know it was possible to have like, because some guys can't be gonna work on it for like all of a sudden, you could have multiple orgasms. And you were like, I didn't even know that it was possible

to have like, because some guys can't be gonna work on it for like all of a sudden, I use it every time, so I can have like, would you want to keep coming, be able to, your effect appear to be?

I don't know. I have to be honest, it's, it's, what would be your sexual, like I love that I can have like create like G-Spot orgasms so easily now and like blended orgasms, which I couldn't. So what would be your sexual dream? I have two penises in the room. I really do during my show at least. On the weekends I always do but on my show I don't and so I'd like to know

what what would you want? Like if it was like a Willy Wonka type scenario or you just create something like every time you thrust it would be a different hot lady. That'd be a pretty sweet invention. Every time you thrust you just morph into somebody different that's hot. Totally that's exactly it. be a different hot lady. That'd be a pretty sweet invention. Right? Everyone can throw us. She just morphs into somebody different. Totally. That's exactly it. Yeah. Let's go ahead.

Um, Ken, quiet over there. Yeah. I'm, I'm, I'm remaining quiet. Yeah, I have to think about that one. Maybe I'll jump in in the second half. I can complain about that. Yeah. Okay, let's get into some emails.

But it, no, it's a good gift for like, uh, if you have, you know, someone who just gave birth or. Oh my God. It's a best gift. Good to be giving birth. know someone who just gave birth or something. Oh my God, it's a best gift. It's a good, it's a great pregnancy gift. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. You know. Okay, emails, thank you everyone for emailing me

feedback at saxwithelme.com. And I love hearing from you and clear your name. We're listening from and how you listen in your email. Hey, Emma, I've been listening to your show for the past year and have loved every single episode. Thanks for always keeping things so fun and interesting. I'm a 25 year old woman who just recently got engaged, worked extremely happy,

had a very active passionate sex life. I work at a town two weeks at a time, and I'm home for one week. So there's a lot of time apart, since there's a lot of time we have apart. Since Christmas time, there's been a couple instances where we would be fooling around, getting super into it and my man couldn't get hard.

We've talked a lot about it. Our communication is actually so good. He says he feels anxious at times and believes it may be because he feels a pressure to perform since I'm really home. I've been understanding, however, it's been a struggle. I always end up overthinking it and then go to the typical women thinking, I'm not sexy enough, blah, blah, blah. It only happened about three times now, but I just have a hard time acting normal afterwards. I don't want it to be awkward. I know that will just make it worse.

What I want to know, have you ever dealt with the situation before? Is there any advice you give us? As I said, it's not a regular occurrence, but for those times it does happen, I want to learn a better approach to the whole thing. Thank you. Stacey. Okay. Flight attendant Stacey. Right. Probably, right? I don't know. That's interesting. She's gone two weeks home for a week. That's not what it helps. Perhaps. Yeah. I don't know what she is. But we're talking about a rack- reptile dysfunction which is when your penis Disfunctions, disfunctions doesn't stay hard can't go to hard and get soft again and you know and also community have lower sexual desire But it's hard to tell from the information you provided because you know, it could be he could be watching a lot of porn

We could be anxiety. He could be taking some kind of meds You know some medication He could be watching a lot of porn, we could be anxiety. He could be taking some kind of meds, you know, some medication, get drugs. A lot of the work right here. Porn, like I said, and... Maybe he's gay. I tell you this guy. Probably not.

But it sounds like after you're together, she did say it gets better when they're together for a little while. And if choosing Gage Show, I'm also guessing, Sacy, this is a new problem, a new challenge for your relationship. because you got engaged and it's just been happening lately. So let's just say it is anxiety.

Here are some solutions for it, okay? You could take sex off the table, because if it is anxiety, then he's thinking, oh my God, Stacy's coming home again and I keep thinking about it, oh, it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen. And a lot of times when you're thinking about it, it's gonna happen.

And I'm focused on the pleasure, like I would say step up the four play, so now it's when couples are having challenges, actually I'm like, take sex off the table. Like just focusing and getting her off, performing all sex in her, she can give them a blowjob. But like, just don't think about the penetrative part.

Because then that contributes to his anxiety and then if he starts to get like, back into the groove of her being pleased and he's being pleased and they won't, he won't have the anxiety as much. He will kind of quell it. And if they maybe, if she's coming home for the first, or they go and straight at it,

it's like she comes in, and then it's like, he's forced to perform on the spot. And some guys are not really able to do that. They're not ready to go. Yeah, exactly. And you might be like, oh my gosh, he's going to come home when I have to exactly. And he's thinking about it.

And if he haven't gone twice, I don't know. Have dinner first. Have something. You know, I don't know. Right, exactly. Read a paper. Read a paper, something. Yeah.

I would say that mutual masturbation's also great What yeah, that's good. I don't think ladies understand just how simple it is Her mouth her mouth could always You want to think I should just my show I need to really get my job Every time a woman emails me. I'm just gonna say give them a blowjob. Next. You guys don't understand. No, I do.

You're having a two minute show. I mean, he's got real issues. That's a, Stacy, that's a great test. If he's still going limp when he's like in your mouth there, medication or something major wrong, you need to be able to say that. Like this is young too to be having these issues. So I also think when guys suffer from rectal dysfunction

at a young age that I'm also gonna say, go to doctor. For sure. Also, here's the thing though, she doesn't how to approach it either when it happens. And so it's super awkward. And obviously, people, she doesn't want to say, but you've got to acknowledge it, tell them it's okay.

And let it know that it's your problem. You guys have to work on it together. Because men just have a hard time dealing with penis problems. Like they don't want to go to the doctor, they're not gonna talk to friends, hey buddy, how you doing? Yeah, well I'm having these penis, you just don't do that. Yeah, all my conversations, I don't think I've ever talked with a friend of mine about

soft penis time. Right, exactly. So I think, you know, you're getting married, you guys are like in this penis thing together. So you've got to acknowledge it. He's probably overthinking it, he's feeling inadequate, his ego suffering, what? Maybe he's not attracted at all to engaged women. So soon as they got engaged the attraction point. He wishes he said your ad.

It's the ring. He just he just thinks about the money every time you see it. He just wants to bang her and have a different face flap on it. Like that would be a great way. Like the best top stripper thing. Yeah, exactly. What was that like view master view? Or do you remember that thing with the thing?

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, no way. You can see the different faces of yellow stone. Yeah, but you still have a face. Yes, let's do that. All right, then you throw one in of the guys moms to fuck with them. Guys love thing about the mom. Exactly. That's really awesome. But think of your mouth is like jumper cables And you can always get the car started again for the most part unless there's something seriously wrong, right?

The magic of the mouth. But jobs. That's true. But let them know it also has things. She has to know that she goes, and I love that you had the self-reflection that you thought I go to that woman thing. Like a lot of women think when there's a penis issue. It's probably hard not to, right? Yeah, well like, he's not attracted to me, why is he hard, what I do,

you notice I gained three pounds. Oh, I didn't shave, it's never about you. It's not about you, so let that go. No, it's not. Often, unless it could be about you if you like maybe this of an upset or you've lost trust in the relationship and there's other issues going on, but it doesn't like that's the case. So you guys got to work on it

and I mean, so your support and then he has your support. I hate the girls always think it's them though. Like they think of the penis as like that. It's like, no, I feel bad because it's like, I don't know how many guys are out there going, wow, she's not as what? She was last time. There must be something wrong. They do that. They might get a They would think about themselves at that point for sure. Yeah, like I'm not turning right. We don't guys do the same thing But not nearly as much as girls. I mean, I get all the time girls saying I guess it's something is it me?

So something I'm doing no, it's not How old was they 25? Yeah? No, it's not how old you told us they say five. Yeah So I'm talked to more about it and make him you know go see doctor with him But don't let it slide because I was when I was talking about this in the office I actually did a premature ejaculator for two years that time It wasn't so fun. I gotta say and I did try Fractory short refractory. No nothing was nothing was good about how short how short how short you're talking here how how how good mature a minute no like every time a minute long we talk about it for you your wife tells you that but dude it's really it's

it's nothing it's like I didn't even know we were getting started and I we did like I bought like that book like what's the book? How to fuck better. No, no, what's the call the multi-aggressive man. And like I was like, we could do all these things, we could talk to doctors. And then I was like, after a while, like I, I kind of got a Nordic. I'm just be stopped talking about it. It was two years.

And then I just two years of the one minute. I was too busy that year. I wasn't a lot since I was a doctor. Do you like your ego go to town too? Like yeah, I'm so hot man. Yeah, he just comes after a minute. Yeah. No, not at all.

Maybe it, no. Just for the first year. Just for the first year. I have to come to the first time. Right. I was like, but it was like, oh, I'm a really doctor. And then I came in and I was like,

why don't you go? Why, why, why did you do that? I bought the book, but didn't read the book like things and it's kind of annoyed, but I probably could have like, I was just using it as a workout tool. Yeah, exactly. But the book.

Bed and the nerves, I don't know what he was doing with it, but he wasn't reading it. And so they kept it about, you're not dealing with it, but I probably could have been more supportive as well, but I felt like it was, but it looked back on it, and I was like,

I just hope this goes away. But nothing goes away unless you do with it. So if you're really married to him, it's both a ratio. That's my pretty major. He's like, I'm doing anything because he's a guy. Guys, hope things just go away.

Exactly, they don't. Okay, hi, Emily. I'm a big fan of the podcast. I love your show. It's very helpful. Here's my question. I share room and I'm a gay guy and out of the closet. And I've been thinking about buying a sex toy. Nothing specific. And it would be my first time trying and buying one. Was just wondering how, how to go about finding hiding a sex toy when you share room as well as helping for suggestions on which sex toy I should go for.

Thanks Emily, you live hard. Tom. What do you like an inmate? You know all the ins and outs of how to high contraband? Well, I don't think he's an inmate. And that's what you think, Joe? Why do you think you're gonna know how to hide shit? Well, first of all, I don't know if he's talking about

trying to use the toy with the roommate in the room or just how to store it like My guess is reading hearing it that way. I would think it's I think it's just it's how to be discrete about toy ownership Yeah, like put it in a shoe box into your bed. Yeah, you know like use it But don't use it in the room with them because that's really awkward Yeah, don't don't don't roommate don't roommates go rifle through their their By a tackle box the lock on it. Yeah, you can get the lock box.

Put your money in there, put your flashlight. Put it in your luggage. Your empty luggage. Yeah, the bottom of your diary longer, he's not gonna go in there. Probably not. But I want to know, I want to know,

do you guys do this? When you guys show room like in college, like at first I was thinking it's like a dorm room, but it doesn't sound like it. What did you do with room, like did you masturbate when you had roommates in college? What did you do? I didn't you masturbate when you had roommates in college what'd you do I think go to college you did you know I went to college but what did you do I did not live with

anyone I live by myself well problem solved yeah what did you do Ken not I did sure no never in the shower I'd never understood that and it's I I don't I did not fucking say that that it's, I don't know. You did not masturbate the whole freshman year? I did not fucking say that. It just did not in a shower. But like, you have everyone that get it, but I'm just saying like, No, no, but just, yeah,

you were wherever you, wherever you could be private, if you were private in your room, or if you went to the bathroom, but, you know, never crossed my mind while there were other hot and stressful. No, but he's like, it sounds like that's what he's asking. I wait till it snore. You sounds like that's what he's asking. I wait till it snore.

You know the snore in the dough. If they're past off, I'm drinking or something. So I would say go to the shower bathroom or the wee more. Shout out to the most sense, but I'm with Ken. Like, it just doesn't work. I don't understand. I don't know why.

Shout out to get stuffed on, to get clean, get out of there. Good drive. Not to get the toilet around. Is the sexy one I guess. Yeah. The driver. I'll try. I'll try that porcelain. But I would say if you once to get in, what'd you say, is to get in the porcelain? is the sexy one, I guess. Yeah. The driver, the poor son.

But I would say if you once to get in, was you saying, it's terrible, the poor son? You're not saying that it's a sexy, right? You say it's not sexy. And I'll think about the bathroom sexy. I mean, when you're 15, when you're 15, and that's you, that's you. Well, you're part of your big family, brother,

sisters, that's what you do. It's the only place. Right, yes. I just think about all this stuff I've learned about Seaman and how it's ever really having a brother growing up too. I'm like, I didn't know. I shouldn't have touched anything. No, you shouldn't have.

Oh, God, I didn't know. But okay. Probably still shouldn't. You're so right. Yeah, when was the last time when you went home with the whole family, was there? Did you touch anything? I want my brother's only, I don't live with anyone.

No, we're at the, no. Oh, okay. But if you want, yeah, that'd be gross. But my brother never would let me into his room or anything much anyway. But I just thought it, because he hated me, but maybe he was masturbating. Because his roommate, nobody's gay.

That's another story. That's what's happening. I was assuming, I was assuming, he said he's an openly gay. Yeah, he openly gay. He lives with a dude that's not his boyfriend. Do they share a room like of two beds in the same room? This is one of the bad news about him, but he also wants to buy toys and I would say if you want to prostrate toy Pie the black pearl by vibrant texts. It's slender.

Get a small one. A small one they get a high-poof splash proof so we can use it privately and it vibrates. It's an awesome prostate simulator in their masturbation and flashlight of course obvious choice There's the flight and the go and the quick shot. They're all smaller and more discreet for your storage purposes. Also, if he's into the shower, show him out. You can use the flashlight, hands free in the shower. I don't know what to say.

I don't know where boys are gonna do because they're just like, I gotta help him. They've got a, it's a mount that goes on the wall. I've seen that for girls where they put the dildo and then they can like, back into it. It's a similar suction cup thing, but it's got it. Yeah, it's got it's got the amount What are they got? I only it's the it's a plug and go shower amount. What do they they call a shower? No, they've got They've got it a name for actually go to a section with L.M.A. dot com and click on the flesh

I don't believe it and don't leave it in there guys because that's the thing is to make oh what we're doing because like Sturge toothbrush and it's what looks like That's the thing is to make oh, what were you doing because like stir to toothbrush in it so it looks like Yeah, oh You take out the flashlight and it's like well, it's a section cop thing so you can put like the shampoo I'll probably just do like a little attachment like put your razor here You can push there. Yeah, you can tell us something. It's your dick wash You're right here. I love all this discrete tech stuff of the thing up. These are good. These are good ideas I'll say you can cut out like a little hole slit in the side of your mattress and shove

into some of their ice cigarettes and stuff in there when I was a kid. Really? Oh, this has smelled great in your room. What? Not like you, cigarettes, like capsicres. I was a kid. I was a kid.

But you know, I used to smell like half cigarettes. That's what I was thinking. Okay, Emily, first of all, give you Emily. First of all, I love your show. It's a new email. It's a new email. It's a new email. Switching gears. Did you want to talk more?

No, I think you've helped them as much as you could with the amount of information you gave you. Mm-hmm. But would we have won them over? Oh, the only thing I want to bring up on that, just for a second, because there were so many components to that, okay, first you go, he's open the gate. Obviously, he's hopefully comfortable open the gate is his obviously his he's hopefully Comfortable with his with his roommates

Processing of that so they they have a comfortable relationship cuz we can't wait I love that you and I are both assuming that the room and it is not gay because I think the you and I are both assuming If you said I'm openly gay if you had a gay roommate though We're assuming that they're banging all day Like toys and and he's ashamed because he wants to to have a toy because the roommate might think he's more per miscus because he's gay. Because you think like we're thinking like straight men, you know what I mean.

Right, it's totally not fair. Maybe, you know. Probably accurate, but not fair. Oh. Right, right in the same way. Okay, yeah. So, if you help them, I think we did help them though. Yeah, I think.

What are they missing? I think you should, you know, just go ahead and be proud of what you're going to do, you know, and lock the door. Lock the door and get a box. Sex toys as well. Oh, that's right. That's right. That's right.

The sex toy, the box joy box, the ones that you could store your sex toys in, the storage boxes. Yeah, the ones they, there's a bunch on the market. They have, they breathe so they don't they they're they're they're mold inhibiting so you can keep They don't have that they don't have the the Humidifier on there and that does it say on giant letters my sex toys on the outside of the box Yeah, it's not Spanish Cedar line does not say that okay, no not sex toys Yeah, it's not Spanish Cedar line does not say that okay now not sex toys

Do you want one no? I'm good. I don't have a bevy of sex toys. I have a wife. I give you a really nice extra I'm not even ask you about how you like it. Oh my god What time the fuck it's good. It's good. I like it I don't show it to me right plus For plus those like the horses. Mm-hmm Four plus I gave the four plus for round times. It's very sweet, very sweet gift. Very nice. Did you give, did you give M the app control? So you were high five. You never, do you use the app control?

You've done any from I have not gotten that deep into it yet. But it was enjoyable. It's a very complex and there's many nuances to this toy. And I'm still learning it. And I've had it from. Okay, download the app. It's the Wevibe Connect app. And it's so cool because it's even better than the controls on it and you could control the vibrator like when you're together with your part.

I was a drumster the night and I grabbed from my Apple TV remote and I grabbed that remote by mistake and this thing started going off in the bedroom while my wife was trying to sleep. That's awesome. That didn't really get excited. No, they're doing great though. It kind of looks at their mouth. I'm glad you like the wee-bite four plus. It's the, it's a great couple's toy.

It's a, it's good. I like it. Give it a plug. What was it called? It's called the wee-bite four plus, which is like the top couple's toy. It was for him and her. Him and her. Him and her.

You can wear it during, while she's having sex. You can actually wear it. But it's a piece inside. It gives you G spot and cl and Clid Roll Simulation, and I really thought that, what? All the bases. And I just thought that it would be a really nice present. Who's a very sweet kid.

I'm sorry that I didn't bring it up. It's just creeped out. I didn't bring it up. It's a lot more talking about sex toys than what I had. You hide it from your roommate? Yeah, my roommate, I didn't know I did. Stanley has no idea where that thing is. It says Stanley's not so much a sex toy at all.

Stanley's really comfortable sex toy. Don't get my dog comfortable with sex toys, Emily. It's too late. She's been to her house. Exactly. You can't walk through the door without knocking three over. You came home with a cock ring around a snout. You're going to have a muggle.

You love that. You was using it as a muggle on her walks. I mean, I'm so happy. She fed him out of a flashlight that was it. Well, it's the only bowl I have. You know what, like, dishes and not like the mousteek You think I have an extra bowl. I want one You did have pens and sex boys maybe an egg and I'm yeah, you know she she changed she cleans her sex toys on that same Conor and she leaves them out there for her house

One time my house keeper came and they were drying on the rack because I washed them and I forgot she was coming She was coming and finding and the sex toys were there clean and occurred to her It's the rack over the oversight occurred to her while she was banging her boyfriend It was my wife run. He was the dude. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. It was a good night. Good morning. It was a good story Yeah, that's the counter. I cooked a nomad on Yeah, it was like months ago. It's been disinfected. It's been months ago.

The term was done last that long. It's been fine. No, no, no, no. They hose it down, and it's okay. Okay, moving on. Eggs come out of a chicken's vagina. That's very true. Yeah, it's vaginas everywhere.

You came out of fucking vaginas. No, I was C-section, I'm sorry. Oh, like a toast. Close the tour of a giant. Yes, it was nearer. A Jason. A giant Jason. It's a good name for a band. Done. But if you come out vaginally in your boy technically you've kind of already had sex right because the penis goes through the vagina a little bit

There's like there's contact there like when you're 12 you have this conversation. I know I have it when I'm not Like already like down a virgin like when you think you're virgin right, okay, so Emily first I'm know that you know unless you guys no no no now I'm done I like the guy here you guys but you guys are my men I love you guys you like me in the Emily sandwich I kind of do I like being I love you both like you both mean so much to me I have you both here in this room I just that's so sweet I just want to have a much I love you both I appreciate you both so sweet to yourself for Rizzle this is like special Rizzle she's got black on his skin okay I do that once well Emily first off I love your show and I think you guys give great advice my name is Jade This is like special result. She's got black on his skin. No, okay. I do that every once in a while. One more even. Emily, first off, I love your show.

And I think you guys give great advice. My name is Jade. I'm 19 years old from Minneapolis. My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years. And things are more than great. He's my best friend. Nothing's wrong with our relationship. But whenever we have sex, doggie style,

and he robs my clip at the same time, I can never seem to climax. It always feels of them, about to. but then it seems as if I lose it. I love it when he does this. I just want to be able to finish this way. Do any suggestions, PS, yes, I rated your podcast and iTunes. Thanks, Jade. I like to tell people if you subscribe to the podcast, go to iTunes.

Give me a big like. I should probably go do that. Tood. Yes, I'm really a really nice iTunes. Give it a try. I should probably go do that. Dude, yes, and write a really nice thing. Of course I will. It helps us because it just does. If you're in iTunes, great. Anyway, thanks Jade.

Here's the deal about Doggy style. First of all, Jade from Minnesota, I'm picturing like a Viking goddess. Yeah, she probably is. But she's beautiful. Right. A Viking goddess, with an amazing flutter. The boy from the Z around her, the boyfriend is not going to give her the right to run. So I want to say like, kudos to your boyfriend because he's actually like knows to rob your

clitoris. Because a lot of, you know, people like guys are just like, do do doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, doggies, figure out they have a juice pot, but you always need the clitoris for clitoral. A lot of them need clitoral stimulation first. Typically, doggy style is not the most orgasmic, but people say it's porn, pop position for men.

But when you want to make it work in real life, it is true that you need the clitoris stimulated. So again, I like that your boyfriend does this, or you could do it yourself. The problem is you're probably not being warmed up enough at a time. Because just that time, if he's just going right after a doggy and he starts rubbing a clip, like you might need some more kind of stimulation beforehand, a little foreplay, might not just be giving enough time.

So you can also add a toy, I'm a huge fan, as you know, of toys, like a little clitoral toy, she can hold her hand, like the, I'm just lovely, but we've touched. I love. Yeah, the touch of the tango. Ah, the touch of the tango. I love the tango too.

These are great literal vibes. So a hand, lots of lube would help. So I think you need a foreplay, you need lube and be patient because you might not be giving enough time. And also she could be like, you could be thinking, Jade, like, it's not going to happen, it's not going to enough time. And also she could be like, you could be thinking, Jade, like, it's not going to happen. It's not going to happen again. We all get in our heads. But you also might again not be having enough time. So if he finishes first, which might happen, then he should just make sure that you finish as well. Or if he's smart,

he should just know she comes first. Make sure you get off first and then he comes, but that was happened. So at least you're getting close. And I'm also making the assumptions your day that you have orgasms typically. Like I don't, this is like, this is just the one. So that's your challenge. Like this was an issue in which you should. You should have brought that up. Right. And I love to, I love all this.

I love that you know the Revoclid. I love it. You know, just the way that you do it. Like she can do it everywhere except for this position with the reach around. And that's common, but you don't just got a little more reach and a little more rounding, little more loop, little more rounding little more loop little more toys I wonder I wonder if she's able to do it if she's doing the the Clitoris donation herself she knows how to do it right and if she does if she does that if she can figure out that little thing right when I first heard it's like why wouldn't she just do that a lot of women okay right get your hand there Jade right well she thinks she likes that he's

doing it and he's getting close. So she probably needs to see the put her hand over his hand or just put his hand, you put her hand down. But that might be logistically hard and figure the position she's in. She then she's holding herself up with one hand. And she could do that. Well, she's done it.

That's true. That's right. Jade, she's a Viking. She's quite a big boob. She can kind of rest on the boob. But there's also like, she could put like, she'd be like, the flatter doggy style. You know, you can always get one hand if they knew the tripod.

I don't be like against the wall. Well, she can on the hoards. Exactly. He can hold on to her, her ponytails or pippy long stocking pigtails. Right. I almost think it's because she's 19 and she likes he's making the effort doesn't want to scourge them. Like, guys, don't care. Like, if you like hand, let me do like, tell this. He's chances are he's probably going gonna be like, oh, I'm down. I'm like, you do that. How about the position she's in too, if she's at a different angle?

Exactly, she could be gliding with flat rider stomachs, she could ever butt up in her chest down. And so like, she could just reach out with her hand, she doesn't need her hand to be holding onto the wall. Well, he's young now, but he's gonna tweak his back if he keeps doing this reach around thing. It's not easy. Right, I say take care of your own reach around.

Right, do we all agree? I don't know. I think her a party could also work too like if she was 69 with another girl and that the girls like could be given her oral I'd be filthy on the show I'm sorry I know it's okay I think it's Ken's influence I'm sorry I'm so dirty I know my god Ken how's it been Ken's my Ken I've never had a VP now you do I know how's how's it going? It's going to be a little late. How do you think it's going? I think it's great. Yeah. It's a little bit. It's a little bit. It makes you the P.

Mm-hmm. The president. Yeah. Yeah. And she's the president, the owner, the CEO, the founder, the talent. That's weird when founders have a president of their own company. It's like, you don't have time to be president of your own company? Not at all, don't.

No. Maybe I should say president. I always say owner now. What do you want? Let's make it official right here. I feel like president. I say owner because I sit on my taxes. So maybe that's where you got an owner. I feel like president. I say owner because I sit on my taxes. So maybe that's where you got owner, but I mean president.

I be president and you be vice president. I could talk to that. I don't know. I'd want to be comment on what you want to be. Just a boss lady. Lieutenant Colonel. Did I could totally be that? Yeah, cool.

Yeah, this is a good one. I'm glad that's a really good chat. This was great. Okay, Anderson, what's going on with you? This is really nice. Hey, I'm really sorry that I got so filthy on this show. It's, I was intimidated because we, we have a, a sex toy maverick in with us.

And I, what's the name of my maverick? All right, okay. You were a former. Former. You left would be the Veepe. I did. Yeah, it's your story. It actually left being a maverick.

I toy store maverick. I know. I know. I'm so honored. I'm so honored. Very big stuff up. Absolutely. He's changed my life.

So I just got to get her out. He's short-tank somehow. I'd be pretty sweet. I do love short- Very big stuff up. Absolutely. He's changed my life. You're gonna get her short tank somehow. That'd be pretty sweet. We love short tank. I do love short tank. But am I too late like in my game to be in short tank? What does that mean? Depends on which, well it's the best of which you want to bring there.

No. I want to bring the VMAST reviewer for women's faces changing every time a guy's having sex. Done. This week on Cinematics, I'm talking about a couple of that I've not come out yet the Cinematics it's cinema and then the word addicts all in one word with one a it's hard to spell I think our numbers will probably be triple if people could spell it, but it's cinematics. I like the name

I also the film vault new episode of the film vault as well as the after disaster What you got so many podcasts? Oh, you know what? This after disaster, huge announcement on my part. What? I can't say it on my own. What? Even for the A.D. Save it for the after disaster. You got so many podcasts.

So little time. Everyone check out Anderson's podcast. They're awesome, because he is too. Oh, it's sweet. Can you podcast you want to talk about? That's sex with Emily. I hope everyone that is listening now tells their friends to listen and then have their friends tell their friends to listen and it's your duty But really if you if you if you love Emily and and you know if you're listening to the show

You you clearly do and I I don't know why you wouldn't tell your friends to tell your partner We've got a lot of couples listen together. You should yeah If you're if your partner is not listening to the show and you call or email with a problem and how to communicate this thing, why not have them listen to the show? It breaks the ice. Just breaks the ice. Just let it be sneaky. Just add it to their phone.

Let it go. And then put desktop stripper on it while you're adding. It's not a feeling when it enters on. Emily makes it all accessible and not like smuddy. I'm not on it while you're at it. So I feel the only one Anderson's on. It's actually. Emily makes it, Emily makes it all accessible and not like smuddy. Something about your delivery that just, you make it almost clinical, but not in a bowl. It's the accents, the Michigan accents. Yeah.

Yeah, there's something just very sweet and honest and genuine about the way you do it. Kind of a nice girl. Talking about blow jobs. It's a nice, slight girl that bangs on the counters. That's always on the counters. She's over on making omelets. Oh, great.

I'm so sorry I did this. The interesting thing. Okay, okay, I love you guys. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Thank you. You are Madison and thank you Laurie and thank you Jamie and everyone on my office in Lauren. I have a great office. And Nina in turn. Nina, you are rock. Thanks for listening. Was it good for you? Email me feedback at sexwithaml.com. Everyone, thanks for listening to this show. You know, sex toys, they're kind of like potato chips. You start with one and you immediately want more.

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