Sex With Emily - Porn Star Lisa Ann: The MILF On Top

Episode Date: April 22, 2014

Emily’s guest is Lisa Ann, the most popular porn star in the world 2 years in a row according to the New York Post.Why is she so famous? You might recognize her as the star of the hit porn parody, Nailin’ Palin or because she’s been voted the hottest MILF porn star and the #1 Fleshlight by AVN.They discuss why the MILF trend is so popular, how secret trick for mentally preparing for porn scenes and her own psychology for dating.Lisa Ann gives her top tips for performing oral sex on a man and a woman and answers sex questions from callers including how to go about anal for the first time, how do deal with a large penis, her favorite sex toys, the craziest place she's had sex and how it feels to get her ass licked.  Also, can porn help couples? Listen in for all the amazing tricks and tips. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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We have a wonderful guest here tonight. We have Lisa Ann here. Hi Lisa. Hi there. How are you? I'm good. How are you? I'm great. Good. So Lisa Ann, her website is the Lisa and calm and she's won so many awards

It literally if I went through entire bio, I'd be here for an hour But she's an adult and mainstream sensation the New York Post declared Lisa and the most popular porn star in the world for two years now That's pretty freaking amazing She was one of the 50 most searched women in the world by Google. And she also has a bunch of stuff going on. Time for your show on Monday night to do a sports show called Lisa and us fantasy. It's all about fantasy football. We did basketball taking a little hiatus for the summer because I'm not yet pro skill at fantasy baseball, which is extremely difficult stats oriented. I also produce and direct my own movies for Joel Jordan video. I work on my site as well, and then I travel,

feature dancing and hosting for weekends a month. So I keep pretty busy getting out there. As you meet my Twitter followers, my Instagram followers, you know, they're all pulling in like crazy right now. They love you. And then you also 2013, the milk revolution was your directorial debut, avian best milk release. Yes, my first movie, which was pretty exciting. Now, how does that work? So if you're the milk, you're like, no, for this milk stuff. So like, are your kids in it? Like, what makes

you a milk? I don't have kids, you know, but what happened is not really kids, but like fictional children, like, well, what happens is you get put into a certain category to a certain age. And it just kind of happens for you. You look like you're 25. So I'll be 42 in May. May night is my birth. God. So I'm just going to fill in my lap that way. And I just aged with the business, you know, I've been doing this since I was 18, 20 was my first contract. So it's been my whole life. And I've watched the transition of the milk genre happen. What's great about it for me is when you're a younger on the business and I joke with all the young girls about this, we had an award show last night and I just had a laughable conversation

with one of the girls. When you're young, you kind of got to work with all the creepy old guys because everybody's at that like, you're looks super young porn, like you're almost borderline. You look really 18, barely legal. And so they want you with these creepy old guys because everybody's at that like, you look super young porn, like you're almost borderline. You look really 18, barely legal. And so they want you with these creepy old and you hate it. But it's what you have to do. Right. You know, because that's just what it is. Right. So when I'm now able to work with just young hot guys, that's kind of super fun for me. So I'm like, yeah, when the milk thing happened, I was like, you know, I kind of felt like you have never when Viagra was invented. Right. I remember

he said, you know, this happened just in time for me. The mill revolution happened just in time for me. So what is it about the melts that men have these finishes about living with melts? You know, I've been asking people this for the past five, six years in my travels. And what I find is I find where a lot more sexually open in general as a culture.

So you now have more couples and women watching porn. When you put that into play with this topic, women and couples wanna watch women do these scenes that they feel are comfortable doing these scenes. Right. And when they see girls that are too young, now mind you, if you are a my age, you could have an 18 year old daughter.

So probably watching an 18 year old do a scene is the last thing you wanna see. Exactly. And you know why you're part, and you know why you're part. And younger guys seem to really like the older woman because she could teach them something. Right. You know, there's more experience. There is some things. When a guy is in his prime, he's young and he wants to have good sex and a lot of it.

And he can't really get that from a young girl because a young girl really doesn't know how to do a lot of sexual things yet. Right. Exactly. You know, what is her repertoire at that point? You know, two or three things. So, they love the older women and it's just really the culture of just understanding that porn is so much more mainstream than it used to be. And people want someone they can relate to.

Don't you feel now that you are in your 30, you know, when you're in your 30s and 40s? Actually, your sex life did get better. You know, the business really raised me. Right. You know, well, actually, no, I mean, I didn't do analges. I was in my 30s. You know, now girls go to the business and they kind of just do everything because it's what they do.

Right. And I always told everyone I was working for a while. I can't do anything really until I do it. My personal life, I want to try my personal life. That first time. First, why do I do it on screen? Why do I do it on screen? And how do you get traumatic experience?

And I wanted to understand it sexually. So I grew with the business and definitely became more sexual as I got older. Okay. That's good. And so do you do in real life? Like are there always younger men who are like kind of me seeing you in the street even and they're like, you know why it's so funny. I have a range of men in my life. You know, I feel like it takes a lot of men to love me to make me be able to go and produce the love that everybody wants from me. That sexual chemistry I put out there is brought to me by multiple, multiple men that are in my daily interactions, even if it's just texting or I see them here and there. And they do range from 18 to my age. And I do love the younger guys because

they're super, super fun. And I have a lot of athletes in my life. And I know they're scheduling a huge sports fan. So I want to go to basketball games and I get to see them at their hotel. We just kick it for that one night. We catch up and we talk a lot about traveling and we talk a lot about the things that I've experienced that I want to be sure they experience. Right. Seeing things you are mentor and I am the rock in their world.

Exactly. So exactly. You know, when I lecture them a lot about, lot about, just being careful about things with their privacy, I'm very private with their lives, but not all girls are gonna be that way. Right, exactly. Okay, so that makes sense, because you've had more experience

and you open up to them. So tell me, so how do you, well you don't, we have a million calls. Let's just take a call real quick because I feel like people are dining talk to you. So, they can't really call into my experience. I know, let's take one. call real quick because I feel like people are dining talk to you. So freaking out. They can't really call into my sports show. I know. Let's take one three real quick things that anal sex. Oh perfect. RJ. How you doing? I'm good. How are you? Welcome on the show. Sex

on the show with Lisa Ann. How you doing? I'm great. It's tomorrow night. Oh, you're gonna come to the scene. Well, I live on one island. Awesome. I love that little club. You like it there? I really don't go there. I miss the last time you were there. Well, I live on Long Island. Awesome. I love that little club. You like it there? No, I really don't go there. I miss the last time you were there. Well, that was a long time ago. I know my girl, Jaden, was just there not too long ago. Jaden James. Yeah. Did you go see her? No, I didn't. I was actually working.

Well, if you tweet me, you've Twitter. Yes, I do. All right. You tweet me tonight. Okay. I'll follow you. I'll take your name and I'll put you on my guest list for calling you to the show tonight. Oh my God, I love that. Okay, you're on the guest list. Thank you. So I did know to you have a question about anal sex.

Yeah, my girlfriend wants to try anal sex with me. Yeah, okay. And she tells me she's scared because she says, I'm a little larger than I get from last boyfriend. You know, the key is really gonna be a lot of loop and being prepared to warm her up slowly with your fingers and be sure that she's relaxed enough with it. The key for her is in her first time where she's done it with other people. She's done it with other people. Jesus said that

it's like I said the difference is that she said I'm a little larger than her last boy. It's interesting with anal but so you know once you get the head in the first you know two inches of that head and you could put anything in your ass. Yes. Any size anything. We don't recommend it. So it's more about it's a it's a real mental thing for a girl. And it's more about her just relaxing.

I always take a couple shots of Jameson because it never hurts. Either that. Exactly. Do what you got to do. Just be chubble once once you're in. You're good. It doesn't matter. I mean, I've what you got to do? Just be chubble once once you're in, you're good. It doesn't matter. I mean, I've taken Mandingo in my ass. So if you see that thing, you'll understand

that you can put anything in your mind. Yeah, I think the movie. And a lot of it is also about just relaxing. So I feel this is my theory about anal sex. I feel like so many women have a bad first experience with anal sex. Like some guy came in and like shoved it in, it was hard and it was bad and she didn't like it.

And I feel like if you know how to do it right and you use a lot of it when you make sure she's relaxed and she breathes and she doesn't dance up because she might be nervous. Well, you know, another thing people don't realize is when you clench your jaw, you actually also clench the muscles that are in your anus. Yeah.

So breathing and relaxing your mouth is incredibly important. You know, I went through a, I went to a, but before I did my first aid, I'll see you and I actually sat down with a colonic specialist because I wanted to ask her everything about my butt that I needed to know. Because I want to make sure I didn't tear it and I didn't ruin it. And I have all these questions and I have these concerns.

And she told me that she's like, you need to really breathe in. Inhale when you're, you know, I do the DPC. And yesterday I was going to invest DPC. And I've done today DPC. Sins. Yeah, which is double penetrating. Right. So. you know, and I do the DP scene yesterday, it was one of my best DP scenes. I've done today. DP scenes? Yeah, which is double penetration. Well, right double penetration is the first. So, um, and when you're shooting double penetration, it's not necessarily the size of the

body to you. It's the angles so that the camera can get in and see everything. So both guys have to kind of pull your body in completely two different directions. And it's pretty intense. Um, so, I have to remember when that's happening, like just breathe and relax your jaw. Right, relax your jaw. That's a great one. Really, yeah.

Breathe, relax your jaw. A lot to do. Make sure she's comfortable. I'll see you tomorrow night. Man, hit me up on the side. Thanks, RJ. Great night. Yes, RJ.

Does it believe? Does it bend? Because I really like to lose, but I don't mind. Like I said, I would grab the dish of my tongue in there. It's not enough lubrication. And also also water lubrication is not good for anal. You want to use a silicone-based lube instead of a water-based lube. What will happen with water is it'll just make everything your skin to her skin will grab in tear. You actually need something like I've told people I feel sometimes anal sexes easier with a condom.

Yeah, because it gives you something in between the skin because it's normally the skin the skin is what causes the tear. It's not the size of the cock you could be as big as you want to be you won't tear her your skin will. But sometimes when you're when you're doing that using condom it can rip the condom if you are using it for protection. If you don't use as much enough lube. Right. So what kind of silicone lube do you like? I like the pink products. Eros is good. What is good? Just you know, it's like a lot of tubes. It's good to have you know your your water-based and your and your Silicon and so true and also you can get any leave you want at sex with Emily dot com slash good vibes or just go to Go to my website sex on a dot com click on the good vibrations banner and you will get if you're putting coupon code Emily

You get 15% off your purchase go Go buy some lube for this occasion. It'll be fun. Thanks RJ, have a great night. Okay, so anal, so do you orgasm through anal sucks? I do. Okay, okay, see, I think I might have you leave right now. I'm gonna explain that to me. Have you always really like women?

I want to orgasm really. Well, I'm gonna start doing it until I'm at 30s and I just started to really understand it and I started to realize what makes it work You have to have some it's different even on set I have to have a much deeper connection with a guy on set that I'm having an anal scene with so how do you have a deeper connection with them before like you know Just somebody yeah, I always I know everybody. I'm gonna do it this for a long time I know everybody in the business so and I and I know what level I interact with somebody and if we're just good for boy girl

See if we're like close and we get along and if we're comfortable, also we need to know the guy likes anal because not all guys like anal. Right, it's true. So if a guy does it like anal, then you're self-conscious during the scene because you're worried about him not wanting to do it. You know what I mean?

So can you orgasm just through anal alone? Or do you first need like literal simulation? Or do you put orgasm through anal alone? And I don't know how it happens. I think I want to clap for her orgasm through anal. I think that that is like a dream upon a dream for me. Thank you. Thank you, Anderson.

Thank you very much. I do appreciate that. How about that? That's good. So what are you working on now? Anything exciting? Which like your, I mean, you've won a million awards. So like any good scenes that you've done lately.

Well, I'm producing my one movie a month. So Lisa Ann loves girls came out. It is coming out this month actually today. It was 16th. I was yesterday. I was scheduled. I was in now with data. Because yesterday was XRC or that's all I remembered. And it's my first all-girl release. So it's a girl girl movie and it was a really fun putting it together.

I'm working on those projects every month. So the movie I'm shooting this month is an interracial milk movie. So I'm kind of writing my scenarios and picking my locations right now and what rooms I want to use in each location and what style scenes you don't just got to be a kitchen and there's got you know. I'm just trying to get a mixed mixed race scene as well as as as email. Yeah, I love it. That's that's amazing's so working on that stuff. I'm also in the process of finishing my book So I'm you know, it's been years of process of what you're book about myself and just this journey You know, I'm being in the business and all the good journey for you. It has you love it

It's my god the life that this is created for me the fact that I can live part-time New York part-time LA Fact that I travel and do anything I want whenever I want my schedule is completely mine to be made you know that is just such a freedom I mean not everybody can man out they can't what comes with it because there's definitely an openness that you feel with people that sometimes can be a little misconstrued because of course they may have relations with me on a daily basis and I may have never met them exactly so when they when they meet me, there's this comfort with them. And I have to say to them, I don't know you. Right.

You know what? That's gotta be weird too. So do you guys come up to you all the time? Well, I don't normally, I can't really travel alone anymore. So you don't really have security with me everywhere. I go and dudes do come up to me all the time. And for the most part, people are very cool. Right.

Okay. But there's times where you're on a date, it's awkward. Right. You're with your family. It's awkward. Dates are always awkward when you're in the system. You're just like, well, it's just hard when you're with a date. And another dude comes up and asks, Oh, that's a true of you and him. But we know, right. Well, what about the guys that you date, though? Do they ever think do they know that you're already porn? So can you ever hide it? Like, sometimes I try to hide. You can't hide it. They Google you. You can't. You don't just go. I mean, everyone knows where you are. They Google you. You can't. You don't just Google me.

Everyone knows who I am. I know you can't. So they want to do it either for that. You don't care. Because it's you. You are. But do you ever feel like sometimes guys are like, is it just because I'm the porn star or is it?

No, I'm pretty good at screening people's mental space. I know what they want from me. And if it's just one thing, I know what it is right away. And I don't really have a need from them. So if they're giving me what I want, we're gonna hang out and have sex and it's great. And that's it. I don't talk to them again for three weeks. I'm fine with that.

You know, that's good. That's good. Because I feel for me like sex and the Emily's, I don't want to lead with that. When someone's like, I want to fix you over someone, I'm like, don't tell my last name. Or don't tell them what I do. Just because then they make things harder.

Yeah, but that makes me feel harder. Because then you meet someone and they don't need to better just have everything on the table. It doesn't happen. But like right away, I'm like, can we just wait for like five minutes before they know sex that way, but it's like different with porn. I know that they all know who you are. For me, it's like maybe they haven't listened to a podcast or whatever, so it's totally fine. So what do you think in porn that you've learned would you say about sex tips that you think that

you've learned specifically because you've worked in porn and you've you've done so many sex scenes and you've done a lot like what would you say are tips that you think you've worked in porn and you've done so many sex scenes and you've done a lot. What would you say are tips that you think you've learned that many other people don't quite grasp yet? I've had to adapt to many partners, so I've learned how to adjust to each partner, and I think it's really important that first five to ten minutes that you are engaging in four play and connecting with each other, that you can really shut out the world. It's kind of like people who meditate are very good at this.

So because I'm good at that and I understand that separation, you have to put all your thoughts aside because you have this period of time to completely get your breathing in sync, get each other in sync, and find out what he really likes or what she really likes. And you can tell all that from just listening to your partner and their breathing and how they're moving with you. So it's really about just shutting everything else out. And I think people were also busy. And I think when people have sex in their personal life, especially in a relationship, especially

if there's children or pets or other things that are complicated, that they're always planning and managing, you're always in the zone of logistics and you're and you're not able to disconnect with that and really relax. It's so true. You get in the moment. That's how I give your partner a massage, do something to relax, just shut the mind world out. Going through her to do this and thinking of everything going on. That's why a lot of women and men, when men are under a lot of stress, they don't want to have sex or when women are. Just to connect. What are some of the signs you think that during four

weeks, I always feel like pay attention to she breathing. Is there a breath quickening? What are some of the signs you think that you can tell when you are paying attention that you've learned and you will be able to do that? Definitely breathing is a given. You can really tell it by someone's breathing. I just think the level that they're relaxing with you, the grip of their hands on you will usually

move in a different direction when they're reaching that in the zone, place where they need to be sexually. Yeah, no, it's all important. People don't pay to and people were so concerned about our own like a lot of men and women like how am I doing? How do I look and we're not focusing on the current? Right. For me, it's an extra curricular challenge. Like, I like to meet my new guy who I've been texting with because people, people find me put that way. So the phone the message will come in or someone's agent will reach out to me and say so and so once meet you and I'll say I'll give my number let's text for a little bit. But the time it actually happens I am like how quickly can I master this guy and give him everything

right? So just have a great time. Oh wow that's good and you can't just do that that's so satisfying for me. So it's just it's just just great. You can just tell right away. You can tell what they want. I just get into that zone. You're like the sex whisperer. Yeah. She can tell right away. I love it. Okay, let's take another call. This is a good one. Penicise. Let's talk to Steve.

Hey Steve. Hi. I have a question. Yes. The last few girls that I have been with, sexually, they're like, I'm not going to say that. I'm not going to say that. I'm not going to say that. I'm not going to say that. I'm not going to say that. I'm not going to say that. I'm not going last few girls that I have been with sexually, they have complained that I was causing

them discomfort during sex, having an above average sex penis. And I was just wondering what I need to do to make it more comfortable for them. This is our second large penis called. Do we believe this? Okay, Steve, so yeah, okay, what do you do that they complained about? You use lots of loops, slow down, have her on top so she can control. Steve, I really don't know what that, I can't help you because to me, I hear like the jackpot when I see a large penis.

So I, you know, I can't even relate. When I have girlfriends that are just like, I don't like a big penis. And there's even some girls in the business and I tell them, you know, you're like a race car driver that doesn't want to drive fast. How can you even be a porn star and not love big cars? Exactly. So here's the thing, Steve, there's someone who's gonna love it.

It's gonna love it. Just be with somebody that loves it. It's like women with large breasts. Some women, guys like it, some guys don't. Some women love large penis. And men spend so much time worrying about their penises. So Steve, I think that you're going to find someone, but also use lots of lube and make sure she's comfortable and just work it in slowly. She might learn to love your penis.

I'm sure she will. But don't trip on. Okay Steve, thanks for calling. Sex with Emily, it's awesome to have you on. Okay, so what I'm wondering about your own sexuality. So when did you first feel like you became sexual being? Like when did you first masturbate? I think I really came into my sexual being.

I started dancing, stripping illegally at 16. I got fake ID. I made these girls. So we were going to bikini contest. Long fun story short. And they were just so adventurous. And I really emulated them in the freedom and the way that they lived. So they took me on many sexual journeys. And

I had my first girl, first girl, girl relations and me and girlfriends going out and meeting guys together. And so I just really started to be like, okay, this suits me. You know, I'm open enough. I'm finding pleasure in this. You always felt that it's not held up by this. You know, this I don't want a relationship. I've been a one serious relationship my entire life. Um, it just doesn't suit me. Right. You know, and I was able to meet them and realize I gravitated to them so much more than the other people that I'd been around so much of my life that I must be meant to be moving in this direction. Right. So you were always comfortable with your sexuality. And how about orgasm? Were you able to always, know you orgasm annually? We already covered that. What about other orgasm? You're like,

G spotter, you more like, clitoral, masturbation. I'm all over the chart. Everything you do it off. Yeah. Your porn star, you're lucky. Not that all porn stars are like that. I appreciate that because also, were you like that always at the beginning? Or was it more like you learned more about your body? You know, when you have multiple partners in your life, everyone teaches you something different. That's something. That's something. I'm sure. I'm sure. I'm sure you're now something different.

Okay, so what did you learn then about perfecting the art of the blow job or all sex that a man, what would you say is your special tips here that we don't know? It's hard, right? It's not. It's just. There's just when people say, well, what do you do? There's not one thing you do. You have to have a massive amount of things that you do in your artisanal low job. You have to work it. You go hard. You go soft.

Some girls like a lot of spit. I'm not a huge spit person. There's so many different things you do mixing up hands, both hands, one hand. It doesn't always have to be just jamming it down your throat. Guys like it soft, they like the tip played with a lot, they're like little breath on it and breathing on it, they like a lot of different things.

You just to mix it up and don't look at it like so many women look at the blowjob like okay, I have to do this for like three minutes. I know. We've been hate it. It's like you should want to give him a blowjob, right, for like 30 minutes laying there watching sports center. You should just want exactly that. Exactly. for like 30 minutes laying there watching sports center. You should just want exactly. Exactly.

I don't understand. You can do that. Exactly. And if you don't want to do it, somehow figure out why it is that you don't like the Javabad experience. Does it taste bad to you? Like, do you have like some kind of religious upbringing or something that was wrong? Whatever it is, if you're with a guy who really enjoys oral sex, then it would be who you to figure out a way that you can get into the moment as well And learn to enjoy it because I hear from lots of men

But the number one thing they do like about good oral sex is when she's enthusiastic Right like this one to be into it and like like it and you can make me feel like you don't want to do it Right exactly like just just do it and yeah mix it up. It's so true now. What about women? So you're bisexual? Yes. Okay. So, um, and you've always been bisexual. You've had relationships with men and women and the whole thing. So, what about oral sex on a woman? Are they're tips? The same thing I know. Same thing. Mix it up. Yeah. Totally. Because guys don't they don't. And it's not it's there's nothing wrong with asking somebody what they like when you first

You got to ask them. I know exactly. And sometimes women are more comfortable. Are they do? Yeah. And some women. I know exactly. Sometimes women that are more comfortable, or they don't, yeah. And some women don't know exactly what they like. So, you know, tell me so women, like if you don't know your own body, take time to masturbate, take time to figure it out. Just like men, too.

Did you watch sex in the city? Yes. Okay, do you remember the one where Charlotte finally looked at her vagina for the first time? Yes. This is legendary because I was like, you know, that's not uncommon. There's women out there, not as much the newer generation.

The young kids are being brought up so much more often than we were, but they've already Instagrammed a picture of the vagina. But besides that, we didn't look at it. It's true. And that was at the same one with the rabbit or was that a different woman? She was the rabbit right? Yeah. Yeah. Totally. It's like people, it is like, it is like masturbation 101, like take a look at your vagina. You know, when you bring up the rabbit, it's funny. I want to talk about my fleshlight a bit.

Okay. Oh, yeah. We're going to. You won the best fleshlight. Okay. Interesting fact. Talk about a fleshlight is women have had such a, the one thing we've had is so many options when it comes to masturbation. That's it.

Men have had nothing. Nothing. This is it. And men masturbate way more than women in general. Exactly. So, where, why someone had had, perfect, but no one had perfected the texture, the way you take care of it. You know, fleshlates just all around the perfect product. It's easy for a guy to take care of.

It's not huge. He doesn't have to plug it in. He doesn't have to worry about anything. Shocked. There have been a couple of units made in the past that were electric. Right. And that out to your computer. Remember, guys being like, I could never hook myself up to my computer.

What if something happened, you know? So I think that guys being comfortable and understanding that it is okay. Yeah. Exactly. You should love your flashlight because I love every toy I have and I have a massive amount of toy. Exactly. And it is the number one selling male sex toys. So here's the thing about the flashlight.

First of all, you want an award for the for the top flashlight. So what was it about your particular? Because okay, so first of all, let's thing about the flashlight. First of all, you won an award for the top flashlight. So what was it about your particular? Because, okay, so first of all, let's talk about the flashlight. I think it's just generated by numbers of sales sales. It was the your particular mold of your vagina was particularly replaceable. When you say my vagina would be, I don't know,

but I could be a popularity thing. Could just be that many guys would like to have my vagina. I also have my ass in my mouth. You do, but for you. Yeah, for you. You do all three. But my fans love it. They have it.

They love it. And here's the thing about that flashlight too, is that if people don't know, it's popular sexually because it simulates the sensations of sex. So it's engineered to look and feel like the real deal, but it's like in a container that actually looks like a flashlight. Like, it's not like everyone's going to know what it is

when they come into your house. And some of you will say it feels better than sex too. And it's just normal. And they mean. And they mean. And it's just normal. And they mean. And they mean.

And it's normal. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean.

And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. And they mean. Right. So having my flashlight is just the next best thing. Exactly. It's assimilated. So go to section only.com slash flashlight or go to um, sex family and just click on the flashlight banner and you can buy at least an end flashlight. When you said it looks like a flashlight, it's funny,

but one of our earthquakes that we had, I was in a pan and I was and I was tweeting, but I was in a panic and it wasn't even one of these bad ones. It was one of the ones that I feel that no one else does. Right. And then I turn on the news and go on to every website and see where it was. And so I'm like, I was tweeting. I ran and I grabbed my flashlight and ran out the door. And then later on, it looked to everybody, it's like, oh, you grabbed a flashlight, not a flashlight. So you said my flashlight, that I forgot, flashlight.

That is so funny, because it really does look like one. You can't tell that is hilarious. Well, then I'm not much a fan of earthquakes. I've missed all the last ones I hadn't been here for five weeks. So there was a bunch. I know. I just I chanted my cameras at my house as soon as we have one. And the first one we had that was like the Encino area up that way. All of my awards are in a landing going up into my bedroom. And all of my awards made it all the way down the steps in my place. Like all the things, nothing broke. My words had flown down the center of my place, all the down the steps.

Oh my God, all your words you walked in to do like, like, I just posted it in the camera and had someone go take care of it. Oh my God. That's that's so funny. It's been very, very, very scary with the rest of my career. I don't like your quit. I don't like it. And I like, I family visiting from Michigan and my niece said to me during the big one

of your research, they got their own for Earthquakes here. I'm like, no, not that often. Like they gather that night the next morning at like 6 a.m. It's like a bam or who's earthquake. I'm like, oh, so sorry, she's like 11. They all free. Oh my gosh. Yeah. No, it wasn't good. It was not a good thing. But you know, hey, we lived and we're here. We're here. We're here to tell. Okay, we have another call. Let's talk to Lenny. Hey, Lenny, thanks for calling sex with Emily. You're on with at Lisa Ann Lenny my darling my darling Lenny he wants to know how you can stay looking so good You do look amazing. I think having a lot of sex is a good fountain of youth. Yeah, I think so too

People don't realize it actually is good for you to I call it sex or sex or sex or sex. There's so many things you can do when you're doing a verse Cal Girl you can do your your try sex when you're there's so many like exercises you can do I mean it can very keep you very fit. So do you still have a lot of sex in your personal life and professional to sound like you're like oh enough I'm done. I only shoot probably three to five scenes at the most a month. Okay, so I'm not really having that much sex on your mind.

Right. And it is work, right? I mean, well, it's work, but I mean, it's different. It's a different type of sex. So yes, there's so a lot of days of the month there for me to have sex. Exactly. I like that. I know. I know. I'm the, it's exactly. And you can have sex with multiple years, not in a commitment mode. Right. I get it. I'm not either on the same way. So I like that. So how do you think that porn, you know, it's so many, I hear from so many listeners, so many callers, you know, women, younger women, all ages, who are so confused by the fact that their partner,

husband, boyfriend, watches porn, and they're like, we have amazing sex, I don't understand, why does he like porn? And so I'm curious, how do you, I feel like a lot of women don't understand it because they think, well, he wants her, not me and it's what I'm great sex. There's this great show.

And I think it can help couples too. So I wanted to talk about how there's this great show on FX and it's called The League. And it's all about fantasy football. It's about these group of friends that have this fantasy football league and they're hilarious. And there's this couple. And she lets her husband watch porn, but he has to either be watching it. He watches it in

the gym and has to be doing cardio sometimes. So this is how she gets him to work out. So he's got it up on the TV and she comes in and she talks to whatever he's watching his point. It's hilarious. That's so funny. You know, it's one of those things that I think people should talk about in the beginning, but yet I don't feel guys are comfortable. They hide it. It's not as big of an issue now because girls watch porn now. Well, that's everyone watches porn now. So that issue is, is, is, is the generation of, let's say, 45 years old and up, I think

pretty much the younger dynamic is really much. No, I hear from 20 somethings all the time. They're like, they don't understand. They haven't gotten into porn yet. So I'm wondering what I always say, watch it with your partner, find some female, find porn that you're not. Women are going to want to watch porn though. True. They don't want to say that.

It's not that entertaining to them. But for guys, it's entertaining. It's, but don't you think that couples could learn a lot about watching porn together? Some, some. Otherwise, you think now it's a should be like a separate thing. I think that if you didn't talk about it when you first started dating, you didn't know about it. And it's his thing. Then maybe he wants to keep it his thing. If it's something you want to do together,

then you bring it to the table and you look for certain types of movies that could help couples. There's many other type of movies that could traumatize couples. Like what? What's the type? What's going to happen? I don't think the couple is going want to a couple that has very mundane, normal, normal sex, two positions. She's not gonna want to watch you in all gang bang, DP or double bad, that's true.

That's true. Or double badge. Right. So they need to know what they're buying. Exactly. You know what I'm saying? They should be like a checklist. They should be like, well, you know, just be buyer beware. Right.

You know what I mean? I would ask someone what you're downloading before you download it. Exactly. And also there is a lot of female friendly porn more plots more things that we know women might typically like and on my website as well. It's actually a lot of commoners good vibes has a pay by the minute plan for porn. So you can watch porn. So you can figure out what you like. It's a lot of curated porn that are more geared towards women and couples and you can

like sort on their website by like what you like and check it out. That might be something for you. My 10 minutes here, 20 minutes there, so you like. Okay, we're going to take line two. We're going to talk to Jonathan. Hey, Jonathan, you're on sexual memory with Alisa Ann. Hey, I'm wondering how often you connect with your friends. In what way, Jonathan, I go on the road and feature dance every weekend so whoever comes into the clubs could say a little to me there. I do personal appearances and hosting events, trade shows, I keep it all in my timeline on Twitter which is the real Lisa Ann. So if you are willing to come to one of those events then

we can meet. I would love to. it out. Where do you live? I'm in New York. Okay, so I'm going to be at the scene in Long Island this weekend. I'll be there. Okay, oh good, I love it. Okay, Jonathan, thanks for calling. You're awesome. Okay, so what's your website is pretty amazing. Which one of the best things you think you like about your site right now? The distinguishes you from other, your Lisa're Lisa and at least an calm. You know, I don't look at anything about mine and compare it to anybody else's. So I don't. I wouldn't look at another girl. Do you want people to go to your site? Well, yeah, but I mean, like,

there's nothing I would say mines better for this reason. Yeah, my fans that belong to my site. It's just because they've been fans of mine since I had a membership mail order fan club. You know what I mean? it's just because they've been fans minds since I had a membership mail order fan club. You know what I mean? It's just been 24 years of us being together. That's a long time. You're still loving.

You're so happy. That's great. How did you manage to get into both the AVN and the XR X car co is that what it is? Hall of Fame. Just from being in the business for a certain amount of time, I think one you have to be in the business 13 years. And I think the other is 15 years. So it's something you automatically get after that. It doesn't. It must do their skills though, too the fact that no

No, it's just about the many years you've been okay then what about the fact that you won so many awards and what is it you think about Lisa Ann on the screen that has got because there's a lot of women who've worked for a long time What do you think it is about you specifically that so when people are trying you've got to know what you hear? I don't know Come on. Yeah, I don't know. I trying to you've got to know what you hear? I don't know. Come on. I don't know. I don't know. People ask me this all the time, like I don't know. I just have a ton of fans.

Luckily, they still buy my stuff and want more of my stuff. But there's a lot of porn sites you don't. But there's a lot of other very popular girls as well. I'm not saying that. I'm saying about you. You must be self-aware. I know there's a lot of other sex podcasters. I know people like me. They think I'm maybe real. I'm more authentic. I gave straight forward advice. I don't know what it is. I don't know if it's just the years,

I don't know if it's the palin, you know, I did Sarah Palin, that was pretty big. You were the Sarah Nalen Palin. Yep, that's huge. So that was how they, so you know, it's just a conglomeration of being involved for so many years and building a very consistent fan base and continuing to work and do what I do.

Right. Okay. So on your Instagram, which I checked out, it seems like you dress up a lot, that lots of the outfits, of course, because you know, that's what you do. But do you think that a lot of women should try to do that more for their partners? Do you think that that's something that sort of goes by the way side of you've been in a relationship for a while? People aren't always dressing up.

I would say, it's hard for me to judge other relationships since I don't have one myself. I hate to be that person. I don't go to my friends that are married and ask them for my single people advice. You know what I mean? I'm just trying to make it up. Do something different. You know, it's different in LA too because in New York I see people dressed up every weekend to go out and to go out to dinner. still wear a furs and susceptible which I love People are dressed and men in suits every weekend. It's so nice. You don't see that as much in California No, you're very casual here are two casual I mean like dress up in the bedroom or like have fantasy roleplay stuff like that. Yeah, I think it's super important

I think it's just fun to I think it's all about variety. And I think a lot of couples do get stuck in that routine and they're just not, you know, mixing things up. Just wear something, you know, a little sexy little sexy something little sexy laundry, whatever it is that works for you. And there's so much fun stuff to buy. I know, right? And what about toys? Do you like toys? I love toys. So what's your like favorite top one right now? I love phallic's glass toys.

Yeah. Because I really have always liked the glass toys. Like the glass still does. Couple little vibrators. I have some nice stuff from evolved that I like. I'm lucky when I go into signing stores, put nice little baskets together. So I can trap the Lilo has some beautiful toys.

Lilo has some beautiful toys. But there's not one that you want to use in toys or they're part with partner. Like, do you really do that? I do do that sometimes. Being on the go and traveling as much as I do, you don't always have that stuff with you that's marvel like at home, though.

I do. There's little travel ones now. I know. And the water all with new travel is my, I'm when you're doing three, four states a week, you're curious, little with you is possible. Yeah, I know, but the little bullet or something, now I get it, if you don't need it, you don't want it,

you don't have to bring it, right? That's true. Okay, let's talk to Braden. Braden has a call for you. Hey, Braden has a question. Hey, is Lisa? Yeah this is Emily Lisa. What's up Braden? Oh my god. Hey I want to know where the craziest place you've done it. I would try to pour it. It's been. Oh that's at a pouring. Hmm it depends you call a taxi cab crazy. Kind of. Okay so we'll put it in a taxi cab. I love Devs,

Taxi cabs for some real cool. What about you? What's the greatest place you've ever done at Brady? I'm only 21. All right, where do you want to do it? Like I have not done it in an airplane yet because the bathroom is freak me out and there's no way I want to go in there and I just can't do it in a private plane there. It would be a private plan, yeah, for sure. I have on a path. On a path? Like a bike? I like the path of a walk in trail.

That's a good nature. It's a good start. It's a great start. I always thought a ski lift would be kind of fun. I've done that. I've done that in a gondola. So it was closed. But I did it on a ski.

That's crazy place. That's a good start. Thank you very much. You're so minute. Was I what? Was I filming? No, this is Emily. I don't film my sex scenes. Lisa Ann does.

I've not yet ventured into porn, but my life is still young here. Then I just still young. You don't know what can happen later. Thanks, Braden. Thanks for calling sex family, you rock. I like to take care. I appreciate it.

Totally. Have a good weekend, babe. Yeah, exactly. So all these people are going to come see you in New York. And so also I was going to say to you, so for men, what do you think that you've learned? What do you think? We talked about the sex tips and the oral sex and all that. But is there like any parts of a man's body, for example, or things that you have found

that is a universal truth of men as far as that works for them. To get him in the mood, to turn him on, to get him there. I still think that cooking for a man is the universal thing that you can do. I think I can cook. I'm a great cook. And cooking is still to this day, probably the most erotic thing you can do for any man.

Wow. I've never cooked. I've never cooked. It's interesting. Oh my god, they love it. I know. I love it. And it's just something, yeah, they love it. I always take guys to cook. I understand.

I just don't cook. But you're right. That's a good one. Now I'm feeling like I should go cook and just something just learn to make one thing. I love the scent. I teach all me. Yeah. But just you know what? Say it's about it. They're like knowing that you went to the market that day that you're preparing the meal. They walk in. They already smell it. They're being waited. Yes, guys, like being waited on. It's a very classic Italian trait. We all, are you Italian? Yes, it's not.

Okay, let's talk to Angel. Hey, Angel, you're on sex family. What's going on? Yeah, hardly so hurry you. I'm good, Angel, how are you? I'm good. First of all, I got to say, you're my favorite porn star. If I ever had a chance to date you, I would.

Take it out on a nice romantic date. Where do you live angel? I live in Georgia. In Georgia? Where in Georgia? Oh my god, you have no accident. Are you from Georgia your whole life? No, I'm from California. Okay, because you definitely sound more like you're from California. How do you like living in Atlanta? a big difference. It's a lot hotter, a lot more humid, but there's a lot more cake there if you know what I mean. Yeah, we got it. I tell you understand. A lot more cake. So why is she your favorite porn star? You probably watch other porn. Tell me what it is because she won't break it down for me. So why is Lisa and your favorite porn star? It's hard for her to break it down She has the most hot or pleasure at God. Yeah. If you look at her videos, you can tell she's really into it. She's really passionate

into it. She is. She's into it and she's like, that's what you're saying. It's just tip for women like being into it and you truly are. But women, if you're not into it, you got to learn how to get into it because that's hot. It is. You're not even talking about her looks because she's beautiful. You're saying because she's into it and she places the man. I think it's a great angel. You got to understand when people ask me what do people like about me. It's not like I can say, oh, you know,

I'm Tom Brady and I through this many completions last year. I have those that you know, I'm saying. Totally. I just look at you people and I'm like, thanks for the love. I'll just keep doing it. Until one day you guys are done with me and I'll move on. Love it. Thanks, Angel. Thanks for calling.

Have a great night. Have a good weekend. OK, so that's going to see it. It's hard to reflect on yourself. I just wanted to know your favorite porn. I'm sure you're not the only porn star, but you're his favorite. So you know, we want to.

We got to know what's interesting about being in the place where I'm popularity wise is I tell my friends like like I just feel like the world is my living room because everywhere I walk someone's engaging with me whether it's just looking at me and knowing and then there's that moment where it's like yes you know yes I know or they approached me and like I have to go to the same places like I do the same terminal at LAX the same flights so the same crew is working security so they're very used to me now. Right. Same plane, same flight number, same crew. I have learned to make my life be so much the same so I can get over that, so I can get into a comfort place where it's like, now we're chilling. Now I'll walk in and be like, Oh, just shoot

the speak up like, yeah, I did a DP for Jordan. We can see like we can talk about it because we've gotten past that newness of it. Right. And they're like my family now. It's a beauty. Yeah, you go. Totally. They're not. Yes. That's so fun.

That's good. That you made it. It's comforting. It's a comforting feeling. It's just like everywhere I go, I'm like, I just somebody will look over me and I'll just nod in my head. Be like, mm-hmm. It's me.

Yeah. That's what I did. I'm back. I did. I got it. That's good. You got it because it's a lot of traveling, a lot of whatever. So do you think that's why you choose not to be in a relationship, but just always been how you've been? I just don't want to be, I don't want to weigh anything

down while I'm doing this. This is an experience that's very free, you know? And I feel like if I were to be in a relationship with a guy, I'm what I was in my one relationship. I didn't have sex with other guys, because that's just not the mindset that I'm in. So as open as I am, there's still parts of me that are very old school and want to do something the right way. So I can't really offer myself completely to a guy one on one.

So I just keep it very light and airy and I have a lot of relations and there's times where someone will get a little bit attached. I'll just be like, okay, this person caught some feelings. We're just going to stop returning to expesitions. I hate that it's going gonna go down like this, but there's no me trying to explain to you that I can't stop doing what I'm doing. There's no, when that talk arises, which I just was, there was just somebody I was hanging out with last year

and he just kind of came to me like right before I was coming back here to shoot a movie and he was like, you know, I'm never gonna be able to look at you the same. And I was like, okay, well that's good. That's cool. I'm like, you don't ever have to look at me again. I'm never going to be able to look at you the same. And I was like, okay, well, that's good. That's cool. I'm like, you don't ever have to look at me again. I'm not going to change for someone else. No, you have to be ready to do it on your own.

So, and it's also super fun. You know, it's great when I'm in a town and there's a game going on. And someone will have someone from the team find me and reach out. Like, hey, do you want to go to the game tonight? Yes, I want to go to the game. Yes, I want to enter the arena in the tunnel and walk through where the players walk through and hang out. Yes, I want to be that person. So what you guys attracted to you, track athletes. I'm very attracted athletes. You know, I'm a track athletes because they're busier than I am and there could

be no situations. They're never going to get obnoxious texting me. They're never going to freak out on me. They have way too much to lose. And I found I feel comfort in being with someone who has more to lose than I do. Exactly. Or that yeah, that you don't want that you're traveling. You're traveling the same lifestyle. That's a great and they're hot. Wow. Yeah. I'm going to talk about what about other like other traits in men that you like tall short of anything you're really into. I like tall guys. My other traits in men are pretty like I have a pretty open mind. I'm not really in the big bodybuilder

guys. I like them looking for this thing, but it just has to be cool. You know, I just like somebody who I connect with. You can act with. I got not really in the big body builder guy. It's not like I'm looking for this thing, but it just has to be cool. I just like somebody who I connect with. You connect with, I've got it. OK, let's have to Blake, because this is a really good question. Hey, Blake, you're on with Lisa Ann. It's sex with Emily. And you want to know the, tell me your question.

Hey, Lisa. Hey, Blake. That's where the next girl comes. That's where you make a girl come, Lisa. Ever girl is very different. That's a problem. You're going to have to communicate with girl come Lisa. Every girl is very different. That's a problem. I'm not sure if she'll communicate with her and find out what it is that she likes, you know.

Oh, every guy pleases me in a different way. So it would matter, you know, different sizes. If you're writing a guy, a different size is gonna hit your G spot in a different way. So there's so many things, some guy might never hit it. You know, some guys get you off orally, some guys can't.

So it's just, you know, every partner is different. You can't, you cannot train yourself sexually and be a robot and think the same things are going to work. You get to have new moves every time you with someone new, you got new moves. And that's why people have perfected with someone and they decide, I'm going to marry this person because you know what, we're good. We know each other, we're making each other come,

we're enjoying each other's lives together. This is it. Right. So you got experiment. Thank you so much. Okay, bye. Like, see, that's good. All right. Like, learn a new thing. It's going to go please everything a woman on the planet. Okay, here's some more anal questions because, uh, you know, it's really easy. And the world is with analogue. The world is freaking obsessed. Okay, Kuzo, what's going on? You're on with Alisa Ann at the sex of Emily. What is Alisa Ann? Yes.

Oh my God, I can't believe I'm talking to you right now. What up, boy? You know how many times I jacked off to your videos? How many times? How many? We want to know. How many times have I saved you from impregnating somebody? Oh my God.

Possibly spitting out someone in the world that's going to be destructive. I'm really. That's awesome. Which request? You're doing good work, Lisa. Yeah. Okay. Clicking in the streets. Yeah, you're doing good work. You're cleaning the streets as well. Do you have a question? I mean, the question is not for me. It's from my homeboy. It's weird as fuck. You know what? This is great. This is like the scene in Mean Girls where the girl calls plan parenthood and says this is for my friend. Right. This is for you, man. But it's cool. We're going to say it's for your friend. Let's name him Mike. Exactly. What does Mike need? Yeah. What does he want now?

You know, I was like, on, you've asked him how to fulfill having your ass like, I mean, it's weird, but you know, how does your ass like? mean it's weird but you know how is your ass like how does that feel Lisa can you describe what it feels like I really can't no one's ever asked me this and this question before I got stumped you know it just yeah how do you describe it it gets it feels good it turns you on yeah I'm not asking her but you tell your friend uh that he might want to try it himself and come up with his own opinion. Yo, I knew you're got knew you. I heard you guys giggling in the back. I knew you're going to ask me. I will only follow people that I have met. So unless I've met you, you will not get followed,

which means you follow me on Twitter and find out where I'm going to be at a club by you. And come in. You say, hey, yo, we talked. You said you'd follow me on Twitter and find out where I'm going to be at a club by you and come in you say hey yo We talked you said you'd follow me on Twitter if I met you if you're cool. I'll go. Okay. What's your Twitter? Let's celebrate Twitter the real Lisa and she's the real friggin Lisa and cuz it's like go follow her on Twitter And then you might meet her and then you can talk about asking and all that stuff I'm flying to Mara. Where are you located? I'm gonna be in New York at the scene this weekend next week And I'll be in Providence, Rhode Island at the Cadillac Lounge the weekend after that I'll be in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania at blush She's all right. You got to find her you got no excuse, okay?

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Massage candle and massage massage. Aeromatherapy. You poured on your partner. Have you ever done that when you like, it's like burns cooler Yeah, so why do you say me massage amazing, right like if you amazing? I just had a hockey player giving the most amazing massage No, this you got to bring this with you in your suitcase. Oh, I don't worry. I always have candles So you know, but I buy the ones that are in tins for travel just they don't break in my suitcase Okay, so go with it. I'll send you more. I'm going to join that comment I hope that you love it love love love love, love. Do really because people are

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good. No, that's really not so how when you're unpacking the groceries and it's the refrigerator. So the reason why these events like break up sex, break up sex, the reason why these lead to great sex is because of the emotions that are associated with them. But you can create these emotions when something monumental isn't happening. For example, start a huge fight. Start a huge fight with R, if you got another zoo. But also, you don't actually want to keep getting in fights

so you could mimic makeup stacks by engaging in a little friendly competition. A heated game of strip baggaming. I can be easily resolved with a central massage. Because break up stacks is all about having that last passionate night together. So perhaps let's say she's going way for a weekend. Why can't you simulate that last hurrah by cooking her favorite dinner at home and some more time with her. So also the first time sacs which is also exciting is about incorporating something new. So I always tell you well mix up your sexual routine. Stop doing the same things

over and over again. Right. Get a donkey in there. Get a donkey in there. Right. Exactly. Play your favorite music. Get a sex toy. Have your dog watch. I don't care. People do that. I'm sure. They do. Sometimes you can't help it. You're doing there's just like cats watching and I remember doing that once and there's like seven cats just like lounging around just watching. I'm like, this guy's don't even care. you're gonna dog like your balls but I know that's not what I mean because I have balls but I heard that dogs do like balls I heard that that happens right yeah by air quotes mistake yeah sure

the guy didn't say anything about it and he thought it was her it was a whole ugly scenario it was in the front page of the news I don't want to talk about anymore um yeah but basically there's also vacation sex is a big one. That's a complete lack of stress. A time when you can both relax and enjoy each other. So if you don't have time for vacation, money for vacation, just take a whole Sunday and do nothing. Stay at home, stay where not.

We're turning off our cell phones, our hotel room vacation, have a staycation of having sex all day at home. Nice, love it. If you guys want to learn more from the art of charm about dating, relationships, and even networking for business, visit us at theartofcharmpodcast.com or check us out in iTunes and follow me on Twitter at the artofcharm. And check out the section of the Emily podcast at sexofele.com and iTunes if you want to have the best sexier life that is, also follow me on Twitter at sexwithemily.

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