Sex With Emily - Sex Appeal: Why You Need It & How To Get It, With Robin Antin

Episode Date: September 24, 2014

Today’s show is all about sexual confidence: How do you get it, how do you work it, and how do you become a star in the bedroom? Emily is joined in the studio by Robin Antin to talk dancing and sex appeal, two things she knows all about! So what IS sexy? Emily and Robin share their personal secrets to sexiness, and tell us how to discover our inner sex appeal!Emily gets to know her guest, the founder of the “Pussycat Dolls”, choreographer, producer, director, designer, entrepreneur and all-around sex-positive bombshell, Robin Antin. The two dish about all things sexy, and discuss the number one thing killing women’s sex lives: your lack of sexual confidence. The ladies explain why having sex is a lot like performing - as soon as you hit that stage (aka the bedroom) you must push past your insecurities and work what you’ve got! This show teaches you how to achieve ultimate sexiness, from fitness to style to the best sex toys on the market! It also answers some sexier questions: How does one do a sexy squat? Is there a Pussycat Sex-Doll in our future? And can Emily turn Robin into a sex toy believer?All this and more in the latest Sex With Emily podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tonight's show is all about sex appeal. Just like Sophia Loren said, sex appeal is 50% of what you've got and 50% of what people think you've got. Here are the sheer tips on all things sexes, Robin, Anton, founder of the Pussycat Dolls, choreographer, producer, director, designer, entrepreneur, and all around sex positive bomb show. And thanks everyone for listening to this show and for supporting my sponsors. You know know, flashlight, it's the number one sex toy for man. And it's probably the only one you need. Because let me tell you about this. Okay, how's this? Wouldn't it be amazing if you could feel the pleasure of having sex any time, even when you don't have a partner?

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The girls got a hair stand. Oh, my. The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common, Emily? What do you mean, like, laundry? It's shrink? Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me?

Oh, my God. I'm off here. I'm so, I'm gone. Being bad feels pretty good. But, you know, Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. You're listening, too to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between for more information

go to sexwithendly.com. You can check out all of our podcasts, sign up for a mailing list because I give a God good, God, God damn email every week. That's really interesting. Anderson, you get my email. I get your God, God damn email. I give good email. People, it's so weird because I just came back from Las Vegas, which I will get to in a moment. And people are like, oh, I read your god good damn you know I give good email people it's so weird because I just came back from Las Vegas

Which I will get to in a moment and people like oh I read dream and I hear this all the time I like your emails and like you don't think anyone read your god damn emails But I said weekly emails and they are full of chocolate full of information to help you have the sex life and the relationship That you want which is why I'm on the planet High understanding that why God put you on the planet I mean so I mean what am I doing that's I, not myself per se, but I've got from Las Vegas. So I go to this conference twice a year. It's called the International Laundry Show, right?

Was it like sex toys in Laundry? Yes. It's just like the old for a second talk about weather because it was 194 degrees here. Yeah. Was it like 300 degrees in Vegas? I don't know because the thing about this conference is it's so intense. We never leave the hotel. Not once.

I told my sisters, I'm like, we're never going to leave. Like I'll bring like I bring your ratings to whatever way and it's freaking freezing in the hotel now once you're there It's like work. It's sex toy work. We're feeling out toys all day, but it's still freaking You're like literally manipulating and feeling out and squeezing toys Everyone check out my Instagram sex with Emily Twitter Facebook all of that like man Facebook I've got lots of pictures. I felt that toys. If you ever had a daughter. Yes, she would be horrified and inevitably show up to school like third grade. And we're like, I want to show Intel today what my mommy does for a living. You want to know, but she'd sneak out like some kind of vibrator.

And it wouldn't be hard. God knows no daughters, no daughters for me. Exactly. Like my niece's can't even like talk to me. And now they're at the age to Google me as you know, which isn't great. But I was in Vegas and it's you know I love going every year it's twice a year and they have this sex toy show and so we you know we went and we yeah we tried out sex toys we talked a bunch of people and it was so funny because I went with my with Lauren my assistant and intern Madison who'd never been before and I was like yeah it's you know we go around we we talked to our sponsors and we try out new toys,

get new toys and some of them are really nice. They give us some toys to try right when we're there. And we walk in and we go right to the vibratox booth. They own Magic Wand and I saw Eddie, my friend there and he's like, hey, and then Madison was like, oh, that's the top of my dream list and he just handed us over all Magic Wand. Which you know is like the Mac truck of all vibrators.

And it was like from there, it was just like, you knew it was gonna be success. And then we just came home. So then we're driving. So that's the real reason why you guys never went out. What? You're like, we're gonna have to go to you.

No, we didn't do that. I wish it was that interesting. And you know what, another interesting thing you brought up, speaking of not doing anything interesting in a hotel room, is it, I've been to this conference. I don't know, 10, 12 times. I've never once hooked up with anybody. Never sex, never for never made, there's nothing.

How would you need to? You have the Mac daddy of all vibrates. Exactly. Time to masturbate. So my friend Brian is there. He's like, he runs Oh my God, that company that makes the vibrators it sink with your phone, whatever. And he's like, that's not possible. And he was talking to everyone. He's like, do you believe this is impossible? So then he time, but he said to me, okay. And I was telling him that, you know, I never asked guys out I never approach him as I've been saying on the show that it's probably something I could learn to do and he's like Okay, I'm gonna time you just go up to someone random and ask him to have sex with you and we'll see how long

See what happens. That's a cruel joke for whoever you target It's actually really funny. So I went after this guy and I was like I was nervous because I've never I mean I know it's joke kind of But I'd never even but I pick him He's tall and cute really cute tall cute guy, and I'm not telling us like hi. Do you do you want to sex tonight? And he said yeah, yes, yes, I would and my friend was a sterical on the floor Because he's like I couldn't even it was a millisecond. I couldn't even press start. I couldn't even press start Was this surprising to you at all? No, we're Vegas, but it was funny It was good times and then we came home from Vegas

No, it was really funny and then the other guy went up to I kind of knew him He's like I've already had sexually five times in my mind in the last hour So the people were very enthusiastic when I was actually me but long story short. I didn't have any sex Yeah, but it wasn't about that you know what I feel the secular show just say banged all weekend I banged all weekend. No, it's okay I haven't banged but not in Vegas and then we home. It was hysterical because I had my mini Cooper. And there was three of us. And we had triple, you know, we already had like a million shoes and dresses mostly mine.

We came on with a truck load, uh, mini Cooper load full of sex toys. We couldn't see out the window. It was like, it's about to ask you why the fuck would you ever drive to Vegas and back? But you just answer my question. Because it's always going with the goddamn sex toys. Yeah, you can't imagine going through security with that. But when I live in San Francisco, I had to fly to the show because we put it in four hours. It's easy. You bring all my shoes and all my sex toys home.

Shoes and vibrators. That's a good advice. Exactly. So it was a great day. So it was a great week, and I'm exhausted, but I'm actually not. I'm very under pressure. No, you look fresh. You look happy.

You look ready to go. I'm so excited. My guest tonight is Robin Anton and I love that. I love it. She's friggin beautiful. Hot. She is the founder of the pussy get pussy get thels. Criagover producer, director

designer entrepreneur. All around sex positive bomb shell. And tonight we're going to talk about what sexy and her rooftop dance series in Los Angeles, which I totally want to go to. You better be there. Oh, do I need something new

in LA like I'm done and done. I'm there. I love it. It's sexy. I will definitely tell you about that. But I have to say first. Thank you so much for having me. Oh, my God. Of course. Here I've been wanting to do this for so

long. And I love you. And I love your show. And I love everything about you. And it's so and I love you and I love your show and I love everything about you And it's so funny listening to you because I'm sitting or thinking God you and I really we have a lot in common You do you know, no, okay, so yeah, so Vegas first of all I have the same exact experiences I've been I have had pussy got dolls there for 10 years right and I've never it just has never happened Like you're working I'm like going in my hotel, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, everyone always says the same thing. If you had a daughter, you'd be in trouble. Right. Exactly. My niece, Jonathan, my brother Jonathan's daughter. How is so funny? I know. Yeah.

But his daughter, Josie, is a pussy cat doll and she's only seven and she is the sexiest little thing she walks around in her little outfits and. Oh my gosh. She's exactly. Yeah. And so everyone's like, she's like, my aunt Robin is a pussy cat. Wow. I'm like, that's so cute.

Oh, good. But it is. I know. My brother, when they were in town, my niece is, I've three nieces and he was like, that's so cute. I'm like, that's so cute. Oh, good, but it is good. I know my brother, when they were in town, my niece is, I've three nieces and he was like, clear out your house. They're not coming over. They're like, be careful. Because one time my niece, when she was 11,

slept in my house when I lived in San Francisco and she's up over and I had all these sex, like every sex event in the clinic. There's a shelf. Like that was a house. Like she wasn't expecting the living room. The next day she got back to her hotel room because they were staying in San Francisco.

And she goes, Mommy, daddy, why does every book on Emily's shelf have the word sex in the title? And then she's reciting the names. Like, what's, what's kind of thing? I'm like, oh, God, that is incredible. But it's fun being an aunt, right? It is. And I mean, you know, listen, she watches the girls.

And, you know, when watches the girls and and you know when we do the very sexy choreography and the girls like you know in the the sexy version of the pussy cat dolls which is the original version girls you know bending over and doing like really so and things that we love doing right totally now and there's little Josie you know copying all these moves and we're like yikes but it's that is so funny so she knows all about me. She's watching. Oh my god I'm just like I just do something that they don't really understand me. I mean your thing is definitely on another level of You know your nieces walking around going what is this?

What is Kuntlingus mommy? Oh Jesus. She's 11. It's really bad. She actually pick up the toys and like no the toys are hidden I've actually made it the toys are very well Up very well and that does not happen. Yeah, oh we all hide our toys right do you do the toys? I Mean let me look okay, so I'll be honest. I I do but I Um, I don't really use them that much I don't I mean I'm I just't really use them that much. I don't. I don't. I just like, you know, the real thing.

I got it. I got a lot of people, you know, it's I've it. Yeah. It's part of my business. Yeah. But some people are in terms of huge. No one is right. Business.

I mean, it really is. It's incredible. Yeah. Big business. So I get to see, you know, what's going on the world? Absolutely. Okay. So I want to make a blow up pussy cat doll. You should that would probably you can do flesh like pussy cat Don't for each one of the flesh. Do you know the face? Do you know what the flesh. I know it's right? It's the male masturbation sleeve. It looks like a flashlight. It's in the can't. Well, you don't need to give you don't know You don't need to know so bad. You don't need to know I'm learning. I'm learning right now. I'm learning so much. I should have brought one. No, but they make them. Also, which I didn't mention,

that they make them, if there's a certain porn star you like, you could buy like Jenna Hayes or Cain Cross, you could buy it. They mold it in their vagina. I love it, no. So if you're pushing it, I was wanting to get the vaginas molded.

It's a good revenue stream. All right, so Nicole. You never know, things don't work out. They want to get molded. Flushlight will take them. Okay, so let's talk about this. So you've been very successful with everything that you've done. Really creating the popular girl groups like pussy gag dolls, girlicious.

And you have a great eye for what is sexy. So how do you, is it, how do you go about picking the girls like and helping them become papiles? Is it that you just see something in them? Are they already have it? Like, can you teach that? I need to know. You know, I think it's one of those things

that I mean, just as a woman, and this is like, you know, this is what girls talk about. Right. You know, it's something that we all want to be. I have had many different types of girls that I've worked with, you know, that I've auditioned, that I've been around, that I've auditioned, that I've been around, that are maybe fantastic singers, incredible dancers, beautiful, the whole package, but then there's that confidence

thing that when they get on stage, they kind of, sometimes it can, I think the experience and the working very hard at relaxing can bring that, can bring out the thing that we have, that we have naturally, which is that sex appeal. You know what I mean? But it's sometimes just getting on that stage can cover that up. And then we all have it. I think that my point is we all have. I always say inside every woman is a pussy cat doll. See, I love that because because I one of the reasons why I think this would be so great for you to talk about this is because one of the biggest killers for women and men is that your women don't feel sexy and better than they do.

Exactly. Wait, ever. Childbirth. They don't feel good about their body. They never felt good about it. They don't have confidence. And same with men, I'm like confidence number one, after these jack, what do you mean by that? How do I get the confidence? So if you're like speaking to a woman who doesn't even, you know, you know, you play a friend's are like beautiful. I mean, they're like, I'm so fat. I'm so exactly. So like, what do you?

Well, it's in it almost is the same thing. I mean, like the bedroom is, you know, it's having sex. It's like performing, you know what I mean? It's like it's all the same thing because you can walk around and maybe act like you have that confidence and, you know, girls can put on makeup and they put on, you know, hot dress and they do all the, you know, I mean, they may walk around like they feel it, but then as soon as, like you're saying, they get in the bedroom, they may lose that confidence because they have to show their body and they realize that this is the moment that I'm

going to really expose myself. And so I think that, you know, obviously, I mean, it's taken care of yourself and doing as much as you possibly can do and accept that this is what I have. This is me. This is what I've, you know, what everyone is, I feel like even when you see, you know see girls in magazines that are like, you know, skinny or whatever, it's like, no one is absolutely perfect. I mean, I mean, everyone's got their thing. Everyone's got their thing, you know? Everyone's got their thing that they don't like about themselves. But you gotta celebrate what you do have.

Exactly. Because all, there's so many, you know, young girls that I think that it can be dangerous when they are always looking at these skinny skinny girls in magazines and they want so bad to be to be that. And that's they need to understand that, you're not, not everyone's born with that. So you can, you're either, you're either that or you're not, you know, but yes, you can work.

I work so hard to try to feel confident, you know what I mean? So, you know, because you're beautiful, you're keeping your very sexy, I know, sometimes we wake up, right? We don't wake up like this, but, but how do you, when you were younger, did you go through a phase or did you always tell your mother? Are you kidding me so many phases? I mean, I went through like, you know, everything

from my, you know, skin, you know, literally like me, whatever. Yeah, like I, I mean, you know, I've been dancing pretty much my whole life. So I definitely, my my body maybe I go through the skinny stage and then a little bit more around and I've always had the booty and the whole thing, but like I know what to do, to continue to have the body that I can accept and that I feel good about, you know, but I do know that yes, I would rather be

taller and skinnier and this and that, know everything you know, but I just I just I do if you do that's a really good point like we all know what makes us feel good I know that I need to work to get people say like hate working out though But like I actually need it and it wasn't that was younger, but it's like the indoor friends and the whole thing People like I hate it. I hate it But it's kind of you do it you'll feel we find what you like it doesn't have to be it could be your dance class It doesn't have to be the gym exactly. No, I mean I, I hate it, but it's the kind of thing you do it. You'll feel we find what you like. It doesn't have to be, it could be your dance class. It doesn't have to be the gym. Exactly.

No, I mean, all I do is dance. That's all I do. Do you dance like a hell? I can't wait. I'm like, exactly. Exactly. I need to dance. Sometimes I mean, I'll get in bed and I'll just start stretching and like doing all kinds

of, you know, just different things like literally like in bed, you know, and it does work because you wake up and you feel like I do sit-ups in bed, I do, I stretch, you know, just different things like literally like in bed, you know, and it does work because you wake up and you feel like I do sit up some bed, I do, I stress, you know, do like all kinds of different things. Mark, sit up some bed. Yeah, exactly. You wake out in bed. Right? That's my next DVD.

I thought my cat really? Well, it's a smart actually. Yeah, definitely a part of it. It is. No, I mean, I've been talking about it, that concept forever to put making a part of it because I'm doing it for you. Yeah, you were in calories for a second. Yeah, and, but, you burn calories.

Yeah. But you know, dancing is so good for your body. And that's why I do that religiously. And you know, sometimes the weights can make you can bulk you up. And but everybody's different. Right. That's true.

You got to find your thing that makes you feel good. Because just moving, just walking, just getting out. Walking feels good. You just got it like, and then you'll start to know how your body works. You have to come to my dance class. It is going to be so much fun. And it's sexy, and it's easy. It's honestly, it's very easy the way that there's a guy named Ben Allen

who I'm partnering up with, and he has a company called Group 3. And it's so much fun. He really came up, he's the one that came up with this formula and how to teach non-dancers, literally people who have never ever ever danced in their lives. And he came up with this way to really teach anyone how to dance. I heard you do that. Well, I do that too. So I have my way that it really works.

And he has his and we came together and it just is this like perfect team, perfect combination. And I bring the sex, you know, and he has his like, you know, I have my hip-hop flair too and he's got his. So we kind of just combine it all. And yeah, it's open. It's like dance cut. You sign up and yeah, so you there's um, you just go to w w w dot groove. It's ggroove.gov and then just the number three dot com. And we'll have this on our site as well. Yes. And that's where you can buy tickets and get info on Monday to 22nd.

I'm, yes. I mean, I mean, I can't wait. You teach me dance. I love it. You're going to love it. It's open. I love it. Okay.

Okay. So we have a call coming in. Line number one is Noel. Hi, Noel. Drawing sex with Emily with Robin Anson. How are you, Noel, from Los Angeles? I'm good. Thank you for taking my call. Of course.

Thank you for calling. What's going on? I know. I love your name. So thank you. So I saw Robin tweeted. So I had to call in because it's such a huge fan. Really?

Yeah. And why? Why are you a fan of mine? Everything you do, I mean I'm not a dancer but I want to be a dancer. So do I not lay? Come to the girls. Okay, it's so inspirational. I love everything you do. Okay, you need to come to my dance class. I have a question for you. Oh, okay, just like but you come in. But I need to know why you have not jumped in to the lead role of pussy catch all the way. That is not what I expected. Because first of all, I'm not a singer. And I'm obsessed with singing. And that's why everyone else sings. I can definitely dance. I would say I can dance circles around all those. Right. Yeah.

All those girls. I dance. You know, I take dance class every single day. I'm like a lot of dancers out there. So that part is the easy part. But, you know, also, they're like they're all 12. I'm not. But I will be performing soon

at some point. Oh, my dance class. You're going to dance. We're going to go on the 22nd Noelle. Yes. And it's I'm in the valley. So I'm going to try to make it. Oh, no, God, you're a valley girl. I'm a valley girl. Okay. Well, thanks you all. Thank you, Noel. Bye. We'll take the next call because we did another one coming in. We've got Edward in West Hollywood. Hey, Edward, you're on sex with Emily with Robin Anton. Hi. Hi, Emily. Hi, Robin. Hi, Edward. Edward, what's up?

My questions for Robin. I'm a huge fan and have followed basically the pussycat since the first album and actually before I from like the Charlie's Angels, like the sequel. Oh wow, yeah, a lot of people get people to know that. Yeah, so I'm like, that's hard. What you really are. I was excited to be talking to you. Hey, thank you Edward. So I have my question is, who are some of the females that have inspired you or that you've looked

up to? Oh, um, God, there's, I mean, there's a million, okay, not a million. That's a lie. We be here. There's two. Oh, okay, here's a good one. And it's funny because I actually do say her a lot, but last night, did you see Edward,

I'll ask you to, and Emily, did you watch Jimmy Fallon? No, I was shy that from Vegas. So Gwen Stefani was on, who is one of my huge inspirations forever, she happens to be a friend of mine because I had her as a guest pussy cat doll kind of back in the day at the right. Yeah, I ended up working with her became friends and she's just the most amazing girl. So I've always said that she's someone that inspires me but I happened to just be watching Jimmy

film last night. Actually watch it every night. Love Jimmy and Gwen was on so they were doing the lip sync challenge. Okay, oh, it's so funny. Stone was hilarious. You see that one. Okay, but go ahead. No, I know they're so great. If you guys Edward, if you haven't ever seen, did you see? No, you obviously have. If you did, you do. You find them YouTube. Yeah. Okay, so Gwen did um, Carly, Ray, Juppson, call me maybe. And I have to tell you, it was so, at first I thought like, because Gwen hasn't been around, it's basically, although she's obviously now on the voice, you know, she's just, she's like the,

the formation of the ultimate rock star. But like, you have to see what she did with it, because she just did, she didn't try to be funny. She just said, I'm going to be Gwen. And she got out there and she did her Gwen thing that every other female artist right now is trying to do because they all want to be Gwen. Of course, because Gwen is the best. But what she did last night is she told everyone, stand back.

I am here and I have not gone anywhere and I am the ultimate. I mean, it was, it gave me chills. And I was like, that's why she inspires me because she's just, she owns it. And she owns it, she's confident. And she's one of those girls that she's got, you know, she has a personality where it's like, it's something she's walking around like, I'm so confident. She's just, she is, she knows it.

Right. Yeah. So that's my answer. Yeah. How's that work? I love no doubt. And I love the pussycat dolls and I'm sure you get asked all the time, but we are dying for another album. A pussycat doll reunion? Yes. Yes, I do love another album with Nicole and all the girls. Oh my god. Well, that's a possibility. I mean, Nicole was on my podcast and actually mentioned that they're, but she would love to have a reunion.

So it definitely sparked a lot of people, like especially in the UK, they're like, are you? Yes. I actually, I saw Boy George the other night out. How amazing is that? Like, just like, it's definitely like you would miss him. Like, there's boy, right? It's not like he's around ever.

You know what I mean? Like, I mean, it's the first time I've ever seen him in person and I, like there's by right. It's not like he's around ever. You know what I mean? Like I mean, it's the first time I've ever seen him in person and and I'm my mom's English and she just started talking to him because she's English. I'm like, oh my god. And they ended up connecting. But he said when he realized

it was me, he said, Oh, please tell me there's going to be a reunion. There is going to be a reunion. I mean, the pussycats don't even want on and on about it. And I was like, crazy. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's true. Yeah. So, Edward, thank you for you kind of coming to the dance class on September 22 on and on about it. I was like crazy. There you go. Yeah, it's a fanatical. It's true.

Well Edward, thank you for you kind of come to the dance class on September 22nd and West Hollywood. I'm there. So nice. Okay, Edward, I don't know what you look like, but you need to, you sound cute. He does sound adorable. Yeah.

Thank you. Okay, so find me, come to the dance class. You are going to absolutely love it. It's very, it sounds like you would like to dance sex. I'm so excited. Okay. Well, thanks Edward for calling sex and we have a great night. Thank you. I have people. My sister and my aunt are like, oh, we know they grew up with it. They love it. I know. I've always like, but they're really younger. It's 12. Yeah. Exactly. Yeah. I know. I have like these fans. It's amazing. When you see it, if you come to the dance class, a lot of girls, I'm not, I don't

bullshit. Yeah, I'm literally like, we're talking. You said it here. You're coming. Yeah. The some of the way to see the age range. There's women like, you know, there's lots of boys and men and I mean, every type of person. And then there's like 11 year old little girls standing in the front. It's open to anybody. It's a work out. And dance. Kind of like more dance. It's dance, but it's it's a workout. And dance. Okay. It's like it's the best workout type. It's on a rooftop. It's on a rooftop. It's all open. And it's like you feel like you're in

New York and it's going to definitely be warm that day because I thought, oh my god, what if it rains that day? You know, it doesn't rain that we're throughout. So you're good. I know. Yeah. Oh, yeah, that's right. It was a 195. Yeah, exactly. Oh my God. I was. Yeah. I guess last face was what I wasn't here, but, but, but like you said, one another thing I related to is I have to, I go to Vegas and I dress like I'm going to the snow. Right. Because it's ridiculous. Like, does it have to be that freezing? No, it doesn't. And I can't even focus. And I'm talking to him like, I know, I'm going to the snow right because it's ridiculous. It's ridiculous. Does it have to be that freezing? No, it doesn't.

And I can't even focus. I know. I know. And then I'm wearing a sweater the next day. I'm wearing my cute summer things. I know. I know. Taking videos and then I've got like, yeah, I like run outside to like fall out.

Yeah, exactly. Yeah, I know. I know. It drives me crazy. I'm like bad moves over. I know me too. Do you like do you have air conditioning in your house? Yeah, I do.

Oh, you do. Yeah. I mean, I do. No, I mean, do you use it? I do use it. Now I use it. I didn't in San Francisco for 20 years. You didn't need it, but here I was like, I use it, but I still hate it. I mean, this last week, I feel of air, I hate fans. I know. The boy that I've been dating is like obsessed with the the he has to have the air on like 24 7 Even if it's cold outside and I'm like so I'm like dressed like it's so not sexy I'm wearing like a beanie right and like a sweat shirt with a hood and like I'm dressed like

Yeah, like if you turn off the air I'm so much better. I know I'm like sorry. I don't men are like I think men They don't get because we get freezing But I was at a meeting to the other day same thing you wouldn't turn it down. I'm my teeth were chatter Oh my god. Yeah, I know I keep it cold in here. I'm like that's all you dick really let it down exactly I'd like to feel warm and I like my muscles to feel warm You know, I just want to feel like I can't I feel hot when I'm hot. I feel hot when I'm hot right exactly You know right now. I know how cold San Francisco was I mean, it was great for the time I was there, but this is just your warm-up time.

Yeah. I'm so happy. Exactly. So you're happy in that right now. You're busy. Yeah. I'm a guy. And you have a lot of stuff going on. Yeah, yeah. I mean, I've, yeah, I've really good stuff going on.

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We kind of touch on a little bit, but you're obviously very sexually confident. One when you couldn't do what you do. From the stage, I saw you, you know, in the studio, what I was doing, podcast, you just like, be like in the morning, you're gort, so you care yourself, you're beautiful, you stuff, all that stuff. And I'm wondering, like, do you tips, like how you can cultivate, like we touched on earlier, like a healthy sense of sexual confidence, if for men and for women. It is exactly, it is for both, and it is about having a healthy sense of confidence and learning. Yeah, and I know we kind of touched on it,

but if you have a story about someone you work with, maybe that wasn't at the beginning, and you kind of taught them that, I feel like you've teach these, you mold them. Yeah, I do. I mean, there's some tips, tips and yeah, I mean, this is even like a good example of just how dancing and I, you know, I have to say dancing can make you feel, um, you know, it just gives you this, this, this, you don't have to be a professional dancer, but I mean, it gives you this feeling of like, you know, you feel

alive. I worked with, no, I've worked with a lot of different celebrities and I would say a lot of them really have a similar story, but one, I would say is, Gweneth Paltrow, I worked with her on a film called, called View From the Top. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And she was a stewardess, that's what it was like. Exactly, yeah. And with Christina Alpogato, it was also a really good friend of mine. And I just remember, I came in,

I was the choreographer and I didn't know when at the time and I remember her like walking in. And the second that she walked in, she had this sort of, and this is before she was into her kind of her whole thing now, you know, how she's, she's always worked out. She's always had the most amazing body. But I think at that time, she, it made her so afraid.

Like she walked in and she was like, it was almost like she was just this sort of like, it was stone, you know, she looked at me like, no way, no way, you're not dancing. I'm not dancing, you are not gonna get me to dance. I don't dance. I'm not dancing. You are not going to get me to dance. I don't dance. I never dance.

I know. And it wasn't a bad vibe. It was such a nice person. But she was like, I just need you to know that. So she had that. It's not that she wasn't confident. Obviously, she's very confident. But she was dancing.

She walked in and was letting me know. Just so you know, obviously you're going to be choreographing, but I am going to be over here. And that was our sort of, it wasn't conversation in front of a bunch of people. So anyway, cut to, I taught the choreography, and I did it, how I do it, where I teach everyone how I do it where I teach, you know, everyone had a dance, anyone could learn how to dance.

And I helped her become confident in, you know, as, I mean, she's a woman who does what she does and we see her and we're like, you know, we're all so inspired by her. But this is something that she was definitely afraid of. And I will, I remember to the day after we did the whole thing she learned everything she was like she literally was she had tears like she was I mean she was so emotional and she never never down. Yeah and she looks at me and she said oh my god I never in a million years would have thought that I can do this and it gave her a different yeah like it

gave her this different kind of feeling, you know what I mean? And for the, you know, for what we were doing and she felt confident in learning, you know, the, just the simple, they were simple steps on. She was doing these crazy steps, but still I think, you know, I think part of the lesson is just, you know, everyone is afraid and knowing that even someone like, when with Palcho or, you know, I love that. So that's perfect. Yeah, go ahead. All of these girls. I mean, you know, I've worked with so many and I mean I mean camera Diaz Yeah, camera and go well camera and as much as she's born she's got it that girl's got it. She's I God, I don't think she's afraid of anything. I mean, but she's she is just she's like the hottest and she's not someone who teaches me about confidence

I would say you know, I'm also very good friends with with Kim Kardashian and and Kim is someone who teaches me about confidence. I would say, you know, I'm also very good friends with Kim Kardashian and Kim is someone who is very honest about, like, she's like, I don't know. She does it, but she's, you know, but Kim is, I think that she's also, she's grown into her confidence. And she is truly, I mean, she's a beautiful person, you know, inside and out, honestly, and she's been such a great friend to me and the most loyal friend. And, you know, I think that she has this, she has a fear of, she wants to be able to dance,

but she's honest about it, but she finds confidence in other ways, you know, anyway, so she's not. Can you work with her if you even like him? Oh, yeah, yeah, I mean, we've, you know, she actually did a, are the bathtub scene in the post cat dolls show in Vegas? Yeah, she did that. And she did. Um, and then she did like a, like a whole MC thing. But I made sure to get her in the bathtub, which involves choreography. And I knew that she could do it.

And she was telling me, I am never going to be able to do this and I knew she could. I mean you know. Okay this is amazing. These are so people can just take it if they're not in LA and they can't take your what would you suggest to them? Are there like DVDs or something like that? Yeah I mean I have my pussy got dolls DVDs I have two of them. I'm gonna send them to you. They are definitely can teach you a lot. The one that I'm planning to do next would be more of this concept that is, you know,

there's a lot of different ways to teach people, but the DVDs are so much fun and you just pop them in your computer and you can just, there's a, I have a little three minute, perfect workout, PU, you are. I love it, of course. Perfect workout. Branding. Yes, exactly. And those, all of those little things can help you.

I mean, I do things like, okay, when I'm in the bathroom and it's nighttime and I have like my hair up in a bun and, you know, I'm brushing my teeth and putting my mask on and getting ready, like I said, not looking so sexy before bed. Or especially when I'm alone, I do all these things. I'm like, okay, now I can, yeah, right? This is what we do.

So as I'm brushing my teeth, I do these like, a little like squat, I come squat lifts. So squat lift. So you just like do a little squat and you kind of lift to the right, lift to the left, lift to the right. And you just like do a little squat and you kind of lift to the right. Lift to the left. Lift to the right. And you just love that you have to

squat and then go up, squat, go up. And it it. It's great for the for the booty. And it's great for your thighs. And I do those kind of things and I do these things called waist cinchers. So they actually do. I mean, you

have to see this. She looks amazing. I do these. We're going to do that. We will for sure. Yeah. So I do these things all the time. You can do them all around your house. Just always do something.

You know, right? I get up and wait to my house. And I sometimes I'm just like, have weights. I'll be sitting there. I'll just like to use my weight. Like whatever it is. Yes.

I like this. Yes. Cardio is extremely important. I mean, and you know, eating right lots of water all of that, but Doing all of these little things. I'm well. Yeah, yeah It's a little things you feel like at other time. It's like stairs and squats are the best Serres and squats. Yes, and then the sit-ups before you when you're in you know, listen, you got to lay down

To go to bed to go to bed. You're already lying down You got to lie down and you sit up. Just do them there. Do them when you wake up, you know, lay down to go to bed. You're already lying down. You got to lie down. I do sit-ups. Just do them there. Do them when you wake up. Do like, just say to yourself, I'm going to do 30 to 50 sit-ups before I go to sleep and when I wake up. So smart. In your bed, isn't there not enough? No. You can still do it. Whatever.

I'm still going. I mean, you still... I've worked out a week. I've been in bed. I feel like I'm like... And then stretch your legs while you're at it So you can get that stretch because you know you got a stretch is so important because if you don't you're gonna You're gonna get you're gonna shrink right It is true. We don't want to shoot it. Yeah, but here's such the thing that you said it's so interesting that so much about

I think the confidence that you get from because because being a good dancer is all about being in touch with your body It's so true and like if you learn to move, you feel sexy by learning a movie. It feels empowering to be able to do it and you just feel sexy and you become connected to your body, which is what women need to have the most of feeling sex. If you are disconnected and you're in your mind, you're exactly about your left breast is bigger than your right breast, no one knows, but you, you're not going to be sex. You're not going to have an orgasm.

Exactly. Right. No one knows, but you, um, you're not going to get sex. You're not going to have an orgasm. Exactly. And it's not going to be fine. And you know, there's a way you start feeling a diff, like a difference in your body and the way that you, you know, you are, you're back a little bit more, you know, like you stick out the booty a little more. Maybe you, you put your shoulders back a little more. You lift, you, you know, you're, you feel taller and all of those things, you know, make a better line that we call it, like in dancing, like, you know, look at ballerinas. I always say, look at the bodies that you want. You want to have a dancer body, look at the ballerinas, look at the, you know, just dancers in general and there's all these little things that you can do

to get, you know, to get that kind of body or to get on the road to getting that kind of body And you might be born with that long lean body already, but you know you want to get the dancer muscles and you want to also Like you were saying, you know when you're in bed and you want to you know feel more confident, feel more sexy I think dancing out of everything can give you that, you know, that sort of great feeling right in the middle, down here, you know. Exactly. And we hold a lot of memories and emotions.

Yes. This is a yoga. Like, give it to yoga. Like, I cry. Yeah, it's emotional. Yeah, it's emotional. Dancing and dancing is emotional. That's why, you know, look at,

look at dancing with the stars. There's a reason why they all cry after. You know what I mean? It's not just like TV and I mean it really truly makes you feel so emotional, you know, and and I know that I feel like that all the time and and I'm, you know, I'm literally like every day. I'm my my assistant Sarah said to me she's like, you're always saying you're so sore. And I'm like, but my, that's, my body is always sore constantly because I'm always doing something, even if I'm not in dance class. I am. You're in squats when you're brushing teeth, right? But I'm doing, but I'm doing sexy squats.

Now, there's a difference between squat, like, you know, like guys do. We're going to do a little video after just a little minute, and you're going to show something. Whatever, whatever kind of workout you do, you got to make it sexy. Right. And like when you go to the gym, you know, it's not like you have to get dressed up and look like you're going,

like you're, you're, you're, you're, you're barely the host's wife. But you, when I go to the gym, it's like, I just, that's me and I think that every woman should do this. You know, put whatever it is, just, you know, and get, and you said that's like,

posture is important, you know, and look at, you know get and you said that's like posture is important You know and and look at you know to get inspired look through look through met go go and get you know Vogue magazine or you know or self magazine or whatever that is and get inspired by Thing when you put clothes on you know you you even whether you have great clothes Are you only you know whether you kind of for them or you can't, there's always a way to, you know, make yourself feel a little bit better, a little bit better, and every day building that confidence and doing things that, you know, you have to, you have to look around you to get inspired.

That's a good, that's a really good point, because a lot of people look around and they go, oh, she's, I can't look at it, but there's other ways. Yeah, I mean, you get out of your head with that and be like, that's something I admire or what beauty she has. Yeah, now with Instagram, you know, you can, I mean, get out of your head with that and be like, that's something I admire or what beauty she has. Yeah, now with Instagram, you know, you can, I mean, I go, I'm like going and looking at a bloggers and, you know, I get so inspired by the littlest things. It's not like I'm going and shopping.

Like what was the last thing that really inspired you? I mean, I, like, God, I mean, everything from, it might be a pair of jeans. I might just see, honestly, I might see a girl in pair of jeans that looks so good on her body. And I go, why did those great on her body? And maybe I wear those jeans, and maybe they don't look as good on mine. And I do little things like, oh, okay, she's got long legs.

So she can put them on, and it looks great on her long leg. And I don't have that long legs. So I do things like, I need to cut the bottom of my jeans so they're not baggy at the ankle because that's not sexy. Little things like that, you know, now girls are ripping them and I actually do that myself. I have a pair of ripped jeans. Yeah, but you can do that on your own. You can do all these little things that help create, you know, even like certain t-shirts.

Sometimes I, you know, I'll pin the back a little bit because I want to like, you know, even like certain t-shirts, sometimes I, you know, pin the back a little bit because I want to like, you know, accentuate my way still. Yeah, kind of like your body that you love that you feel good about. Exactly. And yeah, and the more you like study those kind of things, I mean, I have like the, my brain just works that way, but I think that you can kind of train yourself to do that. And if you just spend some time looking around, if you feel like you want to just get inspired and maybe that will help build confidence, I mean, I think it does.

It's not all about how you look all the time, but it's about how you feel. Yeah, but you say like, but you say every woman has like an inner pussy get down, right? So what is that the same kind of thing you're talking about that you could bring that up? Absolutely, it's all about the confidence that I know that every woman has inside and,

and, you know, it's about also trust. When I work with someone, I make sure that they trust me and that they know that I will never make them look bad and never do anything to. I can tell you're like a girl's. Yeah. I'm really caring. You know you know I do I care about people so much and I care that for each person that I work with I mean you know it wasn't celebrity or not celebrity mean I work with a lot of girls you know that are just that are dancers that that also may have that same thing I just did the Emmys I choreographed weird elves oh you did yeah I choreographed weird elves. Oh, you did? Yeah, I choreographed that, I remember. Yeah, it was great.

Everywhere now. Yeah, I know. It's so great. And it was the second time I got, I did the Emmy's. I, the first one I did with Jimmy Fallon. I did the whole opening. Oh, my God. Remember for him when he did like all the, yeah, the like, every way.

And everyone, it was so much fun. So this one, I hired all these beautiful girls. And to be honest, I mean, some of them I had to pull it out of them. And I realized like, wow, like you're, you know, hired you based on the way you look, but also, you know, I needed really good solid dancers that had been really that were trained. And there were a few that definitely had a harder time doing what I needed them to do. Because it's all another level. Yeah, just owning it and feeling confident you're on stage, you're dancing in front of every huge movie star right in front of you. I was staring at you. Right in front of you. And so I don't have her judge. Exactly here we are she's you know, we were in rehearsal

And if you're not confident here, you are not gonna be when you're sitting there and you know What do you have to keep training on? Yeah, it's just about I want to work with them and sell this one needs this kind of yeah I mean, I'll get up and I'll show them I want to see Dan. This is the way you do it, but it's also about in This is the way you do it, but it's also about inspiring them. And I think it's still just the confidence that I have in them. So I am telling them that they can do it. I believe in you exactly.

Like I know you can do it. And I know that I would never look at anyone and just think, sorry, you're never going to get that. It's like, if that's my job, I have to make sure. And no matter what age either, right? Because we have people listening all ages. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter.

It doesn't matter. It's the way, you know, it's just, it's the way that you do it. It's the way I mean, you know, for talking about actually like teaching someone, how to do it. Like I'm going to teach you how to do it. Yes. And you'll see. But it's, but it is. It's about trusting each other. And for anyone that maybe says,

I don't have the means to go to a dance class like this because the classes that I'm talking about, they're not everywhere right now. We are talking about putting them out there in this way. But there are things that you can do for your body to feel sexier and feel more confident. Like we were saying, you know, brushing your teeth during the spot lips. I'm totally new to it. And I can't even work out all that. And you know what, you can also make up things on your own that are, you know, that are just, it's almost like you have to touch your body. Okay. Don't be afraid of your body.

You've got to touch your body. Touch, you know, your thighs your thighs, your buns, your hips, and maybe you have a little bit too much. You have the muffin top and all that. So you have to kind of move around and see how your muscles are moving. So if you're staring at your body and you're going, okay, if I move this way, it's going to, this muscle is being worked. Right. And then I'm going to go, okay, if I move this way, it's going to, this muscle is, you know, is being worked. Right.

And then I'm going to go this way, this muscle. Right. And then you, then you, you can create almost your own moves. I love this. You know what I mean? Like, if you, it's not like you have to do what everybody else is doing because you might do squats and your thighs might get bigger and that's not what you want. So you have to do things.

I know. It's kind of, but you have to do things that are, that work your body. And you can feel it if you really focus, you know, I've made up a million of my own moves. Yeah. Okay. How did you put you first got into it because of like your burlesque dancing or you love burlesque? I was, I just always love to dance since I was very young. So we're young, like how old? Yeah, I mean, you know, I, well, so my niece is seven. I started dancing. I started actually like finding out that I actually loved it when I was nine.

And I, you know, with my niece, I know that, you know, she goes in and out of like, she does hip hop and then she does ballet and she does all these different things and I keep telling her, you know, it's gonna soon you're gonna have to get focused. And yes, you can do all those different things,

but you have to love all of them. Like when I started really training to become a professional dancer, I had to love, I had to take a million ballet classes and love it, a million jazz classes and love it, you know, street, all these different, at that time we called it street. Now it's hip hop, right.

But I did, I worked so hard and I was not one of those dancers that was that would walk in and be like, I'm like preded naturally, like you had a train. I was in the bat. I, and I still to the state. It's like, I watch everyone else. And that's how I get inspired. I'm not like, you know, now I go in the front of some of the classes

because I'm confident, but let me tell you something. When I'm in dance class, I honestly do, I lose confidence sometimes. And not even when I'm teaching, I have to say like when I get up when I, I say that they didn't get that. Did I say left?

I meant right right right? Yeah, and they're all looking at you and staring at you. I mean, it's scary. It's not easy, you know? So it's like, I have to, I sit behind a microphone. No one can see me right now. Right now, but we'll think about like even when you first started and you know, I mean, if I wouldn't first started, I was live

of the reactor. It's scary. I mean, even now, it's like I came in, I would say when we first started. Of course, it's like, I think when you have the butterflies in your stomach, when you have that feeling of a little bit nervous, I actually think it's a really good thing and it's because you love it and you can turn that into a positive thing as opposed to, you know, I'm too scared and I could never do this. I was just saying this to somebody, a friend of mine that you're like, I'm really scared, I'm really nervous,

I'm like, that's when you grow. Exactly, that's when you grow. When you grow. And you're nervous and you've got the butterflies, you're about to grow. Exactly. Because how often do you have the experience not very often, so we don't think we can deal with it. Well, but if you persevere and you're nervous and you get the butterflies, you're about to grow. Exactly. Because how often do you have the experience, not very often, so we don't think we can deal with it.

But if you persevere and you push through it, then you learn something new, you grew, you survived, you didn't die, you're there. Yeah, it's like yourself. Yeah, people that think like, I have really nothing else to learn. I've been, you know, I've learned all the dance that I can learn. I've learned all that I don't need to work on my voice. I don't need to, or anything or anything you're doing or acting or whatever it is, or work, any kind of work. I don't need to learn. Everyone wants to learn. We love to learn, you know, that makes it, it makes your brain, you know, keep your brain healthy.

You're still learning every day. Oh my god. I love it. And I want it. You know, I always have this like dream. I want to perform on stage and and do like Chicago. You really have. and do Chicago. You really have an established dream? Well, I, no, I performed in the Pusca doll. Yeah, I was in the group. Right, you were in the group. I was actually really in the group. Right.

For how long on the group? For like 10 years. Oh, you were in the okay girl. Yeah, so all the club shows I was a part of, you know, I was one of the girls. Right. And then when I turned it into the recording group, I took myself out. And it was a big decision, you know, I was one of the girls. And then when I turned it into the recording group, I took myself out and it was a big decision,

big deal for me. Yeah, because I had to make a decision like, you know, now this is business and I, and so, you know, and I knew that it was gonna be hard because I was sitting back and looking at all the girls and feeling, you know, it wasn't like a jealousy thing. It was like, I want, I know that I, that's what I've always wanted,

but at the same time my brain has always worked on the business side. Like, I'm, you know, that's just no, I am. No, but that's amazing because it's not easy to be the artist and the business person, which I've had to learn the hard way when I kept just thinking, oh, I'm just going to show people love my show. I'll just make money. You'll roll it. No, you got to shift your breath. Yeah, I wasn't thinking like that. Yes. The first, you know, use what? Long time in my show. I'll just make money, you'll roll it, no. You got to shift your brand. Yeah, I wasn't thinking like that. Yes. The first, you know, long time in my show, a very long time until I had no money.

I was like, okay, I gotta focus on business. But it's not natural. And you have to create to be an artist and to make a living. So how do you think, what was the pivotal moment? Like how did Pussycat girls become such an amazing success and still are? I think that, you know, it was the combination of, well, it's, when you have women that love what you do, it's definitely a key to success because women are loyal, women will stick with

you, no pen and ten, that was one of our songs. because women are loyal, women will stick with you. No pen and ten, that was one of our songs. Stick with you. But I had the women in the poem in my hand. You know the women of the audience. The females. Yes, yes, the audience. They loved it.

They raised the fans. Crazy. And they wanted to be, they wanted to, they saw something that they identified with. What do you think that was? And that was confidence. Confidence. And just sex, sexy, sexual, all of that. What it all means.

So women, all of our female audience would look at it and go, I want, I either know what it is. I want to find out what it is. I feel like I've never had it. I want to find it again. It's aspirational. It's aspirational. All of the above. So it's something that we really, you know, I really connected into that world and they identified with us. We identified with them. And I made them feel like they could be, they really could actually be up, up to get all and that that's always been my intention You know to to make them feel the way and then the men I would say are easy

Right the men are easy the men are easy because they like they just like Hot hot girls dancing and and showing it and you know what I mean like you know we're in corsets and garters and fish And you watch the kids pussy get those Yes too many clothes. Oh So not you see that was the part that That was where I got smart though because yeah, you know everyone else was taking off their clothes and I was like well How about this I'm gonna take pussy got those to Vegas and we're gonna do shows where we're gonna tease Oh, so you kind of like he's looking at me like now.

Are you slattered by all the amitations? Cause I mean, it's really back. And I'm sure that you can, you know, pat yourself on the back of that one, right? Right. I'm looking at them like really, you know, but what I mean, I don't know if there has ever been one that's been who do you think? I mean, I don't know. Don't ask me because actually, you know what, the wife would probably love to go to see these things. She just doesn't have time. But yeah, come back in a year and I'll know more. Yeah, the wife. So that's why also what's successful is like, you know, the wife goes, couples can go. The wife feels safe. The men are safe because, you know, my girls are, they're all nice girls. They're hot. They're hot, but they're nice. You make them nice. You make

them nice. You're nice. I'm sure. I'm sure. You're sure. You're hot, but they're nice. You make them nice. You make them nice. I'm sure nice. I make sure them. Yeah, you obviously a good business manager, good manager, good boss, which is important. It is. That's you. And I Yes, of course I have. Does it make you feel better about everything you're doing? I just look at it and I go and I think, you know, there's that thing that they that I hate saying it, but it's true. It's like they don't have that that thing is I've worked my house all right. So many years not saying that, you know, a lot of those people out there haven't, but

I've done I think when people ask me like well what is it that's so different about what you've done and and my my brain has created something that's like a hybrid of so many different genres and inspirations from you know as far as music like from punk rock music to rock and roll to you know burlesque you know bump and grind so I put it oh yeah I put it all in there secret recipe I know I know but no one could be no one could do what she's done it but then taking yeah and then taking like the the the the choreography and putting it not you know not

always putting like the sexy choreography with like the sexy song, you know, maybe the sexy choreography goes with the song you'd be like, whoa, I never thought that or vice versa. So I just, I do, I'm mixing it up and keep changing it and doing all these kind of like weird things that and bringing it and then bringing in the, you know, celebrities didn't hurt. Speaking of which, is there one like superstar celebrity that's on your wish list that you would love to work for? Yeah. Jennifer Lopez. Speaking of which, is there one like superstar celebrity that's on your wish list that you would love to work for? Yeah, Jennifer Lopez.

I mean, how's that coming? Have you tried? I mean, it's obvious because she's you know, she's Jennifer Lopez. Right. She knows that I would like that. But no, we haven't it hasn't been like a Jennifer. I need you to do this, But I always think that one day, hopefully soon, if I do the Pussycat Dolls like story, it's a great story. Oh my God. I mean, if we had more time.

We had 40 hours. It's the most insane story. I mean, it's not just like, you know, built a girl group. Right. There's nothing. Right. So many crazy things. But it was actually an Eature Hollywood story. Is that. But it stopped too early. You know what I mean?

Right. There wasn't. They didn't. Well, yeah, they didn't continue the story. So I always think that I want to do. I do want to do like a Broadway show of the, you know, the story from the beginning. Like from my point of view, like from my girl, the girl that had this, yeah, exactly. And then, you know, or like a film. So I always think Jennifer Lopez would be the perfect girl to play me. Oh my God. We should just sign that out into the universe. Yes. Okay. So we're gonna make that happen. It's a question. Okay, we only have few remains. But I want to know. I have so many more questions for you. But what about for men? Like what's the thing that you find sexist and a man? Like is it the way I mean, yes, we might say confidence.

That's one thing, but is it the way how can we tell men about getting more confident? How do you explain that? I was like, what do you mean, Emily? I'm like, I try. I think, I mean, what I love about a confident man that in my eyes confidence is and I have three brothers that are definitely confident you know like in different ways the two older and

one younger but you know they are the younger one acts like he's right you know my father but they're very they're. Um, I think that it's about kind of just like, oh, God, it's so hard to. I know. Like, I read your body. Yeah, just be comfortable. Yeah. And like, and like, just kind of, you know, even in the rest of the day, even. I mean, dressing, uh, for, you know, dressing is very important the way that they dress.

But I like a guy who just wears the most simple t-shirt that just happens to hang on his body in the right way, but he didn't try to just... Didn't try to spend more time getting ready than you did. Exactly. He just throws on the t-shirt, throws on the right pair of jeans, he's got the, you know, whether they're sneakers or, I mean, I like a really, I like casual, look really casual. And of course, I like a man in a beautiful suit as well. I do love that. And I do love, I mean, I like guys that have a sense of style that really understand style and know how to put it together

without like, you know, working at it so hard, but I like to go shopping with with my guy. And you know, I mean, yeah, I'm not not redo, but like, you know, hey, I got this cool teacher. It's like, I know, yeah, things like that. But I also like a guy who can tell me what looks good. I know there aren't. Yeah, there

aren't many guys out there that have been able to do that. One of my guys that I was dating, he come over. I just went gene thing. I got 50 pairs of genes. I got to get rid able to do that. One of my guys that I was dating, he come over and I just made a gene thing. I got 50 pairs of genes. I got to get rid of half of them. How's my ass in this? Exactly.

He's not really sitting on my bed, drinking wine. I was like, I like that. I don't like that. I'm like, that's all I knew. Because my girlfriend's are going to tell me. Yeah. And that's a lie. But that's sexy.

That would go. Exactly. I'm going to come over for a sexy fashion show. Yeah. I'm going to play with my sex today. That guy must have been gay. No, I'm not gay. He's good taste. He's awesome. He's my friend. I'm over with my sex today. That guy must've been gay. Rob, no, he's not gay. He's good taste.

He's awesome. He's my, he's my friend. Rob and Taylor question. I know it's probably seems too easy, but Catherine's at a Jones. It seems like she'd be the perfect fit, right? Well, she would, but she did Chicago. And so she kind of already did that, but I'm not

having an easy choice, but it seems like a good thing. But she's amazing. Yeah, she was so good. Yeah, there's so many. Now you're going to, you're going to go home. You're going to be like, wait, I have the perfect. So if you're right, if you happen to see her on the street, whoever it is, tell her to contact me.

OK, we, OK, Robin, we can find you at robinantin.com. Your Twitter is robinantinPCD as in pussycat dolls. Yes. And then robinantin Instagram. Yes. And then also groove three summer rooftop dance series will happen on my site as well. Yeah, starts on the 22nd of December at L.A.

And and seven, seven, yep, get there at seven class starts at 730 and it is going to be so much fun. And I can't wait you understand Anderson. You're going to come to you right. I'll be there and bring your bring your lady. Yeah, it's a pipe dream. But yeah, okay.

I love it. Okay, so's a pipe dream, but yeah. Okay. I love it. Okay. So much. So much fun. Yeah. Come back again. Okay. Thanks, everyone.

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