Sex With Emily - Sex Drive, Doggie Style & Bad Sex Impressions

Episode Date: May 9, 2015

On the latest “Sex with Emily” podcast, Emily helps you through some of your biggest sexual hangups. From bad first-sex impressions to troublesome sex positions, she tackles your listener emails, gets into some internet porn tips, and debunks a common myth about her show: Does she really get tons of creepy listeners? Plus, do you prefer morning sex? Or are you a late night lover? Emily and Anderson explore a study on men and women’s sexual preferences, and discuss the benefits of both lovemaking practices. Whether you're dealing with bi-curiosity, latex allergies, or penis size insecurities, this episode hits is chock-full of useful tips for those that have hit a speed bump in the sex road. Don’t miss it!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey everyone, thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. Okay, tonight's show. Tell me if you can relate. Sometimes you just don't feel like having sex. Totally get it. I'm gonna help you find your missing sex drive. Also, if sex is bad on the first date, will it be bad forever?

Did you go back for round two? What do you think? Also, are you craving more sexual experiences in your relationship? I'll share the best steps to make it happen. All this and more. More and more and more. Unsexively. Thanks for listening. Okay, I'm sorry if you're still in one of those cities where it's you know, little cold. It's

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Isn't it common, Oli? What do you mean, like laundry? It's shrink? Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me? Oh my god, I'm so, so, so, so. Being bad feels pretty good. But you know, Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with.

You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between. And there's so much in between, right? Thanks everyone for listening to the show. Happy masturbation month. We're about a week in. How's it going for you? How is that masturbation going for you?

Anderson, I love you for so many things, and one of them is your ability to pull the exact right sound effect at any moment. That was a filthy one. This is microphone work. I have no idea. I don't like the part of your fluid. I apologize.

You love bodily fluids. So you're just talking. What? Do you do your, because you're dude. I do. You love bodily fluids. So you're just talking. What? I do. You do your, cause you're dude. I do not love. Let me tell you how many women differ. There's a lot of ways they differ, obviously.

But one major way they differ is in their sense of humor around like men are like fart jokes, poop jokes. Women do not find those interesting at all. Yeah, no, you just made a come thing. Yeah, that's totally different from pooping. Dude, I'm saying any any women don't find that funny No one's laughing women are going girls It's a masturbation months. No, it's cute. I like it. I know I was actually started out complimenting you on your ability Just yell it. Yeah, and then you said you're a chick and you don't like that kind of no, I don't like bathroom

Pomer, I'm with your sister. Okay, whatever. I guess I'm thinking like my cat. I hate it Okay, so here's the deal about masturbation month though. I actually made a commitment on a show a few weeks ago that I was explaining the purpose of masturbation month if you've never heard me talk about it's every May. You're like, whatever, you know, I've got my hand. I've been using it since the third grade with the hell. And women are like, yeah, I know how to do it.

I just go, did you do it? It's done and it's what. Well, I said, well, why do I need this month? What do they do? They go, here I got my orgasm. I touch my clitoris. They do whatever I see my finger. Yeah, everyone's like, oh done, done.

Got it. Okay, like what's for dinner? But masturbation month is time to explore yourself. I'm figure out, like there's so many other ways that you can feel good on your body that you don't know. So for example, I committed a few weeks ago that this was gonna be my month to explore my body and try to have a nipple orgasm. You're also going to get a unicorn as a pet.

You should aim high. Why? No, dude, I've been, because listen, I'm telling you something. You've heard me tell the story about my friend masturbated every day for 30 days, didn't have an orgasm to like the last day in college, and that's how she learned. I believe that nobody spends any time at all challenging themselves sexually about the pleasure they can feel. I'm not saying challenge yourself to see how many like math problems you can do.

I'm saying, what if you could have orgasms in different ways? What if you could move your hand in a different way, Anderson, that felt amazing that you didn't even know because you always do it the same way? Our bodies have unlimited capacity for pleasure. Why not have this month to make it happen? Yeah, like, I've never committed to the nipple.

Okay, so it's the second most common orgasm. And I feel like I like what I could do it. It'll be fun. What do you think that's not gonna happen? I'm embarrassing you. Your face? Is it embarrassing you? No, not at all.

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So you conquered the G spot? But I learned myself. No, I'm saying I taught myself. You did conquer the G spot, though. Totally. I conquered it all, but it didn't come naturally. So what I'm saying is I had to try. Right, exactly.

What else did you defeat overcomment? Everything. How much time do you have? All right. Well, that ain't orgasm. Have I ever had that? No, I've never worked on that. That's like my list.

That's not my bucket list. What kind of things do you implement for the Nipple achievement? You're going to use clamps. You're going to use my book list. What do you get at, what kind of things do you get to implement for the Nipple achievement? You get to use clamps, you get to use feather dusters, what do you use? I'm just gonna say how everyone, so no matter what you want to find out, like also all I'm saying is orgasm shouldn't be the goal. Like I found other parts of my body that are really sensitive.

They didn't know where through this process of touching myself, self love, sex, masturbation, sex, and so on. Totally dude, I don't even do it enough until my killing schedule now. It's like masturbation, sex, I totally do. I don't even do it enough. It's on my calendar schedule now. It's like masturbate pops up. That's fun in the meeting when you're plugged

into a PowerPoint. So anyway, I, yeah, so I've experienced like different toys too that I use. Like, hey, your labia in different ways, it feel good. Like they, because the, the clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings, but they all stretch down. There's like nerves. Way too much.

And we're so lucky. It's doubled out of the penis. So we, and it's just these roots, it's these deep roots that you could feel so much like women, you could, they can have multiple orgasms, but they just think one stopped. You know, what if you could have multiple? It's so limit, it's such a limiting belief by women because they've never had it through intercourse or through masturbating that they can't have a multiple orgasm. For example, when a guy orgasms, so there's a very good possibility of creating life.

When a girl orgasms is like, oh, good for you, I'm not cute. Yeah, it's really kind of pointless. What do you mean you're creating life if you're alone? Oh, yeah. Oh, not alone, but it sucks. If you're having sex, yeah. Yeah. Well, like our orgasm creates life, like makes the species move forward.

And what is our ours just the way it's done? Are you saying ours is useless? I think that's what we're doing. like our orgasm creates life, like makes the species move forward. And what is our art is just the waste. Are you saying art is useless? Think that's the way things are waste. No, because women have really hard in life, and we should have something that's just like really fun and the best of all. I know you'll feel hurt of the...

Dude, don't get me started on that, you know what I'm saying? But I'm saying for guys too, you're like, well, well, what can I do? I always talk about the fleshlight, and it's not just because I work with them as a sponsor and they love the show and I love them. It's because I know guys have tried it. They're like, oh, that's pretty cool.

I've been using my hand forever. You can explore your anus, whatever. We don't forget it into all. But what I'm telling you is I'm teaching, what the point is, I'm teaching a masturbation month workshop at Hustler stores, May 15th, 7 to 9. And last workshop was so cool because I don't do a lot of workshops and I

I really enjoyed it because I got to meet all these listeners that you like you do your after zester live show Yeah, we've done a couple of right and people come and they love you to my t-shirt like I don't do so this is fun one girl fainted She might you because she met us. Yes, I see what I mean fire department to come I like sitting in a room with you doing pocket Really it's true story. Yeah When she met you us mainly my car on to be honest, but yes, oh my god. That's hilarious See dude so rock star your rock star so like the Beatles pretty much I'm gonna do it last time was so funny. I got to meet a lot of people there was like 200 people there

We have champagne what on how many percentage? How many of them were creepy? None. Here's the weird thing. Come on. Come on. Do your listeners just gotta be a percentage? See, okay. Can I just tell you something?

That is one of the complete, like, misnomers? Yeah, misnomers, I guess. Or that's one of the myths about my show. People think that there's like creepy guys like that are like sitting up. Maybe they are sitting up, I'm jacking up. I don't know.

When they come to my events, everyone's like really like there's men, women, couples, like there was no creepers, we didn't have to call the police. You didn't see them, they're hiding in the bushes. You might see them, it's a huge store, and people with bright lights and there's security, and if they were like jacking off in the corner, they'd be kicked out. I mean, it makes sense.

The after disaster, the film bulb, those shows are not about sex, and we have, I'd say conservatively, those shows are not about sex. And we have, I'd say conservatively 20% are creepy. Creepy listeners. But you guys are creepy. No, we're not creepy at all. Oh, okay. Well, then we're open and honest. Well, so my, you're right. In my topic is about sex. So it's ironic that my listeners are normal. I mean, not normal. That word that my listeners don't seem creepy. Well,

adjusted. They're well adjusted people who just want to learn about sex. So the last workshop was fun, because Hustler Hollywood, if you haven't been, it's cool store on it's legendary. And it's, people think Hustler, I think like poor magazine, it's still got that image. It's a cleanity store, I got it. It's a play-ass.

They've got every toy that I, so I'm gonna do that, teacher workshop, I'm getting into it, I have a Volvo puppet. What? Does it have a name? You know what, I should name my puppet. Violin of the Volvo. Oh. Okay, email me feedback, it's sex with Emily, which I named my Volvo puppet.

But it's cool because I'm going to get into like these different parts of your bodies that you didn't know existed for pleasure. And then I'm going to walk you through all the fun stuff toys I talk about after I give my give my workshop about the toys you might like to buy. The ones I talk about you guys should see them and champagne and giveaways and good times RSVP H a RSVP at LFP dot com what day of the week Larry Flint productions dot com what what day of the week is that it is a Friday night. Oh good. It's May 15th

79 right across the street from the World famous whiskey a good exactly. Let's all go for drinks after masturbate or have a be appropriate. That probably would not be appropriate. But you can leave it out there for possibility. Okay, will you come? I see. I get it. Okay, there's one more thing. Okay, you guys, I'm trying to like not talk about the stuff at the beginning of the show because I really just want to get on with helping you through sex life. But the one more thing I've dimensioned because if I don't now I'll forget. May 12th, which is before this, which is a Tuesday. And it's the day after Anderson's birthday.

Correct? Good memory, kid. I want to buy you a drink. And I'm doing a, you know, like when you listen to podcast, you go see Anderson's podcast. Sometimes I'll do a sex at my podcast. I'm going to be a guest on for crying out loud. Lynette Corolla's podcast and it's gonna be live May 12th. Tin Horn Flats and Hollywood off Highland Avenue. Door's open at 6, it's 8 p.m. It's free mission.

And you can't even ours a piece, so just show up. It's gonna be awesome, because she's hilarious. It'll be a good time. I'm the guest on the show. Love it. Okay. Such a sweet lady. I love her.

I love her. She's hilarious. Her show's so fun. I know. Love that woman. That's gonna be really fun and funny and Just let's hang out and have a drink. Okay Today she would like to cover what she's overcome some crazy sexual stuff Would you get as far as she actually has sex with Adam Corolla?

And she's even procreated with them. I mean you can imagine you're trying to find the nipple orgasm she found the Corolla orgasm somehow somehow I That's that's it dude. She loves some fun sexy, but she was on my podcast. You guys should all listen to this podcast. It was awesome. It was a very popular. It came out a few weeks ago. And she said, you know what her one of her secrets is? In this month.

Close in her eyes and pretending to someone else. She never says no to the blowjob. Married for 20. They've been together 20 years. Never? Never. And I agree with her. I work with Corolla for years and years.

And one of the many funny things, but one of his funnier things that he'd go too often, is he'd explain to the lady listeners and callers that he receives a really good oral. He receives a really good show like his style, how he would do it. See, I like to put my hands behind my head and tilt back, yeah. He did, this was years ago, or?

Years ago, yeah, he was always talking about what great oral he receives. Well, it's funny. Right, and she, whatever, and she talked a lot about their sex life, always talking about what great oral he receives. Right. Right. And she whatever and she tried to let Talk a lot about their sex life and her she's just fucking hilarious. I love her. So show it'll be fun So everyone may just show up 10 horn flats. I think it's on my website or it's my Twitter section. Then you can find it. Okay I've got some sex in the news for you Anderson and I'm glad you're here Because I think this is like a really important study that out, and I'd like to talk to you about it.

Let's do it. Men like morning sex, women like it late at night. That is absolutely true. Don't you think? But they're scientists who spend good money and time actually proving it. Now I just thought, who knows, universities, I'll tell you. So I think it's obvious, men wake up with a boner

and they're like, oh, okay, yeah, let's have some. Isn't that like why you have it? You're like in the morning, it's like, it's this would be natural. I'm already hard. Let's go. For me, because it's a good motivator to get out of bed. It's a great way to start your day. And a lot of the time, I'm go, go, go.

I would think that you are too. By the end of the day, it's just like, I'm really fucking tired. I don't want to do a bunch of work right now. Right. And it feels like work to you. At that time, sometimes, yes, like at the end of the week. Because you feel like I do this, I gotta do that. I don't want to do four play. Yeah. Plus, I don't, you know, half acid.

How about the weekends? Weekends is like whenever it goes. So, okay. So listen, women are night owls when it comes to passion at the bedroom. Well, men favor the early morning approach. I'm like, no shit. But a new study has shown that women, most desire sex and this breaks it down to the times of day at 11, 21 PM. But men's optimum time for passion is more than 15 hours earlier at 7.54 am. This is terrible news for me.

Why? Because my wife was never with me at 11. Oh, never. You're on love line every night, so midnight. Well, you know, I'm glad she still loves you. Not cool. Despite a busy day in the office or running errands, the fairer sex are most likely to feel passionate between 11 pm and 2 am while men are far more inclined to feel sexy before midday.

Though with the preferred time slot of between 6 a.m. and 9 a.m. don't wake my eyes up. Like if I'm sleeping still, just have sex if you're going to work, you know what I mean? I like both, I gotta be honest, but I don't like when if I don't want to, you guys wake up, it's like the dick in the back, you've heard of that. Yeah, I've heard of that. You don't you don't wait I'm easy I'm just saying if I'm sleeping. You know, I actually don't can I be honest This is really revealing I like morning sex too. I don't like to say no I can get into it Yeah, but honestly you guys are something that I'm like but I'm I'm actually into it

I'm like, you know why not start the day with it like you just said right? Great. You like it when you wake up and it's happening. Yeah. Yeah. Totally. That's so fun. I'm like, great. I mean Some of the best sex ever is like when you're both asleep and then you're both kind of start happening You know, it starts happening when you're kind of conscious. That's hot. Yeah. I love that. So I'm saying is I love it It's kind of like I wish like I always say that sex is like you don't want to go to the gym Then you go and you're glad you went like I wish I could wake up and my workouts over to you Like you said, yeah, you've said you've never had sex and then regretted it afterwards.

Ever. I mean, you do with strangers a lot. Yeah, like when I sleep with my creepy listener, sometimes that's really where I'm on my couch. On my couch, exactly. So it's no wonder that couples can struggle to maintain healthy sex life. They feel frisky at different times. Is this the solution?

This is the thing that's going to change lives. The difference in sex is out to a moment for passion is revealed in a new survey, 2,300 people. Look at the sex drives. So just let's see, desire levels for women throughout the day reach their peak. Like I said, between 11 and 2 a.m. Is that daily like savings time? I don't know. 68% of women and 60, I wonder if there is a moment in daylight, no, there is no overlap. Maybe when they travel abroad and they have jet lag, 68% of women and 63% of men have dated someone

who sex drives were different from their own, which is totally common. And it's not even about time to day, but it's just even, you know, how often you are in sex and stuff. So there's difference how couple sex drives very over week. They get, they, the encouraging part of the study, this is not going to be a bummer. Many of it, many are ready for sex just before breakfast, whereas women, most on passion, lasting at

night and what is encouraging, most people tend to find sexual happiness in the end with a partner with similar needs. So I don't know, that's like they're saying that you got to find a night owl, if you're a owl or you just compromise your like there's three nights a week we'll do in the morning. You know what I'm saying? What do you do? I change clock. I change her watch and her bed.

But don't you think it's about I don't think this is going to be like this siding factor relationship, but especially if you're married. I think it's more important if you don't like doing the same things besides like if you don't have the same rhythm as far as just how you move through life. Like you like to relationship though and it sucks when it when it sexes you know sex load is I mean is a bummer when there's a problem when you don't line up sexually even if it is and there's so many different ways to line up or not line up sexually but what yeah time is a big factor I mean I've experienced it I'm

experiencing it now most people that is one of the biggest color so what I'm saying is either how can you, was it, or was it like this since the beginning? So, but you do have sex then when you don't want to. Yeah, I get it. I get that safe. That's one, and she doesn't like to do it anymore. And it just doesn't feel sexy.

A lot of women don't want to see. So she say no, I know. But I say women can go for it sometimes. Like I think if you, if you give in every once in a while, then you're getting the variety of having sex at different times. There's really never like a no in our relationship.

We, we'll do it, but we don't, we don't, you know, that's the key to a lot of relationships as well, is you do things you don't necessarily want to do. And then like Emily says, once you start, you're happy. Right, okay. And I'm gonna put this on my website, so you cannot read the study,

because it's interesting, cause it breaks time. Yeah, what is the study talking about? Um, yeah. You gotta cite these fuckers. No, dude, okay, so love honey, which is the biggest sex research distribution, sex toy distribution company.

So, I will put it up there, but it also breaks down to like 6 to 9 a.m. 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. like the best times a day you should all whatever. So, you know, it's just interesting because mismatch libido's different times a day, couples have brought, you know, let's try to work this one out, one problem at a time. Porn hub, this is funny, why did you hear this? Buys a guy a new laptop after he smashed it to hide porn from his mom. How did they find out? So check this.

Denzel Michael was browsing Pornhub when it froze, just as he heard his mother coming up the stairs. He claims he had no other recourse than to smash the laptop. Smash it. But now Pornhub is offering to buy him a new computer. Because he posted on Instagram, although the sticker covered laptop is a joke because it's a picture of the laptop they're sending him, they're serious about getting Michael new laptop. We appreciate his loyalty as well as his clear sense of judgment and picking our site as a digital destination for some adult or whatever. Dude, I'm sure his parents are going to be thrilled.

I don't think they're going to be reading about Pornhub. Who knows? As a result, he's kind of an idiot though. Why? Because he's passionate. He might get to close it. You just close it. No, but this is a thing. Let me tell you why I thought the same thing. As a result, we would like to send him a brand new laptop.

Alongside some awesome porn hub swag to use for his continued pleasure. Here's the thing, a lot of parents stalk their kids' phones. There's parents who do checks once a week on on their kids laptops like maybe he's got these serious Yeah, just close if it would have his mom is like oh, let me see who knows. Yeah, that's bad No, I hear about this all the time. They check it every night. They know the back I used to have this whole system where like I had like a very innocuous Website at the bottom minimized and then if anyone would come in I could easily just like open that one up You know full screen it yeah everyone's got their systems like Sesame Street or something

You know something very innocuous like horses and then but I never came here Browser never came with that actually heard people coming and you just Yeah, but how these are cute but how many other men's now are gonna smash their laptops to get free? I don't think they're gonna do it all the time. No That obviously porn hub just wanted the story to continue So they came with a response and they were giving him a laptop and they're getting do it all the time. No. That obviously, PornHub just wanted the story to continue so they came with a response and they were giving him a laptop

and they're giving him a much of free publicity for it. PornHub. I never know. We're giving them free, yeah, you do. I'm familiar with you. Kind of a two question about that. So when you're surfing for porn, would you say that you regularly,

like it's always the same thing, that you go to, like on this day that, or is it more like you don't even know what you're gonna Look for when you get sit down or I'm gonna get to my age you kind of like are you planning it and drive home? I'm like I might search for no I'm not on my home so right when you get to think I want to know that when the decision processes what you're gonna watch I just recognize this the other day and God damn it my wife. She will kill me if she never hears it She doesn't listen no she doesn't listen to my show.

So totally. Uh, I don't know about you, but like there's certain bars that I go to. And whenever I go to that bar, I have that drink. Right. Like this bar I only drink beer. That bar I have Jameson's this bar. I was I was like order seven and seven. For what the only time I ever have ginger rails when I'm flying on a plane, I don't know why,

but that's different places in the house, different devices. It that dictates what kind of porn I'm going to look at. I don't know why, but that's different places in the house, different devices. That dictates what kind of porn I'm going to look at. I don't know why. Like, when you're on the iPad, you like... If I'm sneaking around the wife's asleep late at night and I'm on the couch, I'm going to look at certain things. And if I'm in the back guest room, which I never do to my guest. When you feel safer.

I'll look at different stuff. I don't know if it's safer. If I'm looking on my phone, I'll go to this. You know what I mean? Well, like, give me an example. Like, different like,, needle is more in here and three sooms more in that kind of thing. It's always amateur variety, always.

Amateur variety. I can't stand women who get dressed up to look sexy and then have sex on the camera and they're looking at the camera. I hate it. I can't stand. Just the amateur stuff, which there's so much of it. Right.

Amateur stuff, it's awesome. It is still, right? You know, a lot of it's fake. Right, exactly. These days, but you know who cares? They're making a at right. I told you the wife she looked at the browser history She's looking for something who's actually she was totally answer this is years ago When we first started living together and she found amateur facials and that because she was typing in something in the computer And back before I really knew my way around the computers like six seven years ago

And it would type up what you know It's auto fill whatever was most recently looked at. And she, like, her heart was like, oh, that's so sweet. He's looking up ways to give me a facial. Oh, my God. It's a lyric by me, spa treatment. Yeah. But she thought I was writing, like, looking for amateur style, like how I could do it on my own for cheap. And then the site actually popped up and she realized it was far from that. How many women have been in that position? I always say that clear. Your browser history is people. Okay. just just use Chrome and go in Cognito.

You don't have to worry about anything. It's fantastic. Okay. That's great. You know, that might be the biggest tip of sex. It will ever give into anyone. Chrome. Chrome browser. Cognito. And Bing is actually not a great search engine for many things, but it is the best for porn. The hell he uses Bing. No one, porn users only for porn.

I read an article. They found their niche. I read an article the other day. I saw an article and they were talking about how Bing became capitals of porn and they're right. You know what, they're probably happy. They're like, what the hell we weren't doing well and you know what, sex sells. You got to go where you're at. You got to go where the money is.

All right, all right, Bing. Because I was like, what the hell is, I even hate when Bing just, I'm like, I didn't want to know what you Bing. Bing tried so hard. Remember when they were trying really hard. Yeah. How do you Bing? But they'll have like thumbnails and then you put the cursor over it

and most of them will show you a little preview without actually clicking on it. Which is fantastic. Oh yeah, Bing dude, you're like a Bing. Bing is pretty great. I didn't know that Bing is turned for porn but you know what, eventually we all turn to sex anyway. That's great.

Good for them. Great business model. Okay, let's get into some emails. This is all secondhand information my friend tells me by. By the way, dude, that's good to know. If I was to report I just I really do I'm gonna be watching more porn than I am watching. You're gonna get a lot of nipple going you're gonna have to do something. I know you know it's funny I wouldn't even have brought up the nipple thing because you know when you're doing a show that you often sometimes when you're in the moment you don't really remember

I mean the show I know I'm in the zone but sometimes you leave you like I don't remember what happened or what. No idea what happened. Right everyone everyone agrees to this. Who's on the radio? So my new intern today said to me, Lori, she was like, oh, so we're talking about masturbation month in the office and she said, oh, so right, you're gonna get your new orgasm. I was like, what? She goes, yeah, you said it on the show like two weeks ago.

And I was like, oh my God, I gotta fall through with that. So thank God, they listen. Yeah, I get such strange. Remember when you were talking about how whales without legs look like penises? I'm like, nope. Like sausages? No, I don't remember saying that. Exactly.

I'm like, anything's possible. I might have, but I remember. Okay, so everyone, I would be getting, we've been getting a lot of great emails lately, because I love hearing from you, and I read all your emails, feedback at sexwithm.a.com. And a lot of them we answer answer and we're just getting a system in place where we're actually going to be we don't always we want to let you know that we read it. I hope you're just listening to the two shows a week that come out but believe me we've probably answered it if you've even

emailed us and we're trying to get to them all until I die we'll answer every single one. But before we get into the first one about what the hell to do about your missing sex drive, I need to talk to you for a second about something that's super, super important, and it's beyond masturbation. And it acts to do it the toys. Oh no, it actually works with masturbation. Good vibrations, you guys.

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Yes, it's coming out like any friggin' minute. I don't know if it's out of, like, this week or next week, so you've got to get the cordless one. Oh, one of my new favorites is the Wevibe Tango, which is like, I just wrote a blog about it. It's just this little bullet vibrator that just kind of changed my life

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And just go to sexelome.com. Love you all. Thank you. Okay. Missing sex drive. Feedback at sex with emmy.com. Thanks for emailing me. Hi, Emily.

My question is about my sex drive. I've never really had one and was wondering if there are ways to increase this. I'm 25 and sometimes I feel like I should want sex more than I do. I've tried masturbating more and as I never orgasm before my friends convinced me to buy a vibrator which has helped a lot. Although I still have never orgasm during intercourse or even when I masturbate without my vibrator. Also, when I'm having sex with someone, it takes me a little while to get wet. Even when I masturbate, I have to always use lube.

It's this normal. I've asked my doctor about vaginal dryness, and she just brushed me off. Any advice or help you could give me would be greatly appreciated to last. Why are you laughing? I love the idea of a doctor just brushing her off. After she asks, it's probably a very uncomfortable,

hard to ask question. Well, you know the thing that the most medical doctor, like you're your gynecologist whoever you go to, I mean, I've heard they've like one class on sexuality, like really that gets one class, maybe that they skip, who knows, and they don't know how to talk about a lot of them. And people,

people, because they don't know they're wondering about how to give you your open heart surgery, I don't know, but they don't get trained in like how do you sensitively talk to lots of sex. A gynecologist would know a lot. Maybe your gyno is better than your general practitioner. I could do the general practitioner.

Okay, okay, sorry. I shouldn't say your gyno, I should say your general practitioner. Your gyno probably knows more than most, but here's the thing, and I think the gyno should try to bring it out of you. That if any doctor does, it does, but for men not going to a gynecologist, it's really uncomfortable to talk to your doctor too, man should try to bring it out of you, that if any doctor does, it does, but for men not going to a gynecologist,

it's really uncomfortable to talk to your doctor too, man to man to bring it up. And then as soon as when you do, they're kind of like, I don't know, take this pill, or whatever, you know, it's just... I have a really attractive doctor. She's Russian. But you don't want to tell her

about your sexual dysfunction? No, I don't. Well, I don't have any yet, but I'm worried about that. I'm worried about the prostate exam. Yeah, exactly. Well, you're worried about it. Are you like counting the days? Part of me is like, hey, I have a little bit worried about that. I'm worried about the prostate exam. Yeah, exactly. You're worried about it or are you counting the days? Yeah, part of me is like, hey, I have a little bit of an issue.

I'm going to go make an appointment. Whereas if it was just some old man with bad breath, I don't know if I'd make an appointment. Everybody, they don't tell the set. Yeah, I use condoms every single time. I, you know what I'm saying? People, yeah. So they lie to the doctors or they don't want

to talk about sex with the doctors, although you are looking for it. How do you have a hot Russian? That's not a good idea. Hot Russian doctor. Is that why you go to work? Oh, she's really good. Sometimes I go a little more often than I should, but I think it works out, right?

It's like when I was a kid and I, I want to want to do school, but I guess it's the point where you get a rat. Oh, no, no. But she did spit a little bit in my mouth. What? I was talking to me and she was looking in my mouth and I'm out of my mouth opening.

She was talking to me and a little bit of spit, flew out of her mouth and went into mine and she was mortified. She was so sad, like worried and upset and so. Did you like, like, it and say, I will taste this spit-frown? I have not eaten anything or gargled since. Exactly, it's been like a year and a half. Okay, so, what the hell?

Oh, doctors, her doctor, Brian, no, I'm like, where the hell are you? The doctor brushed her off and I think that, like, she'll be like, oh, you're fine or whatever. I just think all of the doctors are busy these days. They see, always, but, you know, they got a patient going and they often don't make the time, which is why you should listen to my show.

Email me, go see, try to find some good resources. There are people who can have with questions like me and others in your world and it might be a doctor, but you should try anyway, whatever. I don't know what I'm fucking saying. Let's answer your question. Here's the things to last. You have to stop shooting all over yourself.

She's shooting. She's shooting. She's shooting. I should do this. I should do that. Why don't I want this? Why don't I want that? Shooting. I've never heard that.

I'm not sure if I'm a fan of it. I should do. Why? Because it sounds like something bad. Oh, it's like the party joke. Well, here's the thing. Putting unnecessary pressure and stress in yourself does more harm than good.

We all know that. So just chill. Because having low sex drive is the most common sexual challenge that most women face. Are you in stress? Are you taking medications? Any depression, anxiety, self-confidence issues? All these factors affect your sex drive,

having issues with your spouse. It happens. Happens to men too, right? Anderson, sometimes you just don't want sex. Or never that, never happens. Not a night, I don't like that. Happens with women more, I gotta say. So, you gotta figure out,

you gotta get to the bottom of it. You can go to your doctor, go to checkup, you know, if you find out that it's meds, you can get them altered, you can just try different like estrogen, testosterone therapy, but you're only 25 years old, so here's the thing. I think that you're really overthinking this and worried a lot about it where I think you're completely,

you're still exploring your body, which I love. It's totally acceptable that you had your first orgasm with a vibrator and you haven't been able to orgasm with someone else. Welcome to the club. That's the most women, right? Yeah, it's totally fine. You're on your sexual way.

Happy masturbation month. Go to it. So use lots of lube. Right, Anderson, we love lube. Lube should be in every single light stand. Lube can help you have orgasms and you're masturbating. It can help enhance the experience. You don't get as wet. Okay. That is completely normal for women and fine. Using loob is highly recommended. That's why there is loob.

That's why they exist. But you know my big. Exactly. And my reasoning with loob is that a lot of women feel shame because there is a stigma attached to it where they think, well, he's going to think, I'm not turned on or there's a problem and I don't want to hurt his feelings so therefore I don't want to bring out the lub. And the guys, they're fine. They do, though, and the guys don't want to pull out the lub because they're like, oh, I'm not making her wet and I don't want to even recognize that's happening. But let me tell you some guys, there's certain times a month where women will be really turned on. It doesn't matter. Same thing. I have exactly the same thing this time. And then a week

later, she's not our body's change over time. Our body's changed from week to week. And so just use friggin' loop. Here's the other thing. If you're using your toys, water-based loop is always best. And another thing, maybe you're not getting enough for play finally. Like, I mean, I get that you're not wet, but have you ever thought like, are you warming up? Is he going down on you? How's the floor going? Figure that part out too. So there's lots of things here. Don't trip on any of this.

You are exactly what you need to be. Just keep exploring, having fun, use, leave, communicating, good times. Sex drive, we're gonna get it back. Figure out all those things and go to your doctor. We should check it out if you haven't. Okay. Emily, if a girl has sex with a guy

and she thinks it was horrible, what are the chances of her doing it again with a guy and she thinks it was horrible, what are the chances of her doing it again with that guy? This is obviously for no reason. Oh yeah, I also want to say, when you email me, please tell me where you live and how you listen to the show and how old you are. Yeah, definitely. Okay.

Joe, I got good news for you. Women are not as worried about it as you think. The first time, when it's the first time really that great with anyone, you see if it is, because it's the doonist or you've wasted or whatever. But really, the first time is not as good as like... The first time is just more about the act actually being completed. It's more like the anticipation. We've been there now.

We've crossed that threshold and now we get to move on and actually do things and try different things. Exactly. The first one is just getting across the line. Right. It's not often that great for anyone. And if you challenge me in this, I'll say, maybe you were drinking or yeah, it was just fiction.

The only person that has to be great is if you know it's gonna be the last one. You know what I mean? Right. But so one extent. Make sure that it's really good. Like a buzzkill when I stand if you can't get it up or something, you're afraid they're gonna like put it out on Twitter or something.

Right, well. It's a problem. I wouldn't do that. Okay, so don't worry about it. Women are far more lenient than you think, Joe. Like, we're not thinking like even if you like ejected you, I don't know why you were bad actually. This is what I kind of want to know what he did

because he didn't tell me. I love it. Like, I'm thinking like women are pretty forgiving about sex, you know, unless you insist on like trying on her underwear or something or, you know, called her brother wrong name more than once, you know, okay, we're pretty lenient, even if you can't. Don't you think?

Yeah, yeah, I think that ladies are very... And some girls might be turned on at the end of her. We're super lenient and we're cool about it. So... We talk about it, but here's the thing. If she likes you, she was in bed with you, and you didn't do anything that was super offensive,

I'm sure it's fine, do you have a history together? Yeah. Well, well, she laughing at your junk and then she left. I mean, what happened? I think it's fine. Don't overthink this. You're totally tripping on it. And so, um, you know, it really depends, you know, and also like how she feels, ask her out again, but don't worry about it. And also, um, I was going to say, if she's willing to try it again in the bedroom, let her take the lead. Pay more attention this time, see what she wants. Move slowly, all that stuff.

But I think you're gonna get a second round, guys. We all worry about this stuff, but believe me. I mean, yes, five times it was really bad, then you know, I'd say it's time to talk quits. One time don't trip. Okay, non latex condoms. Dear Emily, I listen to your show frequently and I have a question. I'm gonna hook up with a girl who's allergic to latex. I've heard you talk about your favorite non-lay-text condom.

What is it? Thanks. Glenn. Well, Glenn, I'm gonna tell you, it's skin. It's SKYN condoms and they're made of polyisoprene, which is a non-lay-text material, which is super durable, and it actually, like polyisoprene, which is a non-latex material, which is super durable, and they come lubricated,

they come in a bunch of different kinds, but their tagline is the closest thing to wearing nothing, and literally they actually feel like you're wearing nothing, and they feel really good and they're durable, and I love them because the thing about latex is the more you're exposed to latex, you could actually develop latex allergy over time to just go safe and get skin. I think they're great, you can get them at drug stores and all over.

That's strange, it's the more that you're exposed to it, the more. Yeah, like doctors and stuff. Usually that gets the other way around. You have latex gloves. Well, I give you ease your way into something your body gets used to it and builds up a resistance. Right, not latex. Yeah, and they also have, I just like the way their package, they have larger ones for the larger mail.

They have leaves, all that stuff. One of them sell best, I bet the big ones sell best. Do you think guys just line in and they like, cut them out? I mean, but the thing is, what if you bought those just to look tough? That is, we were talking about this, my friend. She's like, you know what, really pissed off her new boyfriend. Oh my god, was this Brandy Glantville maybe?

Oh, Brandy Glantville, do you know she is from Real House with her? She was on my show last week. Oh, so funny. She was like something about, she was like, her new boyfriend found condoms in her drawer. And she was like, you know, he wasn't so pissed about that.

He was just pissed at their magna. They're big. Yeah, that's always a bummer for guys. Like, oh, that actually won't fit me. Very fun. Do they sell like small condoms? No, no, those would be never ever sell. They could throw our micro, micro-fallowspienesses out there.

Dude, you don't want any condoms to smell anywhere around you. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble.

You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You don't want to be in big trouble. You know what I mean? Male in the box of really tiny little goners. I got girls from like my past, would probably love to send me some small goners, just as a fuck you ever now and again. Like on my birthday.

Can you see the small penis or just to make you laugh? No, it's bitches. Yeah, exactly. That's what they do, they go right for the penis. So check those out. Okay, Emily. Emily, Emily, I'm 27 year old male. I'm listening from Wallow Ngun, Australia.

Well done. Thank you. I've been listening for about six months now. I love this show. I think you're doing a great job. My question is in regards to lack of sexual experience. I was with my high school sweetheart for seven years, closely followed by another long-term relationship for three years.

My only other sexual experience being a single one-night stand. I'm currently in the year relationship with the girl of my dreams. She got pregnant the first time we slept together and our daughter is now three months old. We had committed to each other before we find out she was pregnant so we aren't just in it because of that. My partner has a lot more sexual experience than I do. Ringing from sex with multiple people to bisexuality, to many different scenarios, i.e. three sums and stuff. And the like, he actually said. And well, I don't care that she has experienced this.

I'm rather glad she had the chance to. I find myself jealous that I haven't had the chance to try any of this myself. I should also say that I consider myself by curious, though never had the opportunity to go any further than fantasy. I know, Anderson, it's getting hot in here, it's getting building here. Our sex life is great otherwise. We own a few sex toys, i.e. vibrators,

flashlight, basic bondage, and plenty of loops. We are very open with each other. She knows all that. She doesn't like the idea of nonmonogamy, so that's out of the question. My question is, does this jealousy I'm feeling past? Is there a way to get past it myself? Or do I just have to suck it up and deal with the ever lasting curiosity?

Would love any comment you have in my situation. Cheers B. Thanks for an amazing show. Okay, what? What? Your face? It says it all. Yeah, that's a tough one. Dude, there are so many multi layers here. So here is a thing B. How old B?

People tell me how friggin old you are. 27, he told me. He ran. You win B. He's 27 and told me where he lives in Australia. I love him. That's plus 10 years up because Australian life is tough. So 37. Dude, you can't do that. Okay. You need to ask yourself B.

Do you think you'll ever be able to accept the fact that you aren't able to explore these curiosities? Because then you have to make peace with it. In my opinion, I don't think these feelings will ever completely go away until you have the opportunity to fulfill the desires in your own. Like I think he's not gonna be,

and if you're bisexual, can we just get to the bisexual part? I mean, if you think you're bisexual and you've never tried, I mean, let's look at like Bruce Jenner, for example, Trans-Jent came out as transgender. Did you watch that whole thing? I can't even talk to about I. I watch the interview. I mean, which was not my style, but I'm like, you know what? Everyone's gonna be talking about this. I'm sick of being on the outside. I feel like such a, we have to, okay, here's the point. Everyone else has you guys, you all know. But what I'm saying is these kind of things like you're young, you're, oh, I

know, but what I'm saying is these kind of things like you're young, you're, oh, I, and what I know from, you know, the work I do is that typically it will not go away. You might repress it for a while, but it's something that you want to experience. So, you know what, with the bisexual for guys, I don't know if you agree with me here, but maybe this is wrong to say or think, but I think most guys that consider themselves by their gay. Yeah, or they're whatever people don't believe in bisexual. There's some exploring that. I think the women can love,

or be attracted to other women too, because you guys are the attractive species. I mean, attractive sex. No, typically on the spectrum, like if you look at like the Kinsey spectrum, the whole thing, I mean women are more fluid in our sexuality. We're like the, the spectrum men are usually like, the Kinsey of sexuality, one to ten, you know, the whole scale.

Right, yes, yes. Men are more like one, women can be like three, four or five, like we're fluous men. Because you guys are good looking. Right. No, it's not. It goes deeper than that. That's like surface level. But listen, I think this isn't going to go away.

So I think, and you said you tell everything, you tell her that you think you're bisexual, you said you wanted to have some of these experiences, but if you told her the bisexual thing, so you got to get on that. Regarding the jealousy, not sure this is going to subside either. If it's not just jealousy, and I want to know, is it just jealousy? Or you really want to try these things? Because that's totally different. If you're just jealous, like there's some guys who are like, I can't believe you're

slub about these guys and they have all these penises in your mouth and you're giving 62 blow jobs. Or you're jealous because you're like, damn, I want to experience that thought. Hey, you jealous on both sides, probably. Yeah, so it's like all of it. There's a lot going on here. And so I just think you have to, this is why if you've got to communicate with her,

I don't trip in the fact that you don't as much experiences or, but just trip in the fact that you look at the fact that you actually want to try these things. And there has to be some serious communication going out with her. And I would just bring it up. You've got nothing to lose. You guys are married, you're together, and time to do it.

Right, she's married, right, totally. Okay, what are your long-term relationships? You gotta talk, I don't even care if you guys are gonna be together for one night, or okay, let me put it this way. If you've been together for three months, you should be talking about your sex life. You should be talking about your desires

and what you want and all that stuff. So people wait way too damn long. And you gotta figure it out for the kid, for the kid's sake. You gotta figure it, even if that means therapy and totally being open and honest, you got to figure it out for the kid. For the kid's sake. You got to figure it. Even if that means therapy and totally being open and honest, you got to think about the kid for your sexual charges. Yeah, I was just looking at it.

I was like, were they married yet? You have the kid exactly. I mean, so yeah. Because the kid. My God obviously proves of your relationship. Right. Right. So congratulations.

We were talking about first time sex. Sometimes it's bad, so no one's even a baby. Sometimes. For the sake of the kid you have a baby. Yeah. Sometimes. For the sake of the kid, you got to do whatever it takes. You do have to do whatever it takes to make this work. And I'm telling you, it's not going to go away. I want you to stay with her. And I want you guys to say maybe get some sexual things.

You can see a sex therapist, a real estate therapist, ASAP. OK. There's a woman who has a hard time with Doggy Style. What's hard about that? You know, Doggy Style position. Familiar with it, yes. You know, it's funny. What's hard about that? You know Doggy Style position. I'm familiar with it, yes. You know it's funny it's men's favorite. I'd say it's like the top position that men can finish in most easily. Would you agree or top three? I don't know. Not for you. It's okay. Okay, a lot of men love it. A lot of men think it's just because you can get

your you can get the deepest penetration in that position. So a lot of them in like that. But here's Sarah. She's got issues with it. I love your podcast. My boyfriend and I have been having a hard time doing a doggy style. He's having a hard time staying in me. We have both done it before with other people and I'm sure what the problem is.

He's on the smaller side and I do have a booty. Could that be the issue? Is there anything you could suggest to help us? I hope there's hope because I do love being in that position. That poor bastard. Well, okay, so there's an issue here. It's the combination of size and technique. So, you know, well-earned-out man can hammer-way in dog-style? Well-earned-out. He has a full range of motion,

you know, he's more of an anchor inside you, but a smaller penis can still make doggy style work, so do not be upset. Do not fret Sarah. It's very pleasurably I might add, but there needs to be less vigorous in and out. So we can't do the in and out, totally fine, let that go, but what causes, because that's what's causing him to slip out so frequently. So instead, suggest to him that he uses more of a hip movement. Have him swivel his hips while he's thrusting, keeping his pelvis closer to your back end. Does that make sense to you? Does that make sense? Have him swivel his hips while he's thrusting, keeping his... So just don't have him go in and out, but he's more swiveling.

Okay? Another good position. Lay flat in your stomach on a bed or a surface, have them lay in top of you. So this limits his range of motion, so it'll have an easier time. You can also put a pillow underneath you, underneath your pelvis, so you still have that angle. But you've got the big butt that you're talking about. Yeah. Exactly.

So just put a little pillow under it. And the reason why, you know, and also another thing that you can do is, no, that's what I'm not even going to go there with this one. I just think that you should use a pillow and lie flat. And that also, yeah, limited range. Oh, here's an art of thing. The position, that position that I just talked about laying down creates a tighter space. So what that means is there's more friction for him.

And then there's a better likelihood of him likely to have him hitting your g spot. Here's the other thing. One more thing about doggy style is talking to playboy magazine about this today is that, the thing about doggy style for a lot of women, they can't have a g spot orgasm until their clitoris is stimulated. And so this is a great opportunity for you

to use a little clitoral vibrator. He can use his hands, use your hands with lots of lube. Don't be shy about touching yourself and rubbing yourself because for a lot of women, it's actually, they have them at the same time during this vision, so it can be so much better. So try some of these tweaks and let me know how it goes. And don't look over your shoulder and go,

I think it's because you're too small. I've got my nose for bigger and it stayed in. Yeah, exactly. And it opens and joins, he's the magnum. That is a bomber, but you know she loves them, wants to it stayed in. Yeah, exactly. And he opens the Jorunceys the Magdum. That is a bummer, but you know she loves them, wants to work with it. I love it. Those are some good tricks.

What's it called when you... tricks, like in video games, like you learn that. What's it called when you're like... Cheats. Cheats. These are like cheats on how to have it better. It's called the trick. Sex cheats.

That actually should be my next book. Okay. How are we all doing here? We're good. Good luck. Good luck. Good luck. Good luck.

It's tough one. Do you guys ever, do you have any friends who have confirmed to do and said that I'm worried about my penis size? I might cut through it every night. Oh, dude, you're right. I'm the line. I'm a love line, you guys. We do love line.

If you know what it is, check it out. It's a podcast. It's Sunday through Thursday 10 to midnight check for your little affiliate how do they find their local fillets a lot of our markets actually are Monday through Friday 10 to midnight okay loveline show.com but if you ever have a yeah love line show talk no I think that might be a little dormit right now okay what I've done over and this and that we're getting that but we're on Twitter and all that.

You can find it. Well, you can say, right, legendary shows, been on for over 30 years. 30 years, Dr. Drew, we have a good time. I'm on Thursday, so you live the Friday podcast. For guys that think that they have small penises, I direct you and everyone's seen the movie, but to the hangover with Ken Jung, who is a doctor,

he's actually a real life doctor. He's as smart and as schooled as Dr. Drew. Actually, I used to have him fill in for Dr. Drew on a daytime show that I produced with Dr. Drew back in the day, as well as Loveline. He filled in a few times. Oh, okay. Super nice guy, really great guy.

But Ken Jung does have microfallus, and he shows it, and I believe it's a hangover. I'm like 90% of the number of people in the age. It's like, very small. It's like, it looks like a thumb. It looks like a baby's thumb. It looks very small. At any time, you're really feeling bad about it yourself.

Look for that. Cause I find gifts of it online. There are people that make it. And you're going much better by yourself. All the illnesses in yourself. Women are not as concerned about it as you are. Plus, yeah, you're not my, you're not a junk. No, and also like, I talked about this in the show

a few weeks ago, I believe or all the time that women suddenly came out that show that 80% of men are like worried about it. It's like one of their top concerns about their penis. So it's much do you know that? And only 40% of women like care at all. So can you guys just listen to that? Whatever, do we need to get through you analytics?

Do you need some visuals? But if you're worried about your penis, chances are you're worried about something else and you're just kind of blaming it on the penis. You think they're using the penis as a scapegoat? Absolutely, yeah, yeah. Yeah, guys that are obsessed about their penis and the size of their penis,

there's plenty of other issues that you're just avoiding and just like the other issues. Yeah, so just transfer to another issue and then you have better sex. Because you know what, again, that we talked earlier the woman who called him a, we should take freaking collars. who wrote about their sex drive is that that our body issues and body image and worried about like how we look in bed

how we look naked are one another big killer of our sex dress. Anderson what? You're a well-traveled sexual woman right? Yeah how many how many times honestly have you been really disappointed by the size of a penis? Well traveled where it says I can be my trip to Vietnam How many times honestly have you been really disappointed by the size of a penis? Well traveled where it says like me my trip to Vietnam How many times in my life have I been disappointed by the size of a penis like

like Like where you're seeing it for the first time or you're feeling it for the first time you're like, oh shit You know, know, not, I can't even remember any time. Yeah, see, guys subtle. No, I was trying to think because I wanted to be really honest with everyone. So there was one guy who was small, but he, there was way other bigger problems. Well, it's a bummer, yeah. So it wasn't about that.

So Anderson, tell me about, I feel about this. If you have a small dick and yourself a guy in bed. Exactly, that was his thing. So I was like, why am I putting up with this and you're not even like, you know, here's a thing. Small penis too, you're known for a, you know, here's the thing. Small penis too.

We, you're known for a lot of them. Really great oral sex and pleasing woman. Yeah, you got a conversation. You got an overcompensate in other areas. Okay, how, what, how are you? What, tell me about them? The last week actually we just did our five year anniversary episode with.

Congratulations. The listeners, the long time listeners, I think they enjoyed it. We did a retrospect, we looked back a lot. Now we're back to the meat and potatoes, what makes the show go. This week, we did top five summer movie previews. There's 140 movies coming out this summer, in between now and the end of summer. What's the one you're most excited about?

I went over, I think about 10. Oh my God. Yeah. I scoured all, read about all of them, looked up, everything. This is the winter preview and the summer preview preview the two that I put in a ton of research. But you can't see me as you're just reading and then you're predicting. Yeah and we're predicting because we you know we see who's in it we see with the caliber of writer director you know in the track records so

usually we're pretty good we're about 80 percent maybe 90 percent for me. It's sounded like a humble brag but of the movies that I actually recommend of summer movies and winter movies turn out to be like last year. Last year Guardians of the Galaxy, which no other than the actual real Comic Con nerds were excited about. That was my number one most anticipated movie and ended up being like the smash hit of the summer. I didn't like it as much as I was. What is a skill? What is skill? Yeah, yeah. Okay, so check out the film vault check our Anderson and I'm Anderson Okay, come see you guys again May 15th. How's the Hollywood what and we talked about roar? Roar is this crazy movie. It's about it's about 120 big cats and they actually like a Melanie Griffiths in it

And it's from 1981 and they actually like maimed 70 of the cast and crew There was like over a thousand stitches in ministry. Being re-released. And never got a release in the United States that in the day. And now it's just seen the light of the day. I went in adept about raw. Okay, I love when you do that.

Okay, love it. All right, check it out. Go see Emily. Oh yeah, yeah, it's all my, it's kind of my website, social media, follow me on Twitter, sex, family, Facebook, sex, family, Instagram. All that stuff, just do it.

If you like the show, it's kind of like you get me during the day. You get some funny little information, you get blogs, you get good shit. Okay, so everyone, thanks for listening to the show. Oh, we need interns. We're hiring, being intern. It's super fun. You get lots of sex toys and good times and free sex tips 24-7. Thanks so much.

And also, yeah, do you like the show? Tell your friends about it. Like, friends don't, don't, friends don't you like the show? Tell your friends about it. Like friends don't let friends not have the best sex of your life, so tell them. And thanks for listening, it was good for you, email me, feedback at sexwithaml.com. Hey everyone. Okay, we're going to continue the conversation about penises just for another little second here because some penises, they're all like snowflakes just like vaginas. Some last longer than others, they look different, they're big, they're small, and not everyone

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