Sex With Emily - Sex, Love & Lubricant with Carmen Electra

Episode Date: August 26, 2015

On today’s show, Emily welcomes Baywatch babe turned full blown pop culture icon Carmen Electra into the studio. Carmen takes Emily on a trip down memory lane and dishes on her road to success, her turn ons and turn offs, not to mention some of her steamiest sex fantasies. What makes this international sex symbol feel the sexiest? What’s her biggest sexual pet peeve? Carmen and Emily talk all these dirty details, get into some important dating do’s and dont’s, and trade insider tips on how to use lube to its full potential.  Also, Emily and Anderson discuss a cautionary tale for places not to put your penis (also known as Sex in the News) and answer emails from a couple distressed listeners. Whether you’re getting tripped up talking to women or are fed up with your partner’s opposition to oral, Anderson and Emily have advice to help you get what you want, both in the dating world and in the bedroom.  If you need a trick or two to turn up the heat in your sex life, then this Sex With Emily podcast is the one for you! From foreplay foibles to dick pics to Carmen Electra’s favorite sex toy this show is full of answers, anecdotes and advice that you don’t want to miss out on. Tune in! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Change up your sex life. Thanks for listening. [♪ music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing in background, music playing You got a boyfriend? Because my man E here, he just got his heart broken. He thinks you're kind of cute. The girls got a hair sandwich. Oh my. The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common knowledge? What do you mean, like laundry? It shrinks? Can we not talk about sex so much?

Are you kidding me? Oh my god. I'm off here so. Being bad feels pretty good. You know, Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between. For more information, go to sexthumbly.com.

Have you been to Sex with Emily.com? I think there's so many fun things happening there. Do you know that we post articles every day, blog posts, videos, things that will, you know, enhance your sex life? All these questions you guys email me, I bet you we've answered it on there for blog or podcast, so check it out. I'm excited. Carmen Electra is going to be joining us shortly, which is exciting right Anderson, but right now I have Anderson who's just as sexy. What up, M?

How you doing? As sexy as Carmen Electra. Yeah, that is false. You're super sexy. Advertising, you can be sued. Do yourself out Anderson's picture. You can be sued for lying to your listeners, but thank you. Yeah, I mean it, I mean it.

How you doing? I'm doing good, I'm doing well. I'm crazy as per usual, but not as crazy as you. So that's all it. I mean it. How you doing? I'm doing good. I'm doing well. I'm a crazy Per usual, but not as crazy as you so that's it's all right. I feel like I think I seem comfortable so far guys She hasn't been in her purse once and she's been here for 10 minutes. I'm always in the bag. Aren't I you're all we have we we've Established that always in the bag. I know I've got a lot going on in the bag Yeah, so Anderson yeah, I'm going to be in New York City

Oh for she for she. I've seen talk about for she. Yes, sexual health expo. It's September 18th, the 20th in New York City. And you've heard we talk about it for like the last year, we had one in Los Angeles, one in Phoenix and now New York and is the leading sex educators. It's for two days, open to the public. And kids go, um, probably not probably a question.

It's a weird question. Sex education is a hot button issue and a lot of people think kids don't know what they need to know. They don't and that's going to be the next one that I produce because I do believe that kids do not know where to go for sex information. We for the wee ones. For the wee's, wee's sex. Yeah.

So that's funny. But I'm giving away tickets too. So here's the thing. Even if you're listening and you're like, oh, which is gonna be a New York, if you've got friends in New York or in the New York area, tell them to come because there's nothing like this where people can show up, listen to top-sex educators,

like talk about things that you really care about that you want to know about, especially in relationship, top-sex products, and I'm giving away free tickets. So email me feedback at sexwithelm.com if you want to go. And another thing I need to tell you before we get into all this craziness of the show and happiness is that tonight I am teaching a workshop tonight.

Tonight. Busy lady. I know. How's the Hollywood? Are you doing it? Oh, not on air. No. No, but tonight I'm teaching it and it's August 25th.

If you're listening right now, 8 to 10 pm. And again, if you don't live in a light, I have friends to come. But we want you there. It is it is it is backdoor pleasure. It's everything youth if you're listening right now, 8 to 10 PM. And again, if you don't live in LA, tell your friends to come, but we want you there. It is backdoor pleasure. It's everything you need to know. And I'm not saying just anal sex is backdoor play. There's a lot of nerve endings back there. Things that make you feel good and people are so overwhelmed by it.

So we're going to take one. Anatomy tips, things that will maximize your pleasure, butt plugs, massage techniques, all that. All that stuff. So check it out. How's our Hollywood on Sunset Boulevard? Sunset, right across the street from the Whiskey-a-Go-Go. Whiskey-a-Go-Go, yeah, are you gonna come?

I know, you probably know everything you need to know about your own sex. Yeah, I need to know nothing more about that. I'm good. Do you like it? Hey, man, as a guy that's been on Love Line for 17 years, I know all about the sexual experience over there. That's amazing. So yeah.

Wait, 16, sorry, I give myself an extra year for some reason. I don't know why. I see more professional. Yeah, I guess so. I'm so lucky that I get to have you on with me here. So Anderson, have you heard about this? I got some sex in the news here. Oh, sex in the news.

Have you heard about these, about you heard about Ashley Madison? I got hacked into. Of course I heard about Ashley Madison. So we talked about this. I've already packed my bags. Of course I heard about Ashley Madison. So we talked about this. I've already packed my bags, I'm ready to move. Right. I'm getting kicked out. You were one of those cheaters.

Yeah. Luckily my name is Anderson Cowan and it's pretty hard to duplicate that. But imagine the poor guy named Mike Johnson. Exactly. You know what I mean? His wife's gonna be like, is this you? Right. I know.

There's a lot of us. Uh huh. Sure thing. Well here's the freaking thing is if they now release the information and they're starting to slowly release it, the customer data stolen by hackers from cheating website, Ashley Madison, was posted online Tuesday. The online dating site of people interested in cheating on their significant others was hacked about a month ago by a group calling itself the impact team. They promised I'd release the information

gain from the breach, including customers credit card information and secret sexual fantasies. If the site was not shut down. Some of the data was posted on the so-called dark web on Tuesday. The dark web can only be viewed with a special browser and isn't searchable using Google or most common search engines. As promised, the information that was posted included customer names credit card. Are you laughing? It was a picture in all the housewives who live in the rural towns that are jealous as fuck and they're going on the dark web trying to figure out where to find this list.

I know, where's that web? And they should not be on the dark web those those people. They should be on the dark web because what's happened to the cellar? Yeah, the dark web, we were on it not too long ago and the first thing that popped up was like, see this man have sex with a carcass. It's like no, I'd rather not. I know, exactly, don't go to the dark web we were on it not too long ago and the first thing that popped up was like see this man have sex with a carcass. I know. I know exactly don't go to the dark web but I'm gonna tell you

what they did fine. Okay so 33 million accounts were leaked Josh Dugor from the show the Dugor's what's it called the Dugor? Dugor? I'm really into pop culture. So he had a paid account. Oh that's the kid from like the family with me. Yeah, the dougards. Right? Yeah, the dougards. Right. What's it called? Like 19 and well, because it was like 19 kids, but you know, and fairness to him.

It'd be kind of hard to hook up with anyone who's not related to you when you're exactly got that many. Last year. Right. Exactly. But he had account up until May 2015. Right when his molestation charges came to light. He had purchased this.

This is what he purchased a $200 a fair guarantee a guarantees an affair within three months or your money back This is so wrong this site. How do they do that? I wonder like if like the three months is almost up and like all right We got to like get Becky in there because Exactly. That's what you want back up. So like like your Madison would be like an example like you have Madison You're like your assistant would be like yeah,. Like you have a Madison. I can assume you're like your assistant. Would be like yeah, you gotta get out there to make this guarantee. You gotta make this guarantee.

Just like her exactly. Not that I would do that. I wouldn't farm her out. I've done some things but not that. How did they guarantee that though? I don't know. I mean, I don't know how they guaranteeing. People could probably be like, oh, I was on it.

Just looking around and running my money back. I wonder how and he will ask for their money back. But what life is short, have is a fair. Is there, is there, that's the slogan. They're slogan. But he said that, yeah, he purchased that and then he, you know, he has recently

issued the public admission for a fair. But here's the other thing. There were 15,000 email addresses with the dot, M-I-L or dot, gov email address. So all these politicians, and military, and military, yeah, and a fair

lesser number came from Fortune 500 companies Sexual interests are also included in leaked information and they've got Celia Walden peer peers more Pierce Morgan's wife It's signing up for the site while working on an article. She says I believe that that. I'm going to buy that. I'm going to buy that. Really? Yeah. 86% are male users. So this is another reason why you shouldn't have a fair.

You should either talk to your spouse, try to spice up your love, if you're going to divorce. You know what's real shitty about this whole thing though. I mean, I'm on both sides of the fence with this one. I understand the need for such a business model to be out there. Right. But I also think that it's despicable, but I think that it's, you know, if it's not illegal, so why not, you know, have it, especially if there's a business for it.

Yeah. But what they were promising for like a premier membership for these folks that got hacked was that all their information would be scrubbed after like 60 days, but Ashley Madison wasn't bothering to actually do that. So these people should be really pissed. Cause they actually paid premium membership

so that they would be insured that their information was not going to go public. So now what is Ashley Madison still like, is still running? I think Ashley Madison's got to be like, it's got to be like, it's got to be a game over. Right, I imagine how much money they made too.

Let's start one. That's brilliant. Sex with Emily. That's the need, we will fill it. Yeah. I will not have sex. It's so funny though. I only will like someone to be like,

you have sex with me. I'm like, no, but thanks for having those questions with that mic catharine's friend No, but he's been okay. So some background yeah, and last week's love lines of her story So love line last week was interesting. So I hope love line is a nationally syndicate rated show for you for me talk about it Dr. Drew's been on Anderson's been out for 25 years and And uh, you know, I was into the podcast too of love line. But last week, we had millionaire matchmaker, Patty Stinger on, who was also on my show. And since it was matchmaking, Mike says, I'm going to fix you up my friend Victor. So Victor called

into the show and Mike tried to arrange a little, you know, fix up a little thing. And Victor said he was interested in dating me because I said, well, what do you think we've been common? He says, well, you like sex and I like sex, which I thought, you know, was brilliant. It would be a great match. But then Mike gave my phone number. He's texting me. I am.

Why would you give this fucker your phone number? Mike gave my number. He texted me and I didn't text him back. I did text him back once maybe, but. Now Mike was telling me last night, I think it was off air though, that he was saying that he wanted to have sex with you in some kind of like a bob or something.

A hubby or some kind of hat or something. I don't know. Well, no, he actually said to me very clean. I was a fan of it for you. He's text clean so far. There has been no dick picks or anything. I think if he was like my sister and I get offended and upset with people are dumb and they think.

My brother doesn't even think of me as a sister. That's really sweet. I got you. I know. So yeah, no dick picks. He was actually telling everybody to of me as a sister. That's really sweet. Well, I got you. I know. So yeah, no dick pics. He was actually telling everybody to eat for dinner or something. You know what that means? What?

Small dick. Oh my God. Why? Because he's nothing else. Because he's not showing you. And how would you know if you get dick pics? Not that I want one. People don't send dick pics out.

Have you ever gotten them? No. I've never been to it. No, or have I sent any naked photos? Why? 2000 episodes, sex with Emily. No one sent dick pics. I don't know if we ever got on a Facebook. I don't think so. No.'ve never did nor have I sent any naked photos 2000 episodes sex with Emily no one sent it We ever got on face. I don't think so no

You think dick pics we don't get dick pics We do apparently somebody Madison's claiming that dick pics come into the old sex with them Here get on the mic get on the mic Madison Madison producer Madison get on the mic. Yeah, which Mike green go green Madison, producer, Madison, get on the mic. Get on the mic. Which mic? Green, go green. Okay.

Madison, we're filling me in. Yeah, no, we actually got a, we got a dick pick, a pretty serious dick pick. What does that mean? What does a serious dick pick? I wish that I could show all the audience, all the people listening at the picture, but it was from a guy and like this.

Wow, I would think so. I love the fatal bottom of me. It says, okay. Dic Dick for you was the subject line, right? Of the of the email and I opened it and is a enormous black man. Uh-huh. And an enormous penis. You didn't have to say enormous black man. You could just say enormous. We all know it's black. Yeah, I mean, it enormous man with an enormous penis attached and he is just looking into the camera like a serial killer. And I sent it to the interns and was like like, hey, just a reminder to check feedback.

Oh my God. Yes. So we don't get that. I mean, maybe I'm going to start tomorrow. We're going to get like eight million. One a week, maybe like, sometimes we get a couple and we get them in our Facebook messages and we get them in feedback.

And sometimes we get them actually in Twitter. OK. No, it's nice. I said they can't sue me for sexual harassment because it's sex and the MLA. So like, when the courts throw it out, it's nice. I said they can't sue me for sexual harassment because sex is the MLA. So like when the courts throw it out, it's like one of the interns are you trying to sue me because they can't make a special job.

So I told me that the listeners are beating off as they listen a lot of them. So that's nice. I really hope that they're just trying to better sex and relationships, but maybe they do beat off everyone somehow. Shout out dirty to them. What are you wearing?

I think a lot of them think that you're a matam and that you're gonna like set them up because they always email you like Emily's. I'm looking for hot single girl, please to sex with. I'm like, we don't see that. You've already got the model halfway built. Ashley Madison is going down. Right.

Everyone doesn't listen to me like assumes it anyway. When I hand on my business card, they're like, oh, I'm going to listen. I'm not a prostitute. Sex with Emily, it's kind of misleading. It is misleading because it's actually not about sex with me. I've really cut that off. And I actually know, but I've never, till this day, sent a nude photo of myself to anyone with my product.

But then I feel like, you know, I was having, it's a serious discussion about this, my friends are like, never like guys want that. My friends like looked at me. She was like, Emily, but you don't need, like if you're dating someone, like guys are visual, they need, they get, and I'm like, I just don't trust guys, they get, they get, this is what they do. They get the naked picture of the, whoever they're sitting next to,

they're like, check out this, check out the, you know what, I've received naked pictures from girls. I have never dreamed of showing them to other, because you're like the good guy. I'm showing them to. You're good, good. But guys. No, but I'm like, I'm,

I'm every guys, all my guy friends, I'm like, their guy friend, I'm like, their best. Hey, guys, guys were having relationships And being just fine long before iPhones with capability long before polar roads. Exactly. Thank you very much I'm not doing it. I'm holding out for as long as I can Okay, if you're gonna do it do it now don't wait till you're 65-7. Yeah, that's not bad. Yeah, that's why it's so funny Yeah, you're right. My mom always said to me me, I did do a, I did do a, I was in this movie called I'm Sexetic.

She was like, what? You were saying, okay, yeah. No, I was going to tell you like three different things popped in my head, but I never said pick it. But I remember doing this movie, I'm a sexetic, which I was not, was a feature film. Did you know what she does? We talked about this briefly a while ago.

Okay, well, I was in this film that came out like, two dozen, like 10 years ago. And it's on Netflix and stuff like that. But I would not show my breasts in the film and he really wanted me to. And then my mom, the time was like, well, this is the best job I'm gonna look. She always said it's me.

I'm like, wow. Which is not true. I look at it and I'm like, I'm not doing it. Not true. Your mom tried to, did the producer get to your mom, do you think? No, but she was like, well, what do you, I'm like, mom. She wasn't saying that, but they wanted me to show

more of my body and I'm like, I don't want to. But then I also did these Buduara photos once because there was a woman on my show who was like, did free, but they never show anything naked. And I've never show anything like that. But you weren't naked though, and the camera was in front of you. But I was like wearing lingerie,

but I'm like, oh, I'm gonna show them too. Maybe I could do like a special, like, 995 on my site. And I'll really, just kidding, I'm not doing that. I'm gonna do a calendar, do they people still do that? Sex with Emily Calendar, it'll be like in all the mechanics shops across the day. I don't wanna sex with that on the calendar while the dick pics we've gotten.

Oh, God no. No, that would be very well. Okay, another section in history, a firefighter's called to cut shower rings off of a guy's penis. Why didn't he just buy a copper ring? I don't know. Yeah dude, you don't know how many things people go to the emergency room around their penis or their butt hole.

Our rings are big though, aren't they? Well, I don't know. This guy's was stuck sometimes depends. They come in all sizes. So firefighters were called to remove four curtain rings stuck around a man's penis. The hapless fellow was taken to the hospital after the rings got stuck around his member,

but doctors at the facility in Columbia lacked the specialist cutting tools required for a tricky job and had to call in firefighters. Rescue experts spent over an hour removing the metal rings according to the news outlet, the procedure required a steady hand in a sensitive region. And firefighters had to be extra careful not to enter the stricken man.

And he had irreparable damage to the man's penis, the unnamed man remained in a patient at the hospital and you received medical and psychological care and he's embarrassed embarrassment. What part of the world? Colombia. Colombia, like South America, not like. and you receive medical and psychological care and he's embarrassed embarrassment. What part of the world? Columbia. Columbia, like South America, not like. Yeah, Valley, Valley, Dead,

Coca. Or cocaine is stuff. Fire department, really? That's bizarre. I don't know, maybe there were metal fire rings, you know what I mean? You gotta get it done, so that's a deal. I don't, I don't, I want to think,

and you know what's funny too is a, all right, just use the stretchy penis. Man's little penis, right? He's got the rings around it. And you know that it feels out here at least like two, three giant trucks had to like drive a few miles to get to him just to go take off the tiny little rings. You know what I mean? Yeah.

It's like the waste of it. Oh, so much. So much. Yeah. They should have like one guy on a red motorcycle who goes out like he scouts and he gets there quick and then he'll like call back and be like, yeah, no fire. There's a cat have like one guy on a red motorcycle who goes out like he scouts and he gets there quick and then he'll like call back and be like, yeah, no fire, there's a cat in a tree,

don't worry about it, I'll get it out. You know what I mean? We don't need the fleet to go. Dude, you could have died though, it sounds like it was pretty serious, it was cutting off a circulation, you know? And also, yeah, there's also, here's some other things since I'm preparing for my anal sex workshop today,

I'm doing a lot of anal sex research. And one of my slides at my PowerPoint is about all the things that have gotten stuck in butts. It has to do this, where she or it has a hot sweat. Tonight, so a lot, it's very common. You know, we've all heard people stick vegetables and things that they're butted, light bulbs. So there's light bulbs, people's butt.

And in San Francisco, I've heard, there is a special, it is so common, you guys, and don't do this, okay? This should be a warning. A machine that actually removes light bulbs sucks the light bulbs out. What is the name of that machine? I do not know Google it. We should Google it. What is the name? How crazy. So this is this is this is the takeaway from this butt story is that you should only put things in your butt with flared edges so it can't go into your butt and you don't have to have surgery. I would think a light bulb is the worst thing other than maybe

Shards of glass. I can't even talk right. Right. Well, because then you But that's gonna become shards. Yeah. Oh, how dangerous is that? That's why there's a special machine in San Francisco because a lot of men doing it. Yeah, or women. I don't want to discriminate who knows. Okay. So that's my news and I'll get into a little bit of my news and I'll get into a little bit of a special machine. There's Madison going to look up the name of it. Be careful people, but well, yeah,

unless you're going to forward to have a machine at home, which I bet it's a very expensive machine because it's so specialized. Well, why are you sticking light bulb in your butt? Anyway, just feel like it. It must be a thing. I know. I'm not going to look it up right now for us,

because, uh, better than a hamster, yet people lose to cancers in their body. It's not real though. I like to think that that's not the best thing I've ever done. The Richard Year body. Yeah, real though. I like to think that that's not the real story. Yeah, I know. I don't think it's true. I think it is true.

I like to believe it's not. I know nurses and nurses will like tell you this point blank. Like I saw the X-ray. I was in the room. It was him. And I just don't buy it. Yeah.

I don't know why would it be such a, some people have done it though. Hamsters. He likes animals. He's in that movie. Hot. Yeah, that's why I think he got the idea. He was like, go, you know what'd be really great. Amsters. He likes animals. He's in that movie, hot, hot, you know, by the dogs. Yeah, that's why I think he got the idea.

He was like, go, you know what'd be really great? I'm brilliant to animals right now. I'm going to stick a jar of well in my butt. No, he wasn't doing it to like have sex with a jar of well. It wasn't like a love affair. It was like, because the thing spasms. That's the rumor. This is what I'm telling you in my workshop, you guys.

And if you want to, you've really do the more but anal sex, good on my website. There's right ways and wrong ways to play with your anus and the right ways. But there are so many amazing findings. Pets. What? It doesn't involve pets.

It involves a lot of lube, which is my favorite thing in the world. Lube is an amazing product and things just flare at edges, but also fingers, penises. That's about it. If you got a ham trucker, how many things went up before you get to the point where like, you know what, that's just not cutting it. You keep raising the bar. I got to do a hamster. I gotta do something alive. I really, I really don't know.

That's a great question. If you've had a hamster, you're about to please you, Mommy. Or get some help first. Yeah, so, but really, but by anal sex, it's interesting because it's like, you really, people just don't know how to do it right. And you just need to warm up and use the other way. Check it on our website.

I can't talk. I can't anal out right now. I'm gonna be here. You can't anal out right now. Can I, eat a lot right now. I'm gonna be having an anal out right now. Can I save it for tonight? I don't want to blow my analogue right now. Wow. I wish you didn't say that. I'm so sorry.

I wish I didn't either. Some words I have a problem with. Some words, some things. Okay, so we can get into some emails. By the way, I heard it in my head, Shards of Glass earlier, and I wish that I hadn't said that. It wasn't lost on me when I was talking with a light bulb in my head, shards of glass earlier, and I wish that I hadn't said that. It wasn't lost on me when I was talking about a light bulb in the butt in shards of glass, instead of shards of glass.

Oh, shards. Yes, I was there. That was lost on me. That's disgusting, and it's filthy. But I want to let the people know who are listening at home, I didn't miss it. I just didn't choose to say it. I was really mature of you. I appreciate it because we don't want to take this show down to the level that people might assume that it's not. Right. Right. I was actually interviewed. Oh, it because we don't want to take this show down to the level that people might assume that it's like, I was actually interviewing. Oh, you know what,

there's a few things. I was in Chris Jericho. Remember he was in love. I love that man. I love him too. Good guy. He is such a good guy. He's got a great podcast called the Jericho, Chris Jericho podcast. It's called Talk His Jericho. I was on his podcast. He launched it, promoted it this week. And it was really popular. I have to say, it was a really good podcast. And a lot of people on Twitter were very excited about it. So you should check that out. We talked a lot about sex and it was a very like,

you think it wouldn't be, but like I really got a lot of stuff. People, the thing is I do so many podcasts. You know, I've done thousands. I've been on guests a lot. But people were just like on Twitter like, oh my god, that was amazing. I learned a lot. So you guys should check that one out. And was also on Paul McCurriot's podcast

Who's on love line and he's a writer for the He's done a lot of it and See me co-bear show the new one. Yeah CBS I think right yeah Civis I heard his hilarious from a service Yes, watch me on civis. It's like, all right. That's not funny. He kept calling instead of CBS.

He was like acting like he was like a really bad reader. And he was reading CBS's civis. Anyways, I'm sure it's funny though. Maybe he's not funny on the funny. He has to practice a little. But we talked a lot about, um, Lou Bonn has podcasted a two, but he was like, I've never used Lou.

I've never knew sex toys. It was interesting. I've been just it's just interesting to talk to you about that who, was he bragging? No, he was a very good one. Like, I don't need Lou, yo, they're always with. He had that old school thing. He was like, I feel like I would feel very clinical. And it would be very like, if there was a sex toy

embedded in my wife, I would feel like it would just be, she'd like it more than I would. And I would. Oh, right. It's one of those guys, yeah. Those men still exist. So I, I taught him, you know, different ways. Did you scold him? Did you shame him?

I didn't. I'm gonna send him much of God damn sex toys. I said, you can just throw it right at the trash. I'm gonna put it into your wife, because believe me, she wants one if you've even used any. So this just in about this. Oh, what about this? San Francisco. Go ahead. Okay, this just in Madison.

Yeah, the San Francisco item out of butt removal thing. It is a hoax. That's not real. Okay, so it was actually, it looks like it's propaganda from a Christian youth leader. Oh, I love that. So, I'm not reporting stuff that isn't true. I mean, that's why we had to fact check, you know?

We thought that, sorry. There are like signs all throughout San Francisco that are like, but like, you know, like light bulb removal, like 25 cents and stuff like that. 25 cents. They're actually, from what I can see, I can't find anything about an actual thing that removes items. I have fun, a lot of funny lists. But you have so funny that my friend who was a doctor and who was a doctor, he's a doctor here,

and San Francisco told me that that existed. That's why I thought maybe it was true. We're going to have to have him dig that up because I need to know. Doctors are doable sometimes. Dr. Drew is one of the most gullible people I know. That's kind of just because they're doctors. They're just in school and they're studying for so long medical school. Like they just, they're very literal.

I love that a Christian group came up with that. I just, I'm imagining the boardroom discussion where they're sitting around going, how we gonna take these fairies down? Let's make up a machine that doesn't exist. Okay, I'm sorry. Let's just, okay, well let's just say that that the situation is dire enough

that you just shouldn't stick it up your ass. If there's any take on message. Even more so now because there's not a machine that exists. Exactly. And then you're gonna have some shards in your ass if there's any take on message. Even more so now because there's not a machine that exists. Exactly. And then you're going to have some shards in your ass. Hey, stop it. It's true.

Okay. So what? Go. I want to get into the emails. So I want to thank you all for emailing me at feedback at sex.me.com. We do read all your emails and we look at your dick pics but don't send those. And when you do email us, I love when you tell me how old you are and where you're writing from. And how you listen to is great. I want to know how you listen. You know, you can always listen on iTunes and stuff like that, but the apps and stuff. Many ways,

Ditcher. Okay, Stitcher is a great app. I used to, before you, before I knew you, I would record there. Oh yeah, I just got a stitcher studio. used to, before you, before I knew you, I would record there. And so you just go. Yeah. At Stitcher's Studios. But machines are, yeah, are not. Yeah, at Stitcher Studios. And San Francisco, okay, here you go. Ready?

Hi, Emily. My name is Thomas. I am 35 years old and have a serious issue with talking to women. This has been a problem for a long time. I'm heterosexual and I can converse with women. I am not a track to do. But when there's attraction, I get nervous, anxious, don't know what to say and having something stupid, I am saying something stupid, or talking to myself out

of saying anything at all. Everyone says, just get over it and put yourself out there and it's as natural as breathing to them, but it's not easy for me. I've only been on one date and it was unbelievably awkward. I were gonna shop with all guys, no women commute, each shower go to bed. I really don't hang around in social atmospheres, but when I do, I'm usually with my parents and my brother.

My parents are very encouraging. Mom is the one who actually had to put yourself out there and they both have said that they had want grandchildren. So what now now thanks Thomas. How old's Thomas? 35. He left porn off the list because I know that that's on there. What's on there?

He said all he does is work, drive home, eat, sleep, but I'm sure that there's a healthy not porn. Maybe before he goes to bed, he watches porn. Okay, Thomas. He's 35 and he spends a lot of time with his parents and it works. So I think there's a lot of things going on here and it sounds like he's just got the case of the social anxiety Which a lot of people have especially when they meet someone attractive this happens to a lot of guys and women I was talking to my friend who's very attractive woman and she was saying when actually he was telling me to send the naked photos

To guys, but she was saying you know and she's like I get it in guys But the second I see attractive guy she's like and if he smiles and me I turn away And it's just really common that people the people do this they get it and they don't get over it the problem is and she's 35 If you if you never break through any anxieties what come up Oh, I don't know where he lives. You know tell me where I miss Why didn't I really is is it if you it's like if you don't work on this anxiety, things don't go away. Like, why we go to therapy, issues, they will continue to play you and they actually get more, some more if you don't work on it.

So, I think that you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself and it doesn't come as easy to you. But again, dating, like I always say, and talking to people, it's a muscle that you have to exercise. And I know that you're saying that you can talk to unattractive women, but just practice saying hi. Practice these skills of talking and just like communicate. It doesn't have to be here to think there's no practice on your mom's friends. Yeah, I guess somebody says you can talk to women that he's not attracted to. And so you just it's like rip it off

abandoned. Just start saying hi. That's it. You just got to smile, say hi. And the great thing to do is I'm not gonna tell you any pickup lines. lines. I'm not going to say that you got to walk a certain way, you know, it is important to be confident and it is important. Even if you got to fake it to you and make it and you just start, you can observe something made a great formula for talking. So, my eyes are like, let's say you didn't say that you get coffee, I'm assuming, you know, maybe you got to pick up a coffee or breakfast in the morning. You walk in, let's say you're standing there in the coffee shop and you observe something that's going on there. And you could say, oh, yeah, you know in, let's say you're standing there in the coffee shop and you observe something that's going on there

and you could say, yeah, you know, I didn't know they had the pumpkin spice lattes this time of year, you know, and then you ask a question, so you observe something, you ask, have you had a pumpkin spice latte? See what they say, and then you ask a question and then you just start a conversation

about something that's happening in the moment. So that's a way to practice, you know, just talking, really. Don't do that in line in October though, because she'll turn and say, of course they have fucking, pumpkin lattes in October, you fool. I mean, it can be really scary, but also you have to think you're not gonna die.

What is the worst thing that is going to happen to you? Just say I probably mess with Thomas, probably has problems with like tests that are really important. It's a pressure thing too. If he talks to like women, he's not interested without any problem, but then as soon as it means something to him,

he cracks. It's always 35, so I'm assuming it's been going on for exactly, it's not interested without any problem, but then as soon as it means something to him He cracks He's 35 so I'm assuming it's been going on for exactly. It's been going on a long time. I got the same problem We all have the same problem. We all do we just figure out I never really did I never talked to strange women. I mean everyone that I dated they either asked me out or they're like friends of friends And I was hanging around for a while and I really waited for signals to slap me across the face before I made a move because Rejection is a horrifying thing Horrifying essentially for me. You guys that's what you guys have to do it really waited for signals to slap me across the face before I made a move because the rejection is a horrifying thing. Horrifying.

That's right for mine. That's what you guys have to do with. So, you could also try online dating. Hello. Who isn't online dating right now? Yeah. Not actually Madison. Don't do that.

Don't do it. Don't do it. Don't do it. But you can get, you can go online, you can put any website. Find one, you have plenty of fish. What are the proper ones now? You know, goodmatch.com, plenty of fish. What's there?

There's a big one on. Rinder. Not Grindr. We don't know that now? Go to match.com, plenty of fish. What's the other one big one? No, not grinder. Not grinder. We don't know if that he's gay. I don't think he's gay. Tinder. Tinder is a big one. But what's plenty of fish? And what's the other one that everyone likes?

The online dating one. Not what's the other. Match. No, not match. OK, keep it. OK, keep it. And then you can start a conversation. You can put an online profile, ask your friends,

ask your mom. She seems to be very interested in your dating life, get some good pictures. And then when you crap, we've done a lot of shows online dating and we've done a lot of things about actual dating. We've a podcast called it's a dating survival podcast that might help we get all into how to date and how to approach people. But when you start dating online, that's another way that you don't have to actually have that anxiety of talking to someone.

And also tell everyone that you know, just like when you're looking for a job, tell all your friends, you're looking for someone, you like to meet someone, do they know anyone, fix you up. And it sounds like he's also just thinking about it too much. He's overthinking it, and it's like becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you actually like threw himself into a passion or something, and then met people through that, whether it's like gardening or, you know, writing or whatever, and then if you're working yourself, then other, and stop looking out and kind of look that, whether it's gardening or writing or whatever. And then if you're working yourself, then stop looking out and look inward.

Other people, they start to come. They'll come to you. Do something that you love. I'm a word that you're just all you're doing is working and hanging out with your mom. So Tom, take a class. No, but like, yeah, exactly. Take a class on the weekends. Do you work on the weekends? You probably don't. What are you doing? Do you like high games? Do you like wine? There's wine, whatever. Take classes, do something you're interested in, Jim, whatever.

You'll be fine. And check out our shows and check out our website because we have a lot of information on this, Thomas. So good luck to you. Let me know how it goes. And again, you will get passed. And you're not in the minority or in the majority? You're in the majority.

So there's nothing wrong with you. Don't freak out. Just do it. Just start practicing right now. Life too short. Have an affair. Exactly, or not. Okay, I need to talk about something really important. What's that?

I need to tell you about the flashlight. Oh, the flashlight. Yeah, and flashlight is the number one sex toy for men. It's the only one that you probably want. I totally love. That's why. That's why. It's the best. The government can come after them. For having a monopoly, I don't want it. Are there even, that's why. That's why it's the best. The government could have come after them.

For having them monopoly, I don't want to, are there even any other, I've never heard of it. They're not, because they don't exist. It's hand and flesh, and flesh. And it's patent and material that was invented by NASA. So why would you go to another male masturbation that you didn't know you existed? Because they knew the astronauts.

They knew they're going to be lonely up in space. Is that what they were thinking? No, I think they were inventing for something else. And I'm like, we got this. Who knows how it happened? I should actually ask the people of flesh like that. But it's similar to sensations of sex. It actually feels like sex.

And here's the thing. As women, we've got so many toys and stuff. Like, and you guys have your hand and you have sex. So why not, wherever you insert your penis? And so why not try it? Why not try it? Have mind-blowing, org-mind-blowing orgasms. And it's like sex and a can. You can take it where you go.

They have a flashlight go now, which is like lighter and easier and easier to travel. That's right in your purse. Oh, funny. You should say that. Did you see my Instagram? I just posted. Well, what's funny? He said it fits in your purse. I know. That's her. He'll appreciate this. Okay, so Anderson, you know how Emily is always looking through her purse for the day. It's a running thing.

Yeah, yeah. Yeah, this one you write out to get any of these nuts. Yeah, so she's like digging through her purse. We did an Instagram video where she always looking through her purse. It's a running thing. Yeah, this is why not to get any of these nuts. Yeah, so she's like digging through her purse. We did an Instagram video where she's digging through her purse. We're like, hey, Emily, like where are your keys? And she's digging through her purse. And she pulls out one, two, three, four, flush light goes.

And we're like, geez, Emily, do you have enough flush light? And she goes, what? They're flush light goes. Because they're like really small and travel size. But it's like making fun of Emily and the fact that she's always in her purse and she carries everything in there.

Every day I walk in the office like 16 bags. You trans, Jen? No. Why? You got, you got dick things in there for. Always be prepared. Dude, I gotta always be prepared. What if a guy's like,

hey, I really need to get off right now. I'm like, oh, I've got just thing for you. Hey, let me ask you about this, the flesh like go. Yeah. What if it doesn't fit? No, no, it's not smaller. Okay.

I mean, the can is smaller. It's actually a, it's not as smaller penises. No. It's actually just more lightweight and more contained, but it's actually the same sensations. It just, you can do the same thing. You can have a large penis like the one that guy sent me a apparently large penis.

Thank you for preventing me from looking up these dick pics. I saw. Yeah, but you can use it. No, that's a point. It's so awesome because it's lighter weight. It's a little, the can is smaller, but the actual flesh on the thing. Got it. Glad I asked.

If you want one, which you do now, I'm sure, go to sexthelmy.com. Click on the Fleshlight banner and you get a free sample, a free bottle of the award-winning Flesh Loop. And when Carmen Lector gets here soon, she actually has a new flush light loob. Carmen Lector. Carmen Lector loob. Oh yeah. Yep.

We should see if they should start setting the Carmen Lector loob to our listeners. I don't know if they will, but if they do, that would be awesome. I'm fascinated to see how they come up with, like, do they send her samples? And she goes, I like a little bit more this, but more viscous.

Well, you know, I come up with a smell. I mean, how does she do it? Yeah, well, it's funny that you should ask because with my Emily and Tony brown We actually besides the massage candles and the down on a comfort We actually created a loop That's how the whole line started because Tony and I were friends. He has a huge skin care line called Anthony's for men if you No, right, but that's his so he's been in the business for a long time and we were having dinner we had in each other in 20 years

grew up together Michigan and I said, at dinner, why there should be a lube on every night stand. You heard me say this, because I think that lube is completely underrated and everybody needs to use more lube and that's how it happened. So I had to test a bunch of lubs and create this lube and I tested hundreds of them

and it was like that. It was like, yeah, literally, you get set in hundreds. Okay, let's say 25 different samples of lubs and I kept sending it back. this one has a word smell, this one has a word, could you see the problem is, how did you tell? We couldn't get it. Different ways. All right. I've masturbated with them. I had sex with them. Okay. And I would just like smell them. It wasn't just like rubbing in between your stomach. No, you got to test it. Dude, I want to make sure it's legit. Just like the candles. I feel like 300

candles. I had the smell and taste right anyway So that's a test. Leigh would know be interesting to ask Herman about that You're like a spoon get it. Here's the problem FDA approval. You can't get it on loop Like it was the hardest thing ever so we couldn't release it But I've got thousands of bottles of Emily and Tony loop which by the way I gave to Dr. Drew bottle I gave it to people and they're like you can't sell them up. No, I give it to friends though I want this loop is really hook me up and then I see you my waiter falls off. No, it won't it's amazing. It's it's vegan But dude you I didn't know you wanted to do yeah, give me some loop

Dude it's awesome, so you're like the lobes like a salmon. Yeah, I kind of am I have to say I've tried every single loop on the market and The FDA I'm gonna sell it on the street corner for you. It's really a problem. So that's why I sold you a white label loop now. Like there's a few people that have it and they just think you use their name whatever. So that's my problem. I've got loops.

I can't send to anyone, so don't ask me because I'll get sued. I think I give it to Anderson. I think Carmen's gonna be here soon. You got another email you might want to tell me before. Yeah, this is it. Yeah, I do. Partner hates oral sex.

This one's about that. Yeah, dear Emily, the man I love doesn't like giving oral sex. He'll do it maybe once a month, stay down there for a minute or less, then go into penetration. I've discussed this with him and he said he just doesn't like it. I've been with other men before him, and they all absolutely loved it.

Is it possible for a man not to like it and be straight? That's from Amanda. Oh my God. I'm glad that my, I think that Carmen, hi Carmen, how are you? Good, how are you? Good to see you. Just in time for this question.

I think that Carmen would actually help me answer this question, even though we're just meeting right now. You can sit there. Carmen, I got a brief, we were just talking about your new Lou actually, which we're going to get into. Yes, which I'm dying to try. We, yeah, exactly. We got a bottle of it and my intern tried it.

Eddie and he's obsessed with it. Instead of like the most amazing Loub. Yeah. So congratulations on that. Cerman, I'm going to read this. I'm going to tell you, I get a lot of emails from listeners. And we were just answering this question. I was really get this, I'm gonna tell you. I get a lot of emails from listeners and we were just answering this question, I was really good, this woman emailed me.

The man she is dating doesn't like performing or all sex on her. She says, I'll do it once a month, stay down there for a minute, go into penetration and she's talked to about it and he doesn't like it. She says she's been with other men and they've loved it and she wants to know, is he, could he be? Don't bump, really. I agree with you. Have you ever had this happen to you a he could he be dumb? Really?

I agree with you. Have you ever had this happen to you a guy doesn't like it? No, because why would they be with you? Because they, they, they, they, they, they, they didn't like it, but they just lied and did just tell you. Yeah, I mean, that could be true. Um, guys, I mean, four plays is, you know, extremely important. It's so important.

Exactly. So that's like my big, so I had this happen, I was dating Guy once and for way too long, it was a long distance thing. So I just thought, I'll give him a chance, like he would do it again, the same thing. First of all, don't do any foreplay for a minute and then stick it in.

That's a huge mistake. What's the minimum? Five minutes. For oral sex or some general foreplay? Yeah. Is there a minimum? 10, 15? Yeah, I mean, you don't, yeah.

Every, yeah. I think you could agree. It doesn't need to go on forever. No, you know. And so, but teasing at first is, I mean, is ultimate. Exactly. Just a little tease kind of, you know, make you want it. Yeah, exactly. But the best case in our is that we're like, please have sax make you more. Yeah, teasing one of them. Exactly.

The best case in our is that we're like, please have sex with me now. Please do it now. And use your instincts. I mean, it's kind of a feel. Like you should be able to read her a little bit. Yeah, exactly. Exactly.

And it'll make everything better. Just tease her for a little bit. One minute is nothing. So, but here's the thing is the answer. Amanda, is that it might come in surprise, surprise you, but not all women enjoy blood jobs, not all men love performing or all sex, and men are different in their preferences and their skills,

and maybe had a bad experience, maybe his past partner didn't like it, hygiene, who knows, but he might also might not like it because he doesn't know what he's doing. Well, there's other things you can do. Right, but she really likes it, but if he hates it and doesn't want to do it, for me, that's a deal. I wouldn't want to do it. I wouldn't want to do it. Exactly. If someone didn't want to do it. For me, that's I don't want to want to done to me if

it's exactly what I want to do it. Because my thing is if he doesn't, if he's confused about how to do it, maybe it's a bad experience, you could be like, listen, here's what I like, here's what I don't like. But if he's like, I'm out because I had a boyfriend once and I said to him, I'm so I'm curious. Is it that you don't, is that you don't like it? Is it, is that you, you're not sure what you're doing or you think I don't like it? He's like, not just not my thing. And I was like, hmm that you're not sure what you're doing? Or you think I don't like it? He's like, nah, it's just not my thing. And I was like, hmm, you're not my thing.

And then we ended the relationship just like that. And then he said, give me a blowjob. Yeah, and I was like, no, you're being this way, no one near my mouth. I'm not for the road. At all. So, I don't know, though, I think Amanda, I mean, honestly, to me, this would be a deal breaker.

I think that you need to get deeper into the situation. And if he says that he's at a bad situation, you can probably work around it it show him what you like But if you refuse to do it, if this is your choice, I'd be out karma would be out What about this move guys like if you make sure that you finish her off before you even start Yes, is that all right? Yeah, totally and like if you go too quick It doesn't matter because you've already done she comes first. It's a great book got by Ian Karner There's a book called she come first and that the old theories that I am yeah, yeah

Andrew It's a great book by Ian Karner. There's a book called, She Come First and the Elthears and the... Ian? Yeah, Ian. Ian Karner. Some of you. Some of you. A whipped man. No, but it's true. I mean, that's always great to make her come first and then you have to worry about it. But, I mean, one minute of oral sex or one minute of anything.

It's like, why bother? Get me glass of water right now. You can do that. That would be much more effective in this. I mean, I guess if there's a real connection and you really, you know, you're really feeling each other and it's just something they're not into. There's this other thing you can do. Yeah, you're really feeling each other. And it's just something they're not into. There's just others you can do.

I mean, there's so many. You could use toys, you could use a toy on you, you could use a loob, a little porn. Right, things turn you on, but if she loves oral sex, you should not getting it. You know, but if you're like, ah, you know what? I love that, yeah, I don't wanna say dump them. If you love them and everything is great,

but he just doesn't like it, it doesn't mean he's gay. It just means that believe it or not, there are guys that don't like it, because straight men don't like it. Just like women don't want to say dump them if you love them and everything is great, but he just doesn't like it It doesn't mean he's gay. It just means that believe it or not there are guys that don't like it because straight men Don't like it just like women don't like blow jobs So if you still like this guy Amanda then talk to him about it See what's going on and see if you can live with it and get a lot of friggin sex toys And there is there's one thing I want to say is that there is a toy by Lilo the aura Which stimulates the feeling of oral sex. It looks a little round thing as it looks like a tongue going, and it's really cool.

I know. I should get you. Oh, I did bring you some toys though. You did? I did. You're going to die. Oh, I'm going to have some fun. I think.

So I've got to say that you could try that too. If you needed that badly, get it. I mean, you know, little pocket rocket action. Exactly. Well, sex toys, you okay? So thank you. Yeah. So I think we're done Well, you know, sex toys, you okay? So thank you. Yeah. So I think we're done with that.

What's called the Lilo aura? And if you want one, go to my website, sexdomy.com, click on the, I was making it, but it kind of, it's quite, it's rechargeable. Use it and not have her know. You know, it's not that good. It's not that good, but it's pretty,

it's pretty damn good. It's a Lilo aura. Click on the pretty damn good. It's Alila Ora. Click on the good vibe communication. You know, they need to communicate. Exactly. Yeah, don't assume he's not gay, but talk to him about all this stuff. And also, if you're into him, you can work around it.

Exactly. I'm not standing down, but have you ever been with a guy that you're like sex was in and you were out? I mean, I think in the long term, I think sex is a huge part of relationship because someone may stray if, you know, if you're not pleasing them. Or if you don't feel, you know,

you could make your partner feel not wanted or like you're not attracted to him. Or her. Exactly. And that kind of thing, sort of, you know, without the communication, it all boils down to that. You know, you need to talk, be open with what you like and then go for it. I know sex is fun That's just fun sex is so fun role play. I mean

Of course I do okay, so can you just tell me give me a scenario walk me through like the last time you play a scenario Good the last time I heard anyone do a role play and explain it was a iced tea and cocoa. They explained to me how they role play and that was fun. And they, I love that. That was like five years ago. And I'll never forget it. Yeah. Well, you can, you know, I mean, obviously, depending on your partner or whatever, but,

you know, you can always play sort of master mistress. Right. So, you know, Did you dress up and stuff? Like, do you? Sure. Because here's my, not every time. Right, not every time, but sometimes you just want to, you know, get to it.

Right. Exactly. And then other time, it's like exciting sort of the planning. How you start it though? Like, are you like, hey tonight, I'm going to be there. You just say, hey, master. And then they know, like, I'm just saying with guys, like, that's the key phrase. Yeah.

Let them know it's on. Like, do you initiate the role playing? I, because I, I shoot better. I have so many little costumes and cute things. And I think things, I just see you do that. You know, I mean, I think you just, if you have sexual compatibility, you just vibe with that person. And I, I don't know, I, I, I truly believe that, that for women, a lot of it's up here.

It's in the brain. That's true. And so, if you're dating someone that's really intelligent and sexual, they'll get you there. Right. They'll talk you through it. And then ideas start to pop up and you know. Exactly. You can just say, you know know, I mean it's fun to be a miss just. It is fun. It is to be take it out on all your

frustrations. He dropped Coco off in the ghetto and then you get out of the car, come around the corner and pretend to abduct her. Really? That's so funny. You know what? That's fun though. I mean, that's totally fun. Yeah. That's probably weather together. fun. You know what, sex toys though, I mean. That's totally fun. Yeah, that's probably weather together. I was just going to say that. I mean, they're not. Absolutely.

You've got to do something fun. I mean, you want some missionary every time. No, buddy. I mean, no, I just fell asleep and you said that word, missionary. Oh, off time. Really, no, it's true. You're just little things, little, it's sex toys. Now, do you, um, you like sex toys, you said?

Yeah, I do. What's your favorite? I have to be honest, you know, I've tried you said yeah, I do if you um what's your favorite? I have to be honest, you know, I've tried Quite a few and I still go back to the pocket rocket. I you. It's so funny. I love the pocket rocket too That was my first one you put the little bat. It still has got a battery and you just carried around What was the one the bunny with the bunny ears? That just doesn't work. Yeah, the rabbit didn't work It didn't work. You know, I yeah I we kind of talked about that in the office a lot because it's like dual, it's like I want one or the other.

I'm just confused. I like it. Have you ever had the magic wand? Magic wand is a big hit too. Okay. Well, and you can kind of do that on the slide. The magic wand? Yeah, because it's a back massager,

but for women, it's a whole other thing. How you can leave it out? Like, yeah. I mean, if that person like me would go over and have no idea that your invite writer is just sitting on the coffee table. I would have no tell. And you and your purse, what are you doing? I have been going,

current or first present. Okay. It is now unplugged. So you can, it's rechargeable magic wand. I know someone that's gonna have some fun tonight. Right, there you go, with your loop. This is awesome. I know. So you, now you just charge it

and you doesn't, it's easy to be connected to the wall. So much. This is great. Yeah, I am, I thought go with your loop. This is awesome. I know so you now you just charge it and you doesn't it's easy to connect you to the wall so much Yeah, I am I thought you'd like it. I don't know what woman doesn't like the magic wand, right? I mean yeah It's like a magic wand or like I said the pocket exactly now how about Loop like let's talk because I always say before you came out saying like I've been obsessed with it because when I started doing the show I was like, you know, you get lots of product sent to you, I'm trying to do, but I realized that there is a stigma that people think, oh, dry, if she's dry or discomfort, but it's like, I usually do every time I've sex because it just enhances the whole experience.

Absolutely, absolutely. And I mean, for me, this all started through fleshlight. They wanted to have a meeting with me and, you know, it was open to it, but we didn't exactly know what we're gonna do. So we sat down together and just started riffing and talking about different things. And, you know, basically like a lot of my really close friends

complain that Loub can cause. You yeast infections. It's a fact. Right. Don't buy the blood, the ligus complaints. So it was a really easy transition and an idea to join together with them to make a pH balanced lubrication. Which is what we need, right?

Because if you buy like the drug store kind, like you don't know what you're gonna have. If you can't, like, rooting for women, you know't know what you're gonna If you can't like you know Routing for women, you know, yeah, however, you know have you need to get it done I love it. So let's get it done in a healthy way exactly. We added aloe vera organic aloe vera and And that's great I love it. I know I'm so excited to try it because we just got it So that is very exciting and Any other things that they actually do

like come up with the viscous, like out of the viscosity of it or how smell. They have almost everything under the sun, but no, we didn't want to have sense. You know, making no sense in it. We know. That doesn't, I want to think that that would vibe well with your internal things going on, right?

That's why I want it to be good to have the sense up there because it's chemicals, right? Right, exactly. That's why it want it to be good to have the sense up there because it's chemicals right? Right exactly. That's why it's the point of the pH balance. What about color? Did they give you option for color or is it everything clear? It's everything's clear. I think color would be kind of messy wouldn't it?

I don't know, pink lube could be kind of messy. I wanted to have a glow in the dark lube that someone sent to me. That's it was dangerous. I know but it's like the paint is glow in the dark which is kind of scary but I don't know. Can I have cancer or not? Yeah I don't know. I mean we just tried to cheat glow in seems dangerous. I know, but it's like the penis glow is in the dark, which is kind of scared. Yeah, I don't know. It wasn't, I mean, we just tried to cheat glow in the dark. Yeah, exactly. I mean, everything I like, guess what you were doing last night, were you having sex? So are you dating anyone right now? I am. It's new. Okay. I'll try to say the sex is still good, probably. But back to the lube, I have two other as well. Oh, taboo. The sensitive lubrication actually still has organic aloe vera, but we've taken out some

additives. So if you're extremely sensitive, that one's for you. Okay. And then the warming. Oh, three, right. Oh, you have the warming. And then I have the warming. Because we don't want to leave out the boys either.

You know what I mean? It's not only geared toward women. And so with a warming lubrication, obviously adds a little ting on. Warming feels really good. So like the thing about warming loop that's so fun is that like if you're going down on a guy or something, you put some on your lips

and you can blow job with it. And if I didn't even, oh yeah. I give you my ideas. I know, well, I, it's so funny. I just did a piece for men's health the other day and they're like, they were interviewing me about different uses for lubrication where are some things that we wouldn't thought about.

I was like, oh, you know, you could put in your lips, I give a blood out, and then I started thinking about it because you'll rub it on our nipple. It'll gloss. It'll gloss, and then you go down, and then you're like, you know, it's very important to get your blood job to make sure that it's wet enough that you put in your lips, put the warm feels good on them

and it feels good on the woman too. So I love that you made a warming loop. Yeah. What if it's really cold in your apartment and you'd cover your lips, put the warm feels good on them and feels good on the woman too. So I love that you made a warming loop. Yeah. What if it's really cold in your apartment and you'd cover your whole body with that? Marty tried that, let me know how that goes. Okay. Good. I love that.

I know. So yeah, lips. And then what else I feel? I have that arch. What else was I telling them, the men's hot? You could use lupers. So I just think it's underused. You could rub it on your body.

And like rub it on your nipples, like rub it on your body. Your guide. I love you. I know. This is what I do. You know, I really, I mean, yeah, we can talk more things about your whole thing here. I'll share it with you. I've got a whole document on Unique Uses for Loop. The other one was... I'm curious now.

Yeah, it's an all-sexual later. Yeah, what else would it be? I mean, you want to find this here? No, no. Yeah, there's always something that it can do with something more for you, you know what I mean? No, that's, I really didn't. I was talking about giving massages because here's,

like, first I'll put it, you drop it inside the condom because that feels good for him when he slips it on and the added sensation feels amazing. And then slicks them on her, like, or mutual masturbation, like before you go, just amazing. And then slicks them on her, like a mutual masturbation, like before you just put a little bit of lume on her, like clitoris and warm it up. Cause do you use lube with toys?

Absolutely. Yeah. So you have to use water-based lube with your toys. And it just speeds things along. If you guys before play, like it warms you up even quicker. It is. It's almost like a cheat. Congratulations on your live.

Thank you. I think that's for you to lecture Lou. Okay, can you back to the guy you're dating? So how'd you meet him? Yeah, I'm not gonna ask you to talk. I accidentally met him. I've been working on music lately. So I've gone back to my roots a little bit.

Oh, right, that's how you started, right? Yeah, I started off with music in the very beginning. I was gonna ask, tell tell me about the beginning. How did that all start? You came to LA. You're from the Midwest, you're from Ohio, right? From Michigan. From Michigan, Midwestern girls, moving out for the dream. I went to performing arts school and studied classical ballet,

and modern dance, and was just in that environment. So by the time I was graduating, I was looking for a job and trying to figure out what I was gonna do with the arts. And I ended up dancing in this magic show. And I saved up my money, my family doesn't have a lot of money. So I saved up a little money and I met, by accident,

I met a girl that lives here in Los Angeles. And she said, you can stay at my house. I think you'd be a great, you know, you could back up dance for Janet Jackson. You'd be great. Wow. And that's all that I came to LA to do. You're like Janet Jackson, to be a backup dancer.

Wow. Well, Jennifer, a JLo, she was like a Laker girl for a minute, right? She was kind of a dancer. I was a Paula Abdul. No, JLo was a fly girl. Oh, okay. Okay. I don't know.

She's from the East Coast. Right. All right. Okay. Okay, but these are backup dancers. I have a release information for you. That's funny, because you're from, right. You were like, okay, backup, that sounds good.

So you came back up, that, yeah. Oh my god, because you're from, right, you're like, okay, back up, that sounds good. Oh my god. Dan, look, did you, right? And then you came down. So, so my first, you know, I decided to stay for a week in LA and actually, actually the first, the first thing I did when I, well, we used to sneak into clubs. We were too young. Right. So my friend had a fake ID and we'd sneak in all these clubs and whatever.

I'm so much fun. Oh my god, that's so high. Oh no, right. You could've actually like, oh. And Holly was like, did you guys just live love you? I mean, have you always been like the sex symbol, the sexy, you must've had so much attention. 19 year old Carmen Alactara, I can't even.

Right? And we say, you came out, I know, really. I mean, you think I'm a sex. Oh, you're so sweet. Well anyway, my first, it wasn't really a job because we didn't get paid for it, but I danced on Soul Train. You did? Yeah.

Wow. Where did they shoot that? I don't even remember. I mean, I think. Without you, no. Yeah, in Los Angeles. Yeah, in LA. That's huge though.

I did this grabble board and they put me on the risers and you know what I'm talking about. Soul Train line. So I thought I had made it. Right. And that was it. And I'm so happy. I've made it. You know, you don't get paid to do it, but I thought I'd made it. Anyway, I was really excited about that, but I'm excited about that.

OK. And I ended up getting a demo deal. I met this girl. And she just, you know, she had a band that Prince was producing. And I actually auditioned for Prince to be a backup dancer. Back up dancer. Back up dancer. Back up Prince.

Like, okay, amazing. Yeah. You're like so trained. I was really weird though, because we were just at a club and she approached me and it felt kind of You know like this is surreal. Yeah, um, you know, basically You know his brother's gonna come pick you pick us up and then you'll go to his house and audition Prince is a brother. Yeah, he does Yeah, okay, we're learning a lot of this bodyguard for a while

Yeah, he does. I didn't know that. The Wayne. Yeah. Okay, we're learning a lot here. He was his bodyguard for a while. But yeah, so I went and like, there was a part of me, it's like, no, don't go. I'm like, we're in LA. Ooh, scary stuff happens in LA. Right, exactly.

Cincinnati, you know. How do you even know his prints? How did you know that like, you were gonna show up just some random birthday. That's the thing, like, that was, that was, you know, we didn't. Yeah, you know, I'm just trusting, you know, just trusting this woman, at least it was a woman.

Would you have gotten in the car if it was a guy that approached you? Oh, no, okay. No way. Okay. And then so a blue BMW pulls up. I think it's time BMW it wasn't like a, or a Peter. And it was blue, okay. So it was, you know, it was like, it was time BMW wasn't like a leader. Okay.

So it was like it was colorful. Wasn't like a right ban. Yeah, it was a black BMW out blue fine. Well, it just you know that felt very prince-ish to have. All right. Okay, we should be able to be on W. So it's not if it was purple hands down.

I'm going to audition. I'm auditioning. Right. Oh my god, I love this. So you get the bloomin' BMW. Yeah. And then what? And we go to his house. In LA?

Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Keep in mind I was 18 years old. Oh my god, little Carmen. Okay. We'll be nervous. I'm nervous.

Yeah. I remember meeting him for the first time and he was cool. You know, he was just kind of down to earth and he said, so you want to be in this band and I said, yes, I want to be in the band. So he said, do you sing? And I said, yeah. And he got on the piano and he played-ray-me from the sound of music. And I was in that musical, so I knew it probably better than him.

Oh my God, that's okay. I love that song too, I know. I have a great thing. So I could do the other parts to it, and it was kind of a silly thing. I think he was just playing around, playing warm up, right? Yeah, whatever. So I did that, and he was like, okay, and then he said, You must have your birthday. I was dying. I mean, I was playing warm up, right? Yeah, whatever. So I did that and he, you know, he was like, okay. And then he said,

You must have your birthday. I was dying. I mean, I was so nervous. I didn't know what to do with myself. And then I was at his house and, you know, 18 years old. Right. And just not knowing. And Prince is like a huge,

that he's the biggest singer at that time. Oh, yeah. Okay. Absolutely. Yeah, so then he said, I heard you're a really good dancer. And I said, well, I love to dance blah, blah, blah. Next thing you know, I'm dancing to, I think graffiti bridge was coming out at that time. So he played some of the songs and I just pre-styled,

danced and didn't hear anything actually. I didn't get a response too. At the moment you weren't hearing anything or afterwards. Like you laughed and he's like, see ya. I got no response and so this woman with her band kept saying, you are amazing. I really want you in my band. I don't know why you won't give me an answer. And so she said, I know some people have capital records. I'll take you in there and you can

audition for them. I went in, I ended up getting a demo deal with capital. And so I was able to go home, visit my family. And they were there. Yay. So they flew me back. I stayed at the holiday in Glendale. Okay. Here, you know, and, and then through my friend, Prince got ahold of me. And so I just wanted you to know, I think you should do your own thing. I don't think you should be a backup for anybody. Wow. So he squashed your backup dreams, but then loud looked at you. But I said, you know, so he said, come to studio, I wrote you a song.

Oh my God, okay. And I went into the studio and I was really nervous listening to the song. But really, you know, God, Prince wrote me a song, that's crazy, that's insane. How does that happen? I don't even know. He's never written me a song. But, you know, basically, I'm under contract for Demo Deal at Capital.

He got me out of it and moved to Minneapolis for a couple of years and you did? Recorded, yeah, recorded. Did you guys date? Did you? Did you? No, I'm like, recorded. Did you guys date? Did you guys date? Did you? Now I'm like flashbacks. You guys date?

I'm sort of flirtatious, you know. This is very, very flirtatious, but. Okay, but you may have that one. Okay, that means yes. With the prints. With prints. What is this? Did you hear her doing something?

I was like, I used to have sex to print. I could hide and go, like, that's what I'd say. I was like, first, not with him, but two of them, like, you know, all of a sudden, yeah. Little right from that. Yeah, I used to watch of a sudden, yeah. We used to watch it. We used to watch it. I was really little. We weren't allowed to watch purporting.

And so. With Abelonia. Yeah, we would sneak and watch it. We just thought it was the hottest movies. I wouldn't mention Manipules. As Prince or the artist formerly known as. He wasn't the artist formerly known as yet. Right.

And he only did that because, like, he lost access to his name, right? Like it was tied up, it was a trademark or something, and he couldn't get it back from the record company, right? Yeah, and they owned a music. What was like having sex with them? Can you just tell me kissing them? I guess, come on, it's been so long now.

I think I know kissing people. I don't know, I don't know. No, that's right, that's actually smart, either do I. I changed names, though. I changed names of people. But it was amazing. I mean, I toured, I opened up for him, I had my own band on the Diamond and Pearls tour. And you're at that time.

I learned a lot. I learned a lot from him. And I'm really grateful. That was a great story. That she was shooting to be a background dancer. And then she became a woman. And one week, it just, things just clicked. So I knew I was kind of on the right path at that point.

OK. God, I mean, you were. So now, okay, so now you've done all this stuff, and then you become like this. Well, I decided after living in Minneapolis for a couple of years that I wanted to move to LA. It's more fun. Yeah. Let's be honest.

Yeah. I mean, West, you're like, really on back in the West, but you're with Prince. It's hard. And I just had this West Prince LA. Yeah. And it was kind of, you know, I would be bored sometimes. You know, there was a lot to do. I didn't have a lot of friends there. So I moved to LA and then I kind of decided it was weird because I remember him saying to me, you know, you can stay in LA, but you'll be on your own or you can come back to Minneapolis.

Wow. I was sitting here like, you're like, what do I do? And I didn't wanna go back, you know. Right, I totally understand. And so I decided to stay, but I didn't have a bank account. That's Balsey. That's very Balsey.

Yeah, you left for high, yeah. I had 5000 cash. You must really hate the snow. Yeah, it's really bad. Yeah, the snow is bad You got the big spoon with the cherry right isn't that out there in Minnesota She was with Prince Hasey Park I mean that's freaking amazing. Okay, but now okay So now you're always I mean meant people see you was like this all, you are like the ultimate sex symbol. Like, Converl laughter, like you are.

Yeah, you are. So how do you, how do you feel about that? I love that title. I love hearing that. Right? I mean, what, I mean, you know, I've, have you, have you, have you, have you felt sexy? Like, did that mean, I'm, I've just just wanted to be,

you know, I've always wanted to be. Obviously, I've had moments where I feel sexy and moments where I don't feel sexy at all, but. What makes you feel the sexiest? Mm. Uh, uh, performing on stage in lingerie. Yeah? Okay.

Okay, so like just being the best thing, or you know, dancing. Okay, how about like, in front of an audience? Right, what make it, do you knew days we would go up and you're like, I don't feel sexy at all. Oh, oh time and so what do you do with that with your intime? You've in securities too. Just like oh no women absolutely right. Oh, what I

Just try to take my mind off of it and do something, you know, right cuz down every time you feel sexy focusing on your flaws and You know beating yourself up, you know, it doesn't get really get you anywhere so right okay you know so now but so okay so now you're dating someone and I want I want to get some sex tips from you okay you just made a lube so I want to know like what is like if you could describe like the best sex you ever had what would it be like if you've just a moment or something happened or just yeah your best case scenario sex what would happen or could be fantasy you know I've I've found a size quite a bit about SNM right 50 every year but see that should have bought you some whips but that's a change

I have a can I have but many, many different styles of words. I'll be submissive or being dominant. I like both. You do? Yeah. You have a switch. So have you done that a switch? So you've done it with men?

Have you gotten into the whole BDSM? Sure. A little bit. I mean, I'm not full-blown, like, hard core. I mean, if I'm on the other side of things, and I can be hard core. Right, wow. I don't want to end up bleeding and you know what I mean?

But maybe the handcuffs, bondage, little spade, little pain, a little pain, a little bit, you know, just enough. Right, just enough, because it's enough of feeling like you're being controlled. Right, it's hot because it's enough. But feeling like you're being controlled. Right, it's hot. It's hot. So what would be like your beginner-

But I do like to be dominant as well. Yeah. Do you feel like, if you remember the guy who's like, no, I do not want you to be dominant. Are you like you ever try it? Or you can kind of tell if they want it. You just vibe out. I mean, what you're saying earlier,

you just kind of vibe out with it right and you can kind of sense Where they want to go guide you a bed that is like a pet peeve yours like sexually like oh to turn off Non talker Like dirty talk. Yeah, I love dirty talk me too. I mean Come on filthy talk. Yeah, filth the filthy. Yeah, we want to make it. I mean, come on. Filthy talk. Filthy. Filthy. The filthy ass talk.

We want to make it. I keep my mouth shut. Yeah, I know. You do it on the show too, sometimes, but you're sex life. Mary's like, I asked him, I'm married. So, do you mean that? To me, that's a huge part of four play, even without being touched. Because again, our brain, largest sex, we're going to talk to me dirty.

And I'm like, there, you have to go down. And actually, I do a style. Because again our brain largest sex we're gonna talk to me dirty and I'm like there and you know to go down Actually do style, but and you know to me kissing is Huge turn on as well. I mean it sounds simple after going talking to you about SNM. No, but it's true I think about kissing because it's almost anything you can do yeah, right? Yeah, yeah look at how about looking in your eyes during sex What do you like looking in someone's eyes when you're having sex? Yeah, sure Yeah, okay. Sometimes you do. Unless they're like spanking you or something. Unless I'm in control and it may say, look me in my eyes. Right. Exactly. The boss. Right. I'm, yeah. Sounds scary. Sounds terrifying. Okay, so what's like your biggest turn on that? Like, what could a guy

do, I guess, turny talk? Is there anything like, what's your favorite sense of forefoot? Like, do like, oral sex, so performing oral sex on you is out like a, because someone don't. They're like, really sensitive down there. They just don't like it. Multi-aggot orgasmic women don't like that. Yeah.

That's what Drew always says. Drew though, right? Dr. what? I've noticed it. I don't remember that from it. You did? Yeah. How do you know that they were just like,

oh, because you've actually had sex them and they had multiple orgasms. Yeah. And they don't like it. And they don't like it.. Yeah. Do you know this women who can have a mal, but I can have malch orgasms and have a role sex. Well, of course you can, you're sex family, you can do it all, you're like the super one of sex. I can have some multiple orgasms as well.

Right, during, during, in a horse, so yeah, so many women. But not like, not like 50 in 30 minutes. I can. That's like, if you give me the most of one, I can do, I can have like 20. Magic one. Oh, I can't,

I can't believe you're record. Yeah, what do you do? I counted 20. Yeah, really? I haven't really. like like one I can't do 20 yeah really how do you do an account that seems to

distract well I want to know I want to say for you to go with it the master comes in and I'm late I got to go I think it's really uncomfortable for a minute and then it just gets more

intense you got to push past it you got to keep going you got to keep going so you like exactly how I'm just telling you everything I know I love to get to me You got to push past it. You got to push past it. You got to keep going. You got to keep going. So you're like, exactly. I'm just telling you everything. I know. I love seeing you get to me. You just go for an hour. It's good. So this new guy you're dating.

Sure. I just want to know how long did you wait to have sex with him? It's OK if you didn't. No, we did. OK. Yeah, I think it's important. I mean, I don't, you know, you know, many roles around that. I don't. I've never, like, I've never's important. I mean, I don't, you know, you know, how many roles around that?

I don't, I've never, like, I've never slept around. I've never, even during this time of dating, you know, I've always been in long-term relationships. So at least five years. And you know, this is throughout my 20s, you know, long relationship, I would go right into another one without a break, which was well known, wasn't good. So a lot of that going on and then this these this past couple years actually I wanted

to date, you know, how did you meet guys? So how do you, but I want I don't have sex right away. I want I want them to wait and I want to know because I don't want to let's feel Gross or sit there exactly why do I do that and then also being who you are don't you think that a lot of men I mean I have it at a much smaller scale But I think people would be like oh sex thenly I'm gonna walk in will be like a sex swing and be crazy You know me so you buy I don't think that guys are like making assumptions. I'm sure you are amazing and bad But you also don't want to get, you got to like,

you don't want to just give it off. And guys would just want to be able to say to their friends by a sex of carbon electros. So you got to be worried about that too. And then when you're dating, like it's interesting because, you know, since I didn't do it my 20s, I thought, this is what I need to do. I need to go on some dates and, you know,

meet a lot of people. Doesn't mean you're having sex as mean you're even kissing exactly you know how to meet this guy did you like to stop with him did you know I met him accidentally I was going into record a song and he has a studio next door to my label and they were having problems with the technical. Yeah, technical problems. So they walked me over. You're a technical person, you're going to fix it? No, she's the guy was.

Oh, okay. You were, you were there. No, my late mom. The recording studio at my label, they were having technical issues. That's like, comment, we need to fix this thing over here. She's so technical. Are you kidding? She can work the magic wand though, okay?

I can't turn that on. Yeah. Wait until the new one. You want to see his different levels. It's a whole different thing. Okay. That's how you call, are you kidding? She can work the magic wand though, okay? I can't turn that on. Wait till the new one, you gotta see his different levels as a whole different thing, okay? But anyway, so you met this guy and then, well yeah, I went into record and then everyone left and I was alone and I felt really shy all of a sudden and we would just, we vibed off of each other.

Wow, you felt it right away. Didn't get the song done that night at all, but didn't do anything else. I mean, we just basically talked. Okay. We talked a lot. And um, he, you know, asked me for my number and, you know, you sure texting and stuff at first. Don't you feel like now? Yeah, we were texting a lot, but, but I do believe that at some point, you have to get on the phone. Yeah, exactly. We're old school. I don't want to stop texting me at make a plan with me or calm. Yeah.

I had a date with someone that I that I was really attracted to at one point. And he would only text. I hate that. And he just said, I don't, I don't talk. It's not the sign of real man. He said, I don't talk on the phone. And I'm like, well, how, how do I get to know you? Right.

If I can't hear your tone, I'm a wicked good text. I was he like younger I'm just wondering if it's a younger generation. No actually he was I hate him Talk to me. Yeah, maybe an assistant who text for him. I made him really small Who knows I mean the thing about yeah, I can't go out because then you realize I just spend an hour and a half Like this happen to the sky was dating one night We're like texting for an hour and a half and then he was like come over I'm like dude. I would have come over an hour and a half ago when we started texting, but now I wanted to say.

We wasted all this time. Exactly. We are all wasting our lives texting. Like life is just like, I'm gonna be like, oh, I texted, and I got it. I love a good text. I like to text. You can get your point across, you can get it.

Yeah, like, I'll be there in 10 minutes, sorry. But if you're dating and you're getting to know someone, at some point, I wanna get to know you, I wanna hear your tone. Right, I mean, you can misinterpret texts. Exactly, you know. I told you. I don't know, I know.

I got it, so this guy's good, so you're dating, it's fairly new, sex is fun now, it's good. You're like, you're not gonna talk to him about it. Okay, so if you had to give everyone, we've been dating for three months, okay? It's new but not. But so far, so good you had to give everyone, we've been dating for three months. So it's new but I'm doing good. But so far so good. I'm happy.

Do you feel like that you, for example, the dirty talk? Cause I'm seriously like, I'm gonna admit this, but I love the dirty talk and I'm not even great at initiating if they don't. So I've been seeing someone and I'm like, we never talked dirty and I'm thinking, I guess I gotta start talking dirty to them.

That's a lot of pressure for a guy, guys. It really is. It's an instant switch for me. You just can't have it you're like I'm turned on I mean you know I know the guy doesn't parents me on it's the wrong thing though you know I'm always wearing to put my foot in my mouth and say something just horrible about her mom or

something you know what I mean I'm like a sign for that when he's like do you want me to lay out your mother's panties do you remember that sign? Jerry that said that George it was Jerry and she was like, what? I'm afraid I'm going to say something just completely cut the mood off. So I don't even say anything. So you have a really dirty mind and... That's pretty fucked, yeah.

Yeah. But you got married, like someone married, um, so... That's true. But maybe she likes your dirty, sick mind. Uh-huh. We'll never know, because I'm not going to talk dirty to her. I know, exactly. Okay.

Um, I think we've got to wrap this up. So I'll be of time for it. I'm so glad got to wrap this up. Stop it. I have time for it. I'm so glad to have you. Oh my god. I know. Well, there's more. I mean, do you want to give me like your top sex tip?

Your top lube slash sex tip. I just have to... I just have to... Top sex tip. I've got that. I've got that. It's, you know, I mean, it's all about, you know, sort of liking the same things, I guess. And, you know, like I said, I like to role play,

I like to have fun. Sometimes I just like to wake up in the morning and like half asleep and have sex. Like, I love blood jobs. I love blood jobs. I love blood jobs. Yeah. Yeah.

You're like giving up. Right. Don't you think you always have to do like interrelated stuff? You hear these stories like, oh, I got married, I stopped getting blood jobs. Like, why would you do that? Why would you stop? If I was like, I'm not going to do that. This is a marriage thing.

You know, all of a sudden, that's a big issue. You better do more. Yeah, you better do more. Yeah, take up the pace. When you stop having sex, you are roommates, people. When you stop giving blood jobs, you're cliche. I don't want to hear that that happens. Okay, but I mean, I can understand everyone likes

what they like and that's what I'm talking about. Yeah. But if your guy doesn't like blood, you're fine, but most of the matter of, you know, being sexually attracted to each other and liking the same thing. Exactly. You know, right. Okay.

Carmen, what else do we have to know? So your Lou, we can get a flashlight. You can call it a lecture Lou. Electro Lou. I like that. pH balance for women, sensitive and warming. See, we have this deal with flashlight. So, if you go to my website and you click on the flashlight banner and you enter code Emla,

you get a free bottle of the Lube if you buy a flashlight. But I'm wondering if we can have it and switch it out. We are partners. Oh, I'm one of you. Oh, no, no, no. I want to email them tomorrow and see if it can be the common electro-loop that they now throw if you buy a flashlight. Oh yeah, that'd be great.

That's a great idea. Yeah, email. The mother know. That's a great idea. I know, right? Because people like it's a part of the team. We're like a team. I love that.

We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers. I love it. We're like backup dancers. I love it. We're like backup dancers. I love it. We're like backup dancers to each other.

We're like backup dancers to each other. I love it. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We're like backup dancers to each other. We thing they all do. Aw, Carmen you're so beautiful and pretty sexy and thank you for being here, I really appreciate it. They should have me. Yeah, and they can find you, Carmen Electra, Twitter, Instagram, all that stuff, yeah. Okay, as of now, basically, ElectroLubus, you can get it online. Yeah, plus like.com.

And then I will definitely post and let everyone know when you can get in stores. Okay cool. That's great Speaking of stores hustler for you, right? What oh, yeah, oh yeah tonight I'll be teaching a workshop at hustler Hollywood It's has an anal sex month so I'm teaching an anal sex workshop It's anal sex month elect right. How do you not know? Happy anal sex month. I'm sorry. I didn't wish you no sex month and I'm sorry to bring a book plug but I did bring you a magic I know I'm teaching people how to just have fun with a play you don't like anal sex is a lot of

nerve-riding a lot here's probably people to think do it wrong and the guys jobs in no loob and they do wrong and hate it you know black cubes said like black history month get stamps I wonder if anal anal month is ever going to get a stamp I'm going to write to the book. I'm gonna write to the government tomorrow exactly because they're all in Ashley Madison Anyway, all those government officials that you goddamn have they should work on one electos stamp Okay, Carmen. Thanks for being here and thank you for listening and Thank you Madison for great show. Thank you Anderson. Love you dearly and thanks everyone Was it good for you? Email me. Feedback at sexwithemily.com.

Okay, everybody. You know that I love sex toys. And I also like jewelry. So I am obsessed with my gorgeous vibrator necklace, which is the Vestor by Crave, Carmen. Do you know about this? Okay, guess what? Guess what? You're gonna die, and you're gonna die. Christmas is Christmas. It is Christmas.

Okay, so let's open that up. We can open it up for you. So it is a, it's the most amazing thing. I wear it all the time. People were like, oh, I love your necklace. I'm like, thanks. Oh, it's also a vibrator. And it is a charge USB. I know you're not technical, but I'm gonna show you how to do this. It comes in

silver gold rose gold. That's a, oh, those are my candles. Those are my massage candles, but first those are for you, but first open the the crave necklace. And I wish I could give them to all of you, but right now I'm just gonna give it to Carmen and she's gonna blow our mind because it's actually a really powerful vibrator. And when people look at it and they're like, oh my god, that's a vibrato. You're serious and it's the perfect gift Julie press orgasms who the hell doesn't want that Let's wait for Carmen to open this and like it. It's mess. Maybe you just help her Very long nails. Okay, so let's take a minute. Yes, you can show her how to okay It's it let the charger it comes actually already charge it's by craved you go to love crave.com and I think if you use code emily you get free shipping or something

but check this out it is so let me just show it here. Let me show me. Come to this little sticker right here so it'll take a few. So do you just rock it as a fashion statement? Oh I can't tell you I wear it every I wear it layering piece. And then people are like, oh, that's really cool. And I'm like, oh, look at this. What about it gone? Looks like you put coconut, too. Yeah, people think people have thought it's a drug thing.

I'm like, oh, that would not be what I'm about. Sex is a drug. So, okay, so yeah, you just wear like this. This can become addicted. I feel this. Okay, so it's like a real Carmen, you know vibrator. So, feel a power for those I love their pocket rocket, so that's oh my god. I know that's the high. Okay, right my hands are getting turned on

You can play with that the button Right there, so you click on it I'm gonna fire can right but it's quiet and I'm not tired. Right, but it's quiet. And it does the pulsing now. It does the pulsing one. Oh, that's the new magic wand is the pulsing too. But it does the pulsing.

You have like five different levels, five different speeds, I think. And then a little, it's amazing. I did the same. And then you always have a vibrator on you. And then I, you turn it off. You just hold it for three seconds. You got it, right? And then you wear it as a layering piece and people freaking freak out about it. So that's your other present.

Oh, another present. Oh, I also have a, okay, so go to Love Crayette.com. And also I've got candles, which I brought you. They're massage candles. Have you ever used a massage candle before? I have.

Okay. These are yours. Yeah, this is my brand. It's called Emily and Tony. And the thing about these are these. They're vegan. They are the most luxurious thing you've ever felt on your body, they do not burn you,

they are not waxy, messier hot, and they burn, those are the little travel size ones, they're called the Menagetois, and it comes in fougère, vanilla, smell them, you're gonna die, and cocoa. And you light it, and then you blow it out, and yeah, you could just have them, they smell amazing, I just light them as candles,

and here's our thing. I, if I don't have someone to massage, which sometimes I do not, every night, I just light them in my house. I was just tripping it out. Yeah, no one telling you. It's coconut and you, it coconut, and I use it as a moisturizer at night. It's not messy.

It's gonna shake. It smells really good. I know, they're amazing. They're from France. Just to burn it as a candle. Oh yeah, totally. I do it every night. I get home and I blow it out.

I just use it in my house because it's a room of therapy as well So let it is a regular candle and then you pour it out in your body and your body soft and smooth Go to Emily Tony that kind of use code election. It's you know, it's it's not y, but there's a there's a classiness exactly it's high-end intimate care. Yeah, it is It's high-end. That's where it is. It's at our comfort. It's it. I'll tell you all about it But go to Emily Tony that I want to do as well. A massage candle? High end.

Oh, high end. Yours is high end, Loub. Exactly. Like, you know, yeah, classy. It's, you know, it's still Loub. Yeah, it's Loub, but it's sexual. It's sophisticated, but exactly. So, you enjoy that.

Carmen, everyone else. Well, I guess it depends on what you do with the Loub, though. Yeah. Right, you can. Exactly. Sex is fun, people. Okay, we should be fun. It should be fun, right? If you're notbe though. Right, you can, exactly. Sex is fun people. Okay, I'm really sure that. It should be fun. Right?

If you're not having fun. Right, have fun, I don't know. Right, then there's a problem. Then keep listening to my show. Yeah. 2000 podcast, God's Famous. Lots of tips. Lots of tips.

Because I just learned a lot. I taught you something. Yeah, you did. It's time to talk. This has been such a good day. Most days I'm like, ah, you know, I think I did okay, but today I just taught. I know, right? It's a good time.

It's definitely. We have fun here. So thank you, everyone. Use code Emily, go to EmilyAntone.com, and thank you everyone. Thanks for listening. Love you.