Sex With Emily - Sex Myths

Episode Date: October 5, 2011

Why San Francisco is the most sexually promiscuous city, women dressing up as sexy Star Wars characters, sexting ex's, who doesn't?, it's sex toy day at the Sex With Emily office, is a wingwoman better than a wingman?, female erogenous zones you didn't know about, G-spot parties, women who orgasm from nipple play alone, sex myths debunked. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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breast play, and how to make sex more than mediocre. Find out also our sex tips today will find out why size does and does not matter because today we will be debunking sex myths. I'm going to be giving Manus a quiz later to see a quiz. I like that. Do you like a quiz? Yeah. To your false. No, true. I like it. I like it. Sure. I always want to win. True. Right. I'm giving you a sex quiz later. Yeah. You're going to be quiz in all the common sex myths. To who? Like who's saying you're giving you a preview? Why you being nervous? Oh, okay. No, I'm not getting nervous, but I always want to check your sources.

These are reputable sources. You know that I've always got my sources down. I know. So, yeah. But I'm just saying if you're getting it from a woman, then it's probably not right. Oh, yeah. Good for you, man. Right.

I love giving you a hard time. I know you do. I don't get mad. I just feel my eyes. So, okay. So it's a really time. I know you do. I don't get mad. I just fall in love. I just fall in love. Um, so, okay, so it's a really big day in San Francisco today. It's two-packs birthday. Did you know that?

No, I did not know that. And what you've been 40 today. Really? Yeah. Oh. That's why it's a big day. No. Okay.

It's a big day because there was a study that came out sponsored by Trojan, who knows their sex. Okay. Sanfernt, okay, this was on msnbc.com. San by Trojan, who knows their sex. Okay. San Francisco. Okay. This was on MSNBC.com. San Francisco. You're so naughty and so open about it. San Francisco was named the most sexually promiscuous city in America.

Number one, San Francisco. I feel so I feel so proud. And I like to feel that we're based in San Francisco that maybe I've had something to do with it. Not personally. No, but we're so naughty. It that maybe I've had something to do with it. Did that not personally? Oh my god. No, but we're so naughty. It says that I mean, it's crazy. These stats and it says Chicago is at the bottom of the list.

Okay. So San Francisco, I know, I know, I know, honey. It's done. So it says that, but we don't. Okay. According to the report, 90% of San Francisco's San Francisco's both, they know how to satisfy their partners sexually. And here are a few more sexy stats of San Francisco's San Francisco's boats, they know how to satisfy their partners sexually. And here are a few more sexy stats from San Francisco.

Response in San Francisco, 48% reported that they like that they use a vibrator. So almost half the people in the women in San Francisco are men are using vibrators. Half the people, I mean half the women in San Francisco are not satisfied sexually by a man. Yeah. So they need a utensil? No, that's not why I could use vibrators. It's an addition. Are you really going to have this conversation with me?

I'm just saying. Okay. So this is something that's, I don't know, San Francisco tops the list for the most number of sexual partners. We've had sex with more people in San Francisco. Oral sex at 18 partners and anal sex at 12 partners. Hors. Yep, San Francisco 24% is the least likely to believe

in absence before marriage. And San Francisco is one of two cities most likely to say they learned about sex from an adult video in the internet. Anyway, I did. That's how I learned about sex. What was a porno? Really?

I was six years old, yeah. Oh, that's right. You saw the porno and you were like, I already knew what was going on, which was weird years old. Oh, that's right. You saw the porno and you were like, I already knew what was going on, which was weird to me. Yeah, that is weird. Are you sure you knew? Yeah, I knew. You knew that it was what? What did you think was happening?

I think that they were, I don't know how it triggered in my brain, but I knew they were having sex. Right. I don't know. I can't explain it. Right. But I knew. When did you start masturbating? Yesterday. I don't know.

OK. No wage. Normal wage? Yeah. OK. Just curious. Because I didn't tell later, as you know. So OK. So that's a big thing about San Francisco.

I was just excited. I just found this like five minutes ago. And it says, you're so naughty and open. I just love that. I love San Francisco because we just don't care. And the city we're running naked down the street as we come rather whole home. It's no surprise that we're the number one

per miscruci city. There's always naked people. Like you're like whatever naked person. Don't care. Don't care. Like there's just random stuff happening all the time. It always tricks me out that there would be some events and there's always like naked people right in front of city hall.

Right. Right in front of city hall. I know. Just but I know. I know. Just but I love it. I know. We're good. But we also are doing messed up stuff legislated like in the legislation like we're supposed to like

we banned Happy Males last year and I know that's other things that we do. We're just a little quirky crazy city. This is this is it makes you feel like proud. Like I feel like I become like I'm a San Francisco. I mean I'm not from here initially as you know, but I feel like a San Francisco skin, like kind of this is what's promiscuous and crazy what? There's a lot of a lot of a lot of weirdos, right?

Right. And these weirdos have so much freaking free time versus the people that are just actually just working all the time, just, you know, trying to get by. Right. That all the weirdos are at City Hall constantly Like getting these crazy laws passed. I know I know I know it sits. Yeah, so the people are actually like it affects It's not that just the I made a film about that. I made a film about pal politics in San Francisco

If anyone's interested, it's called see how they run Mm-hmm And you can rent it on Netflix or download it on iTunes. And it's a documentary all about San Francisco politics and how insanely insane we are in liberal and a little bit crazy. This is nuts. But what was the legislation just last week? There was something that we were going to ban.

And it was like, it was a circumcision. The circumcision. Yeah. And then there was something else. There was something else like a day later, circumcision. You can't ban circumcision. Pl plastic bags that's weird like do you can you imagine if you're watching these are like we don't have plastic bags like you cannot get a plastic bag in San Francisco. It's weird. I know. And then if it's raining and you're walking

you're aft. I'm sorry. Because there's no plastic bags. They rip all the time. Okay. We have the paper bags every time I'm coming home from the because you bag. They rip all the time. Okay. We have the paper bags every time I'm coming home from the because you know I eat out all the time. Yeah. Oh, speaking of it yesterday. So you really have the show yesterday, you really got me thinking when you said to me, what do I bring to the table in a relationship? Yeah.

So that's why let's rewind. That's rewind. Okay. So you know, as everyone know, we're doing a daily show. And I was going to get that. Okay. So yesterday, menace asked me since I don't cook and I've never cooked for a man in my entire life.

He asked what I bring to the table besides sex and a relationship. And your answer was I'm fun. So I asked the guy that I did some studying. I did. I talked to guys that I've dated. I like made some full calls and like why'd you date me? Like I never cooked for you. I never planned for you. Did I really make you like, like, trip out by saying that? No, I just thought it was funny.

Um, and so, no, I didn't trip out, but I was like, no, what happened was because I'm supposed to go out with this guy. So you remember the guy that I was dating a few months ago who was like, you never called me and you never made plans. So then this guy that I had been dating was like, oh, well, what do you want to do starting night? And I was like, so we were on the phone last night

and I said, it's gonna be a plan. And I said, am I really bad? I said, I don't really care. I don't really know. Oh, great. See what he messed up. I don't even know why he said that to you. So I said, so I said, what do I bring to the table?

So that's when I've got it. Oh, no. Do I bring anything to the table besides besides sex? And he's like, yes, he answered me and I wrote it down because I had to write it down. He said I have exuberant energy, explosive, exuberant energy. That's what I bring. So does people that do cocaine? But I don't do cocaine. I'm naturally exuberant. That's what I bring to the table. No, I don't cook or clean or anything like that,

but you just hire someone to clean eventually. Energy, what does that energy do? I'm trying to explain. Don't you know, but why do you like me? Like, why do you like me? Why do you like hanging out with me? Cause I'm fun. I'm fun, energy.

Cause that was an extension on the fun thing. No, it's fun. Okay, here's another story. So what what was fun? I did a really good deal. It's like general because I'm awesome. Uh-huh. Okay. So Here's a thing so Ruby I'm telling the story. I forgot it. Skip. Anyways, last night. Last night I went to... And yet, I told you.

Live shows. I went and saw the green horn at last night. Oh, oh right. It was a press screening, right? Yeah, I went and saw it and I really enjoyed it. So people wanted to go. I'm not like a green hornet, likeatic a purist. I'd write nothing about it I don't know anything about it either so I enjoyed it. It's you know a comic movie. You can't take it too seriously

Right it was good So if you are doing something this weekend, you want to go see the green hornet. I suggest go see really but it's um Ryan Reynolds and and Blake lively right? Yeah, and she looks smoking hot in it. Ryan Reynolds as a man, I can say this guy is so fit that it makes you feel bad about yourself. Oh really? Yeah. Seriously? Like so girls, you loved seeing this guy. Kids, he has a shirt off. Oh, see, I heard a review this morning and someone was reviewing it and they were saying that It wasn't good and then he wasn't very good in it as a lead as a as a as a main character You can't listen like cuz I sit with these critic a holes all the time

Uh-huh and they try to go in there. Why didn't you take me to this? I thought you were gonna take me to movie screenings that you get all these tickets see I'm trying to get to my point Oh, okay, you're not interrupting me hold on so But you can't take the credit critics people seriously because they think they're gonna go in there and see the next citizen Kane or something like that, you know or the next clockwork orange, so you have to know that it's like Right go with what type of movie that you like and don't listen to critics, okay, but anyways I did not invite you because I've been trying to get, you know, more engaged and more interactive with people on my Facebook.

So I've been throwing like basic questions out there, right? So the other basic question was, Star Wars or Star Trek? Right. And everyone was getting into it. And then here comes Emily Morris on my Facebook and says Neither What?

But neither I don't want to see either one of those Star Trek or Star Wars So why would you be bad if I didn't take you to the Green Lantern? If you don't like Star Wars, no because you're asked to be talking through the whole God I wouldn't talk again. Yes, you do. I'd be so scared to go to movie with you again That I would seriously I'd be so scared to go to movie to you again that I would I seriously I'd be so quiet I can't guarantee that I would sit still but I wouldn't I wouldn't talk the whole time I seriously wanted murder some lady that was making noise like really yeah well okay so I you know that I won't talk again yeah but how okay

let me guess you never seen Star Wars now I've seen Star Wars I love Star Wars I just was like who neither one at that moment because when I read your Facebook Okay, let me guess you've never seen Star Wars. No, I've seen Star Wars. I love Star Wars. I just was like, who? Neither one at that moment. Because when I read your Facebook post, I was like, no, neither. We're not right now. Do you know how many people commented? I know a lot of you.

And then they started talking crap about you because you're like, oh my God, come on. I was like, neither. Done. That's not what I want. If I was sitting in your house and you're like, let's watch a movie and you're like, would you want Star Trek or Star Wars? I was like, neither. I know that wasn't the point.

The point was if I had to choose, and I would choose neither. That hurts, man. I'm sorry, baby. I mean, I'm not like a super hardcore nerd. Why'd you ask? Why'd you want to know? Because I knew that would cause a debate, and I just wanted to see what people thought. And I was so social media savvy.

Yeah, and I wanted to see. And I wanted to see if the star track nerds would come in Defend star wars because obviously star wars is the more popular choice right and Check this out. So getting leading back to sex. You know how many like hot chicks that are into star wars that just like Dress up and like star war outfits like practically naked all the time on the internet, you can find it everywhere. No, I didn't know that. Yeah. Like people who have like fetishes around,

not fetishes, or they're just turned on by. They just like, like, literally into it, and then, but they dress like super sexy, but they're like, you know, dark Vader and stuff like that. I didn't know, I didn't know that. Yeah, it's pretty amazing. And there's like so much. Is that where you go for your entertainment?

To go check out naked chicks in dark Vaderider outfits. Yeah, I don't know But I'm saying I recognize dark eight her or something is that what's probably There's like a lot of a lot of Hot chicks are just becoming super like comic book nerds and stuff like that's great Do you like that you consider yourself a nerd right do or no? Oh, yeah, I guess, but I'm not like hardcore into the comic book. No, we need that. Obviously. I would have gone to the movie.

I would have I do. I, um, nothing, I worked. You didn't do anything, you're like, no, I'm trying to think, I'm trying to think, and what did I do last night? So you know, you called up every ex-boyfriend and say, what did I do last night? Oh, I called every ex-boyfriend and said,

oh, and then I had other feedback? Yeah, I did. Well, because my ex texted me like, why do we, he's going through a problem with his girlfriend now? So he texted me and he was like, why are we, why did we break up again? And oh my God, dude, this guy,

it's either two things. You, all right? Number one. This is what he said. I'm reading you his text. You're so goddamn ridiculous. Like, either you marry this guy or stop talking to him because it's not healthy Do you want to hear he said he just out of the blue when I needed a little ego boost last night because I was already feeling lame

Because you told me that I'm not worth dating I said dating but I'm the same you need to like pick up some skills He said I miss you for lots of reasons including but not limited to one how chill you are I miss you for lots of reasons, including but not limited to one how chill you are To how fun you are Three how easy does to be with you and for your infinite hotness He said what happened? Why aren't we together anymore? I need to get laid What time was it and then we kind of had phone sex, but I didn't really have phone sex. He had phone I had fun. He had fun sex

It was late. I was it was a newer. I don't know who's New York was in New York. I don't know. Anyway, I don't know. I was, oh my god. It's so like, I had a cold dream. I wasn't working. Exactly. He's like, I miss you in blah, blah, blah.

Oh god, that's so lame. And then he's like, remember that time when he wanted that fun sex? But I didn't really like, I was focused on work anyway. So lame. Lame. Okay, let's get into something.

So don't know, let's back to the down room. So what are you gonna do about that? I'm telling you now. I It's not healthy or I never talked to him. I never taught I mean we like text this is don't you have girls in Texas? But do you know what when you talk to honey? I'm so not hung up on him I do not oh my god. Ew like if I could tell you the million reasons why we're not just to be together We're not just to be together. We're not just to be together I just don't talk into that it's funny. It's funny because I like that he says nice things about me What about eventually you find a guy that's not into chicks that cook or clean and

He wants to be with you, right? Right and then you have this guy No, then I'll be done with him. I just haven't found anybody. I just haven't committed to anybody in a long time. So I still have the people hanging around that I text. Big deal. Who doesn't? Everyone does that. I'm just saying. How many girls are you texting that you sleep with? Still, look at my phone. You don't text any girls randomly? No, stupid. Really? Yeah. that you sleep with. Oh, look at my phone. You don't text any girls, Randall? Oh, look at my phone. No, stupid. Really?

Yeah. I like it. My friends and I like it. We like to get the tattoo. Women, we like to get that something, like a little, maybe fielded. I was like, oh, good. He likes me. Still, that's good.

All right. I think we should move on. Go for it. Text in the news. Well, we already talked about the biggest news. Yeah. San Francisco, you're so naughty. Yeah. and then the other news. Can I just clear it up? Oh, yes, we know is resigned we resigned. He did I can't believe it It's so funny because my cousin is a reporter in Arizona and she's like I'm

I'm so happy that I resigned so now I don't have to talk about him every again. And I'll report her. Right, exactly. Exactly. I know I know it got to be too much, but I can't, but yeah, he had to, he resigned, but that's not what I was going to talk about. All right. I had other Wiener news.

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Speaking about Weiner, his wife is way too hot for him. I told you how hot she was. I told you last week and you're like, no, someone said no. Not me. She's hot. She's beautiful. She's classic. She's stunning.

Yeah, she's like, but I don't think she's going to leave him. I think just got married a year ago. I heard that she wasn't gonna leave them not for now at least well i don't know now now that now what the hell is he gonna do now everyone knows what he looks like what what do you do hopefully has money in the bank i don't know some what you know what what spitzer though elliott spitzer when he had his whole sex scandal when he was

governor well no he wasn't governor. He's Senator. What was he? Spitzer? Elliot Spitzer in New York, whatever he was, Senator. So he is now hosting a show on CNN. And he had a sex scandal with prostitutes. Yeah, but he had like, at least had some like,

Christmas and stuff like that. Not really. Elliot Spitzer, like I turn his CNN and I'm like, really? Elliot Spitzer, like he is a sex scandal and he's sleeping with prostitutes and paying them out of state money and now they see an end and make some a reporter I don't understand that because he and a million people like a type of He's not attractive and y'all you think of him his with the prostitute. No tell the CDO tell room Yeah, but that's what that makes you tune in do you know CNN? No, I tune off

Well, okay, go ahead what CNN's losing so bad in ratings versus Fox News So they're just like that's the only channel they have at my gym, that in the food channel, guess what I watch. Food? No, I could give it crap about the food channel. The food channel is so boring. If you don't cook,

and you don't have any utensils or anything, pornography for me. Is it the food channel? Do you really watch the food channel? I mean, I know people do. I just like at another planet. I want to do my own video podcast about doing little cooking shows.

Come on. You cook? For real? For real? How come I don't believe you? Well, how can you not believe me? When do you, when do you have time to cook? I'm not the only person on the planet that cooks.

A lot of people cook. I know, but I just don't imagine you cooking. Okay. What's the secret of hot sex? Science weighs in. A new study suggests that the key to hot sex is plain old empathy. Empathy. Empathy. Empathic. Empathic individuals are more responsive to partner's needs and thus initiate a positive feedback cycle. So researchers in the

university that they studied the psychological profiles of over 3,200 men and women, they looked at self-esteem, autonomy, and empathy, and three sexual measures. This is a little confusing here. orgasmic regularity, enjoyment of receiving, and giving oral sex. So that's what the study looked at, and they found that the people with empathy who were more empathic towards each other were having better sex. But the thing that was most interesting about this study was the authors were surprised to find men were more likely than women to enjoy performing oral sex. And I do not find that to be the case. Where was this study held?

It was a big study. I don't know. It was at, um um from a university some university yeah no it's real it's real not like reading BS so anyway in pathics we've got me thinking about guys that I date that usually are I think that that's big some guy who's empathy who can who can relate to you and respond to you and be there for you emotionally yeah but they're just doing that because they want to get laid that's fine though but I'm more sexually

they're showing the people who are have a high empathic barriers are having better sex. Doesn't matter if it's genuine or not. I don't care. Just pretend. Exactly. So I thought that was interesting. And again, that the authors were surprised to find that men were more likely than women

to enjoy performing oral sex. I feel like the who are all these women who are giving performing oral sex? They're out there. It's so fun. So many women hate it. I don't get it. But I feel like men don't like it more than with that. That would be my, yeah, I'm surprised too, just like the... No, I think it's equal. It's equal playing field, honestly. I don't know. I think I taught you what it was. My member on the show, like years ago, I taught you had to say it Conalingus when menace was just a young boy Dating on the go. There's a new how there's a new how about we how about we's mobile app? It's called so it's a new app that allows you to find a date quickly without having to sit at your computer

You can post and browse cool dates in your area. So basically the scenario is that you're having a drink at your favorite bar and suddenly find yourself wishing there was someone in that empty bar still next to yours. Take out your phone and check out other people's who've posted dates in your area, find someone like you, you can message them and then you can go find them if they're nearby. So it's not so different than those other apps, but... Grindr. Grindr. But this is like a date.

They're coming up with dates in the moment that are happening. And you can join someone like if you're at your alone drinking tequila by yourself at the bar. Yeah. I mean, I guess I can work. I don't know. That's, that one is all on the women if they want to meet up with guys. No, I think it'll be guys doing it too. I mean, it's kind of like an immediate, no, do you think women are gonna really post like, hey, so future hotel room to fix feel facilitate virtual I had some to kill I have to minute now just kidding okay future hotel room to facilitate virtual sex as travel lodge So you know we've been talking a lot about like the virtual what about you wanted people to be able to have sex during the show Yeah, like the USB plug in and then there's some device that has sex with you while you're

listening to them. Yeah, right. That's what we're going to do. But you don't have to use your own hand. Exactly. The lazy people out there. They say the travel add is unveiled what the hotel room of the future will look like and it involves virtual love making.

Apparently remote virtual love making will be possible by the year 2030 allowing individuals to connect with their partner. 2030? Uh-huh. Of course. To connect with their partner, but it doesn't even sound, couples will be able to benefit from the ability to link peripheral nervous systems via active skin electronics together for enhanced love making. So it's like connecting your nervous systems through the through the, I don't even know how they were going to do that. I don't know I don't know it doesn't sound very hot. They have just watch porn. I heard today I made someone else they have sex robots in Japan now That sounds cold

Just kind of cold I'm sure there's how a pathic is a robot not very empathic all that Probably no no no no no no they saying, I'm remembering now that the robot, the robot will recognize its owner and be able to have a conversation with the owner. Really? Will it tell me that I look nice today? Yeah. You look nice today.

Nice ass. You program it. Really? Yeah. I don't think it's come to that yet, but it's nice to know that they're options. And you know what? You probably don't have to make it dinner either. Perfect. It would be the perfect. I got to charge it. So today,

just backing up with sex toy day at Sex Family. You know, my interns have had a very active week. We first went to the canceled oral sex class. And then, but then they were entertained by my sex school friends that told that whole story the other day. But then we got sex toys from Adam and Eve because Adam and Eve is our sponsor and we love Adam and Eve. Everyone go to Adam and Eve.com. You get 50% off any item plus three adult DVDs and I'm free shipping and you have to use coupon code

Emily at checkout. Anyway, they provided us with a bunch of sex toys today. So I was so excited because I came in late to the office because I had a meeting this morning and I walked in and there was a box and I was like, oh, what's that? And I was like, oh my God, it bunch of sex toys today. So I was so excited because I came in late to the office because I had a meeting this morning, and I walked in. And there was a box, and I was like, oh, what's that? And I was like, oh my God, it's our sex toys. So we open the box, and everyone's get sex toys,

because the interns got to pick out which toys they, why are you looking here? No, obviously, I'm trying to visualize what's going on right now. So it's in my office, and we rip open the box because I had them all pick out which sex toys they want to review, because we're starting a new intern sex toy review segment on the show. So we got all these sex toys and I'm so excited.

We got rabbits, they all picked out what they wanted. I had nothing to do. They could pick out whatever they wanted. So am I corrupting them or not? What do you think? I think it's a good thing. Just because I took them to an oral sex class and make them try out sex toys.

And then we're gonna do porn reviews But I think it's part of the whole sex family experience. Oh my god. I don't know how I feel about this But I mean if they're into it then fine. They're totally into it. I'm so excited. So what kind of toys are we excited? What kind of toys did they pick? You don't they picked they picked um rabbit. There's rabbits Someone picked a rabbit like a like a supercharged rabbit and and then There's rabbits, someone picked a rabbit, like a supercharged rabbit. And then a butterfly, something, I don't know what that is. We're going to learn what it is.

What is there like volunteering, like Kelsey's like, I'll do it this weekend, like she's ready, like they're psyched, they're going to go home and do it. And then there is, I don't know, they sent us pocket rockets, they sent me this little nubby finger thing. It's a vibrator that just goes on your finger and it's Lovey, yeah, I think it's cool. Yeah, I think you had that before I have had that I it's a new one though. They're all souped up. They sent us all their new toys. I'm like I can't tell you how exciting that is Like I wanted to write a song about it. Okay. Yeah, I'm eager to see the reviews. I love getting new sex toys. It's like I don't know I mean, I guess it's like how other people

feel about food or something. How many sex toys do you think you have? The opened or unopened? I'm just together collectively. Not just the whole sex toys do I have. Not the ones in my trunk. I move them out of my trunk because I got a new car. And I'm sure you waited to the last moment.

I think it's more interesting to ask me how many I've tried, how many I've opened and how many I've opened. Okay. But I have to do the math separately. I probably have about 30 vibrators that I've tried or like that are opened. Maybe I tried them once, 40, 30. I'm running out of room. Let's just say that.

They're in boxes like under my bed. But then there's like my go-to vibrators. So I don't really like, I'll use a vibrator and then I'll I should do the vibrator reviews for Christ sake, but what's the most awkward vibrator you think you've gotten? The most awkward? Yeah, the most like, because some of them are shaped weird. of them are shaped weird. Oh, I've, I had some that were like really, some that were like really, really, really big. Like, yeah, too big to like horse size. Yeah, like, that didn't even dream.

Do I want this like too big? Okay. But I don't know if I got anything really odd. I mean, there's fun stuff like the vibrating panties. You weren't here on my birthday show when I showed the vibrating panties, right? Were you here? No. Like, I love my vibrating panties.

Like, I need to find another guy to do that with because I did it with this one guy where, I'm sure some guys were psyched to use it again. I won't tell them that I've used it before. But anyway, the vibrating panties, you remember this from last year, but they're so cool. They sell these at Adam and Eve too, and they have a little vibrator in the crotch, which doesn't hate that word, but it's in the crotch and you put it in there and then your partner holds the remote control and then remote can like turn you on

if you're at a party or something. So that's kind of fun. But it's not crazy. That's the movie that we want to go see. It was in that movie. They did the same thing. Oh, that's right. Yeah, that you talked through the whole time.

That was not the movie I talked through the whole time. Where to God, that's the movie. No, you're causing better memories than you do. You have the worst memory ever. Cause I, I, um, I don't know why I have a bad memory. I have a lot of things in my mind. It's mostly just obsessive thoughts and they kick out all the other stuff that's not that important. They kick out a lot of emails, too. They kick out a lot of things. I think, um, okay, so what have I already done? Emails yes emails. Let's do emails and are people including where they're from in the emails? Yes, everyone including from some people do some people don't but we want you to and we want to know where you're from

If you don't want to you know say your name just change your name Lot of people change your name change your name and then tell me where you're from Yeah, and you I don't use your name unless you put your name and I lot of people change your name. Change your name and then tell me where you're from. Yeah, and I don't use your name unless you put your name. And I've even changed names for people sometime. Because I'm like, they didn't tell me to change your name, but I'm going to change their name. Because I make that decision for them. All right.

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And sign up and become a member now because you don't want to miss anything because there's a lot going on. Yes. So dear Emily, I'm finally friends with the member. Thank you very much. Here's a different take on the Wigman concept because we just show about Wigman and Wigman the other day. I dropped into a local club and sat at the bar.

I stuck up a conversation with the woman sitting next to me. She was very funny. We talked and laughed a lot for about 45 minutes. Turns out she was with her boyfriend, but she barely talked to him all night. They left. No, it gets better. Listen, they left. We said goodbye.

After we talked, I moved to the other end of the club. On my way back to the bar, three women stopped me and offered me their phone number. This has never happened to me before, ever. Turns out that these women were all responding to seeing me laughing and obviously having such a good time with the woman I'd been talking to. So maybe having a wing woman who you can laugh with

would be a good variation on the wingman idea, Paul. So he was seen talking to a woman, probably a tractor woman, the defound attractive and these other women responded and they were like, I'm going to be so fun life of the party. Blah blah blah and handed them a phone number. That's from Paul. Yeah. I hate that. What do you hate? The part that she was married and then he's talking to

that she's spent most of her night talking to him when she already had a boyfriend. She's with her husband. She was born. They have nothing else to talk had a boyfriend. She's with her husband She's born they've nothing else talk about Yeah, that's not gonna be good Mary No, yeah, I Married What I hate that what stay home if you're gonna, you know, I know but I think I know they talk for 45 minutes Lot of people that would just be such a bummer to be married, so I'm going to be out and not wanting to talk to them.

You'd help that you always want to talk to each other and you always want to have sex with each other too. I don't know. Okay, hi Emily. I just became a friend of the benefits member. Yay, thank you. Great name, by the way. And I noticed that when I signed up for the podcast that the application form online has

shipping info. Is this a sign that you will be selling merchandise off this website? If so, I would love to order T-shirt that says, I just had sex with Emily and all I got was this T-shirt Which is what I recommended last week. I'm pretty sure you've joked about that on a previous episode But I think it's an excellent idea. Thanks for everything your show is fantastic. Tyler from Calgary, Canada Yes, I will be selling products on this on the website the website Exploding I will be selling my book. I'll be selling products. I'll also be selling t-shirts. I think we should expect those t-shirts.

And pocket for ginors. That's just for you. And Melissa Jaina. Should we have included you in the adamanteeve.com order? We should have gotten you a sex toy. What would I get? I wouldn't get anything. No, you might have found something.

Would you have wanted some porn? Because they sell porn too. Oh, I don't want to. I don't want to. anything. No, you might have found something. Would you have wanted some porn? Because they sell porn too. Oh, I don't want to. Oh, I don't want to. I feel like left out. You were left out of the whole excitement today. But you need something. I would have not been into that at all.

I think it would be good. I know, but I think it'd be good for you. I just want you to. No, don't. You're like a drug dealer. You're trying to push sex. You're trying to push sex toys on me. And it's just like that.

For years, I've been pushing sex toys on you. I don't want to, you know, I want to be like a drug dealer. You're trying to push sex. You're trying to push sex toys on me and it just for years I've been pushing sex toys on you. I want to, you know, I want to be like the caveman and not have any tools at all. Have you ever been with a woman who uses sex toy? That uses sex toys. Have you been with the woman she used it? Not like while we were together. No. No. It's an interesting experience. You might like it. No, no, it's an interesting experience. You might like it No, I just you know, I want to go back to the olden times Right, we put in all my effort to 70% of women can have orgasms without direct literal stimulation and they need a vibrator Yeah, that's cool, but you know what? I'm gonna do those time for dark Those were dark dark times

This satisfy my lady And I don't see why there's anything wrong with that. But you know what, if you feel there's a problem with that, then you let everybody know. Yeah, I think there's a problem with that, because you're probably not doing a great job. So I ran across your show while searching for more ideas of what to do with my wife.

I really enjoy them while driving across a country. And you'll really enjoy your shows while driving across a country. I'm a truck driver. You mentioned a ride in his zone a lot, but men are lost when it comes to where women like to be touch kissed. This is the one yesterday that we didn't get to touch, kiss, lick, nipple. We also don't want to ask because it would mean admitting we don't know.

So here is my contribution to your show. Men there are 38 documented zones you can go to in order to please your woman. Learn them and use them. Not all of them work on every woman, but you should at least be aware of them John from Texas Thanks John. Thanks John from Texas. Does this a tickle them in the in the neck with hundred dollar bills? What planet are you on? Energize behind the knees the lips make of the nape of the neck, ears, buttocks, wrists, these are all places that women are super sensitive and that are Roger Nostones besides their boobs and their vagina. Besides their boobs, I don't love saying the word vagina. Like I know I have a

sex show, but I just don't love saying the word vagina. And all your penis, I have no problem with vagina. It's like, it's kind of a buzzkill. And then our cool hip friends say vulva. Remember we're not you're supposed to say vulva instead of a vagina. That's what in my sex school. Remembered stuff. You're so smart. How do you ever that? You know, use a streetling go. What do you mean? The common people like what do they say instead of a vagina? Snatch or something. They don't say snatch. What do they say instead of a jy-na? Snatch or something? What do they say? Which I don't like saying pussy, but they say they wait say pussy. That's they say that's hotter I mean that's hotter. I mean but I'm not gonna say pussy. I think it's hot during sex

You like my pussy. Yeah, I like it. That's hot That is so embarrassing to even say You think you think pussy say it again pussy I'm like turning red to say I know I know I'm doing the camera is what you think you've never said like like to a woman you never know do you like that in your pussy yeah that is so no that's what people say. That is not hot. That is... It is, it can be hot. I'll contrar.

Your profile will say. Do you like my weiner in your pussy? Yeah. Or your pussy's hot. Your pussy's so hot. And your pussy is so hot? Yeah, or like your pussy. Like I'm just like I can't think

to get in the moment, you know, and men say it, It's sometimes super hot. Yeah. Just telling you, I, you've never said that word until now. You're like literally. I'm just saying it's just embarrassing to say. Okay. So what other word are we going to say?

Like, what does an opera have a word? Or what does opera say? Like, I'm for J.J. For J.J. That, no, for J.J. I'm never going to say that. No, that's bad. I need a new word for the J.N. I'm saying for J.N. I like it. I just But J.J. That, no, for J.J. I'm never going to say that. No, that's bad. I need a new word for the J.N.A.

Why don't you like saying for J.N.A. I like it. I just don't love it. I'd like to come up with another word. There's nothing else that you use. Nope, vulva. Vulva doesn't roll off the tongue, though. I met this weird, I've a sex show and I've

just one of the biggest pervs I know. And he like like I bet he says pussy what yeah I just say pussy but then he also called it the wound that never heals oh that's not it's so that's not even like I don't even know what to say about all right next you know okay that's just I don't know who you hang out with. I like your podcast, keep with good work. I was wondering if you've heard of the G-Spot shot or already covered it. What are your thoughts on it? Is it legit or is it just a placebo effect?

You can Google the G-Spot or just go here, the gshot.com. So I've heard, have you heard of this? The G-Spot shot. The G-Shot. The G-Shot. So basically it's a non-surgical physician administrative administered treatment that

can temporarily augment the graphenberg spot or the G spot and a sexually active woman with normal sexual functioning. It has not been approved yet by like the, you know, and whoever approved stuff and for this kind of thing by the medical associations. I've not really approved yet, but there are but there were studies like I read up on it, and there are women who say that, so basically, basically, people are having these G-Spot parties, it's like Botox parties,

or women getting their face Botox, but now they're getting their G-Spots, so the physician comes in with a guñetal and shoots you up. And the phova. Uh-huh. Shoot some in the vagina. It's so bad.

And a doctor can help increase their sense to be during sex through a special injection on the area inside the front wall of the vagina known as the spot. The method is very controversial, but he said the availability of such procedures is a boon for many women who are not getting the experience that they desire from sex. So, I mean, if you're a woman who's not, I mean, there were some studies of some women

that wasn't like on the G-spots G-Shots website, but there was like articles written about it, women were like, oh my god, I'm finally having orgasms that way, so I don't know. I mean, I would be careful it hasn't been approved yet. Yeah, it's shooting needles in your chest. It sounds really bad. So, sexy. And you know what I think? I would have seen this up. And they can make an app for everything, but they can't make an app to find the G-Spot.

Like, what kind of... Oh, they probably could do an app like that. The G-Spot locator? Yeah, like, it could be like infrared light that you just see that... Yeah. You know what I mean? Kind of? Yeah.

Okay. Laser guidance. Yeah, okay. Laser guidance. Yeah, like laser guy. Yeah, you should just, ah, see I have so many million dollar ideas that you just don't even understand. Just blow over. And you blow over. Yeah, we don't speak the same language.

Okay, dear Emily, some thoughts on the ejaculation etiquette conversation from a man's perspective. We did a show on ejaculation etiquette the other day. We're doing good shows, man. We are. Whether or not you use a condom, if the sex was great, your partner is going to be a little or hopefully very wet.

Afterwards, be a man. Go to the bathroom and bring back a warm, moist washcloth and slowly and gently bathe her downstairs. Take it slow. It's a sexy way to come down from some great sex. It will feel soothing to her and she'll think you're a sweet sex hero. You'll get lots of extra points if you're the first

man who's ever done this for her. Men should think about buying some good quality super soft cotton washcloths just for the benefit of their partners, never regions. That's from Paul. I that is a nice move. Yeah, seriously guy. I've been guys do that like they of course they do.

They should do that. That's nice for them to clean up Dude the other The other day we had the guy with this the what was it was a suction like he was using like a plunger on his woman's Fajina. What was that this the what was that thing do you remember? I know remember it was like the Fajina sucking thing. What was that? I don't know the what? Oh the Clotoral Palm Clotoral Palm that also engorges the vagina and I'm just gonna say it. Yeah, the the clitoris in gorgeous the clitoris with blood, which is how you really enjoyed that. Yeah, yeah,

yeah. So now there's a G-Spot shot, whatever, and he's got an, and yeah, I think. He's enjoying that. Yeah, I was happy to hear you and men have discussed women's breasts on the show. If I had a special gal of my own, I think I'd kiss, lick, and suck on her breasts for hours. I'd even rest my hat on them and they don't call him pillows for nothing.

One four-plate trick I've heard of before, the guy spends ample time fondling every inch of the gal's breasts, except accept the nipples then when she begs for it He'll zero in on the nipples. I look forward to more as always XXO of Collins more laser guidance What do you say more laser guidance into the nipples laser guidance to find the nipples Is that over my head you mumble oh? nipples? What?

Nipples, I don't mind saying. Maybe the women that can get orgasms by disgaining their nipples touch. Right. Hey, those women. Yeah. If those women are so afraid, actually, I have several, I have few friends you can and it's annoying. Since we're talking about breasts, you know, I've had girlfriends that have had their breasts done and ladies that silicone stuff like it's gonna It's all myths, you know that you're gonna get sick from it and all that kind of stuff

What do you mean? more natural feeling When you get a boob job is the silicone versus the saline you think oh You think the silicone versus the saline feels better., oh, you think the silicone versus the saline feels better? Yeah, it does. It's more natural. Okay.

Don't go with the saline. How many ways have you been with fake boobs? A lot. That does a lot about you. No, they, no, they're so random that they really, really, no, really, like, they didn't have, they didn't have them before they dated me.

No, so I have, did you buy them for them? I didn't buy them before they dated me. No, so I had you buy them for them. I didn't buy them for them. But I know like one of the best positive surgeons in Northern California. Right, so you were like babe, you should get those. I never said they should. They said they did. Just randomly several women you've dated got boob jobs while you were dating them. Two, that's a lot.

Yeah, but two is a lot. They just knew that I knew this guy and they're like, I want to get it done. So I just introduced them and then then they did. Did you think that they should get it done? I didn't personally care either way. But were you psyched after? I was like stoked and like started tweeting and parading around and calling out my friends

that my lady got a boob job, no. Right. Did they, did they, did it turn you on more No, it was the same Okay, I'm not the guy that like my tongue's hanging out one like hot girl walks by like I really don't give a crap You just stare at a press. I don't even stare out there. I thought you do by mistake. You can't help it You look at the bad boobs. That's not like every single day. Oh, I thought every day you were staring at boobs No once in a while, some girls cleavage will be showing. And as a guy, it's like so hard not to look down once.

And then your eyes lock down for five more seconds than you should. And then they notice. Right. And it's a terrible situation. Got it, man. It's embarrassing. But I think you've got that under control,

like singing for me. Yeah. I'm not sure how to approach my girlfriend about this. I love her a lot and think she's embarrassing. But I think you've got that under control. Like saying, like saying. I'm not sure how to approach my girlfriend about this. I love her a lot and think she's great. But I just think our sex is, eh. I mean, it's sex and I always get off and so does she. But to me, it just seems that this isn't, that it just is what we're doing. We're just getting off.

It's not fun. It's seriously the same thing every time. And she doesn't really get into anything else unless she can get off by it. She's on Inspired with Doggy Style, which I like, but she can't get off her, so she says. It's probably because she just bends over and doesn't really stick her butt out for now. You know what I mean? She just doesn't want to use mirrors or cameras not in front of a window or her couch or chair. It's nothing fun. It's the same thing every time. The problem I have is she thinks it's just fine and more importantly can be sensitive these types of subjects because I've had a lot more partners so to speak.

Don't tell me communicate or talk to her because I try and she gets upset and ends up thinking I want to bang someone else. Thoughts? Mike D. from Philadelphia. Well, Mike, it sounds like your girlfriend's a lazy bitch and you should kick her to the curb. Just talk to her. Just kidding.

I can't say that. Sounds like there's some anger here. He sounds angry. That's what I have to say. Mike, I think that there are some other issues going on and it's not to sex. So first of all, you have to find out if you're sexually compatible with your partner and it just sounds like you've been together,

I don't know how long, but you didn't say how long. But you're not sexually compatible. Like you might just not want, it sounds like you have the sense for to try out more things and to be more experimental. And when you try to talk to about it, she gets upset. So I mean, if you really love this woman and you want to work on it,

that I would, I think that there's just some, he just sounds really angry with her about like some other things. I think that there's other things going on in their relationship. And a lot of times that can be, and that's, that's, if you are having other issues in relationship, they can come out during sex, during intercourse, it can be reflected on that. If a woman's not feeling connected,

maybe she's not like, I mean, he could be doing things to her that they've lost their sense of connection somehow. And it's coming out in their sex life or not coming out in their sex life because it's dull. Yeah. Go shoot some guns. What do you talk about? Maybe you make her hot. You know? Cook for her or something. Fix something around the house. That's what women find really hot. But what do you think about it?

Like what do you mean just bad sex? Like I don't know. I mean part of me is like that could be a deal breaker. Honestly I'm going to say it here Mike. That might be a deal breaker. It might be game over. I mean if you sex is important to you as it is to me and say other people, menace, maybe. Throw them in the gutter and get another.

That's what I say. You do? Yeah. That's awesome. Okay, I think we're going to get into some sex myths right now. Okay. I love myths. I'm so excited because it's like actually like one of my favorite topics because people

get a lot of stuff wrong and menace, you are in the hot seat here. This is where you're going to quiz. I'm quizzing you. I'm not. I'm not. Don't look at the answers. Okay, ready? I can't wait. This is going to be fun. Okay. The truth about common sex myths. Okay. Size matters. True. Oh, sorry, true or false? That's false. True and false. True and false. True and false is all about the motion in the ocean, bro. 45 out of 50 women say girth is most important. Most women prefer no more than 5 to 6 inches.

85% of women are happy with their partner's penis size. 85%. So all these guys, you're so worried about their penis. Did you know this is the number one concern that men have is their penis? And 85% are you listening to what I'm saying? 85% of women are fine with their penis. We do not care. And it's so rare that we don't like the penises.

I'm telling you, it doesn't come up a lot. Like that men think we care. We don't care. So shit. Well, only 55% of men are happy with their member size. See, yeah, 55% of men are happy with their size. And 85% don't care. So it's true ant false.

Here's why girth is more important than size though. All right. Do you want to know? Yes, why are you laughing? I am this I Here's why girth is more important the vaginal walls connect of more of a giant attack The vaginal walls connect with each other and close around whatever is inserted regardless of size It can snug it can hold snug on a tampon or a stretch to deliver a baby. So that's why girth is more important for women. Do you get that? Okay. So just, peat-nesses be eating cheeseburgers or something?

No, it's just nothing you can do. What? Peacupinus pump. But that's a whole nother thing. Yeah. No, you can't, really. I want to see you at alipinus pump for- I have like 15 of them in my house.

I wasn't even including those in my, yes, remember they were advertised our last summer? Oh, yeah. That was awesome. Do you want one? A penis pump? Yeah, I'll give it to you for your birth there, something. A penis pump is like when you can't get hard, right?

No, well it helps. Here's the truth about penis pumps. Is that there are exercises that you can do that will really help your penis be healthy penis like exercises that you do for every other muscle in your body. Your penis is a muscle and there are exercises that you can do that can help you stay harder, longer, and help you with other kinds of issues. So, okay, I have a more question. I don't want to exercise my penis because I don't want it to lose weight.

You know, you need to say it's all about the growth. That'd be a bummer, huh? Okay, this is true or false question, right? Amen. Is men's sex drive peaks before a woman's? Men's sex drive peaks before a woman. Like in life. Like do men's do men get more? No, straight question, I'm just going to say, men does peak before a woman's know it's a straight question. I'm just gonna say men does peak before it works. It's true. Yeah.

Okay, you got to write. At 18, men get a surge of the sexual hormone testosterone. Women sexual hormone estrogen doesn't hit till they're mid-20s, but peaking hormones doesn't mean peak sexual performance. That is true. 18 year old boys are not like the best in bed. I mean, I remember like sex just was not that great when you were younger. Like, you're just figuring out what to do. But guys are just so I think guys, I I mean, I remember like sex just was not that great when you're younger like, you're just figuring out what to do.

But guys are just so I think guys, I remember like, I remember the experience having sex when I like in college of guys just being I feel I remember having this feeling with this guy is eating like, he just seemed so psyched to be getting laid. When we were having sex and it was like, he was not even, he wasn't even like connected to me at all, but I just remember feeling like he just looked really happy. Like I'm just so psyched to be getting laid right now. Like it was so new to him, you know? Okay.

Seaman, okay here, next true or false question. Okay. Seaman is nutritional. We always, me and my friends always joke that it is, but do I know that as a fact? I believe not. It's true. Ah, it is.

Seaman is full of protein. Damn it. We would always say it was the convention. It really is. Minerals, zinc and calcium, and some fruit toast sugars and other nutrients. Dude, why don't we start bottling it up? It has few calories and is perfectly safe to swallow if it has no disease germs. ingesting too much semen can create a pH imbalance in your stomach.

We were joking about that in the office earlier. We're like, how do you inject, like, how do you have too much semen? Like, is it that if you keep swallowing, I don't know. What does it leave you store it up and you put in the refrigerator and make seamen popsicles or something in the freezer? Like how do you ingest too much seamen? That's pretty gross. If you don't I don't like gross It's not too graphic Not too graphic, but it's it's kind of gross. It's about seamen. It's about the subject right now. Okay, go ahead

I'll tell you some like there's a story about this rapper that ends up She she's like a female rapper and she ends up giving Philae Shio to all these guys at a party like a big party like every single guy there and she had to go to the hospital to get her stomach pumped because she said it was like almost a co-cancel. Wow really? Yeah. Of Simon and that's why wow Wow, so it's true. So it's too much can create. She had a pH imbalance in her stomach.

How can you even consume that much? That is so crazy. I know. You think that after a while you wouldn't, if you're having like, if you're doing an epic amount of performing an epic amount of role sex, did you get the deal? Did you get the deal? Awesome. Okay. Did you get the deal? Did you get the deal? Awesome. Okay, having said, really, here's some more tuned files for you.

Having sex before a big event or game can hinder your performance. True or false? Don't you always hear the guys are like, oh, I can't because I got a big game. No, I don't think you can. Right, it's false. Sex may actually help physical performance by boosting testosterone, so you should actually should have sex before the big day. A 30-minute sex session uses less than 75 calories, so you don't have to worry about being

tired the next day. Does it make men less able to focus? This has not been determined yet. Yeah, because they would always say that about baseball players that they won't have sex before. Right, I think it's a myth. We are debunking sex myths here. It's very important work. Yeah.

Someone's got to do it. Okay. You shouldn't have sex when she's on her period, true or false. I just a matter. What do you mean? You shouldn't. Yeah. Like, should you or should you not have sex when she's on her period? Yes or no? I don't know what kind of question that you or should you not have sex when she's on her period?

Yeah, that's right. I don't know what kind of question that is. You shouldn't have sex when she's on her period. Is that true or false? You that you should not. You should not have sex. She has her period. She's got her period.

Should you have sex with her? Yes or no? Do I want to have sex with her? No. Should I? Why don't you want to have sex with her? Okay. It's false. It's false. Okay, ready? I can't wait. It's a great want to have sex with her? Okay. It's false.

It's false. Okay, ready? It's a great time to have sex. Do you know that it's actually a great time to have sex when a woman has a period? Exactly. And for you, there's a decreased risk of pregnancy. So if you worry about that, like if you're with a partner and it's safe and you're not using condoms because you guys have been tested, you can, you know, but you can still get pregnant.

Like there's all these myths and we're actually getting into the period sex more in a minute. It can be easier for women to achieve orgasms and big ones because of increased sensitivity in the vaginal area. Today's just a record vagina day. I've said it way too many times. These orgasms can help relieve any cramping-shaped experiences. So women get really bad cramps and it can help.

So it's all about the woman. Take one for the team. But you're one of those guys who's like, no, I'm cool, no sex. You for seven days, you're a period. Does it gross you out? It does. You're one of those guys. Cool. Good to know. Okay. The mechanic, yeah.

The older you were, it grosses me out. I'm sorry. Does it? But what do you put a towel down? That's cool. I'm just saying like people do it Okay, people can wait if you want you could wait if she really wants to do it then fine the first day You're like like the first day. I mean that gets you know Because I find it horribly disgusting. It doesn't gosh, Manus, do you really hear this? Just, just, I just want to like, I just want to, just because it's extremely gross. What if?

It's not gross, it's beautiful. Yes, it's very beautiful. It is beautiful. It's like flowers ever. So here's the mechanics of Period Sex can be challenging. So here's some tips, Manus, you might want to write down for next time. Oh, hold on, I'll grab my paper. Women can use soft cups.

These are shaped like a diaphragm so it sits further up in your vagina over the cervix to allow for penetration without the mess. So you could actually have sex without the mess. Use a condom this will prevent blood getting on your penis. Consider having sex in the tub or the shower. Place a dark towel under you. That's what you do. It's put a towel under you. Cool. Limit your positioning. It's better to stick, it's better to stick to guy in top missionary or a doggy style. No reverse cowgirls. Yeah, why? Some men, I'm telling you some men it's cool. Like third town with it and some are like not at all and you're one of those guys. So that's what we got for you. Sexness. Amazing.

Amazing. And tomorrow we're going to be going over your tomorrow show is going to be very interesting too. Tomorrow show is your biggest curiosities about anal sex. All right. Do you have any curiosities that you would like? Do you, is there anything specific you'd like us to focus on around that tomorrow? Um, maybe, maybe you won't show up. Maybe alternative loops would be a good thing to study alternative loops. Okay. Because maybe you know, people are allergic to some loops.

Correct. Yes. We talked about that yesterday. Alternative loops for the anal area or just the same. Great. Okay. I'll take that. I'll take that under advisement.

Yeah. Or how to talk women into. That's a big point. That is like one of our biggest, that's why we have to do an anal sex segment because we've done it, not like that we've never talked about anal sex because it's sex show. But we get a lot of emails like how do I do it?

How do I get my girl to do it? So I thought we should just ease right into it. Yeah. They have point intended. Okay, right. Thanks everyone for listening to Sex with Emily. Was it good for you? So I thought we should just ease right into it. New point intended. OK. Right. Thanks everyone for listening to Sex with Emily. Was it good for you? Email me feedback at sexwithamely.com.

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