Sex With Emily - Sex Toy Hacks & Masturbation Mishaps

Episode Date: December 5, 2015

On today’s show, Emily welcomes sex shop staffers Kate and McKenna to the studio to share secrets, hacks and tricks of the trade from their experience working in the sex toy industry. With the holidays just around the corner, you might be considering making some sexy purchases but don’t know where to start. McKenna, Kate and Emily are here to help you find the hottest toys for the season whether you’re looking for yourself, for your partner or something for the two of you to enjoy together. From the clitoris-sucking Womanizer to wearable vibrators, penis rings and more, the ladies clue you in on the best buys to aid you in your bedroom adventures and clue you in on some common sex toy misconceptions and mistakes that users make.From sexpert favorites to teledildonics to the smartest sex toy hacks you’ve ever heard, this show is all about pleasure products and how they can enhance and amplify your sex life. Whether you’re a sex toy collector or a newbie, this show is jam packed with important information you don’t want to miss! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey everyone, thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. You know how much I love sharing the best sex toys and products with you. Well, on today's show, I've got not one, but two lovely ladies who's entire business. It's helping people pick the right toys for them and waste and enhance a relationship, though, by sharing secrets from the adult store industry and sharing their personal stories as well. So thanks so much for listening. Enjoy the show. Okay, it's time for my weekly CBN update. You've been having a good time. Nice ride, so to speak.

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We've got such a good one with Madison, producer Madison, who many of you know. And we've got two other special people here. We've got McKenna. Hi McKenna. Long time listen to the show. And Kate as well, the sort of the show. Hi. And both of you are here because you actually work in sex toy shops, which I love because we've got to mean for a lot. I don't think there's been anyone on here in a long time. That's done that and you guys know toys that I do inside now. Probably more you guys are like there on the cutting edge.

This comes in that comes in. You got to try it. And we get so many emails and we were like, how do we, you know, couples who were like, how do we, you know, buy a toy together and like, just the thought of going to a store together is intimidating or even going to a website. So you guys, I want to hear about like common things that, you know, common questions you get asked, some of the newest toys out there. And also your personal experiences, because I'm sure it's expanded your horizon, how could it not as well? Like Madison, God, don on she's having orgies every weekend now after basically yeah just kidding not yet three so we don't rethral sounding is a rethral soundings everything it's crazy

but first I got to tell you two things that are very important this is my live show okay ten years I can't quite believe it's been a decade I don't know how this happened but I have a 10year anniversary show at the improv in Hollywood. It's this weekend, okay? It's in two friggin' days. So if you're listening to this, you're like, God, I really want to go to LA. This is a great time, and you're like, God, it'd be fun to meet Emily. I hang out because I'm hanging out.

This is a party. This is a big party. It's a celebration. It's December 6th. It's 7.30 at the Hollywood Improv. The door's open at 7. Tickets are $15 pre-sale. If there's any left and $20 at the door to buy tickets, go to sexwithelmui.com. Click on the event flyer and redirect you to the ticket page.

Menace will be there. Some VIP guests. Dr. Drew will be there. We'll be answering some questions with me. And Anderson and Madison. And I don't know, McCann and I can't. You guys are welcome to come as well. I already got my guests. Oh, you did. I did. Awesome. Super stoked. So excited.

And also, well, there's one time for the percentage of their memories. No, it's a little awesome. I was asking you all to send your favorite memories, but you can't do that now. Just come and show up because we're going to have our sexy only T-shirts that I'm talking about for 10 years. Yes, that's going to be very exciting.

And it's going to be a live podcast. But we're going to be at drinks and food and everything taking care of you all. So come join me. I'm really excited. I'm a little nervous. I have to be honest, but I'm super, super stoked. It's going to be great.

And then also this week, I join me Tuesday. December 8th in Hollywood. Just don't leave. Just move here. Or just come through the neighborhood. It's Tuesday, December 8th, 730, my upcoming workshop at Hustler Hollywood, not your nice sexy Hollywood holiday advice.

I'll be answering your pressing questions, share my hottest gift picks for every lover on your list which we're actually gonna cover a lot today. And it's gonna be a fun workshop. It's we have drinks, we hang out, we're gonna go shopping after, and I'm gonna just walk you on the store because here's the thing, the holidays,

let's be honest, you get your partner new tie, maybe she really wants new shoes, I don't know, but why not get one thing, just one thing that'll like that's for both of you. That can enhance your sex life. Like why not? It can be lubing, it can be a stocking stuff, or I don't care. But we're going to talk about that. I'm also answering your top sex questions. So email me RSVP at sexelement.com to save your seat and also send the top sex question you'd like answered. And if we answered your question during the event, you get a free gift. Yeah.

And we're doing giveaways. And it's always a good, freaking time. OK, that's what we got to tell you. Let's get into it. Oh, we can do this sex in the news piece. Sure. It's about a sex toy. And then we're going on to you, girls,

because I'm very excited. All right. Have you guys heard of this? It's called the IZ vibe. I think it's an IZ vibe. It's a smartphone case that turns your phone into a vibrator. Kate, you heard about it? It was bound to happen. I should have on my head on Facebook. What? It should have on my head. Oh, okay, you're already on top of it, right?

Why are we just trying to Kate for sex in the news from now on? She's already on top it. Okay, or a mechanic. I'm sure you guys are okay. So someone out there at one point in the recent past thought to him or herself, my phone has a vibrate setting. How can I take that and put it to you as a vibrator to simulate women? This person's why America is the best country in the world. It's just that kind of ingenuity that has made this country, the nation it is today. I love it.

I love it. Well, you know for years since phone started, you're like, oh, it vibrates. It's always a joke. But now they actually, it looks like, it's an insurmable, it looks like a stimulation. Yeah, it looks like a dildo attached on a phone case on your computer.

Yeah, which seems kind of like not that, I don't know, like you're in like, hello, we on the phone, you got the vibrates sticking out the top. Have a little dildo on the top. It's like, it is. Dildos coming out of your head, but you know, hey, you can customize it,

it comes with seven vibration modes, according to Mashable, the Izzy Vi plans to launch in June 2016, so it's basically this attachment, you just plop on top of your, it to launch in June 2016, so it's basically a attachment. You just plop on top of your iPhone case. Yeah, I'm guessing they need to do something to make the vibrations a little stronger, because I mean, let's be real. Ladies, let's be honest, how many of you at one time or another, your phone's been going

off. You've been like, I wonder. No, not strong enough. Like, it's really like nothing. It's like a gentle home. It must do that, because it's also control-barry and mo-control. I don't know.

We'll see. We'll check it out. We'll be the first to let you know. Put on your calendar, guys. OK. Let's get to the good stuff. Well, that was good stuff. I don't mean to discredit my own bit stuff.

Oh, dear. OK. So Kate, thank you for joining us. You. Thank you for having me. We can find you at your Instagram is Empire of the Bun. Very cute. Yep. That's very cute Thank you, and we'll have all this if you missed it

it'll be all on the website as well and We're gonna be talking to you about some toys in the market your experience and a little bit of your back to tell you about your background how you got into this sex toy world So I think my Fascination of Smite started with that Sleeping in my big brother's room while they listened into love line. Oh, really? Yeah, and being just a little kid and overhearing everything and being really curious, but, you know,

always kind of be shamed about my curiosity. Right. Oh my god, you all shared a room when you listened to it. That's my thing. Yeah, it was, I'm a bit younger than they are. Right. But when I got older and I went to college I decided to study human sexuality Along with everything else. I had a radio show where I kind of discussed it for recalled station

Right, and then once I graduated I was thinking How do I keep you know keep in smite and I? Looked at jobs at a job shops And I saw one that I really respected. They're kind of feminist mantra, so I applied and here I am. We can say that you work a good vibration. Yeah, I think we can. Yeah, I mean, I've been talking about good vibrations for 10 years and I got my first vibrator

there when I moved to San Francisco 20 years ago. Yeah, I barely had an orgasm. And that I walked in and it's the best store because you walk in and it's like it's so comfortable, you know, that experience. It's really welcoming and you know, I've gone into other shops and I remember the first experience I had in shop. I was really uncomfortable and there were lots of just totally male gaze oriented products and I was so uncomfortable. But the first time I went into good vibrations, I was just super comfortable. Everyone was pretty knowledgeable so So I could ask questions that even I thought were maybe kind of weird. Right. Like, oh yeah, I heard this about it. Yeah,

it's normal talking about the weather. Right. I love it. Well, that's, that's awesome. And McKenna, you also work at Sex Fresh Shop. And you are, uh, Kenna Kinzi. Yes. You guys are both so sex. Uh, mountable what shares weight. Fun. Fun. Empire to ball. And and and McCann, you've been a great and you've been listening to the show and we first met you came to the one of the Hustle Workshop's. That's how we first met and I love that you thank you for your support coming up and supporting

the show and writing for us now. Yeah, yeah, starting to write some stuff. I love it. So how did you get involved in this crazy sex world? Amazing, beautiful, wonderful sex world. It's amazing. I think it kind of started when I was 12. I got a TV in my room for the first time.

And because you know, graduating sixth grade going to be a middle schooler. And I discovered the cinematics after hours. Right. Right. So I knew it wasn't supposed to be watching it, but it always like just happened to be on. Like when I was going to bed and I was like,

as a 12 year old girl, it was like, whoa, I'm starting to feel some things. I don't know if that's normal. But yeah, it like kind of just throughout high school, a lot of my friends came to me for advice. Like, is this normal? How did I wide? Because I was like kind of open about masturbation

and just like, have you guys ever have you guys ever touched yourself down there? Like, and I think when I was like 13, I found my mom's back massager. Which wasn't like a hot dog. No, no, no, but it was like more like, looks like a spaceship on top. Okay. And anyways, so like I plugged that bad boy in.

I was like, well this is amazing. Like I thought I invented it. Wait, was I the first time masturbating or no? No, I had been, was masturbating when I was 12 or what, it was just my hand. But then like when I discovered this back massager and I was like, oh my God, I invented masturbation. Like I got to tell everybody about it.

Okay, right, that's totally, no yeah. So I think from there. I think from friends about it. For sure, yeah. Like and then they just kind of were coming to me for like not so much like sex advice because I kind of waited like a little bit longer than the other girls But but just like for relationship. How do I get a guy to like me? I was the tomboy

So a lot of the guys were friends with me and then a lot of the girls were friends with me and so like I was like Middleman cupid for like ever I guess like all this to say that like it kind of just throughout my adulthood I was still reading about sex, watching things that had to do with sex. I was really open about it. And like I just was always just really sexually curious. So two years ago I decided and I had taken some classes and like different universities.

I had like kind of jumped around. I couldn't figure out what I wanted to do. I thought I wanted to do psych. Ended up getting my degree to work with children and I was a preschool teacher for five years. You didn't talk to them about masturbation. Absolutely not. No, no, no.

But like, you know, there's always that like, in the preschool, like, you know, like, what do you call like a kid's privates or whatever. Right. And I was always the teacher that was like, that's a penis and that's a vagina. Right, right, straight out. Right, yeah.

I'm like, and I got in trouble once because they're like, not, I don't know. They always want to get mad at you. I know, like, seriously? Like, they're going to figure this out. Right. Anyways, but, um, so like two years ago, I just decided to take like another human sexuality, you know, another, it's like my third time around, and uh, loved it.

It just felt comfortable. I was like, I understood everything, like, all of like my my like pre-existing classes, courses, life experiences. Kind of, it was just like, okay, this is your aha moment, like you need to do this. Education is what your, is your thing, so. So then you got the job at the sex-wise store. So I got, you're both at the same time. Exactly, that's kind of like, perfect timing. How are they training?

Tell me about the training real quick, but working at sex-stripping. I really don't know. We at Good Vibrations have classes of Carol Queen. And so I had two all day long eight hours shift just information sessions of Carol Queen in addition to being trained on the top sex educators in the country and yeah she was like on my second show. It's hard not to fan girl. I know, she said to high-nash. Wow, but no. That's such a great person to get. So she teaches you everything about toys and your body

and pleasure. How talk people? OK. In addition to that, you have everyone in the store has to go through section by section and explain it. And until you've heard everyone's feel, you can't. You can't really explain it. You have to be very broadly educated on every topic to even be on the floor

Which was a little bit fresher, but I feel like it's really paid off into the test you Yeah, you have a whole evaluation with a bunch of questions and it's Recommend two products for right this couple comes in like a story problem They come in and she's never had an orgasm except her once with the bigger penis But his penis is small and then what would you do? But he also has your reptiles for now And she's never had an orgasm except for a wanch with a bigger penis, but his penis is small. And then what would you do? But he also has your reptiles for now. How do you...

What toy would you recommend? How do you make them feel comfortable and safe? And how do you make a, I don't know, I find a lot of male-bodied folks seem to be really uncomfortable in there getting a toy because it's kind of, for a lot of people I guess, a reflection of their deficit or something like that. And it's, how do you make sure they're comfortable and explain things? You have to do a lot of like, analyzation of social norms and it's, how do you make sure they're comfortable and explain things? You have to do a lot of, like, analyzation of social norms, and it's true.

It's true, it's crazy. Right, and with each, it's almost like your therapist, because you put the kind of, like, each person, like, you got to kind of figure out where they're at, like, maybe they've never been a toy store, maybe they don't even, you know, they don't even, never have, you know, wherever it is, you got to, like, piece it together,

or how they'll be comfortable. So, how about your training? Um, I don't know. I wish I had gotta like, piece it together or how they'll be comfortable. So how about your training? I don't know, I wish I had a cool instructor like that. Mine was for the most part, like all on a computer. Like they just train you like on product knowledge and things like that. But for me, like I just did my own investigation, like YouTube is kind of amazing. Like for like, sex toy reviews.

And then I was listening to like your podcast. Like I've been listening to it for a couple of years, but I learned so much about what I do and like how I talk to people is like from words and verbiage that I hear you say. And like even certain toys that like you know are coming out or whatever, like I just did my own research on it

and then watched a lot of YouTube. And I feel like I, they could definitely improve how they teach. Maybe you'll start off the teaching program. Oh, that's kind of what I'm trying to do now. Yeah, just like educating and just talking about customers and like you really have to figure out. It's always start discrete, you know, be quiet

because not everyone's comfortable walking into a store So you want a big deal though do you? No, I don't want to do that. Oh you need some loob like So what are some of the common queries? If you were to say like like your most common thing like if you three is one that you get asked and you come in like is there a Comments there or tap to I? Feel like we have a lot of people regardless of what they're looking for or what they're into. They want to know if it's normal. Right.

I feel more so than normal. Are you like listen first? There is no normal. Yeah, what's most popular or what's good? Well, everyone's body is really different, pleasure is really personal. So what are you looking for? But they immediately will try to kind of look to you for some validation or be normal for some comes in be normalized or you know

someone comes in looking for their first vlogger. Right. And you have to say yeah, impact plays rad. Right. Let's talk about it. Right. Right. Exactly.

Like no shaming, like it's all good. So you get them to like open up up. But that is interesting because you know, it's like it's kind of like when you go to a restaurant and you're like I kind of bothers me and people do this when they're like so what do you like here? Should I get the steak or the chicken it's like you don't know this waiter like different taste buds he might love the steak the way it's cooked but you don't like steak it's kind of like it's different for everybody how could you say I love this clear vibe this person might want

juice but you just you can't so you got to find extravagant more information from them but I was gonna ask is there ever like one toy that you got I just want to say like is there one toy fits all? No. Not even like a close, not even like a close. Like someone's, when the comes in she's like, I've never, okay, so here's the scenario. Okay. I'm gonna start with the woman.

She comes in and she's like, hi, I've never had an orgasm and I'd like to buy a toy. Okay, McKenna, what would you do? I'd probably ask her a couple of of personal questions depending on where we go. Like it's pertinent her. Well, have you ever tried masturbating before? Do you use your hand? Yeah, I've tried my hands. I've been doing it.

It just doesn't work. I just doesn't. I don't think I've had sex. I feel like it's fine, but I just don't have an orgasm. I know that I've never had one. I've tried everything except for a toy. Except for a toy. Yeah. So from there, I would probably just kind of educate them

a little bit on the different kinds of toys that we have. There's the jelly kind. Those are like really, excuse me. Those are really soft for the body. But the ones that are going to last longer are going to be the silicone ones. And then I kind of like, from there, just kind of gauge their body language. I'm listening then I kind of like, you know, from there, just kind of gauge like their body language.

I'm listening to if they're like chiming in, if they're making any kind of eye contact or non-eye contact. I'm not, right? Right, yeah, they're like looking down, they're looking around. And I try to do this away from the toys initially because, excuse me, the story that I work at,

the toys are in the back of the store. And like sometimes that's really intimidating for people to go back there. So I kind of like get all this like, you know, foreground information before I go to the back. But then I come back with me like in a video curtain. Yeah, and that way when we go back there, it's like I know exactly where we're going and I'm not weaving her around like the aisle so she's like getting all uncomfortable and seeing like butt plugs and like pumps and stuff and getting like totally scared. So for first time ones, I typically show them something like a compact vibe.

So something that's going to be handheld. Like what would you... I know you guys also used some toys that we wanted to talk about, but what would you recommend like a bullet or like a... Yeah, well yeah, a compact meaning like something small. We have like what I call lipstick vibes, so like something that looks like lipstick or like just discreet... Like the screaming o.

Yeah, like screaming, or if they're looking for something a little bit more like higher end, the tango by WeVibre or the touch, like those I consider compact, they're small, they're discrete, material is going to be a lot higher end, they're rechargeable, waterproof, like I'm trying, you know, filter out what exactly they're looking for. For the price ranges. Exactly. Because you can't get a good toy, but you don't have to spend $100. No, no, no, no, no, like, you also make sure it's like body safe.

Material's with total vibrations is great for that too, but, you know, I always encourage Silicone though, like I just feel like that's going to last people a lot longer, you know, whoever that may be using the vibrator, because it's just like a higher grade quality toy, I guess. Okay, good. Yeah. And Kate, I was gonna say to you, so let's say I came in, let's say Madison, I were a couple.

Mm-hmm. And we've never had a sex story before, we wanted to like spice up our relationship. Yeah, we came in. And we're like, okay, so, am I the girl the guy? You be the girl, I'll be the guy. I feel like that's usually hard. I'm really. I'm not a girl, I'm a guy. You be the girl, I'll be the guy. I feel like that's usually hard.

I'm really. I'm just bringing this on my head. I'm just saying I'm not. I'm saying attention. Okay, so we come in and we're like, you're there, we're like, hi, kids, I'm like, okay, hi, we want to like, we've never used a toy. We'd like to just buy something kind of fun together.

She takes one look at me and it's like, flashlight, this one's flashlight. Yeah, he just like wants some flashlight here on this pastupid podcast, except them, whatever. But it's not about me too. Like, I just think something fun, like for both of us to do together. What would you recommend? So for a lot of folks, I initially, I feel like coccrings are pretty good place to go, because- But it's for his cock. Well, how will I experience it? Well, if it's a vibrating cock ring, you can have some

tutorials to relation and kind of spice up your sex life in a different way, but a lot of people are familiar with cock rings. And you can get- Yeah, they're great. And you can get in an elastomer one that's a lower price point without really investing in something that's really high end that you're going to be disappointed in or might be. You know, you don't have the same risks. A Cup Queen is a great starter. Yeah, it's true. I feel like that's a great

starter. The vibrates the whole thing. Yeah. Walking into something, you know, more intense. The wee vibe is the place where I go a lot. The wee vibe. Yeah, but the couples toy you wear during during sex. Especially the plus. Of course. The app. I mean, it's really great for traveling couples because you can still have that intimacy of this interaction by a controlled partner. If you're like long distance or yeah. Yeah, yeah, you can do like, babe, tonight,

or like whenever. You can just be like wear it today in your underwear. Yeah, go to the movies. Yeah, go to the movies and play with it. I should do that tonight. Yeah, oh my god, you should totally do that during the movies. Absolutely, that'll spice up hunger games.

Like nobody's missing it. I know, seriously. I don't know what we're going to see, but that's a great, great idea. OK, so I want to talk to you guys about some toys. So before, are we a little pre-thing? And we heard from you, like, what are the toys that you most want to talk about?

And this was like, totally from then, this is nothing to do with us here, it's an assembly. There was one. We could start with that you both mentioned. So I think we should, I think we should go to the next one. You guys have never met, you never met until today. You both said the womanizer, which I've talked about, I wrote a blog about. I want to hear from you guys, because this is like making waves, this is just launch 18 months ago.

People are freaking out about it's a high price point, and it's like changing this extra world. So it's a womanizer. It's a very pen. It came in a cat, tell me why. It's a white cat. So let's explain it first. People don't know about it. Okay, so if you've never heard of the womanizer, it is a literal toy. It's not the douchebag you dated in college.

Right, no. It's not the best you're a song. No. No, I actually learned, because I went to a vendor training for this particular toy, the guy who was telling us about the womanizer was saying that the womanizer actually, because it's made over in Germany, it's actually like a good thing to be called a womanizer over in Germany, which I lost.

I know, because it was like, that's hard to say. Wait, what? Because over here in America, that's not a good thing. Right, I heard there's all this controversy about the name, but it just, that's what's so amazing is that it's like, it didn't even bother, no one cared, because the tournobs it just, that's what's so amazing is that it didn't even bother, no one cared because the tournoes were amazing.

Yeah. But, so the design of it is like it's going to be a little bit bigger or maybe the size of your hand and it has like two removable silicone tips. So it's like easy to clean, but how it works, it's its indirect, literal stimulation. Stimulation. Yeah. There you go. Stimulation. So it kind of looks like a microdermabrasion thing. It does.

But on your face. Like one of those face, like the clitorisides. Yeah, for sure. Yeah, for sure. Somebody else said it looked kind of like an ear thermometer. That's totally what I would think. Yeah, honestly. I was going to stick it in my ear and get a really good surprise.

Yeah. So it's indirect clitoral stimulation. Okay. Right. And you get the two different heads. How do I explain that? Like indirect clitoris? Like that, right. And you get the two different heads. How do I explain that? Like, indirect clitorial? That's like, I mean, I've used it.

I just want to hear from you, like, how you explain that. What I usually say is because it's not directly touching you, it goes over and it kind of sucks on your clitoris, essentially, is that you get to have prolonged stimulation and pleasure without the same achiness and soreness that you might get from really strong vibration directly on your clip. Right, it's in demand. Exactly.

And it's all the nerve endings around the, around your clitoris, which is our significant or getting stimulated by it. And it's such a different sensation that I feel like that's what really does it for people, because you're so, you're not really familiar with that in terms of choice. Right. It's kind of like a build up, like, in a way, too, because you're so, you're not really familiar with that in terms of toys. It's kind of like a build up in a way too, because you're not my right fork. Because a lot of women can't take the direct, literal simulation at all.

So it's kind of like a little gentle kiss, but then you're like, oh, what are you doing? What are you doing? What about the button on it that you're like, for more, do you use the button where they're like, turbo blast? Yeah, it's like, if you want more. Oh, the jewel, the jewel button?

Oh yeah, there's like five levels. Like, if you can get past level three I commend you like I want to like give you a high five or something but maybe with the other hand But I like right like I I don't know the thing is so intense like If you're able to go into a shop, you know ask somebody about hey We I just want to see I want to feel one experience the womanizer because you really need to have it like on your fingertip To know exactly what this feels like because it hums and vibrates around. So if you ever finger like in like the open part, yeah, you can put your like the whole

finger pad so that it's like sucking in which would you know, it's like your clitoris. But it's so intense when it's actually on the clitoris. Like you kind of forget to breathe. I don't know, I don't know about UK. Or I don't know. You forget to breathe every body, like every muscle in your body, like tenses, and you just, all pleasure just goes straight to that spot.

And you are tightening everything internally too, like your vaginal muscles are going crazy. And then like once you do get to that point of orgasm, no return, it's almost too much to handle. But in a good way? In a great way. Yeah, no. And it's like you don't want to move. You are so scared of moving because it's going to stop. Right. Right.

But you can actually, this one in particular toy, their whole catchphrase is got a minute. Right. Right. It's like the one minute orgasm. You don't need it. Yeah. That long. You don't even need that long. No, and like their test study groups, like of the 50 women in these test study groups, it was something crazy, like 43 of them had their first orgasm within a minute and a half. Wow. A man had one. Who've never had one.

And then those ones that were able to continue, which I don't have the actual number, but they were having multiple orgasms. So their second one came a minute later. Yeah. Third one, a minute and a half later. Like it was just ongoing. And I don't know what these women were doing

because I've actually tried to put this in the test. I did. I totally timed myself the first time. My iPhone's right next to me. And I was about a minute and 47 seconds. And I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I like, how's the send-in me actually try, like try it, try it, try it. And you know me, like I'm like, I'm like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like was like, oh my God, like it literally was like, I'm like, okay, done, it's amazing. No, but then I kept going the same thing

multiple. Yeah, because you can shift it. Like you can like apply certain pressure to it. Right. So if you're pushing really hard, it's kind of suck it harder. And then it's like not a one trick pony. No, no, no, and then you can shift it. Like if you get like kind of like, it's not the same feeling as like desensitization, like where you have like the vibrate in the same spot, where you kind of like freak out and like you have to move it. If you shift it like to like up a quadrant or like the lower, because like all the

different like the four quadrants that you can kind of like feel like the upper like left hand one of the four different. Yeah, yeah, so like if you're shifting that suction just a little bit and actually touching the clitoris like you can have like all these different sensations and you feel in different parts of your body, your head spins, blackout orgasm. You're an acid trick. It's a religious experience. I love reading your reviews online for it. I mean, if you go on like good vibrations website when I'm bored or you know, I'll just look on the website for reviews for toys.

You have ones where it's like, you know, my wife usually has trouble orgasming. And in our session, you know, she had about 10 orgasms. And I thought she was done. And I was pretty sure I was going to be a widow. Oh my god, right. But yeah, then my... It's just this perpetual orgasm machine. And I think it's so crazy because it doesn't looking at it.

I wouldn't have expected it to be comparable to the Tajji in terms of just the wow power. But you wouldn't think it. I was like, okay, what's this good, you know, but I was going into it like, okay, but yeah, it's pretty amazing. So when my eyes are checking out, you can't get any good vibes.

And if you just go to our website, click on the good vibes banner. We have like a code for something. Yeah, use code Emily, for our Emily 15, you have 15% off. There you go, it's a great gift and it's it's it's cool it's rechargeable. It's a good time. Okay we come back we're gonna cover a lot more ground on toys but I've got something else talked about that's really really important and that is the intensity. Oh Kegel exercises. Do you guys talk about kagels with it? Do you guys still love the kegel balls and

things like that? Yeah. Oh yeah. Do you guys know about the intensity? I want one so Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle actor, I'm not a Kaggle, I'm not a Kaggle, I'm not a Kaggle, I'm not a Kaggle actor, products because I even got damn created an iPhone app for years ago called Kegel Camp because I wanted to I figured we never remember to do them so every day it pops up tells you to do them but I realized I wasn't even doing them right until I made this thing it's a rabbit vibe but it's also a Kegel exercises it does your Kegel exercises for you it's straight into your pelvic floor it has electrosimulation which sounds might could sound like kind of scary to you but it's not at all you just put it in you lie you lie back in your bed. Sometimes I meditate, read a book or I just lie there because it feels really good and you put electrosimulation gel on and put it inside you for like 10 minutes, 8 minutes a day and I'm telling you you have like kegels of steel. Like it does it, you don't

do anything and it just stimulates your pelvic floor. And then after that you're like I'm like I'm not all of them now I'm an orgasm in trying to vibrate. Yeah, it also has, I mean, it has a vibrator to do both the same time. You can do them both the same time. I use my magic wand while I do it, and I have like really unreal orgasms. They're different than anything I've ever felt, because my like, kegels are already going. Right. So it's like kind of like, sends like, shock waves through my body, which is really kind of, uh, don't do it in front of a partner. I'm scared. Although we in Mike Collins, that's true. That's true.

And he loved it. Yeah, that was amazing. Because one of our listeners got it and he's like, oh my god, it changed our sex life. They have four kids. And because a lot of them have a childbirth, they need strong, republished floor muscles and general, you guys.

No matter what age you are. So check it out, the intensity. If you want to hear more, we did do a... We did a sex tour review about it. Yeah, we got a YouTube video about it. Sex tour review, intense and unplug, check it out, go to poormoa.pourmo.com and check it out, the intensity.

And then also check out sexploring a new U, which is another recent podcast where Mike shares his experiences with his wife and how it's changed their sex life for the better, which is kind of cool hearing it. Because you hear us talk about it all the time, but like hearing someone who has no reason to talk about it, he just loves it so much he wants to talk about it.

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Check that out. So yeah, back to the show, people. Thank you so much for supporting my sponsors. Okay, what other toys do you think you want to talk about? You guys said in some things that you wanted that were you were excited about besides the humanizer. I have a little master list over here. Yeah.

Let's talk about the Eva. Yeah. You want to talk about the Eva's a wearable vibe, which I mean. It looks so cool. I was talking it out on the site. So tell me, it looks, I want one like today. Yeah. So it basically it sits on the clitoris and then it has these two little wings

that go between the labia manora. So it's like stimulating your labia, it's vibrant, which is amazing. It's just holding on with these little bity wings. I mean, I guess that would be variant with some anatomy, but I mean, it's pretty universal. So it's just, it sits on the clit so you don't have to hold on to anything,

which I think is really nice with a lot of toys because you have to kind of hold it between you and your partner and work out. So you can wear it. It's a wearable during interpops. It's like a kind of like a wee vibe, but a different. Yeah, but it's external only. I mean, occasionally, like the only complaint

about wee vibes that some folks find it to be a little crowded in there. Yeah, exactly. So because it's external only, you can still feel the vibration when penetrating, but it's not so much in the way. Right, this one just doesn't fall out either. It stays on your clutter.

I get it because it wraps around. Yeah, it just wraps around in your way. It looks so cool and then you stimulate it. And it's just so cute. It's so cute. It looks like a catapult, like a nut a catapult. Like a ladybug. Yeah, it looks like a little bug.

I feel like it might get much better. Yeah. It's like, dude, dude, dude a nutty catapult, like a ladybug. Yeah, it looks like, yeah, it looks like a little bug. I feel like it's in my shoes. Yeah. And it's like, dude, dude, dude, like, it's really, it sounds, I like, I want one, yes, I don't need one. I don't need one. I don't need one. I'm coated, so it's really easy to clean.

And you know, you don't have to worry about this porous material that's gonna get grody. You have this nice, easy to clean toy that has a warranty. And they just updated, I think the earlier design had a couple issues that they've now hammered out. So this is the new updated with everything. And so for women, this is great for women who want on their own or have a trouble orgasm.

They're in a course, which is common. A lot of people find some issues during puncture to sex having orgasms. So a lot of folks need toys. Or sometimes it's hard to maneuver your hand in the way and and everything and it's totally when we talk about normal like I hate to be normal, but common, right? Like how many people come in the store and they're like I just can't because I feel like every day I'm telling them like no It's okay like a lot of women can't like it's and it's okay to want have to use a toy like that's the other thing like

You know that it doesn't mean that there's something wrong with your penis or your partner or whatever you're with. It just means that it just, we need extra stimulation that nothing else can provide. So we're gonna bring this toy in, and it's a good time, and it will not replace you. The way I like to think about it is sex is like ice cream. Ice cream is super good. Everyone is into something a little different,

but ice cream universally, everyone can agree is pretty great. But what about putting like, you know, chocolate syrup on it or sprinkles or just adding something to it that makes it even more bomb. Right, it's not like ice cream is bad. Yeah. It's not like I'm never even talking about it. Exactly. It's like, oh my god, but with the sprinkles and the like, and Marshall, the whole thing,

it's so much better. That's a good way to put it. I like it. Um, the Eva, so that's Eva. You can get that wearable couples vibe. I could vibe. It's okay. So what are you most excited about, McKenna?

I love this because you guys have one stuff that I don't even know. I love it. Well besides the womanizer, which I'm currently crazy about because it's quick You know, I really like the in a wave the Layla from Layla It like is a dual stimulator, so it's internal and external But it does that wave like the cum hither motion for the g spot inside so good Yeah, like How do you split? So it goes inside and it vibrates. It goes like this. It curves.

It curves the way. It does the color. I don't have this one yet. No, me neither. I don't know how we don't have this. So it comes inside so great. So it's like two fingers. So it's kind of like your traditional rabbit vibe

where you're going to have like an insertable part for like the vagina. And then you have like the clitorial stimulation on the outside. But when you turn it on the function that gives it the wave, it's kind of like this, I don't know how to describe it. They come here, they're like, this thing comes here. It comes here, and it moves up and down, and you can control the speed and the vibration

if you just want the motor on the inside for the G-spot. You can program it to do that or just the X-Style or the external part, but you can have it go back and forth and that's crazy because like it's like building this orgasm like from inside and then outside and then it finally like comes to So it has the little energy spots and it's amazing, right? It is amazing and the material is amazing. I've seen it a million times. It's brilliant. I think it's great. And it's kind of like if you've had a traditional rabbit or one that you're just kind of like,

oh, this is good, but I'm trying to find my G spotter. I'm trying to explore more internal pleasure. This would be the toy for that sort of activity. A lot of women are still trying to lure in. Our aunt is still trying to g-spot. She will find it, dammit. No, but I'm wondering about some success stories. If you guys ever had you come in, you'd like to have

find the g-spot or head in an orgasm, and they're like, oh my god, thank you. The story worked with that. Tell me some stories I want to hear. Well, I mean, I don't know about UK, but there's actually a g-stimulant. So g-spot stimulant is called the g. And you would put it on your finger or your toy. It's compatible with toys. And what it does is it actually like it makes it kind of like icy but warm at the same time on the inside line.

Because there's so many tissues in there that are like so sensitive. So when you have this kind of like stimulation or the stimulant inside, sensitive. So when you have this kind of like stimulation or the stimulant inside, it for me at least like, and how I explain it to people is when you're aroused, like the clitoris and gorgeous, right? And then so does like the G spot inside. So if you're really, really just determined to find that like G spot inside, have like an orgasm outside because all the blood is going to be rushing to the spot inside. And then with this stimulant on it, it actually makes it puff out a little bit more because the blood is easier to find. It's just going to be easier to find. Like if you're like, you know, hell bad on trying to find this thing like I, and I was,

and that's, I'm not trying this one. I'm not trying this one. I'm not trying this one. I'm not trying this one. I'm not trying this one. I'm not trying this one. I'm not trying this one. I'm not trying this one. I'm not trying this one. I'm not trying this one. I'm not trying this that. I was able to find the exact one you were talking about. Oh.

I think I found a different one. Oh, but there's other ones. I'm just saying like, no, but I get, I've heard of the glitter ones. I've heard of these. There's a lot of stuff like that. But this particular one, it's like, you can use it externally as well for the clitoris, but like,

it's kind of designed to go inside. Okay. Because it's like, you know, water-based and stuff like that. Okay, I hope it's good for you. Okay. Yeah. So you say, finally, these things, like, just, I don't know, what about your Kate, your experience

with these stimulating gels? I mean, we don't carry anything that's an internal changer. I mean, we have, how about clitoral? The clitoral? Yeah, we have the, the, please me,

with the, the arousal cream, with peppermint, that really kind of tingles. It's kind of the same thing though, the thing, it's peppermint, the veggies that one's doing, but same thing though, it's the thing. It's peppermint, the sketchy spot one, too. But yeah. OK, so that's good.

People can add it, and even if it just gives you the confidence, I know I'm using something, and it'll help me find my G spot more. I think that's cool. Have you guys used, so you guys in relationships, dating? Dating. I have a cat. You have a cat. And a Netflix account, so you know.

Yeah, good. I've got a lot of them in my toys. OK, got it. Well, I'm curious, dating or relationship, have you, what's been your experience using toys with a partner? If it was, I mean, pulling out the hitachi, on the magic wand, whatever.

Yeah, it's not hot-tachi anymore. Oh, yeah. They get mad. No, did you know that? No, I, yeah. I look about a year ago, it's no longer her touchy. It's just magic one But I mean, I don't think they don't ever go away. It's just magic one magic wand pulling that out on the first day Whatever yeah, whatever date you're on and having that kind of between partners can be really overwhelming or intimidating for some folks

So I find that sometimes when I'm like This is what you pull out like what do you pull out instead? I? What do you pull out like what do you pull out instead? I mean, I pull out the wand anyway. Yeah, I do it anyway. I do too. I do too. I do too. I do too.

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I should be like, hey, how about this? It's a good time. And guys like the stimulation or whoever you're with, women, everyone likes stimulation. I mean, vibration. Mm-hmm. Feels good. What about you, Mketa? Well, I've been dating the same person for like a handful of years. Okay. Yeah, no. Toys were kind of like my thing

and like, like, knew I had stuff. But I just graduated from like a small drawer to a larger drawer and it's now right next to the bed. So I think we're doing pretty good. But the whole like vibration thing,, I think guys don't realize how pleasurable it can be to have any vibration, whether it's on the base of the shaft or even just turn on a really low setting if you're just starting out.

But just stroking it, using it on the underside, on the testicles or the perennium, which people know is the taint. It's the part between the testicles or the perennium, which people know is the pain. It's like the part between the testicles and the anus, but there's so many nerve endings down there that if you have just the slightest bit of vibration, it's gonna be a whole other feeling for them. Right, and then they're gonna be on board

with your sex toys. If you're thinking they're gonna feel like you're gonna leave it, they're gonna be like, oh, wait, let's use that. That's why cock rings are great too. Yeah, oh wow, because the luck is on their own, they're not gonna be like, I'm gonna get some do. But right, like the cock rings are, like the vibrating ones are a great intro

to like doing anything else with like vibrations for them. So that's a good cheat, so put on the pranium. That's a great one, yeah. Especially with the two. Oh yeah, like the one. There's, screaming out, how's the couple doing? Yeah, they've, they've, oh yeah Oh yeah, like one. There's screaming. Oh, how's the couple? Yeah, they've

a. Oh yeah, yeah, a little vibrators like one on top for her one on the bottom for him. And it's like, it was a great starting point because they're the reasonable price point. And you can kind of experiment with different different backgrounds. Just pay attention like, oh, vibratex makes another one that they gave me at ILS. When I was like, oh, I've never tried a conquering before. And I think EddieLS. When I was like, oh, I've never tried a cocking before. And I think Eddie from Bibertext was like, what? Here you go. And like tossed it to me and I was like, oh,

and they gave us all a magic one. That was a good thing. And they gave us like, stacks of magic. It's a good time. That was your intern. Yeah. That's why she stayed. So yeah, that's a good time.

OK, so what are some other toys? Like some hacks maybe. Are there any toys that were kind of like, they were meant for one thing, but you found out that it's really good for something else. Little tricks I wouldn't know. I think Layla's Tara and Ena, one has the remote and, or,

Ida, Ida's what I'm talking about. The Ida, okay. One has the remote and one doesn't, but they're virtually the same kind of G-spot, stimulator. Okay, Ida, the IDA. Yeah, they're rarebile, right? They're the ones that like kind of G spot. Stimulated. Okay. Aida, the IDA. Yeah. They're rareble, right?

They're the ones that like kind of like go on the outside and hook in. Yeah. And so they have the hooking feature. And I remember the first time I used it, I was not super into it. But then I found out they can totally be used inly. Ooh. Right. You just flip it around.

Yeah. And I mean they're anal safe. They have a slared base. So it's totally doable. But it's, I think that's the, you're just talking for around. Yeah, and I mean they're anal safe. They have a layered base, so it's totally doable, but I think that's the here design for that. Wow, that's a good one. Okay, and that's the Aida. All right, anything else with you? Anything that you found is just fun. Well, I mean, the Wevi4, the one with the remote,

like a lot of people buy them because it's like, you know, a couples toy, but what people don't realize is like they can use it as like a panty vibe. You know, so it of like to me like that's a pretty big hack yeah you could stick it in your panty right I'm doing that tonight you know I'm so say you need yeah I'll text you and be like Emily are you wearing it your Wevi 4 you should just put it in her purse and I just appreciate and all text Ross and be like hey download the app yeah okay good she'll be in charge of my four-time no that's true though you could because it's a wearable but you can it has remote control the app. Oh, no. Are you? Are you? Okay, good. She'll be in charge of my four-point.

No, that's true, though. Because it's a wearable, but you have external control, which is really fun. Okay. So, yeah, people come in looking for like panty vibes, like kind of spice up, like their date nights or like, you know, the holidays are coming. So, it's like, they go to holiday parties and like, they're like, I want to get my wife something or my girlfriend. That's what's so fun.

And then I'm like, okay, I'm going to one up this game because it's going to benefit you. Check out the Wee-Veib for. Right, because you can wear it, but then you could also, she's wearing it throughout the party. Like, he's like, I'm gonna get you a drink and then he's standing at the bar and then he's like vibrating her while she's sitting down. You're gonna wear this. That's the thing. Because it's gonna be real. Guys like, remotes. Oh, remotes. They like remotes. They love her points. They want remotes. They want control. So like, why not just be like, you know, this is like, when, when for you? Because you're gonna see her squirm her knees are gonna start closing she's gonna need to sit down maybe

go to the bathroom like that's so fun you're right like the video games Madison do you have one of these the four plus uh yes I do because I know your boyfriend loves video games why just give him this instead he's all about it the thing is he's so distracted by like playing with the the things that by the time he's like we're ready to go I'm just like I'm already not in the mood anymore watching him like fiddle around with like download the app and fill around with it like test it out. It's like nine settings already programmed on it. Oh my my what's the call? Me being erotically charged is like a small window like by the time that he's like fucking around with it. I'm like all right so let's just

watch friends. No, I just like just thought of remote control. Yeah, no he's like fucking around with it. I'm like, all right, so let's just watch friends. No, I'm like, I just thought I'm okay with your troll, but I don't know, I like to be doing that. No, he's a genius super into it. The more techie Atoy is, the more stoked he is. When we got to do the programmable Crave Flexes, he was stoked. He lost his fucking mind. He wanted to like design all of my vibrations

thatings for me and I was like, all right, settle down. Like, let's just have sex. Great, exactly. For the key room. For the key room. Oh, the key room. No, the key room, he was so, oh yeah. Do you. Like, let's just have sex. Great, exactly. Oh, for the key room. The key room. Oh, the key room. No, the key room, he was so old. You guys in the key room?

Yeah. That's last night. We don't have it, like where I work. But I'm like constantly looking up updates and like pictures and like trying to read reviews and stuff. I start on the flea-roo-your-house, and they start like on the floor, or like, when it's together.

Well, because we got the sentus, and they sent us like a demo. And then, once was all fucking excited about it, he like sets it up and everything gets it connected and it goes for like three seconds before it dies and so he charges it and so he charges it And then once he charged it it wouldn't pair because it was a demo and it was new So they sent us a new one and he was all excited. He has tried that and he really enjoys it It's time to get you just so we know real quickly Yeah, so it's it's really cool and that it pairs up with porn.

So for instance, like, you can use it as a couple thing because it comes with like, they do have one word. It's like a, it's called teledonic technology, which I really enjoy a lot, just the word. It's such a best method. I know, teledonic technology. Just try to put that into sense. I know.

Oh, I'm going to later. I'm going to slip it in there somewhere. Dirty talk. But I'm sure. Oh, she's working on dirty talk. I am working on dirty talk. That's one sense. I know. Oh, I'm going to later. I'm going to slip it in there somewhere. Dirty talk. But I'm sure to do. Oh, she's working on dirty talk. I am working on dirty talk. That's one of the things. Yeah, that's a tell-it-day.

I mean, tell-it-day. Yeah. Anyway, so it comes with a like a dildo and like a sleeve, kind of like flashlight, made with the same patented super skin material. And for couples, it's cool because you have the dildo and you have the little like sleeve thing and whatever someone's doing to the dildo you can like feel it on the sleeve. So like if I were to like say if I

were like using it insert it like to insert into myself he would feel it translated onto his penis because of the technology. So crazy. But if you only buy so they have like the onyx and they have the, and the onyx is the actual sleeve in itself. If you just have the onyx, you can hook it up to porn that they have that comes with the toy. And you can be watching porn, have this thing on your penis, and whatever's going on in the porn. You're feeling it.

Well, you will feel it on your penis. It is insane. And then you will never leave your house. I was like, women are becoming obsolete. Like, he's not going to need me anymore. But like, we're on the right business, people. You know what I'm saying? No, no.

We don't want him to be absolutely much to want to enhance your experience. Yeah. I mean, clearly, we're still having sex. So it's not, I didn't become obsolete. But it was pretty exciting. And he was, I think he gets more joy out of setting it up, honestly. And he does add a putting his penis in it. Because he was so stoked getting there ready.

Shout out to all my friends who know West. We were listening. That's cute. I changed them for us. So I have a question. Is there anything, what do you think or some misunderstandings that people have about toys or some mistakes people make when they buy toys? If anyone comes in, they're like,

why did I get this or that? Is there anything that people need to know first or common errors, common purchases that people make it like that wasn't right for you? Because blank. I just, I like to educate about like the material. I am not a fan of jelly. Jelly is super porous. A lot of bacteria can hide in there if you don't have a toy cleaner. Another thing people will like by like these really nice toys, but not get a cleaner or not know how to clean the item So how do you explain

Damn cloth tell the story we had to record Emily did like a she'd like a review video of the magic wand rechargeable and That she I've we had to do some like post recording like she had to do some like how to clean it Yeah, like I think it's like just some like after the fact and so she had we had to do some post recording. She had to do some like, had to clean it. Yeah, I think it's like, just some like after the fact. And so she had to record a damp cloth because for some reason that hadn't come off clearly in the video. Yeah, you did a damp cloth to my channel. So she had to do like, I heard it's called ADR.

So I make that, it's like after the fact. You do like audio recording. So Lori had that file, that sound file up on her computer. And randomly throughout the day, we'd just be working. And all of a sudden she'd click on it. We just hear a damp cloth. Yeah, they can play him like a damn cloth So you can clean your toys with a damn cloth But you need to but what if you don't what I have to a cleaner like you just cleaned every time we do it like mild so

Yeah, body safe soap like right yeah, right right right down. Well every time you need to like there is back to Yes, like even before and after if you live like in a house with like Like there's bacteria. Yes. And even before and after, if you live in a house with lots of pets and dander, I just tell people wash it before and after and let it hair dry. I don't even tell, I do not use paper towels. No, you don't want all that fuzzy stuff inside of you. No, it's like the little shards of fibers.

And that is not meant to go inside. So, you don't use a damp cloth. A damp cloth. That's not a damp paper towel. So, use a damp cloth. A damp cloth. That's on a damp paper towel. Yeah. Okay. Anything else for you? I think knowing if a toy is a anal safe is really important.

Yes. Yes. Yeah, I have an emergency room. How do they know? Yeah, people will buy, I mean, I have to explain. Flared base. Flared base. Please.

Flared base. But people will come in. Because otherwise, it doesn't have a flared base. It will go up to your rectal, you know, please. Please. I'm a flared face. But people will come in. Because otherwise, because I'm a flared face, it will go up to your rectal, you know, canal. And then you got an awkward hospital visit. My favorite is that the vagina is like a cold assac. Nothing's really gonna get lost up there. It'll eventually come out. But the anus is like a one-way intersection to the hospital.

And it's so true. You don't want it to so good. Yeah, it's just, you want to say something. You guys can't hear each other. I got this the most embarrassing experience possibly of your life. What? Oh, you had one or a good thing.

Oh, no, not me. I was like, listen, I got this thing in my anus, and you're like, I just sold you a buddy. You have people come in and say, I didn't tell you about your anus. We have people who are like, that's the thing I had to go to the emergency room for. Oh, no.

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It really is. Yeah. So what do you guys like? What kind of leaps you? Waterbase, which is from your favorite brands? You like slippery stuff? I like the more kind of viscous thicker. Because I feel like it just adds more padding for prolonged play.

Mm-hmm. Or the waterbase, or do you like silicone? The waterbase slippery stuff. Or like silicone, or? The water based, like, or the, uh, what is this? Like, what's sassy? Slick-wed, I love the day. Oh, yeah, yeah. That's a really good, just nice. Everything.

Just kind of works with everything. Yeah, it's a great brand. I like all their stuff, yeah. Yeah. Well, it kind of depends on what you're doing, but like, solo stuff, I really like the Joe Agape. I don't know if you're a- Oh, system Joe?

Yeah, system Joe, right. But it's like a you're a fan of that. Oh, system Joe? Yes, system Joe. Right. But it's like a really thin viscosity and it feels closer to the natural lubrication that you produce when you are arous for women. Right. So I kind of like that for solo play, but for intercourse or even anal, I like intimate organics. Yeah, I've heard about that. I've heard about that.

Yeah, but they have this one. It's so thick. Like it's- Because you need a lot of moving out. Yes, and you need it thick because you wanted to last long time because we get dried out, that's a problem. But I really like that stuff

because it's like a guava bark in it. I'm like one of those like organic hippie kind of. Right? So like I like knowing what exactly is in my products. Like that I'm using. And like I just, I like that stuff. Okay, yeah. Uberloops great for silicone.

I love Uberloops. I love Uberloops. Pure, that's like another really, really popular one. Yeah, those are the best. You also have to invest in it, like you want to get it. It is, yeah. You don't want to buy anything at the drugstore, I'm just gonna say.

No. Or anything with don't do KY guys. Don't do KY. Oh, I have a lot of friends, so I'll be like, my about this KY gel? And I'm like, go home, throw it in the garbage, and then come talk to me. I'm washers, but just dry.

You care about your vagina. Wash your vagina. Or even a astro-glyde sometimes. Astro-glyde's bad too. Sorry, listen, I don't have that. I mean, they're trying to make some more body shape but it's all just, if you buy it at Walgreens, don't use it.

So you have to have some activities in your prone to yeast infections. You really need to be conscientious of like, what you're putting inside of yourself. Same, that's why I use skin condoms. I'm so sensitive. I've heard about them from you, Emily. I didn't bring the bag.

I've got literally a thousand of them. Are you serious? Everyone follow me to the office. I might have them in my car in front. Yes, skin condoms. They're good. I never heard of them. Yes, skin condoms. They're okay, right? They're good. I never heard of them.

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or that you feel like has been a... There must have been an article or something about Tenga sleeves recently or some remenching it because we had a week where, like, yeah, I would agree. Tenga sleeves, explain what, they're like before flush, I think. Oh, the Tenga sleeves,

oh right, you're right, okay. Oh, Tenga, yeah, yeah. Oh, the tanga sleeve. Oh, right, you're right. Okay. Oh, tanga, yeah. Yeah, the eggs. Or even the slime. The flip sleeve that they have. It's like a red sleeve that you can take out and what's awesome because it's opposed to the flashlight, we have to flip it inside and out to clean it.

This one you slide open and it just folds out like a book. Oh, interesting. And it's really taxid inside, but we had a bunch of people coming in looking for all these things. That's so interesting. That's so interesting when things just chit yeah. Okay and it has buttons on the side so you can vary the pressure but I guess someone missed a written about it because we had just this wave of dudes coming in. I'm glad you did too because I just wanted to move. That's interesting. Yeah just like the like small like you know like for like

the head of the penis you can stretch it down but entirely possible they like an article for like men's health or men's fitness came out or something like that or playboy radio did a thing on it because that does happen. Yeah. Get into a lot of hands on it. And when you're not spending cover-up on your vies, if you think people need to know going sex sites to holidays, what would you think is a good gift to your- let's say first for yourself.

Oh, like a- You guys could have your dream, yeah. What would you want? What would be your dream gift if you could get yourself anything? Oh my gosh, the stronic from fun factory. I don't want it so bad. So you guys could have your dream, yeah, what would you want? What would be your dream gift if you could get yourself anything? Oh my gosh, the stronic from fun factory. I want it so bad. Which the new, a vibrator, and it has two opposing weights, and they go back and forth.

So it feels like actual penetration. But you have to be really like, I guess, I've been reading up on it. My boss tells me all about it, because we're really open like that over there. And sure. She's like, you have to be really warmed up for it. You can't just put it in cold turkey, so to speak.

You want to make sure that you're aroused, and maybe have like literal attention first because it's not an extension yet I hear that they're making okay what is it called? The by-stronic fusion. Oh tell me. So fusion. It thrusts so it has the same you know magnet technology that's getting the the penetrative side of things but then it has this man-t-ray looking clit stem that's on the exterior. They have it on the fun factory website. I know, I think you sent me this mess.

I included the link in that, because I had to get a look at it. I hadn't seen it yet. I heard about it. I need this online. I'll click on it on it. But wait, okay, so tell me. So it's the same thing, but it says a... So it's like the Miss By?

Yeah, that's what I have with the dual motors. I guess they took the motors. That thing's fantastic too, by the you know that that's what they have with the dual motors I guess they took the motor from fantastic to by the way and it's so filling Yeah, they took the motor from the miss by the external little buddy and then put it on you know Sterling has a thrusting it has the clip arguably you never need a partner again, right? Oh my god That's what you need to try to know I am getting it in the next few weeks then. Oh, good. I am very excited. Oh my god, that's exciting. OK.

Oh, right. I did amazing. Right. It's loading. I did see it. That looked like that was really cool. I was going to get this for myself for Christmas. But now I'm going to hold out for the fusion because why not?

Because why not? Hold on. OK, what do I do for a couple? What would you just recommend? What would you be like a great couple's gift I've never had a toy something new or something fun. I Don't even be a toy. Maybe it's a game or fun like I mean like if you're like going into the like if you're going into a sex shop or like an adult store Like whatever you want to call it

You know what get some get games sexy dice. I always say this the games are fun like hard games There's like there's these things out there that like they're like personal like you know I love you checks and like you can fill it out put them in somebody's lunch box or like in their briefcase like right You know start like at the saw tonight or blow job right? Yeah, I feel like even massage oils like getting something like your candles like that would be so beneficial to kind of just spark something or if you guys have to go to like one of the parents or in-laws or whatever like you know take out of the box. Yeah, just like you know keep that romance alive and stuff. Yeah, what do you think Kate?

I think cards and games like a position of the day card. Yeah, I think when things get boring and if you're tired of the missionary every day you can just flip in these cards and try something new. And more Emily's book. Yeah, hot sex over 200 things you can try tonight. Yeah, get on Amazon, get on my website. Yeah, that's true. A lot of you used my book, there was like, oh, what on this page and do this?

You know, say anything that you could do because again, I feel for people, they're like, I ought to talk about it. It's really hard. We'll bring in something else outside. Like the card games are fun. You're like, let's play this instead of playing games to people play. Card games, couples. Oh, card games you made. Wait're like, let's play this instead of playing games to people play.

Card games, couples. Oh, card games, you man. Are we time out? I don't know, some games are ready. I don't know, some games are ready. I don't know, some games are ready. I don't know, some games are ready. I don't know, some games are ready. I don't know, some games are ready.

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Right, okay, we gotta go. We gotta go. I love you all. And I can't wait to see you all. I'm gonna see you this weekend. Yeah, the summer sex. At the Embrof in Hollywood. Check it out on my website, sexelme.com

and they'll see you at Hustler. Kate, thank you so much. Thank you so much, McKenna. This is so great having you guys here. And I'm love all your information on the website. Madison, you rock, my world. Happy holidays everyone, we'll be talking to you soon and we're looking for interns.

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