Sex With Emily - Sex Toy Secrets with Sunny & Chad

Episode Date: October 3, 2015

On today’s show, Emily welcomes hosts of Playboy Radio’s popular “Ask the Doc” podcast, Chad Braverman and Sunny Rodgers. Emily, Sunny and Chad jump straight into swapping secrets and stories ...from the sex industry, and share tips on how to step up your sex toy game for maximum pleasure! If there’s one thing that this trio of sex aficionados have in common, it’s their expertise in the area of sex toys, from personal favorites to hottest up-and-coming toys and helpful hacks. The gang also answers a couple emails from listeners who are hitting some sexual speedbumps in their otherwise wonderful relationships. From awkward sexual turn-offs to noisy sex toys that kill the mood, tune in to learn how to navigate these bedroom issues and make your success in sex match your luck in love!This episode of Sex With Emily is jam packed with fun toy tidbits and silly sex stories. From Ben-wa balls to Man-ginas to pocket rockets and rabbits, this is a show you don’t want to miss! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hey everyone, thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. Today's show we have Chad and Sunny, the hilarious host of Playware Radios, asked the doc podcast. They're joining me in the studio of Swap Secrets from the adult industry and share Sex to a Hacks. Plus, we'll be answering some of your emails. So thanks so much for listening. Okay, everyone, you know I've been talking to you about my candles for a while now, my Emily and Tony candles. And if you have not tried them yet or if you don't even know what how a massage candle is, they are amazing truly and it's not just because they have my name on them, but the truth is I had tried massage candles before and they were like, okay, I love the concept
Starting point is 00:00:35 of a massage candle. I love the fact that a regular candle you can pour it on your partner and give a massage. That's all great. But the other ones that existed, I just felt kind of like sticky and didn't make you feel good and didn't smell good. And so I made these candles that are like vegan, except for the beeswax part, but they're coconut oil and soybean oil. They smell amazing and they feel amazing. And the feedback from my listeners have been great, like people, because I've had people change their life and I got a listener who just emailed me and said, my girlfriend was skeptical at first, but it great to try the warm oil on me first and gave me a back rub,
Starting point is 00:01:06 then I was supercated and we had amazing sex. She can not stop talking about how good the candle smells and how great the massage oil feels. And I'm convinced that the scent and the candle helped us through some of our barriers to sex we face lately. Yeah, and in general, it's just a great candle anyways. Here's the thing, you don't have to give me
Starting point is 00:01:21 a massage every night. I like, I like, I like, I'm like, it's a room with therapy. It's I'm good. It's a room with therapy I'm not gonna happy dinner assistant Madison like give a candle to her boyfriend's parents I took it on the box and they wouldn't know that Usage candle and then they like Google that or something right now She accidentally stuck her finger in the wax. Oh, and she felt good. She so she accidentally like stuck her fingernail Take a wax out the candle and she's salted. And she was rubbing it.
Starting point is 00:01:45 It was like, this isn't wax. What is this? And I was like, it's massage oil. And she starts rubbing it all over her arm. It's not even lit yet. And she didn't even have to light it for that part of it. And then she goes to her husband and starts rubbing it on him.
Starting point is 00:01:56 And I was like, oh my god, I'm gonna die. Like this is so awkward. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. So it's just a good candle. It's a great candle. So now you can get a full-size Emily Toady candle for $28 we just
Starting point is 00:02:06 We have a special right now. I'm such a Emily to me and I think you just go to Emily still and you get Super nice. It's good for Thanksgiving coming. Okay, everyone think. Oh, yeah, it's great for Thanksgiving Put it on the table with the turkey Totally and that everyone gives a massage there afterwards my family I said around one Thanksgiving and watch the M Kim Kardashian Oh, oh, I thought it was your mom sex video that she put out. Oh, I got dude. We're gonna talk about it. Okay, everyone. So thanks for listening and check out the candles. Eyes that mock our sacred institutions Betrubized they call them in a bygone way
Starting point is 00:02:46 Hey, Abelene, you got a boyfriend? Because my man E here, he just got his heart broken, he thinks you're kind of cute Hey girls, gotta understand, it's a lie The women know about shrinkage Isn't it common knowledge? What do you mean like laundry? It's drinks? Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me?
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Starting point is 00:03:38 So good to be with you. Nice to see you again. Nice to see you. Very huge. And we also have Chad Breverman and Sonny Rogers. They host Ask the Doc on Playboy Radio, which is also podcast, correct? Podcast and...
Starting point is 00:03:49 And it's live. And it's live. I'm live. I know nothing. Sonny knows everything. I just need to try it around. Okay, so Tanya, you guys are awesome. You guys are such a cute little pair on your shirt.
Starting point is 00:03:57 You're like, you know? You're a little thing going on. I know, I love it. Okay, so... She keeps me in line. That's good. Yeah, that's what keeps me in line. That's good. Yeah, that's what it keeps me in line. That's what it keeps me in line.
Starting point is 00:04:06 To keep you in line. To keep him in line. Are you wearing nipple clamps right now because you seem sort of saying. I took them off before we came in. I was nervous. You weren't excited about having you guys in the show. There's a lot of things, but I was thinking about it
Starting point is 00:04:17 because I was actually listening to your show. And I was thinking like, so I have a lot. I talk a lot about toys on my show. Some, you know, I think you've heard it. Yeah, I mean, we do like a lot I talk a lot about toys on my show Some you know I think you've heard it. Yeah, I mean we do like a lot and it's not just because it you know Them people sponsor me whatever. It's like I just think that toys are you know, they're a huge part of expanding your sex life But what I love usually you know, it's a lot of women talking about toys I'm like men is please take the flashlight home and try it like please you know, he's like not as into it It's fine, but I love that you're
Starting point is 00:04:43 Straight I think I believe you're straight man. I'm not I think so. Yeah, no, okay That so far that you've actually I'm assuming I didn't listen to all your thing But you you have had and your family started started that Johnson, which was you know, which is amazing Sex you grew up a sex toy, but no that you I'm assuming you sex toys with women Yeah, I mean. And I've never had a guy who is really that well versed on the show that wasn't like working for, I guess you do work for a company,
Starting point is 00:05:10 but you're also like a dude, you see my guy, that you would give tips. And like talk about your experience, like how you feel about using toys with women and like which has been your experience, cause I just feel like we haven't had a lot on the show and I just got really excited, I mean about a month of other things you've talked about,
Starting point is 00:05:24 but that's just really cool. Yeah, no, I mean, for me, like I grew up in the show, and I just got really excited about a month of other things you've tacked up, but that's just really cool. Yeah, no, I mean, for me, I grew up in the business, my family. You're talking about that, so much. So I mean, I just something that I've just haven't been, it was never taboo to me, it was always like, this is what we did, this is our family's business, this is, I don't know, what affords us the opportunity to,
Starting point is 00:05:41 how you go to school, this is how you do this, it's not like that, it's like, daddy makes dough dough. It's sex toys, it's still still does and I think when we were younger obviously there was like you know it was kind of like the fodder for like you know my friends and whatever like early big spake dicks and like that of his stuff so he's dad started duck Johnson which is different for how many years 40 this year well that's amazing 2016 is the 40th we're just getting excited for it already so was there any point in your, I mean, was it a little bit embarrassing? And then it got funny or it was just always.
Starting point is 00:06:09 No, I mean, so I think I was 12, it might have been embarrassing if you knew about that. I think that there was something for me, I've told the story before, but I'll tell you, I didn't know what my family did, it was back, I'm 33, so when I was growing up, it was very taboo. And my dad, Ron, he didn't tell anybody my family did. It was back, I mean, I'm 33. So when I was growing up, it was very taboo. And like, my dad, Ron, he didn't tell anybody what he did. It was, you know, the company was health devices. It was like import export, very like, hush, so, and my dad's a big guy. And, you know, I thought, I honestly probably grew up thinking like he was kind of like, mob related or something, because he just like, kind of looks like it. And so they just never told anyone what we did. And I just, I went there one time, like take your son to work day.
Starting point is 00:06:49 And my mom was like, my mom was like, don't take him anywhere. Like we do not want him, I don't want him walking around. He has to stay in your office, like that's that. And my dad obviously just proceeded to like parade me around the entire place. I was young, I was like, I don't, I always say, I don't know how old I was, but I knew,
Starting point is 00:07:06 I knew that I had a dick, and I knew that my dad had a lot of them. There was just dicks everywhere. That was what I knew, that's all I knew, and I also knew though, like not to say anything, like I didn't like, rat him out to my mom, like I didn't tell her, like I didn't tell anybody. And probably six, seven, eight years later,
Starting point is 00:07:25 I actually found out for real from an older step brother. I was telling a friend like what my dad did, like whatever the bullshit story was of the day, you know? And my step brother was like, that's not what your dad does. And I was like, what's he do? And he goes, he makes fake dicks and pussies. And I was like, I swear to God God I was like, I knew it! Like, I was like, it actually was a huge burden off
Starting point is 00:07:49 of my shoulders and I actually didn't have a choice in the matter because one of my best friends was there. We were probably 13 at the time. I mean, he went the next day and told everybody. So I think maybe there would have been that like lag time of embarrassment or like, what do I do now? How do I head off this storm? But the truth was, when I got to school the next day,
Starting point is 00:08:08 it was just, it was known all of a sudden everyone, like, look, I think my teachers knew, obviously. That's fair, yeah. And it never wasn't kinda cool. Even at that young age, my friends were just kinda like, well, you're Chad, we love you, like this is cool, you're dad's cool, and like, so then for me, it was just, well, you're pretty cool, like, would you dad,
Starting point is 00:08:29 the cool guy like? Yeah, no, well, I mean, they're cool people. I mean, then obviously they're super, like, you know, liberal and just like, you gotta be. It wasn't, you know, I mean, like my dad always said, like, he didn't tell people what he did because he thought I'd be judged, but the truth is they probably kept
Starting point is 00:08:43 the most kosher house of all my friends. You know what I mean? Like it's always the people that are kind of like doing it that are like not super crazy. Like, is that having eyes wide shut orgy's at his house every weekend? Exactly. Well, not when you were there. Not when I was growing up, but- Exactly. Okay. So this is a good interview.
Starting point is 00:08:58 So you go, okay, and Sunny, how did you get involved with all this, the sex twist? You also work at Doc Johnson and do the show together? To you. Okay. It's kind of funny. I've been in this industry for 15 years now, How did you get involved with all this, the sex source? You also work at Doc Johnson and do the show together? To you, yeah. It's kind of funny. I've been in this industry for 15 years now, and I started, I answered an ad, and I was working for, it was an aerospace company that made a national devices, and I did their licensing for DOD.
Starting point is 00:09:16 I got high security items out of the country, and so I answered an ad for looking for licensing and this recruiter actually placed me with an adult company and it was licensing Adult names. It was Playboy Hesler. It was like brands licensing brands and I went Well, this is more fun than aerospace It's true. Yeah, so that was exciting. Okay. I was exact opposite of Chad I grew up my dad's a total hippie grew up in downtown San Francisco. Oh, okay, that's where we were from. Oh, cool.
Starting point is 00:09:50 Yeah, I moved here three years ago. We both moved here three years ago from. Yeah, that's nice. So you understand, totally. Yeah. And my mom was exact opposite of my dad. So it was 12 years of Catholic girl school with the uniform. And my mom with the twin set and the pearls
Starting point is 00:10:05 and we don't talk about sex. And then as soon as I got into college, I became a fiend. I was like, oh my god, what have I been missing? That's what happened. Did you realize that they're making you wear the skirt, the Catholic school world, it's all going to go back. It's all going to go wrong. Yeah, the first, you know, try to shun them from all that or, you know, hide them from
Starting point is 00:10:23 all of it. Right. And then boom, once they get out in the real world We just had Moxie suicide She's like right, yeah a couple weeks ago and she Same thing with her. She was like all buttoned up family and then the moment that she got to go out in the real world By herself then it's just like yeah exactly, you know, just open the floodgates for everything Yeah, so this was the perfect storm, but something's like the crazy one somehow and on the tame one I feel like on the team one in the relationship. Oh, yeah, what do you do a boyfriend now?
Starting point is 00:10:54 Yeah husband and Friday this Friday is our 16th year wedding anniversary That's great. So good one. That's awesome. Okay, so why is she the crazy one? Why does he say that? Because I'll try anything, several times better. What's the most recent thing that you've tried? Because you think, yeah, the most recent thing you've tried?
Starting point is 00:11:13 Well, we challenge each other on the show, and my latest challenge was to wear binwabos longer than 10 hours, because that was my previous record. Record? Yeah, binwabos are kind of like, like, aegyo exercise, like, exercise your- Yeah, your PR? record, yeah. Ben Mabal is kind of like, hegal exercise, they exercise your... Your PR? Yes, yes. And so I wore them for 12 hours on Friday. And...
Starting point is 00:11:31 During our show. I was sorry, it was. I was a little frustrated at the whole show. Saturday, they were a little sore, but I swear, I felt like superwoman. I actually felt like I could put a champagne bottle down there and just pop the cork and not a problem. Because you think it, they're a bit strong.
Starting point is 00:11:44 They're strong. It was like, which one, which is the, which ones you use? I use the black rose. They're a little weighted and they've got silicone. And I'm a big fan of silicone. Okay, right. And have you do always do your caglactases regularly?
Starting point is 00:11:57 I do. And I love cagl ones. Because they're so fun. You can just put like the little tip in and hang and really show how strong you are and like whip it around and start totally important. It's so important for when you do them and I talk about it all, I have a phone app called Kegel Camp and it reminds you of Do-M everyday. Yeah, I know, it's where I love you. Yeah, really, it's so important.
Starting point is 00:12:18 Now you tried out some balls for a while. Yeah, I used to wear them around all the time, so I'm just gonna do it. But then I, okay, but then I- Now you're off the balls. Well now I have this thing called, I have this amazing color. Have you guys heard of the intensity, intensity, extra, it does your chagolacrosis is for you. No.
Starting point is 00:12:34 It is the most, it looks like a rabbit vibrator and it's- Oh, it's the cowl item, right? It, the what? It's a cowl item. It was, they, for like five minutes, but no, it's- Oh, it's not anymore. No, they tried- Doesn't it look like electrocute you too? No, it has electro stimulation that stimulates your ch for like five minutes. But no, it's not anymore. No, they try. Doesn't like electrocute you to know it has electro stimulation that that stimulates your peckle muscles. No, it's not electrocution. It's not like all that.
Starting point is 00:12:51 I would change to it is. So for five minutes a day, I do it. And it's like actually really relaxing and zen. And it's the most I'm like, I just I have to say like it's it's changed because I remember to do them sometime now, the app, but now it's like, it does it for you. And then you've like an orgasm after. But we did a show about it. Everyone in my office tried one. All the girls were all in here. And minus wasn't invited that day.
Starting point is 00:13:12 No, but they were like, oh, I had the orgasm before. And then I did it. I was like, oh, I warmed up for it. But it tightens. And you can fit your size. Like, you squeeze it. That's hard to explain. So hard to explain this stuff.
Starting point is 00:13:24 So you squeeze it tight. So it tightens around you and it right around for your muscles and then you do it for five minutes, put the electrode gel on it and then it's a rapid vibe. It's awesome. Anyway, you don't do your cake now. Oh, unfortunately, I, oh man, you got it. I know. Then you won't be a premature ejaculate or anymore.
Starting point is 00:13:40 I know, right? Okay, I don't know that it is. I never seen this penis. That's all here say Anyway, that's cool. That's but you can use balls anything. It's so impulse. I love talking about balls It's been seen the ones that are actually made of stone. They've got crystals No, do you guys make no no, we don't make them but it they'll ground you like there's different ones crystals have different Energy and so you can put in whatever you need
Starting point is 00:14:06 and it actually grants you a new year. You're putting in a Scotch and stuff. That type of stuff. Kind of. Yes. Kind of. Sweet. I just heard, because I was at the Sexual Health Expo in New York
Starting point is 00:14:16 and there was a woman there who had all the crystals. She gave me some like, this one's for that. I'm like, where are ones calming and relaxing? Sounds like a fish concert. Totally. And then she, and then yeah, she one's for that. I'm like, where are we coming and relaxing? Sounds like a fish concert. Totally. And then she gave me some crystals. But I didn't know that she had the kegoballs there for that. That would make that the perfect storm
Starting point is 00:14:32 of a vaginal public floor. Yes. So calm your relaxing. Amazing. Quick. So you guys also do a radio show. What time is it on? When is it on?
Starting point is 00:14:41 It's on every Friday. Every Friday. From 11 to noon. And that specific standard time. Alright sweet. And what are you guys usually cover? We cover. Do you want to talk? Oh yeah I was gonna let you go with it. I'm having a live live live live. It's live. It's like serious exam or something. I think it's playboy radio.com. It's available on SoundCloud, it's available on iTunes.
Starting point is 00:15:06 That's right. It's called Ask the Doc. I mean, basically the concept of the show kind of started very organically again with Sonny and I with our back stories and how we got into the business and whatnot. Like, we find, as I'm sure you guys do with this, like a lot of people will talk to you about sex,
Starting point is 00:15:22 like not necessarily like in that sort of environment. Like you could be at a dinner party. You could be anywhere they find out what you do. And all of a sudden we start getting a lot of questions. Our questions definitely more so with sex toys. But that does get into relationship questions and sex questions in general and all this. And so really we have an educational program
Starting point is 00:15:42 at our company called Ask the Doc, which is different educational pamphlets and stuff. Vibrators 101, Anelplay 101, that type of stuff, just the very basic lame in terms of what this means, what it is, what type of item is this, what type of material is it made out of. We just kind of took that concept and translated it it into a show and just we answer a lot of questions like the meat of the show is the ass the doc segment which is people asking us about.
Starting point is 00:16:09 So call them with questions. Call them with questions, write in a question. Make it up on your show. I think the biggest for us always. I think people ask me that question by the way. But I'm asking it to you. No, no you get all. I think the biggest thing right now for I think that I hear all the time is just like, I want to bring, like, I want to do something with my partner,
Starting point is 00:16:27 sex toy related or not, and I don't know how to talk about it. Like, I think the community key is always, yeah, are there a freezer? It's so hard to like, just break through like that. Someone wants to bring a vibrator in, but they don't know how to tell their boyfriend, because they're afraid their boyfriend's going to be like crazy about it, or their boyfriend wants, and we get that away. And they don't want their girlfriend to think
Starting point is 00:16:45 that they're like gay. Because they want like, Aint play. Oh, plus date and pleasure, but he wants. So it's like it's all these things that I think, like we can recommend toys and there's things that are great for beginners, there's things that are great for you girls
Starting point is 00:16:56 who are walking around San Francisco with Kagle Balls in. Yeah, that's good. And then, you know, there's the like kind of just things that sometimes it's like, okay, you got to talk. Like, you got to talk to your partner about what you want to do because if they don't want to do it, and that's just steadfast, you have a decision of like, is this important enough to you to want to do it?
Starting point is 00:17:17 And maybe you need to find someone who's just kind of into that sort of thing with you, or it's not. But if you don't talk about it, it's like, it's not going to get on anymore. People wait so long to talk about things. We were just, you know, on all of the videos here, like I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and I've had this vibrator sitting in my drawer and I don't know.
Starting point is 00:17:31 And I need a better phrase, but it's like, ribbon-a-banded off. You just gotta do it. You're not gonna die. You always say like, you just gotta ask the, you know, hey, so I think this would be kind of fun, you know, just kinda bring it in. And maybe nothing too intimidating, you know,
Starting point is 00:17:44 but something smaller. Like I was gonna say my first Vibrator was the pocket rocket. Do people tell you this all the time? Yeah, I mean, that's what we recommend It's the best. It is still I love it travel. It's a you have to have it You have to have it like it's gonna get you off. It's gonna work, it's non-threatening, it's discrete, if someone finds it, it's like whatever. Yeah, I feel like that with doing the show with you, I've heard that, and then the magic wand the most. Right, probably, over 10 years, I would say,
Starting point is 00:18:15 and now the magic wand is unplugged, as we know. I know, you've been so excited about it. I have one in my car. I know, you've been so excited about it, it's wireless. I see how it is. I see how it is. You guys, you can bring your car now, I'm feel like you're master in your car.
Starting point is 00:18:25 I'm like, well, you just code. Now I have the option. I don't need a fucking plug. I do it every day. Sonny's in Santa Clarita area. Just get off the streets if you're there. She has like five vibrators in her car. I have a room right now.
Starting point is 00:18:37 I have like a hundred. I mean, what the hell? Oh, you go to her house. You can't even walk around. I just got a civilian. I don't know what to do. I need to move out. Have you tried it?
Starting point is 00:18:45 Have you used it? Yes. OK, what do you think? I haven't tried it. It's kind of amazing. I have to say. And it is the kind of thing where I had to, I was at first, like I got it in the first month. I was like, I think I got a Sibian.
Starting point is 00:18:55 I don't know. I have everything else. And it's really not as intimidating as you think. I've talked to them a lot. I got how to use it in the show. And like you sit on it. And there's like the dial and like 10 to 20 levels. And I've just used the flat top.
Starting point is 00:19:08 I haven't like done the insertion part, but because the thing about the Sibian is, it's the only toy that actually mimics like that you're having sex, that you're in the position. And I had some, I had a crazy work. I'm telling you, it was, you do have to kind of get comfortable with it and figure out your spots, but I'm pretty good at knowing what feels good.
Starting point is 00:19:26 And I did that to me about, I feel like it takes some time, take weeks, and like it took me like five, seven minutes. And then I was totally comfortable. And then I had like this amazing orgasm that like my whole body was vibrating and it went through, it was a different, it was amazing through my entire body.
Starting point is 00:19:41 Like my nipples had orgasms. Oh, I finally had my nipples. I swear it was crazy. You talked about me using toys. This is when I get vagina envy, because I will use anything, but we just don't, guys, just don't have this type of evidence.
Starting point is 00:19:51 We don't have a Sivian. We don't have a Sivian. I've used all of our masturbators here and there, and we do different internal textures. I'll try it out. I've used other competitors, masturbators, I've played with prostate massagers and things like that, but we don't have,
Starting point is 00:20:04 we don't have Sivian. I know, but we have a magic wand that puts but we don't have we don't have I know Magic wand the car lighter You don't have this you can't match it in a car, but you can mess right now hand You can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can't mess right now, but you can. Oh, well, send you one. Oh, I know. I'm sorry, seriously. I like sex toys, Anna. I know I love getting married to boys to boys to boys. So as you probably do as well, I just make me so happy. I give it to everyone. Like, how could you not be happy?
Starting point is 00:20:31 But I love the best. I'm usually wearing it. I love it. I know. I wish I wouldn't do it. I think I would actually have one in my car. I'm not kidding. I like it.
Starting point is 00:20:39 I'm really enjoying the car. But I was going to say, so back to the, you work, you were using sex toys with women. So can you explain from like a male perspective when you're with someone? Yeah, you in a relationship now. It does. Yeah you explain from a male perspective when you're with someone? You in a relationship now? Yeah, I'm married. Okay, you're married.
Starting point is 00:20:48 Okay, perfect. So there you go. You guys are both married. That's great. Or not. What? Oh no, I'm just saying. We're pure of times.
Starting point is 00:20:56 I've been trying to get married for years. I just don't, I've never wanted. I've never been on like a list. I haven't known her to have a boyfriend more than a month. That's not true. I've maybe like three months. No, I had for like a year. I've had a boyfriend for long and that's for you.
Starting point is 00:21:10 I'm not into the relationship thing. It's not like my ML, but the point is with your wife, for example. We're both right. We're both right. You and us and you. Yeah, whatever. We're not really.
Starting point is 00:21:19 It's all worth it for me. If we're all happy, we're all having great sex. To me, that's the blue. That makes life great. So talking about maybe some experiences you've had or how you've used it, if you're comfortable with your partner, with your wife, and I don't know, what toys do you use or what's been a cool experience? Yeah, I think, again, just with my background, I always brought toys into the bedroom with
Starting point is 00:21:40 previous partners, before I was married to college, things like that. I've been saying a lot of babes. And you're cute too, so like, you're like, you're right. You before I was married to college things like that like I used to. I think I said a lot of babes. Was it? And you're cute too. So like, yeah. You know what I mean? Blush. Um, so I mean it was something that again I think that I was on that forefront of like, this is what I'm into. This is what we're gonna do. It, are you into it too? Oh, you're not. Okay, then we're probably not gonna like. Right. Because my dad makes the love for a while. Because like this is just kind of my thing and this is where I'm at and then the people that are like into it
Starting point is 00:22:07 and then you're like, all right, cool, I found someone that's, and I knew my wife, you know, before we got together, we were at the same school together and we were friends and stuff like that. So she knew me, she knew what I did. And like I think in the beginning, it was just something that you bring in and you talk about it.
Starting point is 00:22:25 And then as it sort of progresses, and I started to work for the company, and we come out with new toys. It's... Give me an example though, like, you guys sing down, how it feels to you to use a toy on her, and how that feels from male perspective. It's not like you feel like...
Starting point is 00:22:40 I don't know how you feel. I want to know, from a male perspective, a guy who's used a lot of toys on women, doesn't let your wife or whoever, like what is that feeling? Like you're turned on, you're not turned on. You're waiting for me to get a project. You're waiting for all to be over
Starting point is 00:22:51 so you can get a blowjob. I don't know. No, I mean for me, for me it's a turn on. You know, like even I'm just watching her use a toy, you know, because I enjoy watching her being feeling good, being pleasure. Like to me that's the ultimate turn on. Like, that's probably the hardest thing for me is like,
Starting point is 00:23:09 you know, if she's gonna orgasm and like we're having sex or whatever, it's like, if I know that that's happening, like I can see it, I can sense it, I can feel it, that's the biggest turn on for me, that's probably when I'm gonna become like much closer to like my orgasm or possibly like lose it before I want to because I like to see that. I like to watch for get turned on,
Starting point is 00:23:27 and I know that vibrators, they help us, I know clitorial stimulation, during with penetration, is the ultimate for some people. So to me, it's an additive. It doesn't take away from me, it doesn't take away from the experience, it's just an additive, and it gets you to where I would hope
Starting point is 00:23:44 that you would want your partner to be Exactly right right and then so so it's really about watching Right like a lot of guys get to hopefully it's you'd hope or the men I'm with are like There's your toys. There's your toys like that's grab this subscribe that and the guys are with you like I'm not into it. I'm like I'm not that into you Over toys walking me house sometimes like if I don't know someone's coming over, they're out there, they're like charting. Now, I have an office filled with them too,
Starting point is 00:24:08 so it's just a problem. But. She's running out of storage. Well, when I first moved out of LA, I had to store you to just, it was all toys. I'm like, I'm spending like hundreds of dollars a month to store it anyway. I got an office.
Starting point is 00:24:17 I get it, because I just think a lot of matters. Like, I hope that it's changing. I feel like in the 10 years doing this show that I used to, when I first talked about toys, I have to always be like, okay, just you know, like it's not gonna replace you. Like, it won't go with her to the it's changing. I feel like in the 10 years doing this show that I used to when I first talked about toys, I have to always be like, okay, just so you know, like it's not gonna replace you. Like it won't go with her to the farmer's market. Like it doesn't like cuddle.
Starting point is 00:24:31 It's the sex part. Right. Right, do the, well that Teddy bird. Do you see that Teddy bird? Yeah, that's creepy. He gave me one at the show and someone stole it. There's a vibrator that looks like it. Has the nose of the vibrate.
Starting point is 00:24:42 What? And he's like, and then you can cuddle after. I'm like, oh, okay. Did you see they were dressing him up too? Yeah, like different outfits. Yeah, yeah, but some There was this teddy bear. There's certain things I'm still not into. They had it at my old radio station in the radio Like in the studio right and it just looked like a normal teddy bear and like so people would pick it up and stuff like that But you could actually have sex with it. It was, it was pretty disgusting. I have sex with like stick your penis in.
Starting point is 00:25:06 This is just for federal stimulation. Like the nose, like the- No, no, no, no, it looked like a legit teddy bear, but you could stick your penis in it. And then people would figure it out after they picked it up. Okay. Yeah, that sounds like it, yeah, this toy. I know it's a little weird.
Starting point is 00:25:19 So I figured into that having sex with teddy bears, that's available for you. Yeah, check out teddy bear. I think it's just called like the teddy bear. I'm sure it's on Amazon or something. Okay, we have to just give a big shot out here to flashlight, because we love them. You guys have your hand, oftentimes, and maybe of a ginor or anus. But really, the thing is, the flashlight is the number one male-sling sex toy for men, because it's a masturbation to see that mimics the sensations of actually.
Starting point is 00:25:41 Well, you're telling me they're doing all these advancements with this. Yeah, the key really. The key really. The thing that you stuck your penis the sensations of actually. Well, you're telling me they're doing all these advancements with this. Yeah, the key rule. The thing that you stuck your penis in, but now like, you're telling me there's like the same thing as internet stuff. Oh, the key rule where you can actually like have interactive sex where they make a flashlight that's masturbated to the world. Which I think they took on the show because I was talking about it like 10 years ago.
Starting point is 00:26:02 You know, one of that be cool and you're like like I don't have no idea what you're talking about. Like oh sex to the internet. It's gonna be a thing and then 10 years later. 10 years later. Here we are and it's happening. Who would have them be the innovator? Dude, I'm totally the innovator. I know it's amazing and I know you are. But you won't try flashlight. It's cool.
Starting point is 00:26:17 So anyway you guys check it out. You guys have heard me talk about it and I'm telling you there's never been one person I know that a lot of people in the show have bought them and used them and no one's ever said like why the hell Do you maybe get this or like should I try what should I try next and our intern Eddie wrote a great blog comparing a bunch of them on the Website so go to sexoeme.com and while you're there click on the flashlight banner Use code Emily and you get a free bottle of their word winning fleshly I'm not you molding your vagina for them. No, how no, I'm not doing that I'm not doing that but I am going doing that, but I am going to Austin
Starting point is 00:26:45 to watch some vaginas being molded. But I'm actually going to do the music festivals well. Austin say limits. So that's going to be the highlight. But maybe also watching for Genesis being molded. I'm going to be going. Why are you going? You should go.
Starting point is 00:26:56 Anyway, so back to you guys. Back to sunny and back to Chad. Yeah, so. So what is the best item out of your arsenal that your company probably To what is the best arsenal? Did you bring me the best one? What's the? Did we best they did it it was producer Ryan? I mean, you know for us the pocket rocket obviously we probably still number one just vibrator We have the Irabbit, which obviously has just been for the last 15 years, one of the best selling items.
Starting point is 00:27:35 And then we have a lot of male items, a lot of our male items, and just sort of like classics, like our butt plugs and our dildos, and a lot of our pocket post-season things like that. Those are all number one sellers. We've worked with some of the best talent ever, like Sasha Gray, Bella Donna, Jenna Jamison, all not in the industry anymore and still like perennial best sellers.
Starting point is 00:27:54 Right, just Andrews. Yeah. How do you feel? So you like toe cock rings? I love high-britting cock rings. Right, they're amazing. I'm talking to the girls over here. Yeah, they're great.
Starting point is 00:28:03 You don't love them? No, I love them. I use them, but she's like vibrating over here. Yeah, they're great. You don't love them? No, I love them. I use them, but she's like vibrating cocky. No, Tommy, Sunny, I like them too. That's my answer for everything. Anybody call? I know you're like vibrating cocky.
Starting point is 00:28:11 I'm like, you're getting a divorce. You need a vibrato. Right. What? It's your first date. You need a vibrating cocky. They're toad. It's a good win for everyone.
Starting point is 00:28:20 No, there's so many different ones now, I believe. Right? There's like Trojan makes them like just. Everyone you go by disposable, whatever. What do you like? I like our optimal. It's men's health and wellness line. It's silicone, which I really like.
Starting point is 00:28:33 And it's just really stretchy. It's got a good, strong vibration. The vibrator comes off and they have a double vibrator, so you can get, you know, a little ball actually. Yeah, I like the clit accent. Right, right. Yes, I love it. little ball actually. Yeah, many little... Like a clit accent, the thing to do. Right, right. Yeah, so it's a little bit better. So it stretches, it's one size fits all.
Starting point is 00:28:49 So let's talk about men. Let's talk about vibrations on men's balls and penis. Yeah. You can go first. No. Chad. Chad. I just feel like...
Starting point is 00:28:59 Let's talk about your balls, man. I just feel like it's... I feel like a lot of people listen to this show, a lot of men have not experienced it, and all I know is that whenever they do, they're like, that's freaking awesome. How come no one ever told me that vibrations are for men too or for my balls and my penis? Yeah, I think the best way to start is definitely,
Starting point is 00:29:15 I mean, is definitely a vibrating cock ring, because I can only speak for myself personally and then obviously other men that I've spoken to. Too much direct vibration for me actually can be a deterrent. It's something that I know men will experience like loss of erection with, because especially because we haven't had it too much. Oh, I mean, if you were like
Starting point is 00:29:35 to put the magic on the top of it. Yeah, or even like the bullet sometimes, like if they get like, if you're really like forcing it or trying to get it like really right on like your balls or something something like that I wouldn't go that direction I would definitely go with the transference of vibration which has felt very indirectly through a vibrating cock right? You know you put it on your shaft You if you're a little bit more advanced or if you're wanting to get the full benefits
Starting point is 00:29:57 You can loop it under your balls as well and the vibrator sits on top of your shaft. And again, while you're engaged in having sex, you just don't feel it as much as like the woman might feel it. So it's just a very good intro. Right, exactly. That is a good point. And that's a much better way to start and then see. Like I'm not gonna put you in my civilian. No, some men use the magic wand
Starting point is 00:30:23 like underneath their ball. Then he can come over on my civilian. No, some men use the magic wand like on their, like underneath their balls. So like that. Sunni can come over on my civilian, but. Yeah. No, but you're right, that is a great idea. I'll try to use a civilian. That's actually big. They have prostate.
Starting point is 00:30:33 They have, I have like every attachment. That's like a little bit above me, probably. Yeah. I'm not ready for that. Fine. Don't call for a civilian. When you're a slumber party. Yeah, you're going to miss a civilian party, man.
Starting point is 00:30:42 I am having a civilian party. And you've got, you don't have to participate. I don't force people at anything, really. Okay, so that's great with the cock ring. So it is true to just explain it, that you wear it. You know, it also can help men who have a hard time saying hard, have a more challenging time saying hard. Yes.
Starting point is 00:30:57 And what we're saying is the woman's on top, whatever you're wearing it, and it hits her clitoris just like how we like it. We need it. We need extra clitoral stimulation during sex. So any new toy toy exciting things coming out that you're excited about or like anything changes that you think or the market, what type of thing.
Starting point is 00:31:11 What are you like to tell us in? Yeah, you look excited. I do, it's not coming out for a couple of months. But I love this name. It's the Mangina. And it's the Dildo. The Mangina. I love it.
Starting point is 00:31:21 I love it. I get it. I got to try it on for a minute. It's a certain man, Jaina has been around for a really long time, but they're actually coming out with something called Man Jaina. It's a dildo and a surfer. Not just a, us.
Starting point is 00:31:31 Wow. Oh, Duttonson, okay, that's where they find it out. Okay. Isn't that amazing? It's not out yet. So it's a show. Okay, don't go get it yet. It's a man Jaina. And it's a dildo.
Starting point is 00:31:41 What if you already have a man Jaina? I have to see how it's going to be. I mean, I get you. You need to. I have just seeing how this even looks. I think we have to send this one. This is nice. I actually, like what you said the other day, I saw something on one of our social media
Starting point is 00:31:51 as you guys said, like half-stroke or half-poker. Yeah. I liked that. That was cute. That's good. You guys didn't tell me that ahead of time. I should've done that. Surprise.
Starting point is 00:31:59 That item's got a lot of play at the last show and we debuted it. I mean, it's something different. It's something interesting. I think it's definitely it's a little bit more of like a fetishy item stuff for people that are kind of into a little bit more kind of your freaky fetishy stuff and and We have a new you know, we produce 75% of our products are made in America Which is amazing north hollywood at our facility and You want to go?
Starting point is 00:32:26 Yes, do you want to go? Yes, do you want to come? Yes, we do. I'm back. Yes, there is. Where are you in the Know-Ho Arts District? I think like you're in the fancy part of Know-Ho. I do live in a nice neighborhood.
Starting point is 00:32:36 Oh, that's a hot spot. But no, so we make, like I said, 75% of our products in America, and about five years ago, we started making health grade silicone which was a big move for us, you know, especially in the industry as well, and we just developed a brand new like life-like material for psilous skin. It's called true skin, and that's something that we debuted at the show and that's coming out like in the next couple of months.
Starting point is 00:33:04 That's cool. Okay. That's what I'm most excited for because I love to see like the new And that's something that we debuted at the show and that's coming out in the next couple of months. Okay, that's cool. So that's what I'm most excited for because I love to see the new stuff happening in our facility. That's cool. Yeah, you guys get to, you're there on the cutting edge. I want you guys to help me answer a question from a listener, is that cool?
Starting point is 00:33:17 Yes. It's true, of course. Okay, this, thank you. Okay, first of all, thank you everyone for emailing me, feedback at sexwithmlle.com. I love hearing from you and it's awesome when you include your age and where you're from and how you listen. Age sex location.
Starting point is 00:33:33 Age sex location, thank you for bringing it down. Old school. I need a translator. Okay, so hey Emily and Emily's wonderful team. I'm a 20-year-old female the Yorker and I listen to you all through iTunes. I've been dating my also 23-year-old boyfriend for four months now, and he's wonderful.
Starting point is 00:33:46 He's the kind of person that brings a girl flowers and cookies if she's having a bad day. It won't ask for anything in return. He sends a- When they hate that, when women laugh at you, men. They say they love it, but watch, watch, keep on reading. Shut up.
Starting point is 00:33:58 He sends it. He's so great. He does everything for me, and you know, I'm gonna ask for it again, but. Okay, he sends it. He's You know, I'm just gonna ask for a thing. But, he says, he's so boring. I need a guy that's been in jail or something. Go ahead. He's sensitive and thoughtful and is all in all a great person. The sex with him is great.
Starting point is 00:34:13 Except, except. No, no. No. Go for it. I really do not enjoy putting my hands on his really hairy back. Now, which is not nice. It's a complete turn off and I'll lose whatever we work towards if I touch his back during sex. I don't know how to tell him I'd like you to wax
Starting point is 00:34:30 or shave his back because I don't want to hurt his feelings. He has no problem with pubic hair. He has no problem with pubic hair at any state of growth. I have no problem with pubic hair at any state of growth. I'm a little body hair adverse and I'm pretty diligent with lady scabbing shaving legs. Thanks for your help. and thanks for being fantastic. All the best tea.
Starting point is 00:34:47 Can I just answer? Can I just answer? Yes. You just tell him like, hey, can I shave your back? He's a guy. He's a guy. He's a guy. He's a guy.
Starting point is 00:34:57 He doesn't care. No, no. If it's a woman and he's, because there's a lot of women out there that have hairy lower You had to be so how would you get it? I would say back me up on this guy. He doesn't care dude No, if it's a woman and he's because there's a lot of women out there that have hairy lower backs Now now that's a touchy that's a touchy I like do I no one tell me a lot of them out there now that's a touchy situation how to get around that Conversation but with the guy no, no, that's true though. No, but there's no Okay, so sunny I love you and you tell you. Thanks for having me.
Starting point is 00:35:28 Oh my God. Love is the best time ever. I love you. I would book a spot day for him and say, hey, I'm working out some treatments and they have this and I I don't know. Would you be up for that? You know, maybe get your hair on your back. That's too much for me. You just tell him shut this back. If nothing else, it creates an open conversation. You're like, you're not feeling it. You're not with these two women that don't speak English and they're gonna pour out wax on your body. You're gonna have it up.
Starting point is 00:35:52 How long do you think it's gonna take and before you realize this, every two months, you're booking spa? Yeah, I know. Come on. Why does it, yeah. Two-semin conversation. Just know, but then when you have sex the first time
Starting point is 00:36:01 and you're like, oh my god, your back is so good. I mean, I think, I can do it. I like great idea. If you give them a massage can or whatever, a massage world massage, and be like, how honey, you know it'd be so much better without your hair. I think you could really feel in your skin. Let me go get the razor.
Starting point is 00:36:15 I'll be right back. And you shave in the shower. And then you roof him and then you. Yeah, exactly. But I think when guys, I don't know, I know a lot of the guys who get laser to get wet and they're down with it. I think you just gotta like, again, it's just like talking about sex toys, just be like, babe, I think it, you know,
Starting point is 00:36:28 let's just kind of get rid of this. Yeah, I think you just have to be gentle about like, she goes into the fact that like that she loses all of her like build up like, don't go there. Don't tell him that he's turning you off. Just talk about it in like a much easier way about like possibly, you know, how he feels about it about it, if you ever thought about getting wax, start the conversation, because at the end of the day, for me as a guy, I agree with you, I probably wouldn't care. It just depends on how much, I'd be honest,
Starting point is 00:36:54 it depends on how much back here I had. If I had a lot, I might just be like, we're just not gonna go through this all the time. It's just too much of a hassle. You do it, just shave off, I'm gonna lay it. Get it laser, but I think that you just can't be like, it's a turn off. You never want to tell either part, you know,
Starting point is 00:37:09 that something's a turn off. Like it just, you never get past it, but it's like the little compliment thing. Like our chest like, so great. And she also has to kind of have some sort of finger on like how he feels about his body here. How is it not, how many years? Like, is he completely comfortable with it?
Starting point is 00:37:20 Is he semi-comfortable? Like, is he showed off? Does he have, you know, like is he man-scaping other areas of his body? Cause if he is, then he's totally fine to shape his body. Yeah, she said he's right. She said he is, right? A little bit. I don't know if it's on pre-cancer.
Starting point is 00:37:33 Yeah, he's throwing a hat here. He's 24. I think she's like, babe, I gotta tell you, our sex is so hot, I love having, again, don't happen in the bedroom when you're naked. Never have this conversation. But it's like next time you're out and you're like, you're changing, you're like, babe, God, you're so sexy again. I think it'd be hot to kind of like see
Starting point is 00:37:48 your whole back and give you a massage. Let's shave this hair off and get waxed. I do like it waxed my legs. Maybe you could do it to get you get home waxing kits and just make it like all these conversations you want to have a light. And if he has a good body, you can definitely say that it would like look better without hair. Which is true. That's a good point too. I don't know what he looks like, but if he has a good body, then you can definitely go that it would like look better without hair. Yeah, which is true. That's a good point too, Sam. I don't know what it looks like, but if he has a good body, then you can definitely go that route. She could say, I find back muscles really sexy, but I can't see yours. Absolutely, I can't see yours.
Starting point is 00:38:14 I can't see yours with that force of hair. Yeah. Yeah, there. We've got it. Perfect. Now explain to me how, as a guy that I can tell a woman to shave her back here. Ah, that's cool. That's cool. There here. That's where there's more to story. There's more to story. No, no, no.
Starting point is 00:38:30 I have a current girlfriend, I'm not talking about her, but I'm talking about, there's definitely a lot of women out there if you just really look as a guy. You buy her, because you get a spot on her. That is the same thing. This is the thing, no. They're out there. Ladies, take a mirror and look, because it's not mine. Be an offender, and you don't even know it.
Starting point is 00:38:49 Yeah, that's true, the back you can't see it. I mean, it's like, I'm just doing a public service right now. For some women, some men might not care at all, but you're saying that some men have a problem with it. And my mom might not know. They do, but they don't know how to have the conversation. They're like, oh, you know, you're kind of,
Starting point is 00:39:01 you weren't that crop top and, ugh, like, I can't see, ugh, ugh, ugh, ugh, I can't see crop top and, ugh. Like, you're like, ugh, ugh. This is what I have not to do. I can't see it right now. I don't care at all. You don't care? No, this is not what I'm saying. I don't care at all.
Starting point is 00:39:13 This is good. This is like, I'd rub it. That's sweet. So you're not judgmental at all. But I guess that. I'm not being judgmental at all. All we're saying is that women should get a look and see how they feel about it.
Starting point is 00:39:23 If you have, this is like, it's a public service announcement in the way that you might not know you back here. And if you do that women should get a look and see how they feel about it. If you have, this is like, it's a public service announcement in the way that you might not know you've back hair. And if you do, you can take a look and see how you feel about it. But how should a guy do it? I mean, if he's turned off, I think it's tricky.
Starting point is 00:39:33 Oh, it's only I'm an asshole because I'm talking about a woman having fun. That's not why you're an asshole. Maybe you should call it the opposite side. So many other reasons. I know. It is tough, don't you think, isn't a man? Has a man ever said anything to you that you were like,
Starting point is 00:39:43 ah, that's offensive? Like, you offensive? No. Yeah. I think they're afraid of me most of them. I'm sure probably. Yeah, I think it's ever like a friend of its heart to. You know, I have dildos and I'm not afraid to use them. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:39:55 Right. Exactly. OK, so I did the answer. The woman to the man is tricky. You better say she's kind of a little bit. Just don't be afraid. Just have the conversation. He's a guy.
Starting point is 00:40:03 How about baby? I think your back is really sexy, but I can't say it with that hair there. So let's go. Yeah. Just don't be afraid. Just have the conversation. He's a guy. Have a baby. I think your back is really sexy, but I can't say it with that hair there. So let's go. Yeah. Okay. One more question. There are next show here.
Starting point is 00:40:12 Can we go? One more. I don't know. Okay. Why not? Hey, Emily. Can you please recommend a quiet discrete vibrator? I can use it with my husband during sex.
Starting point is 00:40:20 I can only orgasm with my vibrator during masturbation and sex. But the one I have now, the rabbit is too loud and distracting. I'd love to be able to use it every time we have sex. Thanks so much. I love your podcast and my huge fan, sincerely Jessica from New York. Yeah, I mean, rabbits can be great, you know?
Starting point is 00:40:36 They're that optimal though, like for partner plays, so I think like a literal vibrator is great. I always love like the Jimmy James form too. I love the J.J. Mio. I think is, no, that's a cocky ring. The J.J. I love the J.J. Meo. I think that's a cock-rate. The J.J. The Mimi by J.J. You. Like a great, literal vibe that you could say in your hand doesn't move around and still come.
Starting point is 00:40:53 What do you guys recommend? You guys probably have something great. I like the pocket rocket. I like that. We always recommend the pocket rocket. The I-play is from I-by-select. Right. Is it I-play like it's like a weave-eye kind of thing
Starting point is 00:41:04 that goes in your-or-no? No, it's a literal. Yeah like it's like a wee vibe kind of thing that goes in your or no? No, no. It's not. Yeah, it's just literal. It kind of lays on your mound a little bit and hooks over to your clit. Okay. And it's actually really nicely ergonomic. It's about the size and just so it might not get in the way.
Starting point is 00:41:16 So I think it's one of the things. She wants to screen quiet. And she does obviously she loves the rabbit, but it sounds like that if she wants to have a during sex, she needs a clever one. So, you need something much smaller. You know, so, I mean, yeah, I mean, for us, we always, and that regard, I would always recommend the pocket rocket. It's easy.
Starting point is 00:41:34 It's so simple, and he can use it. She can use it, and it's very powerful, and it's very quiet. Right. Or a vibrate. You don't think so? Biberny Cochrane. Well, here's the thing. I love that. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:41:45 By Ready Cochrane, of course. I haven't had one. I even had it that I don't want to say is that the Pocker Rocket, like a new one, and like you didn't know a lot. Well, I would tell it to get the eye rocket, which is from IVipSelect. It's a brand new line that we have.
Starting point is 00:41:55 And it's so good. And I love it. I like the, I just, I can't, after all these years, still the Mimi by J.J.U. because it looks like a little stout, you know, pebble and it stays in your hand. It doesn't move around. And it's really strong. It has a rumble and not a vibe.
Starting point is 00:42:06 I like the mimotor in it, and I just, you just hold it and it works well, and it's flat, so it hits like your whole pubic mound. All the, you know, you can put on your labia. I love that part of it. I love, because it's like your clitoral legs, just all that, get stimulated. It's got a really turned on, I want to.
Starting point is 00:42:23 Okay, so, yeah, but I love it, you know, the, but the rabbit vibe is tough to use, I guess, during intercourse, and that gets stimulated. It's got to really turn on time. OK, so yeah, but I love it. You know the rabbit vibe is tough to use against during intercourse, and that's a deal. That's all we got time for. You guys are so fast. That's it. Wow. It was fun.
Starting point is 00:42:32 You guys are so fun. OK, tell us all your social media where we can find you. Ask the doc. But then tell me like, don't look at me. I know. I've got it all here, but your voice is so sexy. So he's saying. Oh, thank you.
Starting point is 00:42:44 It's Ask the Doc show on Twitter and on Instagram, you can also find us at AskTheDocShow.com. We're building a new fan site. A lot of it. On PlayboyRadio, Backslash shows, Backslash, Ask the Doc. Okay, and we'll have all of the Center website as well. Wow. And who knew? Thank you.
Starting point is 00:43:04 Yeah, you can check it out and play. But really if they go to a website, they'll find it out. They can listen to it live. They can listen to the podcast. And on docjohnson.com. Docjohnson.com. Totally. Okay, and then you can find all these toys.
Starting point is 00:43:14 I knew one of them. Yeah. Okay, you guys are awesome. Thank you so much for being here. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you guys. Thank you guys.
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