Sex With Emily - Sexting, Cheating & Summer Flings

Episode Date: July 8, 2016

On this show, Emily and Menace are starting the summer celebration by letting us in on the many reasons why this season is the hottest—in more ways than one. What’s different about summer in California, sex-wise? Does sunlight make people more attractive? How do you beat the heat when you’ve got a hot July date? These are just a few of the topics Emily and Menace touch on before getting to your emails! They address questions from listeners about expectations with an age difference, finding the courage to approach the opposite sex and how NOT to cheat when the opportunity presents itself. So throw on a swimsuit, find a beach and make this summer your sexiest one yet by tuning in! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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You can subscribe to iTunes, you can do it with a grip menace. I'm here with menace. Hi. What's going on? How are you? Good. What are you saying about iTunes? I listen to everything that you tell me. So now, if you go to my website, there is a subscribe thing on the banner,

but now when you click on it, you can download it on Google Play, SoundCloud, and then you can also listen and Spotify, and of course iTunes. Nice. Yeah, dude. The more places available. I know, and we already got ranked in all these places.

It was just like a few weeks, because I just, I want people to easily be able to digest podcasts, our podcast. And also I appreciate everyone following me on Snapchat, Twitter, and Instagram, which is all at Sex with Emily. And I was, I was like, I just followed me. It's fun, it's a good time.

But then last week, you mentioned the bikini shot. Yeah, so if you haven't heard. And people, no, but there's more shots. Oh, there's more shots. Well, let's recap real quick. So one of the last shows that I was on with you, I mentioned that you finally put up a bikini pick

on your Instagram, which is Instagram.com slash sex with Emily. And I just slightly mentioned that, that it finally happened for all you listeners that have been waiting for years and years and years. There is a bikini photo available, again, at Instagram.com slash sex with Emily. And apparently, people were really into that. They listened, and they went there,

and you said, hi, that's fun. Yeah, that was funny. But now I'm gonna have a picture of me in a muzzle on the mic, maybe. Oh, yeah, so that's my thing. So I've been going the show with Emily for 10 years and it's not just me because she always thought that I was a jerk and I'm just making this up

and it was all hookah's focus. But to get Emily to talk directly on the mic is a whole time freaking mad. It's hard because I move around. I forget the mics here. So I'm like leaning over, my hands are talking. directly on the mic. A whole time. Freaky Matt. It's hard because I move around. I forget the mics here. So I'm like leaning over. My hands are talking.

If you hear the beginning of the drunk podcast, which you can look up, the very beginning. We're doing that every day now. Yeah. The very beginning of the drunk podcast. You hear the frustration of me trying to explain to Emily to talk directly onto the microphone. But I would love to put together a muzzle microphone for you that was. But just like my face is just attached.

I can't move, I can't look left, I can't look right. I'm just in and in. And we'll take a picture of that and put it up on your Instagram. Yeah, that's awesome. But I was saying also that Anderson was here. We do she was so, it was Anderson and he was saying the same thing.

So see, it's not just me. I know, I hear you. I hear you. And also, okay, one more thing when you're there, subscribe to our newsletter because we do give good newsletters. And I think that's what I have to, oh, and Facebook.com saw a sex family. Yeah. About $8 million followers.

Yeah. I feel like we should have like a Facebook party and then do the Facebook live thing. So that's what I really want to get you on next. So we have your own office space. You can definitely set that up here. Leave a rock in new studio. It's been me. We should take pictures of it that and put that up. Do it. Because they're kind of killer. Go ahead. Oh, so I hear rumblings that we talk about Vegas too much. I can't help that. I mean, just in my, they're like, oh, we open every showman. It's going to Vegas and you're dead. And I'm like,

what? What is it? I go to Las Vegas. Okay, how about this this weekend? I'm going to Mexico. Is that okay with everybody? Yeah, I think so that's fine. That's a little different. It's alright in your life. I'm sorry I don't know after I go to Mexico. I go to Vegas again, so what do you do Vegas? No, I would you know? I'm going to USC 200 and Vegas, but I'm going to you Yeah, Riviera Maya. Oh, that's awesome. My my at saloon. Yeah, by to Yeah, it's gonna be fun like a romantic vacation with your girlfriend Just a fun vacation. We don't do romance. I was going to have rose petals delivered to your room And we would have barfed and knocked them off the I think maybe that's why you need them

But that's good for a week or something No, just a couple of days, during Fort July. Good, oh, oh. Unfortunately, since we're giving Mexico, we probably won't see any fireworks. That's a little overrated. Yeah, so what are you gonna do for July? I am going to Malibu to a party.

My friend is a house on the beach, and we're gonna see fireworks. That's cool. I know, I love, I really, when we live, you live in LA, you think beach, but yeah, it's when you don't live near the beach, it's hard to get your ass to the beach. It's like 40, 30 minutes, and not complaining LA,

like beautiful, sunny every day, but when you get there, I was there a few weeks ago at our house and it's like, oh my God, the ocean's right there. Nurturing and cathartic and all that stuff. This is really cool. So yeah, I'll be a fun party. And what else am I gonna do? I'm having brunch with a friend.

A guy friend or a girlfriend? A guy friend. Oh, see. But it's really a friend. He's the guy friend that yes, I think we made out 10 years ago, but we're actually really good friends. I like it when I respect him.

He's a good guy. He's funny. And yeah, we're having, and then what else? Oh, I have a birthday party. I have so much going on. Do you know what he gave the key? for here's a heads up for guys? Uh-oh, you know how I know it was a guy because a woman will always say oh I'm meeting up with a friend

If it was a female friend you would have said oh I'm meeting up with my friend Stacy That's and what I say a friend. Yeah, a friend is so easy right? It's always a giveaway. Check it. Give away. That's a dude. It's a guy friend A friend is so elusive. It's always a giveaway. It's a tricky, tricky. It's a giveaway, that's a dude. It's a guy, friend. I don't think he like, I really don't think that he does. I think that we're past that phase. He's, you know, so, but I'm going to, like, I'm going to be like, super social,

because it's like summer. I feel really good that it's, you know, just even though this is my thing. So today's show, yeah, it is a guy, whatever. But this, today's show, we are talking about summer. Why summer is a great time for sex, for dating a guy whatever, but this today's show we are talking about Summer why summer is a great time for sex for dating for love because you okay? And I started thinking about this man is all you California people born and raised like you and Madison Lori Like literally all my friends and everyone who works here. You're like big F and deal. It's the same I got a job. Why do I care about summer? But let me tell you a little story, okay?

For most of the world, we have this thing called winter. Oh, what? And we even have snow. No. And I grew up in Michigan where it was, you know, you get like 20, so college, for example, my prime dating years, you know, when I go there. And it's like you, it would be like, you know,

20 inches of snow for like six months where I couldn't find my car. I would have to walk to school like down these like streets that they just dug tunnels underneath and I'm wearing layers of clothes, right? And it's freezing all year round. But then summer comes along. It's like May, right? On campus. And it's like the first day of summer, snow is melting into like 60 to 5 degrees and everyone's outside because all of summer long, winter long, you don't see people. You're like rushing by like rushing by with like I've got like masks on. I've got like long underwear It's not exactly you don't meet anybody and then oh, there's this one day every year and you're outside You're like wow like the sun is shining and everyone looks so cute like the guys are in shorts the girls are in

Sundress is like where have these people been? Oh my god. I'm so and you just feel good because the you know Sun is good for your like, it's their tone, it's good for your brain. And everyone's just happier when it's summertime and the days are longer. But isn't there like a term they use on the East Coast or something like that, where people hug up for the winter or something like that?

Yeah, like people shack up for the winter boyfriend or something? Yeah, and then they're single in the summer. Yeah, well people shack up for the, Yeah, literally, the winter boyfriend or something. Yeah, and then they're single in the summer. Yeah, well that's what I'm talking about. This shows all about why I, and I started thinking about it, it is great to be single in the summer because there's so many more fun things to do outside.

We just feel better by ourselves. We're like exercising, we're like having friends, or like having barbecue, and being outdoors, the weather does make a difference. Like that really does impact. And I just wanted you all to know that all you California people, because I am a California

person now that we've suffered and there's a lot of people like it's a huge thing. Yeah. Oh, well, they should just come to California. I know we're really lucky though. I just want to tell you about my suffering and why it still is a big deal. Well, you love it here now, right? Totally. Has it helped you though in the summer to date?

Oh, yeah, for sure. No, I mean, even living in California, okay? I'm saying that it's just, it is true. And also, I feel that this is, I feel like there's a huge fight in America. I feel like we all really wanted to stay on the couch most time. I think that that's the pull. Like if we have a choice usually,

even if it's a fun part of it, but I really just want to stay on watch Netflix, that's the easy that that's the pull. Like if we have a choice usually even if it's a fun part of it, but I really just want to stay him and watch Netflix. That's the easy thing that's the default. And in the winter, you can do that or when it's not as warm, but this time like everyone's having parties and people are inviting you to things or you can have people over, go for walks, do things like that. And it's just there's just more opportunity to be social. And I find myself sometimes even having to push myself, but I realize lately when I do go out, I'm always glad that I that I do. And

they especially just the last even the last few weeks, because it's been warmer here at night that I have met a lot of people. And it's just that I've been a few guys. And I feel like every time I do it. So I'm just trying to urge people to like, I don't want to go out a lot, but I do it and I actually am always glad that I do and Just get off the couch on people because it's just it's that that person's not gonna just like drop down your chimney Uh-huh, and then also Trude to Vegas never hurts No, it's transient

Okay, so I hope I was some guy not talk about me when you're hometown who also likes outdoor music festivals in the summer Who also likes going to those You know the summer concerts like everyone is like park you know somewhere in the park or Shakespeare in the park like Even if you don't freaking like Shakespeare like sit outside with your friends and have a bottle of wine like do that That's where people are look at you pushing the the relationship like meet up. I'm saying day. Yeah Nothing about going to Shakespeare in the park am I saying you should be walking down the aisle? I'm I do nothing about going to Shakespeare in the park and by saying you should be walking down the aisle. I'm saying I want to go to Shakespeare in the park

to save my life, but it's fun. It's so, I'm just like drinking and eating. But if you want to go hook up and have some fun, go to, uh, um, no, good guy. So no, I just see you got me all tripping off the vagus thing. I'm sorry. I'm talking about vagus all the time. But then, like, so I was just there recently. And then so the guy that I was, um, hanging out with was one of my coworkers.

He opened up Tinder and he just like swiped and like, I see, I caught it on video within 15 seconds. How to match. Yeah. No, it's true. It is the day. The day that one of my other coworkers no, it's true. It is the dating. The dating of two. And then one of my other co-workers went, was walking to check out, right? And he was on the app. And then he got a match, went back upstairs,

got a blowjob, and then came back down in the... The person was in the hotel? Yes. And then checked out all within probably an hour. Well, I don't understand. What did she get out of it? I don't know. This is just my thing.

Like, I'm not saying a lot of women don't get pleasure. I'm sure we had to hook up. I probably could have been very exciting for her. But I feel like women just give out blood jobs when I was at candy. Yeah, that's awesome. Don't, don't, don't. I'm just saying, did he go down on her for 25 minutes?

How? I didn't ask her. Probably not. I was wondering if she was in that information. It's a great story. Hey, dude did he go down on her for 25 minutes? How? I didn't ask that one. Probably not. I was wondering if she was in that information. Well, you know what, it's a great story. Hey, dude, just go down on her. The vacation hookups are very fun. I'm just, what?

Vacation, I've just never been the like, I'm gonna give you a random blowjob girl because I know that it would blow their mind. And I know that like, I don't just give it to anybody. Like just friends, people like now, people I love. I'm not just gonna like, are people like, I'm a track two or no more than five minutes? Yeah. I give a killer

Vod job anyways, I I'm the first tell you what I don't do well and there's like so many things that I would take at the entire show But that I'm pretty confident. Okay, so we've got that we're gonna get more into summer stuff because I've got some clever ideas for Not yet. We've ever do sex in the news first. What do you like? Why do you belong? You something making me so anxious? My bad because I was not anxious today. Let's talk about Vegas more Dude, I want to go with you to Vegas. No fucking joke, but no one will let me tag about it. Okay Menace, yeah, I've talked about something

Tell me did you know that if you send dick pics, you're probably insecure Well, I guess I'm not insecure because I don't send dick picks. Well, there's a new study and it says, while some of us enjoy the art of sexting, others attempts at virtual foreplay come off more humors than sexy and others stay out of the game altogether.

We've mentioned this in the past couple of shows, somewhere we had a conversation. Who were we talking to? I asked, I thought- I was to? I asked I think we were underneath Yeah, we're circus circus. I did but thanks somewhere. No, the thing was I I asked ever no no no yes ever words in the history of dick-fixed

I mean the person like I'm on the fence. I don't know if I'd like it. I mean it was really sweet with nice Kiss and then boom there's dick a dick pic. He's like, he's the next. He's my next husband. No, that doesn't. I think maybe there's never pushes the needle. One percent out there. Maybe. I think I think you have a better chance of getting laid saying, Hey, do you want to go see a movie tonight? I'm sending a f-ing dick pic. I think you're right. Yeah. But there's more to the picks. There's more to the picks to All right, tell me more. I need it in the science. Okay So they studied college college students where it's all going down about their sexting habits how they behave in their romantic relationships

including how scared they were that their partners were going to leave them and how much they feared their partners We're happy with them and how stressed out they were about dating and their sexting reflected that so trust out they were about dating and they're sexting reflected that. So people who send sex, nude pictures of videos and videos themselves in lingerie and other suggestive photos, i.e. dick pics, um, felt less secure in the relationship. God damn right. Right. So they're doing that to like get their. How much do they waste money on a study that's obvious, right?

Even it doesn't even have to be sexually lingerie. It can be the constant effing selfies that people put out on the internet because they're insecure and they need people to say, oh, you're so good looking and make them feel better. Is that wrong? Because I actually wanted to take a selfie right now and put a lot of effort into that. No, no, no, no. I'm not looking at your Instagram. It's not like that I'm saying, but there's some girls that are like five a day.

No, I know, I know. It's a whole thing. But what I'm saying is there's nothing wrong that either because let me continue. Abid sector, avid sectors, sex with the goal to attract or keep a partner. And they, those people also, you know, mean, they feel your walls up. And so they're like, I'm way, I'm going to send you my, you know, penis. So feeling insecure about a relationship maybe unhealthy, but sexting in a relationship is actually very healthy.

So if you're in a relationship with somebody, it actually can help improve your relationship. You at FaceShow, study show that people who sex with their partners more often, and they can send the dick pics in Laundry if your partner would like that. They have sex more often, they have more motivation, they're more inspired. So, you know, it can help within a relationship, but if you're in a relationship that's

unstable, needy, or you're just dating, and you're randomly sending, you know, scrat shots, yeah. My neck overwell for you. We're getting pictures taken to this right now. Blow job spray. Madison, what kind of pictures are you taking? Probably terrible photos of me and awful. Yeah. So what here's a takeaway from this study. Is that, again, and I'm not going to say that just women

give up men do things too sexually. I was taking the blow jobs earlier. But I do feel like there is this thing that women and men think, well, if I send this photo, I do this thing that they're going gonna like me more. And I just think, you know, why show all your cards at the beginning? Like, why do you need to like be sending all this

up to get, just to have the person like you get to know you in person, whatever. And then like, when you're dating, it's great to send something like that. But I just think that just randomly sending about to the guy you went to the bar and then you get home and you're drunk and you send a sexy photo, I'm not sure if that's doing for you

except for saying that hey, you know. Yeah, you're kind of implying, oh hey, I'm easy. And then you might do the thing where he goes, oh yeah, this girl is easy and then he'll be like super aggressive just trying to get into your pants and you're like, wait a minute, that's not what I want, you know. Right, I'm just saying why lead with sex if you don't have to. I'm not like a Puritan, okay? I'm not saying that.

I didn't feel like, you said that was sex to be married for 10 years. It happens. I'm just saying that if that's not what you, you don't want someone to be thinking, I mean, we're already thinking that. The reason why you probably gave the person your number is because you're gonna bang at some point.

But like, you know, like we have like build up, have some appetizers first. Yeah. That's what I'm saying. I feel you. You feel? Okay, so that's all I got for sex and use because we got a lot of good stuff today to cover. What's happening? Tell me everything. Single for summer. All right. That's that's really important. Single for the summer.

Dude, I'm single for the century. You need to go on a world tour. I'm actually on this whole new, you know, I really truly am inspired by by you living in the light Take a little while to kind of get my groove going. I moved here work and so busy You moved here and you had your girlfriend like you were like you had your you-hawve Clugged and you had your girlfriend next to the car, but that's like you're done But I moved here. I picked up and at a few friends here and there but You know, I moved here for sex with Emily and it's been amazing, but I wasn't like, I was hard to do it all, right? And so now I'm like in this place where things are good, we're sitting here in our studio,

and I'd like to, you know, start to grow more and meet people. So if you want to go out with Emily, hit her up on Instagram. Yeah. Sex with Emily. I have guys that hit me up on my Instagram, trying to, hey, put in a word for Emily. I'm like, go hit up Emily yourself. Like, what the FD want me to do? Really they do, you don't want to go down that road.

You know what I do, see yourself some trouble, raw, non-skinned. No, but I'm into it. And it's funny because I was also at the friend's side. And she was like, you know, here's something I need a name for. Because obviously I'm like dating. If you are single right now and you're like,

I can't meet anyone, but I won't date online. I just a name for. Cause obviously I'm like dating. If you are single right now and you're like, I can't meet anyone but I won't date online. I just think that silly. To me, it's like saying, I really want to lose weight and I've done everything out there. You know, like I, I eat a cup back on one, I eat and I'm not drinking soda anymore but I won't work exercise. I won't, it's like you gotta do it all.

Also, I, you haven't done everything if you don't act if you don't move your body. I mean, you definitely have to do online dating because I think also, I, you're... You haven't done everything if you don't act if you don't move your body. I mean, you definitely have to do online dating because I think people, I mean, at least in the West Coast, people have become less and less approachable. Like, why is this person, even talking to somebody in public,

people are throwing off saying, okay, this person is weird. And it sucks because like, I don't know, 20 years ago, like everybody would be open to have a discussion with a random person. But now we're so effing shy, we have to talk through cell phones. No, that's true.

I do believe that, especially, you know, younger generation maybe who didn't ever have to develop any of those skills about talking that it is harder. But I do think that, yeah, so the dating online and let me just close that, is that bracket, is that she was like, well why don't you, because I feel like I need to term all my friends, like four of my single girlfriends.

They get on Bumble, they get on Tinder, they get on Hinge, and then they two months later, they're like, I deleted all the apps, I couldn't take it anymore. And then, I see you again, they're like, I'm back on Bumble, and I'm like, what is this, I need a name for people to go off and they go back on, they go up on bumble. And I'm like, what is this? I need a name for people to go off and they go back on.

They literally like, delete the app. So I was like, you know what, she's like, but why don't you do it? I'm like, well, I meet people, which I do. But I'm like, also, I haven't been looking. And I thought, you know what, though, well, I am going to get into some things that I am doing this summer that you all should do that, you know, I think that it's great opportunity. Well, why not just have a profile?

I don't think you have to have access with it and crazy, but there could be think that it's great opportunity. Well, why not just have a profile up? You don't think I'm obsessed with it and crazy, but there could be people you wouldn't normally meet. I do want to ask all these people that are on these apps. What is your end goal? Like, so with your friends, what is their end goal? It depends on the friend. I mean, some of them just, most, I guess they'd like to get into relationships.

They do? Yeah, they do. You know, I think my guy friends more to want to get laid, but my, not all of them, you know what changes? I would say people want a relationship, but why you asking? Because it seems like this, because in a way, it shoots itself in the foot because you're thinking, oh my God,

there's always people, but then that whole bigger, better deal thing kicks in and you're like, this girl's amazing. I can see her at the one. I walked down the aisle. My mom's going to love her, but wait. Ooh, another match. You're the other one. Right. So, so you know you really just have to decide what what you want And I think a lot of people date without knowing what they want and which I've done a lot in my life Like I think I just didn't know and I think I thought I knew what I wanted a person

But it was like I didn't you know I've never looked at it like I want the marriage and the traditional kids But now I would like a partner. Because I don't want people getting off these apps because they're constantly just talking to too many people and it's taking up too much of their time. I want them to get off that because they've actually found somebody. And then are you talking to all these people

because you love the attention and it gives you something to talk about? Are you actually really truly looking for somebody? No, no, they're looking for somebody, but I think what happens sometimes is, there's no perfect science here. You go on a few bad dates. I think you can get overwhelming too.

I'm just gonna meet, you know, and then they just kinda get, but I think if you don't take it too seriously and get too caught up in it, we get obsessed with text and just like check it I read too much to it happens. Oh my god. I've not been on my tender and so long. Let me open it But the point is she's like why don't you do it? I'm like, you know what? I'm gonna fire that bad boy back up I don't know what to open Jesus. I've been opened it in so long. Yeah, I can't even log in

Why am I letting you do this? Because it's so much fun dude? I want to see who's nearby No, cuz I never get the seat Oh my god not authorizing it. Oh my god. This is so dead. This is like the dead is that it's coming up I've seen this in years. Okay, this is happening cuz what I'm saying is putting myself out there. Yes Oh geez, okay, don't do anything wait. I swipe right if I like somebody Wait, it was cute now they're going forever when you swipe away I'm so nervous for you doing this right? I'm checking. Don't worry. There you go sunset some rainbows

Maybe I'll be going to South Africa with him the barf Madison, how do I get rid of this one? Come here? Come here? Let me see Let me see it. Oh dammit. We wait. No, I got it. Don't worry. Emily, you think, okay fine, you do that. But the other thing is people are just in a better mood in the summer, like I feel like, I feel like the longer days, it's warm, you have to worry about stuff, there's, you don't have to worry about, you know,

scraping off your car, you don't have to work in jacket. You feel free, or it improves your mood, vitamin D from sunlight, major spike in serotonin. It's not just orgasms that give you a spike in serotonin. And also like women, it says that we secrete, okay, so here's a deal. Not only does it give you, you know, make you feel good, but vitamin D, spike in testosterone for men.

For women, they secrete a hormone that stimulates sex drive, that stimulates their sex drive. So it's called MSH. So truly, like when they talk about seasonal effective disorder, this makes a difference. So we're feeling better. You're going out there. You're exercising more. You'll feel better by yourself.

And there was a match survey and you know match.com doesn't lie, I can do match. You want to get on my match next? I've been on there in 16 years 73% of people find others more attractive during summer than anytime of year, okay? So don't blow this summer like sitting inside doing what you were doing all year Women are more likely to respond positively to flirtation and give out their phone number on sunny days. This is all true. So how can you really take advantage of this summer?

How can you seize this summer and make it like the sexy one, the sexiest one? What are you people gonna, because I'm gonna do stuff. I'm gonna come in your every week, man. What are you doing in my tinder? What? Nobody has my phone in their hand that long ever, except for Madison, maybe. Cancel. Come on. Wait. Dude, what are you doing? Nobody has my phone in their hand that long ever except for Madison maybe Dude what are you doing?

This guy he wants to go to Who is he oh when he matched with you? How I've been out in a year okay dude? What if I know him he matched He need match to. Okay wait. Send message. I don't want to send a message. Yeah you do. Huh, he likes you. Oh dude.

I'm not. I already hooked you up. There's a future husband. He's got a picture. I don't know what happened. I keep going though. Yeah. Cause I won't do it right now.

All right. Okay so, free movies in the park. Do you have a go to those free movies here in LA? They're so fun. They have everywhere too. They still haven't seen it. They look fun, but no, because... They had all of them. You're like slightly overweight,

sitting on the ground, effing sucks. Bring a comfy chair. Bring one of their most large chairs. So music festivals, so many go to, every time two is the country fairs. They've got the farmers market. It's like beating people through friends now. Right.

So that's why you should have, so here's the thing. On Facebook, do you get invited to like a gazillion events on Facebook? You probably have a lot of friends on there. Yeah. All the time. And I think people invite you to things and I don't even often, I forget to look

and look at those invites and be like, you know what? I met this person at a party a year ago. I know him through work. I might actually go. I don't know any of their friends, and I'm just going to bring a bottle of wine and see who I meet, because you're right. One of the best ways to meet people,

just like Tinder, what you're doing there, apparently I have some connection with them usually, right through Facebook or that's Hinge. That's Bumble, right? Oh, Bumble I haven't done yet. That's, so that's what my friend was doing on Bumble. She's on Bumble, and she was like, why are you on Bumble?

Because it's, yeah, because I barely. But women gets, this Bumble is she's on Bumble. And she was like, why aren't you on Bumble? Because it's, yeah, because I, apparently. But women gets, this Bumble is the dominating app right now. I think as far as swipe apps go and Bumble is an app where they have it every city, that it's just, you match, you just have to put your age, you range at your looking for geographical desirability. And also, if you match, you both like each other,

the woman has to send the message first, but she only has 24 hours to do so or he's gone. Oh wow. However, one time you can extend it. I know this is my friends. You can get a 24 hour extension, and then they're gone, feel them deal. So in a way, it puts the power back in women's hands

who feel like maybe there's a lot of people reaching out to them and they're not into. So I know a lot of people like it. Dude, my hand hurts. There's so many duchess on that. There's nobody to get. There's you to match anybody. Just that one guy. I get on my hands. See, I'm way more picky. Let's set up my bumble after. Okay. Yeah. So yeah, I mean, I think that you're right. It is, I've met, most people I've met, either just, I've met them just out and about. My last way of front I met like looking for apartments,

but typically it's through friends or friends. Even if it's like an event that a friend is throwing, like there's, you know what I mean? You're like like minded people, you'll meet parties and stuff. But if there's something that you always wanted to do in your town, you're like, like last, my last summer was a Hollywood bull.

I was like, I've not been to the Hollywood bull. Like inside, you know, a window concert there there so like have your personal bucket list of what you want to do my every city as it's like every city has something that tells you everything and then if you you're like yeah but no one will go with me find a friend right now and like have them hold you accountable like my friend Anna we're going to see Rick Springfield at the Hollywood bull and like a month ago because she's way more on top of it than I am, she's like, do you want to go to Rick Springfield on like July 27th? I'm like, yes, I do.

And now I have that plan. So if you are looking at Seff, you're like, you know what? I'm going to lock it down because it keeps you accountable. You've got things to look forward to. And I'm telling you, you can find some fun things that are important. We always talk about this. We always talk about, you know, doing the drunk podcast, which we talked about for years

and I go, Emily, set a date in time and then that's when it's going to end. And then we did it. You can't just leave stuff open ended. Like, oh yeah, we should hang out sometime. Make a date in time. It's true, for everything in your life. And so I work on that. And so I'm doing that now.

We did make a date for another drunk podcast. We did. We did make a date for another drunk podcast. We did. We did. And the thing is, again, I've met some of the coolest people in the most random place. Like where? Like the laundry mat. My coworker met his wife at the grocery store because he wasn't afraid to pretend that.

He didn't know anything about fruit. Oh, which one do you think would be the best blah blah? And then they struck they strike double conversation and they ended up, you know, dating and then he did the pretend I don't know about for it. Yeah, and it worked. Like, are these mangoes ripe? And they were married for years. Yeah. That's good. So I'm it is that easy. It is that easy. No one because no one really does talk to anyone anymore They don't and especially Extremely attractive women because people are so The guys are so shy to talk to that's that's what's happening. Why no one's talking to me. Yeah, I'm kidding Yeah, I don't know how it goes for guys

You know the other thing is your body. Here's a deal It's like your body language too when you're out. Are you on your phone? Are you open to like you know meeting people are you like look like just think of it this way. It's kind of body language too. When you're out, are you on your phone? Are you open to like, you know, meeting people? Are you like, look, like just think of it this way. It's kind of like a little meditation. When you leave your house next time, just to go like, I don't care if you're picking up your dry cleaning, you're going to the coffee store,

you're going wherever, staples. I love staples, office buzz. Just so you know what, I'm gonna leave my phone in my bag and I'm going to, or wherever my pocket and I'm just gonna like for the next hour that I'm running these errands, I'm not gonna look at my phone or I'm sitting in this wherever I'm gonna leave my phone in my bag and I'm going to, or wherever my pocket, and I'm just gonna, like, for the next hour that I'm running these errands, I'm not gonna look at my phone or I'm sitting in this wherever I'm going.

And just like, see what happens. You're gonna have to, like, make eye contact, look around, and your body language will be much more open rather than being, like, hunched over. And I realize that even though I'm always telling people, we've been, you know, a lot of dating tips shows, but that, you know, that's why it's important to make coming to do things, because if you go out, for example,

like during the week, you're like, but I always, I go to a different lunch place for work every day or my co-workers and I go out and do, you're in work mode then, like you're also rushing around, you got that tense, maybe you're late, whatever. But on the weekends, when you have an intention of going out with friends, like you put your phones away and you make yourself just more open and available, rather than than like if you're like, oh, I never be you

Well, but I work all the time. Well, this is like when you're out make that I'm here I'm putting my phone away. I know you're not cuz you're taking selfies But most times make yourself like your body language look around smile Huge huge smiles Nobody say hi, but do you know what I'm saying? I just feel like that too because I was like I'm a work of it. I don't meet people. You're not everybody put yourself out there. I'm done. Nothing bad is going to happen to you. So you're going to risk Springfield, right? I'm going to risk Springfield. And we're going to San Francisco. Anna. Remember Anna? That was an awesome show. Anna was like, is Anna the one that's in the other bikini? Yes. Okay, so Anna, it's I

seem it seems like you're going out there and you're hanging out with Anna and like going doing fun things We are we're doing still we went to yeah, we went away to Palm Springs. We are going we're doing a lot of Yeah, well you said we're going to party in Venice this weekend and Malibu. It's cool. You need like a We're doing it. Yeah, I do Everybody needs a wing man and she's dating on like she's like on the the apps and stuff and she meets people like wherever. But I was the reason I was saying this is because I noticed this out with the girlfriend last night that it was a warm night. It was my intention. I was like, open and looking around and talking about it. And like, we met people just at the table next to us.

And I realized that I'm often more in my head over during the week. Even though it was during the week, it was like, it was a date with a friend. And that's, that was my point. That's where I wanted to finish. And yeah, Anna's my, she's my, she's my bitch. Dope. I love it. I love it.

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Will you I'm gonna call put on a voice you should I'm like we're gonna get masterbaters I really we're not saying you should and there's some ground rules on the website you can check out to with a number Why please don't know? You're going to you that'd be actually funny if I didn't know is you if you like an impersonator and then Yeah, I'm gonna give any idea that there no be real people You're going to you that'd be actually funny if I didn't know is you if you like an impersonator and then Give any idea that there no be real people. We know if you're not real and we will cut you Yeah, I mean don't we just don't think cuz right okay, I'm gonna read evils So thirsty needs a little blow jobs. You stay thirsty the thirstiest That means that means like I can't get laid right? No. Thirsty.

Horny? Yeah, horny. I hate that word. I've never, yeah. I hate the word horny. I hate thirsty. I hate thirsty. I hate thirsty.

I hate thirsty. I hate it. Like desperate thirsty. That means I've imagined Tinder dude on my desk. Hell yeah. Can you see if he wrote me yet? Okay. Right hand.

Just kidding. Okay. Dear Emily, I just started going out at a few dates with this new guy who my friend introduced me to he's 28 and I'm 22 The six years age difference doesn't seem huge, but in my 20s, it still feels pretty far away He's very casual, introverted polite and seems like a gentleman because he's only ever kissed me good night and never got Hands-y or anything like that Somehow I feel like I want to take a different approach when it comes to dating because honestly I kind of suck at it. Is there a recommended timeline that you go by when getting to know someone new,

like the sexual partner's talk, religion, when it gets to see you drunk? I know, she's just thinking a lot about how to date right, you know, she wants to do it right. And how soon is too soon to get in bed with them. And if I do, does the age difference mean that he is more mature about these sort of things? When does a 28 year old guy, what does a 28 year old guy expect from a 22 year old girl, Jasmine from Peoria, Arizona? Jasmine first of all. Is it gonna in the house?

What up? We got people all over. I love it. I love it too. I love it. See that made us so happy with Arizona to know that. I feel so connected. She doesn't suck at dating. I think you too. I love it. See that made us so happy we are so wanted to know that. Yeah, I feel so connected She doesn't second dating. I think you're being very thorough Jasmine

So don't beat yourself out. We all whenever we're trying something new We all think we like be better so hard to get through those voices are like I suck war and I bow to this you're 22 So no, you don't suck and I like that you're being thoughtful about it. Yeah Yeah, what's your thing? You're like you 28. 28 to 22? She wants to know what's it like? What's going to think in as a 28 year old man, it was easier to have sex. So you, as he might expect having sex sooner than maybe then you want, because I remember when I was 22, it's like, oh, we had a date for a while before we had sex, but by the time I was 28, it was like, oh, we had a date for a while before we had sex, but by the time I was 28, it was like, oh, we've already been hanging out for a week.

Three days, you know, three days, two days. But do you think that's the age thing or that things have time for their changing? I think also you become less shy as you get older of just putting out there on what you want, you know, or having the confidence to go and do what you want But what about 20 or like but she's 22 So I think that like I'm 22 is much different than 20 right exactly

But do you think that this guy's thinking oh, she's like she's wondering what he expects for what I think is that we get this question all the time From women and we get it from everyone actually people want to know what is the recommended timeline? Like when should I sleep with them? When should they meet my parents? How many times a week should we have sex? People want all these numbers around sex to make them feel normal and doing the right thing. But I'm gonna tell you, the only right thing you can do is listen to yourself and what truly feels right

to you in the moment. So I'm not gonna give you a magic number because it's different for every person and every relationship. So I don't feel that you're ready to have sex and you don't have sex in the- Do not have sex in the- What was the first question, did I hear that right?

She says, when should I ask about number of sexual partners? Well, I was gonna get into that. That should be, Epping never. Never, exactly. I was like, okay, never, ever. I see, this is actually a public service too. Honey, don't ever answer that question.

Don't ever ask that question. How would he love you, Subweth? It means nothing. It means like, it's nothing for you. I mean, it's like, it never serves you. I don't think, I think it is sort of a 20s thing, maybe internet people keep asking it, but it's like, maybe you just lose count and you get older, but think it is sort of a 20s think, maybe internet people's keep asking it, but it's like maybe you just lose count

and you get older, but the point is it doesn't matter because it's a lose, lose conversation because for women, and again, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna use some stereotypes here, but typically their number, if it's too low, the guy could think, she's gonna be judged, right? People are using that to judge, they're never going high five.

It's gonna be like, you haven't set with a lot of people or you set with too many in your study. Like no matter what that number is, no one needs to know this. And for guys, oh, he's a player, oh, I'm not experiencing that. That's what the woman's gonna think from his number. And oftentimes you tell a partner

and then they throw back in your face and they like, and you move, and they can't get out of their head. And so what I'm saying is- Think about penises all the time. I used to say this. If you say I've slept with eight guys, all he's going to see is like eight penises standing behind you now,

when you're going down on them. I mean, I'm just trying to make it. It's just real. I'm trying to put the picture in your head that's real talk. That it's not, this competition doesn't get you anywhere, and it only elicits really like controversial emotions and feelings to people. So what I suggest you do if someone asks you that question

every so you know what, all I'm thinking about now is the having sex with you which is really awesome. Done. The only time you talk about your sexual past is if you have an STD or an STI, let them know that. That's it. But also she wants to like, you know, alcohol wise when does she get sloppy drunk?

And I like this because mostly we'll get sloppy drunk many on the first second date. And I think if you can and it sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders You know to drink minimum for you or one drink whatever your limit is because What happens is we drink a lot sometimes and we make poor decisions that we might regret our inhibitions go down We're like, oh just have a little little sex here and little blowjob, whatever. Yeah, which again No judgment if you feel great about that. You're like I was into it have a little sex here and a little blowjob, whatever. Which again, no judgment. If you feel great about that, you're like, I was into it. Why not?

I'm so great. Do that. Like, do what feels good. But again, if you have a history of you wake up in the morning and you feel bad about it, I wouldn't recommend it. So I think just take this slow, you're going to know what feels right to Jasmine. You just will. And I'm not going to give you any rules.

He'll just just to figure out what feels right right and the age difference. I don't know he knows you're 22. I don't think that's a good I get in your mind it seems really a little bit who care and who you know my thing is who the hell cares what he's expect like there is no like she's 22 therefore no no just be you don't worry about it. Hey Emily I love the show 36 I live in the Chicago land area. Sounds like Disneyland, Chicago land. It's all one word. And I've been happily married for over 11 years.

For the past few months, however, my thoughts have been on another woman. Oh, no. This woman graduated from the same high school class as me, and we initiated some friendly chit chat in a Facebook group. Ah, Facebook. What's going on?

Duh. Older people. Dude. Facebook. What's going on? Da-da. Older people. Dude, Facebook. 20-year reunion. So scandalous. I mentioned this on the show. We have a lot of new listeners, but I had a really good friend, an amazing guy,

married, two kids, awesome house, awesome job, and his effing wife one day comes to him and says, I reunited with my high school boyfriend on Facebook, and I'm leaving the state to go be with him. I've heard this too. And I'm telling you, it's always the grass is always greener, it's enticing, it brings up all the old good memories. You never think of the bad ones on why you broke up with this person. Don't do it.

I mean, if you have an amazing life right now, stick with it. Stick with it. And then forget about this person. Why destroy everything that you have for somebody that you're talking on Facebook with. Right. Exactly. Not worth it. Because Facebook is going to be looking at their life and they've everything you don't, because the grass is always greener. That life is edited on Facebook. They show you everything that's

great and they tell you everything that's great on Facebook. Not the bad things. And it's also just the tillation of like you're with your let me finish the story here. Okay, so but it's part of it. So he's in a Facebook group because of 20 year high school reunion. This went on for a week. They were flirting when when she on more than one occasion, mentioned how she was divorced, didn't have kids, and was actively looking for the right guy, and the guy she described sounded a lot like me. I realized I developed a quite the crush. I decided I wasn't comfortable feeling this way about another woman, so I stopped talking to her.

For a couple of weeks it worked, but then the feelings resurfaced, and they are strong. Like I said, I'm happily married and love the sex when it happens, which is only like once every couple of months. See, that's why you're enticed by the person. You should be focusing on what's happening in your relationship, you know? You do? That's it?

This thing is just drawing you away. Dude, you know how many guys and girls are out there, you know? It doesn't matter. Right, exactly. You're gonna have the same issues, the same problems, and this sexy cheerleader, you know, my school is not gonna, might not be having sex with you in three months either.

Like I'm just telling you, there's issues with everybody, every relationship, but it's not even, you're not gonna have sex with it anyway, but I'm just saying we always think that it's gonna be better, it's gonna save us, or it's a distraction from whatever we're not dealing with in our life. Yeah.

Okay, but it also goes the other way. Let's say it's a totally different situation. Maybe you have a miserable life and you've found somebody through Facebook, then cut it off immediately with that person that you're with because you only have one life. You only have one life. Why are you wasting every single day being something that you don't wanna be with? If anything, this could be like a great wake up call. But let's finish just real quick,

the animals. But no, I'm getting excited too. Very passionate about this. I know, face it. Because I don't like people messing up their lives or some shiny object online. Right, there's always gonna be a bright, shiny object. There's always gonna be something that seems to be

more enticing, the bigger, better deal, the better option that's gonna give you everything that whole, you know, that whole, that deep thing inside of you that can't be filled, guess who has to fill it? You with love, self love, and there's not gonna be anyone else that's gonna make you feel better than you already do now, because you gotta work in yourself and your relationship, but that's a whole, that's back to this. So he's only having sex a few times. A month and he thinks this has probably contributed

to him thinking about the other woman. I agree, but I don't want to do anything that'll ruin my marriage, so my question is, how can I forget about the other woman? I've never met her in person, so if he didn't even know her in high school, those are in the group. So physically, I haven't made, I haven't made

and won't make any mistakes. I'm not okay with the idea of emotionally cheating. I want to forget, no, it's really great. So physically I haven't made, I haven't made and won't make any mistakes. I'm not okay with the idea of emotionally cheating. I wanna forget, go back to my wife, thanks for your advice, keep up the great work, Jim. So I think Jim sounds like a good guy because he caught himself early. He's actually emailing, saying that like, I don't want this to go on.

And I think you gotta cut off all contact with our Don't Be Friends with Theran Facebook, see-saw conversation. And take all this energy that you've been like using to obsess about this woman on Facebook and channel it into the relationship with your wife. Yeah. And like heal that.

Having sex every three months, not okay. I'm gonna say that number is not okay. Cause couples need the intimacy. Like you need to be connected on that level. And like that's a number that's just like, then what are you guys doing? And have you talked to her about it? It's great to like, widow away hours on Facebook

of seeing what could be when you've got this relationship here that needs some repair. And relationships are about repair. They are about rebuilding all the time. So it's okay. Sexual frustration, all this stuff, that's why she's appealing. So to how you to forget about her is every time you're thinking about her, think of what can do I appreciate about my wife? What can I do for my wife right now? And how can we work on this?

Because if you don't take action now, there's going to be another woman, you know, who pokes you on Facebook. Yeah. P.S. People still poke on Facebook. Do you get poked? Do I? I don't even look at that. Right, but I don't either, but sometimes, no, but like I'm not looking for pokes, but then when you go to your thing,

it'll be like so and so poked you, not every day. Once every three days, they still have the poke. Ready for another email? Yeah. Are you sure? Did you just want to know I'm? No, I'm down. Okay, hi Emily, I'm done. Okay, hi, Emily.

I'm 24 years old, and I've never been in a long-term supportive, genuine relationship. I would really like to be until someone comes into my life in that capacity. My goal is simply to meet and date people casually. I was overweight and had a terrible, terrible acne as a kid, so my confidence is shaky at best. This is my biggest issue when it comes to approaching and talking to you guys I think are cute. I'm not into the bar scene. Don't know where and how else to meet guys. I'm worried if I'm not putting out the fuckable vibes for lack of a better word. And I'm 100% willing and able to I won't get laid. So she's willing to it, but she thinks that

she's got to put out some certain vibe. What advice do you ever both meeting guys and striking up a conversation? Aliana, Alena, Alena, I tune subscriber 24 from Texas. Nice. So I am not a fan of the term like, effable vibes, I'm not gonna swear I'm gonna show. Profanity is wrong, no. I'm kidding, but if you're trying to like,

if what you're saying Alena, is if you're trying to, like, what you're saying, Alaina, is that, you know, you're trying to put out there, like, I want to get F, you know, that's a whole bunch of different issues because that means that you want to feel desired right now that you're not feeling like you're enough and that there's some way that you got to act or move in the world that's going to make you feel better

about yourself and that's not going to happen. The one, you are talking about though is confidence and that's something you need to be able to put out there. Because in your mind, you still have these limiting beliefs that you'll always be the overweight girl with pimples and that everyone else is going to see you this way. And this is what's holding you back is that that's how you're still seeing yourself and you're like, well, I got to put myself out there as like the sexy woman. So you got to change the your own narrative and the story that you're telling yourself

about yourself. And how you build your confidence and so much of it has to do with those negative voices in your head, those stories in your head that are like, guys don't like me. I'm not in a bucket. I like that. You know, and so, you know, and we don't even realize it until we think about it. You're like, wow, that's really negative. And you can catch yourself in that moment.

And this takes practice. But in the moment, if you say something negative or you're thinking to yourself, defeating thought, say something positive, like, God, I'm really glad that I have these shoes, these great new shoes that are allowing me to walk to my car right now. Or I have this great front that I'm having glad that I have these shoes, these great new shoes are allowing me to walk to my car right now. Or, you know, I have this great front, I'm having dinner with, like be grateful and affirmations and also say good things, but what do you love about yourself? There's got to be all have things that we don't like, that list is often longer than the things we recognize we love, but maybe you love your way your, maybe you love the way your tongue can slide across your lips and you do this sexy smile to it. But it's always overthink things.

Yeah, but what I'm saying is you maybe you don't do this, Menace. Like do you ever beat yourself up or have things in your head that like defeat, like what defeats your confidence do you think? Uh, what, I mean so many things, I mean, daily. But how do you get over that? But mostly you don't come, so how do you move, like when you hear those thoughts or whatever it is that makes you feel bad, what do you do? I think about everything that is good.

And let me tell you this, in emotion, like I thought it only lasts a minute and a half. But so many times we get caught up in it and it could take us down for days. And this is all about practice. So, you don't necessarily go, you don't need to go to bars for like, opportunity to meet someone. They're single men everywhere. So again, this is about practicing,

talking to people and just that skill of like, having practice, having conversation, telling stories with people that you're not necessarily like looking at sex with Is a skill that you build over time and it's practice so practice all this stuff There's a lot of single guys everywhere and just get comfortable talking to people. You're 24 You probably live in a very populated area for some reason I was reading this email I'm like, Madison she's from El Paso and it doesn't say El Paso anywhere

Oh really? I don't know why I don't even know where that is in Texas I was like, are you an El Paso? Are you? So like, what are your hobbies? This is for everyone. Do you Reminds maybe you know like she's in El Paso mess and like Brut, you get a pass up. And I'm like, you're right. So find something to build your confidence and We can look her up just put her email and face I don't want to stock the list. I'm just saying maybe let's's see if you're right. Oh, dude, we'll do that after the show.

But anyway, Lina, I hope that, you know, I know that's helpful. So, like, just, you know, you got this, okay? Cool. Practice, love it. This was good. I love it. It's always great being here with you. So great being with you too.

We do appreciate the listeners. Thank you so much for listening. I hope everyone knows how much. Like, I get in my heart like every day. This is when I'm feeling, oh, you know, my car is car is broke down and my whatever is going on in my life. I'm sad. I think I am doing like something that I've always that I want to do and I love that I can like help people with their sex lives and that I hear from you all and you're like it changes your life. Like I was out there night meeting a

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