Sex With Emily - SEXtra Credit Foreplay Tips

Episode Date: September 26, 2015

All September long, Sex With Emily is taking us back to sex ed basics, and on today’s show Emily is  answering some of your top sex questions, and she’s handing out plenty of sex-tra credit. Are you falling short when it comes to handies and BJs? Having trouble finding your phallic foreplay forte? Whether you’re struggling to find your sexual confidence or you’ve just lost your sexual rhythm, Emily gives detailed explanations of specific steps you can take to remedy these carnal conundrums. Also, learn how to turn up your partner’s volume in bed and get expert pointers on flirting at the gym!Whatever your sexual stumbling block, this show is sure to teach you a thing or two. Learn how to blow like a pro and handle him like a hotshot on this episode of Sex With Emily. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Hey, Emily, you got a boyfriend? Because, uh, my man, he here, he just got his heart broken, he thinks you're kinda cute The girls gotta understand, oh my The women know about shrinkage Isn't it common knowledge? What do you mean, like laundry? It's drinks? Can we not talk about sex so much?

Are you kidding me? Oh my god, I'm off here so, bro Being bad feels pretty good. But you know Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between. For more information, go to sexwithemily.com where you can check out all of our podcasts,

send it for emailing us, follow us on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram because you know, Sex with Emily goes beyond the podcast. We are working 24-7 in everything we do to make sure that you're having amazing sex and amazing relationships. That's what I'm about. That's what I'm here on the planet, right, Menace?

Right. How you doing, man? I'm good. How have you been? I've been so good and I've been so proud of you. Thank you. Well, because I learn about your life through Instagram. Oh, thank you. You can follow me at Menace on Instagram and he ran a 5k. No, 10k. 10k dude. That's nothing for

people to actually run. I've always seen you run to get like a coke in the middle of, you know, in the middle of the show or something. Yeah, no, it was, uh, it was fun. My buddy who's really into running, he challenged me to do it. And then so I just had to see it through, which I did. And, uh, you know, it's been really fun. It was amazing. Do you feel healthier? Yeah, I feel I have a lot more energy and stuff like that. So I'm gonna keep at it.

Okay, you are gonna have off any running. Every day for about like an hour. When the hell, it's so hot out when do you do that? Oh, I mean in the gym. In the morning. I'm so proud of you. Is there a condition in the gym? Yeah, I mean, dude, I was really I got all for

Claptop. Why? Because I know your weight has been a thing that's for the years fluctuate back to fourth and you like, I got to get the gym, got the gym, but you like, it's so true. And this is, this is a great lesson for you. Anytime you're trying to start anything life, it really helps to be held accountable. Whether you're trying to run, run a race, get in shape, have better sex. If you have a goal in someone that you're accountable to, like your friend who challenged you, it just helps. Because when we're in our head going, we should be at the gym more.

It doesn't happen. But you have a bat or whatever it is. Yeah, I definitely need that kind of motivation, like to be challenged. Yeah. Because I always like, I like to be challenged and people will tell me, I can't do something and I always want to prove them wrong. I people tell me I can't do something and I always

Want to prove them wrong. I can do that. I can do that I'm really proud and how's your sex life because of that do you feel like you want more sex now than before? Yeah, I definitely have a lot more energy instead of just wanting to go to sleep That's great, but I haven't seen you forever. I went out to Boston York Oh, there was a bunch of sex family listeners in in Boston. Really? That one to meet up. Yeah. You meet up with them? I didn't have a chance, so I apologize.

No, no, because I was only there for like a day and a half, because I was off to New York. And then I've been running the sex with Emily listeners all over the place. See, okay, in LA? In LA, yeah. How come that doesn't happen to me as much? You're more recognized because of that misadvised, people recognize your face. Maybe that.

Also, then also I do a radio show in a way. On the Woody show, you talk about. Yeah, the Woody show, a warning show. And then they know that I do this show because I do talk about this show on that show. I love that. And yeah. And we brought our little mascot today.

Yeah, true. We're up sconding her. Menace has a baby, a new baby called Shuro, and she's a little French bulldog. Yeah. And she also has her own Instagram account, which is wildly popular. My dog Churro.

And I just want to hold her and kiss her and love her. She's precious. OK, well, let's put some pictures on it. We're going to put some pictures on our Instagram, sex family, and do a little video after. And you can watch our YouTube channel. We're taking it really super seriously now. So check it out on YouTube as well.

We're all doing a little video. How about you're doing that? I know, right? We've been talking about it for 18 years. And also, I've got good news for you people speaking of stuff we've been talking about. But we are going to start doing a call-in show. Sweet. People have always wanted us to do that. We've you know, dabbled here and there. But on Wednesday, October 7th, 2015, from 1.32PM Pacific Standard Time. I want you to call in with the number one question you've always wanted to ask me, but we're afraid to ask. Are you just one question that's on your mind about relationships or sex? I can't give you the number now.

It's top secret. But just subscribe for a newsletter, which I promise you will love, because people tell me all the time they love our newsletter, which is so interesting, which is because it's great. But Facebook is sex, family, and Twitter, sex, and family, and Instagram for more details. We're going to be promoting it because as you know on the show, we read a lot of your emails, but I just want to talk to you, peeps. Sometimes I get to get down.

You don't tell me enough of the emails. I want to know. We're going to give you real time advice. Yeah. That's great because you know when we first started out together, we were doing a call-in show. We were. It was fun. And it, but it sucked because it was on Tresor Radio.

And now you can't just say, openly, just say, blow job. Oh, she was giving me a blow job. It was much more stuff. So it's great to, you know, have people call in and have an answer. We love doing that. Except for you were stressed.

But you know, it's a funny matter. So there's a thing called, what is it, the safe harbor after, I was going to show after 11 o'clock at night on radio from 11 to 2. And it's a funny medicine. So there's a thing called, what is it, the safe harbor after, I was gonna show after 11 o'clock at night, I'm ready from 11 to two, and it's true that you can say certain things in the safe harbor, but you still like can't say blowjob at being on love line now, which is still safe harbor at midnight at 10

midnight. You can't believe what we say. We say blowjob, just on your face. You know, it's like, what? Like I was like, Trey and like, men with this thing come over here and start yelling at me. No, but also it's, you know, you're under the umbrella. What you are a doctor too, what you I was like, Tray and like, men with this gonna come over here and start yelling. No, but also it's, you know, you're under the umbrella.

Which you are a doctor too, which you should promote too. But you're under the umbrella of Dr. Drew and Dr. Drew is very well respected and you can get away with that kind of luck. Right, kind of stuff. But if you're just some Joe Schmo radio. Which I was a Joe Schmo radio.

Wacky radio guy, like you can't be saying that kind of stuff in there. I remember our masturbation show where we were like once every half hour. I'm like, come out and have a masturbation. So I was like, when you're a bobbin' the baloney, when you're whatever. But so- You gotta be creative. You gotta be creative, which we were.

But yeah, so we're taking more calls and then I'm really excited. And if this works, you guys wanna call in at that time, we will definitely start doing it more. Yeah. And then also September, hello happy September. This is the official back to school month. So we are celebrating this month, September as the back to sex basics. So I'm on the long, I'm going to be visiting all those essential sex and hookup skills that

you might have learned in high school or you thought you learned in high school because I went with a lot of guys who think they know what they're doing and they're way past high school and you forgot along the way. So we're going to focus on a new sex lesson each week. That would help you be more confident and a more sexy lover. Such I got our blog and social media from with that. And then one more thing about that. Sorry guys, gotta get this out loud so we can get into the meat here.

Hustler Hollywood, every month I'm teaching a workshop. This one is back to sex ed basics. It's two days of 10th or 29th, 8 to 10 pm. And we're just breaking down those basics. Safe sex, masturbation, kissing, hand jobs, blow jobs, oral sex, all the things that you're like, I don't feel like I'm that great at this or what I need to know,

I'm gonna give you all the little tips that you're like, oh, that's why I wasn't working. So you're gonna love it. It's, we have champagne, giveaways, RSVP at hhrsvp at lfp.com. That's like Larryflintproductions.com or just go to our website, sexvioletabliny.com, click on the banner. And they've been great, Mattis. I know that you work late, you go to bed early because of your job in the morning, but it's they've been great. They've been like we've got tons of people coming listening to us all over, so it's really,

really fun. That's great. Yeah, it's so much fun like running into people that listen to the show. What did they say? They just how much they love and how long they've been listening for years and so on. I ran into a guy at the D23. It's basically the Comic Con of Disneyland. Right? Our Disney. And there was a hardcore listener there.

It's funny because they like, you know, it's a Disney thing and they whispered like, I listen to sex with them. I don't like making masks here. Yeah, but it was, yeah, it's great running into, yeah, I've run into people like Disneyland and all this random places that listen to podcasts. And it's great that they say that they've been listening to it for years.

10 years, some people. Well, that's all we were doing. So speaking of which, Madison's getting on this producer Madison, but we have to do our 10-year show before the end of the year. So after this, I'd ask listeners last week, I was like, would you do you want to come? Like, we are going to do a big show.

I'm not sure where Los Angeles, we're going to a live show, we're going to have guests, and we've got to just lock down a date today, because there's only a few months left of the year. And Churro's going to be. Churro, okay, so men's felt a little churro. Yeah, she's sitting here. She's so kind.

I want to, okay, so we're going to hold her in lover and a doctor. Yeah, but then she's going to be like walking. Yeah, she's sitting here. She's so cute. I want to kiss her and hold her and lover and Adapter. Yeah, but then she's gonna be like walking around. She's about to fall. She's so cute. Well, didn't get to take a picture Or you have to see I just want to kiss her. Yeah, go to the sex-to-emily Instagram Instagram.com slash sex-to-emily and You can follow churro. All that stuff. All her greatness. Exactly. I took her swimming the other day. She went swimming. We're in your pool. No, I was on a Indian reservation. I saw those pictures and I was. She went swimming. Where in your pool? No, I was on an Indian reservation up in... I saw those pictures and I was like, what the hell are you doing? In San Diego County, which is so much fun.

Yeah, it was a great time. It was cool, I just learned about like, you know, how reservations run and, you know, the history of that kind of stuff. Right, that's, that's, that's, that's, pretty crazy. It's just fun or for? Just fun.

All my girlfriends, like standard family is actually part of the reservation Oh, so the elusive girlfriend. Huh? The elusive girlfriend. Oh, yeah, yeah. I mean she's the real deal now. I got it totally What's up with your boyfriend? Oh, well, I've been dating a guy for a while things are good You know what's really weird. Have it. We're like, you know, it's good. It's good Are you keeping a cash as always? Well, okay, here's the deal. Talk about things changing. No, we've been dating for like a year, but like casual. And it is true that lately we've been having like talks

about it possibly, you know, like seeing what we want. But we both want and how it's going to progress into whatever, I don't know yet. But the funny thing was, it was Labor Day weekend and I have a sex injury, a wound. I pulled a muscle on my leg during sex. I literally cannot walk. This thing, the last time I heard it was doing

a marathon injury. And I don't know what I did. I wasn't in pain, I wasn't doing the converse utra. And I'm like, well I guess it makes sense that I would have a sex injury, but I've never had a leg injury. I can't even work out. I don't know what happened.

I wasn't doing anything crazy. It was pretty exciting. That's fun, though. So wait, why are you... Why are you, no, no, no, no, the relationship wise. Why are you having a high school type relationship? No, it's not that. What are we, are we going steady?

You know why? Because we both wanted things kind of casual. And we were friends. And we weren't really sure that it was going to what we wanted. And now we're like, you know, just having adult conversations. Like, do we both want the same thing? So we're having those like real conversations. How long does that conversation last?

We don't talk about it for a long time. Because I was dating other people. He was dating other people. But I don't know. I'll keep you all posted as I have updates, but it's pretty satisfying. Don't waste more than a day on that kind of stuff. Just be like, look, do you want to be together? Cool. If you don't, then fine, then we'll just do what we do. Well, you know, next week I'll give you more of an update.

Alright, please. How's that? Okay, so- Time's running out, the hourglass is running. It is. Right. Yeah. It's almost done. No, but you should be together that long. I mean, no, you shouldn't let these things, because the thing is, it's mostly me too. I'm like, everything's good. I'm chill until it's not, things get weird.

And you know, talk about things. And the thing is, I kind of, it's funny, because you know, we always talk about, you have like, stay in the relationship, if you're having problems, but talk, like I say, communication is a lubrication. And I felt like we weren't really talking about the stuff we needed to talk about to know if we want the same things.

And in relationships like how do you picture it? Like what's your ide- ide- ide- ide- ide- ide- ide- relationship? And we start talking about like who's relationship do admire? Who's in your life do you look at? Because then I just horror people think I gotta get married and have kids and this is what we want when really that's not what they want. Yeah.

You know, it's been really interesting. Just reading about even, I'm reading this book, Aziz and Zari's book, Modern Romance. Yeah. It's really, he's a comedian. And it talks a lot about how when like match.com for started, how everyone was saying like, this is what I want. I want someone who's six feet tall, blonde and is Christian or whatever it is.

And then they do, you know, you do the sort by that. And they realize that the algorithms they were using, people still weren't getting matched. And they realized watching people surfing patterns online like what they were looking for wasn't actually what they say they're attracted to. So it's like a lot of times what we think we want in relationships are we think there aren't even choices because what you do is you get together, you commit, you've kit, and that's so you know me I'm sort of an alternative relationship person so we're really talking about some of the harder things to see how it all goes down.

All right. And then we haven't even talked since the whole Ashley Madison debacle. I know, have we not? We haven't. Have you been covering it on the show? Yeah, we've been covering it a lot. I mean, I think it's fascinating.

I don't know what kind of comeback they're gonna make. Probably a big one. They'll probably come under like, you know, restructure, reorganize it. But I think it's crazy. No, but then they found out it's just a bunch of dudes, which I expected the entire time. What's a bunch of dudes?

They actually Madison and Psych, 98% dudes. Right, and they've like six women, and they're like, hey, we really need you to be able to, let's go. Yeah, they got one woman in India filling out all the profiles. It's kind of messed up, so maybe they will go under now. Yeah, maybe.

I mean, life is short having a fair, terrible terrible. I'm like, like, like, they did a lot for radio. So, hey, you know, lots of advertising. They never made us. But, um, yeah, I know I think it's crazy, but I think it does show how when people are dissatisfied with their relationship and like, this will be safe way to do it, which, meanwhile, most so dumb, like, bang. Yeah, it's even a tender, people in tender are married. Like, bansk it hacked, like everyone. I can't have it. Why don't you think that's safe?

And the dumbest part is, all right, if you're gonna, if you were gonna do that, obviously you're already stupid, right? And then the same thing. You're not satisfied. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you're thinking with, yeah, you're dig. And the thing is, why wouldn't you make a fake email address?

You know how many military and government email addresses are there? dot gov dot gov. Like, are you that dumb? It takes two seconds to make a hotmail account. I know. Do they make hotmail stuff? That's a giveaway that I wouldn't do

anymore with a hotmail account. But no, you're right. I don't understand it, because people think that people still believe that when they're on the internet, it's their own private Idaho. Even though the thing you were looking for on Amazon, just popping up on your Facebook page, you think that's a coincidence. It's all tracking everything that you do on mine.

So just be careful people. I mean, I know. I know. And I think if you're thinking of having an affair in your relationship, the first thing you need to do is say, what would my life be without this person if I get caught? Because you probably will get caught. If you're gonna get caught,

the guys are gonna spice you up. Dumb and slap. Say people wanna come to that. And it's like, do I feel bad for the people doing it and they got busted out? No, not really, because they were doing something crapping in the first place.

But I was listening to Howard Cernan, he made a really good point about. What do you say? You know, about everyone sharing the information, it's like, regardless of what it is, that is stolen information. Right. And it's being put out there.

So yeah, I believe that part isn't right. But how would you prevent that from anyone? The Amazon could get hacked or those? Yeah, anyone can get hacked. This is made by humans. It's not, you know, like the government, like top secret shit gets hacked. Everything, all the time, Hillary Clinton, well, she's the wrong email. But the thing is, is that, but the thing is, if you are thinking of having a fair,

which obviously, you obviously, 33 million people were on this, and that's what the people who signed up for it, you really want to turn your attention towards your relationship. I mean, you know what? I'm going to give this one last stitch ever. Have I done everything in this relationship to make it work? Because a lot of people, you get a little bored, time goes on, you might not be as interested in your partner, but there are ways that you can enhance that connection, really figure out if this is someone that you want to be with.

Don't just turn to cheating, say, then you know that I'm going to give it three more months. We're going to go to therapy. We're going to talk it out. And then if it doesn't work, you end the relationship, and then there's no cheating. It's down to fair, and then you can go bang over you want. I know. But don't cheat. Okay.

You can break up with somebody you're not going to do. can break up with somebody who can do it. So you can do it. Yeah. PornHub. Sexually. PornHub launch a 25,000 university scholarship program. They did? Yes. And it's not just for porn stars.

They want you to know they really, really care. It's just launch words called it's describing it's philanthropic and philanthropic endeavor literally called PornHub cares. That's awesome. Yeah. For business use, entire reason is toHub Cares. That's awesome. Yeah, for business use, entire reason is to be monetizing the master rotary urge. It seems slightly high-handed, pun honestly not intended,

but let some crack on and see what's all about. The first public product of the PornHub Cares initiative is a 25,000 scholarship from PornHub. The company is accepting applications from students anywhere in the world. And the criteria for being awarded the money, I'm reading this going, okay, wait, you have to watch 60 hours a week of porn. No, it's leadership, creativity alongside tangible accomplishments,

extra curricular activities, all that stuff. And they want you to have a GPA average of what, like, 3.2 and above. And so, really? So, this is for customers? No, it's for, they're like, we're making a lot of money. I know y'all hate us because we're porn, but we're gonna give back. But it reminds me of a store we had San Francisco,

like it was something, it was San Francisco, it was some porn club that was doing really well, porn, some strip club, and they were like, we wanna give money to something, we talked about this. And they were like, no one would accept their money. Yeah. It might even let the gold club.

We're not taking money. We're not taking money. The Ferrell brother. Maybe. Yeah. They're like, we one would accept their money. Yeah. It might even let the gold club. Because we're not taking money. The feral brother. Maybe. Yeah. They're like, we're not taking your money. But it's like, you guys, money is money. Kids need money for college.

It's more and more expensive than ever. How do you feel about this? I like it. I also believe that they should have a separate one for women or guys that are in the poor. They are in the industry and like, how incentivize them to go back to college. Yeah, they want to get out of it and just go to school. But they don't want to get out of it.

I know they don't want to, but they can get another person to do a porn. It's not that hard. I know. Well, that's the thing. So I mean, but you know, whatever else. But that's great. You know,

Hey, they're giving money, but you know, 20 grand in school these days doesn't really go that $200,000 is not a lot. Like how many people, like, if it's not pay, we shouldn't be beggars, can't be chrissers, I would have taken it. I would have taken it. Hey, $25,000 is $25,000, but it's... Right.

I could see some people going, I got a porn, and I would have made you wear like a t-shirt. Like, I got a porn hub scholarship, like, publicizing the whole thing. But you know, I'm happy that they're doing that rather than just putting more money back in the company and not giving back. Of course. Right. So, I appreciate that. Is there, um, is there another news story? We just have one. Is that it? Yeah. Cool. We can get into some emails and that's just anything you're really good at. Like digging on some news. I don't know anything to bring. Sex on news lately. I try to think, I mean, I, Caitlin Jenner's taken over the world, you know, that's going on. The recent thing is she was on Ellen and said that she doesn't really support gay marriage

and everyone's like tripping out about that. But um... She's just not getting along the transgender community at all. She's kind of like, that's how she is. No, but I've been washing, I've been washing the show and look, this is what annoys me. That the transgender community is like, if you watch the television show, everyone around her is always constantly begging on her.

Like, oh, you have it so easy. You know, I had this rough life. I had to do sex work to get by. My family disowned me and like everyone's embracing you. And everyone's holding against it. I'm sorry, I'm sorry that Caitlin is being embraced way more is having a lot easier than you. Right, because she has the money,

she's getting the surgery, she's doing all this stuff, right? And I'm sorry, it's like that, but you shouldn't hold it against her. Right. And these are same people that are like going on all these wine trips with her. And then that she's paying. Right, they want to have her with her,

but they want to bash her. Yeah, they want to bash her the entire, you should be doing this, you should be doing that. It's like, hasn't somebody told you your entire life how you should live? Yeah, and how do that feel to you? Yeah, that's what it's just been like pissing me off. Hey, hey, you're just gonna hate, you know?

Watching that, watching that show. Did you like it though? I am Kate. Well, it's very like, you learn a lot, but you know, with reality shows, you kind of just like, you just want Kate to go to like, you know, rodeo drive and just ball out of control and like,

go to the club and make it rain and stuff like that. It's like, okay, I get it. Like, now where's the fun parts, you know? So it's more like of an intense, is there like, where's Kim? It's very intense. Kim's on there all the time. This latest episode I haven't seen yet is Chris Jenner comes over and has

a scene Kate for months. Okay. So I mean, Chris knew a lot of stuff that was going on anyways, but this is where she actually like sees her face to face and I haven't had a chance to see that yet. Okay. It's on my list. But I definitely, you know, I support the. And I haven't had a chance to see that yet. So, I'll tell you something. But I definitely, you know, I support the community. I don't think so. But I can just...

I know it's on there's an awareness out there now that people are like, you know, the gay talking about gay lesbian issues was a really big deal for parents and kids to talk about. And now it's like, transgender, good. Yeah. Hopefully, you know, be more accepted and people will have a greater understanding of it.

I'm just like on this whole new thing, like, no matter what you are, or what you do with your life, like don't care about anybody else's opinions or if I hear you talking about how somebody else should live their life, I really don't even wanna be around here. I agree, I agree, because people usually who have

this hard, fast opinions about what's right and what's wrong, they're just not happy with themselves. Just learn how to purpose in your own life and what you want. I know, I gotta tell you what ton of time. I don't want to live your life. I got over a long time. I go, caring what other people think. I mean, I want you to like, I want you to like the show. I want you to like me,

but I do my best to be a good person in the world. So I can like beat myself up if not everyone's gonna like us. Oh, yeah, but most people do. Oh, it's actually, it's like morning to the radio show. Oh, yeah, dude, what you do. But you know what I would love if you guys, this is really helpful when you said this in the past. So he'll be about people going iTunes and like, yeah, I do like it. I do like it. I do like it. I do like it. I do like it. I do like it. I do like it. I do like it.

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that'd be great. I mean, the show costs you nothing. Emily does a lot of work. She has a great staff that helps her out too, that do a lot of work. And you keep it going. So if you can just do that, that'd be great. If you don't have iTunes,

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That's all we have to do. So I want you to be forget entertainin' and have a good time. Okay, I'll be back. She really wants you to do too. I'm like, I wanna go over there and just like, I wanted to just lay down with your dog and have a nap for six days.

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Which is why I got so bomb and I love the company and the people and all that so that's what I'm talking about this another No, we're gonna move into emails. All right You guys thank you for emailing us feedback at sex with Emily calm and also thank you so much for for giving us this Best people are better at this now. about it this now, your age. Yeah. Where you're writing from? Yes. Where you live and how you listen.

Sweet. Because that really helps us. It does. And then when you do the call in a few weeks, October 7th, then we'll really give information. Yeah, and you never have to give your real name, but you can just say it, but the location and how you listen. That's great.

We don't care if you change it. The age is always great. We're not going to hack your account and say, you're not really Mike, you're Bob. But it helps like giving a background. It's like you're like, well, I'm not meeting anybody. Well, you live in wish-a-talk Kansas. Right.

Maybe we should pull a geographic. OK, hey, Emily, I'm a 20-year-old girl from Belgium, and I've been dating a new guy for about a month now. We've slept together twice, but I haven't given him a hand job or a blowjob yet. I tried to initiate once, but he flinched, and said that since he is circumcised, he can't really have hand jobs without lube. You can give a hand job as a blowjob to before, but none of these guys were circumcised since it's not very common here. She's in Belgium. So

this is a new territory for me. Could you give me some practical tips of things I need to keep in mind? Maybe some things you might like? Thanks again for your help. I love your show Sarah. So I thought we would talk about. Maybe some things you might like. Thanks again for your help, I love your show, Sarah. So I thought we would talk about some hand job and blow job tips. We've talked about hand jobs for many years. If you go back into the archives, menace and I had a whole hand job,

but debate that was raging, like nothing else we ever talked about, because I one day innocently said, you know, let's bring back the hand job. Not exclusive of the blow job, not taking away from the blow job, but just to help spice things up. So anyway, I only said it was a waste of time.

It wasn't people loved it. So here's a crash course on the anatomy of the penis, Sarah, let's start there. So, okay, to give a great hand job, you have to understand the anatomy of the penis, both cut and uncut, because each part has its own little personality. These are a little penis as a personality,

but it's all pretty much the same. Learn how to work with it. So unlike the uncut penis, a little penis has a personality, but it's all pretty much the same. Learn how to work with it. So unlike the uncut penis, a circumcised penis has a lot more landmarks on it. Think of it like a map. But once you get past the overall exposed nature, it can be easy to navigate. So first, think of the base like a soldier, the shaft. It can take a lot of pressure, so don't be afraid of it and make sure you lub it up first. He is right. Now, when you're giving a blowjob, hopefully you

create enough saliva. But a lot of times you don't and so a great tip that I love and actually talk about comedy lecture she was in the show is to put a little lube on your lips. You can use like a flavored lube and so you're already lubed up and then you take that and then you go down as penis. It feels freaking amazing. The lube, you can use a warming lube, a flavored lube, and let's just say you're wet enough from the get-go. So make sure you lube it up first. This is the more of the hand job part. So the underside of the penis is where it's all going on.

The erectile tissue right under the skin, there, which makes it super sensitive so you give it some quality attention. That's like where the freinulum is. So it's the little band of the tissue on the underside beneath the head. So if you're looking at your penis, and it's a rack, it's like right underneath there,

it's the head of the penis. If the head of the penis is the money spot, this is a close second. Because the head of the penis, the coronal ridge, where it looks like a mushroom, that's also sensitive. So you want to lick around there, give it some quality time,

and then we'll end up with the freinulum. Lastly, the balls. You never want to ignore the balls, but you want to lick around there, give it some quality time, and then we'll end up in the front of them. Lastly, the balls. You never want to ignore the balls, but you want to go and slow. Some guys like it really hard. Some guys just like it to be tickled, like those Ben wall balls in your hands. Yeah, barely touched.

Barely touched. You can lick it. You know, ball from- Some of them want them in the mouth. They do. Play around. Ask your guy. Some guys are like, ah, no balls, but find out see what you like

So how does that feel babe? Grease it up if you're gonna give a loop free hand job you muzzle take a piece of sandpaper Seriously on the piano you really like don't you need it to be a little wet? And then like delete your number from his phone if you use some sandpaper on it Here dude is correct. It needs to have loopube. So also the great thing about the hand job Huh, you've two hands you might be like I've got a hand. I know I'd use it But you don't use two hands. Yeah, but see our whole debate was so low hand jobs without any Blow jobs

No, you change it later on Sometimes you start losing the debate. No, I never lost it. Oh, I said to incorporate the mouth. I'm like, no, a hand job is a hand job, a blow job is a blow job. And then a blow job you can incorporate. You think never the two shall meet? No, I'm saying they would, but that's considered a blow job. But here's the other thing about it, is that a lot of times women, we get tired during the blow job. Like, I get it. Like, our mouths, the thing you have to remember is that the kind of pressure that a guy wants as penis, he wants it to feel like a vagina or a mouth or a butt, whatever he's into. So you want that kind of pressure on it.

You can't do the leasing goosey. You want pressure is very, very important. So if you're using two hands, it's really fun because you can grip the base of the penis between your thumb and index finger, like making an okay sign. So think of the base by the balls. This intensifies things, right? So you're trapping blood on the penis,

kind of like a built in cock ring in your fingers. And there is no law anywhere in the planet that says you can only struggle with one hand. So you can do the twist, like at the same time, you can have two hands that are going up, two hands going down, you can only struggle with one hand. So you can do the twist, like at the same time, you can have two hands that are going up, two hands going down, you can be rubbing them both back and forth, like two hands on top of each other. And just make sure it's wet,

you can do the endless, like up, up, up, so you keep like two hands going over the penis, over the penis, and then you go down the penis, down with two hands. So, like, let me point it to you like this. The more of his penis you're touching at any one time, the better. Like, I don't think you just want to spend time

with the tip or just time at the balls, but if you can encompass it with both hands and a tight grip, thumbs up. Cover it up. Okay, sign. Also pulsing and tapping and flipping with your open palms. So yes, it likes tight grips,

but it doesn't mean you need to be squeezing at the whole time, you can be rubbing it together like you're building a fire or something. Because the truth is variety is a spice of life and the spice of a hand job. So you know, changing grip can be a new sensation. Like if you've been holding it in one way, it's all about mixing it up. Like with different hands, you can even use one hand. And then once you get really warmed up, nothing wrong with your hand and then your mouth

swooping down and then swooping back up at the hand and then swooping back down. Definitely. Hand job tips, Linus. Hand job tips. I mean, yeah, as long as you incorporate it with a blowjob, I mean, guys that are the solo hand job, all the guys are thinking, man, I wish I could really have a blowjob right now.

They're just, but it's a piece of stuff. Either I'm waiting to have orgasm or I'm just waiting to get a blowjob or maybe I'm just going to have penetration. Why not mix it up? I guess such. What if you're given some blowjob every night? You're going to be saying, who doesn't want a blowjob every night?

But if you start off with a hand job, they don't even feel so good because you have so much lube. You're using that grip, you're twisting those hands. You could be using it and licking the corona, licking the ridge, licking the tip. But stay away from mouth touching the penis for a second. Listen to what I'm saying. You're saying a standalone hand job.

Stand alone hand job from beginning to end to completion, right? Look, I want that constantly. I'm thinking like, wow, Jay, what have you just said? Really just giving me this sympathy hand job, she doesn't want to have sex with me or how, give me a blowjob. That's what guys think of me.

You give me some for a while. You might just be like, honey, my mouth, my throat hurts, I have a sore throat. I'm like, oh this guy took me out, I guess I'll just give my hand job. Dude, you spend a spiced thing up all the time. You gotta spice things up. Okay, it's true, you gotta,

you know, what is wrong with a little beginner hand? Oh, use a flashlight if you want. That's something really fun. And also, if you wanted to just give them a jolt to a senses, vibrations, vibrators, I'm telling you, men like a little vibrations in their perenium, which is between your, it's your taint,

and your ass and your, you know, your penis, the base of your penis. The perenium, you can get a new strokes and then use a little vibrator right there. You've never had this, so don't make, I'm not making face, I'm listening to your instruction. It feels so good, the guys are like, holy, and if you want the friggin' blowjob to go quicker

because you don't want it, put a little vibe there, you're a little bullet vibe. Here's something I've never shared before, and I don't know why I've never done this before, but as Emily's always explaining these things, she's using her hands in giving me examples. So when she talked about putting a vibrator on your balls and your taint,

she's actually taking her hand and showing it as she's doing that. I just wish she got me that. I just wish she got me that. I just wish she got me that. I just wish she got me that. I wish she got me that. I wish she got me that.

I wish she got me that. I wish she got me that. I wish she got me that. I wish she got me that. I wish she have a visual. Maybe we should do a video after with a visual. Can we use a penis anywhere? So just make sure that like, again, you want the tightness that grip, you want to make sure that he can tell, like it's not just this loose. Like, did you give a girl a give you a blow job once you blew one at the first time? The blue on it. She wasn't just like, was that you? She thought it was like, I think a lot of girls have done that.

Don't blow. I know it's very misleading. It should be called a snub job or something. Or a, I don't know what it should be called, a grip job. A grip job, yeah. A sucking vacuum sucking job, okay. Next email. All right.

Feedback, it's actually a lot of them. That was a lot of one email. I hope it was enough feedback. Well, I wanted to give you a very specific instructions about handling the penis, because she's used to whatever. You guys, I'm just telling you that, whatever, I said it all. Just mix in a little

hand job once in a while, I'll like it. Dear Emily, how do I keep or even know when I'm in a good rhythm for sex and especially hand jobs, blow jobs, more in hand jobs, blow jobs? How do I have the confidence of a pro when I was a virgin before my current partner and he has had many partners before me, Jane? Okay, Jane, let me tell you this, there's a very common question we guess. I'm not even gonna get into the rhythm part. I wanna talk about you being, you feel like you're inexperienced.

Nobody starts off with a black belt and sex, okay? We all start out in experience. And this guy likes you. He's not thinking, God, he's really an experience. You know, all these other girls, no, no, it's not that hard. We're explaining out what we're telling you what to do. And you'll get better with each time you do it

and ask him for feedback. That's a guy's dream. That's a what we're telling you what to do and you'll get better with each time you do it and ask them for feedback. That's a guys dream. Don't be yourself. That's a guys dream for you not to be experienced. Right. You know? I know that I married a guy because he's like, she has a good view with a lot of guys. I keep thinking that's hot.

I keep thinking that's hot. So don't worry about that, Jane. Don't trip on that at all. So I know that, and also here's the other thing that guys like menace have said to be like, we don't want to be teased. We just want you to go right for the penis. But I think a few minutes, a minute of teasing right before you go down, just you dive down in his pants and your mouth is all luhl. Try just like kissing around his stomach, like kissing around his thighs, like doing some things like that before to get him brows, okay?

So when it comes to rhythm everyone is different. I can't tell you that every guy wants it really fast, really up and down. I think eventually they want you to stick with one rhythm. So the key is just like, first off, feel them out. How is he doing with the rhythm that you're doing? If you have enough grip and it's wet enough or your mouth is tight enough and wet enough, you're pretty good there.

And you gotta be enthusiastic. You wanna make sure that you're not like staring at your clock, your eyes are dosing off and you're like rolling your eyes at them. You want to be really into it. Some guys like it fast, some guys like it slower. What about you, Matt? Do you probably prefer it fast at the end when you're about to come, but what about at the beginning?

Do you care? Well, it's just not too slow, you know, and then have some pressure behind it. Nothing's worse than not having any pressure. Right. So pressure is number one. Mm-hmm. Not too slow, but if there's a lot of pressure, I mean, not like, yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. But, okay. So the rhythm is, you want. The fluid motion. Fluid motion, be very fluid. Experiment with different speeds. You know, with your hands first, like we said, with the hand job, and then bring your mouth into play.

And perhaps you could hum, that feels good. Use a vibrator under his balls. Use a vibrator on his shaft. I've, again, most guys I've talked about this or that have emailed some like, holy god, holy moly, can't believe how good that feels. So you can also put a flavored lube on your lips. Like I said, as you glide down, I said this earlier for the blowjob hand job part, because the way out of the better. A dry hand job, blowjob, not so good. And there's no rule against asking how he likes it. Like, if you're with them, you can be like,

babe, how's this? Make it sexy. Don't be like, okay, how was that? You want to like sit up and be like, but be like, how's this babe? Has my tongue circling around your fernanon? How is my tongue on your balls? Because he's going to give you feedback because he wants it to feel good as well. Because you want it faster or slower. You can always ask him to give you a tutorial with his hand. Mitchell masturbation, great way to watch how he touches himself when he's masturbating is likely the amount of pressure that he wants.

And then kind of like, some guy's stroking in the middle, some guys go over the top of their ball, you know, some guys are grabbing their balls when they masturbate, they're all different. Because you know, I've always said you put a hundred women in the room and they're all be touching themselves differently. And I never say that about men because I'm like, oh, it's a penis, but it is true that men have different rhythms and places that they touch on their penis. That will make them feel good. That's correct.

So, so watch that. And as for confidence, seriously, it will come to you. Don't get so in your head that you're not experienced. I want to say fake it till you make it, but just be it until it becomes so. No guy cares about that. He does not care at all. You're a real thing. The more experience you get, the better you're going to get.

And this is not, we're not talking years here. We're not trying to become like an Olympic diver, okay? A flu, a few blow jobs and you're gonna be on track here. You only see the guy cares about is if you're approved, you're like, oh, I don't wanna do this, I don't wanna do that, then they're like, ah. He'll appreciate that you're improving and putting effort in. And I'm not even saying that you're bad,

but women have these things in their heads that they have to be like porn stars, which, you know BTW porn stars might look great in camera, but they're not necessarily giving the most stellar blow job like your guy wants I'm telling you that so work with them together. Give them a good blow job That's the rhythm parts. Stay in rhythm. Usually when guys are about to come You want to stick with whatever they're doing and you can tell when they're about to come because they're breathing heavy Or you can ask them let me know when you're about to come but

oh speaking of which, so I woke up to a text this morning okay so thank you very much for listening to the show and I'm glad you like it Jane and keep us posted how that goes but I got an email this morning and you'll laugh at this because from a text from a friend of mine a text she's out of the country, she's out of the South America and had South America. And she's like, I've got an emergency question. I'm like, go. She said, I've been seeing this guy for like, she's been seeing him for like five days. It's a vacation relation.

But she's like, Emily, I don't know what to do. I've never had this happen before. We're having sex. And we've had all this build up. We, they finally had sex on like day four. And she said, he does not make a sound during sex. You've had that before though. Yeah, I told you about the guy I was dating for a while

that when he came, it was like, it's like it's something just, he's like, like his eyes didn't change, just breathing in change. No, psychopath. So I don't know, but you know the thing is, some guys are really shy. Maybe they grew up masturbating in a home where it was, you know, he was afraid to get caught

and it would be like in purgatory and lose eyesight. People learned a lot of things in life that they're not a lot to masturbate. So I said to her, just encourage them. Tell them that like, it's so hot to hear is like, you start talking dirty. She's like, I did that. I did that. I'm like, well, tell them that it turns you on to know when he's about to come, you know? Like, tell them, and you should be the one that's starting morning.

She's like, he's still quiet. And she said, she said, she goes, I want him to just throw me down and like, be aggressive. I'm like, tell him, and you should be the one that start morning. And she's like, he's still quiet. And she said, I said, she goes, I want him to throw me down and be aggressive. I'm like, tell him. She's like, I did. And then he kept slowly love making. And she was like, making it crazy. So I think that for everyone, we like to hear sounds during sex.

We not the whole time. You have to be screaming like a band. She's saying, you're landlord, a big stew. But a guy that doesn't make any sound. That is. I think it could be some intimacy things too. Or he's sowing his head that he was afraid. Yeah, but I asked him to quickly,

I asked her the whole bad request. Yeah, also but where are they having sex? So they have an ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex ex I think some guys just learn that they should be quiet. Mm-hmm. And I think he needs to unlearn it. And I kept telling her things like, he won't do that, he won't do that. I'm like, you're on for invocation, go find someone else to bang. But that's what happens sometimes. No, but I like-

How long is she on vacation for? I don't know, like a week. But I really think that I really- So if she's gonna be done with this guy anyways. I know, but I really just think that it's interesting to guys and for women that wouldn't you prefer a woman who's making some noise? Yes. Doesn't turn. Not screaming maybe. I think every guy would. Yeah. And said women. Not over the top. Not ridiculous. Some guys want

over the top. I'm just saying we want to feel that we're connecting and audibly hearing sounds turns us on. So you know what I'm saying. Okay we got one more email. All right. Emily, my name is Melissa, and I'm 27 years old from Michigan, my home state. My home state, so shout out to Michigan. There's a really cute guy at the gym, and I want to show him interest in, but I always feel like the gym is an awkward place

to pick up someone. No one looks great after a good workout, and I know I get annoyed at guys making rude comments to me when I'm on a machine. What's the best way to initiate conversation with them to get them to ask me out for lunch or something? Thanks, Melissa. This is an interesting question because I agree

that I don't want guys hitting me on me at the gym at all. I like, I'm doing my own thing. But guys aren't necessarily the same. I think guys are kind of psyched for girls to hit on them everywhere, right? So first of all, get as attention somehow. You can start with eye contact. You don't want to be creepily staring at them at the gym.

But the great thing to do in any situation is to follow a formula. You want to observe something. So if you're just standing next to maybe get on the treadmill next to them and observe something going on, you could say, like, God, do you think that this machine's always as busy? Is there a better time of day to come?

See what he says. That's a question. It's not a yes or no question. You do not want to ask, you know, to observe it, okay? And then after that, you want to share something like, I usually just, you know, I'm having to be like, maybe I'll say something like, yo, I've actually thought out if I come at 8 a.m,

there's actually no one here, but at 9 a.m it gets crazy. So here you are starting a conversation. What would you say? Um, I don't have time. Okay. Why? With the conversation? What we're you say? I don't have time. Why? The conversation? What we're going to say? No. Oh, I thought you were saying. And then you want to share something? That would be my response. Oh, right. Got it.

And then you want to share something. Yeah, maybe I should start doing that. You know, because I really love this gym, you know, and then you want to ask a question. So, like I just said, the first thing is observing. Is it always God? Is it always this busier eight in the morning? I'm fucking this up. Is it always this busier eight in the morning? I'm fucking this up. Is it always busier this time in the morning? So, Donnie asked her no question, and he's observing it. And he says, yeah, actually I come in at 9 a.m. I mean, usually it's much better at 9 a.m.

And then she gets this thing, I think, really, like, you know, and then you ask a question, 9 a.m. I'm really, how long do you belong to this gym? How long do you belong to your? What happens at 8 a.m.? Whatever it is, you observe something happening, you ask a question, and then you share something, you ask a question.

So you're starting a dialogue, you're not just asking, you ask for no question, and it's something at the gym, and you make it very casual. Yeah. You make it very nonchalant. There's nothing, like people talk to me at the gym, and I don't always automatically assume you're heading on me.

I just think if you're observing something going on in the room, like, does the fire alarm always go off? What's with the beef cakes today? Is there like some kind of weightlifting? It doesn't matter what it is, but it's something that you can both observe. You share it, you ask a question, you start a conversation. Yeah, you're putting yourself out there. Exactly. I mean, you can just say like, you know, and also you don't have to ask them out right away, but start talking. A lot of times people go to the gyms at the same time, or then if you do talking say the Okay, let's grab a smoothie after you know and I Man do you crossfit? I heard everyone across fit is banging each other really? Yeah

Like cuz you get so I'll see you up in the moment. It's because no one else wants to hear them talk about crossfit Yeah, they're obsessed with cross. Yeah, it's so true. They're all sleeping with each other and drinking excessively. That's everyone that I know in CrossFit, that's what's happening. But then they do CrossFit and they pound a beer after? Yeah, they get hammered. They do CrossFit and then they bang. And talk about CrossFit.

There you go, sweetie, why don't you go to CrossFit? Yeah, it's CrossFit, you can get laid. Melissa, but I love this. I love that women are just being more bold about asking guys out too. So again, I gave you the formula I usually give men but the truth is just start talking on. Yeah, don't be creepy. That's our talk. I love it though. I love it.

You're encouraging women to talk to men. We should because a lot of men like men is I have you didn't couldn't read the signs Women more and always ask you weren't asking women out. No, every woman that you've ever laid probably be to hit on mate So that works. Okay, we got to wrap up this pup. We do. Yeah. It was so nice seeing you. You too. I'm, I'm happy to be back. I had a cancel in the unit. I felt so bad. Oh, it was okay. We had Linette Corolla fill in. Oh, nice. I love her. She's awesome. I know. And Heather McDonnell was here that day. Oh,

it was a killer show everyone. We had a show with Heather. Sorry. You weren't here. Minus wasn't there. But Heather McDonnell was on the day. It was a killer show everyone. We had a show with Heather, sorry you weren't here. Menace wasn't there, but Heather Mcdonald was on the show, it was a great show, and Lynette was our co-host. So it was fun. I'd also just remember you guys on October 7th, we'll be taking calls, which is gonna be awesome. And what else?

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