Sex With Emily - Sexual Frustrations & Bedroom Bummers

Episode Date: September 30, 2015

In this show, Emily is breaking down a variety of sex tips and topics to help you step up your bedroom routine. Today’s topics include the right way to give oral, the wrong way to get busy and tricks to keep your sexual confidence going strong in a long term relationship. Does your partner’s jackhammer habit leave you sexually unsatisfied? Feeling fed up with lackluster foreplay? Has your confidence in the bedroom taken a recent dive? If any of these issues ring true for you, then Emily has tools you need to tackle them head-on.From dick pics to sultry snapchats to homemade dental dams, this show is stacked with hilarious anecdotes on a range of lighthearted topics, not to mention plenty of advice to pull you out of your sexually unsatisfied slump. Don’t miss it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Oh my god. I'm off here. So, I'm grown. Being bad feels pretty good. You know, Abelie's not the kind of girl you just play with. You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between. For more information, go to sexwithemily.com. You can check it out of our podcast,

and if we're mailing lists, and there's just a lot of cool stuff happening at sectionalme.com. And there's a lot of cool stuff happening here because I'm with Menace. We're at Menace. Hello, I was Snapchatting you as you were doing your intro right there. Tell me all about Snapchat.

Snapchat is like, I know. I was just taking over everything. That's what I was saying. I just said this yesterday to a list I was saying, my sister's like, we should do Snapchat. You should totally do Snapchat. And I don't know what, I have a Snapchat I think, like a section of them.

I've never done it a few times. Should I do that to my repertoire? You should definitely should. I think you would get a billion followers on it. Should we do one? Yeah. After the show. So it's a section of them, I think I set it up like a year ago.

Yeah, definitely. Snapchat my ass. Yeah, because then you can Snapchat throughout your day. It's a billion times easier than doing Facebook or Instagram. I used to be totally off more with snapchat I thought I was a waste of time, but then they started this thing called my story and They did it about a year ago and where you can it actually just edit the video together of your entire day And then so people can just click on so all day long my phone is filming me No, no, no.

No, you you decide what you want to put on there, like a photo or video or whatever. That's cool. And it just like loops them all together. So it's your Snapchat, Menace. I pretty much just want to run the Woody show that's the morning radio show that I do here in Los Angeles. And I just run their pretty much run the show.

But you don't do your own SNAP. I would think that you did. I had my own, but you can only have it logged into one phone at a time. Right. So you got to do it for the work thing. I'm looking right now and it's, I think it's a sex of Emily. I'm pretty sure. Yeah.

Yeah. Okay, we're going to do a SNAP chat asking you to be like, studying. Anyway, have you been, I just got back from New York minus and I know I saw it. It was pretty amazing because I was there for the Sexual Health Expo and it's, you know, we did one in Los Angeles and then we did one in Phoenix and now we're gonna, we just did New York and it was pretty amazing menace because I

first of all have not never done a live event in New York for, you know, for the show or with myself and speaking and doing keynote and all that. And there were so many sex with Emily fans there that had been listening for a long time and they love you and they love the show and it was just really cool to meet like, it was like 20 at one point there was probably like 30 standing around asking questions. Wow, that's great. I don't think that that's ever happened because I tell them like I'm sitting in a, and I was just as happy to meet them as they were to me. They're like, wow, like're like, you don't really, I'm like, I'm amazed how'd you hear about it.

They're like, a lot of people listen to your show. You know, I'm still sort of like, yeah, I don't really even think about that at all either. I'm sitting here, I'm like, okay, we're doing a thing in a little while. We meet up and record in front of a microphone, and then we leave. We don't really think that people actually listen.

Right, I mean, I see the number that I can meet them. So it was, you know, you're right. But in my mind, when I'm sitting here, I'm going, oh, everyone's listening. Well, I told you, everywhere I go, now I just meet more and more sex with emin listeners. I remember when I went to Hawaii last year, there was like sex with emin listeners there.

I was just at an event recently where I met multiple sex withlemming listeners. It's crazy. It's crazy. I love it. I want people to keep listening. Keep listening. And I met a lot that you all came out to say hello, and I gave a keynote there, and they were all there. And they're excited that we're taking live calls soon, which we're going to start doing. I have info here. There was some in the audience. You're so, so sweet. I'm excited you're taking calls. Wednesday, October 7th, from 1.32pm Pacific Standard Time, there's going to be a call number and that we're going to provide to you on Madison and newsletter, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram,

all that. We'll be providing a phone number. I so we need you to check into our social media the day of about like maybe like two hours before, around like 11, 11.30 and then we'll repost it again that day. So you have to check on our social media because we're not gonna give out the number until that day. Let's say you don't have Twitter or you don't use Facebook and you still want to go. You have an internet provider. I'm assuming. You'll be able to see the information that you need. All you gotta do is go to twitter.com slash sex with that one.

You don't have to have to have one of these. You're supposed to be a Twitter. Right, exactly. Okay, so you can check it out. We'll put phone number and you can call in. And we're thinking, just the number one question you've always wanted to ask us. That's what we want you to call in with.

And that's 132 Pacific Standard, October 7th. And then tonight, I'm actually teaching a workshop. If you're all gonna be around, if you listen to this, it's September 29th at Hussar Hollywood. I'm teaching a workshop back to sex ed basics. I've been hearing about how they're working on their new location. Yeah, it's right near my office.

I'm really excited. That's cool. Yeah, because the Hussar Hollywood serve right now is pretty freaking spectacular, the one on sunset, but now it's, yeah, it's moving on. Yeah, sunset kind of died. And I'm happy that the movie had it. It did die. Yeah, so now they're moving in. Since it's full of, it's moving on. Yeah, it's a kind of died. And I'm happy that it's moving. It did die.

Yeah, so now they're moving in. Since it's boulevard, not the sunset store, but sunset in general. boulevard has not been going on for a long time. Now it's, where they're moving, their location is going to be packed. Where it's going to be, it's on Hollywood and what? I can't remember.

I don't know. It's the American office. We're right there on the main street. It's exciting. I'll just hang out there all day and get their com shot drink. What's going on? Yeah. They're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they amazing, Menace. You're coming a long way. 10k. I know, right? No, I still got a long way to go.

But you've been all over the place. You went to New York and you shared a story with me. Have you shared on any other podcast? The one about the, you're like videotaping, it was whole life. Again, I asked. Oh, yeah, but that was last time. That was the summer when I was in New York. I know, but did you do that?

Yeah, I did talk about it on the podcast, and it was so funny because one of the listeners that's me don't get to, you're in New York now don't get your ass kicked again. I know. But I didn't really get my ass kicked. She just threw me to the ground with my phone. Yeah, video tape and the fight. Yeah, I was video taping a fight. Because it was really, I mean, did I ever show you the video?

You never showed me the video. I should show you the video. And it was pretty, I mean everyone's like, why the hell did you stop and start filming? Because I had never been compelled to do that in my life. Like, but it was that cinematic. I thought it was worth to, you know, it's great. Yeah, it was great. But then she saw me filming after a minute and 15 seconds came over, grabbed me through me on the ground. Yeah, you can't do that anymore. But it showed me a phone in the pants, my pants, and so I didn't leave a phone. She's like, you're following your pants. I didn't want her to grab it. It's crazy.

But this time in New York was, you know, this was just mostly work and I saw Emily Tony which our headquarters. Yeah, what is next on the plate for you? I think. In life, I'm doing, you know, hustler workshops every month and we'll do another sexual hatha expo in January. And there are so, we're going to do, you don't know the date yet, because we don't know the date yet,

but we are doing our 10-year anniversary show. Oh, sweet. Madison's gonna arrange the date with you once we get it. It's gonna be L.A., Hollywood improv. Nice. You think at the improv maybe. Love it. How fun.

That'd be super cool. Dude, right? We never, 10 years. I feel like so emotional this year about it. Yeah. Yeah, kinda. I was seeing the audience, I was grilling it with all the fans, and they're like, so I feel like so emotional this year about it. Yeah. Yeah, kind of. I was doing an audience, I was grilling it with all the fans, and they're like, so I'm like, wait, okay.

What do you guys like about the show? What don't you like, sex? And they're like, we love sex in the news. We love the emails. We love men. He doesn't talk about a sex life enough now. They really wanted to try. My he never does.

Because this, I've always told you, this is, I mean, I don't mind sharing my sex life with you, but I think. You used to share more. I used to share more but that's because you know I was just out I have a dog not like kind of stuff but yeah but you're single woman this is the sex with Emily show I think it should be more about you know I'm just here to I've been having really good sex lately. Okay. And I have had some really interesting, you know, we always talk about the toys and stuff,

but there's, you know, I've been, I realize that I have in the 10 year, I should do some kind of like 10 year recap of how I've changed because how the show, you know, really started was not that I was necessarily the expert, it was that I wanted- They'll learn more. That amazing sex and everyone else's amazing second. I realize looking back now that I was necessarily the expert, it was that I wanted to learn more. That amazing sex. And everyone else's amazing second.

I realized looking back now that I actually, my sex life is dramatic. It is so much better than ever was. And that I have learned how to really like, you know, I do practice what I preach and communicate my needs. And it's really freaking good. And I feel really blessed. And I know that we have a lot of people too. So it was amazing to hear and see all these couples who were just like, yeah, we've been listening, we listened to it on a road trip

for 14 hours. Like we always got those emails, but to meet the couple who actually listened to it for 14 hours. But anyway, I got a Sibian. I'm going to back up for a second. So you know the Sibian? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay.

So I'm going to be feeling even with more stories about that lately, but I had it for like a little bit. They sent me one. I was a little like, wow, it's a Sibian, which is like the most powerful sex for the planet. And it looks like a kind of a saddle. And it's... Yeah, anyone that listens to Howard's

Cernchild, they know what a Sibian is. And actually tried it. And it's pretty friggin' to me. It has dials on it and everything. Oh, now you're all about it. I am all about it. And it was collecting dust for a second. Yeah, I just was like, I think I was like, whoa,

and now I'm like, oh my God, it's really such a great, you could use it. I mean, I just use it with myself, but I'm also planty, use it with a partner, and it just, you know, takes your sex life to a new plane, and I'm gonna be talking more about that. Cool. Yeah, I'm dating and, you know, having a time.

It's about my sex life. The Sibian. The Sibian. It's a whole new thing. I feel like I have to make it. I'm gonna name your Sibian. No, I probably should name it. Yeah, It's about my sixth life. The Sibian. The Sibian. It's a whole new thing. I feel like I have to move. I have to name your Sibian. No, I probably should name it. Yeah, like Darryl or something.

No, it's not a name. I'm gonna call it. Maybe I should have a little name, my Sibian. That'd be cool. I know. But on Facebook. And they want to get one at Loveline too that they're gonna put one there.

But my cathode like wants to write it on the air like K-rock and he's unsure how to deal about that. It's prostate. But you know how people are. Yeah. So, I don't know. Yeah, that's a story. So that's what's going on in your life? I'm trying to think what else. Yeah, there's been someone I've been dating that it's been good. How's that been going? I think are you going steady yet or what?

We're like closer to going steady than ever before. Oh really? Are you wearing his letter min jacket? No, I feel like we really like each other though. And it's really good. It's actually sexually a great relationship and where it's really both. You know what's really cool is that he came to one of my workshops. Did I ever talk about this in the air? I don't think so.

So he came to one of my workshops. I was doing this Oral Sex Workshop. This was like a while ago. And we've been dating for a while and he came to my workshop and just because he never been to my workshops and he performed oral sex satisfactorily before it was fun. And then he came to my workshop and the next time he performed oral sex it was like almost like what I would dream of like I wish that every guy would have listened to my show that I've ever dated I

always thought that I'm like in a way I don't want them to listen to the personal part but the tips and he's sat there. And it's like now, not just oral sex, that's amazing. It was like almost like he was taking notes and listening to everything I said. And it was, it's over the top amazing. Oh nice. Yeah, like it really changed.

Well that really makes you horny too when a guy actually listens to what you have to say. I know, we were talking about this in the office of the day that guys who don't listen to what you say. Well, don't you, well, accessory sex, there's some guys who don't can't take instructions

or they feel offended if you get that instructions or something, because you don't just be back. But just in general, you like guys listening to you, even outside of sex. In general, I do what we do. Yeah, you get up on that. You do. Well, I think anyone gets off on a guy who actually listens

and pays attention to what she says. Like, I think anyone gets off on a guy who actually listens and pays attention to what she says. Like, yeah, probably, but I think you take it to the extreme. Like just listen to my day kind of thing? Yes, listen to me talk. I love it. I don't want to. I actually don't want to.

No, I don't. I actually don't. No, I don't. Listen to what I say about all sex and then do that. Yeah. Like, do what I say about sex, but no, I'm actually, it's interesting, the other thing that's got... What?

Nothing, I don't know, let's just go in here. No, is something else going on? Are you having a baby? God no. No. That would be really interesting. We know what happened with the dog. Oh yeah, the dog has a new home.

Yeah, the dog is happy, huh, yeah. Okay, let's get some sex in the news. Okay. What do you got? I got women want sex as often as men. Uh-huh. Do you believe this? There was a survey and they say, okay, this is this old news, though, haven't we been knowing this forever? I don't know. Let's just listen to this new survey. It's a half-responsive. They do not have sex as frequently as they desire. You know why it's important? We have heard this this before but there is still the stigma that people believe that men are these horny bastards which they are and that they want sex way more often than women and that women are kind of like sitting there like no no no

I've had it tonight. The truth is women want sex just much. Just one more than that. 70% of women are filthy man. They they all go out and bang a bunch of dudes, you know, but they will never cop to it. Yeah, I'll do that. They all bang a bunch of dudes. Yeah, they would. Well, you know, I think it's changed too.

I have to say that it's changed a lot. So I think it's equal. It's not me, you know, the popular term in 2015 is shaming women for going out, not having sex. That's totally fine. I don't care, but just don't play it off day. You're not doing- In sex women are doing just as amount of, like,

you know, slutty things as guys are doing, you know? Because really guys do one of the- I think it's the equal playing field. I think it is. I think that women, I think that there is a lot of shaming going away that women are more empowered and feel more comfortable talking. I hope that's what the show, you know, people are learning and life that it's okay. But the whole shaming term is so lame. It is so lame. Who cares?

So I think it doesn't kill. Killing everything. Well, you know what's so interesting though, I was sitting when I was on the airplane flying back from Newark. I was sitting next to his guy with his son and he's a high school, he's a middle school principal in Newark. And he's like, what do you do for a living? Which is always like the, I'm like, I wish I could just say like a dentist, a doctor, a gardener. I'm like, oh, sex, sex, I mean, sometimes, you know, I don't talk to people on planes either. I hate it. I get sick my one time. I can be like in a bubble and not. But he actually was really interesting. I tell him what I did.

He goes, oh, God, I mean, being a middle school principal, he was so interesting. He's like, because I remember when I was younger, it was all about the boys chasing the girls, but not the girls who are chasing the guys just as much. So in a way, I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing. I like that it's equal. I like that, but I don't want them to be having sex as a young age.

This is what makes me nervous. Yeah, definitely. He always hear about the kids like, you know. Yeah, all the team moms, stuff like that. Yeah, don't become a team mom. But it was interesting to think that women are now more like, oh, that's, you know, I'm going to go after the guy and I'm going to ask this. They always should be equal, but I just think that 12 years old is you two young to be

engaging. And he says that they are catching him, doing sex and drugs and it's clear time. So yeah, that's all equal. That's old news. Question. I don't know if we talked about this last time I was here or not, but do you see the guy with the like 19 inch penis? No. The guy is a year. No, but here, see the guy with the like 19 inch penis? No.

The guy is here? No, but here, I'm gonna have to pull it up for you. But so there's this guy in Mexico who has a 19 inch penis. Well, supposedly they have a little bit. Is it real or did he get a like, manufacturing? Well, he says that apparently he's been, so he lives in Mexico, but he was actually living, I think he was in jail in Michigan because he like came into the country.

And all crazy stuff goes out in Michigan, yeah. And they used to call him in prison, they would call him Anaconda, and the guards would mess with him and all that kind of stuff. But anyways, he's back in Mexico and now he's been in Mexico and now, like he's been on the news and stuff like that. And like, but he says that it ruins,

it ruins his life and then he's like, you know, you can't win him all, you have every guy in the planet when he's in there penis was larger. I know, but what it is like. I don't even show it to me right now, okay. Yeah, but who you sleeping with Right, we're 19 inch penis. It's over two pounds and do you think it's real? It's certified It's not like he's doing it for some well TMZ has gone there and like

And we get all of our news from TMZ so yeah, and then Vivid says that they they would help him with the getting a penis reduction probably should just like women get a breast reduction I mean, he was interesting in all these years of thousands of thousands of emails we received? We received more emails about like how to do with a large penis than we have how to do with a small penis. Are you serious? Yeah, that's the way to.

That's guys just trying to get at you. No, they're trying to get at me. I mean, a lot of guys do send you their penis measurements. Like they'll be like, oh dear Emily, like I have a question about my penis. It's 4.5 inches circumference and like, they give us their penis measurements. Like they will be like, oh dear Emily, like I have a question about my penis. It's 4.5 inches circumference and like they give us their penis stats and I'm like, right.

Are they giving us context for an email question or they're just like in general? Sometimes it's just their stats and then other times it's like, is this big enough? Like they know it's big enough but they're still like, is this big enough Emily? Like do you think that I should be concerned about my penis? And they like give you the exact measurements, shape, like texture. That's so funny. I'm not good at this. No, you should not be concerned about your penis.

You could be concerned about being a better human in the world. If you're spending more time worrying about your penis and you are about other things on the planet, you've got to pop. The iPhone 6 is like the average size right now, with penis. It's really helpful.

iPhone 5. I don't know. It was the 5? Oh, wait. No, I think it was the regular six, but not the six bucks. Yeah, the six bucks. We're going to freak out a lot of people.

So you're filtering? Not maybe specific. You're filtering all the peanuts in my house. Feedback? Yes, yes, yes. That is my job. Well, it's running. Her job, she's the penis filter.

Sometimes I speak out them and send them to interns. No, she's scared them. She's the medicine that the dog wishes the penis filter. So my question is, though, has that ever to intern, and she scares me. She's the medicine that the dog wishes a penis filter. So, among other things, yeah? My question is though, has that ever worked at like, securing a woman by sending them a dick pick, you know? I would like to know that too. I don't think that's ever happened in the history of trying to court a woman that you

just sent her. A prematurely sent dick pick, wouldn't it, or, yeah, I mean, prosper. We do a segment on the morning show that I'm part of and it's called the Craigslux Craigslist Freak of the Week okay the Woody show just in case the Woody show listeners what do you show they listen to the show and then they blow me up oh you don't talk you don't show I'm fine with anyways so do Craigslist Freak of the Week and then so we go through and we look for the freakyest ads on Craigslist right and but most of them are just like dick pick after dick pick after dick pick like how are you trying to get a woman while you're just that's all you show is dick pics?

I mean because there's God it's got to be looking for some does it work? I mean what it worked for you. It would not work for me it would not work for anyone. I know. But somewhere there has to be some success rate to cause this. Otherwise, why would this be a widespread thing? I think that it's a, we're not the audience for it, but I definitely think that there, it has to exist for a reason, and that there are women who would be or men who know, would be turned on by like the penis size. Just imagine one day you're telling your mom's like, how are your kids like, mommy, how did you and daddy meet? Well, he sent me an unsolicited picture of his penis. Yeah, sick pic. And it was love at first. Dick love at first.

Exactly. Alright, so I can't get a good photo because I don't have a good end right here. This is the Mexican guy from Mexico. The guy from Mexico that has. Wow. He's just standing there with it all hanging out? Yeah, so if you're... Well, he has like a cover over it.

But if you... It's all blurred out. It's all blurred out because I can't pull up a good pick right now. That's... Well, no, they have like x-rays of it and stuff. And he's like hitting himself in the face with it. Honestly, I think that actually would be... That would impede your life completely.

Yeah, he says they're really... That's a third leg. I think that would impede your life completely. Yeah, he says it really. That's a third leg. I think that would scare Anaconda's to be honest. Exactly. Anaconda would run from them. No, totally. So, anyways, my question is, the guy pulls out a 19-inch penis. I, yeah. I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I mean, I do. That is dangerous, I think. No, I mean, I would, you can't get blood, you'd be like just a tip in my, literally just a tip. You can get the whole thing in your mouth.

No, I don't think, I just don't, yeah, I'm off board with dick pics too. I'm off board, but you know me, I'm off board with sending any naked pics, even both ways. My breasts are my, any parts to a man and vice versa. I would have to be on a, like, I could remember. All over. my, any parts to a man and vice versa. I would be happy to be on that. I would be like, I could remember.

Yeah, I never do that. But do you do that in your relationship? Not your dick pics, but does she send you like sexy, because then my friend, so my friend that the day was saying to me, she's like, you know, I really think that you need to send him this guy

of a dating, you've never sent him just like a sexy pic. Like it doesn't even have to be like, you don't have to be naked, but just like you like sitting at home, like just sexy pic. Like it doesn't even have to be like, you don't even make it, but just like you like like sitting at home, like just your legs are like, no, like I don't have time to sit and pose and do this. I just think you should because guys are really visual

and he really appreciate that. So then she always feeling like, God, add that to the list, God take sexy pic, oh. But I think you get to a certain age where you just don't do that, you know? I know when I was in my earlier 20s, like yeah, girls want to be sexing these any photos and stuff do that. You know, I know when I was in my earlier 20s, like, yeah, girls want to be sexing these new photos. That's a thing. I'm like, I'm in my 30s now and I just,

I just don't, you know, I'm rather to see you in person. That's a life deal. I'm not getting off by some photos. I know. I just think that it's so funny talking to people about their different opinions about sex and date. So it's so different. That's why like some women, like we said, will be on the umkaya with less up in for decks. Not myself. I think I'm like the most unthircious guy ever. I don't know why. No, just like, I just don't get off on that kind of stuff, you know? porn. They have just like, I know you never know. But here's my question. When you were like early 20s, high school, how often did you think about sex?

When you were like early 20s high school, how often did you think about sex? Definitely a lot, but I wasn't I didn't have like any weird things where I would We obsessed with sex like your mind all day long. Yeah, where I was like looking up porn or But just thinking about women. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, all, right? And then college too? Yeah, it was just so... But then it takes a dive a little bit. Yeah, I guess. I don't know. I guess I'm just not a normal one of the normal guys.

No, you are normal. I'm saying in your 20s, and then it changes. Yeah, yeah. Okay. So, people, another section of the news stories, and the other one is whatever. We're all just saying that women want sex as much as you guys do, and it could just be, you know, in case by case basis too, in do and it could just be you know And it's case by case basis too and relationships and I'm you know match pedals whatever it is talk about it It changes over time. I think I think maybe I had to because I hate I hate perverts like guys are just like

Constantly just cracking sex jokes. Who loves perverts. I don't know He must have to do it like perverts. That's true, but people have such things. I think it just like creeps me out. I think it creeps me out. Like, yeah. You're like a good man. Yeah, I guess so. But just like guys are like, oh, look at that girl's like a turntant. You're never.

You actually have never been condescending towards women in that way, which I appreciate. I mean, you don't, like, you're not nice to everyone. Like women, like, you used to scare all my interns and they were so afraid of you. Well, you said I had having good ones until Madison. No, when that Madison's runnin' shit, but yeah, you're right, and Samford's just gonna be like, she's just so dumb. I'm like, I just can't talk to her, they're dumb,

and then they get mad. Because what happens is, I would have my, because we've always, when we do a radio show, I'd always have my own radio show too, separately, that's music, nothing sexy or hot, that anything you guys would want to check out. But when I do that I'd always have my own radio show, too, separately. That's music, nothing sexy or hot, that anything you guys would want to check out. But when I would do that, I would have my own set of interns and people, and they were so confident.

And they were so confident. And they were so confident. And then I would come over and hang out with you. And like 90% of them, I just wanted to have somebody punch them in the face. I know. I think I was just, I was, you know, in the face. And then you would say, Oh, you're so mean.

Bo, bo, bo, and then a couple of months later, Oh, then as you're so right. Oh, my God. Yeah, I know. It's funny. Okay, let me do a quick, we're going to get into some emails in a second,

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And thank you for including your, how, where you're from, how old you are, how you listen, we appreciate it. Dear Emily, I need help. Well, it's more my partner than anything who needs help. For the whole three years you've been together, I hate to say it, but the sex sucks. Sex will maybe last a matter of seconds and it usually involves the jackhammer. I've not only, I've not once felt pressured by my, I've not once felt pressured by my partner and I've tried to spice things up with dildos and blindfolds,

but he is too eager to come. I don't know whether he was like this before we were together. He says he wasn't, but how do I nip this in the butt before it goes any longer? Many blessings unsatisfied. Oh, no. The jackhammer, I know, right? Okay, you're unsatisfied. I feel your pain, that's frustrating. I feel like the jackhammer, like that The jackhammer. I know, right? You're on satisfied. I feel your pain.

That's frustrating. I feel like the jackhammer, that's another thing. I feel like I've talked about it so much. I feel like this is the show, guys. Just don't knock to the jackhammer. And you don't say how old you are. And it sounds like three years they've been together. And the sex sucks.

And he's only lasting a few seconds. So let's see. I've tried to spice things up with the, he's two year to come. He's got a premature ejaculation issue that he's got to work on. Yeah, some guys just get really excited and just want to do it and don't even try to. Such a younger guy too. That's why I think that they've all really benefited from this. So I appreciate the effort you're going to take into of your own sex life and but blindfolds

and dildos are not going to work. So do you not have an orgasm? I hope you do. It sounds like you might. Yeah, hopefully he gets there quickly and then still wants to take care of you. She comes first, right? That would be his motto. Like, he wants you to have an orgasm first, okay?

So if he comes really quickly and he's not in dealing with that and I've done plenty of shows, go to my website, Google, premature, ejaculation, PE, you'll find out how he should deal with it. But the truth is, he should be concerned with you, but you should also be showing him how you need to be pleased. So he could perform it all sex, using his hands, using his mouth, fingers, whatever it is. And if you really want to feel satisfied, you know, again, early ejaculators, they got to ensure that you're getting the pleasure and warm you up.

So it's been three years. I didn't even know how you've been putting up this for three years. I know Emily wouldn't. She wouldn't even put it up for three days. I did, though, but that's, I think, one of the reasons why I was saying, I had a boyfriend for three years. I don't know if I've talked about this in a long time,

but he was a premature-jackulator. And I really loved him, and it was a great, really, you know, in my 20s. And, but I just, it wasn't sex, wasn't as important. I still, you know, in my 20s and um, but I just, it wasn't sex wasn't as important I still, you know, he was great at oral sex and other things, but it was like we never had sex longer than two minutes. Wow. Yeah, two and a few years maybe together. And, and I realized that like he kept saying like, oh, I'm going to do my

Calc, Calc, Lector sizes. I bought this book. I'm gonna, I'm gonna do at least, but you gotta keep up with it. What's that thing you've been talking about? Promessant. Promessant is the only approved treatment for premature ejaculation. You can check that out, check my website. Maybe she needs to. And promising, where says this? Typical spray.

You don't need to take a pill, because right now, this spray does, we are, spray does me a wait 10 minutes, doesn't transfer to you. You wouldn't know a little. It's a slightly, slightly sensation that delays ejaculation. You were like, oh, I got this new lubricating. And the guys are dumb.

They wouldn't even know. It's kind of tingly. Yeah. But it's totally safe. It's totally safe. That'll be fine. But you guys got to slow things down during sex too. And just telling that the jackhammer's a no fly zone, no go zone.

Definitely. OK. Safe oral sex. Emily, my name is Marquis. I'm 22 and from Georgia and I listen to the podcast all the time to have the knowledge to please my next and or all female partners. Great. I've heard you talk about going down a woman and learned a lot and was wondering what are ways to please a woman without knowing if she is STD free and safety precautions that must

be taken before going down. I love learning sex tips from the podcast. I haven't gone down on a one before because I was too scared with past relationships, but now my pleasantly, pleasing mentality made me decide it is a must now. I love that. Okay, Marquis, I love that I've encouraged you. We've encouraged you in the show to go down. It's a great question. I love that you're ready to explore all sex. And it's great that he's going into it with knowledge of listening to the show and knowing how to actually do it.

So people forget they do that you can be exposed to SCI's during oral sex as well. And a lot of us don't think about that. We just think about safe sex during intercourse. So there are other ways you can please or you can use your fingers, you can use a vibrator with a condom, a vibrator on your penis to use a condom when you have sex,

but with oral sex, if you're engaging in casual sex, you can use a dental dam. I mean, a lot of people don't use them, but they are available for sale, and it's like a condom, basically, you could make one out of a condom where you cut the tip off a condom, and you cut it down the long side vertically,

and then you open it, and it's like, people use saran wrap and stuff like that. A dental dam is a lot safer and you put it on her and I got to be honest that is the only safe way you could have oral sex therapy. You're covering up but okay I can only speak for my own vaginal pleasure but I actually like when there's like a material over my set like like where someone robs you from my underwear they rub me like with my finger like it can feel really good and it's just a little piece of latex or however you I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, you know, I'm like, a long-term sexual relationship, my best advice is to get tested together. Fun.

I think Dental Dams actually hears a thing. I know that everyone's like, but it actually feels good is what I'm saying. I've had someone use it because I was like testing it and it feels good. Where can we find a dental dam? You could buy them anywhere. Good vibrations, hustler, Hollywood.

You can make your own kind of, yeah. Do you remember this man in a few years ago was on the doctor's television show? Yeah, yeah. And I was on a few times, but they said, we want you to come on, we're not sure what you're talking about yet. And then they sent me all this stuff I went to wear, like dressed like you were in a church.

And then the email me and said, oh, we'd like you to talk about dental dams and how to make a person a dental dam on your own. So I had to show how you clip the top of a condom, and they hooked down the middle. And so I was like, I don't know how proud of your mom. I'm just gonna say, I was like, mom, I'm gonna be on the doctors,

but I'm trying more to dental. And first of all, you should see the audience, like they panned the audience, people are sort of, cause it's not really what you're tuning in for it. It's not that sexy, but if we're gonna talk about safe sex and not getting herpes and not getting other sex,

you just, you just, you just, you just, I'm like really, I can talk about so many other things on the show. Yeah, a dental dam. And I had to practice, there was like 10 condoms in my in the greed room, where I'm like practicing my cut and how I'm gonna show how to make the devil dam. You can find this clip online.

Sweet. Do we have it on our YouTube channel? I know. I'm sure we can get it on there though. Yeah, I didn't find it, because we had to find it for your workshop. Oh, that's right. Yeah. My last house, the Hollywood workshop, I didn't find it because we had to find it for your workshop. Oh, that's right. Yeah.

My last house or Hollywood workshop I showed it because it was all about. What was it about, anal sex? Um, no, it was...back to our basics. That was about... No, but what's one of we show the dental damper? There, I don't know. Oh, I think it was the anal sex one. That sounds weird.

Right. Dude, I had a killer anal sex workshop but I was really, I have to say it was really, I was nervous about it. Cause it's just a big, it's such a charged loaded subject to like teach and to talk about, but it was actually amazing. And it was, there was a lot of people there and they're listening to it and they learned a lot.

I learned it was great. They loved it. I love that. I know, but women too, it was like man, women couple, that's the thing with these workshops. I understand, but that's like the guys number one like goal a lot of that a lot of that many many men yeah

I would say only 99% I don't know if that's true All right 98 I think it's because but have you but like did you think about that in high school? Or do you think it's since porn and all that? In high school getting all the questions about like coming on the face like I think like in high school. Getting all the questions about coming on the face. I think like, a couple years after high school, then guys started really talking about it, because after that, they've already started having sex for a while, you know?

My, yeah, my boyfriend had anal sex for the first time in high school. He was like 15 at the time, and it literally his girlfriend was like, I'm on my period, so we can just do that. And I have that hanging over my head every time he's like, well, I've done it before, and it's like, she was 15, she didn't know any better. Yeah, exactly. But how does a 15 year old girl just be like, I don't know, I can't even do that.

And so I think what I'm saying is for her. No, but I think also, I mean, that as soon as definitely younger than I am. And then so the internet has been around a lot longer. You don't have the interweb. No, no. I mean, when I had the internet, it was like, A. Well, dial up is the one that I was,

that's when I was in high school, you know? I didn't have it in my school. No internet. How did you live? Oh, I'm college. Oh, my goodness. Hey, we talk about it. I had to be really smart and go to the library.

Yeah. Yeah. Okay. We have time for one more. Yeah. Okay. Did people go to the library. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. We have time for one more. Yeah. Okay. Do people go to the library? No.

Hey, I know the Dewey Decimal System. Do you know the Dewey Decimal System? Yeah. I don't even know what that is. I worked in a library when I was in the middle of the show. You were just cool. Yeah. I loved her.

She worked in a library. My mom was a librarian too. Yeah. Dewey Decimal System. It's how you find books in the library. Oh. Yeah. I didn't know the name of it though. Right. Dewey Desmos system. It's how you find books in the library. Oh, okay. Oh yeah, yeah. I mean, I didn't know the name of it though. Right. Dewey Desmos. Okay. But now we're just gonna switch from Dewey Desmos system, which is super hot.

It's still hot. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Is that you cool with that? Hey Emily, I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and during that time, I've never given him a blowjob. And he's so with you. This awesome. It's something that I've never really been into, but recently I've had a change of heart. Now when I discuss this with him, he says he doesn't need one and that I won't know what I'm doing, which makes me feel like shit. I blame you. I know his ex used to give them all the time and he loved it. So how

do I go about doing the deed? Not the most confident person. Thanks. D. Wow. This is the problem. Before she's even given a blowjob, there's so much, so many issues and so much drama surrounding it already. So, this sounds like really harsh to your boyfriend, but he knows you don't like it, and he knows about the past girlfriend. See, this is like what Madison just said about your ex knowing about the 15 year old.

People show the way too much past information. Yeah, no, why did you, why did you boyfriend even show that with you? She could do this stuff. I don't know. I didn't share that. Absolutely nothing with my do this stuff. Right, yeah. I did share that. Absolutely nothing with my girlfriend. She would think that I'm her first,

I mean, she's my first girlfriend. Yeah, I don't want to do exactly. Right, I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do that. I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything.

I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything. I don't want to do anything. I don, oh, that time you were with that stripper in Vegas. I know. I know.

And she was wearing a sparkly blue outfit. Like, I can remember every freaking detail, but I can't define my freaking password. I haven't set this for years on the show, but women have hard drives in their brain, and they will pull up that information. Absolutely. Whenever they want.

Do do do do do do do do do do. Totally. It's true. And then it could be like some fleeting thing that you said three years Oh, yeah, we are it might even not even be relevant to your conversation But they will pull that up and throw it in your face. It's pretty amazing But I think I have no memory. I'm like I remember like every kind of thing he's ever done

That was sort of I know and that's what you shouldn't talk about it. Yeah, and same thing like let's even SDD dating Microfriend like I like I'm her very first boyfriend, you know, like I don't You really oh you're buying you yeah in my mind. I don't even think about it Right because none of it doesn't matter stuff It only matters if you have an STD and that's not even your past. It's like oh, I have had sex with one other person who gave me an STD. Yeah, and then that's in the story. I just eventually had it exactly Okay, so this time this does sound harsh and you can, here's a thing, you can surprise your boyfriend

and start doing it and just forget all the voices in your head that you're not good at it. Just start doing it. It's like anything. I mean, people have so much anxiety around like having entered a course for the first time or blowdives, but really, there's just a few things you have to remember. You wanna make sure that it's wet enough.

So, you know, it's pressure, it's wet, you know, tape you can't, you know, you get saliva in your mouth like take a drink of water, you know, do stuff like that, like make sure that it's wet. Use your tongue, make sure that you use your tongue and you lick it, it is a great weapon. Your tongue and your hands are great for blow jobs, because a lot of women are like, oh, I'm so exhausted, just, you know, use your tongue in your hands are great for blow jobs because a lot of women are like, I'm so exhausted, just use your tongue and your hands. You got three things going on there, right? What is it? Hands, tongue, that's three.

And your mouth, that's four. That's four things helping you. You could use your feet. So if you want, but I wouldn't start with your feet. Grip it. You got to make sure that you don't have to swell as penis and go all the way down to give a great blow job, but you do up pressure. Would you say men is having a penis

that pressure is important? Yes, definitely. That's the point. So you use your hand going up and down the grip, and no one needs much orgasm. I mean, he should tell you, play with the balls. You gotta find out. You've been with him for three, two years.

So I would just start like licking it. You want to put your mouth around it. You want to start playing with your tongue and then ask them to give you feedback. Don't, and don't, and get these negative voice on your head side your head like place the music set an atmosphere that makes you feel really good And feel really sexy because now that it's been two years I feel like you've built up a whole thing around it And we have tons of I don't even want to get to it because we have like so much information on our website about how to give a blowjob

We've done so many workshop. I mean so many podcasts and I mean, so many podcasts and articles. So literally, Google, like, blowjob on my website. There's probably 15 articles blogs post on it. So, I just think it's really, it's not even, I don't even do, like I was gonna break down all the tips here, but really it's about you, being with this guy, you obviously love and having the confidence just to do it.

And you guys have fun with it. He knows you haven't done it. And it's you two are creating this blowjob thing together. He's gonna be psyched you're doing it, you're gonna do it, ask for feedback, it's gonna be a good time, and it's like ribbon-and-banded off, just start doing it, you get better every time.

And if he doesn't wanna teach you or be a part of that process, he doesn't deserve a blowjob. Exactly. Or so. Why is he saying he doesn't want to, maybe he doesn't wanna deal with it, he doesn't need one?

Yeah, I think it's like passive aggressive. Yeah, I think it's like, oh, like don't even worry about it. Like I don't need it. I'm past the point of needing it. Like, okay, he's not going to turn it down if he looks around his penis. Exactly. I think that this could be, you know what, and fuck him. Exactly. This could be great. That it makes sense.

You get over your fear of it. Maybe you're just using his penis to get over his fear and become like a blowjob master. All right. That's what we got time for. All right. Okay, I just want to say that you two men, I love you, and I'm glad that you're here in my life in Los Angeles and in the show for 10 years. I know.

I appreciate you having me. Thank you, Madison, for everything, awesome show, producer, Madison, and follow me. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, it's all at sexathemly, Facebook.com, so that's sexathemly. And we have to do a Snapchat, which is also, definitely. I'm telling you, it's so much easier and it'd be cool to see like behind the scenes

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Okay, I love you all. Thanks so much for listening. Was it good for you? Email me, feedback at sexwithemlee.com. Okay, everyone, fleshlight. It is the number one sex type for men. A flesh, let the sea flesh slide. It's so funny, Madison, because Madison's here.

She's had a lot of experience with the fleshlight with her boyfriend, and I was talking to my guy about, he's like, well, I don't know what a scene I'm like, is I'm so excited. So funny magic, because magic's here. She's had a lot of experience with the flashlight with her boyfriend, and I was talking to my guy about, he's like, well, I don't know what to say to him, like, is she trying to, oh my God, magic's not just be like, he's equal to she used it, because I was trying to use it, and he's like, well, I'm like, I'm gonna send her, she's hands it to him,

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but the truth is I had tried massage candles before, and they were like, okay, I love the concept of a massage candle. I love the fact that a regular candle, you can pour it on your partner and give a massage. That's all great. But the other ones that existed, I just felt kind of like sticky

and didn't make you feel good and didn't smell good. And so I made these candles that are like vegan, except for the beeswax part, but they're coconut oil and soybean oil. They smell amazing and they feel amazing. And the feedback from my listeners have been great, like people, because I have been because people could change their life. And I got a listener who just emailed me and said, my girlfriend was skeptical at first, but it great to try the warm oil on me first and gave me a back rub,

then I was supercated and we had amazing sex. She can not stop talking about how good the candle smells and how great the massage oil feels, and I'm convinced that the scent and the candle helped us through some of our barriers to sex be facelely. Yeah, and in general, it's just a great candle anyways. Here's the thing, you don't have to give me a massage every night, I like,

I like to run a room with air. So now you can get a full size Emily Toady candle for $28. We just, we're having a special night right now on the side. For the Emily Toady. And I think you just could Emily still, and you get percentage off. Thanks for listening.