Sex With Emily - Sexy, Nude and Not Sorry with Moxi Cox

Episode Date: September 19, 2015

On today’s show, Emily welcomes Suicide Girl and unapologetic sex-enthusiast Moxi Cox to talk everything from sex toys to nontraditional relationships to new levels of kink!  Moxi is a blogger, sex educator, radio personality and psychology student, not to mention a model for the popular Suicide Girls site. From sexually conservative beginnings to the world of nude modeling, Moxi chronicles her journey to sexual discovery, opens up about her favorite sex products and shares tips on what it takes to find success in an open relationship. She also helps Emily answer a listener email on getting your partner to turn up the kink. If you’re interested in taking your sex life from fluff to rough, these ladies have advice to help you get the hard-lovin’ you’re hankering for. This episode of Sex With Emily is your one-stop, fully stocked hour-long block of hot sex talk with Moxi Cox. From favorite sexual experiences to favorite porn picks, and even her favorite way to orgasm, this is a whole lotta show that you don’t want to be left out of! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey everyone, thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. We have an exciting guest on the show today. We have the multi-talented Moxie Cox in the studio. You may know her from her work with the suicide girls, but this sex-positive bombshell is also a blogger, a sex toy enthusiast, a sex educator, radio personality, and so much more. For her favorite sex toys, sex visions, and more, we're getting into it all today. Nothing will be held back. This is it, we're getting into it. This is the real sex talk here with Moxie and Menace. Hello.

How you doing? I've been wanting to do this, so I've known Moxie for years, and I've been wanting to do a show like this with her for a really long time. So I'm happy to be able to get to. I know you've been talking about her for abs. In the circle of trust.

This is the circle of trust. I got it. First you guys, I got to just talk about, because I know we're gonna talk about, because I love talking to other people who know about sex toys. You review them on your website, but first I gotta tell you all about a product that has changed my life.

And that's just because I give amazing orgasms, because a lot of great sex toys do this. But have you heard of the intensity it's bipolar and it's actually a it's sort of as a medical device basically. It looks like a rabbit vibrator, but what it does is it does your kegel exercises for you with electrosimulation because a lot you know important it is to work your pelvic floor right, Moxie. So, you know, I always talk about the benefits. I'm like, do it a traffic light. Like, get down on my iPhone, have kegel camp,

it'll remind you, but we're like, oh yeah, you're reminding me, and then I got a phone call. You sit on your bed, you do it five times a week, you insert it, and it like, measures to the side of whatever your pelvic floor is, you can like adjust it. And then, you spend five to six minutes, and your pelvic floor muscles will become so strong, which we now have stronger orgasms, urinary condens, all this stuff. Plus, it's a rapid vibrator.

So after that, you do your five minutes a day, and then you have a little orgasm or a big friggin orgasm. It's the coolest machine. I believe that it's a medical device, meat sex toy, and medical might make you all sound so scary there. It's a doctor-abended it because so many women have problems with this. Yeah, that's the root of sex toys, isn't it, is in the medical industry, that's the reason sex toys were invented in the first place.

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Follow us on Facebook Twitter and Instagram all that good stuff because we do a lot of goddamn podcasts and a lot of good things You can a better sex. I know how many podcasts are you up to? I'm thinking it's like I lost touch I lost count after like 2000 It must be like, but how many are you putting out a month? Oh, I put out two weeks. So eight a month But how about you putting out a month? Oh, I put out two weeks, so eight a month? Awesome. Yeah, I ran into a sex with them and the listener just recently and he listens to all of them. I love that. And he loves that you always have fresh content because a lot of people that podcast, they may be only put one out a month or something like that.

Yeah, you got to weigh in everything. We, and you know what the thing about? You're just pumping them out every day. I've never stopped. I've missed it. And I owe this to you, minus a lot of it is that, so when I started, Maxie, I was just doing a podcast, you know, in my living room, just as a hobby, 10 years ago. And then I, like, which never happens,

I got a live radio show on CBS Radio, or Menace was just a little person there, little little little man. I helped her to understand the fundamentals of radio. He was in the board, and he was sleeping at the radio station at the time. But we started out that way, which is pretty awesome. I mean, I made sure we kept our license because-

Yeah, I almost lost it because you can't store the radio, apparently. You can't say masturbation. But the best thing is even when the station went out of business, I didn't have a live show. I was like, I got to keep doing it. And menace thickens it thin. We've always like every week turned out

at least one or two podcasts. Even when you guys were you were in LA and menace was like, yeah, we were doing it. With my little crappy device, we'd be like, putting it, like we tried. And that's what we were like. Yeah, we were doing it with my little crappy device. We'd be like, we tried. And then we would care for me, but he won't admit it. Yeah, when she was in Los Angeles, I was in San Francisco. I'm like, all right, how can we still do the radio show

together? So what we would do, we would hit record in LA on a system algorithm. We'd sing in a closet, because that sound in my hand. And I would have hit record in San Francisco. And then we would talk to each other over a cell phone with earbuds, and then I would match up the audio

where it sounded like we're in the studio together. That's a cheap way of doing it before. The real way of a fancy studio. Thousands of dollars. Yeah, but it was good. We've always been saying is we've always kept the band together. Yeah, but in the listeners, I've always been super loyal, so that's cool.

So they keep people for download. They have, thank you. But this is all you. This is your show I'm just here when you're Many, but I also want to say that I just want to thank everyone too because this last month It's been crazy. We've had so many even more listeners and downloads and we've been hearing from just people across the board Maybe it's because you've been talking about a lot of this and now we've got moxian. I know I know it's gonna change the whole That like the whole thing going to go freaking crazy.

You had to pull me down from San Francisco too. I know. When did you get here from San Francisco? I've been here just a year and a half. I was in LA, and then I moved to San Francisco for a year, and then I came back to LA. Why did you leave San Francisco? You called not enough people.

I'm not enough people. Too cold, not enough cool people. Yeah. I know. I'm cute people. Oh, and cute. Yeah. Not enough guy.

I didn't know that time moved here. Everyone's like everyone. They're all ugly, which is such a bad thing. They say a cuz I don't think that's true, but people make those jokes I mean if you're a seven you can go to you can go to San Francisco and be a ten But now we said joke my friends like seven think they're tens. I'm like no, it's true I'm not really a ten people have like crappy attitudes. It's true. I agree 100 percent We're all here now So we're all together in one room. I know I love it

San Francisco is a beautiful city. The only thing that makes it crappy is a lot of people inside of it. And it's a lot of people that are not actually yours. Whoa, lettuce. Yeah. No, no, it's from anywhere. Oh, I was born and raised in there.

Well, you're like, you're only. I know, but I'm just saying, and I think that's what also gives L.A. a bad rap too, is a lot of people that come from, you know, some random town where they were like, a nurse or something. Yeah, I really come here and then they reinvent themselves and become a complete douche and give a city a bad name.

And I think that's what happens in San Francisco a lot too. Yeah, it happens everywhere. But you can still find cool people. You can't find cool people. I'm starting to mean it's been three years I've been here now, can you believe? But I feel like I- How many people have you slept with since you've been here? Oh geez. How much? You know not as many as you'd think. Yeah. Do I really

think of the question? I don't answer questions like that. I feel like I went through a huge dry spell and I moved to San Francisco. There was a period of time where I was like I don't have a regular fuck buddy. I haven't slept with anyone in two months which is a huge deal for me. Yeah. And then I moved back to Los Angeles and was like, bam, bam, thank you, man. Right back on track. How do you mean, what? What was it guys being, because they're, they're pushes, it's not Cisco, right?

They're not aggressive at all. I don't know what it was. We used to say that, like check your balls of the bone gate. Yeah, exactly. A lot of mommy issues in San Francisco, a lot of negative reactions to any, like, female being aggressive or or sexual one anyway.

And I used to do a lot of online dating tinder to meet guys and girls. And there was some bad experiences. So when you got here, when you moved to LA, did you find that it was just... Yeah, I mean I was again still using online dating. And also I had lived of like, I mean, I had lived in LA for six years before I moved to San Francisco, so I had already like, cultivated, yeah.

I was back and I was back with renewed energy. And I'm ready to go. I remember when you moved to San Francisco, I'm like, why are you moving here? Because it just seemed like it wouldn't be your scene. It wasn't a jam. She had to check it out. People like Dealy San Francisco, for just going to the thing.

And I love it. It's still in my heart. It was there for 20 years. But it's a beautiful city. I find interesting people. You're not as caught up in the looks and the glamour and celebrity. It's not about that.

It's about who you are as a person. No one cares where Cargidrive. I mean, of course some people do. Where you go. But not my people. But I do think that LA has just been. I've met so many interesting people, it's been a good change, I think,

and I think they're more laid back here. And I'm just gonna be wrong, like, you know, my contract doesn't get renewed, I'm back in, I'm not going back. Who knows, that will never happen. I grew up in the Bay Area, so yeah, so my childhood was all there, and I think in moving back to San Francisco,

I was kinda like, oh, I'll be closer to my family, and it'll be good, and I just never found my people there, and I was like, I need to get back to San Francisco I was kinda like, oh, I'll be closer to my family and it'll be good. And I just never found my people there. And I was like, I need to get back to them. Yeah, it takes a while to find your people everywhere, but San Francisco people often say it's very clicky and it's harder, so I'm glad you're here. Yeah, I thought the kinksing was gonna be super amazing

in San Francisco because of kink.com and the armory and I did a lot of events with them, but I still was not ever plugged in the way that I was in Los Angeles. Right. And so you're really okay. So just to give you some more background, I'm Moxie.

You're, I've got just, you're the nude model sex toy expert psychology student, sex positive activists. California native, you love listening to music, producing used bookstores when you're not getting naked. Yeah. I had a experience recently. I just started school again. And so I walked into one of my psychology classes

on the first day, and my professor looks at me and he goes, you look vaguely familiar. And I was like, and I know of course it's like, I've been naked on the internet for a decade. So at some point, I'm sure he's running to me, but I'm just like, oh, did you teach at Cal State? Oh, and he's like, no, no, just looking at me with that look and I was like, I can't sit down.

He's like, did he ever figure it out? I don't know if he has, I don't know. Oh my god, that's so funny. I'm sure. Because you're like, yeah, do people come to you all the time and say you look familiar? Sometimes, I mean, I was in New York recently and I walked into a coffee shop

and some guy came running and after me and he was like, oh, you, you, I forget your name, but I follow you on Instagram. And I was like, you're obviously, you're, you're moxiecox. Yeah, moxiecox.com is my blog and that's why I write about sex toy reviews and other things sexually related. But I mean, I've been moxie suicide. I became a suicide girl in 2008. So that's been a while now. Yeah, let's talk about Suicide Girls.

Everybody knows what Suicide Girls are. So can you give us a little break? I think of Suicide Girls as kind of like the alternative playboy was the original kind of thing of it. So it's girls that are, you know, confident and maybe alternative looking, getting naked and kind of coming together and holding the banner of this like alternative lifestyle type thing. And it's been really cool. I've met all of my closest friends through Suicide Girls. There's a great community. It's a web community based around the models of Suicide Girls.

And there's so many different types of people that have come together through obviously wanting to look at naked girls, which we all like to do, that all these different groups have formed, like people that are interested in technology or people that are interested in certain types of music and all these things. Yeah, they have a community board with all different types of subjects. Before the internet was what it was today,

when it was just kind of chat rooms, and there wasn't so many different outlets for meeting people online. Suicide Girls is there. Right. And you're like more alternative. Right.

You think of like tattoos, like dark eye liner, all that stuff. And do you have a lot of friends, a lot of your friends here? Suicide Girls too? Yeah, absolutely. There's over 100 Suicide Girls in Los Angeles. And so through doing events together and you kind of find that you have a common bond with these women that you meet that also like to get naked. And how did you get into it? Have you always been more alternative and then you were like, oh, you know,

at one point I was in a study of rod programming and I was living in London and I was super, super broke. And I answered an ad for art class looking for someone to come pose in front of the class naked. And I was like, and they were going to pay cash. And I was like, and they were gonna pay cash. So I was like, okay, I could do this. So I'd go and I'd show up and I'd like, D-Rome and I'd stand in front of the class. And I was like, I left. And I was like, wow, that was really easy.

And that was pretty awesome. And I feel pretty good. So then I started just to look for more jobs where I could just be getting paid to be naked, which I would just, I like being naked anyways. And I was surprised at how easy it was for me to just be naked in public. We were hot too, right? But also we had to not be nervous, not be so proud of you.

Yeah, that's a rare. And then after that I moved to New York and I did more of that but for photographers. And then when I moved to Los Angeles, suicide girls had just teamed up with PETA, the animal rights group. And they had these giant bee billboards, all down Sunset Boulevard that said, Inc, not Mink, and I was all these hot girls and tattoos, like basically naked just saying that they were against animal cruelty.

And it was a suicide girls. So that's, that's the first thing. Then you were like, I'm in, that's my people. Yeah, exactly. So I have a question, so I know a courting to your blogs, we read all about you. You're raising a Christian household that's all sex as a marriage only situation.

Absolutely. Which a lot of people I think can relate to growing up in a very religious home where sex is just for procreation. And a lot of people get stuck in that. And even if they decide to get, they can't get out of those feelings of sexes. I'm doing something wrong in chain fall. So I'm wondering how you were able to break through that.

Yeah. I actually was super, super involved in my church as a young adult and as a high schooler to the point where I went to a Christian college, the Bible Institute of Los Angeles. Wow. Yes, the Biola. And when I was there, I saw, I really saw all these people kind of struggling with their sexuality and kind of like, you know, feeling like they were being sinful.

And even I did like, I felt guilty if I wore like a low cut shirt. And it was something that was good. Well, live a school. Yeah, really anti like my inner tendencies like myself. And so I did a study abroad program where I wound up going to London. And because I was away from everything and everyone that I knew and basically,

I mean, on a different continent, it allowed me to just kind of be introspective and figure out who I really was at my core. Right, and then you were naked and I was like, That's why I like to be naked. I have sexual feelings. I've been having sexual feelings. And so I was like, I felt bad for all of my peers

in Bible school who were told, can't have sex, sex is bad, no sex thoughts. And then the day that you're married, all of a sudden, never mind, it's good. Have lots of sex. You're supposed to be having sex with your husband. And to me, I was like, that doesn't make sense. How could they possibly be told?

No, no, no, no, no. OK, now it's OK. Go. Right. They do in your mind. Because like I don't even question sense. How could they possibly be told? No, no, no, no, no. Okay, now it's okay, go. Right. So in your mind, because like I'll don't even question it, because they grew up with it, and they're like, oh, well now I'm in Bible school. So did you?

Oh, sorry. I was gonna ask, so when you came back from this experience, and these started sharing it with people, like, what was the reaction? I think people were kind of surprised, but they were also, then they started asking me a lot of questions.

I'm sure. Like, I would get all these emails, or like were also, then they started asking me a lot of questions. I'm sure. Like I would get all these emails or like Facebook messages and be like, so you know, this, this, this, that. And I, it became common knowledge to me that it wasn't just me that everyone was struggling with this and it had so many friends that got married right out of graduating from Christian school who never even saw their significant other naked

before they got married. Yeah. And it's like naked before they were not made. Yeah. And it's like, it's just not healthy. And so I was like, there's a need to, for people to speak out, especially women that sex is healthy if you, you know, if you're doing it in a healthy way in a way that is good for you. Right. And masturbation is healthy because it's such like an anti-masturbation thing.

Well, I was going to ask you, when did you start masturbating? Yeah, because you have to like repress it for a while. I did. I'm in London. I'm naked in the night. Yeah, I was like 11, I remember kind of like grinding up with another girl, like a girl, a girlfriend, and we kind of experimenting that way, but we didn't know, at least I didn't know what I was doing that I was like wrong. And then when I was in college at Biola, I was kind of like, I don't think masturbation is bad. I still thought sex was bad. Like, okay, I have sex before I made it. But I'm like, I don't think it says anything wrong

about masturbation. Like, it feels really good. So I started using the handle of a hairbrush, right? Haircon. And it was that old Nokia phone. Do you guys remember that first Nokia phone that everyone had that you like, plates, make on, right, ever?

So you could like put it on the setting where you could choose how you wanted your phone to vibrate. So I would use that and the hairbrush and the... Very, you know that. Right. You're like the MacGyver. I would leave the MacGyver. It's the next choice.

I had to be. I had to be. I was thinking of maybe getting this bumper sticker that was like the hairbrush would like across. That was so many women. It was, it was, it was a vibrant, you made it a vibrant, that's so many women used to vibrating hairbrushes, vibrating toothbrushes. Oh, yeah.

But you're like, this doesn't vibrate, but I'm going to find something to make it, that will make it. She is a survivor. That's amazing. So then you had an orgasm using a vibrator. I did, yeah. And then you advanced to more. I did it.

Yeah. I didn't lose my virginity with a guy until I was 22. So it took a while and it was a lot of like, introspection and then finally being like, I'm okay with this and I want to do it and it's not wrong. But I had to get to that place and myself mentally before I could actually physically go through with it. Okay.

And then once I had sex, I was like, oh, the world hasn't turned to lava. It's not exciting. There's not all, you know, things aren't exploding. And I was like, this is actually a really amazing experience. And I'm glad that I waited this long to the point where I had mentally prepared myself. You were time to think about it. You were impressionant to it. You made a decision. I knew I already knew your body. Exactly. I knew my body was in the toothbrush. And then sex was amazing for me. And even my first time was amazing. Really? The juvenile guys

on the first time. I did. Oh, shit. And even my first time was amazing. Really? Did you even know that? I did. And I felt really, really blessed. So I knew that wasn't that experience. And in that regard, I'm glad that I had kind of had the opportunity to wait and to think about it before I had sex. Yeah, no, I didn't wait.

That is really good. So many people just get into it because they get pressure. They have to. Were you able to convert any of your friends into your? I did, you know. So one of these girls that I went to Biola with, we wound up moving together and together after I came back into a small apartment in Hollywood.

And we went on this like, sex toy binge, where we like bought all these sex toys like to experiment with. And you know, it was just kind of like, then it became this like breaking out of what we had known where we went almost like the opposite direction. That's people tend to do the pinching swings in the other direction. Exactly. And so I'm kind of glad that my childhood

was the way that it was. So now I have this passion about speaking to him and about masturbating and like being open with their sexual experience. Exactly. I mean, that's probably one of, I would say if I had to tackle my top three things, is really helping women because,

you said we can help the guys a lot too, but women, if you don't know your own bodies, it's not going to work out for you. Like you think that someone's just going to come in and figure it out. Now you were, you were already done your work and then you got to orgasm the first time. Yeah, which is great. And I so wear. It is so rare. And I think it goes to a lot, I tell people about working out your pelvic floor muscles.

And I'm like, just like you work out your bicep, like you need to work out your pelvic floor muscles and you can do that through masturbation and it's such a good way. So you do you work yours out regularly? I do. I use the K-Gol. The K-Gol balls? No I have K-Gol balls. There's a there's a product called K-Gol Oh and it has an iPhone app. I've seen those. Yep. It's really cool but there's I mean there's plenty of ways to make out your K-Gol muscles. Right that's good. No it's too it's really really important. So's I mean, there's plenty of ways to get your cake on muscle. Right. That's good. No, it's too. It's really, really important. So you said you also started working at a sex toy store. I did. Yeah. And so that was random. I quit a job right at the the brink of the 2008, like, whenever one got fucked.

Right. Yeah. It was really nice. I was like, Oh my gosh. But I had always shopped at this one store in Hollywood. Boulevard for lingerie. it Hustle or Hollywood? No, it was called bed behavior. Like bed, bed, yeah. And I always went in there to get lingerie and stuff for suicide girls' shoots. And I kind of knew the girls that worked there and they're like, oh, you could start working here, like try it out. And I was kind of like, eh, no. I started working there.

I loved it. I've never loved a job more. Tell me why. I really liked people coming in who are kind of like shy and it could be like an old grammar like a young girl and helping them find a really great sex way and then having them come back and be like that was awesome or like recommending Loub that changes people. I had this one gay gentleman who came in and he's like I like like the lube, every lube sucks. And I introduced him to some lube specifically made for anal sex. Like anal glider?

Yeah, analize, I think it was analizing me by pure. Anal pure, they make great stuff. They make great stuff. And he came back with a bracelet for me. He's like, you changed my life, thank you so much. A bracelet? A bracelet, he brought me a gift for recommending lube. Nice.

And it's like, people are so confused and you go, that's why I teach to talk about specific toys, because I only talk about things that I love and that I've tried, but it's like, it can be so overwhelming for people. They're like, I don't, I've never had an orgasm. I'm like, I'm gonna probably have plunked down a hundred bucks if it's not so great. So it's, you work in a store and you can really like,

tease it out of people like, well, how do you work as a man? And people should go in and ask. I think people go into sex shops and they never talk to the employees. But you should, because they are, you know, they have a wealth of information about the products they work with. I think that most people want to help you out. What was the first toy you tried besides the toothbrush and the guiver?

Yeah, it was a clitoral bullet. The packer rocket. It was called the Nubby Bullet. The Nubby Bullet? No, it was a good. Nubs are really good. It was such a weird name, but it was the Nubby Bullet. The Nubby Bullet. Nubby Bullet. Nubby Bullet. Nubby Bullet. Nubby Bullet.

It had like a, the speed control was a dial, which is still one of my favorite things when it's a dial, so you can kind of like, yeah, up and down. You don't have to fiddle with too many buttons. But that thing lost me forever, and now I just go through vibrator. What do you like, yes, so what's your favorite toy right now? Well, real quick, before you end the one, I'm sorry, when you're working at the Sex Toy Shop, what was the most popular item? So how many years ago was it? This was 2008, okay? So it then became the nubby bullet because I was such a huge fan

I hope they gave you commission on it was like yeah It was you know, and it was like I was it was makes it cuz I know people are gonna be emailing right It's like $10 toy don't buy it. I don't even know if it's so it's so it was it makes it cuz I know people are gonna be emailing right it's like $10. I don't even know if it's so It's it was cal exotic so it was probably don't buy it. There's other things out there I use them the Layla was smart one to know which I really like the little smart one. Yep. That's that's a good one I was so easy Ross later. Oh, that's like my old Dan's is amazing. Yeah, yeah It's it has a little job on it has a chart explain has a little turning thing on the end of it

And it's like because like this there's a there's an attachment called the golden spoon. Yes, everyone I I kill a lot of sex toys you do Yes, well you could use them a lot do you do photography with using toys inside? I don't um actually that's a lie I do I've shot a lot with strap-ons like wearing them or with dildildos, but I haven't shot with like a guy-rater. And I use bicextual. I wouldn't necessarily label myself bicextual, I say that I'm like sexually fluid or sexually open, but I do regularly sleep with both women and men. Okay, so you're not in a relationship? Are you in a relationship? I'm in a relationship. My boyfriend's sitting outside.

Oh, that's your fight. Yeah. We have a really cool relationship where he's a touring musician he actually leaves on tour tomorrow and so we can sleep with whoever we want when he's gone on tour And when he's here, I can still sleep with women. Okay, so he's here. You can say and when he's gone men are Yeah, and now I have a question. Do you guys talk is it don't ask don't tell no? We are thing is we you can ask as many questions as you want But the information that you have to give is the morning after you have sex, you just text and say, hey, I just wanted to let you know that I slept with someone last night. And then the other person can say, ask as many questions as they want.

And then you have to answer. And how have you dealt with jealousy in this world? How have you guys been together first of all? We have been together a little over a year. Okay. And he tours for three months, about every two months. Okay. He's on a year. Okay. And he tours for three months about every two months. Okay. At least on a three month tour.

Jealousy, it's not that I don't have jealousy. I think that it's mentally going through while why I'm feeling jealous. And I think it's a positive thing to feel jealousy towards your partner. And it's how you handle it. And whether it becomes constructive to your relationship or not. So I think I'm reading a lot and having resources of people who have similar relationships and also understanding the psychology of jealousy and why humans feel the certain way that they do, which is how I came to wanting to always have

an open relationship to begin with. What about Emily's dream? I know, I know, I'm not working on it. I've been working on it over the years. It's not easy. I don't think that? I know. I'm working on it. I'm working on it over the years. It's not easy. I don't think that it's necessarily. It's not for everyone. And it's not something it's not something easy, but it's definitely easier as it goes along and easier than I thought it would be original. And you have to get closer and more into it because there are no secrets really. Like you really, and after it's almost the weirdest thing because after you sleep or at least for

me and I know that he's expressed the same thing because after you sleep, or at least for me, and I know that he's expressed the same thing, like after we sleep with someone else, you almost miss the other person more. Right, because you guys have that intimate connection that they've intimacy, but I have a question for you. Is there any rules with you guys that like you can't, and it's hard to say this,

but you can't develop an emotional attachment, or it can't, everyone has their own rules, or you can't sleep with the same person again twice. We have, I don't like him, I say don't sleep with any girls under 21. That's a good role. That's a good role. Like youngins.

And also like no texting that's not like, I'm setting up a date. Right. So like no texting after before that's not like, hey, I'm gonna meet you here. I'll meet you here or whatever. Okay. And have it with you like this,

because he's gone for three months. So he's out and then you're here. But it hasn't ever been a time where you met someone you're like wow this is really great because three months is a long time. Yeah. And then then he comes back in town and then you're like can't talk to anymore. Yeah. I think I try to be really honest about my relationship and then honest with myself also and if I feel myself growing attached and I'll just kind of try to separate myself. See that's really healthy. That's really healthy because I think that is the hard part in trying to understand that like because I get, I have the ability to really love many

people, I think it's connect. Yeah. And you definitely will feel tender towards people that you're sleeping with and I think that's definitely, you can't just sleep. I mean sometimes maybe you sleep with someone you don't feel tender towards them. Yeah. But I don't have the poor hitch in the house. I think I wouldn't expect him to always feel that way about people that he sleeps with

and I'm sure he doesn't, and feel, him to always feel that way about people that he sleeps with and I'm sure he doesn't and Feel expect me to feel that way like you will feel tender towards people and I think that that's normal Okay, and then you guys also have do you three sims and stuff? We haven't I've had a lot of three sims in the past I used to actually be part of a a triad where I was a married couple and me Wow, but we haven't had a three-seminar relationship yet I don't I'm it's not because we're against it. I'm sure it'll happen at some point.

Yeah, I'm busy. Yeah, we've been busy with other people. It's really busy at a court and other schedules and stuff like that. You know, so it's true. So what about updating in LA, though, when you got here? What do you think about that? Like, how did you met people online, mostly? Yeah, I did.

I mean, I eventually there will be a book because my online dating experiences are pretty crazy. I tried to do like an okay, cupid day, at least once a week for some time in Los Angeles, even before I moved to San Francisco. And it was crazy. It was a lot. There's a lot of people out there.

There was a lot of people. But what about, okay, so you're more into kinky, right? So do you put that out there and how do you explain it to people? Or they're like, what do you mean? Like kinky can mean so many things. Yeah, like what level? What level of thing I say kinky, but pretty much right away if I'm on a date with someone will go there maybe right away and It's kind of like a litmus test because you can notice when someone's scared and they're not into it or if they're intrigued and they want to know more.

So is that in the first state you'll even bring it up? Yeah, it's not even that I necessarily want to. I feel like it always does. It just comes up. The sex. The sex. Does he bring it up? The guy usually?

Well, they ask me to do. It's probably me. Yeah. And I can't get around it. I can't get around it. Yeah, maybe that's what it is. And for a long time, I worked for Stalkroom.com, and I can't get around it. I can't get around it. Yeah, maybe that's what it is. And for a long time, I worked for StalkerM.com, which is a king.

Oh, yeah. Kinky Toy Place. And, yeah, especially if someone comes back to my house, like I have a lot of Kinky artwork. I have amazing glass dildos on display. Like there's, like, there's kinky stuff happening in a house. Right. There's no, there's to be in in my living room. I'm like, what the kinky stuff happening in a house. Right, yeah. I know, I'm supposed to be in my living room. I'm like, what the hell?

Yeah, you can't hide it. You can. They're sending me like a thing to cover, but yeah, I've, right, you really can't hide it. But like if you're with somebody though, he's like on the island that freaks me out, then you're like, we're not going past this. Yeah, I remember dating someone for maybe like a couple weeks,

and I like to have sex. I almost always like like there's a point It's like I always almost if I felt a connection with someone had sex on the first date and then it was like Okay, I want to have sex with this person again. I don't or I want to see them again I don't like I knew pretty much like after that or before that Sue it's like the first date just so you knew you're like why waste time? No, if I wanted to like if I felt a connection And I was like, okay, cool like I like this person. I wanna have sex. And then it was like almost like, okay, like, yeah, I wanna have sex again or nothing,

we might have a connection. So are you more dominant or submissive in bed? It depends, with girls, I love to stop on and be dominant and be the one, like, with the dick, like, it's really, I don't know, I have major penis envy. I have a little bit of a ponytail. But but with guys I really want someone to take hold and kind of like be a little bit more aggressive with me so it depends on the situation what about like are you into like bondage BBSM yeah and my latest thing has been

playing with electricity oh yeah there's so many green electrosystem vibes out there too. What's going on? Tap to menace. I know menace. Menace, electrosex. Okay. This is my newest thing. So there's this thing it's called the Power of Tripper.

And you plug it into a neon wand. So neon wand is like, I don't even know how to describe it. Yeah, it's like a clear, it's like a clear, it's like, it's like a wand and you can put different attachments in it and basically it conducts electricity so you can use this wand and I can touch you and you would feel like a little shock. Okay. But it feels good. It feels good. It just, it just like, menace is inching away from me as we're talking. He's rolling across the room. And so there's this thing it it's called the power trooper.

So you basically plug into an electrical source and then it makes you conduct a electricity. So your whole body, your fingers, if you're dude, your dick is putting out tiny electrical and I can feel really good. Like vibrations and electrical together too. Yeah, so it's really, really amazing and fun to play with. I've got to release. Okay, hold on. I feel like superman.

I know, I'm just trying to figure out how hard it is. You're saying you're getting shocked and you're saying, No, no, no, not that part. So I'm plugging it in and then how am I attaching it to my power? So you plug it in and it's like a wire and then it has like a metal square. And you can put it in your underwear or like in a garter or however you want to put it on so it has contact with your skin and then you become you conduct the

electricity. So like your fingers are here. It's really cool. It's on Amazon. Do you feel? Which one do you run? You go to good vibes.com. Yeah good vibes.com. Use code Emily and get some of the lecture stamps. I just got a Jimmy Jane touch one that's Alexa. Stimpy too. Have you tried that? I haven't tried that. I do love Jimmy Jane products though. Me too. I just got it in the touch one that's a extra stem too. Have you tried that? I haven't tried that. I do love Jimmy Jane products though. Me too.

I just got it in the mail, so I'm gonna try it. I'm gonna sell it to you. I'll ever project you as well. How it works. But do you feel that the guys like it men like it and you like it just well, or do you like it more? I imagine you were smoking weed and doing that.

That'd be crazy. You'd be like, whoa, what's going on? Is there lightning storm? Have you used that weed loop? No, I haven't, but I heard about it. Yeah, I used it, yeah. Do you like it? I did, it was, yeah, for real.

It was crazy, I don't smoke weed at all. Maybe everyone's no else. So I turned into like total stoner when I was getting fucked and I was using that loop. I was like, whoa, yeah. Like I just all the sudden transformed into stoner land. Exactly, but do you feel like it may give you more orgasms?

I feel like it longed you in my life. The longed orgasms, yeah. I mean, I tried it. I didn't have a crazy reaction. Like, for the people in the reactions, so people don't, but why not try everything? I feel like there's nothing I will not try at least once. I feel the same way.

Like I'm open to trying everything and I'll say no or yes. Exactly. Okay. When we come back, we're gonna get more into your sex life and some more toys that you love and menace a sex life. I think we just gotta push a sex to that and take home. You won't do it. I'm gonna do it.

Yeah, menace. There's some good ones for dudes. Oh, man. Yeah, speaking of which, no. No, no. No, the magic wand. How do you feel about the magic wand? The Cadillac and Maldives. Okay, so we've got some exciting news.

I've been talking about this for a while that the vibratox we always love, magic wand, but it is also rechargeable now. You don't have to plug it into the wall. You remember my old stories about the wall, plugged it in, it was like, drill the hole in my nightstand. No, it is unplugged. You can take it anywhere on a picnic in the car. It's life changing. You do not need an electric outlet for it. The Magic One Output is also upgraded. It's got a silicone

head that's a lot softer, different material for intensity settings, for amazing vibration patterns, a little bit lighter, quieter, but it has all the amazing orgasms that you loved about your orgasm potential that you loved about your original magic wand. So go to Magic Wand Rechargeable today and check it out because I know you're ready to go unplugged. You'll love it. It's so crazy though when we started this show about 10 years ago I would just jokingly say all these crazy sex toy ideas and 10 years years ago, like, she, like, couldn't even grasp it.

I was like, wouldn't be cool if I, let's say, I'm here in San Francisco, and then some girl is like in Illinois, and I can, you know, plug in something into my computer and have sex with it. And on the other side, like, she could be, like, getting penetrated, whatever. Now that's happening to you. Flashlight, the key room, yeah.

Always had my time. Menace, you have an a millionaire. I know. There was all these things, but I don't think, seriously, you haven't used sex to it, but yes, the key room exists. Have you never used a sex to it, any type? Yeah, no, I've used sex toys. I just, I'll be, I'll, I'll,

that's one, let's be honest. Yeah, I want to know what truck would be used to, like, used sex toys. I just I'll be I'll I'll miss you. I want to know what you used to like a vibrating coffee Something I don't know I don't pay attention never You don't pay attention it vibrated like Look It was are you talking about something do you resticking it up your back? No, god no man is we're working. We're just working on them to like talk It looked like fat was a fellic. It was fellic. Are you talking about something? Do you resticking it up your bum? No. Oh god, no, menace with, we're working.

We're just working on them to talk about sex. There's this whole thing that I joke about on the show where it's like, you know, you use a sex toy. It's a gateway drug. Once you get there, next thing, you start with a bullet. And then next thing you know, you're using something that's called a dumb truck. That's true.

You know? And then, I don't know. And then if you're like, who knows maybe, you know, my partner, she's not satisfied with just what we're doing. She's gonna leave you for the vibrator. No, no, no, I'm not afraid of that. But maybe if we're satisfied in what we're doing without the toys, then cool. But if there's something that in what we're doing without the toys, then cool.

But if there's something that they want to bring in to the situation, then go ahead. I'm not against that. Right. You're not against it. That's what it means. But you're saying that I should be the pusher and the person that says, you know what, we need to bring in. No, there's no need.

There's no need. It's at sex. It's at touchy magic wine. Different sensations. Your penis will never be in with a extra stimulator you will not be able to lecture what she loves I'm not against that. I'm just saying if if you're okay with what you're doing now No, thanks sound great if it's like in a relationship and you want to bring it in

No, I think that's I think that's the wrong attitude I think you know bring if things are great the way they are, think of how much more amazing they can be when you had things. Exactly. I agree. I'm just saying that I'm not gonna be the initiator. You know how you love Disneyland? Yes. And there's all these rides, maybe it's in New Rides. And the sensors, like, oh my God,

I can't wait until the next year we're gonna have that ride. But this year I'm gonna go upside down and do it three times in the Ferris wheel, not that whatever the great rides are there now, because I've been there, like, you have in 20 years. But, like, it's not like this ride, the one that you go upside down and the one where you go really fast on the Ferris wheel

or the what's it called? Really cause there's so much better, they're both thrilling experiences and don't have to choose. I know I'm gonna blown up on emails, like how's he on sets of M.A. and he's not, no they don't. He's not getting, you know, the anal ripper

and all that new devices stuff. I'm just saying that, look, do whatever the hell you want to do. I don't care. And if you want to bring it into the situation, I'm not against that either. Okay, good. I'm just saying that I'm not the initiator when it comes to that. Okay, I got it.

Maxi, back to your sex life. I'm very interested in your sex life. Okay, yeah, Maxi, I'm very interested in your sex life. So I want to know about how, like when you say you're like into more kinky or bds, I'm like, do you feel like in the last few years, even that you're always kind of pushing the envelope with it and you want to keep raising the bar or like it's something new. You've tried lately. I think, I think maybe, maybe like five years ago before, like kinky was, before there was 50 shades of gray and whatever.

And people were more aware of kinky behavior. I would always kind of do this thing where it could be a guy that I was having sex with once or that I'd have multiple time, where I'd have a ball gag right next to my bed. So he'd be fucking, like, maybe he'd be fucking me for mine and I just put on the ball gag and then I turn around just to kind of like Tessie yeah, yeah, to kind of see what they're actually what would it be almost always the guy like thought it was really hot But also was like I've never had anyone do that to me before see that okay see that's that is such a good Example there because people are like we've got so many shows and how do I introduce my partner. Leave it by your bed and just turn it off.

You put it on. But you didn't know what to do with the ball gag? Did you know to like pull it? No, no, I just put it on so I just like have it in my mouth and you're like, you know, turn around. It's just like the visual stimulation of like, whoa. Right, that's awesome. I think that what about using sex toys with partners?

Are you ever like, how do you bring that? I always have a sex toy, probably eight sex toys by my bed. And I would always grab, I mean, having the Hitachi magic want to be wireless is amazing. But I'm a one type toy so that when I'm getting fuck from behind, I can be using it on my clitoris. Exactly. And oftentimes the guys love it because that vibration is reverberating

into them and they're like They love it. They're like oh my god my balls feel the vibration Exactly. Yeah, I'm good. I never felt a vibration on my balls. Exactly. Yeah, they get so sick. They do. That's a great way to just leave it out Just don't worry what people are gonna think and just leave it out and then turn it on and just stop over analyzing it So yeah, and do you find that like so you said you orgasm easily the first time you had sex. How do you typically orgasm? Did they literally juice that both? I mean, when I'm masturbating,

I almost always use a clitorial stimulation and orgasm clitorally. When I'm having sex either with a woman where she's wearing a strap on or with a guy, I can have vaginal orgasms and I do squirt which has had some weird shock like some guys have been really shocked by that. Shocked, happy or shocked like what it depends on their shot? They never experienced that before.

They've been weirded out. Yeah. Yeah. Some really like, oh my god, that's awesome and some like, so uh... You mean? What has happened? Yeah, I know. Right.

Now do you feel like there's certain positions that make you squirt Oh, what is happening? Yeah, I know. Right. Do you feel like there's certain positions that make you squirt when, right? Like, do you spot? Yeah. I always, um, almost when I'm on top. Yeah. And then I can kind of, like, then I'm kind of also grinding

my clay like on the dudes stomach. Right. And so then I have them having multi-stimulation things happen. But do you feel like every time you squirt, you're having an orgasm, but can you do, do you squirt without orgasm? I can sometimes, so usually it happens in like, spirts of three.

So the first time that I squirt, it's almost simultaneous with orgasms and then maybe like almost immediately two times, like insertion, come out squirt, insertion, come out squirt. Just, and those times aren't necessarily with orgasms, those are. Right, except for that. I feel like it's been what it's aimed for me.

A little both guys like, wow, my God, I wasn't orgasm. But the first time I do same thing, same thing. I feel like it's been what it's aimed at me. Little bolts guys like wow, my God, I wasn't organized. But the first time I do same thing, same exact thing. I totally got it. Man, is it favorite anyone's scored on you? Multiple times. Were you freaked out or are you like, he laughed, he went to order pizza. He was like, he's too much.

I did, I gotta go to the laundry mat later now. Yeah, I have to bump into towels down the ball to say it is messy. Even if you buy waterproof mattress, I's a bum. It's a towel, it's a honey bowl, it is messy. Even if you buy waterproof mattress, it's by a floaty boat thing, one of those rafts or something. I got this throw from Liberator. It was like whatever the sex throw that's supposed to be waterproof. And then it messed with me mentally.

So then whenever my partner and I would put it down before we had sex, I wouldn't squirt. Wait, because you're like, you were here for us. Yeah, because you want to do it so bad. Damn, I got to get one of those, though. That's a good one. They are good, yeah, but then I was just like, I fuck it because I couldn't,

it wasn't gonna happen. Yeah, it's true. Sometimes you're like psyching yourself out. I totally get it. Okay, so G-spot and the G-spot orgasms are, do you think you have a literal orgasm first and then the G-spot? When I'm having sex, yeah, when I'm on top,

it's kind of like, I feel like it starts with a clitoral and then it's the whole body. Right. And do you feel like that came naturally for you when you had to learn that more through? How would you teach a woman? Yeah. I would say masturbate a lot. Clitoral.

It's a good time. Yeah. So, I mean, and it is, it's muscle memory and it's muscle contraction. It's like the same as if you're lifting weights and you're working out your biceps. So it's just like, it'll come easily to you. You will get stronger. It's the same with your whole system down there. Exactly, pelvic floor exercises really help.

Yeah. Okay, do you want to let's answer some emails? I'd like to get your help here. Okay. Thank you, everybody, for emailing me feedback at sexwithalmy.com. And you've all, you guys have been so greatly because you're remembering to give me your age and where you live location location and how you how you make up and then also you can always make up the

name but did I mention already that we're taking calls starting on October 7th 2015 which is very soon from let let me go back to this here, is gonna be from 132 o'clock Pacific Standard Time. And I want you to call in with the number one question, sex question or relationship question, you've always wanted to ask me, but how you're gonna have to find out the phone number is you're gonna have to follow me on Twitter,

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and who knows, we might just do it every single god damn week. Hell yeah. Okay, that'll be awesome. All right, so here's our email, which I'm going back to, okay, Emily. I have a dilemma, I'm really into rough sex. Like hair pulling, spanking, timey up, hard and fast kind of rough sex.

My boyfriend isn't. He likes the sensual, slow and romantic kind. Don't get me wrong every now and then. Which guy wants that. I don't know. A lot. Not you, but every now and then. I think that 9.9%.

They want, they want, they want. They want what she wants. And they're like looking for a girl like that. Well, here we go. Not everyone clearly. Every now and then it's nice to have that, but he's completely closed the idea of rough sex because he doesn't want to hurt me.

How can I ease the idea onto him better? Thank you, Molly. I'm tossing this to you, Maxi. Tequila. It's always the answer. Tequila, yeah. That's a rough one. I would say maybe start out with something

that doesn't feel so violent. So maybe not tying up. Maybe start with some light spanking, like just the hand. Take his hand. Yeah. So how she likes to be spanked. Yeah, we're gonna put a ball of gag on. And no, give him hand on the paddle or hand on his hand to show him.

Yeah. Because some guys do it wrong and accept them. I know it's the worst. I'm like, hey babe, underneath there, like the padding part. Right, we're gonna cheek meet your thigh is a good sweet spot. Right. If you go up further, you're gonna like hit someone's kidneys or it's a little.

I know, it's so bad guys. That's right. You're like, I appreciate, I don't wanna like knock them down. I'm like, I appreciate the effort, but that's painful. Oh, yeah. It's a little. I think guiding their hands to the right spot is always a good, a good win.

Exactly, guide their hands to the right spot. You could also, you know, you could just start talking about and say, God, I had to grab my ass. That'd be really hard if you grabbed my ass right now. I mean, I wouldn't say start out with like the blindfolds and like your dungeon, all of that. But also you can talk about fantasies, like is there anything you want to try?

But it's hard if a guy that's into the rough side of the thing is gonna, she thinks he's gonna hurt her so how do you explain like, guys, cause a lot of people watch if you say, it's okay, we're talking to America or wherever. And they're like, I don't get it. I do not intellectually understand how that feels good and how pleasure and pain are so closely connected.

And so it can be tricky to get someone to cross over to your side. They can watch the porn together. Yeah, I've got some books. Reading books is always, I'm like a huge book nerd. So I'm always like, I want to find literature on everything, but maybe movies. Yeah, what would you suggest any good porn here?

What do you kind of porn do? Oh God, I've been stuck in this rut of porn for so long. I love massage porn. Massage porn? Yeah, massage therapist comes in and massage friend and this and that. And it's like, I don't know why. I thought everyone wants that. I thought it was a phase that I was going through.

You know, he like goes through your face. Totally. I was like, I'm in this phase. And then I was like, I think I've been in that phase for like three years. Nice. How do you know for that? I'm watching massage porn.

I'm a yoga porn. So, is it the woman getting massage? Either way, I'm fine with like the woman getting the massage or the man getting the massage or two girls doing the massage. Do you watch porn most times that you, most times you masturbate or do you have to use your own good old imagination? Usually I start with porn and then a lot of times I wind up just like closing my eyes and using my imagination.

What do you think about? Do you think about my own sexual experiences? Things that I haven't. Things that I haven't. Could be like the latest one or could be like I have a few favorites, but. What's your like go to? I have, um, oh god. I mean I really like public sex.

So I have a few like public sex experiences that I always think about. Yeah, one time I was driving, I was moving from New York to LA and I was driving in a cross country and I drove a white Honda Accord. It was terrible. We've all done that. Yeah, I've had a white Honda Accord. Yeah, we probably all had that same way Honda Accord. But we were on this like stretch of highway in Wisconsin or someplace record. But we were on this stretch of highway in Wisconsin or someplace very rural. And we just pulled over to the side and he bent me over the hood of my car and just like fuck me on the free, you know, with just like miles of freeway. That's hot. But it's like the bend over. The bend over, yeah. By the time a car was coming by close enough it was going too fast to really like slow down and be like, let's go.

Dr. Sex, public sex, that's a hot one. So let's talk real quick, you have a radio show. So let's talk about your radio show, where we can find you. Yeah, suicide girls radio is, we do it every Wednesday and it's live, and you can watch on tradiov.com from 8 p.m. to 9 p.m. Pacific Standard Time. Very excited, I'm gonna be a guest. And yes, Emily's gonna be a guest.

Menace, you should come on too. I'll be down. Yeah, we have lots of interesting guests like Emily and a lot of bands, musicians and artists. And we talk a lot about the same sex and relationships and living in the world that we live in. Yeah, good. That's awesome.

Well, they should follow you. Yeah, at Moxie's suicide on Instagram or Twitter is at Moxie's suicide. And then my blog Moxie Cox talk. I love your blog too. I think it's really great writing in there. It's interesting insights about how people talk about opening it up, right?

It's their experience pleasure. Especially people if you're coming from a religious background or a background where you have a closed sexual view, I love hearing from those people and kind of sharing my own experience and how I opened up. That's good. Is it, where you mournment or?

Christian, like Protestant. Okay, okay. This is like, what division? Absidence' or? Christian, like, Protestant, yeah. Okay, okay. This is like, what division? Absidence only. I had an abstinence ring. What, do you have it? It had a heart with a key through it. I wish I still had it.

Oh, man. I should totally wear that while having sex. Have your parents come around? They don't know. Oh, wow. What? No way. Yeah, you know, I kind of think that too.

I think that if they did know, it's like they're going to say, like, I'm 30 years old, they're not going to sit me down and be like, hey, um, we don't approve. We don't approve. Because what are they going to do? Like, you can't come home for Christmas. Like, they're like begging me to come home. Right, right, right. Yeah, no.

And I have a really good relationship actually with both my parents and my siblings. And my siblings are aware of what I do and they're very supportive. And are they, have they kept more of the religious, my sister has than my brother not so much? Okay. But my parents aren't super conservative, but they are Christian. Right. So they are not, probably not inter-sci- Yeah, they are not.

I'm trying to say, yeah. My mom tells everyone she has a relationship, she helps couples with relationships. Like that's my fine mom, whatever. Well, thank you so much for being here with us. Thank you so much.. I can't wait to see you again in your show and your beautiful and talented smart. I love this. I love you, Mettis. There's one more thing I have to say is that I'm actually going to New York this weekend for the Sexual Health Expo. If anyone hears this and you want to come to New York, check it out. Go to sexualhapexpo.com. Open to the public. Take a ticket to like 25 bucks. You get two people in,

and we do the top sex educators on the planet. Like, people that I really admire teaching workshop, sex toys, latest and greatest toys, it's all gonna be a good time. Sweet. I know, I love it. And, Mennis, you and your pop, where can we find you? Oh, Instagram, just Mennis, ME and A.C.E.

are, and if you wanna follow my dog, it's my dog, Chirrel. I've got the fly dog. I know, yeah, she's a lot more Chirrell. I've got the five dogs. Oh yeah, she's a lot more fun than I am. She's really cute. But I'm also this weekend, I know we have a lot of listeners in Vegas.

I'll be at the I Heart Radio Music Festival for a few days. So I'll be around there and look for me. I want to come hang out. That's the magic Jackson. I love it. That's gonna be so fun. Kanye West and bands and whatever.

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