Sex With Emily - Sexy Selfies & Fireman Fantasies

Episode Date: June 17, 2015

On this show, Emily welcomes guest erotic photographer, director and host of Playboy TV’s “Adult Film School,” Holly Randall. Along with Menace, the two talk sex tapes, sexual confidence and the tricks to taking the perfect selfie.  What’s your wildest fantasy? Ever thought of filming it? Holly shares her experiences helping couples create their own erotic movies and breaks down the most popular on-screen fantasies, including the ones that most turn her on. She also helps Emily answer an email on porn in the bedroom  -- at what point does it start to be a problem? From French maids, to firemen, to a sexy fast food mascot, this show is all about taking fantasies and making them a reality on film. Learn everything you need to heat it up for the camera, for your partner or just for yourself. Don’t miss it!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Sex with Family. And I'm here with the lovely menace, who I miss. What's going on? I know. I know what to say. I feel like I haven't been here in a while. You have it, we haven't.

I don't even know what the hell is going on with you. You're the one that's all over the place. Everyone says that, but you're all over the place, but you're really, you're only in Las Vegas. But you and Disneyland, but you know, that's cool. You're all over. I know, how's your life going? What's going on? It's been good. I think where was I in my dating scale last time we saw each other?

I was starting to hinge and all that. You were No, you were casually dating Mystery man that you would not tell me about done over. Oh already. Oh, yeah, that's so much hope for that one. Why? Why would you have hoped that would have all the casual mystery that one. Why? Why would you have hoped for that one? I know. I know. I know. I think this weird, I thought that you might be the one woman that would change, but you won't change. So forget it.

Honey, I think that too. And you know what? It's funny you say that. I am changing. Here's the thing. I don't think we all change that much. I think we learn to accept who we are. And we learn to adapt with, we learn to adapt to our

challenges that we have in life and whatever struggles we have or whatever, whatever it is that presents themselves in our life as issues or challenges are where we want to grow, I'm always going to be me. So, for example, in relationships, I've not, you know, I've never been looking for that traditional relationship. Ever since I've known you. Right, but I'm also open to just now I'm proactively dating which I've never done before. Because I realized that what I did was I always dated people who, you know, I always made a lot of guys ask me out

and let's just go out and I felt like I was reactively dating, I wasn't proactively dating. I was just kind of like, yeah, I'll go with you. I met you at the bar. I'll go up my friend Andrew, used to joke with me. He's like, yeah, I'll go with you. I met you at the bar. I got my friend Andrew used to joke with me. He's like, Emily, I feel like I swear to God, you're like at a party, you trip over some guy and you're boyfriend for two years.

That's kind of what was happening to me. So now how I'm changing is that I'm proactively choosing rather than just saying, oh, I met these few guys asked me out. I got them out pick one. So I'm like, you know, just telling people I'm single, meeting guys, giving them, you know, going out with them and also doing a little bit of online dating, which is a full time job, which I don't have time for, because I already have to. So now you're on hinge and that's like, works through people that you know, right?

It's like Facebook. I mean, it's like Tinder. However, you have to have a mutual friend in common. Okay. Kind of like LinkedIn. Yeah. I mean, I really started at LinkedIn dating site. Oh, they did? Yeah, I didn't know about that. I don't know how well it went along, but you know, it's been fun. I would have heard about it if it did well.

Yeah, that's true. I guess it didn't do that well. So yeah, it's just been fun. I've been going out just trying to like go out more and have a good time and been traveling and where have I been? I don't kind of think since I saw you. Oh, I did that huge Israel mall that's up,

but right now I'm in town. What about you? I'll just extremely busy here in Los Angeles doing the morning show. And a lot of sex with Emily listeners listen to the morning show that I'm on called the Woody Show. It's also on iTunes just search out the Woody show.

But it's like I'm cross-promoting all the time. I shout you out on the show when, you know, anytime sex talk comes up, I go, oh, well, Emily from Sex with Emily says, you know, so I can give you a shout out. So I was actually on iTunes and I was working on a couple things and I look and I see that you are in the top 250 podcasts in all of items.

iTunes. Do you know how crazy that is? Do you know how many podcasts there is? Wait, dude, when, since when? I didn't know that. I just checked like the other day. And not that in health, but in all podcasts. In all podcasts, it's in the top 250.

Dude, there's 200,000 podcasts. Yeah, insane, right? So thank you. I think everyone that listens. I love you. I love you all. And that's just like a cry. That's amazing. That's crazy. So everyone for listening. Keep on rating and reviewing. If you listen to podcasts, please,

I mean, that's a lease you can do. I don't want to shame you or guilt trip you into it. But, you know but it does cost money out of Emily's pocket just to even put this together. It's okay, you can have some of that brownie. I'm meeting the brownie, but I'm really hungry and meeting brownie and it's so soft. We can totally hear it, so just go ahead and eat it. So the thing is, it's just like,

that's just the least you can do, just go to iTunes, rate it, give it five stars, please. And then just write a comment in there in there because that actually helps us. And then that helps us. Oh, it does help us in that. Okay. And it helps the show going.

That would be cool. But I was just so impressed. I couldn't believe it. Because I go, you know what? I'm going to look in, you know, what is the top podcast? And I was like scrolling down and I saw sex to Emily right up there. I was like, holy is. Dude, let's do a screen.

That's amazing. There's one number of mine. Uh, I think. Dude, let's do a screw up. That's amazing. What number am I? I think, well, it's not two, maybe like two, 63 or something like that. Oh, okay, but that's not two, 50, but that's top for now. What, geez. I don't know. You don't understand, like hundreds of thousands

of podcasts are out there. I know, and people, no. I'm not saying that you're a pioneer, but you have been a pioneer in podcasting since it was, you know, before it was popular. Now it's like everybody's got a podcast. Everybody in their mom has a podcast. Everybody.

You know, cats even have podcasts. I know, it's true. But it's just amazing that you've kept us up over the years and you started out before anyone was like, oh, what's a podcast? I don't understand how that even works. How do you even download it? How do you listen to it?

Now it's so easy to listen to podcasts, and you can get it so many different ways. I know, it's crazy. I feel like it's just exploded. Like I think serial, there was a big thing on NPR, but I also think yeah, it was 2005. That I started, it was the first year podcasting we're starting and people still don't know what the hell it is,

but they're knowing more and more how it doesn't. And it's really easy, you could download the podcast one app, and if you have iTunes on your phone, there's a podcast app that comes along with it for free, or Stitcher, whatever. And it's so easy, you just stream it. And I tell them it's all the time. I grab their phones and my clothes and see.

Thank you. I've been, yeah, I've been holding that in to tell you here on the show. I appreciate that. Well, you've been with me along the way and met the super-sense. I think your brother and I have been the only consistent man in your life. That's true. Actually, my longest

relationship. Yeah, I know, right? Yeah, I drive me crazy. But I know. Oh, this is a big need to take a moment. Yeah, so so okay, let's go back to dating where people actually give it F about. So, okay, drop the casual guy. I drop the casual guy. I mean, we dropped it together. We're friends. Oh, so.

You always keep them in the friend zone. You back burner every single guy that you date. So he's in there. I can only think of one. I don't want to get into it because I always cut it out of the podcast when you delve deep into it. But I can only think of like one relationship that you've been in, where it ended badly and you don't talk to them.

Oh my God. Yeah, but I don't want to go into it. But the thing is, every other one, you're like, cool with them, you hang out with them, you go on freaking vacations with new boyfriends, with ex-boyfriends. Exactly. And I think you're gonna appreciate it,

because this guy's the same way. I feel like he and I are gonna eat best friends in like three months. Oh my God. Oh wait, so there's like a weird thing. Well, we actually thought to the night, but we're not having sex. We're just friends and I adore him.

I really do. And the truth is, is that moving to LA has been a bit, it's been two and a half years now. But I was in San Francisco for 20. So making new friends, and I don't meet that when people that I think are awesome Because it's hard just to connect you don't connect with every single person and I don't have a lot of time And so I really do want to be friends with them, and I think we just

We just want different things, but yeah, you're right. I really am friends You know one of my best friends here is the next from years ago the one used to call the used car salesman Which is not what you look like a used car salesman Didn't you have a pinky ring. No. No. And he did not have a pinky ring. He had like some weird cheesy gold ring

and then he was wearing a suit and slicked back here. All he was doing was wearing suit. He would not wear a tree. And you know what? It's so cool about saying fendr with X's, which is why I think if you can preserve a relationship, I get a lot of them and really ugly. But you share something with them. You're with them, you're close.

And why not continue the friendship? It's good to have good male friends. And I actually, the acts here, the one from the used car salesman has a new girlfriend and I can't wait to meet her and buy my birthday party the whole thing. You're right, I am a friend of the access. It's a good time.

It's crazy. So, okay, now you have a new friend. I have a new friend. The electronic friend that we talked about last time was the the Sivian. What's going on with that? Oh my God, dude, it's still... What?

I have to set it up. It's my garage, though. Will you come over? Do I have to come over and set that up? Just like my two-cable. Yeah. I know, we were doing the robber show. I set up a cable in your Sivian.

You did. Will you do that? Yeah. It's shoot a video. It'siviens. You did. Will you do that? Yeah. It's funny because there is a video on my YouTube channel, which I am growing. It's sex with Emily. You should check it out. I had never, I had had television in 20 years. And I was, we were on a Bravo reality show called Misadvised, which is awesome.

You can download it. And they made me into TV. They're like, how the hell can you be on a reality show? That you've never seen anything or never. So I called men and said, like, 911. But the worst part was like, even after that, I could never turn it on and off. And I'd be like, men, and then I had to wear

to sticker on their moat. That was a good time. Yeah, little notes. I sound like your grandmother right now. But TVs are hard. Oh, it's hard stuff. Oh, I had to set up my dad's, all his stuff. Right, see?

It's only your dad. I know, it's so true. Do you know what's crazy? Speaking of reality TVs just recently LA so insane you never know who you're gonna run to who you're gonna talk to and I was at the house of blues which is shutting it with some sunset boulevard here in Los Angeles Which is shutting down which is really so I wanted to go before it shut down. And I had some friends who manage her part of some band, you know, whatever. So I'm backstage, and I'm talking with them. And then here comes all these TV cameras.

And I'm like, oh, that's kind of weird, you know? And then my friend told me like, oh, they're shooting dash dolls right now. The Kim Kardashian spin-off show. No way. And then I go, oh, they're shooting dash dolls right now. The Kim Kardashian spin-off show. No way. And then I go, okay, that's cool. And then so I go and I sit down VIP and I'm watching the band. And then all the dash doll girls come sit at my table.

And they're like shooting all the stuff. Oh my god. So then they made me sign paperwork. So you might see me on the show. Like probably for like a friend. Like years ago, you were talking on the show but you're like, you're gonna really get to talk with the credit credit.

People still send emails because they listen to the old shows all the time. Like you've talked about the credit. We talked about like three days. I'm sorry, only millions of people are into the Kardashians. I'm sorry that you are too cool for school. That's too cool.

You know, you kids. It's unavoidable if you turn on the television or radio or go on the internet. I hear you there. I don't know who they are. My niece is here right now from Michigan. Oh, nice. All she wanted to do was go dash. Oh, really?

Well, walk in, we'll wrap it. She just had me take her. Dude, can you take her places you still here? Okay, I think we have to welcome our guests. Okay, cool. Holly Randall, welcome to the show. Hey, what's up, Holly? Thank you so her places you still here? Okay, I think we have to welcome our guest. Okay, cool. Holly Randall, welcome to the show. Hey, what's up, Holly. Thank you so much.

I'm getting ready. Thank you so much for being here. We already gave you a little intro here. But Holly Randall, she's the daughter of legendary erotic photographer, Susie Randall. That's a Sus? It's Sus, yeah. Sus Randall.

And you've shot the cover of almost every major men's magazine. That's right. Quite a neat playboy, Penn House. I mean, you've been doing photography, but now you're also directing, correct? Yes. And you were nominated for an ex-pizza award in 2014,

Best Photosight. Yes, that's great. And it's allathehollyrandal.com. And right now, I love that you're the host of the Playboy TV's adult film school. Yes. That is amazing. I love the concept of that show because we're always host of the Playboy TV's adult film school. Yes. That is amazing. I love the concept of that show

because we're always talking on the show. And I already said that's not right. I'm just trying to be polite. I'm like at a party. Like, hey, you guys all, maybe you know Madison here, you know what I mean? And we, I'm always telling couples, you know, exchange bucket lists or talk about your sexual offense.

And it's so, it can be so hard for couples and long-term relationships. And I think like the service of this show, like helping couples make their own sex tape and leaving out their own fantasies is a great concept. Yeah, what I really love about this show is that it's this opportunity that I can to, that I have to give these couples this amazing experience. And especially the women, too, you know, because we take them through the entire transformation

of the makeup and the hair and the wardrobe and the styling and we build a set. It's all attuned to the specific fantasy that they request from us. For them to really see this whole transformation that they get to go through, the professionals do, and then these girls get to see themselves in a totally different light. They feel confident. They feel confident. They feel sexy and they emanate that, and then, you know, their husband or their boyfriend picks up on that,

and then it really just kind of like snowballs from there, and it's just a great experience. And I think, yeah, it is a great experience, but I would think that it would be so inspiring too, hopefully for women watching, because as we know, when, you know, low-cephalsteam, kind of lacking confidence, not feeling good about your body, like, is a huge, huge killer woman's sex drive, the libido, the reason why they're not able to, lacking confidence, not thinking about your body. Like, is a huge killer woman sex drive, the early beato, the reason why they're not able

to really have the sex life they want, they deserve. So, I think that's super cool. Yeah, exactly. I mean, there's so much smoke. I mean, we compare ourselves to what we see in the media and what we see online, especially with porn and that kind of thing. And so I think it was really great for these people to see themselves, like, kind of in that light, like, after, you know, they've gone through all of those pre-production steps. And they say, oh my god, you know, like, I can look amazing too. And I think also it helped them realize that,

you know, that there is a lot of smoke and mirrors involved in all of this. Right. And that these girls don't necessarily look perfect. They didn't have wake up like this. Yeah. No, for some of the hasn't seen the show, is it, can you explain it? So it says film school. It does it teach you how to make a video or what it. We definitely drop like little nuggets of knowledge like here and there.

Good bye. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like we say, like, okay, you know, you can take what we're doing right here in the show and you can apply this at home and let me explain this in a way that it would make sense at home. So, but basically the show is about taking amateur couples who want to make a professional sex tape and they come to me and they send in their amateur one that they filmed at home like on their smartphone or on their laptop or however they did it. And then I critique it and we talk about how we could you know improve upon it.

And then they tell me their fantasy, like what they want to act out, you know, maybe. They put on some of them. Um, there was a fireman one. And that was actually really fun because what we did was we really made that one really playful and kind of hokey and cheesy like in it purposely. Right. And so it was actually like really kind of funny. We had this whole like intro where we had the smoke machine.

And like basically the girl was like dreaming on the bed because we didn't want to actually like make it seem like it was a dangerous situation. Like it's actually a fire. Like it was like for 10-5 years. Yeah, right? Yeah, we really need to make sure that we played at the fantasy angle

like cause all women love firemen. So the idea was that the girl was dreaming and like in her dream like this sexy fireman burst through the door with this axe and all the smoke behind him. It was just this very dramatic entrance, it was very hokey and cheesy, but it was really, really fun and I think it was really fun for them to act that out and to have fun with it, and then obviously,

the fun leads to the sex, which is sexy. So it can be fun and it can be sexy. Yeah, but... Now, is it people that just want to make a video for their home use, which is sexy. So, you know, it can be fun and it can be sexy. Yeah, but. Now, is it, is it people that just want to make a video for their home use, or is it actually people that want to market it after they shoot something? A couple of them had aspirations to maybe move on

into the adult arena and do like adult movies, but most of them, honestly, we're just like, couples who just had kind of like a kinky side that they wanted to explore. A lot of them were married with kids, lived in like small towns and like the Midwest, I mean, you know, because we fly people from all over the US. Right. So most of them were really just honestly just real couples who just wanted to have this opportunity to make this like, have this experience and make this incredible beautiful

product like showing their love and that's really the extent of it. Right. I mean, I think that that can be really, you know, a great thing for couples to reconnect them if they've been together a long time as well. But then they're doing it on TV. So then everyone sees it. So I would think, but the messages, I guess,

do it at home too, like live out your fan and see it at home and figure out. Yeah, absolutely. I mean, obviously not everybody is comfortable going and having exactly on TV, you know? No, not yet. For yet, I haven't heard. For everyone to see, but like these people that are on the show are adventurous enough to do that.

And then, like I said, you know, we talk about how you at home who's watching this show, but isn't necessarily going to, you know, cast for this show how you can apply, you know, what we're doing right now to your tapes at home and how you can improve them. That's cool. Are there any popular fantasies that keep coming? You're like really another one with the pizza guy, you know? Let's see. There's a lot of like made ones like French made, you know, because it's like a sexy outfit

and there's kind of like a role-playing thing in there. There was a couple of firemen and firemen ones, policemen. Right. A lot of ones where, you know, the familiar kind of typical ones, like schoolgirl, like the ones that I think that you and I don't like to go. But then do you like write a script for that,

or do they follow a script, or it's more like, here's how it's gonna go down, you're gonna walk in, he's gonna spank you, tell you right in the chalkboard, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, we definitely don't do a script because for me to ask them to, like, memorize lines. You're gonna be naked and camera have sex,

man, you got a memorize. Yeah, and you get to act. It's like it's too much for them. You know, so we try to make it as simple as possible and as fun as possible. Well, I think it's great. And I have a quote. I actually read, I was reading it every day with you.

And I think it's, I think it was a great quote you said, I'd like to be able to encourage women to open up and to embrace their sexual selves. After all, the sex drive is one of the most important and strongest motivations known to mankind. Its significance is profound and it should not be ignored or feared, which so many people do, and that doesn't mean you need to believe in free love or screw every guy who comes your way. It just means you need to allow yourself to explore what drives you and allow yourself to give those needs consideration and respect it's part of a well-balanced individual.

So it's almost like saying, this is a requirement because so many couples are struggling with their sex drives and can stay in connected after six months, six years, you know, 20 years and it is. Absolutely. I mean, I almost think a lot of them, monogamous sex, sex in general, is in crisis in a lot of ways because couples don't know how to keep it going. And that's why, you know, I do my show, I try to help them. So I feel like that's the work that you're doing.

Especially, yeah, especially too, because people are so afraid to even just talk about it. I mean, even just opening the lines of communication. I know. And that's what you do. It's really typical. Because I've been doing this for, we've been doing this show for 10 years.

And I've given a lot and just talked to them. And then lately this last year, I've just been thinking, you know, it's not so easy. I was like, it's like a ribbon abandoned off. But I mean, do you have any special tips for couples who've never talked about it or just how to start breaking the ice or things that have worked for them? I think that maybe watching, I think actually this is because you make porn as well, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. This is one of the reasons I think that like something like 50th Chasid

Grey has been so successful because it's something that's mainstream enough that like, you would go and watch it, you know, in the theater, you know, it's something that's mainstream enough that you would go and watch it in the theater, it's like a porn where you wouldn't go watch it with your friends or you're seeing it and you're seeing it, it's like you need to hide, but it also opens up this whole other world that most people haven't explored.

And I think that a lot of couples probably did go see that movie and then come back from that and think, hmm, these explored some interesting topics that maybe you and I should think about. So I think explored some interesting topics that, you know, maybe you and I should think about. So I think that maybe something like that, like watching like a sexy movie that isn't necessarily a porno, like 50 Shades Great or actually my favorite, I mean, if we're talking, you know, like some good stuff from the... Yeah, some good stuff from the... BDSM, like the secretaries, my favorite.

Um, secretaries, such a good film. But not everybody's into that. Right, so what else would you suggest that would be good for couples is in the porn Or some of the films you've made or you know anything that you um it well I mean if you want to watch an actual like adult movie I mean, you know, there's a lot of like couple friendly porn out there. I mean it's just right I know there's so much. I'm always I'm just wondering that anything that you love But you know I love the stuff that I mean obviously the stuff that I do is

you love. But you know, I love the stuff that I do. Right. It's totally about your favorite film that you've done. It's the one that you really love. Well, actually, I just shot because normally I shoot, so I started off as a photographer, right? And then I actually taught myself how to shoot video and how to direct because I could see that that's where the industry was going because I've been doing this for 17 years. Right. And you grew up with it in your home, which is so interesting. Exactly. So like I've been around it for a long time, so I saw it progressed from way before the internet

started when it was just magazines and movies and then the internet and the beginning of the internet when really it was just photos because the technology wasn't good enough for video and then video, the streaming got better and so everyone wanted more and more video so I was like, oh god, I better start doing video. I have no idea what I'm doing, but I better figure it out. That's the best way to learn. Yeah, so I just started shooting scenes. And I mean, this is years ago, but still,

most people just know me as a photographer. A lot of people don't know that I actually shoot and direct video as well. So I just shot my first movie actually as a cohesive piece that's going to be, thank you, distributed through adult DVD empire. And that's called True Radica. True Radica. Yeah, so I would say that that probably is one piece is kind of like my most current and proud of these things. Congratulations,

can they find out more on hollyrandal.com? Where would they find it? We really following me on social media. Okay, so yes, social media on that We really following me on social media Social media Twitter. It's very easy. I'm not Famous or important enough when one to pretend to be me so pretty much if it says Holly Randall. It's probably me So I'm just at Holly Randall and Twitter at Holly Randall Instagram At Holly Randall 78 on Tumblr and then I'm on Facebook as well. How did this go over in your personal life when you meet new people that they're not in the industry and you tell me, I mean Emily goes to have a time. Yeah, it's like to hear it depends on who it is, right? So I kind of gauge like what I'm talking to like what I think they might or not

make be cool with what way they may not be. I'm lucky enough that I have a very broad spectrum of clients that I work for. So I shoot for everyone from Playboy, I shoot for Playboy Plus, all the way to like browsers. So I can like if I'm shooting with somebody, if I'm talking to somebody who I think's like, you know, Playboy is respectable to them, but anything a little bit more than I'm just like, oh yeah, I shoot for Playboy and then I don't just mention the rest of the stuff. I just leave the book out. And then they're like, oh, that's so interesting, you know?

Or I just tell them I'm a glamour photographer and I just shoot like model portfolios and pin ups. Yeah, what about in your personal life though? Mm-hmm. In your personal life. Yeah, you in a relationship or do you date him? I am, okay. I am, yes.

And yeah, no, I mean, he loves porn, sorry. Yeah, he's not the man who had that beard. He's like, yes. So. And yeah, no, I mean, he loves porn, sorry. He's like, bonus. Yeah, but how did that go when he first broke that to him or? Well, actually, let's get zero. Let's meet him through work. Yeah, I met him through work. I met him through the Playboy TV show. Oh, you did?

Yeah, that's because I mean, because it can be a star, and I'm like, I give advice on relationships, depends on how I do. Yeah, I think honestly, I always feel bad for men who work in the industry because I feel like they have a much harder time finding a woman who understands, who's understanding about them working in the industry. And then it is for a woman. I mean, honestly, I've never had a problem

where I've dated a guy and he's like, you work in porn, I don't know. Everyone to speak to you again. Right, right. I've never had that problem. Yeah, I think so. We'll ever have that problem. Yeah, exactly.

And they're like, really, let's like, let's hang out more. Yeah, exactly. If anything, like, makes me. Or second date now. Me more interesting to people, so. Okay, so first we're going to take a quick break and we're going to come back and talk more about all the sexy stuff you do.

But I need to talk about the flashlight because do you know about the flashlight? The number one sex ty for men? May I masturbation? Are you kidding me? I've shot a whole bunch of their stunts. Oh, you did? Oh yeah, I've worked with them a lot.

Oh, okay. So, we love the flashlight, huge fan of flashlight. And so, have you shot them getting the molds and stuff and you shoot the retagogy for the website? The photography for the website and some of the box stuff, like I shot like Jesse Jean, Tara Patrick, and Rayleigh Steele.

We live with them in our office. So, but we live with your artwork in our office. Because if you come and draw, we believe the flashlight boxes everywhere. That's awesome. So as you know, it is an amazing experience for men. If I had a penis, I would stay home all day with my flashlight. It's so funny because, you know, every time I shoot for them, I get some samples and my guy friends just like, I mean, I keep, they just steal them from me. Right. Same. Like, oh my god, every guy I've given a flashlight to just loves them. Right?

And it's like, I don't know how, it's not like it's gonna replace sex. It's not like it's gonna replace your partner, but it feels different and amazing. It's like, you know, it's like the ridges inside the ribs. I've used it with my boyfriend, and it was a lot of fun. It's so fun.

It's a hand job, man. It's the hand job movement, we used to have right here. Right, at all. I love hand jobs. You were pushing that hand job, man. I was like, I wasn't trying to replace the blow job. I'm like, hand jobs are fun. And then the flashlight makes it even a lot more fun. It's engineered to look and feel like the real deal.

You can also get them that look like your favorite porn star. They have their vagina's mold that I was actually invited to Austin to one of the moldings recently, but I couldn't go. I really wanted to. It's they have a beautiful place there. I know. I'm gonna I'm gonna go soon. I had definitely am. So yeah, you guys check it out.. I'm going to go soon. I definitely am. So yeah, you guys check it out. And I've heard from a lot of listeners that have actually bought them and thanked me and no one has said why the hell did you make you buy a flashlight? So I think it is your time. If you want to spice up your sex life, you want to last longer and bed,

they have a stamina training unit. So check it out. Go to sexwithemily.com. Click on the flashlight banner. Use coupon code Emily and you get a free bottle of their award winning flesh liub. Because where does a flashlight without some loob? Right? What is life without loob? Okay, I didn't come on. I love loob. Okay, so you're you typically are shooting Women that are already in the industry or do you like do budwara stuff? I mean, or do you do? It's mostly industry people who are mostly industry people, but I have had people hire me for bootwash shoots. I've shot like wives for husbands, for anniversary presidents, for wedding presidents and stuff like that.

Because I think it can be so great for, for too empowering for women. Like you were talking about kind of how we started and saying just giving them confidence. Yeah. So because if you don't have, you know, the world is talking in the show about how to get, how to get the conference, but I think it's, it's a great tool. Like just to look at yourself and to take it, you know, you're always talking in the show about how to get the cop and but I think it's a great tool, like to just look at yourself and take it, you know, how do you work with women in that? Like, do you kind of ask, you know, is it kind of like a give and take? How do you feel? I mean, it's because it's a very

intimate experience too when you're shooting someone. Yeah, absolutely. I mean, I really kind of, I mean, obviously if they're hiring me to shoot them for their own personal use, then obviously, it's their say how they want to shoot what they want to do. And everybody's different. And some people are very specific. They have very specific ideas.

Some people really don't have any idea what they want. And they want me to feed them ideas. And then I give them ideas. And then they say what they like, what they don't like. So I think it's really important to make sure that they feel safe. And they feel secure, you know, and that we're shooting in like in a closed environment.

Like I make sure the location that I'm shooting at, like the owner is not a guy who's gonna like hang around, like people over, like coming in and out of the house. Like sometimes you get people that don't understand, like that, you know, it's kind of, we really just want to keep it intimate and keep people away. And so I take that into consideration and make sure that, you know, I get a really great makeup artist who's going to make them look good, but also going to make them feel good. You know, I'm going to talk to them through the whole process.

A lot of times, if the budget allows for it, I'll hire a clothing stylist too. And I'll ask the girl to, before the show, I'll go, look, do you have any flaws or anything that you're concerned about that you want me to know about? You know, because all of us have about that you want me to know about? Because all of us have something that we're into to care about. Everybody has that. Like, maybe you have a tummy you don't love. Maybe you don't want to show off your boobs too much, but you want to show off your butt.

Like whatever it is. And then we take that to consideration when we dress you. We can dress you in outfits that'll show off your boobs, but I just tell me like whatever it is that you need. That's right. Okay. It's fine. Okay, I need some, okay, so I've never taken, well I actually, okay, so that back up, I did a Boudoir shoot in San Francisco years ago.

Do you remember this? It was a woman, she was a guest on the show, pretty like six, seven, six, seven years ago. And she was like, oh, I'll do one for you. And it was cool, but I think I wasn't, I like the pictures, they were great, the photos, but I don't think I was as maybe confident, I don't know what, but I would love to do it again.

And I do think that it was, it was a good experience seeing that, seeing myself in that light. Yeah. I mean, and definitely like, you know, talking to your first or what, you know, accentuating the parts of yourself that you feel good about. I think it was just like, maybe some of the photos weren't really your style, you know? Yeah, yeah, it wasn't. I'd rather do something that was, it was, yeah, it it was important to incorporate what the person likes to. And also, especially when I work

with new models, I always think it's a good idea to consider incorporating some kind of prop into the situation. For example, like a lot of girls, like when they're modeling, they don't know to do with their hands. Like that's one of like, what am I doing? Give them a push. I know, I give them a flashlight and then they just oppose the flashlight. But, You know, like, that's one I'm like, I want to make a new- Give him a flashlight. Yeah, I know, right? Give him a flashlight. And then it's supposed to push. But, you know, like, say you're doing something like, I don't know, a really cute scenario where the girl's like riding a bike and then like,

you know, there's a basket of flowers and then she's flowers to hold and she can kind of play with the flowers. That's smart. That's good. Or something like that. But if you're shooting somebody who is very specific interests and I'll ask the girls this too,

like when I shoot for playboy, especially if I'm shooting like a cyber girl of the month, like we went into a set that reflects like who you are as a person and what you're into and your hobbies. And especially if you're new, if you're doing something that's kind of or we're incorporating a set or a look or a concept that's familiar to you, then it makes you feel a little bit more comfortable in that situation, because you're like, this is what I do. Like this is something that I own and I'm going to photograph myself, I think. It makes sense too because right now we all want to see everyone, you know, everything

is about reality. So seeing who they really are, not just in some pose that you've seen a million times, it's really incorporating who they are and then they'll feel more comfortable in the matter. I guess how experienced you are. I think that's a good, that's a good, that's a good, what's my word? That's a good tactic. She's having a party tonight so there's a lot, that's a good, what's my word? That's a good tactic. She's having a party tonight,

so there's a lot on her mind. No, my entire family's in town from Michigan, which is six people, and I'm having birthday party. It's on my birthday today, it was last week. But anyway, I know her thing. I know her thing. She's all stressed out. I'm not stressed out.

I'm just stressed out because my friend that I'm having with the stress me out. She won't be there an hour early. I'm like, I'm not, I'm not going. But, but I'm not going. But I'm never early. But the other thing is, OK, so what do you think about this whole selfie thing? Are we taking selfies or sending naked photos and that thing?

I mean, do first of all, what do you think about it? And then do you have any tips for me? I've never sent a naked photo to a guy. I've never done it. I don't even get it. And Madison here, my producer, she's always trying to say, just when you feel good, Emily, just look at them here and take a bunch of pictures.

I'm like, I don't have time because I'm usually late, but like what, what's a good advice for that? Well, good advice for selfies is, okay, window light is like the best thing that you can use in actual life. Natural light, window light is gorgeous, because it's this big like diffused source of light. And it's funny because I see people do this all the time

where they're trying to take a selfie in front of the window, right? But the thing is, is that the camera in the phone is going to automatically compensate for the brightest thing in the photo. The brightest thing is going to be the window behind you. So it's going to compensate for behind you not you. So that's how you turn into a silhouette. But if you flip around, that the window is lighting you. So the phone is in front of your face, and the window is behind the phone. So you're using the window to light you. He changed my entire life.

It will light. It's all I need to know. Every time it's just the best light and the catch light in the eyes, it's gorgeous. And usually actually the best window light is in cars. That's why you see people take pictures and the cars all the time. Oh right, because you got the sound light coming in.

Yeah. The first one, the wrong way, is called backlighting. Yeah, and unless you have a light in front that can balance out that backlight, it, what you don't want to look at. What about like, is there certain ways, like, you're supposed to... Well, obviously, like, so anything about, if you were talking like, portrait, like, face shots, anything a little bit above eye levels best. Right, that's what I think do. Yeah, and also too, like you wanna make sure,

you wanna keep the camera, the phone is kind of as far away from your face as you can, because it's a wide-angle lens, and so the closer, exactly. The closer it is to you and your face, the more distorted you're gonna look, because it's wide, so you wanna get it as far away from your face, and that's the-

I've been using a alo clip, do you know what those are? It's a lens, it's like a fisheye type lens that you can put on to your phone. So you don't have a selfie stick that you're putting out forever. Yeah, I've been using that one. That's why I actually, you know I never post any selfies, but since there's been guests coming in lately, I've been using the Olo Clip and it's great. Okay, good to know. I didn't know that. Okay. Thank you. So what else are you working on like is already the next project? Are you more

interested in doing film now? Are you doing more photography? A little bit of everything? Well, the thing is, is that the market is really going towards film. It's not really going towards photography. I wish it was. I mean, in my heart photography is still my first love and still the one thing that I will probably prefer. But I love shooting video and you know, I've improved a lot and I've learned a lot. And so I'm shooting my second movie for Adult DVD Empire right now. Oh good. So I just shot the first half. Congratulations. Thank you very much. Now what is, if you could shoot like your fantasy sex scene, what would be yours if you felt like sharing that with us?

My own fantasy sex scene? Oh man, oh gosh, I don't know. Well, it's funny because I would say like, it would probably be something on the beach or something at sunset, but it's funny because I think in my head, like, because I have shot stuff at sunset on the beach and I'm thinking all of like the production problems that one would have in thing and I think in my head, because I've shot Steph at Sunset on the beach, and I'm thinking all of the production problems that one would have them thinking,

oh my god, the gnats come out at sunset. They're right. And then the sand gets in your vagina. They're right up. They're riding on everything, and then there's a little sandmite, and then it gets cold, and then I'm like, nah, so I'm just thinking,

so maybe something inside. I've always had this one for years that people love. I mean, no, no, no, not me, but one for you, and then you're always anti it, but I think you might turn around this time. So like years ago, I'm like, what's your ideal man? I go, if you find a guy that's absolutely perfect, you know, would you be with him?

And I go, but there's one thing. He, he wants you to dress up as the hamburger for McDonald's. And then that's his only one thing, but he's perfect in every single way. And he's your dream man. Like, you will get married to him, but he just wants to do that.

And do you know what she said? She said she wouldn't do it. I did. Okay. Okay, no, you know. I've been out. I've been in my hamper. I'm sort of, I'm sort of like getting to fend you

on that one because like, if you, I don't care how perfect he is, but if you meet a guy who wants you to dress up as a hamburger, I feel like there's like underlying dark issues there that like need to be explored and are just gonna like, put this come out after like 20 years of underlying dark issues there that like need to be explored and are just gonna like Put this come out after like 20 years of marriage or something like that at like the worst time Check this out. But check this out. It's crazy because I've been talking about this for years and Just recently they updated the hamburger

Dude someone one of our long time listeners rag We're about me that so now he's like a hipster guy No, and I think you probably sleep with this guy if he was at the bar I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I said we should be supposed to. He looks like a hipster dish guy from San Francisco that you go and sleep with.

I thought I was stuck with these cards. That too. I never stuck with hipsters. Wow. Oh, he is cute. See, I told you. But he's not a card too. Now you're turning around on it.

See, now you're on the line. Okay, I bang that hamburger. I don't know. There's something you gotta draw the line. Maybe like how often was it? Was it once a year on his birthday? Okay, I would love if you would help me answer an email from one of my best friends.

Sure. Let me right back. I'm going to go tune something real quick. OK. Go ahead. Keep on talking. OK. Hi, Emily. Thank you for a lot of your advice. I have recently discovered how to orgasm.

Yay. The only thing is I require porn to do so, and if you have to discover how to orgasm without it, this wouldn't be an issue if it weren't for the fact that my part are now insists on putting some on whenever we're getting intimate. I know he's trying to be help and I appreciate him wanting me to enjoy myself, but I can't not but noticing he will often end up focusing more on the porn than on me, which makes me feel a bit inadequate and insecure.

Am I being unreasonable and how do I get past this? Any help would be appreciated, thanks, Stacey. Well, what would you say to this? Well, I mean, I think it's definitely not healthy to watch porn every time you have sex. I mean, that's, I mean. Or to do anything every time, right? Yeah, you should never do something every time you have sex.

It sounds to me like maybe you need to create the excitement in the bedroom as opposed to on the TV. So it sounds like something, some kind of role-playing game. Exactly. Something different. I mean sometimes you know maybe even it's something as simple as not going on vacation, but like renting a hotel room in your city. Like some, you know, like, it's a nice place. It's a nice place.

Yeah, and then just go like get something like with a big room in your city. Like, so you know, like, this is a nice place. Yeah, and then just go, like, get something like with a big bathtub and get like champagne and like, you know, roses or whatever you want to do and just, you know, or, you know, what's also kind of sexy too is that you can pretend like, my boyfriend and I have talked about doing this. We haven't done it yet.

Where you pretend like you're a mistress meeting, like, you know, you're like, someone that you're having in a fair way. Exactly, it's so hot and maybe you meet up with them. Tell her, even you say tonight, when you come home, I'm your mistress. Yes. And you could dress up something,

you could wear something different that you would totally would never wear. I mean, maybe you try a wig. Right. I don't know. It's so fun dressing up during a session. It's hot, at least some of the clothes on. It's really sexy.

And also, you know, our thoughts and fantasies are a huge part of female rouse also. So I think because Stacy got choked up because she was family able to orgasm while watching porn, she's now attached to that experience. So I think if she, like, just says, honey, no TV tonight or no porn tonight, and then they do start this role playing or maybe they reenact one of the scenes they've seen in the porn or they talk about their own kind of like people do on your TV show. They talk about what their fantasy is and they play it. I think that's all a good idea because if the porn can become a problem, I've been with guys too where we've watched it and I'm like, he's really watching that porn a lot. You know what I mean? I've had that too. She gets jealous.

I don't get to do it. I'm not a jealous person, but if that's the all they're watching and they don't even know it. I'm, you know, pay attention to the person. I like a lot of attention but I'm not typically a jealous person and I don't think that she's being unreasonable though because I think a lot of women are sort of walk the line. They're like, I like their watching form but I don't want him to be just only watching the forms. Yeah, of course. It's a healthy to fixate on anything. Exactly. You were to talk about hotel sex. I got to mention this because we were talking about this earlier You were just talking about hotel sex. I got to mention this because we were talking about this earlier on the radio show that do today and There was this amazing hotel that we were talking about. It's called the Caesar's Resort in the Poconos and this is the place You got to shoot next it looks crazy. It's a big they have a big champagne glass in your hotel room

Oh my god, let me see that you can like hang out in Look at how amazing. I don't know if you have to get a location to release on that, but look how amazing that is. That is amazing. What's the call? Where is it? Seasers, resorts in the Poke Niles. We tweeted, or post it.

You know, there's my, a friend of mine stated that MGM like in the Google, like the Google, where the Google room, something like that. And they like a champion like, tub there, he said. Really? Yeah, he called me for that. He had like a champion like Tub Bear. He said, really? Yeah, he called me for that. He's like, you want a shoot.

You know you do. I stick a picture of it. Are you sending to me? Yes. Yeah, thank you. That's really cool. I mean, I did. Wait, Madison, what did you do?

I think I'm a hotel sex for some Mac. I'm a vacation sex. Yeah, but what was the hotel sex quotes for your tango? No, it's having to post. I've been to post. And then I did actually, I have a new column for Harper's Bazaar that's coming out, I think next week online, and I did one on vacation sex.

Because there is something to be said about switching up your location. When you're with someone and you're only having sex in the bedroom, I know I have a lot of people that can't afford hotel, then go on your back porch or dogs hit for a friend and go in their house. I mean, they're going in the living room. Just try to change up your location. It's just important to mix it all. I want to have sex in that champagne. And your location. It's just important to mix it all.

I want to have sex in that champagne. And your car? Do it. In the car, it's hot. I get my boyfriend a hand job in the car the other day. Yeah, right. That's what I was like to see, right? Yeah, a little bit safer than roadhead.

Yeah, yeah, a lot safer, especially since I was driving. I was hoping to help him. Nice. That was in a disloyalty. Multi-tasker. Well, we were in traffic. I got it. You know, traffic in LA. Yeah, that's why I was like, well, we were in traffic. Yeah, traffic in LA. Yeah, that's why I was so happy.

We were on the 405 for a very long time. I'm so happy because the magic wand, I was talking about this, but they become rechargeable. You know the magic wand, of course. Oh, yeah. And now they just came out rechargeable. Yes. Did you know this? Yes.

Now I'm like, well, you can use in traffic. I was saying this on my show that I was like, that's really dangerous. I'm like, okay, I'm just saying, but you don't need to plug anymore. Because it could be. This is what we need self-driving cars to come out faster. That is fantastic. I'm just obsessed with that. Oh my God.

So like since self-driving cars has been a thing that they've been testing, I go, Emily, how awesome would it be? Like, okay, I'm just gonna program my car to drive to Vegas on the way. And then you're just having sex in the back seat of the car She's like that's not safe Make the car

Right It's funny that you're thinking like you're having sex in the back of the whole way I'm thinking like I could read in the back I could do work out like like you're right though so many things. I would just take a nap I've been so into really like I wasn't that into because I was like I like have my car I would need everything in it and I didn't have a car take a nap. I've been so into Uber lately. I wasn't that into Uber because I was like, I like to have my car. I would need to need everything in it. And I didn't have a car for a week

because I was a whatever got, was in service. And I just, I love it because I can sit, I can chill, I get a ride calm. And then there's that moment when you realize it, like getting an Uber is actually cheaper than like paying for parking. Yeah, exactly. Like in LA, especially if you're going to like

West Hollywood or something. Right. I would be like 20 bucks to park. Totally. And I'm getting rid of my car. And I can drink. It's fun. I know, dude.

Right. It's best. Now there's no reason to start to not start drinking it than I am. Yeah. Or not. Also, I don't know if you've been hearing all the articles lately, but Uber drivers are getting laid all the time now. You.

I swear to God. No, dude. How do we not hurt each other? I had an Uber driver actually hit on me. He was driving me on Valentine's Day to a restaurant to meet my boyfriend for dinner. And he texted me afterwards and said that he found me really attractive and asked for something.

But did you say you were on your way to meet a boy? Yes. Oh, he did. This is inappropriate because they do have your personal information. It's so inappropriate. No, did he text you to the app or text you on your phone? No, because they text me on the phone. Oh, really? That's inappropriate because they do have your personal information. No, get your car on your phone. You touch me on the phone.

That's inappropriate because you get out of your car. Our relationship is over. You just got paid, my credit card billed you. If I didn't bring it up in the car, I'm not interested now. That's weird. I'm usually on the phone or busy, but I don't want that to happen. That's a little invasion of privacy. Oh, it was, yeah. Well, and the thing was, is that I kind of

wanted to complain about him, but he picked me up from his house. Oh, sweet, it was really. Yeah, that's true. I'm so trusting of this too, because it's like, everyone's a newbie darwin. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, I kind of walked down the street,

just in case. That's not, they might. You're so smart. Okay, Holly, what else? So we want to talk about people who to check out your movie coming out adult DVD Empire, you know, the distributor distributor and playboy TV adult film school is that on for another you had three seasons Congratulations by the way because that's not easy. Well, the third season just finished and the fourth season is going to be airing some time later this year. I don't know when yet. I think it's a great concept.

I think it's a great show. So congratulations. And you can find you, Halley Randall, that's R-A-N-D-A-L-L. Yes. And that's at High Randal on Twitter and Instagram and your website. Yes.

Thank you for being here. Thank you. It's been super fun. And I also thank you, Menace. Thank you. And I also wanted to say, which I forgot to say, the beginning that I am now teaching monthly workshops at Hustler Hollywood. I started, you know, I taught my blowjob work. I saw pictures on the first one was.

The first one was how to blow his mind out of blows mine and the other one was masturbation month. And this one now is going to be monthly and this one is called going down with Emily. It's a workshop all about improving your oral sex skills for men and for women. It is Tuesday, June 23rd, from 7.30 to 9 at Hustler Hollywood and you can RSVP at H-H-R-S-W-P at L-F-P.com. That's like Larry Flint Productions, L-F-P.com to save your seat. I mean, we have a blast because, first of all, men, there were listeners there that, because I don't, we don't, I haven't done a lot of public stuff over the years just not because I'm like a hermit.

I just, I'm on the radio all the time, I'm on the radio, but someone's listening since 3FM. I've been here literally like 10 years ago and I was like, oh my God, so people come in and it's crazy. I don't even know if you've never met. It just come, it's fun. Let me go shopping for toys in the store after.

I give you your vise, we hang, it's chill. We have drinks, snacks, so come join me there. You have charts, I saw charts in the photo. Oh, I made it with a vulva. Yeah. And I was pointing out all the different parts. So people came in. And they have a great little like cafe there. Yeah, charts. I saw charts in a photo. Oh, I made it a Vivalva. Yeah, I was pointing out all the different parts of me. And they have a great little like cafe there too. I know. I've been doing a lot of events there. Have you? Yeah, they have great you live in this area right? I live in West Illinois. That's right. Okay, good. You should come. It's a good time. They do what did it the gizz drink? They're canceling their cafe actually. That's what we've been talking about last month.

I was like, where month. Where's my chocolate jizz drink? I love the name. You yielded it too much. I did. You called him out. She wants her dark and dirty chai. Anyway, we're going to have drinks for you and stuff like that. And also thank you Madison, producer Madison, thank you Lori of intern for producing great show. Thank you, Matt, Matt us for being here. Bigs of Avis. Thank you Holly. And everyone, what else do I have to tell you? Oh, follow me. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, it's all sex with Emily. And thanks so much for listening.

Was it good for you? email me feedback at sexwithemely.com. Okay, Papers, here's the thing. I know a lot of you want to last a little longer in bed. Or you just want to have better sex all around. And there is an orgasm gap. Women take, okay, I'm going to ask my guest here, Holly, I know you're rocking up real quick. How long do you think it takes a woman to orgasm on average? You probably know this.

Cool, man. It can be a long span, I know. It can be a while. It can be like a good like 15 minutes or so. That's short. 15 to 20, 40, 15 to 30? I don't, you know, I mean the girls that I work with, they're not always orgasming for real. Right, exactly the fake, fake, fake, question. Typically for a woman it's like between like 15 and 40 and for men it's like six and eight. So, promessant actually closes the arousal gaps so you guys can come together. At least you can wait until she goes. Promessant is a quickly observing delay spray that allows you to do the sex you want. It's the only FDA approval for premature ejaculation, or if you just want to less longer in bed, check it out. Go to promesson.com.

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