Sex With Emily - Sexy Submission with Skin Diamond & Ashlynn Yennie

Episode Date: June 4, 2016

Today’s show is all about exploring your deepest desires! Emily is joined by the stars of Showtime’s steamy new late night show Submission to discuss love, kink and the erotic nature of consent. �� Skin Diamond and Ashlynn Yennie share some of their most intimate stories, both onscreen and off, and reveal what really goes on in a Dom/Sub relationship. The stars open up about their own love lives, divulge details about their sultry shared sex scene and even answer Emily’s Top 5 Sex Questions.   From puppy play to post-breakup vengeance to the truth behind the BDSM subculture, this podcast is chock full of fantasies you won’t want to miss out on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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It's at sex with Emily and Snapchat. That's at sex with Emily and God, Facebook.com slash sex with Emily. I love you all, thanks for listening. I'm here with Menace. What's going on, Emily? How are you doing today? Good. Good. Hi, welcome to our new studio. I know. We have chills and stuff.

We put together a new studio in Los Angeles and... West Hollywood. WeHo. WeHoYo. That's crazy. Thank you. I'm using any personal life, though? Oh, my personal life has been really,

I have to say, it's been good. I actually had a date with someone that I met in San Francisco. Oh, I knew it. But that's all I wanted to say about this for now. And there's definitely gonna be more on the next show I promised because there's something more urgently,

I have more urgent. Okay. There's something more urgent I need to share. Though my sex life is always important, we have two really hot guests on the show today. And I know oftentimes the way we do this, it's like, oh, you don't, you know, often briefed or whatever. We have to tell you a little bit about them, but you know about 50 shades of gray, the movie, the whole thing.

Well, this is this new TV show called Submission. That's coming on, it just came out in Showtime. There's been like a few episodes. And they're saying it's like the real 50 Shades of Grey, like it shows how it's like truly like a better version of it because it shows all sides and why women really desire it. It's hot and sexy and it's kind of like soft core

on Showtime. So we got two episodes to watch, I had a time and skin diamonds here and the other star, she's been on the to watch, I had a time, and skin diamonds here, and the other star she's been on the show before, she's a porn star. And I, the gave us two, the axis code, two shows. So of course, today, I'm like, you know, I watched one last night, and then today I was like, I got to go home and lunch anyway, I'm going to watch the other half hour, and it's hot, right? It's the first one. So then in my house, getting ready, showering, multit hour, and it's hot, right? It's not the first one. So I'm in my house getting ready, showering, multitasking, and I have my phone

because I forget my laptop in the office, watching this really hot sex scene. So I'm about to be like, I'm gonna say, watch him and go, wow, it's really hot. And the office's gonna hear this buzzing because I always get like, I always let bugs into my house. By mistake, I leave the door open a lot.

Because I think it's California. It's nice to be like whatever. But then every night it's like a mall third B, but nothing's ever happened. They go away. So I'm sitting here. I hear B, you make no big deal buzzing. So I get so caught up in this in this hot sex scene where this woman's having a fancy but it's actually real life where these two guys are going down in her and sucker her husband

and her best friend and all of a sudden I realize the buzzing gets louder. It's in my ear. There's a B in my ear and I can be distracted because I'm so turned on by this hot show. I was going to be in a ear. I've never been sung by a B and I'm very actually afraid of B's, like afraid of getting stung.

And in this moment, I was so distracted by sex that I was going to sing. And I thought that was interesting testament too that I was really into this fun and hot show. You were going to escape death. Hopefully, you let the B free though, right? The B guy was like, I thought that was interesting testament to that I was really into this fucking Hacho. You escaped death. Hopefully, you let the B free though, right? The B guy was like, no, I stomped it. Actually, it was dead.

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I've like read then my whole house and the new office, things are good. Like I've not read, I've moved it around so it makes more sense in my life. And you know, things are good for you. That's super good. I'm great. I've been doing all these charity events

with the Habit Burger. I know. Fooching and they've been amazing. And we raised a bunch of money for Hope for Paws, which is a great organization for animals. And then we just did another one in Long Beach for lymphoma research. And so they've been great. And so we have one more tomorrow in Garden Grove, California, with the Habbert Burger and this time we're raising money for Parkinson's research. So if anybody is into that, you're in the area.

All the details are at lunchwithwoody.com. I'm part of the show called The Woody Show. Okay. Well, I'm really proud of you, Matt, it's because I know you, like you've got a lot of stuff going on and you're not often like, you bring up things, Kaz, you're like, wait, what's your Instagram? You're not like push it. This is our own thing here.

But I felt that when you did your first one last week, few weeks ago, you did your first. Yeah, I'd share your event. I'd share your event. And it was like, you're talking about it really passionately. Like this means a lot. And I'm like, yeah, you guys go out and support me. And you know, everyone should, although I didn't.

Yeah, I know. I'm so excited. It was like far away. But like, 20 minutes. But then I saw like your snapchat, which you're really good at snapchat. Thank you. And I was like, wow, there's a lot of people there.

Like Matt, as he like call on like people, like, hey, come in at the picture because a lot of people came out to see me need a burger. And he was like, crowds. I'm like, well, maybe there's something else going on. And then I saw you the other day, and you're like, there were 700 people that came out to see you. Yeah. And I'm not saying like, well, maybe there's something else going on. And then I saw you the other day and you're like, there were 700 people that came out to see you. Yeah.

And I'm not saying like that's, yeah, I know you're su- No, no, no. But I was like, that's, like, I had an event, like, two people show up. And it's fun. I'm so grateful they're there. Oh, no, that's awesome. Yeah, I know the show, the radio show-

People love you. They love this guy. Okay. Really successful in Los Angeles, and I thank everybody for that. But if you can please come out here- He's like, but come to the next one They love this guy. Really successful and Los Angeles. And I thank everybody for that. But if you can please come out. He's like, come to the next one. It's great. I'm just saying that I had a heartfelt moment to you.

And that you're doing great work. And the show is really good. And people love you. And I mean, I, I, I feel like I was the first who really knew I loved you. And now everyone's realizing how great you are to hang out with them. So that's oh, okay. So here's a deal. We got to start talking to our guests who just joined us here. So thank you, we're gonna get into that in a moment.

But when we've guests on the podcast, menace, this is part of things that you don't know. I know you know a lot of things that go on, but we send them a forum to fill out. And one of the questions is, like, do you have it? There was like, well, do you know what if menace isn't there? And actually, as a box, it says, like menace, yes, no. Yeah, I mean, I delete anybody sends me an email.

I'm kidding, we don't send these here. This is just like, but your name, address, but your picture, which are twins.ace, yes, no. Yeah, I mean, I delete anybody sends me an email. I'm kidding, we don't send these here. This is just like but your name, address but your picture, which are two. So one of the questions is any topic off limits. And that's how we figure out what not to ask them, right? Because we're polite. So skin said there was no questions off limits, except we cannot do a game of Thrones spoiler, which

I thought was funny. All the things you could talk to about, not that. So we found a sex in the new story just about this topic. But we will not spoil it. Woman seeks Game of Thrones Revenge on X. So Scorned X lovers often turn to the internet and the wake of a bad breakup, they trash each other, they do bad things, right? They're desperately sexy sympathy or a vengeance and some combination of the two, there's even a genre of revenge porn just for this reason. But this week, one man sat attempt to guard our support for his newly single-played backfire in viral fashion and for good reason.

So the Reddit user, this guy who's scorned, Kalisi Scorned, he's 29. He took the social network, read it, to share a problem he's been having since ending things with his lady love. Whom he refers to as Danny. It's an alias. I could provide the short version, but here we go. He does it in the post. I cheated on my ex drawing a relationship and she found out shortly after we broke up. She's blocked me in everything, but briefly unblocks me every Monday to send me

a game of thrown spoilers before I can watch. How can I get her to stop? She is torturing him. Like literally like torturing. She's like, you're blocked. Oh, guess what? No, you're not. This is bad. Why is he still following her anyway? Well, no, but she blocks him.

That's stupid. So in the course of his cry for help, he admits that he did have a lot of jealousy issues because she had so many male friends and it slept with a lot of guys. And, but this would not hold up in a court of law, but he indicates that there was a direct link between his wandering eye and his ex's promiscuity. So he shared that she got him hooked on the series, but when he travels abroad, it was hard to get a reliable stream. So since

publishing the story, the tables have turned with Danny being heralded on social media as a heroine and generally applauded as a modern day feminist icon. What? Well, because she's like, you know, I do guess what? This is really gonna burn you, okay? The renders' personal skin. What would you do if someone did this to you? Would this be the worst thing a guy's ever done to you?

Or a woman or anyone? I would just block the person. Right. So that I couldn't get the spoiler. But she, that's true. And she probably doesn't understand too way blocking. Because I I that's why I said I was like block her back. She blocks him and then she's a real internet troll. She's making multiple accounts to like tweet him.

She keeps doing it right. But it's kind of ugly. You can't stop it or she'll have a friend do it. Whose friends are the one Facebook. Like if there's no end, she can get in. I love her case. So anyway, we thought about you for that. Stay off the internet or just watch it.

People are so revengeful though. Like, I've never, I mean, if you, okay. So let's say hello to both of our guests. Ashlyn, Yenny, and Skindymond. Thank you for joining us. Have you ever done anything that's like, vengeful when you've been dating someone? Have you ever been like, oh, I mad or I had to

anyone do something to you? I was just curious. I find for me, the best revenge is to pretend that they don't exist anymore because that, the one thing that will drive someone completely insane is to just ignore them and then, like, even no matter what they do, it's true. It doesn't bother me. Sorry. And that'll drive them real crazy. That's what they do, it's true. Just, just, it's like, nope, doesn't bother me. Sorry, and that'll drive me real crazy. That's what I do.

I agree. I agree that that is the very best, like, because it's so hard for people to do. Ashlyn, what about you? I did get revenge on one guy in particular, in a way that it just embodied him a lot, because he knew it was about him. So, a few years ago, I wrote and produced a short film

and I made this character based off of him and this one night in what he did to me. And he's just, he's such a piece of shit. He's just such a douche. He was such a douche. Like, making me go from Uber to a gay night club and telling me he was there and he wasn't there and then making me go to another bar

telling me he was there, he wasn't there. And then finally go to another bar telling me he was there he wasn't there and then finally when I got no I'm not kidding you when I got to the bar where he finally was. To get skinned face she's like disgusted I feel it. When I get to the bar where I finally see him he's like oh hey like acting like a douchebag of course like nothing happens. And it had rained like the two times it rains in LA you know and I've hair, so it was up. It was not a night for down hair, you know. Like he's like, you need to take your hair down.

And I'm like, I don't need it. No, it gets better. I was like, I'm not taking my hair down. And he was like, mind you, he was in the business. So he was a manager. And so then he was like, well, you're talking to a really big director right now. You need to take your hair.

And I was like, I'm not taking my hair down. And he takes his heel, stamps on my foot really, really hard, and then grabs my pony tail to pull my hair out. And I was like, so embarrassed. I was like, are you kidding me? This is not real. None of this is real. Oh my God.

So then I was like, I need to write this short film. And I was like, really excited to write this short film and I was like, really excited to write this character. And I just, with my writing part at a time, we were like, what do we, how are we going to make this guy horrendous? And I was like, I got the story. Got it. Don't even have to make it up.

Right. You're like, so this just happened. These kind of guys exist. Break it down. Break it down. And I love telling people, I'm like, no, that's based off a real person. That person exists. Did you see?

Well, had you been dating him when all those things happened up into that point? I mean, we don't even see each other for like a month. I think that. I love when guys are asked, at least they're doing you a favor when their ass was in the beginning. In the beginning. I spent two years with them. But back and in one thing back to what you were saying, skin, that is true, that it's, well, that's great. You got good. I wish I could do that. I think I'm not. No, my whole show like I tell, it helps. It's like life. But I also think that I've recently gone through breakup and the hard thing is, and I've

tried, like, just really, not even pretend they don't exist and like how you really do that and you're so right about breaking up. It's too hard. It is so hard because now they actually do exist because you're fed to the unfaithful book and everywhere, right? Instagram. And you could, yes, you could be smart, you could be strong and like block the things. You don't want to block, you still kind of want to stalk

I'm being honest. I feel like the refresh refresh refresh. It's terrible You guys have done that when you're like trying not okay. I don't do it. I stopped I stopped last week Yeah, I don't do it either right But when you finally get to that point curious people my advice is always you know take Six months off I'm talking to someone like do block them, you know Don't do no contact. That's when you can, you know He like and I've always told people do your work around this and like there you are What you're part in the relationship was but let them were just like, you know like who's that bitch? He's with an Instagram or whatever so but it is true going back to the best thing is just to like cut them

And I've learned that in later in life that I should actually listen to my lessons But it does help if you know someone's a douchebag you can't or therapeutic you write a story about that Well, you write a story and then you already hate it right. Oh, yeah, and then you tell everyone the story later in life That's a great I love that that's a really that's a really good way to get revenge because I wish I could be more like oh and he had no idea I mean, he know he saw the short film and he would never occur to him that I even know. You know what I mean?

Like he was like, oh that's great. I'm like, you know, that's how big a douchebag. I was actually saying. Exactly. The bigger the douchebag, they literally would need to be more oblivious. They are. They are oblivious. It's like everybody, right?

Those are the people who are not self-seeders and they're not figuring themselves out. So they're great. Because I have a guy in the show that was really cool-seeders, and they're not figuring themselves out, so they're great. Because I even guys in the show are like, that was really cool. I'm like, I really just talked about him. Never went down on me once for a month and that you were cheap as fast, but you, your ego, like I talked about you.

That's exactly. So that's cool. Yeah. Anyway, so have fun. Hi, Menace. Hi. Hi, please meet Ashlyn and Skinny. I know, I've been here, yeah.

I know I was gonna share my story. I think the only thing that I did revenge wise When I was doing a morning radio show in in San Francisco. I was dating I was dating the squirrel I think I was like on the top of the world. It's like all this girls awesome, but what and One day we go to old Navy and we're at the old Navy and we're just like walking around on market street Whatever and she sees this guy that she went to high school with, right? And so I guess this is the guy that she had a crush on in high school, whatever. So then the end of start talking, what I didn't know.

And then like they're texting blah, blah. So she wants to break up with me to get with this guy. And I can just tell you can just some people that just suffer from douche face. So you know, like automatically like, this is a douchey person, you know? I'm like, there's no way this guy is cool. But she ends up like breaking up with me and getting with this guy. And I happen to be in a nightclub, and I've been in the VIP area. So I'm looking down at the, at the general area, whatever.

And he's there with some other girl making out with her. So I hit her up and I don't even tell her. I was like, Hey, I'm at this club. Well, you should roll through it because we're still cool. And we take it up to VIP. I was like, Oh, hey, by the way, there's your boy down there. She like got super mad and went down there. And then I was like, yeah, we can never get back together. But I'm just saying, you know? I feel like that's not an act of service. Yeah, that's not even a century or a century.

I thought it was kind of like a assault in the dudes game, whatever. But, you know, I don't know. I don't know, I'm sure I've done things. But it was pretty awesome. But, you know. I got it. I don't know. I'm sure I've done things. But it was pretty awesome how it all came out. That's awesome. You're like, this guy's a douchebag, so you should know

he's a douchebag, and a lot of them are. That's what happens. I just don't really like that word today. Trying to think if I've ever done anything, I'm sure I have. Mostly people get mad at me, I'm trying to think. Yeah, I think it's like 99% of the time they're mad at you. I don't see you being a re getting revenge on me, but.

No, I'm too like, I'm so sorry. I don't see you being a re getting revenge on anybody. No, I'm too like I'm so sorry See you later. Bye I think about I want to go together. Yeah, friends all my access Men all our access she goes on vacation with with their current girlfriend But so it's so good. Oh, yeah, yeah, like I moved here. Okay, so now this is so different But I was there for 20 years moved here a few years ago, and I'm not so different But I don't know my friends are just more I don't know open and that we're all really cool with it

And then if you date someone for one you actually really like them then you know you can hang out Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong being friends with you You can still be a motion. We don't want to I just think these guys yeah, she truly knows me. We love each other. I think these guys secretly want to three some or no back burning you just in case doesn't work out with their current. We'll find out. Who knows? They are to me, but like I don't think like that. I think you are someone who's

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of the Hot New Showtime series submission, Ashlyn Yenny and Skin Diamond. So I talked about submission earlier in the show. You guys missed it, I almost got sung by a B, actually watching the show. It's showtime's a new, because I was so friggin' turned on that I know that a beer was a B was in my ear.

Oh. It's showtime at newest late-night series about kink exploring your fantasies and of course BDSM written directed by adult filmmaker Jackie St. James, taps into the 50 Shades of Grey market, but it takes a step further into more realistic portrayal of the BDSM community. And I'm here with Ashlyn and Skyn.

So it's actually a scripted show. It is. Okay, cool. Because I was thinking I was like, is this a reality show? No. it's actually a scripted show. It is. Okay, cool. Because I was thinking I was like, is this a reality show? No. So totally scripted. It's cool.

No, it's scripted. It kind of reminds me of the L word. Yeah. Do people say that? I love the L word. A little bit. I have people upset that. L word or definitely a 50 shades or I kind of, it reminds me a little bit of sex in the

city and that it's kind of revolves around three women and they're all so different. It's like the different personality types. Yeah, they're involved in the world of BDSM. Yeah, I can't even think anything that's been like that. That's why. This is why. And you're on a great network show time, which is killing it lately. Yeah, you guys are killing it. I mean, I think I thought it was great. So let me just tell you a little bit here, wrote some background, Ashlyn, actress, and you may remember from the call horror film franchise, the human centipede one and two. Minus, do you see human centipede? Unfortunately, yes. You know, it's tough, right? I did not see the second one.

She's also starred in a bunch of indie films, TV roles, and now she's playing this child. It's actually curious. I love your role, Ashley in submission, which she's gonna tell us about and skin diamond. Welcome back to the show. Award-winning adult film star.

And one of the best known and everyone I talked to literally they're obsessed with years. So it was funny because last time you aren't on the show, I had this assistant. It was like two years ago. Lovely girl. But she often didn't show up sometimes

for things like shows when she needed to. But then she was like, when skin come you see, coming in there and she loved it. She's awesome. I'm just saying like, and everyone, and everywhere I go, but then she was like, when skin coming, see, coming in there and she left, she's awesome, I'm just saying. And everyone, and everywhere I go though, you're like, you had a very sharp, direct rise to fake, you know, world.

I just like what I do, I guess. It's fun. It's fun, I love that you, because Ashel and this is your first kind of sexy role. And now you're working on your next passion project. Which is songwriting? Yes, I am now and do that too. Amporn and Act. Yeah, I just started to write lyrics and writing melodies. And I just released my first single a few days ago and I'll be releasing more music videos in the next

few in the next month. I have lots of surprises. Oh my God. So we're checking it. You just people can find it. Yeah, you can find it. The music video is up on YouTube and you can find the song on iTunes, Spotify, Amazon, I Heart Radio. Yeah, love it. It's called fire.

You should let the fire. Okay. Let's check it out. Fire. So tell me about submission in your own words. How would you guys talk about? No one's ever asked me that question. Interesting. Um, like what's your perspective on it? Like what, what, what are you interested in doing the show? That's kind of like the real 50 shades of gray? Oh well, we're realistic. Okay. Say, well, when I, I mean, when 50 shades came out for me personally, I was not a fan at all

because it was a very bad portrayal of the BDSM world, which is a world that I've been so heavily involved in for so many years. So it was kind of like a, like, almost like a personal insult. Like, what is this? So when Jackie St. James approached me about this project, I was immediately like, yes, because, sorry, I just slammed my head. I was so terrible, so excited.

I was immediately on board because I think it's really important to show this world from a good perspective, from a perspective that embraces it and isn't trying to shock people even though the acts themselves are shocking. It's like- The problem with the FIx H8's is that people are like, first of all just that they're watching a film about it. Like, BDS, I just don't get it. It was confusing to them when it meant- Well, the problem with 50 shades is it wasn't It was confusing to them when it meant. Well, the problem with 50 shades is it wasn't

consensual BDSM at all. And with BDSM, the number one rule is consent. So that right there kind of just warped the entire idea of it. It portrayed women who are into BDSM as these frail little, oh, I don't know what I'm doing, but okay, I'll get tied up, but I don't really like it, but that, and that's not exactly.

That would be BDSM is like, a truce of misive is like, yes, slap me in the face, yeah, that's awesome. No, do it harder, you know? And it's not like a lot of submissive women who like really heavy play are very strong women and that's why they're so, they know what they want and they know that that's what they like and they end up being power bottoms in that way.

It seems that there's more women into this than men, at least from what I see. Well, there's a lot of men that are submissive as well. Is what they don't put it out there, like women do? Not as much. They do exist, of course. Yeah, I think it's more kept under the rug from, well, maybe not all the time, but because a lot of men

that are into very heavy play are like politicians or a lawyer. People that if you were to find out about them, it would be very bad. Yeah. So a lot of people keep it under the right level. That's the thing. And I got to admit the stereotype, a lot of it,

and I know we're into an art board that, like, business man, you control, like, it has so much money, but like, wants to be dominated, you know, wants to be dominated in a diaper and you know, yeah Thanks. Yeah, no Judgment, you know on the on the morning show on the morning show that I'm part of they One of our guys just went to Don Conn and did a bunch of interviews and then the stuff that they're coming back with is just like It's crazy what people are really

with is just like, it's crazy what people are really interested in. Oh, because you mentioned the diaper stuff. And it's just like, it was that on another level. Well, and that's exactly what the show is trying to do is, like, for instance, like depicted in this way where it's not crazy, where it's most, a lot of people are into this. And it's not supposed to be this like, oh, well, they're freaks or they're weird or whatever yeah all of us everyone is a freak everyone is a weird sighted at every single person does and yeah so I think Jackie when she saw 50 shades she or even I think she read the books she was just

she was grossed out she was like this is the not the right portrayal of this at all so she took on a very huge feat in wanting to create a series and she wrote every episode herself. I mean, it's 180 pages of basically dialogue with sex scenes thrown in. Three sex scenes. Three sex scenes per episode. If they're hot, so here's the thing. Is that what I think, I agree with you and all the things.

She said about 50 shades. My whole thing was, yeah, there's a lot of problems you can have with it, but what I do like, is it started a national dialogue and it got a lot of women in school. Exactly. You never ever, you know, read anything like this, thought, oh wow, this speaks to me on a deeper level.

Like, do I really want that? You know, do I, no, you probably might not want it, rather, you're in the Midwest, I'm from Michigan, so I can say, like probably like married mom in the Midwest, you've been, you're not like in sector of their husband, and you know, you're not turning on anymore, you don repay, but you're in the Midwest. I'm from Michigan, so I can say you're like probably like married mom in the Midwest. You're not like in sexual, they're husband and you know, you're not turn on anymore. You don't know why you're thinking, wow, to be taken. I've never, nothing spoken to me on this level.

And maybe it's spiced up her relationship with her. Maybe it's talking about that again. Or maybe it gave you the confidence to actually talk about something you wanted and do all of that before. So that was the thing I like. But what I thought was. Yeah, I agree with you on that. So that was the only thing.

One of the only things. But what I, but what I think is interesting, what is confusing, what I like about your show submission, is that the other thing that's missing for people, they're like, they don't even get the, like, talk about like the dubs, so I'm not, they don't even get why women, how pain can feel pleasurable.

Like the basis that's like, that must just be pain and she's grinning. Can you, that kind of, because I know skin you've also had experience in your real life, BDSM, and maybe Dow Ashland too, I'm not sure. Well, I don't want to make exceptions. Well, we did, because we had a BDSM consultant on set

as well as skin. So skin was very important to me as me portraying Ashley because she helped guide me along with how I developed the character Ashleigh because she's this me along with how I developed the character Ashley because she's this girl who basically is like most people she doesn't really know what she, she's in a relationship where she's basically having bad sex and realizes, you know what, I don't want this anymore. And she doesn't go seeking BDSM, it just happens to kind of fall into her lap and then she

becomes interested in it. And then she kind of, she chooses to go into it. She makes the choice herself. She wants to do this. She's, she's the same kind of thing, though. She picks a book called Slave. It's kind of like, she's right. So I'll go back and we'll talk about, we'll get more in debities because I love that you brought this up because this is how it opens madness. It's the best thing. This is why I love this because it opens up. Ashland's having sex. She's like nice, looks like a nice, you know, nice normal, normal midwestern girl. And her boyfriend's like pounder girl from behind, right?

Like not only in a, she's just like the, and she's like the boredest look at her face. She's like, did I put, did I have to, my shopping cart at Amazon, so open it, I order those shoes, yeah. I'm just so bored, right? He's pounding, pounding, pounding. And then, and you're just like, you know,

and all of a sudden he's comes, you're like, oh, you roll over and then, and then you guys get in, you know, and all of a sudden he's come, she's like, oh, you roll over, and then you guys get in this fight. And you have this fight that I've heard so many times by like listeners, callers, and that is, you're like, I can't orgasm during penetration alone. And he's like, well, all the women I've dated before, and the woman's like, probably lying, faking.

And then, and you're like, I can't do it, you're like, I mean, I still enjoy it, you're like, I need for play. And it's like, and seeing, they break up.'t do it, you're like, I mean, I still enjoy it. You're like, I need for play. And it's like, and seeing they break up. Which you know, these are the basic tenants, but we, not that everybody needs to be here. All the time. So I love that in like the first three minutes, I'm like, yes, yes. It's so related about that part of it. It's so relatable. And it's just because so many women, I think that was the perfect.

And then cut two, three minutes later, you're like watching skin get banged by her boss that work, which was awesome and hot. So you're watching her. So that was your first, so you took on that role as a newbie exploring that world. Yeah. And I had you, so okay, so telling you what now, I'm going to get into like making a show.

So did you open up? It's actually it away or? Yeah, well, it definitely changed. I mean, the whole show definitely changed. I think a lot of us are perception of what PDSM was, because honestly, when I went in for it, I had no idea what it was. Like, I had reservations about even auditioning

for the show because I actually went and auditioned, my first audition was for the character of Jules, it wasn't for Ashley. And then Jackie and Paul asked me to come in and read for Ashley. And I was like, I can't do this. This is way too much. I didn't even know the extent of what she was going to go through.

But I was just like, I don't know if I could play the girl who gets into BDS. I'm like, I don't know if I can actually do that as an actor. And then I was like, but you know what, fuck it. I'm going to try. I'm sorry. That's right. OK. Then I was like, but you know what? Fuck it. I'm gonna try. I'm just, I'm sorry. That's right. Okay.

And so then it went in and, you know, Jackie wrote me a list and it was like 34 very specific things I was going to have to do. And mind you, like 30 of them I'd never done before, you know? And a couple of them, there's one thing in particular that's never been shown on TV, what you're gonna see in the next episode five. It's super interesting, but also just like, the being restrained for however long it is, but it's also filming, so it's not. What do you mean you're being restrained

that's never been seen before? No, that's not what the thing that you'll never, that's never been shown on TV before, that's something completely different. Okay, but as well as being restrained and, you know, flogged or whatever it is, or vibrated, or, you know, blindfolded, all of that stuff, I did do all of that, but it's fake.

It's tricked out, so it's not actually. In the scene, right. In the scene, so. But did you have to prepare? Yes. Did you go have an experience with, like that? Well, yeah, I mean, I guess I've experienced Dominic Tricks.

I just did a ton of research. I did a ton of research. I would think you have to risk. No, but come on. You could read about it. I could talk. I could tell everyone how to do it right now. You want me to give away all my secrets?

Yeah. Method actually. Okay. Got it. So you learned. I learned. I learned a lot about it. And I learned that there are things that, you know, I wrote this in an article that's

going to come out on Saturday. But I personally, Ashlyn, don't like being restrained. I don't like being held down. Like, that's not my thing. I'm not. It doesn't do anything for me. But Ashly, on the other hand, she does like that. So as an actor, having to play that.

Ashly's your role, the role, yeah., having to play that, Ashley's your role the role, yeah. So having to play that character and be okay, you do look in psychology, I see. Yeah, so it's like, it's almost like, but when I, as I was playing her, I remember the first time they restrained me, I was like, this is her. This is when I realized I was like, okay, this girl,

this is gonna be amazing, because I dipped into her exact psyche at that moment and I could go in and out of it, you know. Right, but it wasn't really turned you on though in the moment, right? No. Okay, so because skin, you have experienced the adult film, how have you turned on during your scenes?

Was it really like, or was it more, because it's script, I don't know, that porn is inscripted as well, but it's a little different kind of script. Well, it was interesting for me. I'm sorry. Of course, it's scripted, so it's hard to like, you know, you're going to be cutting everyone's know-out.

But I was just really trying to be true to, like, myself as a submissive, because I have been a service slave to a master in real life, not off camera before. So that I use that as an opportunity to really help Guy Ashlyn with her character as well to try to help her get into the sexy like, so you were there for her to like say how how to say to your mind skin when you're in one of these yeah, I mean, it's amazing We have a scene together. Yeah, I mean get there Anything away, but it was definitely this

Mind you we had to reshoot it so we did it a few times But it's one of the things where it was because of her experience that she was the best person, honestly. And Jackie was the best person to direct, because as just an actor coming in, they call it civilians coming in for this. I was guided in the best possible way I could be. And it was really fun, because I mean, it was nice for me as a such a big advocate for the world of BDSM to show

people who were new to it. Like this is what it's really like. Like, dorms aren't just throwing you and leaving you in a corner and not caring about your well-being at all. Like there's a lot of, are you okay? It does this hurt? Is this too much? Should I pull back? Do you want me to keep going? There's a lot of talk going on. And that's what you feel like is miss. So you think this corrective submission shows the kind of a more realistic portrayal of

BDSM? Yeah, it shows that there's a lot of different levels. For example, my character, she's submissive, but she's very fiery. Like, she has a, she's, she's actually very dominant, but she likes to be submissive. And so I like, I, I think it's important to show the different ranges. Yes, you get the submissive girls like, like, like, the character Ashley, who's, you know, she's never done this before and she's, you know, more innocent. And then you get the submissives that are like, I know exactly what I'm doing,

and I'm gonna go out and get exactly what I want. And then you better hit me hard, because that's what I like. And that's what Dylan is. She's the opposite end of the spectrum. Okay, got it. Man, it's two big questions here about the BDSM world. You look either you're really attentive or.

I do have some questions about the show. So real quick, with you, how did your family, when they saw the first episode, what was their reaction? My family hasn't seen the show. Oh, they haven't. No, I just came out. Yeah. I don't eat or arm see it. Well, I don't think they're blocked them on Facebook. I mean, my family is like, I have an amazing family. But it's the same thing as the human centipede films. Like, they just, it's not their thing, you know?

And I think my- They watch and support, though. Oh, yeah. Well, my mom and Nana came with me to the human centipede to premiere, which I thought was really, like, such bad asses. You know, like my 80-year-old grandma was sitting next to me watching, you know. This is really cool stuff.

But as far as this show, I think my grandparents have seen it. And then, but my mom and dad haven't watched it, which is like completely fine, honestly, I don't really care if they watch it or not. It's not made for them, you know, if I made movies for them, they'd be hallmarked. So, but they're very supportive. I mean, like anything, they're like, whatever you choices

I take in life as an actor, and this is for anybody, it's like, I want to play these characters. And there's a reason why I wanted to play Ashley and to tell a truthful story. So it's cool. Yeah. Okay. Now, skin, my question. Last time you were on the show, we talked about your bisexual. Mm-hmm. And I'm assuming, how you dating now? I don't know where you're at now. Well, I think two years. I know it's been a while. I think the last time I came on the show I was dating, I had a girlfriend, but now I have a boyfriend.

Okay, see, that's what you're going to ask. And how is it monogamous? It's, well, we're, it's mostly monogamous, but we like to frame people Yeah, but he actually is the man behind a lot of the music that I've been making. Oh, I love this. So he's inspiring you. Mm-hmm. You're inspiring, Cam, I'm sure. Yeah, it's really nice.

That's creative relationships like that. Yeah, it's nice being able to do something besides just bang. You said I just think, but you're really good at your really sexy. There's a scene in there that you'll love this, where Dylan, Skin's character, goes to the bathroom and has, there's a woman at the coffee shop, it's like with a boyfriend who looks super bored.

I love that all the women are like super annoyed with their boyfriend's, or it's like boring, bad and bad. Not that all guys are like that, but I can really, and then you like give these looks over the counter. And next thing you know, they're in the bathroom having sex with skin in this girl and she takes her cray vestber necklace around her neck and she uses a vibrator and it's like the hottest scene.

I'm like great, she has a vestber on her neck. It was really hot. Turns out it was the vestber I gave to her last time she was on the show. The vibrating hot sexiness, but the scene was so hot. Yeah. She's so good. You like the prop purse.

I know, I just told them, oh my god, that was so cool. So when I was so turned on, that was maybe when I got slung by the bee. Yeah. She's here. You like a prop person. I know, I just told them. Oh my god, that was so cool. You're a prop master. So when I was so churdod, that was maybe when I got sung by the B. Yeah. Anyway, almost. Well, it was really cool when I knew about this scene and what was going to happen. I already had the necklace, and I approached Bo about it, the DP, and I was like, you

know, I have this vibrator necklace. I feel like Dylan would totally have there. Like, Dylan's a freak. So of course she has it. And then it was a fun little... That's a fun. Something that nobody seems a foreigner. Yeah, that was sexy scene.

So, yeah. Oh, so with Dom's stuff, sorry. I don't know all the correct terms. That's okay. So I don't want to say anything. Yeah, it's because of this. It's 2016, if you say something wrong. No, we're not know all the correct terms. That's okay. Yeah, it's 2016. It's 2016 if you say something wrong. No, we're not gonna judge it, but I think that this is a lot.

I thought you'd ask what guys are thinking. No, no, no. Something also I noticed when we go out and interview people that I've noticed in that realm is this whole new pup play. There's like pup masks and stuff like that. Puppy play. There's also piggy play. Is that like pony play? Or is that what has always been around? My personal favorite is kitty play.

Okay. But um, Is that what's been around? It's been around for a while. It's um, a lot of the times specifically puppy play and piggy play, it's usually meant to be a kind of humiliating act because you're kind of like, oh, you're filthy little piggy. Yeah.

You know, it's seen as more of a degrading, like people that wanted to feel like, you know, but you can take it to many different levels. I mean, you can take it to any level you want, really. I mean, you could be a piggy, but you could be a bore piggy, and you could be a dominant piggy if you wanted. But I personally like kitty play because it's, it feels more venom venom venom. And like, you know, and cats are bratty. So I feel like that's it portrays my career. You worry about sure or something? No, no, no, no. I don't know. I don't know. I for some reason it. I don't know. For some reason, it keeps on popping up

every time to go out and go to a convention like that and interview people. And yeah, the, what was the other thing? Oh, the other thing is have you ever, so when somebody is into that, have they ever broken it down to say why? They're into it. Because just recently on a show that we had,

we had Jim Norn, he's a radio host and he's like, suddenly I'm into feet now and I don't know why, I wanna worship feet. And so anybody that's like into, you know, Dom's stuff like that, have they ever broken down why they're into it? Or for some reason they've always just... Dom stuff and the feet stuff.

Or anything, like that. Yeah, or like people that wanna do pup play, like, do they know why they wanna do that? Or is it just something? I think it's just something that a lot of the time just happens, like I feel like a lot of the fetishes that I've developed over the years, I didn't know I even, they existed until

the idea of it was presented. And then after that, I was kind of like, yeah, that for some reason that kind of turns me on. And I don't know why it happens that way. I guess it, but it is an interesting subject to study because why people like things, you can really learn a lot about people by what their fetishes are, I think. Because we could never get an answer.

Yeah, it's one way to put it out there. It could be a lot of times from childhood things, or it's because it presented to you when you're like, oh, that really turns me on like Ashlyn, like your character and submission, you read the book, Slay, and then you're like, oh, this might be interesting to me. So a lot of times, I mean, a fetish necessarily, but it's something that, opening your mind sexually, you didn't know existed, and then it's packaged to you in kind of an interesting way.

And then to, I think a lot of people, they kind of fall into this like, well, maybe. And then because I feel like humans were so curious by nature, were curious, we want to know, we want to know about people, we want to know about people's lives, we want to know everything. No, so when we give,

we're given the opportunity to explore, you know, especially what is considered like a taboo subject and it's in a healthy, consensual way. Why not? And then people are like, and then and then it'll spark on to more other, you know, other things and other things. And then all of a sudden you're like, wow, I have nine fetishes and I had no idea. But then to you, it's not even a fetish anymore. But not even a fetish anymore. And by using fetish in a way, just maybe it's what turned you on.

You don't have to be in a fetish, so you're fetish if you're into it. It doesn't, it can just be. But so here's my other thing that in the, I think it was something like in the book, in the slave, or one of you that has a line, and you were like, he didn't ask for what he wanted. He took it from me, you know.

But so there's that whole notion of women want to be taken, right? And that's a lot of what they feel like, oh, right, but we're not talking about that. Like we just like want to be desired at this level that it feels like a man has to have. It's like that's the coolest level of like the ravishing and why aren't we on that?

And so for my first thing is like, the psychology behind that, and which is why Fiji Shade's a great spoke to so many women is because there is this certain sense of like, we just want a man to like take us and wrap it. Like he can't think, he can't, he just needs us and wants to make it. And that can be a great turn on in like the power play

and the role playing and stuff like that. But. And that is, that's a line from the book. Right. In the series. And so, yeah. And a is, that's a line from the book. Right. In the series. And so, yeah. And a lot of, I think it's not to be confused with wanting to be controlled in all aspects of your life.

Right. It's just when a man is like, I need you so much, I'm gonna take you and I can't say no to, or whatever, it's almost like, wow, he wants me so much, he's just gonna take it. But then, you know, in everyday life, like I'm the most stubborn person ever and do not tell me what to do.

Don't try to even order my bread for coffee for me. I get it, but insects we're talking about. That's what I'm gonna get back to, is that it's that, and it's not that everyone wants to even be, not, you know, wants to be used on bondage or anything like that. It's more like they just want to be like taken. And so that's the desire. They want to be exactly.

They want that desire. And so I think that that's what a lot of people maybe don't make that connection. And even with the BDSM, with the product, so that is bringing more pain into it, that a lot of it is sort of on that spectrum, and that why it's still confusing to people like how that feels good to women, you know? And it's complex, psychological, it feels good, it really does like on a physical level.

It's very complex. And again, it's like you wouldn't want every single guy to do that, it's just like the ones that you are really into, you want them to be that into you. Exactly. And you don't write. Okay, so that was my question for you, though, skin. So you, I know you're in a relationship now,

but how would you find those partners or how would you, you personally, or would you suggest if there's women listening, you're like, yeah, I just want my partner to come home or whoever come home and it's like throwing on the bed, like just the basics of you. How would you express it to somebody? I would just, I mean, communicate.

I mean, is scary as it can be? Because I mean, sometimes telling the person that you love that weird desire, that you don't know why it turns you on, but you just really want to try it, you never know what they're going to say. Just present to them, you know them in a sexy kind of way. And then how would you do it? Maybe they'll, I mean, I don't know.

I guess if I wanted my boyfriend to try something new, I would probably already start for play, like get him excited first, and then while we're in the moment, be kind of like, hey, I know, I have this to try or what do you think about this while they're already. So then it's, so then it's like, they're already in the moment with you and then you can kind of play off of that way.

Instead of just being like sitting down at the kitchen table and be like, hey, this is a meeting now. So what would you like to do? Here's my contract. Yeah. Would you go do to practice? Yeah. Would you like to do it? Yeah. Yeah.

OK. I want to know also, Ashlyn, are you dating anybody right now? Yes, I am. I've had the same boyfriend for seven years. Really? Yeah. OK. So how does he feel about this? I mean, he, of course, was, he had his reservations

at first when I was auditioning for the role, just because like any role, there's a part of you that gets in there, you know, and you, all these things, but at the same time, he loved the research. Like, you never know. Like, not gonna lie.

Right, he's like, okay. Does he hate watching the sex scenes for sure? Yes, that is never fun. Like, it's never fun. This is never fun. Just even watching your partner in a film when you're watching them be into it with someone else. It's just like, ew, stop.

What are you doing? That's cool. He was down. Anything you guys tried, they're like, oh, we might, you know, that kind of, it's fun. We might do that again. Yeah, there was a couple things. Yeah, that I actually took from set that we'd done in the series.

That's why. Oh, you can't tell me the spoiler. Oh, the spoiler came. It's really cool. I can't tell me that's spoiler. I was the spoiler queen. It's so cool that I wanted to keep it. Yeah. But there is some really cool stuff that we did in the, that I didn't expect that I was like, oh, this is actually, it's actually not bad.

You know, I don't. That's how I like that. That's how it's starting. That's how it's starting. That's how it's starting. And honestly, it's just one little thing and your whole mind can open up. Yeah. The handcuffs feel like most men are like, yeah, okay. Sure.

Wait, what do you want to do? Yeah. You know, because I feel like most people, I was a lot of my girlfriends were very reserved people, especially, it's like you're almost afraid to say what you want. That's a thing. And then just, that's why having these movies like 50 Shades, like the like it's so it's a great it's a great thing. I can see couples getting into it too. Yeah, maybe that I always feel like they don't know because we talk a lot about communication on the show. So I always say you know we'll listen a lot of a lot of couples

actually do they listen to my show together and they're like oh well Emily said it or we you know we could try that thing she said so I think watching submission as a couple could be like oh do you you ever think that would turn you on and I'm like yeah boom there you go you're in thank you both for this sexy discussion Ashton and thinking I'm so excited it to keep watching Showtime It's called submission and it's on one night Thursdays at 11 p.m. East Coast and Pacific time Yeah, and if you have the East Coast feed in the light comes on at eight Which is a little bizarre You'll be like having dinner and then it's like

Okay, where can we find you both best place to find you? Oh, yeah, Instagram or Twitter? Yeah, okay, and we'll have that all on the website So thank you both for being here. I five more questions for you. Okay, and we'll find, we'll have that all on the website. So thank you both for being here. I have five more questions for you. Okay, quick, rapid-fired. Don't need to go to the bottom right. Do we answer them one at a time or? Wanted to, so you're gonna go back and forth and answer.

Okay, ready? Sex with the Emily. Top five sex questions. Number one, okay, skin, biggest turn on. Confidence. Ashlyn, biggest turn on. Humor. Biggest turn off.

Skin. Bad odors. Overly confident. Yes, I agree. Wraises place you've gotten busy, skin. Um, oh, it's not fair. It's going to be so good. I know you should do ashes for yourself.

I'm pouring mine's, I honestly don't, I don't think I've had sex anywhere besides like a bedroom or a hotel, so I'm so lame. And that's why I've got to have the bathroom. It's good, it's good, it's good to go back and forth. Oh, I know, so I did a SpongeBob parody porn, so technically I have had sex in a pineapple under the sea. No way. It's amazing. Girlfriend, man.

We were... No way. No way. Wait, was this SpongeBob Square? SpongeBob Square Nuts, yeah. Oh my God, we played the theme song for that. Oh, really? On a morning show that I was on.

I loved that. I was Sandy the Squirrel. That's that square nuts. This is amazing. I'm pineapple under the sea. No one can... Yeah, I like it. That's where not. This is amazing. I'll pin up under the scene. No one can. Yeah. Oh my god. That's the craziest place. You have to look up the theme song for that. Okay. That's amazing. I met his eyes. I got his fill up. Okay. So that's a good one. Wait. So sexiest word to you. Either one of you can answer you the time. It's like this word.

There's so many words coming to mind. I'm trying to not. There's can I say words? Yes, what else? Take my breath away. Because I'm into breath place. So joke me basically. Oh, oh, I, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, This is beautiful. It's just absolutely nice. I got you lunch. I got you lunch. Ooh. That's a phrase. That's a good word. Mine was just like, yeah, mine's a phrase too. Well, no, no, it's a word. I'm employed. Really like it. That's a phrase.

That's a phrase. That's a good idea. That's a good idea. That's a good idea. You wish you could tell your younger self about sex. That you know now. Don't worry. Yeah.

For sure. Chill out. Just relax, because be yourself. Okay. Don't worry. Yeah, for sure. Chill out. Just relax, because be yourself. Okay, I love it. Thank you both for being on the show. This is awesome. This is really fun. Thank you.

Thank you. And yeah, thanks everyone for listening. Was it good for you? E-Mount. We feedback at sexwithemily.com. Okay, guys, listen to me. I know some of you tune out every time you hear me talk about cagal exercises. Well guess what? You're making a mistake.

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