Sex With Emily - Spicy Sex Tips & Nipple Tricks

Episode Date: October 10, 2015

Could your sex life use a little extra spice? In today’s show, Emily is answering your top questions on sex & intimacy and provides step-by-step guidelines to help you turn your bedroom troubles around. How do you keep the sex hot in your routine-based marriage? What if you’re uncomfortable with your spouse’s new fantasy? Between sexual spontaneity, dirty talk and honest communication, Emily offers the perfect guidance to activate and amplify your bedroom activity. And if you happen to be waiting for marriage to venture into intercourse, she’s got some breast play tips to help you step up your “second base” skills.Whether you’re a newlywed, a seasoned monogamist or a single on the prowl, Emily is here to help you out of your rut and provide some fun commentary along the way. From dildo cars to swinger parties, this show has a little something for everyone — Don’t miss it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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What up, him? How you doing? Happy October. I love October. My favorite. Really? Fall? I like? How you doing? Happy October. I love October. You do? My favorite. Really? Fall?

I like it when it gets cooler, yeah. Yeah, it's nice and stark and it's cool. It's been so freaking hot for like two months, like 95 degrees. There's so much fun coming up, you know, when I first got the Halloween and then you get the things giving and then the Christmas and all that stuff, even though it gets a little less fun as you get older. Right. Still like the memories and the smells of the pumpkin and all that.

I love it. Are you doing, are you do like do Halloween? Get dressed up. I'm like Martha Stewart at my house. What do you mean? Like you make costumes for everyone? Like I decorate it. Oh you do, you look at the pumpkin spice.

It's nice. Well no like just for me like to have at my house in October just so I have like the Halloween stuff around the house. I'm never invited over. I'm gonna come. Yeah come on, come on out to that. Okay yeah right, you're like yeah, yeah. I'll see you there.

We're doing okay so October at Sex with Emily, because every month we have a little something going on last month with sex ed. Of course, August was anal sex month. And this month is freaky sex. And what are you going by that? Just to go along with the Halloween theme. Some things that are outside the box. Little kinky things to spice it up, dirty talk, BDSM, role playing. We're going to be giving you some great tips. So check all that. And I'll also probably be teaching a workshop at Hustler again, which I have to find out the date, which was amazing to the night. If I see you, it was so good.

My workshop, it was back to basic, sex ed, and I'm like, okay, we're gonna sit and talk about conms all the time, but it was really, like, interesting. People were really, really, really gripped. They felt so good to me that, you know, because I'm reading it going, I'm doing this for 10 years, we will know this stuff. And there was just people, just asking all the questions,

and everyone kept emailing, they learned a bunch of stuff. And by Lori who works there with her new boyfriend, he was like, I learned a lot. She's like, really, and he named 10 things he learned. And then they went and had amazing sex. So, you know, that's why I exist.

I'm gonna do more of these workshops. That's why I exist. It's true. I know. I know. It's just early having amazing, no, I am actually actually having a practice. You don't always have to practice will you preach? I mean look at the look of the Catholic priests. You know, you don't have to they do practice I don't get into some religion now, but you know Catholic priests are not a good example of um, I'm saying you can have terrible sex you personally have terrible sex

But you can still give great Because then people would be like I slept with with Art and Cheesauk to say, we're gonna come out of the big cheeseless. How did that happen? How did that happen? No one tried to slander? Oh, you could probably sue somebody if they ever did. Yeah, but I have to say that I'm pretty confident

in my bedroom skills. I might not be a great girlfriend, I don't cook. You don't decorate for Halloween. I don't decorate for Halloween. I'm not a great planner. Do you have like a little spooky dildos around the house, Halloween time though? Well, if you think dildos are spooky then yes.

I've got a lot of spooky stuff going on my house right now. Oh my god. I have a lot of stuff. It's so funny because I'm so tired because I was up to like three in the morning last night or like, so I started obsessed about organizing my toys and I'm getting so many. And then I got the Sibian, which is a game changer. So my entire house, I was like putting all the like, literal vibes in one drawer and all the G spot vibes and all the lube in one drawer because I realized it was all over the place And so now I just I feel a lot better. I didn't get a lot of sleep, but I feel really organized So that's really good. No, it is. It's true

Don't you feel like you need to get out like a country? Is there something in your life that you feel like once it's in control under control You feel better Yeah, that's most everything that's always out of control right? That's how I feel too So I could have been, you know, writing something or paying bills, but now I feel really good because I knew we're all my like water-based loops are in silicone. It feels it was a good night. So either something else I have to tell you, Anderson, what's that? You had an amazing event the other night. I did. Your film screening, which was so great to celebrate you.

But there's something that I didn't tell you would have after. It was a really interesting night. So first I went to dinner with Dr. Dr. Drew and Susan, this wife, so it was a nice dinner. And then afterwards we went to your screening, which is great. And I was with this guy that I've been dating. And then as we were leaving, I get a text from this couple I know, this Swinger couple. Do you remember how Lee and Mike, they're on my show? They've had a few couples that were swingers on the program. Okay, they have a show and play with radio called Swing. I do remember them. And they're great

couple and we're friends. They text me every way. They're like, come to a party, come to like called Swing. I do remember them. And they're great couple. And we're friends. They text me. They're like, come to a party. Come to like a play party. Like with the guys singing parties. I'm like, I'd love to because I've been to singer parties. You know, when I first started, it was more like, I'm the avoier and I was observing

when I first started my show. And I haven't been to one in LA. And I just thought, you don't have to do anything. But I kind of want to check it out. And the guy I've been dating was like, I really love to check out a party sometimes. So we're leaving a party and I get a text from them and they're like, oh, come to this party. It's at this in the Hollywood Hills and it's like, beautiful house, like come meet us here.

And I was like, okay, I want with this guy. And they're like, great, come on. So we show up at the Spinger party and we get in and it's like the beautiful people's swing or party. So it wasn't like everyone ponytails and what people would think. What's with the ponytail? Everyone says that it's not true. Everyone thinks So it wasn't like everyone's ponytails and what people would think. What's with the ponytails in my community? Everyone says that it's not true.

Everyone thinks that there wasn't one in a ponytail. I was a little overdressed, meaning I was wearing a mini skirt and a tank top and women were like in bathing suits and stuff. Did you change? No, I was wearing that your party, you didn't notice. I didn't notice. Well, it wasn't super mini,

but it was like cute outfit, but not naked. And so it was so interesting because I've been, and what happened to these parties, it's like a regular party, you go in, people are drinking, everyone's talking, you mean the women are a little more scantily clad. But after about an hour or two, you look around, everyone's having sex. But at first you can't really tell, you're like, are they just dancing? You're like, oh no, he's banging her from behind. Oh, she's giving them blowjacks. She won't bed. Is that a house? Is that a house?

Like someone's out, do they rent the house out? Yeah, it's like someone's house. And there's a little bedroom, it's giving them blowjots. It's like in a bed. A house? Is that a house? Like someone's out to that rent the house out? Yeah, it's like something's house. And there's a little bedroom. It's like, you know, condoms everywhere. And then someone comes in and changes the sheets. Now, I do not engage anything, but was really interesting being with someone who's never, because I've been before, who's never seen it.

And the funny thing is, Holly Michael left before we did because my friend was like, oh, I want to. He's like, I don't want to check this out. But we, you know, it's just funny because you look to the right. You're like, oh, he's like, wasn't that the guy that was just talking to us about like stocks and bonds. And now he's like, you know, it's just funny because you look to the right. You're like, oh, he's like, wasn't it the guy that was just talking to us about like stocks and bonds?

And now he's like, you know, going down in this check on the couch and guys that like stocks and bonds, that's like, I know it was like five minutes later, everyone and literally they're just, first you're kind of like, are they aren't they? And you know, stuff's going on. It was just really interesting. And it was funny seeing it.

They were saying his eyes because I was like, let's just go. Like I've seen people begging. And I guess I've just sort of, you know, it's a solution for a living. It's kind of like, oh, we're, I don't know if you're afraid of living, but I've seen it. But And I guess I've just sort of, you know, it's a solution. When you do it for a living, it's kind of like, I don't go to sleep, I'm afraid, for a living, but I've seen it. But if you never been,

you talk sex, relationships. I do. I'm like, okay, they're banging. She has a thing she's having fun. Was there a big bowl with the drugs, the front door? No drugs, you know, there was no drugs. Stupid. I know, there was no drugs, there was nothing, there was like drinking a little bit.

But it was like nice people. And if I was in the mood, I was really tired after your, you know, but it was a good, it was funny to watch it to this guy, but you know, the thing that was good, it was a, nice people. And if I was in the mood, I was really tired after your, you know, but it was a good, it was funny to watch it to this guy, but you know the thing that was good was a good for play. Like we kinda like started making out, it was hot, living in home and had great sex. We didn't have sex there.

No. So I just wanted to share with you where we're blessed, evening that was. That would be weird. That would be weird if you were that. I'm not a dead man. I'm crazy, I'm wild, I'm sex with that. No, I'm still.

I don't know if there was a big palatrugs. But I just thought you'd like to know that it was a very full of that. I'm glad that you ended up going from one hospital to one giant room to another. That was amazing though. It was a great event. And you said that I could make it too. My buddy, Michael, he's throwing,

he's an event organizer and he also raises money for charities. And it's kind of on the heels of what I just did, but I got another one, I think coming for a, guys name is Greg Weisman and we're doing a Q&A for a new book that he has out, and there's gonna be some big actors there. Oh, big. Like Tom. And that's a Marshall Ed Asner. He's a legend.

Wow, legend. He's gonna be on the panel. So it's at Meltdown Comics, which is a sweet location in Hollywood. That's awesome. October 9th, 7pm. Ticket start at 10 bucks, and you can go to friendsforbenefits.org. Friends for benefits. That friends with benefits, friends for benefits.org. Friends for benefits. That friends with benefits, friends for benefits.

Friends for. Maybe you'll find a FWB when you're there. There's going to be some good conversation. You go to that's.org and then you can get the tickets there. They start at 10 bucks. 10 bucks. Porsions, other proceeds go to a comfort zone camp, which is a great cause. So you're going to learn some stuff.

It's Friday night. It's Friday, add some, you can be there. It's a Friday night. I'm gonna be there. I was looking for cool stuff to do in LA that makes me feel artsy and sophisticated. No, the comics is great. Love it. And then when you got Ed Asner there,

and Greg Wise, we got you. Creator of Gargoyles, and he's also overseas, a bunch of cartoons like the Star Wars Rebels, like he's like the Supervised and Producer. He's a really super smart guy. I'm having lunch with him on Monday, but I will be moderating the Q&A.

So come on out. You can be good at that. Help give some money to charity and have good time at the meltdown comics, which is where Nerdist is, too. Yeah, I was there. I was in a podcast there, too. Okay, well, that's good. Interesting.

Let's get that plug in there. Of course. I want to sell tickets from Michael, because Michael's a great guy. And Greg's a great guy. And something to do. What else do you do for a night? So how much Netflix boring?

If you've been looking for an excuse to go see where Nerdist does their older shows. Yeah, oh my god, Nerdist is huge. So you lots of great podcasts, except for this one. Friends for benefits.org. Okay, cool. We'll be there Anderson. We'll be there support you man. Okay, I've got a little bit of sex in the news. I got your emails. And I love hearing from everybody. I just want you to know that it's funny because if you'd back at sex with LA.com, I do read all of your emails and we really are getting better now at letting people know that we've answered them on the show because it took me a while to get that system going. But if you're 10 years, you email

you, you can listen and we help you. Oh, you got to have a place for me. It took me a long time. Yeah. The reason why you know I felt bad about it though, because my first job I worked in politics for 10 years. I worked in my congressman, but for 10 years, but that was my first job. I was an intern in DC. Right. And that was when everyone was writing letters then and everybody would everything got stacks and stacks and stacks of mail and and his thing was like you have got to email every single constituent back who or write them back even if they're like my stop sign doesn't is broke like why is there something and you think just because you have to acknowledge it and to me and like people write me I want to acknowledge it so that's

that's what we do. So you learn good habits and politics and we 10 years to go over into my show. Exactly. I speak in a 10 years real quick in events and what. Yeah. What are you going to do it? We're working on the live show Madison's in charge of it. We're going to do a live show. Maybe it in probably got. I've got to talk to the people. Yeah, Madison's her back from him yet. She hasn't her back or she didn't get back. She didn't hear that. No, she did.

He did. That is bad practice. He emailed her back finally and then she's, but we're gonna do it. Anderson's gonna be there. Men's is gonna be there. We're gonna have other special guests. And it's like 10 years. I'm really excited. Have you ever met him?

No. You guys would like it. You guys sit there. You'll make fun of me the whole time. It'll be awesome. All right. Enjoyable. It'll be a good time.

Okay, so. Sex in the news. Sex in the news. Seven, eleven offers date night delivery of ice cream and condoms. Everyone's jump around the bed back in here. So convenience store chain seven eleven announces its new delivery service includes An offer twenty-dollar date night pack containing ice cream candy red bull and condoms. That seems cheap. I don't think I scream Yeah, it is cheap like even if you don't want to sex. I'd be like I want the red bull and ice cream

Yeah, and condoms the date night pack it costs 20't want to suck, so I'd be like, I want the Red Bull and ice cream. And condoms, the date and I pack it costs 20, okay, they get Ben and Jerry's, chocolate chip cookie dough, I'm totally down with that. Hershey's chocolate bar. That's like, like, $5.56. I can't or Red Bull. That's like, another $3. $18 pack of tried ink gum and three condoms.

No, all right, I see where they're making their money now. It's about $12 toward the product and then $8 in delivery, I get it. Okay, and then you tip maybe. Because you're high or in or drunk when you need this stuff. Right. You don't want to drive. We had freaking lazy though.

Like 7-11 is their convenience. But what they say is, oh, they also offer the hangover pack for the next day. I like this. Extra strength. What does it? I see the medicine. I see the medicine. I see the medicine.

I see the medicine. I see the medicine. I see the medicine. I see the medicine. I see the medicine. I see the medicine. I see the medicine. I see the medicine. I see the medicine. I see the medicine. punch, get a rate, a large pepperoni pizza, and their food there is kind of gross, but that's what feels good on a stomach, gross stomach. A sandwich, what's it called, a pang over stomach? A sandwich containing smoked turkey and pepper jack.

Okay, so what they say is the vice president of innovation says from 7-11, it's their aim to redefine convenience, because now it's like, you don't have to come in that damn store. Because they're our convenience. I mean, they're on every... I I just want the Benjeri's delivered. Do you think they'll just do that? I would pay 20 bucks just to the Benjeri's. I think they should do that.

I could combo back for like 40 bucks or maybe 35 bucks. You can get both. You can get the sex night delivery and then the next morning. I should get sex toys delivered, a sex toy delivery service. Oh, you should. Yeah. Yeah, but what's the car going to look like? I like it.

Like my car. Like literally I get to like. It should be made to look like a penis, I'm a lion. Oh, okay. A deal look. Now what I'm saying is my car could be sex-straightly right now without all that stuff coming out. I can't even close my trunk right now.

Remember the ambiguous gig duo on SNL? Yes. Aason Gary and the girl that car? That's what the car should look like. A penis will be all, totally. Yeah, I wouldn't get enough attention with that at all. Okay, billboards. You can get it on maybe an old run down like weiner mobile

from like the Oscar-O-Mire weiner, like you weener like you see those yeah exactly so things don't work out with X-Men we have to do that no you just deliver sex toys in your winter I'd like that actually you know it's a good way to get out into the world and baby I would do my podcast on the road make how you're gonna use this toy tonight or how you gonna you know what position I can do oh dude here's it we have to do this I just thought about this everyone's emailing me for advice right and most of things I can help someone in like 10 minutes. And a lot of people email me and they're like,

do you see patients? Do you see people? Couples individually. And I don't. And I've thought about it over the years. Like, I mean, with friends I do and friends of friends or get a party, I happen to help everyone. A lot pull me aside.

But what if someone was like, okay, I'll pay whatever for an hour. And when it comes over, she gives us like 15 minutes of sex therapy, she drops off like, good, then I go to my trunk. I'm like, okay, I'll pay whatever for an hour and when it comes over she gives us like 15 minutes of sex therapy She drops off like I go that I go my trunk. I'm like, okay, here's the rest of you. Yeah, you need a literal vibe Right, he needs something for his a-ness. You definitely need silicone and leave it condoms like come back Yeah, it's a prescription. I write a prescription for sex. Uh-huh. Let's do this. I need an investor though How about we do this like the people that's writing their emails? They give us their name a Yes, as address and you just like might show up.

Like you might just show up in their door. Exactly. You never know. I mean, you're dispensed your advice, you asked for it. Dude, this is a great idea. And we can have like, you know, microphones and- It's a film. I love it.

Let's do it. Okay, done. We're done. We're just hope that their parents aren't home and we knock on the door. No, no, no, no, they have to have to be after they get it all checked out. You know how it is with like, um, waivers and all that. Okay, there's a billboard that links dating apps, Tinder, Grindr, with sexually transmitted diseases. This was actually in the news today,

and I'm gonna be in Huffington Post live tomorrow to talk about the same issue. An AIDS Healthcare Group is defending an ad campaign in Los Angeles, USA, Los Angeles, United States America. Thank you very much, you're welcome. No, if that links popular dating apps with a spread of STDs, the AIDS Healthcare Foundation targets Tinder, a location-based dating app and Grindr, a similar

site for gay men, in billboards and bus benges that are reminding users about the risk of STDs. So check this out. The billboards show a silhouette of a man labeled Tinder face-to-face with a woman silhouette labeled Climedia. A silhouette of a man labeled Grindr faces a male silhouette silhouette labeled gonorrhea. So it's kind of dark, but they say they're defending it because of course Grindr and Tinder are pissed. They say though AIDS Foundation in many ways location-based mobile apps are becoming a

digital bathhouse for millennials. We're in. The next sexual encounter can literally just be a few feet away as well as the next STD. Dun dun dun. So yeah, within two hours of the billboards going up, Grindr pulled commercials from the foundation's website. There's all this stuff. But this is on the back of another study that came out that did say this was in May and it

said between 2013 and 2014 cases of syphilis grew by 79%. HIV infections are 33% and gonorrhea by 30%. And they say that they can track it back to the use of Tinder and all these apps and these sites in these cities. So the thing is, I understand why Tinder and Grindr would be upset, but I'm not going to be, I'm not against anything that's going to have people think twice before having a casual counter. It's about awareness.

It is about awareness, don't you agree? Yeah, but I'm a product of the 90s and I dealt with all AIDS epidemic and all the goddamn awareness and you know what I know is tragic and I know a lot of people died from it, but also it cost a lot of people in my generation, a lot of stuff. He was pissing you miss out a lot of sex. A lot of sex. And I got tired of the fucking just saying no campaigns.

I got, so I'm a little bit, that was for drugs. I know, but still, there's a lot of crossover. You're right, no you're right. Just saying the drugs is an insect. I just can't believe the people are so dumb, they don't think, oh yeah, having unprotectedected sex on grinder or Tinder might cause syphilis. Well here's what I'm like I'll go down like alcapone. Here's what happens is that let's be honest a

lot of the biggest mistakes I've made in my life are things that I regret let's say sexually or otherwise I was either I was probably drunk. You said you've never regretted one sexual encounter. You told me this. No okay not regret to the point where like oh my god I can't I got like a syphilis or I got telling bad, but like, you know, I, there have been things I've done. I'm like, I probably wouldn't have a sex with them or maybe I probably wouldn't have made out with them

or let them touch my boo. But I'm saying that what happens is people drink and you're inhibitions go up and you're like, oh, kind of. He's, and you know what I'm even able to say? Well, I know him. He's a friend of a friend, so he must be S-C-D-free. You cannot tell anything.

You can't tell by looking. You can't believe what they say. So, you know, I'm all for now. But do you really think that billboards are gonna be helping people out? Do you really think that someone could be? Maybe, maybe someone's doing that. Here's this.

You drive and do Tinder date, and you're all sober, and you're going to meet this chick at a bar, right? In West Hollywood. You're driving and you're like, oh, siffolous. You're seeing gonorrhea Tinder, and then you're driving a meter and you're going to meet this chick at a bar, right? In West Hollywood, you're driving and you're like, oh, siffle. Everything in there. You're seeing gonorrhea tinder. And then you're driving a meter and you're like,

hmm, okay, and then it's in your mind. You're like, I don't want to get gone. You're thinking yourself, I might have sex with that. I hope I do. And you plant in your head that I should probably use a condom. Okay, this might seem harsh, but anyone who needs that billboard reminder that safe sex is important.

Maybe, wanna be so bad if they got a little siff. Have you ever put your seat these so bad it's a guy that's a little stiff. Have you ever played a steeple that when it says seat belt? No, negative. And then maybe that person that gets a little stiff, they can't repro create. You can also get a herpes. Make more, which goes never goes away. Don't people like them.

You know what I mean? You get pregnant. I mean, I think people have bad experience with condoms, but there's so many great skin condoms I love. SKYN, they the index to wearing nothing. Literally it feels like you are wearing nothing. I gave some to a bunch of people in the office, and Lori in my office just had sex with a new guy,

talk about Lori's sex life a lot. She met him online on one dating app. She was like dating guy that she wasn't. Would you have missed her? Herpes are Mr. Ciflis. Nobody would have said, is she met this guy. She was dating a guy that was not good for her at all.

And then she met this guy, I'm like, madly in love. And then she's, you know, met him at what was I just saying? She met him at Tinder and what was my point of it? The sex suite. I then condoms and condoms. So then she said we use the skin because I'm always talking about it. And she's like, he was like, those first of all, whoever says that was a great condom. What was it?

Yeah. I was like, did he? Because I people, I know there are some, but like, he literally noticed it. So what I'm saying is if you're an anti-con, there's some really good ones out there that my chisman. Laura. Laura. Lauren.

Laura. You haven't met her yet. I don't think I have. No, she's awesome. She has videos, production. I could see a girl. I don't know, Laurie at all, but I could see you're going, the condom was good. Well, what about me?

What about me? I was like, oh, dude, I'm sure she killed it. She's hot. She's awesome. So So there you go. That's my sex in the news. I like it. I can see a lot of people are probably I could see groups being upset with 7-Eleven as well, but this could be some backlash here. Why? Because Ben and Jerry's being delivered to us. They're encouraging hookups and they're encouraging binge drinking. I can see They're not delivering alcohol. No, they're delivering that cures what ails you. Well, they're not saying if they say you know, and you drinking, I can see. They're not delivering alcohol. No, they're delivering like, here's what ails you. Well, they're not saying if they say,

you know, and you know, I'm gonna drink. So you're gonna make up however. Right. What are you delivers at the? What are if it's a dude's work that? Yeah, okay. I don't want to talk to that. Wow, yeah, what the?

Yeah. Because the guy who works at my cell phone. What the world, that was just right. No, no, no, no, that was not them. I met the 7-Eleven in my house. No, I have an issue with it. You're the 7-Eleven in my house. No, I have an issue with it. You're the 7-11 in your house. No, I have a 7-11, I have a really, really most disappointed.

I bet you got one, a guy who's kind of letchy. No, I have the most disappointing 7-11 that's ever existed on the face of this earth that is two blocks from my house, convenient. However, they have zero snacks that I like. The slurper machine is always broken. Like I like Coke Zero, can't you get Coke Zero? I like certain kind of behaviors, they don't have them.

They sell booze? I don't even know, I don't drink a lot. But they just, I'm like, I hate how some of the 7-Elevens have beer and some don't. They've been announced. Like sometimes I'm like, it'll be one in the morning, I want a banana for my smoothie.

But like literally they have nothing. I'm like, what, and then they don't, I got mad in one. So I'm like, how do you not have pretzels and mums? Like you every, like couldn't you just order it right now? Like, I got mad. So that's when I went 7-11. My 7-11.

And I go to other 7-11s, they're fine. This one sucks. Since I'm Melrose, I can't be the only one who's upset. No, you can't be. I know the one you're talking about, too. That's shitty little one. It's like back in the back on the, it's the back of a strip mall.

Yeah, it's the back of a strip mall. If it's shitty little strip mall that says UPS, dealer on it and the UPS store, that doesn't even take UPS anymore. So holds the whole mouth fucks at my life. All right, so just to be clear Emily wasn't talking about across the board people. Oh, seven, eleven's fine. I'm at my seven. It's all I have.

And I have nothing. I hope that they thought this out. I hope the guy behind the counter isn't like writing his bike around town delivering this stuff and puts like a little like be back in on it, because I don't want that. Now I'm sure it's a big corporation, except for the one that works here, we have to be independently owned. Okay, everyone, thank you for emailing me.

Feedback at sectortheme.com, and you guys are kicking ass because I've asked you to tell me your name, where you live, and how old you are. And you're doing pretty good job, so I love you all. Okay, hi, Emily. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now, and we both love our sex life. However, hi Emily. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. We both love our sex life.

However, we are now starting to feel it's become two routine for us. He's 39, I'm 26. We both have high sex drives, but we definitely need some more moves or something. Could you recommend some fun new positions? It also some toys that would be fun for both. Thanks Emily, love the podcast.

Ariana, Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Okay, Ariana, great question. Okay, so they've been together two years. Yeah, it sounds about right, and you'll spice it up. Okay, so a few things, here's some quick tips. Sometimes mixing things up are simplest as changing where you're having sex all the time. It's like anything.

If you have the same meal every day, every day, you know, you get the same sandwich. You go to 7, 11 for the same slurp review. It doesn't work. You're gonna be like, want to change it up. So if you always have sex in your bedroom, next time you guys like order in, like make a picnic in your living room,

get it gonna get it fall. It's getting, you know, cooler out. You can build a fire. You can have some sexy foods. Having sex on the couch is so fun. Having sex on the spinning cycle of the washer drive of the dryer can be really fun too. Okay, so mix application, spontaneous sex.

Okay, also increases the lust factor. In fact, it was interesting Anderson, we did this on Love Line a few weeks ago. We did the calling with your best sex story ever. We do this like half hour open form on Love Line, which is a great show. We're on as well podcast and live show. And the thing that was common denominator of all the calls were that it was unexpected spontaneous sex, most of colors. That is the best. It is because it's the anticipation. You know, absence makes the heart go found

or the longer you wait for something and more you want it. And that's why often when we desire someone, it's almost the build-up is better than the actual sex. Sometimes, so try to make it more spontaneous. You know, you could, you know, next time you come to home, just whip down his pants and get a good job. There is no anticipation though if it's spontaneous. If you're living together, that's true too. Well, yeah, I guess you're right. I guess in my talk about it, well, spontaneous, you're right. That's two different things.

Yeah. But it could be spontaneously, and it's because it's, you're right. Was that wrong? I am a little bit wrong. You know it though. Well, I guess I'm also saying that. There is also that. Build up, the lust and the build up, even if it's spun, no. I am right, because even if it's, I'm like, wait, it could be spontaneous. I could have met you an hour ago at the bar, but it's so exciting because it's new,

and I'm building up to the lust, everything's new. But there's a lack of anticipation. Now there is, there is that to be said too, like maybe you do set like a time Like hey, we can't have sex until after you know three shows We have to watch three keen peels before we get to bang and then Those who do this is patient. You know, I often tell couples who are having struggles with their sex life to just take sex off the table If you're like oh, she wants it. He does anyone. Yeah, we've lasting you want to be mature

Yeah, don't you like to do like massage discover each last thing you want is a potential. Yeah, do you want to be like, do you like massage? Discover each other's arroggiosomes again. You know, be adventurous. That will lead to something else. You never know. So feel free to be adventurous, you know, start or like if you want to have sex outdoors, you can do in your backyard, watch porn together.

Have you guys ever done that? All's are high. You're doing it in your backyard. I don't know, they have kids. But like, that's the same change in location. What would you tell me? If I was alone in a bar with these people and they were asking me, I'd tell them to get your book.

Hot sex? I do think that my book is great for play. It's a great inspiration. And you just flip to any page and like, that's what we're gonna try tonight. It's true, hot sex over 200 things. You could try tonight. Wheelbarrow, but let's give it a shot.

And it's beautiful illustrations. I mean, they're funky cool illustrations. Yeah, I forget to talk about it. Go to my website, click on the banner, get an Amazon, and it's like $15. Yeah, and if you got an Amazon Prime, you'll have it in two days. You'll have it by weekend.

Here's a thing, you'll have it this weekend, and you just open up to any page, and there's nothing in it that you need to go out and buy. You can just do everything there. It's like, you already have a point. You got the parts, you got the penis, you got the things going on, porn to rate, and also sex toys.

Here's my advice. A great sex toy if you haven't used toys before. My hands down favorite is a vibrating ring. Okay. A cuff ring. Because it's a couple's toy. The vibrations feel good on him. He puts on his penis.

The vibrations feel good on him. And she rides him and hits her clitoris. But you can also take it off, put it on her two fingers. She can give him a hand job with it, take his balls. He can use it on her nipples. That's how it says a great one. Also, the Wee by Borer is a great couple's toy. You wear it while you're having sex,

and then also you can try a little bondage. And when I say bondage, I don't mean you got to get a red room of pain, blindfold each other. You take away one sense, all your other senses become heightened. So you just blind each other, blindfold each other, and you're like, tonight I'm gonna charge you. For the next hour, I'm doing what I want to you. And he has to give up all control.

And you can like massage him. You can give him a blowjob. You can pour some hot warm oil, hot massage oil on him. You can put ice cubes in your mouth and give him a blowjob. Do whatever you want. Surprise him. Surprise him, be spontaneous. And have a good time.

You're to surprise me. Those are so many things to do. How did I surprise you? Because you would list a full list of sex totally. This is what I thought. And I didn't hear you say the one. Oh, the Mimi. Oh, she did it.

I just can wait for the J.J. You Mimi. The J.J. is my favorite. And I also the J.J. Oh, they make a great cockpit. Oh, probably the most attractive. They make the Mio. M-I-O, go to onegoodvice.com.

Yeah. No, what? Should be the Mio. Now, you know, I love the Mio. Cochrane. It's rechargeable. I mean, there's also cheap ones. Like, if you want to just buy, like, I just want to see if you like it, you can do that.

But this is rechargeable. It's very shocking. It's very shocking. I actually, for a long time, we just say penis ring. I don't even like the word cock, unless I'm talking dirty. See ring, maybe. It's jarring.

Dude, I don't tie it. Really? A little jarring. A little jarring. A little jarring. Really? Coming out of your sweet mouth, yeah, little jarring. I am sweet, aren't I?

It's funny. Yeah, okay, so the other thing is, that's it. I'm gonna tell you all one more thing though here, real quick, speaking of a little break here that I have to talk to you about. So you don't always try to get into, I don't know if you know this, but Anderson, I try to meditate every day.

And I think so much of life and having a, what are you laughing? It's gonna make you actually doing it. I do, I've been meditating for 20 years. I know, and you went to that whole place where like for 10 days you didn't say word. Silent, blah, blah, blah, done three times, 30 days in silence.

Insane to me, they actually did that. Actually stopped talking. I'm picturing you, as I know you, in your apartment, saying I'm gonna sit down and be quiet now for 20 minutes. I do it.. Okay every day Not only that I use my intensity, which is my oh no, yeah, you insert something inside yourself You know, this is my routine in the morning now because I'm I'm obsessed with the intensity because it has changed my sex life because it is

Health product toy event by doctor that looks like a rabbit vibrator and you put it inside you and it does your keglet exercises for you. Okay, women, never do them. I try to get you, I made the iPhone app CagleCamp and a lot of times you're doing them wrong. So this, you puff it up a little bit so it hits your pelvic floor in the exactly the right way, you lay back. So I lay back on my bed and it's just really calming

and I use it for 10 minutes and then I have an orgasm after because it is a rabbit vibe. But I'm telling you too much information. Well, there's that but you just told me that you meditate every day and now you're giving me the details. No, I'm telling our team what I'm saying is every day. You're not meditating or beating off every day.

I wake up, I meditate for 20 minutes. Then I use my intensity because it takes all the confusion out of keg exercises. Every single woman, her pelvic floor muscles are gonna become weak. It happens over time. She's gonna sneeze, she's gonna pee. She's gonna feel loose. If you can't have orgasms,

there's so many reasons to have these muscles that are strong, and go online, look at it. And it also targets your G-spot and clitoris. It uses gentle electrosimulation, so you feel these little like waves go through you and it contracts your Rageal muscles for you. You don't have a genus, so you don't know what I'm saying. No, I do. It's so calming in now and walking around with like PC muscles of steel. Okay, is there an apparatus where you can put it in there? Maybe I look a little tube,

connect it to a little ball where you can squeeze with your pelvic floor muscles and see just how much energy has biofeedback. Okay, so then you could like see your number going up and then you could be like, my vagina is the strongest muscle in my body. I'm on level four now. I started at one and they said go really so and I've been using it for a month now but I've been using it regularly for 14 days every single day. How many levels are there?

I'm just really proud of myself because I have a hard time sticking with things and this can you get a black belt for your vagina if Yes. If you get to a certain level. Dude, I could freaking, I could wheel around like a hammer right now or something. I could hammer something into that wall. Okay, so it, and you had so funny, we talked about it on the show a few weeks ago, and I've never in my life received so many emails from people who want to take it. I should have hammered nails in your wall. I do handy work now through my vagina.

I do. I smoke cigarettes, I drink wine, everything. Do I do it? Your vagina is so bad at it. It's so bad at it. But the thing is that I feel it, and I've done them regularly before, anyway, the point is it's called,

it's called the intensity. It's pormaw.com, p-o-u-r-m-o-i.com. I talked about a few weeks ago on the show, and in 10 years, literally I've never gotten so many emails about a product that people want. So check it out pormaw.com. You know why? People don't, and people like to have things do work for them. I'm telling you, I am something that would exercise for me every day. Oh, I just went to spinning for

you. Right. And I was sitting here eating chocolate chips. I need to take a look at these. Bruce Lee had those things, right? Where he put the suction cups on him and it would contract his muscles. It sounds like that. Every time you tell me about this, it reminds me of that. It is that. And now I'm'm like I can and I'm feeling it I'm having stronger orgasm. I'm like it's I You're I am No, it's you me out She's about orgasms a little more elusive, but now I'm having the blended so much easier

I'm you scaring your boyfriend yet. Is he getting scared? No, he's so psyched. I ripped his penis off I'm sick with it But now he's called and then you use your vagina to actually heal it back up like a triage exactly It's trash. He's actually a doctor. It's funny. So it was weird that I know that you brought a doctor to my event Wow, yeah You didn't mean you mean I think I'm not a lot of people. That's right. He might not whatever. Okay, so Yeah, it was a great night Okay, he might not, whatever. Okay, so, um, yeah, it was a great night. Okay, another email.

What? He's still just pitching it in your back hammering nails. Hammering nails is my vagina. It's amazing how powerful the vagina is. I mean, really women rule the earth. We do. We have so much power. And if you strengthen your cagom muscles,

you could take over the world. Wow, you guys, you're gaining, you're gaining. It's true. Okay, here's some breastplate tips. Hey, Emily, my name's Alan. I'm 25, and I'm from Zimbabwe. Listening all the way in Zimbabwe. I've been a listener of your podcast

since the episode you were on, which on Chris Jericho's podcast. And I want to say thank you for the great sex advice you offered in each of your episodes. Coming from someone who lives in a country that's very conservative, when it comes to things like sex because it's predominantly Christian nation, so no sex before marriage, blah, blah, blah. Any tips you could offer about performing good breast play?

A lot of the girls I've been with so far weren't ready for sex, but we're open to making out and a little foreplay. And breast play has my usual signature move to get them hot and heavy. But I have some trouble when it comes to pleasuring breasts that have small nipples. So please share advice for how to handle those as well as normal sized ones. Thank you, Alan. I think it's a real question. Okay, so here's the thing. I don't think it has to do with the nipple size. Women with small nipples, big nipples, you can still pleasure breasts the same. It's just that the individual woman might not respond the same, just like every other sexual move and tip I give you. It's just that the individual woman might not respond the same, just like

every other sexual move and tip I give you, it's a case by case, a breast by breast basis. So first, here's some don'ts. Don't use your nails on your breasts. Don't twist her nipples like she's, you're trying to get a signal or something. Don't slap her boobs unless she wants her to. You know, don't treat them like toys and don't be really rough and bite them again, unless she asks you to. So here's what you do, Alan. Slow it all down.

I always say this, men just like rip your clothes off and you're like, this is what we think. They're like touch boobs and they rip. But he's not having sex. So really he's got, I like this because Alan, you're probably already naturally so. I would first touch her nipples her breasts through her top Her clothing so don't even take off her shirt. You just look uncomfortable. No

Anderson you weren't No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, know, sex talk is, I've been hearing it for 20 years, you know? Okay. Okay. So touch through the clothes. Because let me just think, not only are you slowing down. I find anticipation. And anticipation, thank you. I know, whatever. It's all coming back together.

It all this stuff matters. Is that the longer you wait to address her, the more a rouse and turn on. She's gonna be number one. Number two, the fabric against her breasts is really, her nipples feels really, really good. And it's just another sensation for a lot of women. Like when we rub over her underwear, it's the same thing.

So then you can slowly take off her top, wait a few minutes, kiss her, then take off her bra, and start with again, soft touching before you even get into squeezing her nipple play. Okay? Squeezing nipple play. Wait, then use your hands. Here's what you do. To make her nipples tense, you place your fingers on each side of the nipple play. Okay? Squeezing nipple play. Wait. Then use your hands. Here's what you do. To make her nipples tense, you place your fingers on each side of the nipple, push down slightly

and slide your fingers apart like this, like with two fingers on either side. Like, like peace. Like you're doing that. You're doing the peace sign around nipples, okay? And then they're going to get hard. And then you could also use your mouth, use the, oh, wait, move the breast first. I want to get back to the breast. You slow circular motions, start really, really gentle. I keep saying that, but it's true. And take her lead in how she likes to be touched. So does she start to breathe heavy?

You can start to tell when she's really into it. So circular motions, slow touches, you can also use some lube on her nipples. I think lube is the best thing since I spread. She loves her Loub. She's always forcing her people. And then you use your mouth. Take her Loub. Use your mouth.

Can you use your mouth in some bad way? Use the tip of your tongue to circle around the nipple. That feels really good. And then when they're a racked what? Living some bad way stillers the out here from the bowl. So he's in some bad way. That's why he's not having premarital sex. So he's really into breastplay, which I wish every guy was

in a breast play. When they're a racked, you can harden your tongue. You can flick it back and forth at our nipples. Again, it doesn't matter if her nipples are big or small. But the issue is that some women just don't have a lot of sensitivity in their nipples. It has nothing to do with the size. You can also slowly take it in your mouth, suck,

and nibble, do not bite. We had that one porn star on that was talking about clamping it in between her teeth and the tongue. Yeah, she said between the teeth and the tongue Yeah, a little bit just kind of like flick it with your teeth a little yes flick it with your teeth and I never heard of that But you gotta be really careful with that be careful when you get your teeth involved of course Yeah, you want to I don't know which episode was it car who was that? Caden cross yeah, that was that was actually a't want to part Siri? I'm not a certain cross. Cancass. Yeah. That was actually a great episode.

Cancross, K, with the K. K, with the K. Check that one out, also suck. And then here's another great move. Suck and then release her nipples well in hailing. Because that increases like an icy sensation. And then you blow on it. I am.

It's all about the different sensations, okay? Here's the main thing, though. What? You've got the meter right there in front of you. Like, women can't really fake their, what they're feeling when it's happening to them. I mean, just pay attention to what's working for her and what's not.

Exactly, and then escalate it. It's pretty easy to read if you pay attention. I think a lot of guys are just in their head thinking what's next, what's next. Right, but pay attention. And it helps. It really helps too if you take your mind off of one like what you're doing and kind of watching her at the same time. Right, it comes like a dance. It works. Exactly.

Um, okay, one more thing. Don't just stick to the nipples. Lick that space between her breasts. Like under her breasts because they don't get a lot of attention, but it feels really good. Good luck, Alan. You got it. You're killing it in Zimbabwe. Okay. Hi, Emily, I'm in the middle of an odd situation and I'm looking for help. I've been married to my amazing husband for a year and recently he brought up his fantasy, which he has never mentioned to me before. A few years back, we were both dating and very different people. We were very different people then.

I cheated on him. He caught me red handed. We got through that very dark time in our lives and that horrible experience made us stronger than ever. But recently my husband mentioned that he's been fantasizing about watching me with another man. I have no desire to be with anyone but my husband I still want to fulfill his fantasy. Do you have any fun ideas of how we can belam and ag me and his fantasy? Thanks so much for everything you do. I'm 26 and listen to you via the podcast app on my iPhone. Sign Jay.

Bad times. Okay Jay sounds like your husband has a little cuckold fash-hit fetish. Yeah, which you probably created with all the trauma you caused by cheating on him in the first place. I don't know about that. I don't think I can do that, but I love that they work through it. Sometimes cheating makes you stronger, sometimes it kills you.

But here's the thing. Cuckold only fetish means that he has the fantasy of seeing you with another man. And that's a lot of times how couples discover it, but it is true you're right when they sometimes do they do, when they find someone cheating, they realize that they kind of fetishize it. So that could be it.

I had Dr. David Lay on my podcast, not so lame. He talked about this at length about a year ago. I'm sure it's still on iTunes. It iTunes still have only 30 episodes up. Whatever you said to that kid. No, no, no, we, they don't, dude. I had 200 and then all of a sudden I went to 30.

I don't know, bro. Let's fix it. But if you can't find an iTunes, go to sexathonemy.com, search for the lay, David Lay, L.E.Y., it was literally that's what he studies. So in this instance though, Jay, you've got to get creative. So what you can do is when a couple doesn't really want to act out of fantasy but they have one, you recreate it in the bedroom So you talk dirty about it, you know, you tell him like God right now

There's a me I'm thinking about that guy we saw at the bar and picturing him You know he takes me home and you're watching like you just talk about it You can spin out stories that depict this fantasy to get him like turned on during sex You can also I can recommend role-playing, you know get him like turned on during sex. You can also, I can recommend role-playing, you know? Video tape you having sex with him dresses a stranger. I don't know, I'm just trying to think of ways she doesn't want to do it.

If you're not ready, you've got to blend this fantasy with reality. Maybe you watched porn about a husband doing it. Yeah. Well, it's this guy like marriage material, is she gonna marry? She married, she's married. They're already married, so yeah, they're kids.

It can be because she cheated any minute. It could just be a thing he's always had. And you know what? There's a good chance that he thinks he wants this, but once the start is happening, that's why they're not doing it. And I'm saying just talk dirty about it. That helps.

That's how I, I was the guy I'd never been with the woman before in my 20s that I was dating my early 20s. And he was like the guy that sexually like opened me up. Right. Never stops and said. But I remember him talking to me like, I think her visuals from your point of view. Exactly. No, he said that to anyone. up right never stops it's them but I remember him talking to me like exactly no he's sure he said that to anyone but it was interesting because I he kept talking about like oh I picture

this woman like going down it whatever and it was and I never really even thought about it and it was really hot the way he described the situation and then it got me really turned on and then eventually I have had dabbled with some women but it was like it's still just yeah you knew that I talked about a lot I think that you kind of like shy away from that kind of thing you don't miss I don't talk about it a lot to be honest but you have but yeah I have I mean I've dabbled you dabbled out south of the border it was fun one time the first no not the first time was fun. One time the first, no, not the first, you know, the first time was actually my first time at a swinger party. Uh-huh, of course. In San Francisco.

Drugs? Uh, no drugs. Maybe the alcohol. No drugs. And it was a hot chick and she like saw me out and we started making up. And she was head fake boobs. She was a stripper, a former stripper. Are they hard? Uh, yeah, they're big. I'm like, I'm really making out of bed. But then people were watching big. Big boobs. I'm really making out in the bed. But then people were watching and that was weird because I'm not really into that. But then we went out of date. No, really? Yeah.

Was that weird? Was that awkward? Yeah, I was not into it. You guys had dinner and stuff. Kinda. Weird. But then we had dinner. We had dinner.

We had dinner and drinks. And then I was like, I just, she was kind of dumb. But then another time, I don't think I've ever told the story in there, but I want to tell it right now. It's doing, I'm not going to hold it back. I was at the Playboy Mansion for a party. I think it was my first time there, my second time there, and I met a couple.

I was living in San Francisco at the time, and I met this really fun couple. And afterwards, I like, do you want to come back to our house? I'm like, sure. So I went back to their house and we hung out, had some drinks, and I slept with them. With both of them. Yeah.

And then I fell asleep in the bed and woke up in the middle of them. And then did you walk out? Well, like I went down and I was going to be a gaiver and orgasm, like, I'm pretty good at a moment. And then you know what you did? What? They, for a living, like they knew.

They did, yeah, because I was there in the movie. They picked up and I was like, that was probably like six years ago and I was doing a section of the LA podcast. I was like doing video there and stuff like that. So they knew, but then afterwards, they kept emailing me and calling me and I ignored them completely. But it's not because they weren't great couple.

I was just like, that was a one-off experience. That was fun. And I lived in San Francisco. I don't even remember their names. Going back to like the cock holding. You shouldn't remember their names. That's good. It's like a fantasy that you actually lived and like to let them be like whoever you can John and Jill.

But there's a scene in this David Lynch film called Wild Heart with Nicholas Cage and Lord Dern. I love that movie and I start when I was very young and I was probably like 13 or 14 when I first saw it and I remember there's this scene where he's explain he's telling his girlfriend Lord Dern, Nicholas Cage's, about the sexual encounter that he had with this girl and she's completely getting off on it. Laura Dernis, and she's like, tell me more. And then she did this and she laid over the bed.

She had some weapons and spank out the back of the team. Yeah, yeah. And then she's like, take a bite of peach. And like, Laura Dernis getting off and they were sitting on this bar. And I remember, I do so bizarre to me. It's like a little teenage boy. Like, why in the world?

Like, how would I tell you what? Exactly, but people, it's a thing. I'm telling you, a lot of peace guys, just talking can be enough. Exactly. And it can be enough. You just get out of that jealousy thing. It's not really happening.

It's harmless. It's safe. She's not having sex, you don't con. It's anything in the room, but you're doing it. And if you, it's all it's sex safe. She's not having sex, you can't have anything in the room, but you're doing it. And it's all, it's actually all about getting out of your head, you know, getting out of all the worries that you have and getting into the moment.

And so like letting those words take you to another place and that might do it for you. I gotta say, though, Jail, I am concerned a little bit that this is rehashed from, and it can be. Catching you red handed is the way you said it. Sounds like you walked in on you, sleep with another man, and a lot of the time,

Cuckold is based in, you know, degrading, and maybe he's still pissed to you. Yeah, that's true too. And maybe he's fantasizing for the wrong reasons. And maybe he's looking to blow up this relationship.

I agree that that could be why. That's typically a lot of times why but, and again, this is just her side of the story, but she starts by saying that the experience made it stronger, we're happier than ever. Prationalization.

But recently, right, well, so I'd like to hear him, but you know, they're together, they got married. So, we're off on the kids and figure out this co-cooling thing about that. How about that? Okay, that's all I've got time for. Cool. Yeah, and what else?

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