Sex With Emily - SWE: Allie Haze: Bisexual Porn Star
Episode Date: February 8, 2014Allie Haze is the coolest, most down-to-earth girl ever, and she's also a really hot bisexual porn star! Allie Haze gets into the G-spot and how you need to get over your fear of peeing during sex. Pl...us, if you have a killer orgasm, who cares what happens? Allie Haze talks about squirting, outrageous, messy sex. "Your body makes the most hilarious noises when you're doing it right," Allie says. Allie talks about her transition from being a preacher's wife to a porn star. Growing up she realized she was more into women than men. As a bisexual porn star, Allie Haze has amazing sex tips for pleasuring women. She gives a very detailed description of how to go down on a woman. That's not to say she doesn't have advice for pleasuring men. Allie Haze is known for her blow job skills. She goes deep into how to give an awesome blow job.Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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which I've been doing this for eight years,
and that doesn't usually happen because she's so adorable and hot, and I was talking to her, and we had to redo the opening, which I've been doing this for eight years and that doesn't usually happen
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But my guest here tonight is Ali Hayes.
Hello.
Hi, Ali.
Hi, Ali.
She is a porn star. Yes. Okay, she was 22 years old when she made her first porn debut.
She's often cast in team pornography genre due to her youthful appearance. She's a vivid girl.
And the most exciting thing is, I mean for me right now in this moment, the most the most the most the
the most timely thing is that she's the penthouse pet of the month for January
2000 to 2014 Congratulations. Yes, thank you. I mean, it's February whatever, but it's just carries over
But we tried to get here in January. We did try. We did try. We've canceled on each other bad dates
I know things happen. Yeah, January to create was like I went to like three sex conferences in January
I did not have any sex. Oh, you were one of them. I didn't yes. Yes. Did you have sex there? conferences in January. I did not have any sex.
You were one of them.
I didn't have, yes.
Did you have sex there?
No.
I mean, I did.
Personal sex.
No, no, no, no, forants are sex.
That's good.
Like, for someone new or do you have a boyfriend?
No, no, no.
I've been dating someone now for about six months.
Oh, okay.
God.
So I didn't have sex at any three sex conferences.
That's cool.
But, oh, yeah, you were, so you were at AVN.
You were a huge hit.
You had a boot.
What'd you do there? You were, I signed it three different booths. We launched something that's really great
Which obviously if all the fans want to do that too? It's a boot. It's called custom for you
It's also custom for you comm. It's a brand new thing that's launching where they're allowing fans to
Create their custom videos and we'll make them for them. It's a really user-friendly site
We love it. So there's no more emailing back and forth with our fans and all this communications. They can they can make their own like
porn. Yeah, and then you make and we make them for them. There's drop down menus due to what we
will and won't do. We create the drop down menus. So your fan goes to the drop down menu on the right
hand side. They choose you. They choose what you'd like to do if they wanted to be a foot thing, a booty thing, if they want to wait girl
They want girl. Yeah, it's great. What's the website? It's called custom for you number four. Okay, and then your personal website is
Ali Hayes, which is a L L I E H A Z E
Correct.
com, which I loved your video on the front with the magic wand because I'm a huge fan of magic wand. I'm kind of a big dork. I'm known for being the girl that chuvs pocket rockets
in her nose and says they're not rockets.
Oh, that's funny.
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Like, yeah, but they can also be snout rockets.
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And I thought, when I first looked at your picture tonight
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but you're not.
How old are you?
I'm 26.
I'll be 27 and May 10th.
But you've had a really successful career, just like in the last.
So far so good.
Yeah.
Yeah, she's been nominated.
OK, Avaian Awards, best all girls, couple sex scene,
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So we just got to give some background here
to people who don't know.
So how did you get involved?
I know you've been asked this eight times. People don't want to know, like, how does it happen? They're like, oh, her father abused her.
Like, you sound like a great, great person. You know, you seem like a very well-adjusted smart
human being, not the Alporn. I'm just talking to people who have those.
Yeah, no, there's a stereotype in any direction in any career. And we embrace them.
Yeah, we embrace them and move on.
No, I actually got started in the business
because of my love for women.
Crazy enough.
Sure, bisexual.
Yeah, 100% ride the fence.
So once I became bisexual, I was a lesbian first
and then I became bisexual in my younger years.
Okay.
And 18 was when I turned bisexual.
Wow, okay.
How did you, you just, did you feel it earlier?
I mean, I did my thing with guys and hung out with them,
but I was just so much one of the guys that I was just like,
why am I doing this?
This is boring.
And guys must have always like loved you.
Well, Pepe's are boring.
They were boring to me.
I'm like, this isn't fun.
I mean, you know, I think my body is more fun than there.
Exactly. So why don't I just find somebody to let me play with the body, right? So I
Did you find that at 18? I mean, I did it younger before 18. Okay. I was with girls before 18
By the time I was 18 is when I ended up getting married to a preacher when I was 18 and
Was he down with a by-side?
Um, he was my best friends since seventh grade and he didn't know
So it was like my life took a crazy turn
I was kind of did this thing when I was younger and I was experimenting and living on my own and then for whatever reason
I was raised really religious so by 18 I felt very convicted about the way I felt how I felt sexually and what I was doing with myself
So then I got married and did what I thought was the right thing
Potations here big bunny ears. Big quotations.
Yeah.
So at 18, I was like, I'm doing everything wrong.
I ended up getting married.
Good for you for being able to buck.
Because so many people are caught up in their religious background, like their family.
Yeah.
And they don't know how to get out of that.
But you were strong enough to.
Yeah, it took me about two years.
I did the religious thing.
Hided, you know, hid who I was.
Didn't tell my ex-husband anything about that. Were you looking up with chicks on the side know, hid who I was, didn't tell my ex has been anything about that.
Are you looking up at chicks on the side of the side?
I was flirting with them.
Because I was very dedicated to my relationship because I was like, I'm going to do this.
I'm going to do just right.
You were like, conflicted.
Yeah.
And then so two years after that, we had some issues and we split up.
And from there a year later, I was actually hanging out with some of my old friends, getting
back into some of my old habits. And I was finding it very hard to bring a woman later, I was actually hanging out with some of my old friends, getting back into some of my old habits.
And I was finding it very hard to bring a woman home,
crazy enough, men I know how you feel.
I would hit on them in bars,
and they would like, you know, I'll chicks make out in bars,
cause they're like, oh, I wanna get that guy's attention.
They know.
Exactly.
And I'm like, and then I, you know, say, hey,
you wanna come home with me and I would freak them out,
and they'd be like, you, are you serious?
Cause you're a straight bar.
Yeah, girls who are more well
I just I worked at a bar. Okay
So I yeah, I was a bartender and a cocktail waitress and so I would just you know play the part or whatever and I would
I would you know hit on the women that I was like ah she could maybe be the one that I can hook up with and it just never worked
so
I started dating somebody at that time also, but I was like, look, I'm still gonna keep trying to have sex with women.
I'm being so open and saying that, yeah.
Yeah, I'm like, really?
Yeah. I was just like, I'm gonna do this. If you're not okay with it, I then maybe we don't need to be dating.
Okay. And it ended up working out and through that and through a couple of friends, they were like, look, you have always been open sexually and you're totally chill with your body.
So why don't you just like do girl, girl porn or something?
Like why do you keep trying?
And I was like, oh, I'm like, I don't know.
I never even watched porn when I was younger.
It was never even something that I knew anything about it.
So I was kinda like, well, why not?
I did a little research on it, went and found,
did some research on some agents, my first gig and I loved it
And I was just doing it for my cells
You know just to get my own rocks off. It's not like I had a job
I was going to college. It's I wasn't even thinking about it being a career
So and you were like starlet of the year like you hit you was like your natural thing
Yeah, then a couple months later they offered for me to do some boy girl work
And I was like oh, I never really thought about doing anything more with this, but sure, heck, why not? And
I kind of just dove in head first and like, yeah, I know, right? There are so many puns.
Yeah, I just went for it. That's, and you know, it'll be five years in June. So almost
five years later, this is where I'm at. And I'm loving it and wouldn't want it any other way. That's an amazing career. That is amazing. I mean, so almost five years later this is where I'm at and I'm loving it and wouldn't want it any other way.
That's an amazing career.
That is amazing.
I mean, so that's congratulations till I have success.
Thank you.
And you're a business woman, you've got to be psychoing and you're like doing all the right
things.
Yeah, I got my website, my Twitter, which is also just Alieh's.
Twitter is forward slash Alieh's.
Okay.
So it's just A-L-L-I-E-H-A-Z-E.
You can find me on there.
I do the same thing you do, questions, emails, all that stuff.
Yeah, you ask questions.
No, that's great.
Yeah. But we actually have some colors coming in.
We're going to get to those, like I said in a second.
But I also want to know.
So when you started, oh, so you're in a relationship right now.
So do you guys bring other women into the relationship?
Or do you kind of do that in your own?
We haven't just yet.
It's not an issue.
But you know what's so funny? I feel like when you really
find somebody that you love, even though those are your tendencies and those are things that you like to do,
a lot of those things fade away. I'm not objective to it, but I am having so much fun with my partner that it's like
there's no reason for it. I mean,
we've had our couples so many times. By your age during the day, maybe you're having
your day job. I mean, you're having sex with women. Yeah. But are you turned on during those
days, even though you're in love with something like it that's still hot doing the same time?
Yeah, sex is different. Sex is different for me. That's what I'm saying. It's so it's
they're two it's two different types of sex. It's so hard to explain because, yeah, I definitely, I swear I was born with a penis in my
brain for some reason.
I don't have one on my body, but I definitely think like a dude realistically.
So I definitely have, I just actually was talking about a new movie that I'm about to start
doing.
And I was like telling the director that, you know, my current, whatever,, whatever, my current, what we call,
I hope I can say this, I'm sure it's a podcast.
What I call a clip boner.
My current clip boner is for certain girls
and she was just cracking up.
And I'm like, no, I need to bang this boner.
Can we tweet that?
Can we tweet that?
Someone tweet that clip boner.
That's amazing.
So you get to cast the girls and stuff for your guys.
Yeah, yeah, I get to pick.
I'm at a point in my career where I definitely just get to choose
by these things like that. Right, you don't want to grow up in the half-four. So you actually like,
I mean, when you're having these scenes with them or you're having orgasm, like,
are you too rough to fake an orgasm for a scene when you're like, it's not gonna happen?
Sometimes. So I've had my moments where sometimes I do, I definitely always enjoy myself,
but always when you're working with a new partner Sometimes if they don't catch the signals during sex and they happen to be a little too far to the left or a little too far
Right, I mean you can't say that little smart right or can you I mean you can you can do whatever you want
You're more you're more than welcome to but
Even then sometimes it takes more than one shot because I've worked with girls
Sometimes the first time I work with them it doesn't happen and then the second time they remember and they're right on it,
right at the right time.
So this is where I was using men were more like women, they don't remember oftentimes.
No, no, they don't because I do have a lot of male partners that I work with. And I do
things that I remember from before. And they're like, how did you, and I'm like, we've
worked together before. I knew what worked last time. So I know what we're now.
That men are so focused on.
They get distracted.
Yeah.
I think they get distracted.
You know how they say, um, you're come drunk?
Yeah.
I think as soon as a penis gets hard,
they're immediately come drunk.
Right.
Women get come drunk after the fact.
Right.
It's like, it's like, it's like, having like, like, yeah, like you black out.
Like, that's almost like a.
Yeah, they get so excited.
It's like, it's like, it's like a, it's like a puppy dog when you go to the dog biscuit.
Right.
They just don't know what to do.
My dogs are like all over the place, so run in things,
so roll on their back, they'll,
Right.
They just get so crazy.
I don't remember what you wanted or what I wanted to do.
I want to please you, that's really important,
but wow, this feels like it.
Yeah.
You don't need anything else.
I know, no offense to men.
No, you know, it's great.
It's totally love men.
Yeah.
But this is show, we try to help men,
and that's what we're gonna do.
I'm actually gonna be asking, Ellie, a lot of really good, she's got some experience
and I love hearing from, you know, since you have been so sexual and I want to hear like
I'm going to be asking you about some of your, you know, top tips for sex, pleasing women,
pleasing men.
We're going to get into so much good stuff.
But you've got so many calls coming in.
I think we should take one.
Let's talk to Matt in Canada,
because he's been holding for a while.
Hey, Matt, you're on the section that Emily show.
You got a question for Ali, Matt's in Canada.
Hi.
Hey, Ali, how are you?
I'm good, how are you?
I'm good.
Wait, what should I say?
I'm good, don't you know?
Right?
Hey, Ali.
Yeah.
You're good, eh?
Yeah, how are you doing, eh?
So what question do you got for me, Matt?
I was just wondering what's the hottest scene that you've ever filmed with a boy in it?
Currently, I would have to say it changes through the years as I learn to learn about my
own sexuality through porn and who I am and what I like and don't like or what I want
to experience or new things I want to play in.
I would have to say currently one of my favorite scenes would be found in an evil angel video directed by Dana
Visboli and it's called Fluids and I'm just recently getting into a little bit more rougher sex
kind of you know not knowing what's going on. There's a lot of waterboarding in it. I love water
play. Waterboarding is actually a military thing that they use
to torture people to get information out of them. So more like BDSM. Yeah, a little more
BDSM. Basically you get a sheet or something put over your head and they pour a bucket
of water over you. So as you're trying to breathe, you're also breathing, you know, you're
getting in water. So it's very, when you eliminate one sense,
all the other sense is heightened. And when you learn to control yourself and calm down and trust
your partner, a lot of crazy things happen. Wonderful, beautiful things that you wouldn't imagine come
out of such an extreme experience. So for me, I would have to say that that's probably currently one
of them. I get really turned on by that. Yeah. that's scary, but then you say it's like the same, it's exhilaration, but then you get-
I get excited with the fact that I could trust somebody so much with my own-
With my own body that they-
And even somebody doing a scene with, I guess, because it's like-
Yeah, because I-
Yeah, so currently Matt, that would probably be the one that I would say to check out.
And then obviously most all of my favorite scenes because I choose them and direct them and they're, you know, totally in it and
it's what I want to do are always found on Alleyhaze.com because that's kind of
like my own ideas. I know you put my dreams on there. That's what I dream about.
You do? Yeah, you do. That's weird dreams about. I put them on.
I put them on. Yeah. They're hot videos. I was late coming here tonight because I was
watching her videos. I was like, oh wait, I gotta go meet her in person
So Matt, did you sign up first? Yeah, you should go do that now. Yeah, sure
Thanks for calling. Okay. Bye Matt. Have a great night
Okay, when you just said though you said you said you're learning about your own sexuality
Mm-hmm
I'm wondering what you've learned what you're I've been probably you're sure like always like we all are
Mm-hmm. I always say to you, but like sex should be expansive. If you're in a relationship right now
That you feel like we're not learning the same way he comes that way. She comes that he she she
Keep expanding it. Keep you should never stop learning. So what do you think you've learned lately or how you wow that your body makes the most
Hilarious noises and you're really doing it right
That's what I have to say. I feel like if you're not laughing about you know body sweat farts or you know
laughing about you know body sweat farts or you know vaginal farts whatever whatever happens hilarious always acknowledge the funny things because if you heard it she
heard it or vice versa if you hear it you hear it.
Don't get bigger.
It's maybe get so like oh my god he's not gonna like me it's gonna do.
Yeah.
Like hopefully you're with a do you know it.
If that person you're with doesn't like you anymore because of that you don't want to be with
them but you know exactly.
Yeah exactly.
You can get into it and not think about it too much.
Yeah exactly.
Yeah it goes both ways.
Either you're having too much fun because it's drunken sex or having serious sex and
nobody talks about it.
Exactly.
It goes both ways.
People don't talk about sex.
I know.
That's what my show has been all about.
I've done 2000 podcasts and it's all about all comes down to talking to your partner or
even at first learning your own body so you can communicate to your partner about what
the hell you need and bed to feel good because it sucks. Why
should we all be having like amazing sex all the time?
Yeah, I mean actually something that I've learned about myself too is that I love to masturbate
after I have sex, even no matter how good the sex is. I don't know. And luckily I have
found a partner that doesn't find that offensive. Some men would be very, very offended by
that. And I had orgasm during sex. Yeah by that. And I had an orgasm during that.
Yeah, even if I've had an orgasm during, or I've had multiple.
It doesn't, it's just something that I now enjoy like doing for myself.
Because I'm so turned on by the experience I just had, I'm so horny still that I just want to love it.
So think about that and keep following.
So I feel very, really sleep.
Yeah, exactly.
And you can have multiple.
And I can have multiple.
So do you have orgasms easily?
Like do you need toys or extra things?
Or do you usually just come to?
No.
I mean, I'm pretty much like a, I've mastered the skill
because of what I do for a living.
And sometimes it is very hard for a new partner
to figure it out real quick in a 45 minute video.
I have mastered the skill of pinning a man down
and saying, sit still, all I need is about a minute.
And I can figure it out and make myself make myself come very quick. Oh my god.
So is it more like with a penis? Entide you? Yeah. Well, it's it's a penis inside me and
grinding my clit on the right area. You know, obviously if somebody's bone structure
is a little bit different. That's really what I think girls forget that they have to find
is I mean, I think if you're clitoral, clitorally stimulated, you can find that anytime
you have a penis inside you and you're on top.
You know, it's just a matter of some, some man I understand are bigger, bone or different
way.
But if any man were to project his pelvis up in an upward direction, you'll find it or
put a pillow on your knees.
So, so is it you like grinding in circles or you just moving up and down. It's just kind of all over the place
I'm a real big like eye contact person. I'm really intimate. I like I said it right now. I'm really into spit
So I'm like not like spitting on people but like making out really slobbery stuff
During that. I love that. So hot and connective and intimate. Yeah. I love hot sweaty. It doesn't gross me out
It's very like it lets me know that my partner is into it as much as I am.
Exactly. Where they're really exerting energy. Like if we both come out, like we just came in looking the same, like our makeup still on, we didn't do it right.
Exactly. It should be, it's like messy and you should always be quick. It's supposed to be a painting. Your bodies are supposed to become a painting.
Exactly. I say it's art and together you should create a painting together. You're so right. I love that. So also like learning on sexuality where there are different ways,
like do you think to start doing porn, like we only able to orgasm one way and now you've learned
like there's other ways that you can orgasm or other ways you experience other parts of your
maybe your other rodent and so on as you discovered. I never knew I could orgasm during sex period and
I didn't know that there was different kinds of ways to come that there's different, you know,
different ways to experience that
That's definitely something that I've learned in the porn business because there are these times
So what are the different ways that you learned? How could you explain them?
I wish I wish I could
That's crazy
Like I know Clotoro I can definitely identify when that's happening
But sometimes when I'm having sex also a man's penis will just I guess it's hitting my g-spot in a sense
I guess that's the theory g spot in a sense.
I guess that's the theory.
And then coming from that feels so much different.
Then I feel like it's like an overwhelming surge through my whole body where it
like just shocks me.
Right.
So much that I can't move.
I'm dead.
I'm done.
Right versus clitoral.
It's just it stimulated just to that area where I just like feel it in my pelvic region. Right versus clitoral. It's just it's stimulated just to that area where I just like feel
feel it in my pelvic region. Right. And it feels great. And then when it's done, I'm ready to do it
again. Right. Do you feel like you sometimes have to have a clitoral orgasm first before you
have the juice butt orgasm? No. Okay. You can have it. I can do it. Yeah. You're so lucky. I can do it
on either either form. I know. That's amazing. Malta. Okay. can't make sure that yeah that's hot that you master it after too I love that.
Let's take another call because it's just they're coming in.
Okay let's talk to Adrian and Tempe Arizona.
Oh Adrian or Jonathan must be Adrian.
Okay Adrian.
Hi Adrian you're on the section of the Emily show.
Hi.
Hi. Hi.
Great.
Do some questions for Ally.
A question for Ally.
Oh, yeah.
First of all, can I say, how do you have my favorite porn star?
Oh, thank you.
You're freaking gorgeous.
And I can tell you that you're like really down there.
So that's cool too.
Oh, thanks.
And, uh, so my question is, um, what's your kind of funny awkward,
high school story that you have?
Because I just got out of high school like mom to go so
Wow
Congratulations by the way
Yeah, um crazy funny high school story. Oh my gosh
I you know I never I don't even have any weird stories
I got through high school pretty pretty easy. I can't even think I
mean I can't even think of anything crazy happening to me. Yeah I was pretty
much a good kid. I did my thing. I mean I ditched school.
I learned how and then Redlands California. Okay. A group and I group around here.
Wow. Worst thing that's ever happened to me. How much the awkward sex story? I
didn't even really have sex in high school
because I was into women.
So I didn't even, I mean, I gave a couple of blow jobs,
but that was about it.
I mean, I didn't even ever go past that.
I mean, I was, I can think only thing
I could ever think of is like drunk and throwing up
in front of everybody.
Well, I did that, right Adrian?
I'm like, I'm sorry Adrian, I was such a normal kid.
I'm the worst to ask these questions
I wish I could say I had some like I peed my pants in geometry class. I I don't have anything weird
I was a good kid too, so it's not a big deal. Yeah, I mean maybe I ate too many
I'd never even farted in class so I don't even I mean I don't even have a good stories like that
I know It's cool to talk to like that. Lane, I'm gay. I know, I'm gay. I know, I'm gay.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
I know, I know, I know. I know, I know, I know. I know, I know. I calm boy. But it wasn't like I was never in those situations where I had those
girly embarrassing moments or things like that.
Because you're very confident in yourself.
I mean, you know yourself.
Yeah.
I kind of, you know, yeah, like I was just doing my own thing.
And then, you know what I mean?
It was hard for me because I was pretending to be,
because I was a cheerleader.
So I was pretending to do the guy thing.
And then also you're probably so.
I don't I love you then because you were like the girls girl and the guys girl
yeah I was kind of all over the place definitely yeah I really am I mom still gets mad at me
because I don't know how to cross my legs it took a while to be honest with you
only because of the stereotype of the business. And let's not be wrong in any entertainment business.
I think mostly in the entertainment business, which unfortunately we've seen some people
die from lately.
There are, you know, the curse of getting involved in drugs or alcohol or, you know, if you
have an addictive personality, sometimes it can be very, very hard and tough.
So, you know, they were more concerned along those lines of me putting myself at the forefront of those things.
And, freight of your, like, what kind of, right,
I have to say.
Yeah, that do you ever, do you ever experience that stuff?
No, actually, to be honest with you,
I, I, it's so crazy.
I mean, my name is Ali Hayes for a reason.
Let's, let's not, let's not be wrong about that.
I don't, I never deny that.
But I have never dabbled in anything else.
I don't, I just doesn't peak my interest.
I've never been really crazy about it or anything like that.
I mean, I love who I am and I'm very happy with where I'm at.
I'm super confident and great.
You seem like, yeah, I want to hang.
Like I think we're going to be BFF.
Yeah, heck yeah, let's do it.
I love wine and uno.
That's my thing.
Wine and uno.
I love uno.
Oh, see.
Wine and uno. I don't care. I don't care nothing. I know. That's a good. Wine and Uno. I love Uno. Oh, see? Wine and Uno.
I'm not saying that. I'm kidding.
I know.
That's a good stuff.
Okay, we're gonna do that.
Okay, I have a question for you.
Well, we actually kind of covered this, though.
So, because I was gonna say to you,
one of the top questions I asked is,
I did ask you have your already reached orgasms.
But what advice would you give for women
who aren't having orgasms during sex?
Or what advice would you have for their partners?
Orgasms, women that aren't having orgasms during sex,
I would have to say that you need to find a dark room and play with yourself.
Right.
Because until you understand what you have going on there,
you don't know where to put what where,
and you can't tell somebody how to do it either.
And if you're just so frustrated and you feel like you can't find those things,
I mean,
then bring toys in.
And toys, you know, vibrators.
And you know, the first thing that I ever masturbated with was a mock three vibrating
razor.
Oh, really?
That's kind of what you heard yourself.
No, you take the razor head off.
Oh, you know, the brain's right.
All the way to my chest.
Right.
Like, people use toothbrushes and stuff.
Exactly.
Had no clue.
How old were you?
I was with my ex husband.
Okay.
So I think it was probably
either 18 or 19 of the time and sex just didn't seem right to me it just didn't
make sense whatever was going wrong with the first husband I never ever
remember it don't even can't even say that I did it was it after you broke up with
then you started pouring in between there you started exploring your own
sexuality and masturbating on your own I would have to say right after I started porn.
A little bit before that, only because I knew that I was going, I mean, I was being hired
to play with myself and I was very confused.
And because I'd never watched porn, I didn't even know how to quote unquote fake being a
porn star.
And I wasn't doing porn to be a porn star.
So I was very confused.
That's how it works for you because you're so authentic and you're yourself.
And then we say the reason why people are successful and this was any business entertainment, talk,
whatever you do, it's when you're authentic yourself and you seem like you're very like self-aware
and you know yourself and you're yourself. Like the fact it's great that you weren't like
watch trying to watch porn and become like I was in a reality show last year. I never I haven't
television 20 years like I didn't even I'd never seen a reality show on the station that I was
on I was on a bravo show. And I was like then the director's like you should watch and like I haven't told this in 20 years. Like I didn't even, I'd never seen a reality show on the station that I was on. I was on a Bravo show.
And I was like, then the director's like,
you should watch.
I'm like, I don't even care.
I'm just being myself, you know, I was so fine.
Yeah, what's the difference?
It's so hard to pretend to be.
You can't pretend to be.
You can't pretend to be.
It's like, I just blows my mind.
And it also breaks my heart for the people
that do do that.
I know.
I just gotta be exhausting.
Because people aren't confident in me.
Exactly.
Because I always say to people,
if you're trying to be someone else
You're never going to be as good at being them and being them as you are being yourself
They're gonna always gonna be the best them and you're gonna be the best you so you guys will work on becoming the best
Yeah, and I feel like people forget that they probably got that opportunity because for that one moment
They let their guard down right that's why they're there exactly so you know
You always have to remember that you are where you are because of who you are
Not because of who you create. Exactly. Exactly. Exactly.
So be yourself people. This is all good messages. Okay, we got another call. He's been waiting for a while. So let's stop the Jonathan in Las Vegas, Nevada.
Hey Jonathan, how you doing? We're going to write how you guys doing. Great. Thanks for coming. Thanks for coming. Thanks to Emily. I just want to know what's like the wildest thing you ever did in a studio.
Wildest thing of every- A girl or guy. Most of what a girl. Because I like girl-
Girl-on-girl action.
Crazyest thing. You know, I think the best part about if you do or don't know a lot about
me, I have done a lot of porn parodies
and I'm known for a lot of my couples porn
and all this stuff.
So there's a lot of craziness still to come from me
in the years to come.
I'm definitely gonna be around in the business
for at least another five years
and I have a lot more to show of my wild side.
So unfortunately Jonathan, currently,
I don't think I have any really crazy stories
I mean I'm done some cool spit videos like a set them into all that but I haven't
The craziest thing that I would think I would ever done would be what you wanted to talk about was
Winning most outrageous sex scene. Yeah, I wanted to get into what that was what was the most around I'm done
Why what was the most average texting that you won for?
That was a girl, girl, girl video.
So Ronald, John, and Sally.
Okay, John, okay, here we go.
And it was in Beledona's fetish fanatics,
Enema Boot Camp.
It was the Enema Boot Camp thing.
So it was two women Amy Brooke and Adriana Nicole
who are like anal queens and they are amazing at it.
They love it.
And I still don't do anal.
You don't do anal signals.
No, you don't make it sex.
I just don't do it yet.
Okay, got it.
I'm going for giant dance.
I'm going for giant dance.
I'm going for giant dance.
Good, it's kind of way for something.
Definitely coming soon for sure.
But in that, it was basically little old me getting
Enema's squirted on me and, you know, and then like
sticking fist toys in their butts.
And I was just, I feel like in the video, I was just so in awe, like I feel like I look
like a scared little child.
So they were giving you animals?
No, no, no, no.
The girls were getting animals and squirting them out of their butt onto me.
Oh my God, how did you feel about that, though?
I was like, who was like, no, no, it was all clean up.
They were everybody's clean butt.
Everybody's clean butt.
Right, okay.
I mean, but was it how we turned that by it?
Or was it just, yeah, because it's one of those things
that a woman is confident in herself to feel sexy
and do that, you know, and still orgasm
and feel great about herself.
Like, this is what I'm doing.
It's very hot.
It's, you know, an empowered woman is very. Like this is what I'm doing. It's very hot. It's an empowered woman.
It's very sexy.
No matter what the guys want, a confident woman, right, Jonathan?
Don't you think that's a sexy thing?
A woman who knows that she wants and asks for it?
Yeah, and Jonathan and anybody that's out there listening,
any of these videos that I'm mentioning,
please find me on Twitter.
Yeah, of course, right.
And you can just tweet me.
Yeah, go ahead and tweet at me.
And I can send you a sign copy of
that. You can purchase that straight from me from my Twitter. Something else I'm going to be
launching soon is going to be shop alley haze.com. It's also going to be called Playhouse alley haze.
It's going to be a giant store where you can purchase anything you would like. Oh, that's so
cool. Shoes clothing from a movie. Toys you want me to play with. And then also you can you'll be
there will be a link to get the custom videos. Oh, that's awesome. That's on LAHays.com.
And that's on CUSite, which will be announced.
16 sites. Yeah. It's a little entrepreneur.
Okay. Yeah, which will be announced. Everything will be linked to either my Twitter, which is just
forward slash LAHays, ALLE, IE, HA, ZE, or will also be, you can also find on my site, which is
LAHays.com. Okay, Jonathan. Yeah. Let me save you some grief. If you shouldn't find out what Jonathan's
Twitter handle is so that you don't have a ton of people claiming to be Jonathan so you have to send out that free stuff
well no it's not free he's got a purchase
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feet wet in it, and I'm very, very excited. And what I'm going to do is try and
work with new girls or girls that aren't being shot a whole bunch due to the new
market and kind of work with them and put a new series out based on that.
And I wanted to be a little bit more reality based
so I'm gonna definitely talk to the girls
and if they know a hot guy or they wanna ask me
some of my favorite guys to work with
or girls to work with, I want the experience
to be definitely what they want to do.
Right, because that's the hardest thing.
You don't wanna force them into any scenes
and see if they can.
And sometimes when you first get started in the business,
people don't know you, you don't know people. You might even just kind of like them into any scenes. No. And sometimes when you first get started in the business, people don't know you.
You don't know people. You might even just kind of like, yeah, you're just kind of like,
okay, you know, you just, if the guys hot, you're working with him and things like that.
So I'd like to give those people those opportunities that they know they do good scenes with or
they want to have another chance with this person. That's so cool.
Kind of put those together. So you're going to start doing that, like you're starting to
do that now. Next month. Yeah. I'm start yeah, I'm going to start shooting, hoping
to release in June. So I've got my fingers crossed with all that you'll be able to find
that hopefully. That's awesome. I mean, there's a lot of porn outdruck by women in the
were years. Yeah, but I just think it's a different perspective because a lot of times
porn is like made for men, but women want porn, want to watch porn too. Yeah, I can't
do it, but just I think it's great to get the female perspective.
So good for you.
Thanks.
And I have a question for you.
So you do a lot of girl and girls,
say if you talked about it, I'm here by sexual.
So what is your advice for bicarious girls who want to hook up
other girls, but they're not quite sure what to do?
I used to say, you know, if you're talking with your girlfriends,
you definitely feel open with one of them to communicate that with.
But there's also issues in that too. So I they might judge you.
Yeah, I deter from saying find your best friend and tell her to just do it with you.
Yeah, I feel like whenever I've had my experiences with women,
several like with my friends, like it's always like, yeah, it's always my best friends.
Like it's I don't feel sexual towards them, but yeah, I would say something about it.
You talk to them about it, maybe, but I would say necessarily somebody that's more of an acquaintance
that you know of.
Maybe that one friend that you just, you know, call up when you want to go have a glass
of wine and get a little loopy and be a goofball with, that may be the best one.
Definitely somebody, obviously, you know a little bit.
Right.
I mean, if you're really that open, there's a lot of groups and different things like that.
Like groups, do you need good websites?
I don't have any good websites.
Because I know that's such the bummer.
I know. I wish I did.
I definitely do more research into that.
I have given some sites out.
There's like some swinger sites and stuff like that.
But just look around at the internet.
Like you can find people in your neighborhood.
Also, there's like a lot of different sites.
It's not as tough as you think.
It's what I should say. Like if you're feeling reserved about it, it's the internet. Like you can five people in your neighborhood. Also, there's like a lot of different stuff. It's not a type of stuff. What you think is what I should say.
Like if you're feeling reserved about it, it's really not.
And I mean, and obviously start with kissing,
start with touching.
And you don't, it doesn't mean you gotta,
you know what I mean, show your fist and somebody is not.
Exactly, not yet, not the first date.
I know, right.
Okay, so speaking of fisting, no,
but let's go to the Boral sex element.
So what would you say is one of your top tips,
or just a few of your really good tips
for performing oral sex on a woman
that you think maybe people don't know
or that you kind of know is like a sure thing,
even though all women are different.
Yeah, all women are different.
All women are different,
but I feel like I read an article,
which most of the times statistics are very off the wall.
But I did read something that 75% of women
are stimulated
clitorally. Right. So always right start there. I would, my suggestion would be always start there.
And I'll always start slow because it's such a sensitive area. It's like if, you know,
it's like if I bit the head of a guy's penis. Right. How would you guys know about that?
Exactly. I'm slowly kissing your stomach. Yeah. All of a sudden, I just bite. I took a freaking bite. Yeah. Or you just suck too hard.
Right. I touch the head too much. I always say go five times slower than you think you should.
Yeah. Exactly. You know, take a breath. I, yeah. I mean, keeping the area warm too is like breathing
and like being moist is definitely the number, the number one thing. You know, saliva.
Yeah.
And then work your way through the motions.
You know, there's twisting the tongue.
There's sucking.
There's up and down, right to left.
You know, there's all different things that you can do.
I would always say start with your mouth first.
Don't incorporate your mouth and your hands too much.
Sometimes it can be overwhelming.
It can be at the beginning.
Yeah, especially if you don't know the one.
Yeah, it is. It's definitely a warm, It can be, it's beginning. Yeah, especially if you don't know the one.
Warmer up.
Yeah, it is.
It's definitely a warm, a warm her up kind of thing.
Right, exactly.
So what about fingers?
You find like most women like that or they don't, or it's a different kind of thing.
I feel like, um, I know it's different everyone.
Right.
It is different with everyone, but I feel like hygiene is such a thing that's in right now.
Right.
You know, we go through phases, um, in society of what's cool, what's not. And I feel like hygiene is such an's in right now. Right. You know, we go through phases in society of what's cool, what's not.
And I feel like hygiene is such an in thing right now.
As far as what, what do you mean?
I feel like women are very aware that,
also men too, that people are dirty, hands are dirty.
So a hands thing is not only like you used to be.
I'm like, guys, wash your hands.
Like, you know, it's like if you didn't just see him
or hear him go to the bathroom and wash his hands,
women are very aware of that.
So it's so great you guys.
It's so great to be.
It's so great to be.
It's so great to be.
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It's so great to be. It's so great to be. It's so great to be. It's so great to be. It's so great to be. I have a bush and I have, I did one year in the business without it in the constant sex.
Definitely made her very uncomfortable and made her very uncomfortable down there.
Your vagina like did not.
So how much of a bastard?
But you don't have like, you still trim like it's trim bush or something.
Oh, man, it's trimmed around my lips and it doesn't grow, grow down.
It stops right at the hood.
But it's not, it's more than I mean, you could land a couple planes on it but it's not, it's more than all,
I mean, you could land a couple planes on it.
It's pretty thick.
I have a beauty mark down there
that matches the one on my face.
Yeah, you have a pretty low beauty mark.
Yeah, so they're opposites.
Okay.
So I expose that beauty mark.
Otherwise, I would definitely have a full triangle.
I'm really into the bush.
I love to play it.
Play with it.
I love to tug on it as a joke.
I grew it out one time and corn rode it.
Right, I love it. I just feel like I'm just going to go for so late. I swear to God,
not crazy all over the bush, but I just feel like I'm just going to be like, treat it like your head.
Exactly. Bring it to me back. So what is your advice for stimulating a girl's g-spot with your finger?
G-spot with your finger is very strange. Women have to understand that you're not going to pee.
A lot of women feel like you're going to. That's usually what you're about to do.
You're about to orgasm a lot too.
Yeah, which also sometimes can be confused for squirting.
I'm bipolar.
I'm bipolar on the squirting thing.
Sometimes I'm okay with it.
Sometimes I think it's right.
Sometimes I don't think it is.
You think you're squirting or something
as you think you're not?
No, not necessarily me, anybody.
I've had a couple episodes where I've escorted where it hasn't really been
scored.
It's just been excessive ejaculation.
So I know that that is the technical term for squirting, but I have never squirted like
a 10 foot stream in somebody's face.
I have been quote unquote squirted on, which I knew wasn't squirt because everything smells
like right. Exactly.
So that wasn't okay.
Right.
But I would have to say, like, let somebody push you enough.
Um, and don't stop them when you start.
Yeah.
I mean, I feel uncomfortable.
It does feel uncomfortable.
That's my thing was squirting is a lot of men are very into the fact that they can make
a woman squirt, especially some men into the business.
And I am sometimes like, that's not fun for me.
Let's not keep doing that.
Yeah, right.
Right when you get there, let's just talk.
But there are people want, there are some great
if you want to explore the juice back.
Cause I always say if your partner like wants
you want to explore the juice back,
there's also you can use your fingers.
That's a great way to start with the hook.
The hook is the thing.
That's right.
There's not much more than you could describe.
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I have like the Lilos and the you know, I have really good to have all those things
I
Like fancy toys like that. I have a lot of gadgets and gizmos and things to push and a lot of you know things that do amazing things
I sometimes can't find all the reason to use them because I'm so focused on
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my, I like to give my partners and say, play with this with me. Like do something. You get to,
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And if they have buttons to push there's so many remote control
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And that's a new sexual experience exactly in this kind of like a video game exactly
Yeah, I do love your is there any toys that you love now like anything new that you've gotten that you I mean
I mean how touchy is my go-to all the time right everybody everybody loves that it's a quick easy
Simple thing and it's just so overwhelming sometimes.
Exactly.
But I do like my Lilo.
Which one?
I have the...
Is it Clitoral one or is it?
It's both.
It's both.
And it's the black one.
I forget what it's called.
Oh, I know.
I think I know.
Yeah, and it's got the tiniest little...
I've had it for a couple of years now.
So I think I know I want to give the name of it now because I love Lee low toys and
I love Jay Zhu.
I always talk about that.
Yeah.
Because any of their toys, yes, I have the Mimi.
I love the Fifi.
Yep.
Luckily, I've been to a lot of toy conventions.
So I've got to get a trial.
But I'll ask for a read.
Yes.
I go every year.
I've got a trial out of these things for free.
Yeah.
My entire well everyone's heard me say this on my show.
I have an entire garage filled with sex toys literally. I just went through
them today. I actually just got an office today. And I said to him, there's not enough room.
Like I need storage. Like I, because I want to get the toys out of my garage. And I'm
like, I need more storage, but I do get to try everything. So, wait, here's all the pictures.
Is it this one? This one. Okay, come over here. Is it the smart one rechargeable? Wait,
which one? Is it any of these? Oh, no, it's this, but it has the smart one rechargeable? Wait, which one is it any of these?
Oh, no, it's this, but it has the clitorial thing.
Oh, it's this.
Oh, that's awesome.
Okay, so everyone check this one.
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It kind of looks like a rabbit.
It's got things to do now.
It's exactly.
It's kind of like the thing that they're trying, I just like that they're waterproof and things like that because I do a lot of
stuff in the shower in the bathtub.
Exactly, I mean that's-
It's so great, I think they all should be waterproof and they're rechargeable, which I love
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So, okay, what about oral sex?
And then, do you have any great below job tips
that we all need to know?
Oh my gosh, that is my, I am very well known
for my oral skills.
Have you won more for that yet?
No, unfortunately no job of the year.
And they do, they do.
They give out best oral sex,
and things like that. I have yet to win that one yet. Okay, that's very important. I know right? I would love it
Actually, there's gonna be nominations coming up for a convention that I'm going to if you'd like to meet me in your local
Atlantic City, Tazatica, your local to Atlantic City
We are going to be there
April 11th through 13th. So you can come and meet me and many other stars at that
They also are going to start a voting thing for that speaking of voting for something for best or all though
You can find that. Yes, it's a fan vote only they do best or all best female performer all that kind of stuff
So please I love the extra
Okay, okay, okay, is it on your website the information? It's going to be on my Twitter. I will post. Yeah, I will post all that. I know it's called the fan. The fan.
The awards. Yeah. Okay, so what? What is my tips? My tips are always like it's another thing to start off slow. It's I mean, it's always a good thing to start off slow.
I I love to use my hands and my mouth at the same time. It keeps anything from getting tired too fast. Right.
To send this big tired.
Yeah, sometimes we do get tired.
And sometimes it does take a long time.
And sometimes it goes too fast.
But I do feel like when the penis is completely overwhelmed,
like all at once, and you're doing a whole bunch of things
that once it freaks out and just goes into overdrive, basically,
kind of like fem bots.
Exactly.
Freak out and blow up.
And that's the whole point
So you got to keep mixing up to like you twist your hands never never do the same thing for too long
I say give everything about 30 seconds
It's 30 seconds in your head seems like a short time, but it's very long
It is doing something like that. It's a very long time
Especially if you were to count it in your head
You'll be like holy crap. I could have done a whole bunch of more things
Exactly so and that's a loob, and what do I have to do?
I'm a spit girl, and I'm a spit.
Deepthroding is something that I do.
I actually also do live shows.
You can find me sometimes at your local strip club.
Wow.
It's called Feature Dancing.
Feature?
Feature Dancing.
Yeah, a club will hire an adult star to come out for a weekend.
That's something you'd like me to do.
Go ahead and let your local club know,
or let me know what club you have local
of the highest features.
And in my show, I take about a 10, 12 inch,
double-sided dog and shove the whole thing down my mouth.
Wow.
So I bet you crowds go wild.
It's pretty insane.
It's pretty insane.
That's amazing.
But that's definitely a relaxing thing.
I ask women ask me all the time, and I wish
there was some crazy thing I could tell you,
but it's, you gotta be comfortable.
You gotta be comfortable with who you're with,
and you gotta be with yourself.
And you have to be into it.
So as long as you keep it wet,
you use your hands, you see like you're into it,
and you use enough pressure.
And ask if you're not sure if you're doing it,
because I know there's a lot of young women
working for me, you're like, I don't know what to do.
It's like ask, you know, it's practice, but also ask the guy, you can tell if you're not sure if you're doing it, because I know there's a lot of young women working for me. You're like, I don't know what to do. It's like ask, you know, it's practice,
but also ask the guy, you can tell if you're...
And you can feel where it's at in your mouth.
Right.
A lot of men get scared about the deep throat thing,
because, and just so you know women,
you just may not be constructed.
Your jaw just may be, if you have a narrow jaw,
you won't be able to deep throat.
Right, it's fine.
It's fine.
It'll scrape your teeth and it feels,
I mean, the most important.
Teeth is always the number one thing. Yeah Yeah. So yeah. But sometimes women don't understand
that they can't help it and they think they're doing something wrong, but we're all designed
a different way. So sometimes it has it's it's not you when there's nothing that you
can do about it. Exactly. Like it's not like your guy sitting there going, oh, the last
girl did this. If you you could make up your own blow jab routine, exactly. Exactly. Yeah. There's no right ways. Never forget the balls.
That's that's also I was gonna say never forget the balls.
What are your balls?
I have a ball fetish.
I I'm obsessed with balls.
I love them in my face.
I love to touch them.
I think it's the most amazing thing.
That's I'm very, very into it.
Really?
Yes.
Very, very into it.
Like, could be a comparable watching TV with a pair of balls in my hands.
Oh my god.
I love that.
So excited. Do you know what I have to give you. Oh my god, I love that. So exciting.
You know what I have to give you?
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Valentine's Day.
So also my other question for you is, well I've eight million, I wish I take this call,
he's been waiting for thirty-three minutes. Oh my god, let's talk to Marcel from Texas ASAP.
Hey Marcel, thanks for holding, you really want to talk to Ali, don't you?
You're such a trooper, thank you my dear. Hey Marcel, what's going on baby?
One great hug, how are you? Great, Ali's done and talked to you, so am I, my style. What's going on, baby? Well, I'm great. How are you? Great.
Ally's done it. Talk to you. So, my what's your question? Yeah, what do you got to say?
One of the questions for you is, uh,
they have, like, any advice for, like a guy that,
that's trying to ask a girl out for like the first time.
Oh, that's my question. Yeah, you know, that's another thing where you just need to be yourself.
Whatever your thing may be to calm down
right before you talk to her, whether it's,
you know, take a shot, have a cigarette,
you know, whatever.
Becoming.
Yeah, smoke bowl.
I mean, all those things tend to calm people down
in some way.
If you're really nervous, I would say use one of those,
use one of those things to calm you down.
You can never be too honest. The truth is the best. I'm such an honest person. I don't
know any other way. So definitely, I would say be honest to a Tee, but don't smother.
Don't smother one man. Don't smother one man. Be scary. So enough information to let her
know how you feel without letting your heart bleed.
Right.
And if you just meet a woman, here's the thing.
The guys think they have to like have pickup lines.
There's gotta be the right thing.
No, I gotta comment.
No, be yourself.
So you know how you do Marcel.
Next time you see a hat chick, like let's say you're like standing in line to get coffee,
right?
I would just examine.
I need a better example.
Like let's say you're standing.
I don't know.
What do you do for a living Marcel?
Um, I student.
Well, I'm in college, but I look at a movie theater right now.
Okay, cool. So do you take tickets or do you pop corn, whatever?
I work at a...
Projection?
I do tickets.
Okay, tickets.
So let's say this is a cute girl that comes up, right?
So a lot of guys do they freeze. Like, oh my god, she's not a cant talk to her.
Maybe she's with a guy just be like,
you can just say something funny.
Like think that like you notice something around you,
like man, you just got the last ticket for this.
You excited, do you know about this film?
It's like, are my favorite film I've seen here.
Like you just kind of just observe something
and you ask a question about something
that's going on in the situation.
So you can just say, you look excited to see this film
or guess what I heard about this film
or just something like that she's there to see it ask her question.
It doesn't have to be a pick up line just be friendly be flirty be yourself think of like you're talking to a guy even you know just just make conversation.
And you know what Marcel it gets so much easier so if you just start practicing like start with a girl that you're not attracted to.
Start with a grandma that comes in and be like excited for the movie and I'm not And I'm not kidding myself. It's like everything in life. Because a lot of guys are age,
oh, all age is actually,
I've been all age is like so nervous,
but it's like everything in life,
it's practice makes perfect.
Don't forget to breathe.
Don't forget to breathe.
And just the more you start practice talking to women
and just having conversations,
like it was a dude or what you're hanging out
with your best buddies,
the more confident you'll be around women
and you won't have that,
what do I say, what I do?
She's really cute, oh my God. She thinks I'm staring at her.
You just start talking. Like, just like, I'm just gonna have a conversation.
And it helps you in life, too. It'll help you in jobs. It'll help you be like that guy at the party.
They're one stock, too. It'll help you be great in interviews.
Just to learn to talk to people and make conversation about what is going on in the moment.
So you observe something in the moment about what's going around you.
Like, if she walked in, you wouldn't be like, you know, you could be like,
how was your day? It should be great, give my ticket.
But if you're like, oh, you're seeing this movie, man,
this has been the most popular movie.
I was lucky, it was sold out last weekend.
I mean, anything, you know what I mean by myself?
Yeah, yeah, because then it's not related
to, you know, how technically how you feel.
So you can get distracted and you don't get scared
because you're starting conversation.
Right, it's just a conversation about anything.
And then you practice and then you get more comfortable
and it will give you more confidence
because you'll start to see that.
And honestly, maybe the first time
when we're like, whatever, do you give me a ticket?
You know, it doesn't matter or whatever.
And that'll still happen because asking them
and I was all about rejection.
But you got to keep trying myself.
Believe me, I know I've had my share of redirection
by Robin.
I feel you're paying.
Yeah.
So good luck for yourself.
Thanks for calling, sex, and Emily.
Thank you. Thank you. Have a great night
It is so true so many men. I mean, do you get hit on all the time? Where we go?
I
You know, I've been told I give this aura about me like I'm gonna eat somebody
So apparently it might do yeah my dude energy comes out sometimes I tried I really won't eat you
I could do right, but he might yeah, but I'm in the moment. So it looks like a dude, right? She's gonna eat you, well she might.
Yeah, but I'm in the moment.
Not for the first time she'll eat you, she's not gonna eat you.
No, but I've had my fair share, things like that.
Where people hit on me and it's definitely interesting.
And most of the time, you start, they just try to hard.
Yeah, they try to hard, hey baby,
don't just be, because I always think about this,
when I first started this show and I started giving advice,
I was like, okay, I think my boyfriends have had or people I've been with, I'm like, well,
why was it? There's a million guys out there being ahead of me. And usually because they
start up a conversation and I found them interesting. Like, yeah, brain is the largest sex
organ. And they just, like, they were saying, quoting some, like, thing from proofs or something.
Or it was like, they just were like, funny. And they got my attention. They have something
different. It wasn't like, hey, baby, they go to the hat tonight or like, where are you
from? What do you do? Like, that's so boring.
But just observe, it's not like a genius thing
it just to having conversation.
So that's a good thing.
How can I pile on?
Yeah, a little trick tonight.
I ended up teaching myself right before I got married
was I would, well, actually, I shouldn't say that.
I was 10 years before I got married.
Okay.
But like, if I was like having dinner with a girl or something,
I go to the bathroom and then when I was coming back
to the table, I pretend that she was a dude in my head.
Oh, right.
If she was a dude and she was saying these things,
what I still want to hang out with her,
and a lot of time was like really annoying.
It was like, I'm going to choose one of my guy friends.
This will be like the most annoying dude ever.
Really?
Really?
That's kind of a good way to look at it.
I always tell my friends.
It makes them a way less intimidating to a hot.
It's true.
Think of it because you go at most people are comfortable
around their friends.
And another thing I think about for women,
that advice for women, that if you're dating a guy,
and let's say things aren't going so well,
or he's not treating you well,
I feel like I have these conversations with people all the time.
They're like, yeah, we didn't call me back.
And he said he would, or he's not drinking,
and he was texting to other girl,
or he said, you get broke,
gradually, three times a row.
I always say, how would you feel
if one of your girlfriends treated you like that?
Would you be mad at her?
Would she still be your friend?
Because they're trying to figure out as you good guy or whatever.
Yeah.
I'm like, no, you probably wouldn't put up with someone
of girlfriend treating like that.
Yeah, that's the way I was doing it.
Why would you do it with a guy?
I mean, it's kind of a similar thing.
Like, you should not.
It is very similar.
Yeah, we all get tripped in our head.
Like, gabs and sacks, you've got to be so different.
Like, just be yourself.
Well, you want your partner to be your best friend.
Yeah.
So, if they're not, you want to sleep with. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, that's totally right. Allie, I love your perspective. You're so different, like just be yourself. Well, you want your partner to be your best friend. Yeah. So if they're not, you can't.
Yeah, exactly.
Yeah, they're totally right.
Allie, I love your perspective.
You're so like, you're so many, like, you're so like bright
and you're so like insightful and great talk to you.
Thank you.
Thank you so much for being here.
So tell everyone what's coming out where they can find you,
what you can do.
If you'd like to continue this conversation,
or see a little bit more of me with alliehase.com,
if you are a member, I'm doing two live webcam shows where you get to see me live.
So that is going to be on the 10th and the 17th at 3pm Pacific Standard Time.
Go to aliehase.com or stream 8 and you can find my account.
Okay.
Like I said, if you're an aliehase.com member, you can find me there live and in the flesh.
I wanted to be a member.
Yeah.
So you can definitely check that out.
So and then allehase.com is my website.
You can always find me on Twitter, ask me any questions you'd like.
Or you can see what other upcoming events I have.
And the Twitter is just forward slash allehase,
A-L-L-I-E-H-A-Z-E.
Awesome.
If you're a local to Atlantic City, you
can see me April 11th through the 13th at Exotica.
Get me live. I'll sign some autographs for you. Be there to answer any questions at Exotica. Get me live.
I'll sign some autographs for you.
Be there to answer your questions.
Oh my God.
I just she's going to autograph the sexiest photographs
ever on yourself.
So you're just going to want to show up
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So check her out.
And also all this information by Ali will be
on my website, sexwithme.com, along with a hot video
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But I don't think we're not going to get naked.
We don't have time.
But it's going to be fun and you're going to like it.
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So don't say I didn't try to help you this Valentine's Day.
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Okay, I love it.
Okay, everyone, so you got to find me on Twitter and Facebook, it's actually the Emily.
Also, check me out this week because I'm gonna be giving away
some awesome prizes every day for Valentine's Day and just for you know for
even if it wasn't Valentine's Day I always do things that answer your chats.
We're gonna start having an ask Emily hashtag that I'm gonna start doing one
or two days a week. I just answer your sex questions for an hour on Twitter.
Right? Right? Down and dirty. Yeah. Like sex or relationship questions and I've
been doing it lately and we've been getting great response
So I love I just love to have everyone and sometimes I can't get out of the emails you send at feedback at sex at me.com
Even though I really really want to so that's a great way to do it as well following Instagram and Facebook
We also have some more information on there sex at me.com slash Facebook. So I love you all and thanks Ali for being here
Yes, thanks for having me. Thanks to for. Thanks everyone for listening to Sex with Emily.
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