Sex With Emily - SWE: Guest Porn Star Bree Olson

Episode Date: September 14, 2012

From pre-med to pornography, girl next door to sexy vixen, adult star Bree Olson talks openly about her sex life. Emily and Menace also talk about their sex lives, or lack their of. Menace wants to know how many sweaters Emily’s knitted during her Manatroium-- A hiatus from dating or even flirting with men. Menace is conducting an OkCupid experiment but isn’t having any luck finding prospective partners online. Emily answers listener’s emails about being too wet for sex, Hand Jobs, and strippers. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Eyes that mock our sacred institutions. Bet through eyes they call them in a bygone way. Hey, Evelyn, you got a boyfriend? Because my man E here, he just got his heart broken, he thinks you're kind of cute. The girl's got a hair stand. Oh my! The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common knowledge?

What do you mean like laundry? It shrinks. Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me? Oh, my God. I'm off here. I'm so gone. Being bad feels pretty good. But you know, Emily's not the kind of girl you just playing with.

Here, listening to SecS with Emily. We're talking about SecS relationships and everything in between. For more information about SecS with Emily, go to SecS with Emily.com. You can listen to our podcasts. Sign up for our mailing list. You can also find out about my Twitter and Facebook information there and my Facebook band page, which is SecS with Emily. And Menace, where can we find you?

WhiteManace.com. WhiteManace.com, that's so easy. My menace calm white menace calm. That's so easy My very easy man. It's so yeah, it's not blocked on most office like mine is yeah, so if you're on Facebook Like everyone else is on Facebook and not really working these days You can go to Emily Hope more sun Facebook that is so true every single like you before I walk by people like click off Real back like I already saw you on Facebook. Everybody's on Facebook. I calm down. Facebook has like more users or something.

They said, then Google I was reading this morning. Yeah, they have it's like almost 40% of internet traffic. Yeah, they said my brother blocks it in his office. A lot of it. They block it. Yeah, because it's smart. No. That's good.

No, because you need it because you're a social networking dude. Yeah. And I wanted to I found out about like all the geeks in San Francisco What they're on they're not on Facebook. They're on okay, Cupid. Oh Really? That's a great dating site What are they not on for? They're not a great dating site. What do you mean? And that a great? It's a popular dating site. Yeah What are they doing there? They're using that as their Facebook?

As long as if I want to get laid in might as well use okay, keep it not Facebook. Yeah, so I was at the she-im-him The she-im-him concert, you know with Zoe Dishanell and all that stuff Right, and I was with a bunch of the the web geek crew of San Francisco And they're like yeah, you got to check out okay, keep it so I went on there I didn't see one attractive girl that I really People a lot of people are using it. I don't know. I've never done it, but you should do it for an experiment. I did.

Not at your single. Not at your single. Not at your single. It's like terrible. Okay. Today's show. We will be reading the emails that you send to feedback at sexwithendly.com. Topics and letters that include, and your emails include, is there such thing as being

two wet or sex? Rules for a mandatoryum, because as you know, everyone knows I'm on a Manatorium. Pregnancy and sex, hand jobs and strippers. And we're also going to be talking to a porn star, Bri Olson from Adam and Eve.

She's part of one of the Adam and Eve stars. And she's going to be talking to us about being a porn star. If she said plastic surgery and whatever, whatever questions we're going to have a friend that has that's a porn star. And she's at plastic surgery and whatever, whatever questions we're gonna have. I have a friend that has that's a porn star and she's had plastic surgery. Yeah, most have, but it says that she has natural fake boobs, natural real boobs.

Natural fake boobs, all right. That she has a size D with a real. Okay. That's what I'm saying. Okay, so this is the this is the three month mark of my mandatoryum today. Really? I am not in sex in three months. This is the longest I've ever wanted my entire life. How many guys have you made out with?

No, that's none. Lier. None. Lier. No, no. It's part of it. No sex, no sex, no kissing, nothing. Someone actually asked me, and when it letters,

I'm going to read, we'll get to, but what are the rules of it? And the rules are that I'm tearing nuts, even make out, I'm trying not to flirt, I'm trying not to do any of that stuff. How many sweaters have you made? Do you remember my knitting clothes? Instead of doing it, I haven't done anything. Now, I've been working on do any of that stuff. How many sweaters have you made? Do you remember my dating class? Instead of doing seven to anything. Now, I've been working on...

What have you gotten done in this? A lot. I'm tagging the website like you told me to. And I am finished my book. Yeah. I'm doing another iPhone app. And if you want to download my iPhone app, if you haven't done that yet,

and you have an iPhone 101 sex tips from Sex with Emily, working on another iPhone app, I'm busy. All right, good. I'm going to make sure if you're not having sex, you're getting stuffed on. Yeah, exactly. I'm getting lots on it. I think I should start having sex again soon. I didn't really set an end to the mandatory. Is infinite? Well, I didn't really set an end to it instead of deadline. Now who's going to be the one? I don't know. Yeah, I don't even, that's the point. I don't have any. What has to happen for you to break this mandatory? He's got to be really one. I don't know. Yeah, I don't even that's the point. I don't have what has to happen for you to break this man a torn. He's got to be really good. He's got to be someone that I'm really interested in. None of this like I'm just going to sleep with someone because whatever, I mean, he's got to be this has been a time for me to reflect and to figure out what I want and think about it more. And then that

person will have to fit some certain guidelines and rules. What are the guidelines? Discuss right now. Why not? Give me a guy like me. I just want someone who's healthy. I want someone who's healthy who makes sense for me, who is aligned with my values. That is so like, no detail. Just not someone who's ridiculous. Like the last relationship was ridiculous. And I saw that the whole time.

And I knew that it was something I should get into. Give me like two qualities at least. That this guy, yeah, has to have. He's kind, he's funny. He's kind and funny. And he's a good person in the universe. Like he's just like a good person. Alright.

You know, he's not like kicking small animals. And then he gets in your pants. And then he gets in your pants. Eventually. But I think I'm gonna wait longer. What about you, how's it getting in your pants, see? Getting in my pants is easy. Really?

How did you sleep with? I saw your tweet that you tweeted that you were at the BFD that you ran into all your acts. Oh yeah, well see, thing is thing is well if you don't know what the BFB concert is it's a concert here in the Bay area that the radio station I work for throws and it's been going on for probably over 15 years So the big thing every year is when I go to this concert I see every single ex-girlfriend I ever had at the show That happens to me sometimes. What do you do? Do you ever feel, okay, here's my question, do you feel like a remorse or paying ever

in your heart? Oh, I wish I was still with that person. Are you done? You're an ex-girlfriend. I'm done. It's easy for me to get over exes. See, I'm hard. I always get, so he's like a little, like, something inside me dies when you hear they

get engaged. I've heard that the last few days I've got three friends whose ex has gotten engaged. And it's like it's always hard, I've heard that too. I always think, oh really, we're not gonna work. Even though I know it's over for years. Well, do you feel bad that your ex got engaged because you're like, well, I wasn't good enough. No, I was good enough.

They always wanted to, and I was like, yeah, that's right. That's not gonna do with me. I'm just saying it. You're friends, you're friends that talk about this. Yeah, and my friends too. No, my friends too who are going to it. Because actually, it's funny. The last two days, two friends, X's,

they did get engaged and it was like, it's always a hard thing, you know, but it's just because, but you're not together for a reason. I do believe that in relationships, I don't believe in any failures. Al Gore is getting divorced. They've been together 40 years.

Good for him. Congratulations. I should have a party for Al Gore. I don't like party of one. No, but why? Because, you know what, they've been together through thick and thin impolitics. They've had children. They have grandkids. He was vice president of the United States. And now they're getting to work. Like they did a great, they had a great run.

A great 40 years. Now what are the scenarios should be for? I don't know. He's probably gonna go, you know, sleep with the inside. Yeah, he's probably gonna go bang a loud shakes, but what about her? I don't know what she's gonna do. I haven't gotten into it. I shouldn't call her. But you know, do you hear that he was going to divorce? So it's just like, yeah, I just, okay, what my point is, I don't look at any relationships as failures. I don't look even the crazy ones. I'm like, I learned from that. So, for example, the last one ended and what I learned from it is I need a mandatory, I need to stay away from men. I saw the signs, I didn't pay attention, so sometimes you need to step back and you learn from all of them, even the ones that are disasters.

All right, I'm glad you had those theories. I do have those theories, you don't agree. So you see your exes and did you hook up with them again? No, not recently. I've done it before, but not anymore. I do, I usually do too. No, because they want to like hang out longer, and I'm not really into that. You got to do it at their their house so you can leave.

I know that. Yeah. These days you're just sleeping around. No. No. Kind of. I'm not afraid. They're listening.

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AdamNive.com. Sweet. So, wait, let's get into some mail. Alright, what do you got? Okay, these are emails that you sent to feedback at sexwithemily.com. Some people send it to my Facebook account, some people Twitter, whatever you want to do. Get touch of me., Emily and Menace. I just discovered your podcast last night and I've already downloaded and listened to a gazillion of them. Bye-bye reality TV. See you later, Trashy Gossip Magazine.

I found all my new guilty pleasure. I can't wait to get through them all. Here's a question for you that I haven't heard. When I get turned on, I get really wet. Kissing and even giving a blowjob can make me drip like a faucet. Can my slippery slope be so slippery that my new man might act not actually feel the friction? How normal is it? How normal is this? How wet is too wet? What can I do about it? Can this be a problem in terms of him

losing an erection? Please help. Signed flow and like a river. I love it. Oh, and a lot of people also in your letters, we've met us as a few weeks ago that you put where you're from and people have been doing that, so we appreciate it when you let us know where you're from. Flow in like a river, she could be from anywhere. Okay, so here's the thing. First of all, I want to know if you're on any medication, sometimes there's certain medications that you take that make you more wet or more dry, so that could be a factor, but I have

to say being really wet is usually, most of the time, 90% of the time, really, really good thing for your sex life. Because people are adding in lieu. People are using other things to make themselves wetter. So I don't really think- I think no. What? Have you been with the woman who's too wet? Yeah, wet is too wet sometimes. Really? So what happened to you when that happened? It gets a little too slippery and things- Well, that's just concerned about. So I would say use a towel.

I mean, if you've a towel by the bed, sometimes you can just like towel yourself up and then go back into it because if you're too wet, but that's maybe bring a shamwile or something like that. Yeah, I get that. I get it from one. In your life. Whatever you need.

Yeah, exactly. But I don't think it's a really big problem, but again, I would check if it's medication and you don't need any leave. You're saving money on this. That's a good thing. I still reckon in this shop. You've been with a woman who's too wet and it was a problem. Yeah. It's too much. It's too messy. Right. That's why I don't like food in the bedroom and

stuff like that. It's too messy. Too messy. But wet, but wet is good. Yeah, wet is good, but there's still a there's still a line where it's too wet. Right. Okay. So I say mop it up in between. If you have to like have them pull out and have a little thing there that you mop up in your wetness, you can do that. Yeah. Okay.

Thanks for writing, blowin' like a river. Glad you like the show. Dear Emily, regarding Tuesday dates and what that means, it means nothing. Perhaps the guys of bartender or stripper who works on Friday or Saturday nights. Here in Las Vegas, most of my friends and myself included work on the weekends and we usually

go out in Tuesdays. In fact, here we have something called industry night on Tuesday for people in the service industry, so don't sweat a Tuesday night date. I was sweating and Tuesday in a day because some guy asked me on Tuesday and I thought, why not Friday? Okay, question. Someone asked me if I was still allowed to flirt three times a day during my girlatorium, like Tristan suggested in episode 134.

I did not know the answer. What are you doing? Thoughts, Troy and Las Vegas. Okay, Troy, I'm a huge flirt. Like I didn't even notice that I'm flirting and I'm flirting and I try not to. I try to not even put my sexual energy out there. But if you flirt, that's, you know, you're going to, it's harmless. I mean, I would say try not to make out, not to fool around if you're on a girl at or him

Girl at orium Girl at orium. Yeah, why are you on a girl at orium? Troy I want to know because they'll take your money And lost Vegas in Vegas exactly because he lives in Las Vegas No, while just in general when we'll take your money. That's why you have to to like you know take a rest for a little while. Yeah put save some money in the bank So you can take them out again. That's another option. That's another thing But I don't know if that's Troy if that's your I know choice emailed a few times But Troy I would just say that if you're doing it like I'm doing you just to kind of rid myself of the met male energy

That was in my life So I'm trying not to put it out there So I would say no try to see if you can not flirt. But if you flirt, don't beat yourself up. So you're not flirting on a mental phone. If you slip and fall on a, on a giant, I would say I slipped and fell on a penis, but I'm sick. But if you slip and fall, you know, that would be violating it if you have sex with someone, but you are not flirting. I'm not, I'm really not. And I don't, I only do as well. I swear. I swear. Sure, you haven't flirted. I'm sure I have. Yeah.

I'm sure I can't help but put it out there But I'm I'm not doing it to the extent to which I usually have done it in the past Wow That must be it's how don't I seem like I'm feeling like Because we're hanging out with my DJ friend. That looks pretty For me. Did he say anything about me? No, what do you say seriously? He hasn't said anything You were hanging out with him all weekend. Yeah, he has not said he's like Emily Wumi off and I'm not gonna text her again He did not say anything such a liar. I swear to God. I really bad liar to I swear

Okay, I'm sorry to kill your ego right now, but Menace and I had an episode a few weeks ago where I went in to see this DJ that I went out with a few times and Apparently everything in the room just are the two of us were just Looking into the eyes and men has felt like he was ignored and pushed to the back Like there was no because you're asking me. Okay, let's break it down. Just real quick one more time Because you started the other episode saying how we should hang out more and I said I don't want to hang out with you Because you ignore everybody in the room once there's a guy in the room Like I don't want to hang out with you because you ignore everybody in the room once there's a guy in Like I don't want to hang out with something like that. I don't do that usually

Usually, thank you, though. All right, but he didn't say anything. I'm sorry. I'm fine. Whatever He's just thinking about me at night. Yeah, that's what he's doing. Hi Emily Menace I literally just started listening today, but I've already burned through six podcasts Needless to say loving you two in the show my question is my girlfriend is 5 and a half months pregnant and the sex is MIA. The last time we had sex was over 2 months ago with nothing but very non-passionate kisses since. I tell myself she's not feeling great having body image issues, but it's getting really frustrating.

I worry that this may be simply a precursor to how it'll be after my baby's born. I've tried 6 months pregnant. I know. Honey, let me finish. cursor to how it'll be after my baby's born. I've tried different things, sexy text, emails, massages, all just to be to have her deal with all of it just tells me that I've got to deal with her lack of sexual desire and suck it up. When I mentioned I could say the same to her, she didn't see the humor in it. One other negative effect of this, I'm starting to have a desire to cheat.

I never have before and actually have a bit of pride about that. I've noticed I'm flirting a lot with other women getting numbers and even my first random girl sexting me. So far nothing has happened. I resolve this fading fast, signed John. Trouble. John hang in there. It's been what?

She's five months pregnant, he said? Five and six months pregnant. Now, okay, what do you feel about that? I feel that like don't do, like this is really, really natural. In fact, I was just having a conversation with a friend who he's married and his his wife is same exact thing six months pregnant. And he's like, I want to have sex with someone. I can't handle it.

She she is having body images. She's not feeling good about herself. She's not feeling sexy and she's not feeling like she wants to have sex. What do you think in general of having sex with a woman that's six months pregnant? Oh, I think I could hold off as a man I could only say that because you're not with someone who's pregnant yet Someone feel that way, but a lot of men I know why did they find it very very sexy that they want to have sex with a woman that's six months pregnant pregnant with their baby

But you're with your seed. I think that's disgusting Men as one day you're gonna I'm just saying saying, I think I could hold off for a little while and not cheat on women that's having my baby. A lot of women, pregnant women are very sexual and sexy and men want to be tough. No, I see beautiful pregnant women on the front. You're saying that you wouldn't want to sleep with a woman that you impregnated?

That's six months pregnant? No. Okay, that's fair. Well, he wants, John wants to. So John, I would just say that I would hang in there, baby. Maybe you should surf more porn. Maybe you should even like talk to her about it. Talk about the fact that you're feeling this way.

I'm sure there's been certain points in his life where he hasn't had sex for a couple months. Maybe. But when you're hard, when he's used to it, he's with his wife and now all of a sudden she just shuts it down, which happens with a lot of women. I would say hang in there, don't cheat if you go to therapy. I would say just don't mean she's pregnant and she's about to have your child and it's going to be a whole different

thing. So I would just say if you have to masturbate a few more times a week, if you have to, you know, never, but I would say don't, don't cheat. The last thing you should do is cheat. See how it is after you have a kid. Right. You can just hang in there, John. Seriously, and I would say it sounds like, but I don't know. You said that you've talked to her and she says she's not feeling great,

but I want to know how much have you told her really, like how you're feeling, rather than putting on her, like you don't want to have sex with me and you're rejecting me, but just, you know, honey, I'm feeling that I really need to have this connection with you right now. I really need this intimacy with you right now. We're missing that, and I'm feeling like, I don't know if I can handle it any longer. I mean need this intimacy with you right now. We're missing that and I'm feeling like,

I don't know if I can handle it any longer. I mean, if you tell her, if you come from a place of I, use the words I and not you when you're confronting her, it's a lot more effective way to communicate. That's what I think. Yes. Your wife's gonna be begging you to have sex, menace on the other hand.

No, I'm not saying that. I'm not saying that. You're not gonna see for your pregnant wife. I just, I can't see myself having sex with a woman that's I'm not saying that. You're not gonna see either pregnant wife. I Just I can't see myself having sex with a woman that six ones. Okay got it here. Yeah. Okay. Hello, and what is surprising and Refreshing podcast you have since last summer. I'm in a new relationship And I found out that sex can be so much more than just how do you put it local pleasure now? It isn't a whole body experience that grabs the whole of me and my partner truly amazing I think that one reason for this is because we take our time and we try to please each other Now it is a whole body experience that grabs the whole of me and my partner, truly amazing. I think that one reason for this is because we take our time and we try to please each other.

You get pleasure by inducing pleasure, right? I quite agree with you that you should have a lot of alternatives to choose from, your own sexual smorgasth board. I have the pleasure of living with a woman that is not only beautiful but also intelligent. I have always found it more interesting being with a smart woman, but it sometimes seems that I am almost alone in that. Some women almost hide the fact that they are amazingly smart. Is it like that? Is intelligence a turn on or a turn off? I expect that men has had some opinion on that. On the hand job debate, hand job is a very nice compliment. It is especially nice to wake up to a gentle hand job, a perfect way to start a morning. I also find that guys can give a hand job back in places and situations that other activities

might, where other activities might be improper. I think I remember that you also talk some time ago about collecting addresses to your fans. Are you planning a trip across the states or something like that? You should consider extending your trip to Stockholm also as this is the most beautiful city in Europe and also consider the fact that we sweet start living in the spring and summer after a dark and cold winter. We start living, really living in the spring and summer after dark and cold winter. It is a special treat to experience it and the summer nights have never go dark quite

dark together with Swedes. I love this. You want to give me a half you get here? I'll let you know, Fredrick, if I get there. So Fredrick wants no intelligent women if they try to hide it. No, I don't not here where we live. I mean, don't you think a smart woman is hot, menace? Yeah, of course, because they can take care of themselves.

And I like that. Yeah, I like something that's not, I mean, and they can do their own thing. Right, and he likes to hand-job in the morning. We've had a hand-out debate if you're just joining us. Yes. Menace has been trying to kill it, but for a while now, we've had this hand-out debate where I think that hand-dops

are a nice accoutrement to your sex life and menace things that it shouldn't just be like a man. I'm just saying, we've had this debate a thousand times. I'm saying a solo hand job is not good enough. It can be accompanied by other things. That's what we're saying. So he likes hand job and he likes to give it back. I love this guy, Frederick. Frederick, I love you. I should go to Sweden. I should go see you

His hand draws back to women. He's manually stimulates her back. Okay, you understand that yes You've done that before yeah when I was a teenager You still don't do it see that's not a problem. You're not getting what I'm saying You just go down and I won't know you don't do that either. No, I do God you think't do that either. No, I do. Oh God. You think I do nothing You don't well I have known you for a long time and I remember you were not a fan of oral sex performing oral sex that women no What are you talking about when did this come up? This is a long time. Yes. You're a little when you were little kid. I think you're high right now

Which okay? Hey guys just start listening to the show and you guys are awesome. As far as hand jobs go, it's not a simple answer. A hand job on its own is pretty much useless since we can do that ourselves on our own time, but given the right circumstances out in public, for example, they can be a great warm-up for the rest of the evening.

A hand job used with a blowjob, however, is God's gift to man. So my verdict is to reserve hand handes for foreplay and blow jobs other than that. Let us handle it ourselves See this person agrees with you keep the great work guys Walt he thinks that hand job should be left for For him. Yeah, not to be done by somebody else because women. They don't know how it feels They don't know if it's good or not. They're not in too hands

They're not good at it. No matter how much they say they are, they are not. I just don't think you've had enough sex with enough women who are experienced. Okay, yes. I have never had sex before. No, honey, you've had lots of sex, but I... I've never had a woman give me a hand job at all. And every guy that I've talked to does not agree with me at all. I'm bringing the hand job back. Every guy will let you have, give them a hand job, but it doesn't mean that you are good at it.

I'm good at it. Yes, that's what you think. Emily, I was listening to your show on strip clubs, Give them a hand job, but it doesn't mean that you are good at it. I'm good at it. Yes, that's what you think. Emily, I was listening to your show in strip clubs and I have to say to you, women have it all wrong. For most guys, going to a strip club is our chance to be like you, to be like your women, you women. We walk into a club and have beautiful women give us attention. We get to reject hot women or take them up for a dance drink or just have them sit with us. Much like you women at an average club, that's it.

Love your show. You rock. PS, hand jobs are great. If you're a 13-year-old getting a tug behind a handball course, sign ED. hilarious. Yes. So strip clubs. strip clubs.

Are you leaving town soon? I am leaving town. I'm going to strip clubs. I'm going to strip clubs. No, no, I'm going to strip clubs. I'm going to a spa with my mom. A spa with your mom. I think your mom would be down to go to strip club. Your mom's a little frisky I know she is frisky isn't she been now. We're just gonna be getting massages and doing yoga. You don't want to check out some banana hammocks? No, but my stepdad used to open it in hammock. Yeah, yeah, it was unfortunate. It was a long time ago. I don't want to talk about it

All right, it makes me really upset. Okay okay one more letter and then we're going to call Bri Olson who is from Adam and Eve and she is a porn star okay okay one more letter Emily love the podcast I must say that as an extremely happy man for the past six years our sex life has only gotten better as time has gone on that's also from a man who got married at 21 my wonderful wife is a few years older than I am jokingly a cougar but it it's perfect for me. She fulfills all my needs sexually emotionally and physically. I'm a lucky man and I know it. Of course, eyes always stray, but we have a great rule as a couple. You can look at any grocery cart you want, but you always go shopping at the

same one. This way, both of us are free to look, but always come back home to pleasure each other. I could not imagine being with anyone else ever. What I find sexy and other women are her traits. What do you think of our rule? I think it allows for some freedom, some inside jokes, but also prevents a lot of problems. P.S. Hanjobs rule. Tell her how you want it. Lean back, relax, talk her through it.

She will reciprocate because she wants to be hot for you too. Use your vocabulary and make it hot for yourself by describing exactly what you want. P.P.S. sex toys only make your love life better. Don't be intimidated. Let her enjoy herself. That's awesome. Alright. Yeah, I love it. So I think that I think it's great your role that you guys talk about it. See because it's the problem of couples. So the guy in the last letter, let me, so if you letters ago, the guy was talking about how he was thinking of straying and he

couldn't, I mean the couples like this that actually talk about it, and they're like, yeah, I found that person hot, or I found this person attractive, but I still love you. The fact that you can have that open dialogue with your partner. And so come together. It's very rare. But I think it's awesome.

I think that's exactly what you want, because it's ridiculous to say to death to his part, we're going to walk down the aisle, and I'm never going to find anyone hot. That's ridiculous. That's not going to happen in any world. That is totally awesome. I don't think it works for everybody. I think there's some people that are just they have jealousy issues and that type of situation wouldn't be right.

I want to be with someone who I can be like how funny. Yeah, I was thinking of you know, I was attracted to this other man And are you but I still love you want to be with you. That's the kind of person I don't want to be with. That's my list That's one of my one of my things. Good luck with that one. Thanks honey. Okay, let's call, um, let's call Bri Olson, Adam and Eve, she's a star. Okay. Adam and Eve pictures. Okay. Hello. Hello. Hi, is Bri there? This is. Bri, it's Emily, calling from Section of Emily. It's Emily and Menace. How are you? Hola. Good. How are you guys? Good. You so tired. Did we wake you? No, I'm a Russian. I'm so tired. I've been up so early. What were you doing? Were you shooting a porn movie?

Yeah, I'm just kidding. I would have asked that question. I would have said you were out on a run or something, but you know, she goes straight for the point. Well, come on. That's what we're talking about. three-year-old son I read your bio and you are you're the you've caught the eye of Adam and Eve pictures right away in your you've total star for them they love you I hope so that's my paycheck yeah exactly how did you even come across them how do they find you or did you go to them well I actually I had looked it up on and I'm on how to get into the industry I looked it up and I internet and I had a look at the industry and I ended up going out to LA and I just relanced for the first year so I pulled into different companies and

then after that I just got recognized by the more major perfection companies and got offered contracts and I ended up choosing Adam and Eve because they were the best fit and it's worked out very well. That's great. They say you're the innocent girl next door to a down-and-dirty sex fixin in less than 60 seconds and I look at your pictures. You're so hot. I see that.

I see the girl next to you from the Midwest. Yeah, I live in Indiana. Oh, you do? Okay, I'm from Michigan. Okay. So I've got the... Yeah, exactly.? Okay, I'm from Michigan. Okay. So I've got the... Yeah, exactly. So yeah, exactly.

Now, what makes a girl want to look up how to get into the industry on the internet? You know, it was really something I wanted to do. I always thought about doing in the back of my head. I grew up watching Howard Stern and, you know, I'd see him, you know, with his little laser pointer and like point at the girl's bodies and saying, oh, I don't know. Could you do porn or couldn't you? And now looking back on it, I see, you know, what a joke it was, you bodies and saying, oh, I don't know, could you do porn or couldn't you? And now looking back on it, I see what a joke it was. You know, like, oh, you can just walk right into the industry.

But back then, I was like, oh my gosh, it must be so hard to get in, you know? And I'd go and I'd look at my body in the mirror and then look back at those girls, I'd be like, yeah, I think I could do that. And it just really kind of stuck in my mind. And I had a girlfriend from the time I was 15 till I was 19.

And I remember telling her, I said, you know what, when I get 18, I've always thought about doing like playboy or something like that. She was like, absolutely not. She didn't want to have any part of that. So when we split up, which is when I was 19, I was pre-med, college student at Purdue, a full time, and I was also a full-time telemarketer and just between the two i was just exhausted every day life just sucked i mean you know i can't complain too much because of you know you make sacrifices

to you know have have that type of degree in everything in the end but you know it was just but overwhelming for me at the moment and i said you know you know, I'm just scraping by on my bills. I said, you know, I've always been interested in the industry. I said, maybe I could just go and shoot a few movies or something and just to catch up on bills. So, I went to this website called SexyJobs.com and they have all anything you can think

of in the industry that has to do it. Like, phone sex operators, stripper, batch parties, sexy maids, porn stars, anything. And they were like, hold on. And I just put on there. I'm like, I've never done any of this before. I've never was a stripper. I never did any of that. I was like, I want to get into porn. Wow. And I just put my phone number and pictures on there. And next thing you know, I'm getting calls poured in. And out of all of them, there was only one girl that called me. and I had a lot of the guys were just really creepy. Like, you come over here and you just see you in person to have a chat. So I had no idea.

So I just, I went, I ended up going with the check and she was down in San Diego and they were a small company and I shot for them and then they introduced me to me. So I was like, I'm not going to be a big fan of you. I was like, I'm not going with the check and she was down in San Diego and they were a small company and I shot for them and then they introduced me to like what the agency was and everything. So I got with an agency in LA and that's where it goes back to what I was telling you earlier that my career took off from there.

That's great. So do you love having sex? Oh my gosh, I love it so much. In fact, I'm thinking about it right now. I'm like, oh, it sucks because I don't have anyone like good to call. Really? I know.

Me neither. I totally understand how you're feeling. But you can go do it for work. You can go have sex on the job. But it's not the same. So do you get off when you're doing the porn, you're shooting it? Is that count for you as having sex?

Yeah, it does, but the thing about it is the more I have sex, the more I want it all the time. Right. That's exactly it. I feel the same way. And that's what I always tell people when they don't want to have sex, I'm like, just start having it. Or just just start having pretend you're going to tell yourself that you're going to do it every day for 30 days or just start doing something and then you'll get you get your juices flowing again and you'll want to have sex. So you're not dating anyone right now? No.

How do men feel when you tell them what you do for living? Most people know because I hang out with a really tight knit group of friends and hear them for Wayne and Indiana and so anyone that I meet is basically through people that I know. So of course they're already going to know. I've been just going through walking in the mall. I was just walking in the mall the other day and I had people say it's like three times. Just people come up to me and say stuff. So it's like I'm recognized, I'm well known around here.

And it's like, I've found good guys. Right, no totally, I'm sure. They know that my work is my work and you know their quality and everything, but I just haven't found the good guy that clicks with me yet. I don't plan on doing this for two or three years anyways. I can say, hey, it was something I did. I made my left hand fun, and now I'm going on to do this next thing. So I was wondering if you could share any sex tips

with our listeners. Is there anything that you've learned from the sex that you've had that you could share? Some special, like a top one or two tips that you're like, oh my God, you know what men love? You know what women love? Is there anything like that that comes to mind that you learned?

I would say the top two things from both sexes are confidence. If a man is very confident, women are naturally attracted to that. And I always say it doesn't matter how ugly you are or an attractive you are or whatever you think about yourself. If you come off as being confident and just really just self-satisfied, like you don't see anything wrong with you, other people, it's going to show very distinctively. And you're going to stick out and be very attracted to that. And the same goes with women.

If you're trying to hide yourself or turn the lights off, or come around, guys, this is a two-in-it. It's like if you feel sexy, it's like whatever you can do. Even if it's just some simple lingerie or the way you do your hair or your makeup, if you feel sexy, then that's going to show it's the guy in the guy. And be like, wow, you look really sexy because it just radiates off to you and your personality. Yeah.

So I would say those are the top two things for both sex. I think that's true. I think a lot of times women, you know, the huge thing is body image for women. And they're just so into care and they don't want to guys to do certain things to them and they want to, yeah, like you said, they went to lights off, so I would say that's a good one. Thank you. Thank you so much. So what's coming up next?

You're, I hear you're starring in the 18 Triple X? Yes. For Adam and Eve? Yes, but that should be, I don't actually. Oh really? You said the 18? That's not it. Yeah, maybe that's not it.

Yeah. So confusing, probably. You shoot a lot of films. It hard to remember so you're with women So you said you had a woman you're with a woman. So you bisexual? No, not anymore. I'll have sex with them, but I wouldn't be in a relationship Women are crazy, right? Oh my god, so crazy dude, you know, it's like it's a reason it's supposed to be a man in a woman like women Way too much estrogen like I know I know a guy's go through it's like reason it's supposed to be a man and a woman. Like, women way too much estrogen, like, oh, I know I know a guy's go through.

It's like, I'm never going to get that. It's hell, it's hell, right? It's pain in the ass. It's a lot of work. I really appreciate the laid back nature of men now. Thank you. Okay, I've got one last question for you, Bri. What is your biggest turn on?

I guess I have to go back to confidence, guys, real confidence. turn on. I guess I have to go back to confidence. Okay, but api size confidence. Is there something that a guy can do or woman that sends you into a tizzy? I can't believe you just like kissing your neck or I mean that's how you get totally graphic here. Is there something that like just every time? It's more of a mind over matter for me. I could be in two countries. And the guys could be doing the exact same thing, but it depends where my mind is at.

What I'm thinking about, what I think about that person. You know, so there's nothing really. Thank you. Okay, got it. Confidence. And you seem very confident yourself, but you have a really promising career for as long as you want to do it where can people find you what's your website real from that comes real and also if anyone wants to find out any info Twitter I'm always Twitter in my

most Twitter in all kinds of dirty naughty things I love it very informative as well and that's just real for this people just look up at BrioLson, and my name is BRE-O-L-S-O-N. So, BrioLson on Twitter, and yeah, you can basically find out everything there, like when I feature. Okay, great. We're going to put that on our website as well. So we look and find you. BrioLson from Adam and Eve Pictures. Thank you so much for joining us.

Thank you. Have a great night. She's really cute. You should look at her picture, Pictures. Thank you so much for joining us. Thank you. Have a great night. She's really cute. You should look at her picture, Amanda. I haven't even looked at it. You have to look at this. She's blonde. Where is it?

You have it? You got a Google. Ah, Google. Google, our Google. And she does. Girl next door look. Sexy Vixen. All right.

I got to say. I got to say. Okay, let's do some. Okay, so first we've got it. She blonde or brunette? Blond. Blond, I don't care. You don't want blond? Huh? I'm say. Okay, let's do some. Okay, so first we've got it. She blonde or brunette blonde. Yeah, you don't want huh? I'm sorry. We have some blondes in the room. We've got some people here. Okay, so I know that you okay, so we got some stuff from Adam and Eve.com. Thank you so much. I know you're looking to spice up things in the bedroom or maybe even fantasizing about surprising your lover with an

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Because my buddy screwed me one time because he, this is back, you know, when I was in my early 20s, I was working at TV station. So I would get tapes all the time sent to my work and he didn't want the girls gone wild videos sent to his house, which he was still living with his parents. So without telling me he sends the girls gone wild videos to my work, but they were very discreet. Right, no, they're always discreet.

Like these people, they've got it down and something like back in the old days, and you were like, oh, is it gonna show up on the thing? Like that, you know, Jenny does Dallas and something like back in the old days. We were like, oh, is it going to show up on the thing like that? You know Jenny does Dallas and yeah, let know Have you seen have you got urban alphoters? I don't know if urban alphoters is nationwide. It is nationwide They have envelopes that says porn tape. Oh, that's funny. I love I love our They've been they've been they've always been good stuff. Yeah. Okay. Here's some sex tips that women wish that you knew We're gonna get into sex. Okay. Do you like it? Yeah, I'm I'm busing out my pencil and my notepad right now perfect. Okay

Greater focus leads to hotter sex. What's the best way to unlock a woman's wildest desires in bed? 42% of women we surveyed that means that being in the moment and not being distracted. So don't be on your iPhone or your blackberry Man not to be on the phone or That one sex is a conversation and she doesn't want to feel like you wish you had your blackberry Exactly so women takes attendance during sex in many ways and the strongest signal you can send comes from your mouth more than 90% of women We surveyed said a man's primal panting and then comes from your mouth. More than 90% of women we surveyed said a man's primal panting turns them on.

But use the words over tarzan grunts if you can. You want to reassure her, do that, that feels good, or oh, I love that. So beyond giving her confidence boosts the extra sensory seduction intensifies the experience. Nonverbal communication is important as well. Burst of eye contact, lip nibbles, any kind of physical or verbal communication. Shows are she's the one pushing your buttons and that's some fantasy fembot in your head.

It's true. We want you to look in our eyes. We want you to make us feel more confident. We want you to tell us that you think we're hot. Yeah, I got in trouble one time. For what? Because I was I was having sex with this girl and the phone rang right after we were done and I answered the phone. Yeah, you're not supposed to do that. Why not? How dumb are you? You were like, oh, hello. I was kind of drunk.

Right, that happens. Yeah, you're really not supposed to do that. And it's like, it's like a brief saying, brought you all some from Adam and Eve. I mean, it's like, it's confidence. And it's like, making women feel confident. We've got a lot of insecurities as a woman. And so if there's anything you could do,

make eye contact, you know, act enthusiastic, even if you're not, that you want to be there, that you want to be there with us, because we're going to know if you don't. All right. You got your phone, you got in trouble? Yes, we can yell that. Okay, gentle means more than that. The word gentle is a woman's code telling you to be more sensitive to her cues. The more nerve-dense the hot spot on a woman's body, the more careful your approach should be. Literal contact in particular feels abrasive without a pop-proper proper warmup. If a woman yips or an hailed suddenly when you go there, instead of purring or moaning,

you jump the gun. So here's what you should do with the clitoris. Do you know what that is? You know what the clitoris is? Never heard of it. Okay. Use indirect stimulation first. Paying careful attention to her reactions as a guide.

So the nerve pack clitoris actually extends several inches under the skin on either side of a vagina like a wishbone. I'm showing menace to what that is here. Which means you can massage it without directly pressuring the bud. So trace the extensions with flat wide extra white wet tongue strokes are slower fingers zigzags. And don't forget the lube, then rub a slow spiral around the top. So you're not really touching it. You're just going around it because the clitoris has nerve endings on the outside of it that will really turn a woman on. If you go right to it, it's like,

oh, you're not ready yet, you're not there yet. It takes a week, can't go from zero to six. Do you have a diagram of this for your website? And my book I do, which is coming out, I should. Yeah, in September, I have a whole thing on this. So that's a really good thing. Don't think you go right through there. You got to kind of play around outside of it. Okay. Yeah. So that's good. That's my sex tips for today. Awesome. Yeah. Thanks everyone. Thanks, menace. Thank

you. Bob. When do I get to see you again? I'll be back next Friday. We'll be recording the show. Okay. I'll be down tomorrow. Good. And thanks to everyone for listening. And you can find me, like I said, sexthumbly.com, Twitter, Emily Morse, M-O-R-S-E, my fan page is Sex with Emily on Facebook, and my personal page is Emily Hope Morse. Thanks so much to Adam and Eve Brioelson from Adam and Eve Pictures for sharing her sexy exploits with us, so fun to have her on the show.

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