Sex With Emily - SWE: How to Please a Man In Bed

Episode Date: August 11, 2013

Let's talk about how to please a man in bed, because I'm always talking about how to give women orgasms. I know that making a man orgasm isn't exactly Rocket Science, but women could be a lot more creative with his penis. I interviewed the author of Tickle His Pickle, Sadie Allison, on how to please his pickle AKA his penis. Allison was the girl in her friend group that taught all her girlfriends how to have their first orgasm. Then she showed them the ropes on how to please a man in bed. Allison discusses all of her special techniques on the penis, including: the sausage wrap, the pleasure tunnel, the old faithful, the twister, and the cigar roller. Luckily, she's already tested all these techniques on men. You don't have to find a penis and start cigar rolling and twisting it without knowing what to expect. Of course there are different strokes for different folks. Every man has different preferences. How do you know if he wants you to nibble his pickle if you don't ask? Being confident in bed doesn't necessarily mean knowing exactly what to do with his penis, and it certainly doesn't mean having the perfect body. Having confidence means having the courage to ask him what he likes in bed, and having the confidence to stand before him naked with the lights on (even if you hate your thighs). He wouldn't try and get you naked if he didn't want to see your body. Men are visual creatures. They want to see you do your thing. Flaunt your new moves. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Are you kidding me? Oh, my God. I want to feel a sound. I'm going to be Being bad feels pretty good. You know Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. Hello and welcome to Sex with Emily on 106-9-free FM. We are changing the world one orgasm at a time. It's Saturday night and we are live in San Francisco.

And we're on till 2am, seeking call us anytime you want, triple eight, 500-1069. And if you can't stay near your radio, you can listen live at 106-9-3 FM.com. And for more information about our show, if you're just checking us out tonight, it's sex3FM.com. And for more information about our show, if you're just checking us out tonight, it's sexwithmly.com.

You can listen to our podcasts and our mailing list and our blog, and we got videos we're putting up, which is very exciting. So check it out. So tonight, I'm sorry, I was out of town last week, and thanks for everyone who wrote and missed the show in the podcast, but I'm back, and it was good. I hadn't been gone in a while, so it feels good

to be back here with everybody on Saturday night, and I was thinking tonight, I was excited because I realized that this is our one-year anniversary on Free FM. We started the podcast about two years ago, and Free FM asked us to come do a live show about a year ago. So I was thinking about it. And I'm like, wow, a year of live sex, sex talk.

And I want to know, are we all happier, smarter, wiser, thinner, fatter, skinnier, longer, shorter? What's your sex life? What's your life like this year? So all night long tonight, we've got special guests and we've got special giveaways. But what you have to do is call and tell me, the best sex you had the last year.

I need to know what was the best sex you had in the last 12 months. And here's a thing. I always am confused by this question, by this answer and this question, when I say, what's the best sex you had? And then someone's someone will say, oh, God, she was the best because the way she talked

dirty to me and I'm wondering, would I think that was hot? If I had sex with the same person you're talking about, would I think that was good? And what is good sex? So when you call me up and you tell me about you're the best sex this year, I need to know why it was good.

Because you know, we all have those stories out people like, oh, he was the best ever. She was the best ever. I need to know what that means. So call me and tell me, and we're going to give you some presents tonight. We were giving away an Oh my bod, which is the iPod vibrator and some other things. So pay attention tonight. Another thing is we have Dr. Sadie Allison here, which is a big thing. Hi Sadie.

Sadie wrote a very, she's a bestselling author, and she wrote an award-winning and bestselling book, Tickle, His Pickle. She wrote, Tickle, Your Fancy, and Toygasms. So the thing about Tickle is pickle. I didn't know Sadie. She's another San Francisco woman and talking about sex.

And I have a friend and he was like, Emily, there's this book. I had this woman and she never got creative with my penis. Let's just say that. So I bought her this book, Tickle is pickle. So I thought, what else, you know, what can she do? I'm saying I need some help. Tickle is pickle and it was just sitting there

on her counter. She never opened it. And he was like, you know what? Every time I go need some help. Tickle is pickle. And it was just sitting there on her counter. She never opened it. And he was like, you know what? Every time I go to her house, Tickle is pickle. It's menacing. It's sitting there and staring. I mean, she wouldn't read it, because she just never wanted to tickle his pickle.

So she had to break up with her. But it's an amazing book. I read it all. There's lots of tips. So Sadie's here talking about sex tips for the next hour. And Elizabeth's here, the original, pretty serve sex with Emily. The on going long time.

Hi, Elizabeth, so glad to see you. It's our one year. I know, I can't believe it. How does it, it's very exciting. It is. Congratulations, you guys. Thank you. That's really cool.

I know, it feels good. And Menace, you're here, right? Hello. Hi, Menace. Hi, how you doing? So here's what I need to know, Menace. In the last year since you know, you've been listening to the show and been on the show. Have you have you had better sex? What was the best sex of

your life this year? The best sex of my life this year. Well this year just started but in the last 12 months and sex with Emily years which is a 12 months. I think I had actually a lot of sex this year. Right, but what was the best? The best? That's a hard one. Come on, man. There's nothing we taught you. No, and you taught me a lot. I mean, I had different variations of sex. I just can't pinpoint what would be the best. Okay. So what have you learned? I've heard a lot of different terms that I haven't heard before in other like what anything that you can say the dirty Sanchez right we won't describe that but then yeah yeah yeah okay good

good minutes you can think about that you've. Man. Yeah. I need to go take a break. I didn't want to spring that on you. But anyway, so all night long, triple eight, 500, 1069, your best in the last 12 months. I want to hear when you say, oh my God, Emily, he was the best I ever had. It was the best night of our life. I need to know

what that means. You got to answer some questions. We're going to give a voice a tickle of pickle too. And Sadie Allison's here to answer any sex questions we have, right? But we're going to focus on we're going to focus on men right now because we love men and we love their penis and the penis and tickle his pickle is an award-winning book. It's all about pleasing the guy. Pleasing the guy. And so we're going to get into that in a minute and the fun toys for men. We talk a lot about toys for women and you've got, I've got some self-pleasureizers for

the guys. Okay. So people can you think you can ask you anything tonight. They can ask me anything. For the next hour. Triple eight, 506, nine. Yeah. Dr. Sadie Allison, you can find her at ticklekitty.com.

But first Dr. Sadie, how are you, Dr. Sadie? Okay. Tell me how did you, Dr. Sadie? Tell me, how did you get into the sex business? What's your situation? I kind of fell into it because it was a hobby of mine to give advice. All through high school and college, I was called the little Dr. Ruth.

And I taught my girlfriends how to orgasm over and over by telling them just some basic things like this. What the clitoris is about this how it works Here's some Loube here's how you can touch it go home and try all this and so time after time I changed all my friends lives and they were like wow it worked it worked And I said you know I should just write a write a little pamphlet and give it away for fun And who knows maybe it'll grow into something but I want to help more women and so that idea evolved three years later I came out with tickle your fancy okay, and now that's like the men's the playbook for the

other team. We're gonna talk about that too. Yeah, Tickle Your Fancy a woman's guide to sexual self pleasure. So it's for it's an empowerment book for women that teaches them it's okay to touch yourself. You know women who grew up thinking it's wrong and it's bad and you know it's a taboo that's all done and passed. We're in the new millennium now and it's it's okay and it's bad and you know it's a taboo that's all done and passed. We're in the new millennium now and it's it's okay and it's part of our natural birthright we're born with the parts it's pleasure it's okay to touch yourself and it shows you how to do it. I read it I actually I masturbated twice today. I read your book today. I did. Well I was talking to the show I know I don't

need to show that. That's the most. I a Well because that's I think it's a sign of a good book because it was new tips and it like it there So you're trying I because of Sadie's book Because of me that she was I was prepping for the show I read tickle his pickle I didn't have a chance to practice tickle his pickle yet because I didn't have a pickle around and he'll be happy when she does But take your fancy. I was like oh, there's some really good ideas like pocket-sized book Mm-hmm, so keep you right in the purse. Everyone should read this book. Yeah.

Because I, okay, so you were the Dr. Ruth, because I had friends. I didn't have the easiest time in the world. Having orgasms either in college and I had friends like you that would kind of set up. There's always that girl in the clique that talks about sex out loud. You're that one. I was the one. I was uninhibited. I wasn't shy.

I was sexually explorative. I didn't have boyfriends much. So that led me to just... Did you buy your beautiful, small, normal, and you didn't have boyfriends? I always... I just was going for the wrong kind. Right. You know, looking for love in all the wrong places. But maybe not boyfriends that you look serious about. I like that. And you live in the Bay Area as well. Yeah, yeah. San Francisco. San Francisco.

Native. And you've been on a million television shows and books and you've written books and you've been on radio shows. So, yeah. Thank you for joining us. I get out there. I want to start with them. I love this. Tickle his pickle, okay? I can't say that enough. Your hands on guide to penis pleasing. So why do you think that women need a book like this? Well, because we're never really taught how to have good sex. When you go to school, you know, high school college, you learn about birth control and STDs and maybe a little bit about the anatomy, but they don't teach you how to have an orgasm, how to give pleasure to a partner, how to receive

pleasure and feel comfortable being naked and just a lot of the common issues that no one ever addresses that and your parents certainly aren't teaching you. Right. And you know, your friends might be giving you tips and the guys don't know what they're doing. They're fumbling in the dark. So where do you ever really learn how to give pleasure to where someone can really enjoy it?

And also everybody's so different what works on one woman or man won't work on the next. Exactly. So you really have to be coached. And you never run out of examples here in tickles, but there's like, oh, I've never done that. And there's so ton more that didn't even make it in this book. This is what I, OK.

So I understand that, too, because I think, and I've talked about this before, is that we do, we all get set in our ways. We're like, I do the same thing, you know, this, every time I maybe touch a penis or I'm near one, I might do the same thing over and over again. Men the same thing, but you got to mix it up and there's actually what I like is the manual stimulation part in here. Using your hands. But women using their hands, she's got like diagrams like eight different kinds of, of, of,

just the grip alone. Just the grip, like a double wrap. The upside-down. Okay. I was like grabbing my, I was like, okay, wait, the sausage wrap and the, um, what are some other ones in here that I like? The basic groups, the old faithful, the twister, the pumper, the taro roller, pleasure tunnel. I like this. They all, they love this. So how did you know, though, what men liked? How did you know? Well, a lot of it's based on personal experience. I practiced what I preach. So like I said, I was single for a long time, and I got to explore and was uninhibited.

So that allowed me to learn a lot. And then I also do a lot of research. I mean, I talk to hundreds and thousands of people throughout the years, and I do surveys, and I give seminars, so I get a lot of feedback from people. So I'm really hands-on, if you will. Hands-on. That's good. I mean I want to know okay, so what do you think the biggest complaints that men have about women when they're Tickling when they're tickling this pickle. Yeah What do they do what how do women how do we mess up? Okay? Well, well number one the most important thing over everything and over any technique

That that men really want the woman to have is enthusiasm. Believe it or not. Guys would much rather have a woman who's not so great at it but's really into it doing it. Then a woman who can knock it out in two minutes flat but she's just like you know doing the deed you know and then finished. That's not as fun than someone who's really into it. So they want you to- How can they tell if you're into it? You got to express yourself. Oh, okay. You reticle his pickle and you learn all my tricks. But I just off the top of my head, I can tell you that they like to hear sounds.

Men love hearing things and men love visual things. So just right off the bat, you want to make those little noises, you know, the sucking sounds and the spittin' and the little mums and uhs and all that little stuff. And you want to position your body in ways where he can look at you and get off on that. Because you want to see it. You want to see it. You want to see it. So maybe if you're on your hands and knees, you can lift your butt up and kind of like

show parts of your body that you think is more attractive and kind of flaunt yourself and let them see your curves because women are beautiful with our curves. So all of these things together, along with what he's feeling, really enhances it and makes it a really good experience. Do you think that some women then don't, they're more covered up with their... Oh, I don't want to see me. Oh yeah, they won't even turn on the lights. There's so many people still that like to do it in the dark because they're so shy and insecure about their bodies or, you know, it's very, they're not sure if they're doing it right so just the whole thing is frightening

to begin with. So it's really good to get some... Show your body, make noises. Okay. So what else? What are some other of the main tips that women, how do we mess up? No teeth, no I know that. Oh those, no, some guys like teeth. They do? Oh yes. That's the one cool thing about sex is that There's never a nobody likes this type of thing There's always gonna be someone that likes this and someone that doesn't so it's all about finding out what your partner really wants Okay, I know guys that like teeth It's yeah, how do you figure that out? Well, you got to talk That's that's the other thing that that you got to do is you have to communicate. You can learn by their reactions,

and you can kind of guess it looks like he likes that. I think he's getting, but if you just ask, or hey, baby, does this feel good, or do you like it when I do this? Or do you like when I do this? And try to, you know, and you think most men are honest enough. They'll say, you don't want to say. Well, yeah, I like it, even if they don't,

just to play. I think that if you exude that energy that you really want to know and you're trying to make sure that she gets, she just gets, did anything if they just look like, oh yes, honey. I don't know. Especially if you're enthusiastic, they don't want to burst your bubble, right? Well, there could be those guys that don't want to hurt your feelings. Yes.

But I think most guys, if they see that you genuinely want to know and you want to care, and it's all about what's going to feel best for you, oh, they'll jump right on and tell you what they want. Okay. How's it going, you're good. That's good. See, how do you want your pickle tickle? Triple-8506-9, we're talking to Dr. Sadie Allison. And we're talking, she wrote this book for men, I mean, for women, and men, how they could learn different ways they could ask their partner, what they want.

So I want to hear from women, what have you, how did you have you found that the pickle legs to be tickled? And men, you know what we're talking about, AAA 500, 1 of 6, 9. It's sex with Emily. Hello, it's Saturday night and we are having fun. Just a few girls here. It's not around talking about the penis. If you're driving around in your car, men, women,

we've got to hear your tips. What do you like? We have Dr. Sadie Allison here. She's the author of several best-selling award-winning books, but right now we are focusing on tickle, his pickle. So any calls that you have or any comments, she's a sexpert, Triple-850609. So tickle his pickle, as you can imagine.

Here's what she says in her opening here. I'll show and tell exactly what most guys want, hope and dream you'll do, and a few things they pray you don't. And then she goes on to say, what if the centerpiece, what if you start dazzling him with exotic new strokes, touches, and licks that render him speechless with mind-blowing orgasms? Would you get his attention?

Do I even have to ask? Because here's the thing, we do give lots of tips on this show, we have experts, but we all get set, we do the same things over and over again. And I actually read several of her books this week, and I'm armed with some new information. I've learned a lot in the last 20 minutes. Elizabeth, producer, Elizabeth, what'd you learn, baby? Well, you're gonna give options to your boyfriend, maybe. Yeah, I mean, this is lubricant.

We were just talking at the break about the... Slippery kitty. Lubricant, which is specifically for oral sex. It's for sex in general, it's water-based. It's actually a loop that I put together. Tickle kitty. Yeah tickle kitty.com and it's strawberry lust flavored so what that means is that you can drink big basket of strawberries when you're doing your thing and it's especially good for women who are hesitant to do that because of the taste down there. Oh wow. That's one

of the number one reasons women don't like to do it. Because of the taste? Because of the taste. The other one's because of the smell. So shower and shave. Shower in there. Strawberry. Guys, if you want to shower and shave. Hello, because I don't I feel like, yeah, I guess that that happens. Yeah. So, so you can use this during intercourse, but it's great for for oral because you just put a little bit of this on it and you can also use it with

your hands. And that's where I know we're going to go into that pretty soon. Yeah, that's a great. You've got this, I've never seen, I've read some books about, you know, the penis and all that stuff. She's got a whole thing here about manual stimulates, about women stimulating men with their hand. You know what I'm saying, okay? You know what I'm talking about.

Because they do it on their own. Mm-hmm. And why not have a woman help, but here's the thing. She's got like 10 different kinds of positions and hand moves. I mean, it's like, it's gonna keep you busy for years. It's a science. It is science. You wanna think you can do so many different things

to the penis to please it. That's the world of pleasure that we're talking about. And people just, because usually with a guy, he's pretty, usually he can climax. And it's not so hard. It's like, he wakes up and he's ready to go with win blows. He's done. So it's pretty simple to do.

But we do get into a routine of doing the same thing for him. We're not granted it feels good still, and he still finishes off. But when you come in on Valentine's Day and maybe you red tickle his pickle, and you start doing some new things that he never even thought you would ever do or never even thought of himself,

that's when you're gonna totally shine. What are some new things that you could just teach? I'm not that, I don't know, I'm a, I don't know about how, what's the word? I'm like I'm not that kind of clumsy sometimes. I got to, what are some easy things to me? Okay, well here's a huge, huge tip. Now, a lot of women get this one already, but some never really thought of it like this. You've got to use your hands at the same time.

He's your hands at the same time? Yes, a lot of people do, don't realize that our hands and our 10 fingers are some of the best sex toys in the world and they're attached to our bodies. And they can do wonderful things. And when a guy is receiving pleasure from you in this way, the more feelings and pressures and touches he's getting at the same time, the better it feels. Just like you, think about it on the receiving end. When a guy is doing the same thing too, he's giving you oral pleasure.

You're feeling the main thing, of course. But then when his hands are all over your body, or he's got his hand on your butt, or your and he's doing all these other things and there's so much more enhancement around the whole thing, that really makes the whole experience better. So women we should employ because some of these things now of the upside down sausage wrap, the tooth fist or the bumper, the twist or the turtle neck. What's the turtle neck? What is the turtle neck?

What's the turtle neck? Page 71 V-Spot. What's the Turtle Neck? What is the Turtle Neck? What's the Turtle Neck? Page 71 of your book here. No loop necessary. Okay, you can read it. You want me to read it? Yeah, I'm still. Can we? Okay, I'll read it.

You'll read the next one. Grab him. This is in St. Dr. Sadie Allison's book, Tickles Pickle. No loop necessary. Grass Pim firmly just under the ridge and stretch his skicks. So basically, traditionally, you would see a hand going up and down, and that's your basic technique. But this is different where you kind of hold on to it

in one spot, and it's a firmer grip. And then you're just kind of like going up and down in many strokes and not really going through the whole extending of the whole penis. And there's a diagram here too. It's like it's such a simple little thing, but you just try all these different variations with your hands and your mouth and it feels different for him. And then women, do you feel that women don't really do this enough with their hands? No,'t. These are complaints. Guys, too. Guys don't touch women enough in this way, either.

Guys don't. That brings us to. They self-pleasure and women self-pleasure, but we've got to use our hands to pleasure each other. I even encourage couples to not have intercourse all night or anything else except manual stimulation for each other. And that includes all over your body, too. And your book tickle yourancy, you talk about.

Yeah. This is like a men's playbook. It's the other team's playbook, yeah, because it's a book written by a woman for women on how to touch themselves. So if you're a guy out there and you're looking for the new techniques on how women really like to be touched, read this book.

So what are the other, if we could say any points in here, we asked us about what women aren't really doing for men, what would you say that women want more for men? Well aside from passion and romance and affection and all the normal stuff, I think women want to be touched more naturally because people forget all of the four play. The kissing, the kissing, all that normal stuff that they also forget to use their hands and hands feel so good. I mean, when was the last time you really had a good manual stimulation experience from a lover?

Where you said, wow, I don't even need to have intercourse now. Let's go to sleep. I can't answer the list of it. Can you answer that question? I can't see. See what I mean? Where are the guys? Menace?

No. Any manual stimulation from... No, I have to say that you do once you get, no. Because I think that they're nervous and they just want to have sex, and we'll just jump to that. Why do I have to really use my hands and warm me up, baby, rub your engine?

So, forget those guys. So forget those guys, right? Another thing to say that, but they could say that. You know what, that's just correct to me, is I think a lot of women stay away from manual simulation from men because that's what men do to pleasure themselves and they feel like it's hard to beat them or do any better.

Oh, yeah, beat them. They can beat them. Oh, you're not trying to beat them. You're trying to join the party. You're just one of the team members and believe me when someone else is doing it for you, it's always going to be better than doing it yourself. So long as you're doing it relatively good. See, I have a few friends and they're like, whatever happened to that when women just

doing the manual job, why don't women do that enough? Because they do, Elizabeth's here a question, they do it themselves. And I think that they really like it, but women just think, oh, I have to mimic exactly what you're doing. But men want it to be, I think, different. Yeah, be a ranger. They can do it one way. Like, you have two hands.

You know, and you do. You do it. Yeah, oh, yeah. You could do just the fact that you're doing it all. They'll be grateful. They won't even be comparing it to themselves. It's not like that. Mm-hmm.

Yeah. So, what else do they complain about? Okay, so these are tips for men now. Antico your fancy. What are, okay, so the women, they want to use the hands more. What are some of the specific things in this book that you have found? Women can show their partners to do that they wouldn't normally know as far as having women's, have them get orgasms. Okay, well if you go to page 38,

Antico your fancy. 38. I have clitoral stroking styles. So this whole chapter is dedicated to the clitoris, which I read this today. Yeah. And let me just reiterate, there's still people out there that think that penetration is what makes a woman climax. And it's not, most of the time, it's direct stimulation of some sort of clitoris. And anatomically, our bodies aren't made. Some women can, of course, but most women don't.

And so while a guy might be trying all night long and in missionary, that's not going to make her orgasm. You have to use your hands at the same time, honor clitoris, or provide oral pleasure before, during, or after, and you have to do something, or even till your pelvis in a certain way, where it's putting pressure on her clitoris while you're doing your thing. So that's really important to keep in mind and if you look on page 38 there's all these

different ways that you can touch her. I've got this and it was very down side to side. Some women like the clitoris to actually be kind of held between the index finger and the thumb and kind of wiggled. There's all kinds of fun little things you can do to that little girl. Right. And I think that again, the men too, there might be one thing that they always thought worked. And this is this is some other inspirational. And here's a tip that's huge. Guys got to know you've got to have her wet when you're doing this. You can't touch her dry down there. Right. Doesn't feel good. It can hurt even. It's very sensitive. Tissues very thin. Yeah. Spit or learn, start, start doing your thing and it's not wet.

Right. Please. I think I'm speaking on behalf of all our lady. Listen. There's some insecurities to our men. They're like, Oh, she should be turned on and she's not. If she's not naturally wet, that means I'm doing something wrong. Some will think that and and may buddies different. But it's okay to grab some tickle kitty loop. Oh yeah. Another thing that I want to say, talking about this again, is that later in the show, we are going to be reading letters from listeners. And like we said, it's our anniversary show.

We've been on this station for a year. And we were trying to pull themes about a lot of the things that come up. And one of them is men asking, how do I please my partner? What can I do? What are some tips? Why can't she have orgasms? So if you keep listening, we're gonna be talking about that throughout the night.

These are some good tips, your book. Really, I was like, I, like I said, I was inspired when I was touching myself. Right. So we're gonna take a call right now. We're gonna talk to Sarah. Thanks for calling Triple 8501069. Hi, Sarah.

Hi. And Moss Beach, how are you? I'm good. How are you, Happy Anniversary? Thank you. I'm proud that it's been our year. Thanks for calling Sex with Emily. So my question is to do with the ejaculation scenario

when I'm wondering how much of a difference there is between a man's faith. Okay. Let's talk about men or visual. Okay. So, how about that? We don't know.

We don't know. What about when men, the visual, how much do men really like that? Well, a lot of men are... Men are our creatures. Yeah, they are very visual. And what I say to women though, is that if your guy wants you to do that, definitely try and be open and explorative with your guy. The more you can give to him, the more he'll give back to you

sexually. So you always want to try and accommodate if you're going to be OK. So this is something that you can actually be OK and do if you decide to. But on the other hand, if you're just really not into. So this is something that you can actually be okay and do if you decide to. But on the other hand, if you're just really not into it, then just tell them no. I don't want you to do that.

You're lucky you're getting oral pleasure in the first place. And no, please don't pressure me to do that. I'm not interested. We wanted to be enthusiastic, but not grossed out. You're right. So you go as far as you're comfortable. OK, thank you for calling Sarah.

Thanks for calling Sex with Emily. And we have Suki on the line from Oh My God. We're gonna talk to her in a minute, because we are giving way to Oh My God. But first we're gonna talk to Marvin and San Jose. Hi, Marvin. Thanks for calling Sex with Emily. It triplated 500 1069. Marvin.

Hey, Marvin. Marvin. Marvin? Hey, Marvin. Marvin? Hey. Hey, thanks for calling a sex with Emily. Hey, how's it going? Good, how are you? Let's see, I'm OK. So how can we help you?

We've got Dr. C.D. Allison here. Well, actually, I heard the topic that you people were discussing for the last few minutes. Yeah. Yeah. So I called Ben. Your phone answer, you know, girl, this seemed to get a little nervous. She wants me to kind of try to clean this up.

Okay. So, you know, I'm a bit of suggestion of the technique if anyone's interested out there. Okay. It's technique just, yeah yes, we are. Yeah. Let's see. I was spending time with my ex-girlfriend one time. Yeah. And she was sort of interested in trying that.

I was helping out. So like I was doing an exercise. Okay, Marvin, we got to hurry it up real quickly. So what was the technique? She did like an external prostate massage type. Oh, yeah. Really, really gentle actually. Wow, that's good.

And it'll play. Okay, thanks, thanks, Marvin. That's good. We're going to talk about that. Thanks for calling Sex with Emily. He was actually talking about external prostate stimulation. And there's a section on that, in tickle his pickle as well. It's similar to like the hidden g-spot type of thing.

It's a pleasure spot inside there that if you stimulate in the right way, he can actually orgasm from that. And or you stimulate him there while you're doing other things. And he's just like, oh my god, because it provides so much extra stimulation. And the way to massage it from the outside is which is the taint. Taint this, the taint that is right in the middle. Yeah, and all you can use kind of like the flat of a soft fist or the tips of your fingers and you basically just push up a rather firm little.

I kind of know what you're talking about. You can't miss it though, right? You know, you're not going to miss it though. I'm kind of know what you're talking about. You can't miss it though, right? You know, you're not going to miss it. But if it is too slippery under there, you could end up in the dark place. On that note, how are you going to tickle us pickle and other accompanying areas? Okay, when we come back, we're going to talk to Suki from Oh My God. It's the iPod. It's the vibrator for your iPod. And we're talking to Dr. Sadie Allison. You're listening to Sex with Emily on 1-6-9-3-F-M. [♪ OUTRO MUSIC PLAYING [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC [♪ OUTRO MUSIC It's Saturday night in San Francisco. We're live. We're tickling your pickle. We're talking to Dr. Sadie Allison. It sucks with the Emily M1069 free FM.

She's got some toys here for me to look at, too. She's got these masturbation toys for men. We're always talking about vibrators and toys for women, but these are some toys for men, which I've never actually played with up close. We're going to get to that in a minute, Dr. Sadie Allison at takeoKitty.com. Thanks for joining us. We're first going to talk to you though.

Suki at Oh My Bad. Hi, Suki. Hello. Hi, Suki. Hi. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. You're having me on.

Of course. Thank you for sending me the wonderful Oh My God vibrator for our iPod. For my iPod. Hope you had a chance to use it. Did you have a chance to check it out? I have to say that I did. And I really liked it. Awesome.

Yeah, I mean, I've got like a car adapter for my iPod. I've got like a radio adapter for it. I've got a charger, but now I've got a vibrator. And it's like, what else do I need? Exactly. The ultimate iPod accessory. It is. It is.

Tell me about it. Tell me about the Oh My Body and how this came about. Well, Oh My Body actually is the first insertable music driven vibrator. Basically, how it works is you plug it into your iPod. When you buy the, when you buy the OMI bot it comes with the splitter. So you plug the splitter into the top of your iPodder the bottom depending on what version of iPod you have because it works with any iPod. Right. And you connect it with a 5-foot freedom cord to your, to your vibrator. So you plug that in the five foot freedom chord

into the top of the splitter. Okay. And you connect that to your vibe. And then the other side of the splitter is for your earbuds. And you just plug your earbuds in and you can listen and jam away. And it vibrates to different songs. So I mean, I've seen some people like playlists

for different songs that kind of brings you up to certain climax and then you come down. Exactly. It vibrates to the beat and the rhythm of the music on your iPod. And it's that simple. The volume wheel in your iPod mini and a Pearl Rabbit vibrator. And it just seemed, well, first of all, I saw obviously that music played a huge part when I was pleasureing myself. And oftentimes, you know, I had my iPod in and that sort of thing. And it just seemed like, be really cool to connect with you and kind of have this new experience where you kind of fully, you know, feel your music

if you will. Yeah, you're right. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, dude. I came about, I'm a Gadget Gal and worked in the high tech world actually worked for Apple for about eight years. Okay. And I'm wondering how do they, how do Steve Jobs feel about this, you think?

I'm sure he's aware of it. It's not something obviously that, that we put in Apple Space Apple is a very brand-oriented company. And they, of course, don't kind of acknowledge our presence, if you will, but they know we're out there. They probably need one. That's why they're avoiding it. If they had an oh my god, everyone would relax, right? Exactly, exactly.

And so that's what we were kind of hoping also when I came upon this product, I didn't come from the sex toy world. I obviously I came from just mainstream high-tech world and part of the idea behind this was to hopefully bring vibrators more mainstream, you know, and my packaging and everything about who we are is about just a sophisticated approachable toy for a novice to an efficient aficionado. Right, and it's got a nice pink, the nice pink cover, and it's sleek and silver, and I like it. Exactly. We've actually purposely made this one.

You know, it's a non-fallic vibe, so it just has this cool sleek design to it. It's a smoothie. And that way, somebody who might not be that comfortable with themselves or with vibrators would feel comfortable right it's not if that yeah it's not offensive it's like it's can't go in your little your ipad uh... you can have a case for it and everything like that you just

rubber can try to get my ipod case i just a macro less we think it will hold on this my hand they give me like five ipod cases and i'm like this would be a nice little good They gave me like five iPod cases and I'm like this would be a nice little Cogeymon. Exactly. Well actually what what comes with an O my bod is a great little privacy pouch So it's a little velvet pouch you can store. Yeah, you're on my bod in there. So what are the songs that you like to listen to with your O my bod Sukey? I have actually several I kind of Of course I have several I. I kind of, of course, I have several. I do like to test it. But one of my favorites is I have a playlist actually posted on the iTunes Music Store. It's an iMac, because I have a couple, but one of my favorites is Full of Soul. I love R&B and the old school R&B. Okay. So I of course have the likes of Marvin Gaye and Isaac Hayes and Bill Withers and you know

Earth Wind and Fire. And there's different like discernible vibrations that you feel when you're playing your music. You're like, oh, I'm getting to this certain level and I'm going to put on, you know, this song and it's going to have certain vibrations. Oh, totally. Yeah. That's part of the fun. It makes the experience a little different because you know you can put a playlist together and you find out what works for you and what

doesn't and it's kind of a just an added additional fun thing you know when you're thinking about you know creating a list for yourself. Well, I like it. I think it's so fun. Yeah, but why not? I got my app at the time. The partner play is a lot of women or partners. They maybe aren't gadget girls like me and their spouses or their partners manage their playlists for them. And so this is like an extra level of intimacy because that other individual is kind of

creating, you know, might play a part in creating your playlists for you. So it's just kind of another one. For Valentine's Day, it's a great Valentine's day gift, too. Exactly. I think it's great. And one of the other great things is, you know, I've gotten kind of emails from customers and a couple will write me and say, we'll never listen to music and on the radio and the car again, you know, the same way.

They hear a song and they're like, hmm. Exactly. Exactly. No, that's exactly how I felt. I was playing with it over Christmas. So we're going to give one away tonight too and oh my bod. And where it's our one year anniversary we've been on the station, and we're

going to be giving away for people who have the, whoever had the best sex in the next last 12 months, they have to tell us why, and we're going to give them an oh my bod. That sounds great. Yeah, Asuki, thank you so much for calling in. I know it's late. Where you're at now on the East Coast.

Yes, I'm on the East Coast. Thank you for everything. We're fans of the Oh My God. We're going to keep talking about it. Awesome. Awesome. And for your listeners too, I might add that if they come to our website, which is Oh My God.com, they can receive a discount of $10 off. Oh great, okay, we also have a link on our website as well. It's the discount code of sex with Emily. Sex with Emily, okay, good.

And you can get that from our site or omibod.com, ohhmibeod.com. Thank you, Sukey. Thanks for having me. Have a great night. Sukey. Oh my, is it pretty? It's very pretty.

Okay, so we're back to Dr. Sadie Allison. Thank you, is it pretty? It's very pretty. Okay, so we're back to Dr. Sadie Allison. Thank you, Sookie, for calling in. She's got like three books here that I want to talk about all night. Tickle your fancy, tickle his pickle, toy gasms. But then she brought these Dr. Sadie Allison, these masturbation toys for men. Right. Let's talk about these wonderful slippery things here.

Spungy, lifelike, fiends, soft things with holes in them, which is pretty much what they are. Okay. Just like there's thousands of vibrators for women out there, but there are toys for men, and a lot of people aren't aware that there's a lot of toys for men these days, and these are some of the most popular toys. I told you I cleaned the powder stuff off. It's okay. Don't be alarmed. Okay.

So that one there is called the head honcho. The head honcho. Okay. And it's made of a silicone stretchy material. And it's really soft and spongy. It's not like what you would think of the traditional toys. These are like life-like feeling materials. And that particular toy has ridges on the inside.

Oh. See? And you'reges on the inside. Oh! See, and you're putting your fingers in in this toy. Oh, it feels good enough. You just use some slippery kitty lubrication. He puts it on himself and on the toy, and he uses that in the palm of his hand to do what it's very stretchy. Okay. And you see how the top is not open.

See how the very... It's so it's a masturbation sleeve is what they call it, right? Okay. Yeah, see the top is a self-pleasureizer. Self-pleasureizer. Okay, and then these are all self-pleasureizers from us. See men, Piment are always saying we're talking about toys. We're talking about toys for you tonight, okay?

So pay attention. This is the same thing. Same type of thing. It's a different material. Here, Elizabeth, would you like to touch? Okay. Okay. So are they one size fits all?

They are, but different toys come with different sizes based on the design and the style itself. Is it one size fits all? But yeah, it is one size fits all, because they're all very stretchy. Most, I hate to be a guy. It's like, oh, it didn't fit. Don't tell us if it didn't fit.

That one is made of a material called UR3. It's very easy to clean. Okay. And it's very snug. So get some play with it. Yeah, and they're real easy to clean too, because you just turn them inside out. You can use them in the shower. And the greatest thing about these is that they're not just for guys to use, they're for the women to use on their guys.

So they put it over him. Yeah, so you know we're talking about manual pleasure earlier. Well, this is another way to pleasure him. And it's all about varieties of spice of life and doing something different and something fun. You don't have to use these every time. But once in a while, maybe Valentine's night, pull this out from under the pillow and it's not the ridges on the inside.

So it just feels like extra stimulation for him. Extra stimulation. Have you ever seen this Elizabeth? No. Great. Can they get these on your website? Yeah. Okay, ticklekitty.com and how do they know? I mean, these are, I don't think there's men don't buy to, this this a little bit. Can they get these on your website? Yeah. OK, ticklekitty.com. And how do they know?

I mean, these are, I think that men don't buy toilet. This is a great Valentine's. They get to. Yeah. Most men don't, and these exist. I don't know that they exist, really. I've heard of eyes that know have a classical oven, and they're all in the shower.

Because they do the same thing over and over again with the lotion and the thing, or sometimes men is, would you use one of these? Would you use a masturbation thing? Yeah, why not? Yeah, exactly. Do I want for valence? Especially if nobody knows.

Would you really, though, like I think men are more like, I got my hand, I got my towel, I'm done. This is good. We're blow up, doll. They'll try another thing, though. Menace, do you want a blow up, doll? What do you want, baby? I know, little doll, but that looks a lot more fun

than the normal. You can touch it at the break. OK, I'll check it out. Okay, cool. So, okay, we're going to talk to Marcella. Thanks for calling, Tribal 8500, 1069. It's sex with Emily and 10693FM, Marcella. Hey, guys.

Hi. Hey, Marcella. How you doing this evening? Good. How are you? Thanks for calling. Thank you. Oh, I'm so excited. Okay, so

um, might be on say and his crew from the kitchen are all listening. Okay. I wanted to call in because my story is I was deprived for three months without my honey. Oh. And when he and I got hold of one another? Oh my God and everything under the sun. Okay, so what happened? What made it different? What made it different was the passion we felt was like for three months it was built up and then it went cuboom. It was fantastic. And it was, was it worth the wait then? I wouldn't ever want to go through my to that.

Was there anything different that time besides the weight? Was there any new moves or movement that made it? We're talking about the best sex in the last anyone's had in the last 12 months tonight because we're given away gifts and things.

OK, so I had never done anything before and it wasn't until I got with him that I experimented with roadside, you know, daylight roadside. Oh. As we're driving stuck in traffic, I pull a little blanket or a coat over me and he puts his hand over in the area, you know, and that was amazing. And it was such a rush because I had never experienced that.

So to me, for someone who's very not so experimental, that made it amazing. Oh, because it was like, I don't know where. Thanks, Marcella. That's a good story. I'm going to put you in hold. I'm going to get your information. Jenny Lee is going to take your email address and we're going to emailing winners at the end of the night.

Thank you. Have a great night. Thanks for coming. Thanks, Emily. I want to know tonight, because it's our one year. We've been on the show. We've been doing the show here. What's the best sex?

It's one year of live sex in the radio. What's the best sex you had in the last 12 months? And why? That was a good story. Okay, back to your toys here, Dr. Sadialis. And tell me. We love those toys. That one there that you were just flopping around?

Yes. So it's big. It's bigger than the rest. It's thicker and softer. But that particular one's called the maven. It's a phallate-free material which is safer for the body. And if you notice the top of it does not have an opening. So when the man finishes, it's inside which is easy to clean but what that means

is that while he's enjoying himself or she's doing it for him, he's feeling the inside like there's an end to the tunnel. So he's getting stimulation, stimulating. Okay, Dr. Sadie Ellsson, thank you so much. Thank you for joining us tonight. You're welcome. Thanks for having me. Yeah, this is so fun. Tickles Pickle, award-winning author, ticklekitty.com. You're going to have to come back because we got so many of it. So many other things to talk about. I feel like we just started the tip of the iceberg.

I know. Yeah. We'll come back. You'll come back. I'll come back. We'll have fun. Okay, it's sex with the Emily when we come back. We're going to be talking more about the best sex you had all year.

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