Sex With Emily - SWE: How to Seduce a Woman Tonight

Episode Date: March 9, 2013

Emily interviews dating and relationship coach David Wygant on how to have confidence and talk to women, even if you have no confidence whatsoever and have no idea what to say. David tells you how to walk up to a woman at a cafe and hit on her without having her ruthlessly reject you. She'll even want to talk to you, go out with you, and then sleep with you. David demonstrates how he would pick up Emily at a cafe and slowly seduces her. The show turns to sex and how to cultivate the "power of the pussy." Do not put the pussy on a pedestal when you're hitting on her, but when you sleep with her you're mission is to pleasure the pussy. David and Emily explain how to crack her sexual code, and the exact moves that will make you great in bed. Want to learn more about David's special sexual techniques that give you the power of the pussy? Click here for more of David Wygant's secrets to become The Best Lover She's Ever Had. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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For more information, go to sexwithemily.com where you can listen to all of our podcasts and you can sign up for our mailing list, which is now more important than ever. So you better go do that ASAP. Check out sexwithemily.com. So today's show I'm really looking forward to today's show because we have a legendary dating coach on the show. He is, he's a legend for over 20, for years legend. David Wigan has been earning the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives.

So David Wigan, you've transformed many lives, is that true? As a dating coach? So what the legend says. You're a legend dear, what makes you a legend? I'm a legend in my own mind, first off, which I think is always the number one thing that you need to be in order to attract people, and then it seems like the media likes me. I mean, I have no idea why, but all these magazines and TV shows. Do they follow you around with your own stuff?

If all of me all the time, I've got my why, but all these magazines and TV shows. Do they follow you around with cameras and stuff? They follow me all the time. I've got my own authorized. Do you? Absolutely. That's so hot. OK. I've got a bunch of guys that follow me around. I handpicked them at the beginning of every single year, no kidding.

Right. I handpicked little guys that will follow me around. That will be my protege for a year, because what I like to do is I want to teach people, especially men, I want to teach men how to be really successful in all aspects of their life, from dating, to relationships, to business. So successful in all aspects of their life from dating to relationships to business So not the hot broadsay. We just have to clear that out. We and you tell products and you do all these things that help guys Do what specifically? Well get laid become better with women become better men become more confident powerful men in all aspects of their life

It's not just about it's about attraction see most guys will go most guys will come here initially for the magic pill What's the magic pill they want to date more women? They want to pick up more women They want to meet women, right? But they don't know what they're about to get involved in okay? It's this whole like not mind matrix stuff where they're actually gonna become super confident Because what I do is they teach them confidence so they can go out there and attract women because most guys chase women Most guys don't attract the difference between attraction and chasing a woman You think about it that's done a track. The difference between attraction and chasing a woman. I like that. Think about it.

Right now, okay. The type of that- Most do is are chasing. Yes. And that's the mistake. So that's the mistake that a lot of guys are making are they're chasing chasing going after her, but you're saying make her a track it to. It's such an interesting distinction that people don't often think about.

Because the one what turns you on more. A man that's busy. Confidence, okay. Like you said, circle back, circle back. Confidence, I always say like confident man and funny. I feel like my friend and I laugh like, oh, do you want me to be tall, funny and smart? Like that's what every woman wants at the end of the day.

Talk funny, smart. Not everyone I know a lot of you don't understand that, whatever, it's fine if you don't. I'm just talking stereotypically. So it's kind of a joke with my friend out she's like oh, guess what? It's funny and smart like doesn't happen anyway, so you're saying and confident number one So guys can how does a guy? So I tell that to men all the time on the show the email like you don't have the confidence like it sounds like you're really

You made this relationship made you insecure you don't have the confidence because you have a data And you have an exercise that, dating muscle and all that. But I never ate it. It's harder than how do you teach someone confidence? Like they're gonna say, like, I was born with it. People like victim mode. Nobody's born with confidence. We know when it slides out of their mother's birth canal,

winks at the nurses, says, I can't wait for you to rub my balls and get this gooey stuff off of me. Looks at their mom and says, thanks for the ride. So you weren't like that at the beginning, the early young David strapping, I think you excited. So you weren't like that at the beginning, the young David strapping, I think you're like a young strapping David Wagon,

like picking up checks left and right, where we go getting laid. No, the young David Wagon, you know, walked down the wrong hallway at high school, you know, it'd be 10 minutes late for class, because the two girls ate a crush on me, we're talking one another, and I don't want to go look at my feet or get all nervous.

Because you didn't know how to talk to your crushes. You know what school, a What school? Middle school? No, middle school. I forget middle school. Middle school is a blood school. I don't know how to school. So in high school. So I think that's when a lot of guys get sort of,

I think that they get stuck in high school developmentally. No, actually that's what life's a giant. And I feel like that many men get over it, and they eventually learn how to deal with women or whatever but I also think that they get sucked sexually we're gonna get into sex oh we're gonna get into some amazing sex tips so just stay tuned to show because David David knows some stuff about how to do that teach he's gonna teach men to own the pussy I'm just gonna say it it's out there so if you're listening like whatever whatever I know to get the baby but do you

know how to own the pussy so we're gonna get that to that in a minute. Okay, but back to confidence. Kind of hard to think though about confidence when you all I want to talk about is only the pussy. Do you know anyone I know right? Cause every guy who's most guys, I just want to tell you, you think you own the pussy, just like you think your girl is never faking orgasm on you, which she has and I can tell you that you probably don't on the pussy I'm just saying I'd say nine

I'd say you're right and I would say that that is absolutely true that most men I'm not saying that you don't like the pussy. I'm not saying you don't try to be with the pussy You don't do your best with the pussy back They're not on the pussy back like a pussy around the pussy Yeah, like a pussy most guys are afraid of it. They're terrified of it. So we're going to break down all the minutes of the pussy. This is my best friend. Can we go back to what you teach men? Better than the alterage, my foot, the pussy.

The really better than your entourage, the minions you want to be with you. Absolutely. You want to know what I really teach men? Oh, God. Tell me. How to be the most confident version of themselves, because here's the deal. Most of these guys, they'll read stupid books. And there's like a lot of my competitors out there.

They sell these garbage magic pill systems. Systems that will teach you two easy steps to get laid tonight. So this guy, all of a sudden, like they were talking about the pickup artists because we actually have one on the show and I got some flack from that. The whole pickup artist community of guys, you like are out just to have sex with women and people are think that they're misogynist. I'm not making plenty of judgment because Brad P was on the show. You were a awesome friend of mine. And I just want to say there's different strategies or different things that guys need to work on. And you guys are all experts in your own way.

And if someone you will be appealing to many men, some people will be peeled into that with Brad P. S. David anyway. So you are different because because confidence is something that's stick that's what you that's what you mean of your practice it goes back to who you want as a man what turns you on the most about a man a man is confident right but but here's here right but listen everybody here listening right now saying Jesus you know it's like I hear this shit all the time confidence confidence confidence what is confidence owning yourself loving yourself adm yourself, literally stripping yourself down naked, staring at yourself and knowing that you're the most powerful man in the world.

When you walk into a room, you know the room, and this is an exercise I do with the guys all the time. When you walk in a room, you're the star of your own movie. So how do you walk in there? Most guys are extras in their own movie. They're not the fucking star at all. They basically hiding in the background and there, hiding the background, their hands in their pockets, you know, their nervous and so forth. I walk into a room, I own that room. So they skip my eyes will scout the room and I'll pick out who I want to talk to and I'll own that with confidence. That's what guys don't, they don't learn themselves. They don't spend any time learning themselves and confidence can be taught. I taught myself the confidence.

Okay, this is the one I'm going to go back to. Okay. Because I am going to keep us on track. Because Dave and I become friends, everyone knows I moved to Los Angeles for a little bit. And David's where my new BFF sees my neighbor. And we happen to do similar things in the dating and sex world. So he became friends. So anyway, David, I want to know,

I want to go back to the David in high school who had a crush on hot chicks and went the other, walked the other way because of that fear. and I want to know They guys think a lot of guys can relate to that fear no matter how well you are even if you're back in the dating game And how do you get over it? It's easy to get back into it. I mean first off Okay, I remember when I had the fear I had to face my fear. What was my fear?

My fear was always what the opposite sex I realized that the opposite sex was more afraid of me than I was about So I want to know about that David in high school who walked the other way when he saw the chicks that were hot. It was such a long time ago, but how did you not how did you not become that David anymore? It goes back to doing every exercise that I put in all my programs. Okay, the fact of the matter is I had to learn how to be a good communicator. A confident man communicates based on what he is and who he is, right? A confident man doesn't think about the outcome. A confident man doesn't believe or think that a girl's gonna like him if he does something magical.

A confident man admires himself, knows who he is, and is able to take control of a recent situation. So I went out there and I became confident. I walked the streets, school and college because that was fun. I had some good times, but really the real gist of my work is one in New York City. I used to walk the streets, I used to observe everything. And I thought to myself, well, that's like the primal instincts of who I am. I thought to myself, what can I say in every single situation to connect with somebody else? So I put myself in their situations, I look at women on the street, I watch women

shop, I go to stores, and I start saying those things that are on my mind because a confident guy will speak his word, an uncompriced guy is always searching for something to say. He wants to memorize a line, wants to memorize the situation. Right, so that's the difference between like the whole pick-up artist and he is like, here's a line, like, play, do you a magic trick when you see her? And you're saying, no, connect with her on authentic level and notice her what she's doing, which is, so give me an example.

Like, let's say you saw me right now and I was sitting here in front of my laptop, at a coffee shop or something. And you got it was cute. I thought you were cute, right, which I think you are. And I would see you at a coffee shop, and I would look over there and I'd say, there's lots of yellow there.

And I, and then I'll say, you go, look at that, you only see that yellow, I'd be playful and I say there's lots of yellow there and I and then all say you go look at it you only see that yellow I'd be playful I would say whatever I saw because right now obviously you're looking at your laptop and there's all these I've all yeah I highlight everything yellow I would think that was cute that's what I would say oh my god you're good good okay see you be like we're all that yellow and I'd be like yeah I know I highlight everything because I do highlight all my notes yeah because. Because I have ADD and it helps me focus. Really, you think of ADD? I don't know, whatever everyone does.

Who doesn't? Everybody's got ADD. So why do you think you have ADD? I don't know because I need to highlight everything and yell out a focus on it. Otherwise, it doesn't send in to be a really large font and it needs to go like every other line. Interesting.

You know that every other line is the best way when it comes down to like reading or writing It's the only way that you're gonna point across because people can only memorize one point at a time So here we go. We're having a conversation Mm-hmm. Oh my god. Look at that. Without you even knowing it, okay? I have worked, you know magic That was just me at a coffee shop and I can't see you how many guys have hit on me at a coffee shop And I've just ignored completely because they come at you breaking you from your moment. Okay, show me what the guys do that come here before they go to the camp. What do they do?

Okay, so before I do the pre-day, the guys. The pre-day, the guys are going to be like, I'm sitting at the laptop at Starbucks. They're going to basically stand there in the corner and basically look like they're masturbating in the corner because they've been staring you for so long freaking you out. You feel this energy that you just can't figure out what it is and all of a sudden you turn around. There's a guy looking down the ground, but you know it's him looking at you. You wonder why is this guy not coming over? He's starting to creep me the fuck out, right? So then finally when he comes over, he says something that entirely is nothing to do with anything.

He's looking at you, he goes, excuse me, can I ask you a question? I'm your a girl. Could you like, yeah, just find a mind, you know, cheated on his wife and now I don't know. Would you consider this a bitch? He come up with some stupid random fucking story And that's I call these guys random man here at come and you look at them and you're scratching hand You answer them to be polite so then all of a sudden what is he gonna do? He thinks he had a conversation and a connection because men have no clue when they connect with the woman So then what is he gonna do is gonna ask you for a phone number? Hey, let's get together

You're gonna look and go why do I want to get together with somebody that basically came over here talked about a random thing I asked you to request it and then that's what the guys gonna do then the guys gonna get on the internet get pissed off Send an email for somebody like me and say this doesn't work. I've tried everything. It doesn't work They haven't tried to be themselves and that's all I did to you was pick up on you or whatever it was I picked up on you because probably that I know the power of the pussy to do We'll talk about that in a bit. Power of pussy coming up next. But I love saying that. I know that you are a romantic comedy.

What do you mean? You're a romantic comedy. Every woman is a romantic comedy. Whether you're a romantic comedy or a man is a... Every woman is a... Every woman is as funny as I am. No, a romantic comedy. Every woman does want to be funny.

Every woman wants that magic moment. It's a magic moment. I'm not a romantic comedy. I don't care. Oh, bullshit. Of course you do. What do you want? What do you do. You don't know me every woman Everyone what every woman I'm not like every woman

I want to comment about what does it do the romance you walk into a room You want a guy that picks up on your energy talks to you and fucking treats you like a woman and wants to get to know you Shes your romantic comedy moment. Okay, every premise of every movie has ever been they you stop right a guy being a clever funny smart Confident exactly right you want to be wild because to me most guys blend in together no yeah they do most guys you you know you can go meet 20 guys this month I'm sure all them will blend into one another yeah nobody stands out maybe you got and date one or two of them you know you think maybe I'll give this guy another chance how many times have you done that in your relationships but I give this guy

just one more chance I think we would do that more than men. Isn't it true that men decide with informants if they're going to have sexual women in their mind, not if they're actually having it, if they would. 40 seconds, right? No, I do the power of the pussy way. The power of the pussy way is this. I look at them and I say to myself, do I want to be a master for pussy and make her feel better

than any other man ever has, and do she deserve my cock? That's what you say to women. I fucking think I have my head. Oh, yeah my cock. That's what you say to me when you like a woman. I fucking think I have my head. Oh yeah absolutely, it goes right out from my head. I think do they deserve the gift of me? What is the gift of you? Oh fucking I'm amazing.

I mean I, I, I, all the work that I teach you guys on all my programs self-love and everything else, I believe I'm gonna fucking amazing man. I guess I have made lots of mistakes in my life. I have had relationships that have failed. I mean I've done everything but I've learned Are you in a relationship now? Not that I know of I mean you know let somebody call me in the next you know a couple of minutes So you know I get this all the time so it's doesn't you people like how are you an expert? You're not a relationship You're not a relationship either? No

Man okay I didn't know that you know we became the new friends. I thought you were dating somebody. I'm gonna date here and there You know I'm always dating should make the move on you one day. How? Oh, we already saw how you make the move on me. I've already made the move, I already know you know, it would be a whole different move. That's the whole thing. I wanna know.

I wanna know. Okay, so you look at me and be like, does her pussy deserve my God? It's the exact. Have you done that all righty tonight? I probably might have been doing it the whole time. You don't even know. You're right, you're right, you might have been.

You're so tricky like that. I'm very tricky like that. You're a manipulative, right? To be who you are You're so tricky like that. I'm very tricky like that. You're a manipulative right to be who you are. Not really manipulative. I just don't show my cards. Like do you ever feel like when you and I are talking like we're in a group of people do you feel like I'm looking at you and you know differently than anybody else. Do you ever see me looking at you and just kind of staring you in a little bit. No. Are you like creepy in me? No. Never creepy because you haven't caught me. Do it but I've done plenty of times. You've stared at me in a group.

Absolutely. When we're sitting around a group of people, I've turned the other way around. Where are your hands at that moment? No, never down below. Oh, okay. Not a big masturbator. So you're not a big masturbator? No, mental masturbation is fine with a powerful.

That is brain's largest sex organ. It is. I get off my brain. Okay, so you're like, does this woman deserve me? Which is great. That's a great confidence building to a foreign man. It's a great way to think like, not can I approach her wherever?

Like is she lucky enough to have this? But that's confidence. That's where you're talking about. And that's why I tell you know, confidence is also a big killer of women sex drive. Women don't feel attractive. They feel like, you know, they went to sex the lights off and they don't have that confidence.

And I feel like I'm always, and that's like, what's killing so many women, having orgasms, having sex like they want is because they're insecure about their bodies and so like it's the same thing like how do you know how do you have to if that's really something that you need and believe me you all do it's something that you have to cultivate and I've said this a numerous interviews people say what's someone's dating tip and I always say cultivate confidence so that's what you're saying and you can have to teach that yeah it's all sex to me is mindset and that's all it is.

Power of pussy is mindset knowing, okay, I can take a look at you and I'm making a decision to decision. We'll go up to my head. I'm not going to pursue. I'll pursue when I want to pursue. But here's the big difference. Okay, when I get to know you, I know I'm the gift. I'm a gift that you need to unwrap. Most guys look at a woman as she's the gift. So they put the pussy on the pedestal. The minute you put the pussy on the pedestal, there's no way in the world the pussy is ever going to open up and flower for that man. No way. What do you mean don't put it in the pedestal?

They put the pussy on a pedestal. They, they're, their cock is down here. They're pussies up here. Okay. And they put the pussy on a pedestal. It should be on a pedestal. No, it should. It's an equal because if you think about it, it's damn equal because the cock and the pussy are fucking best friends to each other. Right.

But the first, no, no, no, no, no, because they're developing a friendship. No, you're right. And if you put in a presence, then they're acting not authentically. Exactly. Not only that, they're also giving all their power away to the pussy because they don't feel like they deserve it.

So you don't feel like you're in the power of a confident, strong man. Their eye contact is a little weak. They're not staring at you. They're not. They're touches a little weak. You know, when they touch your leg for the very first time and they rest, they rest. It's like they rest it on your leg

I hate when they're weak and what did you do to say what was your other out of shift? Well maybe there's really weak and they rest in your leg they're afraid they're afraid of touch so you think a lot of men see the pussy they put on a pedestal and they should not do that right for instance okay let's just say I ask you out, okay? And we go out and I put and I do a pussy pedestal move So instead of like doing something that's fun and different I take out and you know I bless the money and go for some stupid dinner and we just exchange life resumes with each other

So we can basically talk to one another about our past fucking relationships that we really don't need to talk about right? Basically don't talk about your relationships on the first day. No. I talk about it all the time. Never. And then we're feeling each other out, but in a wrong way. Instead of, you know, and that's putting the push in the pistol, he's going to come with his camp stories, he's going to come with his, you know, he's going to talk a little bit too much about work, whatever it might be,

he wants to play a safe the whole time. That's putting the push in the pedestal. You and I, we got on the first day, I'm gonna plain simply find out exactly who you are. You're gonna ask me questions? Absolutely. I wanna know who you are. I wanna know if you can satisfy me down to the physical core because deep down we're just capable of you.

How are you gonna tell them the first date if I can satisfy you on a physical core? Very easily. I'm gonna ask you what's important to you on a physical side of the relationship. I'm gonna ask you questions. I don't give a shit. Bed and bed. All the stuff is going to play out in bed anyway.

So what do you mean physical? What are you going to ask? How do you give and receive love? You're going to ask me on the first date. Absolutely. I might think you're kind of a hippie. No. I don't look like one though.

I don't look like one. And how do you give and receive love? Because you have already talked about it pretty much very quickly when we first met. So even though I wasn't a hippie, I got the information out of out of you right. How would you ask me? I just found out when I gave you that book the five Leveling we just to read right because I just wanted to know who you were. I was digging information. I'm a digger Okay, so the fact of the matter is is that I don't want to give you ask me a question. Would you ask me on? I asked you a question. I think you were talking about relationships or something. And I said, I said, do you know your love language?

And you looked at me and said, no, I said, well, what do you like? How do you like to give it? You went right into it. You don't look at me and some hippie-dippy thing at all. I'm just kidding. You're right. And pen and rubber, I forgot. I forgot.

But pen and rubber knows I've been a member. That's my show. Tough check here is easy to get through to, guys. Let me tell you. And what do you mean? You got through to me. When you got through to me. You said what's your language of love?

And then I said, how do I like to give receive love? I don't give love. You don't give love, right? She doesn't give any love, but for a little hint, in case you would die with that physical touch, okay? I love touch. I love touch. No, I said I like being touched a lot.

I like to give touch and to receive touch. And you like words? I love words. I love the whole mental seduction. Right, so in turn, I looked at you and I basically planted the first seed. There's a seed planting. So you are already hitting on me. I have a very good feeling.

Look at this. You guys are hitting on me right now in front of life. I am hitting on her right now. I did. I planted a seed, because in my mind, I thought to myself, I'm physical touch and I love words too. I said, so you know what? That's the first step to me in like forming some type of attraction.

I want to get to know you on a deeper level right away. I don't ever, I'm not afraid of personal questions. What could I have had the wrong answer? Like what if I said I hate when people touch me and I want to be alone? That would have been a lot. That would have been a lot. That would have been a lot. That would have been a lot.

That would have been a lot. That doesn't deserve me. Because to me, I know what I can give. I know I've done enough work on myself through, you know, and I tell these guys all the time, I've got a good program on self love. And I tell guys, I've been through all this. I know who I am. I know what've done enough work on myself through, you know, and I tell these guys all the time I've got a good program on self-love and I tell guys I've been through all this. I know who I am, I know what I want, I know what I deserve. So I know what I deserve in a woman. I want a woman who is very affectionate, I know that's very warm.

So I'm going to talk about that stuff. I don't really care about, you know, your dog dying when you're in the fifth grade. You don't care about that at all. You do, but not until I know that energetically, we are connecting. And so you're figuring this out. So you want to disguise, you can tell right away. Right. We had earlier about like, can you tell right away if you're going to see a person, but

you can tell right away if you guys have a connection because you start asking them right questions. Yeah. Rather than hearing about the like dog story and. Yeah. I'm not afraid to talk about personal things because personal things are what drive us because all we really want and all we really deserve in life is love. And this is the first date.

Like what about the first date? First dates to me are so casual. They shouldn't even be thought of as a date. It should be let's go hang out and do something. You know, maybe go and, you know, go sit around and talk and, you know, share a bottle of wine for all you people who drink, you know, and, you know, go, you know, for all you vegetarians out there, go share some kombucha or whatever it might be, whatever you feel like doing, follow people, smoke pop, smoke pops together, do whatever you want to do together, take a dog for a

walk, make it really casual, get to know one another. I agree that it should be casual because the worst is when you do dinner date and you go dinner and then like you're like staring at your watch for the appetizers and you want to get the hell out of there. I think dinner is not, you should not do dinner in the first date. No, because you resume shopping and chewing. Oh, I made it. I just wanted to do a drive by in the first date. You can drive by? Yeah, drive by is a cool, we can drive by restaurants and stuff.

I'll just leave. Here to we guys, you know what I just said, it was subliminal. What do you say? I just said we can go do that. I added that we. We owe me. So how do you, okay, so talk about like. It's slow seduction

It's the only way I'm to get inside the pussy is by slowly seducing okay, so open it man slowly seduces how This is what you teach is what I teach the way you think I'm being seduced very easily I'm slowly seducing I've done this so many times before Okay, you can you able to seduce any woman? Can you do like do contests for people pay a seat in Davis to do this? It's one. No, because I only sit just woman that I feel something for. Okay. Because I don't believe it because I think seduction is, is, it's, seduction is, is a powerful thing. Seduction could be used a lot of different

ways. It's very manipulative. If you're not, I'm past that passage in my life. I was at player in my 20s. Right. Very manipulative. It was all all about me my penis and everything getting off. Of course. I was all about I never brought that face never I didn't know I totally I know you did I hear you now I believe you now all I want to do now to me It's like I've got the power. I know why I'm powerful man. I want to be able to be a lot of that just comes with life Experience and telling a 22 year old guy to like learn this develop. This is hard because he's got to, he doesn't know he is yet. Oh, not true.

I got a 20 year old coming to my boot camp last weekend. This guy's so powerful, he's the young version of me. I know a 24 year old guy is okay that have studied underneath me that have become this powerful because it's not about, because when you're honest and authentic and that's another thing too, it's like a lot of guys, they're salesmen on dates. For all you women, beware of that guy, okay?

What does it do? What does it sell? Ever. This is a tip for women, okay? Never, ever tell a man, throw your cards on the table. It's like playing poker that first date. Never tell a man, ever what you're looking for in a relationship. Don't ever tell them that you want to get married. Have kids, whatever it might be. Oh, never. Because what happens is the salesman sitting across from you and what is he going to do? He's going to marry your words. He's going to look look and go me too. That's exactly what he's gonna look you directly in the eyes because they can only lie Once you opened up a lie so basically when you opened up yourself to them a man who's a mirror can do that and look at it What I was told him and all the time next time a man says what are you looking for in relationship?

Look at him and say hey, buddy. What are you looking for you You tell me what you want. If the man looks anywhere above you at that time, he's looking for an answer, he's searching, he's praying, he's hoping, saying to himself, God, please help me right now with an answer. If he looks you right in the eyes and says, I want a relationship, I want to have a beautiful connection with a beautiful woman. Bingo, you've got a winner, okay? But the most guys, 90% of the guys, they are looking for that answer and they're looking for their lie because they don't want to screw up

A lot of guys asked that on the first date. Oh women ask it first women are the biggest blabber Women don't ever ask that question. Just be happy be yourself. Talk about what you love What you're passionate about do not talk about the fact that you want to have kids and you five minutes left or whatever It is like well, they're angry. Yes. Oh, the angry. They're so angry. They're so angry They're so pissed off. They got that time agenda. And you know what? Let me tell you all you women. You time agenda women.

You're so boring to go out with on a date. I've gone out with you on dates. You're so boring. It's unbelievable. And 10 years ago, you used to be cool. Two years ago, you used to be cool. You've got all these rules. You throw it man on a date.

I'm not going to sleep with a guy until I know I have this. It's like, you used to be fun. The only way you're going to get a great guy, the guy that you're looking for is if you play it cool And you are cool because that's what a guy wants don't bust their balls on date number one Oh Kind of find to see like I'll be always my time want to get all the answers right now The only answers are is the way I put it

I'm a man the way I put it is so powerful and perfect go ahead You know if I ask you what do you want? I can mimic you perfectly because I have you know the way I put it. I'm a man, the way I put it is so powerful and perfect. Go ahead. You know, if I ask you, what do you want? I can mimic you perfectly because I, you know, because a player is always going to know how to get laid. A man who's desperate will always know how to get laid also because he learned from somebody who basically saying whatever she says, agree with it. Mm-hmm. Right. That's true. That's why the woman who's out with the guy and says, hey, I want to date him looking for, I'm looking for a man, looking for a baby and the guy's

like, yeah, me too, and then you never hear him again because he was lying. And you're like, okay, I actually don't want a relationship right now. Okay, so you teach a lot about the, we talked about the approach approach and when you approach me, which is very clever, and I appreciate your skills. And then you, what about creating attraction? How do you teach, as someone who has a creative, we conference be going back to that, like what, like, what, there attraction? How do you teach, as to what I'm gonna create? We conference, we going back to that, like what, like what, there's gotta be

some other things. Listening. Listening to women. Listening, staring at a woman directly. I need more men to listen because I talk a lot. That's a call order for me. If I'm looking for a man, I'd be friends with him. And they would listen.

And I'd talk on my sleep. Really, I gotta find that out. We should go dive into that. I love that conversation. Anyway, so you have to listen to women. And we have to come find that out. We should go dive into that. I love that conversation. Anyway, so you have to listen to women. The way the weak are coming out. The weak are the weak. The weak are the weak.

Listen to her little breath. Did you hear her little breath? That's lame. You know, she took a little breath. That's also a tip too, okay, that there's an interest there because when a woman takes a deep breath and looks away, you've got her, you've embarrassed her, you've shown her that you have the power of the pussy. Once again going back to that power of the pussy, it's all about doing that. So yeah, you throw the

we in there, but more importantly, you listen and you look and you're intense. You know, you look in their eyes and you don't waver because you know what, they're looking for that. They're looking for the dude that they can have sex with the lights on that will look in their eyes the entire time and watch them as the guy brings total pleasure once again power the pussy guys You have complete eye contact. We have to make sure we get to that because I've been known to not get the things that I know no no We're gonna we're gonna get we're teasing the pussy. Yeah, let me tell you one this is for play one trip of the power of the pussy Is the best eye contact is the four-played or heart eye contact is the four-played or like oh? We said our contact like the whole time you're out. I love staring into a woman's eyes.

Eyes are beautiful. Stair watch her lips move. Smile when she says something lean forward. If she says something great, just take her shoulder and just like touch. Don't be afraid to touch her. Touch her. But some people are a little freaked out by touch, right? Premature touch.

Well, you got to learn. I'm not talking about, you know, so it's premature ejaculation. It's pretty bad too. But, you know, I'm not talking about, you know, so it's premature ejaculation. It's pretty bad too. But, you know, I'm not talking about touching when you first meet her. But as you're seducing her and to become an unbelievable seducer, you want to touch her. If she pulls her neck like that,

you see her twister neck around. She's twister's just like her. I just mind that hurts, because I have a lot of tension in it. Yeah, so I'm giving her a little rub down because of you. That's so good. So you see, don't be afraid to touch. Once you have broken whatever boundary you have, you get to know each other a little bit, you're on a date,

you've talked for an hour, feel free to do something. Don't get creepy about it. Just touch her in some way, shape it. Such a fine creepy and sexy. Ah, but because, you know what? Because sexy is a confident guy. You can, you know, want a confident guy to touch it, you can feel it. Your body starts to wake up, it starts to tangle a little bit. You start to mone grown inside and you wonder what's next, okay? That's when a confident man touch you. It's energy and this is something I tell guys all the time, you've got to master your own core, your own energy.

When I touch, there's no shake in my hand. You can feel it, right? My hands on your shoulder, right? You don't feel that. Now I'm going to show you the difference, okay? You don't feel that now. I'm gonna show you the difference Okay, you guys can't see this okay and do try this at home. We should be doing video. Yeah, so now I'm gonna touch you as a creepy guy What? Oh? That is creepy your hands kind of shaking on my shoulder. It's shaking. I'm nervous. I don't know what to do

I'm scared I contact the same exact way just stare right in my eyes right now as we're talking. You know guys that is the biggest turn off. I've gone out with men who don't make eye contact ever and it is a turn off. It's you have to make eye contact. I'm just telling you guys I'm just pointing it out in an opposite way that if you do not make eye contact. Ask your friends. It's different to your friends. You might make eye contact with your friends but with chicks it's important. How do you can teach guys that because people get really nervous. Yeah, I do that. It's I've got a couple of programs to do that, but I talk about practice on it. Talk to somebody and practice. Just practice. Talk to the woman on the bus that you don't like. It

doesn't matter. It doesn't have to be anyone. Talk to anyone. Talk to anyone. There's there's an exercise that I get guys do. It's like go out there and talk to every single person that I contact with them. Start off every single day with 10 to 15 seconds worth of conversation with somebody. Start building your way up. The only way you're going to build confidence up is learning how to be a major master communicator. I thought you were going to say a major master. No, they already are masterbaders. That's the problem. They've already masturbated so many times. You know, another thing to do is stop masturbating for two weeks. Okay, take

your sexual energy and go somewhere else. Ooh, take your sexual, sexual energy out into the world. Oh, absolutely. In order to master the pussy, you've got to master take your sexual energy and go somewhere else. Ooh, take your sexual energy out into the world. Oh, absolutely. In order to master the pussy, you've got to master your own sexual energy. Too many guys, you know, there's a three-step process that I tell the guys all the time. Stop watching porn because porn ain't going to teach you anything about sex because there's nothing central about porn. If you want to learn about how to touch a woman and this is a big secret about the power of the pussy, just go to you, porn man, and just watch women masturbate. Just put in masturbation in the

search engine. And you form the right, right, right, right, it's hot. I tell you guys it's all the time. If you want to know how to be central to the woman, watch the way she masturbates. The way she masturbates is the way she wants a man to touch. Mutual masturbation is, it's huge. I'm telling you. Mutual masturbation is in my book Hot Sex over 200 things you can try to night if you don't own it yet. You can buy it where books are sold like Amazon. But that's mutual masturbation is in my book Hot Sex over 200 things you can try to night if you don't own it yet. You can buy it where books are sold like Amazon. But that's mutual masturbation is what people always ask me like in my book what I love. I think that is my favorite tip because why not mutual masturbate?

Because then if you see with your partner, let me see exactly what he does. Like how does his penis, his balls, like what does he do? Same with the woman, like how does she touch herself, how does she move? That she's one figure too, she and her stomach is she and her back like This is such important information that you guys ensure together and just have a night of mutual masturbation So put that on your checklist. Yes. Let's go for the single people. Okay. They don't have anybody to meet Right, not yet. You okay, right? Okay, I'll have it right away, but you also

Yeah, but in order to first in order to first you we don't it's it's only that pussy, okay? Should we just get in the pussy thing already. We're there. We're getting there Okay, so in order to own that She's okay in order to own it. I tell guys this all the time go and watch master Okay, we watch when masturbating right because why I always say you put a hundred women in a room and they're all gonna Maserate differently. Oh totally some mastermate some mastermate tell how it depends like some mastermate You see some women that will actually fuck their pussy so hard I mean, oh with their fingers. I mean they'll go off on her. Other women will fuck themselves with toys.

Other women will, you know, but it doesn't matter for toy. It's fingers or anything. And you also have to watch with the motions. How do they build it? Is it fast? Is it slow? Whatever it is. Some women will go lick their fingers, touch their pussy, lick their fingers again. They're more the sensual woman. They're the one that, you know, they love like the taste and smell of sex, right? They're more of the erotic type of woman. Okay. So if you're with that sensual woman. They're the one that they love, like the taste and smell of sex, right? They're more the erotic type of woman, okay? So if you're with that type of woman, then you know, you know, and also it's another thing, too, it's like knowing yourself. Do you like the taste and smell of sex?

Do you like being erotic, or are you a pounder? There are women out there that just want to get pounded. They love to get their pussy pounded. That's their favorite thing. Put their legs up behind their hand and pound their pussy. By watching the masterbie, they'll pound themselves they really will they'll take their fingers and you'll watch them just fuck the shit out of themselves with their hand so the thing is you're learning about your lover that way but

not only that if you watch a hundred videos just like you said you'll learn that the pussy can be owned so many different ways so you're prepared for all different types of pussy so then you can come back to me is for for men to watch you porn women masturbate. Absolutely. I think that's great. Never watch porn to learn how to have sucks because that's not the right way to do it at all. Right? porn? Not a good way. No, porn is fake. porn is not real. porn to me is a bunch of people getting paid. First of all, who has a load the size of a yogurt, you know, jar. I mean, it's like, yeah, it's like, you know, hey, look, I'm

old, you know, technically, you know, compared to some people, I don't shoot yogurt anymore. I used to be able to hit the seat, right? But I can't hit the seat. And what about the women? Like, I had a guy who's like going through midlife crisis and he's saying 24 year old women, he's like, they all have sex that they're have in porn like they're in a porn. Do you think that women? Oh my god yeah I was with a young woman one time and I felt like I was like I looked there I said how much porn have you watched you? There's a lot. I said listen. I gave her feedback. I gave her feedback. I said look I said you know I said I'm not big in the whole porn routine okay. Yeah what was the

porn routine exactly? It was just like you know just it wasn't I know, I'm not big in the whole porn routine, okay? Yeah, what was the porn routine exactly? It was just like, you know, just, it wasn't, I know authentic, I know authentic dirty talk, I know dirty talk is my master dirty talk, I got a dirty talk program. You do, you teach, you've had a talk dirty? Oh my God, I got a dirty talk program, where I found this woman of match.com within 15 minutes,

she was, I was on the phone with her getting her to scream, oh David, oh David, I kept like teasing her, and teasing her, and teasing her, 45 minutes, come on. A series, come on. Yeah, I'll listen to some on the phone. They're getting her to scream. Oh, David of David I kept like teasing her and teasing her and teasing her Are you serious come on? Yeah, I'll let's listen to something. I want to hear it. I want to hear it Okay, people are always asked me we've done a lot of shows in 30 talk, but if they could learn from you Yeah, they're talking I mean they heard me say it a bunch See here's what I didn't like about her dirty talk. Okay her dirty talk was it was like porn talk She would like spread her lips and go oh

Come on daddy fuck my pussy, and I look there. I go, are you fucking kidding me? My boner went like this. It was like it's starting going half-mass like somebody died. Okay. No, I feel bad for her. And I did it. So she just said, and I asked her, I told her after some honest, I said, that shit doesn't turn me on. I said, it does not turn me on. She goes, why? It's because it's not authentic and right it's not real It's not who you are you ever sleep with her again. Yeah, several other couple more time Of course, why not no, I mean the sex was good Right, it was good right it was good. It was good. It's a shy mouth. She's a bit tape or a mouth Oh, shut the fuck up right like shut up. Just some of them anything talk too much during sex. It depends

I mean I like dirty talk I mean, but like dirty talk. I mean, but then I can fuck for hours and hours and hours and you know, if I'm not talk to, I can get you know, I can just depend. So I mean, you know, I gotta, to me, it's like sex to me is always been a religious act. I believe, you know, I'm not a religious person,

but if you ask me what my religion is, it is. It's like, you know, some people pray to God, I pray to sex. Sex to me is fucking off the charts. It's been off the charts since I was 17 since, since I We said good sex even when you're 17. I had amazing sex of 17. I mean I had like 40. How does that possible? I was 17 years ago. I was a dirty kid. I mean my mom's friends came on to me when I was 16 and 17. They used to press their breasts

up against me when I used to get done. That's out of the fridge. I mean I was that guy that mothers came on to right and it was a lot of fun and I really enjoyed it and I learned a lot because I would sit around, I wouldn't fuck them, I would sit a fuck them because I didn't know that they were really swapping in the room. But I sat around and found out what four plays was all about. I've always been the women told you a four-way what they tell you is about. Take your time. Honor the pussy. My mom's friend, remember my mom's mom's friend, I was 16 years old. She looked at me and she says, Honor the pussy. And I looked and I looked like I said what do you mean? She goes honor the pussy So I said you know, what does that mean she was make the pussy come as much as you possibly can when the pussy

Thanks the pussy has come come has already come too much tell the pussy and tell the woman that you can do it again I learned this shit. I love you serious. They were telling you the 16 year mom was there. Oh my god I think that's big sense it way. What are you doing? your mom was there? Oh my god, the mom got a big sense of what you're doing. What do you do? I loved it. I loved it. It's all part of the power of pussy. It's all part of power of pussy because I truly believe there's not a pussy out there

that I cannot bring to pussy pleasure though. But there's some pussy that might not want you to. Right. And I don't want to, but those pussies I don't want to be with. Right. I don't want to give because I'm the guy that wanted to do it. Absolutely. If I'm going to swap finally fluids with somebody, I want want to be with. Right. I don't want to give because I'm the gift. Yeah, keep places I want to be with you. Absolutely. If I'm going to swap out of the fluids

and somebody I want it to be an equal attraction, I want her to feel as jazzed about me as I am about them. Absolutely. I want her to want to suck my dick as much as I want to go down on her. I want her to fucking have the power to understand and put on the book.

What about guys who don't like to perform or all sucks on women? They're fools. Why? Because it's the greatest power trip in the entire world. But how do you teach that to a man who does not like the vagina or going down? A man doesn't like the vagina, he might as well pack it in right now because I pity the woman that sleeps with him because he's boring.

I'll accept it for the few of them by mistake once. Are they awful? Yeah, it's not good. I've talked about that. On the show before, and they are awful because they for me however they might be perfect for a woman who doesn't like oral sex. So I'm not saying these guys are bad they all like you know fine nice guys but not for me because they didn't enjoy it.

Right because you like your pussy. So if you like your pussy if you like a second tell if you like your pussy just by the way you speak the way you move, it's just your physical. You know, you could see the. I'm not going to confirm it now, though I have talked about it on the show we've already. Okay, it doesn't even matter to my shot.

I'm a neighbor, so you never know. I could be knocking on our door at one o'clock in the morning. We are neighbors. Can I borrow something? So make it official? Yeah, you're absolutely can. What do you want? I don't know, like a pillow or something.

You can take the pillow. But I know, I just go back to this, because the people want to know this. Okay, so a pussy eater should, and this this is you know, and I believe this okay This is all about knowing and being able to talk about things like this It's like you should be able to talk about something pussy. I don't know that pussy I love eating the pussy and I'm gonna eat the pussy until the pussy responds to the way another pussy can respond to Mindset right I truly believe that there's not a pussy out there that I can't conquer that doesn't want to be conquered

No matter what a woman's hanging up is and this is all mindset this is what sex is all about this what the power of pussy is about. A woman how many times guys is a woman told you I just have trouble orgasming. You look at her and you go you know you say to yourself, God I hope I can get her to come. No the power of the pussy guy will look here and go no problem I said done taking care of I said we'll take care of that problem I said I'll figure it out next what else do I want to talk about because it's so easy to own the pussy there's so many cyclops. How is that easy He said, done taking care of. I said, we'll take care of that problem. I said, I'll figure it out. Next, what else do I want to talk about? Because it's so easy to own the pussy.

There's so many cyclists. How is that easy? Another so many guys who have failed, failed, failed. Because they don't know how to over stimulate, over stimulate, over stimulate, and get her mind off of it. Because I know, because on a woman, when you have eaten a lot of pussy, okay, and you've worked on this stuff,

and you've worked on yourself, I know that when a woman's on the brink of an orgasm, okay, and she's about to have it, and she loses it. The first thing she thinks in her mind is, oh shit, I lost it, I hope it will come back. But the first thing that a guy needs to do in his mind is say, hey shit, she just lost it, I'm going to make her forget about it. Go right to the nipple right away and start rubbing her nipples, whether she likes it hard, soft, whatever it might be.

Take your hands, use her pussy to just rub her nipples and get her mind off of what just happened. Because even though you're licking her and changing directions with your son she's gonna be thinking like too much time passing and they lost it and they'll come back right but a man goes right for your nipples all of a sudden you got new stimulation to think about distraction you've got it so then all of a sudden after he does the nipples okay you've got the stimulation the orgasms starting to come back again right now when the orgasms about to come right back don't let her is about to come right back

Don't let her because she's about to she's gonna lose it again because this is how she's trained herself This is why so many will do it man and women It's okay because they're in their head in their head. This is how she trained herself She's trained herself through these words. So now go back into overstimulation mode now take your finger and start massaging her G-spot and now take one hand and fucking keep it on her nipples Yeah, you gotta be in deep. Can I take it guys do not touch the breasts enough. I know they don't because it's that this total myth that men love the breasts and they're all about the breast and they don't, but they don't like once twice.

They're like over it after a while. They saw them and they're not men need to continue to touch the breast beyond the first three times that you see with someone. Men need to continue to do everything all the time. Why do they all stop? Because they don't because they all stop? David. David Wagen, we're talking in David Wagen. They don't know. Right, dot com.

He's so much more than that, but he is David Wagen. W-Y-G-A-N-T. Dot com. Go ahead, what? Men are intimidated by it because they get in their heads. Once a woman gets in her head, a strong man looks at a woman and goes, I know it. I know when my lover is in her head. I know exactly what I got to do to get her out of her head.

It's not talking about it. It's like, it's, it's, it's a mindset thing. If I go into it, I want to. A lot of work you're talking about. There's a lot of guy who just wanted a woman who's going to be there for him and love sex, and they'll like, you know, watch TV and go to bed. Like, you're talking a lot of work. It's not. It's fun fun, exploration, bodily exploration. I mean, I always say that, like, if I ever am with a man for more than a few months, no, I mean more, I have three months' relationships to know that I always say a guy who has done his work.

And by that, I mean, a lot of the stuff that you're talking about today is a man who knows himself and when he knows himself is a man with his confidence because therefore he knows who he is. And so he will don't do it, do it but it takes work like you don't just wake up and note people go The whole life people die without knowing themselves So this is why this work is so important. It's so important if you don't do this You never gonna get the pussy You're never ever at the end of the day

That's what's all about bottom line. You're never gonna get the blowjob either. That's great Okay, we took a blowjob for once again. Yeah, can I tell you can I tell you? And you know this okay? You know this very very well the man that you want to suck taste and drink and fucking give the best head To is the man that basically does the same thing for you the man that honors your pussy Okay, a man that's powerful and confident always gets a blowjob always gets the blowjob You know me guys I know that's a my girl never goes down on me and I'll look at them and say you know why your girl doesn't good down on you because you are not dominant and confident in her mind because the

woman wants to bring a confident man to his knees. That's why rock stars and presidents and it's like Clinton almost got impeached. The reason why Clinton almost got impeached is because those motherfucking Republicans okay were so pissed off because Lewinsky wasn't hot. Lewinsky looked like Scarlet Show Hanson president Clinton would have never been going through the impeachment process because it's such a man's club. A powerful man is brought to the... What are you talking about?

If she was a monocle Lewinsky, what's the problem? She was a man's club. That's my whole theory on government, okay? So it's a man's club, okay? The most recentest. The most recentest. No, both the most, no, the most,

you think about this. Kennedy was fucking Marilyn Monroe You're in the most powerful office in the world. You should be able to get the best pussy Clinton look at his look look at Hillary Hillary Looks like a man, okay bill has never had good taste in women ever Man's Club right, she's brilliant, but you were I would never want a fuck killer. Okay, if I was in a desert island I would be I would screw a hole in coke and that's before I fuck kill Oh my god, okay fine. That's you know changes on right Maybe Chelsea You have sex with Chelsea. No, I think she got married. Yeah, I wouldn't have sex with Chelsea No, okay, that's fine. Everyone knows what they like so, um, you know

That's a big soror around right but still like but still going back to it you as a woman will only suck a man's day Could you find powerful? If a man is not powerful, you will not have a trigger point, you will not want to bring him to his knees, you will not want to please him. If he's confident, powerful, he's his own right, but I know who he is. Yes, absolutely. Can we talk about Earl Sasser's second? Do you know about mask, your mask strips? No.

Here's my question. I just have to talk to you about this real quick. Okay. Have you been with a woman who does not like performing oral sex in you? Not on you or anyone. Like she just doesn't like it. Or you've talked in your coaching practice. Perhaps the woman who's like, I'm that confident. I don't like oral sex.

Because why? What are the reason things? They don't know they're doing it. They don't know they're doing it. It's mostly intimacy issues. Right. You know, they don't like it. They don't enjoy it.

It's people who are afraid of intimacy. Well, there's a lot of women who don't like the taste of semen. They just don't like the taste of the issues. Right. You know, they don't like it. They don't enjoy it. It's people who are afraid of it. Well, there's a lot of women who don't like the taste of semen. They just don't like the taste of it. So, what they can do is there is something called mask, M-A-S-Q-U-E, mask strips, and women can put them on their tongue and mask the taste of semen. If it's just like that kind of thing, I personally like the taste of semen. What I'm saying is, is women we do not. And therefore, the next time she forms oral sex and a man, it'll taste like a

chocolate milkshake. I'm just telling you that back to you. And a man can eat his pineapple too. What and now make a semen taste better. That true. How long does he have to find out what I go, like, a way out of laugh is shitty diet. I mean, you know, a lot of the time that's true. We talked about like health and sex and how important that is like a man who is healthy is more confident and is more hot and is more attractive and feels better about himself. Like you need to work out for every area of your life. However, being healthy

and sex are so related. Well, not only that, I tell them in this all the time, look at the way you look naked and don't demand anything that looks worse than you. Right, but some men are delusional. I're delusional. But you know, it's the fact I kick their ass when they're delusional. Because here you are. What do you say? I just, you know, I look at a guy, okay, that's, you know, 53 years old and, you know, bald and looks like George Costanza. And you know, look at me and he'll, you know, criticize some woman and say, she's not young enough for him or not this for him. I'll look and I go, yeah, you were frustrated. I say in your 20s you married

somebody because you were so bad at being single. Single, you married the first woman you possibly confined. Then you had kids, you allowed her to rule the roof all that time, right? Because you were too afraid to get divorced and you balls were chopped up. Now you think you deserve something wonderful because you got a little cash in your pocket, you drive the great car. But in reality, you ain't deserving of anything because you are exactly what you're going to get. You're a mirror in that. So when a guy demands a hot woman and he's an out, he's out of shape, I fucking turns me off more than anything in the

whole wide world. He tell me, you're like, you're not you're dating either league. Oh yeah, it's all the time. I said, you don't deserve it. So work on yourself. Your body doesn't have to be perfect. People like, I think this is a really good point too, for we both are just getting out of a relationship as well, and they want to get into a new relationship. So you can feel this, you just need to at some point in your life, like I hope people, young guys, my younger listeners

are listening to this and getting inspired because you can do the work at any time in your life. But a lot of people just started it again, they might be thinking, I don't know how to do it, I don't want to get out there, and I think this is all important. My mind's drifted though. What? How you like the taste of semen. It's pretty hot. Oh my god. Yeah, my mind's I'm just saying it's like I thought

But if I didn't if I was with a guy and I didn't like a semen I probably wouldn't I would use these mask steps. I'm just saying Are you a 69er? No 69 is okay, but I find 69 a little bit distracting because I'm kind of a perfectionist, so I want to be doing one or the other either, I want to be totally, like, receiving or giving. It's hard to do both at the same time. When you have ADDs, you're a common full circle. Here's you want to try a good 69?

The best 69 is when you have a battle of the minds, okay? One person's going to win. It's really hard to come together on both your 69 because you're both concentrating for perfectionists. Okay, if you're pleased, there's also. So here's what you do when you have a 69. You look at your partner and say, you know, let's have a 69 battle tonight. It's gonna be a lot of fun. This is how we're gonna set it up. We're gonna go down on each other. Okay, we're gonna see who's gonna win out. Let's see who stops first. Okay, meaning the one who stops first is the one that's closer to having orgasm, all right? They can't concentrate anymore because it feels good. Which means you've got to bring out your A game. Bring your A game out for your lover that night. So when you're going down on her, you want her to stop right away. You might

suck your dick for a minute or two minutes. You want to get her to stop it because you want to basically win that battle. It's a fucking battle. You get two strong sexual beings together and you play that. It's a whole different version than 69 Because 69 and once again is outcome drive. Let's go into a 69 position tonight after we went bowling and let's get each other off More like let's go into 69. Let's see who wins Let's see who can drive the other one so crazy that the fucking dick just slides right out of a woman's mouth or you know You just can't eat the pussy anymore the tongue just goes in like little spurts and that's about it 69 battle is fun Okay, maybe I could maybe I could look at it again that way, but particularly it's not my favorite thing. Okay, but that's

Now it could be a 69 battle. I like it see fun in the bedroom That's what we're talking about. That's what we're teaching and the power of the pussy owning a pussy owning the question We already talked about all that. How about your sexual code? That's not what we've touched on before. But it's the pussy code. You want to talk about the sexual code? Every woman has a sexual code. And if you know how to crack a woman's sexual code,

you know how a lot of guys they spend so much time, and this is what every sex program in the market is all about. It's sexual positions. That's what every single sex program in the market is all about. It's sexual positions. That's every single sex program on the market is all about. I have a sex program that's about four or five hours of sexual mindset before you go into the positions because in order to crack the code you got to know the mindset. What do you mean? What's the mindset? It's learning. First off, okay, there's a few lose you need to know. I can't believe I'm exposing these moves. You're my neighbor. Okay, she's definitely not on my door one night. I'm telling you guys.

Everyone's having a big day. I don't know anybody. You're like my first friend. I'm gonna be your first booty call. No. Yeah. I'm determined for that. Okay. But anyway. Okay. So it's like you got to know. First off, okay. The first thing you want to do. Okay. Cracking her sexual code is protector. She wants to feel protected. That's the first thing. So first We're gonna crack her sexual code is with of course eye contact eye contact with a strong man means that she feels safe Right the next thing you're gonna make sure is that when you touch her your hand is strong on her back You lead her through a door you lead her through the back You know you touch the back of her back right there You lead her through the door if you walk across the street you grab her hand hold it tight and pull her across the street First eight could be for oh, yeah, absolutely, absolutely. Don't be afraid of contact. I agree. Don't be afraid of contact. People think there's a certain, like, you know,

protocol to that. And there might be some people who are not touchy-feely. I know, but not touchy-feely. Some people could think there could be a premature touching on the first date, if a man put his hand on my shoulder really hard. I agree, but you know what look at a woman like that a woman flinched on the first date when I touch her just nicely on the shoulder like that she's not for me she's not touchy feeling I touchy feeling person's gonna be like if we had a good conversation or eye contact was good touchy feeling person's gonna be like this feels good right right okay good so you're gonna be more about the compatibility figuring out right away. Why go in 10 dates figure out right away Like she's actually feeling okay, so that's that's the first thing

Okay, the second thing is that she has to feel protected is she feels protected. She's gonna give you She's gonna want to give you that pussy, okay? So when you're out on a first date with her, okay, let's say you do go back to your house with her She wants to feel she wants to feel safe in your house most guys act like a fucking dog in heat They just want to start pumping right away. I got on the couch. I want to start pumping her What I want to do is I want to make her feel protected So when you're on a couch you're sitting across from her. Just look talk to one another and don't do a guide How long?

hours Until the conversation gets dull and it should never get dull because you're two new people exchanging ideas So if the conversation is great, you just don't just bring her back to your house no matter how drunk you are and try to have sex with her, it's our thumping her. No, listen to her. I've just been forced to that. Very good, very good. Listen. If you listen, and you listen, and you don't have a role, you listen, and you look, it's the eye contact. And then not only that, you know this as a woman. If I don't make a move on you for six hours, okay, you feel safe. You know that I'm interested in you as a person. I'm actually listening to you.

Yeah, but when you get out, I wonder if you're going to get your knife from your kitchen block or something. No, I don't think you'd think that, do you? I don't know. I'd be like, why isn't this guy tired of kissing me yet? Because it's a good move. Because most dudes, if I'm in their apartment for six hours, they would think I would think that they would. Try to make a move. It's a pretty hot one. They don't make a move. most dudes if I'm in their apartment for six hours they would think I would think that they would try to make a move. It's pretty hot one they don't make a move. It is it feels good. I feel I appreciate it. It's good, it's like he likes me as a person either that or he's not attractive to

me anymore. I thought he was and I'm overstaying my welcome. Right. Which women do? You know, look at the clock and that's it. No, but I would assume that he's being like he likes me. And then if you ask me out again, or whatever, wants to continue, I would... Or if he asks you to stay, because it's late, and he asks you to stay, and that's another good test, too. That's the best... Right. That's the best thing in the world. That's crack in the pussy code.

Most guys will do this. Most guys will always offer a one more of the wink. Okay, I got a pair of pajamas for you. Wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, right? And what they'll do is they'll put the pajamas on you and their hands will slowly start slipping into places they don't really belong quite yet. Because what happens is they got you in bed, owning the pussy and cracking the pussy code

and learning her sexual code is to grab her into bed and not do a goddamn thing, but just hold each other and just fucking hang out and see whether or not you even have chemistry. Because if your body's meld into each other and you want a hug one another and feel each other then you've got chemistry. And you don't need to have sex on the first hand? No, you don't even need to kiss.

It doesn't matter because if you're next to one another, what happens if you're a very physical person, okay, and he snuggles you, this come on, we'll go to battle to snuggle for you for a few minutes. And literally it is just a few minutes, that's always giving you as a few minutes, right? Right. So you've learned, okay, no, I'm a snuggler. I want somebody to snuggle me. This guy only gave me a little bit of a...

Yeah, but we're talking on first date, second date. It doesn't have to be like first date or suddenly. You're just saying like first time that you get together with someone. It's better to go. Like people have sex too quickly, don't you think? Way too fast. I think you have to know the person. You have to like, because then women especially get a prematurely attached to sex.

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Men can do them too. And my iPhone app, you can get me an iTunes store. It is my voice walking you through it, which some people like. Enjoy my, it's very mellow and can be sexy. And I say, tense, relax. And I walk you through five minutes of exercises. That's all you have to do once a day. And you will be able to

Have more power of your penis How much power more power or time or power power the pussy and talk about the penis and you can't go to that So tell me tell me how can my penis be more powerful? Um, if your penis was able to stay harder longer, it can help men with that issue. It can help men to It can help men have stronger orgasms. Really? If you train those muscles with women, it helps women who have urinary incontinence, after childbirth, helps them tighten up, you know, so they don't have that issue, it helps women have stronger orgasms.

These are very important muscles, doctors tell people to do them all the time. Palms is no more remembers to do them. That's why you buy my app because it pops up and says time for Kekkelkamp every day at 11.32, I do five minutes of Kekkel exercises. Will you Kegel text me? I'm not an app person. So every day will you give me 11.30 text? No, if I can't promise that.

No, of course, please. We'll try. I can't promise that. How about if I text you and remind you like 15 minutes before? No, I'll forget. No, you won't. I have a very short attention span. Just down the map. I don't promise that if I text you remind you like 15 minutes before no, I'll forget No, I have a very short attention spans just down the map. Okay, what I'm sorry what I'm okay, so So penis code pussy code, but I'm male grooming tips Yeah, forget my male grooming tips. Why I think it's important what you guys do right now. They always want to know What should they do that they should you know you like a clean pussy clear deck. God you know they don't want to go down to a

certain time. I know they're like oh I don't want to say that for but I'm not going to take a shower before the state loser. Oh they have this afro they have this gigantic first off okay I've been trimming for some time before before time because they always get me an extra inch. Yeah that's what he'll say. It does I'm telling you it makes look longer, it makes it look better. Not only that, okay, it's more defined, okay? I just feel like it's more defined. Secondly, hair is disgusting. I mean, it's like the last thing you wanted to do

when she's giving you head is to go, you know, like this. You don't want to do that. You don't want that hair caught in your throat. Not only that, it's like lose the ear hairs. It's like there's nothing. I don't know if they have ear hairs. I want to send out like a universal memo all guys okay take your fingers right now okay this is the best trick in the

entire world for your ears okay take your fingers go up and down over your ears if you can hear anything go crunchy crunch you got ear hairs take tweezers and pluck them once you start plucking them you'll hear a nice little sound okay little popping them okay guys I think this is important this is a very important message David don't put up who my male grooming question. What's your name? Emily, you know as a woman, how important it is for a guy to be open, giving, generous,

as a lover. Absolutely, it's the most important thing. Okay, how many men are in this is something, you know, if you don't want to get personal with me right now, okay, I'm gonna totally understand, but let's just do a percentage, okay? Out of the menu stuff within your life, how many of them just did not really know how to hit your buttons?

And your buttons are very simple, but how, how about percentage of men didn't know how to hit your buttons? You mean sexually or all over? Let's do sexually, emotionally, everything. I say, I'd say when I was younger and perhaps in my 20s, the majority didn't because I didn't know my body well enough to be able to express that to a man what I wanted. But still, even when I have expressed it to men,

they still don't get it. OK. Most men don't. Many, a lot of them don't. Some do, but some have not, even though I've explicitly explained things to them about what I need doesn't quite deal with them. Okay, because the reason why is because men hate being told what to do, especially from

a beautiful woman, because they have a fantasy about you and who you are and what you're all about. They don't want you to tell them what to do. You know what they want? They want to come to you with that knowledge first. And that's the problem is that most men don't understand the mindset behind sex. They don't understand that it's just a mindset. And we talked a lot about this owning the pussy, you know?

So if you and I were dating, I know instantly, okay? If I made that decision to date you, okay? You made that decision, definitely. I don't know if you want to do that. Okay, but yeah, if you made that decision to date me, or I made that decision to date you, I know instantly I'm going in there knowing that if we proceed to sex, I'm going to know

everything I need to do to turn you on because I've spent years understanding this. I spent years researching it. I spent years working on my skills. I spent years working on techniques. I spent years on mindset. So, and that I think is what's missing a lot because when a woman tells a man exactly what she wants, the man starts feeling insecure sexually, so then he doesn't give you what you want. So let's help these guys out

there, because I know the majority of guys out there aren't good in bed, okay? I mean they're not. So let's help them, okay? Okay, let's help them. All right, you know my sexual mastery program? Yeah, okay. Great. So you know I charge an over-hunger, almost $100 of that program. Let's set up a special offer just for your guys, okay? Okay. All right, because I want to help every single guy out there become the most dynamic, passionate, incredible lover they can, okay?

So how are we gonna do this? There's a special page, David Wigant spelled W-Y-G-A-N-T. David Wigant, W-Y-G-A-N-T. Davidwigant.com forward slash Emily. You go there and you're going to have a 50% offer. 50% offer, so men are actually learn what to do in bed. They're going to have the mindset behind it because as you know being a coach for all

these years, you know, I've been coaching for 15 years, life is all about mindset. It's all about them being more powerful. They got to believe in their sexual skills. Then I go through of course technique in any way that you can get a woman to confess all sexual secrets because right now if we were on a date I don't want to know your sexual code. So I'm going to give you questions guys that you can ask women to unlock their sexual code. Are they going to want to answer on the first date? Absolutely and I'm not going to share with you with them. Oh my god I want to know. You're not going to share?

No, no, no, no, no, no. Okay, so I'm going to go to share with you with you. Oh my God, I want to know. You're not going to share? No, I can't. Oh, okay. So I'm going to go check out DavidWayan.com slash on me. That's very kind of you. Thank you. My listeners need it. I think you can be your right. Most men could use some kind of program like yours to learn more about how to better sex women.

And it is a sexual code. Maybe we'll have a coffee one time and I'll, you know. You can ask me those questions. I love it. Okay, everyone. Thanks so much for listening to Sex with Emily. Thank you, David, for joining. It's been great.

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