Sex With Emily - SWE: Manscaping

Episode Date: November 22, 2013

Manscaping is perhaps the most underrated beauty ritual. No Shave November is coming to a close, gentleman. While women are told over and over again to have hairless bodies, most men traipse around like hairy beasts.A man might say his hair makes him masculine and rugged. Don’t get me wrong, I want to pet Jon Hamm’s chest hair all night, but a lot of women aren’t into hairy balls.I’m not saying you should shave yourself bare or shave an arrow leading to your penis (please don’t), but I recommend spending time taming the mane and manscaping.In the show I interview Anthony Sosnick,Founder and CEO of Anthony Brands, on the best manscaping techniques, from trimming to shaving. Also, what horrible thoughts do men think of to prevent premature ejaculation? Also, will letting a woman paint your toenails help you get lucky? Use coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emily & Tony. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I Look into his eyes Then the eyes of a man obsessed by sex Eyes that mark our sacred institutions Betrubized they call them in a fight on me. Hey, Emily You got a boyfriend because my man E here. He just got his heart broken. He thinks you're kind of cute The girls got a hair stand. Oh my the The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common only? What do you mean like laundry?

It shrinks? Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me? Oh my god. I'm so grown up. Being bad feels pretty good. You know Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. Alright, hello. You're listening to Sex with Emily.

We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between. This is an interesting new show we are at T-Radio V in Los Angeles, which is really exciting because we used to do shows at T-Radio V in San Francisco. And now that I'm in Los Angeles, what is it? Los Angeles, Lino. Los Angeles, Lino, whatever. I'm so excited. I didn't get the memo. Okay. I'm excited because this is also? Los Angeles, you know? Los Angeles, you know what I'm saying. I think that's the one. I'm excited because this is also going to be, you can watch this show.

So if you're listening to it as a podcast, you can also watch this show on my website, sexwithemm.com or tradiov.com. Correct. And if you want to call in, you can. It's 855-878-4652. And my Twitter is sex with Emily at Sex with Emily. So it's my Instagram and my Facebook page. So we're gonna be giving ways of things today that you might want

and you might have to tweet me just about what you want because you're gonna want everything that we talk about today. This is gonna be a great show. It's summertime, okay? Yes it is. And so it's summertime and it's really hot out. And so one of the most important things in summer times that people are the wearing bathing suits,

they're out, they're wearing skimpy or clothes, I wear a t-top sometimes. Yeah, I wear a t-top. Just down on Santa Monica. Once in a while. Yeah, do you? I think that looks good on you. It doesn't, and I don't shave my back. So, you know, it's kind of a gorilla look for me. Do you really have a, I once had a friend you called it a back pussy, which I know is sort of inappropriate. Oh, it's not here. You can see what everyone, a back pussy. Yeah, he said I have a back pussy. I got to get rid of it.

Wow. Yeah. Was there a clip on there too? You know what? I didn't ask. I didn't want to go close to him after that. Yeah, no, you can imagine. But it was a back pussy.

And so, yeah, but we're going to be talking about that man escaping today. Wonderful. And we're escaping. What are the, you know, what do men want? Do they want a landing strip? Do they want no hair down there? Right.

You know, I heard a crazy story the other day from a guy who was talking about like the hair was so long that he had a like dig and dig. Yeah, it was like it was like going all over like a garden weasel or a weed wacker. Yeah, he'd be a little bit more sure to get in there. It was a total turnoff for him, which you can think some men would feel that way. But we're also going to talk about, you know, men shaving, which has been, you know, men, how they should shave their, their, their, their, their never regions for the most effective shave and the most effective way to take care of themselves. They look good and they feel good.

Love it. And so this is what you're hearing here on the show today. We have got Elvis. Hello, everybody. Elvis, do you just go by Elvis, right? I go, it's Elvis Medina, you know, Hey, you shithead, whatever works. But I'm program director here at T. Radio V.

Can I first of all say welcome friggin back? Thank you. We have totally missed you around here and your vibe and your information and you're an amazing broadcaster and we feel very fortunate to be back with you. I'm so glad to be here. Can I put you on this spot?

Is it just gonna be one show or are you gonna do a bunch of shows for it? I'd like to do more shows here. I would. And now that I live very close, you get no choice. I'm gonna hang out here all the time. I might move in.

Okay, that's fine. That's cool. I'm on it. Let's get her a cot in the back. We'll put a cot back there. I don't need a lot of space. No, a small, a small person. Exactly. So it's good to be here. And also we have Tony Soznek. He is the owner, creator, founder of the most amazing skincare line for men. Probably the only one that you ever need to know about with his, which is Anthony logistics for men. Yeah. Men. And you can find Anthony.com. Exactly. Correct. Correct.

You got Anthony.com, that's pretty cool. I know. I got it 15 years ago. Okay, good. I got really lucky. I've got an email from 93 on AOL still I use. Yeah, but that's just me. I divert. So yeah, I got to be honest. Anthony logistics, I didn't know when she was introducing you as Tony.

I thought, oh, he's got some products great. Come on in, do the show. Anthony logistics is one of the best products, if not the best line for men, bar none. Swear to God, I've been using it for years. I've got a oil-free facial moisturizer that's a Tanner. I've had shaving balm, I've had great product, bro. Great product.

I still use it today. Today to this day. Oh, yeah, I do. And I love the oil-free stuff, and that's big for me, because I do break out. And, you know, so I love your product. I love it. That to this day. Oh yeah, I do. And I love the oil free stuff. And that's big for me because I do breakout and you know, so I love your product. I love it. So cute. I love that because I love Tony. So Tony and I are childhood friends. We're going to get into our story later because we actually have a special announcement to make. Cool. But Tony and I grew up Anthony Tony, what we'll call him Tony for the sake of the show. We grew up together. We actually lived in the same

house growing up, not together at the same time, but my family bought his family's house and we've summer camped together. And then later I'm going to finish that story with the big announcement. And we are not getting married or anything. Oh, okay. You're not pregnant or anything like that. No, I'm not pregnant. But there's kind of an intimate story though. There's an intimate story.

Let's just say that. And there's a really exciting intimate announcement we're going to make. So that means that you have to pay attention to the entire show. That's right. I also want to ask, I love having two men here because before we get into all the stuff about like, man, because a lot of guys email me, they're like, well, how should I shave, what do women want, women shave, they're like, should I get the land,

so we're going to get into all that in a second. And we're also going to be reading the emails that you sent to feedback at sexwithm.ly.com. But first, I need to talk to you guys about something. So I know this is kind of a personal question, but it is sex with Emily. Right. So you know what you're getting into I did go for it I'm signing anything first. No waiver. Get him a waiver. You got a waiver. All right, so okay

So you knew a lot of men have issues for example with premature ejaculation. I've heard you've heard Okay, and so I know I haven't heard of that before but okay Which is like menu come like in a minute And so I know, or did I? I haven't heard of that before, but okay. Okay, you can forget about that. Which is like, man, you come like in a minute or less. But really it's right. So, pre-matured, so what do you think about? So, and a lot of men I know that they don't,

but they control it because they think about something that they're had like their third grade teacher with who had the mole on our shirt or something. Yeah, oh yeah. So I'm curious what you think about. When, so I don't pre-mature ejaculate, I think about salmon fishing and gutting a fish. you know and out there gutting a fish or I think of my grandmother naked okay and still that kind of gets to me too it

does and that just stops you so you don't get your job or can you really be in the moment sexually um not you're you're there to please the woman at that point you know what I'm saying you're kind of there to make sure that it's not you're not the 30-second wonder and so you're taking your mind somewhere else but I think the second time, you know, if you can go a second time then that's the time to actually, but yeah, I've heard the 30-second, you know, that can happen. You've heard that meant, I'm just curious. I'm going for it. Actually, I'm going to ask everyone at T-ReadyOV out of this. I've got a camera. So, Tony, I mean, I think you don't have that issue what now tell me what you think about I

Mean I think guys have it from time to time if you think about something that is really unappealing to you Uh-huh, and I think if you let the woman do the work for a period of time, right? You don't have to focus in on So hard just think about anything other than in the moment. Okay, right? I got you It's hard because women don't have that. We're like, God, I hope I have an orgasm already. Like I'm like, please, and then we think about it too much, and then we overthink it. But we have different.

So the reason why I'm talking about this is because there's this amazing new product that controls premature ejaculation. It's FDA approved. FDA approved. There's nothing on the market like this. And so one in three men suffer from this from premature ejaculation. So I know it's a bummer, and you hear it all the time,

a lot of young ferment, but even older, when they suffer from it. So, and the only treatments they have now are antipressants, which have really bad side effects, not antipressants, so you're like, you can't ever have an orgasm. So you're just like, I don't care. Or you're getting an erection that's hard

with antipressants as well. So it's kind of a bummer, and then there's some numbing sprays that are not great for you. Right. But promise which I'm going to show you is has zero side effects and works immediately. It's a desensitizing spray that's quickly absorbed.

So you sprayed on your penis. Okay. Right now. Well, he wanted to get to know. I'm fine. That's fine. I won't make you. I don't know. I forgot my tweezers. Alas for like at least, you know, an hour. Really? Yeah. I's been out my tweezers. It's been out my tweezers.

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because I feel like it's the, all the sex doctors that I know that I respect. And there aren't many of us. We're not a doctor now, by the way. Oh, well, congratulations. But thank you. I forgot to mention that. So they all love it.

It's PROMESNT. You want me to be right down for a friend of mine. Exactly. I might give you a bottle. I get to treat you. I don't know. I just wanted everyone to know because that is a number one question I get asked.

I get all your emails at feedback at sectionelme.com. I love hearing from you. And I just thought when I find something new, I want to share with you. That's a great product right there. That's going to be huge. When did that go in the market? It's actually been on the market for about a year.

But they really just kind of got all the FDA approval and all this stuff happening. Cool. I think it's really exciting. So now we've talked about backpussies and premature ejaculation. And when we come back, we are talking about penises again, and we're also going to talk about how to set a romantic mood for a guy. He wants to know how to get laid with his girlfriend and he wants to know how to set a romantic

mood. So we're right back. You're listening to Sex romantic mood for Guy. He wants to know how to get laid with his girlfriend and he wants to know how to set a romantic mood. So we'll be right back. You're listening to Sex with Emily. Oh, man! Let's get you down. I love it. Hi, it's Sex with Emily. If that didn't get you in the mood,

thanks everyone for checking out Sex with Emily. T-Radio V, we're our podcast, and you can watch this show as well on my website, sexwithemily.com or tradiov.com. So today's show, as I mentioned, we are talking about grooming, basically. We have a landscaping expert here. We have Anthony, Saznick from Anthony's Logistics for Men.

He makes the most amazing products and it's really, really so when men, you're down there with a razor and you're doing it and you got the razor burn and the bumps, this does not have to happen. First of all, it's unattractive. We don't want to see it and we're going to tell you how to prevent that. We're also going to talk about grooming for women

because a lot of women have the same kind of issues and we're just going to talk about preferences and what's out there. And we're also going to get into your emails in a second and some tips and lots of fun things. So we've got Mike here who's the founder of T-Radio V. Hi Emily. Hi, great to see you again.

It's so great to see you. I'm glad you're here. I'm glad to be here too. Thanks, we missed you. Oh, I missed you too. I was in the wrong side of town. See down to the side town, so it's all better. I know.

But I wanted to get you, we get into our important segment shortly about man scoping and all that. I hear that you are, I hope you don't mind that I know this already, that you have no hair down there. And it's not because I actually have seen, I've unzipped your pants. I don't think. No, yeah, I don't think we've done that yet. No, we didn't.

Not yet. Yes. Right. Although I did, I think I rattled you on the air one day with one of my little techniques. You gave me great oral sex tips for women. No. And then you keep that a tip again.

I actually saved the link to that show and I send it to women who want to go out with me. Oh my god You're like I know what I'm doing. I said I said I rattled one of the major sex experts in the country with one of my techniques So like what I said check out this link if people go wow, can you really do that? Yeah, I can do that I don't think I was rattled No, you rattled. Okay, give it to me again. Go back and go back and watch the tape. You were rattled because I'm obsessed with oral sex because I believe that it is amazing when you do it right for men and for women. And so I asked Mike to come into the studio one day and give his best tips for going down in a woman. So please tell me, rattle me

again, please. I don't remember. I want you to explain in the gut. When you take the certain part of a woman between your teeth and hold it between your teeth and you suck it in between your teeth and you flick it with your tongue at the same time. Okay. I'm not rattle, but I think a lot of women would enjoy it. You were rattle when I told it to you.

Because you squirmed in your seat. I just thought it sounded good. You totally squirmed and then menace came in and then you couldn't stop talking about it. We were telling menace about it. Yeah, because menace is not like the vagina. So I always have to. So that's to be menace. So that's to be menace.

That's the secret, right? It was the secret. Tony, do you have a secret? We'll talk about that off here. I knew it. Tony's not going to go down that road. Oh, I mean, I would, but just not. Men are always asking for tips for that.

And I just think you got to pay attention to what the woman wants. You got to ask her, but also just mix it up. Don't go right for the clitoris. Like, your move that you're talking about, Mike, is not when you don't go right and put it in a tip. No, you don't. You need to warm them up, like rub their thighs.

Every woman is a little bit different. It's a secret code. You got to learn the code. Right. And a lot of men don't. And a lot of men don't like the vagina either. And you you know it and I think if you ask your partner what they want and what they like Why you're doing it? That's a big big thing. It's not too that is big because everyone is different. You're right Yeah, so different and I feel bad for men because performing oral sex and a guy

Yes, every man is different, but it's pretty much a variation of the theme is pretty much the same I don't feel bad for men hands and mouth. No, I wish I had a penis too. I got it. I would spray promise on my hands. If more men were good at it, it would make my life more difficult. But then you would probably leave home and you wouldn't be able to do the whole thing. Exactly. I want men to be less good at it.

I understand where you're coming from. You're trying to educate people, but I want to be good at it. I want to be the only one in the world good at it. Right. What's your click through right? When you when you send that out as an email. No, I know I have sent it I have sent it to women that I date and I I send it to him kind of as a joke I send them the link to the video setting up the evening. Yeah, exactly. Is that like your match.com profile? No, go ahead. You like click here for this video and he's like I'm gonna take your clip now

Like it between my teeth. Is that what you're gonna? I haven't done that in a long time but Elvis does it all the time. He does like 10 dates a week really? Yeah, he's crazy. He's a match whore. Is he I love him nuts. I'm gonna start dating online too I am I have to for not I can't get into it now But it's for one of my it's gonna be part of my show and I'm gonna put your picture up You know we've talked about doing a show about online dating here. I know I'm doing it. I have to do it for one of my sponsors

that I am excited about. And I said I would date online. We'll talk about it. I think it'd be good for me. I'm new to town. I'm single, ready to mingle. Are you really? Yes.

Come on. I swear to God. I swear to God. Because I hit on you all the time. You're like, no. Well, that doesn't mean that I'm not single. She had a boyfriend at that time. I had a boyfriend at that time.

I was dating someone. I am assuming that if I hit on a girl they should respond favorably and you're right I shouldn't. You texted me once and it was very like nothing. I was like hey get to see you. You're Emily Moore. I mean you just can't walk I can't roll up on you and go hey let's let's throw down I can't do that because you're Emily Moore. You wouldn't send me a picture of you with the Clinton or mouth flicking it. I don't do that. I think that would have done the trick though. Maybe. It's actually done like no.

People assume things about me and I'm really just a kitty cat. I don't really, you know, I just talk. I'm all talk, man scaping. Okay, so let's get into that real quick and then we'll get into the emails. We're going to go back and forth, but since you're here and you have a really busy job, I think we should get into it. So let's first talk about man scaping. Okay, so what is man scaping?

Tony, you're in a man scaping expert. How would you define that? It's kind of a new termscaping. Okay, so what is man-scaping, Tony, you're in a man-scaping expert. How would you define that? It's kind of a new term in the last 10 years, right? Yeah, I mean, it's really just taking care of yourself and looking your best, grooming yourself to perfection is really what it comes down to. Okay. And you can do that with all kinds of products and just the way that you live your lifestyle.

But it's really easy to do and it's very simple. Okay, and so men, so typically women, like, oh, we're always shaving. We always like shaved a young age and we wax. But for men, I feel like in the last 10 years, maybe 15, they've been, there's been like the whole man's giving thing. So men are trimming, like that's kind of the basic, right? They just trim their pubic hair.

But then a lot of men take it another step further. So should we start with the balls? What would you like to start with? The balls. He's from Anthony logistics from you go to Anthony.com, check out all of his products because they're amazing. All of them, they're like made for this.

So where do you want to start, honey? Well, we've been in the business for about 15 years, teaching guys how to go in properly. And the first thing that you always want to do is clean the area that you shave, that you wax, always really prep it first. So you can use anything from a cleanser, a scrub. We have all different kinds of products here,

but anything that really preps the skin for shaving is what you wanna do first. And then depending on what your preferences are or who your partner is and what they like, you take it to that level of landscaping. It's really just taking care of yourself. It's basically what it is. It's just another trouble.

Why do men have to do it? Why weren't they doing it before? Is it because of porn? No, well, first of all, the products really weren't available to do these kinds of things. And the awareness wasn't really out there. A lot of what you're seeing today that men are using and doing was taboo even 10, 12, 15 years ago. So you'd be made fun of if you did it. Yeah. Maybe they've got what you do before? You'd be stereotyp, even things like getting a manicure or a pedicure. Guys wouldn't do 10 years ago, but the taboo of taking good care of yourself using products,

looking good is really not so scary anymore for most men. I think it's awesome. I've been doing it for like 20 years. Over 20 years. You were a pioneer too, that's absolutely. I love doing it. So what do you do? Actually, I like having other women do it for me. Oh, that's one of your things. Yeah, I want to come over on man's

Gaby, baby. Exactly right. Right. That's a good offer. And then they take you up on that. Yeah, I hope they like you because they don't think it is Well, it is there is a risk associated with it. Yeah, I'd be careful. Give a woman a razor and then you piss her off That's gonna be bad. That's right. But no, I've been doing it for over 20 years. Do you see? So what exactly do you do? Walk me through your routine. I have a buzzer, you know, like electric shaver with a like a comb on it. So I can shave it right down to the stubble. I buzz it down to the stubble. Where your, your, your, your balls, your penis, everything. Okay. And then do you use any like amazing products after to make sure that I use high endend hair conditioner? Okay, I have very expensive hair condition. It doesn't clog the blade on your razor. No

I use it well. I use the hair conditioner everywhere So my hair is usually pretty soft and well conditioned So so it shapes very quickly very easily and then I use it after is like an after-shape treatment Just one tip, you know Just cleanse that area first because it'll help to remove any dead skin cells, any dirt in that area. It'll also help for the hairs to stand up straighter to make them easier to cut off.

And then try and shave a trim just after the shower because the heat from the steam will soften those hairs and make it easier to cut off. Oh yeah. Oh yeah, there you go. Oh yeah, he's 100% right. Right, so you wait until... I learned the hard way over years of a trial and error,

but now I got it down to his science you're absolutely right. It's great, too But can we talk about girls love it too by the way they love what it they love men that are man scaped freaking love it They do every totally love it every woman that I spoken to during events and stores or just online love a well-groomed man Yeah, very rarely do you like you know Do you see someone that doesn't want someone? Okay, so well groomed means maybe he trims, but it doesn't mean he has no hair right it means all of the above It could okay, so how do you make that decision like you have no hair mic? I do the I buzz the pubic bone region, but I shave down to the skin everything else. Okay, so it's nice and soft Right got it. So someone just trim. They don't they don't do that

So how do you decide as a guy, I guess, as a personal preference? I think it's personal preference. I think, well, it's personal preference and it really also depends on who you're with. Right, that's true. If you were someone at the time and if they really like that, of course, you're gonna, you know, change it up a little bit.

Right. I'm okay with whatever, really. I'm not picking about it. I swear, I mean, you're with a crazy question. I was like, I'm with you too. Yeah, I'm like, what abs? Like, I'm not gonna get like all caught up. I'm not buying it.

I'm not buying it. I think you're so good. I think you're so good. As long as this is clean and it smells fresh. Yeah, I'm like what abs? Like I'm not I'm not going to get like all car. I'm not buying it. I'm not buying it. I think as long as this clean and it smells fresh. And to be clean and smell fresh, that's like the important thing. Yeah, but if somebody if you go down there and somebody's got like an Angela Davis afro going on, it's not cool. No, that's not. That's not cool. Also, it all depends on what kind of luge rent. I mean, I don't know. If you're listening to the Iosly brothers that might be a fun kind of thing to do. Totally. Then you get the hair in your teeth and in your eyes and stuff. But my question for you, okay, so I have a question about balls real quick. So I don't have them, as you know, but what about shape?

Like a lot of guys like, oh, like who haven't man-scape? Like let's say like man-scaping 101, they're like, what can I shave them? Like is it gonna hurt? Like what do you recommend like starting? How do you recommend like let's just take care of the balls. To say the balls, definitely an electric razor. I mean, definitely do not use a blade. Unless you're a surgeon.

I use a blade. I wouldn't use a blade. I use a blade on my ball. Unless you're really, really skilled. I've been doing it a long time. And the other thing too is if you're going to use product like a shave cream or a foam or something, you have to really be extra careful because sometimes you can't see what you're shaving, what you're cutting.

So you might cut something that you don't want to. So you're going to want to keep the area, the hairs down there soft, so you can see what you're doing. We've heard stories of guys nicking and cutting themselves. And they just use which product would they use? Shaving cream, your which which product for the walls? I would use a shave cream, a non-foaming shave cream, but get it to a lather because you want to be able to see underneath

as opposed to a nice thick barrier when you shave your face. Okay, but there's... You have the best shave cream on the planet, just because I know that, because I've used it, but my entire family is obsessed with it. And then so is Elvis. Anthony, logistic, shave. I'm just saying that. Like his shaving cream is like notorious.

There is a learning curve associated with grooming yourself down there. I mean, the more you do it, the more you become familiar with the area and you know which angles to use and what hairs grow where and in which directions is a learning curve. The more you do it, the better you'll get at it. And you won't nick yourself.

And like you said, shaving the direction that your beard hairs grow. Yeah, usually that's true. Shaving the direction that the hair is grow. Okay. Otherwise you're prone to ingrowns and razor bumps. That's right. And you don't want to shave right before you have sex.

Okay. Because I think that that predisposes you to potentially infection. So shave the day before. That's a good one. What do you think about that? Well, it's that and also because of the friction, you'll most likely get razor. That's true. You have the bumps.

And ingrown hairs. And down there, it can be very difficult to remove. Okay. I totally agree. So if you know you're gonna have sex, shave the day before. Oh, what if you don't know and then you find out that day? Okay, we're gonna talk about how to avoid all those bumps and all those nasty things that you don't want to happen down there. So everyone's gonna feel good about boning this summer. You're listening to Sex, the only anti-radio V will be right back. This is so perfect. I said just put on some sexy music. And on our website, we have a section for music. You do? We do.

Our website. Or they can download like music, like mood music for the text. That's so cool. I mean, our brand that we're going to be talking about in a minute. Exactly. Okay, we're not going to get right. Right. But I'm just saying it off the record. No one knows that. Well, we're talking about. But we're going to come be talking about in a minute. Exactly. Okay, we're not gonna get right. Right, but I'm just letting you look off the,

off the record. Yeah, I mean. No one knows that, what we're talking about. But we're gonna come back to that in a minute. My guest here today is Anthony from Anthony Logistics from Man, Wilhelm Tony. And we're talking about man-scaping, women-scaping. And we also have Mike, special guest, T-Radio Vee.

Of all of his people who work from now are learning so much about your sex life. Yeah, the guys who are cringing and the girls are going, oh, I didn't want to know that. Yeah, but now they do. We can now we're going to find out. Now, let's, we talked a lot about male grooming, which is what Anthony has a lot of that, but he's also got products for women and grooming, the shave works line. Because there's so many women, the shave, we get the bumps, we get the scratches,

we cut ourselves, it's just, we mess it up and it hurts and then we don't want to have sex Which is why we did it anyway and it's a bummer. So what do you do? Well, we have some great products that really help women shave and wax really everywhere We have our new Pearl Suflay shave cream Which is this product here is fantastic for shaving and helping to really eliminate redness and ingrown hairs And after you shave we have the cool fix, which is really our signature product that we launched with.

I love the cool fix. It's made with three different acids, salicylic glycolic and phytoc acid, and they help to bring down the bumps, bring down the redness immediately. There's something called media calm complex in the product. And there's really not another product on the market like it.

You would think that there is, but nothing. There's nothing. With these combination of ingredients and that really helps to control the redness and the bumps to this degree. So it's great and it really helps to boost self-confidence and especially before sex and anytime it gets rid of those bumps. It gets rid of the redness immediately. Okay. And it gets rid of the bumps depending on the severity. It can take a couple of days, a week, maybe at the most. Okay. But it really does work. It's been on, it can take a couple of days, a week, maybe at the most. It really does work.

It's been on the market for about four years now. Okay, and it does really well. And people can buy your products at Anthony.com or anywhere. Anthony.com is really the best place to buy the products. Okay, sounds good. Wait a second, you own Anthony.com? I do. Nice job, bro.

Thank you. He's given businesses a pioneer in the field, 15 years. Nice job, bro. It's a long story for a different time, but it was pretty fun actually getting the name. But yeah, it's a good name to have. I don't know anybody. I own my surname, Zena.com. So, I don't know anybody that owns their first name.com.

That's an accomplishment for you. It was easier getting my first name than getting my lastname.com, which is Soznik. Really? There's other Sozniks? There's other Sozniks. In fact, there's Sozniks in San Francisco that are in the mustard business. Oh, God. There's a Soznik mustard, but there have to be

more Anthony's than there are Sozniks. There definitely are. Yeah, that's a hell of an accomplishment, bro. Seriously, Anthony.com. Besides all the products that he makes that are amazing. Okay, so I want to talk now about women, female grooming. So I want to know, what do you think, like is there a trend, people, like is the bush coming back?

Well, the bush ever come back. No, I doubt it. I hope not. Why not? Everything comes around, goes around. I think it will. Actually, I think everything goes in phases. And I think that women that are completely shaved

have, it's kind of making its comeback. A little bit. Not a little bit bit not a huge bush again not maybe huge but I think definitely somewhere in between okay and what do you guys think that guys prefer what do you hear personally what do you prefer a landing strip do you want nothing what do you want Mike I like it slick slick so nothing I do I like it slick okay yeah I think it's cute it's beautiful it's pretty flower I don't want anything in the way I like it slick okay got it what about you Tony I think it looks cute. It's beautiful. It's pretty flower. I don't want anything in the way. Like it's slick.

Okay, got it. What about you, Tony? I think it looks much better the way that it did 20 years ago, but just a 2013 version. So trimmed. Trimmed. Trimmed in clean, but definitely not completely bare. Okay, interesting. See, we've got two men.

So for all the women, you know, listening to sex with Emily, you know, it's kind of up to you. It's what you want. I mean, I guess there are many men who are very verbal about it. I just heard a story, I was having dinner, I was at a dinner party in Los Angeles the other night. And this guy starts telling the story,

I've never met him before, which I love when I'm the one that doesn't bring up the alternative topics at dinner. He's like, I was hooking up with this woman the other night in New York, I just met her, we got back to my hotel room. We were having a great time, we were fooling around. I pull her pants down and she's got a full bush. So I pick up the phone and I call concierge. I say, can you please send up some shaving cream

and a bucket and some as a razor? So second later, concierge comes up with that. He picks her up, puts her on the sink, shaves her down. Absolutely. It's a one night stand by the way, and then he's bones are all not. You know what?

And she does it hot. She will let you do that too. He's 100% correct. It's probably a true story I've done that. Absolutely worth telling. You can really? Absolutely. You're like, hey babe, nothing.

It's a major turn on. You know, I will tell you though that for me seeing something like that, it shows confidence. I think someone that really has, you know, that really doesn't shift. It was hot, it was confident. I was like, you could shave even on shave. And it's a little retro, I think, which is kind of cool. I think someone that really has, that really doesn't shape. I was like, you could shave even on shave. And it's a little retro, I think, which is kind of cool. I think retro is kind of coming back a little bit.

So you think it's cool that she had the bush, even though we shaved it, yeah. Yeah, I mean, at least to start off that way. You know, it's like, hey, this is me, this is who I am. And then, but the shave, it turns it into really hot evening. I'm totally down with that. If she showed up with the big bush, and I said, honey, let me shave that for you.

And she said, yes, oh man, we'd be humpin' all night. That's the shit, that's cool. That's very intimate. That is cool. I think I shaved me once. Yeah. I thought it was cool. Isn't that like a long time ago?

He thought I'd give you. It was kind of hot. It's a hot thing to do with your partner. Very hot. So if you're looking at a spice of your relationship, take a shower together and shave each other. I can give you another hint too. Ooh, I bet you can.

One more hint. Yeah, please. If you're a guy and you're trying to close a deal with a girl and you can't do it, let her paint your toenails. Explain that to me. I'm serious. It's worked for me dozens of times.

Worked for you how? When you're trying to get a girl in bed, you just can't get over the hump, so to speak, let her paint your toenails. Ask her to paint your toenails because it's a very intimate thing. Oh. Okay. And then once she's holding your feet in her hand and she's painting your toenails, you're this close to closing the deal.

Wow, that's really cool. It works really well. I didn't know that. I've never asked a guy to do that. I've never painted. I can really paint my own. So ask a girl to paint your toenails. And she'll do it because it's kind of a sweet, cute thing.

And then when she does that, you're, you're rounding, you're rounding third base, man. You've got so many ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, ticks, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, tips, hair like I can still shave it off but I can still I like what he does. Lasering is cheating. Why? shave it because you might want it back some. No. And that's why we've created a lot of it that I know that I won't want back. Let's just say that. But you know, because you know, styles come in and out all the time.

And that's why you know, to create these products, you're always going to do something down there. You're always going to trim where you're going to, you know, keep it looking a certain way. So to have products that will allow that to happen, you know, that's what really started this idea for this brand. But plus, I don't want a laser pointed at my junk. It makes me a little nervous.

It's gonna be crazy. It's a laser. I did a while ago, I got to something, one of my advertisers and I did, I got a laser. It was fun. But not, I left a little bit. So is it permanent that, when it's laser,

does it permanently off? Pretty much, Jeff. But just, but not all of it. No just area there's that you know Layser. Yeah, like it's not you I still have like hair. You should laser in a monogram You're initials. No, but oh people do that But we have a whole thing go to sex at the Emily dot com We have a great blog post about different pubic hair styles That's w e

Like laser at sex with Emily that's actually then we laser it in there How would you feel about that if someone like shaved like a heart or a lightning bolt or an arrow pointing at their crotch? I think it's just dumb as shit. It's really cheesy. It's Just not cool. Okay. It's like getting an ugly tattoo that you just can't get rid of you can get rid of it You don't like this. Just shave it off. No, but the laser you can't get it. The laser if you laser it a lightning bolt Right, it's like a tattoo that you cannot get rid of. I I think it's really cheesy. It's like a tram stamp. Yeah. I agree. Okay I got it. So okay another thing that I want to talk about and you just remind me is I was going to read some emails from listeners but I think we

can also talk about if we want to start talking about our our our big announcement. But we could do that. We kind of have a big announcement to make. And I'm going to go to commercial. Let me step out while you guys are here. No, but OK, well, let me just, OK, let's do that. We come back from commercial. I'm new at T-Radio V today. But let's go to commercial.

No, not yet. No, not yet. Not yet. Not yet. I would like to read just an email really quickly because I have two men here who can help answer this. And this is, dear Emily, I have this girl. I've been friends with her for five years and we like each other for a while and we haven't

been on the same page as far as being single. But we were last year and I asked her out and now she doesn't like me. She says it would be weird and she doesn't want to lose me as a friend. But we hang out and we like dating and we hang out like we're dating but we don't hold hands or have sex. But I go to her house and cuddle with her and spend the night with her and she even has a boyfriend So I'm not sure if I should wait for her. What do you think Matt? Okay, so this is very typical. This is a man who is so deeply engrossed

entrenched in the friend zone that he doesn't even realize that he's like, should I wait for her? She let some cuddle so I just thought you guys know when a girl's in the friend zone, right? And you put it in the friend zone and she always wants more than you do. So what do we tell, this is Matt, he's got to, he's got to move on. You can't wait around for her. Matt is gravitating dangerously towards being dormat.

Dormat. Yeah. Women want, don't you think that your most effective relationships with women are when you, like, you let yourself get into the friend zone. You're like, babe, I want to be with you and you just like kiss her. You don't like let it become a friend thing.

So that's his struggle, Matt. We just want to see she's got some issues and he does. But she's also stringing along, she'll cuddle, but she won't like, you know, she's probably got some abandonment issues and he doesn't want to stand up to her because he probably can't get a girl anyway. So, okay.

Now, we can get a girl. They can be friends with her, just be friends with her. But don't expect something more. She's sleeping with other guys. Just be friends with her. Exactly. Gotta be friends. And gotta move on. And also you gotta diversify. You can't just be like, like, I love her. I love her. And I'm not going to be anyone else. And she wouldn't waste the time. I mean, I would, you know, be friends for a period of time. But after a while, you just got to say, you know, forget it and just move on. Hook up if it's a convenient go on hang out of its convenient mutually

Communion but don't have any Expectations keep your expectations within reason. Okay. Sounds good. Okay one more Emily I wanted to do something romantic for my lover, but I'm not much of a true romantic What are some ways to set a romantic room mood in my bedroom for my girlfriend? We still haven't purchased any toys yet. I plan to soon. This is from Daniel. I think this is a great segue into launching into what our big announcement is after the break.

But first, I'm going to address the toy part. I'm a huge fan of sex toys. Yeah, me too. Right? I would say that anything if you go to goodvibes.com, you use coupon code GVMLE20, you get 20% off of items 100 or more. Here's the point. The thing about good vibes is you can click on the link

that says like couples toys and there's great toys to use during intercourse. I love the Jeju brand, J-E, J-O-U-E, and they make toys that you can, so many women, as you probably know, having sex with women, they cannot have an orgasm during intercourse alone without extra clitoral stimulation. And that might come in the way of a vibrator. So I love the Jeju Mimi, for example, They cannot have an orgasm during intercourse alone without extra clitoral stimulation.

And that might come in the way of a vibrator. So I love the Jezou Mimi, for example, because it looks like little pebble. You can't even tell that it's a vibrator, and you hold it, a woman can hold it, or he can hold it, and you have amazing orgasms. Can I ask you a sex toy question? Please, ask me any sex toy question. Is it appropriate for a guy who has sex toys to use them on more than one woman? I have an asses one before. That's really difficult difficult because you can clean that. That's a very good question

actually. There's sex toy cleaners and you should always clean your sex toys. What if you boil them? Well, it depends what kind they are. You can't boil them. I don't say just put them in the dishwasher. I mean, obviously you can't boil a rabbit because it's got electronic components, but it can do you boil a plug. Can you boil a plug? No. What are you talking about the Hitachi Magic World? It'll probably rust. Let's say it's just a rubber plug or just a sort of an insertion plug. Just use soap and water but some really... What if you clean it, is it okay?

It depends on the woman. See, I've had friends who have called me and said, I was so horrified, he pulled out this vibrator that he'd used with his last girlfriend and it really offended me. So I think some, but it's kind of a bar because you spent 200 bucks on a vibrator maybe or 100 and then you can't really use it. Well, my response is if you think that vibrator's dirty, what do you think my penis has been into? Exactly. God knows your penis has been in so many places. Thank you. So physiological reality. But if you're with a cool chick and you cleaned it, it's clean, shaving. Exactly, at least we know you're clean.

Okay, when we come back, we're going to answer the rest of this question of how you can create romance to get your partner in the mood because I've got a killer product that I'm going to tell you about, a whole new product line. It's going to blow your mind. It's such a family and tea radio video. We'll be right back. I love it. All this music is to get you in my verse, because you are listening to Sex with Emily. You can check out all of our podcasts on iTunes on Sex with Emily.com. This one is actually video and audio, so you can check it out at Sex with Emily.com or

tradiov.com, or maybe you're just listening to it, which we appreciate. All of our podcast listeners. And today's show, we're talking about man-scaping, grooming, all these things that people are always emailing me, like what's the trends, and we have some really good tips because we have Anthony from Anthony.com, Anthony Logistics for Men, and we went over some of your amazing products for men and for women. It's so good to have you here, Tony. So now we got to make our announcement that I've been talking about. Been kind of teasing since the beginning of the show. So Tony and I are old friends. We know each other from childhood.

And I actually, when I was 10 years old, we bought his family's home that his dad had built, right? It was a beautiful home. He's father built it. His father built it. Unfortunately, I was moving with a wicked stepfather. So it was not as nice of a situation for me. However, it was a with a wicked stepfather. So it was not as nice of a situation for me. However, it was a beautiful home. And that's how we met

when we were like 10. It was love in the same home. Living the same home. So he moved out. I moved into his sister's bedroom. My brother moved into a year bedroom. And then we went to summer camp together. Right. And then we kind of lost touch over the years. You live in New York. Right. But we always knew who each other was. But the cool thing was we lived in the same house. Right. When we were kids. I know. I love that. There's some beautiful, it was amazing house. Yeah. That pool. It was really cool. Yeah. So then we just cannot, we, whatever. And then I funny enough, this is how I reconnect with you. I felt

is that I was a fan of Anthony of your products because I bought it for several my guys that I was dating. Not at once. I'm not one of those people. I was dating six guys, but over time, I was like, oh, these products look great. And then everyone told me they were great. And then I was with my mom one day and she said, do you know who that is? That's Tony's thousand.

I'm like, that's Tony. Anthony's tone didn't know. So we reconnected and we had a dinner in San when you were out in San Francisco for work. About two years ago. About two years ago. Yeah, and we were sitting there just talking about what he does and what I do.

And I was like, you know what? I've always wanted to make a lubricant because I love Loub. I think it enhances sacks. I don't love any of the lubricants out there. And I think there should be a Loub on every night stand in America. Enough with this stigma.

Enough with people saying, oh, Loub is because she's dry. Loub is there's a problem. Loub, blah, blah, blah. She must not be attractive. No, Loub is because she's dry. Loub is there's a problem. Loub, blah, blah, blah. She must not be attracting. No, Loub actually makes sex feel better. It's an amazing thing. So we talked about it. It was interesting, you know, because you had said that to you think that everyone should

have a lubricant next to their bed. And I've always thought for many years being in the personal care business that there should really be a premium lubricant, premium intimate products on the market. And there really wasn't anything. It's kind of like when I started Anthony 15 years ago, 14 years ago, care business that there should really be a premium lubricant, premium intimate products on the market. And there really wasn't anything. It was kind of like when I started Anthony, 15 years ago, 14 years ago, there were very few choices. So I thought that it was just a perfect connection.

Exactly. I loved our connection. And then we talked about the lubricant and then we took it a step further and we said, why not, why don't just stop at a lubricant, but let's create a whole line, which really enhances people's sex lives and makes people really feel good about who they are. Exactly. So going back to Daniel's question that we were reading before the break,

how do I set a romantic mood for my girlfriend? I think that leads us to a next product. We have a lubricant, but we also have massage candles. And I don't know, I've talked about a Roman therapy massage candles before on the show, but I feel like, since I know so much about about products that I'm so proud of the candles we made because these really are the best of the best. They're basically if you don't know what a massage candle is, it burns cooler than most wax. It's a it's

soy. It's it's made with soy. It's made with these wax, but it does cool softer. And it is softer. But the other great thing about the candles, especially the ones that we make, it's not only great for massages, it's great as a moisturizer too. Right, oh my god, it's... So if you leave it in, it doesn't have that sticky

or greasy tacky feel. It just makes your body smooth and... Exactly. So you let it, and then you let the wax pool for a few minutes, and then you can, so for it, so if you are using it for a massage, you know, it's a great way to spice it up and to set them. First of all, it just sets the mood.

If you just want the candle burning by your nightstand, that's fine too. But then, say to your partner, I'd like to hate flippo or babe, I'm going to give you a little massage, and then you pour it on her back or his back, and you start to rub it in, and it turns its most like, zurious massage oil. It's not like swacks. People are like, you're going to chip off the wax. Like, no, there's no wax. It feels so good.

And again, I've used it as like body lotion and hand lotion. Like I just went when I'm home, but it also is just a really sexy thing to do with your partner. In fact, you know, the wax is so soft, even if you don't light it, you can scoop a little bit of it out and put it on as a moisturizer. Right. Exactly. And they're beautiful. I love our products.

And it's Emily and Tony.com. And they're actually going to be available. The products, the products will be available. The website Emily and Tony.com will be up and running in about a week, 10 days or so. Right. I would say in about two weeks, will be live. And the products will be ready.

And for your enjoyment, anywhere you want to use that. Exactly. So we're talking like mid-August 2013, it's what we're talking about. So that's the massage candles, and they come in three different scents. They're amazing. And then we've got another product.

This is like a showstopper. When I bring this up to people, like at parties or wherever, it's like people come in from another room. They're like, what are you talking about? This is the most amazing thing I've ever heard. This product, we've actually been in development with this product for quite some time.

It's called Down Under Comfort. And what it does is it helps to keep your balls dry, smelling fresh and clean. And the way that it works, you apply it like you would a moisturizer. So you put a little bit on your hand, and then you massage it into the area that you want to keep dry.

And it turns into a powder. And it smells clean, fresh. It has a nice citrusy kind of a scent to it. And it just keeps you fresh and dry and clean. But the interesting thing was, as we were in product development, the audience or the group that was most excited about this were the women.

Yeah, exactly. Metal were excited, but it was really the women that couldn't wait to get their hands on this product. Yeah, it's amazing. So it's called Down Under Comfort. It's a lot of menus talking powder, which they should not use. They should use this from now on. It's not messy. It's the last message. Yeah. All that stuff. So check out Lentone.com and we got to go. Right, we're wrapping up. Is that what we say? One minute, we got it. Oh my God, this is amazing. I love being a TV TV. You can all check this out online.

You can listen to the podcast. And I want to tell everyone, check out my iPhone apps, Kaggle Camp. If you do Kaggle exercises, they will change your life. It reminds you to do your exercises. I have a book called Hot Sex. Over 200 things you could try tonight. And I just want you to go to my website,

put in your email address, and you'll get a free report of the five biggest mistakes that you are making in bed. And that's pretty important, because people are making mistakes. Thank you so much, Tony Sazik from Anthony.com and soon at Emily and Tony.com, you should all check it out. And thanks so much for listening to Sex with Emily,

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