Sex With Emily - SWE - Orgasmic Headache

Episode Date: December 17, 2011

Emily gets a call from her friend about an orgasmic headache and Menace shares his “pre-gaming” ritual to prevent premature anything. Also, men who know how to talk to women, Jane Fonda’s secret for sex over 70, and how safe sex practices can’t be made safer with superglue. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Music Book into his eyes Daily eyes of a man obsessed by sex Eyes that block our sacred institutions Betrubized they call them in a bygone way Hey, Evelyn, you got a boyfriend? Because my man E here, he just got his heart broken He thinks you're kind of cute

The girls got everything, it's a lie The women know about shrinkage Isn't it common, what do you mean, like laundry? It shrinks. Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me? Oh my god. I'm off there. So, I'm gone.

Being bad feels pretty good. You know Emily's not the kind of girl you just play good. You don't. You don't just play with her. You don't just play with her. You're listening to sex with Emily. We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between.

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I don't think that I think the user interface is even better. It's 30 minutes free of porn, any kind of porn you want, and we'll give that to you. And today's show, we're talking about, we've got some finishing up to do. We were doing a show in cheating, and we were moving through some really important points that I think we have to finish, and we're also going to be talking about the art of seduction. Plus, we'll be reading your emails, and some topics include going tablets, ejaculating quickly, re-discovering the single life and orgasms during four-play versus orgasms during sex. What up, menace?

What's going on? How was your weekend? It's Monday. I know. It's Monday, Monday. Mondays are tough sometimes. Why? Historically.

I think I'm sort of trained like a lot of people. Like Sunday night, like you're having a great weekend, everything's good, and then Sunday, you're like, oh, I gotta do it Monday, and then there's a lot going on, and then your brain sort of, like I'm really like you're having a great weekend, everything's good and then Sunday you're like, oh, I got to do it Monday and then there's a lot going on and then your brain sort of, like I'm really good at shutting off sometimes. So I think I sort of shut off and then today I was like, whoa, it's Monday, there's a lot to do.

Yeah. Why, why coworker was trying to get me to jump out of plane this weekend? Why didn't you? Why didn't you do a hell-knowing? Why are you scared? You scared? Hell no. Wow, we're like up in Napa or something?

No, Santa Cruz, I don't go to Napa. I always think about people jumping out of planes in Napa. Yeah, I'm not gonna happen. Hmm. On both going to Napa and jumping over to the plane in Napa. I just want to do it. Okay. So what did you do anything?

Yeah, I did too. I went to a, I felt very hip. Oh. I went to a show, this new artist I'm really excited about. Her name is Doei, so Google Doei, and you can check out her music. She's really good. She had a show at an art gallery. Oh my God. They only had white wine. What did you do? Oh no, no. They had champagne, which I love. So that's fun. They had champagne strawberries and all that thing. But they had a bar that I like around the corner.

And I'll tell you how classy I am, because I didn't know that there was an opener for the show. And the opener was breaking the rules. When you're an opener and not many people know your music, you have a short set. Your set should be 25 minutes at most. Totally.

The set was like. Did the opener. The set was like. You're the opener. The set was like an hour. No one tells them though, is there like rules? Like if you're the opener, like you only need to check. No one's gonna stop you in the middle of it. So then me and my buddies, because we're classy, there was a liquor store down the street.

So we went to the liquor store, bought some bottles, and then you know, do the classic, take the one liter of coke, and pour it halfway out, and then pour all the alcohol on it So I was I was being very classy up in the art gallery in a drinking large amount of alcohol Oh, that's good and then that was fun and then the next day I'd never really go out in my neighborhood right too much you have a great neighborhood and come to find out There's tons of bars and beautiful women.

I know, I'm right down the street from one of them. Right in the middle of the street. I was like, what? Right. Right. I don't really want to give out the streets where I live. Why? I don't know because I know that doesn't near you,

but that's like the closest neighborhood. That is the closest, yeah, that is the closest, like, going out. And you had no idea. It was like, oh my god, look at this. Oh my god, this is the closest like going out and you had no idea it was like oh my god Oh my god, this is crazy Right, but I want interesting. No, but you know what I did do I saw this guy He was Because in the area that I live it's very it's very white very white, you know

Amber Cromby looking dudes and all this stuff But then I saw that are like super fit And all this all these things and then I saw this one guy he was like He was like really heavy set, but he had like he had this like really going out You know his personality was really outgoing and I could tell him and he was just macking all these chicks And then so I ended up going to the bar Getting a drink right next to him and I was like hey man props dude. I see you macking all these chicks. And then so I ended up going to the bar, getting a drink right next to him, and I was like,

hey man, props dude, I see you macking all these chicks. He's like, oh thanks man, so I, you know, helped him build up his confidence a little bit. Nice all walking off, talking to more chicks like. I love it. He can, you know. That's perfectly ties into what we're talking about today's, how to seduce a chick.

Yeah. And how to seduce a man. You can tell. You have the vibe, you had the energy, some guys can nail it. Yeah. Some guys can't, and that's what we're gonna to talk about, say how people can be that guy.

The bar that you're like, wow, why are all those chicks tracked to them? Chicks were just just coming out to them like crazy. And he wasn't particularly, was he really attracted? He was, I mean, I don't really look into his looks. He's not looking that the thing. Into his looks, but you know, he didn't look like every other guy in the bar. Let's just say that. Right. Okay. And he was just macking. So I had to get that.

Was it me macking like picking up like lots of chicks were around him? Yeah. He just like kept on you know talking to girls and girls were just talking for a long time. Right. It's about having like yeah. It's not in the bar. Yeah. He had the vibe. He had it going on. It was it was a good time. That's a good time. And then I told myself I maybe I should go out a little bit more. You should in this area. You totally should go on on? It was a good time. That's a good time. And then I told myself, I maybe I should go out a little bit more. You should. In this area. You totally should go on that area.

I went out in, I went out in my area on Friday night too, which is really fun. I didn't even go home from work. I went for drinks because I was having just like a kind of a stressful day, like lots of changes, lots of things going on. And I was going to go in first, I was going to go to the gym, and then this guy-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t And we went to a bunch of other bars too, and all in the mission district, which was fun. Like, I can say my neighborhood, because it's not really my neighborhood, it's near my neighborhood.

It's a bunch of hipsters walking around, it was a nice night. Yeah, I love the beach. I brought my dog with me, and the mission allowed you to bring your dog into every single bar. But by mistake, I attached her to a chair that the chair was too light,

and I wasn't paying attention and she was walking a lot over the bar with a chair attached to her. How you done? I was thinking pictures of that that she thought it was funny. And then I took her to the beach and I don't have her today because I took her to the beach on so that was Friday and it was fun and it was. You lost her at the beach.

I lost her. I did lose her at the beach twice three times. So she didn't go her way around. I took her to the beach. My friend has a beach house that's since in Beach which is beautiful up north from here. So she was playing with a puppy right in front of the house and she was fine. And everyone's like, Emily, you better watch your dog,

you better watch your dog. I'm like, I'm watching my dog. And then I went inside to get something. I came back out, she was gone. So I had to run up and down the beach. Like, I couldn't, I couldn't take miles and miles to the beach. But finally I found her three houses down. She was in like some neighbor's house just hanging out.

So she almost lost my puppy. OK. What? She would have. So she stayed at the beach because then I had a party to go to in Sonoma. Oh, God. So I was at Stinson Beach. I drove an hour to Stinson Beach. Went to a friend's party. We all hung out. Guys, girls fun. Oh, you know, just hanging. No, no sex on my part. Although my friend, who's has not had lecott and laid in a really long time, I'm really happy for some guy came that she had sex with so that was really good. Oh, that's cool You're really excited about that. Did you high five it? We totally high five it and then I had a party in Sonoma

Which I'm sure you were to loved so I drove from Stinson Beach for another hour to Sonoma without my dog who's still at the beach right now She's loving it. Yeah, I'm just gonna run away. Yeah, and yeah, I had another friend's birthday party in Sonoma I was out. It was like a fly fishing party, outdoors. Fly fishing party? Yeah, mostly people were just drinking and listening to music. But there was a fly fishing ranch. Okay. Yeah.

It was like, I'll call and cool. That's cool. Forb and says and it was super fun. Yeah, had a great time. And then yesterday I just like hung out and worked and like sat on the couch and, I don't think that's, it was awesome. But my brain, I didn't feel great and my brain sort of shut down.

And then today it wasn't as open to business. Oh, do a show to do a show. Yeah, but we're here. We're doing it. We're totally doing it. I just wanted to tell you that. So, um, yeah, so things are good.

And, um, that was my weekend. How much more now did you watch? I didn't, I, I did not, so things are good. And, um, that was my weekend. How much porn, how did you watch? I did not watch enough porn this weekend. I didn't watch porn. I watched stuff I had to watch for school. I heard you were doing that. For my sex school. What?

Oh, your sex school, though, makes you watch weird stuff. Weird, like, people having sex courses and stuff, but not really. I mean, sometimes. I mean, you're in soup right now, by the way, everybody. Is that what you're slurping? Yeah. It looks really good. I don't, you in soup right now, by the way, everybody. Is that what you're slurping? Yeah. It looks really good. I don't. You want a bite of it?

Not really. Okay. I already ate it. I don't feel that good. I mean, my stomach. I'm not eating. Yeah. I never get to eat lunch until like 10 minutes before.

I know. I love eating you come, because you're so busy. You've got so much going on. Okay. We could do some sex in the news if we feel like it. All right. I think it might be fun. Okay.

Coming soon, hysteria, the movie. So do you know what they call female hysteria? Like, it's about the female orgasm and the advent of the vibrator. Every day life. Female hysteria. So back like the time before, for a long time, they were talking about when women had sexual issues, they were like, it was called hysteria. And it's all about the female orgasm and the advent of the vibrator and it stars Maggie

Gillinhal and Hugh Dansey. Maggie, Jill, Jillinhal. Jillinhal. What else can't ever say it. She's going to be in it. And it's really important film because hysteria was a big thing when we had that specific story. She's not hot.

So I probably won't want to. Like doctors used to masturbate. She's not hot. No. Not at all. I never know with you who you're gonna think is hot Maggie jiggle jiggle all's not she's a or Jennifer Barker. Who's that? I mean Parker Don't know that is either Jennifer. No Sarah Jessica Parker. I'm sorry. Oh, right. You don't think she's out either I can't believe that they put her on like all well see all these fashion shows. I know They put her all she's so amazing and these fashion shows. I know. They put her on. Oh, she's so amazing

and elegant and blow on. I'm like, do you see what she looks like? I know. Did you ever think she was tracking the hell? No, but you do it sometimes. Sometimes she has her moments. Like a brief leading moment. Like for like five seconds. And then I realize who it is. And then no, and then you're like, I'm so not down with that. And none of my guy friends think she's weird. I know it's weird. I think she's weird. I think she's hot and cool. I'm like the whole sex and the city thing and she'd cute clothes, but maybe she's not sexualized by our society. She is not. People are not masturbating, jacking up to Sarah Discoparker or Maggie Jell-in-Hole Jill and all are Maggie, Jill and all, but they're like, maybe her brother, he's hot.

I saw him once in LA. He's so hot. I almost left my date. I was like, I'm going to go follow him. I was at this guy that I was this was probably like a long time ago. Some guy who ended up hating me after we dated, but not that happens all the time. Eight years ago, probably nine years ago, and I saw him and he just, he was dating someone, and he broke.

Who was he dating? I can't remember what he was with, or I made eye contact with him. I swear to God, we had this moment. And I was like, I'm dumping this guy right now. I'm going out for you. Let's go. I'm going to be in LA on Thursday.

I know. Are you excited? I am excited. What are you saying? I'm saying in West Hollywood, how only would I have a friend's house? OK, cool. And it's,

You can get all dressed up and stuff. For the VMAs. I ain't no one on really, I mean, I'll dress better than I usually dress, but I'm not gonna wear a tuxedo, right? What are you gonna do in LA? Are you gonna like run around and be crazy or do you really have to work all the time?

No, this time actually, I don't have to work for the first two days that I'm there. So it's gonna be very interesting Every time I go to LA and so many things happen in one day. I know it's great So you're going Thursday morning. Are you driving? Fine. Thursday evening driving. So we are Thursday. Yeah, just just need to know okay so This is this is interesting menace this article on new story on swinging. I thought you'd appreciate oh Yeah interesting menaceous article on new story on swinging. I thought you'd appreciate. Oh, yeah. Swinging so successfully are swing or club stealing sex

market share from prostitution. So researchers are saying that internet access increases swinging and increases the demand for single men who wish to participate in swing or clubs. What does it mean for society when swinging has become so destigmatized that swingingers don't feel the need to hide. So basically they're saying that the internet is making it a lot easier for people to swing now.

And so they're no longer going to prostitution. They're not going to go on a prostitute because they can swing. That is becoming much more norm. I saw prostitutes for the first time in a long time today. Yeah. I mean, not today. And over the weekend. Did you go visit them? No, but they were hanging out on the street

corner by this bar that was at it. I can't believe that it's so blatant. Yeah, it was amazing. They call it the tender knob. It's like, that's where you were. Or a 10 tender loin and knob hill meet each other in San Francisco. Yeah, there was always. And it was, yeah, it was so crazy to me. One time I got dropped off in the wrong area, I thought I was somewhere else. Right.

And I was left in like the hood. Right. And it was all hooker trannies. Awesome. San Francisco, you never know where you're gonna find it. I couldn't believe like, I was in such a bad area that there was hooker trannies. Like you think hooker trannies would be in other parts of the city, not in like.

They're all over. And the ghetto. Yeah, no. Yeah, that's especially in the ghetto. Yeah, it's a good town. We live in. It's so diverse. It's so diverse, hooker trainees.

Okay, so it means so, so, back to swinging. So one economist says the answer is it it means more swinging more radical sex for swingers and an economic bite out of the prostitution market so basically Yeah, people are swinging they think that the studies are showing that people are swinging more because it's easier to find a swinger partner Yeah, but I thought you have to get into that you would have to have like a A significant other. You can't be just a single guy, you want to do a bit. You can't just be a single guy, if you want to be a singer, you have to be a partner. But, but it's just they're making it easier.

Like you can find a partner that you're sleeping with and bring them to a single party or something. Like some casual thing. It doesn't to be like you're a couple. I wonder if this is going, I mean, what area is of the country and the world. We're swinging. It's just rampant. You know, of the world? We're swinging and just ramping. You know, of course here, because we're a bunch of wackos. But-

Yeah, but I want to know like, you know, Bizzula Montana, is it? I'm Michigan. There's like rumors that like in this town that my brother lives like everyone's swinging. Like everyone they get to a certain age and they're all swinging. There's always rumors.

You never know if it's really going down though. Right, but I want to know. We'll get more fingers in the show. We haven't had a swinger lately. People love the swingers. Do they, or do you love the swingers? I love the swingers. We're gonna have more.

Email us, feedback at sexilylme.com if you love the swingers. If you love the swingers. Or call us. Yeah, what's our number? Oh, we got the number. 415-9927-392. All right.

Jane Fonda says she used testosterone to enhance her sex life. Really? Yep. She used testosterone. She says she, uh, 73-year-old Fonda admitted she discovered testosterone around three years ago. I'd be afraid like, I start growing hair and wear places. Yeah, I thought that makes me amelia.

Venus, although I would like a penis for a day. A penis for a day. I would love a penis I don't think you're a penis though, but yeah, it helps you with your sex life and all that she'd meant to using testosterone I think a lot of women do yeah, they use they found she's 73 Yeah, like it's part of their project. They start losing their sexual desire They so it doesn't make it make it makes it makes them more aggressive Uh-huh makes more aggressive exactly like aggressive sexually like Like aggressive sexually. Makes them go on desire sex. Makes them go on desire sex.

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Makes them go on desire sex. Makes them go on desire sex. Makes them go on desire sex. Makes them go on desire sex. Makes them go on desire sex. Makes them go on desire sex. Makes them go on desire sex. Makes them go on desire sex. is a teen, you're not less likely to be a delinquent. But teens who are sexually active and in relationships are less likely to show antisocial behavior when compared to those who are not having sex at all. Teens who are involved in casual sex at our relationships are more likely than either to be an antisocial behavior. So they're asking like teens to commit now

and saying that if you're at this, I don't know if this is like some kind of Christian message or something, but teens who are committed are less likely to be juvenile and juvenile. Oh my God, I was watching the worst story last night on Dateline NBC. Okay. What was it? It was about these two teenage girls, right?

You know, always on a roll or, you know, really succeeding and blah, blah, blah. And then they start dating this thug guy for a year. And they know that they're dating the same guy. So all they did was argue over the internet for a year straight and then they started getting braver where they start meeting up in places and running into each other and then just one night, just chick just shows up to attack the other girl and then the other girl stabs her and kills her. Come on.

What was that? Where was this? It was on daylight in NBC. It's crazy. And it just, the people are just insane out there. I know, it's really scary. But when it gets, it gets to be thinking about the teen relationships and the teen moms, ah, man, it is, I need you to get cable.

There's a bottom line. I'm getting it this week. I'm having, I'm getting it this week for real. It's on my list. Yeah. What, the teen mom's showing it. I'm getting it this week. I'm having and I'm getting it this week for real. It's on my list. What the team mom show and I did watch that once. Oh my God. How do they keep finding more and more team moms? Is it true? What they say that these moms that teenagers watching? They're just making that up. So there's just always a 16 year old team to put it on. Of course. In middle America, dude, there's so much white trash out there and they're amazing. I mean, they're just out of their mind and I tweeted and I got a lot of responses over

the weekend after watching that and I go, are they going to realize when they go back, you know, well, when they go like 10, 20 years down the line and they go back to watch this video, are they going to realize that they were assholes or just out of their mind, or is that just gonna really affect them so much that they're not even gonna realize that they were that insane? I don't think we all evolve over time and you go back, like if I look at something in my 20s,

I wonder what I would think of myself. I was different from 16 my teens. I mean, you're not evolved, you're not. Yeah, and now they're taking care of kids and they're just arguing. And there's terrible parents like that. Oh, the kid left out in the car and stuff. Do they do stupid shit like that?

No, but they're just constantly arguing in front of their children. The parents, like 16-year-old parents. It's so surprising. And there's one chick. Oh my god, I was watching one where she was so mad because her baby daddy started cheating on her two weeks before she gave birth. And then left her to go hang out with this other girl

and be with this other girl. So she was so upset because their relationship continued him with this other chick. And now she always gives him crap saying, their relationship continued him with this other chick. Now she always gives him crap saying, I don't want her around my baby, blah, blah. Then they just kind of same thing with social media. Started going back and forth.

The new chick would take pictures with the baby and put it online and all this stuff. That's torture stuff. Your mom and you, the new girl woman, and I friends dealing with us now who are like, have mom and you the new girl woman. Yeah, I friends doing this now Who are like have divorce and have like the new parent? Yeah, but this is like young kids Yeah, and she was just like I don't want to run my baby. This is you know But you have to kind of get over that because this guy doesn't want to be with you And then she she was saying oh, I'll be perfectly fine with everything if she was if he was with me and all this stuff

So she just jealous and you just get sucked into this. This is the 16 impregnant. Yeah, it's just It's just unbelievable. That's why I love watching it. You're like mouth is a gate. You're like watch it's like watching a train rack Feel so bad for these people Me too Because they're not in the right mind. No, they're not are drugs and stuff or they're just no they're just they're just sick lazy and baby and yeah use condoms everyone condoms are important birth control pills are seen to be paid for by the Obama administration new healthcare plan just everyone should start using birth control so we don't have to watch you on television. What brand is Obama gonna go with?

For condoms or for birth control both I don't know if there's a birth control brand. There's a lot of birth control brands Oh, like that's stick out. Yeah, no, I don't know the name I don't know the names, but there's lots of different ones. Whatever your doctor subscribes to you And usually it's like 30 40 bucks a month, but now it'll be like free hell It's amazing. I know so maybe we won't have these television shows anymore But I guess we always will okay a man super glues condom to penis to save unsafe sex. What? The 43-year-old father, five, told doctors he gives wife to want and he more children. Their obvious solution was to start using condoms, but the condoms,

the condoms Nikolay Papavosi's wife bought were a bit roomy. The couple solution for the small problem was not to buy new condoms, I did fit, but to make the big ones fit one way or another. They used super glue to glue the condom onto the man's penis. Oh, God. This did not only solve the size issue, but they could also reuse the condom so they thought. After sex, the couple realized the condom was stuck in when come off.

To make a TV show about these people. Yeah. After trying everything they could think of, Nicole went to the local medical clinic for help. After sex the couple realize a kind of mistucket when come off to make a TV show about these people. Yeah After trying everything they could think of Nicole into the local medical clinic for help He even said that he thought the condom could be used several times. He wanted seconds penis. We could use it These people and these people you've super glue economy or penis and that's a good idea to spend by smaller condoms I would love to have a camera on these people me too. Oh my god. That's so dumb love to have a camera on these people. Me too. Oh my god. That's so dumb. Connems. Yeah. Okay. Lust for sex depends on size of brain. Australian scientists have found out what part of the brain is responsible for sexual

traction between people. The bigger that part of the brain is the faster more intense a man's excitement is. What about women? It's about men. The part of the brain is the size of an almond. When you feel sexual ear intents, the maddilla will respond faster than any part of the brain. So it was already believed it was responsible for attraction between animals. But after examining 45 epileptics of the part of the brain that's the bigger the maddilla man, they were more likely to be attracted towards women in your brain. I studied this in psychology.

That's um... What? That's weird weird stupid. Yeah, but it's true. I mean, every man is attracted. I mean head or head or sexual man. But if you're brain, if this part of your brain is big, you're an extra horny. You're a extra horny. So you're going to look for a big, you're a magulas. How big my man. Can we look it up? How can we, I don't know, I want to know how big yours is Oops, you know what I mean? Yeah, we have to walk down the street and say Just look for a guy with a giant head and say excuse me sir. Exactly. Are you actually horny right now? Yeah, let's take that for six of the news. It's good. Yeah, it was good. It was really good

What's up with the sex of the news in your life? No nothing Yeah, it was good. It was really good. What's up with the sex in the news in your life? No, nothing. How about you? Yeah, I mean just like fun having fun trying to figure it all out like not wanting to commit Just leaving your options open not really not putting it on Facebook No, putting my status on Facebook. No, there's always no not, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, it on. Okay. Yeah. I mean, I bet. Why? What do you think is one sided? I just do.

I just think is one person who's insecure and really needs that to be posted out there. Mm. No, I don't agree. Okay, it's okay. You don't have to agree with me. Okay. Emails. Some of the tapers include going topless, ejaculating quickly.

We've been getting a lot of emails about ejaculating quickly. I wonder if I did something to do with global warming or something. I don't know why everyone's ejaculating. The world we talk about ejaculating a lot. We were talking about the distance. Ejection. How some guy can ejaculate 18 freaking feet. I know.

Like, what is that? It's amazing. Yeah. I know. Re Discovering the single life and orgasm is trying to probably versus orgasm is trying to sex. But for some reason, like, there's trends in emails, a lot of men are ejaculating quickly, and you always say everything in global warming, so I don't know if I

did anything. I just wanted to. You got a pre-game, fellas. I gave you the combination. You know, having a couple of steps of this, a couple of steps of that, maybe make loves yourself before you go on a date. Right, and then have. For yourself to a nice, take dinner before you go out,

do all that, be kind to yourself. Aww. And then maybe you'll last longer in the bedroom. Exactly. Okay, let's see. Let's see what we gotta say about that. And another key, maybe I know it through then, never, if you're gonna make love to yourself, never think about the person that you're going

to be going out with. Okay, so during your masturbation session, during your pre-gaming session, don't be masturbating about the chick that you're about to see. I'm like masturbating. Really, why? Because when you actually get to the act, you'll be too excited from the thoughts that you had before. And then you're going to the act, you'll be too excited from the thoughts that you had before. And then you're gonna become a one-man.

So who do you think about the one from? I'm not saying I do this, it's just tips that I would give. You should write a book. The art of free gaming. Exactly, I love it. Okay, hey Emily, I want a three-month friends with benefits membership from Facebook.

Thank you, I'm loving three-month friends with benefits membership from Facebook. Thank you. I'm loving being a FWB. I'm warning if you've heard of GoTopla of the GoToplas movement. Yes. Sunday is GoToplas, do you have you? I heard of just having a Saturday. Saturday. Sunday is GoToplas Day and there are rallies around the U.S. including San Fran.

Derek from St. Paul, Minnesota. Minnesota. It's a GoToplas is a U.S-based organization that claims that women have the same constitutional right that men have to go bare-chested in public. Oh, good. As long as men are allowed to be topless in public, women should have the same constitutional right or also a man-cheft, or something to hide their chests. What do you think about this go-tap list, women?

I remember being a young girl and not understanding that why I couldn't go-tap list, like if my brother could, like I remember being like seven or eight on my Physical in the summer and it was really hot and I was a Michigan. I was like I'm just thinking my top op-op I'm like can't do that. I've ever not understanding that. I mean I love I love to see I would love to see women's breasts don't get me wrong right but It's just it's distracting you can't just all of a sudden have women walk around tapas right now. Yeah, it just can't happen. I was at a concert recently. And we're in this like VIP area. There's a bunch of kids ringing out, you know, I go VIP all

the time. And this girl just decides to take her top off and this feels that she can just walk around in the VIP and then something like there's There was thousands of people around just all Staring at her like are you It was a it was a nice warm sunny day and don't get me wrong. She she looked good Topless, but I just didn't think it was appropriate, right. And I'm not trying to keep women down or anything like that. It just... I think it's a little late to start this movement.

You guys have a little extra versus the men, you know? It's true. And no one finds men's... Men's with their shirt off attractive, you know? Sometimes, sometimes, but that's not what we're looking for. Yeah. Okay. I came across your website on iTunes,

and iTunes application by Quintzins, but you can't imagine how much I love it. I listened to your free show on Friday, and then immediately signed in and became a member. I'm sure that I would listen to your podcast and videos on a daily basis. Love that. I'm a guy in my late 20s and currently don't have a girlfriend,

so I often have sex with escorts on call visits. What? Previously, I used to have sex once a month, so I often have sex with escorts on call visits. What? Previously, I used to have sex once a month, but in the past couple of weeks, I'm feeling that I need to have it every two weeks. I'm not sure if this is something wrong with my health or body. Also, when I have sex, I usually have normal erections, but the problem is that in the first shot, I usually ejaculate quickly, like in three minutes. I usually favor the problem. I usually favor the doggy-souls, so in order to lay the ejaculation, like in three minutes. I usually favor the problem.

I usually favor the doggy spouse in order to delay the ejaculation. Do I need to change the position? Or do I need to see a doctor? Also, I usually take a psialis pill when I have sex, since it helps me have another shot an hour. Should I stop these pills? Or does it matter if I continue? Using them, I look forward to your answers.

Thanks. Hasekho from York, he's a premium member. There's a lot in here. Yeah. Okay, first of all, okay, Seattleists can help, man, so yeah, Seattleists like a Viagra, I can help man get a direction right after. So I get that you're taking that. But I was wondering like there might be some other things

that you could do to, you could pregame like Man the Says. You could also buy a book called the Multi-Orgasmic Man, which is a great book that really helps men with premature ejaculation. It's like, I think it's the best book out there. You could probably get by an audio book of it. And it helps men with premature ejaculation.

It doesn't sound like, yeah, so it sounds like you're cool that you don't have a girlfriend and you're seeing escorts. And I'm wondering what that's about. If that is thwarting your, if don't have a girlfriend and you're seeing escorts and I'm wondering what that's about if that is thwarting your If you want a girlfriend, but you keep seeing escorts I know you're not asking for advice on this and you're just sort of stating it But I'm just wondering if that's preventing you from finding girlfriends because if we're filling it up in another area

You might be less likely to find someone But I would also work on these issues. I don't think there's anything wrong with you But also if you favor the doggie style in order to lay the deck, you need to switch it. Yeah. So a lot of men ejaculate during doggie style position. So if you know you're going to jacket that way, maybe I would have a woman on, you know, have her on top. There are certain positions that do delay ejaculation. So. Yeah. And then you know, keep on practicing what that a lady around. Maybe build your build build up your tolerance. Exactly. Build up your tolerance. I have my orgasm

retreat this weekend, by the way. Yeah, what's up with that? I'm going to be touched by strangers. Strangemen that you don't even know are gonna be missodging for China in a cabin. Next Monday, we'll be sitting here and we're talking about my clitoris and what happened last weekend, which will probably be the most I've talked about ever, my personal clitoris on the show. I'm just looking forward to it.

I just got sort of, and not at all. I'm not looking forward to it at all, actually. Okay, Emily, I just discovered your podcast, and I have a lot of catching up to it. After 15 plus years of monogamy, I found out my wife was unfaithful to our vow. Hor! It was like a steak was driven through my heart.

Skink, sorry. But I'm getting over it. A steak was driven through his heart. Skank, sorry. But I'm getting over it. A steak was driven through his heart. I'm going around to see the goodness and nomenogamy, even in a committed relationship. Skank. Lately I've enjoyed re-entering the dating world and rediscovering that most women, at least the ones that are fun in all cats, staying out with desire sex, just as much as guys.

And for most, it's just not it's not just about sex when there's a spark It's a thrill for women to chase Be chase tease be tease and have the tension of a strong man By the way, I think I'm becoming a dick at your voice so hot and you and the white men I have terrific chemistry in there. Are you sure you two have never gone on ha ha signed w they wish You wish man, so to have never gotten it on. Ha ha, sign W. They wish. You wish, man. So it was like a stake driven through my heart.

Okay. I love this. Is he still with? No, she was unfaithfully laughter and he's having fun. And he's like, I think a lot of times, so if you're with one person for 15 years, imagine like right now you're bringing up

like a lot of changes in the world. Sounds like a nightmare for you, huh? Women, what, the commitment part? Yeah 15 years I should already have been married in divorce True, then you'd have a study study income Right, I would have made a rich man and I don't study income. I feel like I should have done that already But whatever it's fine. So I think that It's amazing like to be with one person

your whole life and then all of a sudden he's saying, like, I'm realizing how much fun I'm having because he's been having sex with the same person which is what a lot of people do but he's out there and discovering most women are fun to hang out with and then women want sex. And I think in the last 15 years it has changed and it has become more women have become more.

Bangin, it's not even. Yeah, but women have become more bangin it's not even yeah we may become more sexually confident it's not even that hard anymore hard what's not hard to bang a chick yeah when you when you get older it's a lot easier it's a lot easier when you were like a teenage area like oh my god I you have to bend over backwards and do so many things I know

pray and do you know say ounces and many things. I know. And then pray and do, you know, say ounces and stuff. I know. And now you give some shots to Kula. Yeah, like, hey, here you go. She's here. Yeah. And your older, like successful man, women just throw themselves at you, right, menace?

Oh, yeah, fall at the time. Uh-huh. Hi, I'm here. When I decided to talk to them. When you decided to talk to them, why are you so silly? Why do you know I talked to them? What about that chick that was stalking you on Twitter or whatever?

What's wrong? Exactly. No, apparently she called the radio station over the weekend. I got a text message. I posted it online on Instagram. If you guys follow me on Instagram on white menace, it's a photo sharing app on your phone.

And she called and said she told one of the other DJs Instagram on white menace it's a photo sharing app on your phone and she called and said She told one the other DJs that she