Sex With Emily - SWE: Porn Star Skin Diamond

Episode Date: February 22, 2014

Porn Star Skin Diamond dishes about having sex like a porn star... and having sex like a cat. You'll have to listen to the show to hear about her sexual kitty play. Skin Diamond grew up in Scotland with a passion for Christianity and a huge crush on Jessica Rabbit. Although she no longer believes in organized religion, her love for the female form developed beyond cartoons. Skin Diamond identifies as bisexual and has a rare ability to orgasm on command (perfect for porn!). Skin Diamond proves that not all orgasms in porn are fake.  She explains how she orgasms by doing Kegels exercises and how to make your orgasms even stronger by changing the way you breathe.  After she satisfies all your orgasmic needs, she doubles the fun with a lively discussion on double penetration (DP). Last but not least, Skin Diamond tells you how to handle a gigantic penis.Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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it's like everyone can see her Twitter And she said Emily my boyfriend's penis is too big and it hurts when we have sex and what do I do and I she's like I don't know what to do and I said lots of I said loob loob loob go slow women on top Position you can control it and then that's all I said how to put her words us She's because that's like what you tell people when he has a big penis and the next day She was like, oh my god totally helped help my sex life. I feel like I was what that wasn't her that was him No stealing her phone and tweeting Right, my boyfriend has a big penis. Yeah a lot of women you always hear with the guys the small penises But we'll seriously there's guys you know working on love line

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I missed you. In New York was amazing. There was two blizzards. But it was fine. It was Valentine's Day because I feel like Santa Claus. It's like my week of the year. So I did a bunch of press and went. I was on like Fox News.

I did a panel for Match.com with Patty Stanger and Perez Hilton. Press home. And we answered a lot of questions and there's a new poll that came out. I know I really get a word as well as I'm like I usually the talker, but it was great. If anyone wants to check it out, we're going to be doing a blog about it too on my website. And I also write for Patty Stanger on her website, but it was interesting. There was a lot of facts about like single people in America and lots of bloggers and people there It's fun and it was a really long trip two weeks and I got sick again

We missed you. I missed it here because I do love line after this love line if you guys want to download It's a great it's a nationally syndicated show, but it's also podcast you can listen to it I do it after this with Dr. Drew. It's super fun and But it was good, but I just the reason I was late. I'm sorry I'm a few minutes, but I was on the phone. Okay, so this, this has ever happened to you. I was traveling. I was in New York. I served for two weeks, right? And I travel sometimes, like not every month. My goddamn cell phone bill, I went over, right? Because some months I use a lot of, I use a lot of data, right? Because you're traveling and you're always on your phone. It's so hard to keep track of the

goddamn data. I know. So I went over, but like I haven't gone over in a while, and then they got dinged because I didn't know. And I ended up paying. I was like, my bill was like, it's going to be like $175. I couldn't get it. So then I heard about Ting. I've talked about Ting before and I go to Ting and they've got the most amazing thing. So this like savings calculator.

I'm such a geek. I was into I'm not even a geek, but so for all their websites beautiful you go to Emily dot ting dot com and you savings calculator. So what you do is you go there I put in my my my login and I password to my current cell phone plan and it's like and it calculates exactly how much I'll save to make that sound. No, but in my brain it did and I was like I could save $85 a month just switching. I did the exact same thing. And then I have fun with it. And I start doing like the math.

And I'm like, how much am I going to save a year? How much will I save in 10 years? And I'm like, next thing I know, I'm like trying to buy a boat for myself. Exactly. I'm like, by a house, I'll be like saving like 900 bucks. And it's so cool. And the other biggest thing about that, which freaked me out, is the more, okay, so the more this was figured out.

Because I'm always confused with the data. They said, the more you use, the more data you use, the better rates you get. So if you're used, like if it varies, like one month, I'm traveling, I'm in the office all the time, so I don't need it. It varies and there's no problem and they don't charge you more.

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Yeah, and then they emailed me a person named Susan, like not even like cost or reserve, but she was like, how to go. And I can't. And then she emailed her back. Like, I'm in love. Okay. So anyway, that was my day. But anyway, yeah, New York was fun. I'm happy to be back here, though. I, you know, I grew from Michigan. You thought I could handle the blizzards. I'm just not. You're a very wavy little lady. I'm a wavy check. Yeah. Hey, who's this sexy wavy chick you got in front of you? Oh, we've got skin diamond here. Hello Skin diamond. She is so sexy and beautiful and skin diamond. I actually I first met you at the Ex-Biz Awards. Yes, but I've known about you because you were also at avianne awards and you won like what didn't you win?

So she's a porn star and nude model born in the United States, Raisin, Scotland. And you won this year, okay, so you've nominated for 12 AVN awards, six X-Biz Awards, five urban X-Awards, X-Biz, best supporting actress, best surprise, female performer of the year. Check out skindiamondvip.com. She's super hot and sexy. My assistant Kelsey is her. She came. She never comes here. Like I've been trying to get her come because late and she came tonight because she wanted to talk to me.

Oh everyone wants to talk to me. And these are calling it tonight too. So I do my show every Thursday at 839.30 and people can actually call in what's the number again? You asking me? I don't know. It's something. 1-800-L-O-V-E-191. Oh yeah, 1-800-L-O-V-191. And 839-30-Pacific Standard Time. You can always call in and I'm talked about guests. So, okay. Skin, Diamond, beautiful woman.

Tell me everything. Okay, so you were raised in Scotland but your parents were missionaries? Yes. I moved to Scotland when I was three and I lived there for 20 years. 20 years, wow, okay. It was pretty amazing. I actually really love Scotland, even though I got bullied a lot when I was in school, because I was so different.

Right. How are you different? Well, because I mean, there's not a lot of people in color. Right. So I was usually like the only black girl in my school. Right. And, you know, like being an American, that's also something that's different. I used to get bullied for that. And just, and I was a total Jesus freak too.

So you're saying because you're parents. Okay. So what, when did you, are you still Jesus freak? I'm not religious. I'm, I'm very spiritual, but I don't believe in organized religion. I think it's too corrupt. Okay. So how did it affect you? Excuse me, growing up. You were into it and then what was the turning, you know? I remember very vividly. I had just finished horse riding with a friend and her step sister was in my class and they were like part of the bad kids you know like the kids it would listen to metal and smoke and we would go behind the the garages and smoke cigarettes at school or whatever and I remember thinking I'm gonna not be a

Christian just for a little while and see what it's like right and then I ended up never looking back after that not that there's anything wrong with no judgement exactly but I it's not for me you like it chooses you were raised with it and then you choose I think that's what we all do were raised with a that there's anything wrong with Christianity. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, parents think about what you do and you know what my parents are so cool about it. Like my my mom's always been like my best friend and I told her when I first started stripping and whatever. But they are so cool about it. They even came to the avian awards and met my agent and because they put they had me on a billboard outside the hard rock. So my dad was there taking photos. It was really good. So cool. Are they still very religious though? Um, I mean, they're religious, but they they're not they they're like me. They're

they're spiritual and they believe in it and everything, but they just don't like the corruption of the church. Right. I know. Right. So I have a lot of people feel. So that I love that they support you. Yeah. They're really awesome. It's so what makes it a difference in the world. My my parents formed me to everyone's like, what do your parents think of what you do? And they're fine. I'm making a living, talking about stuff. Some helping people, right? Yeah.

Yeah, I feel really lucky because a lot of girls that do this, I've heard horror stories of girls being disowned and cut off from their families entirely. And I'm really blessed to have such an amazing family that have stood by my decisions, even if they don't. It's not the path that they would have chosen for me, of course, but they can see that I'm happy and levelheaded. Yeah, look, strange though, is they actually blindly support you because it's not like they can watch your work and say you did a really good job there.

Do they watch? I wonder. No, they watch. They want to watch an inter-hard course. I mean, my mom, like, like, if she sees, like, naked photos of me, or something online, she's like, oh, well, I just won't look at that one. But she's really cute about it. Totally, that's good. I love it. So what was like the defining moment in your life when you were like, I'm going to get into, you started with stripping. Or how did you, how did you start it? Well, I first started. I started nude modeling. When I was 19, I wanted to model for suicide girls originally.

And that was where the name skin came around because I was going to be skinned suicide. Okay. But then I ended up not modeling for them. I modeled for this other company called God's Girls, which is kind of similar, but cooler. Anyway. And so I did that for a while. Then I got into fetish modeling I used to go to torture garden in London all the time and model in the fashion shows there and I dated fetish fashion

photographers and my shoots started getting more and more naughty and like I was like treading into girl girl territory and like treading into girl girl territory and a company that I had posed for burning angel approached me wanting, asking if I wanted to shoot a hardcore sex scene. And I was like, well, I'll shoot a girl girl scene and it was going to go, I was going to go to Paris. I'm like, I of course want to go to Paris. And I ended up having so much fun on that trip.

I stayed an extra week and shot my first boy girl scenes my first Anal scene. Oh my god the first movie you did or the first few scenes. Yeah When I did it I wasn't really thinking that I was gonna be a porn star I was just doing it because I wanted to try it and I figured if I don't like it I never have to do it again, and I'm all like I'm already getting naked all over the internet. So I mean, my nose is all wet. I'm not going to sex, right? Take the jump and I ended up really enjoying it. And I didn't do it again for like a year or something. It wasn't until I moved to LA that I started doing it full time and I got my agent. Okay. And that was when everything went crazy.

Because I tell me when you did your first girl at girl girl story, are you with men and women? Yes, I identify as bisexual. Okay. So had you been with women growing up or was it more for porn and then you were into it after you did it? I've always been into girls. I think before even realized I was into girls, I remember seeing like a naked woman when I was quite young and feeling turned on and being like, oh, this is weird. And I like had the biggest crush on Jessica Rabbit growing up. But yeah, but I love guys too. So I got it. So are you in a relationship right now? I mean, I'm dating, but I'm not in anything serious. Right.

So yeah, it's when. So your scenes that you do, so you've done a little bit of everything. So that first thing, so what would you say right now are the best and worst aspects of doing porn? I think the best aspect is the freedom that I have. I can pretty much just do whatever I want now

because it's, I mean, I make a lot of money. I can make a lot of money very quickly because, you know, for every scene, I'm getting like $1,000, whatever. So like if I'm shooting like nine times a month, then that's a lot of money. That's a lot more than working nine to five. But I think the, um, and of

course, the orgasms, right. I do. I actually, I come really easily. It's like my pussy was made for porn. But the, the, the thing that I dislike about porn, it's not the porn itself. It's the stigma that can come with it. You get branded as this type of person when you do porn and everyone assumes that porn or chicks are crazy, like drug addicts and sex addicts. I'm actually like, I feel like because sex is my job, I actually have sex less than my personal life. Because I'm pickier. I'm not just gonna

Screw anybody. I'm like I think I paid Yeah, that's the only the just the the bias that comes with it. Exactly. No, there's definitely there definitely is a sigma to it I understand same with what I do people are like they maybe sex family, you know Yeah, wild and bad or whatever and I'm not that I haven't tried a few things here and there But I'm not what I haven't tried a few things here and there, but I'm not what people would necessarily think. So tell me about women, you're with women. I always hate to ask women, bisexual women, who've been with a lot of women, what you find,

like, is there anything when you hook up with women, any good tips that you have, like oral sex tips about going down a woman. I feel like women know best. Oral sex tips, I think, um, taking it slow, lots of teasing, like not, like kissing around the pussy. Right. And because then it's, like, biting the inside, like just little nibbles and stuff and just taking things really slowly, Like it's not a race.

You can take a time to explore if, you know, you're doing something and she makes a noise then keep doing it. Keep going with the noise. It's right. She's learning. That's a good thing. It's when she's hungry.

Yeah. I think it's, yeah, just taking your time and enjoying it. And because then you feel it and when you're with men, you feel I'm sure you're probably with men who are more experienced and poor, but in real day to day life, do you find that men a lot of times? I was trying to say to my guy friend the day, he's like, what do you mean guys aren't good?

I'm like, there's a lot of men who just don't, they don't get oral sex, they try, are these other not into it, or they don't really know what they're doing. I think because every vagina is different. So you have to learn, you have to pay attention, you have to like focus on is she moaning, is she moving? How is how's her body changing, you know, and they don't pay attention to it at all. Well, it's it's even even guys like every guy likes it a little different.

Right. Same. Same. So I think that's that's the key. You have to take it slow because you have to read the person and figure out what they like. And then once you know, then you can just like the next time or whatever you can just go for it, but especially the first time, it's like, that's why I love sex because it's different with everyone. So it's always new, it's always fresh. Exactly. And it should constantly be, though, and that's what, you know, I'd say one of the main

points I make on the show over and over again is that your sex life should be expansive if you're in a relationship. It should be something that's constantly growing, that you're challenging each other, and you're doing new things and you're raising the level. And at any rate, raising the level to craziness, I just mean you're trying new things and it's exciting. And it's like this beautiful thing, and so many people have so many troubles with it, and they just kind of get stagnated.

And it is a beautiful thing. we're all like we wouldn't be here without sex. I think I think one of the the the easiest ways to figure out is like just dirty talk. Now I know the guy that I'm dating like he really wants to have a threesome because like I'll talk to him about it during like we'll merge together and be like oh see you want to see me and like buried in another girl and and and he loves it. So now like, well, now we have to have three so. I like to.

Yeah, I'm going to find one of my porno friends. Oh my God, that's too much. Oh, I know so many. I'm sure he's never done a whole bar. He's never had a three-sum. She'll be his first. Yeah. Oh my God, that's so fun.

Do you like having three-sums? I do. I think they're always a little bit trickier though because there's the danger of someone feeling left out. Exactly. So I actually prefer orgies because then there's more people to play with. If somebody's feeling left out, you can be like, Oh, well, I'm going to go over here. Exactly. No, it is true. It's so true that I always say it's always better when you have a three-some, if you're not all attached, I give it a true. It's so true that I always say it's always better when you have a threesome if you're not all attached.

I give it a couple and then you bring someone else in. It can be so tricky because it's going to come with it at the end of the night or who's going to finish off. I mean, there's a lot, there's a lot. I mean, that's just one of the minor things, but it is true that it can't get sticky. Like couples who think we're going to have a threesome and it's going to save our relationship. No, you have to have like a really solid ground really great Communication before you bring in a third partner. So I want to go back to orgasm quickly because I don't I orgasm

But not as quickly and I I'm very and veiced people like you so have you always like it when did you start masturbating? um I remember masturbating with remember those little braiding divide hair braiding twisty devices I remember masturbating with that because I would turn it on and it would vibrate a little bit I was young I must have been like I Don't know like 11 I Was I saw something I may maybe shouldn't have at a very young age So I already had the the one's first. Yeah, but I just like I remember the first time I like masturbate

It's just my fingers and like I had an orgasm and I was like and I was and I was like was was that it because I wasn't sure You mean when you first yeah, you don't know. So is it clitorally or G-spot or everything you are gathered? It's a little bit of everything. I can, I don't know. I have really strong kegel muscles too. Right, did you have kegel exercises? I've been doing those since before I knew what they were.

Wow. So like maybe seven. Because I would, I was young. I used to have this weird complex about peeing and I would I was young. I used to have this weird complex about peeing and I would always hold it because I'd be playing or whatever and I didn't want to go. So I would, but by holding it, I was like strengthening my kegel muscles and then I noticed that if I needed to pee

and I mislike worked my kegels, I could actually have an orgasm without having to touch myself. So I'd be on the bus or whatever, just like, silently, really happy bus right home. Well, kegels exercise is so important if you don't know what they are. I have an iPhone app actually called kegel camp. Oh really? Yeah, every day it pops up on your phone. There's a little reminder, and it says time for you can set it any time of day, and

it's five minutes a day, and it's my voice that walks you through it and there's 20 levels. So people get to think it harder and harder levels. And people get to level 20 and like men, women, and they have stronger organisms because of it. And I'm like, everyone needs to do it. I think you understand, but I love that you naturally did it. So you just naturally born for this.

It's true. Do you do them during sex? Yes, I do. That's how when I'm working, if the director is like, okay, we need you to have an orgasm. Usually the girls have to fake it because I mean who can come on command of your woman. But for me, it's a lot easier because I can just work my kegels and I can kind of force myself to come. Exactly. Which is a great tip for women. If you do have a hard time orgasming during the course, I'm telling you download my app or just

do it yourself. I think just the thing about my app that's unique is that it just reminds you because they say do a metastrophic light, do a more of it going on, remember? So it's like, I'm doing mine right now. Right, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm just five minutes and you will see like within a month

that you will have a musical orgasms and you can do a musical sex. But for me too, when I want to, when I feel like it's coming, but it's, you know, when you feel like you're about to orgasm and you're not like, I just do my kiggles and it's a boom and it happens. So they know what else is a really good trick.

Well, this is this I do this accidentally. I hold my breath when I'm coming and but it's it's almost like a form of breath play because when you're light headed because of the air deprivation, it makes the orgasms feel even cooler. Wow. That's a good one. I like it. So because a lot of women hold their breath the whole time they're having sex and I often think that that prevents them from having orgasms, but you do it right before.

Yeah, I do it as I'm coming. And which is why I think I'm always so out of it after sex because I'm like, I come so many times. Can you love the orgasms? I always do. It's weird. I'm very, very lucky. I realize that I'm like, I come so many times. Can you move more orgasms? I always do. It's weird. I'm very, very likely. I realize that I'm very likely.

I kind of want you to leave right now. But so do you have a sex choice? I pretty much use a hotachi religiously. I actually just recently broke mine. I need to get into one because I use it so much. But I think every woman should invest in a Hattachie. They're like 40 bucks.

And there's two settings. You plug it in, but it is the best vibrator. It is the best vibrator. Ever. And you can get the attachments. The attachments are amazing. I love they've been sending me the attachments. So I know like the rubber ones, you can do the G-Spot thing.

It's like, oh my god, it's like a million different things like Legos. You just keep building on here. Yeah, you guys have all heard me talk about it. It's actually not called a touch anymore. It's now called the Magic Wand, a touchy win-away. But it is the magic wand and you can go to sexwithemily.com. Slash good vibes, use coupon code Emily and you get 15% off your purchase and I just say, I mean, I have a lot of great toys on that page if you go there, but I touch

you every woman. I mean, I can plug it into the wall. It was like an old night, it wasn't like that night, so it'd be like, but still, so I always wanted him ready to go. But it is true, the attache is like the sure thing, because it just happens in like three minutes. And it's amazing, and I can have like multiple, multiple, multiple.

So now that I'm like, oh God, I'm late, I'm making so many more. So I'm wondering, now that you are a porn star, do you think is the experience of having sex now different from when before you were porn star? I think it's definitely changed because I feel one I feel more experienced because I've gotten to experience a lot of things that I would have never experienced had I not done porn like crazy BDSM things that maybe I wouldn't have felt safe doing but because I know that I'm working with professionals I'm in safe hands so they can get

crazy. But I think I just I I know I know good sex better like I know that it's passion is everything whereas you know when you're young you're just like I want it hard and fast all the time But now it's a little bit it's different. It's a little bit like I actually don't mind it when it's slow and Very nice exactly. I always tell you you just gotta mix it up. It is true when we're younger. It's like jackhammer Yeah, because you you want it you're like it's a race to have an orgasm and now it's more like no I want to take it slow and really enjoy it I look to like make out when I'm to take it slow. Exactly. And really enjoy it. I love to make out when I'm having sex and time to the middle of the whole thing. Oh, the whole time.

I love kissing. I love kissing too. It's so intimate. Yeah, it really like heightens everything that you're doing. So I think that's great. Slow down. So your sex, so it is better now. And I feel like same with me.

It's like, it's been doing the show. I feel like I've learned so much more. Like how can I get a bad sex? You know what I mean? Sometimes I do. I want to do it for someone. So would you say, if you could direct your own porn scene, if you were a director, do you ever want to direct maybe?

Maybe. I mean, I've thought about it. I've always thought that maybe I wasn't ready myself to be in charge, but I'm actually leaning more towards wanting to direct. Now I have my direct stuff from my website. So that's like my little thing. Tell me your website again. It's skindiamondvip.com.

Hot videos and everything. People are talking about pictures. It's pretty naughty. It's awesome. So what would go down in your dream sex and your dream porn scene? Well, skindiamonds, fantasy porn scene, what happens? I like their pretending I'm a kitty a lot.

Really? I have this thing. It's like puppy play, but it's kitty play. And I have a kitty butt plug tail that has a pink bow on the end and a bell. And then I have matching ears and a collar. I have so sexy. Is that on your website? Can you see with the Kitty Butt blog? Actually, the scene that won AVN was my

blowbang scene and it was, it was all my idea. I was super excited that it won. Oh my God, so you kind of did your act it. Yeah. It was really, so what, okay, tell me about the scene. So it was a blowbang to those that do not know what a blow bang is. It's like a gang bang only it's all oral sex. So I think there was like nine to 12 guy who remembers this. Nine tells guys and you and I was the kitty and it was my idea to pretend to be a cat the whole time while I'm getting banged in my face and then at the end they all came in a little kitty bowl and then I laughed it up like that's a real creative scene. It was super fun.

I'm so glad at one. I mean like that's what made that you did just directly, you literally that was your idea. Were you like, hey director, come here, I got this idea. Yeah, because I already had, because I'm into kitty play in my personal life. So I already had all this stuff and I was like, well, it wouldn't be really cool to do this scene where I'm a cat. And it's a blow bang and instead of milk, it's come.

That's really sexy. So check it out. It was my elegant angel movie entitled skin. Okay, elegant angel people can find. Where can they find that? Just elegant angel.com. Okay, that's cool. So what award are you most proud of that you won in the pouring?

Is that one? That's definitely the top one. The movie for Algon Angel actually won three awards in total. I also won Best Double Penetration Sex scene, and the movie is a whole one Best Ghanzo release at X-Biz. But I also won female performer of the year at Urban X Awards last year. You did? What was that for?

Your female performer of the year? Well, that's basically just the highest award for porn girls. It's like, you know, like, best actress. Just for everything that you've done this year, right? That's a big friggin' deal. And you're in LA. It's exciting. You in this area?

Okay, do you ever go to any of the like sex clubs in LA or parties here or do you just? Not so much anymore. I used to go to fetish clubs a lot in Europe, but see, I'm spoiled and the fetish clubs here, I'm like, they're not as good. I know. You have it all. I'm just curious because I'm actually doing a segment tomorrow for television. They're talking about the underground scenes in LA, which I just move here in San Francisco.

So I have an experience in yeah, but I would like to. I know. San Francisco has some crazy stuff. I know. And I've done some of that there, but not here. So I need to like talk, I need to get into it more. Okay, we actually have a caller. Let's talk to anonymous.

Let's do that. So anonymous. Hey, your arm is sex with Emily and skin diamond. What's going on anonymous, are you there? He wants to know, how do I get my wife to open up about her fantasies? Well, let's try to get this to going. Hello.

Hi, we want to talk to you. Maybe they got shy. We can just answer. How do you think? I mean, I said, what's the time? What would you be your advice to a guy who wants his wife to open up about her fantasies? Maybe he should try telling her one of his freaky fantasies, and that way she'll feel more comfortable opening up about hers. Exactly.

Also, maybe right after sex, because you know, everyone's in a great mood after sex. Right. It is a good time to talk about after not during. Well, sometimes during, but it depends on if it's really freaking, you don't want to spoil the mood. Then maybe wait till afterwards. Right. But a lot of women I find don't or they they're not they probably do a fanaties, but they're not necessarily aware of them or they don't think like men, you know, a lot of men are like a million fanaties. So I also say sometimes a good way to like ask her is to say to start it slow and say, what's your most memorable time that we've ever sexed together? What's your favorite time that we've ever sexed together? What's your best memory

of our sex life? And maybe that's a good way of she's like, God, that time you, you know, threw me on the bed and ripped off my clothes, well, then I'll know. Okay, so she's into something a little more aggressive or she said that time you came home with flowers and tripped them on, you know, you dropped rose petals on the bed. You know, it's whatever it is, then you kind of get, you know, you kind of can see into her mind on what she's thinking and it can help open up the dialogue because so many couples just don't talk about it. They many gather forever and they don't talk about their sex life. Yeah, I think a lot of people are scared that someone's gonna think they're weird,

but honestly, like everyone has some freaky fantasies. Right, it's so true. Do you think you've lived out all your freaky fantasies? I think I've lived out at least all the ones that I've thought about, or seen in parnos that I wanted to experience myself. Like what, like can you name one? Getting D-P'd, double penetration.

Right. Is that amazing? Oh, it's so good. I actually prefer better than anal sex because it's best of both worlds. Right, exactly. And you tracked it to the men that we're doing it always or not always.

I mean, I always try to find something about them that I like, even if maybe they're not my type. Because my type. Because my type of guys aren't really the kind of guys that you would find in porn. I'm just a really like down to earth, like regular guys. Right. Whereas porn, guys are usually super buff and whatever. But yeah, I like, I just try to find something about them that I like, like maybe I have nice eyes

or maybe they're really funny and they make me laugh. Right. Maybe they're super strong and could just me laugh or maybe they're super strong and could just throw me around. That's always amazing. I love them guys. I know. We're small too.

How tall are you? I'm five foot five. OK. Yeah. I'll just get your little. Yeah. I'm five foot one. So we actually, oh, he is.

OK. So we said, well, we already answered. OK. Hey, are you there? I'm there. Hi. OK. Did you hear what I don't know if you can hear what you're saying?

But you want to get your wife to open up about her fantasies. Yeah. You know, I think we just hit a little bit of a plateau. I feel like I've tried to say a little bit of mine and then try to pull out a little bit of hers. And I feel like she's just not. I don't know. She's not open to it.

She's just thinking, thinking other things at this point. Oh, how long have you been together? What's that? How long have you guys been together? We've been married for five years now and together for like ten. Okay, and what did you share with her? What was your fantasy? Well actually like one of mine is and something that she shared with me before was, you know, some D.P. action. P. Like you're in. And I'm okay with that. Like I want to hear more about

that. Wait, can you back up? I don't know if I heard you correctly. What kind of action? There's some DP action. DP, double penetration. Oh, you have a penetration. We were just talking about that. Yeah.

So you would want, you would want another guy in the room where you'd want to use like a dildo. We'll see, you see, she's another guy. You'd be okay with her with another guy. And I'm up for that. Oh, that's hard. Yeah, that's so hard. You'd be okay with her with another guy. And I'm up for that. Oh, that's hot. Yeah, that's so hot. So she wants that.

She mentioned it before and I try and pull it back out of her and I feel like she's just... Well, I mean, things like that. If somebody's never done it before, it's going to make anyone feel a little bit nervous and maybe she just has stage fright. Right. Right. And maybe you got to ease into it. So maybe if her fantasy is double penetration, maybe you could buy like a great dildo or

something like a butt plug and start like experimenting so she knows what it feels like. And then you bring it up, bring it someone into the room maybe. Plus, if you have sex with her while she has a butt plug in, it feels really good for the guys too. Yeah. The butt plug feels good to the guys because they can feel the butt plug rubbing against them. Exactly. The vibrators guys don't realize that the vibrations feel good on them as well. Oh, totally. Yeah. So I think maybe you got to change your tactics how you talked to her. I don't know if you heard her I was saying earlier because we couldn't hear you but I was saying sometimes a great thing to ask her is to say what's your most memorable sex experience that we've

ever had? Which the favorite time in your when you think of our sex life which is the greatest sex memory you have. And if she explained it to you you know that time you you know you you rip my clothes off in the alley or we had you know sex in the car or you put rose petals on the bed or whatever it is then you'll know like what in her mind really turns her on and what's memorable. That could be a softer way to get it going. Or like whisper something dirty in her ear while you're inside of her.

She like dirty talk? I know, I did so. Does she like dirty talk? Yeah? I appreciate it. Yeah. Well good luck to you. Just keep talking keep talking keep trying okay, don't give up on it You just got to find the right way to communicate to her about it. It's hard. Okay. Good luck to you Thanks for calling sex with Emily. It is hard sometimes

I'm sure you don't have a heart in your relationships talking about what you want what you need well I mean it's when you do porn you almost like Forget that regular people aren't as open. Right. Like I'll be talking about anal sex really like blah blah and then this happened with someone that's not in the industry and there are looks of shock. Yeah. Always really funny.

I know exactly. But I don't know. I've always been really open sexually. Like I remember the way that I found out that I was into breath play. It was because I was a teenager. There was this boy that we always used to flirt. We never did any. We never went the full.

Should be. But he mentioned that he really liked to choke girls during sex. And I remember getting so turned on when he said that just from talking about it. And then after that, I really wanted to try it. And so I think it was a while before I actually did try it. But like, it's funny how like just one little word will, will set something on. Exactly. A lot of, yeah, a lot of people, women are entitled to the, the chugging. And it's interesting. The part about the breath that helps you with orgasm. Oh, it's so good.

I mean, don't do it too hard guys. You don't have to do it. Oh, yeah, yeah. You there is start slow. You have to be careful because you can't crush the windpipe. There is a there is a way you choke. You're right. I would just describe that way you choke. Yeah, but you have to try to stop. It's the other way around. You don't want to go too hard. Yeah, that's true. So I'm wondering when you do start dating someone, do you think that they do treat you differently when they know that your parents are you just date these down to earth guys that are pretty cool with it? I think at first there's like expectations. It's funny. It's like a sex swimming

that is triple in your room. I mean, maybe you do. I do have a super pole in my house. But I mean, I'm always I'm always upfront about what I do. Usually guys like they know me as a porn star when they meet me. Um, guys always think that dating a porn chick is super cool like the idea of it's really cool, but I mean, it's, it does get hard because guys, the jealousy guys are like, oh, well, you're going to work and getting banged by all like, you, it's hard to be like, oh, so why don't you do a work? Oh, I got banged by five guys. Exactly.

I laughed up the calm of nine. Yeah. It is hard to, I find that too. Ben, it's very hard to find a man who's not threatened by what you do. Yeah. He's not jealous that you're having. I mean, you've got to find a really confident, which is sexy anyway. Yeah. Confidence is the sexiest thing, I think. Mm. Absolutely. And so I'm going to compliment yourself. And he's like, I'm cool with that. It's your job. I love you. Because it is a job at the end of the day. I mean, I'm

don't, I don't want to like most of the guys that I'm being on camera, like I'm not going to like, hook up without side. I love them on set, but that's the end of it. So, you, um, so I want to start with anal sex now that we touch on that a little bit. Um, it seems like like it's very common, like even in the last 10, 15 years, like I think it's because of porn, a lot of people, young kids growing up, or wherever they see it. Um, a lot of guys want to try it. I feel like a lot of women have bad experience, first experiences because guys just try like, shove it in or they don't prepare. Yeah. And so what would you say are the good news and don'ts about going through the back door

the first time, or if you want your partner to do it, if you want a woman to do it your with, like, what would you suggest? Well, if you want it to be super magical, I would suggest that the girl clean herself out beforehand to avoid any... Go back through. Or like, yeah, Nema, Nema a little bit. Just, you know, lots and lots of loops. Silicone based is better because it doesn't dry out

and get sticky and weird. Go super slow, especially if he's girthy. Right. Uncut guys are a lot easier to handle, but yeah, just lots of lube go slow. And like you said earlier, for guys with big cocks, if she's on top, then she can control it. She can exactly. And I love anal sex on top because especially like Lexington's steel, who's my arm. I like to go on top of him.

Right. Right. You got it. It's true. When you're on top, women on top or April through anal sex, you're in control. And again, you've got to leave, go slow. And again, if you're with a partner who you really want to try anal sex and she's scared about it because she just thinks, oh my god, it's going to hurt.

And where I was saying, the beginning is a lot of women have bad experiences because guys just shove it in, no loop. So go so, and even start with your finger. Even warmer up with your finger. They also have anal training kits that you can get that are, it's like a set of butt plugs and they start off super, super small and then they get bigger. So you can actually stretch yourself up. I always stretch before a scene, because you know, you stretch your aims before you see it. It's stretching before a run.

It's like stretching before a run. Because I mean, some of the guys that I do, I mean, they're huge, that's why they're in porn. And so I have a dilator kit that I always stretch before and because there's also- How long before and do you have to do it? I mean, just right before for like a few minutes and I'll usually like master bait with a vibrator at the same time because I find that if I have an orgasm while

I'm playing with my butt, then that's because you're you want your butt to loosen up so that you don't tear. That's always the danger. If you try to stretch it too fast, then you might tear something and it's paint, and that's when it's super painful. Exactly. And you know, you can have problems. So that's a great, that is a great, great tip.

Okay, so what about when you are performing oral sex on a man? What are some great tips that you, I know everyone met these different. I love, I love giving head. It's actually one of my favorite things to do. You're like the dream woman. She orgasms all the time. She loves giving

at. Okay, so Tom, I know. I like it. So many guys, that's their biggest complaint is that if a woman just seems enthusiastic about it, they're happy, but a lot of women just aren't. So what do you love about it? What do you do? Well, I'm a, I'm a big pleaser. I love knowing that I'm making someone, like if someone starts shaking and like moaning really hard or whatever, because of something that I'm doing, then it makes me what? Knowing that I'm doing them all. Totally, yeah, it turns you on.

Yeah, like, I mean, like, I don't know, when I suck cock, I just, it's like when you're looking a pussy, you know, you don't wanna just do the same thing over and over again, mix it up, like, see what he likes, maybe just like suck on the head for a little bit, and then while you're jacking it off or Maybe like flick the tip of it with your tongue while it's in your mouth

Right or put it right that to the back and and suck really hard while it's all the way inside Exactly just keep mixing it up and then we find something and I have to say another great way We couples first start dating or people are to get is mutual masturbation Why why why and plus you can figure out how he likes it? And I have to say another great way we couples first start dating or people are getting is mutual masturbation. Oh, I see. Like, so what? So what? And plus you can figure out how he likes it. Exactly. You're like, oh, this is what he does with the hand and he goes really fast at the end or

whatever it is and you learn. And he can see, are you do it? It's like, I think it's like, I don't, I think it should be like like a requisite for couples. It's super hot. It's super hot. It's super hot. It's super hot.

It's super hot. It's super hot. It's super hot. It's super hot. It's super hot. It's super hot. It's super hot. So I was gonna also ask you if you Do you have any advice for people like is your been you've had such a successful career? Is so early on like do you have any advice for somebody who wants to start a career? I think for For most men they should probably Have second thoughts because being a porn star for a man is a lot harder than it looks. Tell me why. Because, think about it, you got to get hard on commands in front of a big group of people who all just want to go home and then you have to come on commands.

Right. And if you can't, then people are going to be starting to look at their watches and going to put you off more. And so it's a lot harder and plus you have to have insane amounts of stamina. Right. And you can't believe it. And yeah, stamina. And you can't believe they get. And yeah, it's with men. You can't think it.

Exactly. Like if you can't come, then the whole scene is ruined and everybody hates you. Exactly. With a lot of pressure. With girls, I think that a lot of girls think that they can't say no to things. And they get pushed past their limits and that's what gives them the bad experience. I think a lot of girls, because they're young and like their agent is telling them like, oh, you have to do this or the director's like, oh, it'll be so much better if you do this.

But unless you're comfortable, don't force it. And always like, you know, do your research, try to find the best agent that you can. Someone that's going to look after you. Right. It's so true to have good management, especially you can, someone that's gonna look after you. Right, it's so true to have good management, especially in this business, it's very hard. Absolutely. And so my other questions for you,

God, we've covered a lot here. Is there any other like top sex tips that you have or people that you think they don't already know? Like what have you learned? We talked about oral sex, we talked about anal sex, but like anything just like overall that you think is a great tip for everyone to remember about sex. I think that the main thing that people should keep in mind is don't take it too seriously.

It's sex. If you end up, you know, trying a position and you fall over, it's not the end of the world is laugh about it. Exactly. It's try something else. Exactly. It's just keep experimenting and have fun. It's play time for grownups.

This is like our, what we get is grown up. Exactly. I know it's like the best thing in the world. It's free most time unless you pay for it. But you know some people do, but I'm saying it's something that you should really just work on and enjoy. How do you feel about massage? Do you like massages?

Oh, I love massages. Who doesn't? I have a shadow present for you. Ooh. I have a massage candle line that I just launched. It's called Emily and Tony, you're gonna love it. Nine. Have you ever used a massage candle?

No. Okay, so it is cocoa, this one's coconut. It's made out of in a so-called soybean oil and coconut oil. And it burns cooler than most candles. So you burn it and it melts into luxurious massage oil. And it's warm and you pour it on your partner. And it's like, you can never burn them.

It's not hot and it's not sticky or tacky. And it just, it gives them a delicious massage. And then I use it in the morning or at night as like a body moisturizer. It's coming out of the well. And it's all good for you. It's so I bought it for you. I mean, I brought you one.

I'm gonna smell it. It's amazing. So I mean, it looks great. And the thing is you. I brought you one. You're gonna smell it. It's amazing. So I mean, it looks great. And the thing is about the massage candles too. It looks great in your home. And for guys, I always say, I know it's amazing. I have to say, I've tried other brands.

I'm like, I wanted to make the perfect massage candle. But they're all natural ingredients. And also, I always think another great sex tip is that, you know, if you're a guy and you got to light the candles, first of all, I have three cents. And they all smell amazing. And you don't have to have a massage with it. You could just put it It could be your it could be your son piece of dinner But then you could be like, oh, hey, babe. I just got this new thing roll

You know guys are usually like trying to give you a massage Women and say I want to give you wherever you're back and like she's putting in your hands because it just feels amazing So if any wants to think of Emily and Tony got calm use coupon What Emily and you will get like 20% off I think or something. So that's for you. Thank you. Thank you. And yeah, you're awesome.

So where can people can find you at your website? My website is skindiamondvip.com and you can also find me at Twitter, at skin underscore diamond. And also for anybody in New York, I'm going to be dancing at Show Palace next week Thursday and Friday. Okay, which shows tonight? Okay, okay, okay. It's the 27th and the 28th. Okay.

Show Palace, New York, and I'm going to be dancing. Yes, what are you going to be doing? Feature dancing. It is trip clubs. Oh, I'm going to give me, oh, yo, Dallas, make your right. Dallas, come here. She's so hot. I'm telling you, if you are in New York or if you're not there,

buy ticket because she's amazing to watch Oh, you don't even have to get you just come to the club. Oh, oh Pay whatever the cover I love it. That's amazing. So go say what about your singing career We never met she was singing before you and the mic started singing like you're really good voice Thank you. I'm actually working on music right now. It's I shot a scene as a music video for a Pornow and that kind of inspired me to be like, oh, well, this was really fun. I'm going to keep going with it. So I've been writing songs and working on all that. I love it. You have so much going on. You're so active and you're wonderful. You've great person.

I really seem just happy and centered and you love what you do. Thank you. And I love people who love what they do. And you're doing well at it probably because you love it so much. I do love it. You got to be you love what you do. Thank you. And I love people who love what they do. And you're doing well at it, probably because you love it so much. I do love it. You gotta be passionate about what you do people. Find your passion in life. And I so appreciate all your sex tips and. Skin, don't take this the wrong way, but I just thought of a gimmick you think that you might do

be able to do to sell albums. What? Has there ever been a musician who's recorded an entire album while having sex? Oh, I don't know if I, I mean... If you just sit on top of your boyfriend and sing it on the microphone, you know what I mean? And then it's like this entire album was recorded while coil-doll was in process. That's kinda hot.

Or a whistler's like video. How about the music porn video? Oh, it was, well, because you know how there's always like a tease premise to pornos whatever well This one particular director Brando approached me saying he wanted to shoot the tease as a music video And then I said well, I want to write the song So I went with my friend and we wrote a song together and then we used it and shot the whole music video And then you can watch the music video and then it turns into a sex Brasers calmcom. Okay, browsers. Brasers.

Brasers. Okay, well you're awesome. So everyone you're gonna check this out and check out my website because we're gonna do a little video right now Just so you can check her out and we're gonna give you some highlights of the show and Yeah, thank you so much for being in the show and Anderson. Thank you for having me. Yeah, you're great I want you to come back again and Anderson How are you doing? Tell me about your show everyone can check out. Yeah, you're great. I want you to come back again. And Anderson, how are you doing? Tell me about your show, everyone can check out. I'm doing how, yeah, film vaults. It's doing better than ever.

We're doing it. We're fantastic. We talk about new movies, old movies, film vault, the film vaults. It's a good show. Check out his podcast. And thanks everyone for listening to Sex with Emily. Follow me on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram,

Sex with Emily. Email me all your sex questions. Feedback at sexwithemlee.com and thanks everyone for listening. Was it good for you? Email me. Feedback at sexwithemlee.com. Bye guys. If you want to less longer in bed, Promesson is the only FDA-approved treatment for premature ejaculation. One in premen suffer from premature ejaculation. They don't have to. Go to promesson.com to get the desensitizing spray that will allow you to have the sexy deserve.

Perhaps play a little game called Just a Tip. Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Hey, this is Jordan Harbinger, host of the Art of Charm Podcast, the number one dating and relationship advice podcast in iTunes. I'm Emily Morris, host of the Sex with Emily Podcast, the number one sex in relationship podcast on iTunes and it's sexwithemily.com. And this is just the tip. Now what about switching up the sex a little bit? You know, you've been married for a few years or dating for a few years.

I think a lot of people fall into like a routine and they're not having the best sex they can possibly have. Absolutely. I always took up was I have to update their sexual bag of tricks. And the couples who have the most amazing and rewarding sex are the ones who actually do mix it up. Because couples they change, you know, over time, emotionally, physically, psychologically.

So you got to push the boundaries a little bit. They crave the excitement, but they don't know what to do. So maybe you, you know, bring in a sex tour, you watch porn together, or you get out of your comfort zone, leave the house, take a vacation, and I'm not thinking you need a ton of money, you can go, you know, go dog that's going to be for a friend, I tell couples all the time to leave your house, stop having sex in the same place in the same room in the same way. Do it, go right in the front yard.

Whatever it is, public sex can be hot. There you go, you didn't hear that from us, we needed to explain about the end of that one. If you guys want to learn more from the art of charm about dating, relationships, and even from us. sexier life that is, also follow me on Twitter at sexwithemily.