Sex With Emily - SWE: Porn Stars Samantha Saint & Chanel Preston Share Sex Secrets

Episode Date: December 7, 2013

This year the incredibly sexy Samantha Saint and Chanel Preston are hosting the AVN awards, where I will be giving the keynote speech. AVN is the Oscars of porn and both adies are nominated for best f...emale performer of the year. I'll be giving away tickets to the AVN show on January 18th in Las Vegas (worth $200 a piece) . Follow me on Twitter @sexwithemliy to participate in the upcoming contest. Also, use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Now back to the porn stars: Chanel Preston gives advice on how to have extremely pleasurable anal sex. She would know, anal sex is the easiest way for her to orgasm (every man's dream). Samantha Saint is more of a clitoral stimulation kind of a girl. She shares how she orgasms through clitoral stimulation and of course, the Original Magic Wand from Good Vibrations (go to sexwithemily.com/goodvibes and use coupon code EMILY for 15% off the greatest vibrator of all-time.) Samantha Saint, Chanel Preston, and I discuss how to mix up your orgasms to have more powerful and consistent orgasms. One way to make her orgasm is through oral sex. The girls discuss cunnilingus tips, including how to suck and push on her clitoris. The conversation quickly switches to penises and how to give the best blow job while cupping the balls. The porn stars describe the cup, twist, and suck method for a job well done.Finally, Samantha Saint and Chanel Preston answer the question: what is one thing men could improve on to be better in bed? There answer isn't what you expect. They don't actually want to have sex like a porn star.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:01:31 I'm not, you know me. I'm not gonna talk about sex, but I'm trying to change the world. Tonight's show, I'm so excited. We have a guy with colors coming in. This is gonna be a great show tonight because I have Samantha, Saint, and Chanel Preston here.
Starting point is 00:01:42 And they are a big round of applause for them. They are the AVN hosts, the AVN award host in Las Vegas. I'm going to tell you all about AVN in a moment and I'm actually there, they are the host of the award show, which is like an infamous award show in Vegas, it's for porn stars. That's right. And you guys are porn stars. We are. We are. We are nominated for Best Scene.
Starting point is 00:02:06 Is that it? Well, we're nominated. We have a lot of nominations, but the big one is female performer. I feel perform with you. That's huge. And I hear. My head's exploding from all the questions I want to ask you.
Starting point is 00:02:16 But here's the thing. The 31st annual AVEAN Awards will be held January 18th at the Hard Rock Hotel and Casino in Vegas. It's dubbed the Oscars of Adult by Entertainment Weekly, the awards features the How to Stars from Adult and Mainstream Pop Culture, and it's co-hosted by these lovely ladies here, Chanel and Preston and Wicked Pictures contract stars to me at the St. So here's the deal. Oh, and they're both nominated for a performer of the year. And I am giving the keynote speech, which I don't know what the Halloween
Starting point is 00:02:41 Tagway is, but it's going to be a really fun, not kind of deal. But it's going to be such a fun, amazing weekend. And we're giving away tickets. That's the most important thing. If you want to go to AVM, we can fly you there. But if you get yourself to Vegas, we will give you tickets. So follow me on Twitter, sex with Emily, or email me feedback at sexwithmme.com. But we're going to be giving away stuff all through the month of December.
Starting point is 00:03:02 So an even a little bit of January. So best way to do is on Twitter, but if you're not on Twitter, you can also, on Facebook, you'll find out, and also, section of the way, dot com, all that stuff. But that's what you gotta do. And we're getting away to take it, so it's not fun. So, I've never been to AVN awards.
Starting point is 00:03:18 Have you guys been before? Yes. Yes. Yes. Tell me. Amazing. It's really crazy. Lots of nudity, lots of sexy women, lots of crazy women, lots of crazy men, lots of just anything that is related is there. It's like a time for people to just really...
Starting point is 00:03:40 What is it like formally or you mean like in the hotel rooms the stuff goes down? Just leave your judgment and probably your dignity at the door Okay, I guess stuff goes on in the hotel room. I mean, I don't want like people to think that they're gonna get invited When you're saying it's crazy or they're like sex show like are people like in the award show obviously is fun and crazy But like is there other like little sex sex performances? I know people are walking around, I'm trying to get at my head around it, because I've got to do a booth there. Okay, well, the convention, the convention, there's booths everywhere. So, not only are there booths for the companies, but there's lots of sex toys, which are,
Starting point is 00:04:17 I mean, they always will let you play with one of them. I'm not trying out. I'm not trying out. I mean, you'll walk around and there's like electric sex toys and like Oh, the shop deal the one. Yeah, one of the... I mean, there's all kinds of things and then you know, you get women to whip you if you want. I'm so excited. I'm gonna do a show from there as well. Maybe we'll do a show with her and some video and stuff. It'll be fun. Absolutely. I'm excited and I, okay, so that's it. We're gonna be there and then what else is it gonna ask you? Okay, so tell me everything really I just I want to know how did you both get into this so whoever wants to start here?
Starting point is 00:04:51 Um, I was actually a stripper your stripper, okay, and someone asked me if I wanted to do For it's so generic It's a gateway and um, I was I said at first, and but then I thought, you know, I fucked that. I would love to do porn. I love performing. I'm comfortable with sex. I actually saw an opportunity to build a career, and so I took it.
Starting point is 00:05:19 And you did, and you've been building a career. You said, yeah, so I have your bio here and it says that you Like to you say impossible. You're very impulsive impulsiveness runs through your veins Do you want to be in positive? What does that mean? How does that manifest sexually? Well, that's like you can go home with a stranger Right without guilt go home with a girl a boy., I don't know, I've always been really adventurous and up for anything. You always have like a young age.
Starting point is 00:05:48 You were older. Yeah, I never had, I was always open-minded about sex. I wasn't even a very promiscuous person ever. It was just, I was like, yeah, whatever. I never really had like these strange negative attitudes about it. That's good. And that's why I became a stripper,
Starting point is 00:06:04 because I was like, what is this, your crazypper because I was like, what is this? What is this crazy world? I was like, I want to try and I did and I really enjoy it. You did, we were your first strip club. I'm in Hawaii. Oh, okay, you're from Hawaii. I'm not from there, but I was living there for many years. So, 939 was my first club. Right, okay, and then Linda, tell me Samantha.
Starting point is 00:06:26 For me, I was... Saint. You guys check out their websites too. They're super hot. SamanthaSaint.com and ChanelPreston.com. Look at these will be on my website as well. Okay. For me, I was not stripping before I got in the industry.
Starting point is 00:06:40 I don't know what happened to me. I just got... How did it get here? I was definitely my curiosity. And I think I'm an exhibitionist, and I enjoy being in front of the camera. And I knew that I liked modeling and magazines and the idea of that, but I knew realistically,
Starting point is 00:06:57 I'm not going to make a living being a model. I mean, that's not going to happen. So beautiful. And hot. Well, thank you. But you're not tall. Are you tall? I am. But I like to eat. Oh, OK's not gonna happen. Why are you so beautiful and hot? Well, thank you, but you're not tall. Are you tall? I am, but I like to eat.
Starting point is 00:07:07 Oh, okay. Sorry. Right, so you can't be like, right, I got. So I'm not gonna be doing runway and the time you see that horn. Yeah, it's okay to eat. Slap it on my hips, baby. Do some movies.
Starting point is 00:07:18 So your exhibition is how did you do what were you like stripping, having sex outside, outdoors? I've done all that. You've done all that, yeah. I don't know. I guess the way I got into it, I found an agent and started out doing solo, girl films, doing magazine print,
Starting point is 00:07:37 more softcore stuff than slowly transitioned into what I am now, which is why. Well, you're ever getting a sexy beast. I don't know. I just recently did my first anal scene and my new movie, Completely Wicked, and my first IR scene for Wicker. And Arachial, sorry.
Starting point is 00:07:54 I know it's a new turn. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, okay, so you did your first anal scene on camera. How long have you been in movies doing porn? It'll be four years in February that I've been in the industry. And how did you wait that long to do anal?
Starting point is 00:08:07 I thought it was like porn is all about anal now. You not want to or I think it's all about the timing. I think it's different for every person. I'm like how did you wait? And for every person in the industry, I mean you can't do something and have regrets or you know, you're totally, you weren't going back. No, I want to do it.
Starting point is 00:08:22 The anal is all right. Exactly. So I don't it. You're being exact. So I didn't really tell anyone over at Wicked that that's what I was going to do. But in my mind, I knew for that movie, it was my project, my big baby. I wanted to go big and do some amazing scenes to get nominated for.
Starting point is 00:08:38 And you did before my leave. So are you nominated? You're going to get it. But why not doing the butt? So that's what you got nominated for. That specific scene that you got nominated for that scene. Oh my ears. So are you nominated? You're going to get one of the, but why not doing the butt? So that's what you got nominated for, that specific scene that you have nominated for that scene. Oh my God, so what happens in the scene? What?
Starting point is 00:08:51 It was me and Mick Blue and Annika Albright, they're actually a couple off-camera. So for me, I've never, I'm normally not the one that's going home like the extra person. I'm normally the one in the relationship bringing someone home. So I wanted to experience what it was like to be the other person, which is so much more fun. Yeah, I think in a way because we're like not attached. And it's all about you.
Starting point is 00:09:11 Right. So I'm just like, they're dirty little sex slave and you know, I'm doing everything mixed tells me to. I'm like, okay. All right. Do this. Okay. We tracked it to them. Absolutely. Okay. I don't know who they are, but they so they were you were really. Absolutely. I was into it 100%. And it made it an amazing scene. So, okay, so you were having anal sex with him, and then what was she doing? I want to watch it now.
Starting point is 00:09:33 What was it she doing? She was like, it was crazy. Yeah. And you orgasms? Yes, absolutely. A lot of them. Yeah. Have you guys always had orgasms your whole life?
Starting point is 00:09:40 Like, have you always been doing like, we're threading a bike on your five in an orgasm? No. No, I hate those women. No, I hate those women. Yeah, a makeup artist who their day was telling me your whole life like you if you was doing like we're trading a bike and you're five and an orgasm cuz I hate those women. Make a part of so their day was telling me that she came from like dry hunting her guy like when she was 12. I know and I'm like you lucky bitch.
Starting point is 00:09:55 It took me to I was like, I'm always like, I'm a mental thing, right? It is a mental thing. You have to get out of your head and you have to, you know, do you know what I'm saying? Do you know what I'm saying? Do you know what I'm saying? She's like, plenty.
Starting point is 00:10:14 Why are you having orgasms? I talked to a mom about everything. No, but then I was like, I've never had one. My friends were like, you never had one. So weird, because I grew up in a very liberal home, but I never, it just didn't even never occurred to me to masturbate. Like, I didn't even think about it. then all friends are like you know right orgasm
Starting point is 00:10:27 And then she was like giving me books and telling me what to do and sending me around. I know But then that's a lot of pressure Yeah, what are all these books and I read them and I still have it in my head? Yeah, it's gonna happen is it gonna happen is it gonna happen? So how do you what you might have asked how you orgasm? How I orgasm now do you want to ask how you orgasm? How so than because it becomes almost second nature to just fuck. Exactly. So how do you what is it? My favorite thing and I know that some girls just say this but this really is because this was the case
Starting point is 00:11:19 before I ever gotten to porn. The easiest way for me to orgasm is through anal sex. Oh god. So if I ever have issues, if I know, if I ever have problems coming, I know that if he just puts it in my butt, it's like really quick. We're like every man's is really not just sticking to my ass. Like I can't even, I can't, so really, so that because a lot of women do orgasms that way. But I do, like when I drink, I have trouble orgasming or certain medications. So it's sort of like I have to have an illness. It's really awful.
Starting point is 00:11:51 I know exactly. It's our heart. Exactly. So what are your tips for good anal sex if people have never had it or thinking about it? It's for top tip for anal sex. A lot of it is mental because I was having a lot of anal sex before porn. And then when I did my first anal, I was so nervous
Starting point is 00:12:08 that I couldn't even get my finger in my butt. Oh my god. I'm so scared. I always joke that your butthole is like your mind. Like if you're having a crappy day, crappy day, how? If you're having a bad day, your butthole's going to have a bad day too.
Starting point is 00:12:22 Right, yeah. I love that. Could I call you on that? But it's true because it's all about relaxing and breathing and not dancing. It have a bad day too. Right, yeah, I love that. Could I call you on that? But it's true, because it's all about relaxing and breathing and dancing. It's a muscle. I always say that kind of my method isn't to just go in and stay there and wait.
Starting point is 00:12:33 Like you have to pull out and then go back in. Right. And pull out and every time that muscle like relaxes once it's out and then when it goes back in, it stretches each time more and more. And then even orgasm, I know I'm there too. It's hard for me too. What about you?
Starting point is 00:12:48 Okay, what are you Samantha orgasms? Like what's your go-to? For me, I'm more of a clitoral stimulation. Right. Kind of girl. You know, I like insertion in the badge, not the right, not the asshole. Right. Um, except for the anal scene. Yeah, I mean, it's, I'm not saying I don't like it, it's just not my go-to and the best.
Starting point is 00:13:06 Sometimes it's different when you're on film. You're like, that was crazy. Yeah, but you don't necessarily, you know, think the same way at home. Yeah, for me, I'm like, I don't know, I just, I like to rub on my vagina with my hands or I use my hatachi and go to magic wand. Damn, I'm going to top on that. I was like, okay, so first of all, did you know there's a new magic wand. Oh, damn, I'm going to have to go to magic wand. I had the last, I was like, okay, so first of all, did you know there's a new magic wand that's not a touchy anymore?
Starting point is 00:13:30 It just called the magic wand. But it's the same thing, but they improved it a little bit. It's a little lighter. And I have like electric ones now too, that can electrocute you. Right, yeah. They do. Like on purpose?
Starting point is 00:13:41 Yes. Oh, I mean, but it is an electric play. Everyone will still call the hitachi to the end of time. Right, right. I'm not saying that. I'm just saying, oh my god. They sent me a new one, but it looks exactly the same Yeah, but I love the Hattachi and anyone listening if you're looking for a great gift for the holidays Go to my website right now sexi-send me dot com click on the good vibes banner and you'll get special discounts and just buy our Hattachi already Hands down even mess around gift for a female right. I have a love hate relationship with it
Starting point is 00:14:04 Okay, so tell me because you think you use it too much. Well, it can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys.
Starting point is 00:14:12 Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys.
Starting point is 00:14:20 Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. Like, you can't stop me guys. to not be as like quality. It's just like these quick, fast ones, and I'll do it like eight times in a row. Right, okay. I can have like 15 orgasms. I know, I'm like,
Starting point is 00:14:28 have you ever burnt your clit from using that? Yes, yeah, me too. Like you're like holding it down too much, and then like, well, because I do BDSM work, and so when I, in the past, when I've done Ben and Sub, they use that a lot.
Starting point is 00:14:39 Okay, they do. And it hurts, right? So you're saying that your body, because people always wanna know do you become addicted to vibrators, is that what you're saying? Like you need to, I always say mix up how you orgasm like know. And it hurts, right? So you're saying that your body, because people always want to know you become addicted to vibrators, is that what you're saying? Like, you need to, I always say, mix up how you orgasm like this.
Starting point is 00:14:48 That's true, because I, yeah, it just feel like you get hooked on it. Like, you can't orgasm any other way. So there's times where I'm like, I need to put this in the closet. Right, exactly. Like right now it's my bed. And before I got here, I was like,
Starting point is 00:15:01 I like wrapped it up and put it under my nightstand. I was like, go away. Right. I know you gotta do that. I up and put under my nightstand I was like, go away. Right. I know you got to do that. I drilled a hole in my nightstand so I could plug it in and show it. I just like, I just want to always see plug in. I just do. And I don't want the how or the things taken out and I can always have it there. But that's so funny, but I have so many sex toys that get sent to me, but that's still like my favorite. Okay, so, and what about oral sex tips? So let's talk about blowjabs for a minute. Okay. Okay, so, so I about oral sex tips? So let's talk about blow jobs for a minute.
Starting point is 00:15:25 Okay. Okay, so I'm sure that you guys give incredible head. Yeah. I mean, I can't actually nominate it last year. I'm sorry, I wasn't nominating this year. You're like, what? And I just, what, what, what, what, what, what, what, best oral sex scene last year?
Starting point is 00:15:39 But it's not nominated this year. Oh, honey. But I'm so good at it. I'm so good at it. I'm so good at it. So what makes good at it. I'm so good at it. So what makes you so good at it, you think? Why do you think, what do you think it is? What are some techniques?
Starting point is 00:15:49 I think, I don't know. I just try to imagine if I had a penis, well, I would feel good. And I think it would feel great if you pay attention to every part of it, the balls, the shaft, everything. And for me, to cup the balls with one hand and then use the twist and suck all about it, like, one time and then, of course, you know, you don't want to dry blow job. No, it's got to be super.
Starting point is 00:16:14 Yeah, so I like to choke on it a little bit. Right. So then I get more spit in my mouth. Deep-throding, yeah. And which is a two-fer because they're happy and then you get to fly the box. Yeah, because you're about to talk. And then it feels nice. You know, it's all, it's's that that's just how I do.
Starting point is 00:16:27 And do you find that all men like their balls touched most men? Some are more sensitive than others. And I find because in it's in porn, you're so hardcore, you're like, oh, the guys are used to it. So you can like do whatever you want to them. But then like the civilian guys are like, Oh, right. Oh, god. Right. That's true. We think it's like tugging on them too hard. You're just going to. Yeah. So you kind of just have to like test the waters. Yeah. You have to like feel with the guys feeling kind
Starting point is 00:16:55 of right. I got to ask them. Uh, yeah. And you can tell by the way they react and I just had post traumatic ball disorder one. So I have like a bad situation. Which is true. And I think I touched the guy like long time ago, I have like a bad situation Which is too bad And I think I touched a guy like long time ago his balls like too hard and I got scared of balls And then for years I realized I never touched balls like years ago
Starting point is 00:17:12 I was I think I give a pretty good blowjob People are scared of balls. I was scared. I was like I don't want to hurt him There's no sense it guys were like oh my balls, but then I know you gotta like touch it like carefully and gently But then I also have been with guys like I don't want any ball actions So I guess you just got to figure it out. It's true. Maybe they're afraid of you going too close to their hat. Yeah, they're like, she's gonna stick her finger in there.
Starting point is 00:17:30 I know. Do you guys ever do that? Let's talk about peg men. Let's talk about peg men. Let's talk about alienly penetrating straight men. I, well, I do femdom work. So I often peg men and beat their balls. So you do that on the side?
Starting point is 00:17:45 You beat the balls. Well, yeah, I mean, I have to. It's a great job. You beat their balls. I know, I don't do it in my personal life. I don't want to hurt my wife. Unless they want it. Yeah, I mean, if they want it, but I generally don't date
Starting point is 00:17:56 submissive men. But I actually really enjoy like fingering or whatever to the guy. I've dated a lot of straight men that like it in the ass. That are come. I think it convinced my entire audience that men who are in, I know gay men, some gay men are in it too either,
Starting point is 00:18:10 but straight men, a lot of them think, oh, I'm gay, so you don't wanna. I'm like, no, it could be worse. Isn't that where they're like special spot? Yeah, like, no problem. Yeah, it's like the milky spot. Yeah, it's the milky spot. And it feels so good.
Starting point is 00:18:21 Just get over it. It's like, you can make you gay. Like so many men like it now. But guys just can't get like, oh my God, I'm gonna be confident. You know, with your sexual eye. It's like girl, look, it's not. Just cause you like a girl's finger in there,
Starting point is 00:18:32 does it mean you want a man's dick in there? Exactly. And like, what if it's the best feeling of your entire life? You know, you've never been missing out forever. Exactly, totally. Okay, so do you believe in your job tips for me? I don't know.
Starting point is 00:18:44 I mean, I, to be honest, my biggest tip is to just learn to love it because I think if you love doing it Yeah, I'm just good at it. Enthusiasm. I always say like good poo like what are your number one tips? I'm like be enthusiastic like to win it because if guys know you're not into it or either I'm gonna teach someone if they don't love it. It's like what do I say? I mean like I'm like I don't know I just do it a lot Now what about what about oral sex tips? Are you's like, what do I say? I'm like, I don't know. I just do it. I just do it. I mean, what about oral sex tips? Are you both bisexual? Both of you?
Starting point is 00:19:09 I am. Yes. Okay. So what about what's your best oral sex tips for performing on a woman? Oh my God. I kind of do the same. I just do it. Like it's my first kiss ever.
Starting point is 00:19:22 I think it's the same thing with men. You just feel it out. You're like, yeah. You just kind of start to lick. Because they're all different. They're all different. They start to lick and then you're like, okay, just, does she want my fingers in there? Does she want me to like suck on it really hard? Like, for me, I like pressure on my clip, not necessarily like, licking, I like pushing.
Starting point is 00:19:40 Right, pushing. So, yeah, you just pay the little different things and whenever they react to the mouse You're like I'm gonna keep doing that. It is okay to you know say exactly what you want like oh my god That feels good keep doing it or you know put your fingers here guide them use your hands help them out I don't know it's okay So many women talk about it. I tried to empower a lot of women listening to the show and men I'm sure would love this to listening that they they want their partners to talk up and they would speak up and say what they want. And I think a lot of women, not us here in this room.
Starting point is 00:20:08 But we are not as comfortable talking about it, and say what we want. So that's, you know, it's hard, it is hard, because I wasn't always super comfortable with it. I wasn't either. But now I'm like, I have to, like a job, like if I'm not telling you, like I'm gonna be, you know, whatever, it'll be a bad thing.
Starting point is 00:20:20 So what do you think is one thing that men, because you've probably both been with a lot in your life? Professionally, I think professionally, I don't know about your music. What do you think men overall if you think about your history of men? What do you think they could do if you think of one thing that men could do better and bad? What would it be? Oh my god. What do you think of the typically men I know you're with porn? Not the porn, maybe with the civilians they are with.
Starting point is 00:20:47 Like there's something that all guys are like, I wish they just... Or even if it's just one thing that's happened to you in your life that you're like, I wish guys. I realize it all had amazing sex. Well now it's... If you're a civilian and you have sex with me don't fuck me like you think I want to... Like I have sex on camera do they do that yes do they watch your movies should all in the contact you and then no no I don't like yeah come on no but do they watch it like no it's just I don't think
Starting point is 00:21:14 they might watch me but they know I'm a porn star so they and they know they have an idea of what we do on film or they've seen porn before so there's like I'm gonna pound her I'm gonna do the pile drive right home yeah and go in a pretzel I'm gonna ram my dick into you 10 million times and then do you see them again or do you tell them like no you're like generally I can I feel it I'm like I know this guy do you tell guys so you're you're all single so when you tell guys that you that what do you tell what you do for living right away not always but I I feel kind of bad when I don't like I'm because they just get it out the way right yeah but then I'm scared that they have these preconceived ideas if
Starting point is 00:21:53 who I am or what like these strange expectations of me it's really it's actually it's hard for me to date I'll be honest I know I know I have cats I like it's not she has her cats in her. I told me here you I have a dog in a touchy. I know what you're saying But these are I get that I that question a lot to be were like sex with them like guys here that like I your doctor If you said do people are guys in the pressure right yeah, no pressure I'm not like I'm sitting there like with a bullhorn in the bedroom Time out that was bad. Yeah, I don't like trash them on there. I mean, maybe I do, I change their names
Starting point is 00:22:26 and maybe when I slap with them, I change their names. But I don't, you know, I'm not gonna talk about it, but they do, I'm sure guys get intimidated with you as well. So, we've got calls coming in. So everyone, if you're listening to this show right now on Thursday nights, we take calls, which is very exciting if you wanna call the show, 1-800-LOVE-191.
Starting point is 00:22:44 We have someone calling in from Las Vegas. We have DJ in Las Vegas. Let's talk to him, Anderson, my darling. Hey DJ, you're on Sex with Emily. Hello. Hello DJ, you're on Sex with Emily, and you're with Samantha and Chanel and Emily. Hi.
Starting point is 00:23:02 Hi. What's your question? How can we help you? DJ, don't be shy. Now an Emily. Hi. Hi. Hi. What's your question? How can we help you? DJ, don't be shy. Hey. Hi. Hi, DJ.
Starting point is 00:23:12 What's your question? First of all, I love to show. I've been listening to her for about two months. I love it. Y'all do your thing. But my question is, how do I go about making my female partner smell better in the Southern region and why does it not smell decent in the first place?
Starting point is 00:23:35 Well, I have my personal like how to fix it trick. I don't know if it works for everyone. I'm not a doctor and if something goes bad, I'm sorry. For her girl, like if you go to the hospital, I'm really sorry. I'm like, I'm sorry. I'm just like, I'm sorry. I'm just like, but for, I mean, it's, it happens where women, it's, you know, it's just, it happens sometimes, but if you can keep a clean, for me, if you can use like a, a, a douche that you're gonna get at the store, pour out the solution, warm water, and like a drop of tea tree oil, and squeeze it up the store, pour out the solution, warm water, and like a drop
Starting point is 00:24:05 of tea tree oil, and squeeze it up in there, and you are like, it's like the cure all. I swear for me in my body. Right. It's right on point. I don't know if you have any tips, Chanel. Well, that's kind of hard because, I mean, I can see where that'd be uncomfortable for you. You don't want to tell her.
Starting point is 00:24:23 That's the thing. That's the thing. It's hard. But DJ, here's tell her. I'm like, oh, yeah, I know. But DJ, here's the thing. Are you with one woman right now? And it's a problem where you're saying this has happened two few times because if you're with one woman, well, honestly, I'm not with anybody now. Okay, but you want it to happen to the past. My last honestly, my last two women that I've been with, it was
Starting point is 00:24:42 the first time that I've ever come across that. And honestly, it was a really big turn off. Wow. But I couldn't say that I couldn't say. I mean, honestly, yeah, you can't. But here's what you can say. A lot of times women have smelled on there. I have an odor because they might have an infection. They could have an STD.
Starting point is 00:24:58 There could be something wrong. Yeah, sorry, dude. It's a piece of infection. Yeah. I mean, I know that happened. No, but that could be it. Really, a piece of affection or something. Yeah, no, I mean, I know. I know that happened. No, but that could be it like really, a lot of times that's what it is. Because women, I'm sure they shower. And so you could say, baby, something seems a little off down there if you've been to the
Starting point is 00:25:13 doctor lately. No, no, no, it wants to have a conversation with the doctor. Awkward. Awkward, but that could really be the problem. But it's interesting that it's two in a row. I mean, I just think most women should just kind of make sure you're clean up before you have sex. I'm 29. I'm sorry to cut you like I'm 29. I've never come across that. You know, it's to like recent.
Starting point is 00:25:32 Were they younger? Because I know for me when I started working with younger girls, they just weren't aware of their bodies the same way that all the women are. So I noticed that they sometimes would have issues that they were shooting with them. Yeah, that could be it. Yeah, that could be it. They're just not really aware. I mean, I'll shove my whole fist in there to make sure it smells exactly. Like what's wrong?
Starting point is 00:26:02 Let me just go up inside and make sure everything's okay. But you know, when you're 23, you may not know to really tell. He's been living in the normal world. Like, I know like, on porn sets it's completely different. So, to be honest, I don't really have like an amazing answer on how to address it. But I just communication. Communication, you can say, pay the minimum for shower. You could shower before sex.
Starting point is 00:26:21 Do it in the shower. Do it in the shower. Exactly. But it's tough on, but there could be something wrong. I mean, if it's ongoing, like if it was one, like if you're seeing someone, it was like one night, maybe she just didn't shower or do something. But if it's an ongoing thing, again,
Starting point is 00:26:33 it could be something wrong. So you kind of want to tell them. Yeah. But I never want to be you. I don't want to do that. But it's a hard job. I don't want to do it, but you have to do it. You have to do it.
Starting point is 00:26:42 That's easy for you. I'm just being, you know, I'm a gentleman honestly. And it's like, ooh, what about you? I know, it's a tough one. It's a really tough one because they could maybe fix it or maybe there's something wrong. So that's what I would say, DJ. Go for it. We're going to band it off to St. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:27:00 I love you, I'm going to keep listening and thank you all so much. I'm going to say, DJ, that's awesome. That is a hard one especially if you if you're not in a relationship with them. Yeah, you don't know and well enough. Awkward. Awkward. What do you do about that? I'm sorry to interrupt, but as a woman, don't you know? No. I still really. A lot of women don't.
Starting point is 00:27:21 I always like I know, but I always thought that as well and then I started working with a lot of young girls and I noticed that that was a problem Wow, okay, they don't smell it until there's insertion right? Right, so they don't know they don't they and they don't think some girls don't know anything about their bodies when they get Well, that's a thing. So what do you think that women can do? What would be your advice to women to have better sex? Like a lot of women can, you know, have issues with sex. They can't have orgasms. They don't enjoy it.
Starting point is 00:27:51 Low libido. Like, what have you learned, like, to teach women that would, could be empowering for them to have better sex? I'd say just be open-minded because that sort of was my case. You know, when someone said, oh, this is what I do in bed. Or this is what I like. I'm instead of saying, oh, god, no, that's not for me, you know, it'd be like, well, like kind of explored in your head first, because that's what happened with me is I was like,
Starting point is 00:28:14 oh, that kind of, you know, and I'll try it, and I'll either say, okay, that wasn't for me, or, oh, that was really nice, and now I really know that I like this. Exactly. So I guess just being open minded is sort of the first step. And really get to know yourself too, right? Like, get comfortable with yourself and know what you like. And then, you know, you can voice it to other people and it only gets better, right?
Starting point is 00:28:37 It's so hard for people to be really vulnerable into orgasm you have to be. Exactly, you have to vulnerable. And you have to, you know, a lot of men are like, you know, they, they might suggest things to women and women and think like, well, this make me sluddy or will I not like it? And I think you're right, opening up and thinking about what your fantasies are. Right. You know, watch porn.
Starting point is 00:28:54 Do whatever turns you on, read 50 shades of gray, I don't know, but convey that to your partner. And, you know, because if you boom with someone for a while, we all need a little spicy not sometimes. And so, you know, try something different, spice it up and, you know, you know fantasize and yes the first thing I believe is masturbation and knowing your own body and spending time alone if you haven't had orgasms you don't have them frequently there's a lot you can learn figure out how to achieve that yourself and putting that yeah I think to some women or even
Starting point is 00:29:20 they don't even they think like how do I look when I orgasm? Or if I'm breathing heavy, am I making a funny face? I mean, it goes that far. It does. Um, I, I feel like men don't tend to think like that. Maybe I'm wrong, but, uh, women do. Right. Right. And I'm like, I'm just like a orgasm. I don't care.
Starting point is 00:29:36 Yeah. They, and, but it's really, it's actually really erotic to see a, a, a orgasm. Like in their face. Right. It's beautiful. So you want to be with a guy who thinks you're hot like orgasm. And I think most men like it too.
Starting point is 00:29:48 Yes. I've never heard a man make fun of like in orgasm face. No, it would be like so, he'd be so deleted. Yeah, I've never seen me. I'd be like, oh my gosh, you just made this funny little face when she orgasms. That's such a woman thing to think though. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:29:59 Because men are so visual, they love like, they women, and they want to see it. And they're like, oh yeah, that's great. I'm making her orgasm. And the women are like, oh. I look do I look bad? What's wrong with me? You know like freaking out about nothing like enjoy it like right Take a breath. It's gonna be okay, you know like enjoy yourself It's it's because it's actually self-confidence is one of the biggest killers of women sex drive and men and Worrying about their penis size or whatever their performance and women,
Starting point is 00:30:25 you know, worrying about how they look, as my ass look fat, whatever. And it's like he's sleeping with you, he's attracted to you or she or whatever it is. They get out of your house. Like you're obviously doing it together right now, so there's reason why you're both connecting. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:30:36 Like you could've slept with other people, you could've done other things. Now what about guys who don't perform, so guys who can't get hard or have other performance issues or don't can't stay hard because they just can't or they premature ejaculate or do you ever any of those issues and how do you address that with men? I'm not saying this but I've never had to experience that.
Starting point is 00:30:59 Never? No! I could say that I have because people are probably like, fuck a bitch. I know. And you annually have orgasms. I think we should give her out. Do you know how to do it now? Yeah, I hear.
Starting point is 00:31:11 But yeah, I just want to say that I always talk about this when I show there's this thing called, promessant, right? So it's a spray. It's a desensitizing spray that allows men to last longer bed. It's the only FDA treatment for premature ejaculation. So I'm so I've been talking about forever.
Starting point is 00:31:24 And I know that it works. I've used it with a partner because a lot of men, it's not even if you're pre-mentargic ation. It's that there's an orgasm gap. So some women need 10 minutes, 12 minutes to orgasm, or average woman needs like 16 to 18 minutes, and average guys take 79 minutes. So what do you do to close the gap? So anyway, I got this email from a listener because I always talk about promessant.
Starting point is 00:31:42 You can find it on sex. He said, dear Emily, not a question, doesn't endorsement. I don't suffer from PE, but I am a six minute guy and she is a 30 minute girl. Tried everything and each thing worked a little. Kegel's definitely made progress, but I'm only up to level four. I have an iPhone app called Kegel Camp. Okay, I'll turn you Kegel's every day. I'm promessant.
Starting point is 00:32:00 Wow, it changed everything. She had so much anxiety and so did I about her having an orgasm and now I just rock and roll all night. Every guy in the world needs this. If you can last 30 minutes, it will make you last all night. We did it once for an hour, and you know, promoscent, at the last point. And it does not reduce the pleasure for me all.
Starting point is 00:32:14 In fact, it has a subtle tingle and it feels good. My marriage has been saved, Bob, and so cal. So I thought, I was like, oh, because I'm talking about, and I know that it works, and it's only after a proof thing. And I just want to see if you guys actually have seen a performer use it. Yeah. Have you?
Starting point is 00:32:27 Why would they perform or sometimes, oh no. Is it like if you're a guy in your form, a star, you just, well, he just is obsessed with sex and loves it to death that he will just like, but he can come a billion times. So it's okay. But also on set, you, I mean, you're there for a long time. You're doing photos, a lot of times soft core,
Starting point is 00:32:44 which is, you know, where you're not seeing the hardcore penetration and then you have the hardcore. So, I mean, they're going to have to keep that wood going for a while. Exactly. So, and some can't come multiple times. So, if they do, if they come once, they're the right days of camp. Maybe they're 20's, guys can more maybe? I mean, even all of them in in the industry there's only maybe more
Starting point is 00:33:05 canned and do but I only know a few right off hand that do in movies. Okay got it. So is your personal I know you can get a sell time by but is your personal I think you said earlier like when you have sex with guys Chanel that it's not like how you have sex important but you enjoy them both. Yeah definitely I mean my like performance sex to me is so much fun, and it's such an adrenaline rush. I love doing crazy things on film.
Starting point is 00:33:31 Like the crazier for me, the better. Like, histing your boundaries, and like, just string me up and beat me. I don't know, do whatever. And I'm okay with it, because I just, I get off on just the excitement and afterwards, I'm like, that was so exciting. But when I go home, I don't necessarily want to know what I do and I do you know do those
Starting point is 00:33:49 fun things but I appreciate boring sex sometimes I'm like I'm okay with that like vanilla like right lovey sex right you know we tied up and beaten I don't get it all the time so I really appreciate that's good I like that when I use Samantha what was the question again I know I was like if you guys had sex time, so I really appreciate that. Oh, that's good. I like that. When do I use Samantha? What was the question again? She's like, I've just got this all over me. I know. I was like, can I do it?
Starting point is 00:34:09 If you guys have sex together, we have. Yeah. Oh, OK. Wait, OK. But let me go expand the video. Personal sex with the partner and then sex on film. It's completely different. Off camera, I agree 100%.
Starting point is 00:34:24 I don't want to be having sex like I do on camera. It's just, it's not for me. It's a job. Yeah, it really is. I mean, I absolutely enjoy it and enjoy my job so much. But off camera, I like the intimacy. I like the connection. I like the romance.
Starting point is 00:34:43 I'm having the hands all over me, making out, you know, but still talking dirty, but not to Pornow where it's too over the top. Right. Exactly. For being at home. Like, you know, we're not on Porn's set. Exactly. So I got it. Okay. Can we go back to you guys having sex? Yeah. Okay. How is that? Is that how you met on a set? Or have you guys been friends for a while or when did we first you were and one of the wicked movies That I was right and Pictures are masturbated while I was in sex with another guy. I was an alien. I was of the first time we met I know we had sex for naughty America once with was that before that was before that
Starting point is 00:35:18 But I feel like we had sex before that We lost count So you are a lot of scenes together. We've done it. I think we've done two scenes together, and then she was in one perving on me. Yeah. And she was in an alien, you said. Yeah, she was in an alien.
Starting point is 00:35:32 She was in an alien. A sexy alien, dress like a sexy alien. She was a really sexy alien. Thanks. Yeah, I was just trying to figure out how, you know, people have sex. So I was like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm a teacher. You like, yeah, you like, yeah, you like, I'm like, I'm a teacher. Luna and I was like and I was there like a teacher. You like yeah, you like the plot Luna I was Luna. What's the name of how can people come okay? It was just visiting okay?
Starting point is 00:35:52 We could picture it okay, and we're also gonna have pictures on our site so they can check you guys out and take out your sites and all that Okay, so so what else oh we've called for Samantha. Oh, it's something's called Jack from New York. Let's talk to Jack Hello Jack hi Jack you're on Sex with Emily. What's up? Yeah, I just want to know if you prefer interacting with your fans in any way. The way that I interact with my fans is obviously over Twitter and Instagram. And then I also do feature dancing tours all over the country. So that's where you can really come to meet me
Starting point is 00:36:30 and see me live and in person and get my autographs. Go to ABS, yeah. And of course, go to ABS. Yes, that's how I interact with my fans. Okay, great. And you can check out your website. Yes. Okay, which is semiethacane.com.
Starting point is 00:36:42 Yeah, that's it. Thanks, Jack. By the way, I just wanted for you for the awards Thank you so much Jack. I appreciate it. Yeah, every vote counts Thanks Jack. Thanks for and check out such a Emily That com the show you'll be on it Have a great day. He wanted to buy. I think he wanted to like hang right You guys get a lot of time. Yeah, it says hom we don't play that. I don't yeah, you're not gonna know you're not for sale right?
Starting point is 00:37:09 He's like I really like to have laundry Theo. You're like whatever No, but a lot of girls do do that Yeah, that's true Yeah, they do and um I I don't because I'm just really I'm a really bad companion. I'll be honest like a bad partner like in a relationship No like a bat like some girls are so good at being an escort. And I have no problems with girls at escort. I'm like, it's the sex and stuff.
Starting point is 00:37:31 Funny of my friends. I wish I just really bad at it. And I wish that I was a good escort. Like I see girls who are just so. What makes someone a good escort? They're a good companion. And they like, I don't know, rub the back. They're just like, they're so nice. Making a film made it I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:37:45 I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:37:53 I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:38:01 I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't really like doing. Yeah, I understand. And I just have, you know, you have to have your boundaries and for me, that's one of them. And it's just not my understanding. I told that I get emails all the time, we go, I'm like, oh yeah, come to come to A.B.
Starting point is 00:38:11 And we're, okay, so can we hang out in Vegas? Let's talk about this for a minute. I've not, I've been to Vegas. But I'm fun. No, but I want to have like the porn star experience in Vegas when we're in Vegas. Coming out in Vegas, I totally do. Call some trouble.
Starting point is 00:38:22 Like what happens? Like what's the craziest thing that's happened you guys in Vegas that was not part of the show. Oh my god. How do I pick? There's like a million? Well, it kind of to be honest afterward you almost don't even remember what happened You're like it's a big blur because it's it's so you're moving so fast Yeah, like going from party to party to media to signing. Right. Our anywhere between 6 and 8 a.m. and we have to get in hair and makeup and then go sign and find some time to eat and between there and go to
Starting point is 00:38:53 the bathroom and look pretty and change wardrobe and then host events and it's going non-stop and when we're hosting events we have to be there usually tell early hair and makeup the whole thing the heavy and the words and they're gonna be, and they, can you watch them, they're televised as well, right? They are televised generally through your four months after. So, and show time. Yeah, May, between the show time. Okay, that right.
Starting point is 00:39:13 It is on show time. I just went to another award show that's gonna be on show time. It was the other, it was the other. The sex awards, you know what's the other? Yeah. I was there too. I was in the obo long. I was in the obo long.
Starting point is 00:39:22 I won a new award. Hey, then I might have met you. What'd you win? Because I gave away Ovo. Oh, that a little bit more. I wanted to work. Hey, I might have met you. What'd you win? Because I gave away Ovo. Oh, that was you! Yeah, I... Well, listen to me.
Starting point is 00:39:30 Ovo is amazing. Everyone knows what they are. They are, because I've heard they're beautiful vibrators. So listen, so go to my website, click on the Ovo banner, and we've got a whole Ovo store. They're like, these award-winning amazing vibrators that are winning all these awards.
Starting point is 00:39:41 And they're cool looking. They are. Powerful and quality. Honey, I think I have some my trunk okay I like my my car traveling sex I could have like smushed it while I was intoxicated and like it doesn't work I don't know but I might have what you win for best sex scene right I'm what what what was that sex scene that you want. It was me, Phoenix Marie, and Manuel Ferrara, who was like the biggest stun-ever
Starting point is 00:40:06 with the biggest dick ever. Yeah, he's like this French, so important. Big dick generally. How big? How many inches would you say? Well, he's thick. He's got the girth, yeah. He's got a coat can.
Starting point is 00:40:20 He's definitely thick. He's got to get some give to it, though. It's not like, yeah. But it was anal, a bunch of alcohol. And it was with another girl, so we got to eat each other's butt. Right. So I do fun thing. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:33 Wow. That's so fun. And then you had not. So then we did meet. That was fun, the sex. That was my first sex award show I think I went to. So I want to know also, what is, what would you say your biggest turn off? If you're with a guy not on camera
Starting point is 00:40:46 But he does something is really he can do that you're like just maybe cringe. I'm on into that I Really like Really confident men and I know a regress is that but I actually like really dominant men right because I actually do I Dom in my professional life so I like very dominant men in my personal right, okay? Got it. So you want men to be dominant. What about you Samantha? I think manners can go a long way like I really appreciate I'm from South where you from I'm from Memphis Tennessee Okay, you know open the door for me. Treat me like a lady be nice and then you know
Starting point is 00:41:20 Treat me right in the bed to an anyway Guys don't don't I think just don't open the doors anymore. They don't know this. In the Southern gentleman where you grew up, they do. My step-dead is from the South. He always does everything. Well, the chair for the lady at the dinner table, help her sit down, help her take off her coat, put it on,
Starting point is 00:41:36 just little sweet things like that that, like, oh, he's still thinking about me. It's not just in the bed. It's more than that. Right, it's almost a shock now when it happens. Like what are you doing? Right. My friends, she was married for a while and she's divorced
Starting point is 00:41:49 and she was dating someone and she said, it was so weird. Like, there's like putting my coat on and I was like, confused like what was happening. Like I didn't even understand. I opened the door and it was like a shock. It's like we just don't, guys, we don't do that as much anymore. So I can see that being an issue.
Starting point is 00:42:04 That's interesting. Okay. So what about see that being an issue. That's interesting. Okay. So what about, so you're more, so should you're more into BDSM, you said are you dominant? Well, I'm not, I don't do BDSM in my personal life. Okay. I like more dominant men, but I don't,
Starting point is 00:42:16 you don't want them to like, I don't necessarily do like bondage and beating. Like I'm not a pain slut. I just more like that dynamic of dominance first semester, but I don't necessarily practice BDSM in my personal life. Got it. But if a guy was into it that I dated, I would definitely probably do it more,
Starting point is 00:42:33 because if they're turned on by it, then I'm turned on by it. Exactly. See, that's how I feel, too. I give, right? And thank that is, people who are listening, maybe your partner is suggesting something you're not into, but you might just kind of want it.
Starting point is 00:42:44 It doesn't have to be the whole, like, his entire tie you up really hard. You can pick a blindfold. Like start something soft and build up and do it. And it is hot when your partner is turned on by something that you're doing. And it's like this cycle that, you know, goes and goes. So, you know, I think people should try it. I'm always been attracted to guys that, like, really weird watching things even if I don't like it They'll they'll say this is what I'm into and I'm like what that's
Starting point is 00:43:09 Disgusting We do it in 10 minutes. What is the watch you think that a guy's been into? I know hard to choose. I'm trying to okay So I love working with Mike Adriano because he's just such a nice two and he's like I pain his mouth and like And he's like, I peen his mouth and like, he loves it. He's like, peen my butt and I like piss it out of my ass. He is dirty, but I love it.
Starting point is 00:43:32 I'm not necessarily, I don't like fantasize about that when I masturbate, but just seeing someone else, just be so different. And you're like, yeah, that is crazy. It's super affecting my heart. Okay, let's try. And it's just fun. It is fun.
Starting point is 00:43:46 So do you have relationships with this guy? I like to do all this stuff on camera. But what about off camera? Would you ever do your sleep with the guys off camera? I don't really sleep with the guys off camera. I do separate that. I mean, I've made exception. I'm sure.
Starting point is 00:44:03 I'm sure. There's this one I am begging. In general, I've made exception. I'm sure. I'm sure. There's this one I, and Megan said. In general, I do separate it because I think, to be honest, sometimes it feels like a scene. When you go home and I, you're like, oh, I just, okay. I didn't get paid. Where exactly. I know that sounds so bad.
Starting point is 00:44:19 I know, but it just feels. Yeah. It's taking your work home with you. Trying to open up to the camera that's not there. You're like, oh wait. It's not like that But I think like 90% of the time it is What's the most challenging part would you say about your jobs being porn stars being famous porn stars? for me, I think it's
Starting point is 00:44:38 It has affected my relationships. It's hard for me to have them. And also just physically, it's really hard on me. Because I do a lot of really hardcore stuff. So I get physically really drained. So if I'm working a lot more. So that's what your gnome for is more hardcore? Yeah. No? OK.
Starting point is 00:44:56 Your site's checking out. I do everything. I do everything. But I do do crazy things. I mean, even being on set all day, posing and holding positions at the time. It's hard on your body. I always had a porn set once. I was on a set once.
Starting point is 00:45:05 I was like, oh my god, I thought there's been a long time. Oh, the mom. When's it going to come? When's it going to happen? Like it doesn't happen. Like it's never coming. It's coming, never come. I was like hungry eating sandwiches.
Starting point is 00:45:16 I was like, I miss it. I thought I'd be there all day and thrall. I mean, watching, but it's a job. It's like. Off camera. You're really boring. Yeah. Off camera, though, too. It's like, all camera. It's basically really boring. Yeah. All camera though too, it's challenging for your relationships.
Starting point is 00:45:28 Even with your family and friends, it really tests the boundaries. And I know personally, it's not the easiest, but I'm blessed to have a very loving family. Most of them have stuck around and they're by my side. But some people just don't get it. And you know, like I'm not making poor decisions. You may not get it or may not agree with it,
Starting point is 00:45:48 but I'm happy and that's exactly how you're parents are cool with what you do. Mm-hmm. Okay. And you tell, right, and how about you, generally? Yeah, my parents are cool with it as well. Well, I mean, I'm not like, I'm not like, say, they're cool with it.
Starting point is 00:46:00 Like, they're not like, oh, so they're not a lawyer and a porn star. I mean, my mom definitely is like, oh, so when are you gonna stop doing porn? I'm so they don't know you're an important I mean my mom definitely is like oh So when are you gonna stop doing porn? I'm like never Yeah, but I mean I can talk to her about it. She'd obviously love me to do something else I think it's a little funny like with my dad's But he know what they don't treat me any differently. I know I'm an adult But it's nice to be at a point in our careers Maybe you feel the same like where we can talk about the things that we have going on
Starting point is 00:46:23 Oh, I'm traveling here, I'm hosting this event, we're hosting the AVN awards. Like you're being able to achieve some goals, even though it's within the adult industry, that are able to see that, oh, she is succeeding in doing well. You're not getting some work, right? Getting some recognition for what we're doing,
Starting point is 00:46:39 and it's not just- I think that's a frustrating thing to me though, because it wasn't until that point that I think people saw. Like they felt okay with it. Like, issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue.
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Starting point is 00:46:57 I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. I think that's a frustrating issue. Exactly, they people like need that validation if she was a member who was by my side in the very beginning and you know
Starting point is 00:47:06 Those friends are so with you Exactly so do guys. How do you guys keep like in shape? You guys will look amazing like you've to work out all the time Any tips for that? Workout I know It's exactly I do work out. I mean, I'm not crazy. I mean, I- If you're whole body, you're naked on camera.
Starting point is 00:47:31 How do you stand right? You just learn to be comfortable with it. Thank you. Okay, what about what about, what about like, Pupacare? Can we talk about that? Do you have any, or like, do you do? I just wish it up.
Starting point is 00:47:40 I like to- Pupacare. I know I can go back and look at certain movies. It's like, oh yeah, that's when I had a little patch going. and oh, I was bald in that movie. I just like to change it and okay I keep it clean keep it clean though and get like is there anything That women that they can do right now that is it could tip for keeping clean like you think mo I feel like it's I feel like I'm like oh my god What if the bush comes back because I got laser but not all of it off a lot of it
Starting point is 00:48:02 Because I didn't want to get it all off. Because I'm like, where if the bush comes back? When the bush comes back and I can't grow a bush, and I can't laser it all off. I know some girls have a bush, and I mean, to be honest, as long as it's clean, it's kind of hot. It's just, I think, I mean, it is to sort of just keeping it short enough
Starting point is 00:48:16 to where like, Pasejuice doesn't get stuck in there. I know it sounds gross, but I don't mind pubic hair at all, as long as it's like clean. But are there rules when you go on sets like we need you to do this or we need you to shave or we need you to wear these certain things or do you I mean obviously but like I mean girls the girls that are known are known for sometimes what they're pubic like This girl has a big bush. So we hire her. We know that she's gonna have bush Um, or we don't want any bush, so we're not gonna hire her to have money.
Starting point is 00:48:45 So the girls that are known, they all kind of keep that. Yeah, I keep my same thing all the time. Okay. But I just, because I have a stupid tattoo in my vagina, and I'm like, we're gonna have a big hat. But it doesn't even cover it. It's such a cool tattoo. It did hurt.
Starting point is 00:48:58 It hurt, but I just did it because- It's all over your vagina, right? It's a whole thing. It's just this design, and I think I was just more excited to get like my pussy tattoo like that's what was exciting. I'm gonna get my my I don't have it anymore but I just was excited to like I'm an am I pussy yeah to that's crazy. Did it kill?
Starting point is 00:49:25 Is it so painful? It was painful, but I didn't know it was gonna be showing off my vagina for a living. When I did that. Then you did it. I did it. I did it before. Pre-porn star living, got it.
Starting point is 00:49:34 Okay. So what about men? What about man escaping and all that? Would you say that that sort of the trend, almost men are bare, or they get rid of, you know, most there, or do they care? I think it's the same role. Keep it trimmed and clean. Most men in the industry keep it either really trimmed or it's gone completely.
Starting point is 00:49:50 Yeah. The worst is when it's kind of growing back a little bit and you're giving up stabs you in the nose. Blow job and then it's kind of like rubbing your face, makes it raw, it hurts. It's go one way or the other. Exactly. It'll actually give me a rash sometimes. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:50:03 If they're like eating my pussy, it's like scratching. Yeah, but I actually like facial hair scratching me. Yeah, I don't mind that either. I don't mind facial hair scratching. Okay, so we've just got a few more minutes here. Is there anything that we, okay, so there's a lot of people listening to my show, like what would you say is your best sex tip on the planet?
Starting point is 00:50:21 It could be for men, it could be for women, it could be anything. I get asked all the time too, it's annoying. I know, I'm sorry, I put it in the spot. But I think it's what I said earlier, like, be open-minded. OK. Experience things in your head and see if you're willing to experience them in real life.
Starting point is 00:50:35 Good, and fantasize. So when you're masturbating, you fantasize about certain things. Yeah. Do you fantasize about the fact that, right? Because a lot of women, I know that they say, I don't have fantasies, I don't think about a thing. So I say, watch porn, watch, read something, do whatever. I do. I fantasize about a lot of times I know that they say I don't have fantasies. I don't think about a thing So I say watch porn watch read something do whatever I think I say about a lot of times my guy fucking another I'm a big boy or so I like the thought of my guy fucking like a young naive girl
Starting point is 00:50:54 I know that sounds so bad Like I want to go pick up like a drunk college girl. That sounds so terrible like I'm She has to be submissive though. And that's what I must do think about. I think about that a lot. Samantha, what do you think about what you must for me? I usually, I'm a little more visual, I guess. For me, I like to think about things
Starting point is 00:51:16 that I haven't done or can't do or go to the websites where I know it's going to be a little more extreme. Like, oh, God, that's crazy. Show me the tummy. Give me an example. Well, I usually go to kink.com. I's crazy. Show me like tell me give me example. Well, I usually go to kink.com. Crazy.
Starting point is 00:51:28 I'm just going to my point. I have you. I just want to go to the kink.com. That was like such a... Specifically is like everything but because I can't do that crazy shit like I'm in this country. Right, the beat is that you can't do it. So that's where you draw the line.
Starting point is 00:51:42 Well, I mean, I wish I could, but I just I think everyone has their limit. Right. So I just like to watch it. Exactly. You know what turns you on. Right. I just need to be with you. Check you out. Also, I have, I just want to say that's, well, that's what I'm going to say. Go to AV. Here's the thing. Everyone, you can win tickets AVN awards these amazing beautiful women you can check out on my website we're gonna pictures we're gonna have links to your sites are gonna be there we're giving out two tickets and you should follow me on Twitter this weekend or the for the month of December
Starting point is 00:52:13 we'll be giving out like two tickets a week I think to come to the awards and and you can come to my keynote if you want I think it's gonna be interesting I still need to write it I'll be up like the night before but it's gonna it is gonna be a good one I promise and so what are your websites, your Twitter places? website is chanelpresson.com and you can find me on Twitter at chanelpresson. Perfect. And for Samantha St. you can find me on smithsaint.com. On Twitter it's at miss st x x x. And you can also find me on wickedpictures.com.
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