Sex With Emily - SWE: Sex Myths

Episode Date: March 26, 2012

Never tell your current partner that your last partner was good in bed. They don’t want to hear the amazing things this person did in bed or anything about the size of anything.  Emily goes through the biggest sex myths, from penis size to female ejaculation. Plus, how men can learn to have multiple orgasms. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey, Avaly, you got a boyfriend? Cause, uh, my man, he here, he just got his heart broken, he thinks you're kinda cute. The girls got a hair stand, it's so much! The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common, Avaly? What do you mean, like, laundry? It's drinks? Can We're talking about sex relationships and everything in between for more information, go to sexfamily.com where you can listen to all of our shows if you're friends with benefits member.

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So thanks everyone for listening to the show. Hi, Menace. What's up? What's going on? How you doing? Good. Good. You caught it's what's up. What's going on? How you doing? Good. Good. You caught me deep in social media. I know. I'm like, what are you doing? He's like, I'm checking my path. What is path again? Path is like a mini Facebook, only for your close

friends. So you can only have for nothing. You can only have 150 friends on it. Yeah. Yeah. Why wasn't I? Why can't I be on it? If you want to be on it, friends on it. Yeah. Yeah. Why, why, why, why can't I be on it? If you want to be on it, be on it. I, I mentioned it a couple times. I know, but I don't want to be on it then. You don't want to be on it. I want you to invite me.

I know you can't, right? It has to be people who are already existing in the path. Uh, yeah. I don't, I think you can invite people that are not on it or something. Whatever. I'm busy with social media. You can follow me on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, sex with Emily, and you can follow Menace

on those same places that wait, Menace. Everything. Tumblr. Tumblr or Instagram. All that stuff. Instagram, love Instagram. I know, I love it too, kind of, but I forget about it. But today's show, Sex Myths Debunked.

There's lots of myths out there. People think penis-sized matters, people think men can have multiple orgasms, we're gonna get into all that today, and we're gonna be answering your emails as well. Wait, you can't get pregnant by swallowing semen. No. You can't?

You can't. You serious? And what do you think? We're going to have a women, can they get sex when they can they get pregnant when they have their period? No. False. So anyway, we're going to get into that, but it was interesting because I got a call from

a friend this morning, this carn gonna get into that, but it was interesting because I got a call from a friend this morning this kind of ties into myths But this is something that we always talk about on the show that you should not ever Talk about your past sexual exploits with the current partner. So she's sleeping with this guy and she was like so She has some a question about oral sex and she's like, well, do you feel like you've gotten different kinds of Or like they're not oral sex and he went like, well, do you feel like you've gotten different kinds of oral, like they're not oral sex and he went on and on about it. Then he said, well, I was with this. My ex girlfriend was great at it and she gave me blow jobs this way and blah, blah, blah.

Not only should you not think about the number of abuse up with, but you shouldn't bring up. No one wants to hear about anyone's exes. I don't, would you want me as a girl if I was dating you minus and I was like, well, my last boyfriend's penis was six is just longer. No, and I don't want to hear about how great she was in the relationship and stuff like that. Exactly, so my friend was like really hurt. She's like, why isn't she with that girl?

She asked the dumb question anyways. Well, you shouldn't ask the questions if you don't want to hear the answers, but still, it's just kind of like, you have to just be careful about talking about past exploits, and I realized when I was younger, I feel like maybe I used to share information like that.

And I just know now, like, I've been dating guys for years, and I've never heard one thing about their acts, and that is totally okay with me. Because I don't want to know about their acts. I don't care. It's not important information, and it only makes you feel bad. So I don't know if that's a myth or not, but just don't share any sexual information or anything about your acts. I mean, sometimes it's interesting

when you're dating someone to hear like, oh yeah, we broke up because she was a total bitch. Like that's fine. No, but I mean, you know, you can give details like we broke up because we weren't compatible. She wanted of kids. I didn't, I mean, little things like that are fine if you want to hear about ex-relationships

but never past sexual exploits. Like the time I had a threesome and I was getting banged by two guys, no one wants to hear that. Never. Never. So I just wanted to remind you if you were sharing that information with that your current lover about your past lover not to do it. So what's going on in your life? Okay, so watching TV. Okay, so I've been trying to watch more TV as we all know, and I got sucked. I downloaded the first season of Beverly Hills, real housewives of Beverly Hills,

I'm Bravo. And I got so sucked in last night, I watched four episodes. Like, there were like 45 minutes. Like, I was watching for like three, four hours. I was there on my laptop to see, maybe that's why my neck hurts. I've thick terrible neck pain today.

Like I can barely move. I was think I was so transfixed by these insane women. I was thinking about you because you like Adrian Maloof the best you said. Yeah, I love her. Yeah, she's good because she seems like she's the most solid. But they're like crazy bitches, like that came out on the first. Oh yeah, yeah. Everyone hates her because she's like, if my life is really hard, I have to manage three houses and I have two kids, but she's got like a staff of 10. Yeah. She's everything she says she sounds like an idiot. And I like Kyle. Kyle. She's you? Yeah, you don't like her? Ah, yeah. She looks like Demi Moore. I couldn't get over that.

No. No, that's pretty. No, no, no. Yeah. So anyway, I was watching that. I kind of like her, but it's just like, I don't know. Who do you like Adrienne? I love Adrienne. I love the English Lisa like I don't know who do you like Adrian? I love Adrian I love the English Lisa Lisa Vanderpump do you guys we're talking about real housewives of Beverly Hills if you haven't seen it yet It's really I get it watch online. I was resisting it like just I don't want to watch TV and busy below But I got sucked the fucking Yeah, it's I need you to be proud. It's it's it's pretty funny just to watch them and They're lives and then that one Taylor spent $60,000 on her four-year-olds birthday party. Yeah, it's it's like a bar mitzvah or something Or it's like a wedding. I mean seriously. I don't know these women are crazy. So that's what I've been doing. What about you?

me I been Working working like crazy like an animal. I'm trying to lock down a new position and so like my whole like life is just just transfixed on that right now. Okay. I'm not really thinking about anything else. Sounds good. Yeah. I hope you get it. Whatever it is. I hope it is too, man. I really want everything to work out for you in life, man. Thank you. And I it is too, man. I really want everything to work out for you in life, man. Thank you.

And I feel that it well. So, okay, we can get into a little sucks in the news. I'm trying to think of there's anything else I have to share with you, but I think just that it's spring and it feels very springy and amazing. Yeah, it was really, really sunny. Yeah. I don't know, because I got in the studio

hour earlier than you, but it was still cold outside. Right. What about you? It was was still cold outside. Right. What about you? It was sunny now, hot. It's spring. People are being springy. That's when love is in the air.

People hold up more and spring. It's just amazing. It gets cold at night though. It gets cold at night, but it stays dark longer. Yeah, and I like longer. I did a screenshot of how hot it was. It was like 50 degrees. Right. I was freezing.

And I sent it to my friends on the East Coast, like one lives in Chicago, one lives in Pittsburgh. And there were just like, I'm so happy that I was, yeah. Although it was like 80 degrees on the East Coast, they had like a total heat wave last week. Really? Yeah, it was amazing.

I wasn't there, but. I'm sorry that I said East Coast, and then I said Chicago, people hate that. Midwest, Chicago, Michigan, where i'm from midwest okay so we've got some sex in the news for you mm-hmm the situation checked into rehab he did he did the situation from uh this is just for you real housewives of not real housewives but it's a called in the jersey jersey shore sorry he recently checked in a rehab for

substance abuse after realizing his recreational habits had spionated control. He had been showing signs of substance abuse for a while, but he was getting worse as the season went on. Several people noticed he was acting paranoid on the set, and unusual behavior was evident in certain season five episodes. Yeah, he was acting kind of strange, but I mean, he's always been strange. But do you think it's beyond alcohol? Like, sometimes some drugs can make you paranoid. Yeah, I mean, he's always been strange. But do you think beyond alcohol, sometimes some drugs can make you paranoid? Yeah, I mean, I saw that report they didn't mention like, oh, he was.

I mean, I never mentioned, I always want to know why they're going to rehab. Yeah. But what would they do specifically? At paranoia, I don't know. That's not alcohol. That's cocaine. That's cocaine or pot. Yeah.

No, no, no. Well, some people get paranoid. I don't think they're smoking weed. some people get part of the smoke weed. I don't think they're smoking weed. They're not that type of a set. They're not that type. Yeah, but how are they gonna smoke weed on the set? You just go behind the doors.

You're like, I gotta go to bathroom. You go back out, back, you sit in your car. I would just know. No, I'm kidding, but. But I think that he was like out of, it's like, he seemed different. I'm kidding, but I think that he was like out of, he seemed different. He seemed different. Okay, so he's in rehab now, that's good.

Who isn't in rehab? Okay, stand, raise your fingers, raise your hands. It seems like everyone's going to rehab. I'm on a rehab. Rehab seems like a nice place, really. I mean, you get overall your issues and you can go to cushy rehab. When are you getting go to rehab?

I don't need to go to rehab yet, but I wouldn't mind. You get your life turn around. I have a few friends who've been to rehab and their whole lives are better and stronger and they're so better. I know, it's crazy. Okay, a woman in China seeks husband who doesn't want sex. A 38-year-old woman who runs a website that promotes virginity is seeking a husband with stringent conditions attached.

No premarital sex and no sex for the first three years of marriage. She sounds like a gem. Good luck. Two she, a 38 year old single woman runs a website preserve virginity that is dedicated to promoting virginity before marriage. She posted a personal online to seek a husband reported, tried to daily, citing red net, doc, CN, whatever. Okay.

What the hell? She wants to get, she wants to find a guy, she's promoting virginity, she's a virgin, and she's first three years of marriage. What, how many men are gonna answer this? Maybe gay men who

are trying to hide it again. No, I think, I think some men will do it. Yeah, somebody that has the same beliefs as her. Yeah. I'm sure there's people out there as crazy as it sounds. Right, no, it can be like a religious thing or just not in sex. But I've never heard of like,

oh, after we get married for three years, we're not gonna have sex. What the hell you gonna do? I mean, if you're not connecting sexually, which is why I do this show because I feel like couples who are like, everything's great, we're so great. We have been at sex in two years.

It's like, you've got a problem because couples need sex and that intimacy that comes along with sex to keep them close and to keep them connected. And sex connects couples. I've a friend, he's a married, Tarasman for 12 years and she, they have three kids and things are busy

and she's always like, God, I have been at sex with them in like a week, that's what it is. And she would realize that she felt so disconnected from him when they weren't having sex. And it's like, they had sex, it was like, everything was better. Like it can heal. Man, you guys just break everything.

Oh, yeah. My friends, all my phone blows up with this stuff. You guys just cause all the issues. What do you mean? Seriously, like guys don't break it out. Hey, man. I haven't gotten laid in a week. I haven't gotten laid in a week.

I think it's really affecting my psyche. She's like my bad. We talk about everything. She's like, it's affecting me. I need to have sex. And then she's like, I was saying, do you realize how hard it is to deal with you guys? Women?

Yeah. Could you step back for one moment and say, why is that bad? She wanted to have more sex with her husband. I know. I mean, how many guys would love a wife like that? Overanalyze everything. It's ridiculous.

Well, we do overanalyze everything. But I don't think we overanalyze everything I think that we're healthy and we analyze I think men repress things and they don't have an outlet of people to talk to so women do and I cherish that with my friends and relationships. Yeah Okay, research shows female orgasm is all in the mind the secrets to releasing the mysterious femaorgasm may be all in our heads, literally. Surprising research suggests that the concept of female sexual dysfunction as a disease could be a myth, which is our topic today.

And that women may be well just overthinking sex and love. A claim scientist, Tom Rutgers, says he was studying the femaorgasm a dude, hoping to unlock the elusive secrets of a woman's pleasure peak, and they're analyzing whether female sex should just function as even a real disease. I mean, it can be, I believe that it still is a real disease, even if it's in your mind, you can't untapp it. Like maybe it's not like the clinical definition

of a disease, but there's a lot of women who, for whatever reason, they've got too much stress, too much anxiety, and they can't have an orgasm. And I do believe that our brain is a large sex organ and women need to not focus so much on like, oh my god, am I going to have an orgasm? It's just like men with premature ejaculation. They're like, am I going to have an orgasm? Am I going to come too quickly?

It's so much about sex. I mean, this could be about men too. It's just in mind. So you're saying that it's in the mind. And since she's not having an orgasm, that means she's just not that into you. No, I'm not saying that. Oh, baby I'm just saying that women saying She was with the other guys and you just said I overthink things. No, that's not when I'm saying either are people Why are you saying these horrible harsh things?

I mean, just twist them up words. Everyone heard about that. I'm just breaking it down right now. Don't do that Okay, I've got some emails for us. From the peeps? From the peeps, unless you've been to the other texts and the news to share that you read on TMZ, do you hear anything? No, nothing really. There's just, I'm just reading about Michael Jackson's house is for sale and stuff like that.

Okay, that's exciting. And something that's huge that in the past 24 hours is taking over the internet. What? I'm sure you haven't heard about it. It's not nothing sexual. Probably. Yeah, you're right, sure you haven't heard about it. It's not nothing sexual. Probably. Yeah, you're right.

Then I haven't heard about it. It's dumb. So, you know, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, right? Yes. Well, Michael Bay, the director, he wants to make another Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles film, but he wants to take them into space. Okay.

And like, people are going crazy. Everything's about space right now, it seems. Yeah, they're like, this is the dumbest thing, take them to space, and then people that are like, defending them, like, oh, they did that in the comment book and they did in the cartoon, but the people like, you don't understand. Like, the whole premise was, like, they got, like,

exposed to radiation in the sewers of, like, New York or something like that, and then they became Ninja Turtles. But what Michael Bay wants to do is take them into space and say that there are alien ninja turtles. And like people are losing it. How can you, can you do that? Can he shoot in space? Can you do that?

That's crazy. Can you shoot in space? What are you talking about? Well, like he's wants to literally take his set, he's saying in general the topic of the fiction fiction league. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And people are upset because of the problem. I get it. I thought like he really wanted to go to space. No. Okay. Anyways, but yeah, that's why I guess I had to know more. Like he did like a 45 minute like online video of people debating over it. Did you watch it? It's that serious. No. Okay. I was like because you've got lots of time in your hands, but I did watch Real Housewives for 40 bad minutes

each episode. That's cool. That's why my neck hurts. Seriously, I think my head was cocked watching the fucking show forever. Okay. Emails. Thanks everyone for emailing us at feedback at sexwithmily.com. You can also email us right through the website, sexwithmily.com.

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where you can look at all my favorite toys. So I'm just a fan of toys. That's all. Thank you, she gets some my favorite toys. So I'm just a fan of toys. That's all. Thank you. She gets some. All right. This topic, first email, single for a long time. Emily, I've started to download your podcast,

and I mind your website listening to your interview about your hot sex book. Is there any advice you can give me as I'm going through a very long drought? I have been single for about three years now, but have not been in a long term relationship since 2004. I don't know what I'm doing wrong to attract women. Wondered if you could help.

Regard. Warren. Regard's Warren from Portsmouth, Hampshire. Okay. So, Warren, you're in a drought. So I wonder, I could give you advice, long drought. I don't know what you're doing wrong to attract women because I don't know what you're doing, but I assume that you're not out there even trying to meet people right now because you

have to practice. I will always say this attraction. Those skills to meet somebody, those are skills that you actually have to develop, they're muscles that you have to flex. If you're not putting yourself out there to meet new people, to meet new women, you've got to just start practicing. Wherever you go, smiling at women, talking to women and not feeling uncomfortable around women. So I would say there might be something that you're putting out there that is just maybe

you're more insecure about it and you're overthinking it maybe just like I would talk about women over think things. But I think you just got to start opening yourself up to new experiences like and then I've talked about the say yes experiment. Every time you get invited to something or you get an email to invite to an event that sounds somewhat interesting, you should just go. You should just go and practice, practice, practice, talk to women, even women you're not attracted to, and just get your mojo flowing again.

I think your mojo gets shut down, it cut down, gets pushed down if you don't use it, and it sounds like you haven't been using it, and got to use it to get to get some women. I don't know what you've been doing though so you didn't tell me that but I could help you and you've been listening to my hot sex book. Thank you, my hot sex book you can buy it on Amazon. Yeah, I mean you know, we all go through droughts and dry spells but the way to turn it around is to do proactive behavior. Yeah, not sitting around at your house. Don't sit at your house and write me emails. No, I'm just kidding. I. Don't sit at your house and write me emails. No, I'm just kidding.

I love hearing from you. But I think it's just getting yourself out there because I don't believe that there's no one where you live. I mean, everyone talks about how they live in the worst town to date and there are plenty of single people around America. There are more single people in America or in the world right now than ever before. People are not delaying marriage, not committing. And so there are people for you.

You just have to go get them. They're not going to marriage, not committing. And so there are people for you, you just have to go get them. They're not gonna drop in your lap. Like the store is not gonna bring a single woman in drop or die in your chimney. It's not gonna happen. Okay. This is about the four agreements. I found your, dear Emily, I found your podcast

us, we got iTunes, listen for a couple hours, and that was all I needed to become a yearly FWB member. Your show is like a fantastic breath of fresh air after drowning for so many years. At 32 years of age, I feel very lucky to found your program. Thanks so much. I'm not trying to promote a book I've been reading. I'm curious if you or your listeners have ever heard of the four agreements

by Don Miguel Rez. With your show and this book, my awareness has exponentially increased and I'm damn excited to the days ahead. Much love, Nick, from Sacramento, California. He's a premium friend with benefits member. And have you heard of this book, The Four Agreements? I've read it like in college or a long time ago, but the Four Agreements are, I think, did we talk about this email maybe? Be impeccable with your word. Don't take anything personally. Don't make assumptions and always do your best. So those are like, The Four Agreements was written long time ago, this book, but it's like, always speak the truth with

your word, be impeccable with the words that you use. Don't take anything personally. So anytime in life, we had these are just like four rules to live by. And I actually know a guy who studies these four agreements, like that's like his therapist teaches these these four agreements. Don't take anything personally. So so many times in life, we, we assume the worst of people we think, oh, they did that to get back at me or we think things are about us.

And most of the time, it's not. So don't take things personally, especially in the workplace, you assume like, oh, they think I'm an idiot, they don't want me to do this because they don't like me, but it's not true. Don't make assumptions. Don't assume you have the answers to everything. Don't just don't make assumptions.

Because usually we tend to go towards the negative. We assume that everything's like negative about us and that's not true. And then always do your best. Just make sure that in life you do your best. You do, you're like, you know, when you go to bed at night, like today, I did it my best. So make sure you do everything to do your best. That's good. I feel refreshed. I actually feel like I'm going to practice all those today. If I haven't yet. I don't know if I've done my best today. I've had neck pain as I mentioned. Oh no neck pain. It's really painful. How painful. Like I can't turn my head the whole way. Like if you're watching this on video, like I can't go like that. I did it but it hurt. Wow. I know it's bad. It's from watching too much. Hard labor. Hard labor.

Okay. It's true. Hamley. I'm a big fan of listening to you for a few years now. Anyway, I'm in my early 20s and have been with my boyfriend for more than a year. He's a great guy and I love him a lot. And we used to have sex like every day. But lately, I can't seem to be turned on or in the mood to have sex as much. And if we do have sex, I can't finish. I realize I am actually really turned on by watching Lesbian porn and only Lesbian porn. And a few times we had sex, I got turned on by what I actually thought about women to

turn myself on. I like being in this relationship and don't want to leave them. But I feel like I'm probably by if I'm thinking about all this stuff. I feel like I missed that whole girl on girl college experimentation phase or something. I don't want to threesome, and he would really freak out if he knew about this, but I'm not really sure what to do besides masturbate when he's not around, confused Annie from San Francisco. Um, Annie, I've got to tell you that there is nothing wrong with fantasizing during sex,

especially about women. A lot of women have these fantasies. I don't know if it means that you're by. Um, I, I, I have a married friend who that's how she, she loves her husband. They have great sex, but she's always thinking of fantasizing about lesbian porn or watching lesbian porn. But she's never been to a woman, never plans to be with a woman. This is a common thing. I'm just giving you an example of my friend. But I have the same issue.

You only get turned on by lesbian porn. Exactly. Menace has the same issue. You should feel better now. But I would say there's nothing wrong with you. You're totally normal. But when you say that you don't want to be turned on or you're not in the mood for sex, I also wonder if there's anything that's changed. If you have a lot of stress in

your life, if you're on any medications, they can also dampen your sex drive. So you might want to get checked out by a doctor if you really can't get turned on. But it sounds like you can get turned on by lesbian porn. And also I wouldn't be so afraid about telling him you're afraid that he's going to freak out if you tell him. And I would say some guys would be like, stick in the lesbian pool and let's watch it. Let's watch it together. If that turns you on, baby. Right?

A lot of guys would be like, that's kind of hot. And I get turned on by that too. It's a win-win. So I think that so much about sex is that people worry that they're not normal or they're doing something wrong or like they're afraid to share their fantasies. And I actually think the number one thing that helps a relationship is actually sharing your fantasies.

I think that once you can get close to someone and communicate about what really turns you on, it's gonna take your sex life through the roof. So I think that you should not worry about this at all and you're totally fine. At least you know what turns you on, Annie. In San Francisco. Annie.

Annie, Annie, Annie. Let's be important. So what? I love lesbian porn. That's my go-to porn. Doesn't mean I'm bisexual, although I have been with women. I wouldn't say, I don't know what I am.

I don't wanna label myself. You're bisexual now? No, I'm not bisexual, but. You're just telling me this, that you're bisexual now. I'm gonna tweet it. No, I'm not bisexual. I'm not bisexual.

I'm not bisexual, everybody. The floodgates have opened for women. I'm not bisexual, but I've been with women. I'm not bisexual. I mean, bisexual, everybody. The floodgates have opened for... I'm not bisexual, but I've been with women. I'm not bisexual. I mean, I don't know what I am. I don't like to label myself. I'm just a nice girl from Michigan. Okay.

Let's get into our show topic. And that is... That is the truth about common sex myths. So there's a lot of myths out there around sex, and we're going to debunk them for you right now. Okay the first one, size batters, true or false? True. 45 out of 50 women say girth is most important. Most women prefer no more than five or six inches. So you're fine. What? You're three inches? I'm three three and a quarter. 85% of women are happy with their partners Penis eyes well only 55% of men are happy with their member size

So I would say that this is false size does not matter And I know guys are overthinking it the size issue is a man's is a male issue It's not a female issue sure women talk about it like oh, he was really big or he was small But very rarely like he's way too small or whatever. Like, so guys, stop tripping on it and just use your tools to the best of your ability. You'll be fine, right? Yes.

Here's why girth, okay, here's why girth is more important than size, for example, the vaginal walls connect with each other and closes around whatever is inserted regardless of size. It can hold snugger on tampon or can stretch, deliver a baby. So that's why girth is more important if you want to talk about size Okay, the next myth men's sex drive peaks before women's Meaning

Does a sex drive does a man sex drive just it does a young man or young woman who sex drive peaks first? Man sex drive just, it does a young man or young woman who sex drive peaks first. Male, they're always a female. Yeah, that's true, that's actually true. At 18 men get a surge of the sexual hormone testosterone. Women sexual hormone estrogen doesn't hit till around their mid-20s, but peaking hormones doesn't mean peak sexual performance. How choose that when I had had sexually 18-year-olds when I was 18, it's not the best sex in my life.

They don't know when those are doing it 18. So just because it's out of a bummer that men are surging when they're 18 and then when they hit their late 30s and 40s, it starts to take a dive just when women's are peaking, peaking, peaking. Yes, see. Nature just messes us up.

I hate nature. Nature really does mess us up, but men do do peak before women. And I wannaes us up. Yes, see. Nature really does mess us up, but men dud do peak before women. And I want to go back to the size matter ones. I said that was false, but it's true and false. The part of it that was true was that girth is more important than your size.

But, and then the part that is false is that most women are happy with size regardless. They said 80%. 85% of women are happy with the purnace penis size. So what the hell are you all worrying about? Where about something else earthquakes or taxes? Okay, so Seaman is nutritional true or false true Seaman is I want to pro-d I would like a Seaman smoothie right now for lunch. Oh god. You're disgusting. Seaman is full of protein

the minerals zinc and calcium, and some fruit, toe sugars, and other nutrients. It has few calories and is perfectly safe to swallow. It has no disease germs. Has no disease germs. Investing too much seaman can create a pH imbalance in your stomach. Did we have a new stray about a woman who like

swallowed the seaman of like a bunch of men? I told you that. You did? Yeah. I get confused by what you tell me. Is there a rumor about a rapper, a female rapper? Oh, it's Pummettra. And Chadwick Gilded.

Her stomach pumped. Yeah. I'll look it up on the internet, see if it's true. Did you really tweet that I was bisexual just now? No. Okay. Men can't have, these are, talk about sex myths. Men can't have multiple orgasms, two sex myths. Men can't have multiple orgasms to or false.

Men can have, yeah. Yeah, okay, that is false. Men can have multiple orgasms. Orgasms is not a goal or a completion of sex, but rather in a rouse, physical, and emotional state that literally can be experienced throughout one's entire being. The longer one lingers in this aroused state of excitement, the more energy and life force they can absorb and radiate. A man may have multiple orgasms without ejaculating

and yet actually feel energized in the afterglow. So men can learn to give themselves multiple orgasms. It's not as easy as women because women can just keep going and going. So when a man experiences multiple orgasms, it awakens him to a similar experience. Men have reported feelings of pleasure that rise to their heart. Here's the point. So you get men to a certain point of no return when they're about to orgasm and then they stop. And

then you can learn from there. There's a great book called the multi orgasmic man. And if you want to learn about how multi orgasms, you should read that book. But it's completely possible. I was eating a guy a long time ago, and he actually could have three orgasms in a row every time we had sex with ejaculation. So you might have orgasms without ejaculation too, but you have to train your body to do this,

but he would ejaculate three times in a row every time we had sex. It was epic. It wasn't enough to stay with them, but it was a pretty cool thing. It was a lot of cement floating around. Okay, so next myth, it is impossible to get pregnant while you're on your period, true or false. It is impossible. Nope, it's false. You can't, you can get pregnant at any stage of your menstrual cycle, even on the day you expect your period to start. Dammit.

sperm can live inside the body for up to a week. So if you've sex during your period and then ovulate surely after his little swimmers because so be hanging around ready to make sexy time with an egg when it arrives. So there's lots of people that go, oh, I have a period. We can have sex. You can ejaculate inside me, but she can actually get pregnant. So that's another reason to use your condoms people are birth control. Damn it.

Damn it. Okay, having sex before a big event or game can hinder your performance, true or false. I don't know if it's true, but I know that some baseball players say that they don't do that. Yeah. Okay, well, they say here it's false.

Sex may actually help physical performance by boosting your testosterone. Really? A 30-minute sex session can usually less, can use this, uses less than 75 calories, so you don't have to worry about being tired in the next day. Does it make you less able to focus? This has not been determined yet. If you have sex at night and you got a big game tomorrow, you can focus. I think if it's a myth, I'm a devil.

You would be. Yeah, you would be like trying to have sex with the guy right before the world series. Come on, it's all good. Yeah, I would. Do you base all pairs to really believe that? I've seen it really. I've seen it in news reports and stuff like that.

Where guys say they won't do it before a big game. OK. Of course, you would be there. It's all good. And then, baby, because I don't want to have sex. And then when he lost, he would leave them. I'd be like, you are a loser. You lost the World Series.

Sorry, if it's because of the great sex, we had last night, buddy. Okay, here's the mother myth. You shouldn't have sex when she's on her period. This is different than pregnant. So you should not have sex when she's on her period. This is different than pregnant. So should you not have sex when she's on her period? To her false. Morally?

Yes. What do you guys are just gonna do it anyways? Okay, that's false. It's a great time to have sex when a woman's on her period. Menace doesn't like it, but there's a decreased risk of pregnancy. It can be easier to achieve orgasms and big ones

because of increased sensitivity in the vaginal area. These orgasms can help relieve any cramping she experiences. Many women naturally feel more torn to honor around this time and have an increased desire for sex. This is a case by case basis. I know some women who get super horny when they have their period, but also there's a lot of guys who aren't into having sex.

The blood freaks them out. Yeah, too messy. It's messy. Menus won't even use his massage candleaks them out. Yeah, it's messy. It's messy. Menace won't even use his massage candle from Jimmy Jane because he thinks, right. Oh, that's what you should buy Jimmy Jane is their massage candle because it's epic. It burns at a lower, it's hot.

It's a hot candle. You pour the wax on your partner's body but it burns at a lower temperature so the wax turns into the most delicious massage oil of your life. So go to Jimmy Jane and use coupon code Emily25 and buy it. Okay. But anyway, I'm not one of those women about sex like I don't get more turned on, but I

know that a lot do. Okay. The G-spot doesn't really exist. It doesn't submit. False. It does exist. Women who are able to achieve a vaginal orgasm have thicker than average tissues between the vagina and the urethra. If you haven't

had one yet, lie in your back, have you or your partner or have your partner or yourself use one or two fingers to stimulate the upper front wall of your vagina with a come-hear motion, which is like towards your stomach when you stick your fingers inside. Hit the right spot and within 10 seconds you'll know it. During vaginal intercourse, try rear or women on top. Both put his penis in a position to hit the jackpot. They're still saying the G-spot doesn't exist. There was like a study that came out like a month ago.

It's like, I can get a hundred women in this room telling you the G-spot exists. Just right now, I can send out a tweet. We can get all the locals. How could they not forget that out by now? People are still debating it. There was a study that came out a few, we can get all the locals. How could they not figure that out by now? People are still debating it. There was a study that came out a few months ago that said that it doesn't exist. And it's all study by men.

Just how you think that women can't teach below Java class, men can't talk about G-spots because they have a lot of... Yeah, they should. I totally agree with that statement. Okay. But here's the... Where men should be conducting these studies. The mechanics of period sex can be very challenging. So here's

some tips. Women can use soft cups. These are shaped like a diaphragm, so it sits further up in your vagina over the cervix to allow penetration without the mess. That's what you need woman to use, so you then you don't get the mess. I mean, no, it's cool. They can give me flage, you know, all that's going on, but that's about it. Menus. Music condom. This will prevent blood from getting in your penis, although still it's sometimes a good penis.

It gets everywhere, man. Sorry. It's a blood-backed dick. It's our having sex in the top of the shower. Okay. Like you did last weekend. It's fun. Yeah.

Water will wash away all menstrual flow. Place a dark towel under you. This can save you a trip to the laundromat. Just get some dark towels, menusace and have some messy socks already. Dark towel. Yeah, you put dark towel down and then you last time. Why can't you just wait a couple days, Jesus. Because some women are super horny and they want to bone you when they have their period.

Okay, fine, let's bone. Let me hear a positioning. Just clean it up that crap after then. It's better to stick to guy on top missionary doggie style, no reverse cowgirls. Yeah, that would be kind of drippy messy. So that's like offer you for myths. God. It's better to stick to Guy on top, missionary, doggie-style, no reverse Kyle girls. Yeah, that would be kind of drippy messy. So that's like, I'll be for myths. God.

Did you learn a lot today? Yes, that I don't want to talk about the subject again. Why, period sex? Yeah. Any other myths you want to know about? Any other myths that I would like to know about. What is the popular sexual myths? Like myths, like, oh, I should tell my partner

should you ever, like I started out the show, should you ever find it? Well, the biggest one is that Can I get pregnant on the period right that like people talk about that all the time right? Any other myths The dumb one when you're like 13. Oh, she's gonna get pregnant if you get philates I know I don't even I never thought that but I know that that's common that people think that I mean I've never heard that one until later in life.

And then other myths are that, yeah, I don't know, that you should tell your partner. Like I started out the show that you should, it's good to share all your past sexual exploits at the moment. That's my own bonus bonus one. Yeah. So that's what we got for you today.

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