Sex With Emily - SWE: Sex Video

Episode Date: April 18, 2013

Press record, have sex, watch, delete, and repeat. Emily talks about how to make a sex video, no matter if you're directing a Star Wars porno or just want to watch yourself do it. Emily, talks about three important elements in a sex video: lighting, lingerie, and letting go (maybe with a little liquid courage). Emily even shares how she wants her own sex video to unwind. If you're interested in making a sex tape or improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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White menace.com. You got all your information right? Yeah, it's all I've been trying to get all my information on my website, but it's just I like you consolidate. I need to consolidate. That's the story of my life. I need to consolidate. So as you know, we're doing more shows a week and this is a show about just one topic we're picking that I think is important because it's very timely in in the news. So we're going to tell you about how to make a sex tape with your partner if you want to.

If it's something that you've been thinking about because for some of you read your news story here. So Kendra Wilkinson, Fantasia and Montana Fishborne deal with sex tapes differently. Tealette DeKoele denies she's in one. This has been a huge summer of sex tapes. There's been so many sex tapes coming out. Kendra Wilkinson who is from the Playboy show. Yeah, she was on the girl's next door. Girl next door is putting her sex tape scandal behind her. She and her husband

Hank Bassett planned for a second baby. Tila Tequila after getting attacked at the concert angrily denies that she'll start an sex tape. And Fantasia, have you heard about this fish-born? Yeah, it's been all over for like two weeks. For two weeks. That heres hasn't come out yet, but she's just started picking off her. She's like, I'm not gonna try to like be in movies and commercials.

I'm just gonna make a sex tape and get famous. So there's been a lot of people doing sex tapes. It's been in the news. So I thought, you know, are you interested in making your own sex tape? Have you ever thought about it? So here's some information on to do it. Minus have you ever made a sex tape? Uh, yeah, that's a yes. I have, I have many,

but I'm not gonna release them. You've had made many. Yeah. Really? So, okay, so how do you do it? It's an addiction. Come on. How do I do it? Okay, so you're with a girl and you're like, hey, here's my camera. What do you do? Yeah, do you think that people would so be so stand off? Is she about it? And then they're not at all so most the girls are like bring it. Yeah, they're down. Wow. Yeah, I'm very trusting because I'll never Like put it in. I know. Yeah, that's the awesome. That's what they all say, but I've never done that. Do you okay? Here's my question about the sex tape phenomenon? Do you did you watch it with her after or did you just make it and then that was hot making it or did you also watch it and then that turned you on? No, I've never like watched it with the person I made it. Did you watch it after?

Yeah, of course really so you like homemade porn I have a ton I've slipped it in here and there. There you have it. Yes, I have you've like homemade porn? I have a ton. I've never had a- I've never had a- I've slipped it in here and there. There you have it. Yes, I have. You've never slipped it in. Yes, I have slipped it in many times. It sounds kind of dirty.

No, men, it's okay, that's awesome. So it says, okay, so tell me that you agree with this. Okay. Making a porn video with your girlfriend or boyfriend is a great way to spice up your sex life. You can make the video very elaborate and turn into a personal porn or simply film yourselves having a good time. The key is to have a good time with it and not to let anyone else see it. To make a porn video with your girlfriend

you'll need a video camera or cameras, a tripod. Do you use a tripod? No, I use a hard time. What do you do? You put it like, I mean, that is like, tell me. What? There's like TV stands, you can put it on and all that kind of stuff. Right so you just have one shot you set it up with one shot. One shot but then no sometimes you know you want to get the the Blair Witch Project type style. Right. You pick it up. You pick it up. Okay. Got it and there's so many great cameras these days you could do with like a flip video camera. I recommend the Sony Webby it's high deaf. High deaf. It's high death. High death.

It's about $220. Okay. There you go. Yeah, it has an optical zoom. Really? Oh, so do you zoom in all that, of course. Oh, God. Can I watch some of your sex tapes?

I don't think I want to. No one else has watched it. Okay, make sure your girlfriend is completely enthusiastic about the idea. It won't be fun or sexy if she's not having great time. Menace has not had this problem. They've all been enthusiastic. Okay, that's good. That's good. I never said I don't think I've had anybody that said no. Are you drunk usually? Oh, yeah, of course. It's not like really a sober idea.

Okay, plan the plot. Decide whether you want to tell a story in your porn or whether you just want to tape yourself doing the deed. Oh, not for a scene. If you choose to create a story to decide whether you want to write a script or add the scenes with your girlfriend, some people might want to script. I have no idea. I've never even thought of that. Exactly.

I actually make a movie at it. Well, now that you're a pro, maybe you can make some kind of a... Maybe, I did go to film school. You did go to film school. I don't know why I never even thought about that. Yeah, we're actually gonna have a porn director on the show in soon.

And he made this super successful porn that's out right now I'm not gonna I can't remember the name of it, but it's amazing it got all these rainbow views And he's gonna come on the show and talk about it. It's like it's like a huge orgy scene. Anyways, speaking of Scrips. Okay, choose the props and costumes if even if you're not telling a story you'll want to decide what you and your girlfriend will wear and whether you will use sex toys So you probably just get naked and start filming. But you could, I mean, women like you want to, I would want to, if I was doing a sex tape, I'd want to make sure I look good and wear something. Would you want to make a full-on movie? No. No, I would not make a full-on movie.

You're very anti-sex tape anyways. I am. I am. I've never made one. I've had proposition to, but I never have. I just feel like I don't really want to see myself having sex. And I'd probably just be watching my butt the whole time being like, really it's shaking. I don't know. I don't think I'd want to do it. But a lot of people do. You know my mother did.

Yeah, I know. She did. My mom was in the show like four years ago. You can check this video out on my website under videos and you scroll down and it's really funny. My mom admitted on the show that she had made a sex tape because we were talking about it. That's really funny.

She and my stepdad. And let me tell you this, my sex tapes will never get released because I don't want to see. I don't want to have other people see me naked. So you know, it's safe with me. Okay, that's good to know. It's totally safe. So these girls feel safe about that. Yes. So it's interesting. So you know, it's safe with me. Okay, that's good to know. Okay. So these girls feel safe about that. Yes. So it's interesting. So you guys don't watch it together,

but you what you have like a whole library. It's like sex lives in video tape that movie. You like a whole library. Are they labeled by the girls name? No, no. But they're like labeled like, oh my god, I can't believe I'm getting this away. Because I'm afraid like somebody will find my hard drive. So like I label them like air, like air file or something like, you know, something where it's just like, oh, you don't want to open that because it looks like it's bad. Exactly. That is so funny, menace.

I have no idea. Okay, pick a location, choose where you'll be filming the porn, make sure the background color compliments your skin tones that there aren't any distracting patterns. Lighting many distracting patterns lighting is important lighting is huge. No lighting is huge I've been filming a lot of videos lately for my YouTube channel my YouTube channel uncle I'm fully clothed for now who knows but Make sure the background get back. Okay prepare the cameras with a night center dresser can hold a camera You'll get more porn like angles if you use a tripod do some test shots of your girlfriend to make

sure you angle the camera the best way possible if you access to more than one camera you can use both and then edit a great video on your computer. They're editing now? You don't edit yours now. I can edit but I'm just saying. Apparently if you want to make like a serious cool porn. I thought this is just making a sex tape. It is, but the only sex tape that have editing scripts and props in them. But this is like the whole, I'm given it, I'm, this is for the professional or the amateur.

Now, okay, let's just say, this is say, by miracle that you are gonna do a sex tape. Okay. What, what's gonna go on? Well, I think that I would be wearing something that I felt very sexy in. Why are you laughing at me? That I felt hot, like maybe some lingerie,

God forbid, menaceates lingerie, but something like not cheesy red, lacy, whatever, but like something that I felt sexy. Now would you dance it for the camera? No, I don't think I would. I don't think I would. I'd have to have a few drinks and then maybe I would. But would you talk into the camera?

No, but I talk during sex sometimes. Would you say you liked that big boy? Yeah, exactly. I told daddy. No, I don't. What would you do? I would probably just, I don't I would I would probably just I don't know what I would do I would probably just have sex and like form oral sex and do different things and I

Don't know I've never seen myself. I mean, maybe I should Maybe I should do sex tape maybe should watch myself and maybe I'd learn a lot I'd be like oh, you know you watch yourself Like if you're pro like football player or something and you watch your tape back from your game and you learn a lot Maybe you can get one of those pens so you can write on the video screen like okay I didn't like this here exactly like maybe I could be doing things differently sexually So maybe I should do it as an instructional video for myself. You should maybe you could shoot it You can I actually had friends that wanted me to do that though. They wanted you to shoot their friends Couple and they wanted me to shoot them having sex and would you say I said yeah, whatever

Never happened. I didn't have been there breaking up But I I don't think it's a big deal. No, I would done it. I mean, I've been on a porn set before and yeah I wasn't shooting but I was on a porn set and It's after a while. I think all this like type of stuff. I think it's funny. I'll probably laughing if what if I had to shoot that kind of I know I How because it's an intimate moment and they're your friends reaction. I'm like there's menist like with the camera. Yeah, that would be awkward I I want to be awkward about it at all. I just be laughing the entire time. Have you watched a good

Sex tape like all these celebrity sex tapes. I've never seen any of them. Which ones? No, well like one of the biggest ones Has been well paris health in but that one was terrible right and then the Kim Kardashian got famous and that's why the fishborn chick wants to do it from her sex tape like people that good new of her but then yeah, then they saw why was her sex tape She's super hot. She's super hot and then then everyone got to see and then she just got famous But what was she doing in the sex tape just Just being hot. Was she having sex? She was having sex, yeah. She was having sex, giving oral. She was like 19 years old too. She was doing everything.

Really? Yeah. Wow. And she looked hot. Yes. OK. So that's how she got super popular. Got it.

Maybe I should do a sex tape. I don't know. This is interesting. OK. So this is, you'll like this. Papacork, a glass of wine or tequila shop before the stro swimming can help you relax But don't over indulge too much booze can lead to either passing out drunk or engaging in embarrassing behavior. You don't want to record

Little tequila. It's Kila's like Viagra for women. Do you ever know is that or crazy juice? Make some women crazy. Yeah, I know some people that they're totally fine drinking any other alcohol, but once they drink some dequila, they go insane. Yeah, totally. They do. I can't drink. I don't like the taste of it. I mean, I'll do shots sometimes. They're really the silver. Yeah, yeah, yeah, the good stuff. Yeah, but not I could do that. I could do that. I would for sure want to do a shot if I was doing a sex day. Okay, moans are fine. Lots of chatter about how your workday went are attempting to mimic what porn stars sound like is unnecessary, unsexy and likely to make if I was doing a sex tape. Okay, mones are fine, lots of chatter about how your work day went, or attempting to mimic what porn stars sound like is unnecessary, unsexy, and likely to make you cringe when you hear it later.

Less talk, more action. Okay, here comes the important part, protecting your tape from prying eyes, as safe as approach is to watch the tape once and then delete it. But if you're going to keep it original, it's in your best interest to maintain possession of the tape, stored under a lock and key with a note that says private Please destroy in case you get hit by a car and your grieving parents come to clear out your stuff That is so true like I would die if my parents all the way mom made one she couldn't really talk But if your parents saw a sex tape or anybody saw sex tape who cares?

They're dead you're dead. Yeah, that's true But really you don't want that and then it's not about the breakup If you and your partner split up the right thing to do is delete the tape and any copies Which we told you not to make but burn it stab it run over with your car. Just don't throw it in the trash That's it. Yeah, I think the guys that You know, they're so but hurt that they broke up with their girlfriend that they put that kind of stuff on the internet They're just douches. They are I mean it really it's so it's so disrespectful Like here's someone that you loved and you're in a relationship with and you make the sex tape and then you're like, I guess they make a million dollars though. Like no. Yeah, the Kim Kardashian tape didn't she make some of the common man, the common man. Yeah, doesn't right.

That's it's just that you're just a douche if you do that. Yeah, that's true, but men do it all the time. It's stupid. I know. That's why I'd be, that's why I'd be so, I'd have to be in such a trusting relationship. And this is an art of thing like this, like really don't do it on a one night stand. Don't do with some guy or some woman you just met. Like I think this is something that you do when you're with your partner for a while and you have a level of intimacy and trust, and it's something that you wanna try to spice up your sex life.

Because it can spice it up. I think it can be really hot. I like mirrors when I'm having sex. I think it's really hot to look in mirrors. So I think that that's hot. So I can imagine watching myself having sex, maybe on video would be hot. Do you like mirrors?

Mears no. No mirrors? No mirrors. You don't wanna look yourself. I don't to look yourself. I don't want to look yourself. But don't you think it's hot looking at yourself having sex with her? In the video?

In the mirrors. In mirrors. No. I'm a mere girl. All right. Okay, so that's it. If you want to make your sex tape, now you know how? How's that?

Emily is going to make one by the next time we do a show. I'm going to make a sex tape this week. Absolutely. Okay. Okay. Thanks to everyone for listening to the shows. Let me know how you like the new formats. And we've got like three or four shows a week. Thanks everyone for listening to Sex with Emily. Was it good for you?

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