Sex With Emily - SWE: The Family Jewels

Episode Date: June 24, 2013

The time has come to stop ignoring the balls! Emily shows you how to gently and lovingly caress him. Here's what you should and shouldn't do with the family jewels. Also, how to expand your sexual boundaries by pleasuring his taint! If you are interested in the family jewels and you want to change your love life, check out my good friends at: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Here's a special offer for you today: Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. And, even more savings today: use code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. I'm always thinking of ways to make your sex life better so use these codes today. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me? Oh my god, I'm off here so... Oh, I'm going. Being bad feels pretty good. You know Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex relationships, everything in between. For more information about sex with Emily, go to sexwithemily.com where you can listen to our podcasts. Check out the blogs, videos, Center for Mailing Lists, and

our RSS feed. I have a new YouTube channel that is going to be launching soon. You can go to YouTube, Sex with Emily and you can also find me on Facebook. My fan page is Sex with Emily and also on Twitter, Emily Morris. I need to put my 101 sex tips from Sex with Emily iPhone app. Yeah, I was, I just went, came from meeting about an app before I got here. So I just said, Hey, wait a minute. Emily needs to talk about her. I do. It's 101 sex tips and you can get it on your iPhone or in the app store. And it's really popular and people love it because they're easy to digest little bite size tips. So I'm here with the white manus and we are doing three shows a week now, as you know, and so we're we are doing a special show right now on the testicles or the balls on the testies. Now you haven't really told me too much about what you want to talk about. Right.

And it comes to the ball, the testy satchel, the, uh, the rosin bag, exactly. We can go to the mirror. Yeah. Right. Okay. Tell me, I actually had some questions for you, minus. Okay. Tell me, how do you feel about ball play when a woman plays with your testicles?

I'm not into it at all. Really? Don't like it? Like it's uncomfortable? Yeah, it's very uncomfortable. It hurts? What if they do it like lightly and gently? Yeah, it's uncomfortable anyway, even with the mouth.

Really? And how about when you're're do you ever touch your balls? Do I ever touch my balls like when you're mass weight? You really don't so you just ignore them. Yes I wonder if you have not had a woman appropriately touched them before Like I wonder if maybe this kind of goes back to Maybe the hand job debate a little bit like wouldn't I know? How it would be the best way to touch my own balls, but maybe you just don't touch them enough and you don't know that how they could feel good if a woman like jet like we're going to give some tips here for women and what they can do. And for men too, you can share this with your

partner, but there's a lot of guys, for example, who I know a story about a guy who never touched it never had his touch. And then he was with a woman who really knew what to do and he's like blown away by it. So it could be this neglected part of your body that you don't even know you can have all these sensations. Yeah, but it's like this company by Filetio again. Filetio is a part of it, but the balls should also be a part of it. You should at least try it out. Here's some tips. Okay, ready? During oral sex, typically kissing and sucking would be appropriate. However, if this doesn't seem to be all the only thing you want to do,

let them know you aren't neglecting by cupping and squeezing the balls softly while you're licking other areas. Feel free to experiment during all positions when having sex. If on top, sit up and reach back to grow and fondle, it's sure to add stimulation and perhaps take them by surprise in a good way. A position just as doggy style makes such touching the testes accessible and stimulating, reaching behind in between your legs is a great way to give them a gentle, tall gentle tickle or squeeze. So, it's, I mean, for a long time. I never touched them like I thought oh my god

Be careful. It's better that the guy just what if you hurt on me buckles over in pain But I found that men if you're like really gentle like licking or Touching or like with your fingernails like you lightly tickle that it does feel good to a lot of men not you apparently But you don't have a good to get a thousand emails saying how they love it, you know, no, but honey, you know, the hands on debate, we're coming I mean, the last few weeks, we've gotten a ton of people that side with you honey. Yeah, half and half. So I want to hear from you guys, what do you think women and men do you play with the balls? Do you

not play with the balls? Like I had to learn, like I had to learn this, like I remember years ago, I was like, wow, I ignore them because I'm so afraid I'm afraid I'm going gonna hurt him. What do you do with them? Well, that's a good question. I just thanks for asking. I thought you'd never ask He just put his feet off as if as if I'm gonna entertain you with my ball stories. I Gently will like lick or or he's like, he's like, I like, are you putting your mouth, but really, really carefully,

like, put, like, you suck them and you lick them or you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just, you just,

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like never too hard, but I feel like men are never like, out, like they're cut it down with it. Now do you add any like maybe kind of lubricants or maybe something that you can taste, maybe some chocolate? No, not chocolate But you put saliva or lieu is always helpful for any sexual interactions Okay, yeah, so it's not all the time like I'm not like every single time

I'm like a banana split or anything. No, but that's not a bad idea. I'm so hungry right now I just had some M&M's okay So here's some more tips so don't forget about the premium either. This is the area between the scrotum and the a-ness that is sensitive and full of pleasure Pair neum. They don't call that on the street. Yeah, they do. Yeah, they do it. They call the taint. It's the taint Lately massaging this will cupping his testicles during oral sex will be the icing on the cake Lake Fondle suck hold kiss squeeze softly tug motor rate the possibilities possibilities are endless. I don't know if I'm gonna recommend to women to pleasure the taint. No. That's not the most clendest area for honor. Well shower first, but it could feel really good. I don't think you've ever had a woman

really play with that. Have you? I've attempted, but I just don't like it. He doesn't feel good. Yeah. You're like, out. It hurts. Really? Yeah, I just wonder sometimes if men are just kind of like, oh, he's going near my butt. I don't want anyone near there If like so I think that that it's the kind of thing when you talk about expanding your sex life and growing your sex life It's the kind of thing that it's just you should just try it. You should just really Let like take deep breaths if a woman ever goes there and just see how it feels because you might be them telling you you're never You're never done Expanding sexually like you're never just like I know all the sexual sensations right now and so I am done

I mean this is the point of sex and this show is hopefully I'm giving you reasons to expand your mind and expand your sexual repertoire Every week So I'm not saying that you have to go out and do everything every day, but there's little things you can do that people constantly are growing their sex life and it's getting better and better and better. So you might be surprised. Can I ask you something else?

Please, shoot. What type of grooming do you prefer? That's a great question. I prefer, you know, I'm not that uptight about the grooming and the men. I think that it's nice if they tram if it's like wild down there, but I, I don't know, maybe I'm just old school. Like, I don't want them to have spent too much time pruning down there either.

But what about if you're doing something orally, do you really want hairs? Because guys do grow hair. I mean, I guess it's nice. It's nice if they take care of it But it doesn't really about you don't want to bear doesn't bother me. Are you serious? I'm totally serious. Wow Doesn't bother me. I'm totally down with whatever I know meant. I guess I am a little old school, right? Yeah, because kids today Like what would you do you shape? Yeah, you shave your bots. How often? Yeah? What a hal have time, but

as much as possible, right? Yeah, I feel like men mostly do these days, but I'm not like freaked out like how a man would be if he saw a big old 70s bush on a woman. Like, I don't freak out about it. Yeah, any more questions? Really? Yeah. Now, have you found any guys that have pushed you off from attempting to do any of that stuff? No. OK. I've had guys though who have said they don't like their testicles play with it.

It doesn't feel good. But mostly I feel like when I have ventured into the area, they like groan, which I think means they like it. Now have you had a guy that wanted you to step on his testicles with some high heels or something? Never have. You haven't? No. I've never had a guy that wanted you to step on his testicles like with some high heels or something? Never have you haven't no, I've never had a guy you want to have heard about that kind of stuff really from television Moves not real step on a step Everything I television is real. Yeah, well people like television is real. Yeah, it is

No, like people like torturing that area There's some some men are really into that could be a fetish that you want a woman to step on your testicles, sure. But I've never had a guy asking me to do that. Yeah. But thanks for asking. OK. Second, how does testicles can make for an incredibly

sensational experience? And you'll double as pleasure if you simultaneously fondle his shaft. So it shaft emballs. Next time you're giving him south of the border or election, take a sexy detour, move your mouth from his main member to the rest of his package, swirl the tip of your tongue around his scrotum.

The loose pack of skin that surrounds his testicles, then lick his balls with long, sweeping strokes as if you were savoring a delicious ice cream cone. Mix it up intermittently, purse your lips and suck softly on the skin or take each testicle all the way into your mouth. So that's what I was talking about. You take each one in separately. Where is this information posted? How do women find it? They listen to a sex with Emily. Okay. all the way into your mouth. So that's what I was talking about. You take each one in separately. Where is this information posted?

And how do women find it? They listen to sex with Emily. Okay. Yeah. I'm just, you know, I'm trying to figure out where I'm at. If a woman licks your testicles like an ice cream cone, but I'm just, you think that would hurt?

I just find it crazy that women are out there actually studying this. Oh yeah. The women that dinner here about it on the show, that they're actually out there or they're talking to each other. They're finding this this. The women that didn't hear about it on the show, that they're actually out there or they're talking to each other. They're finding this on the internet, studying it and then applying it.

Remember you were giving me, you were giving me, what's the word, I was gonna say shit, but crap about, any other word but then, but then I said it, yeah, exactly, I tried to swear, but you were giving me crap about that, about what women talk about and it's like My friends we talk about sex a lot like I know how all my friends orgasm on top of the bottom or what they like or they don't like I think we learn from each other or you just go on the internet and Google

Testicles and see what comes up. I just find it crazy that women are doing this that women are touching men's balls No, that they're researching about it. Yeah. Yeah How do you think we get better? We talk to each other, experiment. I mean, I think I learned by doing too, I'm like, I'm gonna try this. Anna, you know, I don't know. I just realized that. But more that you guys are talking about it

than women going on the internet and studying about it. That's all. I think people go on the internet and study everything. Right? You said just on entourage that there was the thing about. Yeah, but I't know I just yeah, but that was the guy doing it right obviously guys do that so you Google sex They sex acts. No, I don't but got how do you know the guys do? Because I hear about it. That's the like just in culture That's you know, it's always the guys

Now that's how you know like maybe they look out there is like you know, nerg's like just in culture. That's you know, it's always the guys Now that's how you when you look at the porn movie that you look out there is like you know, nerds like green up It's never you find women in Movies or in television that they're online studying about sex acts or anything. Yeah, I do it all the time That's why I'm who I am. Yeah, that's what I'm saying exactly. I'm not having sex right now. I'm just studying sex Okay, so here's a little bit more about the testicles. So Okay, once you've worked them into a frenzy switch back to essentially licking his penis as you gently manhandle his balls Some guys like a little rough, but this can be a super sensitive area So find out how hard he wants to touch you for applying more more muscle

One tactical trick is to that's going to send him reeling. This is just a suggestion Use your finger to gently rub his perineum. That's what we talked about earlier. The nerve-packed patch of skin between the scrotum and his anus, which is also known as the taint, and you're likely to launch them into orgasmic or what's as we said earlier. So yeah, these are all these are all tips that you can do. With the yeah, I think that you should explore if you're a woman, play with it because I literally for years is kind of forgotten about it. I was like, men, I'm afraid to hurt him and I think that you should explore if you're a woman, play with it. Because I literally for years is kind of forgot about it. I was like, men, I'm afraid to hurt him. And I think we're not just touched them.

And then when I started learning more and studying and reading about balls on the internet, I started to learn that men know, but that some men do like it. And I think you'd be surprised men as I think that you would be into it too. All right. Maybe I'd see a fine that lady that's red it,

red up on it on the internet. Exactly. Exactly. Or listen to sex with Emily. Yes. Okay, everyone, thanks for listening to the show. We really appreciate it. Um, you could find me on, uh, you know, Facebook, sex with Emily fan page or Twitter, Emily Morris, M-R-S-E. And, uh, what else? YouTube and sex with Emily dot com. Sex with Emily dot calm. Thanks so much for listening was it good for you email me feed back in sex with Emily Everyone thanks for listening to sex with Emily. I need to tell you about one of the great companies that's keeping my show free

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