Sex With Emily - To Squirt or Not To Squirt
Episode Date: January 24, 2015Today’s episode of Sex With Emily is about everyone’s latest obsession.. Yes, we’re talking female ejaculation! Emily and Anderson discuss this hot topic, share the latest sex in the news, and a...nswer your listener emails that you sent to Feedback@SexWithEmily.com. Topics include getting into kinky sex, bringing new toys into the bedroom, how porn may be affecting your sex life, and more. This episode tackles answers some of the key sex issues and gives tips to move past those sexual hangups. Great sex is just around the corner, and Emily can help you get there. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Hey everyone, thanks for listening to Sex with Emily.
Tonight's show is all about everyone's latest obsession.
I'm talking about female ejaculation.
Does it exist?
I'm also answering your emails about getting into Kinky a range of penises issues and is
porn affecting your sex life.
All this more on this episode of Sex with Emily, thanks for listening.
But first, you know, I am always giving you the heads up on the latest and greatest in
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The E5 so much to offer, you're not just going to hit it and quit it. You can operate it,
it's got all these settings, you can operate it if you just want literal stimulation, internal
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So ovos, new sex toys are just hitting stores this week, hitting the shelves everywhere.
And if you can't wait, get more information on their innovative product line at ovolifestylestoys.com. Hey, Evelyn, you got a boyfriend? Because my man E here, he just got his heart broken, he thinks you're kind of cute. The girls got a hair stand. Oh my!
The women know about shrinkage.
Isn't it common, not only?
What do you mean, like laundry? It's drinks?
Can we not talk about sex so much?
Are you kidding me?
I'm not.
I'm not.
I'm not.
I'm not.
I'm not. I'm not. You think she kinda cute. Hey girls, gotta have a stand. Oh my. The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common all the way?
What do you mean like laundry?
It's shrink?
Can we not talk about sex so much?
Are you kidding me?
Oh my god, I'm so dumb.
Being bad feels pretty good.
You know Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with.
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All that stuff because I'm all about educating you in a good way to fun way like on my Facebook page and Twitter
And you should follow me in all those places Instagram. So I should have like the young you're the young hot uh doctor doctor Ruth getting
that yeah.
I mean that's nice.
The young hot thin non-accented doctor Ruth.
I can do accent.
You put the penis in the mouth.
No, that's she's kind of talks that way.
It's pretty close to that.
I matter one.
She's like four 10.
I in a reading.
What did she say to you when you met her?
She was sweet because she's like really into the Jewish
whatever.
Oh, she Jewish.
Yeah.
Dr.
All Jewish.
All.
Okay.
Most of the sex educators are Jewish for some reason.
What is that?
I don't know.
I've tried to explain.
We like what?
They like the responses over there.
I don't know what it is.
I think that we don't have a lot of hangups around it.
And like the Schmechmer. What are you talking about? I'm just trying to think of I don't know what it is. I think that we don't have a lot of hang-ups around it. Like the Schmack mother.
What are you talking about?
I'm just trying to think of Yiddish words that I need.
Oh, we're just open.
I don't know.
I do know Yiddish words, but nothing's got things.
Like what else you know?
What else you got?
I've got, oh my God, I've got.
Shlap, they like to slap the penis into the vagina.
Shlap the penis in.
It's such a nice thing for you to use all these sex toys.
You gotta slap them in the house.
And then, okay, what else do I know?
I heard a really funny one the other day.
That was so, my friend used it as like oh kibbuting so
you know kibbuting yeah you got a kibbuting rather than it's what you guys were all doing
five minutes ago kibbuting I love it can we're not in I know they're the best so we were
kibbuting and then another one doing here okay so when I was younger I mean people can watch
us on new stream right now I mean if you're watching Emily I'm at least topless tonight because, you know,
hey, I just anything to get more.
She knew the nips to the breathe.
But what I was going to say is,
so when my legs, like when I was a little girl,
and I'd be sitting on the couch,
and my legs would be spread open,
like not like the naked spread open,
but not like a lady, like with my legs together across.
My mom would say, look at you, your
English break.
And that means your legs are wide open. So what's the English and what's the like a lady, like with my legs together across. My mom would say, look at you, your English sprites.
And that means your legs are wide open.
So what's the English and what's the sprites?
I don't know.
I can't break it down for you word for word,
but it's like some kind of Yiddish iteration.
And she might even be off about that.
So how are you, Anderson?
It's great to see you, though, because you weren't here
last week, because I was attending a series of
embassies and stuff.
Yes, but before I move on from the Yiddish,
so when you're receiving, when a female is receiving the shfons,
the English spritz must be English spritz,
is that what you're saying?
She was saying that your legs were a Kimba.
Okay, I got it.
And you else, this is my other favorite one.
If you waste money on something,
like money down the drain,
she says, I used to go far from the guilt,
and guilt is money, I know, but it's like,
you don't know the first part. I used to go far from the guilt to something like that. money. I know, but it's like you don't know the first part. I should go far from the gelt to something like that
I mean you threw money down the drain. What do we some money? Okay, no, it's very unjewish. Okay, go. Okay, so Anderson. Oh, yeah, you're at
Sheezy or avians or what? Oh my god. So last it was friggin
Insane the last like 12 I realized that the last 14 days I've had
Sex related conferences every night. I know that sounds super 14 days, I've had sex-related conferences every night.
And I know that sounds super exciting.
And some of them are the porn awards.
But I have to tell you, it was non-stop every night.
Because some of it was like business, so I'll tell you.
I'll tell you how it all broke down, okay?
So, because January's the big month, right?
For like sex conferences and porn awards.
And when I say sex conferences, it's like all the toys
and the products. So I had first thing I had X-Biz,
which is the X-Biz.com,
they're like the trade journal for all the sex industry.
They had a big dinner, right?
So the dinner, they had dinner for a lot of executives
in the sex world, which is,
I'm an executive.
Do they get cute with the menu
or do they just serve straight chicken and beef?
They had these at chicken and beef.
But, so guess who hosted the after party were on Jeremy.
He was there.
Our buddy, Mr. Skin.
Oh, yeah.
So usually I go to these things.
I'm like, I have a huge week.
And not only did I have a conference two days before that,
which I don't even want to tell you about,
because there's too much to talk about tonight.
But I had my sheet conference.
So anyway, I'm like, I'm not going to stay.
You know, I want to see Mr. Skin say hi. And since these parties seem like they're going to be
it was at the Anda's hotel rooftop. It's like in Bess Hollywood. It's on. It's on. Yeah.
And so it's like after the dinner, it's like people are going to love people. And you think
people in the industry, everyone's kind of crazy while, but people are executives like selling toys
and doing their things. And then all of a sudden mr. Skin things starts
And there's like naked women like you know, you know
I'll go back. What's the mr. Skin things?
Party so we have a dinner from seven to nine. It was like a very formal dinner and then
It's a mr. Skin party and he shows up. It was great to see him and then like they put up all these
You know like posters and like all these these movie posters, but really it was like
Mr. Skin's face in it and you could pose next to different celebrities.
And then there's a whole outdoor area where there was all these, by the pool, but there
were all these covered up lounges so you could easily tuck in there and people were like,
there was porn stars.
So people started coming in and droves.
I thought people were having sex.
Like girls going down each other with bondage.
There was porn. There was male porn stars, female porn stars. A lot of guests that have
been in the show like me. Is it Bala? Do you remember her? She's a transgender porn
star. Male porn star. She's like, let's see if he's really that big. She grabbed his
penis. I mean, it was so they're running after party. Yes. And they decided to all go to
work. That'd be like going to a plumber big, you know, plumber bash and then they get to the party and they're all in the bathroom like working on the pipes.
Exactly. Right.
What because you think that why because like why would they come to a sex because they do that all the time?
Why do they got to do work stuff? It's like they're off work. They're supposed to be party and they should be banging.
They're partying. They were they're porn stars. That's working. They're banging.
It's not work to them always.
Apparently, they do like sex.
And it's funny that you...
So, that was that first night and I ended up staying till 2 a.m.
So, every night I was going to go home early, but every night there was a fun party.
So, that was the first night.
Mr. Skin, of course.
I'm like, okay, crazy.
I do love that guy.
And I did invite my friend who's kind of like straight up and never been to anything.
I'm like, I think...
Because I'm sitting there going, this is actually kind of a good party.
And not just because people... But there's like, you'd walk in one room like people
are already sex, but then not like it was a sex party. And they were outside. It was private.
But then inside, there's like people doing bondage and just people dressed up crazy.
You know, porn fun stuff. But then funny, you should mention that about the plumbers,
because the next night was the ex-biz porn awards, right? And I was presenting, so those are like huge awards. It was at the
Some hotel downtown and I was presenting some big Mariah. I think it was the Mariah or something
Some big hotel downtown. He said okay some big hotel and
These are the awards for you know, there must be a thousand people there
These are also the ex-biz porn awards and so I was asked to present an award
Which award? I was presenting the word for best sex toy of the year and also like most
innovative design of all that makes sense. And then I got to go up on stage with another porn star
who's like the milk of the year porn person. And it was just really funny and James Dean was the host
so I was backstage with him. He was surprisingly normal, nice guy, okay.
He's a nice Jewish guy from the Valley.
He's super cool.
Got a big, giant shfons.
And I have to say that, oh, oh, and then,
not the milk that I went up on stage to present with,
but later on, I was talking to this milk,
she was nominated for five awards with her husband,
and they were full on, like, we were talking for a while,
I was really interested, because she was nominated
for so many awards, she was like,
and then he started rubbing my leg,
and I think they were trying to have a threesome, but I was like probably
No, I got to get it
You usually just rubbing someone's leg when you
It was awkward. I'm like see you guys are swingers. Okay, gotta go. What were these milk's names?
You know, I wish I could remember I bet your listeners will know who they are someone at the blonde
You know, it wasn't even a real name. It wasn't the nail in painland bitch. What's it? No, no, no, oh god
You guys I'm so sorry. I'll tweet it out. Um, whatever her name was. Okay, so here's the thing though,
oh, but the best toys that was exciting on stage got to give more to best toy for that flashlight.
I was honored because you know, I love the flashlight and then the revel body, which is this really
cool new toy that, um, you know, the sonic hair toothbrush. Oh, yeah. So it uses that technology
and it's like an orb
and has like a suction and like you can put it under water
and like sucks on your clit, like providing you oral sex,
but you can use it in all these different ways.
And it was cool and it won.
And it was fun.
Retrieve golf balls if you're using a pond.
Exactly, you could train it.
So that was like super fun,
but I had to go in early because I had to work with it.
What do these awards look like?
What are the statues look like?
Oh, you got like a big statue.
Glass has your name on it?
Is it classy looking? I mean, you know, it's it looks phallic, but that's appropriate. You could have used a flashlight on it
Could you have you could have used a flashlight on a true you could have done to flush it on anything and I met mr.
Flashlight. I'm there is a mr. Flashlight. Yeah his family started. I mean, I've known I met him once before
But it was just really cool to like meet all my like flashlightlight people and all the vaginas that are molded as fleshlates.
But here's the best part.
So it's this huge conference, right?
And like you can tell, there's like people, and meanwhile the red carpet, it's every
point so you've ever heard of and it's like miles long to get on the red carpet.
So afterwards, I'm leaving because I really do have to rest for my big conference this
weekend.
I get down and going down the escalator, it's big escalator
with my friend Michael from Crave. He makes the vibrator necklace that I love, the
Vesper. So we're going on the elevator and then he's like, well, let's just go in here
and talk real quick, get a drink. And there's a convention going on of a bunch of dudes.
It's called the beaver convention. And I saw the sign when I came in that said beaver convention.
And I'm like, is that a play on porn convention? I don't know.
But it turns out it's for contractors,
like construction workers contractors.
And so they're all like from Dallas,
like a bunch of white guys, like,
and they thought I was a porn star
because I was dressed kind of slutty
and I came in there with my friend,
and not like they assumed,
like, are you part of the,
we hear there's a convention going on
and they were all freaking out
and I gave them like my red carpet
and they co-op stairs and they were watching all the women.
It was like, it was the best thing they'd ever seen because they're like
at a freaking construction convention called the beaver convention that to me was hilarious
that's pretty great I bet a lot of people made a mistake and went into the beaver
well the beaver first I literally I was like a crossroads and like beaver convention
point of words I don't know what to do but real quick fuck all those guys how about that
they're all in their laughing and talking about how they rip everyone off oh yeah I mean I tell you weeks but I really I know it's gonna be a
month and double I mean they're not the kind of guys I want I do that too no that's
that was the guy talking but they were just the other thing it was like the best
night of their life because there's a point about it okay so then the big
thing was the she conference you know I've been talking about it for months
she's sexual health expo how to go that was, it was really cool because it was the first of its kind,
expo for individual, I go to these things, like not open to the public,
but this was for, you know, I've talked with us for weeks,
people can come in off the street, learn about sex education,
taught by sex educators, it was two days at the Sophie Tell.
So they asked me,
amazing. Here's the thing. They expected like four to 500 tickets, 2000 people showed up. So
if that doesn't show you how many people are like craving for sex education. Show you the power of
them, I think. I did bring a lot of them. It's true. I was on Kevin and Bean morning show and
talked about it the morning. Never heard of it. Okay, so anyway, the best thing was that, oh, the seminars were packed, the rooms, it was
crazy.
People were sweating.
I mean, there was sex toy booths everywhere.
I mean, you know, like cool things and people were like, I want to learn, I want to learn
and it was very inspiring and powering because my favorite part of it was that I got to
meet, I don't often get to meet.
Like, remember your after-disaster live show?
Yeah. I was so impressed at the improv that you sold out. I got to meet, I don't often get to meet. Like, remember your after disaster live show.
Yeah.
I was so impressed at the improv you sold out.
People were like buying your t-shirts.
Like, you know what I mean?
You get to meet fans.
Lining that photograph, yes.
They were lining up for autograph.
I don't go out that much.
Like, I'm like in the radio, I'm home working.
Like, it's not because I like to have so many things.
It's really cool to meet the people that support you.
So I met all these fans who were there
because I had a meet and greet.
It was just so cool.
And there were so many people that came in just to meet me and to go to the conference because they heard about it
And I must have met like five different women which was interesting or like
One woman was like, you know, I was driving the car listening to your show
And I thought I wanted to be a physical therapist always but then I realized I want to be a sexologist
Like how do I do what you do? There was like five women who were like I want to do what you do
I don't think that's interesting to warn them
What you tell I'm like well you won't make it enough. I said yeah enough with the competition
Get out. You know what I'm so supportive of anyone who the we need more sex education in this world
So I feel like you know what good for them and that was amazing to me to look and crowd over there really good looking crowd
Not sketchy crowd not creepy crowd like a high-end crowd who was just like yeah I want to learn about this stuff this is hot and so
and then I had an Emily and Tony booth there so people oh here was another thing
that was great oh first backup got to meet my fans it was really cool I love them
and then also it was funny because you realized they really listened to the
details and Madison was there you know Madison since I'm pretty sure she was
there you know Madison she works for me she's sitting behind me yes and then
people were like oh and Madison you told that great story about the flesh like they were so specific
and they knew and it was it was a good time so then we had Emily and Tony Booth and the best
thing is I've been talking about my candles and my down-and-or-confort for so long but until you
experience it you know it's a kind of thing like I'm trying to explain to you guys. Very hands on, yeah. People freaked out. They loved it. We told
candles. The whole thing was amazing. And I have to say that my people's Madison and
Kimber and my intern, Julianne, like they, I have the best team ever and I rocked it. And
I just have to say that it was very gratifying. And it may be very inspired and have a renewed
passion for what I do. Very nice. Thanks'm like Thanksgiving was two weeks ago two months ago. What happened then?
Well, no, you're just thanking the people around you like people do or holidays, but I love every I'm more
Great. They're very very proponious people
Okay, also and Ruby as well and Ruby
Ruby. Oh, the guy Ruby kicked ass Ruby always kicks ass
But she wasn't the conference, but she kicked out prior to the conference She did everything. Do they like take one for the team like if there's a like a stalker type listener fan there that really wants to bang you do like
Well, they take them away.
There was a stalker there.
Well, they will they take them away and they'll do services.
Yeah, there was a stalker there when I first walked in and he was like I was on CBS news.
They did a big they're doing a big piece on it and he was like
Your am like he was kind of stalker.
I should then a few people pointed out that he'd been there like all morning waiting for
M. Yeah.
Uh, so we kicked him out.
No, I don't know.
Was it ruined?
I think it was.
Rune was there.
Rune was there.
Yeah.
I don't I feel like I've been talking about this for way.
I could tell you guys so many more funny stories, but I had to give out the awards.
Another award show and room was there for that.
What was the, uh, what was the award that you gave off of the other award show?
It was the she awards. It was so they also you gave off for the other award show? It was the she award.
It was so they also had an award show.
And I gave out the awards.
I was presenting them all.
All of them.
So like what can the words read?
To get out.
Okay.
So like the best again, sex toys,
sex for sex, sex educator,
best, um, Lou, best new product,
best technology, you know, all that stuff.
And you did you slip in like a,
an ever and best loop goes to sex with
Abelie's sex at Tony and Emily's.
I know we don't tell our loop though.
Why not? It's so good.
I know I you know I got a bunch more for you because we can't
the long story why I can't celebrate.
I'll but you know that the magic wand won for best toy.
Not as price and jazoo you know I love my meal.
You love you.
They were the one for best design.
So it was a pretty cool and then I got to yeah
But I had to what happened was a lot of some of the people who won awards were there
So I had to be like oh magic one congratulations, and then I jumped in there
So you know, they're like how do you feel about it? We feel great people over I was like playing two people. Oh, you're like actually
Yeah, I was like pretending I was them accepting the words. It was a good time
Did you take so you have like nine awards on your mantle at home?
No, I didn't get any of them as the truth, but um,
it was a good time. We were there. Yeah, Lindsay, not you, but that's cool.
No, no, none of my friends know if you know, you know, busy.
I am right now. I'm sorry. I'm giving crap.
Yeah, we're moving studios. It's a big deal. This is the last night that
the last night we're in the love line studio. Oh, and I had a listener ask me,
he said, you always say you're on love line. I to the podcast and I I didn't hear you in them and so
so everyone knows I'm on Thursday nights which is the Friday podcast. Yeah so one that actually
I put it up Monday. Oh. Sunday night at 11.50. Okay so it's the Monday podcasts of love line if you
want to hear it. Great. People want to know. And this
our last night in the studio and we're going to have a new studio. Okay, so I've
got some sex in the news and some emails. And let me, oh, first one more thing.
I'm just going to keep cutting myself off. We had a huge giveaway over the
holidays called the M7 Days of Pleasure and people keep emailing me like, do we win,
do we win? We did a video. It's posted two weeks ago on my website, sexfilming.com
and you can see I list all the winners,
and you can see if you want, if you want, email me, name, address, all that stuff. Okay, now onto
sex information, because I know that's why you're all here, and wow, I'm talking a lot. Okay,
I mean, I always talk a lot. Okay, women across the Internet defend their orgasms with hashtag not p.
Have you heard about this whole squirting debacle debate?
Yeah, here's squirting is like really big right at this moment.
Well, squirting is a new anal.
I've been saying that that people have been obsessed.
Squirting has been around for a long time.
No, it's been around for a long time, but porn has made it this thing that 10 years ago
when I started the show, it was all about anal sex and now it's all about squirting.
However, listen to this study.
A recent study published by the Journal of Sexual Medicine claims that there's a difference
between female, ejaculate, and squirting.
Female ejaculate comes from the skin gland and the vagina while squirting is just pee.
Women, women all over the internet have been outraged and have started the hashtag hashtag
not pee.
They feel this study is embarrassing women who squirt.
These women are afraid to like go and
orgasm because they think they are
urinating. The study is not helping
them and the study was done with only
seven women. So it's us back. Here's
a thing. Seven women does not a study
make. That's like me talking to like
seven my girlfriends at dinner and
like publishing like a journal and
something in the journal. Oh, you guys
all at sex that's like that means
that seven out of seven women have
sex on a Tuesday night. Stupid. Okay.
So the story is employing up the internet because everyone's talking about it and, you know, it's controversial. And there's always been debate about it. There might be
tet traces of urine in it, but there it is different. There are there are it's like the male
prostate gland, it's the skin gland, what you know, people are just like, and my thing is,
well, I'm gonna get into my thing
in a minute because we actually have an email about it
coincidentally, that I'm going to tie into this.
Watch this.
Hi Emily.
Just wanted to say I love your podcast.
I listen to iTunes all the way in New Zealand.
My question is when I climax,
a large amount of liquid comes out
and I feel anxious about it when having sex. And although the sex is good, I won't let myself climax because of it. I recently read
an article that it is urine. And now I feel even worse about it. Please help me. Is this
normal? Thanks. Slightly embarrassed. Female. Okay. So this is the concern that women are now like,
oh, it's hot. My boyfriend, I think it's hot. You know, no, it's
There's nothing wrong with some liquid coming out. You know, you have to be with someone who find, you know, who's comfortable with it
Who finds it to turn on as well? If there's someone that you're with and you're like, oh, he doesn't like it the sheet
You thought it was then don't be with that person if it's something because it feels different
It's not like we're like, oh, I'm pissing on this guy. I mean just because there's traces of it
There's no reason why everyone's gonna be like, oh, I'm not into
squirting anymore, right? And so I feel like don't stress on this, my friend from New
Zealand, because if it feels good to you, again, you got to be with a partner that supports
you. And here's what you got to say. Ready? Women should not feel self-conscious about it.
If you're like, and like 10 to 54% of women's score, okay?
So tell your partner next time, hey, you know, if you're embarrassed or you're like, oh,
God, I'm worried about it now.
Just, hey, guess what?
This is something that happens to me from time to time and it's, you know what it means?
It means that our sex is that amazing.
And so let's throw down some towels and throw down.
But no one actually has been upset with her, right?
She's just speculated.
She's now, she's worried, yeah.
But I mean, this is so funny, because we hear this all the time on Love Line as well.
And it's, it's, if women only could, I guess you guys have heard it, but just believe
us that if the more you produce the better, there's not a guy out there, except for the
occasional like freak germafode fob.
Most guys are looking for squirters.
They want you guys to do it, but all of you across the board think that it's a bad thing. Because this will first of all,
people already were concerned about it. But now this study, this this this study that I I think
as no validity is saying it's well, there's seven full people. Yeah, seven full women said
partially it was urine. So, you know, even if it was urine, you're not going to die. No one's
going to die from being. You're in you're in sterile. And it's true. And it's urine, you're not going to die. No one's going to die from being dead. You're in sterile. And it's true.
And it's always been known to have partial urine in the female jacket.
It's a lame study.
I'm sure that Seaman has partial urine.
Exactly.
Well, I don't think so.
I'm sure it does.
But why is there a debate about female sexuality by men is what I want to know.
They always want to know, is the G spot exist?
Is it a literal orgasm?
Are we really squirting or not?
Who cares? We don't sit around and go, was that really pre-m? Are we really squirting or not? I mean, who cares?
We don't sit around and go, was that really pre-com?
We should study, maybe that wasn't pre-com.
Maybe it was P.
Hey, it was P.
But, but seeing these are, it just pisses me off.
Like, let us just take care, if we're all having a good time,
why the hell do people care?
Let's spend your money like carrying cancer, thanks.
That's how I feel about that.
Okay, back to sex and the news.
What, how do you feel about it?
No, I think it's ridiculous.
I think the fact that there's so much time
and energy and money is spent on it.
I mean, Dr. Drew talked about it on HLN.
I'm going on this show tomorrow on his radio show
to talk about it, like, people are freaking out.
It's just the way that the news is set up.
It's just the flavor of the day.
And everyone's going to talk about it for a week.
They're going to forget.
They're going to move on and talk about something else.
They're just going to keep on squirting on, squirting on. Keep on keeping on. Pisses you off gonna talk about it for a week. They're gonna forget they're gonna move on to talk about something else I'm just gonna keep on squatting on squatting on. Uh-huh. Keep on keeping on pisses you off. I get it
It does. Okay, so I get it. Okay, it pisses me off people. We had a squirt her in here who she squirted all over my
Children angel. Let me tell you about that. She it was I was in that room and I was shooting the video and I heard her say to her friend
I think I'd have to pee right before. That's hilarious.
That was pee.
Joanna Angel wants to come back on and do it again.
So it was called like the squirtathon or something.
And Mike was wearing, this was a few years ago.
Mike was wearing like goggles.
It was like radio.
But then Drew was like, oh my God, we can't put some radio.
Drew is like, I need to leave.
But then, right, but then Joanna, I saw,
so Joanna Angel has a new line of toys.
By King Club, I think, oh, I'm gonna get this right. Can can someone look this up Joanna Angel's new toys a little fact actually she gave me
The coolest like she's this bondage gear. It's got like a whip and like it's really high-end beautiful
Bonded like for straits a whip a paddle a blindfold and she
It's so sweet so everyone if you like Joanne Angel,
she's been on the show bunch and go buy her toys
because they're cool.
I have to find someone to use it with,
but it's on my list.
Okay, sex and news.
Women on top is the most dangerous sex position
to more scientists conclude.
Seriously, can we cure other things here?
Scientists claim the cowgirl position is responsible
for half of the penile fractures during sex.
Not next most dangerous is doggy style,
at 29% of penis fractures.
The least dangerous, of course, is the boring missionary.
Now it's kidding, it doesn't have to be boring.
With 28% of bone or breakers,
men on top helps the man control the movement during sex and minimizes the risk of breakage.
Women on top has women with all their force on the penis
making more likely for more breaking.
What abs, how many penis they're really getting break
in a year?
And a lot of women are more likely to have an orgasm
with their on top.
Does this mean that people are gonna stop having sex
on top now?
Really?
I'm not getting on work as I say this.
But yeah, most people who are breaking their their penises over there, they don't know how to do it. sex on top now. Really? I'm knocking on wood as I say this. What?
But yeah, most people who are breaking their penises over there, they don't know how to do it.
They're being too vigorous and you just got to calm down.
That being said, I really hope I don't break mine.
I've heard it's incredibly painful and I can see how it has...
I hope you don't break yours too.
I have no one listening.
But most people that break it, I think they're just getting way too into it and they're
thrusting their jackhammering.
And then it pops out and then it pops in in a weird angle
or hit something else. And next thing, you know, broken. Yeah. But it's not a lot of people.
You'd be surprised. I mean, how many people think there's actually a bone in the weiner?
Right. There's not. No, but you can. Most animals have a bone in their penis, but not
the human man. And it's funny because we call it boner, which is my favorite. Your guitar is a bone, but yeah. It does get hard to the bone sometimes.
We hope.
OK, condom purses promote safe sex and break down stereotypes.
So OK, this reminds me of funny stories.
So those are these condom purses, right?
So remember, we've been talking for a few months
about how like, do women carry condoms?
Do they not?
Why don't they?
Like, you know, you know, you're
going to have sex with someone, but women don't want to be seen as, you know, whatever,
forward. But I think women, I think this is brilliant. Like why not have condoms with you? Because
you know, you're gonna get in the moment and you're like, oh, I don't have one. Oh, I don't
have one either. Let's just do it in your drunk or whatever. You should always use protection. People,
I feel like they just, they don't use enough protection. And I feel like condoms are an easy
thing to throw in your purse
And now there are condoms purses
But the funny thing was the other night after she Kimber Madison
Who work with me my loves came to my house and we are having dinner?
And I was going to have sex with someone and I was like oh god. I don't have condoms
Wait a minute wait a minute. This guy that I have sex with sometimes. Okay. What's always at a scheduled sex date?
Well, it was more of like, let's hang out.
Cause it sounded like it was gonna be either Kimber Madison,
the way that you set the rule up.
That I was gonna sex with that.
We're all in my house, we're having dinner,
I'm about to have sex with somebody.
Oh God, I'm jumping around.
No, we were all talking, we were hanging out
for a few hours, we had dinner, we were laughing,
having a good time, and then this guy that I knew
I was gonna hang out with.
What time did he, oh, it wasn't like 8.30.
11 o'clock and he started texting you.
No, no more friends.
Like I knew we had plans, FWBs.
And I knew that he was out of condoms
because I like, I provided,
so I love these condoms.
They're, they're called skin, SKYN.
And they're not latex, they're polyisoprene.
And they, like if you have latex allergy,
but they're super thin.
And their whole thing is like next to wearing nothing
But it really does feel that way, but you it's strong. It's not gonna break
So anyway, I was like you guys I don't know many condoms
They're like what do you mean you know to condoms? I'm like
Because they did lifestyles who won't say lifestyles and skin sent me like I literally I have a thousand condoms in my house
In my office, but none of my house. I'm scavenging around. I don't have condoms
So I have bring someone home from the office and now they're in the front seat of my car
I thought it was funny story. What?
Are you confused out of condoms? Yeah, I don't know why you want to
Because I think because I did and then I brought them all because when I moved to my new office I brought them all there
I just
because when I moved to my new office, I brought them all there. I just, it just affects my house.
I have other people here.
Here's what you got to do.
Your front door at your house.
Yeah.
With your Russian landlord, you got to like,
just plaster condoms all over your front door.
Like decorate it, like wallpaper.
That's not a bad idea.
It'd be kind of cute.
You just like use condoms?
No, not use condoms, Emily.
OK, so this is the thing about the condom purse
is that you're about to get lucky.
Are you covered?
World's a day a day which happened on December 1st as a reminder that carrying and of course using condoms can be a life-saving
decision. So fashion designer Maggie Kervik and lifestyle condoms want to show you that being protected can be fashionable too.
So they teamed up for line of vinyl bags made to look like skin condor
wrappers, part of the I'm Covered Skin. See they love them. I'm covered campaign. So
I'm just saying it's a great conversation piece and women you should carry your goddamn
condoms and so should guys. Okay, when we come back we're going to dive right into your
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Okay, let's get into some emails here
From the people that we love so thank you for emailing me.
Feedback at sex with mwe.com.
I love it.
Deer Emily, my wife of seven years,
has always been very conservative in the bedroom.
Recently, I brought a vibrating penis ring
to spice things up a little.
She had never used a vibrator any time before,
and she loved it.
Now I think she's addicted to it and suggests
using it every time, which is fine by me.
I love the increased pleasure she gets from it.
Also, you discussed a penis extension toy
that you gave as a gift in a recent episode
that I've been thinking of getting one.
The thought of her experiencing something bigger
is exciting to me and I think she'll enjoy it as well.
My only concern is that she may like it so much
that going back to just my penis will be less
than satisfying.
Do you think I'm opening a can of worms
by introducing her to a bigger experience?
Thanks, Mike.
Okay, Mike, here's a deal.
I love to hear that you and your wife have seven years.
You're opening it up, you're trying new things
and she's been conservative.
This is great. She's not addicted to the penis ring, okay? And the thing is that I really hope we've
come this far that again, 10 years ago when I started, I always had a preface every talk about the
sex toys are like, no guys, don't worry, she's not going to leave you for her vibrator. You know,
it's fine. It is an enhancement. It adds to the experience.
So while she likes having sex with you,
it's like putting sprinkles on your Sunday or something.
It's like, why, you can just have the whipped cream
and the chocolate sauce, but you're like,
oh, that's really good.
So it's not that your penis wasn't doing it for her.
It's just a different experience.
And great sex is all about variety.
Switching things up, which is exactly what you're doing.
So I think Mike, you're doing everything right.
How amazing that after seven years together,
seven-year-its, a lot of couples are like,
eh, we're not having sex anymore, it's over,
that she's trying a penis reign, good for her.
They're really fun because they go on your penis
and they vibrate like the Mio, the J.J. Mio is one
of my favorites and makes it even more orgasmic
because it hits her clitoris and I'm sure the vibrations feel, the J.J. Mio is one of my favorites, and makes it even more orgasmic because it
hits her clitoris, and I'm sure the vibrations feel good for you.
So if you're really worried about it, I say go sex toy shopping, go to store near you,
go to good vibes, and get some more toys.
So you can add in some diversity.
Maybe you get her like a G-Spot toy that you can insert, or you get like one of these
wearable vibes, which is like there's all these new technology now
where you can actually control them
remote control via Bluetooth.
Like the, oh my bod makes it,
and Jesus coming out with one.
So like try new things.
I think it's amazing and don't stress on this.
The next thing, penis extenders.
Okay.
He's talking about the big black penis extender
that I gave as a joke to my Catholic word, Unloved line.
Remember that Anderson?
So my cat. Yeah, cause it floated around from studio to studio.
You like carries it with them to like parties and stuff.
So it was a joke because he sort of has an obsession with black
penises like googling them online.
But so I gave him one and it is a penis extender that slides over your
penis and it can make your penis larger, like a big dildo, like it's silicone,
but with more girth.
Again, if you want to try one of those, I actually never, I've never tried it. I mean you might want to just, I mean maybe if you
could, she'll like that and you could try it. You could also just try using like a vibrator like a,
you know like a G-spot insertable one. Like if you go to good vibes and you put like the
inserting into it and see how that feels, but again just because this penis extender that you put
on felt different to her, we're talking different, not better, variety you could that feels. But again, just because this penis extender that you put on felt different to her,
we're talking different, not better,
variety you could try one.
But let me just be clear here,
that when I say penis extender,
there's other things, there's these penis extenders
that are like stretchers and you go online
and they're like, oh, extender penis, you know,
it's like, you know, lame thing girth
and it's safe and natural and non-invasive.
It's like, and the closest thing to are treats. It basically says that you're gonna
Oh, that your penis is gonna grow that stuff is BS
So I think you're talking about the one that sides of your penis, but you know
You're already tripping on see here's the thing Mike
I feel like you're too concerned that she's gonna like leave you for all this stuff
You guys are together seven years and she's having better sex. I feel like all like I'm giving you a thumbs up and all roads point to your sex life exploding even more.
So keep on doing what you're doing.
Okay, dear Emily, I've been with my girlfriend
for over a year now.
Things are going great and I love her.
I recently found out how freaky she's willing to get in bed
and I love it.
The thing is, I know something she's done that I haven't experienced yet and I love it. The thing is I know some things
she's done that I haven't experienced yet and I would like to try them with her.
But she now has the bin there done that attitude. How can I talk to her to let
her know I'd like to try these things. Sign Dave.
Like what does she does you have examples? Well he does and this is why we have to
start taking call or like I feel like a lot of what this is the other thing
Okay, if you email me feedback at sex the army.com with your questions
Tell me your age always and where you're from I would just that would help me and also
The kinky things like if you give more details, but don't make it longer just give me some details that would help me
Because I listen to the point and then what I think we're gonna start doing is actually scheduling some of these people to
Call into the show and ask the questions or or we'll start taking callers again if we
have.
I think the new studio in my building.
But anyway, here's a deal.
Good for you also Dave, trying to try new things with your girlfriend.
I love that she's willing to take share experiences with you and you're not judging her because
think about it Anderson.
A lot of couples can't handle hearing about their partner's past.
Yeah, we always say on love line,
more mystery less history.
Exactly.
And I actually typically advise against it
because, you know, guys are never going to forget,
especially the number conversation.
Like if you said you had sex with 12 guys,
all these thinking is like those 12 penises
were inside the vagina.
I don't think girls have any idea.
A guy used to obsess about it.
Like I knew way too much about every guy
with some of these girls. It was disgusting. I knew way too much about every guy with some
of these girls. It was it was disgusting. They told you too much without asking. How much
shame to myself? No, usually like, and then it would be like a tooth that I kept like
going to mess with like I saw a tooth and I kept going back and asking more details and
looking for stuff. I was like, it's like watching a train ride. Yeah, like I was detective.
It was bad and for no reason. It didn't good But I would crash what do they say like watching like a trait like I'm gonna say a sexual ashore like homes. Yeah, no
I get it. So why do we all we all want to know? I mean I get I get I understand if you're in a healthy relationship with someone who can handle it
You know, that's great. He's actually inspired by it, but there's a lot of people who I just think
Sex is that's the thing you want to talk about on the first or second day like I did
Well, he didn't say that necessarily.
He didn't say that.
They've been together.
No, they're good over a year now.
Yeah, but like she knows she's been down some kinky road.
So obviously he probably heard about it.
No, she told them.
So I think it's great.
She's willing to share experiences and they excite them.
So I think that's cool.
He's not judging it and freaking out.
But just because she's been there done that doesn't mean that like she's done with it.
And she's insecure, like she's,
oh, she's been, I don't even know, I had kinky sex.
She's been tied up in a dungeon.
And he says that she's giving them that vibe,
like she doesn't want to.
But I don't think it's true.
I think that's his men and women are very insecure
about sex, as we could see.
Like you're insecure, that you're not gonna,
you're already insecure, that you're not gonna perform,
that you're not gonna say hard,
that you're gonna ejaculate too quickly. And now you're concerned that she's like're already insecure, that you're not going to perform, that you're not going to say hard, that you're going to ejaculate too quickly.
And now you're concerned that she's like,
oh yeah, been there, done that.
But I can tell you if she been there, done that,
and she enjoyed it, she definitely wants to try with you.
So continue the discussion because the discussion,
because this is such a good way for couples
to like expand their sexual bucket list.
So say, hey, you tried that.
And then I think that you, Dave, should tell her
some things that you've been wanting to try and just open up the conversation.
Are there things that you haven't done that you want to try together so you can experience new things together. And then,
regarding the things she's already done, you can let her know that God, you know, when you told me about being tied up in that dungeon or whatever,
you being tied up and blindfolded. That sounds so hot. I'm totally doing that to you Saturday night.
I don't know though. Do you want to like take her back because now she's
going to be thinking about the last time she did it without other guys exclusive just
because one guy did something he doesn't mean you can't do it again. And it's different
with every partner. Right. Every time you've done that, a little job was a different. Yeah.
Okay. Right. But she's been there done that but not with him. So now she can never be
tied up or of anal sex again or sex outdoors outdoors because it was kinky like it'd be like like she went to Disneyland with her ex boyfriend
She's a guy already been at Disneyland. I don't need to go again with you. I've been to Mexico with every single boyfriend
I don't care. That's Emily's Disneyland Mexico. Exactly. So if she's already done, you know
I believe she and they know like okay
No two sexual experiences are alike
So I think if you want to educate and some more kinky stuff, you know, watch porn together, go shopping, listen to my podcast, buy my book,
okay, hot sex over 200 things you can try tonight, which I never talk about anymore, but it's
a really beautiful book that, and I say beautiful because the illustrations are small, but it's
not intimidating. And you can just loop, I keep saying literally, what's the word on love line that we
basically, okay literally use open
It's any page and be like we should have that position tonight. You stole that for me. What I told you
That's what I've done with that book. Oh, you did do that. No, but I've been saying that but what it works
I'm not getting any details there. M's
But what you do is you have the book on your cove table you're like all right who wants to cut the deck tonight
Yeah, it's right pictures are made. We took like the pictures are people illustrations.
Yeah, they're sensual, but they're not creepy.
And they'd be creepy if they're framed on your wall.
I should frame my mind.
Well, in my wall, my office, if I went to a guy's house and like, yeah, he had those
frame on his wall, I'd want to leave his house pretty soon.
Yeah. Well, it's a very inviting book.
And if you buy it, it's like 13 bucks.
I love that book.
It's a great book.
No, I'm so glad.
You buy it on from my website. Click on the banner on my website because, it's like 13 bucks. I love that book. The great book. I'm so glad.
You buy it on from my website.
Click on the banner on my website because then I get like five cents.
Maybe.
Just help me support doing what I'm doing.
Okay, so I think you're all good.
So it's a care.
No, no, I did.
Buy it on your website because it helps support.
I have support.
I mean, you can buy it on Amazon, but you can also buy it on my website.
Yeah, I do want to make another book and people do love it because we had it at the show
on our my table and people were like, oh my god. And it's just like, you know, you write it where you don't know, but you make another book and people do love it because we had it at the show on our my table and people were like, oh my god.
And it's just like, you know, you write it, you don't know, but you write a book and you're
probably sure promotes it, but, you know, they move on, but the book has been very successful
and it's beautiful.
Okay.
That's why I got a Slayer about my book.
Dave, you're all good.
This is interesting because the last two people are insecure about what their partners are
going to think about, their performance.
And I just have to say that, you know, they're with you
because they're turned on by you.
And sex, again, should be expensive.
And you guys can learn this together.
And no woman is saying they're going,
God, you guys can let me down tonight.
He's really letting me down.
She's just thinking, I'm turned on.
And so don't worry about it.
Sex is fun.
Sex is fun.
Hashtag.
Sex is fun.
OK.
Another email? Fun. Let's do another email. You get time for another email.
Do I really? That's so awesome. Okay. Hello Emily.
I'm an older man and porn really gets me in the mood.
I love my wife. We've been married for 20 years,
but the sex isn't as good with her as it is with myself
when I watch porn. So I'm wondering if I should
stop watching it. I view it once a day and I use it to masturbate. When I have sex, the
climaxes are not as intense as my masturbation orgasms. During intercourse, it takes me more
than 20 minutes to orgasm and my erection lasts for up to an hour after sex. Thank you,
well, well, well, you just presented the other thing and everyone's mind besides wording and that's this, you know, the impact that porn is having on men
right now who are, you know, we've always had porn since the beginning of time. And
now it's everywhere and there's so much of it that people keep raising the bar and your
brains are actually getting rewired to like the images that you're seeing, the graphic
images that you can never replicate your sex life because there's not going to be 18 hot women with amazing
makeup and fake boobs giving you a blowjob at once. Probably just not going to happen or whatever
it is that you're into. So it's a great question and so I just think that what you got to do is how
was the sex with your wife before the porn and you, you know, so was it good then,
because you asked me if he should, he asked
if he should stop watching it.
And I want to know which she'd be interested
in watching it together, because I often suggest
that for couples that, you know, there is female-friendly porn,
there's lots of different sites that she might be into
and you could watch it together.
And also, what if you introduce some new things?
Because a lot of the porn is like the adrenaline, the excitement of watching new things that you're getting
stimulated by. And so that's turning you on and on. What if you, you know, tried some
toys in the bedroom or tried a massage candle or tried talking dirty? I mean, I know you're
like 20 years ago to get over the part that it's awkward that you've had sex the same way
over and over again, because it's not going to get any better than it. I mean, it's not
going to get worse than where you're at now.
It can only get better.
So I think if you really believe that the porn watching
is becoming a problem, you're no longer as hard
that you should try to masturbate without porn
and also cut back on your masturbation time
so you can get back to that feeling
of craving sex with your wife, which is what you want.
And so, you know, it's like mixing things up.
It's like people ask me that about sex toys
or when they masturbate, like, is it okay
that I use this toy?
I mean, sure, it's fine if you get off that way,
but it's like cross-training.
You're gonna need to cross-training at the gym.
You're like, oh, one day I'm gonna work on my shoulders
and I'm gonna work, you gotta work different muscles,
different exercises, like, don't run every day,
you won't be in good shape.
So if you only masturb it the same way,
I mean, you just love an orgasm,
but try like, tempering down the porn,
and then with your wife,
bringing some of that into the background.
So cross-trains, actually.
That should be my next book.
Like, left hand on the screen.
Oh, damn, I just gave it away.
So yeah.
Right hand, left hand.
What do you think?
I mean, I-
That's why we said what the flesh like dude's you guys do the same
goddamn thing all the time with your masturbation. No, when you get the flesh
light out there. I know. Always different. Exactly. Hey, it's gonna get worse to
this whole porn thing. I know what do we do about it? I mean they got the
virtual reality thing. It's like right around the corner. Oh, I saw some
things at the show. Yeah. There was a movie from the 80s that freaked me out.
It was supposed to be the future.
And it was a Christopher Walken was in it.
And this guy actually died because he
was doing the virtual reality thing.
He just had it on a loop for the part
where he actually climaxed.
And it killed him.
And it freaked me out.
It scared me.
No, it was before the internet too.
Exactly.
Well, now it's just like it's just that the levels guys
like God, I could never watch this.
And then they write and then it keeps suggesting more.
And then you keep watching more and more porn and your brain changes
what turns you on.
I think it might be kind of good though no longer.
Might then they heard a little bit.
People might stop having so much sex and you know populate in the earth.
Dude, does he's protection?
Are you serious?
That is so everything on against?
I know, I know, but still.
It's just gonna true.
It's not true at all.
If people work out in protection, okay I'm sorry.
No, but I think that yeah, you're worried about the population. It's already true. It's not true at all. If people work out in protection, okay, I'm sorry. Um, no, but I think that, yeah, you're
worried about the population.
It's already is dying.
I feel like people are having your children than they used to.
If that's really your concern.
But the point thing is not going to die down.
And my concern about porn too is that, you know, that, that is how
a lot of young people are learning to have sex now.
Oh, that's like whether first seeing sex. I mean, I'm, that's why I've been saying, I'm a lot of young people are learning to have sex now. Oh, that's like whether first seeing sex.
I mean, I'm that's why I was born.
I'm a lot older than that.
The first time I ever saw sex was porn.
Right.
And that's how you thought you should have sex.
And I think I should just say this every show.
That technically because of what you see in porn, which is mostly geared towards men, is
made to visually stimulate what guys want to see.
So the way he's pounding
on or doing it, if you look closely, it's like nowhere near her, her clitoris or her hot
spots, it's, it's, it's not way, the way you should technically learn to do anything.
I mean, you might be inspired by some things, but it's like, how is she screaming orgasm
when his penis is like 10 feet away from her clutter?
I'd be like, if there was a basketball channel and it was like people just running with
the ball and smashing into each other and like it was like tackle basketball and no one
dribbled.
It's like, that's not how you play.
It might be exciting to watch it that way, but don't learn to play basketball.
That's when I'm so conflicted.
That's why I feel like kids, you know, and also scarletine is a great website if you want
to learn, like technical sex education or listen to my show. But I'm not going to go off on point.
Anti-porn.
Hey, let me ask you a question.
Sure.
Go ahead and understand.
The first time you ever saw sex, was it your vagina or was it somebody else's?
I don't even remember.
I was very repressed.
The first time I saw it was I think important.
Yeah.
I've never thought about this before, but I was born and raised in Southern California,
so I can't remember the first time I saw the ocean, but I talked to people that moved
out here in their teens and they talk about how is such an amazing experience.
Right.
I can't remember.
It would be really cool if the first time I ever saw a sex was like me, but it wasn't.
It was strangers on a two-dimensional screen.
Exactly.
I don't remember the first time I saw.
I think it was some kind of sketchy.
It was one of those, when they used to have an HBO and it was those like a manual films where they were fuzzy. You couldn't really get that.
Yeah, where it's like way, wavy porn and then be be weight like a freeze frame for like half a second.
Yeah, go on. Side-nipple. I thought.
And another thing I want to say about that we were, was something that you just brought up was
porn and then see, oh, the first time I saw the ocean, I was in Florida when I was seven, and I remember,
and it was a very moving experience,
and I love the ocean.
Just get back to that.
Okay, everyone, I love you.
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FilmVault, anything that we need to know about it?
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We did a little preview for Sundance every year.
We talk about Sundance.
Sundance is going on actually right now this weekend,
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They're more interesting films that are showing up as Sundance. Yeah, cool. That's a good one. Okay, and pretty odd cast Roon
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Yeah, I think his last one was actually about the sexual health
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