Sex With Emily - Wild Sex, Scarves & Sexual Confidence with Chris Jericho

Episode Date: June 25, 2016

On this show Emily welcomes her good friend and guest, 7 time WWE champion and fellow podcaster Chris Jericho. Together they traverse a multitude of topics from his pro-wrestling persona to the inherent sexiness of scarves and everything in between. Chris goes in depth about his path to success, shares his thoughts on wild sex, and discusses the importance of confidence in your dating life. He and Emily also help listeners with questions on mutual masturbation, leg cramps and what NOT to do with your sex toys. Don’t miss it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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It was a huge success, by the way. People were going nuts for it. They love the show and love your take on everything. And so we said in return, I would do yours. And we finally were able to work it out. And here I am. I love it, because first of all, being on your show, OK, let's back up.

So I know Chris Jericho, seven time, I have your bio here, if you don't really know. How would you describe it? It's a Wikipedia thing. No, just like in everything like I went to like podcast one We have your podcasts and I was like because Wikipedia is the best because Wikipedia like anybody can just now like write I know so I've been dead like three or four times on Wikipedia Really? I'm glad you're so glad you're glad you're glad for now. If I was dead, what a scoop you would have yeah exactly I showed up I didn't do anything. He was already dead in the hotel room But so it's like It's interesting because

You'll just show up there and I was like hey bro. I'm born November 9th 1970 dead like April 23rd 2016 I'm like okay first of all. That's pretty morbid second of all I better be extra careful today because if I really did die on the day that it was predicted to'd be pretty creepy right. I don't know. I don't know why I don't know. It's pretty bad right. I'm wishing bad vibes. So anyways if you read on it with a pdf that I'm dead I'm actually not. He's so not dead. He's here and you're the leasing or fuzzy band. Right. Which is amazing. You started like a long time ago. I've been playing in bands since I was about 12 years old when When I was a kid, I wanted to be in a rock band and I wanted to be a wrestler.

Those were my two goals. And they came true. And they came true. Yes, here I am doing. And a writer. Writer. Podcast. Podcast.

You're like a quadruple threat actor. You're like everything. Like you truly have like, sold and all. Big sale, big sale. But this is how I met Chris. So I met Chris because we hosted the podcast awards. We did it in Las Vegas. I'm here Chris. So I met Chris because we hosted the podcast words. Did we do it in my fingers? I'm sure about.

We never met. We fly in. And I fly in with Norm. He owns podcast one. And we fly in and we get there. And we like an hour till the show starts. And like this big, like the first podcast words or maybe the first ones I really knew about.

And it was a big deal because it was, you know, Chris and I. So of course, I've really wanted to go. But I'm like, who is that? I don't even know him. Like, I don't know who you are wrestling. I I. So of course, everyone wanted to go. But I'm like, who is, I don't even know him. Like, I don't know who you are. Wrestling, I don't really understand what you're going to explain. And also, so we get there.

We literally have an hour. And I'm a check. So I have to change. Like, well, let's go meet Chris real quickly, because they sent some script over that we had to follow. It wasn't really good. I like, I read it. Is it a very basic kind of stock?

It's right. And we walk in. And we probably have like 40 minutes of showtime. And I'm still thinking I gotta get met. I gotta get dressed because you know, it's important. We get there and you're like, okay, we get in the room. It's like a two bus. You kick everyone else out there who's like the producers

of the podcast where it's like, there's a deal. I took improv. This is what we're gonna do when you start crossing things out and changing it. I'm like nervous. I didn't take improv. Okay, I took improv, like I only showed up for half the classes. I'm like, I don't like the sky.

Literally, I'm like, who is he taking over? Like does he think he's gonna be really good? And I like really went back to the room like super anxious. Right. And I was like, he's like rewriting it and like, I know it and like at first. And then we go on stage and we get down there and it was awesome. We had great chemistry, great energy and you're like, let's just roll with it. And I learned so much from that because I feel like whenever I wing things,

it's so much about me, my office, so it's like, just wait a year, good, that I'm like, no, but I gotta prepare. And then it's like, you with it. And I learned so much for that because I feel like whatever I winged things, it's so much about me, my office. So it was like, just wing it, you're good at that. Like, no, but I got to prepare. And then it's like, you wing it. And it was really, it was fun. And then we were like, BFF. The thing about it is, is that I'd hosted a bunch of shows before and always had a lot

of input into the writing of the script, so to speak, and also leaving a lot of room for improv, because that's what those shows are all about. Because there's nothing worse than when you watch even something like the Grammys or something. You can tell when the guys are on stage reading exactly from the cue cards. Right. And it sucks. You're so born. And that's the one that's due.

There's no life. And the thing is, and what they had wanted us to write was just bad because I had said when Norm asked me to do this, and he mentioned that you were going to be the co-host. I was like, well, who was writing the script? And there is no script. And I was like, you, who's writing the script? And there is no script. And I was like, you guys don't get it. There has to be some semblance of organization to this.

And it has to be entertaining, or else it gets very boring very quickly. And on that show, there was, I don't know, 40 awards. Can you imagine sitting there for three hours if nobody gave a shit? And it was, so. I'd rather sit through like the Grammys or something. Yes, watching literal paint dry. You know, here's the here's the world annual paint dry awards.

And you're like, hey, and so when I met you, a, I could tell that you were uncomfortable, but you didn't know who I was. But b, I knew from your energy and your vibe that you'd be great. Oh, good. And that's why I just kept saying, don't worry about it. I got it. I'm thinking she's going to think I'm insane, but just wait until we get out there. I know how to do this. And then you just totally were there. And it actually turned out good. It turned out good. Now it was drinking. We party. Yeah, it was fun. We met a run DMC. Oh, yeah, DMC. Yeah, we went to see. Yeah, it was fun. It was fun. It was fun. It was a perfect example of taking something like as a nice challenge podcast awards. Sounds pretty cool. And then when we

actually get there, we had a job to do and it wasn't easy. But once it was done, it was like, I felt like, let's go have a party. Let's do it. We did, and we already did. It was a blast, yeah. It was super fun. Okay, I got it before we get, well, no,

I want to get into wrestling for a second. Because I'm going to be totally honest here and I might be speaking for why don't we, like, like, sec, proceed to sexist here, but I don't totally get wrestling. Like, never really been into it, don't get it. Like, is it real? What's real? I mean, I understand

that you're super, I thought it'd be like amazing. He's super fit and hot. You should check out, we're gonna take pictures. It's National Selfie Day. So we're asking selfies. It's not. If there's two of you though, it's an assi. That's what I felt.

It is, you're right. It's called an assi. It wouldn't be like a selfie, isn't it? But like not everybody is interesting. Just like everybody is into it. I don't know if I'm not into it. It's not that I'm not into it. I don't know, I don't know, like at first of all, I'm not really into sports. So like,'s into it. I don't know that I'm not into it. I don't know.

I got first of all, I'm not really into sports. So like, I would have like watching sports. I'm like, what's really happened? Like I don't. But wrestling, I just don't. Like, explains me like, it's basically a modern day morality play. It's like the old school Shakespearean play of good versus evil and taking it to the modern stage. But it has a little bit of everything for everybody.

It's a live action show that stunts. It's good-looking guys, good-looking girls, bombs going off, music, drama, behind the scenes, in front of the crowd, comedy, everything in between. But it really is, they used to say it's a soap opera for guys. It's a live-action drama semi-reality show for everybody. And there's a lot of girls who are into it because if you think about it, why wouldn't you wanna watch a bunch of hot, how can they get guys?

No, I do, like now I do wanna watch. I just don't really like understand, you know what I mean? The concept of what it is. Yeah, so it's like, but you know, so then you, but then you practice beforehand. Well, not really, no, it's show business obviously. It doesn't choreograph right? Well, it has some choreography to it.

But the base the best way I can describe it if you don't know what wrestling it's like being an improv comedian. We spoke about it earlier. Right, which is what you practice well. Right. We know kind of where we want to go. We know what the opening line is for example. We'll know what the finish is maybe and then we just kind of wing it and just see

what is the crowd buying and then play, kind of volume off each other, like jazz musicians in a club where they're just jamming or you go see like, I don't know, the Almond Brothers or something. And everyone just locks into a groove. And then this guy takes a solo and he goes over here and then everyone kind of follows.

When you're a true professional like we are in the WWE, you don't have to practice. You just talk about it, go through it a bit, and then just go out there and see how the crowd reacts and work on it. So you're like reading the Xobias like acting, but it's show business acting, absolutely it is. So everything you do is sort of under this show business umbrella act. I always say wrestling is wrestling is show business boot camp.

If you learn, if you're good at wrestling, you learn a little bit about everything about what it takes to do any type of show business. And if you look at my, you know, we were joking earlier about all the different things they do. Literally so many different things. I can't even, it would take me an hour to read your story. Yeah. But if you look at that, it stems from the fact that it's, I'm a creative person, right?

Right. So talking about being a musician or being in wrestling, what I was always known for, I'm a good athlete, I'm not the best athlete, I'm not the, you watch some of the guys, the stuff they do, but I know how to connect with an audience. I know how to get my character across with our audience. It's late to me about connecting with the audience. I'm seeing wrestling obviously. So like you're re-gaming.

But it's the same as for you, you're very successful at you due because you connect with your audience. I don't even know, no, but I do, yeah. You know what I mean? They're not looking at me watching me, I'm not reading them if they're happy and like when I'm saying,

why isn't she asking Chris about his sex life? I get you. I get to that don't worry. Don't worry. She will. But what I'm saying is that there's a certain relationship that you have with your fan base. Right. And when you understand that for example, wrestling, it's a show. It's about the characters. You could go out there and have a great match with flips and flops and flies. And if there's no charisma or character, touch nobody gives a shit. You can't have that. If you go out there and have the worst match,

but you have larger than life characters who people get behind, they're paying money to see you or they're paying money to boo you. It's like going to the movies. You know, Johnny Depp was Captain Jack Sparrow. You went because I love this guy. That's what it's about is the character and the charisma and the show business.

Okay, so you as a young child, you grew up in Canada. Canada, yeah. Okay. Winnipeg. So you were thinking, so you wanted to be a musician, a wrestler. Yeah. Act. So which is kind of like, I'll connect it to that. You know, but like, what was that? You think? Because you know, how old were you when you knew? Yeah. Pretty young, because I used to watch wrestlingacer with my grandmother in her basement. She was a big wrestling fan. And I remember watching it, because my dad played Pro Hockey, played at the NHL.

And I liked that, but I didn't really, even as a kid, I didn't like the concept of a team. I didn't like the concept of like when my dad was playing, well, this is back when they had no hell of a song, but you watch a hockey game and they all have helmets. You can't really tell which guys win. I loved wrestling how you knew each guy. Right.

It was a combination of the athleticism of hockey, but the showmanship of a great frontman, like Freddie Mercury or David Lee Roth or something combined the two, and you have this wrestling character. And I just thought, that's what I want to do. I just love the individuality of it combined with the sportsmanship and the athleticism as well.

Have you always been an athlete? Was it like a natural? I'm not a natural athlete and I always make jokes that I'm the worst athlete except for wrestling. Like I was never really good at hockey. I got cut from my high school hockey team. I remember I found it I needed glasses from playing baseball because I was like the guy in the bad news bears who's standing there with his glove up saying I got it. I got it and then it just falls right beside me. I'm like fuck fuck, how did I miss it? So, and even to this day, I play football with my son or my nephew and they're throwing balls down the field

and I can barely throw it. Like my shoulders all messed up from 26 years of wrestling, but I just really love the character of it. And also my size, I'm not a big guy. Maybe now. You are. But how do you work on every day? No, no, I don't.

How would you like, you're like, he's big. Yoga and all this sort of stuff I do. But the thing is, I'm big for, I guess, an average person, but in wrestling I'm not big. Especially when I started, it was all about six foot eight guys that were 300 pounds and just jacked up and total, you know, muscles everywhere. And I never really was that. I'm 5'11", you know, it was always in good shape. But I realized I can never be the biggest guy in the card physically, but I could be the

biggest character. I could have the biggest amount of charisma. And that's what I really focused on. And did you have that always as a child or was it something you had to like study and get into? I don't think you can ever really study how to have charisma. I don't know. Yeah, but even just in life, you know, you either you have it or you don't like, you know, you wouldn't be as good as you are if you didn't have natural charisma. And obviously you cultivate it and work on it and learn more about it like like like you do, but I can remember, you know, making my own movies when I was a kid on a stop motion 8 millimeter camera or being at least to call them air

bands in high school or junior high school to lip sync in contest and the school play and I played Bill Sykes and all over the evil bad guy with a whip that I had and I dyed my hair black like there's making choices and I just was always my thing. I wanted to be you be a creative performer. And your parents, they support you? Yeah, they did. My dad played pro hockey, like I said. So he always understood it was like to leave home

at a young age to go find your fame and fortune. And my mom, I think, was a little confused when I told her I wanted to be a wrestler, moving away at 19 to go to wrestling school. And this was like in 1990 when it really really like what the hell's a wrestling school. But she, I think, was cool enough to just say, if you want to do it, then go for it. So there was, you know, my parents were into it.

They didn't really understand it. As much my dad always did, but mom kind of. Right, so you had this, but you just have like, you have such, it seems, I mean, you have natural talent, but it seems like you also You just persevered and you're a really hard worker as well. I mean the fact that you would accomplish so much is it and you just what drives you Where does that come from? I just never just a young age is actually pretty funny It's just something I'm actually writing a book about it right now about it's called no No is a four-letter word and that's kind of been my motto my whole life if someone said no

It would almost piss me off to be like yeah, you say no then I want to tell you yeah exactly how it's done No, it's like a cuss word. You know like a for letter word right and I Yeah, yeah, so I mean I think there was a Documentary years ago when I watched it was in high school It was about music about the heavy metal scene of the 80s and kiss was in it and Paul Stanley the singer of kiss was interviewed and he said I don't know how some was model was or something he said you know the only people that tell you you can't do something

or the ones that have failed he said I'm not gonna tell you can't do something because I did it you can do it I just always just follow that rule like if someone tells you you can't do something, it probably means that in their own pursuits, it didn't work out for them. Absolutely. So why should that bleed onto me? You know, it's funny, because I talked to Rob Zombie on my podcast, and he's obviously a famous musician

and a great filmmaker, and he was telling me when he first started making films, people were mad. Like, I can Rob Zombie making films, you know? And he was like, they're pissed off that not only am I, he didn't say famous, but I'm paraphrasing that he's very famous in the rock and roll world. But he's also famous in a great movie maker.

I haven't been able to do one of my things and you're doing both. That pisses me off. And I get that same flat. Right, exactly, right, no, I do too. And I always tell people that because everything I've done, I mean, I used to be, I was a filmmaker, a documentary filmmaker, and I remember doing this film

about politics. And I had worked in politics before that. And I was like, I'm going to do a documentary about politics. And I was like, that's a bad idea. There's already been films about politics who's going to watch these people close to me. And at first, it was like, wow, are they right? You start thinking.

And there's something in me that's like, no, I know. I don't know what it is. And I can do this. And same with sex with Emily. I'm like, what? The sex with what? How guys what do you know about? That's the whole thing.

And I feel like it is people who are more careful about life. And they're there. They need more. I get it though, who want more security. And they take them more, you know, they take them more linear path. And I've definitely been a little more circuitous figuring out my own route. But I was like, I don't believe, you know, they take them more linear path. And I've definitely, we've been a little more circuitous figuring out my own route. But I don't believe, you know, I really don't know the same thing. But that's the thing about to, like, I think from the moment I started

doing this and same with you that led us to this moment right here, is I never had like a 401k or, you know, like, here's your weekly paycheck and lots of stuff. I mean, I do want to do some high school maybe, but I don't have a job. I have projects that I work on that could end tomorrow. You know, if who knows, right? Who knows what could happen. So exactly.

So as a result, I think you have to, you have to be a little fearless and know, believe in yourself, like I can make this happen. And if I lose this job, there'll be another one because I'll make it happen. Right. A lot of people don't have that fear of system. And they're a little bit more scared and nervous. Exactly. So I feel like, I mean, there have been times though, because you said earlier, the people who have failed, the ones who are typical, saying that, and it's like, we all fail, right? Yeah, sure. And then that's, but it's how you get back up. So obviously, there have been failures that you've, yeah. I mean, I think if you

have diversity, I mean, if you have longevity in, especially show business, so it is a very wonky world. And I would bet you, if we could add up all of the people who've been in show business that I bet you the average lifespan for a show business career, I bet you's three, four years, tops, five years.

You know, I'm going on 26 years in show business. Pretty amazing. It is amazing. I'm really impressed by you. Not just the rest of the world, which is so finicky. But then I also realized 10 years ago, I'm not going to be resting forever. I don't want to be. And I don't want to have to be behind the eight ball where my boss, the Vincigman, is the

boss of wrestling, can control my life by, oh my god, I'm gonna get fired. And so I started kind of branching out. Podcasting. Podcasting, which is a fairly new thing, but before that was a radio show, and then writing a book, and coming to LA, quitting wrestling, and not leave of absence for wrestling, coming to LA and studying acting,

really getting into the concept of what acting is. So when I went back to wrestling two years later, I was the most hated heeled bad guy in the whole world because I was playing this character because I had learned the rules of acting, dropping in. When we were at your study, where do you went to? You did a prof? No, there's a guy here in town, his name is Kirk Bals. And he's probably most known for being the guy who gets his ear cut off in reservoir dogs, Marvin Nash, great actor, character actor

been in everything. And I just, we had the same agent at the time and I just started going, I really learned about committing, you know, I went and did the groundlings for a year at the same time, not put improv, committing to a character and believing it and making it work. And all of those things led to other opportunities and also made me better at what I did in wrestling. So even though I'd been wrestling for 15 years when I first left in 2005, when I came back in 2008, I was better than it ever been. To this day up until right now, I understand the concept of playing a character and dropping in and being something

and committing to it. And I think all of those things have led to this lack of fear, fearlessness. And I've had some failures. I've done some things that just didn't work. But if you're going through a whole career bio, I bet you the Rolling Stones have made some pretty shitty albums. Oh, yeah. I mean, my, yeah, exactly.

Yeah. Over the course of 50 years, it's a pretty damn good resume. So that's kind of what I'm banking on. Right. Okay. Well, it seems like it's it's working So far. Yeah, so far so good So tell me about like so now you're it so in your band. Yeah, you still play in your band, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Fuzzy is the band and what happens is that when about

2010 I kind of felt like okay, it's time to really go full force with Fuzzy because before that it was kind of a part-time thing It was fun. It was great, but we really said we need to, we can do something with this. So wrestling kind of became less and less a priority and Fuzzy became a bigger priority. And so what basically happened over the last few years is, is my whole schedule is based around with Fuzzy. Oh, so that's your like main jam. Basically, yeah. Basically, I can't keep up with you.

You're like, oh, I'm wrestling in China this week or Hancock, wherever you were. Yeah, yeah. You were somewhere. China next month actually. Okay, yeah, yeah. Japan, yeah. Basically, I can't keep up with you. I'm like, oh, I'm wrestling in China this week or Hancock, wherever you were. I'm here somewhere. China next month actually. Okay, yeah, yeah. And then you're like, oh, so that became your main. It did. And so what happens is like, when you're in a band, you put out a record and then you'll tour.

It's called a tour cycle. It might be six months, it could be 12 months. I don't know, whatever it might be. So when that's done, then you kind of go back to the drawing board and start writing and then- And you write music, right? Write music, yeah. But also, there needs to be a break because you can't just go continuously.

So when there's a break with the band, I'll go back to the WWE. This year currently is WWE Fauzi's Off the Road. September will do a new record and we'll go back out in 2017. Okay, so you're that's really cool. Yeah, so you're doing that. You do Fauzi and you podcast and wrestling and all that all that so what about can we talk about your personal life? Sure, okay, I'm on a mask. So tell me about your personal life married. Yeah, yeah, yeah But it's it's hard to be on the road

Yeah, how do you yeah, yeah, you're on the road? It's a tough. It's a tough thing to do And you know, there's ups and downs and all that sort of thing, but I mean I guess when you are And you know, there's ups and downs and all that sort of thing. But I mean, I guess when you are on the road, you just have to deal with the good and the bad. Yeah, exactly. But women must like, row themselves at you. Well, I mean, like musician, like rock star wrestler, like when I was younger, it was awesome.

Tell me what was it like. Would you like women waiting outside? Like, you know, the groupies, the group. When I first went to Mexico in 92, wrestling was really, really popular. Like, there was a boom period at that point in time going on. And the cool thing about it was I was a blonde guy. He had super long blonde hair, right?

I've seen the pictures. Okay, seen pictures. And so you would go to these arenas and there would be girls everywhere because it was wrestling was really probably like like beetle mania in a way. And then now I'm on the cover of magazines and I'm you know I'm on all these like TV shows and all this other stuff. And it's the first taste of real fame that I had. And so you know you you are like a star. How did that feel? I mean, I was never like, I'm pretty much the same guy now that I've always been.

Just, you take it with a grain of salt, but it was a pretty cool feeling just to know like, oh my gosh, like all the stories that you hear when you're a rock star. Did you love it? Like, was there up down drugs, all that stuff? I was never a drug guy. Never actually never, I've never done cocaine in my life.

You know, proud to say it. But it was, you know, there's always drinking, but it's not crazy. It was just life on the road. I just kind of took it as that way to get tired of it. Oh, not really. No, I mean, that's what I've been doing since I was 19 years old. So you like the moving around all the time. I mean, yeah, yeah, it's pretty much what I do.

I like it because I get to see you when you're here. Yeah, right. Right. But I mean, you understand you. I mean, you're, I know you travel a little bit and you're on the road and you're busy. Like, that's just how, how we are. I mean, it's true. So your audience, I would say, well, I just don't feel from your podcast. So I was in your podcast, talk is Jericho. Everyone should check it out. It's super popular podcast.

And I didn't know like I, I knew it was, it was a successful podcast, but when I was on it, I mean, I've been on a lot of podcasts and it was like I had so many of all ages hitting me up. I heard you're talking to your car. I loved. I loved it And I think it's amazing that you reached all these different people like I was kids, you know adult men women Like what do you think that is about you? It's my fan base is very diverse, you know It's a very diverse fan base and a very loyal fan base because I've been doing this for so long You know, I mean not every fanbase is so loyal.

Well, no, exactly. Because you keep reinventing yourself. Do you think that's what you think? Absolutely, that's part of it. Like, Christopher, I don't know what's going to happen next, right? Right. And also, there's fans of Jericho that know me from wrestling. There's fans that know me from music. There's fans that know me from TV show or whatever that I've done.

And so that's another element is well, Janssen with the stars was a whole different vibe. Dancing with the stars, how was that? I mean, it was great. It was really hard. You made it, though. Like, to like seven weeks. Seven weeks, right?

So, I guess dancing and wrestling, right? There was a lot of similarities. Like wrestling is very much choreography and being light on your feet. Being a musician is very much understanding the syncopation of a beat. If you want to get technical being ahead of the beat, being behind the beat.

So combining those two, I was like the perfect guy for it. Yeah. But I think going back to what you asked me, there's a very loyal fan base. So when I do my show, when our mutual boss, or leader of podcast one, North one or Patis I said listen I'll do it but I do not want to do a wrestling show exclusively right because that would drive me crazy I was just into your day in a carvee interview in the way. Thank you. Great, right?

So good. I love him and that's the thing I love about podcasts is that it gives me the incentive to go and like Okay, I need to track down these different people and you know I had Dennis Miller on, and then I asked Dennis, same, man, do you have any context for Carvee? I'll get Carvee for you. Then Carvee's on. So I get a chance to talk to these people

that I'm fans of, friends with, like when you came on, it's when I get to know better. We just kind of told it was great, and it was a really good, you're a really good interview, I thought too. Like, you really do prepare? I don't prepare, and this is the reason why it works. If you and I just meet each other on the street

in a bar or whatever and we have a conversation, there's no list of questions, there's no preparation, it's just talking to you. I know I over tune as I've learned in the years, I've like a few things in front of me like, ask this but basically I can't like it too much. Right, and then a guy like Dana Carvey, I don't have to have any preparation

because I've been a fan of his for 30 years and Also knowing and this is a big thing too Emily understand this I know what it's like to get asked the same questions over and over again, and I know what it's like when somebody isn't I'm not saying this in a in a bad way, but if they're not if they're not a pro like because you you know We have a rule of fuzzy. There's no no interview gets turned down If I can't do it then there's four of the guys in the band, but I'll get guys sometimes, like, could I usually, like, at the top level, like, I'll get the big ones, but sometimes guys will squeak through and they'll pull out the piece of paper from the pocket and smooth it on the ground. But so how did Fuzzy start?

And it's like, oh my gosh, like, no, no, you didn't. Even if you did, it'd be fine. But like, because you get this, like, that's what you want to ask me after all this time. Right, exactly. That's what that's the best you got. That's what you came up with. So, but what about, so people come up to you wherever you go,

like, I know we've been out to dinner or a podcast, like, what do you, do you ever get tired of that? Things recognize, like, you can't really be in cognizant and the way you look. Yeah, I mean, my, Do you love it? And pain is, it's like, if people don't ask you

for a picture in autograph then there's problems. That's true. That's right. That's like sort of that you're still. That will still know it. What was so great. Nothing I was gonna say is because your fan base is that my best friend in Michigan. This was the best thing you did. She was like, oh my god, my her son is 17 and he he said mom, I listened to Chris Jericho's podcast and he knows that we're best friend. He said Emily was on and don to Chris Jericho's podcast and he knows that we're best friends. He said, Emily was on and don't worry, I didn't listen to the whole thing.

But I'm sure he did. But how does she know him? Oh my God, he changed. He was going through a rough year. He changed my life this year. He gave me so much inspiration. And it's like, it's like 17 years old. I'm like, how does he know?

So that's just cool. Yeah, but it's funny because right now,, I'm a little video, I'm like, I do that for anybody that asks, can I get a picture of Simon? I'll just send a video. It's easier for me. I know this. I'm going to sign to go to the post office.

But I also think it's probably, if I was a fan, I would think that would be pretty cool to get that, like a living either thing. No, I think we'd be down. But I'm also, you got to ride a year, you got to ride a year, because of you. But I'm a bad guy now, and so I have a rule

when I'm a bad guy, I really commit to it. I don't let the company make merchandise with my name on it. I don't. What do you hear of bad guy now and so I have a rule when I'm a bag. I really commit to it I don't let the company make merchandise with my name on it. I don't do your bad guy now In wrestling. I'm the bad guy. Oh, where is the bell? So whenever we're anywhere if I fly into an airport and there's a bunch of fans waiting around I say no I just ignore them Does not kill you? They know that's your thing. It does kill me I don't think they do but I can't take the chance of signing an autograph and then two hours later That the arena and everyone's booing me and they're going always really nice guy. Yay. I want everybody to boom

So they think all of a sudden you've become like sour a bit or like they're really nice guys You're actually playing this role if I'm in if I'm in the vicinity of where the show is where the fans are if we walked it on the street right now and there was 18 fans I'd sign all the other graphs, and it'd be great. But if we were at the Staples Center and I'm walking in to do my show, why do you understand your role?

I do, a lot of people don't, but you know, here's sometimes like Jared Leto, for example, is Joker and the new suicide squad. And I guess the rumor is that he didn't talk to any other actors and didn't allow them to call him anything but Joker. That's a guy who's super committed. Right, no, I get that.

Might be a pain in the ass to some, but that's how he gets his magic. And I have the same attitude when I'm in the area where we're gonna be working. So what right now that you're doing, do you love the, if you only pick one thing, like the podcast in the singing, the, the, I mean, I love when I get asked that sometimes

because I really, the beauty of it is, I forgot it's on answer. No, the beauty is, I don't have to. I don't have to. I know you don't have, that's the cool thing about it, right? Yeah, totally.

When you build up your brand in that aspect, it's like you are controlled it. You call the shots. And that's a pretty cool place to be in. And I know you're there. You call all your own shots even more than I do in a lot of ways. I do. Which is the best way to beat. But it's so hard.

You're right. It is the best way. But you got a hustle. Dude, I'm always hustling. So tired. Right. I mean, it's a lot though. But I love, I love, I'm so grateful. Yeah. You know, it was not easy. Right. It's not. Years have not not been easy at all. Um, so, okay, so you're married. Let's go back to that. It's a section. And I don't know how much you're going to, I feel like, okay, sex, right? Long term marriage. How do you keep it together? You're traveling? Well, I mean, traveling, um, I think if you, if you spend time apart, that's probably a good thing.

But it's also can be a bad thing if it's too much time to find a lot of times, like I'll go away for weeks on the road, especially if we're touring with Fahzi over to Europe and, and, you know, I have three kids. So there's a lot of, uh, you know, a lot of stuff going on there's a lot of, you know, a lot of stuff going on when there's three kids, a lot of stuff to do. But then it's hard to keep it in, you know, the romance alive,

interesting when there's so many kids around. Right, right, right, right. I mean, and so you really have to balance your family life with your work life and really make sure that you take time when you're home to to spend that time, right, especially with with kids, you know, like I said, like in the days of, of, you know, traveling the world in my 20s, it was like, you know, you talk about rock star stuff. It's like, you know, how many girls can you have in a week, right? Just says that's just what you do.

And then after a while, you're like, this is this not like I always I I was never just about like just wild sex Never not I always like to have in like a connection You know what I mean like right? You're like an emotional sensitive guy. I wouldn't even go that far I just to me sex is more fun when you had something more than just like say okay sex is great great But what if you have a chance like hang out first or you know Go have dinner or something like that? And I think maybe a lot of that is because you have a lot of fans that just wanted to have sex with you. Which is cool, but it does kind of,

we're kind of treated like a piece of meat, you know? You think like great sex, like what does that mean? I think there's a vibe and a connection that you have. Like I said, there's been super pretty girls that I've met that you have no attraction to because they're not sexy. And there's been other girls that you meet who maybe aren't the quote unquote,

like you know, victory, secret model but you just super attracted to them. So what makes sex, how do you describe sexy? What makes a woman sexy? Attitude. Absolutely attitude. You know, especially in this day and age when okay, a girl can go get fake tits or go

get big lips or even get like a fake butt, which still blows my mind, the concept of that. But it's, there's an attitude that you have and a confidence that it zoos. You know what I mean? Like, you know, it's like, you know, you can, the term sexual tension, that's a real thing. Like, when you have sexual tension with somebody, that's the best thing that you can have. And it's weird because sometimes like, sometimes you have it just with people that you would never expect.

Right. Exactly. It shows up. I would never be a track of the person. And then I just remember one time, like, this is not even a big deal, but I was walking through the airport and the TSA lady. She's probably 50. And just for some reason, there was just this vibe that she had where it was instantly attracted to her.

Like, I've never banged a 50-year-old, and it's not on my list of things to do, but fuck, she's fucking sexy. Right. You know, I remember with our band, we had a, we did a photo shoot a few years ago, and there was a makeup curl there. And we were all just kind of being cool,

and she's doing the makeup and all this stuff. And then I remember I was just talking to one of the guys in the band or one of the guys band He said man, she's sexy. I think so. I thought I was the only one and all the other guys in the band are like, man Yes, she's so sexy and it wasn't like the typical it was just this really cute girl, but just this attitude It was her the way she the way she carried herself. Yes, and to me that is the real right the way she cares for her self. Yes, and to me that is the real secret to sex appeal is the confidence that you have. Yeah, that's true. What to turn off for you for a woman with a woman.

She's like, that's a money like, she's great, but. I think so, lack of self confidence, you know, I'm fat, I'm fat, I'm so fat. Like every girl says that, but you know, I just never really, like you should own it. Oh, in your body, you know, right? If you're five pounds overweight or five pounds underweight or whatever, maybe it's like, you know, I've seen like bald chicks. I mean, they'd cut their hair because they had cancer

or maybe they just, I don't know, whatever reason. It's just, you know what I'm saying? So how do you, okay, so you had this comment? I mean, it sounds like you were kind of born with that, but there must have been things in your childhood that obviously that they gave you this confidence into the longevity with the Confidence effect that we're gonna say that again I Mean think in some ways you are born with it, but it you know nature nurture

But there are ways that you have like maybe a support about bringing or maybe you had a lot of hard knocks that and you're like I'm gonna keep getting back up again the number one piece of advice I often gave is like, you know The sexiest thing is confidence. Like for guys who are like a hard time talking to women and all that, how would you describe it as if we're gonna teach someone how to be more confident? Like a young guy, listening to a young woman. I think like you just said so much in one sentence.

It's how you always say it. But in a good way, like it's not just about, like yes, confidence for sex appeal and confidence to talk to a girl, but just confidence in everything. You know what I mean? They just confidence to know that like, I don't give a fuck with anyone thinks. You know what I mean? So get into that point like where you really don't care. Right. Really don't care. You don't care. And I mean even like, I'm not this is really trivial, but like for example, I love scarfs. Like, I like wearing scarfs. I just like, I don't know why, I just like it.

It's cool. Cessaries, yeah. And I'll wear... You've seen you rack the scarfs. Yeah, I'll wear scarfs all the time. I don't, you know, people will be like, actually use it as my bad guy character in the WWE. Now, wear a scarf all the time. And people will be like, what's up with the scarf?

I just like the vibe of it, and I don't care if people don't like it. To me, it's cool because I'm wearing it. Right. And you liked it and I don't care if people don't like it. To me, it's cool because I'm wearing it. Right. And you liked it and you don't. Sure. But I mean, yeah, the advice is long story. I just have the confidence, believe in yourself, and just know like if you're doing something and you believe it and you want to do it, then do it.

And if someone doesn't like it, don't worry about it, you know. You don't need approval. Yeah, I learned early on to eliminate negativity. How do you do that? Because most of it comes from our brain, right? It does, but a lot of it comes from people putting it in the people in the light. We're thinking your brain.

And so those people, you hate to speak so cool, but I just eliminate them. I do too. I don't like negative people. And if I have to deal with them, it's with no real care. Exactly. People who just give you that uncomfortable, every time you see it, you dread it. don't like negative people. And if I have to deal with them, it's with no real care. Right.

People who just give you that uncomfortable, every time you see it, you dread it. Like, I decided this year I had a birthday and I was like, you know what? I don't want to have a birthday. I've said this on my show before I think, but where I have any should. Like, there shouldn't be anyone like, oh, I got to invite this person because of this. They make me anxious when they show up because I got to talk. No, those people, those are the people that I'm not saying you cut them out tomorrow, but they're suddenly be said for like, like, life is pretty short. And you should surround yourself with people that make'm not saying it caught him out tomorrow But they're sending me said for like like life is pretty short and you should surround yourself

Absolutely that make you feel the best that's right you that support you that aren't jealous and aren't Yeah, there's no reason that you need to keep people around really exactly You're right like at this point of my life You know with with all the stuff that I've done and all the stuff that I want to do and it doesn't matter what you've done It's just being through through the experience that I've been through. I don't have time for somebody like, let's say I text somebody, whoever. And they don't text me back. And then I text them again, they don't text me back.

I was like, I don't have time to chase you, man. Or, well, man, if you want to respond great, but if not, I'm gonna have to say bye. Exactly. And because there's still as an element, I think sometimes of, you know, you want to chase people or get their attention or get their responses. And it's like, after a while, if they don't get back to you, you know, like to talk about somebody that's breaking up with a girl or some

a friend of mine, a good friend of mine just got dumped a couple of years ago and he just couldn't stop taxing. I did just stop it. It makes you look worse. If you don't tax her for a month, and she finally taxed you, then maybe. Well, how did that so interesting though? Because you get that so many people would think, well, they didn't text you back.

I'm a bad person, they get more obsessed. But you're like, for it, we're done. Right. But she says, and we have a choice. When these kind of things happen to us, we can choose to keep chasing the person or to feel bad about ourselves or obsessed with why they don't like us, you could say, oh, don't need don't need them in my life. Yeah, move it out. There's so many other people

That's right. There's other people out there. Yeah, exactly. You can't force it Chris Jericho I'd love you to help me answer some emails from my listeners Questions Nice you mind sure okay, but first a word from our sponsors Okay, I know you heard we talk about getting stressed out when it comes to packing. I major packing anxiety like it's a problem. I should see a doctor. I always wait till last minute I'm never sure what clothes to bring but there's one thing and it's always in my bag the mystic one from vibertex It's truly one of my favorite travel companions the mystic one features all my favorite things about massage wands, a soft flexed lead, plenty of power, and the perfect shape for external stimulation.

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So easy. Also, don't forget include your name, where you're listening from, and how you listen in your email. Okay. It would be good for you. Chris Jericho. Give a bunch of them. Okay. Yeah, I still might, but we're not going to get through them all. But hi, Emily, I heard about your show when I was listening to the Conrad and Jack show, Conrad was saying how you helped his marriage because it gave him advice and how to communicate with his wife. I'm a new listener of yours so forgive me if you've answered this before. I'm trying to get job. I'm 27 and have a boyfriend. We have great sex, but I really get turned on by watching my masturbate. He knows that I like this. I've asked him to do it for me, but he says it's too uncomfortable. So for now, I'm stuck just watching porn.

Is there any way I can convince him to do this? I'd love to be able to mix mutual masturbation into our sex life thanks Ashley. Now, mutual masturbation is one of my favorite sex tips for couples because here's the thing about, have you ever done a mutual masturbation? That's right. So, right? Now, why is it hot? Because we're all visual. We love that. But also, you're watching your partner please themselves. You knew exactly how he likes to be touched. He can see how she wants to be touched. Oh, she moves her fingers that and they across her clitoris.

Or, you know, when he's going up and down and touching his butt, whatever it is. So you can learn from it. And so I think it's a great tool and it's hot. And her boyfriend won't do it. Well, I think what the thing is with her boyfriend is that it goes back to the confidence, you know what I mean, we're talking about this confidence that you have to have.

If you're having sex, you have the confidence to know that, you know, you're doing a good job, man. You know, you should have that confidence. It's just like people that only want to have sex with the lights out. I never understood that. Maybe not super bright shining, but some lights that you want to see what's going on. I know, I always tell him the cast of the candlelight, if you don't like the bright light, it's like, you might see it, I got this thing. That's a lot, right?

The kind of sex in the dark. Yeah, I mean, I got this thing. Because then you're just having, exactly. You're just having sex for the sake of the sex act, which is what we talked about, there's no feeling behind it or connection. Whereas I think the masturbation thing, it's like, if he watches porn,

what's I'm sure he does, all guys do, you know, it's like, when you pull out in the porn, the guys jacking off before he shoots his load over the girls' tits or whatever, I mean, that's a cool moment, right? Like that's what you want to do. But how did she get in me? Actually, I think, I'm not sure why he says

he's too uncomfortable. So I think it's the kind of thing where you gotta ease him into it. I would just say I want you to watch something, Ashley. And I would get out of the bed and I would just start master I wouldn't even talk about it and just start masturbating right and then and be like no you can't touch me just watch Mm-hmm, and then maybe here's another one though, so then maybe he can maybe she can jack him off right masturbate him And then put his hand on it exactly and then like training wheels a bike, you take your hand away and just let them go.

Right. So I was exactly, I love it. So don't talk right anymore. Actually, next time you come home or whatever, if you live together, just be like, oh, start masturbating. And then, so you can't touch me. I just want you to watch and then say, you know, he's going to get turned on.

He's going to get a boner. Let's be honest. It'll happen. The boner will happen. And if he doesn't do anything, take it out, have him put his hand. It tell him Jericho says, you have to you have to stroke the cock in front of him. Just died, okay. That's a great answer. Okay.

Hey Emily, I just want to start off saying I'm a 22-year-old straight female from Massachusetts and I listen to your podcast and iTunes. My boyfriend and I have been together eight months and I've been having sex since the second date. We've had a great sex life, but as of late he's been getting leg cramps during sex, which really kills the mood. He eats bananas and drinks plenty of water to avoid it, but it keeps happening and it's really effing bumming me out. How can I help him try and say the mood when this keeps happening? Thanks in advance Sarah. Leg cramps. I just thought you'd know because you're an

athlete. Well, here's the thing. It's actually funny that you say that because when I was, I remember like maybe when I was in my 20s or something like that one, I used to, I used to like not want to have sex too quickly, right? It was like, I was kind of this thing like I wouldn't just wanna jump into it. And I used to like, it was getting too hot and heavy. I would feign a leg cramp. Or if I was getting into so much

that I prematurely ejaculated, right? I would feign a leg cramp. You may was getting into so much that I prematurely ejaculate right I would feign a leg cramp. I'm sorry because it. Yeah, but you know I wouldn't say that. I think all my leg is killing me. I gotta try walking off and go to the bathroom and like wipe it up or whatever. So I mean there is there is maybe he's feigning the leg cramp to get out of the sex. They've been together eight months. He's been getting like wow that's a good point. That's just me though. No, but like, here's the thing. Because leg cramps. Like stretch. Go to your dot every single time you get to leg cramp. Is this

and I'm thinking is it in the middle? Because if it's in the middle, that's a good point. You could be avoiding something. Maybe. Maybe he could be there could be something going on as head where he can't focus. Maybe he's losing his direction or he feels like he's about to ejaculate. Because to me, if you're a guy and you're having sex and something happens, anything at all that's going to interrupt it. Most guys, 22 years old, I'm assuming he's 22, like you're 22 and they've been here

the other eight months. They're going to figure out a way not to get that leg cramp. Like what do you stretch? Like what do you do? Well, I mean, I'm not besieged by leg cramps. So I don't really know how to do that. No, when I'm just saying like, you can get rid of it. I guess stretch to some yoga maybe,

or just maybe don't do that position when you're having sex. I mean, my thing is how many leg cramps are you getting every time you're having sex? Yeah, like I'm doing. No, I don't understand why you're exactly. You guys sitting for the rafters and you're using cups and watches

or what's going on here. I think what is going on here, I want to know I kind of think it's something else too. And the fear is my thing. If it keeps happening, Sarah, like I just think that then he's not respecting you in the relationship because sex is really important and you've been together eight months

and if it keeps happening, then like, it's on both of you. It's really on him, but you can help him figure out, like, we'll go to the doctor, it's struts, do something differently. Right. He should want to solve this problem as well.

Yeah. And so I'm not sure where it's coming from. Like sometimes you can orgasm, things can happen. I'm not sure if it's right after sex, but it sounds like it's in the middle. And I think this might be some kind of psychosomatic leg cramp. Maybe. So I would not go after him and say,

hey, Emily said you're faking it and something else. I would say, babe, let's maybe we should have sex for a while. Let's take, maybe you could take sex off the table. If it's just when you're having intercourse, sometimes it's really fun to just be like, you know, let's not have like intercourse, but let's just play with each other. Let's just do war play. I mean, I would take sex off the table and then when you bring sex back, if it happens again, you could just say, you know, I love you. And like, I think we got to figure this out because our sex life is really, really important. And I

would not say it in the bedroom because that can kill it, talk about sex in the bedroom. I can kill your confidence. Totally. So I would say one day casually, not we have not, like, we need to talk. Like in that tone, which just bums you out. But it's like, hey, babe, you know, I love our sex life, it's great.

But this lead crab thing, like, I really feel like I need to connect with you. And we need to have some sex that's really important to me. And so like, let's figure out what's about. I'll go with you to the doctor, let's do something because this really is, okay, what do you think it's about? Because it's been-

Kill the five. Kill the five. Yeah, totally get it, Sarah. Let's do one more. Sure. How's that? Okay. Dear Emily, I'm a 26 year old male from New York City.

I recently started listening to your show on Spotify. My question is regard to toys. I love using toys during sex, and the girls I'm dating love it too. The problem is I'm dating multiple people. They all know that we are an exclusive and I'm a little confused about toy etiquette. I clean the toys thoroughly after use, but I don't really know if people have an issue using a toy that's been used in someone else. Unfortunately, Chris doesn't freeze. I can't exactly go and buy new toys for each new partners since they're expensive. The magic wand, some bonded stuff.

Shikespect woman to buy their own toys. When breaking up with ex-girlfriends, I just give them toys so I wouldn't have to do with the issue. But now I'm doing casual hookups. I'm not sure what to do. Thanks for your help, Brooklyn. Have we had this problem? No, I have not.

I've had this problem. This sounds very, um, uh very rapy, shall we say. Rapy. It's very creepy and a little bit scumbag. It's like my thing is, is like if you had a toothbrush that you were using, would you want someone else to use it? No. Oh, but I washed it off under the water.

I mean, it just seems like a toy should be a one person thing. And it is, right? Yes. Here's a thing, Brooklyn. I'm very strong. Like, I heard this, I'm like, oh, God, no, you can not, and I'm sorry, I know they're expensive. You cannot whip out a toy.

First of all, in this stage, even though, you know, 80% of women have used a vibrator and half of those have used it with a partner. Sex toys are ubiquitous. You just can't used it with a partner, sex toys are your big with us. You just can't. You cannot whip out a sex toy from your drawer because the woman's gonna wear as a user that, wear as I've been, what do you mean you washed it?

I know all guys wash things, you know? Well, if you do that forward, if it's a casual hookup and the first thing you're doing is bringing out a vibrator, that's gonna kind of put a weird slant on things. Exactly, and it's the kind of thing that you want, you might want to like, if you're doing it to people, say, have you ever used a toy before and then say,

why don't you bring over your favorite one? I love toys next time. There you go. She has one. If she has one, that's a great way to find out. I think it'd be really hot to use a vibrator with you. Do have it. You bring one over.

But, honey, I'm telling you, Brooklyn, you cannot use it with multiple partners. Take it from one with multiple toys, with other I can use it because it's me and they're my toys. But you can't. Maybe if it's like bondage gear, like, lube, which isn't really a toy, but you can lube the toothpaste. Lube the toothpaste. You can use it as done. You can use my toothpaste on my toothbrush. It's not like you have a flashlight. I get it. It's for your penis since you could use it on you just like with my toys, a guy can

use them on me. And I would think it's really suspect even if they know that you're hooking out with a bunch of girls, it's kind of like robbing a face like this guy's got like, a bunch of other panties in your drawer too that you love me to wear. Let me ask you this, Brooklyn. What would you do if she pulled out a butt plug? And let's see her into butt plugs.

And she said, there, let me use this butt plug. Would you be fine in using someone else's butt plug? No. No, you got, honey, I'm Brooklyn. Yeah, you got to get, you got to get, you got to get, you got to get, sorry, use them on yourself. Kick your back. No, you got honey, I'm Brooklyn. Yeah, you got to get your, you got to get your, you got to get your, sorry, use mine yourself for, or,

Kick your mark to Queens if you don't, right. Put your pants here. Exactly, or take them, you can go shopping and before the date, go to somewhere you live in New York, live in New York, no, he's from Brooklyn, his name is Brooklyn.

He lives in New York, go to Bay Blend in New York, go shopping with the person, get a cheap bullet beforehand, do something, the bullet vibe. But no, you can't do it, I'm really glad you asked. Yes, we are definitely saying no to that. That's no that's we agree on this. Whatever you talk sex toys. Not really. No, yeah. Do you want? You be open? Yeah sure. No more before. What's your number one sex tip?

Number one sex tip is once again the confidence is there and I think kissing is very important. So important. Very important. Kissing is at the first thing that go in long-term relationships often. Really? Yeah, people stop kissing. I can't, I get aroused by kissing. Right.

And if there's, if someone wanted to have sex and didn't want to kiss, I don't know if I can keep it going. No, I get it. You know, I don't understand that. I don't understand either. Hmm, interesting. It's true. It's a go. Not the first, one of the things that goes is people because people just start skipping foreplay when they're in their relationship for a long time.

Like, this is what I do. I get naked. You get naked. Just stick it in. We're dumb. We're whacked off. Yeah. But you really like that. For play. Especially for, well, for everyone, but when I'm in, you know, we need that warm up time. That's sure. Is a great answer. and it's so intimate, but there's nothing less sensual or less

Motivating if you try and have sex with a woman. She doesn't have some lubrication You know if she's completely dry and you're just trying to shove it in it's like it's pretty gross Barbaric, you know, right right. It's no fun for you either right Chris your good man, you know, warm or up, right? Right. Is this no fun for you either? Right, Chris, you're a good man. You know? Yeah, I'm a good man. I see when I watch like Game of Thrones or something, I'm just banging these chicks. I'm like, how are you getting pleasure out of that?

It's like sad paper. Right. Right. I wish more men looked it that way. You're an amazing man. Everyone, you got to follow Chris, so tell me where. Where am I? Yeah, Twitter.

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