Sexe Oral - Le sexe de Cathy Gauthier
Episode Date: May 1, 2025Cette semaine sur le podcast on reçoit l'humoriste Cathy Gauthier. Elle se livre sur sa vie sexuelle, ses complexes et du clash entre son personnage de scène et la femme qu'elle est vraiment. Au me...nu: - Son éveil sexuel tardif et son rapport au plaisir - Le poids de son éducation judéo-chrétienne - L'écart entre son personnage sur scène et sa réalité intime - Les relations, les ruptures et les applications de rencontre (avec anecdotes savoureuses!) - Comment elle éduque sa fille à être forte, franche et confiante - L’importance d’apprendre à s’aimer pour aimer les autres - Sa vision de l’amour, du sexe… et de la fellation Pour suivre Cathy: https://www.instagram.com/cathygauthier_humoriste/ Le podcast est présenté par Éros et Compagnie Utiliser le code promo : SEXEORAL pour 15% de rabais sur https://www.erosetcompagnie.com/ Les jouets dont les filles parlent: https://www.erosetcompagnie.com/page/podcast Le podcast est présenté par Oxio. Pour plus d'informations: https://oxio.ca/ Code promo pour essayer Oxio gratuitement pendant un mois: SEXEORAL ---- Pour collaborations: partenariats@studiosf.ca Pour toutes questions: sexeoral@studiosf.ca Pour suivre les filles sur Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/sexeoralpodcast Pour contacter les filles directement, écrivez-nous sur Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexeoral.podcast/
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Cathy Gaultier! Hi girls, thank you for having me!
I think I'm going to address her publicly. I'm nervous, I'm happy that it's her.
Well, let's see! You're so...
A pinny.
You're a pinny, you're like so... Pity. Pity, that's it. You're a Pity. In Quebec, you're like a pioneer.
You're good for my esteem. Thank you.
Thank you.
I needed you all today.
On this day when I'm going to be menstruated soon,
my chin full of buttons confirms it.
Wow, that's just what I see.
Thank you so much for being there.
It makes me so happy, girls.
Really. And bravo to you for making a kind of... a podcast of this sort, It's so nice to be there. It's so nice to be here. It's so nice to be here. It's so nice to be here. It's so nice to be here.
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go out of the way.
That's more what interested me.
I wanted to talk about my reality.
When I started writing my show,
I was in my twenties.
And what I lived, well, that's it,
it's meetings with guys.
It was often disappointing.
So that's what I was putting forward.
I would have liked to talk about my mortgage,
but I didn't.
So I was too young at that time.
I started in life. And everything I knew, well at that time, I was starting to want to.
And everything I knew, well, that's where I came from.
So I introduced myself as a Bittibienne.
And I was marked, for example, by this image.
I was put in a kind of vulgar category.
And I never liked to be in that category.
I never wanted to be vulgar.
I'm aware that it's myup, but it's never been something
that I didn't think about or that I was just going to do.
My children were calculated anyway, even if it doesn't seem like it.
But that's what's difficult, it seems easy, it seems all improvised
so that people can do it, my God, they can do it themselves,
but no, there are hours and hours of work behind it.
It's true that when you talk, and that's what I like about Ani Maurice,
it doesn't have to give the impression that it's calculated, it doesn't have to be...
And the way you talk is so... like that, like that, and you release...
and it's natural, and that's what people like too.
I'm a very authentic girl in life, I'm a big open book.
You know, earlier you asked me, before the recording,
are there areas where you wouldn't like to go?
And I'm like, well, I don't know, ask me the questions
and I'll tell you there because I'm not...
In fact, I'm pretty rude in life,
but as much as on stage, you know, I give myself
and I tell all kinds of things, but it's a character.
What I tell, it didn't all come to me.
I inspire myself from my friends too.
I inspire myself from what surrounds me to create my numbers.
So it's not just me.
But today we're face to face and it's me who's talking.
It's not the character.
You said you're prudent.
It's because we're in a hurry to imagine. You're prude. So, it's because we're trying to imagine that you're prude.
Because you talk about...
We said it earlier, you're one of the first
humorists to openly talk about sexuality.
About all of this.
What's your relationship with sexuality?
Your awakening, in relation to that.
Oh my God, you'd be surprised to learn that...
I've never had an orgasm with a man.
It gives you an idea.
I thought to myself, a womanizer must be four years old.
I had never had a vibrator, nothing like that.
It seemed like I was raised with my grandparents.
I really have a Jewish-Christian heritage, very strong.
Every time I was kissing my husband, I always had the impression
that my mother would come into the room and say,
What are you doing there?
So I was very, very sober.
Very...
So as long as I was talking about it in my show, and people imagine that I also have two minutes,
I have two grains.
But no, I've never been very Patrick, very, very traditional in my relationships.
I've never had a relationship with a girl.
You know, it's very...
A guy, a girl, Saturday night, if there's nothing to eat on TV.
Ha ha ha!
I'm not a girl who goes out on Monday afternoon,
random, anyway.
And elsewhere than at home, I've never done that in the woods.
You know, I've never done that, even if it's in my shows.
I tell people that I've done that in pickup boxes. Otherwise, it shows, I tell people that I did that in pickup boxes.
Otherwise, it's not true.
It's your character.
It's a big character.
On stage, it's the girl I'd like to be in life.
I'd like to be less complexed,
less afraid to show my true sexuality.
There's not a part of you that comes after in a relationship
and there are expectations that have been created in front of your character.
Yes, that's for sure.
When I meet guys, we're in a relationship, I put myself on Bumble.
I hate all of that.
I hate all of that. I'm so sorry. Oh, come on! No, but it's because the guys are like that, you know? And I even took the risk of putting a picture of me in bikini.
So, you know, I'm looking for trouble.
So, listen, the messages I've received,
it's like, you know, boys, calm down.
I'm looking for a husband.
Oh, my God.
I'm looking for a husband to go to the mill in the Aisles.
It's not going to make me take a by a man with four of your jobs.
Yes, but it's flat, that's it. You're like in a bikini.
And then you're attracted to nothing positive.
Well, not much more. I didn't know how the application worked.
I'm 108 years old. I don't even transfer bankers with my phone.
So it gives you an idea of how far we are in technology.
Joannie is there, I relate with everything you say.
I'm not really the same.
Listen, it's not in a good way. I'm paying in installments.
I'm happy, happy.
So the application, I thought, let's say, swipe left if you don't like it.
But sometimes I wanted to come back, so I came back,
but I didn't know there was a little button at the top to say, you know, back.
So it made me like all kinds of little ladies, one by one.
And then the other guys, the gays, and Mario, they didn't come back.
Wait, wait, wait, you bastard!
You were putting your real name on it, I imagine.
Yes, my real name, but it's obligatory to be your real face.
Because I had also put myself on Facebook meetings at one point,
but after 10 minutes my account was cancelled because there were too many Sylvain and Stephane.
I was like, it's not true, it's not true!
So when you meet, there are too many people who say it's not a real account, but you cancel it.
I had already said, there is someone who is preparing to be a Cati Gauthier.
Because you're famous, you don't have the right to go to meetings.
It's embarrassing. I have a little embarrassed to do that.
I don't know, I'm not comfortable.
And I realized that I could hide my face.
So for now, it's me who can see the guys and like those I like.
That's a good idea.
Yeah, but even in that, even in those I like, it's not...
Otherwise, there's an app called Rayard.
It's an app for people who have public personalities.
If you ever want to know.
I shouldn't have gone out with another artist.
I shouldn't have gone out with someone I know.
You had a chat with Marclade Barrette,
and you talked about it in that podcast.
Your ex-husband was...
He's making a good living.
You get into that rhythm of life, but since I'm not with him...
I'm making a good living, I don't need a man.
I always had his credit card and I never used it.
I'm not that kind of girl.
I'm not someone who will be held by a man.
I'm too proud and I don't need that. But it's fun to go on's going to be held by a man. I'm too proud, you know, and I don't need that,
but it's fun sometimes to go on vacation and sit in first class
and get there and be in a villa.
It's for sure that after that, when you go back to Cuba in a four-star,
you're like, I should have maybe taken the pension.
It's not true, I've never been to Cuba and I don't go to four-stars.
Because you were still, you were still in the middle of the humor where there weren't many women at that time.
Edion was the biggest star. She sold tickets. She's still a megastar.
She's always going to be the biggest comedian in Quebec, the one who sold the most tickets.
She also did a lot to promote women in humor.
Was that your inspiration when you...
My inspiration was Dominique Michel.
I've always loved Dominique since I was little.
I watched her in the bye-bye, I watched her shows,
and I wanted to do like Dominique Michel.
That's my biggest inspiration.
And I was lucky to work with her on my first show,
100% Vache-Folles.
And I'll tell you, you were talking about me about crack, she was the one who said to me,
«Put your crack on! You have a crack, put your crack on!»
She said, «You're young, you're beautiful, take it on!»
«Your proposal is rock, you have to be rocked!»
«You have to announce what you present here.»
Did you feel good about that? Did you want to too?
Yes, yes, yes.
It's just that you had a hold on yourself compared to, as you said earlier, you seem to have blockages
in relation to your education, in relation to all that.
Yes, but in the laundry, in the attitude, that's it.
It's because my attitude doesn't go with what I live in.
It's because when they say, you can't rely on...
The dress doesn't look like a monk. I mean, you can't judge a crab by seeing it jump, but... It didn her. The girl doesn't speak German. I was like, I can't trust her.
She didn't jump at all.
That's it.
I was looking for love.
I felt like love was
the first evening of One Night.
I had too much love.
I was sure that the next day,
the guy would stay and I would make toasts
with bacon and eggs.
It would become my wedding.
I was very disappointed by love, by guys,
but it's because I didn't take it the right way.
And even today, it's old reflexes,
to be a little bit, if the guy is serious,
not to have to sleep with the first night.
But I would say I would offer myself.
It's like, oh well, you think I'm pretty, but take me!
Do you have the impression that being in the middle of humor?
Did it help you at night compared to this?
At night, absolutely.
Guys don't want to have a girl as funny as others.
A girl with a lot of drive.
I told you in my first show in 2005,
and I think it's still up to date,
guys like a quiet little girl, sitting down, playing with the sofa,
doing the dishes, not talking too loud.
I'm not the kind of girl you want to introduce to your mother.
And yet, I'm so happy.
I'm so happy with the beautiful mothers.
No, but I'm not...
There's an image and the real girl is in it.
That's what I'm trying to show with writing in my next show, my fifth show,
that behind that character, there's a very fragile girl.
But you, let's say you have a clash with what you present on stage,
and when you arrive at home and your reality,
are there times when you feel a little confronted with, how would I'm confronted with contradictions.
Well, that's just what my life is about, contradictions.
Yes, but I learn to live with it.
And that's what's hard.
The goal for me would be to be on stage, as I am in life.
But it's too hard to go on stage and show all my vulnerability.
I started doing it slowly, but not on a 90-minute full-on show.
I did it through small numbers.
In my last show, I was talking about the fact that I wasn't good at bed.
But nobody believed me when I said that.
And it's true.
I was told by the traitor that I didn't have it
with the fela-tions.
Because I thought that sucking was really...
sucking. I was going there.
The technique that I was doing back there.
A pipe sign is never a good sign.
I was wondering why the guys didn't remember me.
I got my answer when they said,
no, you put your mouth soft with a lot of beard.
Oh, okay. Oh, wow.
My friends were like, listen, some porn,
but I was like, it's my heart, I don't want to listen to porn.
But it's not sexual, it's a tutorial.
It's like a form of you, check it out, porn.
But that's it, it's really fucked up after.
The guys had a lot of pain in the ass.
Ha ha ha.
Did you have a fallacy where someone said, ouch,
that's not a good sign? It's good. Oh my God you don't have confidence, well, that's it, you're often jealous.
And my ex worked in a lawyer, worked in a cabinet with young girls, young
interns, super beautiful, you know, with sexy little hair, hair on the butt, you know,
and you had super beautiful girls, I was like, huh?
So it made me very jealous.
And I was like, I'm not going to be able to do that.
I'm not going to be able to do that.
I'm not going to be able to do that.
I'm not going to be able to do that. It was great, super beautiful, with sexy little hair, the hair on the butt, you know.
You had some super beautiful girls, I was like...
So it made me very anxious, all that.
But at the same time, all that comes from trust.
And trust that you have towards yourself and towards your partner too.
Yeah, yeah, and people...
The true side you're telling, that's it.
That's what we want.
And more and more today, you know, the comedians,
they go to the podcasts, like you were at the podcast,
Marc-Claude Lorette and Crime My God.
I met you for all the vulnerability, you shared it.
And there are people who see themselves in you.
So you're probably going to touch new people, for sure.
And you also see the human side behind the artist.
It's really interesting. It's like, it's disturbing.
You say, ah! It's surprising.
You know, you reflect so much.
You know, in the sense that jealousy, I feel it a lot too.
Insecurity, you know, the clash versus, let's say we have a podcast on the subject,
I arrive home, I don't feel like going out, you know, all that.
There are a lot of things that you say that I recognize myself a lot and it feels good because,
you know, you're so much someone that we see from the first glance and we say to ourselves,
how cool, if there is someone who has confidence and who...
But there is a difference between, yes, there's a difference between trust and esteem.
Trust... I say I don't have trust, but I do have trust that if I write a show,
I'm able to go on stage, I'm able to perform, that's okay.
But my esteem, that's it. In everyday life, it's self-esteem.
To think that we're not good enough. I was looking at Bumble,
guys' profiles, I said to myself, no, I'm not pretty enough for him.
He's not Brad Pitt, the guy.
So I tend to hit my head a lot.
I have to appreciate myself a little more.
I have to give myself a little more love
towards myself before giving it to others.
Because I give it to others, even to those who don't want it.
It's like, Mrs. Coucou with my beaks in tweezers.
But it's like, can you love me a little?
I think the day I'm going to learn to love myself a little more,
it's going to be easier to get in touch
and in intimate relationships with others
because it's always superficial.
How does a 15-year marriage happen in this atmosphere?
Because it's still a little early.
Well, my husband, I met him in a modern evening.
I was speaking for the Sclerosis in plaque.
He was there, he had bought a ticket,
and I was a little on the party.
And that's another thing to be careful of,
because when I'm an intern, you're not going to go with me.
I'm sure that alcohol often makes sure that, oh, my judgment is altered, you know.
But that night, I don't mean to say that I left with a little bit, I was drunk, but that's
what happened.
And I said, we won't sleep together the first night.
He was like, no, no, it's beautiful.
But then he said, I'm not going there for sure.
And indeed, I didn't sleep with him the first night.
And the next day, he was still at our place.
And I had made bacon toasts, eggs, and the trachea lunch.
It looked like I had the old mentality
that a man would take it to the top.
Wow!
So that's it.
He stayed all day on Sunday.
And on Monday, he said,
Are you going to leave?
And he never left.
He came back home on Monday.
He went to get his stuff, he came back home.
And we started going out together like that.
And we never had a completely
exciting sexuality.
And I think that's what made our couple break up.
Because for him, it was more important than for me.
But it wasn't a visceral need that I have every day.
It's not... If it doesn't happen for two weeks, it's not a visceral need that I have every day.
If it doesn't happen for two weeks, it's not a big deal.
I don't need that much.
For him, it's important.
He's a great guy, successful, he's making a good living.
There are other girls who have seen that and there are other girls who don't.
But it's okay, we stayed super close.
She's my sister-in-law, we'll always love each other, but that's it.
Not in this dynamic.
And it's with him that you got your little coquette too.
And is the fact, if you also make him have a girl who pushes you even more through your confidence to show her that, you know...
Oh, well, before her, I'm able to fight, you know, and I give everyone all the confidence, you know,
and I learn things that I... the tools that I didn't have, finally.
Because the tools, I used them. I'm just not able to put them in application in front of me,
but I'm able to transmit and motivate her.
And, you know, my daughter, I teach her to defend herself, you herself, because I think there's nothing worse in life than to victimize yourself.
No, defend yourself, put your foot down, say what you have to say,
you know, either frankly or...
Yeah.
Yeah. So, no, and it's a little girl who is able to talk about her emotions,
you know, because I come from a place where we didn't talk about our emotions.
You know, around the table, we talked about the weather,
we talked about the Journal de Montréal, we talked about the back of others.
But if we started talking about how we really felt, everyone, no one would be able to relax.
So it's like, eat your potatoes!
Stop talking about that, we're not well, it's stinging my elbow.
It's crazy, huh?
It's true, you're really...
Generation, and that's what I realized not so long ago,
that my mom, my dad, that's it.
We can't talk about...
And my brother recently, he says,
well, mom, why can't we...
She never apologizes.
You know, like, right, but...
You never apologized, you never did an introspection.
I'm like, Tom, you know, if they weren't educated,
it's not his fault.
She wasn't educated in there.
There was no introspection in time.
I don't think there was even a new word that was learned in 2024.
And we ourselves, we are...
And on the networks, we see the personal path,
we see more and more of it, but you, there was no network.
There was no network, the internet didn't exist.
There's positive networks for that, I think.
Yes, there's negative, but there's positive,
because you also see things.
If you decide to look at personal information,
well, you don't want to.
You do introspection.
I follow the same pages, so it makes me ask questions every day.
But our parents didn't have that. No, no. There were little stickers on the fridge,
with little phrases like,
Help you, the sky will help you.
But it was pretty far away.
And I was raised by my grandparents,
who are 87 years old today.
So my grandmother, in the day,
she was washing, then preparing the dinner,
and we got home from school, then she put the table, then prepare the dinner, and we would get home from school,
and she would put the table down, and we would eat,
and then she would get rid of it.
She didn't have time to jizz with us.
It's not because she didn't want to,
but everything was taboo, you know, sexuality.
Never, never, never would we have talked about sexuality.
I even remember, in the sixth year,
there was a play about sexuality at school,
and the parents had to sign to be able to attend.
My mother never wanted to sign.
So I wasn't even allowed to attend.
My sister told my mother, it wasn't even true,
Hey, Cathy, let's go to the Frenchy village with Richie David.
It was like a little guy, a little older.
My mother put my bicycle in the shed for the summer.
I couldn't go to the village in the summer.
I was caught in the rain.
So I was really restricted in that.
If it was sexuality, it was very bad.
And we don't do that. It's not beautiful.
It's a shame to Jesus.
So I was raised in a kind of mentality where
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We're going for free. We're going for free. We Yes. Do you remember the first time, let's say the first time you were masturbated?
Or is it like...
Oh my God.
Did you, did you stop yourself for a long time?
I didn't even know it existed.
I didn't even know it was possible.
You have an idea how far I'm going.
I was 18 years old.
I was at a bar with a guy.
He brought me to my roommate, well not my roommate, but one of my friends living in the same apartment.
I was always there. I got there and the guy had put his hand in my ass while bringing me back.
I don't know what he touched, but he touched something.
He was like, it must be your clitoris. I'm like, what? I was 18 years old.
I didn't know what a clitoris was.
I thought a clitoris was a part of the eye.
It's like a mirror.
It's like a mirror.
It's like light years.
Do you remember your first orgasm?
Well, alone, no.
But with a man, I never really
had an orgasm. I have it, but you know,
it's me who gives it to me, but in the presence of a man.
But that him, I'm not going to let
myself go to the point that it's
the man who gives me an orgasm.
I'm capable with a guy, but it's
me. Me, me, me, me, me!
It's like that,
I can do it!
It's really a pattern. It's a pattern. It's a pattern.
It's a pattern.
It's a pattern.
It's a pattern.
It's a pattern.
It's a pattern.
It's a pattern.
It's a pattern.
It's a pattern.
It's a pattern.
It's a pattern. It's a wardrobe door in accordion. It wasn't... So no. We never witnessed...
My parents loved each other. I saw them kiss each other often.
And they have a lot of love.
They've been married for 70 years.
And after dinner, they stick together on the sofa.
They're very, very in love.
But I said no.
We never talked about sex or anything like that.
So, even more surprising for them,
when I started making make the word,
they fell for it.
My grandfather, he was uncomfortable.
He didn't talk about it at all.
If someone was at the shopping mall, he'd say,
Hey, I have your little daughter, is she a
street vendor?
No.
Oh, wow.
He didn't catch why, and why I'm sacred.
Because in my family, we went to mass every Sunday.
So we don't go around the table.
We don't talk about sex, we don't talk about politics.
We talk about...
But what made you do the same despite the fact that your whole family wasn't...
I don't know if it's because of the carelessness was a visceral need to stand out.
I never really questioned myself about it.
We're talking about it now, but I never thought about it,
why I went there, why I did that.
Because it made me laugh.
It was so taboo for me that I wanted to get rid of that taboo
and try to open myself up.
My shows are usually therapy.
You pay to go and tell your problems.
The world is the opposite.
They pay to hear about my problems.
But everyone lives more or less in the same thing.
On different scales.
And it's like I said before, in my shows, I talk about myself,
but I don't just talk about myself.
That's what I'm inspired by, a lot of people around me.
And I bring everything to myself because it's easier if I let it pass through my own character than to say,
Oh, my beautiful sister, we believe in less.
It's like, well, I'll assume it and pretend it's me.
But it's not always me.
Just hearing all that, it makes me feel alone. It's a real... It's really a gift from yourself that you give.
And it's true that sometimes I want to go completely elsewhere.
In my last show that I wrote, I didn't want to talk about sex at all,
but it seems to be stronger than me. It comes back.
It's like... It's dominant in my subjects.
And it also seems that my audience is waiting for that. It's stronger than me, it's coming back. It's dominant in my subjects.
It seems that my audience is waiting for that.
You come to see a show with Cathy Gauthier,
and I don't say once, you're a jerk,
and I don't talk shit, but then...
Are we here to see Claudine Mercier?
Did we make a mistake?
There are all kinds of humor,
and there are for all tastes.
But there is a public for that. There are people who pay to see that kinds of humor, and there are for all tastes. But there's a public for that, there's humor.
There are people who pay to come see this kind of humor, a little more trash,
who go in and who, you know, who, it's a big punch in the face, my shows.
So there are some who need that, you know, to really destabilize themselves.
And there are precisely those who need a more gentle humor, like Claudine Mercier,
you know, someone who is more like a friend.
I don't have a child who comes to see my shows.
It can't make you feel a little...
in a cage sometimes, you know, like in that character that you would like to get out of sometimes.
Well, of course, yes, I'm labeled like that, and people really believe that this character is me.
But at the same time, it's me. I'm not disguised on stage.
I'm the one who writes my texts.
So, all of that is part of me.
It's a part of you.
You said at the beginning that
there's a part of you that...
You don't do that because you've had
blockages, but there's a part of you
that's interested and wants to...
You said you'd like to be that person.
Yes, I'd like that. So, on the one hand, it's good interested and who wants to... That's it. You said you would like to be that person.
Yes, I would like that.
So on the one hand, it's good that you do it because it does you good.
You know, when I broke up, I wanted to live my sexuality.
I was thinking, now it's going to go to hell.
It's not fair, but there are a lot of guys who write to me on social media.
So I was in my group chat.
Oh!
We were doing a big shoot.
It's not fair how she was fishing for dynamite on a network like Bumble.
There's an exchange, but he's already calling me.
He wants to go, are we going to get a drink?
I was like, yeah, I'll take you on the boat. We're going to get a drink? I'm like, yeah, come on, I'll take you on the boat.
We're going to get a drink.
So with them, I was telling them, of course,
don't get attached, I'm getting away from you.
You're a boy toy.
All I want is, I don't even want you to talk to me.
Show me your face.
That's what interests me.
You've seen it from experience.
And ironically, it's all those guys
who are really too attached to me
and who fell in love with me.
And there's the thing, I'm still close, and I'm still friends,
because I'm still friends with my exes.
I'm not a bitch in life, I hate conflict.
So I still talk to those guys about it, but...
I was using it, it was pretty clear. I told them. And is the fact that...
When you were really into just making love and...
Because you said you never had an orgasm with a man.
Did it ever tell you, why do I do that?
Why do I do it with a man if I don't have pleasure?
Well, that's why. I bought myself the Womanizer.
The Womanizer. And since I That's why I bought the Womanizer. Womanizer!
I bought it when I was 15.
I bought it with all my friends.
Because if there's one who thinks of batteries, you're wrong.
No, it's not for me, it's for giving.
I share the pleasure.
I went to a...
You were introduced to that.
Yes, I was.
There were a lot of girls who didn't know that yet.
You were introduced to that. Thank you. But listen, the girls were like, well, there were plenty who didn't know that yet. You discovered it.
She discovered me.
Thank you.
Yeah.
One year, my best friend Annie had bought me a vibrator, but still, I can tell you
how much I'm back.
The vibrator is a duck and it's written on it, I run my duck.
I saw that.
It's like a little duck, but the duck's tail and the duck's beak, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,
but it looks like a toy, it's a little yellow duck,
as we see the ducks in the bath.
Yeah, yeah.
And I didn't understand why she had bought me a baby.
I was like a duck.
I thought she was going to give me a decoration,
but my bath was really cheesy.
I didn't even have children at that time.
I didn't understand it, but now she says,
it's not a duck, put it in the bath,
it's a vibrator. I was like,
hey, my God, I was all bad,
well, let's see, I'll take that.
But hey, luckily she didn't buy me
a vibrator with two ends,
I would be dead from a heart attack.
Already, it was all childish, it looked like,
you know, it was very...
Yeah, it's less emotional, I like it a little,
maybe not, when it looks like a toy
when you have kids, When you have kids.
If you need something to get used to...
That's when I started.
But if I was a mom, you give me a toy that looks like a toy,
I wouldn't be surprised.
But now, look at the cannon, I didn't really look at it.
Yeah, that's it.
I'm doing the face of Akanan.
At least I'm glad you were able to discover the pleasure of playing with toys.
It's better with toys that don't have a whole lot of stuff.
At one time, it was really embarrassing to go into a sex shop.
I think it was in my third show.
I was making a video that I had shot in a sex shop.
What does it tell me? The video was viewed by millions of views. mon troisième show, je faisais justement une vidéo que j'avais tourné dans un sex shop. Ça me dit de quoi?
Ouais. Écoute, la vidéo a été vue des millions de views.
Tu parles d'affaires d'analyse avec le...
Écoute, je rentre dans le sex shop, tout ça c'était improvisé parce que j'avais pas
assez de temps dans mon show. J'avais dit au gars avec qui je travaillais, Pascal Barriot,
j'ai dit « Viens avec moi, on va aller dans un sex shop, pis je vais juste filmer. Pis
si c'est bon pis ça marche, on retourner back with a text and we'll know what to expect.
But listen, we never turned it back.
We never did a re-run because,
it's not really a word,
but we never turned back to do the shoot,
I'll tell you that.
Because the first one, it wasn't invented.
I mean, that's what was funny.
It was live and the seller, it was the real seller.
There were a lot of people who thought it was a comedian, but no.
It was the real seller who explained to me very seriously how the objects worked.
Hey, I was flabbergasted.
The first thing I saw was the fist.
Oh, that's it?
Hey, the fist. I was like, there, the fist.
I wouldn't even want to eat it, it's like, there's a punch there.
And we know where it's going. It's not going there, it's going there.
So I was doing a lot of gags with big hit. And you know where it's going. It's not going there, it's going there.
So I was doing a lot of gags with the objects
that were in the sex shop,
but there were a lot of things,
I wasn't even comfortable holding them
in my hands through the packaging.
So we're going from far, far, far.
I'm very, very prudent of that.
But it seems that with age,
and I assume a little more,
it's sure that with my next relationship, I will want to have a sexuality
that is more and more expanded,
and that we can talk about it,
what we love, what we want, what we want,
and what you don't want.
But I never talked about these things before.
It's because a sexuality in a long relationship
where you feel a pressure,
there are so many women who live that,
a kind of, you don't want to,
but you do it for your husband, for your husband.
Hey, we're in 2025!
Yeah, and I was doing it, like I was doing at the wedding, I was doing it,
I was getting rid of it, and then it was over.
Well, that's done.
I'm happy for a week.
It wasn't a week, it was two days later.
You can't make him want it.
And then after that, the force of being told no, you know, it was like... But yes, I'm not sure if you can't... Sometimes they want to, you know, and it's just that...
But then, after that, the force of being told no,
poor guy, he's sure to end up going to see elsewhere,
you know, I mean, you have to be aware that
a guy who doesn't do it at home is going to do it elsewhere.
It's a lot to say, but that's the same.
Were you aware of it or...
Yes, I was aware, I knew he saw other girls and all that,
but I was made to do eye-catching by the NASA.
Ha ha ha! Super eye-catcher by NASA. Ha ha ha!
Super eye-catchers!
But no, I accepted it, it was a deal, you know, we didn't talk about it.
It wasn't open, but I let him do it, in the sense that...
As long as he comes home, that's it.
He's going to have fun, he's coming back, he's there, he's present.
You know, he's a super good guy, you know, he's a super... That's why, you know, we let ourselves be left because of that, but it's not guy, he's a great guy.
That's why we left each other because of that, but it's not because we didn't love each other.
We will always have a very privileged bond together, that's for sure.
To have a relationship... Have you been in public with him?
Yes, yes.
Because that's something that's already happened to me in my relationships.
We were talking about humiliation, you're talking about Tank Bumble.
I remember imagining my chum who's going to see elsewhere, and that he knows.
And the kind of public humiliation that people know that my boyfriend is going to see elsewhere, and that Zornado is cocky, let's say.
You didn't have any talks about that, that it could have been something that you...
Well, we had talks about that, not long ago, because we thought maybe we could come back together,
and he said, of course we're going to be in an open relationship, but I was like,
I was ready to accept that it would have been open from his side,
because I wouldn't put myself on dates just to go out and fuck,
it doesn't interest me.
I fuck with a guy because I want to be with him, I want it to be my chum.
Otherwise, my mother- Angée, will...
will fuck me in the shower.
We're going to take a little cannon.
That's right, I don't have a cannon anymore.
But, you know, to say that...
I was not...
I was ready to pass over my convictions
and my values to accept, you know,
to put the family together again, because for me,
family is super important.
And finally, well, when I was discussing it, she said, listen, it won't work, you'll be too sad.
It won't be good for you, it will be a toxic climate for you, you know, it will make you anxious.
Let it happen. If you're not ready to go forward and do the same thing on your own,
well, I'm going to live too much guilt to do it on my own too, you know.
So that's it.
Well, it seems to me to be a good communication.
Yes, we have an out-of-the-box communication.
Communication is really our strength.
It's the fun that he said that.
He said no because clearly you wouldn't have been good in there.
You could have been good.
I could have, but do I really need to stress one day in the evening because he's not there and I know he's with another girl.
What is he doing? What is she dressed in? I'm really trying to get the...
All the confidence. You wanted to work on your own. I don't think it's the winner. No, no, that's it. You have to learn to respect your own values.
You have to know where you can put your limits, and then your limits stop there.
I don't think there's a lot of fidelity at all.
I feel like at some point, there's a driving gap,
in a trip or in a congress, whatever.
It's possible that you're in a flirt, but systematically, every week, look for that, wow, no.
When it gets on your daily life quality,
but I'm not going to talk about during your relationship,
but are you able to feel desire for other men?
Yes.
Is there something about comfort in a relationship that makes desire go down?
Or because you've already conquered that person, he's already at home, you already have the ring on your finger.
No, but it's weird, I didn't have that much attraction for him.
And yet, he's a super handsome guy.
We salute him. attraction for him. And yet, he's a super handsome guy.
We salute him.
We salute him.
No, but that's not...
For a sec, I talked about it in my last video.
He wasn't that exciting.
He was very, very...
But it's just that, you know, it's all chemistry.
Pheromones weren't at the meeting.
But, you know, like, I met a guy recently.
He's working. you know, I'm going, and he wants it.
He's like, I'll offer you non-Catholic stuff.
Oh!
But it's also maybe, you know, with the path you're taking.
I've been going for 15 years with it.
Yeah, well, maybe in 15 years.
But maybe with the path you've taken,
you've gone elsewhere too, and then, I don't know.
Well, that I let myself go more, that I'm more elsewhere too, and I don't know... Well, I let myself go more, I'm more open too.
You know, there's the sea, there's the saint, and there's the whore.
But I never wanted to have the other whore.
It was like the saint or the sea.
The whore wasn't for me.
I remember once I undressed to wait for her upstairs.
I was so stupid. I was like, what am I doing dressed like that? I remember once I undressed to wait for him in the top of the Like a poster, like what am I doing here? It's ridiculous, you feel like you're wearing big clown shoes.
Exactly, I had a clown nose.
And I was like...
I don't know...
I was joking when we were making love.
He was like, stop it, man!
Morristic sex doesn't work.
Look at all the porn categories, humor, there's none.
There's a reason for that.
Wow!
That's good!
No, listen, I'm a nanny. Sometimes they look at me and say,
You're so beautiful, thank you!
They're like, wow!
She wants it to end, she's the most...
No, I wanted it to end, that's it.
Exactly. I think I wanted it to end, that's it. That's exactly what I wanted. I wanted it to end, but it's not even going to happen.
No, it's not.
You're going to have to fake it until the end.
Yeah, you're better.
I wasn't a big faker.
When I did it, I did it and it was like swimming.
A saucy blow was good, but I had a lot of pain
putting my foot in the pool.
Oh my God, you're incredible.
But the undressing, I was...
It's for sure that the first time, even me,
you said earlier, you saw me earlier, I was undressed.
It's not like it's been several times that I undressed,
I wear it and I try to anchor it.
But the first time I put on a undress, it was the worst.
I was like... I closed my eyes because I was too embarrassed. So that's the way I found it so I could keep my undressed
without looking like a cunt.
Yeah.
And the first time, that's what I left him with his eyes closed.
Actually, I don't even know if he saw it.
I did the hand and undressed and I was like...
And by the time you do it, you get more and more comfortable.
And that's what...
When I put on my undress today, it's like... And by the time you do it, you become more and more comfortable.
And it's something that...
When I put on my clothes today, it's...
It's grounding me.
I feel powerful, I really feel...
Is there something you did for yourself too?
Yes, that's it.
Because I didn't do it for myself, I did it for the other, for this life.
Exactly. You have to do it for yourself, it has to be about yourself.
But that's it, it's normal, I just wanted to say it's normal.
Thank you, I'd like that.
Even at my wedding night, my friends were like, you have to put on a dress.
I was like, no, I'm not going to put on a dress.
Listen, my friends had brought me some stuff, and stuff with straps.
I was like, come on not a big That's disgusting. That's what I was going to say. Even when there's a sense of obligation, let's say on the wedding night, I know I'll be off.
Because everyone is waiting for you.
Because you have to be there that day that I'll be off, off, off, off, off.
There's something...
I don't know, I wouldn't judge.
You don't have to...
You have to wait.
Your dress is heavy.
It's heavy, heavy, heavy.
My boyfriend who comes and tells me, I'm sure you're going to take me out of my clothes.
That's for sure, I wouldn't wear them.
Like never.
You're scared. You know, I wear them because I want to, because I feel like, you know, I'd say, I'd never take off my clothes.
I would, because I want to, because I feel like I've tasted the same things before,
but if it's an expectation of him, like sexuality, since it's expectations of them,
it's a crisis. It's moving us away.
You shouldn't tell me.
No, it's that. And you know, I really feel like a woman,
when I'm in my juggling, too big, when I rolled three laps,
like, the morning you're dressed, I find you super sexy.
I find that much sexier than a dress in lace.
But it's true that it's sexy. You feel like a little cap.
When you put on your little cap, there...
Well, it's because there's something in there that makes like...
I don't need to prove you, I don't need to prove anything.
That's me and... being good, right?
Maybe that's why we're not comfortable in undressing,
because it's not something you put on and you go,
Oh my God, I have the taste to do squats with that.
I'm so excited that you can relate.
When you go to a party, you go to a bar where you're not prepared,
you feel like everyone is after you and you find yourself in trouble.
And the day you go crazy, you're not well.
Nobody is looking at you because it seems you're not well.
Exactly. That's what you're saying.
Yesterday, we went out at random. My friend was skiing.
She came to take off her skirt. It was almost embarrassing.
I wanted to do it. Hey, don't take off your top.
But we were really dressed up. We were in a restaurant, we'll pop the whole thing. But you know, we were really dressed up,
and we were in a restaurant, still, eating.
Listen, the guys were really looking at us.
Maybe they were looking at us and saying,
what are these three old asses?
Not even going to wash their heads before going out.
But for real, I think that...
Because it sends a message of...
I have nothing to prove to you.
I'm good.
I'm good, and that, well, it attracts guys, a girl who is good.
A girl in running, it's more than a girl with high heels.
Because with her, you know you're going to do a long ride.
The other one will walk to the corner of the street and she will be stunned.
That's true.
No, no, I opted... I'm the one who made the COVID.
It's rare, I'm a little bit of a glue, but normally I'm in that fashion.
You're super beautiful too.
I'm really in the fashion that 99% of my time I'm dressed in fashion since COVID.
But it's time we do it for ourselves.
It's time you're comfortable, that you get out of your house and you feel good.
Exactly.
You're talking about the estheme, I'm curious to know, do you feel like it's improved over time?
Well, I'm working on it right now.
I'm in therapy and we're working on esteem.
Okay.
At 48, so it's never too late.
And you started recently?
I started a few months ago, yeah.
And it's not a job you did before, I think?
No.
No, listen, the first time, the psychologist asked me,
she said, what's your greatest quality?
I said, my God, I don't even know.
She said, let's say your best friend, what would she say about you?
I would say that I'm generous, that I'm very nice.
Imagine, I'm forced to make your friend talk to you
to get the green stuff out of your nose,
because you're not even able to say it yourself.
You know, it took me, I said, oh OK, I'd like to love myself a little more,
and to flatten myself a little more.
But still, I think it comes from my education.
When you attribute yourself to value,
it's like, well, it's not for the sake of it.
It's like, it's like, badly seen.
That's it, it's my Christian heritage
that I'm trying to get rid of.
It's tiring.
Just the way you said earlier about your daughter, you know, you find it very important to show her that she shouldn't victimize herself.
Just the way you said it, we hear it, that it's because you didn't have the place to complain less.
No, no, no.
So clearly, there's that that kills you and that's like, you're like, I didn't do it myself, I was victimized or complained, so you know,
and you see how strong I am, and that, but it's still understandable,
in your voice, that it's there.
But that's it, you know, like, my grandmother fell, she has two black eyes,
and I call her, I ask her, how are you? And she goes, yeah, yeah,
and she never talks to me about that, you know, and it's my brother who put a photo,
because we have a family group, and then I see my mother, she has black eyes,
and I call her, I say, let's see, what happened?
Nothing.
But, man, you have black hair.
I just fell down the stairs, nothing serious.
But that's it, you shut your mouth with your problems.
You don't bother others with that.
She, that's it, she's empty.
Everything is beautiful, everything is going well.
You know, put everything under the carpet.
We hide everything under the carpet, but now it's because we want the boss.
You know, time, above. You can't hide everything under the carpet. We hide everything under the carpet, but now it's because we want the boss.
You can't hide everything under the carpet, pretending that everything is fine,
because it will end up catching you in the tunnel.
Yes, it's clearly bothering you.
Do you feel that your mother is sending you to do this job?
Is it a small achievement? Does she also in their lives or not at all?
I also think she's very uncomfortable with my words.
And when she sees me in an interview and I don't talk about sex and I don't say it, she's very happy.
You did well.
I saw you with Claude Borrette, you did well. You had a very nice costume.
You were well dressed. I saw you with Claude Barrette, you did that well. You had a nice costume.
You were dressed well.
You were dressed well, a satin blouse,
a coq-coup, you had your body rolled up.
You still have your little cross,
because she gave me a little cross of Jesus,
and she found it very flat that I don't wear my little cross.
Do you find it difficult to have a connection with your mother?
Have you ever had a close relationship with her?
Yes, really. My grandmother is the person I like the most in the world.
With my daughter, it's art on the outside.
She's such a smart, inspiring, strong woman.
But I think I just have this model where strength is like...
But you can also be strong with great vulnerability.
It's what I work on a lot, to show that being strong is not just about looking tough.
You can't be strong otherwise.
Yes, and you're not just strong for yourself, you're strong for your daughter too.
Yes.
What motivates you to go and see a doctor?
I think I needed to be there. I was there in my life. Just for you and for your daughter too. Yes. What motivated you to go and consult?
I think I needed that.
I went there in my life to settle all the little babies and do a cleaning.
At the beginning of the year, 2025, I called it a great cleaning of our skin.
Everything has to come out, great equation.
I launched my job on the radio, which I loved in the morning. I really liked to with them, but it made me too much of a burden to wake up at 4 a.m.
because I wasn't there in the mornings with my daughter.
And I was tired, I woke up at 4 a.m.
I'm not in my DNA.
I'm more like, I go to bed at 4 a.m.
When I do shows after shows, you're not asleep.
You know, the adrenaline in the carpet.
You get to the hotel, you get up at 1 a.m.
After that, you listen to a a TV show, you eat chips,
and you fall asleep at 4 am.
So that was my life since I started working.
So getting up at 4 am, it all shook my biological clock.
I had no quality of life, I had no fun.
I didn't see my friends
last week. I'm a very sociable girl. I like to cook dinner
at home on the morning of the evening. I like to receive my friends
any day, no need to wait until Friday to do an activity.
It really changed my life. For three years, it's been a life
crisis that's gotten worse. Because in the morning, at 6 a.m., in the studio, you're hungry,
so you order food, and at 6 a.m., you don't order a pokeball.
So we ate a lot of scrap.
And I took like 30 pounds, almost.
It's not that much.
You worked on the radio?
Yeah.
I got fat, but I got fat in the eye.
It's like me.
Since I stopped, I started training again,
because I wasn't training anymore, I was doing nothing.
Four hours now, that's it.
Where is that, your 30 pounds?
I could show you pictures of day one,
sometimes I watch videos of me, day one.
I know it's very superficial, but I measure five feet,
I can't weigh 140.
It's not just the weight, you don't feel well, your health is what you eat.
If you didn't eat well, you didn't feel well.
I didn't eat, I didn't sleep.
You were more tired, that's for sure.
I didn't sleep, I didn't sleep.
I came to sleep after 2-3 hours, but it wasn't stuck.
I slept 3 hours in the afternoon, two or three hours at night,
but you never had time to recover.
Then one day, your brain, wow, it doesn't work anymore.
I'm already a very anxious person.
So, no, no, I'm pulling the plug, but it's hard.
Because it's a super fun job.
I loved my team, but I still love them.
It's the same people.
I love these guys.
I loved that.
You create something in a studio.
You're in Huitelots.
So, of course, we become a small family.
We tell each other things.
These guys are aware of things in my life
that no one else knows.
It becomes confidant.
And also, the fact that it's a paying job, we'll see.
We won't pretend.
At least, since it's a less beautiful quality of life, the crime in...
But for me, the real luxury.
Yeah, that's it.
So there's a chance that at least there's money in crime.
Well, there was money and there was something rewarding, you know,
to get up and be on the radio and all that.
And to be in the same team.
And when you're an artist, well, you don't want people to forget you,
so you want to stay. But all of that was all for bad reasons, were in the eye of the team. And when you're an artist, well, you don't want people to forget you, so you want to stay.
But all of that was for all the bad reasons, because I never worked for money,
I never worked for exposure. I always did business because I wanted to do it,
and because I liked it, I liked it more. And that's it. And me, well,
the greatest luxury I can have in life is to be with my daughter in the morning,
that doesn't buy it.
Wow, well, bravo to have done side. It's really a nice example of work. It's not that important.
I know there are a lot of people who would like to do it, but they can't do it because their work is food.
There are people in the morning in traffic at 5 o'clock, I'm not the only one who was on the phone at that time.
There are some who will work, you know, and women and men, and they don't go back to bed in the morning.
They continue their day and arrive home at 4.30, 5 p.m.
and then it continues, it continues, it continues.
That's what I wrote a number on,
to say how much mental charge,
it's going to drive us crazy, it's going to kill us.
And we work to buy more things that we don't need
to impress the world that we don't even know.
It's not surprising that we're all neurotic, always on the brink of the crisis of honor, and that we need't need to impress the world, that we don't even know. It's not surprising that we're all nervous,
always at the edge of the crisis of honor,
and that we need a pill to go through a glass.
It's like...
It's true.
But that's it, you know, we're in a whirlpool of overconsumption,
we're in the paraitre, you know, that's it.
So we're a lot in the paraitre,
and we're not quite in the other, I think.
So I think we have to...
rebalance that, and I had the enough to be able to afford it.
I've been working for a long time and I managed to put money aside.
It won't be forever.
I'll have to work again at some point.
But for now, I'm not afraid of the radio.
I started writing a new show.
That's my drive.
It's the medium I like the most, in which I excel the best.
I think it's really being on stage.
That's what I like.
Going to meet people, seeing people.
After the shows, I always meet people.
I like to see who I have to do it to.
I like that people talk to me.
I don't just sign autographs on the cardboard.
Thank you, good evening.
I really take time with people. If it lasts two hours, the autographs will last two hours.
I don't care if it's done there.
It's as important as the show as it is.
Yeah.
Thank you so much, Cathy, for being open to us.
Thank you for inviting me.
For letting us access this little vulnerable side of you.
Well, vulnerable, my real personality.
And very funny too, of course.
It's true, really.
Thank you, girls.
It's good for me because there are a lot of things
that you said that I was like,
Oh, my, finally someone that I...
You needed to hear Cathy.
I needed to hear you today,
it makes me feel very good.
I'm glad to have come, even though I'm a little bit sick, and you're sick too. I didn't need to have a kidney check-up, but sometimes my eyes hurt, my eyes are full of water.
I don't want to look emotional, it's just that I really...
I don't want to look sensitive, guys.
No, I don't want to look sensitive because I'm not sensitive, I'm like...
We'll say it in the intro.
She didn't have the pain, I just wanted to say.
I'm glad she's the other way around. The thing is, I'm just saying. She wasn't on the edge. I'm glad she was upside down.
If it's true, I'll get her back upside down later.
It's nice that you say it, that you're consulting her.
Because it's new, once again, to be able to hear women your age.
You're like, my mom, it's not an option. It's like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no It's not going well, is it? You have two abscessive thumbs at the arm's length. Sad.
You're going to make her think it's going well.
It's sad, for real. I wish so much for everyone to have that.
It's so sad, yes. Because I'm the denier, it's not worse.
Yes, it's good.
The denier and the psychologist. For the crazy ones, that, me...
It's going well!
Everything is going well! It's going well! It's going well!
Yes, it's going well.
The girl who came for the couple,
me and Louis, it's going well in general.
And we had a free couple's session.
She did that to me,
she's a professional couple.
I said, no, we don't need it.
Our couple is doing really well.
Yes, we're in it sometimes, but times, but nothing... Some are really dangerous.
And finally, she wrote to us and I said,
we're going to take it.
We're going to do it once.
We'll try it.
And finally, we do it every month.
Oh yeah.
And honestly,
I'm like,
I'm just having a bad time with both of them.
Me, on my side, I had...
Finally, him...
No, but it's true.
He had a lot of things that he kept,
but I didn't know.
And it's like, wow, it's really fun.
You think sometimes that he doesn't have a lot of problems,
but he keeps things that he didn't say.
So it's really important.
I advise everyone, even if you think, even if it's okay,
it can always get better.
It can always get better.
And even with my wife, the other day I said,
I don't know what I'm going to tell you today, I think we did the auto, I don't have anything to say anymore. It's when you think you have nothing to say that we start working for real.
The work starts when you think you have nothing to say.
It's because we're on the surface, we're going to scratch the balls for real.
Well, bravo. And I really see, I feel much better.
Let's say I saw you at Marc-Claude Barrette, I listened to the podcast this morning,
and I really feel better already.
Oh yeah? Yeah. I see you really... I feel you a lot better. Let's say I saw you at Marc-Laure Barrette.
I listened to the podcast this morning.
And I really feel you better already.
Oh yeah?
Yeah.
So...
I feel you.
I really feel you.
It's because when I did Marc-Laure, I just broke up.
It wasn't long ago.
I was more fragile.
But now I...
Bravo.
You're beautiful.
You're inspiring.
Bravo.
Thank you.
Thank you, girls. Would you have a little more time to spend with us
to answer questions from people?
Yes, people, go ahead.
I would be on Patreon.
Thank you very much, Cathy.
You're inspiring, you're beautiful, you're cool.
I'm going to come see you in person.
When you're ready, 50 years, you want to do it on stage?
50 years, I'm on stage, that's for sure.
50 years, very concept, my offer for sure. Yes, we're here. 50 years old, very conscious of my offer.
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