Sexe Oral - Mon chum me trompe dans mes rêves - La signification des rêves avec Annie

Episode Date: February 20, 2025

Les propos exprimés dans ce podcast relèvent d’expériences et d’opinions personnelles dans un but de divertissement et ne substituent pas les conseils d’un.e sexologue ou autre professionnel ...de la santé. Cette semaine sur le podcast, on reçoit Annie qui vient nous parler de la signification rêves et de comment interpréter nos rêves érotiques.Pour suivre Annie: https://www.instagram.com/annie.r.e.v.e/Le podcast est présenté par Éros et Compagnie Utiliser le code promo : SexeOral pour 15% de rabais https://www.erosetcompagnie.com/ Les jouets dont les filles parlent: https://www.erosetcompagnie.com/page/podcast  Le podcast est présenté par Oxio. Pour plus d'informations: https://oxio.ca/ Code promo pour essayer Oxio gratuitement pendant un mois: SEXEORAL Pour collaborations: partenariats@studiosf.ca Pour toutes questions: sexeoral@studiosf.ca Pour suivre les filles sur Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/sexeoralpodcast Pour contacter les filles directement, écrivez-nous sur Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexeoral.podcast/

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Starting point is 00:03:07 C'était très excitant. Surtout pour Joannie. Check that. Elle regarde avec le gros sourire. Moi aussi, je suis contente. C'est juste que ça fait longtemps qu'elle pousse pour ça. C'est vrai que ça fait longtemps. T'avais-tu déjà entendu mon problème?
Starting point is 00:03:15 Ton problème? Je sais pas si je l'ai déjà entendu. Mon problème de rêve que je comprenais pas. Je sais pas si je l'ai déjà entendu. C'est vrai que ça fait longtemps. C'est vrai que ça fait longtemps. C'est vrai que ça fait longtemps. C'est vrai que ça fait longtemps.
Starting point is 00:03:23 C'est vrai que ça fait longtemps. C'est vrai que ça fait longtemps. C'est vrai que ça fait longtemps. C'est vrai que ça fait longtemps. C'est vrai que ça fait longtemps. C'est vrai que ça fait longtemps. I'm glad she's growing. It's true. Did you know about my problem? Your problem? My dream problem. I didn't understand why it was happening. No, I didn't hear about it. Well, we'll tell you. But before that, I'd like you to tell us about your journey.
Starting point is 00:03:40 When we asked, I asked the sky, did someone study dreams in Quebec? And for real, I was really surprised to see that yes. We want to know what your career is, how you started it and why too. Well, I am a specialized educator at the base, so I worked with children, with old people. And everyone told me their dreams. Naturally, it's a subject that I like to address. And I realized that I was making links with what the person was living.
Starting point is 00:04:15 I found that really interesting. And then I thought, in life, I think it can be a tool that is really important that we can use to understand who we are, to understand our needs, to understand our desires. So now I decided to study at the International School of Dreams. In Reims? Yes, with Nicole Graton, a woman who is very recognized in Quebec in relation to dreams. So...
Starting point is 00:04:45 Where is this school? This is a school in Montreal, but I... You know, the classes are online. You know, now Zoom, it's perfect for that. So it was very intense. So we all saw all the ways to interpret dreams, symbols, all that. So now I really use that when I receive people for consultations. It's really my basic tool.
Starting point is 00:05:13 We'll talk about dreams, or not. Sometimes it doesn't bring it, and sometimes I approach and the person says, yes, my dreams are changing because my path is changing. And now we see the person's evolution, which is really fantastic, thanks to all the observation we can make of us, day and night. What is it? You say you do consultations, what kind of consultations are they? It can be specialized education. I will help people through more difficult periods, like, let's say, a mourning, change of job,
Starting point is 00:05:52 or, let's say, if the person is very anxious, I will give them tools, all that. So, that's what I do now, I do private consultation in specialized education. Mm-hmm. Yeah, that's it. But there are. But some come just for dreams too. So I analyze the person's dreams. We have a fork, so she can also learn to analyze her dreams, and then be autonomous in everyday life.
Starting point is 00:06:23 And is it because we see a lot of sites, a lot of books, a lot of... I have the impression that it's all different things, so... Is there something scientific about it? Where do we take that? How do we know which ones are the right things? Yes, that's it. In fact, a lot of studies have been done, we're talking about Freud, Young, Yes, that's right. Well, you know, in fact, there are a lot of studies that have been done.
Starting point is 00:06:45 Let's talk about Freud, Young, that they really have, it's the fathers of psychoanalysis, psychology, who really went to study dreams in people's lives, and there was a good foundation there with them, well, the symbolism, what does it mean, all that. Especially with Young, he was more at the level of symbolism. Freud, he was more, everything is unconscious. But you know, at that time, what happened is that sexuality was very repressed, we didn't talk about it, you know, no sex
Starting point is 00:07:18 before marriage, all that. So people, especially who were having a dream,, they were talking about sexuality, that's for sure. Freud's studies are all based on that. If someone was eating a banana, it means that it's a penis. Now, it doesn't mean that. Because now, we're talking about sexuality, it's more open. So the sexual dream doesn't necessarily mean that it has to do with sexuality. There's a reversed side to it. But all the studies that are done with neuroscientists, with psychologists,
Starting point is 00:07:59 all of that is now done with the IASD. So basically, it's the International Research Association on Dreams. So everyone who studies dreams on Earth are together and share their research. And it also comes from that. Everything I study, yeah. Okay. It's really... there's a lot of progress, it's fun.
Starting point is 00:08:24 At the level of neuroscience, that's it. I can't wait to see the simplifications now. Yes, really. Do you want to tell us about your dreams, Jo? Yes. Well, let's say Louis is a friend. First, I want to know, someone who really remembers his dreams, intense. I can describe all of them. I wake up and I'm driving to Montchamp, and I don't understand how you remember all of that.
Starting point is 00:08:52 I have a lot of details. When I have disturbing dreams, one of my dreams, I'll explain it to you. I was in a party at our place. We welcomed friends. We were partying. And then, I was drinking, everyone was drinking, all that. It was the evening, and then I get in the room, down in the ground. And then I go in, and it gets dark,
Starting point is 00:09:20 and then I see a head sleeping, with a quiver. I thought it was Louis. So I go to him, I lie down, and I start sticking him to the pillow, on a pillow and all that. And then I start wanting to make love, I start making love with him,
Starting point is 00:09:36 and then I realize it's not him, but it's his brother. Okay. And then I tell myself, in my heart I tell myself, fuck, it's not Louis, like, but then, like, I'm already making love and I was really excited. So I said, I'm going to continue, but I was worried, that's it, I was in a dream, there, okay?
Starting point is 00:09:55 Well, yeah. And then, well, during that time, I had, there were his two friends on the other side of the door, Louis, he arrived, he il voulait cogner, il a dit, « Ma blonde, es-tu là? » Puis là, les deux amis à Guillaume, son frère, il a dit, « Ah non, elle n'est pas là. » Je dis, « Ben, vous êtes sûr, oui, mais pourquoi vous êtes là? Pourquoi vous attendez? » Puis là, finalement, Louis rentre, puis là, il nous surprend. Puis là, genre, mon rêve s'est atteint, que je suis sûre que notre relation dans notre rêve s'est atteint aussi.
Starting point is 00:10:23 Fait que ça, après ça, j'ai rêvé, avant ça, j'ai rêvé au père à Louis, que j'avais It's a bit like our relationship in another way. So after that, I dreamed... Before that, I dreamed of Louis' father, that I had sexual relations with Louis' father. But that was before I started singing with Louis. That would be weird. So you see that I have something with the proverbs. You really like the family. I like...
Starting point is 00:10:42 I really like the family, I would say. And then, after that, the other day day, I dreamed that I was in love with her friend, Alou. I was like, what's going on? And it's really fun sexual relationships. I feel good, that's what's weird. What does that mean? First of all, are you a person who feels comfortable with men? Yes. So probably your masculine side is developed.
Starting point is 00:11:15 And that's what it means... I'll start from the basics. Young saw in his dreams, when he studied this, all the archetypes that we can have, that we can integrate into us. So let's say the mother, the father, the hero, all these great characters. And there is also An anima and the animus. The animus, which has to do with the masculine side of the woman, and anima, which has to do with the feminine side of the man. So it's probably that you, your animus side, is developed. And that means that in your dreams, all the masculine people you have, you're in fusion with them.
Starting point is 00:12:04 So a part of these people, I don't know, if, let's say, your husband's father, I don't know, there's a quality that you find interesting, well, you're going to integrate it into you, you're going to merge with that quality. So it's quite simply...
Starting point is 00:12:22 In a fusion with my... Yes, that's it, it's a fusion. Oh, yes. So you're depriving yourself of a part of yourself, So it's quite simply... In love with love. Yes, that's it, it's a fusion. So you're depriving yourself of a part of yourself. That's really what it does. So the whole sexual side, yes, it's interesting. And it gets kind of disturbing because after that, we see the person, we go,
Starting point is 00:12:39 if they knew what I dreamed of, you know? They wouldn't find me funny. But that's really what it means. You have a developed masculine side, and you'll merge with those masculine parts. You know, the masculine part, we'll talk about rationality, taking less emotional decisions,
Starting point is 00:13:03 you know, being organized, all that. So it can be part of you that you're developing or that are very developed in your home. So that's it. Or that I want to develop. You know, the father-in-law is my boss. He's my boss. So I really had...
Starting point is 00:13:23 Often when I dream of someone, I see them in the same day. That's true. The context will really play on our dreams. That's it. I've been wondering, I've been keeping this for a long time, I said it, but I'm like... What does it mean?
Starting point is 00:13:42 I appreciate these people, but it's not the point to do that. Not the point to do that, that's it. But it's to see the qualities of these people. Or, also, the flaws that maybe you have, and that you haven't noticed yet. And that it's showing you, well, look at that side, you're there. So we're just going to try to tame it. Of course. And you know, dreams, you have to understand that they're metaphors. You know, it's like, let's say I say, I have the heart on my hand.
Starting point is 00:14:14 You know, it's a metaphor to say, well, I'm generous, all that. But dreams are the same thing. You know, we're going to take the dream, it's a beautiful story, a beautiful scenario to talk about things that... How will our brain be able to make us understand things? So it's going to be very impactful, what it's going to show us. It's going to show us scenes that are going to shock us,
Starting point is 00:14:38 so that we can remember our dream, so that we can work on it. Yeah. You know, you dream that you make love with someone in your family. Yes. And you wake up and you're like, Arke, Arke, Arke, Arke! Yes, it's normal. It's normal, but it comes back to that too.
Starting point is 00:14:53 It comes back to that. Yes, it's a part of those people that we're fusing with. It's like, let's say, I don't know, you dream of, I don't know, sleeping with your cousin, well, maybe your cousin, you appreciate him a lot in your life every day, and you'd like to have those qualities, you know? So there, there's going to be a fusion that's going to happen. So it's really a compliment.
Starting point is 00:15:19 Well, yes. If you dream, so the people I dream dreamed of, like Guillaume and GF, it means that you merged with me. Exactly! We merged. We merged dreams. What are your most disturbing dreams? For real, I would have liked that, you know, as long as...
Starting point is 00:15:41 I should have prepared myself in advance, you know. It doesn't remind you of a dream you had when you were young, and it traumatized you or whatever. There's one that... What is it? I had a recurring dream, but it's long. Go. It's flat.
Starting point is 00:15:58 Recurrent dreams, that's the meaning. Yes, when we dream of something recurring, it's to make us understand something. That's why he comes back, he comes back. And then, you know, it all depends on the context. You know, like me, one of the recurring dreams I had in my life was to be pursued. Pursued, pursued by men. And then I ran, I tried to hide in the forest, and then he passed by, and I went out.
Starting point is 00:16:23 But then, ah, surprise, he was there. I hid I would go out, but then, surprise, he was there. I would hide elsewhere. So, you know, my nights looked like that, but in my day, what did I want to escape? Men. Well, not necessarily men, but yes, indeed. I know, I'm throwing a ball right now. Yes, but indeed, it can be that. It can have a side that I have difficulty with men, and that I don't feel comfortable with them, so I might save myself from them.
Starting point is 00:16:50 I was betrayed by men and I'm scared. What was it like for you? It was anxiety. That's what it meant. I was anxious and I was trying to save myself from that anxiety. I didn't know how to do it. I was always in the lead. In my daily life, I was often in the lead. So, I went to the store, I did all the outdoor pleasures so I wouldn't feel what was going on inside, to not experience anxiety.
Starting point is 00:17:26 So that's it. But the day I understood that, and that I started working on anxiety and finding ways to do it, my dreams started to change. Until the day I dreamed that I was going to be a prostitute. And then I said, no, I'm going to run. And I turned around and I said, what do you want?
Starting point is 00:17:49 And the man said, I just wanted to film you. So there's a camera and I'm like, oh my God, stop telling me before. It doesn't matter. It's been so long since you've run after me. But in the end, my dream has changed. So when I look at myself in the day-to-day life, it has changed too. I'm not as anxious anymore.
Starting point is 00:18:14 I'm able to control myself, to control my emotions, to manage them. How do you do it? It's another story. But a lot of self-observation, a lot of understanding the needs. Understanding our needs, that's the basis. That's what I teach with my clientele. Understanding your needs is so important. Knowing how to name them. Because often we tend to wait for others to respond to our needs. Let's say we're in a relationship and we say,
Starting point is 00:18:46 yes, but it's obvious that I wanted this. No, it's not obvious. It's really not obvious. You know, we have to name it. We're not mediums. So that's it. What's most recurring, I would say, is what's important to me right now. It's not related to sexuality, but it's because I stopped drinking four years ago today. Yeah, well done!
Starting point is 00:19:09 Thank you, thank you. One shot, one shot. And I dream all the time that I'm relapsing, so I start drinking again. And when I'm drunk, I'm lying on my back trying to get up, and I'm not able to do it. And let's say I manage to get up, I fall. I fall on my back and I try, and it's like I'm drunk, drunk, drunk, to the point where I can't be able to get up. That's it. And I always dream that I try to get up and I'm not able to do it, and that my body doesn't let me get up. And have you ever been drunk you to be this deaf?
Starting point is 00:19:46 Yes. Yes, okay. Is it something that scared you and made you stop drinking? Among other things. Yes, okay, among other things. But in your dream, how do you feel? The final feeling, not the one when you wake up, but the one just before you wake up?
Starting point is 00:20:08 I would say that it's probably the fear of not being able to get up. To be caught in my body, lying on my back, and to be like, let's see why I'm not able to get up. The fear of being taken in my body. Okay. Well, it's possible that at that moment, in your sleep, you're in a paradoxical sleep. Okay, and often we'll have sleep paralysis.
Starting point is 00:20:37 It can make that image in your dreams. But there's still something interesting, it's fear. So to check in your everyday life what you're afraid of. What you're afraid of not being able to lift yourself up. Okay. Yeah. To be a mirror.
Starting point is 00:20:53 Our dreams are to question ourselves. Okay, what is it in my life? It's to make associations. What do I find difficult at the moment? Do I find it difficult to get up for such a thing. Does it make me insecure? And I'm afraid of falling, not being able to get up from that. So that's it.
Starting point is 00:21:18 It's crazy because since earlier, I had the tendency to make it shorter in the woods because she doesn't want to be caught by the men. She falls, but she's not fun. She's really afraid to start drinking again. Yes, that's it. It can be that too. Are you afraid to start drinking again? No, not really. So that's something else. So that would be the fear of... It's up to you to see.
Starting point is 00:21:48 What scares you this time? You don't have to answer. It could be an internal answer, but often when we look at our daily life, it can be just... I'm tired this time, and I have trouble getting up to feed my baby at night.
Starting point is 00:22:06 It can be just that. I prefer to lick my nails. Yes, exactly! Did you hear what my husband said? I woke up in the middle of the night, because the baby was crying. And instead of going back to feed him, I went out to feed my uncle. I started to feed my uncles during the night. Were you sleepy? It was a sleepy moment.
Starting point is 00:22:30 I couldn't do anything. He just told me that in the morning. You got up and started to feed your uncles. Instead of feeding my child. It was really important. What you don't take... Joannie, let's see your uncles. Do I remember that? No, but it's a moment I remember. I had a nail that had to get caught in the cushion. Maybe.
Starting point is 00:22:50 Wow. He was clearly teasing me, that nail. I can't believe it. I love it. Anyway, we have dreams of other people today. Yes, it's really incredible. We have a scandal. Thanks for analyzing ours.
Starting point is 00:23:02 Well, yes, clearly. Listen, I'm going to read the first one because it's small, and then... Well, and there, it's the first one, it's a bit like me, basically. I dream that I sleep with a lot of people except my boyfriend. Deceiving is a theme that often comes back in my dreams. As much as I'm being deceived as being deceived by a partner, yet it's not something that tempts me or that I've already lived in the past, to what I know in a nutshell.
Starting point is 00:23:25 Does my subconscious try to tell me something? By making you cheat and then cheating on you. You know, I've never cheated in my dreams and in life. Ah, yes. But in dreams... In dreams, yes. In dreams. Ah, yes!
Starting point is 00:23:38 But it's not cheating. No, no, but in life... In life, in your life, to awaken. Yeah, that's it. But in dreams, yes, it's cheating, in the end, what I did. No, no, not at all. It's not wrong. In my dream? Yes, I was aware that I was wrong.
Starting point is 00:23:50 Yes, okay, and that, there was that part there, but you know, you wake up, but you're not wrong. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Because there, you know, first things first. But you're capable, because when you wake up, for real, I really think, I'm like, oh my God. Oh no, that's it, it's disturbing, we're like, hey, I'm my son, I'm your wife. Hey, you feel bad. Yeah, yeah. But I was saying, it was like, it's beautiful, oh my god. It's disturbing. Hey, little 100 bucks. But I said, it's beautiful, thank you, have a good day.
Starting point is 00:24:09 And the best thing is to talk about it with your husband or partner. It's sure that if we keep it for ourselves, and in the morning, that's what it used to be, let's say I was dreaming that my husband was cheating on me, I was still reading after, I was like, pff, c'est que t'as là, rien. Là, qu'est-ce qu'il y a? Bien, tu m'as trompée toute la nuit, tu sais. Ha ha ha!
Starting point is 00:24:31 Mais tu sais, ça, c'est mes peurs à moi. Tu sais, je suis insécure, là. Je suis comme, OK, tu sais, c'est que j'ai peut-être un gros manque de confiance en moi, là, pour rêver que mon chum me trompe. Tu es stressée? Oui, oui. C'est souvent ça. C'est's often, okay, I'm insecure.
Starting point is 00:24:47 But that doesn't mean that I'm insecure necessarily that my husband is cheating on me. It's maybe that at work I feel insecure with my boss. When he comes to talk to me, I never know what to say. I'm always stressed, he stresses me out. But at night, it will be revealed that my husband is cheating my bedroom is wrong, and I'm scared, you know? So the image will be that. So when you're wrong and you're wrong, what would it be on the side, since you're kind of doing both?
Starting point is 00:25:11 Well, wait a minute. When you're wrong, what's wrong? Because she said she was wrong and that she was wrong in her dreams. Both. Yes, that's it. Well, if she's wrong, it's that there might be a lack of trust in a sphere of her life.
Starting point is 00:25:25 And if she's wrong, we can go and see if there's something I could change in my relationship. You know, that could bring me more spice. I might have gotten there in my relationship. Sometimes when it's over, when you're with someone, the routine is there. So our dreams, they're going will be there to free things. So that's really a dream of liberation. We dream that we're shaking because in everyday life, we make love in the same way all the time.
Starting point is 00:25:57 We'll do the commissions, we'll come home, etc. But in my nights, dreams will translate. I let myself go, I leave my daily life, I have the desire to explore other things. So the trompe-prix will be there to help us free that daily life, which is sometimes hard. Routine. Yeah, routine. You're telling me that it's because I was fusing with someone.
Starting point is 00:26:29 Yes, that too. But now, is it because I'm in the routine or I'm fusing? Well, it's up to you. I don't think so. I wasn't routine. No, that's it. I fused. You fused.
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Starting point is 00:28:05 You know, he's full. I'm like, but you take me for a bitch? I end up screaming after, and you spit on me. And I'm like, my heart, you're disgusting. I find it disgusting. And he's like, baby, I love you. I'm like, argh. I remember my hearts.
Starting point is 00:28:23 I can't believe I I let you touch me. And then in the morning you're like, in a bad mood. Oh yeah, yeah, I'm in a bad mood. It's just insecurity. It's insecurity. When I'm insecure, I'm scared. I'm scared. We all live that.
Starting point is 00:28:42 I dream that he's cheating on me while I'm lying on my back. I'm a little bit nervous. Yes, that's it. Imagine you're making both dreams come true. Ok, perfect. But like she said, it's periods in your life. I've already had dreams. One day I was in a... I was caught in a black circle.
Starting point is 00:29:00 And it came back regularly. It was like I was locked in something. And it was coming back, it was coming back, it was coming back. So that's it, I don going to die. I was like, I'm going to die. I was like, I'm going to die. I was like, I'm going to die. I was like, I'm going to die. I was like, I'm going to die. I was like, I'm going to die. I was like, I'm going to die.
Starting point is 00:29:16 I was like, I'm going to die. I was like, I'm going to die. I was like, I'm going to die. I was like, I'm going to die. I was like, I'm going to die. I was like, I'm going to commit suicide, but it can be, ah, I don't feel good. You know, I was already... Ah, I was in my neck, that's true. It was at that moment. And I was really down.
Starting point is 00:29:30 You know, well, that's if there was... I was caught, I was caught. That's it, you were caught. I was caught, I couldn't drink, I couldn't do anything, I couldn't... Ah yes, that was clearly that moment. Yes, I was caught. Yes. And now I'm going to get out of my little black bowl.
Starting point is 00:29:41 Well yes. Oh, it's a dream. But I don't do it anymore, you know, it's a dream. It's a part of my life. Yes. But I don't do it anymore. It's a part of my life. You see, it was a dream that was scary. We were caught in a black hole. It's scary. A black hole.
Starting point is 00:29:56 It's nothing. It's nothing. There was no issue with that person. It looked like. I managed to get out. Yes, bravo., second. Thank you. It's in my ears, I like that more. By the way, you know, dreams, you know, there are recurring dreams for everyone, in the sense that, well, cheating on your partner, being cheated on, sleeping with your boss, with your friend, with a colleague,
Starting point is 00:30:21 all that, these are dreams that everyone makes. These are dreams that stand out the most. At the sexuality level. Yes, or touched with the same sex as us. On one of the guys, like, super, you know, who have pride in their heterosexuality. They're like, I'm straight. And they dream of making a fallacy to a boy. They wake up, they're all tangled.
Starting point is 00:30:48 What would that be? Would that be you? Because I put you on a repressed side? Well, yes, absolutely. It could be that. It could be a man. They're like, no, no, I'm not gay! What do you answer? Well, of course, yes, I believe you. You're not gay. But you still have a feminine part in you.
Starting point is 00:31:10 That's it. We're looking for all the balance between our masculine and feminine part. So if I'm a lot like dead and I have no emotion, well, the night will translate into romantic dreams, and it can go as far as that. So it might be that it should be more... Not necessarily that he is homosexual, but that he can... Make contact with his feminine side.
Starting point is 00:31:37 Exactly. Say more emotions. Yes, it will be more creative, more... Take on the outside. Yes, it's going to be more creative, more... Taking on the gold. Yes, exactly. Feminine qualities. Exactly, it's beautiful, the gold.
Starting point is 00:31:52 Are there dreams that are, let's say, sexually problematic, that you say, hey, that's recurrent, it probably means that there is something, but I'll give you the worst example. A dream that you have with a child, and regularly. But I wonder if there are people who do that and that they will consult? Probably. What's going on? It's probably in consultation, I haven't had one. But indeed, let's say there's something that questions us,
Starting point is 00:32:27 and in our dreams, we're like, yeah, I don't think it's normal. Well, going to a medical or psychological consultation can help. Okay. Yes. Because you see something, can you really be in relation to that, OK. Oui. Parce que tu vois-tu quelque chose de... ça peut-tu être vraiment pas rapport à ça, que justement, il aime les enfants, il a du fun avec les enfants, etc., par rapport, ou toi tu te dis, ah non... Bien, moi j'ai eu un cas, mais tu sais, c'était très beau le rêve là, en fait, mais tu sais...
Starting point is 00:33:00 En tout cas, je vais le raconter, en fait c'est une mère qui est en train d'allaiter un bébé, In any case, I will tell you. In fact, it's a mother who is breastfeeding a baby. And then she realizes that the baby is her baby. So she's breastfeeding. And then all of a sudden, she feels the sensations. There, she's excited. So there, she has an orgasm. There, she wakes up and she's very troubled by that. So, my God, you know, a baby gave me an orgasm.
Starting point is 00:33:26 But analyzing it with her, we realized that it was the feminine side and the maternal side that once again fused. So, this mother who was before, oh, I'm a mother, and she always left the woman in her side. it's something that can be fun and all that. Well, now she had a balance between the two. So I am a mother, but I am also a woman, I have needs, and I can have fun. And not always being mother, mother, mother. So that's it. There was also, well, the baby was her. So there, she's feeding a part of her that is her child side.
Starting point is 00:34:13 And then you say that she can have fun being a mom too. Yes, exactly, that's it. We really saw that. And she said, hey, that's true, you know, before I didn't give myself the right. But it's true that it's annoying if you get up and you're like... But it's true that it's disturbing if you get up and you're like... But it's true that it's disturbing if you get up and you're like... That's a case I've had.
Starting point is 00:34:29 But if your dreams are hard dreams, you know, of violence, and it really hurts you, go to the psychologist, go to the doctor, at that level. Because it's sure that I can know, I can look at it, but I, as a specialized educator, I can't do psychotherapy, you know, I can't go into childhood and, you know, go and search in the... You can maybe give a little clue,
Starting point is 00:34:56 say, hey, I would go and consult, you know, you would do a lot there. Yes, I would do a lot, effectively. Second dream, Lisanne? One night, I dreamed refer to it. Okay. Indeed. Second dream, Lisanne? One night, I dreamed that one of my colleagues had made me come to his office. When I opened the door, not seeing anyone, I moved forward a little to finally realize that he was behind me. When I closed the door, he approached me, took my face between his hands, looked straight into my eyes,
Starting point is 00:35:22 and told me, unable to stay any longer, et il m'a dit, incapable de rester plus longtemps sans te dire que je suis obsédée par soi. J'attendrais le temps que ça prendra, mais je te veux et je t'aurai. Et là, il m'a fait l'amour comme je me suis jamais fait faire l'amour. Il connaissait les moindres gestes à faire, où aller et quand le faire. La baisse qu'on rêve toutes. Et moi, je lui ai fait une de ses pipes. Ça m'excitait tellement de le sucer, c'était incroyable. Mais là, le bug, c'est que je suis pas en And I made him one of those pipes. It was so exciting to suck on it, it was incredible. But the bug is that I'm not on very good terms with this colleague. And now when I meet him, he only thinks about that. And I love that more. It's also the only erotic dream I've ever shared with my boyfriend.
Starting point is 00:35:56 Yet he has no problem with that, it excites him. But it was so hot that sometimes I feel like it was true. Or at least I would like it. Wow, huh? What a dream, huh? Well, what comes out of that is that she has a cold with her colleague. You know, she doesn't get along very well with him. So that tells me that this dream is giving you warmth to this cold relationship.
Starting point is 00:36:29 So, let's say she goes back to work, instead of thinking about my colleague, who is like the cursed night-manor, I will rather think about my dream. I will say, it will change the perspective, it changes the perception of your colleague. You know, you think less negatively of him. So there was this side that I found interesting. So as if my colleague, in the day, I'm not able to feel him,
Starting point is 00:37:00 but at night I will fill something that I can't access to him. So with sexuality, I'm going to give a warm side to this relationship. So that's how I saw it. It makes your days easier. Well, yes, it can be that. And if it gives him excitement to think about it, so much the better because it can give her a kick in her life. She doesn't dare to talk about it in her charm, so if she takes that dream to excite a part in her relationship, it's wonderful.
Starting point is 00:37:42 We have the right to do that. Maybe there's a part of her that's a little disappointed and sad to be a little bad with us. She said she was a bad person, but maybe in reality she would like it to be in a good way too. Exactly. I think there's that side. And we'll call it communication dreams. So with people with who we have fears or I don't know, it's been a long time since we've seen them. We can see them in dreams and communicate things that we can't in everyday life. So it can be like a reconciliation on his side,
Starting point is 00:38:17 maybe she's reconciling with that person, so in her dreams she's going to communicate that maybe she was ready to move on to something else with him. That's smart. Do you have dreams? I often have dreams that I have orgasms and I wake up having an orgasm. Is that frequent? Yes, it's frequent. And it's fun, it's good. It's different to have a sexual relationship. It's really a moment, you know, with us.
Starting point is 00:38:58 Me with myself, it's like... And me when it happens to me, it depends, it happened to me already it depends, it had already happened to me, I was in a relationship where not much was happening. It was platonic, not bad. And at night, I went, I had dreams where I had a lot of orgasm, and it was really to compensate. So there are also our hormones.
Starting point is 00:39:26 It depends on what period we're in. So, if I want to, if I'm on the verge of breaking rules, I'll have a greater sensitivity. And you also need to know that while we're sleeping, the paradoxical sleep phase is a phase where our energy centers, in fact, our organs, all of that, are being regenerated. So, our energy centers, let's say the center, we're going to talk about chakra, let's say, here, okay. The sacred chakra, which is at the level of the uterus. OK. Le chakra sacré, qui est au niveau de l'utérus.
Starting point is 00:40:05 Donc là, il y a un afflux sanguin qui arrive à ce niveau-là. Donc mettons, on est en train de rêver. Puis là, tout d'un coup, mon utérus et mes organes génitaux sont en train de se gorger de sang, parce qu'il est en train de se régénérer. Bien là, mon rêve, il peut se transformer totalement. Genre que je suis en train de rêver à Jean-Paul, is regenerating, then my dream can transform completely. Like, I'm dreaming of Jean-Paul and all of a sudden it becomes... It becomes an erotic dream because it happens inside of me.
Starting point is 00:40:35 So it happens every night when we are in our paradoxical sleep phase. That's crazy. That's it, sometimes we say, yes, but why? So, there's this part that's there too, that explains it. That's where I say, that's where I go like, it's crazy because
Starting point is 00:40:56 people say, it's really, to have an orgasm, it's external stimulation. And it makes me laugh because I'm like, hey, hey, no. With your counter-actions, we are able to, so why would we be able to, you know, it's impossible. Otherwise, we couldn't have orgasms in our dreams because I would have to wake up. And there are women too who have never had orgasms in their lives and they say,
Starting point is 00:41:20 I'm not able to have orgasms, and they have it in their dreams, so that also proves that it's often linked to a blockage or something. So go get further because clearly it proves that you're capable. It's fake. Yes, really. And then dreams multiply our sensations. So let's say I'm dreaming that I'm touching velvet, my senses are going to be multiplied, and it can give me an orgasm.
Starting point is 00:41:51 It can be as banal as that, because the sensation it gives me is so much well-being. And dreams, we call them dextroseasy, where we have orgasms. But it's not just at the genital level that we can have orgasms, it's also at the heart level. So in our dreams, sometimes we can live moments of unconditional love, but that's orgasms and the heart. Yes. It's beautiful. It's beautiful. orgasms et du coeur. Oui. C'est beau. C'est beau ça.
Starting point is 00:42:26 C'est beau. Je me suis... OK. Je suis mariée. J'arrive souvent que je suis dans un couple avec mon ex, mais ça me tente zéro. Je panique dans mon rêve parce que je ressens que je suis avec la mauvaise personne et que je veux retourner avec mon mari. Mais je n'arrive jamais à me rappeler qu'il est là.
Starting point is 00:42:42 Qui il est? Qui il est? Oui, c'est ça. Bon. Les rêves d'ex. I want to remember that he is there. Who is there? Yes, that's it. The dreams of exes. What I see in there is a lot of things that are not regulated in us compared to our previous relationships. So if I had a difficult relationship and my ex comes back all the time in my dreams, it's because I have to understand something to go and heal a wound.
Starting point is 00:43:07 It's really a message that's given there. And then her husband, she doesn't see him in her dream, she doesn't know who he is. So, sometimes in her relationship, she can live moments that make her think about her old relationship, that sometimes her chum is not there when she needs him in certain situations, like in her old relationship. So, it's a message to say, maybe I need to communicate with my partner to share these fears, so that they are more secure. It can be that, so that they are more secure. It can be that, so that they are more present.
Starting point is 00:43:48 Very interesting. Yes, really. What do you suggest to remember your dreams? Do you suggest in the evening before going to bed, to put a little pen and a pencil next to your bed, then wake up, write, then go back to bed? What is the best way to remember your dreams? Yes, well, it's sure there is, well, the dream diary.
Starting point is 00:44:09 You have that, you? Yes, yes, I have a dream diary there. And then, as soon as I remember a dream, you know, it's good, as you say, to have a pen, but just write key words, you know, because writing the dream in full when we just woke up, we're like, oh my God, I think it's a burden. I'm like, oh, not right away. So I take a more appropriate moment to write my dreams.
Starting point is 00:44:35 But that's it, to have a little pen and write key words. Like, let's say I dreamed of a gray cheese, oh yeah, I wrote it on my pen. Well, I'm going to wake up later in the morning, and then I'm going to remember, oh yeah, it's true, I dreamed I was eating a Grit Cheese. I never dreamed of that. Do you write the date?
Starting point is 00:44:56 Yes, in my dream diary, it's going to be much more elaborate. And there, there's going to be a technique that makes it a lot easier to... You haven't written the grids in your dream diary yet? No, that's my key word. I go to my dream diary and I write my date, I write the day, let's say it's Monday. Oh yes, it's true, it's Monday, I always eat grids. That's why I'm dreaming about that.
Starting point is 00:45:21 So writing the day will also allow us to identify certain types of dreams. My Sunday dreams are not the same as my Friday dreams. If, let's say, Monday morning, I go to work and it stresses me, then my night can be tainted with stress, at my dreams. Do you remember your dreams every night? No. No, okay. No, but we all dream.
Starting point is 00:45:50 It's just that we don't remember them. But no, sometimes my brain gives me breaks. Because there, you know, I have things to do in the day. And there, it seems like there's a balance that's being made. Because when we're generous with our dreams, when we write them down, our dreams give us some. Because who knows that we have that open door in us. So let's say, every day I write my dreams,
Starting point is 00:46:19 the more I write them, the more I'll have the memory of the dreams that will develop, the clearer my symbols will be, the more my symbols will be clear, the more it will be detailed. Like you, you make detailed dreams, so probably in your life every day, you're a great observer. I like to understand that. It looks like every thing I live,
Starting point is 00:46:40 there's something, there's a link, so I try to understand the links. Exactly, being aware of the signs of life and all that. In our dreams, it's for sure that they will be generous. So our dreams are part of our subconscious, our unconscious. So they are our allies, they work with us, our subconscious, our unconscious. If we take the trouble to understand what they want to tell us, they will give us messages.
Starting point is 00:47:07 And does someone who says, I dream, yes, but he never remembered, he never remembers his experiences, it's too troubling. What does that often have to do with it? Well, it could be like, I closed myself because I was scared at one point, I had a nightmare and I didn't want to dream anymore. I didn't want to remember it. So my brain protected itself like that. Yes, it protects itself like that.
Starting point is 00:47:34 Or in the morning, I immediately think about my day that is coming. So it's a habit. That's it. Yes, that's it. As soon as I wake up, I'm immediately in my daily life, and I'm immediately thinking about what's coming, what's coming. And those who remember their dream, well, it's that they're going to have a moment, well, a good technique, it's instead of thinking right away about what's coming in the day, to think about our night, how my night was.
Starting point is 00:48:05 I used to wake up often, I was hot, I was thirsty at one point. Oh yes, I remember, at one point I dreamed. Oh yes, what was it? What were the sensations I had in that dream? Oh, the images come back, and then the memory comes back. It takes time. Sometimes it's only five minutes.
Starting point is 00:48:25 But that's it. It takes time. And is there anyone who is aware, because I often have the impression that I am aware that I am in a dream at some point in my life. So it seems like I know it. And then I'm like, okay, now it's time to wake up. Ah, that's funny. It's like I was a little, I don't know, a pro of my dreams. Like, I know that. At first, no. At first, I don't know, a proof of my dreams. At first, no. At first, I don't know. Then, after a year, I remember that I'm in a dream. I was trying to live that.
Starting point is 00:48:51 Sometimes, there are disturbing things. Sometimes, the scary things I live. Recently, I lived a murder case that I hid. It didn't bother me anymore. A year later, I realized it. I was like, how did it end? It's a beautiful time, I wake myself. And it didn't bother me anymore. One day I realized it and I was like, no, it's over. It's beautiful. I wake up. I wake up. It's hot.
Starting point is 00:49:12 It's lucid dreams. So in our dreams, we realize that we are dreaming. We have the full power to do what we want to do. It's the fun. It's fun because that means that in your daily life, you have control over your life, your emotions, your choices,
Starting point is 00:49:34 the decisions you want to make. So you have control of that. And switching, you know, like that, it makes me laugh because you have a dream of death, all that. It's an action death, you know, that's still the masculine side. My son dreams that he's a warrior, he's in the forest. I don't have dreams of myself. He really has dreams of action, you know. So you're in action dreams. Sometimes your masculine side is developed, Joannie.
Starting point is 00:50:07 I knew it. Thank you. It's good. No, no, I meant, thank you for making that clear. Yes, yes. I have a nice feminine side that has developed. With my little lady. With Lizane, who is much more...
Starting point is 00:50:26 Before, it was more like... Before, it was more like... I have three brothers, my dad, so I was very masculine. And now I discover my more feminine side. Like Lizzie, we like that. Like your dream has been done. You're crazy. I want to switch.
Starting point is 00:50:39 I want to be all in the feminine. It's okay. It's balance. We are always looking for balance. Number 5. I really often dream that I want to masturbate, but I can't because there are always people around. I try to go to a room alone, but there's always someone
Starting point is 00:50:57 who comes and asks me a question. And I don't think it's to fill an appetite, because I often masturbate during the day or in recent days, when I had a sexual relationship with my partner. Chris, I recently had a dream. Yes, yes, yes, what does it tell me? That I want to touch myself, but when we go, there's always a bomb. Yes, yes, yes, I dreamed about it last week.
Starting point is 00:51:20 That's funny. Well, you know, I mean, in... What it tells me, if it was my dream, I would say, Oh my God, in my everyday life, do I have moments for myself where I'm always busy taking care of others? No, you, today, you're going to be very cynical. If we don't have a minute for each other... If I don't have a minute for myself, If I don't have a minute for myself, I go to a room and there's someone.
Starting point is 00:51:46 Hello, Lisanne. Oh, sorry, you're trying to masturbate, but it's not the time. It's always that. It wasn't the time for you. So take your time. It's a good podcast. We're going to make a bigger one. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:52:06 Well, yes, that's it. You know, that person, to check, to take moments for her, you know, it's important. But it's sure that when we're in the daily life, it's not always easy. It's easier to say that everyone is there. I take moments for you.
Starting point is 00:52:21 But when? How? Exactly. You put it in the agenda. That's the best. Yes, really. That's the best thing too. I give my friends... Say, I'm coming soon.
Starting point is 00:52:31 It will be fun. Exactly. It will be fun. I tell them, look, I'm not here. I don't exist. Where are you? Where am I? I wouldn't be here.
Starting point is 00:52:40 It's true? When did you do that? Last week. Every week, I have a day. It's true? When did you do that? Last week. Every week, I have a day. That's incredible. I need it. I can't eat without it. It gives me energy. I know that, let's say Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, I'm loaded, loaded,
Starting point is 00:53:00 but I know that Thursday is coming, and I do what I want when I is coming, and then I do what I want on Thursday, with whoever I want, so I'm happy. And it keeps me motivated. It's motivating in advance, the day. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, I really have to say it, because otherwise... And then in there, that's where I'm going to put my gym too.
Starting point is 00:53:20 Often, my second day of gym, because I go twice a week, so in there, I'm going to put my gym too. And then I'm going to go gym. My second day of gym is twice a week. So I bring my gym with me. And I go to the gym at home. I have lots of kids. Yes, that's it. You have to plan those moments. Plan is the key.
Starting point is 00:53:35 You have to name it. Because if you say, oh, I should do this, it doesn't happen. No, it's not that bad. You can't do it with kids. Exactly. We couldn't do it otherwise. exactly. We don't know how we would do otherwise.
Starting point is 00:53:46 We skipped number 4, so we'll go to number 4. I often dream, at least once a week, that I have sexual relationships with women. I have been in a relationship for 4 years with my boyfriend. No dissatisfaction or no problem at this or other level of our relationship. I don't consider myself bisexual, but more bi-curious. In my dreams, I am always the one who penetrates the other with toys. I play in my dreams and when I wake up, I really feel like I've played. The sensation is insane.
Starting point is 00:54:13 Couchon! Yes, really. And you know, the impression, well, it's not just an impression. It happened for real, she played and that's it. And in that dream, well, it's a dream of exploration. So we explore dreams, it's a playground too. We can decide, OK, tonight I dream that I'll do it with three people, and I'll see what it does.
Starting point is 00:54:37 So at that moment, there is also an interesting side of it. I learned to see how I would like to make love by making it for other women. So there's the whole aspect that I learn who I am in there, the knowledge of myself. So, okay, I give pleasure to a woman, but I, you know, that woman who represents me, at the end of the end, who has pleasure. So do I receive pleasure like that? It's seeing, doing the transposition, quite simply. Does that mean that she would like to penetrate her husband in the ass? Ah, well, it's a dream of exploration, that's it. It can mean certain things too.
Starting point is 00:55:21 I think that's it. Oh, yes. But that, the dreamer, that's the real meaning. I think I'd be good. Oh yes. There's a little thing I tell myself, I'd like that. Look, there are more friends. Friends. Imagine, I say that. I did the school and the raves, and then everyone listens to me, I'm like, oh yes, it's going
Starting point is 00:55:30 to say, do you have to go into it? They're like, oh yes, huh? Like yes. Yes, you don't have to go into it. I'm like, oh yes, huh? I'm like, oh yes, huh? I'm like, oh yes, huh? I'm like, oh yes, huh?
Starting point is 00:55:38 I'm like, oh yes, huh? I'm like, oh yes, huh? I'm like, oh yes, huh? I'm like, oh yes, huh? I'm like, oh yes, huh? I'm like, oh yes, huh? I'm like, oh yes, huh? I'm like, oh yes, huh? I'm like, oh yes, huh? I, and then everyone listens to me. I'm like, oh yeah, it's going to say, do you need to go to school? And they're like, oh yeah.
Starting point is 00:55:48 Like, yeah. Yes, you have no choice. Even in the morning, you're in the agenda. You wake up the same day, my brother. I put it on time. That's it, it's evening game. We're going to go to number 6. 5. 6. The 5, we have it. Yes, yes, it's true. 6. I often dreamed that I was losing my teeth indefinitely. I tried to search on the Internet for meaning.
Starting point is 00:56:12 According to my research, it would show a sexual lack. Is that really the case? What is that? Losing your teeth, it happens so often, that people talk to me about that. Yes, it's a classic. It also happens to me to talking about it. It's a classic. I also dream about it. It's the loss of something.
Starting point is 00:56:30 Everything related to the mouth, the throat, we're going to talk about communication. What happens at the level of verbal communication? There may be something that needs to be worked on at that level. Am I able to express myself? Am I able to express my needs? Am I, well, facing such a person, losing energy because I'm trying to express myself and she doesn't understand me,
Starting point is 00:57:02 and I'm born, you know? So that's it. There's a loss of energy at the communicative level. Loss of teeth, that's it. It's a loss of energy. So what does it have to do with communication? Did you lose your teeth already? I think I already lost one. But it's not enough recently for me to show that I remember the feeling, but what does it tell me? I've already lost one. It's a enough recently to remind me of that feeling, but what does it tell me? I've already forgotten.
Starting point is 00:57:25 It's a flat feeling. It's more related to communication. Whether it's something you haven't said and you'd like to say or you're not able to say, anything. The last time I dreamed I was losing my teeth, I realized, I was like, oh, it's true, it's been a while since I went to the dentist. When I woke up, I was like, yeah, I think I should be cleaning. Oh yeah, clearly, that's it.
Starting point is 00:57:46 So yeah, that's it, I'm going to watch that. But you know, it can be as trivial as that. But it's because the dream has several facets. It's not one thing or another thing, it's several things. So a dream is like a diamond, there are several sides to the dream. It can talk about the past, it can talk about the future, it can talk about, well, it's about the present, it can talk about my emotions, but at the same time, about my neighbor.
Starting point is 00:58:20 It's like the brain is able to put on stage a lot of images to make us realize a lot of things at the same time. So that's where we see that the brain is really... wow. It's very intelligent. It's amazing because when you dream, let's say when the children are... It's disturbing. I had a dream when I was young. All my life, I thought it was true, until I told my mother about it in a family dinner. My dream was that my mother, when I was young, would pierce my ears.
Starting point is 00:59:00 She would sleep with my aunts. Everyone was at our house, I remember. I was in the kitchen, it was daytime. And he was laughing, and he was like, «Ah, ah!» And we were like, «No, nothing!» And he was holding me, and I didn't want to, and my ears were pierced, they were getting worse. So all my life, I thought it was them who did this to me,
Starting point is 00:59:15 my mom who did this to me. So I was like, a little off. And one day, I told him, I was like, «You all have pierced my ears, go to the kitchen table!» And he was like, «Huh? you're going to break my ears, and then I'm going to the kitchen table, and she's like, what are you talking about? But yes, of course, I'm going to break your ears with Carol, Céline, all that.
Starting point is 00:59:31 I was like, what are you talking about? And I was so upset, I said, yes mom, stop it, come on, let's break it. And we were arguing, I said, well, come on, it's like a rule, that's for sure. That's what's crazy. So you decided on the real way you broke your ears? We went to the jewelry shop, the she said, there's no one else.
Starting point is 00:59:48 And I was sure she was lying. It's crazy how we mix the... Well, that's true. When you're young, it's like... It seems like it stresses me. My daughter, sometimes I hear her at night, and she yells and she screams, but she's like, no, no, no, I don't want her to wake up because I don't want her to live a trauma. Imagine all your life you have a kind of big pity, she says, I don't know what it is, but in the end it was just a dream you had when you were young and you're not happy with it.
Starting point is 01:00:13 Like you had a war. That's it? All your life. Imagine I was in the fridge all my life because of that and finally it's not real. I'm hearing about that soup. It's crazy. No, but that's it. The children's imagination is very, very close to the paradoxical sleep phase. So for them, it's very difficult to make the difference.
Starting point is 01:00:34 Sometimes they wake up and then they're like, Where's my cake? There's no cake. What are you talking about? It was your dream. Okay. There's a cake, you know. So what are you talking about? It was your dream, okay. In fact, it's really explaining to the child, okay, when we sleep, we make dreams,
Starting point is 01:00:51 there are images in your head, all that. And when you wake up, you know, it can't be that, you know. So, just explain, demystify that, from the lowest age. And especially, what I find interesting with children is, tell me your dreams. It's an extraordinary wealth, what they tell us. And they are so happy to tell us their dreams because they have, as you say,
Starting point is 01:01:16 really the impression of having lived it. Isn't it interesting that they tell lies just to make it interesting? I'm sure you'd say, tell me your dreams, she'll tell you a story that has nothing to do with the invention on the spot. Well, I don't know too much. It's not that bad because it will develop your imagination on the creative side. You can accept that she's lying. Are you lying?
Starting point is 01:01:35 Are you lying or... It's a joke. I dreamed I was a princess. You didn't dream you were a princess. You're full of! I didn't dream you were a princess. You're full of shit, Solay. You're really mean, mom. Don't believe it. Go lie down in the corner.
Starting point is 01:01:54 Are you a lying woman? You're a bitch. You're a princess, Solay. I just wanted to tell you, it was just a dream, my beautiful. You're not a princess. Go to bed, please. I'm going to put on your shoes was just a dream, my beautiful, you're not a princess. Go to bed, please. That's it. Imagine.
Starting point is 01:02:07 Go to bed, go to bed, go to bed, we're going to school, bye! Imagine. Exactly. And what else? In a minute, we'll... We have one last and we're going on Patreon. Would you be comfortable with a little 15 minutes for Patreon? Yes.
Starting point is 01:02:19 Is there one in there that you would like to analyze more than you wrote? Yes, that you wrote that you were popular. That you were loved. That's true, it's a good question. Because there is a couple, than you wrote, you were popular. Yes, the lady who liked you. That's true, it's a good question. Because there's a couple. Yes, yes, yes. So there was, at one point, the dream of rape. Oh, yes.
Starting point is 01:02:37 That was an intense dream. So to make it short, I recently dreamed that I was raped by a man of 65-70. I'm 25, it's a recurring dream in my life. So yet, I've never lived a similar experience or trauma of this kind. So, for me, it's a dream. What it tells me, if, let's say, I'm dreaming of that, it's to see how I behave with the male, let's say in an authority position, a position of power, maybe, since there's the age that's like shown in there.
Starting point is 01:03:21 And to really see, you know, am I able to put my limits in life every day? Am I able, do I feel abused in certain situations? Am I able to, you know, do I feel violated in certain spheres of my life, you know? So it's a strong image. Sometimes it's really disturbing, you know, when I have some who come to see me, me. You can see that in everyday life, that's what you work on.
Starting point is 01:03:46 The self-confidence, the self-esteem, the affirmation of yourself. So it's a dream. They probably talk about that. So that person, if they want to... Because it's a recurring dream too. The recurring dream is important. If they often dream about that, it means there's something to understand. And recurring dreams, if you let them go, they will grow.
Starting point is 01:04:08 So if we don't take care of them, it will become more and more intense. So we can cut off our dreams at some point. So, you know, that's it. But if we understand them, well, it changes our daily life, it changes our behavior, because then we understand what it is. So if that person understands that in their everyday life, they have difficulty putting limits, then we're going to work on it.
Starting point is 01:04:31 And then everyone around them will change. They will have better relationships, better work. So it has a lot of impact. It's really crazy. It's not able to say no, in the end, maybe. Well, that's it. It're not able to say no, maybe. That's it, you're not able to say no. You're in a mood to make people happy. To be loved.
Starting point is 01:04:50 That's what it means. So, note your dreams as much as possible. And try to analyze, learn and correct when... My child is crying out for help. Baby. Are there things you'd like us to leave in the bio? Let's say a link to your website or all that. Yes, that's true. I have my website,
Starting point is 01:05:18 www.revevolution.com So it's our center for me and my husband. So for me, it's the specialized education part, dream, hypnosis teaching, and he's a hypnotherapist. So we're really going to work in the brain of the world. Well, not just in the brain, but in the behavior. So we're going to help all the sensitive beings who are having difficulties, no matter what. No matter what. Have you ever helped people who want to re-sense more emotions?
Starting point is 01:05:52 Yes. More crying? No. I like to cry all the time. Oh yes. You're really exploring. I had tears in my eyes when I went to change groups and I was like, oh yes, help me. It's normal, you're developing your feminine side.
Starting point is 01:06:07 Are there moments in your life where you're more... If I cry, there are little details that make me cry, really, really tiny, tiny, tiny. And then it makes me cry, like my child who was in the hospital, and it was long before I shaved. It took a good five days. And now, there's something that bothers me.
Starting point is 01:06:29 And now, when I shave, it feels so good. But I really never feel it. Louis is like, I was moved. It made me... You see him and I'm like, I would like to feel that too. But I don't feel it. It develops. Yes, it develops. Oh, I'd love to feel that too, but I don't feel it. It's developing.
Starting point is 01:06:45 Yes, it's developing. You're working on your feminine side, baby. I know, but I know, but I don't know how. So I'd like to do that with you. Well, yes. To grow. Yes, we can explore that. And not because I'm proud, I'd like that.
Starting point is 01:07:00 I know, I'm like, oh, yeah, it's true that it's cute. I'm trying to imagine, I'm like, oh, she changed her band. No. She's growing up. I'm like, wow, I'm so happy for her. It's okay too. I'd like to be more emotional. In your left side,
Starting point is 01:07:18 your rational side is very developed. I'm ready to be a psychologist. That's the thing. Or a doctor who announces the that's the thing. Or a doctor. Who announces the death of people. Okay! Okay, so we'll talk about it again with pleasure. And if you ever want to change my mind...
Starting point is 01:07:36 Imagine every time I go to the bathroom. But you know, I'm always doing little things. And to finish all these things. When we go looking for things, but... Far away. Someone who dies, a human being who dies, like a dog that dies,
Starting point is 01:07:54 a little more, you know, there's something, you know. Donald Trump who gets pulled, not at all. Okay, so we stop. But hypnotherapy, it's a good idea. Yes, too. And then you're in contact with your femininity. Well, certainly.
Starting point is 01:08:11 Do you think it would work? Yes, absolutely. Is it okay if I leave you? Yes, go ahead. We'll go on Patreon. I'll read the others, no problem. Thank you so much. I'm so happy to have met you. Me too. It's an honor.
Starting point is 01:08:28 To stay with you. You're so kind! Welcome to the official Patreon platform, Sex Orale. I'm here! I'm here! I'm here! I'm here! I'm here! What can you expect from our Patreon platform? It's live shows that we've never shown to anyone, that you'll be able to see.
Starting point is 01:08:45 You'll be able to ask questions for guests who come. You'll see one bonus podcast per month. Sometimes it's live shows, sometimes it's just us here who jam. After the podcasts, after the podcasts we're going to have recorded, we're going to go directly on Patreon to film after shows. Announcements in advance, tickets, access to live shows. No matter what you choose, it's like whatever, we thank you in advance. It's a big difference for sexual orientation. It's something that grows, it's our baby. We're proud, we're happy. Yeah, and that's it.
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