Should I Delete That? - Is It Just Me: Bread leather
Episode Date: March 9, 2023It's round two of your unpopular opinions, covering bagels, Beyonce and babies...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy Grant...Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Hello.
Part two, please.
Part two of unpopular opinions.
This one feels really harsh to start with.
It feels really harsh and I feel slightly attacked because
I post so many photos of Betty and also try and show people photos of Betty.
Slightly related, but also not.
No one wants to see your baby trying to eat food
and spilling it all down themselves on your socials.
They're not wrong.
I mean, they're not wrong.
They're not wrong.
I think I'd rather see your dog than your baby.
Me too, but I think that's because I'm a dog person
and not really a baby person.
But...
No, I'm team baby, but I think I'd still choose...
Dogs.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Dogs are objectively cuter.
And I tell you why, I've been thinking,
about it most of the time babies like newborn babies particularly they just look like their dads which
is good and clever of nature but it's also actually a bit horrifying yeah to see like a grown man
squished into this tiny little human and the last thing i want is to see a tiny grown man
with food all over his face do you know what i mean an old dad himself yeah it's just a bit obscene
really i have to say i don't really find babies cute no that's fair enough no no and i think you have like
a chemical thing when it's your own
surely yeah
you better
yeah well fingers crossed
fingers fingers fingers but like
yeah when it's other people
yeah I get it and I sometimes
I see people put stuff on social media of their kids
and I'm like
I know just and it's my thing
because I shouldn't look at it
some people's kids am obsessed with actually weirdly
Megan Lane's kid
Esme obsessed with her
love her Vogue Williams's kids
love them it's so weird
that you can like fully like
She's so cute.
Yeah, there are some kids.
I'm just like completely obsessed with.
L. Pearls, I was obsessed with her little girl.
Oh, she's so cute.
Yeah, I don't know.
Like, I don't follow a lot of people with kids, but those, they just seem adorable.
Oh, Em Ricketts' little kid, so cute.
She's called Ruby.
She's just like, so chunky.
Like, she's adorable.
So some people's babies, I really like actively, I'm like, oh, you're a little, you're a little bundle of joy.
But that's so mean, isn't it?
oh god yeah we're just playing favorites
so like pick and choose
oh my god yeah
so it's like we don't hit all babies
we just take yours
oh my god that's so bad
oh my god I don't love that for us
I hate ourselves right now that's not nice
but sometimes it's like when people send you
videos with their kid or like when they're talking to you
yeah like start talking to the baby
like I don't there are some things
I think people assume that everybody else
is more interested in than they are
yeah yeah like I don't like
okay if your kid's eating
and it's like it's a big deal that they're eating
oh my god it's amazing
but I don't need to know, like, when we did carrot for the first time.
And how they feel about Swede?
No, no.
But then also, cherry picks the fantastic, funny stuff.
But no, but sometimes you just need to talk about that.
And I think sometimes as the friends of mothers, we just have to be like, okay, this really boring story is super interesting.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Although I don't, I don't love when my friends are like, oh, here you go, baby cuddles.
What, and just shove the baby on you?
I shove the baby on me.
Oh, that's good to know.
oh baby girls
yeah no I get it
it's a bit intense
because some people hate holding babies
I feel anxious holding babies
do you do you not like
do you know what actually that's
I did until Louis until my nephew
and that kind of changed
just because I was so close to him all the time
so that's changed
you kind of vibe with some kids though
there are some babies
I'm like oh I need to snuggle you
and there are some babies I'm just like
I'll take you or leave you
we can't help what we find cute
I would never say that bad baby
But I think if you've never had one, like, yeah, it's weird.
But I think I as well, I mean, yeah, you were the oldest.
I don't know.
There's some comment like Katia, my sister hates.
Like she's, I'm, she just hates them.
Except I mean, people say they hate babies.
I'm like, how can you hate a baby?
They're so innocent.
You can't hate them.
No, I don't think she hates them, but she just like she's.
It could be indifferent.
I don't think she's indifferent.
I think she's terrified.
Yeah, okay, scared.
Yeah.
I think a lot of people say they hate babies when they're actually really scared of babies.
Yeah, well, they are quite scared.
Gary. They're terrifying. They're so fragile. So fragile. Yeah. Like the fact they can't even hold
their own heads up. I'm like this cute, how did humans get to be the top? Because you see a horse
being born, it falls out and it just runs around. Like it gets up and just runs off. Literally.
And the human baby's born and it can't even hold its own head up. So defenseless. It's pathetic.
Like a little baby bunny is just like bang, bang, bang, I'm out. Like a little lamb even can run.
All of these animals, all of these sad little weak animals really in the ski.
of the food chain, but then a human at the very top at its infancy.
It's pathetic, actually.
Can't do anything.
Yeah.
And can't for a fucking while.
So I can't even drive until you're 17.
I mean, imagine explaining that to a wolf.
Oh, sorry, I can't chase you just yet because I haven't passed my driving test.
Yeah, but I have thoughts on that.
I don't think we should be driving at 17.
I don't think you should have been driving at any age.
I think 21 should be the threshold for that.
But anyway, this isn't the hill I'm going to die on.
I'll let someone else take this to parliament.
No one else feels that.
I'm too busy.
No one else gets.
Okay.
I'm too busy.
There's a special place in hell for people who do gender reveals.
A lot of these revolve around kids and parenting, don't they?
Yes.
That's why I've been so scared to become a mother.
People have got a lot of, they harbor a lot of hatred.
They do, don't they?
Yes, they do.
I think it's internalized misogyny.
Kids themselves?
Or do you think it's people that don't have kids?
Or just a mix of those?
I think it's a mix of them.
So both, I think everybody hates parents.
Gender reveal parties, though.
There are a lot.
Oh my God, I saw it on TikTok.
There was so awful.
Oh, my God.
Was it the man who, like, punched everything?
Yes.
Yeah, it was so bad.
Yes.
I was like, that man is a walking red flag.
Yeah.
And she looked terrified.
The woman.
It was awful.
Have we got the same algorithm on TikTok?
We literally, I think we're watching all this morning.
It's a TikTok video and it's his gender reveal.
And,
the dad pops a balloon
and it's blue
and he loses his
fucking mind
like he literally like punches
everything
like he's like slamming the table
and then like he goes back
and like grabs his wife
and she looks
terrified
terrified
it was like it oh it was
like that's horrible
it's so toxic
like this obsession with like getting a mat
like that's the thing that I hate about them
is that all these dads want boys
I know they do don't they
they really do
except we did
we didn't do a gender reveal
and don't, if you've done one, I'm not throwing any shade.
But for me personally, I just felt like no one else really cared
about the sex of my baby that much, like, as much as we did.
Like, and even, actually, we didn't even care that much.
I don't know, it wasn't, I guess, maybe it's our first babies,
we weren't really that bothered and like, I don't know.
I just, I didn't think anyone would really care.
So, but we did do, I wanted to have some, well, I don't really know.
I was kind of like a bit chill.
I was like, oh, you know, I wanted to know for planning,
but I didn't need it to be a big thing but we ended up doing it so they put it in an
envelope and told Katia my sister and then she did a little thing but it was literally just me
and Katz and Alex and then she gave us a little colour thing and we did it just at home just
the three of us and it was kind of adorable and Alex is like but I mean Alex is like the other
guy because he was so delighted that everything went pink he was like ah yeah his little
face was just like made up cute um so yeah we did it like I got I get it
Like, but also each to their own.
Like, I don't understand.
When people say, like, there's a special place in hell.
It's like, can we save the spaces in hell for, like, the murderers and the rapists?
People start off the...
Like, let's keep some free seats.
We don't need to waste it on people that just want to celebrate.
Like, if they're having a girl or a boy, it's not that deep.
That's a very good point.
Cottage pies dog food.
I will fight you on this.
It's not.
It's beautiful.
I hate cottage pie.
Do you?
I hate it.
God, I love it.
I mean, apart from the fact that it's like meat, obviously, I haven't needed it for years, but the burnt potato on the top, oh, could make me, no, honestly, I could actually be sick. It's just like sloppy bird, oh, no. I used to be so, and mum would be like, shepherd's pie for dinner. Obviously, you don't want to be ungrateful, but I would be desperately upset.
It's got to have a good bit of cheese on top. No, no, no, meat has no place for cheese. And, I mean, okay, figure, I don't eat any of the shit. I don't eat any of the shit, but like, no, so wrong on so many.
levels. The only thing worse than that for me, a fish pie. That used to make me cry. Honestly,
if I used to think about fish pie too much, I'd get really upset. Yeah, I find it very, I find it the
sloppiness of it, just really distress. Really? Yeah. Oh, God, I can't make about it. It's actually
living quite unwell. Okay, let's move on. Um, Beyonce's overrated. This one comes up so much. I don't
get this. Like, I really don't get this because I'm not a Beyonce fan just because it's just, I just don't
like that kind of music.
But she's amazing, no?
Like, she's one of the best performers.
No?
And also, she's such a good singer.
She's a really good singer and a good dancer.
Such a good performer.
Like, when she performs, I can't take my eyes off her.
I can, but only because I've never really watched.
I don't know.
I haven't really watched.
I can't comment as to what I can do with my eyes
because I've never seen her perform.
But I don't, I can't say one or another
if I can take my eyes off of it.
You must have seen that VMA's performance.
sometimes I just watch this
because she is amazing
but then like I don't know
I'm not really
I think in the olden days I'd have been like
oh what are you on team Rihanna or team
Beyonce but then now I've grown up
so I don't put women against each other anymore
well done thanks but if I had to
it would still be
no I'm not going to say it
but I was always a bigger Rihanna fan
than Beyonce were you
yeah I'm going to come kind of around at the same time
I'm going to send you a bit of homework I'm going to send you something to
watch in your own time
okay thanks but she did
so the 20
The 2011 billboard.
Is it the one where she did a single ladies
where she was in the black?
No.
She does run the world
and there's like this screen behind her.
Oh my God, I think it's one of the best performances
in the world.
Yeah, I'm very happy to be proved wrong about her
because I just haven't seen that much.
I think she's amazing.
And she performed at the UN and she performed actually
one song of hers that I really do like.
I was here.
Yeah?
I was here.
And I think she performs at the UN and it is, I just think she's, she's amazing.
I tell you one song of hers I love is about if I was a boy, if I were a boy.
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
Every time I hear that, I'm like, gosh, such a good song.
It's so true.
Yeah, it's so true.
It's so true.
Yeah.
People really have some strong opinions against her.
Yeah, I don't, I'm not, I don't quite get it.
I think we kind of bring that Taylor Swift energy to her.
Do you think?
Yeah, I think like we just, we weren't at that time particularly.
I don't think we were very good at letting women just be.
like successful i think we always have to find things wrong with them yeah and like everyone oh she's a
diva she's and i was like oh my god first of all be a fucking deep be a diva if Beyonce can't be a diva
is that affecting your life no exactly exactly i always think that i'm just like leave her to like leave her to
it okay so she's yeah and yeah is she making songs that you enjoy yes keep enjoying it is she
making songs that you don't enjoy no yes then stop listening to them yeah how about that yeah
and then just move on also yeah i don't like when people say like overrace
or underrated, because it's just like, based on what?
Yeah.
Like, where's this rating?
Yeah.
Like, it's so subjective.
And it's just so sweeping and cruel, like, to take her whole career and be like,
overrated.
It's like, well, thanks.
Thank you for your critical acclaim.
I really value that.
I don't know if I want to say this.
But, like, while I don't enjoy Beyonce, not I don't enjoy it,
but while Beyonce's music is not my, like, first choice,
I see how amazing, to me, I see how amazing she is and how talented she is.
And I do think I struggle a little bit with that with Taylor Swift.
I think she's a good songwriter, right?
She's, she's a great songwriter.
I think I realize I'm not a massive Taylor Swift fan in the, like, I just don't know that much about her.
And I'm not, I don't know, I'm just not a massive Taylor Swift fan.
But I think I realized that I had a lot of unpacking to do when it came to how I felt about her
because I realized that it was all just so biased.
Yeah.
So I think I'm actually pretty like, I think, no, I think she's like, she's done some absolute bangers.
She did, like, look what you made me do.
I think she performs that really well.
That whole era was really cool.
I think she's a good live performer.
Yeah.
Like, yeah.
But again, like, we don't all have to like the same day.
Exactly.
And it is subjective, yeah.
Also, like, yeah, you're a placebo fan.
You were never going to really vibe with Taylor Swift.
No, it's not.
Like, look at you.
I don't, I have tried to like, but fuck me that song.
Oh, I'm the problem.
it's me, I can't, I can't. It lives up there with Miley Cyrus flowers and I cannot
abide them. You can't abide them? You can't abide flowers? Absolutely not. What is wrong with you?
I mean, I like the sentiment behind it, but as a song, I don't think it's very good. I'm so sorry.
Oh my God, what the fuck? I'm so sorry. Oh my God, what the greatest song I've ever heard?
No, I do, I really like the sentiment behind it. I just, for me, it's not a great song. I am. I
I'm shocked.
But it's very catchy.
And in that sense, it has done its job.
It is in my head all day every day.
You know what we're listening to on the way of home, don't you?
On repeat.
Then I will not be getting in the car with you.
Noted.
Sweet corn sandwiches are amazing.
Ew.
What kind of a...
I do love sweet corn.
What kind of sweet corn?
Sorry.
Well, there's baby corn or there's like corn on the cob corn.
Well, I'm not going to put a corn on the cob,
stick it between two loads of...
But do you mean like the small, all right, sassy, do you mean the small?
Do you mean the ones that you get in the little yellow things that you get in a can?
Or do you mean the like, as opposed to what?
As opposed to baby corn, which is the long, pale yellow things that you can get in a packet that are fucking delicious.
Clues in the name, baby corn.
This says sweet corn sandwiches are amazing.
But sweet corn is just baby sweet corn.
Is it?
Isn't it?
Isn't it?
Is it?
Yeah, it's just baby sweet corn, surely.
oh god you know what i did yesterday i said to katia she was going to a shop for me and she said
what do you want and i said can you get some tenderstrom broccoli please because that's what i thought
it was called say it again exactly that's what she said it's tender stem who knew what did you not me
i thought it was tenderstrom i was sure i was 100% sure it was called tenderstrom that sounds like
the stuff that comes out of your boobs for you before you get burned maybe that's what i've got on
my mind yeah it's baby corn yeah baby corn yeah but it's baby corn yeah but it's baby
sweet corn. Yeah. Yeah. That's what I meant. Is it that? Because I do not like sweet corn in a can
at all. Do you not? Not one bit. I love sweet corn. I don't mind corn on the cobs, but I find
the hard work on my teeth and my mouth and just my life. Oh, I love them. But I think I'm just
coming from it. It's because of your jaw. It's because of your jaw. Yeah. Oh, I love
corn on the cops. Oh, I love an apple. Green apples only, granny Smiths. I do not like red apples.
people using the word aesthetic at any given opportunity irks me
I like the word aesthetic but then it's only because I take great pride
in being able to spell it I like that it's got that fun little e in it
oh no one sees it's coming the bar's low
athletic no I like an aesthetic
this one also might rile you I really fucking hate those mini-ugs
because I think you've just pre-ordered I have just pre-order some mini-ugs yeah
well good that's me that's why I was able to pre-order them
because she was not in the queue
there you go with me god i actually can't believe the one that i'm just reading i i almost don't know
whether to say it or not okay i'm intrigued i'm intrigued i'm intrigued fat people are lazy
oh my god i know yeah that's like bad wrong so wrong actually in an incredible well i'm just
saying the same thing over in different terms yeah that's so bad i mean that's such a that's such
a damaging like such a toxic stereotype but unfortunately it's not actually that that unpopular of
an opinion it's a very common opinion which is where like so many problems stem from
I guess on my page it feels like an unpopular opinion yeah it feels like a bit of a bit of a
I feel like I've been through this it feels a bit loaded sending that to you if I'm honest yeah
people are lazy it's like oh loads of people are lazy
yeah it's it's I don't know these I mean I guess we you kind of like with a yeah I mean
there's no space for nuance in a question box of asking
for an unpopular opinion, but that is a massive sweeping generalisation and it is just factually
incorrect. Totally. There's a terrible stereotype. There's a little part of you that wants to be
really petty and go and block that person, isn't there? I mean, I actually think it's good to say
these things if she genuinely believes it, but she wants someone, she wants to talk it out
or talk it through. And I do think it's good for people to have a space for them to be able to say
things that are, that do feel controversial and unpopular nowadays, so that they can, you know,
air it out or whatever.
Yeah, have you got the energy to do that with her?
Absolutely not.
Get into DMs.
I'm too busy trying to raise the age of legal driving to 21.
I can't help you right now.
Everything in its own time, okay?
Oh my God, buttercream to cake ratios these days is outrageous.
I agree with this.
Not too much cream.
Yes.
Remember fairy cakes?
Literally what happened to fairy cakes?
cakes okay I would argue that the icing is probably the best part of most cakes oh
really yes whoa when it comes to Christmas cake I would just eat the icing in the
marsy pan and I would not eat the cake oh my god you like um Marsy Pan I love you like that
kind of icing like fondant icing oh god don't even talk to me when I was younger
this was definitely part of like a binge eating something it's not great but I used to um go
and get like blocks of icing and eat it oh oh oh
Yeah, really bad.
You can just buy it in the shop.
That actually turns my stuff like.
It was not a good time for me.
Oh my God.
On my teeth, actually.
I'm amazed I've got any teeth left.
Your poor blood sugar.
I remained a remarkably good help considering.
Wow.
Yeah, I ate it like people eat cheese.
It was bad.
Oh my God.
See, I'm a big icing fan.
Always have been.
I don't think people like eat cheese like that.
I've got to say.
Sorry, I had to point out.
Like Tom and Jerry, like Jerry would eat the cheese like that.
Yeah.
Better.
Like a mouse.
But like a massive.
mouth with a massive mouth
yeah so
but yeah
sometimes when you order like a fancy cake
and it's just too much and you can't hold it
like and the creams are too soft
like the icing's too soft
and then you just
I like that yeah oh god I would
I mean yeah I could eat some cake
right I could give some cake
I could give some cake
like if you get a cupcake now
it's like I don't understand
why fairy cakes just cease to exist
I just then I say
what they're not.
They're not aesthetic enough.
They're not very aesthetic.
They're just not aesthetic.
Butterfly cakes.
Oh my God, I love butterfly cakes.
I don't know what that is.
You do.
You do.
I do.
I promise you're going to, you're going to know what this is.
Yeah, that's right.
Yeah, yeah.
But basically like little fairy cakes, but with two little wings.
Wings.
Wings, yeah, like a butterfly.
Okay, there you go.
I was looking for the word.
Clue was in the, yeah, writing was on the wall there.
scones cream or jam first i don't eat scone i've never eaten it i've never i can't actually think of a
situation where i've eaten a scorn how do you pronounce it scone yes yeah it's scone right yes okay well i mean
some people say scone don't they yeah i don't think i've ever eaten one i can't think of an yeah
i can't think of a time when i would have done because i didn't use to eat gluten and then i can't
eat cream of course okay i get that you're the wrong person but i'm also not like an afternoon tea
kind of gal do you know what i mean like yeah i can't think of a situation even where
I can't think of a context where I'd have gone to somewhere where they just had them.
Like, where does one just get a scorn?
Like, I feel like someone's grandparents' house, but my grandparents weren't those kind of people.
Oh, love scones so much.
But where do you eat it?
Like at a cafe.
You just, what kind of cafe?
I don't think I've ever seen a scone on a menu at a cafe.
I'm thinking of like a supermarket cafe.
Oh, God, what?
Yeah.
They have scones on the menu.
Yeah.
Well, like, you know, in the little fridge, when you have your tray and you're like, you go
along. We used to go to Morrison's
cafe all the time. I remember you so.
And if you go in a little, you pass a little fridge
and they've got like little cakes and little scons,
I used to fucking love a scone.
Sounds nice. I'd be for you.
It's not for me really, but.
Adele can't sing, someone said,
I mean, you can't just say that. You can say
I think she's bad at singing, but you can't say
Adele can't sing.
You just can't. As if it's like a fact.
You just can't.
Adele can't. What a stupid thing to say?
It's so stupid.
So stupid.
Adele pull the other one mate
bagels are disgusting I call them bread leather
I saw a thing
in the day that said there's someone called CD sound bagels
and it really makes me laugh
I like that
I love bagels
That's really good
Yeah it was like what it was a list of things that like should be called
Other things like grass should be called earth fur
Yeah weird
And yeah I don't like that was disgusting
Um, I like bagels. Do you like bagels?
I do, but I'm a snob about them. Like, I like proper bagels. I don't like like supermarket bagels, you know, like, um, you know, you get them in a pack.
Yeah, I got one in a pack this morning. I don't like them. But Marmite on it.
It tastes a bit gross. I like really dense, chewy bagels. Yeah, that's nice. Yeah.
Yeah. Like a brick lane bagel. Yeah. I don't know what that is, but that sounds nice.
I've got a lot to explore. I'd better be able to, yeah, stick with it.
gluten life. I've just read one that might ruin my bathroom experience forever. I prefer paper
towels over the hand dryer because I can't unsee all the poop particles flying around.
I hate the paper towels. I don't like having to put my hand in the dispenser because I just
feel like it's undignified. I hate the feeling of scratching paper against my nails. Do you?
You know, I can't open post for that read, not letter post. I mean, you know, I can't do that
anyway but like cardboard I genuinely makes me like want to cry like I actually I have to lick my
like the tips of my fingers yeah like I have to like make them wear like I have to like run them
under a tap if I think about it if I think about like paper like that kind of like dry paper really
like hand towel paper like you know if you go some of fancy it's like kind of softish but if you
just go to like like in school you know when you'd like wash your hands after you've been to low
at school yeah and it was that kind of like blue or brown paper yeah it was like
yeah blue paper yeah that's like really yeah that's so funny yes i'll always tune i will throw my hands
into a cloud of poop particles any day hot hot poop articles fine gorgeous yes stunning and
steaming array yeah 100% fine by the me random but can you eat peaches
physically yeah yeah i'm able okay i don't know i feel like you might have been with me on that
no i get it yeah they can be very bizarre
And blueberries.
No, I don't mind blueberries.
I hate pears for the texture.
Same reason I don't like the red apples.
I can't.
Apples, no, got to peel them.
Yeah, you're weird.
You've always peeling your mangoes as well, aren't you?
Well, yes, because you can't eat skin and mangoes, can you?
Can you not?
No.
I mean, physically.
I don't think so.
I don't think so.
I think so.
Because Steph Ellswood, I've seen her do it, eats a kiwi skin.
I see people do that on TikTok.
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
She just does it like an apple.
So you know that it's gone all the way through because the skin's kind of furry.
Yeah.
These reactions are so good.
Right.
Okay.
The trend of people saying in my insert word era.
I like that.
I actually live for it.
I've been trying to employ it as of when I can.
Good for you.
And this person's obviously hating your content as a result.
Clearly.
Oh my God, I love people's eras.
I like that.
Yeah, I like eras.
I feel like boo is in a real era at the moment.
Really?
Her beard's gone grey.
but it would be sad
it's just called very quickly great
like literally bang great
which would be sad but now I can
PR it as an era
it feels yeah okay I like that
it feels empowering mature era
do you know what I mean yeah it feels very like
Jamie Lee Curtis I feel like she's in her Jamie Lee Curtis era
which becomes less sad it becomes less like
you know she's on the inevitable like decaying
like mortality train
but instead she's actually just in like
in this or the Emma Thompson era
you know she's just embracing this
just like this new colour scheme and I just love that for her so yeah like I oh my god I'm in
my croc era I'm about to be in my ag era I'm gonna be my mom era I'm about to say yeah probably
more pertinent would be yeah yeah I'm about to be in my argyra em you're about to having child
is she's sitting here nine mothers pregnant um I'm going into my auger it's gonna be huge for my
brows see something else in your imminent immediate future oh I love my eras yeah I've gone to
a lot. You're my fringe era, bad era. But again, you PR it, where it was a disastrous time to be
alive, it's now just a bad era. I don't know what era. I mean, I do have a phrase that I really
don't like. You're in your good hair era. Oh my God, do you think, yeah, it's, it's
looks so good. And I didn't curl it. I know, it looks so nice. Yeah, see, this is the beginning
of a new era. It's a new dawn. It's a new day. In the words of Nina Simone. Yeah. I do feel
quite alive with it. Yeah. And when I touch the back, like, I feel hair rather than scalp. It's quite
cool. Wow. What an era?
There was a phrase that I really don't like.
I despise it
but everyone uses it. Everyone uses it.
Which means I use it. Everywhere. And my sister suggests
like it for captions to me all the time and I'm like,
no, I hate it.
It's when people add of dreams to something like dress of dreams.
Oh yeah, fair enough. That's awful. I'd probably
do it all the time as well. People do it all
the time. Yeah, it depends on the kind of dreamer that you are.
Everything is of dreams. My bed of dreams.
my jumper of dreams my meal of dreams
husband of dreams I don't know why I hate it so much
I don't know but it just makes my skin crawl
how do you feel about people having a dreamy day
oh I like that dreamy ice cream yeah yeah oh it was an absolute dream
love that I don't like of dreams the dress of dreams
it's like oh my god get out of my head
you don't know what I'm dreaming about you don't know me you don't know me
nice it's like my mom's got real like real
beef with um you know the restaurant eat
don't know they're still going actually i haven't seen one in ages i don't think they're still
going probably because my mom like ran a crusade like single-handedly she honestly every time we
go past one she's like i hate the name i'd be like what's wrong and she's like i just don't like
being told what to do and she's like it's like it's a command it's horrible it's so
aggressive it is it's an imperative eat like cook like the shop cook yeah oh my god i've got
beef with that now, I want to be told to cook.
Yeah, she, yeah, mom gets really, like, she would, yeah,
they seem not to be around anymore. I did think she'd been
quiet recently. But yeah, every time we'd, like, go
around, she'd see one, she'd be like, oh, yeah, I will never go, I hate, no, I'm not
going in, I hate being told what to do.
It's so, it's such a specific beef, but I get it.
Okay, I get it. Yeah. Yeah, I get it. Yeah, I wonder how she feels,
I'm going to ask her, I'm going to ask her how she feels about ask. Yeah, I think
that was her thing. She just said it was very aggressive. It is quite aggressive.
I said, well, you don't need to eat. They're not forcing you to eat. She's
I don't know, but they are.
They could have, they could have mitigated it with a pleases.
She said, she said that their manners wouldn't have cost anything.
Please eat.
Or eat, thanks.
Maybe we should start up, if it's gone, there might be space for us to slide in here.
I think it's gone.
With a please eat.
No way.
Fun fact from Daisy, she said it was overtaken by Pret-a-Mong-J and they opened
the veggie pret to replace it.
No way.
Well, I am team Veggie Pret-Pret all the way because you get the vegan cuassons,
which is to fucking die for, that pan of chocolate situation.
The vegan egg baguette is very nice in there
Yeah, oh geez, yeah, okay, yeah, we'll fuck eat
Yeah, I like, I like, I like the veggie pratt
But maybe we should look into an eat, please, please eat, please eat
Please eat, please, yeah
Yeah, I like that, or eat please, eat please love, eat pray la, eat, yeah
I went into a cafe the other day that had, unironically, live, laugh, love, in very big letters
As a decal, is it decal, as a decal across the wall?
That's nice.
printed onto the wall.
You know what?
As a phrase, it gets a hard rep,
but it's very lovely messaging.
It really is.
It's so inoffensive.
We're not hurting anyone.
It really is, yeah.
You know, sometimes that's all there is to do.
You know I said no to a wedding venue
because they had live, laugh, love all over the bathrooms.
If I'd have come to your wedding
and you'd have lived laugh love all over the bathrooms,
I object.
No fair enough.
It is.
I make concessions, but that is just gone.
It's, yeah, as three standalone things to do, they're great.
Living, stunning, loving, perfection, laughing, great, heaven.
But together, live a hateful thing to do.
It's awful.
It's awful.
It's where the heart is.
I quite like that phrase, actually.
Do you?
I do quite like that.
We have a mug, but Alex hates so much and I love it.
And it says, friends are the family that you choose yourself.
And I love it.
but Alex takes
personal offence to this mug
I like it
they all come from such a pure
and lovely place I know but they just get ruined
they just get ruined
anything that's written in italics really
my god we should bring back
live laugh love
in a non-ironic way it didn't really go anywhere
but I do I do believe
if you take it out of italics most these things aren't
so bad if you put them in a dip font
really is
it's important
like if you put it in like times new roman very different situation no that's actually still a bit soft you need something a bit more bold rugged yeah uh chunky chunky yeah like a chunky font no i think you need a clean edge let
command these yeah command people towards this you live you laugh you love you love i tell you what you need it in you need it in like um you know when it was just like i was born in carlyle but i was made in the royal navy
you need it in that font and in that voice yeah yeah yeah you need that like it like an imperative font yeah
you need it like they're recruiting for the SAS yeah live laugh love love yeah yeah oh my god when you
say it like that yeah hundred and doesn't it feel I'm gonna wait to go in the morning I'm gonna voice
me at you first thing in the morning I feel inspired live laugh love yeah yeah get out there Al
and do it live laugh love see yeah love with a rebrand everything works everything is possible yeah
100% I'm old for team rebranding, and I think most unpopular opinions can be swung.
I think so. I think so too. Yeah.
Just for the bit of rebranding.
Maybe that's what we should do when our careers inevitably, you know.
Turn to dust.
Yes, maybe we should rebranders, rebranders.
Food for thought.
Okay, well, thanks for leaving me on that note.
I'm thinking about the inevitable demise of my career.
Owl. Let it go. Let it go. Live, laugh, love.
It's scaring me.
It's scaring me.
moment. No amount of, wait, I need to stay intense, I need to stay intense, but I can't think of
these, hang on. Don't butcher it. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. The intensity
dies when you, when you butcher it. Um, just some things to see you out with.
Okay. Tough times don't last. Tough people do. Life is 10% what happens to you. 90% how
you react to it. Oh. Out of the mountain of despair. Yeah. A stone of hope. Oh.
Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up always. Anyways, I read it wrong.
Ignore that one.
This is one thing.
You can't give away.
It always comes back.
Wow.
You can't cross the sea merely by standing and staring at the water.
I mean, these are not.
These are stunning, I've got to say.
Don't spend, see, if you took this out of a car, okay.
If you took this out of italics, it's written in italics,
and it's written on a beach.
But if you wrote this in blood, in cap blocks,
don't spend time beating on a wall,
hoping to transform it into a door.
Whoa.
That's deep.
Coco Chanel said that.
and I don't think she envisaged it in blood, but that's how I'm seeing it.
Yeah, me too.
It has gone in.
Yeah, yeah.
So that's nice.
Thanks, co-cose.
See you guys on Monday.
Bye.
Thank you so much for listening.
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