Should I Delete That? - Is It Just Me: Brosnan VS Carell

Episode Date: November 3, 2022

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls give some grown up advice, Em gives us an exquisite reading list and Alex shares her ideal type of man...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at [e-mail] & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Because M has just counted in 10, in 10, in 10, 210 in Japanese for us. Kournishua. Can you do 1 to 10 in Japanese for us, please? I know because it's just showing off. Go on. 1 to 5. Ichini, Sanxi, go. Rocky.

Nana. Can't stop yourself. That's pretty cool. That's pretty cool. When I was the thing, go mishimushi, which is like, ayah, which I love. love. That's a cool trick. Thank you so much. Thank you very much. And don't ask me anything else.

How do you know these? I'm not telling you and that's all I know. I love it. Were you just born with it? I'm just saying Bill, a little, a little smidge of Japanese. Maybe she's born with it. Maybe it's Maybe it's Maybe it's Mabelene. I'm kicking us off with, and is it just me?

Is filling up with petrol so awkward, just standing there looking around? So awkward. It's not even run on your phone? Okay, so I don't really. drive so I don't have to do this but it incredibly awkward I drive all the time and I often ask Alex to do it but um that's just that's just the feminist leaving my body the minute I see the shell side I'm like oh she's gone um see yeah um it's so embarrassing you just stand that you like you can't not that I do smoke but that would be like a good way to pass

the time yeah and when you're instantly told you can't smoke or I'm like oh murderously you You can't be on your phone, can you? No, you can't. Not allowed. And you know what happens if you are on your phone? The big tannoy comes and it goes, like, across the forecourt. It's like, can the woman at number seven, a pump number seven, please get off her mobile phones? That's far more embarrassing than being on, than just twiddling your thumbs and not having anything to do.

So you just have to just not do anything. But do you think the, like, the prevalence of mobile phones has meant that we do feel really uncomfortable? Just doing anything without. doing any yeah but just being still and just not having anything like not being on your because like I went for a solo dinner I went for a solo dinner do you remember when I went to New York yeah and Dave was really ill and I went for a solo dinner and I was on my phone the whole time like I couldn't not be on my phone if I saw someone R age having a solo dinner and they weren't on that I'd be like what's you doing that's a bomb threat like what are they

doing are they a spy is this a stakeout like I'd instinctively think you were doing something wrong. But the problem is that I feel like this has actually become a problem for me whereby I can't I feel like I have to be doing something at all times now. Like I can't just be still. Can you? Oh no. Yesterday when I got home and my stupid sciatic is just so sore and I was lying on the sofa and Georgie was over with Alex. I was lying on the sofa and my phone was on charge and I was just lying there and they were talking next door and I was like I can do this I can do I'm just lying here it's fine it's just going to cut like it's fine. I was actually just like I was getting like angry. I'm just like yelling. I was like, can you just get in here, please? I'll just bring me my phone. Like, listen, stop having so much fun in there without me because I'm just alone. And it's like, if I had TikTok to scroll, I'd be fine. But as it was, I was just lying there. I was like, what did they do in the olden days? What did they do? But they were probably much more. But they were probably much more mentally stable. I don't know. I don't know all the women that lay on shares longs that always depicted as hysterical. Okay, yeah, those ones. Those are those.

those women. Probably because they were so fucking bored. But I feel like the... I'm sick of the mad men women. I don't have much bad men. You aren't missing out. John Hammett's a fucking dish. I mean a baddie but a dish.

A baddy dish. Baddy dishy. Yeah. Cheez's wife like shit so she lives on her sheds long all the time. Just looking very sad. And actually thinking about it like mental health in the Victorian times

was very, very bad. But they didn't have anti-depressants yet. But anyway, I feel like because of mobile phone, right you never actually have to like deal with your feet okay you obviously do have to deal with your feelings but less so do you know I mean not until they're like right on top of you we don't have to sit with a fucking breakdown exactly you can just sweep under the rug under no a TikTok video this has got to be a

thing I know I was talking to my brother about this who is like for somebody that's like not to just massively generalize a whole type of person but he's just like he's just a football boy do you know what I mean like he's just just he just just fine yeah i never think of him as having particularly profound thoughts because he mostly just seems to care about the football and then the f1 and that's it and that seems fine and food okay and the pub that's fine that's fine and girls like i i we don't talk about like politics yeah or anything of that nature because that's that's i mean we don't actually have a lot in common but i like him anyway what was i saying oh yeah he was saying like out of fucking nowhere it was just

He was at lunch on Saturday, and he was like, yeah, like, I actually think I've got to delete TikTok. You know, I go through periods. He doesn't use Instagram. He's like, yeah, I've got to delete TikTok. Like, you know, it just occurred to me yesterday that I, I don't remember the last three videos I watched on TikTok. And that's so bad. You know, I'm just consuming so much and I don't even know what I'm consuming.

And I'm like, whoa. I've watched you spend 20p on a beer and you're worrying about, like, what TikTok three videos? But he's right. What were the last three videos you watched on TikTok? Not a fucking clue. Not a fucking clue. Not a fucking clue. So like we want, he's right.

He is right. He is right. So much. Yeah. Who'd we thought Finno the prophet? Like he's coming out in the blinder. It's not literally called over consumption is it. There's a name for it but it's like we're just so, well like firing our brains are like firing on all neurons.

You know how they make foie gras and they just like put a cool cup of goose's bum and then they just feed it loads. That's us basically. Sorry, just took me a second to get my head about that analogy, but okay. But yeah. Yeah, like this, the cork is the stifling of our feelings via whatever means. Yeah. And then we're just rammed content down our throats until we're big and fat. Escapism is like there is never, there has never been a better time for escapism.

This is. You can escape like that instantly as long as you have your phone or your phone. But I like to escape my escape. This is why I love reading. I genuinely think this is why I love reading, not to sound like my brother and all deep. Like that's why that's my, everyone always says that how do you read books so fast? And it's just like, I'd rather do that, like, of a Sunday. Like, in the afternoon, I'd love to just, like, I can't fucking wait for this Sunday

because I'm going to read a book. And I don't mean, like, read a bit of a book. I'm going to consume a whole book. It's going to be great. I'm going to try. Yeah. I think I've worked out that the problem that I have with books. It's the words.

It's the words. Do you know what? I actually had, like, I had, like, a little frustrated cry, like, recently because I was like, I'm read, I'm going to read this book it's a book that I've really wanted to read it's another non-fiction book but I see people all the time be like, oh I read this book and it changed my life and I'm like

I want to read these books and I want these books to change my life but I can't fucking read them and I spent I must have spent, I'm not kidding you, it must have been 40 minutes reading the same paragraph over and over and over again because I get to the end and be like fuck I took in none of that and then I was like I'm so frustrated nonfiction with my eyes

so I audio That's one. Nonfiction. Oh. So like Laura Bates, like all my educational books. Oh, I didn't think about that. I audio book because I can't take in facts from, it's why I associate at school.

I can't take in facts from reading them. But I love a story. Like I can read a story like a fiction book, that was a shit click. A fiction book like that, like so quick. But if I try and read nonfiction, I'm like you, you know you got me that book,

why has nobody told me this before? Yeah. That's still on my bedside table and I'm still on like page three. I just can't do it. same but it's like everyone says it's such a good book I know and I believe them and I'm going to do it as an audio book maybe that's what I'm going to start doing and then you can walk which would be good for you so you can walk this is what I do in the mornings I walk with my audio books and then to switch off I read fiction books and I want a fiction book that's going to like

literally grab me by the nipples and be like get in here and then you're just there with it okay you need to give me a recommendation so for my first fiction book in probably about 10 Oh my God. Okay, guys, grab your pens or your notes on your app, on your phones. I've got so many books that I suggest it where I'll remember them for you. Okay. Grownups by Marianna Keyes. Yeah.

It's genuinely like the biggest hug you just feel like you're part of this family. And it's so great. Okay. Also by Marianne Keyes, Rachel's holiday, because that's a two-party because then she's written again, Rachel. They're so good. So Marianne Keyes, I would really recommend. Okay. The Switch by Beth O'Leary.

Very, because I'm going for light here. I'm assuming that you want light. Because if you want your heart ripped out, I can recommend a little life. Best book I have. You know, I don't think I want light. I want something that's gonna make me think. Okay, a little life has made me, but it's huge, so maybe that's a bad place to start.

The Heart's Invisible Furies by John Boyne. Okay. Genuinely, it's one of the greatest books ever. Okay, that's what you should read. Okay. It's stunning. Yeah. Oh my God, oh, and girl, woman, other,

won the Booker Prize two years ago by Bernadine Ever Easto. Okay, that was amazing. I finished that and I went straight back to the front page and read again. Seriously? Yeah. And it's, read that actually.

That'll get you, because that feels a bit more like nonfiction. Okay, I'm going to do that then. Do that. It's so good. Yeah. It's so good. And then, yeah, right now I'm reading actually a nonfiction book, but a memoir, which is different. Yeah.

Oh, I feel like that. Yeah, amazing memoir that I read was Alan Davies. Jonathan Creek? No. No, no, no. Alan Davies, what was he called? Isn't that Jonathan Creek? No.

Ivan Davies. Yeah, he's an actor. He's a comedy actor. That's QI. Yeah, Jonathan Creek. Yeah, I don't know who Jonathan Creek is, but yeah. Oh my God, best TV series of all time, bar none. Okay, he's also in the Angus Songs and Perfect Snogging,

but he wrote a book, a memoir called Just Ignore Him, and it was about how he was abused by his dad, and it genuinely, because he's so funny, and we all know him as like an actor. I'd listen to that as an audio book because he read it, and I was like, fucking hell. Like, unbelievable. My mum is loving Graham Norton's book.

Apparently that's really good. Yeah. Yeah, and I'm reading right now that I'm not to be, on a theme but I'm really sounds dark but I'm reading I'm glad my mum died everybody's been reading about that yeah it's so good yes that's why like I just want to go home I think we tried to care on the podcast didn't we

but maybe we can try again yeah um yeah I love her book I'm reading it yeah everybody said it's amazing but start with yeah you've overwhelmed me now okay so just start with girl woman other fine okay and if anybody else who wants to get into reading want something light anything by Marion Keyes but I'd recommend grownups I wish I'd never read it so that I could read it do you know

really it makes me so sad that i've read it already if i see anyone reading it on the tube i'm like i'm so jealous really yeah because it's just like she writes the thing that marian like i'm obsessed with her the thing that she does so well is write like she writes about family all the time and like all her characters just are so connected yeah and she just writes in a way that just makes you feel like you are part with their family and i think as well like because she's irish and she often she writes in dublin which is where i used to live with alex so i just get all these like warm feelings when i read her stuff like I just love her okay all right okay I'm on this I'm on this yeah I just if anyone who just wants something like like a hug of the book okay anything by Mariankees

nice yeah you're welcome that's a section no last full there you fucking love reading god I want a book club it's all I want yeah you should like you should really should just fucking do one I know I would say we would do one but I we're not we won't I know I remember that feeling so well of being like you're like it's all you want to do is just read your book like you can't put it down oh it ends with us by Colleen Hoover I just read. Yeah. And I felt like that.

Is that the pink one? Yeah, I read that in a day. Okay. Which at the moment is considering I fall asleep about every like three seconds, that's actually pretty remarkable. It's very good. That means you're not actually going back and rereading stuff, doesn't it? If I can do it in a day.

Hell yeah. Yeah. I would have time to reread. I would just love to read without it. It fills me with so much excitement and also sadness that I'll never read them all. Okay. I have a serious question. Someone's coming to us for grown-up advice.

Shit. You ready? How you guys? Firstly, as always, of the podcast, recently took up a new job where I'm in the car a lot more and it's a bloody brilliant way to keep me company. She's only in July. So she apologises for that.

She's only in, oh, sorry. Sorry, right, yeah. I want to send a message. If I could get any thoughts and advice from you both, and I guess it's on the back of your fab news, are your pregnancy, I'm huge, congratulations. A year ago, I came off the pill to start regulating my periods in the hope that after a few months would start trying for a baby. A month after I came off, I started the process for a

promotion at work and four months later, I actually got the bloody job and started. I'm super happy I got it. I worked really hard and even though it was my goal, I never thought I'd achieve it. So long story short, I wanted to be able to make the most of embedding myself in the role, so we put our baby plans on hold for six months. Then, if I was waiting this long, I thought I might as well wait another two months until I was my sister's wedding, November this year. And then I thought, right, stop putting it on hold. Let's do this. But now we've booked a holiday to Costa Rica without realizing that there's a risk for the Zika virus and pregnancy should be avoided for another three months. In summary, we've made the conscious decision to delay

things, but I can't help that it's constantly on my mind. Daily, I think about when, what if, what if it doesn't happen, how long it could take, how, what does that mean? I know I can't plan everything, but I really struggle with the unknown and not knowing how and when and if. And I'm desperate to be a mom and the thought of it not happening is a daily struggle. I appreciate there's a lot to unwrap there, but being a similar age to you both, I'm 30, being with my husband for 13 years and married for three, I'd love to get your thoughts and both of your perspectives as you are in different boats. Thank you for the round and honestly all the guidance and lulls you both provide. 13 years, that's amazing. Yeah. Sorry, I know that's not the

takeaway from that. I was just like, wow, 13 years. The thing is, it's easy for us to sit here and say, like, take the pressure off yourself because that's easy said than done, especially if this is something that you really, really want. And, you know, you've been together for a long time. You're probably feeling external pressure as well. But then I do have to say, like, a few months isn't going to be the deal breaker. A few months is not going to be the deal breaker. Probably a year won't be the deal breaker.

She's still young. Yeah. Still only 30. You've got, like, you know, hopefully plenty of time. Yeah. But she can do, like, an AMH test. I did one a couple of years ago. It was called Grip Fertility at the time,

but I think it's changed now to something Hurtility, I want to say. Anyway, just Google Grip Fertility. It's a simple, like it's fairly cheap. I think it's like 40 pounds. It's an at-home blood test. You literally just prick your finger, get some blood, and then it can give you an indication of your ovarian reserve. So...

How many eggs do you have, basically, yeah. And if yours is high, then, you know, just like, I don't know. like my my instinct is to say like enjoy Costa Rica go have a great time and then like because I'm pretty sure this is you know obviously we're not doctors but I'm pretty sure this is safe to say like a matter of six months is not going to be the the be all an end daughter whether you have a baby or not yeah waiting six months then I'm going to really just annoy her and just be like I'd just say fuck it just try but then she'll have to cancel her Costa Rica trip but she's got no this this was my logic right yeah

Is that you've got no guarantee it's going to happen quickly? No. Did you know all our glamping units have a resort, quality, Canadian-made and eco-friendly bed? Since day one, we have proudly partnered with Kelowna-based mattress company Haven, ensuring you have the best sleep possible. So it's just one more reason to visit us in the Boreal Forest. You can also try out a Haven mattress risk-free for 100 nights at Havenmatress.ca. And so in my head, I, because it's, I think they say that like, takes the average woman, no, 80% of people who try for baby get pregnant in the first year.

Yeah. So, like, obviously, but I was actually really shocked by this. Like, when we're at school, you're, like, you're, you think, like, you're going to look at a, like, look at a willy and be like, oh, God, I'm pregnant. And it just doesn't, it's just not the case for so many people. And then I think on the other side, maybe because of what we do for a job, you're then exposed to so much of. the struggle that people have or can have. Or you just become very aware of that side of things. So you kind of spend your whole life thinking it's going to be the easiest thing in the world,

being absolutely terrified to get pregnant. And then you grow up and you realise it's not that easy at all. And I completely understand that feeling that she had where it's just like, I want to do it, but I don't know when I want to do it. And I don't even know if I can do it. And it's the not knowing if you can is the worst thing. Because it's like it's the only thing in one of the only things in life where you don't know until you try. You don't have control over.

But when you do try, you might not want it, but you can't do anything about it once you've got it. Do you know what I mean? Yeah. So it's like you have to be 100% sure, but then if you're going to be 100% sure, you've got to have to be ready to deal with the emotions. Like it's a really weird thing.

So I get it. For me, I didn't think I would, it would necessarily be as quick as what it was. And I'm really, really, really lucky. I'm really grateful for that. And I wouldn't change anything. But I was feeling like she was feeling. And there's always something.

The thing is, I think what I'm trying to say is you'll always find something. There'll always be a Costa Rica. Yeah. They'll always be a wedding. There'll always be a something. And my biggest fear, when we went on our honeymoon, I cried to Alex. I was like, oh my God, what if, like, when I become a parent, I'm a shit friend. And it's like my biggest fear.

And it has been throughout the pregnancy. And it's like something that I like, hold on to her. I'm like, I have to keep showing up for my friends. And like, I don't want to change who I am as a person. And that. And then I kept being like, my two best mates aren't married yet. And I was like, maybe I should wait until they're married so that I can give them the hendoo that they gave me and not be like a responsible mom and still be fun. And like, like, fuck off responsibilities and take, you know, like Sarah to somewhere shit for her hen or whatever.

You know what I mean? Like, and she's not even got a boyfriend. And I was saying all this to Alex. And she was, he was like, what? She's not engaged. Like, she doesn't, she's single. Like you really want to not do this because. of that it's like oh yeah wait so I think the point is that you'll always look for

something a reason a wedding a something yeah I just want to do this Christmas oh I just want to do this summer but if it's if it's consuming you every single day well that's the thing like you have to weigh up yeah if this is something that is genuinely like on your mind all the time it's giving you anxiety cancel the Costa Rica trip go somewhere that doesn't have Zika virus and you can go when you're pregnant of course you can yeah what my advice would be is do something so whether it's you want to start trying or you want to do the grip fertility test. I think it's just sitting there every day not doing anything

that makes you feel like... Take some kind of action. Yeah, whether it's trying or just taking some control because otherwise you do just feel... And I think as a woman as well, you've got so many questions and so many this. And you've been with a partner 13 years. Me and Alex have been together nearly 10 years.

And I completely get it. And everyone gives you the eyebrow and the whatever. And you're like, I don't fucking know. Go away. So then at least you might feel like you do know. Yeah. If you're on it yourself. Take it.

Take control. Yeah. By the way, my sister, Jen, gave me a fantastic hendo. And it was Louis four months? Four months. And we had the best time. And she was absolutely slashed. So, so, it was so funny because one of my mates was like talking to me and Jen

about how she was like, yeah, it's just this thing that happens. Like, when you become a mom, like, you just can't get that drunk anymore. It's like your body just knows that it can't get that drunk. Like, it's just like a maternal instinct thing cut to like half an hour later. And Genevieve was like throwing up, like pumping and then sloshing her breast milk around everywhere. Literally she was like downing raw bacon. I was like, oh, this is chaos. I was like, what were you saying, Kaz about like not being able to get that drunk?

That's so good. Yeah, you're like, I don't know. I mean, I'm like terrified because I've got no idea what's coming. but it's a relief in a way to know that something's coming I don't know like I don't know I don't know I don't know I completely I just I think I had this conversation

with so many of my friends now and it's just like it's the not knowing when like one of my friends is going through this and she's just like I just don't know I want to move jobs but I can't move jobs because if I move jobs then I've got this but if I'm going to move house then I and it's just like is this so unfair like men just don't have this

I would love to be a man in the same way honestly I think about this daily Like I would just love to be a man. I would. Yeah, literally, Alex and... It'd be so pleasant. Alex and my friend do the same job and I think they were looking for different jobs at the same time.

And even the difference in like interview, thought process, everything is so different. Like, paternity leave does mean something to Alex and it has been important now and flexi working and stuff because that's the role that he wants to play. But before, it was before we were trying. And it genuinely, now we're in this position.

He's looking for paternity leave and stuff. but before, it didn't bother him because he just didn't have to think like that and they don't grow up thinking like that. So that wasn't a question that you ask in the interview stage. Yeah, just being like, do I get potentially, do I get maternity leave or whatever? But if a woman asks that, they're like, why? How old are you? What's your relationship to status?

Like, what are you thinking? It's so annoying. So, like, I've got friends that are like sitting in jobs, don't want to leave the jobs because the maternity leaves good there or, you know, they don't think they'll get a job somewhere else because they know that they're going to have to go off And it's just like, oh, this is just bullshit. If I could come back, come back, come back.

What man? What man? I know what you're going to say. You'd come back as a man. I'd come back as a man. What do you mean what man? What man would you come back as? Like a specific man, any man, yeah. I come back as Dave because he's got such a winner of a wife. You, uh, uh, uh, imagine Alex is Dave and Alex's Alex. Who would I come back as? I don't know. Like, who do that's the thing.

I just think like just a, I just, well, there are certain. things that I would like to have if I came back as a man. Make up? No. Oh. Hair. I mean, I think this is something, three things that men struggle with, right? Hair, height, dick size. Okay, yeah.

So I'd like to be a tall, with good hair. Full head of hair and a big dick. And then I'd like, then I'd like to come back as that man. She could come back as Piers Prattis Brosnan. And, but he's got a massive dick. I'd be so sad if it doesn't. Yeah, I don't think so. I don't know, I can see, yeah, I don't know.

I think a tremendous lover. Agree. I love him so much. You could come back as Robbie Williams. No, no. Probably not. I just, I'm thinking of all the people that I can think of with big dick energies. You can't give me this question.

This is way too vague. I can't just pick any single man in the entire world. I'd want to be someone not famous, though. I don't want to be a famous man. I don't want to be a non-famous man. I saw a guy on the tube this morning and I thought that looks like he looks like he's got a good life

like sick like smart like really like well cut suit basically like an expensive suit with nice shoes and he smelled nice but not too nice and he just looked he was married I'm guessing as kids because he looked a bit tired and he was just he just looked I was like that looks nice

Jen's got an idea there's a car driver that Alex didn't stop talking about for a few days That is random. Jen suggested, would you want to be a Cypriot man? Oh my God, he got, I forgot about him actually. So he picked us up from the airport, Dave and I. And he was like this six foot five, half Russian, half Cypriot.

He had curly hair, like beautiful, curly hair, like absolutely stunning. I was like this, the whole journey. And Dave was just looking at me, like, is this a joke? Are you joking? And I was like, oh my God. And also like Dave hates this because I get very deep. with people very quickly and they tell me things very quickly I think I take after my mum in that sense we ask a lot of questions and we're very interested in other people's lives

so they tell us stuff like quite quickly so in like five minutes who's telling me about his divorce and like how and I was like so are you dating now like how's it going the new girl what's she like what's she like what's going on and david's just looking at me like you're a joke he's not it's not serious not going anywhere interesting it's not going anywhere Alex books a flight back to Cyprus. Literally. Dave run out of holiday days. How convenient. Dave just looked like, just weary.

Just like, I can't do this. No, you wouldn't want to come back as him. You'd want to come back as his lover. If he was like, 26 year old man, so Dave was like, I can't compete this. No, hell no. It's hard to even try, Dave, just give up. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Let it go, walk away. You know where the battle's lost. Well remembered though, Jen, thanks. He does sound dishy. He does, yeah. Do you think Pierce Brosons on Instagram? Do you think you follow me? Probably not.

I doubt it, no offence. The other look. Pierce Brosman official. Yes, verified baby. He put up a photo of Robbie Colterina five days ago, so it's definitely him. Pierce Broson? Oh my God, the last photo that he put up,

loaded, he is wearing. Maybe he's gay. Very, like, he looks... He's got a wife, isn't he? Yeah. And he looks gorge in that pink suit. Yeah, he looks really good. Who are you talking about?

A man comfortable with his sexuality eye. Pierce Brosman. That's true. Metrosexual man. Why is everyone? I'm ignoring me. Who told him? Pius Blossent. Fuck, he's so fit.

Has he blocked me? I can't see him. Are you spelling it pierce like Pierce Morgan? Because it's pierced like pierce my ears. Oh. Pierce my heart. Pierce my vagina. Yeah, no.

It's okay. It's okay, everyone. He hasn't blocked me. That's fine. My God. Fuck, I mean, what a dish. Look at that. Are you kidding me?

Look at that. Sorry, no. Do you know who I really, really, really. fancy, Steve Carell. Steve Carell! Like, what? Have you seen him in recent years, though? Yes, he gives me the willies, he's in the morning show.

He is hot, no? No, that is hot. We want very different things out of the middle. Look at that. Steve Crowe, looks like a little mouth. I'm not getting them. I don't understand how, I'd say Steve Correll and Pierce Broson were the same age. No, Pierce Broson's all the, defoe.

If you're listening to this bit still if it hasn't been my ban for like smart there's a photo on Pierce Brosnan's Instagram account where he's standing against a green background and he just looks I'll tell you who I really He's nearly 70

Pierce Brosnan was nearly 70 Can we all agree on Hugh Jackman being an absolute ride What? He's so cringy! Thank you Jen Fuck off, Davey, get out I do not get that in the slightest What? No. What? No. To be fair, he looks like Alex actually. Yeah. He actually does look a bit like Alex. That helps. But yeah, I wouldn't see him in the cinema. I wouldn't see the greatest showman in the cinema like five times. And I credit Hugh Jackman for a large part of the morale boosting. That's nice. When he's walking down the drive and the people who get it, get it. Okay. When he's when they're singing a million dreams in the greatest showman and it's a little boy singing. And then the little boy disappears, thank God. he's so annoying and then Hugh Jackman walks Jen are you with me walks down the drive with his hat under

his arm and his deep voice oh it's so fair Jesus sorry I'm not I'm not I'm not there but each to their own you know different strokes for different folks you know what at least we'll never fight over a man no I don't think we will yeah like if we saw pitts brosven on the street like I wouldn't have to raise you I think you like more like like pretty boys, don't you? No. Pierce Blossom and Hugh Jackman are not pretty boys.

We're talking about Wolverine here and James Bond. See, I would say that they're quite pretty. I would say Steve Carell's much prettier. Yeah. I mean, ignoring Mamma Mia. Like, overlooked Mamma Mia. So effeminate.

And it's such a shame in Mrs. Doubtfire that he's allergic to Pepper because I just think that's so weak. You know what I mean? Like, you're going to be killed by a pepper. You're kidding. But I can say that because I'm allergic to dairy, which is just milk.

Like, who could be killed by milk? Tragic. Is it just me? These, by the way, the random quick ones I'm reading out are from a question box. I put on Instagram. Is it just me or does everyone plan their activities based on when their hair is the cleanest? 100%. I wash my hair once a week and it's generally on the day that I have plans.

Yeah. Oh yeah. I really dislike watching my hair. Fair enough. It's exhausting. To hold your arms up this whole time. Yeah. Well, it's just a barcloth?

Do it mask because you have to look after your stupid fucking hair. Yeah. Yeah, I have to time it all really well. Put heat spray on case it breaks. Got to put oil on the ends because they're frizzy. Yeah, it's the whole thing. I'm trying to look after myself because I just feel like I've just gone to shit. So now what I'm trying to do is when I've got like a big work from home day.

It's how in the morning I'll do some exercise, wash, like really make the most of like filthy hair, put a hair mask in, fake tan, let it all develop. Nice. and then whatever. I like that. But then I have to go out that night. Otherwise,

massively wasted. It's just a complete waste. What's the fucking point? I do, I do enjoy that. Like, on a Sunday doing, doing a hair mask and putting fake tan on,

like I'll do two layers. I should have done two layers. I did one layer the other day and I just, I'm like, it's never enough. It's never enough. You always need two. But it's such a fucking faf to do two layers

because you could do one layer and you're all naked. You just got to stand there like let it dry and then do the other one it's such a fath i didn't even know too layers as an option that's what i'm going to do next week yeah which one do you use sanchipay which uh moose no the spray one water one no the spray one is it clear no oh okay well tell me what i should use it because i don't know okay use a well i love a water or a clear moose i used to only use things with guide color tan with guide color in and now i just use clear stuff because it's just

i just find it so much better i'll put an order in um so yes it clear like clear mousse or water and it dries so quick like so so so quick okay there you go um yeah the hair washing thing is a massive burden but then i just also i think there's something to be said for never washing your hair so that on the days that you do wash your hair everyone's like god you look amazing yeah and people really notice people are like fuck you look so good yeah i'm like i i washed i do feel but whenever i do it and like blow dry it properly i'm like why don't i do this all the time but then I never do because I'm like oh I look so nice like this but also you look so nice and then it's winter so how nice did I look yesterday morning before I left the house you

don't know you didn't see because by the time I got to you like a fucking sack of shit because I'm sweated it's the tube man you get on the tube yeah so you just get sweaty and I've got like curly hair so all like frizzy curly hair I don't know what the fuck's going on with it in pregnancy but like and then it just gets like up and then it just looks sad and also this weather now where it's kind of like drizzly and there's humidity in the air it's just the no go. Yeah. So just lean in, look shit. Yeah. And this, and I said this on my Instagram story this morning, the lower you start, the lower to the ground that you start, the further it is to fall when things go wrong. Yeah. So, you know, it's no great loss. It's, it's so easy to

impress when you're that low to the ground, you know? Just a little bit of effort and people like, whoa. Yeah. Put the bar that you can literally trip over it every day. Words of advice. On that note, thank you so much for joining us. And we will, we will see you next week. And if you want to provide us with any of your own entries, is it just me or any embarrassing stories, you can email us on shoulda delete that pod at gmail.com or you can DM us on Instagram at should I delete that and we love a voice note. We do love a voice note and we will see you next Monday. See you and M. Stay ugly. Kunma. Bye. Thank you so much for listening. Should I delete that is part of the ACAST creator network.

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