Should I Delete That? - Is It Just Me: I wanna lick the wall

Episode Date: April 3, 2024

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Okay, hello, welcome back to Should I Delete That? This is an Is It Just Me episode and I have just had a horrifying DM. You're good to go. Wait, what is going on? And there's no foreplay here. We are. Right. Don't do the... Don't say that. A new expression. Right. Okay. This person... Made it into the podcast. This is insane.

Okay. I don't know, I haven't. This is just me that I need other people to be on side with. You've come to the wrong people. My boyfriend offered to make me a sandwich for lunch the next day. To which I obviously said, yes. He asked where the bread was and I said it was in the freezer, to which he replied that he would have to wait for it to de-frost before making the sandwich. I disagreed and said to go ahead and make the sandwich anyway. Wack it in the fridge and by lunchtime tomorrow it'll be de-frosted and good to eat.

He was horrified to even consider buttering frozen bread. But in my opinion, it's efficient, saves time, and waiting on the bread to do you. France, which my lunch is ready to go in the morning. In his opinion, I'm a psychopath and belong on some kind of register. What are your thoughts? I never realized I was opening such a big can of words when I said this. I am horrified. Shamedish with frozen bread. Sorry, that is so gross. It makes so much sense. I'm actually 100%. I'm like, yeah, you get it, girl. She's not going to eat it frozen, but to make it frozen. No, because it's because it's all soggy then. It'll be all soggy the next day because

all the water's had to come out of it. it. Where would the water? Don't you freeze? What the fuck? Right. Okay. So if you freeze something right, then it's, then it's full of water, right? Well, yeah, because I always thought if you want to de-frost bread, put it in the toaster. Yeah, I put mine in the toast down. Actually, I put mine in the air fryer now and put it on bake for two minutes. I do that with a bagel. Ding-dong. Yeah, ding-dong. Yeah, ding-dong. Oh, it's fronchy. Oh, fuck on the inside. Oh, God, what I wouldn't do for a bagel right now. That's really disgusting. There's absolutely nothing about it. There's disgusting. I feel like it's disgusting to me.

I just imagining her having to... What if you ate it and it was still a bit frozen? Well, it will be. What does it like to eat frozen bread, do you think? I'm imagining the texture feels very visceral. It's like you always know what it's going to be like. Everything you look at in this room, you know what it would feel like to lick, which is so weird because you probably haven't licked most of the things in this room.

I hope. That's just such a weird thing to say, Anne. But isn't it's so true. Yeah, it's so true. Yeah, it's so true. It's because like we know what, it's like to feel it. Yeah, but you know exactly what it's like to lick. Got my intrusive thoughts, I'm like, God, I want to lick the wall.

But you know exactly what it would feel like. And I feel like, despite having never eaten a piece of frozen bread, now all I want to do is eat a piece of frozen bread. I do not. But I don't even need to do it because I know exactly what it would feel like. I haven't, is it just me? Okay. I have a problem with things that have been in the freezer.

Like, I feel like they've got freezer juice on them, even though there's no freezer juice. Do you? No, I love the freezer. Do you? I love the freezer. Since weaning a baby, though, the freezer is my best friend. Is it?

Whole top shelf, yeah, because I have got cauliflower cheese pots, mac and cheese pots, bolognese pots, fish cakes, sand and fish cakes, cod cakes. I've got a batch. It all sounds gorgeous. And it was because she doesn't eat loads. So you make, like, a human portion. Yeah. She didn't have that much. The rest of it, freezer.

And then what are you going to have for dinner? I'll just check the freezer. Put a little inventory on the outside, on the whiteboard on the outside. Do you? Yeah. So I know what's in there. you send me a picture of the whiteboard yeah and then i know what's in the fridge also so we've got like what's in the fridge what's in the freezer yeah for her not for us but like what meals

this is such a me kind of thing i know yeah so we can all like communicate about like because otherwise it's like well if i've slaved over a cauliflower cheese i don't want to go into waste i need i need a picture of your whiteboard tonight please yeah there's like too much in the fridge in the midst of my soul i know so it's like since then i've got really into the freezer because it's like you put like frozen food in bolognese like bolognese for example in ice cube trays like the silicon ones because then you just pop out two of them

how did you know all this? I don't know my friend Catherine told me about the ice cube trick which is super useful so so that's one portion now it would be two but like two cubes of bolognaise and then you just get them out and put them in a sauce pan put them in the air fryer

wow yeah and then like you could like puree like I don't know butternut squash potato and carrot all together and then just whack it in the freezer and then you could use that as a pasta sauce so it's just like just pop it out of a cube tray or at the beginning when I was weaning

and I'd put like breast milk and broccoli in it's like one thing and then I put them in an ice cube tray and then yeah you can just whack it out and then just put it on a pasta or whatever when she gets older. I know so now I fucking love the freezer and for myself

because I just fill up with plant-based Kievs whack them in the freezer and then what are we going to have for dinner? Kiev baby. I'm probably going to buy a freezer on the way home. You don't have a freezer? No, we do, but it's not. absolutely tiny. It's like two shells. Oh, it's full of Betty's button up. Yeah, button up.

We have no room for anything in the freezer. Preeters are great. I told you, I've told you this before. Chest freezers, I've got a massive phobia is I'm convinced someone's going to kill me and then put me in my own chest freezer. No doubt. So you're asking for it if you have a chest freezer. You know what? At least if someone puts me in the chest freezer, I can make my way through frozen bread because this girl says it's delicious, it's a delicacy. She buttes it. That's obscene. That is Utterly obscene. Utterly obscene. But what she is missing is we need to know what the topic, the filling was.

What was the filling? She didn't mention that. Because if it was ham, one piece of ham and one piece of slice of cheese, right? That's more acceptable to me than putting something soggy on it. Like, lettuce. Gross. Egg mayo rank. On a frozen.

Not rank in real life, a favourite, favourite ever, but on a frozen bread. I've said it to you before. I don't have said it to you before. I don't understand egg mayo because mayo is just egg. So you just having egg egg or meo mayo, meo. Yeah, but it just tastes so much better. It just looks absolutely. It tastes even better, I should say. It's a love egg anyway, but.

You do love an egg. And salt. You love an egg. I fucking love eggs. You fucking love an egg. What's your poo like? Do you pee often? They kind of bung you up, I think.

Do they? Yeah. I don't think so. I'm all right. I have at least two a day. You have at least two a day. At least two a day. Two a day?

Yeah. You're too. And it's a treat if I don't have eggs in the morning. Because then I get to have to have an egg. an omelet at night. And an omelette is the only thing I can eat. Talking about it. It's a treat if I don't have one in the morning.

I thought you were talking about how much you made. At least two a day. Oh, you thought that it was about, oh my God, no. You should have to show the happy about it. You look so shocked. I was like, it's really not that big a deal. It's like, two eggs a day. How many poos do you have a day?

I'm all right. I have like two days. Yeah, I get it. Now, I see it. Everyone else will have thought that I've met that as well. I don't do, I don't have two poos a day. One. One a day.

Yeah. Yeah, as you should. But two eggs a day. Yeah, fair enough. So I only eat, because I don't eat eggs because I don't like, the farming element of a lot of like

eggs but my mum rescues chickens so I'll eat those eggs they are such a treat when we get those up oh my god I love it and there's if I've been to the farm like a cackle bean farm

like I know where those chickens I'll eat those eggs because I know where those chickens yeah like I've seen them seen them in my eyes you know what I mean yeah so like I do I don't basically I don't have eggs all the time but like when I when I do

How'd you have them? Oh, well, I got quite into my omelets because I make omelets for Arlo all the time. So I was like, God, this is a treat. So I got into making those. So then I'll have omelets. Love a boiled. Love a boiled. And quite frankly, I don't know how to poach or, oh, I can scramble now.

I've been scrambling because I just didn't eat them for like years and years. And I've been able to sort of come back to them. Unpopular opinion. There is no point in poaching because it's just a boiled egg. 100% agree except it's probably going to taste a bit vinegary

because people exactly it tastes vinegar and watery yeah because it's been soaking in water and it also just looks like

a naked testicle didn't see that before now it's all I see it is a naked testicle isn't it it's a one

naked testicle yeah yes when do you ever have one punch egg you've got two it's two

naked testicles you've got a set of bollocks there a set of soggy bollocks hi ow ow o'er tommy

there's loads of you now ohmg and possibly a guest if I was still on maternity leave. I love the pod so much you've been recommending it to my friend since episode one.

Stop! Thank you, love you. Bless it. That's really nice. I haven't, is it just me? Yes. Is it just me that's having a late 20s

identity crisis? Honestly, no. I'm 28 years old. How old am I? Oh my God, I'm 29. Sorry. You're 30s.

I was about to say same. And then I'm like, well, no. I'm fine. I'm 28 years old. And apart from my job that I really enjoy. I feel like I have no idea what I want out of life. I used to think I wanted to get married and have kids, but now I'm not sure. I bought a house with my boyfriend in a small

market town, but after living here for nearly three years, I'm really starting to regret not travelling more, which I can't do now because only a house is expensive and I've got no money. I'm not living in a city. My thoughts and feelings seem to have changed so much in the last six months, and I don't know why. Help. P.S. I really do like, I really do love the pod. It's like having a cat talk with my two best friends. You know what? I actually had this chat with my best friend last like go on and she always she's just turned 30 and she always thought that she'd have like be married with kids by now and she's just not and she's actually like super she ended up further away from that recently than like ever and she's never been fucking happier really ever and she was saying

she's been really struggling because like everyone at work is like well she there's this one girl at work who keeps taking the piss out of her for being old and like did she not want to have kids by now blah blah blah blah and you know tic-tock you clock's ticking all this shit and she's going really stressed about it but she's like genuinely in my life like I'm so happy but I feel like for the last two years she's been feeling like this girl has and just like oh my god what am I doing and blah blah blah and with the wrong person not saying that this girl's with the wrong person but my friend had a break up and then has now come through the other side and I actually it was definitely her sat in return which is the thing we talked in an episode about a few months

ago with caggy Dunlop but yeah she had this sort of like massive life shift and she's now coming through the side and she's like I was literally born to be 30 I'm so happy I found myself I've got into my she's so I've never seen her so happy she looks amazing she's absolutely vibing like she's just it's mad like me and her on such different paths and I think like she was just saying she's like you know society had me believing I was supposed to do this one thing then it's only as I've given my self permission to like not do it right now but I'm like the happiest ever been that's so cool isn't it yeah that's so cool everything about her energy is just I mean chaotic as

hell mad like this is my best friend this is always gone with she was out in Berlin until she was out on a nightclub and she got home at 7 a.m she ate one meal in three days I'm like you've gone feral at 30 years old she's going to Miami on Thursday to go like I mean to go what I don't know all I know is that the outfits like it's me and her are on very different vibes right now I mean no wonder she's the happiest she's a boy girl now she's a bloody person love but if you'd her even a year ago, her life was completely different to what she's building for herself now. So I guess all of that is just to say, I don't think you're on your own with this.

I think it's quite a common thing. Very common. If you do feel the need to completely press the fuck it button and just transform your life, might be the best thing that ever do. I think it's that period where you're approaching 30 that feels really scary. Yeah. Because it feels like a big milestone. And, you know, most of our mum's had had us.

at that point. I'd had kids at that point before 30. Yeah, because they could afford to. It was a different time. It was a completely different time. They were expected to and they could afford it. Yeah, completely different time. And it feels like, it feels like, 30 is like looming and you have to have to, you have to get your shit together by them, but you just don't. You just don't. Like, I, I've talked about this before, but like, I split up with my ex of 10 years when I was nearly 30. And I was like, horrified. Like, oh my God. this is not what I had in mind. This was not my plan.

This is so crazy. And I feel like this was just, this was never supposed to happen. And it was like the best thing that happened, you know, in hindsight. At the time, it felt incredibly scary. But, and I just think we put so much pressure on that, on that timeline. I mean, I had a, I mean, I was quite confused by this,

but I did have a question what's the other day. And someone wrote in it, not a question, but you've made me realize that at 34, I'm not too old to become a mom. I was like, I was a bit confused because I was like, of course you're not. I don't know, like that was, I was like, of course not. It's, yeah, I mean, I don't know, that could, it confused me a little bit. But I think people do start to really panic. Yeah, I think we put, there's so much pressure on this.

I didn't think, yeah, I don't know. And it's weird, even though I've had the kid, I still feel coming up to 30 that I've got this crazy pressure on me. really to have done more and i'm like what more could i possibly do right now no i know but i've i've still got it like looming over me like oh my god i'm going to be 30 and like my whole identity is so much it's so linked to being young i don't know it's really weird it's really weird i'm feeling a bit that's weird your whole identity being linked to being feeling young like that is weird that's something that i'm feeling at the moment where i'm especially when i'm seeing characters on TV. Yeah, seeing

characters on TV, find, and then I'm like, oh, yeah, they're so much older than me and then I'm finding out they're actually the same age as me. Sometimes even younger and I'm like, what the fuck? Yeah, I always get that when I watch Wimbledon. Or Formula 1, that all 24. I'm like, oh, base off. Yeah, that's, that's mad.

Yeah, I don't know, I think like my whole, I don't know, even my career, like, everyone was, you're an opinionated young woman. Obviously, I've been like, coined as a daughter for so long. It's all been like, and I'm the youngest of all my friends and I was young in this current society I think quite young to have a baby and like yeah so young young young and now I'm like okay well I'm not going to be so young anymore

and I know 30 is still young but like I'm having this really big like I know and it's funny it's perspective isn't it because I'm 35 and I'm like oh my god 30 is so young yeah and someone who was is 40 would be like 35 so young you know yeah it's all perspective totally but I think like This sounds bigger than, like, because you're... I mean, maybe it's intensified because you're approaching 30. I don't think... We've actually just had a conversation with Jacqueline, which may be out already,

but probably is going to be coming out in a week or two, about this. About this, like, you know, you say, I can't do this. Like, and I'm regretting... Not... I'm regretting this and I'm whatever. And that episode might be really helpful for you because it's a lot about, like, owning your choices.

Because I get that it may be harder to go travelling because, yes, owning a house is expensive. of the young one of the money. But there may be options. Like, you may be able to rent it out and use that money to pay the mortgage and sack off your job. And because in the scheme of life, you're really fucking young. And if you want to, like, sack it all off and go traveling and take your boyfriend, ditch your boyfriend, whatever, you can. You know, it's not like, I don't know, I think, it's like we've got this thing that like, at first, all the choice goes. And it's like, you know, and you're going to be pulling away this one thing and then that'll

be that. And then you're fucked. You're not. You're not. And you're completely like anchored, you know, anchored to this one spot when you're 30. And don't do that because that's where the resentment will come and regret and whatever. And it's just like you can't do it. Like, and use my best mate as a case study. And she's so happily through the other side. I thought the last guy she was with, she was talking about having kids with him. And like, and this was going to be that.

And they were going to get married and they were going to have kids. And I didn't like it. But that's by the bye. But, you know, like she, this. is what she wanted. Yeah. And I don't think it's actually, I don't know,

it is what she wanted at the time, and it's what she thought she should have. And it's only now that's all changed, that she's so fucking happy. And she's just like, and all the things I think she'd have said the same thing, oh, I can't do this because of this, and I can't do this because of this,

and then a series of things have happened, and now she can, and she is. And that's the thing, if you feel it really, if it feels that strong to you, do what feels that. strong to you because that's obviously the right way to go. Yeah.

Not obviously because it's, I don't know, it's kind of easy for me to sit here and say that, especially when you've got like conflicting wants. Yeah. And I think you can also love your boyfriend, you know, it might not be like, maybe, you know, you need to be free from him, but, or, you know, in order to go and do this fully and be free and whatever. I don't know his role in this. But don't feel that buying a house and moving location.

is what's tied you down because that's not, it's harder, yes, but don't let that be your barrier. Because at the end of the day, like, they're bricks and a roof and, like, it's a thing. Yeah. And this is you and your life and you're so much bigger than that one thing and the logistics of that one thing. So take or leave your boyfriend, that's between you and him. But, like, I don't let the house hold you back. That's so true.

And it's such a good point about renting it out. I don't think about that. Yeah, totally. Yeah, you can just rent it, use that money to pay the mortgage. I'm assuming that's how you've funded it. Yeah. And then, yeah, I think that's what a lot of people do. And then you can just go traveling and be like, oh, I'm a property mogul.

I own a small. I'm a landlord. Yeah, I'm a landlord. I own a property and wherever you own a property and then, yeah, that's that's that. Do you know what's probably good to do as well? So talk to people that are in your life and understand, you know, we don't know you in like the context and the complexities of your life but talk to someone who understands that

and who will probably be able to give you a clearer insight and remember that if it's your mum she won't want you to go yeah yeah yeah I was thinking like a best friend or sister maybe but yeah but people people want what they want people want you people will okay my brother my brother's moving away selfishly I'm fucking heartbroken what do you mean going obviously it's what he wants

and it's the best thing for him and he's doing this he's the same age as you and he's about to just completely change his life and I'm like you're gonna leave you whatever

like that's selfish that's me being selfish and the people around you might do that but I know that he needs to do this because he wants to so that's the same for you if you need to do it

and you want to let the people around you be selfish because they love you and that's why they're being selfish because they want you but ultimately at the end of the day everyone actually really wants the best for you and that's the most important thing whatever that looks like yeah let's know what let us know what happens yeah send us a postcard from barley or wherever you end up yeah or the seaside town that you live in um if you do or a house boat over the front door whatever you want are your boyfriend yeah either way there are no wrong choices just

follow your heart we love you actually on a same theme if we stick with this. Yeah. So this girl says, need to say, I love the pod. Thank you. Makes my commute so much more enjoyable. And maybe is it just me is something that you might be able to both advise on. I'm currently in my mid-20s and have them with my lovely boyfriend since I was 19. We've talked about this before actually, but I think it's quite, um, leads on from the

woman we're just talking about our relationship is really, is really strong and we're planning on moving in together next year. But there is a part of me that worries I committed to one person too young. I'm missing out on the experience of dating different people in my 20s, which then leads me to wonder how I can know if he's the right person for me, if this is the only serious relationship I've ever had. I love my boyfriend and I don't want to end our relationship, but sometimes I feel guilty for feeling this way. I'm just wondering if anyone can relate. Can so relate? Of course. That's so normal that you feel like that. So, so normal. I need to be careful because my husband is

literally in the room next door and I think he can hear me. He doesn't listen to the pod so it's normally a save space. Save something horrendous. Alex has massive nipples. Nope, can't hear us. It doesn't have massive nipples, but they're actually tiny. Anyway, I just thought, get his attention and he didn't, so he can't hear us. So, yeah, I got with Alex when I was same age as you are.

I was 18, actually, and obviously married him. I've got to get with him. And of course, you have these fucking things. And Alex is the only serious relationship I ever had. And you can, yeah, you can sit and wander and wander and wander. It's a grass greener, it's the grass greener, it's the grass greener, it's a grass greener, is the grass greener. The grass is greener where you water it. And like, if you feel that you are nurturing a, like, we live in such a wild society now where like there's always

something better. Like, there's a better cut of jeans and there's a better channel. There's a, there's a better, oh, married at first sight, Australia is better than the English one. And then, like, oh, yeah, Starbucks coffee's good, but have you had a gale? Like, there's always something, there's always something better and something new. And, like, capitalism has such a massive effect on us and actually that's not how love works and we don't view relationships I don't think in the way that we should I think we're so in the current climate so just like it's such a task like finding a partner is such a task whereas in the olden days right like and I'm not saying it was right because you know women couldn't get divorced or you know I'm not saying it was right

but like I think my grandparents met because like my grandma was the only one that no one had lost to dance and my granddad was like age one we'll do it and then that was that and then they were like 20 and then they got married and then they had kids and they made their happy life yeah the love grows the love grows I think you don't and we actually

here we talked to Nadia who's saying about this in an episode quite recently and it's like if you love your boyfriend and you love your life then that's great and you can continue to grow together and that's the best thing about my relationship with Alex, is that we've been so many different people together.

Yeah. And we've grown through all of that adversity. And we have, we have stronger relationships than ever, than anyone, than ever, than anything, because we've had so many of them. We've had so many different parts to it. And that's such a, like, rich tapestry and that's such a privilege. And yeah, you can wonder and you can wonder. And it's not really a surprise that you do because, you know, every big love story and glamourisation

and Hollywood and fiction and everything makes you believe that there's something better and there's something more magic but actually you can grow the loveliest love and the loveliest life obviously if you actually realise you kind of hate him and don't fancy him

and think he sucks then cut and run but if you love him that's what everybody else is looking for it's so normal to have those feelings I think I think well yes we're also in a society now where we're like we're taught that there's always something better

around the call and not just in dating, but like in life in general, and that we can get everything and anything we want and that we should strive for the best. But yeah, like you say, that's not how love works and that's not how relationship works. Also, dating can be really, really hard. Like, I think it's easy to look on the outside and be like,

oh, it's so fun, you know, dating, doing all these dates all the time and going on, you know, meeting different people. but it actually, for a lot of, and it's not saying that it can't be fun, but it also, it can be fun, but it also can be really exhausting and draining and, you know, I know a lot of friends who have to tap out of it every now and again because it's just, it's hard, it's really hard and it's, and it can be really crushing when you're trying to, you know, meet someone, looking to meet someone and it just, it doesn't, it doesn't happen. So the grass isn't always griever. Yeah. And I think as well, sometimes you imagine, like, oh, one might stand. Like, oh, I could, I could do this and this and this. Then I actually think about the reality. I'm like, right, so I've got to shave everything, presumably. And then it's like, right, I've got to go back to someone's house, stranger danger. And then, like, they will have disgusting humanness everywhere. You know, in the romanticisation, in your head, you think, right, right, you can go into like John Hamm's bachelor pad and like. It's like Ken.

Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And it's all. going to be like so perfect and sexy and whatever and then in reality they probably haven't changed their sheets in eight days and like and the thing is with your boyfriend and with your husband you love them so you love the smell of them on the sheets and and you love them so you don't mind the fact that their dirty pants are on the floor and you love them so the fuck this fucking stubble in the sink is fine but if it's so random it's like oh like the idea of having to like like see another man's skid marks and like oh I can't And that's the reality.

I don't want to see my husband's skin marks either. You just throw an Alex right under the bus. Skiddy Alex. He's clean as he's like a little cat. Honestly, he might as well have a litter tray in the carton. But that's the thing. It's like, it's not to say that like that life, that one light stand life or just like dating around. It's not fun.

Like that's fun for some people. But if you've got something that you really do love, I think it's okay to like mourn the other side of that and let and then let that go and just realize that on the one-line stand life for people who love it I just mean I think the veneer I think the yeah it's not as glamorous as it sounds yes I think the reality actually when you're in it yeah is not it just doesn't match up to your imagination it's like with everything isn't it it's like with everything like nothing is it is as exciting as it looks and we always want what we don't have and then but that's just that's just

the reality isn't it yeah yeah and it's I think it is normal but you're having this feeling it's so normal And you want to move in and everything's going to be different. I think even like a mindset shift with this of being like how lucky that I've got someone that I really love and we have a life together that I really like and it's okay that I have these feelings but I'm going to nurture what I do have

and let go of what I don't. People are so different with me actually which is quite a good thing which was like I didn't need to go out because I didn't have to go and look for a partner I can just sort of crack on doing it. Yeah. Yeah.

Which is a really important mindset shift And I just think, you know, what's meant to be or be? And if he's your person, he's your person. There's no age limit when you find you get it. No, that's the thing. You might break up in 10 years' time and then you can go dating. It's just what you want to hear, Al. No, but she might.

Or like five, or like 20 or 30, whatever. And then you can go out and do your dating then. Yeah. Good idea. Yeah. Good option. Whatever you want. You're never too old.

It's, you're grand. Yeah. I found a second wedding dress when I bought my first and I found one for my second wedding. And I don't. No, as time passes, I'm like, I'm just going to have to get married to Alex again. Am I going to have to do a Katie Price wedding renewal? I think you should do a vow renewal. I don't think anyone, I don't think I should do that.

The only people I know that do that are people on Bravo, like the Real Housewives. They do that a lot. I do like a 10-year vile renewal. Do you think they do it for the party, or do you think they do it for the love? I think they do it for the show. Oh. And I enjoy it. It seems to be a curse, though.

What would happen? What would you say if I sent you an email being like, hey, I'm... One year of that or a new. Yeah, no, two. Two. Two year about all over you all. I'd be like, fuck it. Yeah, let's have a party.

Really? Yeah. Do what you want. I'm there. I'm keen. I'll buy a nice dress. That's a nice. Well, I was thinking if I didn't do it, I could just wear it to my next kid's christening.

Not to steal the show. Completely steal the show. A couple of white gowns. Teens. And I've been a wedding dress. Walked home. the aisle with your child. I love it. Okay, guys, well, this has been, this has been a, this has been a hoot.

This, this is, this has been a nice one. Don't butter, frozen bread. I, I'm just, just, disturb by that. Our behaviour, but also, if you love it, crack on babes. I love that for you. You know, you know full well what I'm going to do when I go home. No, don't do that. Okay, do that. Okay, do that and then let me know. Knock it if I haven't done it. I don't want to judge her. I can't judge her. Who am I to judge, I haven't even tried it. Might be fucking great.

She might be a genius. I just realized that I've never actually left bread to defrost. I've only ever just put it in the toaster. So I don't know what it's like if it went de frost. I think it's probably absolutely fine. Do you reckon? Yeah, you know, but people used to think Elvis Presley was like the devil, because they didn't like pop music and they were like,

oh, they judged him too soon. And maybe that's what we're doing. Maybe she is that Elvis Presley. We've got whiplash. Sorry, what? Well, I'm just thinking. You know, people don't like innovators. They don't like change makers.

They don't like disruptors because it challenges them, you know? Daisy, you don't look at me like that. She might be on to something. We can't judge this girl. Yeah, Jay's, Daisy's on board. Sorry, I'm still reading from Elvis Presley. Right, we'll see you guys on Monday. How tall was he?

Doesn't matter. Doesn't matter. Doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. But now I need to know, so. Obviously, it will be good. All right, love you guys. See you on Monday. Thank you so much for listening.

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