Should I Delete That? - Is It Just Me: Sitting on a wall eating an egg sandwich x

Episode Date: March 29, 2023

This week, the girls get a follow up from some previous advice they gave, discuss what it's like to go for a wax and the collective Millennial fear of Gen Z...Tickets for our next live show at The Podcast Show in London can be found here: https://tourlink.to/ShouldIDeleteThatTPS (pre-sale Thursday 30th March, on sale from Friday 31st March)Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at [e-mail] & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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jazz hands that's how panicked I am you need a full-on jazz hand and and I won't be drinking this time but you probably will, so that's great. Oh my gosh, yeah, I'm not pregnant. What am I going to wear? Oh, yeah, we're going to get a stylist. Oh, no, wait. Well, we're thinking about it. We're thinking about looking good.

We want to look good. We want to look extra. Yeah. I don't know. I want to look extra. I want to look good. I haven't felt like I've looked good in very many moons, so... Okay, so you need to look and feel good.

Yeah, I need to look like I just haven't had my body ravaged by pregnancy. So we'll see what we can do. Anyway, the link is in the show notes, and we can't wait to see as many if you're there as possible. We really, really hope to see you there and we promise not to sing this time. We promise. Hello and welcome back to Show Delete That.

Is it just me? Addition? We could work on that. Okay. Hello. Hi. I am feeding a baby. I apologise for those noises.

Don't apologize. Bit loud. We love the little, the little Aolo noises. They're very cute. She's a star. She's a hungry, hungry star. Oh, how you doing? Good.

Is it just me? I'm excited. I have something to tell you. I had it on a podcast yesterday. Go on. Allo. Shh. Did you know that when the Titanic sank?

Yeah. There was no plastic. on board. There was no plastic on the Titanic. Because it wasn't invented yet. I can't, I can't confirm or deny that. I just know that there was no plastic on the Titanic when it sank. Right.

Come on. Like what? Okay. When did the Titanic sink? 1912. 1912. When was plastic invented? Should remember this, but don't.

19.05. Okay. So that's probably why, right? It was only 1907. Oh, well, it's five years out. Two, two years. Oh, for fuck's sake. It's fucking chaos.

It's just kind of amazing. Imagine if there's fucking cruise ship sank now. Yeah, that's crazy. I mean, it wouldn't sink. It would just bob along because it's so, like, I just imagine it's like huge pedos now. Just like, it's like, Completely blasted.

Okay, well, thank you for that fact. That was really great. You've missed these titbits. I am so miss them. So we've been asked for some advice, and I thought this was a really interesting one to answer, right? Because we both have experience. Hi, ladies, love the pod, of course.

I was wondering if we could talk about bikini waxes. I'm off to Portugal in April. Of course we can. M's more familiar than most. I'm off to Portugal and April for my birthday and it's my first all-inclusive, amazing, lounge by the pool holiday since 2013. Oh, so nice, so jealous, that sounds amazing.

Not only that, but it's my first... Yeah, please. Not only that, but it's my first all-inclusive with full food freedom, which has come with a bit of weight gain. Because of this, I find it harder to make sure I've shaved my vulva and butt properly, and it's not until I look in the mirror later,

I realize I have patches everywhere. So I'm thinking of going for my first ever bikini wax pre-holiday. I'll be turning 27 on the holiday. It's a birthday present. And I've never had a wax before apart from my eyebrows. I know it's a good idea and I shouldn't be nervous. These people look at vulvas all day, but I am nervous. And I'm also not even sure what to expect.

Like will it hurt for a bit afterwards? Will I get a rash? Should I get it a few days before the holiday or will that risk regrowth? But will getting it too close risk burns from the pool? I have no idea. Please can we talk experiences and also the taboo around it? P.S. I fully support anyone who doesn't give a crap and doesn't shave down there, by the way. I'm just super duper hairy down there and it stretches down my legs too.

So I'm a bit self-conscious of it and waxing it off will make me feel a lot better. Especially since I'll be wearing a bikini in a larger body for the first time. I have enough to worry about lull. Thanks ladies and bub. Oh my God. Okay. I can answer all these questions with pleasure. So I don't know about you. I normally go for wax like a day before I travel. Maybe two, depending. I am lucky. I don't get a rash afterwards. So that's not a consideration for me. Do you? I don't know because if, yeah, I think that's quite uncommon to get a rash as far as I'm aware. I get like

initial, initial redness like sensitivity. Yeah, and you don't, what you, after a wax, you don't, you shouldn't go in hot water for the rest of the day or for 24 hours, I think they say. Um, because that can exacerbate the redness. But, they normally put a bit of like suede creme or aloeira or something on it depending on where you go but let's just rewind take into the beginning so what to expect you're going to get there you're going to go in and you're going to have books a bikini wax which so just to um like bikini waxing for newbies bikini waxing is literally just where they do like everything outside of the bikini so you kind of keep like a lot of it but just anything that

you can see from in a bikini. A Hollywood is where everything goes. And a Brazilian is like, sort of like pretty much all gone apart from like a little bit at the top, right? That's my understanding. So you'll tell them what you want. Yeah, a little landing strip. You'll tell them what you fancy.

And then you get in there. You fill in a little form. And then you go and sit, you go into the room and normally they leave the room, which I always just think is weird. They're like, you get yourself ready. I'm like, literally about to park my butt cheeks, like, by all means, stay. You might as well see the warm-up act, but okay.

So they'll leave you to get undressed. So you, like, take your jeans and your pants and your, well, I mean, I always leave my socks on and then regret it. I'm like, why have I done this? It's so on. So I'm cool to look at my own sock-clad feed. And then you just lie on the little bed with your vulva out, to be fair, and then they come back in and they get to work and it's fine I mean it's not you know like having a massage but it's okay and you can tell them that it's your first one you can tell them that you're nervous you can tell them that you're

sensitive you can tell them you know there's a lot of places can do them you know like I'm like just get it done so they're like so quick but I know that they can do it like a lot slower if you're nervous or scared and if you do find it painful it's better to go slower so you can handle the pain a bit better. There are also places that specialise, sorry, and like nervous or, if you Google it. But I mean, I think you can probably just go to a normal place and to tell them that you're nervous. This isn't tried and tested. I have no experience, but I've heard that sugar waxing is less painful.

I was going to say this. My sister, my sister gets it sugared. I don't know what the word is for that. but yeah my sister does sugaring and she's always loved it she hated getting wax I think she's got quite sensitive skin um and she just really didn't get on with it so she goes and does sugaring and she absolutely loves it I don't know what it is but um but I mean assuming you're going to have no issues which I'm sure you won't it's a very easy thing I mean like different practitioners have different ways of asking you to get your butt hole out um and

that's as far as I'm concerned the most awkward part because sometimes they're like just like legs in the air and I can reach your butt from you. here sometimes they tell you to roll over it's all sorts sometimes getting all fours yeah um but as far as i'm concerned the butthole's the worst bit it doesn't hurt at all it's just you know no but it's okay also i used to take paracetamol before i went did you yeah and ibuprofen i don't know if that's like correct medical knowledge um obviously not a doctor but i took two paracetamil two ibuprofen before I went and that helped all the pain because I've got a super sensitive skin so I did I did find it quite painful I also think I've got very low pain

threshold as well so like it wasn't great for me but that helped from the like I have quite a high pain threshold and my skin's fine and I find waxing to be pretty easy like again there's stuff I'd rather be eating biscuits or like lying on a beach but you know means to an end it's absolutely fine and I think it's fine for most people and I cannot stress this enough bikini waxers I said I wanted to we wanted to do an episode with a bikini waxer I know to answer all these

questions and like really have the conversation I think we still should um but I promise they've seen every type of vulva testicle but hole imaginable they just don't give a shit they do not care they have zero interest in what it looks like

I went to a place showed me every single time she tore a bit off she was like do you want to see and just like show me. I was like, you don't need to keep doing this. Like, I know what was there. Do you want to see?

Yeah. Although that is quite satisfying. I do get that. But you get to say, like, do you want to see whilst showing me? I was like, well,

I'm seeing it now. Honestly, it's so fine. Like, I get, I get the heepy jeeys around it, but it's so fine. Like, pain is temporary.

It doesn't hurt. The second it's over, it stops hurting. Like, you know, you put your trousers back up and you, walk down the street with your new shiny vagina and you'll feel stunning. Oh my god and it's like

it's like the best feeling it's like you can feel the breeze down there. I feel like it's like ding! Like I literally feel like it's got that kind of like sparkle. Like you know at the end of you know when you watch a Disney film and then Tinkerbell like goes over the top of the castle and then it goes like ding and it'll look at the bottom. That's what I imagine my vagina, my vulva is when I'm like walking down the street after it. And also if you are, it sounds like this girl, I think she said she's super hairy. Yeah. So, and she said she's self-conscious of it. So I think this is definitely, if you're looking to, like, feel less self-conscious about it,

this is definitely the best way to go. Because it grows back, so, I don't think it grows back slower, but because you're ripping the hair out from the root rather than taking it off at skin level, you're ripping the hair out from the follicle, so it will take a lot less time for the hair to be visible. And I always find it grows back like thinner, not ultimately, like ultimately you do end up with like the same bush, that you once had but when it's the regrowth is like it doesn't all come back like one two three to-da like it comes like one bit one bit one bit like patchy light whatever so even if it starts growing back on your holiday it's really it's not like it's not like shaving regrowth

yeah exactly honestly yeah and it nothing makes me feel more confident like on a beach like if I haven't had a wax and I'm in a swimming costume I just for the whole time just being like oh oh like you know too scared to like fit comfortably or whatever just in case so yeah oh you're gonna have a great time I'm excited for you and I want to hear how it goes yeah exactly we'd like a follow-up speaking of follow-ups go on we asked a little while back for follow-ups and somebody has given us one oh my god I don't know if you remember a few months weeks ago months ago somebody emailed about their boyfriend viewing and only fans page and we answered badly i think was this well we we did we did our best um she basically had had a partner that was viewing only fans content and she was asking what what we thought whether that was acceptable okay kind of the difference between only fans i think and porn and and And we kind of had that conversation.

So she said, had to bring you up for speed. So I'm the girl who originally emailed in July about her boyfriend viewing and only Bands page. A huge thank you for your advice and for opening up to the listeners. I found it very helpful and reassuring. The main detail I missed was at the start of our relationship, my boyfriend set the boundary of no masturbation.

He's always had a bit of a complex with toys saying he feels inadequate and feels super uncomfortable with the idea of me getting off without him. That's one of the main reasons I was so hurt as I'd kept up my side of a deal as a girl who used to masturbate it regularly, but he'd tried to find loopholes on his side justifying it as just looking. We were also preparing to buy a house together literally days after it all unfolded, so we'd have the weight of lying to our friends and family too.

I just felt like I was existing and had nobody to talk to. Anyway, jumping ahead, we decided to go to couples therapy, and I'll be honest, it was absolutely shit. That's not where I thought it was going, but I respect to honestly. We went for the cheapest and closest therapist, Then the sessions turned out to be online and we were matched with an older guy who had never heard of Onlyfans

which was not ideal. The therapist then went on to say things like, so, girlfriend, you're on strike now then and when are you going to stop beating him with a stick? He's clearly sorry. And my personal favourite, I think the real issue lies with you. I suggest you go to individual therapy.

Oh my God. Who's the stock is this guy? This guy Joe doesn't deserve his license. Jesus. Jesus! I was furious. It felt like my boyfriend had won that he was off the hook because the professional had said, so my God.

Luckily, my boyfriend did defend me and appreciate that the therapist without a line. I did decide to try personal therapy, though, as I was desperate to feel like I was enough and our relationship could be rebuilt. I know the pod works closely with them, but regardless, I have to shout them out, better help are just wonderful.

I was matched with a female therapist who I instantly gelled with. We've done a lot of work starting my childhood, my relationship, my boyfriend, how what we see online affects us and most importantly my relationship with myself and I can't believe how much I've benefited from it. I have full goosebumps reading that. Me too. That's brilliant. It's still not easy. My boyfriend and I have rouse and can't and, sorry, my boyfriend and I still have rouse and can't understand why I'm caught up in the past at times, but we have a far better

communication system in place and he's developed so much just by coming clean and trying to get the why behind his behaviour. He refuses to have therapy, maybe one day. Sticky tongue outface. She's done there, colon P. I haven't seen that in years. Absolutely loved it. But we've explored so much together, including his lack of confidence sexually, his feelings and needs.

We found subscriptions from as long as 10 years ago. It was almost ingrained as a habit for him. Whilst the fact still knocks me sick at times, we've gone through it all together and somehow come out stronger. The same boundary is in place, but there feels a genuine respectful foundation there now. Would you believe I tried to keep this email short?

I'm so sorry for rambling, but I guess what I wanted to prove that for those still experiencing similar things there is like at the end of the tunnel it takes a hell of a lot of tears work and patience but when I look back at what we've achieved in six months I'm really bloody proud if anyone's considering therapy but just isn't sure

please go for it, just do your research love to you all, all the best wishes in the world to end welcoming her little girl into the world. I mean, I am fully I was going to say erect but that is no, send me by the sea like those three wise men pussies.

I am fully erect. I meant to say I've fully, I've got full goosebumps. That's amazing. Honestly, like I am so, such an advocate of therapy. Like, it's been the best thing that I have ever done in my life. And like, I continue to have it, even though we don't talk about food and eating and body stuff anymore. I continue to have it because I just think it's the best thing ever and it's so nice to hear. I mean, not everything is like.

like work outable, but if you are both willing and you do really love each other and you want to give it a go, like, it's so cool to hear it on the other side of like, you know, we were in this bad place, but we came through the other side of it. Like, it's just really cool. Yeah. Yeah, amazing. And it's so nice that she used better help as well. That is so cool. I love that. Okay, so I have one that I particularly like and you'll see why. Dear Em and Alex, first of all, congrats Em on your baby. Thank you. Okay. Secondly, Alex, your hair is looking fab.

Fuck, yes, thank you. I think that should have been first in the email, but okay. Yeah, I mean, Olohoo, like, it's all about my hair. It's all about my hair. I have a question, oh my God, that I resonate a lot with. I have a question, is it just me that is full on scared of Gen Z? Like, they genuinely scare me. Sometimes I happen to hang out with my boyfriend's little sister.

She's 20. And whenever her friends come as well, I feel awkward and intimidated because they all look so cool. and suddenly I feel like I should not be hanging out with 20-year-olds as a 28-year-old woman. Is it just me that feels so intimidated by this new generation that doesn't give a fuck about anything and seems so much cooler than I was at 18? They don't give a fuck about anything. Also, oh my God. But they do give a fuck about like the environment and like...

Important stuff, social issues. Yeah. Yeah, they don't give a fuck about like you. Yeah. They care about like... They're so busy caring about important shit that they don't care about... what people think about them. Yeah, who cares about that?

Who cares about that? Oh, this, oh. They scare me too. I feel intimidated. They're cruel. They are, they're, because, because they're funny. And like, they have a language that we don't understand. And sometimes when they're trying to be funny, it's just, it's just hurtful.

And they can tear millennials down with the, a word. one phrase one word I don't think I've filled you in on this so when when we went to our six week appointment we had a Gen Z midwife which Wow

I know because when you imagine a midwife you just imagine and this is very bad stereotyping on my part but you imagine I don't know not a Gen Z this person was so nice but obviously I was like

I as you know feel like a teen mother. I know I'm not. I know it's a very normal way to have a baby, but I do keep waiting for people to tell me that I'm super young. So it was a bit confronting for me when I went to the appointment and the midwife was younger than me. I was like, wait, what? I'm barely able to have a child. How are you able to be in this profession? So I had a gentsy midwife and I, obviously it was like the most important appointment of little arlo's life and we wader and did all this staff, and we were talking, and we were talking about her eight-week jabs, and I was like, oh, I

keep trying to get hold of the GP, but they don't answer the phone. And this midwife just put their hand to their ear and went, mood, oh my God. I was like, what? What? Mood. And now, me and Alex have been trying something's happened in the last, like, how many weeks since that appointment, one of us just going,

this is what I mean. I've never felt so old. I was like, well, we won't have the appointment. I was like, nude. What can I do with that? How do I make an appointment with a nude? Fuck. They just need to know how to contact my G-B. And vibes. Fibes. Like, that's a whole sentence, I think they're beyond five. Oh, probably. Fuck sake. Um, look, I watched this TikTok last night. Sophie Milna shared it on a story. It was, about how you can tell when someone's a millennial and someone's a Gen Z by literally their appearance. Oh no. Yeah. Mm-hmm. And the first thing was like, look at this wavy hair. This is so

millennial. And I was like, oh my God. That is like, that's like my one hair style. What's it been waving? I know. So. Owl, that's the world's one hairstyle. So apparently that beechy, wavy look is like so out, so millennial. That's my natural. fucking hair. And in is like the, um, the Gen Z is like, Ollo is just sick on me. Please bear with. Oh no. This is a millennial look.

I don't know. What's the saying? Okay, so carry on. Gen Z. So yeah. And then, and then for Gen Z, it's all about the Dyson air wrap look. So like big fluffy blow dry, like fluffy fluff. Like the Florence Gippon. Exactly.

Like a Farrah Fawcett kind of. Barrel rolls. Yeah. None of this like tonged, like tonged and like almost a little bit crispy. So they've got to be soft and fluffy. And they're in combat trousers and when I wear combat trousers, I don't look cool. I look desperately sad in combat trousers. But I always think it's because I'm too old. But I follow this woman, Katie Jane Hughes, one of the best makeup artists in the entire world.

I'm obsessed with her who is around my age in her 30s and she wears combat trousers and she looks so cool in them. so it's not about age and I can wear them and I'm going to I think it's all about confidence I think it's just about confidence 90% of life is confidence See that's

Now Katie is Gen Z My sister Obviously she's terrified Yes That's just a given She scares me a bit And she was walking down the street The other day

And she's wearing this like Mid-calf It goes down to her mid-calf jacket brown suede And she's got this kind of like cropped vest on with these amazing, like, wide-leg, flared trousers and Dot Martins. And she's got this eyeliner, you know, that she does that eyeliner, like, across to the top of her brows.

She does that every day, every single day she does her eye lining like that. And all these rings, like, so many rings on her hands. I'm like, how, you haven't got that many finger, and you've got more rings than fingers. I just don't understand. I don't understand. And she just looks so, I just got these little tattoos, and she just looks so fucking cool. and she does things and be real

and she just knows to be cool I still smile oh I'll tell you what it is on what the Gen Z say about us is that we have the millennial paws and you know about that yeah I've got I've definitely got that I've got that too

and I try and not have it and then I get awkward I'm just cringe but I am free I don't feel that free actually but the other thing they said was like oh you can tell that this girl's a millennial

because her eyebrows are thick we've spent 20 years Is that what I got trolled last week Yes Someone commented on my Instagram post Being like girl Lisa saw her eyebrows Is that what they're saying I mean how really

Was that a millennial Was that a Gen Zee telling me to get my Possibly No I've been there And I've done that And I am not going back This face does not suit thin brows My face is too round

I need these brows I'm not going back there You can't make me But this is the thing And I remember I remember distinctly things thinking when like a few years ago when it was like thin eyebrows are coming back in and I was like there is just no way because it is not a good look right but it's all conditioning okay

it's all conditioning because this girl called Amelia grey she has got thin eyebrows and look how fucking hot she is but we wouldn't look like that if we got thin eyebrows we wouldn't look like that if we got thin eyebrows. I mean, like that's... I'm going to keep saying that to you, just because I'm... I know, well,

Sophie Butler doesn't have any eyebrows and she looks so cool. She looks so cool. Alex, please just imagine my face right now if I bleached my eyebrows. Oh my God. When we went to the nail, I went to the eyebrow place

the day to get my eyebrows done to make them darker, can I just say? I'm bigger. I went to get my eyebrows done. And when I got there, the lady was looking over the crock,

because I said the pram because I took off. she's like oh my god she's got amazing eyelashes and i was like thanks i know that's why we're only getting her eyebrows done today and the woman was like what no we can't do that i was like obviously you can't do that who did she think i was coming into me like oh we'll just have a little tint and shape thanks oh my god it would cause her so much pain wouldn't it like little babies oh no i know i know i know but then they're like oh my god something else that blew my mind last night Who?

If men didn't cut their hair, they'd just had long hair. But isn't it funny that all over the world, men have short hair. I know. I know. But like there's literally no, it's not like, I was like in Alex's head and I was like, it hasn't stopped there. He stopped it there. Yeah.

But we look around that all these men and they all stop it there. Yeah, that's so weird. It's so weird. Also, that we like. Women, like, aim to remove every single hair on their body, but on their head, they do everything to keep every single hair. Do you know how much money I've spent on trying to, and it is getting better, thank God, but how much money I've spent trying to keep their hair on my head intact? Nyoxin, noxin. Can't have it when you're breastfeeding.

Oh, fuck. I know. It's all right. We'll barrel through this feeding milarchy and then see what we care too. Yeah, come on. Mum's going bald. Oh God, no, I do. I am so scared of Gen C's.

I completely get it. I'm actually already nervous about the summer because I just know that there'll be so many of them. And they're all, I think, pales back in again. You know, when we were younger and it was like, you wanted to be like golden tan, like the Mary Kate and Ashley, like, you know, like tan, a Paris Hilton tan.

Like, and we'd all lie out in the sun, like little handbags. Yes. I think now, They're going to just be like... They're going to be in like... I can picture them all, all these youths in the shade and they'll be wearing their low-rise trousers, like bell-bottom low-rise jeans.

Oh my gosh. I mean, when I did that, I literally looked like a muffin and I mean like, or like I look like an ice cream. Like, my legs were the cone and then boof. Like my stomach was like the sweet delight on top. Like, I just don't understand where they... Where are their hips? but then my sister has hits and gorgeous cousins

she just manages to dress so well but still looks so cool why can't I do that? Yeah she looks so cool because I keep thinking oh Jenzie only look cool because they're thin it's like that heroin chic thing again yeah but then I actually look at it and I'm like actually no because Katz's like got an amazing figure she's like got like real hourglass and she dresses it so cool in like jeans she yeah she dresses so cool

And I feel like mine and her bodies aren't that dissimilar. I feel like I could take some inspo from her dressing. Maybe I could wear some crop stuff. Well, don't you? I don't know. I don't know. Honestly, I don't know. Yeah, maybe you should.

Maybe we should have a week where we just dress like Katia. I don't make up like her too. I don't see why not. Well, I couldn't do the makeup. But theoretically, if we could, let's do it. You could do the makeup. We could do it. I don't know if I could have the collar.

confidence to go out in it. That's the only thing. The thing is, what's really weird for me is me and Katty look really similar. So I objectively know it would look good in terms of how it looks on her. It would look good on me. But I also know that it wouldn't look good on me because I'd look fucking ridiculous. And you'd be tentative. That's the thing.

We'd be tentative. And that just ruins a lot. Like in the co-op, I'd be like popping my hair draper first just like before I went down the aisles just to be like anyone, anyone I know. Whereas Katz was like, I see what it is. she just glides everywhere. What we would be doing is we'd be announcing our revival everywhere we came, we'd be like, I'm coming in, but just so you know, I've got this really weird

eyeliner on my face. And I don't think I like it. You hate it, don't you. Yeah, I'm so sorry. I know, I'm really stupid. I don't know why I've done it. Please don't judge me. That's the problem.

Oh God, why are we the way that we are? Also, this TikTok, which is just like crushed my entire existence in like two minutes, I was like, oh, and the millennial pink. Like, look at my Instagram page. You are. You are the millennial pink. So look, it's, I think I'm going to have a full rebrand. Are you?

I don't know. Okay, what shall we do? How can we do this? I have some combat trousers. The thing is, right, they wear really baggy clothes, right? So I've got these like parachute trousers. I've got a pair in black and a pair of bright pink, not millennial pink, bright pink. And I put them with a hoodie.

and to be honest, I don't look cool, I just look like I've come around to paint your house I just don't look cool I just look like I don't like I should be like sitting on a wall eating an egg sandwich with a bit of paint on my leg you know what I mean? And then when I see like an 18 year old

wearing the same outfit I'm like, shit you look cool and then I look at myself and I'm just like oh sad, it's just, just. sad. It's just sad. That's so sad. I got this hoodie to be cool. I'm objectively wearing the outfit

of a Gen Zia. But when I look at myself in the mirror, I just look dumpy. That's how I look when I dress like a Gen Z. Dumpy. Okay, from what I'm seeing, I think the key is like balancing out the volume of the trousers with something that's not so big on top.

Or it can be, but you have to to have something like you can wear a little crop top and then a big blazer over and the combat trousers but not like so i feel like jenzy people didn't have a baby seven weeks ago because the last thing on earth i want to do is put a crop top on right now a little cropped up to balance out the size of the trousers oh my god this is really cool i'm going to try this right oh i'm going to get phomo do they have a postpartum section no unfortunately Unfortunately not, but they, right, so this girl's wearing, like, super high-waisted, um, beige combat trousers, which are very cool, actually. And a cropped denim jacket. I've got, I've got the,

I've got a crop denim jacket. I could do this. Okay, you do it. You do it. And I want a pair of crop, I want a pair of cool, like, thick combat trousers. I was just telling you before we started recording that I am now shopping for my new body. Which I think is a good idea. Yeah, there's no point waiting to fit back into my old clothes so so let's use this time where I am a dress size bigger and I have no clothes that fit to experiment because you know what I wore yesterday Al what I went to lunch I went to lunch with my friend of Soho house yeah oh god I'm such a fucking millennial I took my stupid little buggy with my baby in it and I wore my new little odds oh my gosh and I wore I wore some tailored trousers okay and I wore an oat like an oat colored overst

size, cashmere turtleneck jumper. I mean, I actually love the sound of that look, but I think that's the millennial in me. I know. It is a millennial in me. I need to quieten that noise. I need to quieten her down. Exactly. I need to burn those clothes. I'm not going to do that because it's my nicest outfit. And it's the only one that fits me right now that isn't leggings. So I'm not going to burn it. Oh, Katia shops at something called Ragged Priest. Fuck. Ragged Priest have some really cool stuff and trying to work out of his breastfeeding friendly,

which is probably the only time. putty's looked on their website asked that question. I'm getting strong noes from every single thing. I'm going to say definitely that's not, they have not designed

this collection with mothers in mind. With new mothers in mind. No. Bloody hell. Okay, well, the rebrand starts now. So in a word, yes, we are terrified of Gen Z but we also want to be more Gen Z.

so there you go. Fear and jealousy are very closely linked. Well, here you go. I think most of the time we only fear the things we're jealous of. I mean, I fear someone breaking in to my house and killing me. I don't think I'm jealous of that. Are you not jealous of their gusto and their pluck? Because I am.

I just think, God, that's admirable. Are you buying these jeans on ASOS? No, because I don't think they are on ASOS. No, I'm buying them off the line as well. Off the line, I'm so... Oh my God! Oh my God. This is tragic.

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