Should I Delete That? - Is It Just Me: Why isn't my friend liking my posts?

Episode Date: July 17, 2024

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss putting your seat back on a flight, how to confront your friends and Dave's new online career...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at [e-mail] by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hello, welcome back to Shoulda Delete That and another episode of Is It Just May? I hate it. Whatever that was, I aged it. Why? Why? Do you like my funny one? Should I think that? Episode of Is it Just May? Can you tell? We've had two funny. We've had two funny. I'm in Clarkson, by the way. looks like we've had two funny text exchanges gone wrong over the last 12 hours me and you over the last 24 hours these were next one last night i sent you a text in caplocks at 1030 being like

what did i say exactly why are our neighbors so like why are the neighbors so fucking loud yeah why the neighbors yelling in catlocks obviously they were yelling because i'm recording this a day after england or in the europe europe europe euros I don't give a shit I don't give a shit they woke up all I know

is our noisy noisy neighbours woke up hollow four times throughout the game that is so annoying like nothing is worse when Spain don't score

way I literally I was like I could hear everybody's so happy that England and scored and I was like I hate you all

I hate you all that's so annoying I need it and then when the neighbours were leaving they're all like oh my God see him from

see him France, thanks to have. Woo, fun Sunday. I was like, shut up. So I sent you a text, by the way, by the accident, by an accident, hello? Why am I having it? I feel like I didn't make enough of it. It came at a point where I was having a little, just a mini meltdown.

Just crying over his cot because he wouldn't sleep. Oh, a classic. Shedding tears. Like, why won't you go to sleep? And then also crying because I convinced myself it was the end of contact nap. and I was like I was crying so hard Why is at the end of contact napping?

Says whom? I think actually I don't think it is I think it was just I was I don't know I was very much I needed perspective last night I was I was sobbing today like couldn't get my breath

and he was like Can I just watch the football Can we do this later? Can you just pull yourself together? And then I was like yeah okay And then I was like no I can't stop sorry And he was like okay that's fine Mute like what do we need to do

Oh my God he muted it and everything Yeah it was bad like I couldn't be I can breathe. I hate you feel like that. Come to me. I didn't care about. I was only doing my colouring in. I could have helped. You know me? I like to, I don't know, like to stew. Yeah, yeah. Pick it all out for Dave. Awful, awful. All those still naps on me now. While I've been sick in bed, she does quite often on Thursdays and Fridays she does her, when she doesn't have childcare, she does her morning naps with me. I love that. We do our 9, like her 9 a.m. whatever. Like she does naps at me

and like, and her afternoon. Well, actually, we had one this morning. So I was like, okay, maybe it's fine he's just getting so big he's just he's growing so he's just big and like i feel like he's uncomfortable you let betty lie on you yeah yeah he's bigger than betty he's bigger than betty he's enormous he's huge betty weighs like 15 kilograms i put him in i put him in 90 okay yeah he well he weighs 11 kilograms he's more than arlo he's huge how does he wear more than arlo i don't know That's absolutely deranged. I don't know. Wow.

This isn't, this might not be accurate. Dave got on scales himself and then got on with Tommy. That's how we've based on it a lot. Yeah. But he's just, like I put him in a nine to 12 jumpsuit the day and it doesn't fit him. I was like, what? He's just, one of these ginormous. Rohing.

Wow. Yeah. I mean, Al is still in her. She can wear nine to 12 in some clothes. Can she? I know. Oh, my God. Yeah, because I bought loads of cute summer clothes and this is massive.

But he's like, he's great. He's like, he's like. growing physically but like not developing like very quickly obviously how fast you wanted to get through this life no but like he's still can't like sit up properly and that's that's about right it's like six months old yeah i mean his peers can't though some peers well all these buddies in the chambers anyway how did we get there oh breakdown and my set oh the second what's up mishap you sent boy Alex a message on the way here to the studio only mildly stressful tell the people how it went well I meant to say hello exclamation mark but hello always autocorrects to help

your phone knows you so well so I wrote to Alex help exclamation mark which is never a nice text and the follow-up message in caplocs was no no I don't need help I'm going to do but I don't I also think I called Daisy Diana in that message and I didn't think I've corrected it I meant to correct it a while ago with Helen and you said Helen you're going to milk me I meant kill me

I have nipples Greg, could you know me wait no I did I did one that no one acknowledged and you were in the group but my sister's also in the group and she rang me and said what the fuck was that What did she do? I sent a trailer and I was like, oh my God, this is such a good trailer. And it was Abby Clancy's, a trailer for Abby Clancy's podcast.

Yeah. She does epic trailers. They're so good. And I sent it and I said, this is an epic trailer, exclamation mark. And I wrote Abby Clancy, but what it came out as was Anne's Fanny. So I wrote, this is an epic trailer, exclamation mark, Anne's Fanny. Anne's Fanny. Yeah.

And just no one said anything. I didn't remember. Maybe they didn't notice, but Jen would write me crying. She was like, what sounds funny? That is so funny. I'm so even notice. I'm not paying you enough attention. Clearly. I'm so used to them now. It's just like white noise do you know. Yeah, literally just just, it's true over my head. Oh, I've just seen the time and I drove my car here and I paid for two hours parking and we're now three hours deep. Oh. Do you think they've clamped me? Can they do that? Are you kidding? No. Power of the clamp. They do what they want. I have my car. once from outside my own front door.

Speaking of, I've had a parcel thief back. We have had parcels, a parcel stolen from our front door again, in broad daylight. That's really bad. That's so bad. Can your ring identify them? No, they can identify their navy blue rain speckled packamack.

That's so bad. It's so annoying. So it's like my birthday this week, so they've probably got my birthday presents. Oh, it's probably my present that they took. Oh, shame. Shame. You know what I actually think it is?

We think it might be all those bath bubbles or like bath stuff. In which case, that will be the second time her bath bubbles have been stolen. That's hilarious. What are the odds of that? What an embarrassing thing to steal? Bath bubbles. Are you kidding? Someone broke into our car and literally stole her nappy bag.

Like, people have no shame. And left the pram, right? Left her pram. Left the pram and stole her napy bag. Makes no sense. I know. Which I'm not with hindsight that mad about Because I think I kind of like the

The other replacement I got Okay, that's good Oh my God, there's something I need to talk to you about Before we do the issue, it's just me I'm really sorry, it's really important I've seen beef on the internet And I need to know When you get on a plane

And you're an economy You're on a right now, you're on easy jet, you're on a normal flight, normal seat Do you pop your seat back? No Of course you don't No, unless, hear me out, unless the person behind me has put their seat back. So then I'm like, well, we've all got more space.

We've all got more space. But I'm, my comfort does not, does not trump yours. So I will sit upright so that you can be comfortable. That's my attitude. Yeah. I also ask as not sure. I don't know why I ask as even if I said, no, I'd be like, actually, fuck you because you've got yours back.

I'm putting mine back. But I just say like, oh, is it okay, put my seat back? Which they're not going to say no, too, they've put their seat back. I hate putting my seat back. I will never put my seat back because I'm like do it, though. They're brazen with it. only that, I've seen someone, someone on threads, which I find a truly nasty platform. I'm just going to, I'm going to say that with my test. Yes. It's just like where everybody goes to be,

like, it's just where people that I think are really nice on Instagram prove that they're not that nice. I thought it was supposed to be like the, the, the, the Twitter with, for positivity. It doesn't feel very positive. It just feels. It got deleted when I lost storage, you know, when they just like take apps off for you and I've never downloaded it back. Maybe I won't then. I can't help it. It's like I'm really drawn to it because what I find quite interesting is there's like a lot of like talking points

and people that I don't follow like things will start like a conversation will start and I kind of find that interesting to observe. Yeah. There's all of these people are talking about it about like this is this big thread about like how it is they're right to push it back.

Which obviously they're right. Like they are right with their rights. It is your right. But also just have a little bit of, you know. But they say they pay for it. And if the airline, if the seats weren't supposed to go back and they wouldn't be designed to go back.

And I'm like, well, I can't argue with you there. But I'm going to, in my head. Yeah, I still feel the intense discomfort when it comes to, like, when I think about putting my seat back. Me too, because what are the person behind me at all? No, but to be clear, like, of course you should, of course you can. Like, of course you can. It's all right.

But also, like, I don't know. To have some, like, consideration for all the people around you. I don't know. But also put your seat back. I don't know where I start. I don't know where I land, actually. You're all confusing. All I know is I'm not going to put my seat back.

unless like you say either side of me seats are back and we're all at it if behind me this is the person has a seat back it is fair game my seat is going back you want to know what the woman the woman on my flight back from barbedo said when I had a aloe on my lap like I had a one year old on my lap for the night flight she pushed her seat back in front of me and then she lay across three seats so she didn't need her seat back like she just pushed it back for no reason and then lay across all the seats that's very annoying just with her feet on my seat I said you didn't need to do this and we literally had the worst flight because of it. But then, then people on threads will go,

you deserve it, you took your baby on a plane, you should never take your baby on a plane. Babies don't deserve in public, don't belong in public places. According to thread, TikTok, the videos about people having babies on planes, TikTok has like freaked me out about taking Tommy anywhere.

Yeah, I'm like, that's so mean about it. They're like, oh, my face when a baby gets on the plane. Oh, trust me, we can see your face. I know. I walk up the aisle holding my baby. You'd think I was bringing on like a, like a, like a stink grenade. Actually, the only flights, the two flights that we've done with him,

actually, I have to say I was expecting something really bad because of these videos. And everyone was so nice. It's so nice when you get a smile. So nice. And the woman next to me was like, don't worry, he needs to practice his lungs or something. Like, he needs to, you know, test his lungs.

That's nice. I wish everyone was like that. I was scared of other people and they're entitled. How did we get onto that? It's just something I've been stressed about. Do you watch the bear? I have not seen the new season. Is it very good?

But you've seen the others? Yeah. Okay. all right i will withhold my opinions until you've watched it and then i want to talk to you about it right i'll go home and watch it immediately please do i actually i'm not going to say a thing except the one thing you're going to say no i just want to know what you i just i just want you to watch it and come back with your thoughts okay do you want to give me a steer on the kind of thoughts you'd like me to have no no i don't want to steer you either way so no right i just want to know

it's unusual for you to have thoughts thank you so kind in relation to a tv show or a film that famously you normally forget to use your brain thoughts it's normally empty how uncommon okay so is it just means

that came to you that I've just decided to read yes this is my first time reading them I assume you've heard them hi Alan M just listen to the am I too sensitive podcast and it resonates in me so much just to say to that Alex

you're not alone I need some advice because I don't know whether I'm being too sensitive or how to process and just get the fuck over it. I've noticed one of my best friends, oh my God, this is such a good question. I've noticed one of my best friends

hardly ever likes my posts or stories, Facebook or Instagram. I kind of got over it and accepted maybe she doesn't see them, but just scrolls, etc., but I always see her liking and commenting on other people's. Plus, she sometimes acknowledges

that she's seen my post, but I feel like it's too pathetic to ask why she didn't like it. I know it's ridiculous, but I just get a bit, bothered by it because I overthink and wonder if she's doing it for a reason. I also know I have triggers around rejection which I'm trying to work on. Thanks for both. I love listening to you. Your Fab. I get that. I get that. I get that. It's annoying. It's annoying. But you've got a friend.

I have a friend. Does she ignore you? Yeah. But like I feel like I have to be careful I say. I mean, she doesn't listen to the podcast. She's never actually even like referenced the podcast once like the existence of it or anything like that she's just she's not that kind of friend like throughout my good one yeah well she's just not throughout my whole it's weird because she's the kind of friend that like if i called her and needed something she'd drop everything and i know that i know that she would do that for me yet but but anything to do with like my career she's she just doesn't mention it it just goes completely i mentioned like i'm not looking out for her liking stuff but you're aware that she isn't. I'm pretty sure that she isn't. I have a friend that doesn't particularly acknowledge my

career. Yeah. It's weird. But it's different for us because it's different. It's very visible. Our career is very visible. And all of our, I wish I could block everyone I knew. I know, right? But all of the things that we do are, it's super visible, like hyper visible. So whereas her stuff isn't. So I don't, I don't know. I don't know. I think it is hurtful. Like it and I think it's particularly hurtful. Like I'm assuming you're kind of our age. But like, We're from the Facebook generation. We're from the Bebo generation. We're from the like list your 12 closest friends.

We're from the like, and actually it gets worse and worse. Like I keep hearing about like kids these days on like snap maps and they can see that everyone is together and they're not there. Like social media breeds, you know, it thrives on connection. That's how it works. And that does breed loneliness because inevitably people are going to feel left out. So I mean, yeah, I really am aware of that. and like I can see I can see when people don't like my stuff and I'm like oh no because then when they text me about it like like when it's like announcing that I'm having a baby and everyone's

like oh my god congratulations I'm like oh so you've seen you've seen all of them then like if you're seeing this then you've seen all of it but like I didn't even realize like so many of my friends followed me or like so many people that I know followed me and then I see that they like one point and I'm like oh no you've been here the whole time right and you've never engaged with any of it. Yeah, it shocks me into like realisation. That's the worst. Question, do you think it's deliberate? This girl's experience with her friend, do you think her friend is being deliberate in not liking it or acknowledging her stuff? Okay, I'm going to say this with a huge caveat that I don't know and I really hope not. I do know that some people do not like, like,

like they don't engage, they just scroll. Totally. Like I've witnessed that. I know people exist like that. I know that there's, I don't know what the statistics are, but there's a lot of social media users. Yeah. Her mates liking other friend stuff. I do think that's so deliberate. And I think it says a lot more about her than you. Yeah.

I think it's her own shit. I always tell myself. Actually, no. I'm just like, I was going to tell myself that it, when my friends do that, then it doesn't hurt. Of course it's fucking hurts.

It's horrible. Yeah, it's horrible. And like, yeah, when they, when they shout about their other friends and their stories, it's painful. It's painful. And it's like,

oh, You do use your Instagram stories to talk about going out for lunch. Just not with me. Yeah, it's hard for it not to be personal, isn't it? It's really hard. Yeah, I think it's deliberate. Yeah, I don't know. I wonder why.

With your friend, who you experience this with and with my friend, what do you think it is? What do you think the cause of this is? Okay, shall I tell myself? Okay. I tell myself. I'm scared. I'm like armoring myself up here. No, when I'm trying to be empowered and when I'm trying to feel positive.

I tell myself, look, it's not my issue. Like, they've, for whatever reason, like, they've got an issue. Maybe it's jealousy. Maybe this is confronting. Right. Like, I tell myself loads of different things to make myself feel better. So when I'm feeling empowered, I'm like, look, it's nothing to do with me. Like, for whatever reason, they don't respect.

And it is different for us because it's our job. So we're like, and you know what? Like, influencing is a bit of a joke to loads of people. So I'm like, if you want to see it as a joke, I'm like, fair enough. And I, and I really had to meet my piece of that because I'm like, well, everybody thinks that. So I know I can pay my bills. I know that, like, the bank recognizes me. I know that I pay my taxes.

Yeah. I know, I know. Like, I know my success. And like, I know that it's a career and whatever. And like, that's fine. So that's what I tell myself. I'm like, I don't need the validation. I don't need the support.

But obviously it bloody hurts. Right. But it's like. Yeah. Like, oh, why? Why? What do you tell yourself? That I think she probably thinks I'm a show off.

But like putting stuff on Instagram, I don't know. Yeah. Yeah. And I know that she doesn't like showy-offy people. And I think she thinks it's like showy offy. You need to sit down. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. And it's very visible and very in your face. And it's a bit much. Yeah. Yeah. Interesting. I do. That's what I think it is.

Yeah. I know that she, because I do know that she's like that. And I think that's what it is. Yeah. Yeah. But that doesn't help this girl situation. Sorry.

No, it doesn't. So like it's a very different. The thing is that the not liking is one thing. But they're liking other people's. I get, I really get that that hurts. But then it is so,

because you can't even bring that up to her. Because it sounds petty, doesn't it? It just sounds so petty. I think you probably could bring it up. I think you could bring it up as a joke. I think if you ever post something when you ever post something when you're with her, you can be like,

yeah, you're going to like it. And just see, gauge. I think you'll gauge from that, whether or not it's a thing for her or not. Because there's a massive chance that this is not a thing for her and she's just like, just doesn't even think about it. Yeah, she doesn't like stuff. Yeah.

So you need to bring it up with her and just watch and just see. It doesn't have to be like, why do you never like my stuff? It can just be like a little joke and just see if they bristle. Does she definitely like everyone else's, content.

See, I have a friend that does this. And she like shares her friends like shares another friend and stuff and it doesn't share mine. But then I'm like, but why should you? Why should you? Why should you? Why should you? But also why?

Won't you? But why should you? Like I have to keep reminding myself. I'm like, I'm the centre of my own world and not everybody else's. I'm the center of my own world and not everybody else is. God damn it!

I hate being, I hate that we do this publicly. It's so embarrassing. I know. It is, isn't it? It is. My cousin's wife. said me a text yesterday, they've been like, oh, I've just seen the news on Facebook, on Instagram that you're pregnant. I'm like, then you've seen it all. Where have you been? I know. It's terrifying

that, isn't it? I always, it gives me, like, a stark, like, horrible visceral reaction in my body of, like, because I just don't know, it's like with this podcast, I think no one listens. I think we're just shouting into a void, into the void. As we said in Lorna's episode, Billy's episode, full void. Yeah. Touching the void would have been a very different film if the should I delete that listeners have been down there, I'm telling you.

Don't worry, you're fine. Is that the... Jump! The calming. Yeah. Imagine all the situations we can make better if we put the should I delete that listeners as a collective into the environment.

Imagine Gladiator. It would be so fun. They would be the best. I think, mostly. Mostly the best. I mean, it wouldn't be very kind to put them in Gladiator. They'd be annihilated, raped and pillaged.

It would be. awful yeah um yeah i don't i don't think i've got any good advice actually bring it up as a joke bring it up as a joke gauge it yeah gauge her reaction i hate the social politics that we play and i hate pretending which i do think people expect us to do they pretend they want us to pretend that social media is still silly and like it's not real yeah like and we kind of still treat it like oh why do you care what happens online i'm like maybe we live online it's life yeah it's like it's like yeah it's Like, is it asking someone not to care what happens in their life? Apart from Dave's.

Can I derail this conversation completely to tell you something? I would love that. Hilarious. Take me with you. Where are we off to? Dave's going to set up his own Instagram account. Public. For the house.

Oh my gosh. Yeah. Wow. DIY Dave. Dave's dream. Dave at home tried so that a handle's taken. He did try. Dave at home?

Dave at home. What's Dave at home's gone? Dave loves being at home. Yeah, that's a good point. Dave's, Dave's all at home, apart from the ones that aren't, and then they've got the other usernames.

We are renovating. Design with Dave. Design with Dave. That will be taken. Oh, yeah. Okay. We are renovating a house and Dave, it's Dave completely.

Use the word we royally there, yeah, Dave is renovating a house. And he's doing it all. It's entirely his project because I never wanted this. I'm Dave in my one. life is uninvolved. That username will probably be free.

Yeah, that sums everything up perfectly. And he has, he's just upset. He's obsessed with home stuff. You saw him like on the tour. Yeah, constantly looking at these stupid things. Yeah, like insulation stuff. Ew. Who?

Anyway, I know. Yeah, he's going to set up his own Instagram account, which is going to be hilariously awful. I was like, so basically, I am going to be doing your Instagram account because I will veto everything he does and it will all be terrible. But you're also incredibly. selective about the home transitions that you follow your patience is tiny you want before and you want after you don't care for the in-between and i feel like dave has an abundance of patience yeah

dave's going to be all over the in-between bit yeah oh my god he's going to be he's going to be like an hour long they're going to be so long and detailed yeah he's going to be using spirit levels in like every single one of them it's going to be relentless it's be boring get bored with Dave, be bored with Dave. Be bored with Dave. Be bored by Dave. Yeah, so there you go. Yeah, we could do a little double entendre, a little pun as it were with the, with the board, board, sideboard, skirting boards, board, board, board on the boards. Board with Dave. Board with Dave.

Yeah, that's, no, that makes it sound like he's running a B&B and makes it sound like he's asking you to come sweep over. Oh, yeah, you're right, it does. You're right, it does. I don't know, it needs work. We need to hash it out. this guy. Dave's getting online. This is going to be exciting. Do you think Alex can manage it? Yeah. Can you give, can you give me a good handle? Please, because I've been trying really hard. That sounds. Can you give me a good hand? Give me a good handle. Dave's boring. Give me a good handle. Interesting. I mean, so just as welcome. Interesting. There you go. Have fun. Yeah, well, fun's one word for it. I'm excited for him. It's nice to have a, it's nice to have a project. Something. Yeah. He's really, he's really excited. He's been doing market research. He's like, I like this,

but I don't like this. What, for the Instagram or for the house? For the Instagram? Okay. And what's... It doesn't like much. On Instagram? Yeah.

Well, that's fine. He doesn't have to make it. He's like, I don't like this. I don't like this. I don't like that. What does he like? I'm confused. So he's looking at other Instagram, other home Instagram accounts and trying to

work out what he wants his vibe to be. Yeah. And it's not much at the moment. I feel like Dave's vibe's going to be. You know when, okay, I can give you a really good example. When we were in the Isle of Man, my mom bought Arlo a digger toy. and we got it out of the box all I was super excited

she started playing with it on day four we realized we did not know how this thing worked by then the instructions were long gone mom's like I need to set this thing up we need to make it work properly because she's just pushing it around it's not happening where are the wheels supposed to go

nothing's attached we need to YouTube this and we YouTube it and a guy has taken the time to explain how to put together this very specific digger toy and the video had thousands that's Dave's needs The thing is, is everybody needs something.

They'll be driven to it out of desperation. It's exciting. Bored just thinking about it. Yeah. How's the house coming? We have planning permission. After three years, can you believe? That's absolutely wild.

You're in your house now so much longer than what you thought you would be. I know, I know. I can't believe it. Honestly, it's been ridiculous. Like, we just took so long. So do you have a time idea of... Apparently Christmas, but I don't believe that for one second. I'm like, which Christmas?

Christmas, 20, Christmas, maybe. Oh my God, what are we going to call it when the next century? What? What are we going to call it when it's like 30, no, no, no, no. Three thousands? No. Two thousand hundreds.

Oh, 2100s. That's too long. Wait, what are we in now? The 2000s. Yeah. So when we're like. 21,000. Yeah, but when we're like, okay, so cool, I'll see you in 2035.

I'll see you in 2035. What are we going to? I'll see you in 20335. Well, we live to see that. Well, you won't. Oh. fuck off I might

wait where are we oh we definitely let's see that I'd be 106 you don't think I can make it to 106 no not many people do

yeah my family the lineage is not long if I'm honest yeah but you know modern science you never know you never know

106 is I keep seeing this videos on Instagram that's like in 100 years you and everybody you love will be dead and buried

and forgotten. It's the man running, isn't it? Well, it's everything. It's the audio. I'm like, all right, enough of that because I've got babies now and they may well be fine if not very old

and probably lonely by the tone of this video because I'll be dead. God, it occurred to me the other day. I was like, fuck, I'm going to die. I'm just going to not have a mum at some point. No, no, no, no, no, no, you don't need to give this to me.

Like, give me this like a disease. I don't need to catch this. You were going to get this on your own. It was not. It was not. The fear of death is entirely Probably, probably, can we wrap up the episode before I start bawling and shaking? Yeah, isn't it wild?

No, sorry, I just said, I just thought that last night when I just gave me a big cuddle. I said, oh my God, this could be my last day. And I've been horrible to him. I hate this. I hate this. I hate this. I know, it's bad, isn't it. Because you think about it right now and it's like, oh my God, he could just pick something back at

happen. Stop it. Stop it. I stop it. But it probably won't. Fine. We'll all be there in 210. What are we going to call it?

I feel like you to apologize. the listeners actually what are we going to know love you sorry what are we going to call it call what call the call it when it's the hundred years from now 2100 it's got to be it was 210024 but we're in the year 2,1124 that was we say now 2,024

yes it's a lot but we'll be in 22nd oh yeah 210028 it won't be 21,000 we'll say 2124 we well they'll say 2124 we're in 222 21, 25, what? Oh my God. Can a historian let us know, please? They'll be like, it's 2006.

It'd be like 2,106. I don't know about that. I just think that sounds weird. I'm not over it. The year is 2106. I don't know, man. It sounds weird. Oh, I'll tell you what, I can recommend as a book.

I'm reading again. Go on. I'm reading again. Oh, okay. Sorry, change your subject. Okay. Yeah, I thought you wanted that. I can't keep up with you.

But what are you on? An existential or a book recommendation. I'm too far gone. You've put me right in. You've dropped me into the spiral and it's, you know, like when you put a coin into the spiral. You know what I mean? Yes, like the ones they have, they used to have them loads at the supermarket for charity. Like gas stations.

Except I always thought they're for charity. And now I think of them. It's actually got the two fingers for the lottery, which means I don't think it was fair. I've decided that everything's a real swiss and I really don't like how much gambling is advertised within the society. It's really starting to upset me. I was thinking that. I was thinking that the other day. I can't remember what I was watching.

Or I think there was the Euros. Well, I've been the Euros. Yeah, Ben Fred, Paddy Power. Yeah, and one of the footballers was like in it. I was like, that is very immoral. Isn't it? Yeah. I'm getting really upset by it.

Like, Foxy Bingo, all that shit is one thing. Yeah. But then I'm like, oh my God, the lottery. Like, what a Swiss? I know. Like, they've just got the whole country gambling for fun. I know. Do it with the kids.

It is very bad. Isn't it? I used to have a direct debit to the lottery. Well, that did you well. Yeah, I think I would. and 10 pound once. I hate that. I got an email once

first time I ever played the lottery saying you've won the lottery. And I was like, I've won the lottery. And I'd won seven pounds. I was like, well, I mean,

it's better than a kick in the teeth. Yeah. But the years it took off me. Yeah. The stress, the disappointment, that's done worse for me. That's going to cost

more than seven pounds in therapy. That's all I know. We have to wrap up. Yeah. Sorry about the spin. Yeah, that's okay. I wasn't saying sorry to you. I,

I need a sorry to you. I need a sorry. That's exactly what I need right now. I need a sorry donut. Maybe I'll pick myself one up from the station, a crispy cream. Okay. You just need a donut. I just need a donut. I just need to be a sorry donut. I just need a donut specifically. I can talk about the fact that I couldn't stand a donut. How fun. Oh yeah. Yeah. Well actually speaking of that, this episode's coming on Thursday. Hello, happy Thursday. On Monday, you've just got me and now. We're talking about the fact that I'm fregonte. Yes. We've got a whole episode about it. We're going to catch you a

up on everything that's been going on. And I tell you the awkward, of all the awkward. She tells you literally the most horrendous awkward I've ever heard in my whole life. 100%. We talked to into the end of the episode, literally because we had to. My dignity is in tatters. It's enough. Bad.

It's really bad. It's bad. Please tune in. See you there on Monday and we love you loads. Love you. Bye. Bye. Thank you so much for listening. Should I delete that is part of the ACAS creator network.