Sibling Revelry with Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson - How Are You Adjusting?

Episode Date: March 26, 2020

Kate feels guilty and wants to be doing more to help. Oliver believes he was built for quarantine. Talking it out!Executive Producers: Kate Hudson, Oliver Hudson, and Sim SarnaProduced by Allison BresnickEditor: Josh WindischMusic by Mark HudsonThis show is brought to you by Cloud10 and powered by Simplecast.This episode is sponsored by Sakara, Third Love, Coors Light, and Rothys.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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what did you help her? Listen to the curse of America's Next Top. model on the iHeart radio app apple podcast or wherever you get your podcast let's start with a quick puzzle the answer is ken jennings appearance on the puzzler with a jacobs the question is what is the most entertaining listening experience in podcast land jeopardy truthers believe in i guess they would be conspiracy theorists that's right they gave you the answers and you still Blewett. The Puzzler. Listen on the IHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Kate Hudson. And my name is Oliver Hudson. We wanted to do something that highlighted our

relationship. And what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling revelry of No, no. Sibling revelry. Don't do that with your mouth. Sibling revelry. That's good. Okay, well, this is a new way of doing things, Oliver Hudson. I know.

This is the first time that we haven't been together. Well, there was one other time. Yeah, we were in New York. I know, and I haven't seen you in person. I mean, how long has it been? Like 20 days? No, weren't you here right before we all? Oh, yeah, you made me take my shoes off.

Yeah, I made you take your shoes off. I made you, like, scrub down. You were quick to the game, by the way. Yeah. Yeah, like even before this really, you know, started to escalate, Kate had hoses and, I mean, I couldn't even step in your house. And I was like, well, this is so far right now, there's nothing going on.

in my house. I know. Do you still do the shoe thing? Oh, yeah. No, no shoes in the house. I did a thing where everybody has their outdoor shoes and then we have indoor shoes. I just do a lot of constant reminders for everybody. And then now that it's been two weeks in, I feel like, am I the only one who cares?

Are you being so hard? Are you being disobeyed? No, it's not about. being disobeyed it's it's about like there's an adjustment that needs to happen and the learning curve needs to happen fast and i'm sure very similar for everybody out there which is that we need to learn this new way of making sure that we're protecting everybody quickly because it's not necessarily about us you know i mean of course it is it's about our families and the people who we love but it's about everybody you know so you're by protecting yourself you're protecting everybody everyone and you know i was walking down the street with my kids and they're on their skateboards and they just sort of like skate right next to, you know, I can see it happening from like a mile away. Like he's going right towards the person. All I do is say, guys, guys, guys, are you listening? Guys, okay, okay, stop. Everybody stop. What do we need to do when, you know, it's a constant, I don't know,

I've never felt this immediate need to sort of shift habits. I know, but you know it's so funny you talk about skateboarding, right? So we are boys are all in a skateboarding and, you know, all kinds of boy activities. I tell the kids now, even if they're in the house, like remember we were FaceTiming the other day and they set up a, because of course in quarantine, they're finding shit to do all the time. Half of it is safe and the other half is completely unsafe. So my kids had set up a trampoline in the playroom, and they were jumping from the trampoline over some sort of a structure and onto the couch. And I was like, Kate, check this out.

And you just did not want to look at it because it was giving you anxiety. I hung up on you. You hung up on me. But you made me think about something. I'm like, oh, shit, I don't want to go to the hospital right now. That's the thing. I mean, for stitches, forget it. Broken arms, whatever.

like let's just keep it chill you know but it's not easy to keep the kids chill oh tell me about it they want to they want to rip it up you know Danny just entered the room so Danny hasn't been feeling great we've been going through you know is it psychosomatic or are do we have a cold or is it because we don't have symptoms but we have yeah anyway Danny is supposed to keep his distance from me right now. And I just saw him slowly creeping in with the video because he does our social. Oh, but how about that? How about the psychosomatic that's happening? Oh, it's beyond. I'm sure everybody, you feel a little tickle in your throat and you think you have COVID-19. So one of the things that's interesting, a shift for me, I haven't wanted to post anything. I've been feeling this last

week. I want to start figuring out how to move forward with actually what's going on. I've never wanted to be political about anything. I've always felt that politics are so polarizing. I want to be more about promoting through my platform love and connection. But the lack of health care in this country is so transparent now that I don't know how we don't as a nation look at this and say this is absolutely unacceptable. Yeah, I mean, but the thing is, Kate, it's not, it's not political, though. That's not really political. That's just, that's a fact. Okay. I mean, how you deal with it, then it gets into the politics of it. But, I mean, I think everyone could probably agree that our health care system is not the greatest right now, or or it hasn't been for a

long time. It's devastatingly terrible. Where it does get into politics is we're looking at the bureaucracy and the control that has now put us citizens in danger, like the CDC not accepting tests, things like that where I watch, you know, and I go, this is this is absolutely unacceptable. We were so underprepared. Right. I don't know. It's the first time in my life that I've ever really gone. I don't know the answer. I don't know what I'm in. I don't know. I'm a this is I'm talking I'm talking out loud. I'm sharing my thought process because well because you haven't even had a chance to talk about it really out loud yet. I mean well it's also like I'm you're in uncharted territory right and and the reality is getting these tests is hard even I

Danny not feeling great can't really get a test and the only way we're really going to know what's happening or how we're really infecting each other is for everyone to have these tests available to them so that they can start to really understand the numbers and and then on top of that the tests are taking so long people that I know who've had to get tested they're not even getting their test back and then they start feeling fine and by the time they get their test they probably already infected however many people yeah no it's crazy I just feel like I have COVID-19 like five to seven times a day like that's where my anxiety is pushing me because I'm like oh my god my throat I feel like there's a lump in my throat and then I'm like Oliver you're fine

and then all of a sudden I'm like and I start coughing and then I'm like I'm exhausted and so I go through these like range of emotions I feel like every parent every parent who has to homeschool like we have three kids right both of us Like that's, that's a. The fucking Zoom. It's on another level. It is on another level. What's it like having, because I do not have this,

but what's it like having a 16 year old boy who's been locked down like this? You know, really hard. Yeah, because I don't know what that's like. I mean, I have my little ones, 12, 9 and 12, 10, and 6. I'm really proud of writer. He's, he's doing a good job for this moment because, you think back to our high school time, it's so fun, you know, it's the time when you're like out on weekends and it's spring break and they're 16 and it's girls and you're starting to

like test the boundaries, you know, parents like me who are really strict, like the kids aren't out, you know, you're kind of dealing with a little bit of that like, oh, come, you know, and you're like, no, it's just not happening. It's hard to comprehend how big this is when it just you look outside. It's a beautiful day. The beach looks amazing. You're like, I just want to go to the beach with my friends. A lot of people obviously are not taking this seriously, probably the younger ones. And, you know, while I think they have to start taking it seriously, here's how I can understand it. This is a slow burn type of a situation where each day there's some more cases and there's some more deaths. But there's not this catastrophic moment

to where they're going to wake up in the morning and all of a sudden 400,000 people are dead. So they're looking at this like, well, wait a minute. This seems overblown. I'm looking at the numbers. Yes, I'm hearing it, but I'm not really seeing it. So I'm just going to go, I'm going to go out to the beach. I'm going to go gather and with my friends, you know. It's this slow burn mentality. I have like a major crush on Andrew Cuomo right now because I just feel like he is, he's like, he's showing such incredible leadership, right? He's hot. He's kind of hot, too. Yeah, he's a hot governor.

Italian. Yeah, it's like of our blood. Yeah. I think he is doing such an incredible job. I look at that and I go, okay, well, there's the leadership that makes me feel comforted. And he and the New York City and New Yorkers are in a much more challenging situation than we are in California. We're more spread out. New York is dense.

We're going to start hearing so many people that are testing positive for this. And what's happening in Italy is truly catastrophic. And then, you know, I was watching some, I forget which news thing it was. I scroll through everything. And it was this woman. And she panned the camera and there were all these people in a camera. cafe like having a like a drink and I thought to myself wait are we are we getting all the information what's happening and I think that's part of at some point everybody just looks at each

other and goes well fuck it you know I guess we just have to live our life and that's the problem that's where you realize that great leadership is paramount to making sure that people feel connected and are in this together. I just put my head down and, you know, do what I think is the right thing to do, which hopefully is the right thing to do. I'm not going out, you know what I mean? I go on runs and stuff. It's just managing the family.

But I will say this. My family has been built for quarantine. They are good at it. My wife is an incredible quarantiner. My kids, they're all cozy. All they want to do is be cozy. They love lolling around the house, you know, and I'm like, wow, they're not that antsy. God, you're just raising, so far so good.

You're just raising lazy Hudson's. Yeah, yeah, exactly, for the apocalypse. They're going to be hilarious and lazy. Just like their daddy. Yeah, I don't know how I got the overachieving gene. It's just like, all I can think about is what I can do. Well, I've picked up groceries for the elderly in my neighborhood. I went to go get groceries for some elderly people.

Great. I love that. No, I'm thinking on more of like a larger, I mean, I'm not minimizing that. That's more people need to be doing that. No, I really, I'm really not. I love that so much. You know, on top of wanting to make my own family feel good and anxiety and scared of dying and all of these things that keep going in our head, like, well, what happens if we get it?

Are we going to, is it really that bad? you know the unknowns just inside of your own unit i just feel this just sadness yeah it's just like it's it's a it's a day by day it's a day you know i mean we're just doing doing what we can to make it happy to keep happy keep keep keep it happy as much as you can i don't know i mean look when shit hits the fan and then you don't have a choice you you know what what do you do in that moment You've got to work hard to try to get out of it. But in this moment, all we have is fucking quarantine. All we have is laying low.

We don't have jobs. People don't have jobs. So, okay, that's the reality, though, right now. So let's put that aside for a second, though. And, like, now how do we make it fun? How do we be happy in our lives? How do we be happy in our households? It's not fun for me when I see kids spring breaking.

There's 350 plus million people in this country. There are going to be some assholes. you know what I mean like there are going to be so many there's just the way it's going to be you know I mean look think think about what just even happened in in LA I mean I went for a drive down the beach or I thought was going to be like a nice drive down the beach

and it was fucking jam packed with traffic all the parking lots were filled I was like what the fuck is going on it was like 4th of July weekend I was like what is happening right now the next day Sunday I think either Sunday or Monday Garcetti, our mayor, was like

LA was a mess I'm shutting down beaches and parks Are you guys fucking crazy? You know, there's a lot of people in the world in the U.S. There's some dumb-dums, you know? What are we going to do about the dumb-dums? You're going to flame throw them?

My point is, is It's upsetting to me. Right. Everyone's working as they can from home. so hard and there's there is so much fear people just are so afraid to lose their job it breaks my heart so when i go and everybody's posting like oh my god like we're cooking this crazy meal i'm like i feel terrible yeah but kate that's how people sort of get through things as a communities get built i know i know even if it's digital online communities i know people are sharing recipes now and

you know i feel a responsibility to let people know that i don't know what to do like yesterday was my first time i posted anything i was like do you guys want to hear a poem like i was like say yes or no because honestly i don't want to upset anybody you're hilarious and reverent and crazy and i just feel you should be more like me i'll sing oh what a beautiful morning yeah and you know i'm have it. I didn't post it. You should post it. You know what I'm going to start doing? I'm doing a live fireside chat with Oliver Hudson and I've decided that I'm going to do it twice a week and each, each fireside chat is going to be a topic. So the first one I'm going to do is relationships where I'm going to sit by the fire and I'm going to dress up in some sort of cool

costume. Like a Mr. Rogers. You should have like a routine. Yeah. And I'm going to field questions on sex and relationships. That's going to be my first one. How many of these? How many of these? followers do you think you're going to lose during during these firesides? I'm going to gain so many. So, but you know what I've talked with the way I've talked to see about today. Like I pretty much stay at the same. I don't go up or down.

I lose and then I gain. So I'm sort of, I have no movement. I have no movement either way. So I think I'm okay. Oh, man. But it's important to, it's important to have less. I know. Look, I'll get there, okay? I'll be like working out and, you know, in phabletics. You know, I do work out every day and I am wearing my fabletics still. Yeah. I mean, you know, it's, I think it's important. I think it's important, not just for, you know, our human condition, but I think it's also important for even people to see that it's okay. It's okay to laugh. It's okay to smile. It's okay to make a joke. You know what I mean?

Like, this is a fucked up situation, but there has to be levity. Has to be levity. That goes without saying, you know, that humor is everything. Everyone's going live now. Hey, did you, did you listen to D. Nice, you know, D. Nice is? Yeah. Okay, D. Nice is a DJ from back in the day, and he's also a DJ now. Okay.

D. Nice is going live now for the sort of, they're the distance. dance parties and they're fucking incredible I put my headphones on a couple nights ago ate an edible and like went to town but like Michelle Obama is on there Barack is on there you have these huge people who are coming into the live stream and listening and being a part of this whole dance movement you've got all these old school hip-hop artists that are that are on there and D. Nice is like oh my god like you know like you know cute tip is on then he plays like a tribe song or it's it's uh it's pretty it was really really fun i think he's doing it a lot i think he's doing it like all the time but i think the live stuff is really

really fun i think a lot of people are going live not just celebrities even people who are trying to all connect you know oh yeah but it's been it's it's fun i mean there's there is fun to be had guys like there is fun i know it sucks but there is fun to be had there is fun to be had. I read, you didn't read Marie Kondo, but I read Mary Kondo's book. And one of the things she said was that you should wear things that make you feel good

even if they're for nobody, right? She's like, put on some really pretty lingerie. Put on something that makes you feel good. You put something on, you get yourself together. It does make you feel good for women, especially. I think men too. You know, Ryder looked at me and was like, well, I'm on day four without a shower.

I was like, go take a shower. And he came down and he put on a hole, and he being closed, and he felt it. And he looked so great. And he was like, all, you need all this, like, pink in his skin. Yeah. And he's like, oh, I feel so much better, you know? Oh, yeah.

I put on a different pair of sneakers to go walk around the neighborhood. Like, I, yeah, I put on a little SB dunks, you know, maybe a little Kobe Prochro 6s. That should be something. That's good content for you and your stories. You just, what shoes are you going to wear for your walk today? I know, but I need more shoes because I'm just getting into it. So I have like six days of content.

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Sikara.com slash sibling. look everyone's having a little bit of a freak out it's okay give yourself a break you know what i mean like there's going to be good days and bad days and i had a bad day yesterday where i was just depressed all day and i felt like i didn't feel i felt like shit and i don't really know why you know and i had to sort of i did a little meditation popped out of it boom hudson's back i feel better talking to you. Well, maybe this is what I was thinking, that because I'm not in your life so much,

you're just depressed. My hope is that whatever that, you know, I'm saying right now or communicating and putting out there is, feels relatable, no matter what position you're in. Everyone has their own story. You know, I think there needs to be a little bit more compassion.

Everyone's feeling it in their own way. Yeah, we had an amazing episode. that actually mom and I did. We haven't aired it yet with Vivek, who was the Surgeon General with Obama. He wrote a book on loneliness, which I'm going to really, as much as I can't help him push out there.

I think the messaging is so important. And here we are, how interesting that someone like him, a surgeon general under Obama, just to repeat that, that someone like him chose the subject matter of loneliness as an epidemic and that people are dying of loneliness

and here we are with this pandemic and people are isolated people who living alone single parents people who are struggling scared my hope is that we pay attention to that loneliness

we were already lonely before and if there's anything that I would want to do it would be want it really is to want to connect to people so they don't feel so alone but we can do that i know that's what we're doing technology is amazing like you know what we should do we should do a like a zoom or a google chat room for whoever wants to join in on like a saturday night you can create those things where it's like a zoom party for all the followers or listeners and it's like just tune in you know what i mean Did you watch, you did, right, the thing I sent you of the class?

Oh, my God. Is that the greatest? I showed that to like a thousand people. It's the greatest thing ever. Explain what it is. So, you know, and Kate and our kids are both going through all this with the Zoom classroom situation and it's a bunch of older kids. They look like college kids.

Yeah, they're like graduates. Yeah. And it's like, there's like 14 squares or 10 squares up on the computer screen. And there's one guy in the top right hand corner. who does not realize that his camera and audio is on and he starts to get undressed and is completely butt naked with his dick flying around everywhere.

And the teacher's like, can we not get naked, please, in the thing. And he's on mute. He can't even hear anything. And all the other classmates are laughing their asses off. And they're like, Paul, Paul, you're on, your camera is on. And he just didn't, he had no idea. He's like walking around.

Yeah. He's like every man who sleeps naked who's very comfortable naked and walks around their room before when they're like getting their shit together and they're just, you know, all balls out. That's what he's doing. And he doesn't realize that he's, you know, showing. By the way, his, his wean was pretty good. Sure. A couple of those girls were like, oh, oh, oh. You know.

Totally. He got a couple more date. That's so funny. That was a great one. I know. That guy should be proud. I know. So let me take this one, Kate,

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I mean, I think people can get into these sort of social chat rooms now and have a drink with people. We did that the other night with like six of my friends. It was Brian's birthday. And we had a birthday party on Zoom. And we were drinking and laughing and just bullshitting, you know. It was actually kind of fun. I know. I have a book club.

It's hilarious. But we live in a nice time now to where loneliness can be averted. What are you singing? I'm singing, you know, I feel so lonely some I could cry. I feel so longsome I could. die oh the other thing katy now we're talking about uh kate actually was her idea but i think we're going to do a karaoke session oh yeah it's it's it's we're just going to take uh requests and we're going to be duets so we're just going to do a full on singing podcast that'll cheer me up for sure

think about dating too right now like you know you can't date it's like what do you do The swipe right thing is just no longer existing, you know. So you can't get laid. Like, if you're horny, there's nothing to do. I bet, like, all the online chats are, like, on fire. Oh, yeah, I've been reading about that, actually. Can we address the coronavirus mascot, which is that huge black dude with the huge, huge dick? Woods, woods.

Yeah. By the way, you know, Vice. I said to a group of people, when this is all done, there needs to be a foundation in that guy's name. Agreed. He has gotten everyone through. And he's gone now. He's died a few years ago. If only he knew.

Yeah. He's bringing a lot of people joy. Okay. Ready, Ollie? Yeah, what are we doing? This is weird if we sing. That's weird, yeah. That is what we are.

That's like, I could do endless love. I don't know if I could sing making love to each other. It makes me want to like grow up in my mouth. I'll come out tomorrow. I love that song. Oh, my God. That's my song. The sun will come out tomorrow.

Bet your bottom dollar, that's tomorrow. there'll be sun Oh, that would make me cry Just thinking about Tomorrow Throw away the cobweights And the sorrow Till there's none

Tomorrow Tomorrow, tomorrow I love you tomorrow There's only a day away away oh that's so great that's a good one um what else i don't know but i i will say this i miss i miss the family i know i miss everybody it's crazy i haven't seen mom i haven't seen you i haven't seen pa i haven't seen why i haven't seen anybody that's crazy because we're so tight you know i mean i think people who've listened to this know we all live so close to each other

and we're an extremely tight family and we're used to seeing each other pretty much every day and the cousins as well are always hanging out and I miss everyone it's kind of crazy you know I do too

when can we hang out like ever if there's one week link then everybody gets it I know but at what point is it like okay I've been at my house for 68 days

and I think I'm good you know like when is it when do you know or do you know I don't know it depends Like for me, if I'm here and I don't really go anywhere and I don't go out,

then I feel comfortable going to see like mom or paw. But honestly, if I'm out at the market and I catch one little thing and then I'm around mom or pa or anybody that would make me nervous. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's going to be a nice reunion, though, for a lot of people when people actually get to see their families and their friends. And it's going to be a party, man. I mean, once we do get through this, which we will,

I mean, imagine the corona parties. I think a lot of babies are going to be made. That's my prediction. Do you think there'll be more babies or more divorces? I think there might be both. I think there could be divorces that happen even though there's babies. You know, it's like I could hate Danny, but I'm still going to want to have sex with them. You know, it's like.

It's a test, though. I mean, it's a test. People aren't used to being together like this 24. seven. I don't know. I mean, honestly, as a woman with three kids, I think if there's women out there who have a lot of children, they're probably like, I don't want any more kids. And by the coming from someone who I'm like, oh yeah, I'm definitely having four kids for a number of reasons. One, I would be very scared right now to be pregnant and going to a hospital if I had to give birth to a baby. Like, I have four friends who are pregnant. We're all talking about it. Like, what do you

do you know do you go to the hospital do you try to have a home birth i mean there's a lot of people who are scared to go to the hospital and then is the babies are the babies susceptible like is do they are they in a high risk category because their lungs aren't fully developed like who knows you know right so it's scary and then if you have a lot of kids you're so cooped up and then you have to school on top of it and you're just like this is If this happens again, okay, let's say there's a low and then, oh, uh-oh, Corona 20, 21 is heading in and it's a little bit more mutated. It's a little bit stronger. We've got to like quarantine again. And I have a little baby and three, you know, I feel like I would definitely leave Danny then. And it wouldn't have anything to do with Danny. I just be like resentful. you fuck and this is coming from me who's like I want a thousand babies I know I know it's so funny well it's a real test in patience I mean just across the board not just with your with your partner

but with your kids and with everyone I mean I have been teaching Bing we we do school every day we have a routine now we figured it out it's great because we do like 30 minutes on I give them a 15 to 30 minute break. We do 40 minutes. I'll give him a 35 minute break. I'm doing it with him. He, you know, because he does need help. This is, you know, he's eight years old. Rider can be more self-sufficient. It took me a second. I was really, I get really frustrated with his, you know, he wants to play and he's home and I don't get it. And then this week, it's like probably one of the great joys of my life having this time to school him and to share with him something I'm never a part of, you know? I know. It's so funny. Last week, Kate calls me up and she, and I,

we talk and she goes, Bing, it's five ways to make 114. I mean, I don't know. There's, what are five ways to make 114? Ollie, what is it? I'm like, 200 minus, I'm trying to figure it out with her. I'm like zero plus 114? Yes, that's one. What's another one? I'm like, I don't know. I'm learning algebra again.

Like I'm trying to figure out algebra with Wilder. And then he leaves, and I'm still trying to figure it out to like 10 at night. Bing goes today doing his five ways. He had 116 was his number today. Oh, what? He's very smart. He likes to make things harder for himself. But Bing looks at me.

He goes, 2016 minus 1900. And I'm like, you know, he's in second grade. I'm like, honey, no, honey, no. It's 200. It's 2,000 and 116 minus 9. And he goes, mom, mom, you're wrong. And I was like, and I took my calculator out. I was so wrong.

And I was like, oh my God. It's so cute. I think every parent right now is thinking about all of the teachers how that's one that's another thing that's coming out of this. They need to get paid more. They're just incredible these teachers and what they're doing right now and how hard they're working to get the kids educated. I have so much love and respect for teachers right now.

And it's fun. It's fun on Zoom because the teachers are in the, are at home, teaching from home. So I get to go see them and like, you know, Miss Weller's hair is all crazy. And then, you know, Derek is like in his PJs. And, you know, I'm like, oh, look at you guys. Like, you're at home. Their kids are screaming. And it's fun to see them totally out of context.

Like you're saying I get to see how my kids are as students, which is really interesting. You know, because homework is one thing. But spending the day doing it with them is another. And Oliver. Oliver said to me, I think you're taking this school thing too seriously. Kate, well, Kate, I said, Kate,

I said, Kate, let's do the, got to do the podcast. She goes, I can't. I'm in P.E. I'm like, what? What do you mean you're in P? Like, Kate, you don't have to actually do P.E. I hear like a, I hear like a whistle. And I'm like, Jesus.

And Bing's like, Bing's doing like sprints. oh god oh god what did you do what did you do for pee today honestly i'm glad i did it because the kids need to exercise i put on some fablatics and uh and so did rider i put rider on a 10 minute mile yeah he's at the age now or you're like okay no more video games let's go run so he had he had 10-minute mile. Bings, like, I mean, he loves a workout. He was doing all of my cardio stuff that I was doing, like dance cardio. And then he went on the elliptical and was very determined to do 20 minutes on the elliptical. And then Ryder and I did some abs. We did some push-ups. We did. Kate, Kate, Kate, why don't you do like a live workout class? Because everybody's doing live workout

classes. There's like a million of them. But you're Kate Hudson? I'd rather just like talk to everybody. you know what we didn't talk about co-parenting during this time nobody talks about co-parenting yeah yeah yeah well I don't know I'm going to give you the floor speak on it so I'm in a really lucky position because in this particular situation we're totally on the same page but it got me thinking because sort of like going in between houses if someone has trust issues with that person if someone And one thinks that that person, one of the parents is irresponsible.

There's so many people out there who don't get along and they have a really hard time and they don't have faith or trust in their other co-parent. I don't know. I don't know. I'm just, I'm posing the question because I don't. No, it's a great question. But what about even from just a health standpoint, you know? You know, I mean, just how do we know when you're throwing a kid back and forth from parent to

parent how do we know where everyone's been it like depends on a situation for instance if you're a parent who has a you're taking care of your you know the grandparents if there's someone in the house that is of high risk a child going back and forth is probably not the right thing to do right now I would assume but but do you think there's a lot of parents out there co-parenting where it was like almost a game of hot potato like you they had the kid and then boom this thing hits and it's like oh you got the kid now because now we've got we cannot you know we've got a quarantine and we can't leave our houses so i can't get my child to you right now you know or our child our child to you yeah i mean i know a lot

of people who are in situations where in order to go back and forth they're being very very respectful full of each other. They're quarantining, like people who travel a lot and are now home. They're quarantining for like two weeks, making sure that they have no symptoms. And then, you know, they continue. So are there anything else you want to talk about Corona style? Yeah, I mean, what about going forward? Like, you know, we've got some stockpiled, you know, do people want to hear more of us or should we throw one out there? Maybe it would be fun to do, since we just put our voicemail out there. Maybe it would be fun to kind of talk about some of the voicemails we've got because we've got quite a few which is amazing and it would be nice to sort of give

some shoutouts I think people would love that right now yeah that could be fun yeah so let's let's do maybe a one of those or or you know let's let maybe some of the listeners weigh it would be fun to know what are some of the things that people are doing with their siblings or their family doesn't have to even be siblings or their friends that are fun like there's this virtual card game that I play with a group of people that's really fun, like stuff like that, you know. That's a good idea. People who play Canasta, like how,

people who play bridge all the time. What do they do now? Is there a way to do that, you know? Probably, digital bridge. I tried to download words with friends. I used to play that like a long time ago, and it's too crazy. I can't even figure out how to do it anymore.

Oh, really? Like, yeah, I want to play like a Scrabble type of a game. We do, we play spider. We play each other in Spider. Well, I'm playing so many board games with the kids now. It's crazy. Especially Bodie. He's like a board game fanatic.

Like, Uno. We play for money. Well, anyway, I think, look, obviously tough times. The bad we can see every day when we turn on the news. But there's a lot of good. There's a lot of hope. There's a lot of togetherness, hopefully. You know, people need to sort of find the positives, I think.

You know, I mean, we have to. We don't have a choice, right? I mean, we have to be vigilant, stay the fuck home. You know what I mean? Like, don't be an asshole. There's no reason for it. Follow the rules. And find the best, find the most fun things to do in your house with your kids or even by yourself.

You know, we got to. And by the way, if someone needs cheering up, just call me. Hit me up. Hit me up. I think this is one of those moments in history. that we all recognize is something we never thought

we would be a part of and this will go down as a very historic event in our lifetimes we've had a couple of them you know the biggest being 9-11 also you know 2008 was tough but different different kind of circumstance

clearly this is literally just so wild. It's like nothing we could have ever possibly imagined. These are the times that it tests the human spirit. It is the greatest test to humanity. And what is on the other end of this will be, in my, my greatest hope is that will be something that will have been truly learned because right now we don't know what tomorrow brings, but we do know that there is always light at the end of the tunnel. And we know that there will be a time where this is going to go away.

The question becomes, what does it look like? And that's up to us. We're having an enormous shift of consciousness. My hope is that it becomes not about what one wants or what one wants. one has but what what one needs well also human connection you know we're all longing

for each other in one way or another human kindness is overflowing and I think it's gonna rain today beautiful let's just leave it right let's leave it right there

I hope I got the lyrics right I'll do one just in case Tutsu Tudio Pupo do do do Tuduio All right I love you, I miss you I love you I miss you too

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