Sibling Revelry with Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson - Q&A: Behind the Revelry

Episode Date: July 21, 2025

Kate & Oliver deliver delicious details in an all new Q&A episode. Among the revelry revelations, hear about the musician who left Kate star-struck, her go-to cocktail, and the album she could... play on repeat all year long.  Meanwhile, Oliver opens up about their famous family vacations and how he stepped up for his sis when she needed him the most. Plus, the very valid reason Oliver hates receiving calls from Kate! We think you'll relate!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an IHeart podcast. September is a great time to travel, especially because it's my birthday in September, especially internationally. Because in the past, we've stayed in some pretty awesome Airbnbs in Europe. Did we've one in France, we've one in Greece,
Starting point is 00:00:15 we've actually won in Italy a couple of years ago. Anyway, it just made our trip feel extra special. So if you're heading out this month, consider hosting your home on Airbnb. With the co-host feature, you can hire someone local to help manage everything. Find a co-host at Airbnb.ca slash host.
Starting point is 00:00:32 I'm Jorge Ramos. And I'm Paola Ramos. Together we're launching The Moment, a new podcast about what it means to live through a time, as uncertain as this one. We sit down with politicians, artists, and activists to bring you death and analysis from a unique Latino perspective. The Moment is a space for the conversations
Starting point is 00:00:51 we've been having us father and daughter for years. Listen to The Moment with Jorge Ramos and Paola Ramos on the IHeart Radio app, podcast or wherever you get your podcasts. I just normally do straight stand-up, but this is a bit different. What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? Answer, a new podcast called Wisecrack, where a comedian finds himself at the center of a chilling true crime story.
Starting point is 00:01:17 Does anyone know what show they've come to see? It's a story. It's about the scariest night of my life. This is Wisecrack, available now. Listen to Wisecrack on the IHeart Radio app. Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Introducing IVF Disrupted, the Kind Body Story, a podcast about a company that promised to revolutionize fertility care.
Starting point is 00:01:41 It grew like a tech startup. While Kind Body did help women start families, it also left behind a stream of disillusioned and angry patients. You think you're finally, like, in the right hands. You're just not. Listen to IVF Disrupted, the Kind Body Story, on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. On a cold January day in 1995, 18-year-old Krista Pike killed 19-year-old Colleen Slemmer in the woods of Knoxville, Tennessee.
Starting point is 00:02:13 Since her conviction, Krista has been sitting on death row. How does someone prove that they deserve to live? We are starting the recording now. Please state your first and last name. Krista Pike. Listen to Unrestorable Season 2, Proof of Life, on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Kate Hudson. And my name is Oliver Hudson.
Starting point is 00:02:46 We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship. And what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling revelry No, no Sibling reverie Don't do that with your mouth Sibling Reveory
Starting point is 00:03:10 That's good Oliver Well I started out with some nice fart noises Everyone loves a fart noise It's just a nice way to start off a podcast. Research has shown. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:03:33 It puts people in good mood. I don't know why. I've never loved a fart joke. I mean, certain fart jokes are really funny, but they have to be really, they have to, like. Oh. But like just, it's the only joke that has ever stood the test of time and will never go away. A fart joke will always crush. It will never go away.
Starting point is 00:03:56 way, ever. I mean, ever. I mean, it just works. It's just, what is it cheap? Yeah, if you're laughing, you're laughing, you know. Silly, yeah, I'm not big on the fart joke thing, unless it's like a really funny fart joke. But what constitutes like a really smart fart joke?
Starting point is 00:04:17 Exactly, exactly. We'd have to go through. It's timing. Fart jokes are all about timing. You know what? What we should do is we should actually. go through. You know what? I'm going to chat GPT right now. How about that?
Starting point is 00:04:29 I don't want to do chat. No, I'm going to chat GPT. It's the best thing in the world. No, it's not. You're being controlled by robots. What are the best fart jokes of all time? Here we go. Something's going to be like naked gun. This is the best.
Starting point is 00:04:49 What is it? Blazing saddles. Do you remember this? Yeah, of course. Yes, exactly. Oh, group of cowboys eat beans erupt into an extended symphonic fart scene. It's one of that, by the way, first of all, blazing saddles. Oh, man.
Starting point is 00:05:08 Brooks, Mel Brooks. Okay, now that's funny. That's funny. Well, yeah, that's taking a fart joke to like a whole different level. But what I love about it is Mel Brooks because fart jokes are cheap. So if you take it into the Mel Brooks category of funny, you get a symphony of far. A fart. Yes.
Starting point is 00:05:28 Oh, it's so funny. One of the first times, this was one of the first times flatulence was used this boldly. Right. Okay, dumb and dumber. Yep. Turbolax.
Starting point is 00:05:41 Harry gets sabotaged with a mega laxative before a date ends up on an explosive bath. Yeah. I mean, it's not really fart, but it's like fart adjacent. Well, it's, it's, But it's great.
Starting point is 00:05:55 It's potty humor, like literally. Yeah. You know. Yeah, it's like bridesmaids. Yeah, exactly. How about that one? She's shit in the middle of the street. I mean, you know, it's funny.
Starting point is 00:06:05 I love it. Shrek, swamp farts. Yep. Austin Powers. Mm-hmm. Fat bastard rips a monster fart and bed follows it up. But did somebody step on a duck? Mm-hmm.
Starting point is 00:06:23 Monty Python's, the Mee. meaning of life. There you go again. He eats, burbs, farts, and then explodes. That's one of my favorite. Oh, God. Just one mint. One mint.
Starting point is 00:06:35 Just one mint. One. Tropic thunder. Oh, God, that was funny. Which was, which one was it at tropic? Fine, I'm wrong. Well, actually, we're doing an episode today where we've taken some listener questions. and we're going to answer a few of them.
Starting point is 00:06:56 Oliver Hudson. Let's do it. Let's get into some of these listener questions. We can go through all of them, I guess. Yeah, let's go through all of them. Okay, ready? Yeah. Sam, if you had to listen to one album for one year, what would it be and why?
Starting point is 00:07:13 Great question. Sam, great question. One album. One album. Well, I'd pick a double album because I'd get really sick of like just one album. Mm-hmm. This is for one year. Can we pick a box set?
Starting point is 00:07:28 Maybe the Jimmy Hendricks box up? Yeah, no, that doesn't count. A double album, we can get away with a double album, but a box set, like, all things must pass. You know what I mean? George Harrison, that's a pretty good double album. Well, the white album is one of the way. The white album, white album's a good one. I mean, Beatles are always a good way to go because there's, you can always, they just feel so good.
Starting point is 00:07:53 You know you can play it at any occasion. It's true. And you know what? Mine, I was thinking Beatles. Maybe I'd just go with like Andre 3000's flute album. No. Well, no, because then at least it would be like somewhat meditative and like I wouldn't get sick of words. Well, here's the thing.
Starting point is 00:08:16 Okay. I was thinking Beatles. And for me, rubber soul sort of holds a special place for me. because when we were with pa when pa when pa sort of brought us into his life he had a blazer which we still have 1977 76 i think and he had an eight track in it of course and rubber soul was the one and when he would take me to fly fish and fish that would play all the time so those songs every time they come on holds great nostalgia for me it's like drive my car
Starting point is 00:08:52 nowhere man like Norwegian wood Michelle you know what I mean like these are all oh that reminds me of the blazer yeah so it's there's something there
Starting point is 00:09:05 are in my life that in my life is on that girl girl yeah you know I'm looking through you where I have a couple yeah I love that I love the connection
Starting point is 00:09:20 I love the connection Okay, so you're doing Rubber Soul Rubber Soul Um Blonde on blonde might be one of my favorite albums of all time just because Visions of Johanna is one of my favorite I'm just such a Bob Dylan
Starting point is 00:09:36 freaky And I I feel like if I put music on If someone was like what should I put on I, you know And I again, so that would be Blonde on Blonde, the white album. My second is Tevin Campbell. Can We Talk?
Starting point is 00:10:00 Oh, my God. I mean. You know. Obsessed. You know the Outcast album that had hay on it. That was a double album, and that was a great double album, by the way. Oh, yeah. One of the great double albums ever.
Starting point is 00:10:16 Well, Big Boy did one and Andre did the other. Yeah, it was great. It was awesome. That was a great. album. The Jazz Girl and Me Bitches Brew, Miles Davis For a whole year?
Starting point is 00:10:31 I'm like, when people go like, I hate jazz. I'm like, I can't imagine Yeah, no, who would hate? Oh, there's so many people. It's so weird. They like don't get it. They're like, I don't, I can't. I don't know how people can listen to jazz. I'm like, that's so, it must have, like, I feel like
Starting point is 00:10:50 superior brains love jazz. You know what you should. Like when I see a young kid doing jazz, like drums and guitar, it's like insane. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:11:05 What were you going to say? You should listen to sketches of Spain again if you haven't. It's so moody and incredible. Molly, you're so cute with your sketches of Spain. I know more. I'm more cultured than I think most people think.
Starting point is 00:11:23 You know what I mean? I'm a very, very, very well-read, man. You've got Bruce Springsteen's The River, baked up, big, big album. Okay, I'm going to go with, if I had to pick one, it would, for one year, I'm going to go blown on it. It has to be an album that you can,
Starting point is 00:11:48 Every single song, though, you know, you can't take one off. That's the thing. And that's why Rubber Soul, like, every single song that comes on, I'm like, oh, yay. Oh, my God, yay. Oh, this reminds me of that. There's only like eight songs on Rubber Soul. Yeah. Okay, next question.
Starting point is 00:12:04 But then, but then they've got DeAngelo too, Voodoo for me. Oh, there's 14 songs. Okay. Anyway, okay. Oh, DeAngelo. Voodoo for me, that was my, like, make love album. I used to care. I'm not, this is not, I'm not fucking joking.
Starting point is 00:12:19 I would carry that around with me in my car or if I was not driving, I would bring it. Because if there was a chance that I was going to end up in a hotel with a female, I would put it on. September always feels like the start of something new, whether it's back to school, new projects, or just a fresh season. it's the perfect time to start dreaming about your next adventure. I love that feeling of possibility, thinking about where to go next, what kind of place will stay in, and how to make it feel like home. I'm already imagining the kind of Airbnb that would make the trip unforgettable, somewhere with charm, character, and a little local flavor.
Starting point is 00:13:03 If you're planning to be away this September, why not consider hosting your home on Airbnb while you're gone? Your home could be the highlight of someone else's trip, a cozy place. to land, a space that helps them feel like a local. And with Airbnb's co-host feature, you can hire a local co-host to help with everything from managing bookings to making sure your home is guest ready. Find a co-host at Airbnb.ca slash host. I'm Jorge Ramos.
Starting point is 00:13:31 And I'm Paola Ramos. Together we're launching The Moment, a new podcast about what it means to live through a time as uncertain as this one. We sit down with politicians. I would be the first immigrant mayor. generations, but 40% of New Yorkers were born outside of this country. Artists and activists, I mean, do you ever feel demoralized? I might personally lose hope. This individual might lose the faith, but there's an institution
Starting point is 00:13:57 that doesn't lose faith. And that's what I believed in. To bring you death and analysis from a unique Latino perspective. There's not a single day that Paola and I don't call or text each other, sharing news and thoughts about what's happening in the country. This new podcast will be a way to make that ongoing intergenerational conversation public. Listen to The Moment with Jorge Ramos and Paola Ramos as part of the MyCultura Podcast Network on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. My name is Ed. Everyone say hello, Ed. I'm from a very rural background myself. My dad is a farmer and my mom is a cousin.
Starting point is 00:14:37 So, like, it's not like... What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? I know it It sounds like the start of a bad joke, but that really was my reality nine years ago. I just normally do straight stand-up, but this is a bit different. On stage stood a comedian with a story that no one expected to hear. The 22nd of July 2015, a 23-year-old man had killed his family. And then he came to my house. So what do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy comedy comedy.
Starting point is 00:15:13 Club, a new podcast called Wisecrack, where stand-up comedy and murder takes center stage. Available now. Listen to Wisecrack on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is a tape recorded statement. The person being interviewed is Krista Gail Pike. This is in regards to the death of Colleen Slimmer. She started going off on me, and I hit her. I just hit her, I'm hit her, I'm here.
Starting point is 00:15:47 On a cold January day in 1995, 18-year-old Krista Pike killed 19-year-old Colleen Slemmer in the woods of Knoxville, Tennessee. Since her conviction, Krista has been sitting on death row. The state has asked for an execution date for Krista. We let people languish in prison for decades, raising questions about who we consider fundamentally unrestorable. How does someone prove?
Starting point is 00:16:13 that they deserve to live. We are starting the recording now. Please state your first and last name. Krista Pike. Listen to Unrestorable Season 2, Proof of Life, on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I started trying to get pregnant about four years ago now. We were getting a little bit older, and it just kind of felt like the window could be closing.
Starting point is 00:16:43 Bloomberg and IHeard Podcasts present. IVF disrupted, the Kind Body story, a podcast about a company that promised to revolutionize fertility care. Introducing Kind Body, a new generation of women's health and fertility care. Backed by millions in venture capital and private equity, it grew like a tech startup. While Kind Body did help women start families, it also left behind a stream of disillusioned and angry patients. You think you're finally like with the right people in the right hands and then to find out
Starting point is 00:17:19 again that you're just not. Don't be fooled. By what? All the bright and shiny. Listen to IVF disrupted, the kind body story starting September 19 on the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Okay, Lily. Was there ever a moment where you were.
Starting point is 00:17:43 truly starstruck meeting someone. I mean, Bob Dylan. For me, for the first time I met Bob, I was definitely very starstruck. Barbishized, Ann, your mom, our mom. Our mother. Mine was, for sure, Wayne Gretzky. Oh, gosh. I'll never forget it.
Starting point is 00:18:03 And I got to actually scrimmage with him. I was playing, I played hockey. I finished to practice. Wayne, Thomas Sandstrom, a few other kings were hurt. and they were just having a scrimmage just to get their skating and I was coming off the ice and Wayne says
Starting point is 00:18:17 hey do you want to scrimmage with us and I was like oh my God and I did and he dropped a pass top of the circle and I scored so I had an assist
Starting point is 00:18:26 from Wayne Gretzky that was huge for me oh my God that's like that was star-struck stuff yeah Michael Jordan Jordan
Starting point is 00:18:34 yep Michael Jordan super star struck that was super star struck too and like I just oh my God I just love him
Starting point is 00:18:41 Yeah, Super Starstruck. Ollie, you got Super Starstruck with Tiger Woods and then, like, failed. Oh, that was huge. Starstruck with Tiger Woods. That's another story. I was playing in this event, his event at Riviera. I was hitting golf balls. I was hitting a five iron.
Starting point is 00:19:00 I was striping them. It was amazing. I was moving the ball left to right. I was in control. I looked behind me, and Tiger Woods is there with a microphone and some reporter. talking about what an incredible golf swing I have. You see Oliver moves the ball from right to left? Like, he can swing.
Starting point is 00:19:17 Like, he's got a great guy. I'm sure he's like a zero scratcher. And I look, I'm like, oh, no. I was like, what are you doing? Next shot, skank, hazel rocket, horrendous. Tiger starts laughing. Does you get that? Did you get that on camera?
Starting point is 00:19:33 Did you get that on camera? And it was awful. And then I'm like, dude, I was like, what are you doing? I was like, you're, come on. Oh, it's too much pressure. Too much pressure. You can't stand the heat. God, the kitchen, Ollie.
Starting point is 00:19:49 All athletes are, take it on. You got to get your mental game strong. I know. I mean, I'm always starstruck. I feel like there's, I mean, I'm not so starstruck that I can't like, you know, that I'm like, that I get emotional or like, you know, like can't manage a conversation. but I love, like, I'm so moved by talent. Like, I, when I meet certain people that has done great things or talented or, like, super
Starting point is 00:20:23 dedicated to their craft or to their sport, I just love it, you know? Yeah, yeah. So there's a lot. I mean, I remember meeting Martin Scorsese for the first time was I read, I was reading. I did a reading with him. Mm-hmm. And I was auditioning for one of his movies and I couldn't believe it. That's pretty crazy.
Starting point is 00:20:40 Yeah. I'm working with Martin's first. No, that's cool. And, you know, the athletes, too, I just have such a respect for because the determination and the commitment and the sacrifice that the athletes have to make to get to the top of their game is so unique and intense. Yeah. I feel the same about the arts, though, I must say.
Starting point is 00:20:59 Like, the great, great artists are as dedicated to their craft as great athletes. No, I know. I get that, but there's a physicality that is just different. It's getting up every day. and, like, being physical. Kate, if you're a cocktail, what would you be? It depends on the season. This is true.
Starting point is 00:21:20 Can I do a seasonal cocktail? Are you oscillating between a nigroney and a martini? It depends on the season. All right, let's go seasonal cocktail. All right, fall, I'm a ngroni. Okay, this is good. I'm a ngroni. Winter?
Starting point is 00:21:35 Yeah. I'm an old-fashioned. Yeah, I love it. Okay. We're close. We're close so far. I'm only in spirits, though. And then we're going to get to the wines. Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, I'm in spirits. Yeah. Okay. So, old-fashioned, spring, I'm a paper plane. Okay. Isn't that a whiskey-based drink?
Starting point is 00:21:57 Yeah, it's bourbon. Right. And summer, I'm... Like, apparel spritz? No. That's not a... No. Summer, I'm a margarita. Okay, so that's your tequila. But I'm a year-long martini, dirty martini girl. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:22:19 Martini is not a seasonal drink. You can have a martini at lunch. You can have martini in a steak restaurant. You can have martini anytime. Yeah, martini's almost don't count. It's like saying like, oh, you know, what's your drink? It's like saying like, what do you love the most? Like you can't say your kids.
Starting point is 00:22:36 Okay, so what about this then? The martini is your kids. I love what you did because I want to do the same thing. But moving into the deeper part of the question, Kate Hudson, the spirit of Kate Hudson, the energy of Kate, what drink is she if you had to say you are a drink? But do I have to like it? No, you don't have to like it.
Starting point is 00:22:59 I would say paper plane. I'd say paper plane is a good one because it's bourbon base, which has like some like, wait, like I'm not like, I'm not as much as, like, people think I'm, like, always happy and, like, I, I'm, I have some gravitas, I think, right? But I am definitely citrus forward. I'm citrus forward. I, I'm definitely the color of, like, spring or summer, right? So, like, that peach color.
Starting point is 00:23:29 So, and then apparel, I have to have something Italian in there. So, like, I'm definitely. an Italian I've got an Italian vibe and and and and and um yeah with with both of the other's like you know it's an Italian vibe yeah I like that I like that yeah fun citrus forward bourbon drink so it has like it's a little more balanced I'm not dissimilar but I think I think I'd go nagroney because it's bitter and it's sweet like me okay okay it's all equal three parts equal you know just pretty great even i like where you're going i like where you're going not only that but mcronies can be made with different alcohols because you
Starting point is 00:24:19 can have a boulevard boulevardia which is bourbon you can have gin and you can have tequila so it encompasses you're like a compari ad you know i did the campari calendar once you did So Kampari has a drink called a jasmine. And it's gin, Kampari, and lime juice. And it's awesome. Like it's really refreshing. It's almost like a version. It's a different version of a paper plane.
Starting point is 00:24:53 But it's a little lighter. Yeah, I've been into gin in the last couple years, strangely. Yeah. A great, an amazing summer day drink is like a gin and tonic. Simple, like a gin and tonic. It's a refreshing drink. Cicillotin and lime is interesting. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:25:15 What's your favorite family vacation spot? Well, anywhere in Greece and anywhere in Greece. Yeah. But I think our family likes to go all kinds of, like we like to go to different places. I think it's an interesting question because, you know, home is where the heart is. Meaning, wherever we go, it's going to be fun
Starting point is 00:25:36 because our family is crazy and fun. You know, I will say last year with all the cousins in Greece was the most memorable vacation for me. It was just so fun, and it was one of the first times we were all together. September of the first time,
Starting point is 00:26:00 feels like the start of something new, whether it's back to school, new projects, or just a fresh season. It's the perfect time to start dreaming about your next adventure. I love that feeling of possibility, thinking about where to go next, what kind of place will stay in, and how to make it feel like home. I'm already imagining the kind of Airbnb that would make the trip unforgettable, somewhere with charm character and a little local flavor. If you're planning to be away this September, why not consider hosting your home on Airbnb while you're gone? Your home could be the highlight of someone else's trip, a cozy place to land, a space that helps them feel like a local. And with Airbnb's co-host feature, you can hire a local co-host to
Starting point is 00:26:44 help with everything from managing bookings to making sure your home is guest ready. Find a co-host at Airbnb.ca slash host. I'm Jorge Ramos. And I'm Paola Ramos. Together we're launching The Moment. a new podcast about what it means to live through a time as uncertain as this one. We sit down with politicians. I would be the first immigrant mayor in generations, but 40% of New Yorkers were born outside of this country. Artists and activists, I mean, do you ever feel demoralized?
Starting point is 00:27:15 I might personally lose hope. This individual might lose the faith, but there's an institution that doesn't lose faith. And that's what I believe in. To bring you death and analysis from a unique Latino perspective. There's not a single day that Paola and I don't call or text each other, sharing news and thoughts about what's happening in the country. This new podcast will be a way to make that ongoing intergenerational conversation public. Listen to The Moment with Jorge Ramos and Paola Ramos as part of the MyCultura podcast network on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Starting point is 00:27:53 My name is Ed. Everyone say hello, Ed. Hello, Ed. I'm from a very rural background myself. My dad is a farmer, and my mom is a cousin. So, like, it's not, like... What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? I know it sounds like the start of a bad joke, but that really was my reality nine years ago.
Starting point is 00:28:11 I just normally do straight stand-up, but this is a bit different. On stage stood a comedian with a story that no one expected to hear. On 22nd of July 2015, a 23-year-old man had killed his family. And then he came to my house. So what do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? A new podcast called Wisecrack, where stand-up comedy and murder takes center stage. Available now.
Starting point is 00:28:47 Listen to Wisecrack on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is a tape recorder statement. The person being interviewed is Krista Gale. on Pike, which is in regards to the death of Colleen Slimmer. She just started going off on me, and I hit her. I just hit her and hit her and hit her and hit her. On a cold January day in 1995, 18-year-old Krista Pike killed 19-year-old Colleen Slimmer in the woods of Knoxville, Tennessee.
Starting point is 00:29:21 Since her conviction, Krista has been sitting on death row. The state has asked for an execution date for Krista. We let people languish in prison for decades, raising questions about who we consider fundamentally unrestorable. How does someone prove that they deserve to live? We are starting the recording now. Please state your first and last name. Krista Pike. Listen to Unrestorable Season 2, Proof of Life, on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I started trying to get pregnant about four years ago now.
Starting point is 00:30:02 We were getting a little bit older, and it just kind of felt like the window could be closing. Bloomberg and IHeard podcast present. IVF disrupted, the Kind Body Story, a podcast about a company that promised to revolutionize fertility care. Introducing Kind Body, a new generation of women's health and fertility care. Backed by millions in venture capital and private. at equity, it grew like a tech startup. While Kind Body did help women start families, it also left behind a stream of disillusioned and angry patients.
Starting point is 00:30:38 You think you're finally like with the right people in the right hands, and then to find out again that you're just not. Don't be fooled. By what? All the bright and shiny. Listen to IVF disrupted, the Kind Body story, starting September 19 on the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Okay, Benji said, what's a moment in your life when you really leaned on each other?
Starting point is 00:31:09 I feel like it happens often, but not in like, and not in like ways of like, I'm really strong. You know, I think, I think for me, the biggest time was in divorce. For me with you and my divorce with having Ryder and being a working mom. I felt like you really stepped up without me asking. Yeah. It's just that you just stepped up as Uncle Ollie
Starting point is 00:31:36 and was really there for us and Ryder. And, you know, there was a lot of, I think that time, that period of time, you really stepped up for me without me even having to ask for it. But like in reflection,
Starting point is 00:31:55 you were so stable. for rider and and myself and and you know we had our we had so much fun and we created a fun times with the kids it's funny um they're they're like micro leanings you know what i mean that that happen all the time where it's a micro lean it's a micro lean you know where it's there's like little things that happen it's not these big catastrophic events where it's like here put your head on my shoulder it's the it's the little things it's calling you and being like oh my god this just fucking happened and then it's like bang okay well here talk talk talk talk talk or you calling me and it's like oh my god like this whatever it's kind of like that rather than sort of big crazy
Starting point is 00:32:45 moments although those do exist yeah or it's like or it's like or it's a micro lean and it's it's more of like a am I or it's more like am I crazy or is this right is this happening
Starting point is 00:33:01 or am I nuts right like okay here's a situation or here's a situation here's how I feel about it should I be feeling that about it or should I back off
Starting point is 00:33:14 should I how do I you know like little things like that mm-hmm yeah no it's good I like it we're micro leaning
Starting point is 00:33:22 You micro leaned on me Oh my God Oh You know It's Oh the podcast Huh This podcast
Starting point is 00:33:33 Yeah microleaning Is a microleaning No I mean You know It's We're micro leaning For me it's interesting Because
Starting point is 00:33:42 There's a weakness To And this is not Necessarily the rational thinking but sometimes there's for me personally there's a you're presenting weakness when you feel like you have to lean on somebody rather than figuring it out yourself because you have to express sort of a certain vulnerability and I you don't want to at times so I think there's
Starting point is 00:34:10 reading our concept right but like even if that just kind of goes against like any great mind is a curious mind, which means that you're always curious as how someone else would handle something or open the floor up for any suggestion would actually be seen more as a strength than a weakness. You know, it's like this idea that like if you can't handle something alone, you are weak, is so bizarre. Yeah, or if you're asked for help or if you're like, I'm really struggling right now. like I don't know what to do.
Starting point is 00:34:50 Right, right. You know, it's hard. I just, I don't know, I feel like every day, my brain goes through all kinds of iterations of insanity, you know, where it's just like, oh, what am I doing? I don't know, who am I? You know, it's like when we did Dr. Amon, any, which we haven't talked about, which we'll do later on or whatever, but, you know, he says, what do you feel like you're put on the earth for?
Starting point is 00:35:15 You know, why do you think you're here? And I was like, I don't, I have no idea. Like, I don't know. You know, and I question that sometimes. You know, I'm like, am I doing what I'm supposed to be doing? What am I doing? Like, what is the whole point of? Right.
Starting point is 00:35:31 I go through those existential crises all the time. It's also like a funny thing because you can waver. To me, it's also like, if you really want to go there, like, what are we all doing here? It's like, nothing. Yeah. We're born into this world, and then we have some weird existence, and then we die. We're like a little tiny ant in this, not even an ant. We're like a, we're like a microplastic in the like big scheme of, you know, but so there's that, which by the way, you can kind of look at and go like, yeah, there's something really kind of refreshing and liberating to know how, how unimportant one's existence.
Starting point is 00:36:16 really is in the large scheme of things, right? Like, so that's really an interesting concept and something to think about. Aren't people who... But then there's the other thing. There's the other side of it, which you can call it magical thinking. You can call it, you know, inflating your ego to feel like you have purport, whatever it is, right? Or you can call it actual connection to spirit that we kind of maybe don't know what it is yet, whatever it is. there are some people that go no like not only do I feel like I have a purpose here I want to have a purpose
Starting point is 00:36:54 because it makes me feel good right so even if it's a bit of a magical thinking like maybe that's a good thing for your brain to say you know what no I'm going to convince myself that my purpose on this earth is to do X Y and Z that's your purpose number one pet peeve about each other I'll go first. It's when you call and we might talk for three seconds and then you get distracted by something else. Oh my God.
Starting point is 00:37:26 You don't say, like, let me call you back. I just stay on the phone. And then I'm hearing you parent. I'm hearing you talk to, you know, schedule your day. Then maybe a little argument with Danny. And then all of a sudden the car starts. And then I hear it like a drive-through Starbucks.
Starting point is 00:37:43 And I'm like, hello? Right. I'm like, what has just happened? And I'm just staying on the phone out of courtesy because I'm just like, I can't hang up on my sister. Well, you can do things while I'm doing things too. I was like, this is getting crazy. You could do text messages. It's so funny.
Starting point is 00:38:03 It's crazy. It's very Gen Z. I'm not going to lie. That's a very Gen Z. Like, that's just, I have a Gen Z method of FaceTime. Yes. So that's number one. Yeah, I just like FaceTime, I'm like, hey, and the next thing you know, we're on FaceTime for an hour and we're not talking. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And Kate is a face timer. So sometimes I'm like, I just want to like talk. And then it's like his face time. Like, go, go, good, good, good, good, good. And then I get a text like, answer, you asshole. Like, I know you see this. I'm like, yeah. And then, and then, and then, oh, God, there was one more fuck.
Starting point is 00:38:39 That's so funny. Oh, the other one that you inherited from Mom is. You cannot, yes, it is unbelievable. Like, if you are, if you are doing a thing, Kate, Kate, Kate, Kate, like nothing. And that's the same as mom, mom. It's like you cannot. I think it's another thing too. Like I think we shut down because we hear our names being called so much that when someone I'm doing something that I need to focus on, I just shut. It's like my ears go into, it's like putting your blinders on.
Starting point is 00:39:14 It's like my ears do that. I'm like, I'm out. Yeah. Yeah. Nobody bother me. Yeah. And you just have to learn to work around it, meaning like, okay, I think now's the right time. And okay?
Starting point is 00:39:27 Nope, no, nope. That's not the way. Oh my God. I'm trying to think about my pet peeve is with you. I don't really have one except you sometimes dig your heels into things. where you don't really have the information. It's one of my pet peeves in general, in life, in this world. It's like when people dig their heels in,
Starting point is 00:39:50 but they don't have the information, they don't really have the information. You're like, that's just, that to me comes across as arrogant. It's like, it's one thing to say, you know, I don't know if I can lean into that because I don't have all the information, and there's something about it that I think is, I need to do more research on.
Starting point is 00:40:10 but I don't know I'm more lean to this that is like a real honest way to have a conversation when people kind of like start to debate and they don't have their points maybe it's like the old like voice speech and debate
Starting point is 00:40:27 like crazy person I mean I used to love voice speech and debate because when you have the statistics and you really know your subject you just annihilate people it's so much fun because they can't when you stop someone in your tracks in a debate because they don't have the information and they're trying to debate something that they don't have information on,
Starting point is 00:40:47 I would say one of my pet peeves would be the lack of structure. With like my whole life. Like everything. Like the kids. And it's not like, it's not like a pet peeve for me. It's only a pet peeve for me when I'm like have to deal with my kids and they're like, Uncle Olly doesn't let's wilder boating. I'm like Uncle Oliver is not the picture of structured family life.
Starting point is 00:41:16 Okay. Mommy is different than Uncle Olly. I get like, you know, I'm like the not so fun mom because I create more structure. So like that's the only time, but it's not like a pet peeve of something. I really, it's not about you. It's more about like how it affects the kid. Yeah, I get it. All right.
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