Sibling Revelry with Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson - This One’s for the Fans

Episode Date: March 10, 2025

Things are getting personal! Kate and Oliver answer your questions for a real and raw Q&A episode of Sibling Revelry. From Oliver's daily struggle to keep life on track, to his true feelings about becoming an empty nester. Meanwhile, Kate shares her secret to making every day count with a 20-minute morning ritual. Plus, would Kate and Oliver provide a kick-ass ride for their kids to drive? The answer may surprise you!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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The Puzzler. Listen on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Kate Hudson. And my name is Oliver Hudson. We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship. And what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling revelry. No, no.

Sibling reverie. Don't do that with your mouth. Sibling revelry. That's good. I'm excited. I really want to do more. More of us. Because I feel...

It's what they demand. I mean, we don't. We don't. It's just what they want. I feel like it's like sometimes when we're having doing the interviews, there's like all these things I want to start talking about and then we never get to. No, I know. So sometimes I feel like we need intermittently these...

I'm in New York City right now. You're in L.A. I'm doing whatever I'm doing here. But I'm in the I heart studios. As you can sort of see. It's so great. It's like a game changer. Really?

We need a studio. Yeah. It's just fun to sit here. There's a thing. You feel important kind of. You know, it's just kind of, it feels good. I like it. I like it.

We got to figure this out. I know. We got to get our space. We got to get the space. We almost got our space and then all the things happens. What's up with the space? Yeah. And I hadn't signed it and I don't know what to do now.

I think I, I don't know, I got to figure it all out. But that's for another episode of sibling revelry. Right. Now, this is different. This is going to be a very, very different episode. Yeah, we're going to, these questions, I, are, you know, it's like sort of a Q&A. Yeah. This is good.

Okay, Kate, what do you look up to about Oliver that he doesn't even know? well i'm i'm i'm kind of a talkative person we tell each we tell each other we tell each other you know but but i but i mean it's not that you don't know it but you know your perseverance your fearlessness your fire your you're you know your inability your your inability to sort of get put down you fucking charge forward you don't give a fuck about what people think about how they feel about you that's what i admire that's what i wish i had more uh Oh, so what we told each other this before? I know, I know, but we're going to repeat it.

Okay. I love Oliver, I'm thinking. I can answer for you. What, you want to answer for me? I know what it is, I think. Okay, what? My exceptional parenting. I think you're a great parent.

And I think, I mean, I have. some notes you have notes the way the way i the way i use my words my articulation my ability to sort of just be off the cuff always i i know you end yeah i love all that and i look up to me for that uh i i love and i i think looking up to is different i i at my lately i lately feel that what one of the things I look up to with you is how you've been able to take on sort of a peacemaker type of role in certain familial moments. Yeah. Where you're able to be kind of a rock for people to talk to without commiserating.

Yes. That's so interesting. This is new. I like it. Keep going. Yeah, because I just kind of listen and absorb it, you know. Yeah, unless you're drunk, because there have been some drunk moments that I'm like, Oliver, shut up. But as a whole, I love that you, there's, when you're, you kind of listen without judgment and you do give great advice without feeling like it needs to be taken.

Yeah, you know, and peacemaker is a good word for that. I love that. Here's a good one. Here's a good one because I'm going to be dealing with this soon and you have insight into it. So first is Kate, how do you cope with a kid going off to college and then Oliver do you feel ready for this? Oh, are you going to start crying? Yes, well, I'll go first because I've thought about this. You know, he has his room.

He's a year away from it. And, you know, we all are upstairs and pretty tight quarters. We're all kind of near and near each other. And, you know, first of all, dropping him off is going to be insane or watching him drive off to college or whatever it is. But then the residual effect of it is just the room. Walking past the room, knowing that he's now not in there anymore, it's going to be really, really bad.

Like, I'm trying not to cry right now. So I can't even imagine what it's going to be. I might demo his room. Make it your fishing tackle room. Yes. He's like all they're like, oh, you know, this is what, this is actually. He's going to come home for Thanksgiving break. He's like, what the fuck, dad?

I'm like, you're in the garage, buddy. Sorry. Couldn't take it. I needed to put, I needed to insert the other thing I love. Yes. Into this room. So it's not going to be good. It's not going to be good for me.

I know it. I'm going to be excited. for him, you know, but it's, it's going to be devastated. Devastated. I feel like. You were, you were, you were all right. I was, it was fine. Yeah.

Like, to me, I was like, I think also because he went to New York. Yes. He's living in New York. I'm there all the time. Yes. It doesn't feel like he's in like, you know, the middle of nut where you have to take two or three planes in a car for five hours to get there. I feel like and I also like I don't know I'm so I get so excited for my kids to live their life and and and have that experience so for me with Ryder I was like this is going to be so fun did you think you would be devastated and and and you were like wow I'm more excited for him than I am sad and I didn't realize that that's how I would feel because now I'm thinking maybe that's going to happen to me.

I think for me, Ryder holds a very specific energy in the house that is humorous and full of energy and he's incredibly intelligent and outspoken with his point of view. And my thing was, is I knew that once I dropped him off and once we went through that, there would be mornings that I'd miss him there and like that was the big thing was like I remember making my coffee and that was the one cry a big cry I had I was like making my coffee and like Bing came down and and Ronnie and Danny and they were all like in like a really bad mood and I was like in this really like good mood and I realized that Ryder has that yeah I mean Ronnie does too but it was like, where's, where's the balance?

Missing my, my big guy, my boy, you can come down and, like, change this energy. It's a great point. You don't realize how important each piece of energy is in your family until one is gone. Yeah. And how that can be disruptive, you know, and then you find the balance again, but, you know, so used to it all being there. And it wasn't like, it was just like a moment and then and then like you said it's like it's just and then you realize when your kids go away you're like oh my god they're going to go away and it's like crazy and then you're like they're just there all the time like you you they come home and then I mean even the other day I was like mom I've got like you know two more semesters left and then like you know I think I'm going to

you know come back to LA and um and then he was talking about what he was going to do for like his room and stuff, and I was like, are you planning on moving back into the house? Hold on. So that's going to be a whole other thing, which is when he actually moves out of his childhood home and doesn't come back there. Wait, how many more semesters? He only has two? Well, yeah, and he's got, he's a junior. Oh, so he's got, she's got two more. Yeah, once he finishes this semester. Yeah. crazy so but i i think you're going to be it's going to be easier than you think i think rio's going to be the big one oh god well that's the last one too yeah that's just going to be like oh oh god no i know i almost have to have another kid just so that no i know just so

so yeah yeah just so i'll be so old by that time i'll have a grandchild I'll just be like, listen, this is fine because now I'm a grandma. So I've just got all the grand. It's going to be fun to be a grandparent. I know. I kind of weirdly can't wait. I mean, of course, I can. I'm Jorge Ramos.

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as part of the MyCultura podcast network on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Oliver often talks about not having a career like you, how do you feel about that? I mean, I think it's funny. I think it's a funny. I feel nothing.

I feel nothing about it. Well, this. Yeah, I think, I mean. It kind of goes along with number 14, which is all of you have an amazing acting career. Why are you so hard on yourself? You know, I mean, I am. Well, amazing is a very nice kind of word. I want to, whoever this fan is, which I don't have anything.

Yeah. I'm not really that hard on myself. It's a lot of self-deprecation. You know, I mean, there's a lot of humor behind it. But I do have to remind myself how lucky I am, you know, and that I have had an amazing career. And it's just starting. My fucking, my production company is called Slow Burn, because that's what I am. So when I'm 87, you guys just wait. It's going to be your biggest year. Oh, I'll be remaking Cacoon. I think it's a part of just your sense of humor really, like, you know, and, and, and, like, you know, your comedy.

It's sort of like, yeah, yeah. It's like, I loved when Tony Robbins said, like, you really love to hold on to that trophy, don't you? Oh, I know. And it was my favorite because it was so, it's so you. It is so many. But I wonder if. Tony Robbins saying it is like, yeah, but I wonder if it hurts my progress, even though I'm having fun. Absolutely.

Probably because you just keep ingraining that into your brain, even though it's supposed to be funny. What you tell yourself is what ends up being the, what, how you, like, motivate how it moves. I think. I mean, I, I'll probably never stop, though, because it always gets a good chuckle. I think, I think, too, that you should, like, redo the artist's way. because I feel like we've had this great career and you act and all that stuff. But really, again, I'm just, I know our fans

and our listeners have heard me say this a million times, but like you're not doing the thing you're supposed to be doing, which is writing. Right. I'm getting closer to. Creating and directing, but you need to write. I know. You know what I need for that, though. Because you're such a good writer.

So it's like, it's like having, like, your big, you're the person who knows this so well that is your sibling who's like, wow, you're just, you got a right. I've talked to Zoe Winkler about finding some doctor who does adult ADHD diagnoses, because I want to know, because I guarantee. I have somebody. I want to do it because I know that I must have it in one way or another. I can just feel it.

once I can be diagnosed there some fucking Vivance or whatever is going to be right for my body, I think I might be off to the races because there's so much that holds me back that feels chemical. What is it? So what?

Vivance is helps with that. Everyone's laughing here because everyone takes Vyvance. All the producers are sitting right in front of me and they're like, oh yeah, V V Vance. Like everyone takes V Vance. Aaron has V Vance. Aaron takes V Vance at like 6 a.mns. when she wants to get shit done and and it's unbelievable she's like a different human

being is it speed no no so adderall's more speedy this is more slower release you know it's for ADHD and and other things but it's much cleaner you know i took one once and it didn't vibe with my body my chemistry will this was years ago but i want to figure out my ADHD because I think if I do, you know, I'll take off. Right. It's not lack of talent that's stopping me. It's not the lack of belief. It's honestly just this physical or this brick wall that I hit like,

can't do it anymore. Move on. Riders sent me, I think it's, I wonder if it's a genetic thing. You know, a rider sent me this really hilarious. there's this I of course it's in my algorithm the ADHD it's insane it's it's so funny

there's this meme of this person walking in with all these like kind of like like this like um like costume on and it's almost like something our brother would have done when he was a kid

but it's like something from Thailand like a Thai prince or something it's just totally ornate and the meme is like me when I do closet clean out like an ADHD or when they do closet clean out and it's it's me like I can't focus like I I will and then it's all the same stuff like I will be like you know what I'm going to I am going to do jewelry yeah and I will get like I will buy the the melter yes I will get the I will get the things that's another every like I'll be like I need

They're a meme thingy about exactly what I haven't opened my little jewelry set up. Yeah. I was like, it's, I can't. And then I, and then I'll get back into it. And I'm like, I'm going to do it. And then it's all over my office. And then I leave it. I have a spear gun with a tag on it from 2005 because I was like, I'm going to

become a spear fisherman. I have, I have like, I have barbecue sauces and fucking things. because, like, I was going to be a pit master at one point. Yeah, I was going to can. I was going to can and sell it on Etsy. Yeah, no, I know. I want a can. I want a can.

I want to can. Actually, canning could be a fun cause. I want to can because I have a ton of yellowfin tuna that I need to, like, can. Oh, that I'll do that with you. I have all the stuff. Well, I asked for that for Christmas, and you were like, I already have one. And I'm like, Kate, I don't, but I'm glad you have one. I don't.

Because I wanted to get a, you know, one of those canning things. Oh. It's so funny, but that is sort of like, and it's Oliver and I, for everyone out that we laugh because we go, we love books and we go into bookstores and literally like, all I want to do is buy a new book and read it like in like a week. And it just sits. Yeah. It sometimes takes me a year to read a book.

No, I know. Which I've changed. And so here's what I was going to say, okay, before you go take, you know, the speedy Adderall or the slow burn vivacious, whatever it's called, vivante. Saying all the words I say. I did this thing where I started to just structure my day differently. And I added the things that I just really wanted to accomplish.

So, for instance, when I wake up, when I wake up, when I wake, up, I read for 20 minutes. Wow, right when you wake up. And I read, right when I wake up. I wake up early. I kind of spin. I don't go on my phone. I set, I do this thing on Insight timer where I play like beautiful, like flute music.

And I read for 20 minutes. Okay. In bed? And I set my timer. In bed. I set my timer. And I read either like, it depends on how I'm feeling. If I'm really into like a book I'm reading, I'll just read that book.

But I usually like to read something kind of like more motivating, like a self-help type of book or something in the morning. And then I'll do the same thing in the afternoon. I set my thing before I go to bed and I'll do 20 minutes of my book, fiction book that I'm reading before I go to bed. And I've been reading so much more. Can you go over the 20 if you're into it? Yeah.

Right. Yeah. Yeah. If I'm into it, I'll keep going. Yes. But I make myself, almost as like a meditation, do the 20 minutes of reading a day. Yes. And that, it's also, like, you don't realize it when you do it.

I really truly believe that it sharpens your brain. Oh, yeah. Like, it makes me feel like my vocabulary is better. My thoughts come together better. I finish my sentences more clearly. Yeah, 100%. I completely agree. And it just, it just, you know,

awakens your imagination, which we don't get to do very much. When we daydream, yeah, but that book, you know, brings pictures to life. Oh, my God. Everything sort of starts to percolate and all of a sudden I'm in Venice, Italy, and this is happening. Oh, my God. Right now, I'm endorsed at England. Are you? And in the 20s.

And it's the best. Oh, yeah. I'm reading this book right now. Oh, that's great. I'm listening to Jerry Weintraub's book, which is amazing. Oh, really? Yeah. it's just because he he narrates it so it's his voice it's just his life his career it's it's

incredible he's incredible life but i i i don't mind the audio stuff but for certain things i like paper i like to read a book yeah you know well and then you realize that like this is just the devil yes and so like you have to shut it off and you only use the things that's the tool i i say this i mean my phone yeah and and like i i always use this thing called Speechify to read faster. That's the other thing I've been telling you to read. I know. I got it.

I have it. And you should do it because it, for those of us who need to help with focus, it's so awesome. Like you can, you can even do it through your Kindle now on it. So you can have your book on your Kindle and you can go to Speechify and it, it highlights and helps you read. And so you can do it audio. You can do it visually. Yeah, I downloaded it, I just haven't used it. So, like, you know.

No, I know. Scheduling for me is huge. Like, I, when I'm in my schedule mode and I've got my calendar and you just feel so accomplished. You finish the day, you're like, like, whiff, yeah, did it. And then the next day you're just like. Right, I'm like, oh, God, I know. Yeah, but I went too far with scheduling where I'm looking at my calendar. It's like 1015 to like 10, 1018.

like brush your teeth and then like 1023 like you're feeling a bell movement don't be afraid of it you know it was like it was too scheduled where i'm like wait what am i doing i you know so but i i do need to do that i do need to do but i think that if you do that with writing if you do like if you wake up in the morning and you write or for you you make it kind of like an hour out of your day you're just like yeah you know they also have this thing they did this research on 25 minutes and five minutes have you seen heard that no i like this one too so 25 minutes in focused energy on one thing set your timer and then get up walk around for five minutes don't think about it don't do anything else smart go make a coffee don't get on your phone just like do other

things for five minutes and then when that timer goes up you can go back to focusing in on the thing that you're doing. So if you do that for like an hour, you know, you do four sets of that. You're like, I'm going to do an hour of writing. Set your 25 minute clocks. That's good. Yeah, that I found really hard. Yeah, that's good. I'm going to try these. I'm Jorge Ramos. And I'm Paola Ramos. Together we're launching The Moment, a new podcast about what it means to live through a time as uncertain as this one. We sit down with politicians.

I would be the first immigrant mayor in generations, but 40% of New Yorkers were born outside of this country. Artists and activists, I mean, do you ever feel demoralized? I might personally lose hope. This individual might lose the faith. But there's an institution that doesn't lose faith. And that's what I believe in. To bring you depth and analysis from a unique Latino perspective.

There's not a single day that Paola and I don't call or text each other, sharing news and thoughts about what's happening in the country. This new podcast will be a way to make that ongoing intergenerational conversation public. Listen to The Moment with Jorge Ramos and Paola Ramos as part of the MyCultura podcast network on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I had this overwhelming sensation that I had to call it right then. And I just hit call. I said, you know, hey, I'm Jacob Schick. I'm the CEO of One Tribe Foundation.

I just wanted to call and let her know there's a lot of people battling some of the very same things you're battling. And there is help out there. The Good Stuff podcast, Season 2, takes a deep look into One Tribe Foundation, a non-profit fighting suicide in the veteran community. September is National Suicide Prevention Month, so join host Jacob and Ashley Schick as they bring you to the front lines of One Tribe's mission. I was married to a combat army veteran, and he actually took his own mark to suicide. One Tribe saved my life twice. There's a lot of love that flows through this place, and it's sincere. Now it's a personal mission.

I don't have to go to any more funerals, you know. I got blown up on a React mission. I ended up having amputation below the knee of my right leg and a traumatic brain injury because I landed on my head. Welcome to Season 2 of The Good Stuff. Listen to the Good Stuff podcast on the Iheart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, I'm Jenna Lopez, and in the new season of the Overcover podcast, I'm taking you on an exciting journey of self-reflection.

Am I ready to enter this new part of my life? Like, am I ready to be in a relationship? Am I ready to have kids and to really just devote myself and my time? I wanted to be successful on my own, not just because of who my mom is. Like, I felt like I needed to be better or work twice as hard as she did. Join me for conversations about healing and growth. Life is freaking hard. And growth doesn't happen in comfort.

It happens in motion, even when you're hurting. All from one of my favorite spaces. the kitchen. Honestly, these are going to come out so freaking amazing. Be a part of my new chapter and listen to the new season of the Overcumper podcast as part of the MyCultura podcast network on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. The Super Secret Festi Club podcast season four is here. And we're locked in. That means more juicy chisement. Terrible love advice. Evil spells to cast on your ex. No, we're not doing that this season.

Oh. Well, this season, we're leveling up. Each episode will feature a special bestie, and you're not going to want to miss it. Get in here! Today, we have a very special guest with us. Our new super secret bestie is The Deva of the People. The Deva of the People.

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As a part of the Michael Tura Podcast Network Available on the IHeartRadio app Apple Podcast Or wherever you get your podcast What do you do When your kids ask for something You can afford

But don't think it's appropriate appropriate what does that mean meaning like a range rover oh my god i just say fucking crazy get a job but honestly to answer that question here's what i did my kid wanted a certain car and i was like dude no but then i took the car that i got when i was a kid which was a honda prelude um wasn't flashy uh looked at the sticker price back in the day was 17 thousand dollars and i then sort of googled inflation on 17 from 1993 till now so it's about 40 45000 that 17 is now about 45 000 so i said okay here's here's what you can spend anything over that you're going to have to pay for it and wilder did and he got the car that he

wanted and he worked at james purse for a year and uh you know paid basically his insurance and was able to sort of get the car that he wanted with work now that being said he does not work at james first anymore and i'm still paying bills that i probably shouldn't pay so it was there the idea was there it worked for a year he paid for his car for a year and you know now i'm probably i'm taking i've taken it over you know i i yeah i'm the opposite that I kind of, I'm like really strict about weird things like that. And so like Ryder, you know, when he got his first car, I wasn't going to buy him anything. I was like, I'll help you with a payment, with like a scheduling payment that's up to a certain amount.

If it's over this amount, like, I'm not doing it. You have to do it. And I'm not, I won't pay for it. So we kind of had to look at his savings and then kind of work backwards. yeah um but i'm really like i just think that except like for christmas like i love spoiling my kids at christmas yeah it's the first car the first car i'm gonna get on this first car i know but yes but but like i love spoiling kids at christmas like i just i just think kids meet like there's this i mean and we're in like it's such a different weird bubble yeah of like you know these kids like

i just you just look around these kids have like everything and and even though we have the means to be generous with our children, I hate it. That being said, Bing is like, I don't know where he gets the money. Bing is like this money guy. Like, he's like, I'm like, where did you get that ring on? He's like, I bought it. I'm like, with what money is like the money that I have been investing in my stocks? No, he's like in stocks.

It's so funny because you see like all your kids have a very different relationship. to money and to things, material things. It's like they're all my, all my kids have a very, don't you, do you find that? Oh, yeah. Well, it's, it's, it's TikTok, it's social media. They're all look the same. They all wear the same things. They all have the same hair, the same colognes, the same that.

It's all the same, you know, I mean, it's the, it's the, it's the chrome heart stuff. It's the acne jeans, acne club, and they're all billions of dollars. I'm like, whoa, you guys. But at the same time, my kids love to thrift as well. They're into the whole thrifting world. No, but what I'm saying is all of their relationship to money is different. Like Bing has this real like save mentality, but he also loves to be, like he loves to save his money and then he loves to spend it on the things that he really wants. Yes, yeah, that's Bodie.

Whereas Ryder has a terrible relationship with money, I'm like, what are you doing? God. Well, Bing and Bodie are the same. Why did you buy? Why did you go to that restaurant? You can't afford it. You're in college. And he's like, I just really wanted to try the waggo.

Bing and Bodie are the same. Bing and Bodie. Well, well, you're done for like a month. Now you're like, what are you going to do? Bode saves all of his money. Like he saves it. Yeah, it's very interesting. And Wilder just rips through it.

I'm like, how much was that? He goes, $400 sweatpants. I'm like, what? $400 for sweatpants. sweatpants and he's running through all of his savings you know this with this you know movie that he's doing is making some some dough but I am not letting him have well I just I think that it just relate like that's how you can kind of I think it's like across the board it doesn't matter where you are what you come from like kids relationship to money oh yeah yeah is is is very

it very much mirrors who they are as people yes you know just like they're personal Oh, 100%. Character. Without a doubt. And then it's like your job as a parent depending on how you are, I guess. Because like I sometimes think about parents, you know, other parents, like I have friends, like a really funny friend who, you know, their relationship, their relationship to money is so different, the wife, the wife. That it's like, causes like so much turmoil. And so, and like, that's just what they.

their kids are going to see. Oh, yeah. It's going to be like, and then they're going to have one kid that's going to grow up and be like, you know what? My dad never bought us a thing. And now I just, I spend my money. I'm going to spend all of it, you know. It's like.

Yeah, Wilder's more like me and Bodie's more like Aaron. Aaron's very frugal. Like all of, she shops at Target and, you know, she tailors her clothes to make them look great. Everyone's like, where did you get that? She's like, fucking Target. You know, and I'm out there just like, fucking just spending money

that I don't have, you know? I mean, even even, even doing this movie, I'm going to spend more $20,000 on a better house because I just want, I want something like cozy and comfortable. And I'm like, I'm just going to take part of my paycheck and spend

it on that. I just, you know. Yeah. I got to go, but let's do one more because this is quick. So who would you cast to play you in a biopic about your life? oh well i'm still like in it no but like but like just like no you are like early 20s i'm gonna go with fast bender i'm gonna go with michael fast bender of course i i still have that snapchat like a while

ago from you at at jamie and and nico's wedding where you were like trying to be fast but you were like doing a fast bender. Oh, so funny. He's just cool. Fast bider is a good one. I like that. Yeah. Even though.

I mean, I think he's, I don't know if he's, is he funny? You know, is he? He's very funny. Okay. He's, yes.

You guys would be like best friend. I'm going fast bender. Um, either fast bender or Brad Pitt. You know, just because he's Brad Pitt. No. What do you mean? Fine.

No, bad. That was bad. Pass better is a better call. Gosling? Nope. Okay. Nope. He's funnier and handsomer.

Uh, yeah. That's true. He's Ken. I don't know. He's got a different kind of handsome. Who would you cast? Who would I, like, Drew? Drew's, no.

Blanchette? Like, Blanchette, very interesting. I actually love that woman so much. She's like one of the coolest chick. That's what I'm saying, and that's why I feel like it's you, because, yes, she's English, whatever, but she plays, she's cool and she can do any, you know what I mean? She could, she could do it. She's just, you know, she's just, oh, Ollie, that makes me feel good. Oh, great. Thanks for Cassie, Kate Lynch, that is me. That makes me happy. Oh, good, I love it. That means you think I'm cool. Yeah, I think you're cool. Yes, finally

Well, let's end on that Because I got to go catch a plane I love you Have a safe trip I'll see you when you get home I love you Okay Bye

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