Simple Swedish Podcast - #314 - Fem kärleksspråk

Episode Date: February 9, 2026

I det här avsnittet ska vi prata om de fem kärleksspråken. Vilka är de? Varifrån kommer idén? Och varför kan det vara bra att tänka på? Få mina bästa tips direkt i din inkorg - klicka här Andra avsnitt på temat kärlek och relationer:  268 - Alla hjärtans dag 157 - Anknytningsteori 174 - Kommunikation i förhållanden --- Hela transkriptet hittar du på Patreon eller på Simple Swedish Center --- Transkript Så jag har ett par vänner, och de var ett par förut. De är inte längre ett par. Och en stor del av det, alltså en stor anledning till att de inte längre är ett par, är att de hade väldigt olika sätt att ge och att ta emot kärlek. Så till exempel, han ville väldigt gärna att hon skulle laga mat och alltid finnas där. Och han såg till att hon hade det hon behövde, alltså rent materialistiskt. Så han betalade för allting och för honom var det ett bra upplägg. Men för henne kände hon alltid att hon behövde mer närhet mer kvalitetstid och såna saker. Men det var inte riktigt hans kärleksspråk. Så det funkade inte riktigt så bra. Och ja, det är vanligt att olika människor har olika så kallade kärleksspråk. Så det ska vi prata om idag. Ja, välkommen till Simple Swedish Podcast. Innan vi börjar ska jag tacka några patrons. Det är Sam, Dieter, Jerry, Mohgeis, Olfaat, Aleksander, Klaus och Олексій. Så tack till er för att ni stödjer den här podden. Och ja. Vi har ju alla hjärtans dag den här veckan. Alla hjärtans dag är alltså Valentine’s Day på svenska. Och oavsett om det är en viktig dag för dig eller om du skiter fullständigt i alla hjärtans dag, så tänkte jag att det är ett bra tillfälle att prata om någonting med kärlekstema.

So I have a pair of them were a pair. They are not a pair. A part. And a lot of it, is a big deal of it, also a a big a lot of their they're not they're a pair, is that they had very different set to give and to take into careleak. So, to example, he wanted very much that she would make a lot and always findas there and

he saw to that she had she had really materialistic so he paid for all thing and for him was that

a good upleg but for her so she knew she she always that she needed more, more, more, more quality-s-tide, and such things. But it was not really his character's-sprook.

So, yeah, it was, it functioned not really so good. And, yeah, it is very much that, you know, of different so-called so-spros so that we talk about today well-combe to Simple Swedish

podcast. Before we start, I will thank you some patrons it is Sam Dieter Jerry Morgease

Olfat Alexander, Klaus and Olexi So thank to you for that you we stoddered this podden. And yeah, we have you all-jurtains' day this week. All-Eythans' Day is also Valentine's Day on Swedish.

And, no-avsett if it is an important day for you, or if you skitter full-stendid-stendid in all-ythart-day, so, it's a good, it's a good time to talk about something with a careleks' theme. And there are a pair other, ofsnit, which I can recommender, to example, 268, that's day and the hearten and the heartland. We have 157

on anknotingsteree, also attachment theory, very interesting emmene, 157, and we have 174 that's about communication in forholding. So listen again on them also. But okay, we begin, and we start, and we should talk about,

the five-shrush-so what are these five-shaelicsproken for not so, ground-ideen is that we give and we take-em-emot-emot-chairlake on different ways. And it is not exactly five different. But I think we, we're we're talking about five kielicksprok for to do it a little and for that it should be let's the here conceptet. For, think about, how

I give I carely? How do I to give carelic? How do I get carely? And how do I amot care? You can thinker on, when, when, when I'm most elsked? In which situations, or when my partner does this and this,

then I'm extra-elisked. So, then it, antaraglily, your kind of, your kirtleksprok. And often, so, um, you know, on the same set as we gillard to take inmost but it can so-claret be problem also if I'm and my partner

have all different kielicksprok to example if I can't show kielick, a set, that my partner or not,

or not upscattar, then it, so-clart, be a little problem. A little like that I would say, I elsked you on a swan-to-svests

to someone who not forstores-svanska. So, so, so, so, so, therefore, can it is a little interesting

with this. And we go through the five different the three-spoken. So, think on which that's as the most as important for you, personally.

So first have we, then, becrafed-old word, also, word that gives becrafelse, also comprimmages,

I'mangering, that you say that, I'm, or you are important for me, or you are snygg, or you are fine, or you are saying things that partner upscattar. And if this is your Kyricspros, then, then,

it also is a little extra job-ybid if you can't get critiqued, or if your partner is just, and never say anything. So, yeah, it is a becrafting word, and it is important for many. Then we, then, quality-

so that that you know that's-old with your partner and the important here is that you are with

your partner and give his partner undelad upmarksumet that you not are distrahered with

other things that you not are in a group, other people, but that you're really quite quite't with their partner,

that you're doing something together, on really, just we two. To example, that you go on a date,

so if it is important with qualityetet for you, so, so, you, and tagling

on, to go on, to, go on and daider often, often, often, maybe, or maybe, or do you know, sometimes, or just go on a promenade and, and to be with each other.

And it maybe not, uh, It's so much exactly what but more about more about that you're and really are with the other person. So it was

quality time. And then have we then we do govo also presents that you're, that you get something to

his partner. And it is often, it's often, it's a we have on the word that's the word for the word. Also, it's not, it's quite not a lot with prism. For some people, it's also role. But generally, so, it's been, it's been The tanking that, that I saw this, so I took it to you. I kept this to you. That you get something a little special. And it can be small things.

So, you know, you know, I just saw something and thinked on his partner and And I'm, oh, what, this is I'm a good. A little gova in the hardagern. And it can be also small overraskings. That my partner loves this mat. So, you know, man, man, so you know, so you know, you know, you're overraskare partner with to do this mat. or that, that, that, that, and, and, you know, you know, you know, you know, you're not, you know, you're understand.

And it, it, it's, it's not about to be materialistic, but it's just about that you're, it's is a set to show carelick, a set to give upscatning with govour. And then, then, have we, then, you know, so. And a chance is that you're doing something for your partner. And it can be to laager mat. It can be to diska. To example, if my partner hater at diska, then can I diska instead.

So my partner doesn't have to do it. or, or, or, or, or, I mean, she's, she's, she's, she hates, and she hates to d'vets. So, I guess, I guess, for, she gills her, and I love that she likes to make mat. And I love that she lagar mat, and I love that she lagar meat, to me. It's it's like a for me. It's it's like a

a kind of a when she does a lot at me. So that it is a a little a a, a carelicksprok for me and for her also, for that

then I do things that she absolutely not gillar. Like to dish, like like, like, like, like, and to vicar claders. And I have no problem with it. I think, I, I like to do it for that it does life better for her also. So, we, yeah, you know, we, yeah,

You're things for one other. And for to be so, so, so, so, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm doing it, so that you're not, I do it, so that you don't have to do it, or I do it for to give upscatting, or for to be able to sharely. So, it was, chenster. And so have we, then the last physical beraring. so, that you know, that you have physical contact, and physical contact, that does you know that we have oxytocin in the body very important for to be good.

And it is, to example, that you're, that you're, that you're, You're each other, and you're at one around around and holder hand. You just are, maybe, maybe it's, tett,

tett, brevity, so that you're, man, so that, yeah, physical, beraring,

physical contact. And I think, for me, personally, is it is an absolutely, a very important, and as a true-you-speople. So, so, so, I and my partner,

and quite like, kind of like, kiellex-sprook. I think that it is important, that you have, that you're kind of like-lick-sprok.

It's clear that that you can, you can, can for to make, for a more for his partner that you can't

but it can't be a little difficult if you have very different chalekspoken to example if I

am I upscattar I will have becrafating word and I will have I will not but I will not and I worry me about my quality-tets' time

but my partner must have much quality-test-tide and much bererring and then then it so-clart little very difficult and

and yeah so that it is not important to have like like-lety kielacksprook But I don't.

The example I took in the beginning with my friends was a such example with that they have very different kielksprok. But then there

some other problem also. But in all the fall one thing that can be good to pointer is that all the five, but all the other people are,

and we have another little more, but it's clear, for the most people's the most people, so are all five here, so-clart, chalek-spros. So, and, as I said, it's not just five chalek-spros, But it is not so specificed that we have five shellyxpros. But the point in this,

the whole this theory, or the whole this conceptet, poignant with it, is that we should understand each other little better and try to think, okay, but my partner

not, not exactly same kind of like I so can I do something for to to show

a care more on a set that my partner understand and upscattar so it

is that you can try to understand to understand and not just

just just just to that that you that you can't not that

exactly that all the people are different I and my partner can't have

forhopningsvis like kielicsprok but not not same so I

for example for my deal I know that my partner It is more is more, it is, it's more, it's more, it's important for her, and for me. So, it's important for me also.

But I maybe must think on it, that it maybe is even more important for my partner, or with becrafting word, and so many things. And it can do that relationing. more than, if you learn more of a little of his partner's

and not just talk their own their own so. And often so maybe

the intentionen is the biggest so if I and my partner have a little I'm

so, so, that I, that I will my partner better. That can maybe do more than that, like,

my actual handlingen, that, that, uh, that, the, the absolutely

is, is, is that you, that you, that you, that you really will, understand

his partner whole and uh, yeah, so, I hopeas that you have a really, a really, a really a great, a heartless-day. And if you not all-jurted-day, so I hope I that you for a really good week. And so, as I listen just on off-snit 268, on All-Eartan's Day.

We have 157 on anknotingsteree, attachment theory. Avsnit 174 about communication in forholding. Interesting. And so-clart, I have a newhead's brev. And in the newsbreadet's brevet,

so I'm out mass tips and recommendations and you get mail in your information. I'm in the in-corr. I'll leave a link in the description. Prenumerate, yeah, on the newhead's brevet and hold you updated. Yeah, that was all for today. Have it so good, so hear's we soon again.