Smoke Sesh - divine redirection, going vegan, and hookup culture

Episode Date: November 30, 2021

Happy Tuesday! Today we’re talking everything from red flags, divine redirection, rejection, making friends, going vegan, hookup culture, how to get luck on your side and everything else Hannahs got on her mind. Welcome to Smoke Sesh let’s light up and hang out !

Good morning, everybody. Happy Tuesday. It's so wonderful to have you here. Welcome to Smoke Sesh with Hannah. My name is Hannah, your host. If you're new here, it's wonderful to meet you, although I feel like a lot of you are not new here, and it's wonderful to have you. Welcome back. Last week, bitches, last week, we had 4,000 people tuning in, if you don't remember the stats. i checked this motherfucking app this morning 5 400 people tuning in every week that's psychotic insane insane thank you so much like thank you from the bottom of my heart it means so much that you guys are showing up enjoying it sending in so many wonderful questions i got literally so many questions this week and all of them were so good every week that i um put a new questionnaire air up on like sunday or monday the questions just get deeper more like complex more interesting

more honest more vulnerable like thank you guys for being vulnerable with me like i'm obviously going to be vulnerable with you and um open and honest with everything so like thank you for trusting in me as well it means the world um i hope you guys had a good thanksgiving sorry there was no thursday podcast i was just so fucking busy with everything going on and then i've worked like every day oh my god bitch i got a new serving job as you guys know and i was like oh it'd be a little part-time gig whatever you know easy like 100 200 every night whatever this bitch scheduled me five nights in a row and one double i was like whoa whoa that is a lot well it's like not a lot but for a girly who like hasn't worked a service job in a while that was a lot but

i made some cash money so much money so it was worth it i just physically like can't feel my feet anymore so also someone asked me um do i have a po box because they want to send me christmas gifts oh i am gonna look into a po box i actually want to open one so if you guys like have any fun little like some of you guys send me art you do of me which is so cute um pictures like i would love it if you guys sent me letters sent me handwritten questions so great anything you want to send me um i'm gonna look into a po box if i do open one it'll be within the week and you will probably find that information on my instagram um at hannah marlene if you don't know where it is um you can find me there but let's get into some questions i got my coffee made i'm ready to go

we're gonna have a good day today's monday what time is it it's 8 30 i'm hoping i have this out earlier on Tuesday because I work Tuesday oh oh my god I can't I can't anyways let's get into some wonderful wonderful questions also this week we will have two podcasts on Tuesday and Thursday I don't know if I mentioned that already anyways oh my god I was at work yesterday and I had to open oh so I came in at like 10 and my manager wasn't there and you know she came in she came burst in through the doors i was like oh my god she's so funny she's an aries so she's super like um intense and like but like the good intense you know like i i like intense women they make me feel like comfortable i'm like hell yeah i love the energy um very intense she knows what

the fuck's up like she says what's on her mind like love it but also like as a when she turns into manager mode i'm like oh my god but yesterday i was talking i was telling her like what i was getting my boyfriend for christmas and you know just talking talking and i was like oh yeah i woke up this morning he made me coffee so i could get ready for the day and he she was like oh my god he woke up and made you coffee he's a good boy i was like yeah you're right someone asked me what are your what are like the biggest red flags in men and this just reminded me because my manager was like did his mom raise him well like did he have a good relationship with his mother and she's a mom of a like 15 year old boy and I was like yeah yeah of course like they have

a great relationship like her his mom really put in work to make sure my boyfriend is a good human being and she was like yep that literally that makes such a big difference she was like my manager was like my um son doesn't understand but like everything i do and every way that i parent him is so he's not a shitty human being in the future to women she was like i just need to make sure that he is a good fucking person to women and to i mean everybody in general but especially that as a mother like you got to teach men that and i was like you know what period she was also like yeah my i mean i've dated men with mommy issues and it's like you can tell there's a very big difference and like period i do think like a major red flag in men and how they're going to

treat you is if they have a good relationship with their mother and now i'm not talking like um bad situations like the mother didn't want them maybe like um leaving them like that kind of trauma is a little different like that's a little more to unpack i'm more talking surface level um mother-son connection as in maybe like this the son doesn't have a respect for his mother so he never thought to learn from his mother and the mother never taught him to respect her so then it's just like a blatant like the man thinks he can disrespect a woman and that carries over into relationships a lot i think and i've dated a lot of men well not i've only dated a lot a man but i've dated a man who like definitely not a good relationship with his mother definitely

knew like his mom probably wanted to be him in his life he had no fucking interest at all just like was not a good person and straight up like directly translated how he treated me did not see me as an equal did not see me as a human being quite honestly treated me however he wanted i was just like another piece in the puzzle of his life and that is not a partnership that is not how relationships work if you find yourself in that situation please escape as fast as you can but like that is a ginormous red flag like straight up if they have a good relationship with their mother and if they're willing to have a good relationship with their mother some mothers are insufferable so i understand but it's completely situational but yeah my manager reminded me of

that i was like honestly good point no one ever talks about that i mean they do but like everybody talked about daddy issues with girls daddy issues daddy issues let's talk about the fucking mother issues with men and father issues with men because that is where most of the issues stem from quite honestly like you need a man who is able to or um received proper education from both a male perspective in his life and a female perspective in his life on how to respect women period and like in the future i think men and women need to be very conscious with their children and how they interact with other people around their children how they talk about other people around their children how they just like overall have a blatant respect for other people around their children

especially women um like i feel like a man needs to learn from their mother that they need to respect women um like but also they need to learn from their father as well because i feel like a lot of these men which is also very toxic only have a relationship with their father and or or their relationship with their father around women is only inherently sexual like they only talk about women in a sexual manner they only talk about women as objects i only talk about how hot she is how oh this girl is like it's always objectifying in some sort of way it's never like discussing a human on a human level and i feel like a lot of men also experience that with their fathers as well and so like a blatant general like treatment of women as human beings

and respecting them and like destigmatizing the idea that they're like objects is very important to learn from both sides of parents and how we're raised affects us completely completely like I guarantee all of us are probably still healing from traumas from when we were younger and it probably has a great impact on how we are today and that's okay like we can learn we can grow we can do better but like you need to pay attention to these people they're dating and when they talk about their parents and how they were raised and how they view other people because all of those things are going to just come back to you and are going to affect how they treat you so keep that in mind i think it's a very important thing to keep in mind now i'm not saying if they

got a little bit of trauma you need to run for the fucking hills like that is not what i'm saying we've all been through some shit we all got some baggage everybody it's just figuring out the level of baggage that is okay for you and like you don't need to take on those big ass fucking projects sometimes those people need to heal on their own and then get back to you when they're a whole person and can be a good partner but like if you are talking to a man and they just have a general blatant disrespect for human beings and women and everybody and you can tell that they have never been parented a day in their life like yeah maybe that's a red flag and maybe you need to run you know what is the biggest green flag though like in my opinion and i've wanted to talk about

this for a while i've always had this concept but when a man is a simp green flag green flag green flag because you know what a simp is you have we have let these little 14 year old immature boys condition us to think that treating that men treating women with basic dignity and respect and wanting to pamper them and treat them as a queen as they are is a simp and it's something to be ashamed of and something you should not do that is psychotic why have we let our little minds be warped like that okay a simp is a green flag if a man openly projects himself as a simp yeah sold that is incredible that means he's that means um what was i trying to think of oh my god that means the bar is not on the fucking ground okay it means he knows that there's expectations

for him as a human as a partner as somebody who's going to be in a relationship and that is necessary because all these little boys like to run around as if they don't have any repercussions to their actions and they can do whatever they want and treat women however they want and that's just simply not how it works unfortunately but if they straight up proclaim that they are a simp you need to bag that man immediately i know a lot of you are astrology hoes i know for a fact i know those just the type of bitches that i like um bring towards me because i am also that bitch um period i don't know a whole lot like i would love to know more um i just know about myself and the people who have traumatized me and the people i love that's about it um and i base all of my thought

processes off of those people and their signs um but a lot of you guys have been asking me like what my sign is or what my full natal chart is so i found it so i'm gonna read you um everything i am i'm a gemini sun if you guys couldn't tell um considering the endless amount i can talk yeah gemini sun capricorn moon i love that money gemini mercury um cancer venus libra mars aries jupiter taurus saturn aquarius uranus aquarius neptune sagittarius pluto scorpio lilith leo and node pisces ascending so i think that's my rising um but yeah that is my full sign apparently um i have like seven masculine signs and three feminine signs which makes sense like god damn i'm just like a little too intense for my own taste sometimes but

if you guys know anything about astrology i would love to know more about myself tell me more let me know what any of those things fucking mean i think that's so interesting um feel free to dm me them but that's my full chart let me know what your sign is too i want to know who's um who's listening in okay i do need to put out a little trigger warning um i'm going to be talking about eating disorders and issues i've had with eating so if that's going to trigger you if you're currently dealing with some things and you don't want to hear more about it i totally understand um feel free to click out you can probably skip forward like five minutes i don't think this section is going to be that long but um i want to talk about i made a little video on my second account about

this but um i want to talk about my personal issues i had with eating and where that stems from because i i get a lot of comments especially on my tiktoks or my instagram um i mean i'm a pretty like quirky girl you know a little blondie i look like i would be vegetarian vegan i put out like uplifting content positive content and people kind of like assume okay that goes hand in hand so when I post my tacos and my fire ass chicken wings on my Instagram stories I get comments of people being like um I thought you were vegetarian I thought you would be vegan like how dare you like once I posted a photo of a cat and they were like oh so you can pet one animal but then eat another okay double standard and i was like it was like a lot of harshness coming

towards me but like let me explain myself and let me explain why i'm not vegetarian because like i was for a very very long time um and it gave me a severe eating disorder and no one ever talks about that i feel like a lot of young girls and well young guys i'm not gonna leave out the guys too because I feel like a lot of guys have eating disorders as well um I don't think it's really a gender-based subject I think it affects everybody um but my issues stemmed from going into a community or yeah thinking okay I just want to not eat meat and help animals and do better for the earth you know lower my carbon footprint a little bit and only eat veggies and try and be good for myself that was my mindset going into it and I emerged on the other end with a

restrictive horrible view on my body on myself terrible eating patterns and not focused on the goal I was focused on in the beginning at all I was only focused on what I was consuming and how I looked and it is a very quick pipeline that not a lot of people talk about because no one wants to talk about it um but the vegetarian and vegan community is filled with just so many toxic people and so many people competing like vegetarian and veganism is a very competitive community and so is um like the eating disorder community um if you guys remember like pro anna tumblr at all like everybody's very very competitive who can who can eat less who can you know whatever and yeah that's kind of how i fell into it from wanting to be vegetarian and i feel like

a lot of girls experience that as a lot of people experience that as well and i think we need to be warning young people before they go into deciding to switch up their eating habits completely is this a good idea for you like yes you want to help the environment there's other ways we can do that is this going to be a good idea for you can you change your eating habits drastically like this and consume the type of media and the type of like content that comes with this community without it being negatively impactful on your um mind and i think right now with who is in the community and who is part of like the vegan vegetarian community and how like pushy they are and how competitive they are it's just gonna keep being a negative toxic environment i understand

there are good vegans there are vegetarians but it's something that we need to talk about like I feel like a lot of young people need to be warned um that you know switching up your eating habits is a little bit harder especially in your mind and your body than you really think it is um so no I'm not vegetarian and no I'm not vegan I eat meat sometimes for me personally as somebody who has had an issue with restrictive eating controlling what I eat logging it doing all that shit i have switched to a more intuitively intuitive eating pattern and i feel like that's probably the healthiest for every single person out there um all those diets all those fads they're not gonna do anything and they're probably gonna cause you a lot of mental harm um i genuinely

believe the healthiest way of eating is intuitively eating um which is straight up eating whatever you want whenever you want I'm not binging all the time and I'm not restricting all the time because I know that I can just go I'm allowed to go eat whatever I want because if I allow myself to eat whatever I want I'm not going to over consume I'm not going to under consume I'm going to eat until I'm full and then I'm going to be satisfied and move on and it has been way better on my mental health way better on my body way better on how I view myself as well I'm still trying to work out some um like thinking patterns i have from the past from um controlling how i eat so much but being open with myself and allowing myself to eat whatever i want has been the biggest

benefit for me personally and i really really recommend it i know it's hard but you got to start somewhere um and i promise things will be okay i can answer more questions about this i just kind of wanted to talk about the vegetarian vegan aspect of it because that is how i kind of got um a fucking eating disorder straight up and no one ever talks about how dangerous and horrible that community is so no i'm not vegetarian and no i'm not vegan i eat literally whatever i want and that is okay with me if that's not okay with you you have some control issues you need to go figure it out i'm not going to figure that out for you but let's move on okay let's get into some questions thank you lovelies for sending me some incredible questions this

week i really appreciate it um you guys are getting like so in depth in detail of what you want to hear and like thank you i appreciate it it makes my job a lot easier and trying to get the answers that you want um out i'm gonna be rolling a little joint so like sorry if there's any random crinkling or if i like pause for a second that's on me um yeah i just need to smoke it's like one o'clock i need to fucking roll a joint um so this is like new weed my co-worker gave to me like shout out it's like homegrown i was like hell yeah i don't think by them but i was like you're a real one for this um but the question for right now is okay wait i want to read it um okay um they said they started listening to me as a comfort and like love that i appreciate

that i can be your comfort but they asked if you have time i'd love to hear your thoughts on rejection as divine redirection and how to cope with rejection um they have another question i'm gonna answer in a second but so i love that you phrased like rejection quote unquote as divine um it could be considered like divine intervention or like divine redirection i love that that's like a great way of like redirecting your mind to more of a positive space because listen i think we are like i feel like rejection can be grouped into the whole category of like um failure to you know like all those scary feelings like not being enough not being a whole human like whatever um when in reality we just need to look at it all as like a growing

possibility you know what i mean so like it's not rejection you're right it is divine intervention divine redirection um because maybe you weren't on the right path and maybe that's why you didn't put your all into whatever was going on maybe you truly didn't enjoy it in your heart and you knew it and you failed at it and that's okay because now you're on the path to the right thing maybe um somebody who you were talking to or interested in or wanted to know better um you know not rejected you but like i don't know what they did i'm trying to come up with hypothetical situations and i'm crushing weed with my fingers right now there's a grinder behind me i am so dumb anyways but like no they didn't reject you maybe that person like wasn't gonna be a good person

for you and they realized that before you did and they removed themselves from the equation so like thanks for that you just gotta grow and learn and figure out what you need you know what i mean i talked i like talked about this a little bit sorry i talked about this a little bit grabbing my grinder oh my god blazy susan not to like make a detour on this little topic but as you susan sent me all this shit and it's incredible and i love their grinder it's so pretty anyways um i talked about this a little bit but i truly believe we are on this earth to make mistakes and to fail and i don't mean like you need to go do horrible things and be a horrible human no that's not what mistakes are okay mistakes are just like you know maybe i fucked up

maybe I'm gonna have to learn from this but guess what we have to make those mistakes or we're gonna stay the same human that we're born into like the same kind of person that we were for the rest of our lives and that I think that is scarier than any failure any redirection any rejection than anything in this world not growing and not changing and not developing into a better human being and a better understanding of who I want to be is my biggest fear I used to be afraid of failing afraid of disappointing my parents afraid of whatever until I realized by protecting those people and thinking overly about them and their emotions and I'm not thinking about myself was actually in fact hurting me more than it was hurting anyone else around me I was just doing

it to make everybody feel comfortable but in like was i making myself feel comfortable fuck no people pleasing is like a disease and you have to grow you have to learn you have to move on from it i hate those fucking people oh i'm sorry if you are one of those person love you but let's learn and let's grow and let's move on um but you know the people who are like i'm an empath i'm meant to i'm i'm put on this uh earth to like heal people and no one is meant to heal me and i'm just here to be people's healing and then they leave me girl gets grow some fucking balls okay have some self-respect i am a full-blown empath i am so in touch with other people's emotions and how they feel about me and i am so in touch with how i feel about the world around me

but that doesn't mean I let people walk all over me that doesn't mean I overextend myself in order to help somebody else that probably is not going to do anything for me in the long run you know what I mean you have to protect yourself you have to make mistakes and you have to learn from those mistakes that's like the key to living your life I think you know what I mean um so like if something you know you you have a little falling out you lose some people um say something that you really really wanted just like didn't happen for you say you didn't get in your dream college say i don't know whatever situation you're going through where it seems like the universe your dream is some like rejecting you in some sort of way maybe it's not rejecting you maybe it is um redirecting you

because the universe will uh hopefully give you what you deserve and it will give you what you deserve you have to go through your karmic cycles you have to learn from your behavior or else you will keep making those mistakes and you will keep having those things happen to you oh my god did anything i said just make sense i hope so i was straight up rolling this joint the whole time focused on that love these blazy susan raps 10 out of 10 i'm about to smoke one anyways you guys want to light up okay as I'm lighting up the same person asked me shout out thank you for asking good questions um you all ask really good questions um someone also asked me how do you how do I pick my questions and like I as you know there's really no fucking theme to

this podcast like I don't have themed episodes based on topics really because I think that's boring well like I think it's boring for me to talk about like I can't talk about the same thing for three hours i need my brain goes every fucking where if you haven't fucking like realized that by now obviously my i'm a scatterbrain um so like i straight up just look through the thousands and thousands of questions i get and if one piques my interest or i have a funny story relating to it or i have something that maybe would be a good talking point then i like screenshot it and then i just go through my screenshots while i'm recording and boom pow answer my questions that's about it there's really no logic behind it so if you want me to answer your questions it's kind of just like

up to fate honestly anyways she asked me um let me read it uh she said also i'm a pothead and i was wondering if you have any advice on lung health slash not constantly coughing even when you're not smoking i've heard of diff herbs like mullion leaf or something but does it get easier the longer you smoke let me know your thoughts so um i've always been a cougher straight up and i'll admit that to you i hate people who are like oh you cough oh you smoke and you cough yes pussy if you're not choking you're not smoking straight up like if you are not choking on that fucking blunt then you are not inhaling it enough in my opinion if you're just gonna hit that thing and be pretty and then like shame other people for coughing you're a loser you're a loser and you're

thinking too much about yourself and in turn it's rubbing off on how you think about other people and you need to figure that shit out but um i have been a cougher since i started smoking like a like an aggressive cougher like a choker you know what i mean and um it's like i'm fine with it but the issue is like if i smoke too much or like sometimes when i'm taking dabs it hurts a shit ton and i can't stop coughing and it feels like you're choking and then it's like bad i don't know i personally haven't found the um uh cure all to stop coughing um i have just been a cougher like and just taken it i don't know i'm sure like drinking water in between hits definitely helps like there's small things like that little breathing exercises but like

you're inhaling a product that is intentionally causing like distress to your lungs in order to get high like you're gonna cough a little bit and you're gonna feel a little your lungs are gonna feel a little bad now when it comes to lung health like you should probably you know go to the doctor get it checked up every once in a while i should probably do that too my boyfriend was telling me about how his friend's lung collapsed i was like i don't need that happening so i really do you go to the doctor and get all that you know figured out well i don't think i have anything to figure out just check up and make sure everything's okay but when it comes to like herbal supplements i've bought all that shit you know like the blue lotus the rose petal the um like all of it the

mullion leaf and i i mean it makes a smoother hit i will tell you that at least the mullion leaf does for me or mullion i don't know how to say it you know what i'm talking about that one um it makes a smoother hit that's for sure but i don't know i really don't see a huge huge difference so personally i don't use it that often unless i'm like having people over i want to make smoke like a fun little bowl or like a little filler then i'll add it but it's very rare quite honestly it's pretty rare so yeah i don't know i think the herbal supplements are cool though if you guys want to um mess around with it just like do your research make sure you know what you're putting in your body and make sure you agree with it that's all that really matters

but personally no i haven't found any of those um like herbal supplements that you can put in like pre-rolls or whatever or like you can just blow the bowl i haven't found them to make a drastic difference so i haven't used them although maybe i can be your test subject let me know maybe i can do like a 10 day test subject and um see if it actually works you know what i mean but when it comes to lung health i don't know just make sure your dab temperatures are the right temperature i really fucking want a puffco oh my god so bad puffco if you're listening to this if you have a connection at puffco hey hey girl hey give me their deets um would love to team up with them and make sure you're like not smoking jank weed and probably don't smoke a lot of carts and your

lungs will be chilling also like don't smoke um vapes i used to be a vapor i used to be a a vapor i know like jewel in hand wherever i went like hot boxing my room with jewel smoke um that was like it was when i first started working in the restaurant industry because everybody's addicted to cigarettes in the restaurant industry um i'm back in the restaurant industry and I'm not tempted at all by cigarettes or jewels and let me tell you why um I so there's like this thing in psychology where I learned this after I did it but essentially if you um condition people to take the things that they are addicted to and condition their brain to to associate them with something negative then they'll just like inherently they'll kind of be

like turned off by it and not interested in it I don't know what that's called some psychology person let me know I know I learned that in psych 101 in college but essentially what I unknowingly did to myself is so I would buy a pod for a Friday night out you know about to go out my girlies pre-gaming drinking too much you know hitting my jewel fiending all of a sudden it's 2 a.m and i'm so fucking drunk from drinking and being a child or whatever having fun and i've been hitting my jewel so much by the end of the night that like you know when you get like the spins i would get the spins so hard from like the nicotine high plus the drunkness that i would throw up okay I just throw up then I'd wake up the next morning and hit my jewel and I'd be like oh

I don't want this because I just threw up on that flavor all night and that is disgusting to me now and I can't do it now I go gotta go buy a new flavor so I'd go buy a new flavor right do the same thing essentially again and I did this so many times on so many different flavors and like cigarettes that i physically can't even smell them or like hit one let alone like hit one oh my god um so now i just have like an aversion to jewels and cigarettes and i cannot stand them at all so that's not like advice that's just what happened to me and how i conditioned myself but like really though if you throw up on every flavor you run out of flavors and then you're like all of this sucks so that's how i am now i now hate jewels also they're like so bad for you

they're literally just so bad for you like come on they're so bad for you you could be inhaling weed and you're gonna inhale flavored smoke to give your brain a little tingly feeling for five seconds girl pull it together anyways oh my god there's a fucking wasp stuck in my room this wasp was in here unless it's a different wasp i don't know if it had wasp babies but there's a wasp in here i think it got stuck because like my house is really old from like the 1920s so like there's just like little cracks and crevices that things get in i think it got in here and got trapped but it's still alive and i don't know how to get it because i don't want it to get angry at me and sting me oh i thought i'd be dead by now but i'm just gonna let him hang i think he should chill in

um but i have a i'm gonna read you guys a question now this bad bitch hi bae i'm a stripper and full-time student about to graduate with a civil engineering degree pause that's insane i need to give you props working a full-time job or working a job that's oh my god can you hear it it's so upset the wasp I'm so sorry but um props to you that's insane um being a student in general is hard being an engineering student in general is hard being a stripper is hard and doing all everything all at once incredible props to anybody out there who is in school and working at the same time because people don't realize how hard it is people don't realize how difficult that task is and how hard it is to avoid the urge to give up on school but the rest of her question is

um i'm i'm almost dreading going into engineering but i love dancing i don't think i'll ever tell my parents but i feel like idk what life will be like after college and like i don't really make any solid friendships i found your podcast the perfect time of my life and feel like hearing your voice makes me feel like we're having i'm having a friend on facetime can't wait to see you grow and flourish period i feel that i'm also terrified of what my parents will think and how to enter the world and how to make friendships but here's the thing i'm sure i here's the thing whatever path you choose is your path so it's the right path you know what i mean whether you continue stripping or continue into the engineering path and find a job that way um period do what you

do and do it well that's all i ask um but don't you don't have to tell your parents don't care about what they think do whatever makes you um happy you know what i mean and if that's dancing then that's dancing um we obviously need strippers here on this earth um i was just talking about this to my co-worker the other day but like why do hold on let me light this joint why do does everybody require like for jobs now to be serious jobs they have to require a degree as if we don't need people like working service industry jobs and working retail jobs and working all these jobs that maybe don't require a degree but are very necessary for society to keep moving and to keep working as it is you know what i mean why are the only quote-unquote real jobs the ones

that require you to go to college and have a higher degree even though these jobs that maybe don't require a degree pay the same or more you know what i mean why are real jobs considered degree worthy maybe your real job and your calling is stripping and period good for you stay in school get that degree but if you want to spend your time stripping until you don't want to do it anymore and you're having fun with life and how you're doing it then period keep doing it get that degree have it on hand for when maybe you want to change up your life and continue down engineering boom you'll have your degree um and you'll have a work history especially a great work history um working with

customers and working with people which is perfect for a resume and then just utilize your great oh my god utilize your degree down the line unless you're trying to build up through working through engineering i don't know it's totally up to you and then friendships you really don't have to worry about as long as you continue continuously for like anybody who's asking like how to make friends how do i make friends like i don't have any friends and i'll talk to anybody you have to purposefully and continuously put yourself in situations that bring about friends or not friends that bring about people you need to constantly be in settings in a environment of people like i was having that issue too like i don't have any friends i don't know what to do

but i was secluding myself in my room 24 7 and i didn't have a job working with other people so it was like yeah i only interacted with like three people a week and that's it's gonna be hard to make friends that way you know what i mean but if you're constantly like oh you go to lunch or you'll get coffee at a certain place every day boom you're probably gonna make connections there just by being around other people oh i um am taking this class now oh boom you're gonna constantly be around those people and you can make friends that way oh you got a job working around other people boom you're you're most likely gonna make friends through your job as long as you're just like out and about and around people and you happen to strike up conversation you're probably gonna

make friends i guarantee it okay stay positive stay working on whatever you want to do and i guarantee the universe will work out through you does that make sense anyways also i'm obsessed that so many of you guys feel like um we're on facetime together because that's the whole goal with this thing sorry this joint is hitting me back but um because that's like the goal i want it to be an intimate little hangout sesh moment you know what i mean we're both doing what we gotta be doing um just having a little girl talk you know what i mean and guy talk i think oh my god hold on let me look at my stats oh shit i don't know if i can look at my stats while i'm on here with you never mind but i'm pretty sure it's like 90 women listen to this which is crazy

but honestly i mean i don't i'm not sure how many men are relating to this but if you are welcome um okay let's get some questions going how do i inherit good energy sometimes i feel like i get stuck in negative cycles also illy illy too um i feel like i get stuck in negative um cycles when i get stuck in negative thought patterns and negative behavior patterns does that make sense and you really kind of have to force yourself out of it because most of the time i'm like in a i feel like it's mostly when i'm in a grumpy mood i'm just mad at everything in the world and myself so you kind of just have to like bitch you know you have to like talk to yourself like bitch shut the fuck up sit down smoke a joint everything's fine eat a good meal you'll be okay you know what

i mean fucking look on the bright side you know i sometimes have to talk to myself like that because she is one stubborn cunt and will not listen so sometimes i have to just be like bitch look on the fucking bright side gratitude journaling now you know what i mean change your thought process change your behavior you'll get luck on your side eventually um i think luck is all about how you um if you're treating the world and other people badly you're most likely gonna also bring bad energy to yourself and inherent inherently bad luck but if you're just putting positivity out there positivity towards yourself if you can't put positivity out there positivity out there if you can't put positivity towards yourself oh my god

that was a fucking tongue twister um then you know luck will most likely be on your side just do good i think is the uh ultimate goal there um anything about anything about the topic body counts and hookup culture okay okay okay yeah let's talk hookup culture a lot of you guys have been asking about that body counts are arbitrary you uh is that the right use of that word arbitrary i'm trying to say they it's just they don't fucking matter you know what i mean no one ever asked for body count anymore and if they do ask for a body count then they're too immature and you should probably leave them you know what i mean as long as you have i think the body count talk should be replaced with a more accurate talk as in are you sexually active and should i be worried about stds

and we need to both get checked before we probably do anything or at least you need to know you are clean and safe because right now i know all of y'all are running out running around there fucking you need to wear a condom and i know most of you probably aren't so like get yourself checked get yourself checked like make that like a i don't know how much you're fucking but like monthly two months three months i don't know if you have like various partners you should probably get checked like between each partner just to protect yourself and also protect other people you know and STDs are usually not that serious you can just like most of them you can just pop a pill and then you're chilling you know what I mean you'll be okay oh my god my room is so

cold because I had to turn my heater off because it makes too much noise because I oh my god I don't want it to be in the back of this podcast because that would be super annoying but hookup culture let's talk about it here's my stance on it i just think you do whatever you want to do you sleep with however many people you want to sleep with whether that is waiting till marriage although i'm not sure if i recommend that because i don't want you getting married for sex which happens a lot like you don't you don't need to do that but if you're doing that then great like you know what i mean and if you want to go fuck a thousand people period love that for you boo i hope you go have some bomb ass sex as long as at the end of the day you are a comfortable

you are coming and you are um getting tested afterwards okay that is like all i ask from you guys and that is all the fucking sex education that we really need to teach in school is but instead they're like abstinence you shouldn't look at anybody don't even don't even touch yourself that is bad like you know what i mean instead of just being like um let's make sure this is like not coercion um let's make sure this is like a mutual thing and then let's also make sure both people are comfortable and then let's also make sure that like you're both getting mutual pleasure i know not all coming is not always like the like i feel like sex isn't always about the end it can also be about like what is going on so like as long as you're both getting pleasure out of it

in whatever form you want that to be and then like as long as you're getting tested afterwards if you're having you know multiple partners i feel like you guys should probably if you're like sleeping with multiple people i feel like it's a very mature thing to sit down and talk and be like okay well like are you sleeping with other people should i get tested should i be worried about getting to like something like that is a very mature conversation you should be able to have with somebody and if they're not able to have that then like i'm not sure if you should sleep with them you know what i mean like you should be able to talk about those things and that those are things that also should be taught i think i should rewrite our american sex education system

i know that would not ever be allowed um but it absolutely should be uh quite honestly because they really fucked us all over especially a lot of women it's fucked a lot of women over i feel like the sex education system is also very slut shamey and very like women shamey in a sense like they try to empower us by being like you're a delicate little flower and you should not like let people deflower you and it's like oh that's oh weird let's not talk about that you know what i mean like can you just tell me like if this is normal i don't know we need to change some things though but hookup culture I think you know as long as you're having a good time that's all that matters but um yeah I don't I really don't think there's much more else to say on that

you know I feel like men have taken advantage of hookup culture for a long time now which is kind of what I was trying to say in the beginning and I think I was just too high and confused on what I was saying I'm not sure if you followed it but um I think men took advantage of it greatly in the beginning so i think women if you feel inclined to you should take advantage of it too you know go fuck whoever you want to fuck as long as you're being safe and comfortable and you're being um whatever safe yeah that's like the end goal of it right love sex also you need to be having good sex straight up um if you're having bad sex you need to find a new partner you need to find a new thing or you need to figure out what's going on okay i also am tired let's have

this conversation i am tired of women lying to men and saying they are doing something right when they are doing something wrong do you know how many tiktoks and like random memes i see where it's like when he's rubbing my left fucking lip and he's missing my click completely okay but who who okayed that because i know a lot of women are like it will just like encourage men outwardly and be like yeah you're you know you're doing great because you're too afraid to be like no move your fucking hand asshole you know what i mean you're like no you know you're doing fantastic you made me come and you like absolutely did not stop lying to these men because you know how many other women are being traumatized after you you know how many other women are getting their right coochie lip

rubbed and not their clit after you too many stop letting these women get traumatized you need to like yell at these men make them do the right thing you know what i mean if it doesn't feel good tell them you have to be like open and vocal especially like during those moments because it's very intimate and like you got to make sure you're both on the same page and you can't telepathically do that you know what i mean you can't telepathically say anything so just maybe tell them to move their hands like four centimeters and then like it'll feel a hundred times better and then you'll save like the next girls down the line you know what i mean because i keep seeing these fucking memes and i'm like also why are you going through that just tell them speak up

speak up you got the balls i promise you men are weak you can just say just say what you want i promise and it will it will go great i i guarantee it and if it doesn't you need to leave so we can learn something from that anyways also i want to make it abundantly clear that when i say like tell men they're doing something wrong when they're doing something wrong i'm meaning like i i don't know i was just this one specific post and i had so many likes like hundreds of thousands of likes i know that's not the general population of like women but it was like um me like i get turned on by um turning guys on and so like telling them that like they're doing good even though they're like not even hitting the right spot i was like that makes me so frustrated because like just

tell them like what why would you lie like that's horrible because like like think about the other girls oh my god but like i do i don't want it to make about um i don't want it to come off like shamey as in like shaming women for not doing that because i understand like sometimes especially as like a victim of some sa and like i'm sure other people can relate to this as like just being a woman in general um sometimes it's hard to say no sometimes it's hard to say like like be vocal so like that's not what i'm talking about i am talking about like the whole like just tell them to move their hand to the right spot like help them learn because men are dumb you know what i mean i hope that makes sense anyways that is the end of our podcast for today guys thank you for

joining me i'll elaborate on so many more topics so many more things on thursday that's why today might be a little short um i think it's only like 50 minutes 60 minutes um because like literally in two days i'm gonna release another one so stay tuned stay tuned i have so much more content so many good questions coming for you guys thank you for joining me by the way it's been a great tuesday i hope you guys have a great time um or a great day i will be doing nothing for the rest of my day it's a little chilly out so i think i might convince my boyfriend to go get pho with me because i've been craving it it sounds so yummy like nothing is better than a giant spicy bowl of pho on like a really cloudy cold day right put on like a cute little like jumpsuit like go eat

some pho like absolutely cuddle pass out that's like that's like my ideal night you know my my ideal night like two years ago was like eating a bag of molly and then staying up till 6 a.m you know what i would still probably do that to this day but i'm gonna stick with the pho because it's probably better for my um my everything anyways love you guys i hope you have a great rest of your day i'll see you thursday