Smoke Sesh - love, sex & magic

Episode Date: February 11, 2025

happy valentines week my loves! so excited to be back with you all for this fun and sexy episode, hopefully I can spread a little love to you all this week. we dive right in chatting what I've been up to including taking risks, galentines day, making new friends, the Super Bowl, and much more, we also chat everything you guys have on your mind including the upcoming Leo full moon on Wednesday and handling our egos, and everything Love, love for self, love for neighbors, the radical act of love in life, valentines bare minimums, situationships on valentines day, being single during this holiday and making peace with the single life, my go to freaky tips for spicing up the bedroom this valentines day and increasing intimacy in your relationships, sexual relationships, first dates, love spells and love magic, when are age gap relationships okay, crazy over your ex and getting under to get over someone, not being seen by your partner, meeting the parents, and finally making adult friendships and the trials and tribulations, plus much much more! if you want to see more from me join the patreon at patreon.com/smokeseshshawty and if you want to submit your question follow the instagram hannahmarlene to submit yours every Sunday, stay sexy and chat soon! love you! MUAH!

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calendar year 2025 for the cadillac definition of luxury listen everybody needs a fairy godmother you know just somebody to look out for them some people call me their fairy smoke mother others their internet big sister but you could call me hannah the host of smoke sash so come hang out let's light up and talk everything there is to life the good the bad the ugly the embarrassing i've got a story for it all hello hello hello hotties of the world and welcome back to another fun little sexy episode of smoke sesh my name is hannah your host and i'm so excited to be back with you all on this wonderful little tuesday oh my gosh someone get me a gun in that groundhog because it's supposed to blizzard tomorrow girl girl please my mental health

cannot take any more snow like we are suffering enough we need a break the girls need a break my god anyways it is valentine's week you guys so we have a lot to talk about okay some prep some things to go over speaking of today is tuesday and i just uploaded a cutesy little fun valentine's day recipe if you don't know what to do with your lover you like sweet treats and a fun little activity highly recommend they are chocolate dipped strawberry cheesecake bars what what yeah the ultimate munchie food now in the video psa for all my bakers out there basically you have to let the cream cheese warm up enough that it mixes well i was in a rush i had a little galentine's thing to get to we'll talk about that in a second um so i did not let

it warm up completely i don't mean microwave i don't mean like stick it in the oven warm up genuinely just put those blocks of cream cheese on your counter as soon as you get home from the store or as soon as you're about to bake um and leave them there for about an hour to two hours i know that sounds crazy you're like girl i'm going to get food poisoning trust you will not you will be safe and it will just make the cream cheese uh bars so much more creamy and decadent if you look at my video it's a little chunky it's not like bad like i literally have devoured half the pan fantastic it's more of like a texture thing than it is a taste thing they're gonna to taste good no matter what but i figured i'd give a little little psa to the girls listen you

like cooking tips and tricks let me give you the real shit let me tell you the real shit and if you ever like how the fuck do i make this in every single one of those videos that i make in the caption i give a detailed detailed explanation of how the fuck to make these these recipes that I'm making okay so you will not miss a single step the only comments I've gotten that have been like these didn't turn out how I wanted I'm like well did you follow the recipe did you follow the recipe and to be fair I've only gotten one of those comments so it is what it is I made really good buffalo wings though for my last recipe and someone was like don't wash your chicken it spreads bacteria you're so right queen I don't wash my chicken

unless they're wings um when it comes to wings if you give them a really good rinse and like obviously disinfect every single fucking surface afterwards like don't just rinse them out and then leave the chicken juices in your sink girl we gotta clean up you know um but if you give them a really good rinse and then you pat them dry with a paper towel that's how you get those really decadent crispy wings so crispy that when you like have leftovers eventually i promise you will um and you put them in the fridge and even two days later you take them out of the fridge and pop them in the microwave they will still be crispy that's that's how you get that good chicken trust me listen i've been cooking for honestly since i came out of the womb i was the

youngest child so my parents were like just busy constantly i mean they were public school educators like girl they didn't have time for me they were clocked in and even when they weren't clocked in like they were going above and beyond for their students so i'd be like what are we eating for dinner whatever hannah makes trust me i know how to cook good food all right but i love you all and if you need a fun little something to do with your lover or to make your lover highly recommend these are fantastic my boyfriend has been devouring these every single night so yeah i made these for a little galentine's get together one of my big goals this year i realized last year i kind of like did nothing and not like did nothing of course i had my achievements i've

worked on this podcast I elevated my career I hung out with friends here and there but when I mean did nothing I just didn't take every opportunity I had to spend time with the people I loved or just like get to know people get out of my house you know things like that so this year a big challenge of mine is just to like say yes to get together office opportunities like fuck it what do you have to lose girl put on a cute outfit and like go chit chat with some people and have a good time you know you were invited for a reason so one of my really good friends that um i honestly haven't seen for like a year we live in the same city just life got fucking out of control um she was like yeah i'm doing a little galentine's get to like get together i'd love to have you it's a

potluck bring a little something so yesterday which was sunday i'm filming this a little early but on sunday we had a galentine's get together and listen i was nervous i i know it sounds like I come off very like forward in a good way like in a self-confident way I seem very extroverted but genuinely on the outside I am a very introverted individual of course I can flip a switch and turn into an extroverted person we love being a Gemini but genuinely like deep down in my soul I am a introvert I like to spend time with the people that I know and be comfortable and be indoors but I understand that like that's not the healthiest place for me to be in sure it's great but girl we gotta grow and expand and meet people so i was like fuck it you know like let's go let's

go see some girlies let's go hang out let's go have a good time let's go make some fun food and enjoy some time together and she is the sweetest fucking host ever i pulled up the house is full of hotties like the baddest girls ever there's crafts there's dinosaur chicken nugget chicken and waffles and cream cheese pastries and one thing about girls we will provide and we will always have a good fucking time someone made like fresh pressed green juices and brought mimosas and brought a handmade hand decorated strawberry like cake girl they were going above and beyond it was incredible and then she brought craft supplies so we all could just hang out together and make our own little valentines girl my valentine came out so fucking cute but like

girls are amazing i love girls and i'm so thankful to like have been thought of like oh my god i had such a fun time and i showed up only knowing one person when there was like 15 people there and you know going into kind of like unknown territories my anxiety condition will truly make me overthink every single thing possible until I get there as soon as I get to that anxiety inducing thing really all of the anxiety goes out of the window I feel like I kind of hype myself up in a sense where it's like I'm fear-mongering a little bit like oh well what if they don't like you or what if you're not wearing the right thing like things not based in reality obviously I'm just genuinely stressing myself out for no reason but as soon as you get

to the anxiety inducing thing and you just face that fear head on you will immediately get over it you will realize wow i was really letting my fear control me and this thing was good for me i had a great time so if you need you know a boost of confidence to get out of your comfort zone to get out into the real world to spark up that conversation with a stranger to throw that galentine's event this is your sign to do so every single time it's so funny you know pattern recognition skills we got to work on those you know what I mean babe but every single time I'm like I'm scared I don't wanna and then as soon as I do it I'm like wow why was I afraid I had a great time so this year I'm really gonna try and stop letting that that kind of like socially awkward

fear hold me back because genuinely I was like okay maybe I'll go for like an hour and then I was there for three hours it was such a good time thank you so much to my friend Hannah she is just the ultimate host the ultimate girl and i love her endlessly i just had a blast smoking joints with the girls making valentine's drinking fresh pressed juice eating dinosaur nugget waffles like literally what is better than that honestly anyways that was a great way to celebrate sunday and then also it was the super bowl the super bowl um i am a kansas city resident of course so Chiefs fan question mark I don't know I feel like whenever you live in a certain city you're kind of then born a fan you know wherever you grow up so of course like Chiefs fan I guess

adjacent listen listen let's get fucking real here we just won two Super Bowls winning another one kind of greedy of us kind of greedy for us so I was just going into it like you know whoever wins wins we'll have a great time but low-key in the back of my brain in the very back of my brain you can call me a fake fan for this honestly true i don't really give a fuck i was like if i had to put a million dollars down on any sort of bet like if i was a brain dead man who was into sports betting i would absolutely bet on the eagles you could tell they wanted it they wanted it and there's a kind of like um gusto that philadelphia fans have that is kind of admirable where it's just like blank confidence and i think that is genuinely something that we all need to pick up

a little bit just like that forward momentum that desire that want that need it's inspiring it is inspiring and you know whatever team that goes into the super bowl that has that kind of like gusto that's the one that i'm like yeah they're probably gonna win and they wanted it they truly truly wanted it last year me and the girls spent about an hour going around the city trying to find somewhere to watch the football game and we ended up at green room burgers uh which is attached to the improv comedy club honestly great little small place if you are in the westport area and want a very chill hole in the wall bar highly highly recommend the owners there are two little sweetie pies you know they do jazz nights really great and somehow we stumbled

in there had the best burgers of our life really cheap drinks and had a great super bowl last year so me and my friend ended up there this year as well uh wasn't packed had a great time pretty much the entire bar to ourselves um and even though it was brutal to get through simply because zero points for the Chiefs the first entire half you know we had a good time it was great simply just spending time with people you love and being passionate about something you know you can pick up on the energy and have a good time and then the Kendrick Lamar halftime show if you thought it was bad you just don't fucking get it and I'm so sorry for you I think you need to go back and take some sort of history course maybe a good seventh eighth grade we can start

there but like wow that is exactly what we needed during this time especially like that man I'm not even gonna say his fucking name but him being there and you know I feel like we did kind of need a performer that was kind of gonna call that bullshit out and had the not only the artistic talent to do so the creative ability to do so and also just like the fucking balls to do so uh kendra kamar was perfect it was a great halftime show the message was well received heard loudly oh my god that is what happens when you are a healed gemini man i was raised by a healed gemini man and i recognize that kind of just like power within him where it's like listen unhealed gemini men are the devil they are they are if you're dating a gemini man and he starts giving

you any sort of trouble girl run as fast as you can because they are evil but a heel gemini man is a hard-working talented extremely passionate man especially when it comes to kind of like a spitefulness i'm a gemini i do think i run a lot of my passion off of spite listen whatever kind of emotion empowers you and gets you pushed into a positive direction no hate listen as long as you are getting the job done we love that and Kendrick Lamar did just that he is a incredibly talented individual I remember growing up in high school and listening to his to pimp a butterfly album like smoking weed in the back seat of my best friend's car going to like you know random house parties i was talking about this with my boyfriend as well sorry a little tangent here kids nowadays

will not understand the freedom of what it was for us to grow up and genuinely i am so thankful to grow up in the era where i could listen to pimp a butterfly in the back seat of my friend's car smoking weed going to a random snapchat address that we had no idea where or whose it was we were just gonna pull up and find out what kind of party was going on um that can't happen anymore i feel kids nowadays aren't gonna have that not freedom but like they're not gonna have everything's tracked everything is watched everything is known and that is just it's kind of spooky it's very spooky in a sense um and I think a a big way a big reason that I turned out how I am is because we had that freedom to kind of sneak off to get crazy to you know take risks and I mean were they

the best risks ever no were they the smartest risks ever no but they were a great great time for like adolescent me and yeah i was talking to my boyfriend he kind of grew up in a rural area where shit like this didn't happen um but i was like you never you know just like randomly were hitting people up for addies on a saturday night crawling out of your best friend's window basement window and then just like randomly pulling up to these addresses hoping that they weren't shut down by the cops yet no you didn't do that okay well like that's what I spent my high school years doing and yeah being able to also like listen to all these great albums while doing so uh I'm genuinely so thankful for my adolescence and just the great time I had but yes

Kendrick Lamar fantastic amazing great halftime show if you thought it was too woke girl are you even fucking paying attention to what's happening are i i dare you all to get woker please i'm begging you all need to get woker asap asap please please what do you mean what do you mean he left the game and he tweeted out we need to get rid of pennies girl girl anyways that's not what we're here for we're here to have a good little lovely fantastic time it's valentine's day week we gotta to spread the love we got to spread the joy to each other um and that is exactly what i'm going to be doing this week is busy for me very very busy like i said in my last episode me and my boyfriend don't really celebrate um and this is my choice we don't really celebrate valentine's

day on valentine's day because working in the service industry i understand the valentine's day experience that you will have at a restaurant and it is not going to be the ultimate experience ever like i know as a server i will be clocking in on friday like listen you're gonna get what you're gonna get because we are going to be slammed the kitchen is going to be stressed they're going to be screaming at each other they're going to be pumping out dishes as fast as they possibly can and the best dish that you're going to eat ever in your entire life is not the one that is made as fast as possible let's just let's be fucking real here i will not be able to provide the ultimate best service i can because i'm going to be overworked so knowing that i don't

like going out on valentine's day we usually do the day before or maybe the weekend after this year we're going to be doing the day before all i asked for was chicken parm i want to go somewhere i want to eat chicken parm i want to have a little drink i want to go home simple simple all right but i am working a little bit more this week uh just make a little extra money who can complain about that working valentine's day and then yeah celebrating with my boyfriend on thursday we'll probably do gifts on friday so then it's like actually let's acknowledge the day you know what i mean at least do something the day of uh but yeah i think we're also going to go to the art museum going to the art museum is such a underrated activity to do with your lover um kansas city is

amazing for many different ways but most importantly we have a incredible art museum that is free free that's how art all art museums should be in my opinion listen if we have these rich ass fucking billionaires collecting art you might as well put it in a museum and make it free for everybody else to look at like that is the very least you can do and i'm so glad that kansas provides that for us the nelson atkins is fantastic because not only is it free and full of amazing art but it's full of like really great free classes and opportunities for children for adults um they'll do like get togethers things like that and it's great for just spending time there and looking at beautiful art with your lover like what is better than that come on now so i

believe we'll probably be doing that thursday as well danger has one more checkup from the vet we are going to make sure he is fully healed this time i think he's just a constipated king and i gotta get him going a little bit more often than he usually does so one more vet checkup get that one out of the way and then yeah hopefully go into the weekend and just have a chill relaxing weekend after the hecticness of this next week blizzarding on Wednesday oh my god I honestly really really hope like we get one last snow in and that's it and then we have spring and then a hot ass summer I love a hot ass sweaty summer and I cannot wait I'm holding on to hope please a fucking groundhog what do you mean six more weeks of winter girl every year I feel like it's

always six more weeks of winter can we can the girls catch a break come on anyways that's enough of me rambling you're like girl shut up answer my question i hear you i hear you don't worry um you guys have a lot on your minds we got a lot to go over so let's see what you guys got going on and let's dive right into all of your questions you guys also this valentine's week we have a full moon february 12th wednesday february 12th it is a full snow moon which uh hello right on time we are supposed to have a blizzard on wednesday but it is a full moon in leo leo the sign of drama the sign of theatrics the sign of confidence could be good could be crazy let's get into what to expect this week I love a Leo full moon I do I think it can bring a lot of drama to our lives

if there's a lot that we haven't handled or we're kind of getting fed up or tired it really just pushes us into that like main character role that I think is very important it forces us to kind of like take a good look at our lives and realize wow we are in control we are the main characters we know what we're deserving of we know what we need we know what we're fucking fed up with And I fear we have no choice but to make some changes and go after everything we desire. Like I said, that can bring a lot of drama. Tempers can rise if we feel like we are in a point in our life that is just not where we're supposed to be or we are like being given a certain energy that is not meant for

us. We can meet that with some tension a little bit. So please be aware of your coping mechanisms to lower the drama and the chaos and understand the best main character is one that is calm cool and collected not the one blowing up their life that is not what you need during this time now with the sun and aquarius and the leo full moon we have a kind of like uh alternating energy where the leo full moon wants us to focus on us but the the sun and aquarius is also wanting us to kind of like focus on outpour to others so you might be pulled in two different directions and kind of asking ourselves like is it okay to

focus on me and I would like to emphasize now more than ever that yes yes it is okay to focus on you it's okay to get a little bit selfish it's okay to know what you want and you need and not settle for less with the Leo full moon and egos and tempers rising though I want to make it clear that like inviting chaos into your life and blowing things up is not the way to get to where you want to go instead being calm cool collected being aware of your desires and your needs and going after them head on but in a chill understanding manner is the best way to really get truly where you want to go rather than being like impulsive and chaotic and spontaneous is take a step back truly look at where you want to be where you are what you are accepting what

your boundaries are take accountability of your life and ask yourself now how the fuck do i get to where i want to go use that fiery power to push yourself into the right direction um instead of letting that fiery power blow up your life this will be great during valentine's day when people are really showing their true colors and showing you like their love for you is it what you need is it what you want is it what you desire if not girl time to move on use that ego to power you in the right direction i love you someone just said i love love me as fuck girl i feel that listen i used to be i used to be a hater against myself most importantly so whenever valentine's came around i was always like oh i'm just single and i i hate valentine's day because i'm suffering

so everyone else should suffer girl what the actual fuck let's stop thinking about you for a second and let's think about everyone else around you simply defining valentine's day as single or not single yeah you're gonna be miserable so sorry you're gonna have an awful time definitely but like Valentine's Day is about love love love love for self love for world love for neighbor love for partner love for family love for friends what do you mean you don't have love in your life get it the fuck together girl and open your eyes and look around you okay especially now more than ever I talk about love as a form of protest absolutely we need to be giving love to each other now more so than ever and I think love is like a radical act of like defiance when I was

going through the hardest times of my life you know love didn't exist in my brain it was hatred for myself hatred for the world around me I was over consumed by my depression my anxiety my slew of mental health issues illnesses whatever you want to call them I could not see love and finally finally something clicked in my brain and I realized you're going to have to choose this yes you're going to have to force it you are going to have to love yourself you are going to have to learn to find love in the world to find love in yourself to find love in the people around you or else you're going to die you're gonna die bitch like you got to get it together and as soon as that clicked in my brain listen it was not an easy transition having to like force love upon

yourself feels very awkward and weird and kind of like the newborn stage but you're fucking 18 you're like what the fuck's going on you know like a wobbly deer or wobbly horse just getting pushed out of the womb like woof we're learning to stand again you know what I mean it's gonna feel weird and awkward at first but as soon as that lesson clicks in your brain ultimately it made my life so much more comfortable and even through the hardships even through the crazy batshit crazy fucking times that I had I was always okay I was okay I made it through them I saw the light I persevered I got better I did better I did more because of love and simply defining valentine's day as single or not single girl open your eyes we have to provide more for

ourselves we have to show love to the people around us you know especially when we live in a world that wants us to hate ourselves and hate the people around us so much like please please if you're gonna give into one thing this week let it be love and i think a great like little form of homework for you all is just who needs love in your life right now is it you do you need a little bit of self-love do you need to show yourself a little bit of tlc a little bit of care this is your sign to do it that's your homework for the week girl you better buy yourself a good meal sit down watch your favorite movie like maybe do a face mask whatever your form of self-love is do it okay maybe you have a friend that's going through a really really hard time and you're like

oh shit i haven't reached out but i know she's struggling show her some love show up for her send her a really nice text tell her thank you for being in my life maybe it's your partner you've realized wow you know we've kind of grown distant and we're not as close as we used to be and i want to bring that spark back and i really just want to show them appreciation you know life's gotten crazy we've gotten swept up in work like we gotta we gotta remember why we're here show your partner some love girl give him a blow job and make him a good meal i mean obviously he should be doing the same for you of course of course give and take but maybe it's your parents you've realized i've kind of you know not taken advantage of but really just negated the situation for what it is and

they've always shown up for me they've always rode for me you know we've had our ups and our downs but ultimately they have always supported me show up for them show them a little bit of love that is your homework for this week and i guarantee you as soon as you do one act of radical love this week you will feel so much better you will feel so much better about yourself about the world around you you will realize that there is hope to be gained from these acts from these experiences i think it's really really beautiful i think love is so beautiful and that's why i literally have it tattooed on me girl last year about this time i got with love tattooed on me because i realized just how impactful making every step of your life and doing it with love

is and yeah if you're gonna learn one lesson from me this week let it be move with love act with love speak with love give love just love just love lobotomy just love live laugh love listen the white millennials were on to something you're so right live laugh love girl definitely help my situation ship doesn't want to do anything for valentine's day yeah yeah that means he wants nothing to do with you and i really hate to break that news to you it's not because he's a man and he just doesn't get valentine's day he doesn't get the importance of it he just doesn't understand no babe he just doesn't like you and he doesn't want to do romantic things with you if your boyfriend does not want to celebrate valentine's day with you

it's genuinely not because he's a man and he doesn't get it no no when someone's in love they want to be romanced and give romance a real lover will do that no matter of their gender and it's not a you problem there's not a specific way that you need to behave in order for him to do these things for you there's not something wrong with you oh why won't he why won't he because he's a piece of shit not because you are and you're not deserving because he is so please leave that man in the fucking dumpster where he belongs also psa if your boyfriend doesn't get you anything for valentine's day if he doesn't celebrate valentine's day with you if he doesn't even buy you flowers bitch i went to the grocery store i bought flowers for my friend who was

hosting the valentine's day brunch eleven dollars if he doesn't have the brain cell it takes to simply stop by the grocery store on the way home to you and spend $11 on flowers for you then he does not give a fuck about you genuinely genuinely and I do think a lot of people break up on Valentine's Day for this reason where it's like maybe they will maybe they will do they love me oh Valentine's Day you know it's a day of love they'll actually see me for who I am they'll actually provide for me they'll actually show up for me and then they don't and i think that truly is like the universe revealing people's true selves and i love holidays for that reason especially a love holiday because sometimes we need that eye-opening moment of like why the

fuck do they not care about me and do i want someone in my life that doesn't care about me stop it with the self-harming behaviors and dating men that hate you stop dating your biggest ops please start dating people who are so madly in love with you they want to show love with you they want to be with you that is what you're deserving of do not give pussy or any energy to a man who can't even buy you 11 flowers on valentine's day oh my god please please stand up i'm begging do you have tips for feeling sad because you've never had a boyfriend or serious relationship listen I was your age at one point in time I was the last person in my friend group to lose my virginity I was the last person in my friend group to like have a boyfriend I feel like

I was behind the entire time and I think that mindset will rush you into situations that are genuinely not good for you just because you're like I want to get it over with I wish I would have taken more time I wish I would have taken more time I think the one thing young women can do for themselves that is so important is be overly selfish and de-center relationships and men period there's not a lot of good guys out there when we're young okay not that oh men are evil or whatever bullshit like of course be safe but like we're so young and we're getting to know ourselves and we honestly don't know anything about ourselves we're learning through the world around us you know we're sometimes bad people to ourselves or other people and i think getting your

brain mixed up and the whole relationship bullshit and feeding after male attention is just such a waste of youth it is and I understand feeling sad because I've been there and I'm not gonna sit here and be like oh don't feel that way because your feelings are definitely valid and I do think society puts a big pressure on you know being young and in love and these romantic adventures and things like that but if I'm being dead serious I think you're one of the lucky ones I do I think you're one of the lucky ones the best thing you can truly do as like in this day and age especially if you're in your young 20s is just be overly selfish and focus on you the right person if you are solely focused on what you desire and what you need in life the right

person will fall in like a puzzle piece absolutely and I kind of when I was younger had no one that was older that could have told me that so of course I settled for these shitty men just because I wanted to lose my virginity or settled for these shitty men just because I wanted to be in a relationship I wanted to feel love and if you really want to feel that amazing romantic like movie type of love you gotta be picky you do you gotta be picky you gotta be patient and you have to put yourself first love is everywhere and like i said valentine's day it's not just about romantic like love oh i'm single so i'm sad oh i'm in a relationship so i'm happy show yourself some love this valentine's day that's what you need if you're sad because you're not in a

relationship girl remind yourself i can give myself everything i want i can give myself my favorite meal I can give myself you know an hour to myself at the end of the night to watch my favorite movie to go pull out my Hitachi wand and experience pleasure with myself to you know maybe buy myself that new pair of shoes that I worked hard for and I know I deserve I would challenge you especially this week if you're feeling a little more sad than usual to do those things take yourself out on a date do those self-care things those self-love things now more than ever I think it's really really important but your feelings are valid I do hear you and I'm so sorry that society does kind of put that pressure on young people falling in love I don't think it's

that easy and I don't want you to kind of find yourself in a situation that is going to be more harmful than good just because you wanted to rush it I think you're in the exact place that you're supposed to be and what you need now is just a little bit of love for yourself I love you there's people around you that love you i know you love yourself uplift that feeling freaky tips for valentine's day all right girls it's time it's time i love the sex episodes if i could have a sex only podcast would love would be very fun but i understand like sometimes we need a break me too girl even in the real world i'm like i can't fucking think about sex right now let's switch it up with maybe some like mental health talk or a silly little laugh you

know it doesn't always have to be about sex so i'm glad that we can do our little sex segment every once in a while on this podcast but when it comes to valentine's day dare i say the freakiest today of the year i think probably the most sex happens on valentine's day that's why eight months later you see a spike in children in fact if i'm doing the math right now i'm pretty sure my boyfriend's birthday is in eight months like he is a valentine's day baby freakiest day of the year who can complain about that you know what i mean and honestly i love sex i love sex i think sex is so important i think intimacy intimacy is so important intimacy has been lost in this day and age in the situationship era and the friends with benefits just fleeing one night stand era like

girl he's not making you come looking you in the eyes or saying please or thank you or giving you a cuddle afterwards we are turning into fleshlights and we cannot be fleshlights anymore but like i'm begging you please intimacy is so important i think respect really enhances intimacy i think you know desire to provide pleasure for your partner really enhances intimacy i think a good conversation beforehand enhances intimacy I think boundaries and rules and understanding what is good and what's not good during sex is intimacy being honest with each other is intimacy these are important things these are very very important things and a lot of good sex happens like Two in five Canadians will hear the words, you have cancer.

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BetMGM operates pursuant to an operating agreement with the Alberta iGaming Corporation. Standard message and data rates may apply. days weeks months before the sex sex actually happens and we need to get that through our brains you know foreplay is the lived experience with that person before you guys even touch each other foreplay has been lost girl what happened to flirting what happened to light touching what happened to the romanticization of it all what happened to you pulling out my chair for me at dinner like what happened to you being a gentleman these things are important that's how you get that

real freak nasty experience okay so mentally physically make sure that intimacy is uplifted and supported now when it comes to the mechanics of it all my plan this week is oh yeah if my lingerie gets delivered on time i kind of messed up and definitely did not order that on time my bad hopefully it is here i bought a really cute i like to this is kind of something i do for me not only for me but for my partner um i love like having a little lingerie collection it's really great like if me and my boyfriend are going out to dinner i love just like throwing on a two-piece set what feels better than that what makes you feel sexier than that it's like a cute little oh like I know what I have on under here but do you like just wait until you find out as well

I love it it's so sexy I love lingerie I feel like it's a great way to just make yourself feel beautiful have a fun little secret he he um and also like you look super fucking hot so I bought like a two-piece red lingerie set because my boyfriend loves me in red I have pink I have black I was like all right red's next and I want a teal after that I feel like teal could be hot and sexy as well um agent provocateur is a great place to buy these from they are doing massive sales right now i think i ordered mine from victoria's secret though simple simple wherever you find your lingerie as long as you like it that's all that matters um but little lingerie two-piece set that's where kind of like the foreplay begins kind of just like with myself

where it's like i'm feeling sexy so i'm feeling confident so i'm feeling good so i'm gonna get freakier period you know give your partner a little oop flash but now you gotta wait you know what i mean builds up the antics builds up the the excitement for it all um i think foreplay is important as in like the romanticization of it all the romantics um spending time together going out to dinner wind and dine just spending quality time together in general i think is great foreplay so definitely definitely doing that and then like listen it's valentine's day of course you're getting a blow job of course we're gonna be sucking and fucking like obviously obviously so uh let's go over my you've heard this many a times let's go over my blow job tips

everybody loves a sloppy blow job everybody does the sloppier the better the more noises the better the more spit the better i don't know what to say girl and i know you're all stoners so if you have cotton mouth and you go down on a man you're kind of gonna be stressed for a second because you're like holy shit my mouth feels like sandpaper the best way to kind of build up spit is to get him as far back in your throat as possible naturally that gag reflex will kick in naturally your body will provide more spit another hot sexy way to provide more spit ask him to spit in your mouth literally i will look my boyfriend in the eyes i'll be like my mouth's too dry spit in my mouth and it works it works it does okay baby girl okay baby girl chugging that glass of milk like

spit in my mouth and then use that to your advantage but genuinely i don't think you need any technique or tips and tricks oh use your tongue this way oh put the entire dick in the back of your throat no no no genuinely i think as long as it is sloppy and wet and there's a lot of spit and you're using your hands that man will come in approximately 15 seconds dead ass dead ass now if you really want the tips and tricks i do think you need to use your hands i'm not like a throat queen i can't take a 12 inch dick down my entire esophagus i was just not built that way i don't think any woman is built that way if you're a professional sword swallower sure fantastic but i don't think many women are born that way so i don't think you really need to take the whole

dick in your mouth because you have hands you have hands and that's where the spit comes in handy because your hands aren't dry going up and down with your mouth they're wet it feels like an elongated mouth men during that time they are in outer space floating around they don't know what's going on all they know is it feels good that's all that matters so use your both your hands literally as i the same way i'm holding this mic okay use both your hands if you want to go down and grab the balls you do that as well but start slow start slow kissing licking touching feeling and then kind of amp it up where you take a little bit more you get a little bit sloppier fast forward all of a sudden both hands mouth sloppy mouth noises suck and gush in i

guarantee it is game over now here's the thing valentine's day i don't want him to come from a blowjob because girl i want to get fucked so this is also a pro tip if you're like i love giving blowjobs but not for 30 minutes this is like i i throw back throw back swallowing if you don't like swallowing stop sucking him off when he's about to come and then get on top you know or have him fuck you from behind i usually am like just stopping and i'm like i want you to fuck me period be easy easy would it of course they're like absolutely would love to I would love to do that for you also underrated 69ing I think 69ing is a great bonding tool yeah yeah especially if you're like not a blowjob queen and you also want pleasure it is fantastic okay you're on top

you're doing your thing he's doing his thing you can kind of take turns ebbing into the pleasure you know getting more pleasure giving more pleasure but yeah even 69ing i think you can just be like all right now it's time to dive into the fun things now like i said mass influx of babies on valentine's day please please please please please please use protection please i'm begging i'm begging protection is not only protection for you but it's protection for your future i don't need any valentine's day babies from you guys unless you're like trying and then props to you but i'm assuming most of you guys are not trying in this economy so the best thing you can afford right now is not oh god how much does a child cost a year probably like

what 20k 20k a year girl a condom is i'm taking a wild guess here a dollar 50 a dollar 50 versus 20k a year for 18 years there's an easy choice there make that easy choice especially on valentine's day please i'm begging but yeah build up that intimacy do something fun and sexy for yourself that makes you feel like hot before getting into you know the whole game of it all foreplay foreplay foreplay make sure he deserves it give pleasure to your partner become a blowjob queen for a night and yeah have some freak nasty sex and have a great time and please no valentine's day babies this year use protection i love you i love you have fun there's one thing you need to be doing this valentine's day it's having good sex not just sex good sex also if he

doesn't make you come on valentine's day he doesn't love you is it healthy to have sex every time we meet i'm scared of it just being lust without love it kind of depends i don't know me and my boyfriend were definitely that way and just because we were just passionate about each other you know like if you're passionate about each other and you enjoy having sex together and it's positive and it's good like fantastic love it but like get coffee beforehand run an errand go to dinner you have to be doing something outside of the sex if he is only showing up or she anybody if they are showing up and they show up and immediately have their pants unzipped and you're only having sex and then you maybe cuddle for an hour or they spend the night but as soon

as you know it's over they get up and leave that is i don't know just a sexual relationship you guys need to be doing something outside of it but yeah like if you're like oh let's hang out all day and then we end up fucking three times during the day but we're also doing things outside of it then i feel like there's no problem with that you know how to have a good time meeting a man irl in person for the first time i don't know i don't think you have to stress it if anything if you are showing up to a first date it is that man's job to make sure that he is making it the best experience ever for you it's not the woman's job and if you're in like a gay relationship or you know same-sex relationship whoever asks the other person out genuinely I believe it is their

responsibility to kind of take charge and make sure that it's a good experience for the other person but yeah if you're meeting a man if he asks you on a date and you're meeting him for the first time it is his job to make sure everything's planned everything is organized he has your ride figured out if you want to do that you know he has the dinner place figured out he has after dinner drinks figured out it's not just yeah come over to my house so we can sit on my bed and hopefully i can get some pussy that is not how that shit should go ever i mean at the very fucking least go to a coffee shop or something like you can keep it simple it doesn't have to be a 400 event but that man is in charge of making sure everything else is planned if he's like we should

do something we should hang out and then he goes well what do you want to do i would hit him with a i don't know good luck you figure it out how bad do you want to see me how bad do you want me to like you first impressions are very important oh god help i need this man to love me what's a spell to make him fall in love girl i hate to break it to you but if you you have to put witchcraft on this man in order for him to love you it is not going to be fulfilling love it will not be fulfilling it will not be good now i'd be lying if i said i haven't done this if i haven't done this I think it's okay to do a little you know a little love spell here and there I think it's positive energy you know as long as it's not like malicious as in you're trying to change the way

they feel um then I think it can genuinely work like I would be lying if I said I did not do little love spells for my partner he knows it he's happy he's happy he's safe okay don't come for him but when you try and do love spells on people who just like don't love you it's not going to be a fulfilling type of love you're going to kind of fuck with the balance of the system and maliciously warp how they view you where sure they might fall in love with you but is it that fairy tale magic love that you're envisioning right now no usually it translates into obsession like scary obsession and i don't need you bringing that kind of juju into your life so safe to say if you're even thinking about putting a love spell on someone in order for them to want you that is your sign

okay that is your sign here right now to leave that man in the fucking garbage where he deserves all right all right now if you're you know in a fun little something like okay we do like each other the energy's high i just kind of want to bring the energy up i think it's okay i think it's okay i think it's fun i think it's silly and i love it i do i don't really engage in karmatic witchcraft where it comes to like giving negative energy or changing like i said the way the universe is naturally flowing but I do like a little enhancement every every here and there whether it's protection luck money career love I think that's fun and I think that's what witchcraft is all about so for me a couple little fun things that I've done it's something that you

can easily do this valentine's day or even like a fun little silly love spell is and honestly this is perfect because love spells are best performed on mondays or fridays which are like venus days and valentine's day does fall on a friday this year so break out that white candle douse it in honey to bring sweetness into your relationship you can also sprinkle it with sugar for extra added sweetness whatever kind of sweetener you have around i love honey personally um you can do a little bit of cinnamon for some luck for spicing up your relationship rose quartz you know a classic fantastic you can place that next to the candle or even stick it on the candle um like in the honey if it's small enough and it'll stick and then what i like to do is just burn the candle

and pray over it and kind of just give thanks to the universe for providing this love for me um to give my wishes and what i'm desiring and pour that into the universe and usually the universe will hear your wishes and desires and pour that back into you another really easy way to do this is you can take rose quartz and literally put it under his pillow at night so he will have sweet dreams of you sometimes i'll take a little bit of like watered down honey and rub it over my heart i feel like that attracts sweetness to me you can also do this to your partner if they're a willing participant where you can um take a little bit of honey and write it over their heart specifically your initial or their initial if it's on you it's a great powerful tool and just

a little kind of like i don't know i think it's a fun little good luck good love spell where it's not malicious you're not changing the free will of anybody um you have a willing participant lean into it especially if you're a witchy girl love is so fun and if you can enhance it in any way possible why not in my opinion why not but once again if that man doesn't love you you putting a love spell on him will only turn him into an obsessed freak not in a good way not in a good way not in a good way in a weird stalkerish scary way and i don't i don't want that for any of you at all also oddly enough i think baking is a really great way to kind of enhance a love spell not only are they like ingesting the spell they're getting something positive from it you can

utilize specific ingredients that will like obviously not only taste good but work well in a spell like i said honey sugar cinnamon strawberries for sweetness it's red for love things like that chocolate for desire and decadence it's really beautiful and that's why i think my chocolate strawberry cheesecake bars are fantastic for this valentine's day but yeah love spells tale as old as time the girls always get into witchcraft when it's the love spells keep it simple simple is always better and like i said if that man wants nothing to do with you he wants nothing to do with you thoughts on dating a 35 year old man as a 22 year old woman he needs to be paying for your rent he needs to be paying for every single dinner he needs to be

paying for everything plus plus an allowance yes babe yep i've gotten to that point in time because i think too many young women date older men and they are bums they can't even afford rent they can't take you out to dinner they're dating young people because they know the people that their age actually have standards and they can't live up to those standards so they go younger to people who don't have standards because they know they can fuck around and be bums and you know that's just who he is i i can't blame him you're young you have no idea of what a real relationship is so if you're dating an older man make sure he is providing for you he's an older man he has let's see 13 plus years of experience on you he should be able to pay your rent give you an allowance

take care of you if he's 13 years older than you he should absolutely be able to do those things and if he can't do those things for you let alone himself girl you're better off single absolutely how do you stop contact contacting your ex once a week even though you know it's bad for your healing girl we need an exorcism we need an exorcism up in here for you because when you are engaging in behaviors that warrant a restraining order we got to seek help for you we do we absolutely do that man's not coming back for you and you getting on your hands and knees and begging for him is not going to change his mind period absolutely so what i need you to do is delete block move on and the best way to get over somebody and I've said this a million times

before is to get under a new one you'll realize wow this ex is better wow he treats me better wow I can't believe I was hung up on that guy get out there put yourself out there go get some new dick and actually dick from a person who likes you not one who's about to file a restraining order on you find someone who matches your crazy you know find someone who when you text them 10 times a day they actually respond yeah yeah i'm sure there's something in you that's unhealed that like fiends for that attention or that like desire of feeling wanted by somebody who doesn't want you but like we gotta break those cycles now babe now get under somebody go have a good time go have a fun little fling go have some crazy freak nasty sex with protection that's what you

deserve my boyfriend went to a rave i really wanted to go to without me because i didn't have the funds to go that man does not love you that man does not love you at all if me and my boyfriend wanted to go to a concert and he's like you know babe i just i can't afford it right now i really want to go but also it's just I you know money's tight it's not in the budget there's two options there's two real real rational options option number one oh my gosh you know what that's so fine I totally hear you I won't go either maybe we can spend you know the evening together you know at home like totally understandable we'll go to the next one together no biggie now there's also the part of you who it's like yeah you know i want to go but my boyfriend can't afford it

that's okay i'm buying him a ticket my partner wants to go to a show with me and i also want to go to that show and they can't afford the 35 55 ticket i'm buying that ticket and we're going together because that's my partner and we have fun together that man knew you wanted to go to this show together knew you wanted to spend it with him and knew you were excited about it knew you couldn't afford it and said stay home brokey two and five canadians will hear the words you have cancer that's why every step and dollar raised matters on september 19th join thousands in toronto for the princess margaret cancer foundation walk challenge yourself friends and family to walk 21 kilometers in support of life-saving research together we can carry the

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position and i didn't even think twice about it immediately oh cool i'll buy both tickets and then you can just like grab the next thing that we have to pay for very easy very easy very simple because what i want to spend time with my partner this is giving i don't want to be with my partner right now so i'm gonna let her stay at home sad and i'm gonna take off and have fun oh girl i would be causing a riot a riot about to introduce a boy to my parents for the first time help oh my gosh this is so funny every time i introduce okay psa if you don't want to introduce him to your parents like there's there's always going to be a little bit of fear behind it because it's like oh you know like we all got to show up on our best behavior sure sure fantastic but if you

genuinely are like hiding him from them or refuse to let your parents know them it's because you know you're not dating a good person and I say this not because I think you're in this position I think a little bit of anxiety is very very normal beforehand you know but I my last boyfriend I literally when I say I dated him for nine months to a year before I let my parents meet him or even know he was alive yeah yeah my parents were like what do you like do you not trust us like do you not want us to be a part of your life no it's because I knew he was a piece of shit and embarrassing and I didn't want to bring him around you guys was I aware of that at the moment no I just thought like oh you know the timing wasn't right or whatever looking back though genuinely

it was because I was like this man is a piece of shit and I don't want my parents to know I even spend time around him like I genuinely am hiding him from the people that I love because I know I'm making a wrong decision here if you're hiding your boyfriend or the man you're seeing from your parents big red flag not from you from him you're doing it subconsciously for a reason like literally i wish i could go back in time and scream that at myself like girl just leave him alone you don't actually like him like oh please i'm begging anyways no a little bit of anxiety before is normal uh but once again like the most pressure should be on him like he should be on his a game like yes sir yes ma'am can I do the dishes let me bring a bottle of wine or some flowers or

something thank you for having me like let me be respectful let me be all manners on point with my current boyfriend I was so excited to introduce him to my parents I was like yeah this is my boyfriend this is my friend you know and he was great of course like you know a little anxiety is normal absolutely but like it should flow pretty smoothly I remember when my brother finally brought his wife's parents over to meet my parents I looked over at him he was it looked like he had just been soaked with a hose he was dripping fucking sweat now I don't know why he was that you know scared it's just because you know you've got to be on your best behavior and my parents are crazy so that he was nervous about what the fuck was gonna come out of their mouths

and also he just wanted them to get along because like our families are joining together like they were getting married at the time or like engaged at the time at least um so yeah that anxiety is normal don't worry about it don't push it but also i would really pay attention to how your boyfriend behaves does he take it seriously is he respectful is he kind does he show up not only for you but the family that he could possibly be a part of it's important it truly is and like I said if you want to hide him from the world if you were only seeing him in the darkness it's for a reason and not a good one how can I make more adult friends after college it feels so hard to find people this is very real I feel like this is kind of a part of love that we're missing in this day

age when we were younger and you know it was the same people every single year it was very easy to make friends and meet people I mean we're spending eight hours a day together five days a week you're going to make friends naturally you're kind of forced to but when you're an adult and you know your time and your choices are up to you it's kind of like you kind of start fumbling and you kind of like wait a minute life's weird now and it's an odd adjustment period but I think you'd be surprised how quickly you truly can find friends first place you can start to look is your work friends okay I have had many work friends I've had many of good relationships with the people I work with now you don't have to be friends with the people you work with

the people you work with suck they can just be co-workers period period but you know if there's that stray person or a couple people or your entire work group is like really good and you have good chemistry and you have so much fun at work i think it's okay to take that outside of work and like maybe go grab drinks maybe go do something together i feel so bad one of the girls i work with we were supposed to go to like a live drawing class together but danger had another flare-up so i had to take him to the vet instead and i was like oh you know like that would have been really fun next time we should absolutely do that together i would love to hang out with you outside of work I think we could be really good friends like period I think work is kind of

the new school when you're an adult and like I said if your co-workers fucking suck you don't have to be nice to them you are not forced to be friends with them but if you're like you know what they're great I love them it is my old manager's birthday this week and she texted all of my old co-workers and me in a group chat like I'm doing my birthday dinner I feel so bad it's when me and my boyfriend are supposed to be doing valentine's day so i can't make it but still i want to show up for her she's like do my birthday dinner and you guys are all my favorite people i would love to have you there work people can be great friends and like i said it is the new school like we're forced to spend so much time together so if you have good chemistry why not take it outside of

work speaking of work if you work in public service um if you see a cool hot girl come into your restaurant into your coffee shop into your cute little fun store into wherever you work and you're like i love your vibe i think we should hang out sometime so you gotta put yourself out there more often than not as an adult to make adult friendships the friend that invited me to valentine's day was somebody i served at my restaurant and she was just cool as fuck she's like i love those jeans your vibe's amazing like what's your instagram let's follow each other i was like yeah cool let's follow each other we became habitual story likers or whatever random dms here and there and then randomly she's like hey girl what are you doing this weekend we should

go thrifting together and sure we don't spend a lot of time together but you know it is a very casual adult friendship that I have made and she's a great person great human being I'm very lucky to have found her and that she had the confidence to simply just be like hey you're cool as fuck like can I follow you on Instagram like you have a great vibe great energy and like if I'm being weird you don't have to say yes but I feel like I should put myself out there fantastic way to make adult friendships like you have to kind of be a little bit awkward in that sort of sense and be daring to put yourself out there now last but not least a great way to do adult friendships that's not like bumble and all that other stuff is local community events okay I was about to go to a

live drawing class with my friend if I showed up to that alone and I sat next to a really cool girl of course I would spark up conversation I love your artwork you're really talented what's your instagram can i follow you you know like go down that rabbit hole chit chat with them get to know them maybe hang out alone sometime bam all of a sudden you guys are friends um local shows uh kansas city has a really really great punk show scene and like showing up to local shows local concerts local venues like maybe every other week or every weekend you could even go alone and just spark up conversation with random people around you get to know them go outside into the smoking area and just chit chat I think the bar scene is great for that but also you don't have to

necessarily be a drinker or a partier to go to these places I'm really trying to not be so much of a party girl but still have that party girl aura to me because I miss the social butterfly aspect of it all going back to the back patio and bumming a cigarette off somebody and chit chatting with some someone completely random and spilling your life story to them and them doing the same back to you and kind of trauma bonding that sort of sense it's so fun and it is a fantastic way to make friends so look for local community meetups live drawing classes coffee shop events my coffee shop just did like a plant swap you bring in like two of your cuttings and you get to you trade a little bit um local shows your local music scene i guarantee there is

something there um if you're part of the lgbtq community look for like maybe protests or meetups or drag events brunch events chapel roan karaoke nights like find what you're interested in and naturally the people who are also interested in those things will flock there and i guarantee you will meet somebody that has the same kind of perspective mindset aura as you and you will make friends bottom line here is you gotta put yourself out there you do if you're sitting at home and going to work with people you hate and then coming home and then going to work with people you hate and coming home you're not going to make friends you're not you're not opening your bubble and you're not expanding your world you're not outreaching to new areas and discovering new

people your bubble is very small and it's going to make your world world feel very small and it's going to make your life feel very small expand it I've had the past couple years really just like having a small world which is something I really needed because I was coming out of my party girl era and I just needed a moment to kind of focus on me but now that I did take that time I'm realizing my small world's feeling a little more claustrophobic and I do need to put myself out there more my boyfriend's such a social butterfly hanging out with so many people and it kind of became inspiring for me I was like you know what you're so right I do need to spark up random conversation with that girl I do need to hang out with my co-worker outside of work I do need to go

to these local community meetups and events your life will expand your world will expand your friendships will expand I promise you have that courage in yourself have that courage in the world around you and people will feel that they will gravitate towards you you will find good friendships also like if you reach out to somebody and they don't respond adult life and friendships life gets chaotic it is what it is like i said my really great friend that i had galentine's day with we see each other probably like maybe twice a year we run into each other at shows am i like oh she's not my friend because we don't regularly check up with each other every single day no she's still a great person great individual i love her endlessly and like i recognize life gets crazy

sometimes it is what it is take away that pressure that is like childhood friendship of every single day texting every minute every hour sure you will find some of those people but the best way to build those adult friendships is just to understand naturally life flows at its own pace flow with it don't flow against it don't hold people to these weird standards be kind be open be authentic everything will work out someone said i want more merch now oh girl oh girl i can finally okay you guys this is so so incredibly exciting I know I've talked and I can't spill all the beans yet but I can at least give you a time frame or at least like a a day-ish time for when you should be saving up your money um I don't do a lot of drops I don't do a lot of collabs I don't do a

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about ad rolls because spotify was like yeah like we are now giving you the option to put ads in your podcast um and then you would get paid from the mid-rolls the ads the same way like YouTube will have mid-rolls I'm on the fence about it it's something to think about just because like I don't make money off this podcast period and not that I'm like fiending or anything I just genuinely do not want to interfere with the flow of you guys enjoying this podcast and if that's gonna turn you guys off like that's it quick and easy like you know I'm good period like as long as you guys are enjoying the content that's all that matters to me I don't want you guys to have to sit through ads that's why I don't do a lot but it's something that I'm kind of genuinely

thinking about especially because they offered the opportunity to me like what if I put it at the very end you know after credits I'm like please just just keep playing till the very end roll through one ad you know make me a little 20 cents or whatever it it makes me um or would you guys just prefer me not to do that and maybe um subscribe to the patreon instead I don't know i don't know i'm very i'm just not very ad centric i would rather like do things for you guys and we have so much fun over on the patreon um i do extra episodes every week where i answer every single one of your questions i'm not even kidding literally i answer 35 to 40 questions a week on thursdays um i the same way that i upload a questionnaire on my instagram i upload a

questionnaire on patreon where you can all comment your question there's no there's no limit you can literally type out i've had people type out paragraphs okay i read through that whole entire thing i give you a solid answer and i do that for every single one of you guys on the patreon that is in the middle tier the middle and the highest tier receives that and then the lowest tier um receives all of the text posts so weekly inspiration sunday spirit we do astrology updates all of that jazz and more is in the lowest tier but I love you guys thank you for supporting me this is just something I'm thinking about and yes something very exciting coming mid-march stay tuned stay tuned I literally oh my god I cannot wait there's so much exciting things coming for

you guys I've been working very hard but yeah if you guys are like anti-ads you don't want to hear them you don't want mid-rolls let me know below genuinely this is me reaching out to hear how you feel about things because i care about you guys and i care about you know um good content period i'm not here for a money grab i'm here for a good time anyways i love you all so much i hope you guys all have the best valentine's day weekend i hope you stay sane i hope you stay sexy if you want more from me come join the patreon we have such a fun time there patreon.com slash smokes that shawty and if you don't know where to submit your questions there's a bunch of new people listening to this podcast which hello hi happy to have you but a few of you guys are like where do

i submit my questions on my instagram hannah marlene every sunday i upload a questionnaire that is only open for 24 hours and i post it a day before filming this so these questions are raw they are real they are in tune with the universe and what the girlies have going on but on my instagram is where you can submit your question you can dm me your call-in a voice note i'm hoping to do more call-ins soon i feel like i fell off the call-in wagon and i'm so sorry about that but this podcast genuinely genuinely brings so much love and joy into my life and i am so thankful for every single one of you guys for showing up for me every week showing up for yourself for spreading the love for just like this community is such a loving and joyful community and i really

appreciate that about you guys um that we can just give and receive that to each other i am so thankful for you guys and just the amazingness that we have created together so with that being said show yourself some love say i love you to somebody this week show up for somebody that needs it this week that's what valentine's day is all about there's love everywhere to be found open your eyes look for it seek it spread it but with that being said i will see you all next week Two in five Canadians will hear the words, you have cancer. That's why every step and dollar raised matters. On September 19th, join thousands in Toronto for the Princess Margaret Cancer Foundation Walk.

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