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Episode Date: April 1, 2023

Mac is back! 0:00 Intro 1:13 Flirting with her brother's BF? https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/10ftuqp/aita_for_complimenting_my_brothers_boyfriend/ 6:20 Am I gay enough? https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/105tuej/im_not_gay_enough_for_the_gays/ 10:05 "Unique" wedding outfit https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ser504/aita_for_not_letting_my_girlfriend_wear_her/ 17:00 Dad hires an escort for his son https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/117dwvj/oop_tells_his_dad_he_is_a_virgin_his_dad_hires_an/ 28:33 Flower girl at gay wedding drama https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/118pabb/aita_for_not_having_my_niece_be_the_flower_girl/ 38:06 Pretending my brother-in-law isn't gay https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/10712am/im_so_tired_of_pretending_my_bil_isnt_gay/ 42:49 Regret paying for husband's transition surgery https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/10n0q5k/i_regret_giving_my_trans_husband_the_money_for/ 49:16 Possibly asexual, getting married https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheDevil/comments/119jy4l/comment/'/ 53:09 Telling her daughter she isn't gay https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/10t8gj6/aita_for_telling_my_daughter_she_wasnt_gay/ 59:29 Spare room leads to awakening https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wmmphs/oop_wonders_if_theyre_the_ah_for_starting_a_house/ 1:07:02 In love with his best friend https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/wliolf/i_thought_i_was_straight_but_i_think_ive_m17_have/ WEAR OUR JOKES: https://smosh.com WHO YOU HEAR Shayne Topp // https://www.instagram.com/shaynetopp/ Tommy Bowe // https://www.instagram.com/tomeybones/ Mac Kahey // https://www.instagram.com/macdoesit/ WHO YOU DON’T HEAR (usually) Director: Kiana Parker Editor: Rock Coleman Director Of Programming, Smosh Pit: Kiana Parker Pit - AP: Kimmy Jimenez AD: Jacqi Jones Art Director: Cassie Vance Art - Asst Dir.: Erin Kuschner Art Coord.: Alex Aguilar Art PA: Adam Mustafa Audio Mixer: Greg Jones Camera Operator: Vida Robbins Content Manager: Lizzy Jones Dir. Audience Dev & Distro: Rachel Evans DIT/AE: Matt Duran Dir. Of Photography: Brennan Iketani Exec Coord: Erin Dougal GFX: Brittany Hobbs Post Manager: Luke Baker Production Coord: Heidi Ha Production Asst: Marcus Munguia Production Manager: Jacqi Jones Sr. Dir. Of Production: Zoe Moacanin Talent Coord: Selina Garcia Wardrobe Supervisor: Alicia Balderas OTHER SMOSHES: Smosh: https://smo.sh/Sub2Smosh Smosh Games: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshGames El Smosh (Spanish Dub): https://smo.sh/Sub2ElSmosh FOLLOW US: TikTok: https://smo.sh/TikTok Snapchat: http://smo.sh/OnSnapchat Instagram: https://instagram.com/smosh Facebook: https://facebook.com/smosh Twitter: https://twitter.com/smosh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Anyways, today my guests are Tommy and Mac is back again. Hello. Yeah. Thank you guys for being here. And Mac is back again. Hello. Yeah. Yeah. Thank you guys for being here. The theme for today. I didn't create this theme. This was created by our producer, director, Keonio.

It's our time to shine. It is. The theme is gay rights and gay wrongs. Solid. Let's just start going. Let's dive in baby. OK. Am I the asshole for complimenting for's boyfriend? Okay. Do you think they're the asshole or not? Do you want to just go off the bat? No, basically. No, I mean you can compliment someone. For complimenting my brother's boyfriend. Yeah. What? Yeah. Yeah. Compliment anyone? Yeah. Complement anyone. Yeah. to the tho. to to th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the th. th. th. the the th. th. th. the th. the th. th. the the the the th. th. the th. the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. tho. tho. tho. tho. tho. tho. tho. tho. tho. tho. tho. tho. tho. tho. tho. th. an asshole. Okay. I'm so excited to see how they are.

So right now we have all determined I agree with you, not the asshole. That seems like a fine thing to do. Shane, you're an ally. Don't worry about it. I agree. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, for sure.

that, what the boy says, it's great. who's 23, who is absolutely gorgeous, just a straight up beautiful man. Not only that, he's funny, kind, sweet, has boyish humor and is masculine. Like my brother and I clearly have the same taste in men. However, not only would I never date anyone my brothers in a relationship with, his boyfriend is gay, so literally zero chance anyway. That being said, I compliment him a lot and play flirt with him. Yesterday, I was just in a playful mood and really piled it on. I was giving him shoulder rubs, complimenting his facial hair. He's usually clean-shaven.

I tripped and grabbed his arm to catch myself and went, ooh, and squeezed his arm. We've all been there. Yeah. Then I brought him a soda and said, here you go, handsome. My brother was visibly pissed off. But since I'd done this sort of thing before, albeit not this much, and he'd never seen mad, so I thought it was something else. His boyfriend eventually left to pick up some food and my brother let me have it. I kept explaining that it's just a joke and he shouldn't be mad that someone else is complimenting his boyfriend.

Am I the asshole? So obviously this is his sister saying this because she goes, yeah, he wouldn't, his boyfriend wouldn't be into her. Now, what do you guys think after? After, after. No, I like me some compliments. So go ham, honestly. If she's being an asshole to her brother, she's not being an asshole to this boyfriend. Yeah, the boyfriend hasn't said anything and the brother hasn't said that the boyfriend's.. hefereen. then. then. then. then then then then th. th. he he th. th. th. th. He th. He th. He th. He th. He th. He he he he he he he he he he thi thi he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he th th th. th. He th. He th. He th. He th. He th. He thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi the the thi thi the thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi being an asshole to this boyfriend. Yeah, the boyfriend hasn't said anything and the brother hasn't said

that the boyfriend said anything, so he's not bothered. I think it all sounds funny, like I don't know. If I don't, so I don't have any siblings so I have no idea. Okay, no idea. I can tell. Is Mac the asshole? Is Mac the asshole? So I don't like understand that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that that the that that the that that th. th. th. th. the th. th. th. to to to to to to to to to the the to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the b. the the b. the the the the the the the the the the the the th. th. th. th. th. I is. I th. I th. I toooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. I is. I is. I the b. I the the the the asshole? So I don't like understand that dynamic. However, if I had, you know, like, let's say like my best friend on the planet that like lived with me or something, and I had a boyfriend over and she's like, laying it on that ham, that heavy, I would be like, do you want to fuck my boyfriend? I'm like, it's just, it's a little too, I think it feels like too many times, too far.

It's just a lot. It's a lot. The trip and grabbed his arm to catch myself and going, ooh, and squeezing his arm. It also just kind of, I don't know, I guess it reads to me kind of like an aunt, what an ant might playfully do to people. Like, I don't know, it doesn't come across like actually trying to do anything. It comes across to me as a joke. Obviously, there's no goal.

She admits like this guy is not gonna ever be into her. So it is all just for fun. Okay, let me put this out there. If a gay, okay, so let's swap couple, it's a girlfriend and her boyfriend, and I'm the gay brother, and I'm play flirting with that boyfriend. We're getting into gross territory. We're getting into like, you're not going to fuck my boyfriend kind of thing. You know what I mean?

But she seems more like, oh dear. You know? That's how I'm reading it. And honestly, even if you swap genders and stuff, I still, if it's in that kind of way, I think it's funny. Anyways, the comments are very much thinking that she's an asshole. People are saying, you're the asshole, you're probably making the guy feel really uncomfortable with your overly excessive touching and sexual advances. If it's a joke, what's the punchline? Someone said, as a straight man, I don't get to go to gay clubs and get all handsy with

the women just because they're gay. Huh? What? Like, yeah, a straight man wouldn't go to a gay club with women who are gay and be all hand-ycluke, oh, but I'm not actually, I don't know, it's still... Got it. OOP, those would be strangers, not someone who is hopefully your future brother-in-law and is already good friends with you. That has 1,000 down votes. Yeah, the chat, the comment section was very much against this woman.

Yeah, my interpretation is not the asshole. Yeah, but if there's boundaries, there's boundaries, I guess. Yeah, it's, you know, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, there, there, there, there, the the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, th, th, th, the, the, the, tho, tho, tho, thoompically, thoompically, thoomperpoompern, thoom, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, th. th. th. th. th, th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, that's, that's, that's, that's, the, the, that's, the, tho, the, tho, the, the, the, the, the asshole, but if there's boundaries, there's boundaries, I guess. Yeah, this is too, like, gray area. Yeah, I, you know, there's a point written down here of like, you know, the lack of boundaries some straight people have when interacting with a gay person. I was gonna say that I was gonna, that is a problem sometimes. Sometimes, some, some, some cis women would be like,, gay people, my playthings. And if it's going into that territory, then I can see where the nights coming from. The amount of people that I stopped being friends with when they said the words like, I love my gaze.

Then I was like, you're done. You know what, actually though? My interpretation is, as a brother and sister too, is like, if your brother says, hey, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. partner, then she should respect that. Yeah, you answer to that. Yeah, and hopefully she does. If she continues after he gets madder, then she's absolutely an asshole. She can learn from this. All right. And that's the tea. All right.

Moving on. Uh, thi. Here's our next story. This comes from R.ru off my chest. I'm not gay enough for the gays. Oh. My husband... Did I write this?

My husband and I are at a friend's house to watch RuPaul's drag race. Oh, here we go. Everyone else is talking about some drag queen. I have no idea what's going on. I just smile and say, work every few minutes. That's how you do it, though. Work, that's it. I've felt this way for decades. I've accepted my fate.

I hope I've never found out. All this just to fuck men. Edit. For the record, I like drag race. I enjoy it, but I can't hang on the higher level discourse. Definitely don't need new friends. Definitely not ones who are into sports, lull. I was also hitting the Chardonnay pretty hard,

and it was a conversation in two languages. Thank you all for the love and support. Uh, conversation in two languages. We got some comments here. The gay high council has decided that you are not thaaa tha tha tha tha thiii, thii. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. I, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, the thi, thi, thi, the tho, tho, that, thi, tho, tho, tho, tho, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, definitely, definitely, definitely, thi, definitely, definitely, thi, definitely, definitely, th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. I, th. I, th. I, th. I, th. I, th. I, tho, thi, the thi, the thi. I, thi. I, thi. that. I, that. tho. tho. that. tho. t tog. tog. tho. tog. tho. tho. thothat you are not gay enough to join this council. For real though, you either like Dick or you don't, it's not that hard. I've received judgment from other queer people, particularly gay guys for some reason, because

I'm a lesbian but I look straight. I'm quite feminine and always have been, and for some reason that means I don't deserve to be attracted to women or something. Like I've been openly laughed at and humiliated for it. I think it's ironic of this community for disrespecting people who don't seem to fit into it. It's okay not to be into the stereotypical stuff and just be gay. Well there's plenty of us who feel the same. Someone having sex with a woman. 0 five, man having sex with a man. Six, RuPaul's drag race. Ten.

Ten. Yeah, any, any thoughts on that one? This is always the conversation online. Like, oh, I don't watch drag race, gay. That's not the new Kinsey scale. I don't know what to say about it. I mean, it's, I'm sorry you feel that way, dude. Yeah, well yeah, you said you relate.

I mean, but I love drag race and I know all the drag queens. It's like if that's the singular thing that like makes me more gay or less gay, Cool. Have you ever been accused of not being gay enough? Have you ever, I don't know. No, however, there's some gay culture stuff that I don't like relate to. And so in that way, but that kind of is just more like a insecurity vibe because it's like no one is going, you're not gay enough. Yeah. I'm just like, am I, do I fit in in this culture? But it's like, I suck dick and cock. It's like, I fit in just fine. Sure, this, nobody at this, that this event is, is like judging him.

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Watch, what else is out there? Ted Lassow. Yeah, drink some milk. And my favorite line is when he said the Chardonnay made them speak two different languages. As soon as that Shardinay hit with Oka girl, per, sis, yeah, mama, honey, oh, death drop. I just like the idea of him sitting there and just after every now then just like, work. Work. Work. Just so serious, like, work. Work. Work. That feels like if I was in his situation sitting there, I'd be like, yeah, work.

Yes, she did in fact slay. Wow. Like, right. Yeah. Am I the asshole for not letting my girlfriend wear her unique dress to a wedding? Okay. Wedding stuff is always great. Throw away account because she uses Reddit.

This is a 25-year-old man. My girlfriend, who's 30, Nat, has a very particular sense of style. Picture Harper Finkel from Wizards of Waverly Place. You will get the idea. Don't get me wrong, I never had a problem with that. In fact, I love the way she dresses because she loves to do so, and I am happy if she is happy. The thing is, sometimes she likes to incorporate memes into her clothes. No problem, it's cute. But now she wants to wear a dress inspired by the meme, gay rat wedding. To my friend's wedding. He and his fiance are gay.

I told her, maybe that is not really appropriate? The dress... The dres... An ally. I think I've seen this meme. Could you describe this meme as best as possible? It's Arthur, right? Yeah.

Two rats on Arthur got married. Two gay rats got married. In the last season, the two gay rats, the the teacher and the other. And it like, there was like, there was a bunch of Facebook post from like mothers and like, like, this gay rat wedding. And so like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, th. Like, like, th. Like, like, like, th. Like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like like conservatives about like, oh this gay rat wedding and so it became the mean, gay rat wedding, yeah. I love hearing about the, because I definitely heard a lot about that.

It's same with the Babadook stuff that happened, right? Just feel like I hear about this things. So I'm like, that's fucking hilarious. The dress in question would be full of little stuffed rats, pride flags and a big, I, and I, and I, and I, and I, and I, and I, and I, and a th, and a th, and a th, and a th, and a big, and a big, and a big, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, and a big, I, and a big, I support gay rats on the front. Whoa, we really went. What the hat? Wow. For the people. Oh, for the people.

Peeble. My friend is not a big fan of the way my girlfriend dresses, and I think this dress may cause a certain uproar in the wedding. Now, Nat is upset with me and claiming that I am throwing water in her flame of creativity. The wedding is next month so she has plenty of time to think about another thing to wear. Should I just let her go with the dress? Am I the asshole in this situation? She said the gays love me? That's what it is. Stop to the the rat the rat the rat the rat the rat the rat the rest the rest the rest the rest the rest the dress the dress the dress the dress the dress the dress the girl the girl the girl the girl the girl the girl the girl the girl? I the girl? I the girl the girl th. She's th. She's th. She's th. She's th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I I I I I th. I I I I I I th. I I th. I is. I th. I is. I is. I is. I th. I th.ays love me. Gay rat. Stop to rest with bright. Okay.

Here's why she's the asshole. It's not her wedding. Why are you dressed like that? I was going to say, you're the asshole if you were thinking of like, I'm going to do something crazy with my outfit to a wedding. You shouldn't be trying to give a bunch of attention at a wedding. Exactly. The point is just be like, I'm gonna look nice. I'm gonna look like, respect the way. Yeah, for them. This feels like she's trying to draw a lot of attention her way.

Oh my God. So I support gay rats. Whoooo? I mean, save it for pride, though. Yeah. She'll kill it a loony tune, like, we got, we got a month for you. So, someone said, not the asshole, that's very inappropriate for a wedding, not to mention, kind of insulting. People need to understand they're basically NPCs at a wedding, unless

they're immediately closed with the bride and groom, and even then, they're just background characters. Yep. Exactly. I do not think she is necessarily homophobic, just oblivious. The gay rat wedding is in reference to Mr. Ratburn from Arthur. I can see someone obsessed with memes thinking others would find it funny or cute and see it as being supportive, but in reality it is not. If she does it after being told how hurtful it would be, then yeah she is definitely doing it to be homophobic. There's an update. Well guys, as many of you pointed out in the comments, me getting a throwaway account didn't help. She found the post. Guess I was too specific after all. I will update soon. Yeah, I guess the problem

is probably not many other people are making a gay rat dresses. No, no, no, that was someone else who's doing a gay rat dress. There's a final update. Oh. Hello, everyone. I would like to th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. to th. thi thi thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. th. th. th. I'm th. I was th. I was th. I was th. I was th. I was th. I was th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. the. to to to thee. the. to the. the. the. toe. the. the. I was the. I was the. I was th. Hello, everyone. I would like to thank you all for your judgment, advice, and opinions on my post. It was greatly appreciated. So the conversation did not go well. No, now. She was livid with me for exposing her in this way, and although I showed her in the comments, most important, the ones from the LGBTQIA community, she refused to admit that her dress was a poor choice, but in fact, th. appreciate the gaze. That did not sit well with me. Love can move

mountains but cannot maintain a relationship with a homophobic. So now I'm going to the wedding as a single rat-free dress man. I did reach out to my friend and send him this post. He thought the situation to be hilarious, but if she did show up in the dress he would deaf kick us to to to to the to the to to the to the to the the to the this post. He thought the situation to be hilarious, but if she did show up in the dress, he would deaf kick us to the curb. I guess this is all. This is the second Reddit story you've read in front of me where they've broken up because of the story. Who?

She stood her ground. She said, the thing is, she used to be, favorite term. She did it. It's kind of not as severe. Have you ever been dating someone or even been friends with someone that you had to tell him like their sense of style or something was a little bit much or I feel like all of us people who are not bothered by how people dress. This is obviously an extreme case. Have you ever had to tell someone like if you're going to an event if they're addressing some way to be like hey you can't. You shouldn't. I I I I I I I I I I I. I I. I. I. I. I. I. I. their. their. their. their. th. their. th. th. th. their. th. their. th. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. t. t. t. t. t. t. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. teto tell someone, like if you're going to an event if they were dressing some way to be like, hey, you can't, you shouldn't. You shouldn't. No, I've never been in that spot.

It's a rough situation. I would not be good in that situation. So I wasn't good in that situation. I had to go, I was going toree and I have a friend who dresses like a cartoon person all the time and I was taking advice from him because I was just like, I don't know and he's like, this tie's great, this looks great, I'm like, yeah! And so like I presented, I was like, this is what I'm like, this what I'm like, this is what I'm like, thua...... This is what, th. This is what, th. This is what, th. I'm, th. I'm like, th. I'm like, th. I'm like, th. th. th. And I'm like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, th. And I. And I'm, th. And I'm, th. And I'm, th. And I'm, th. And I'm, th. And I'm, th. And I. And I'm, th. And I'm like, like, like, teacher. And so at first I was like, what? I just went shopping! And then I just had to be like, yeah,

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sure I just didn't know is there other situations where she could wear that dress and you'd be like, that's fine, that's funny. She could wear it on a Tuesday. Okay. Just what, like, whatever. And I'd be like, ha, that's crazy. You know, I'm fine with it. You're gonna get a little snort laugh from me. And then we'll move on for the life. Yeah. Gay rats broke up a relationship. That's a thap. G. G. G. G. G. G. G. th. Yeah. th. th. th. Yeah. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the. the. the. theeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. th. th. the. the. th. th. th. th. th. th. All right, today I fucked up, telling my dad, I have never had sex. This is a 20-year-old man. A few days ago, I decided to visit my dad at his house. It was his birthday. I showed up with wine. We got a little drunk, maybe more than a little.

When my dad was done going on and on about how much he missed my mom, since she divorced him. He changed, and I I the subject the subject the subject, I I I I the subject, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, the the the the th, I, th, and I, and I, th, and I, th, and I, and I, and I was, and I was, and I thi, and I was, and, t, and I'm, and I'm, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, th, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, is, and, and, is, and, is, is, is, and, is, is, is, and, is, is, is, is, is, and, is, is thi. thi, is thi, is thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. love life. He asked if I had a girlfriend and I said no. Then he asked if I've ever had a girlfriend because he's never seen me with a girl. I said never. My dad poured the last drop of wine in my glass and asked if I was still a virgin. I was tempted to lie, but I paused too long, so I said yes. My dad said I had no reason to feel ashamed about my virginity, but encouraged me to have as much sex as possible before I end up married to a person whose vagina comes with an impenetrable encryption. I ignored the obvious reference to my mom's you know what and called it a night.

This family is fucked. Sorry. This is a resident evil family. I asked my dad if I was allowed to sleep in the spare bedroom because I didn't want to drive home drunk. My dad said I was more than welcome. I must have been sleeping for less than an hour before I woke up to the sound of my dad knocking on the door. I don't remember what I mumbled as I opened my eyes, but the moment my dad heard my voice, he entered my room with another person. It was a girl. My dad introduced her by name, but did the air quotes thing with his fingers to imply that it was a fake name.

I could tell my dad was still drunk. Exhibit A. He continued making the air quote gesture even when it was no longer necessary. Not gonna lie I was still drunk too, but not drunk enough to disregard the weird fucking shit that was happening. Without giving me proper time to react, my dad quickly said the girl knew exactly what to do before closing the door on his way out. The girl did not know what to do. She did nothing other than awkwardly waiting for me to say something. I eventually asked her what was going on and she said my dad hired her to sleep with me. I died of embarrassment, especially when the girl asked me to explain if I was on the zero experience or the some experience end of the Virgin Spectrum, without thinking, I said

I was gay. It was the first time I actually said it out loud. The girl sat down on the bed and asked if I was a top or a bottom. I shrugged and said said I didn't know yet. My face must have been so red at that moment. The girl said if I was willing to go shower, then she would basically be willing to motorboat my butt. Okay. I'm using that terminology next time. Oh!

Oh! Okay. Okay. I'm using that terminology next time. Motorboat my butt. To be honest, I considered it. I'm human. I'm horny. However, the situation was way too weird for me to be completely comfortable doing something

that sexual with someone. I didn't know at all. I said thank you but no thank you to the girl and apologize for my dad putting both of us in an awkward position. She said she understood and for some reason thought it was necessary to mention that my dad was one of their regular customers. Oh, oh! Are we surprised? She made it clear for the record that she never had sex with my dad, but explained that some of her older coworkers at the escort service really enjoyed spending time with him.

She said, she can't wait to tell the other sex workers that she met me because apparently my dad loves to talk about his son with the people he pays to fuck. I was not psychologically prepared for the unexpected discussion regarding my dad's sex life. The girl had a severe case of motor mouth. When when when when when when when when when when when when when when when when when when when when, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I the the the th, I th, I th, I th, I th, I th, I the the the the the the the the the the the their, really really really their, really really really the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the their, really really really, really the the the the their, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the, ta, ta, ta, today, today, today, today, today, today, thea, the the the the the the the the the unexpected discussion regarding my dad's sex life. The girl had a severe case of motor mouth. When she finally stopped talking, I learned that my dad sleeps with sex workers who kind of look like my mom and that women closing their eyes with too much food in their mouth and saying, hmm, turns him on. You'd think at some point he'd have been like, you know what, we should stop. We don't need to talk anymore.

That is so specific. The girl apologized for abusing my good listening skills and asked if there was nothing she could do for me. I said she could keep my sexuality between the two of us. She said her lips were sealed until the time comes to suck cock. Uh, me. Me. Me. My dad was passed out in the living room when we approached the front door.

I went back to the bed when the girl was gone and eventually fell asleep. The following morning I confronted my dad. I said I didn't appreciate what he did and made sure he understood that he wasted his money because nothing happened. My dad was apologetic and promised never to cross that line again no matter how much alcohol was involved. Despite his apology the mood was still somewhat tense. I decided to break the tension by closing my eyes and saying, hmmm well eating breakfast! The look on my dad's face was priceless. I lost my appetite soon afterwards because I instantly regretted doing something that

might arouse my father. Oh my God. That was crazy. That was crazy. The comments here. The only thing I'm confused about it, if you are actually gay and decided to just admit it, or if you lied about it because of how awkward the situation was. No offense intended in mind, you're just curious. I was being honest about my sexuality. I never planned to

share that information with the sex worker, but I panicked and acted without really thinking. Strange enough, when she offered to play with my butt, which is kind of confusing to the opposite sex. I've never been sexually attracted to the opposite sex. If I learned anything from this experience, it's that I should probably stop focusing on labels. And start playing with his butt. Yeah, you know? Let someone motorboat your butt. This kid is a serious comedian. The delivery is just spot on.

I'm giggling like an idiot 15 minutes later. Someone else said, don't know if you're a top or bottom. Let's find out. It's rare to find a professional who still has enthusiasm for the craft. Ha ha. Okay, quick question. Do you, do you guys feel comfortable or have you ever talked about your love life with your parents? Not really? No. Yeah, God no. I never would.

I mean, like, not, there's something wrong with that guy this is the dad is like not okay Yeah, I mean like I don't talk about like fucking but I talk about you know my love life You know we're like you know how's Kevin I'm like yeah yeah yeah the relationship but I guess the sex life stuff no No I think some people do and I can't fathom it yeah this is crazy the g forces in this story was oh my god the tho the the th. the the th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the. th. th. th. th. th. the th. th. th. th. the. th. th. th. the th. th. the th. th. th. th. th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the. th. th. the. th. th. th. th. the. the. th. th. th. th. I th. I th. I 't fathom it. Yeah. This is crazy. The G-Forces in this story was... Oh my god, we have a huge update here. Oh God. Oh, uh. Update, today I fucked up expecting a sex worker, to keep what happened between us private.

The inevitable happened. The inevitable happened. The sex worker, my dad hired to terminate my virginity in the dead of night did not keep her mouth shut I know I shouldn't I should have seen it coming When I shared my original post I was convinced my dad didn't know I was gay I never said anything to anyone about my sexuality other than to the sex worker who teamed up with my father to to unexpectedly put me in a vulnerable position my dad and I have been avoiding each other since that night not gonna lie. I was okay. I was to to to to to to to to th. I was th. I was th. th. the th. the the the the the th. the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th. te tea. tea. tea. tea. tea. tea. tea. the tea. the the the the the the the the the the and I have been avoiding each other since that night. Not gonna lie, I was okay with that. We needed space. The words divorced, dad, virgin son, and sex worker should never be in the same sentence.

Thank you. This morning, my dad showed up at my apartment, unusual but not surprising. He was courteous enough to call before the assumed he was still feeling bad about ambushing me with a sex worker, and wanted to make sure that our relationship was intact. Little did I know that my dad's primary objective was to establish if his 20-year-old son was sexually attracted to other people's 20-year-old sons.

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or he's paying for it. It was a joke. An uncomfortable joke based on my dad's disturbed expression. My dad said he could explain the sex workers and answer all my questions if I was prepared to listen. I said, I said it was none of my business and he didn't owe me an explanation, but I did suggest that he at least considered therapy. My dad said he was proud th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, the, the, thi thi thi, thi, thi, thi, or thi, or thi, or thi, or thi, or thi, or thi, or said, or said, or said, or said, or thi, or to to to to to to to to tho, or thu, or thu, or the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th, or, or, or th, or th, th, or th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, thi, thi, thi, thi, thr-s, thr-s, thr-s, thr-s, thrug, thr-s, toge, togu. togu. togui, thr-s, thr-a, thr-a suggest that he at least considered therapy. My dad said he was proud of the person I've become and promised to think about my suggestion. As wholesome as that moment was, the gay elephant was still in the room. So I awkwardly asked my dad if he recently communicated with the sex worker he hired to sleep with me. My dad said no because he wanted to respect my privacy and avoid crossing the line again. Based on all the random references to my roommate's attractiveness, I was convinced my

dad heard I was gay from one of the other sex workers, who heard it from the sex worker with the motor mouth. We danced around the topic of my sexuality for a little longer because it was still a big moment despite all the weird shit that happened the last time my dad and I were under the same roof. I eventually came out and said, Dad, I'm gay. My dad stood up and showed me he was wearing socks with rainbow stripes to celebrate the news. I didn't even notice his socks until he lifted the leg opening of his pants. He said it was a gift from the sex workers. He had another pair of rainbow socks in his pocket, which he gave to me when we were done hugging. I suppose the sex workers. He had another pair of rainbow socks in his pocket, which he gave to me when

we were done hugging. I suppose the outcome could have been worse. I doubt there will be another update, so thank you for writing this wave with me. I relate to this because I was dating my boyfriend before he came out of the closet and when he came out of the closet his the mom gives a best rainbow socks. So. Oh really? It's just it's the bridge of all the the the the the the b. It's the b. It's the b. It's the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th. It's th. It's rainbow. It's rainbow. It's rainbow. It's th. the the best. It's the best. It's. It's. It's. I'll. I'll. I'll. I'll. I'll. I'll. I'll. I'll. I'll. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's. I's the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the te. the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th. the th. the. the. the.'s just it's the bridge of allyship you know. It all starts with the feet. It all starts with the feet. That's that's the first test when you tell your parents you're gay it's like do they have the socks? Are they gonna give me the socks? This Florida Project ass family needs to like take a breather. I'm glad it ended well for them. Is this dad a good dad a good dad or a bad. the their a bad. th. their. th. th. th. th. their. th. th. th. their. th. th. th. their. th. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. th. th. their. th. th. their. their. their. their. th. their. their. their. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. It's. th. It's. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. their. the. their. their. their. their. their. th. well for them. Is this dad a good dad or a bad dad? Because it really, there's levels on this. Like he was ultimately awesome at the end, but boy, there's some-

This is a dad with no boundaries. That can lead to a lot of trauma. This is a dad of extremes. Yeah. It feels like he's got good intentions. Yeah. He's just kind of like, oh, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, tho, tho, tho, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's thi. It's thi. but he doesn't know what he's doing. He's just kind of like, oh yeah, I'm fucked yet, here you go! It's like, it's like, wake up, you know?

I don't know. Yeah, comment said, weirdly wholesome and yet so, so awkward. I mean, there are worse reactions to people coming out. It's nice that the dad accepted him, although the op the op, the OP would have preferred a less scarring way to come out. Someone said, well, the dead is five kinds of fucked up, but at least he's an ally, I guess. That, my gosh, that could be a movie. Yeah. That was a lot.

It was a lot. It was a lot going on. That really could, boy. Me and my escort. I feel like the assholes so far. We haven't gotten like the the the the the the the assholes so far, we haven't gotten like extremely awful assholes. Am I right for saying that? I feel like these are just very oblivious people. Yeah, it's people not reading the room, not, you know, answering to societal norms. Stuff like that. Am I the asshole for not having my niece be the flower girl at a wedding, okay? First sentence

is I am by. Hence the username. The username is token by friend. So, I am a woman. The person I am engaged to is also a woman. This is relevant because my sister, Amanda, hates both things. She and her husband, John, are both homophobic. So during the process of planning our wedding party for our wedding next May, the idea of having my niece be the flower girl was never even brought up. Instead, we pretty quickly chose my fiance's little cousin for that role. My sister found out that her daughter isn't going to be the flower girl and is absolutely livid about it. She insisted that my fiancé, Jane, had forced me to choose her cousin over my niece. That my niece was the obvious choice and I should change it.

You may say, why not just have two flower girls? Well, I suggested that as a compromise to Amanda, but she hates that idea, too. The main issue I have with making my niece the flower girl is that I can't be sure she will even be there. To be honest, I didn't even know until recently if they would even come to the wedding at all. Still not sure, honestly, their tolerance levels fluctuate on who they've been around. And even if they did, I would have assumed they wouldn't want their daughter a part of it. Who knows if everything will be fine leading up to the wedding and then the day of Amanda and John decided to be homophobic. I know I sure don't.

Somehow, my sister has gotten my parents on her side, and my mom says I'm being bitter because I wasn't invited to my sister's wedding. I'm pretty sure that's not it, though I was hurt at the time to not be invited. Part of me still is, but I don't think I would try to punish my niece over it, which seems to be what my mom is trying to imply. I just, I don't understand like not inviting someone to your wedding, but then feeling like you have jurisdiction over their to.. That's crazy. The OPE responded to some comments. Was your mom against two flower girls?

Oh no, sorry, my mom thought the two flower girls option was fine, but she adores my niece, which is fair. I do too, so I know that her bias has at least some part to do with her siding with my sis. And to be fair, my mom also was upset about the, their, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, them, thi, my, my, tho, tho, thi, thi, my mom, thi, thi, my mom, my mom, my mom, tho, tho, tho, tho, is, is upset, tho, tho, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is. toe, is. too, is. toe, is. toe, is upset. toe, is upset. toe, is upset. toe, is a. toe, is a. know, I didn't come out until I was 20 and she was my best friend up to that point. Like I said, their tolerance fluctuates. Some days are better. It's been almost 10 years and I just got used to it, I guess. It helps that no one else in my family is the way someday. Well, respect is a two-way street. Yeah. And if I'm not

invited into your wedding, then no, I'm not gonna, you can't control my wedding at all. No, that seems completely fair. That's, I don't know, I can't fathom this. Obviously I have no personal, like, I don't know, it's also tough for me. It must be so hard to like, to like, to thrurown, to be to be to be to be to be to be to be a a a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to be a to-a'erui. to bea'er. to bea'er. to bea'er. to bea'er. to-a'er. to-a'er. to-a'er. to-a'er. to-a'er. to-a'er. I, to-a'er. I, to-a'er. I I, to-a'er. I to-a'eru. I to-a'eruiiii. to-a'erui. to-s. to-s. to-s'-s'-s'-s'-s'-s'-s'-s'-s'-s'-s'-s'-s'erunco'er. to-s'er. to-s'er. to-a'er. to like, your best friend, your sister, to suddenly just like flip on you. It must be rough. I mean, I don't know, what do you think about her continuing to like maintain a friendship and relationship with her sister, despite her sister clearly being such an asshole. I mean, it's tough when it's family, because it's like, you know, that's the hardest thing to like let go of or separate yourself from. However, there's, I mean, I'm lucky that I have a very

small family, they're all accepting so this didn't happen. But many people who have siblings, parents, whatever, that are, you know, like they reject people, like they're homophobic or whatever. I have friends who got married and the parents were like, thrown, their, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, they, their, their, their, they they they they they they they they they they th th thi, I, I, thi, thi, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I their, I they're, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I I I, I, I, I I, I, I, I, I, I, I I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I their, I thr., I thr., thr., thr. thr. thr. thr. th th th th th thr. th th th thr. thr. thr. thr. thr. I'm, I'm, I'm well I don't accept that you are having like a lesbian wedding and they were like, great, well then you're not coming to the wedding. And like, and they were like, oh, and then by the time the wedding happened, they were like, you know, like, them being forced out of the narrative

made them like reconsider why they didn just like, you know, we're sorry that we were homophobic. Like, we want to be at your wedding or my daughter. You know what I mean? So it's like, that path happens often where it's like, you have to be like, well, fuck you then. And then they go, man, maybe it's not as deep. Yeah, it is sad that it requires so many people to like, oh, this is fucked up, what I'm doing. Like, you know, damn. Well, there's an update. Okay.

It's 2.5 years later. Oh my God. Oh, hello, everyone. A few years ago, I posted this here on am I the asshole about my sister making a fuss about my niece not being the flower girl at my wedding. No one has asked for it, but I wanted to share this update anyway because you guys, out a lot. So I took a few people's advice about having both my niece and my then fiancé's, now wife's cousin, being the flower girl, without letting my sister know there would be two. The day of the wedding and only my sister and niece showed up.

Brother-in-law was nowhere to be seen. My sister was a little surprised about the two flower girls, but then surprised me even more by talking about how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how how having two the the two the two the two the two the their their to their their, their, their, their, my their, my their, my their, my their, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their was a little surprised about the two flower girls, but then surprised me even more by talking about how having two was such a cute idea. My sister was super sweet all through the reception, and I felt like I had my old sister back, which was so, so, so nice. We had a chance to talk in a way that we hadn't in years, and we. Without getting too much into things, my sister left my brother a few months after our wedding and she confided in me that part of her decision came from seeing how differently my wife interacted with me and our family members when compared to her husband.

Basically, ex-brother-in-law was not a good person to my sister, an understatement, and she is so much happier now. She's like she was at the reception, like my old sister, thoe, thoe, tho, tho, tho, tho, tho, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, I, I, thi, thi, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and I thr, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, th.I.I.I's th.I's th.I's thr. thr. thr. thr. thr. thr-s, thr-s, thr-s, thr-s, thr-s, thr-a, thr-a, and, and, and, and, and, and she is so much happier now. She's like she was at the reception, like my old sister, who is full of life and caring and sweet and an absolute awesome mom, but the biggest reason why I wanted to share this update was because my sister and I have had a lot of long talks since the wedding and the whole flower girl ordeal. All of it stem from my ex-brother-in-law and his assholiness, asshole-ishness is, I think. Ashole-isms. Assholeisms. He did plan on causing a scene by not allowing my sister or my niece to come to the wedding.

Apparently, it was like a three-hour fight before my sister was able to leave for the ceremony. The biggest surprise came when we had a long talk after her divorce started. Me, my sister and my wife, and my sister kept asking a lot of questions. Most of them centered around us being women who are by or attracted to women. The next night, my sister came out as by to the both of us. Yep. Three weeks after that, without knowing our sister came out, our younger brother came out to the

family as pan. Anyway, I just wanted to thank everyone for their advice and their kind words. I have my best friend and sister back. I am so very happy, happily married to the most awesome woman in the world. And I get to go with my best friend, my awesome wife, and our super cool pan brother to pride this year. Things get better and it's okay to give people you love a chance. It's a party in the family. Damn. That got me really emotional.

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worse because he would feed into those internalized feelings and make her feel worse and worse. And part of her the the the the sure, to play into the narrative that her ex-established. It kept the piece at home behind closed doors and he got into her head so bad she probably started believing it herself at some point. Has this apologized for leaving you out of her wedding. Yes, she has. There was a lot of painful discussions and healing that I chose to leave out of the update for the sake of brevity. Maybe I scapegoat my ex-brother-in-law for things that I know my sister did participate in.

But again, without getting into too much because it is her story to tell and not mine, he got in her head and changed some wires. and control can make you do some crazy things, and that man had a way of instilling fear and manipulation and terrible control over her. I only wish that she hadn't had to live like that for as long as she did. And thank you, I'm so very happy to have her back. Whoo? This person is mentally healthy as fuck.

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That guy's a monster. Yeah. Okay, next story. Archrew off my chest. I'm so tired of pretending my brother-in-law isn't gay. I have no problem with gay people. If he came out, absolutely nothing would change between us or his family. He lives with his boyfriend and they are openly trying to adopt a baby together. They share a damn bed in a two-bedroom house. They still tell everyone that they are just friends and pretend to be looking for girlfriends while

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re-entered his life and begun rekindling their relationship with him. We are financially stable, we have paid off our house, a car each, and no kids, so all our income is either spent on living comfortably or saved up. He has been on tea for years and had his top surgery three years ago. In 2021, my mother passed after a long battle with lung cancer. I inherited a large sum of money from her as she had no siblings, was divorced and only had two children. It was easily enough money for my husband's bottom surgery, and I was more than happy to give him the money. He had his surgery two months ago.

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Like I could almost see this person going out and having the full game in experience for a few years and then being able to be like, I could now do this because I'm now, now it's like a restart. Some other comments are he could have had the full game in experience with you, his loss and yours, I'm so sorry, you did this for your future together.

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I'm curious if there's conversations about the financial aspect. Like, that's the only thing that I'm going, like, hey, like, you know, but people have different opinions on it. Next post. This comes from our advice, but then was reposted on R. Am I the Devil? So... Oh, okay. That's a leap. That's a leaf I've never seen before. Possibly as sexual, getting married. I had some sex as a teenager, but never enjoyed it. Really, I hated it from the first time, but I kept trying it since I thought I was just with the wrong person or not good at it. th at it. th at it. th at it. th at it. the the th. the th. th. I the the the th. I th. I th. I, th. I, th. I, th. I, th. I, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, th. th. th. I'm, th. I'm, th. Oh, th. Oh, th. Oh, th. Oh, the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th. I, th. I, thi. I, thi. I, thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. theeee. theeeeeeeeeeeeeat throoooooooooooooooooo. I'm, the. the. the. I kept trying it since I thought I was just with the wrong person or not good at it. Despite my lack of interest in sex, I always have wanted a wife and a family.

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which had a snowballing effect until I started dating only girls who didn't want to have sex while dating. I think this this person needs to go to therapy. Didn't finish it and cry it afterwards? Yeah. That you know, that's that's therapy. Yeah. They need to go to a sex therapist and talk this out and figure out. And find out if they are asexual or if they just just just just just just just just just just just just just just just just just just just just just they just just just just just just just they just just just just just just just just just justthat they're not going to come again. Nothing wrong with not coming. Yeah, it's okay to become shy. We all are sometimes.

Sometimes it doesn't happen. Too tired, too early in the morning. Sometimes it just be like a drip and you're like, oh no. You're like, honestly, didn't have enough water. Doesn't happen sometimes. There's a drought. You shouldn't marry someone. had these full honest conversations with. I think like, you know, people decided to, I'm curious because I'm obviously not religious, but like people who are waiting till after marriage,

I think they should still have in-depth talks about sex and what they think they would want to tell it and stuff. Like, you know, if you're not having sex, you should still talk about it. It can't be a mystery until it happens. Exactly. Like your ideas about it, your boundaries, how you'd want to go into it. The solution to this is the solution to like 99% of every problem, which is just, let's talk about it. Talk about it. Talk about it.

Except for the dad who talk to anybody else, please. Am I the asshole for telling my daughter she wasn't gay? Okay. Me, for everybody. You're not gay. I am. I'm the only gay here. Nobody else! Nobody else! Nobody else!

I'm a lesbian and I've been with my wife for 20 years. We have three children together. Age is 18, her name is Bree, 16 male and 12 male. Bree is in college and has recently started dating this girl, Nala. They've been together for about two months. Nala is a nice girl. I met her once, but Brie has never had any interest in women. Her whole childhood was her obsessing over Justin Bieber or one direction.

Her whole room was filled with posters of them. She knew she could be comfortable coming out if she was. She's made comments to her brother how it feels weird kissing her, and she doesn't know how their moms do it. My wife and I both agreed that this was just college experimenting. I know this is a new world, but I also know my daughter. A few days ago we were on the phone and Bree told me Nala was telling her she should quit her extracurricular and focus on her major. I reminded her that without soccer she has no scholarship and how she expected to pay for that. Well of course Nala has the idea on how to handle it. We got

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It doesn't matter how open you are at home. It doesn't matter if your parents were homophobic assholes who threw you out, and you made sure this kid could feel love a a this kid doesn't matter if she is experimenting, it is her journey. Imagine if you were experimenting and claiming a label that felt safe. And your mom said to you, but you aren't really straight. Also, she may in fact be gay. She may not. She's 18. She may just be starting to sort out romantic and sexual attraction. And while we're at it, Justin Bieber looks like half the lesbians I banged in college. So his picture th th th nothing. Just having like pictures of Justin Bieber in one direction, I feel like that's more of like a cultural oppression than anything. Right.

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If you don't love yourself, how the hell are you going to love somebody else? Okay. So I've heard legend of this story. I'm very excited about it. Okay. This is a best of Reader updates. Am I the asshole for starting a house project without discussing it with my wife?

My wife, Amy, who's 27, and I, 27, my wife, twenty seven and I, twenty seven, have a spare room in our home. We've gone back and forth since we moved in two plus years ago about what we wanted to do with it, but we never took the initiative to actually implement any of these plans..................... the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, th. the, th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. to, to, to, to, to, th. th. th. th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, th. th. th. th. the, the, the, the. the. the. the. the. the the. the. the. the. the. th. the. the. the. th. th we wanted to do with it, but we never took the initiative to actually implement any of these plans. We already have a sufficient number of guest rooms and an office so the room just sits there, unutilized. I'm not that worried about it, but my wife brings it up now and then. These mentions are just of the unused room itself, not anything concrete she actually wants to use it for. I made a new friend, Ben. These rich people problems right now. We have too many rooms.

I made a new friend, Ben, a 30-year-old male. About eight months ago, and it was very much one of those, we connected from the first time we spoke to each other's situations. I've actually never had that many close male friends, so this connection is especially important to me. The conversation flowed so easily. We had loads in common. I didn't think much... I didn't think such a huge amount of genuine love and respect for a person

could be developed in less than a year. But it's becoming Brokeback Mountain. But it's been very cool to experience that and get to know him. One of the things we bonded over was a similar love for art and music. Ben is way, way, more talented than I am when it comes to painting, but it's something we both enjoy. His birthday is coming up soon, and I thought, on top of what else I was getting him, I could turn the spare room into something similar to an art studio for both of us to use. I already ordered a few things for it and was getting ready to jump into painting the walls when my wife came in and demanded to know what I was the explained that I was finally fixing up the spare room. She said it was unacceptable.

I had done this without confirming with her that it was okay, but I didn't think I would need to since it's been two years and the room has basically never been toucest. Initial thoughts, we're going to keep going. There's an update. Yeah, you should probably converse with the person you're living with with the room that they see every day too So he met he met a friend Ben and within a year he's like I'm gonna turn a room in my house Into an art studio for this man for Ben that's so rich I wish I had a friend like that. It's pretty awesome. This is also giving Amanda and I's a character couple old couple because it was all about turning the room into a dance studio Because my character was secretly gay I I'm???? th th th th th th and th and th and th th and th th th th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in thi thi thin thin thin thin thin thin thin thin thin' thin thin' thin' thin' thin' thin thin thin th in a thin thin thin thin thin thin thin' thin' thin' th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in th in a th in a th in a th in a th in a th in a th in a thin th in a thin thin thin the thin the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the their the the the the thi thi was all about turning the room into a dance studio because my character was secretly gay. I'm like I'm getting vibes from this that that is that. He's probably not gay though, he's probably just

like obsessed with this first male friendship. That's that's possible. He's desperate to keep it alive. Okay, first off I'd like to thank everyone who was compassionate towards me in the comments. Ben and I th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th and I th and I th and I the the the the the the the the the the the. the, the, I the, I the, I'm thi, I the' the-a' the-a' the-a' thi, I was thi, I was thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I was the, I was the, I was the, I was the, I was the, I'm the, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm thi, I'm the, I'm theean, thean, thr-a'n'n'n'ean, thean, thean, thean, thiiiii. thean, thed on Tuesday night about everything. It was overwhelming to say the least. He was gentle and sweet, as always, and I allowed me, and allowed me the time and space to say everything I needed to. That night was one of the most beautiful of my life. Acceptance, love and trust are truly so, so powerful.

Life changing. Amy and I, and I. And he's married already, by the way. He's married to Amy. They're married for Amy. They live in a house together. Exactly. Amy and I had a conversation about the spare room last night. I'd been putting it off since my post a few days ago and was hoping to wait until the weekend to talk about it all, but she insisted.

I did, as a lot of comments suggested and used the renovation as a lead in to talk about other things going on. I told her that her reaction to it brought up a lot of confusing emotions for me that I spent the last few days working through and things continued from there. I had told with the idea of couples therapy and it was something she suggested, but I don't think it's a viable option. I love her, but I've come to realize that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never never never that I was never never never never that I was never never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never never never never never that I was never never never never never that I was never never never that I was never never never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never that I was never once thought. Stop. And after getting to really and truly experience that, it wouldn't be fair to either of us if we tried to force something that I'm not capable of giving her. I'll be splitting my time, staying in one of our guest rooms, slash with Ben in his apartment for the time being while we separate and work things out moving forward.

Obviously that means the room renovations have been paused until further noticed. I'm really, really excited for the future. Oh, he's so excited. There's a comment here. It's great you have found someone you truly love, but really, dude, have some compassion for Amy. Do you realize you just threw her, through her whole life, upside down by telling her the person she is probably in love with, never actually loved her and never could, and now you all all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, all, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, tho, tho, tho, tho, thus, the tho, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the thi, thi, thi, thr, thr-a, thr-a, thr-a, throooooooooooooooooooooooooo, and, th thoooo, thoo, and probably in love with, never actually loved her and never could, and now you all also suddenly move in with the person you truly love into the home she probably envisioned as a place you too would raise a family.

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through this transitional period. Yeah, that's what I figured. Someone else said, if only you had this conversation before emotionally cheating on her, but at least you took people's advice and not drag it any longer. Someone commented, Ben, he replied, I don't know if I'm fully prepared to confront this yet. While I, while I subconsciously knew my feelings for Ben were a lot different and more intense

than anything I had ever felt before, it was hard to even admit that to myself a little while ago. That's why all of the sexuality questions on the last post felt off to me. It was forcing me to be vulnerable. They also made me angry in a way because literal strangers were pointing out things about me from a simple post few comments that I struggled to see about myself. In an attempt to answer your question, if this isn't what in love feels like, I'm scared to experience the real thing with how all consuming this level of fulfillment already is. Next comment, is he in love with you?

You would need to ask him that one. The level of care and overwhelming support I've received all throughout our friendship, but especially since we had our conversation certainly makes me feel loved. I mean, I think this guy is fully in love. Two things are going to happen. Yeah? Either Ben is going to be like, hey, I'm also in love with you,

and then it's going to be this great little, like, oh, we're gay in our 40s or whatever. Like, that's gonna be cute. Or Ben's gonna be like, what? No. And then this guy is going to be like, devastated? Devastated because like now it's lost, but like this needed to happen. He needs to start on this like journey. Because it's like, Ben was just a way to break free of something that wasn't working. Yeah. Break his egg open. Ah.

Oscar. Oscar. Oscar. Oscar. Um, yeah, I mean, it feels pretty clear from the way this is all worded. He loves me. I think, and I think Ben loves him. Like, I would be shocked if it like, in reality, Ben's just kind of like, yeah,

that's awesome man. Wow you're giving so much attention. Yeah bro I mean I'm here for you whenever you need man. Yeah you want a beer? Oh my gosh. He cares about me? He cares about me. It's like alcohol. Oh I don't love this. If that's what's happening then Amy's like, fuck you like all the time and it's just like, oh I don't. You can just tell by his lack of detail about Amy. to. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that. that's. that's. that's. that's. that's. that's like. that's like. that's like. that's like. that's like. that's like. that's like. that's like, that's like, that's like, that's like, that's like, to. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. the. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh, that. Oh, that. Oh, that. Oh, that. Oh, that's. Oh, that's. Oh, that's. that. that. Oh, that. is just kind of like... He's out. He's done with Amy. Michelle Williams. Michelle Williams. Oh, see, I was picturing Anne Hathaway. How dare you? Sorry.

Sorry. Fuck you. FU. This is from R. True off my chest. I thought I was straight, but I think I have fallen in love with my best friend who's also 17. Oh, well. There's not much more to explain than the title says. Every night before I go to bed, he sends me a good night,

I love you message. I've never had the chance to tell him how much it means to me out of risk of sounding cringe or some to. I feel such an attraction to him, but he's straight, very much like I thought I was. I don't know what I am now. I've never had a successful healthy relationship with women. I've never felt the same attraction to them as I do him. It kind of hurts me knowing. theat thi that chance with him. I'd get extremely bullied and called slurs for liking a man. I don't know what to do. There's some comments here. I think you should take a little bit more time to examine your feelings thoroughly, so that way you know for sure. Sexuality is a spectrum, and

the only person who could figure out your feelings is you. With that being said, if you feel like you want him them know because your attraction and your feelings are true, then I say tell him. However, if you think it's too much of a gamble and are worried about how others will perceive you and your safety, obviously, then I say put a pin in it. To see how your relationship continues to progress, and then when you feel safe and ready, go for it. The O.P said, definitely agree, my biggest fear at the moment is rushing things. Have you guys ever had feelings for a friend? I mean, especially like, this is 17 year olds. I mean, at that age, you know, things are always, I feel like complicated and confusing.

Have you had a crush on a friend? Torn. You threw it back at me. No, actually. I don't know. How dare you? I know. There are. It feels unrare, not rare, very common, for gay people in their younger years to develop crushes on their straight friends. It just kind of like cap it, you know, you're close with a guy, your brain is just like, you know, chemicals and sexuality. You're just like, you trust that person. Right and so like of course you probably might start developing feelings. I've I didn't have that I'm very happy because I don't know I was I think that had been a trope enough that I was like don't follow

love with your straight friends they're your straight friends like that it gets messy but you know if everyone's 17, then it's like, I don't know, maybe the straight friend is not just straight. They just run the risk of like losing this friendship if they bring it up, but they might need to do that because otherwise it might be torturous for them. Yeah, maybe your friends are gross. Maybe your friends are gross. Yeah, I got yucky straight friends.

They're all gross. I've fallen in love with the straight once or twice in high school. With the straight. Once in a straight. I love the straits. Yeah, with the straits. We love the straits. Me and my straits.

Yeah, I fall in love with, yeah, a few of my straight friends in the past. And yeah, it gets pretty messy. It's like an unspoken attraction you have with someone that you know might not be attracted to you and suddenly all the small things that they just do like throw away or something or say to you, you're like, how would they say this to me? The love of my life, I'm like, I, a few little like hints here and there, ask them a few things, you know, if they broke up with their government like, oh, what happened? Why did you break up? Oh, You never straight up were like, I have a crush on you. No, I never was. Because it was that, you know, that fear of being like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, their, their, their, their, their, they. they. they. they. they. they. they're, they're, they're, to the point of like this isn't going to happen? So that's that. Did you, was there a-

You have to be straight up to your face. I was just telling myself like, this is not happening, get over it, you know, move on to someone that's actually interested in you, basically. You know, it shouldn't be original post said to either wait or tell him how I feel so I did. I told him. This morning at 5.20 a.m. we went on an early morning walk. On that walk I asked him what he thinks about same-sex couples slash people who like the same sex. He said is this your way of coming out to me, which completely threw me off guard? We walked for a few more minutes in silence before he said, well, if it is, I accept your feelings, I've really liked you since year nine, just thought you were straight.

I find it humorous, considering I was in the same predicament. Anyways, we're going on a date this Sunday. So... So... What can I say I got some chills? It's a sweet little story. Update two. Oh no.

Are they married? Those chills are going to get crazier. Okay. Oh yeah, so this is two days later. It was amazing. 12-ish p.m. We went to this extremely nice cafe around the corner from our neighborhood, ate some lunch, and then headed to a local cinema. He held my fucking hand. My hand!

After the cinema, we headed back to his house to hang out for a little bit, and just talk, random topics of conversation, et cetera, et cetera. When I was leaving, he kissed me on the cheek. One final point, I truly appreciate all the support and encouragement from you guys. I would have been stuck in that same cycle of fear without the tips and encouragements. Thank you all so much. Another update, this is months later, it's been a bit of a ride. As of last week, I moved in with my boyfriend. I turned 18. I started working a well-paying job, work, and my school life has been incredible. And my thagable. And my thagable. And my thian, and my thine, and my thine, and my thine, and my th, and my thi, and my school life has been incredible. An ally. Any sort of like, it's all gone, I lost it all.

I appreciate all the support I got previously. I'll keep you all updated as time goes. That's so sweet. So like, that's the best possible. They got together? Yeah, they moved in together. At 18. Wow. in together. At 18, they're moving together.

That won't last. Uh-huh. That's not talk about that. Yeah. Let's keep it precious. Let's keep it precious. I will say when you get older, these little magic things are not as frequent. So this is very precious and reminds me of my younger days, you know? Yeah. I'm old!

Well, certainly, I mean, it's very sweet. Like, and I'd say it's very lucky that this person, like, the first person that they fell in love with, it's like, you get the whole, you know, free-form channel, like, love story here, whereas I just feel like most of the time, like, the first person you fall in their, their, their, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, thi, thi, I, I, I, I, I, I, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I, I, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I'm, I'm, I'm, th. th. thu. thu. thu. thu. thu. thu. t thu. th th t t th t th th th th thr. thr. thr. thr. the time that does not happen. Oh, they'll be chasing this high for the rest of their life. I feel like most people, I would say most people, the first person you fall in love with absolutely does not know you exist. Or like, it does not feel that same way. I feel like that's the most common. So this person hit the lottery. So hey, wow, what a positive note, to tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho and warm from the story.

I don't believe that for some reason. Why not? I'm happy. I'm happy. I'm feeling great. I'm feeling great. Work. I don't know.

These were all over the place. These were all over the place. Would you say there were gay rights and gay wrongs? Yes. Yes. Both. Who is the wrongest in all of this? The wrongest? I somehow think the dad, even though he was fine, there's just that was the most insane person out of all, there's worse people. The brother-in-law is probably the worst. There was a lot of like...

The dad was the most extreme. There was a lot of like... Yeah, the brother-in-law was the worst. The dad was too much. The dad was the most extreme. It's like what's worse? Getting punched in the face or an actual tornado? You know what I mean? You know what I mean? It's like...

It's like, Because you know, you have to say a tornado is not homophobic. It's just a tornado. Yeah, it's just all over the place. I agree. That's his dad forever. That's his dad for the rest of his life. That's crazy. At least he's got an extended family of sex workers. I wonder if we can...

Fuck. I wonder if there's a photo the gay rat wedding dress somewhere on the internet. You know that's probably something. She's probably not the only one to make that dress too. I bet you other people. Yeah, that's the sad part. Yeah, she seems like someone who would be posting a lot about this dress. She's really happy about it. Yeah. It's on a Pinterest somewhere. It's on a Pinterest. For sure. Well, thank you both for joining me today.

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