Smosh Reads Reddit Stories - Say Less | Reading Reddit Stories

Episode Date: August 5, 2023

Sometimes people should simply stop talking! Go to http://factormeals.com/pitreddit50 and use code pitreddit50 to get 50% off. 0:00-1:01 Intro 1:02-14:33 Told my gf not to wear her bonnet https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/149ssj1/aita_for_telling_my_girlfriend_that_its_not_a/ 14:34-20:36 I hijacked my friend's proposal https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheDevil/comments/154lcp5/aita_for_what_the_heck/ 20:37-31:39 My friends tricked me into breaking up https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheDevil/comments/154p446/poor_dudes_life_was_being_sabotaged/ 31:40-32:42 Sponsors! 32:43-39:34 My brother is just an "experiment" https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheDevil/comments/155rfq8/jesus_fuck/ 39:35-46:14 I regret telling my gf my pet peeves https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheEx/comments/154swgs/i_30m_regret_telling_my_girlfriend_26f_all_my_pet/ 46:15-50:48 My coworker's bf is on Grindr? https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/158n97g/should_i_tell_my_coworker_her_boyfriend_is_on/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1 50:49-57:38 Told my wife she looked weird on our wedding night https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/15aijfx/aita_for_telling_my_fianc%C3%A9e_she_looked_weird_in/ 57:39-1:08:02 My wife blew up my phone because of a FIRE? https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheDevil/comments/15a9nne/how_dare_my_wife_worry_im_dead/ WEAR OUR JOKES: https://smosh.com WHO YOU HEAR Shayne Topp // https://www.instagram.com/shaynetopp/ Jacklyn Uweh // https://www.instagram.com/jacklyn_uweh/ Mac Kahey ( @MacDoesIt ) // https://www.instagram.com/macdoesit/ WHO YOU DON’T HEAR (usually) Director: Kiana Parker Editor: Kevin Plachy Director Of Programming, Smosh Pit: Kiana Parker Pit - AP: Kimmy Jimenez AD: Jacqi Jones Art Director: Cassie Vance Art - Asst Dir.: Erin Kuschner Art Coord.: Alex Aguilar Audio Mixer: Greg Jones Camera Operator: Vida Robbins Content Manager: Lizzy Jones Dir. Audience Dev & Distro: Rachel Evans DIT/AE: Matt Duran Dir. Of Photography: Brennan Iketani GFX: Brittany Hobbs Post Manager: Luke Baker Production Coord: Heidi Ha Production Asst: Marcus Munguia Production Manager: Jacqi Jones Sr. Dir. Of Production: Zoe Moacanin Talent Coord: Selina Garcia Wardrobe Supervisor: Alicia Balderas OTHER SMOSHES: Smosh: https://smo.sh/Sub2Smosh Smosh Games: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshGames El Smosh (Spanish Dub): https://smo.sh/Sub2ElSmosh FOLLOW US: TikTok: https://smo.sh/TikTok Snapchat: http://smo.sh/OnSnapchat Instagram: https://instagram.com/smosh Facebook: https://facebook.com/smosh Twitter: https://twitter.com/smosh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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we saw your comments and we fixed this. I don't know, in some of the earlier episodes, you know thank you guys for your for your criticism and support and support all right so themes say less let's get into it here's our first one am I the asshole for telling my girlfriend that it's not a good look to wear her bonnet in public oh oh oh what? to wear her bonnet in public. Oh. Oh. I like how you say that as I am wearing like a version of a bonnet, basically.

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onto the problem. My girlfriend's hair is super thick and curly, and she often wears it in a huge Afro, or will add extensions every couple of months. thiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. thi, thi, thi, thi, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, th, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, that, that, that's that's that's that's thin, thin, toeeeiiiii, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, th is super thick and curly and she often wears it in a huge afro or will add extensions every couple of months. She spends hours on perfecting it and has so many hair care products I don't know how she can differentiate what she needs. I've come with her to the beauty supply store a couple of times and I was overwhelmed by how many products she needs often costing around $200 or more depending on what she needs. I personally only use a bottle of shampoo conditioner and maybe pomaid on occasion Yesterday, she ran out of hair for her extensions braids and needed to go on a quick run in order to get more She put on some comfy clothes and her bonnet and told me she don't be only out for a max of 20 minutes or so since the store the store isn't that far away here. I told her to leave her bonnet here since she's only going to be gone the the to be to be to be to be the to be the to be the to be to be the to be the to be the to be the to be the the the the to be the the the the the the to be the to be the to be the to be the the the the too. too. their their. their. their. their. their. their. their. their. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. the the. to. to. the the. to. the the. t. tte. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. te. their. te. their. the asshole. I told her to leave her bonnet here since she's only going to be gone for a couple of minutes. When she asked why, I told her that she looked kind of unputed together with her bonnet on and

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I think she's blowing everything out of proportion. It's literally just a bonnet. She could have worn something else. Am I the asshole? Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.

Yes. Yes. Yes, yes, yes. Where do we start? Let's start with how long it takes to get these extensions in. So everyone is on the same page. So it takes, first off, let's get an opportunity for doing her own extension. Yeah, all right. That's a part of night.

The fact that she is braiding her own hair is already a task That's dedication. That's a Friday night. The fact that she is braiding her own hair is already a task that not a lot of people are able to do. It costs a lot of money to get it done. Our own Keana in this office does braid her own hair. And Kiana, how long does it about 12 hours to braid. Keana has mentioned she's like, yeah, Saturday I braided my hair. Yes. And I'm like, oh, okay, like, damn. And that's a whole Saturday.

It's a Saturday. It's a Saturday. The fact is, she seemed focused, and it's like, yeah, bitch, you gotta focus. You had a fucked up part in there, it's bad. It's all over. is that he wanted, I haven't worn a baseball cap in about eight years myself because it won't fit. I, I don't know, I'm sorry. I'm so sorry.

I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. I don't know what hat, Shane, like you and I are not going to wear the same hat. You know what I'm saying? The Try Not to Laugh we just filmed, I put a hat on, it didn't buckle, it looked crazy. It looks wild because it doesn't fit in my hat, right? When she gets the extensions then she could probably wear the hat, but the great thing about a bonnet is that there's a lot of elastic to it. It's a lot of fabric, right? A lot of space. A lot of space, a space, a the space, a the space, a th space, a th space, a lot of space, a th space, a th space, a th space, a lot of space, a th space, a th space, a lot of space, a th. th. th. th. th. It's th. It's a lot, it's thi, it's a lot of space, it's th, it's th, it's th, it's th. It's, it's thi, it, it, it, it, it's thi, it, it, it, it's thi, it's thi, it's thi, it's thi, it's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's th. It's, it's th. It's, it's thi, it's thi, it's thi. It looks, it's a thi. It looks thi. It looks thi. It looks wild, it looks wild, it looks wild, it looks wild, it looks wild, it looks wild, it looks wildea, it looks wild, it looks wildea, it's a lot, it's a lot thi. It's fit everything in it. You can throw a lot of things in there. So, 20 minutes. It makes sense, Trinity? Why you just threw it all up in there? Whatever progress you had, you know, because you probably had the whole back done and then she had

a little top knot at the top and he's like, baby you look good, why put on a hat? I don't get why he cares why he's going out to run errands. so much. Like, you know, she's going out to run errands. Why does he care what she looks like when she's going out to run errands? Because men, no. I think the man has bringing up a very clear example of a respectability politics. Oftentimes, it's basically like, black women are supposed to act a certain way, to be seen as respectful, to be as respectable, to be seen as, like, I guess like in line with society, right?

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And him being like, like, there's no difference. Yeah, one is culturally tied and one is a baseball hat. Well, the verdict, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the their th is thi thi, thi, the thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, th is thi, th is th is th is th is th is th is thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi's thi, thi's thi's thi's thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi's thi, thi, thi, th culturally tied and one is a baseball hat. Well, the verdict, the verdict was asshole. Everyone else agrees. The first comment I see here is, ooh, you're the asshole, you're the asshole, you're the asshole. First off, no, she can't wear something else. Bonnets are literally designed to protect black hair in a way that other caps cannot. But besides that, how on earth is it your business what she wears out and about? Hell, if she wanted to go out in a bikini or in a gray smock, it's none of your business

if you think she looks put together or not, Jesus Christ. Someone else said, you're the asshole. First of all, you don't get to tell anyone what they should or shouldn't wear. Secondly, your racism is showing. If it were a white woman wearing a hat, you wouldn't be telling her how unkempt she looks. He responded saying, I really didn't think I was being racist by telling her what I thought. Wearing a bonnet is like wearing PJ pants to me. Oh no. Something that you wear to sleep. If I'm wrong, then I will gladly take the blame but I had no meaning to harm her. the blame but I had no meaning to harm her. I think getting frustrated with her was wrong but I sincerely thought I was just telling her what I thought. I

love my girlfriend dearly. I love everything about her, her culture, her hobbies, everything. I did not mean to hurt her whatsoever. Please let me know what I can do. Has he ever asked her why she wears her to sleep? I don't I'm getting the sense that he doesn't ask her too many. He to to to to to to to to ask. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I. I'm to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be to be told, I'm to the the the told, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the to, I. I'm, I'm to, I'm to, I'm to. tell. tell. I tell. I tell. I tell. tell. I tell. I the. I tell. I the. I tell, I'm getting the sense that he doesn't ask her too many questions. He tells her stuff. There is an edit here. He edited saying, we're not together. She hasn't come back. She hasn't come back to the store. I didn't realize that I was being racist, exclamation mark, exclamation mark.

I did not mean any harm to her, and I really want to make it up to her. I feel like a moron rriri right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right the right the right the right the right the the the the the the the the the the th. I the th. I'm th. I'm the the the the the to to to to the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the to to to the to the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm the. I'm the. I'm te. I'm te. I'm te. I'm te. I'm te. I'm te. I'm te. I'm the the toe. I'm to make it up to her. I feel like a moron for even saying anything about it and I overstepped. I do not have the right to say anything about her appearance at all and I wasn't trying to be controlling either. I really do want to make it up to her regardless if we are together or not by the end of this. There's another edit. He should get corned rose to corn rose. Rose. Oh my God. It was like Rastafarian hair. Yeah, just snatch up those edges. Lots of gel in there so you can get it nice and tight and it'll stay in for a while. Maybe a week.

He'll be bald in a week. Oh, no. The second edit, he goes up. Thank you for your comments. I realize that I had my head up my ass and I plan on educating myself, regardless if we end up breaking up or not. I'm going to the shop she goes to tomorrow to pick up some of the hair products that she uses, so she has more of it and I will be personally apologizing to her.

I really did not know that hair was a part of her culture as she hasn't really brought it up before, but now I know. I'm going to try and do better personally and talk to some of my African American friends about hair culture as well to get a better understanding of it. I love her so much, I did not mean to hurt her like that. Thank you for helping me understand better. Baby, I'm so sorry, here's some blue magic. I know that you like to use this. I went, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, th, th, th. th. th. th. to, to, to, to, to, to, the, th. to, the, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the th.. th. A, th. A, th. A, thr, thr, the thr, to, the thr, the thr, the thr, thr, to, to, to, to to, to, to, to, the to, the to use this and I just, I went to the beauty store, I went to the beauty supply, and the woman at the counter, she helped me find this and I just, I just will love to be back in your life if possible. Hey, baby, I got that shame moisture for you.

Look, I know I can never understand but I hope you understand this gesture. So this was posted like only a month ago. He's 22. Mm-hmm. Do you think it's acceptable at all for a 22-year-old man to not understand something of like this? To not understand that hair is a huge part of black culture. Is he in America?

Yes. I'm assuming because he says, because of how often he says African-American and Native American, I'm assuming yes, yes, yeah, I think he needs to know. I think it's fair at 22. He's an adult. Yeah, yeah, I agree. And also they've clearly been together for, they've been together for, they've been dating for about a year now. So a whole year. But he also has said he has black friends. I'm sorry, he has African American friends. Yes, he did, he did say that and he'll be asking them. He'll be asking them.

Yes. So why do you wear your hair? So why do you wear your hair? So why do you me your secrets. No. You want to see my hair? You want to see why? You want to see why we wear this? Let's see it. You want to reveal the secret? Yes.

Yeah. Shane? Shane? All my life I had so far. Shane's like, what are you talking about? It looks good. Tell me I look beautiful. Tell me, looks beautiful. Tell me looks beautiful. You look beautiful.

Thank you. I think, you know, like, even if he hasn't had the proper education, I just feel like after a year, you notice, even without the conversation, he should notice this thing and be like, oh, like, this is clearly very important to you. Like, you notice behaviors, you observe your partner and like, it just feels like he's been not paying attention at all. Yeah, because especially if she's, well, if she does her own hair, or I mean, he says that she notices she gets her hair done like leaves and comes back and it's like oh my gosh it's so beautiful like and doesn't know anything about the process you

know what I mean or one random day she's gone and next day she has braids yeah honestly like that was that's my favorite part of like getting braids sometimes I was in college and I remember I had gone to Nigeria over a winter break and I came back with Braidsen and this girl, I will not name her. She came into the office, we were all working and she's like, oh my god, it looks like rope. And it was, it was just after Chescalay's video came out, like, what is it, what white women say to black women? Shit white girls say?

And it was, we had literally just watched it and then she came, like, like, the timing was beautiful. Like, you couldn't, it was honestly very sweet. Like, I don't call anything against her, but the time, she came in right. And she's like, oh my god, it's like, it, how does your hair get so long? And it's like, I grew it. I grew it. Whoa! It came out this way.

It came out this way. That's pretty funny. It's, but it's, you know the thing too is like, there's so many, like, people ask wild questions, but it's like, wigs are been a thing, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like's like, wigs have been a thing for a really long time. So, like, to not understand like how a wig works is also, I don't think super like acceptable. I don't need you to know how to install a wig,

but like, there are wigs that are not costume wigs out in this world. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I also just think like the overarching thing, and we see this in so many stories, is like, you just don't need to make comments about people's appearance. Like you don't need to concern yourself with it. Like I think that's also the easy route for so much of this. You know, he, it just was inappropriate. And like, I feel like it's one thing to like ask questions. Like, I feel like with your friends, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, the, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, you, the, you, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, th. th. th. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. thi. th have asked some questions. And I gladly will answer the question to my friend.

But the part that pisses me off is that he's getting upset about her reaction. Because it's like, well, you also, you don't know, you don't understand why she's upset and now you're upset that she's even, she's not giving the time of day. Like, thick the the the th one, pick th, pick the th, pick th, pick th, pick th, pick th, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, that's, that's that that she's that she's that she's that she's that she's that she's that she's that she's that she's that she's, that she's, that she's, that she's, that she's, that she's, th. thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi. thi. thi. thi's thi's thi's thi's thi's thi's thi's thi. thi's thi. thi. thi. th. Fuck this man. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. Sorry. All right. Next one. Am I the asshole for accidentally hijacking my friend's proposal? What? All right. Okay, so this happened a few weeks ago and I'm still feeling guilty about it. I, a 27-year-old woman, have a close friend. Let's call her Sarah. She's 29.

We've been friends since college, and she's always been there for me through thick and thin. Recently, she started dating this amazing guy, John, who's 30, who seemed perfect for her. They've been together for about a year, and it was evident that they were very much in love. John contacted me secretly, revealing his plans to propose to be perfect. We texted back and forth and I could tell how much thought and effort he was putting into it. I was honored to be the confidant for this special moment.

Fast forward to the weekend and we all arrived at this picturesque cabin in the woods. The atmosphere was magical and the scene was set up for the proposal. We spent the day exploring the surrounding nature and in the cabin to freshen up while John pretended to be busy with something else. While Sarah was getting ready, I thought it would be fun to surprise her with a little pre-engagement prank. I sneakily grabbed the ring from John's bag, thinking I'd playfully pretend to propose to her, and then she'd see the real deal when John popped the question. So when Sarah came out of the bathroom, I got down on one knee, and with a joking sm, and to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the the the to the to the to to to the to to to to to toe, I was toeck. I was toeck. I was toeck. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was toe. I was a toeck. I was a the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the toeck. I'm toeck. I'm th. I'm toeck. I'm toau. I'm toa'a'nip smile I said, Sarah, will you marry me? To my horror, Sarah's face turned pale and she seemed genuinely confused and upset.

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It's very much like, you just can't fucking sit down and let her have her goddamn moment. You just got me, can you? Oh, this is the time for me to do my dear prank, because I'm a single-ass bitch. From one single-ass bitch, it was not the right time for me to do my dear prank because I want to be involved because I'm a single ass bitch. From one single ass bitch to another, it was not the right time. I don't know who this is. I don't know why do we become gaulam out of nowhere. It's frustrating. Oh, oh, don't grab the ring. I really like her use of accidentally in her title for this when it doesn't feel very accidental. One of the top comments is, you're the asshole, you didn't accidentally do anything. You went through someone else's belongings knowingly to do something that was not yours to

do your way. Oh! someone else said, you're the asshole, that's an epically stupid way to end a friendship. Lastly, someone said, she seemed jealous that her friend found an amazing guy and wanted to find a way to ruin the whole thing for her. Yeah. I feel like that's something worth having a fight over. I would like, you know, take her outside. And fighter? I don't know. Allegedly. I would be shocked if like this is a singular event from this person. It's not. I would be shocked. Like I feel like this stuff happens every time,

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I haven't, but I'd be terrified. Like, I would question all of my acting ability. I think it'd go out the window. I'd be screwed. I'd probably over act like shit. Bobby, hey! Should we go to the bar, dude? What's going on? I would ruin it accidentally. Accidentally. Yeah, actually, thankfully, like when I was involved with my friend's surprise proposal, like

she lives on the East Coast, so we'd like caught up in LA and then she had factime to her sister because like I'm close with their family. She left the restaurant where we're at and then her sister called me. She said, the proposal's happening. And I said, thank God, he didn't tell me. Like, if I had to sit there for an hour with her and be like, so what's new? I was like, thank God. How are your fingers feeling today. Like, oh, dang, your nail set is trash, girl. You want to get a pedicure?

Yeah. For no reason. Get a feel. I'll go? Like, I feel like I'd just be really mean. Really? So far we have two people who could have just not said or done something and they would have been fine. Probably.

Probably. All right, let's move on to this next one. This comes from relationship advice. This is a 29-year-old woman. My girlfriends tricked me into breaking up with the one that got away, 30-year-old man, eight years ago? I have an opportunity to reconnect with him now, should I? How long ago? th ago. Okay. How did she get tricked? Yeah. We're about find out. I'm so sorry. I was like, that can't be it.

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with Boe if you were just going to become a wallflower. I couldn't believe it. sheved it. She went into detail about how easy. their. their. their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, th, their, their, their, their, their, th, their, their, their, th, thi, their, their, th, th, th. th. th. their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, and, and, thr-a, thr-s, te, tea, tea, tea, tea, te. te. te. te was a cheater, and I told my family, who told his family his family, who told his family, and it strained his relationship with his mom for many years. But after that point, I couldn't stop thinking about him. I told my family the relationship with any girl he brought over to meet the parents. My mom said Bo's mom did it very discreetly, but after finding out the truth, Bo's mom came clean and Bo nearly cut her out of his life. She apparently begged and pleaded and was able to work from there. I have many unfinished drafts of emails to Boe, some saying, I wish to catch up, the, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, too, too, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, too, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, the the toe.e.e.e.e.e.a.a.a.a.a.a.a.a. toe.a.a.a.a.a.a.a.a.a. toe.a. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. toe. to catch up, others begging for forgiveness and pleading for him to come take me back. But any news I got on Bo after the blow up with his mom has been sparse. Bo doesn't do social media and I had no idea where he lived.

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I also want to apologize for how it spread back to our families, period. I know now that Tracy and Stephanie were hell-bent on breaking us up any way they could. And I can't begin to apologize for the hurt it has caused you. I'll be back in town in a few weeks and was wondering if we could have a coffee and catch up. I want th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th th tho tho tho-I to to to to to to to to the to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the the the the the the the th. th. the th. the the the the. the. the. the. the. the. the. the. the. theea. theea. to to to to to to to catch up. I want to know what's been going on with you in your life, period. This morning I got a reply from Bo. Amy, I want you to know that I have forgiven you years ago. I hope you are doing well but I would have to say no to coffee or catching up. My wife and I have a strict rule that neither of us hang out with exes. I hope you understand. Damn. I tried emailing him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him him to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the they. I they. I they. I they. I the the the the the the the the the the the the to to to to to to to to to to. I to. I the the to. I X's. I hope you understand. Damn. I tried emailing him to say he could for sure bring his wife with him, but he's not replied since. I guess you're right. There was no chance to reconnect.

Yeah. Yeah. I feel like that's, it's always, I think it's more devastating when like you can tell he is so gone. Yeah. Yeah, there's no emotions. There's no emotions, there's no rage, there's nothing. He's like, oh yeah, no, no, sorry. Indifference, yeah. It's full indifference. It's like a, that almost feels like a business email. Just like, sorry, I can't make the meeting. You know though, the thing about it is like, she is reaching out for him. She's reaching out for her healing. Because he's clearly healed and moved on, it's her.

Like that's why she's being persistent. She is unsettled with it in her spirit, and so she needs to reconcile. Oh, well, bring your wife. And I'm like, well, that's not about him then. It's about you. Exactly. And like, you need to do that without involving him. Exactly. I like, you know what I realize? I like, because he doesn't know that she,

he may not know that she's in town. He doesn't know that she saw him. Are they in Starz Hollow? He knows. Sure. But I do like that he, in this very short email, he like included like my wife. Yeah, I'll fight her. I'll talk. I'll to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to he. to to to to to to to to to to he. he. he. he. he. he. he. he. he. he. he. he. he. he. he. he. he. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He. He tie. He tie. He tie. He to. He to. He to. He to. He to. He to. He to. He to. He he he he. He he. He he. He he. He to her. And even still, she's like, I'll fight her, I'll talk to her. I'll talk to her, it's okay.

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like, I'll always be here. But you guys have such a beautiful family. I feel so much better. Yeah, yeah. Last thing, Kimmy added a really good point here at the end. For someone who got so upset to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to the to to the thiia, thi, thi, thi, thi, the thi, thi, the thi, thi, the the thi, the the the thi, thi, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, their, thi, th. I th. I th. I th. th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi, thi... thin, thin, the thi., the the the thiiii., the the thi., the thi., the thi., the end. For someone who got so upset about cheating allegations, O.P. sure felt comfortable with attempting to break up a couple. So, well, we'll leave it with that. Completely forgot about that. This show is brought to you by Factor. You know, I read Reddit stories here all day, and when I get home I'm often too tired, or I don't have the time to cook,

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God damn it! I feel like, I feel like in my 30s I can say with a lot of confidence that if anything that you post when you're 20 to 22, when you're 30, you're going to be like, I just shouldn't have. I can't wait. Got hundreds of videos. Yeah. Wait, how over you?

26. Oh my gosh. But if you post enough, maybe some of the things just get buried. You know, like you just got to keep, you have to post so much? I have a whole Twitter account how to get rid of. I said, let me delete some, oh girl, it's a mess in here. You know what we'll watch. Get it out. Just get it out. Here we go.

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after over half a year, and my brother has become really annoying during this period. Pretty much all he's doing now is a gush about David and act like he's the best thing since sliced bread, not to mention the the the they........ they. they him like a puppy whenever they go together to an event. Yesterday was my brother's birthday and he once again kept praising David, this time about his cooking skills. Apparently he made him a special dinner and birthday cake, which I said that seemed cheap and it's kind of worrying that his own boyfriend doesn't want to spend money on him.

My brother intervened and said that he never really liked the material gifts for his birthday, and he's so glad that David picked up on that and was willing to put so much effort to make his birthday truly special, which really made him hopeful about their future together. I, however, wasn't impressed and told my brother that he should hold his horses, and that David isn't the type to settle down, and he's probably just And I told him about how he used to sleep with pretty much everyone in college before

they started dating, and that there are even rumors about him sleeping with teachers just to keep his grades high. And considering that his grades haven't lowered since they started dating, I would be on guard around him if I was in his place. My brother went silent and pretty much stopped talking with me for the rest of the day, but at night I got a message from David telling me to stop spreading fake rumors about him and to stop trying to sabotage his relationship with my brother. However, I don't really think I was doing any of that. All I did was just warn my brother about the possibility of getting misled by David down the line,

but David doesn't see things that way and thinks I'm actively thi actively thi actively thi actively thi actively thi actively thin thin thin thin thin thinks I'm actively trying to sabotage them. So am I the asshole for expressing my concerns to my brother? Yes, it's not about you. The fact that she added the, she thought it was cheap situation is like, okay. What an insane response to, yeah, he baked an entire cake for me. What a cheap mother fucker. Oh, he doesn't want to buy a cake. Oh, he doesn't want to buy a cake from Ralph's. For you? Porto's bakery, it's right there.

Does he have a job? He had to bake a cake? Wow. Insane. Also, she just sounds, she sounds a little bitter. She sounds bitter. She sounds like she also wants to date David. The top comment here is, you're the asshole. I think you want David.

She responded, why would I want him? I can easily get someone much better than him. She's not about being with David. Oh my gosh. Oh, she said David was slug with half the campus. That's true. He how does it sup with me? That's true! He slept with everyone but her! He slept with all of my friends.

Oh my God. And now he wants to fuck my brother! Adored me again! Dude! Someone else said, you're the asshole, unless your friends that have definitely hooked up with David told you he's a jerk, all you have is wild speculation. Also, get your head out of your ass about the birthday gift. Making dinner and cake is special.

The monetary value has nothing to do with it being a thoughtful expression. She responded, they didn't tell me that, but they did agree with me that David's acting very friendly with the teachers..., even flirty with some of them. So of course there are going to be some suspicions there. Okay, you're in college. You got to get a A somehow, you know what I mean? Look, passion. I saw him, he communicated with his teacher. Yeah.

Guess you're trying to fuck. No, sometimes you got to be, look honey you catch more bees with honey we get it we get it then vinegar what is it sometimes you gotta give some people a little bit of honey that's how you do it in college so you gotta smooth the professor because they will sometimes they'll just change the grade because they like you so much I'm sorry I'm sorry professor I've just been having a really hard time. What a nice tie you have on today. I just need another day.

And then she saw that and she's like, they're fucking. They're having sex. Are you doing it okay? Yeah, I'm fine. I just need another day. Oh, they're feelings. Someone else said, you're the asshole, you heard a rumor, an unsubstantiated rumor about him sleeping with his teachers for grades, and you just decided that it's gospel?

What is wrong with you? Are you jealous that he didn't want to hook up with you? Is that why you're slandering him to your brother? She responded, all I'm doing is looking out for my brother. around this guy to do it himself. Let the boy have a honeymoon phase. My God, he's 20. Yeah, maybe 20. Let me be 20. What are you worried about?

What did the kids say? Let him cook! They've also been together for six months. That's a signature than that time. If David didn't like this guy, he would not be with him. Like, it seems like, no, it seems like it's working out. And she's pissed it's working out. Yeah. Okay, next one.

I, a 30-year-old man, regret telling my girlfriend, 26-year-old woman, all my pet peeves towards our relationship and her. So this was posted on relationship advice, and also posted on Am I the X. Am I the X is a subreddit for people that stories are cross posted onto there of people who do not realize they've already been broken up with. So like they are unaware that the relationship is over and so he's asking for relationship advice and he's not in a relationship. Oh, okay. So here we go. My girlfriend and I have been dating for eight months now. he's not in a relationship. Oh, okay. So here we go.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for eight months now. She's great and a wonderful person. It's just something she does that pisses me off. Today my bottled up emotions made her cry while she was on the phone with me. She ended the call by saying she had anting about something, I just can't stop. Just understand, this is my first serious relationship. Here's what I told her. I hate how you sleep till noon on a Saturday. I'm not a morning person, but 10 a.m. is the latest.

If I'm going to do something, I'd rather do it in the morning. So we have all day doing whatever. Your child was hungry and I decided to trykto wake you up. But no, you couldn't be bothered. You kept sleeping on a Saturday. So I gave her cereal. You didn't even get up and make breakfast for me and your child. I'm tired of our boring routine. I want a sex-filled weekend getaway without your child there.

You know, last week, we had sex twice. We used to do it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six it six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six six at six six. We used to do it six or seven times a week, but you stopped. After I have my fill, then we can start having family vacations. I'm so gross, sorry, I need to take a break up for a second. He's not done. You need a better job. I'm so hard on you because I care. She went really quiet and asked me, do you think I'm not a good person?

I tried to re-explain my sentence, but I heard her crying instead of listening to her. I kept going. You make excuses. You always have your child around, and you don't work with your family to coordinate anything. You keep saying, my family is too busy on weekends. I hear excuses. Why don't you ask them or ask the child's dad side for help? The child doesn't know her dad.

She's not close to her family. I know I heard her really bad. I tried to make it up by telling her our sex-filled weekend getaway. We can go anywhere that is in a 100-mile radius. She's just not talking to me. What should I I I I I I I I I I I I I their their their their th. th. th. thi thi th. thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi the thi thi thi tho tho tho tho tho tho tho the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the the thi the thi. thi thi. the the the tod today is today. today is today. today is today today. today today today today thi th me. What should I do to make it up to her? I care about her, I do, but I just get so frustrated with her actions. So that's where that one ends. Uh, if it's like that eight months in? Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, holy shit. Like, uh, she wants to sleep till noon on the Saturday. Oh man, man. Oh, woo oh, holy shit. Like, she wants to sleep till noon on a Saturday and she, and she has a child that eats

cereal, not just like, that can't get, look, the little, it's into the little details, this is a child that can't get its own cereal, I'm saying, right? So it's a small child, okay? Yes. And he's upset that he has to get up and make cereal for himself and the baby? Yeah. Okay, okay and he's upset that, okay. And this man is 30? He's 30 years old. Uh-huh. Mm-hmm. But he did offer that they could go anywhere in a 100 mile radius. And have sex.

So he could have his fill. Yeah, that's crazy phrasing. That's crazy. That's crazy. That's crazy. That phrasing is wild. I just want to have sex until I have my fill with my whole. That's what sounds like. I know that it sounds like. He got, he's sexually hole. That's what it sounds like. I know that it's exactly what it sounds like. He's sexually frustrated so you just started ranting to her. We only have sex twice a week. We only have sex six or seven times a week. We'd have sex for every day or the week.

Now it's only two. And not on Saturdays because you have sex man. I need sex. I'm a sex. And by the way, your kid. I am a man that needs to have sex with the woman I'm dating. Every day. I also need breakfast. Yeah. And I wake up at 6 a.m.

Give me breakfast and hold. Please. Give me breakfast and hold. He's crazy. He's crazy. Eight months ends. That's insane. Uh-huh. Someone said, did you plan to say all of these things together and like that? He said, no, I didn't. It was just in the moment when I was angry at the world.

I genuinely did not mean to say any of this to her. Because his rocks were blue. You know? Yeah. He had some blue balls. And he was like, ugh. I hate your child. Uh, someone else caught what we're talking about.

Uh, after I have my fill, then is fucking disgusting. She is not a toy for you to use until you're satisfied. She's not a machine who is obligated to dispense however much sex you want. I hope she sees sense and doesn't come back to you. There is no advice here to be had because you shouldn't be in a relationship with a woman at all when you view them as nothing more than fleshlights for your convenience. Ooh, not a fleshlight. Someone else said, I don't think Reddit can help because you don't seem to be a very good boyfriend. Then someone said, there's a reason why this poor girl was your first serious relationship when you are 30 years old. Oh, is that his, did he say that? Yeah, it's his first serious relationship.

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Yes. He sounds like he wants his mom. Minus the sex part. I was going to say what? Because this is not Etypice Rex. Is that the one? It is? Yeah. I mean, look, I don't want to appear inside this guy's mind at all.

I think that I think I think so. I think we're I think we're done. Okay so this next story comes from no stupid questions. Now this is a subreddett where people the point of it is like you get to ask very blatant questions maybe dumb questions and no one's gonna shame you for asking that question. Okay and we won't either. We'll try. Should I tell my co-worker, her boyfriend is on grinder? We all work together and are all friends. I didn't immediately know, but I suspected he was up to something and his girlfriend has too.

We all work together and are all friends. I didn't immediately know, but I suspected he was up to something and his girlfriend has too. Last night I got undeniable proof in the form of picks. I stopped chatting because I didn't feel comfortable continuing. He doesn't know it was me because my picks don't have my face and my tattoos are obscured to ensure stuff like this doesn't get back to me. Workplace, friends with benefits ended bad before. Don't want drama, but I feel bad for my friend. Should I try to tell her discreetly? Should I just stay out of it? Edit for clarification.

The profile doesn't have his picture. It is blank with basic information, as is mine. This is normal on grinder. The pictures I received are explicit so I don't believe they are catfish picks, and I cannot share them legally or ethically. They are both monogamous and have a closed relationship publicly. While it could be a private situation between them, I don't believe it is for a multitude of reasons. I believe the best course of action would be to pass along the message anonymously

as not to involve myself. They've had a lot of problems before, mostly around the threat of cheating rather than anything significant or proven, like talking to other female co-workers too often or hugging male friends too long. So I believe a simple note will be enough. I mean, are they close friends? I mean, he says at the top, we all work together and are all friends. And he does say, I don't want drama, but I feel like I don't want drama, but friends. So I don't know if it's super close friends. I th. to th. th. th. th. to th. th. th. th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm th. I'm to to to to to to to to to to to to to thi. to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to told to to to to to to thi. I'm thi. I'm thi. I'm thi. I'm thi. I'm thi. I'm th. I'm th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I th. I the. I the. I the. I te. I te. I tell, to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to to, but friends. I feel like he needs to tell her, but it can't be anonymous.

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Yeah, okay. But again, that sounds like a threat, but it's like, hey, this isn't okay. Like, I want to give you the opportunity to talk to her because I, I will. So we have some more info in the comments here. Are you certain that she isn't aware of this already and into it? He said, no, and I have considered that. It's kind of an open secret that he's a little bikerious, but they never talk about anything like that. Someone else said, you should tell her, however, be prepared that she may lash out, shooting the messenger and all that. Hopefully she'll be grateful though. He said,

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I feel like all that matters is if she's feeling good. Like if she's loving how she looks, then it's like, who cares? But he just clearly seems super unaware of everything. I feel like, okay, this is not all men. There is some men. There's something about men and weddings, and they get really weird around them. Is what 30-year-old female here. They're, oh, excuse me, 31. There's something, like, it's the excessive drinking

because they're super freaked out. It's the, it's the, this is my wife forever. Like, it's something, we're talking about like a heterosexual, there's somethingthe, it's the, this is my wife forever. Like, assuming we're talking about like heterosexual, there's something about, like, men start acting really goofy around weddings, but it's like, you had a while, we've been engaged for, however, like, I don't know. It just, I don't understand it. It doesn't compute to me. Yeah, I mean, I, I truly don't know what to say other than like,

I guess what I could see that a lot of guys do is that many, I think, very often internalize a lot of thoughts, right? So there's probably a lot going on in his head. So he probably isn't thinking about so much because he's probably got a lot going on in his head, so he's saying really dumb things. that if you thou tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho thi tho thi thi thi thi's thi's thi's thi's thi's thi's thi's saying very very thi thi thi thi thi thi thi thi, I thi, I thi, I thi, I thi, I thi, I thi, I I thi, I I thi, I I I I thi, I I thi, I I thi, I's thi, I's thin, I's thin, I's thin, I's thin, I's thin, I's thin, I's thin, I's saying thin, I'm thin, I'm thin, I'm thin, I'm thin, thin, thin, thiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii thi. thi thi thi thi things that if you thought about for one second you'd go oh I shouldn't say that but he's almost not present it feels like a little bit yeah but we have some comments here you're the asshole I find it hard to believe you barely recognized your wife she was the one in the wedding dress he said he said I meant it as a metaphor that her face was totally

different someone said you're the asshole. On the day she's meant to feel beautiful and stunning and desirable to her new husband, you pulled a funny face and told her she looked weird. What a shitty start to a marriage, poor Sarah. He said, I didn't mean it as if she isn't beautiful. I meant it, it's just weird on their wedding night, especially when you're expecting to feel beautiful and in love. She probably felt ugly for the rest of the day.

And he said, I didn't mean she looked ugly. I meant it's different only. Yeah, but she doesn't know that. Yeah, like, it's like, dude, what? Like, he has not, they have not consummated that marriage at at all. I also, you know what makes me sad for her too is like, I feel like when, um, I feel like you want to look good for your partner on your wedding day, right? So she was probably also very intentional about like, this is going to make me feel good and he's gonna love it right or it's like oh he loves my hair up or down or like and also I feel good right like I at least like from my

perspective that's what I would take into consideration like I'm also like presenting myself to my husband and so it's like for you to put all this work in and like you're in this thousands of dollars dress And then for you like, I know you're mid. I know Yeah, devastating. Yeah, not all men someone else said not all men. Yeah, so there's an edit from the OPE. He said, thank you everyone. I realize how I totally fucked up and how my comment was misinterpreted. I will the thou thou- I will apologize. I? th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th th th th th th thousands thousands thousands thousands thousands thousands thousands thousands thousands thousands thousands thous thous thous thous thous thous thous thous thous thous thous thous thous thous thous th th th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th th th th th th th thousands thousands thousands thousands thousands thousands of thousands of thousands of thousands of thousands of thousands of thousands of thousands of thousands of thousands of He said, thank you everyone. I realize how I totally fucked up and how my comment was misinterpreted. I will apologize to her and try to fix things. Amen.

All right. Well, Bing, bada boom. And go have sex? Yeah. Yeah. Go get your fill. We'll see if any story can be worse than that guy. That guy is a nightmare. Remember poopball?

Poop ball? That was before we started making these as YouTube videos. That was a long time ago. Let us know in the comments if you want to revisit some stories from back when we used to do these on live streams. Because poopball, though, that goes beyond asshole. That's a full-on nightmare criminal. You guys have to comment down below if you want to see poopball. We'll read it.

All right, here we go. Am I the asshole for yelling at my wife after she blew up my phone with calls because of a fire. This was posted yesterday. What? Not all men. That sentence played out in my head as I read this. Just the yelling part got me, I'm like, why are you yelling at her? There's a fire, the house's not a fire. Stop yelling!

Why, fuck did you call me five times to tell me there's a fire? Call the fire department! Okay, listen, we can go anywhere in a hundred mile radius. Oh, Lord. Throw away because some of this made local news and I don't want it connecting back to me. Oh, I work in a place... Too late. This is Reddit. Yeah, they can research. I work in a place where we are not to to to to to to to to to to to to tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho tho their tho tho their tho tho me tho me tho me tho me tho me their me their me tho me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their me their their their their their their their their their their their their their their their thoom. tho. thoom. thoomoomoomo. to to too. too. too. too. too. too. too. too. thoooooooo. thoo. tho. is Reddit. Yeah, they can research. I work in a place where we are not allowed to have personal electronics on us at all.

No phones, no smart watches, no pagers. I've been working here for about six months, so my wife knows this and understands that she should not try to contact me by cell at work. Phones are dropped off in our lockers and I typically have mine on do not disturb. Before this incident my phone had never gone off in the locker before. Recently there was a pretty big fire at a secondary work site that I do work at occasionally but that day I was working at the main building. Local news covered the fire before I found out about it because again no electronics. Plus the work we do isolates us a bit so news travels pretty slowly. There were a few casualties a lot of seriously injured folk. My wife had been watching the news from home and started freaking out, I guess.

I guess. He wrote, I guess. She called me 20 freaking times, which, and I did not know this was possible, overrode my D&D and my phone was ringing for a while in my locker. In the middle of my shift, I got called into my manager's office and was chewed out and written up for my phone making so much noise. They told me to go take care of whatever it was making my phone go off before I went back to work. I won't lie. When I saw those 20 missed calls for my wife, I was seriously pissed off. Like I said, thi sacked not to try to contact me directly, and a

citation hurts my chances of getting a raise or promotion. I. I. and she was sobbing and asking me if I was okay. I said, of course I was okay and asked what the fuck was wrong with her to call me. I said, of course I was okay and asked what the fuck was wrong with her to call me. She was still crying and started talk. She was still trying to talk. She's been very chilly the past few days and is sleeping in our daughter's room. I know it was not the best decision to yell at her, but I still think my anger is justified. One, she knows I don't work in the secondary work site very often.

Two, she knows that I can't be contacted directly and she could have just called the office. Three, 20 calls is absolutely insane. Am I the asshole? She knows I don't work there very often, so there was a chance that I died. Yeah. First of all, really quick, I just want to say also the assholes is the boss that they, like, you had employees die that day and you're like, hey man, your wife's worried. Yeah, you're getting written up dude. Yeah. That's stupid behavior., dude. Yeah. Insane. Yeah.

That's stupid behavior. 20 times is also not that much if you think your partner is dead. Fully dead from a fire. Yeah. I'm guessing it's like some type of oil rig. It sounds like a fucked up job where they don't respect. It's something like that where they do not respect you because that's crazy. I know nothing about mining.

I think I watched it. I just realized that. I was like, what is that movie? Vanilla Sky? It sounds like it could be an oil rig. I don't know for sure, but just the type of job and the type of things it sounds like that Keana wrote in here silent mode exists Which is true. Yeah, but I also just think like My initial take on this is if if you people like it was a serious fire

Like yeah, she's sorry she went through trauma that day like she was yeah She didn't call the office because she thought her husband was on fire. Like, you know, you're not going to think straight for a second there. I used to call my mom at work. My mom's a nurse. I would call her for this just dumbest shit. Like, mom, where's this thing? And it's like, she's absolutely with patience. She's like, um, uh, let me think.

Yeah. Code blue, da da da, woo, woo, woo. Yeah, I would call her for the, and she was never mean to me about it. Like, I just, it's just, I mean, you're not thinking rationally, especially if you see people literally dying. Like, obviously, you just said this.

She's very frantic. Yeah. My dad is an aerospace engineer and he can't bring his phone to work either. So I have to call the office if it's ever an emergency. But that, he's relayed to me that over and over again, but there's still times I'm calling him like midday, being like why is he not picking up? Like, oh yeah, he's doesn't have his phone on him. Yeah. Yeah, with cell phones the the the the the the the the the device that they are, maybe at work at some of these jobs. I almost think though, with probably the job that he has, I think it's that they're like, they're gonna slack on the job if they have their phones, like make them lock them away.

I mean, stuff like oil rigs, they don't treat you like a person. And also like distractions can cause it's like a sincerely, severely dangerous job. Someone wrote, yes, you're the asshole and so is your employer. If something happens to your wife or daughter, how the fuck would they reach you? Would you make your little scene because you got called about it too? She was stressed and crying. She panicked for a good time, but no, instead of reassuring her, you took your frustration out on her and thought a half felt sorry will change something. She's right to be pissed. She cares about your safety and she might feel like you don't care about hers now.

He responded, if it was an actual emergency and my wife or daughter were in trouble, I would have dropped everything and went to them. This was not an actual emergency. I just, this guy can't... Oh, so it would have been better if she showed up with the child at the work site, at the fire? Come to the fire. Are they on the water? Where are they? Info, is there some kind of work site number she could have called instead? Like I understand her fear, but I have to feel like if the first 10 calls on your cell didn't go through,

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Yeah, I do think your work sucks, but you also screwed up. This guy is not... I just, it's within the context of him being like, yeah, people died today. And a lot were injured. It's not funny. And it's like, it's like, yeah, so you understand the severity and the reality of this, but he doesn't seem to.

Wow, that's crazy. I wonder how he would have felt if she just didn't call him at all. Honestly, yeah. You didn't call me? You heard people die today, right? Aren't you sitting at home? I guess you didn't. I think he's upset more at his employer and like how fucked up that job is. And he's taking it out on his wife, maybe. Or I don't know. I think there's, I think that could be part of it too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, that, I, I, I, I, I, I, I to, I to, I to to to to, I to, I to, I to, I too, I, I, I, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, to, thi, thi, thi, thi, to, thi, to, to, to, to, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, too, to no, I think that could be part of it too. Like, we're talking hypotheticals, but I think his initial reaction is still weird to me. Because I also wonder, it makes me wonder what else he yells about. You know what I mean?

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I guess it does also make me question if he was at home with the kids and she was at her job or if there was ever a situation where she was somewhere and the potential that she was in severe danger and possibly died how he would react. Because this shines him in a light that he is not a very caring person in that regard. He says he would show up to the job. He does say he would show up, but I don't know. I don't even know if he would register it. Yeah. That's probably the, you probably find out about the fire when she came home. Yeah. Or when she didn't come home. That's a good point. That's a very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very. A very. A very. A very. A very. A very. A very. A very. A very. A very. A very. A very. Very. Very. Very. Very. Very. Very. Very. Very. Very. Very. Very. Very. A very very very very very very very very, a very very very a very very very very very very very very very very. A very very very very very very a very. A very a very a very a very very very very very a very very. A very very. A very very. A very. A very. A very. A very. A very. A very. A very. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. th. A. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. th. the. the. the. that's probably the... You probably find out about the fire when she came home.

Yeah. Or when she didn't come home. That's a good point. That's when he would figure out the fire's happening. I don't know. But like, not all men. That is the saying with this video. Like, man.

That ended up being the theme. Well, that's it. That's all of them. How do you guys feel? Thank God. That was a ride. That was a ride. These were insane. These were a lot. They were messy. It was messy.

It was messy. Say less. Say less. Say less. They all could have said a lot less. A lot of this would have happened. Did you are great. Every time you're here, it's awesome. I mean, these people aren't, but it is awesome here.

Mac, it's always great to have you around, so thank you. It's always fun being here. Yeah, as always, let us know what themes you want to see, what subreds you want us to cover. And next Saturday, Courtney and Noah are going to be here and we heard your comments it's going to be a lot of sibling rivalry sibling drama stories so we'll see you then all right goodbye